Breckie Hill & Rachel Brockman HEATED DEBATE | Dating Talk #62

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Ado we're going to have the guests. introduce themselves so please tell us. your name age and occupation go ahead um. I'm Brey I'm 19 and I do social media. I'm Rachel and I do social media as well. and I'm 18 I'm Lauren I'm 21 and I do. social media and I go to school where do. you go to school um I go to school at. Chapman University what do you study I. study business marketing very cool I'm. Nicola I'm 23 I'm a stripper and I do.

only fans Nikola can you push your cup. to the center of the table for me just. yeah I'm key I'm a stripper I do only. fans as well as adult film and I'm 25 oh. and I'm a posture check posture check. better yeah it's all right okay Sarah. what about you I'm Sarah I'm 24 and I'm. a sales development. representative I'm Mary Morgan I'm 22. and I am a podcaster SL commentator at. timcast media if any of you are.

interested you can find me on pop. culture. crisis I'm Leah I'm a I'm 20 I'm I'm. sorry look closer I'm Leah I am 36 years. old I am a software developer and I do. political and social commentary on you. know crazy stuff that happens in our. society very cool very cool um so just. to bring it back to you three so you. guys kind of undersold yourselves a. little bit because you guys all have I I.

would. say fairly large social media following. so you didn't quite paint a total. accurate picture of what you do because. I mean someone could do social media and. have 500 followers but you guys are like. in the Millions on Tik Tok is that. correct how like how many followers do. you have on Tik Tok and Instagram I have. two different Tik Tok accounts one of. them has 1.8 I think and then the other. has 1.5 and then on Instagram I think. I'm at 560,000 okay I have 2.9.

on Tik Tok and then casual. 2.9. 600,000 around that on Instagram okay. what about you well mine's more of a. hobby so like on Tik Tok I think I have. like 108k and then on Instagram um 89k. something like that okay uh and what. kind of stuff do you guys post on like. little dances yeah mostly dancing videos. on Tik Tok okay honestly I just do. whatever is like trending like the for. you page same okay kind of just whatever.

we feel like okay cool cool cool um so. we're going to go around the table once. more current relationship status so are. you single situationship relationship. and what is or was your longest. relationship go ahead I'm single right. now but my longest relationship was with. my last boyfriend ex-boyfriend for 7. months okay I'm single also and my. longest was a year like on and off I'm.

single mine was like four or five years. four or five years that so wait from. what age to what age was that. relationship let me see it's like kind. of complicated I'd say like 15 16 up. until a year ago or two so it's around. around 20 yeah okay so it's like you. know fresh or it's how when did you. break. up um last last year yeah.

okay um I'm single and my longest. relationship was 7 years. damn I'm engaged and I've been with my. man for about five years engaged 5 years. how long have you been engaged uh since. like 2021 oh you just remember you got. to speak into microphone since like a. couple years ago like 2021 okay Sarah. I'm single and my longest relationship. was a year and a.

half um I'm currently in a relationship. have been for about eight or nine months. and it's also the only relationship I've. been in okay so currently in a. relationship 8 to nine months what about. you I'm single and the longest I've been. in a relationship was a year and a half. a year and a half mhm okay when was that. cuz you're currently you're you said. you're 36 right yes uh when did that. relationship take place I was was 19.

years old wait n okay so 19 to 20 would. you say okay and you said it was a year. and a half yeah okay um and. so why haven't you dated in that 16e. period or been in a relationship I would. say well I've lived many different lives. military and then school so I started. late into the mic sorry I started late. so you know I'm that cautionary tell uh. what branch of the military were you you. in army army okay how long were you.

enlisted or officer I was enlisted for. 10. years okay well what rank did you make. it to well E4 I did five active and the. rest reserves part-time did you date was. this relationship while you were in the. military um this was my first. relationship before going into the. military yeah okay and uh when did you. enlist when you were 20 21 20 okay got. it did you do any.

dating while in the military um yes and. then I stopped and that was probably a. big mistake you stopped dating yeah in. the military mhm okay got it okay so. okay we got a lot of single people here. with the exception of engaged and. relationship 8 to nine months okay um so. I want to come back to you guys you guys. live in LA correct yes we just well we.

just moved here like were you guys. friends from back home or no we met. through social media and I met her first. I think yes and yeah me and Rachel met. in September or August September yeah. okay yeah and then we just decided to. move. here I was at University of Miami and we. wanted to live together when I was still. at school so we couldn't but I ended up. leaving school and now we live together. in LA rock and roll is it like an.

influencer house or whatever no it's. just us in an apartment you to apartment. okay okay got it um do you guys move in. those circles like all the LA Tik Tok. influencer people or you me you kind of. well you kind of do you do you do. collaborations do you oh yeah uh. socialize with these people or you guys. kind of Do Your Own Thing I mean we do. socialize but we kind of like sticking. to our own thing but um recently we've. been going a lot of streams and stuff. and like trying to make connections with.

people a lot of streams yeah any anyone. that I might have heard of or Aiden yeah. aen recently yeah it a week ago yeah how. did that go it was good it was. interesting the people that I went on. the E dates with were fun oh you went on. E dates yeah were you guys live with him. or you just went on an eatee like it was. uh virtual well Aiden was on the stream. but he was like adding people to the EES. but you were there in person no no I was. just what what is an e dat um they pick. people like streamers and they try to.

like convince you that they're the best. guy you like I think there's like 10. guys and you have to rate them and then. there's one winner of the E date why is. it called e dat because it's on oh it's. all internet on yeah okay you know that. that whole thing um never heard of this. so okay so you were on Aiden's stream um. any other. notable people that I may have heard.

of um clicks clicks okay gamer guy yeah. we can talk about gaming a little down. the road um so and what are you guys. doing in these streams just like. background characters no like that one. we were just like we play Twister oh. okay just kicking it yeah it was like. chill chill sweet uh and were you. involved in in this or not I was just in. the background in the background you. know okay sure okay cool um.

so do you guys date other people in the. influencer realm I've tried really have. yeah um but it just seems to never work. with social media. people okay yeah want to explain yeah do. you want to well the guy that I dated. for like a year on and off we both. started like social media around the. same time and we like helped each other. grow and everything and then he got.

basically offered to be in like hype. house the you know content house and he. like ended things with me because he. said he needed to focus on the house do. you think that he was with you for clout. all along um I wouldn't say that I. wouldn't say that no but and why was it. on and off there's just things happened. well okay what were the things. um I don't know if I want to talk about. it you're on a podcast you got to talk. about it know this person while you're.

here um I'll think about she's putting. on the heat she's turning on the heat. God damn godamn scared you didn't have. to mention that it was on and off you. know right I don't know I feel like I. was young and we had like little. arguments and like we wouldn't talk for. a little bit and then we talk again yeah. have was 16 I mean relationships they're. never just straightforward and that easy. all the time you know yeah why' you say. that well I mean relationship what were.

you arguing. about what do 17-year-olds have to argue. about I don't know I I can imagine a lot. of things actually but yeah yeah well. okay so some guy in the hype house what. and just my viewers probably have no. idea what that is that's like it's a. Content house a bunch of influencers. like live in a house and they make. videos and stuff and yep that's what a. Content house is got it okay so you two. are stripper.

and you do you do only fans also okay. um oh by the way Nicolette can you show. us what you got Nicollet brought a gift. for me Brian was begging me I was not to. bring I was not begging she insisted on. on on bringing apparently Nicollet. has a flashlight line huh yeah did they. reach out to you or did you reach out to. them like please mold me I was at an. event and they were there and they were.

like hey do you want to make a. flashlight and I was like yeah and. you're like yeah and then what did they. say and then so it's not how you think. they make it actually I thought it would. be like a clona Wily you know things but. um they actually like they don't. actually mold it they take a. photo and um I guess they just go based. off of the photo based off the photo MH. okay yeah good times please remove those.

from the table that's gross I'm. uncomfortable damn shots fired at. nicholet okay um okay so wait so you. guys mentioned clicks are any of you. dating him is he dating someone I don't. know um I don't streamer by the way no. but yeah we're just friends okay got it. okay um so both of you do only fans how. much do you make Nicollet I make a lot. how much per month I think um it's like. kind of tacky to say like exact how much. money you make I mean it's tacky to be.

on only fans in the first place but. shots fired I mean everyone's entit to. their own opinion um that's like bad. vibes right there like oh my. god um disagreement is bad vibes but. yeah I do well I mean okay I drive a. nice car can like live in a nice area do. you want to give us a range is it five. figures a month yeah six figures a month. five five mid five low five um varies.

why are you being so Cy about it why. don't you want us to know cuz on patreon. they show the amount that people make. not always it can be hidden I'm not on. patreon yeah she's too she doesn't do. patreon patreon's tacky I I have a. patreon by the way I also have an only. fan so guys onlyfans.com whatever uh go. go subscribe there's nothing on there. but um perhaps collab in the future who. knows with Kik it's actually um Kiki.

over there who there's some photos of. her okay um so what about you how much. do you make on only fans um I don't make. like a lot but I say just repeat that. into the microphone so they can hear you. not like a lot but like maybe like 3,000. 4,000 bucks a month I don't okay and you. strip yeah how much do you work at the. Rhino no actually I work in Hollywood um. you commute all the way yeah cuz uh I. used to live in Hollywood uh before 2020. and I just realized I love when in Santa. Barbara out here so I'm like I'll just. move here where it's like chill Little.

Beach town and sure I just I'm so. comfortable in Hollywood and I've been. at the clubs out there for like since. 2019 so I'm kind of like just. comfortable with it you know I have. multiple clubs that I go to how much do. you make a night uh it really varies but. I'd say like on a really crappy night. you can go home with like 200 on like a. really really good night it could be. like thousands okay good times okay so. pretty much almost everyone here is. single besides you and uh Mary so. in today's day and age what does being.

single actually mean so we'll start with. you so you're single yeah how long have. you been. single. um I think 3 months yeah three months. three months yeah and that's is that. when your longest relationship ended yes. yes I mean we were talking like still. after. but uh we ended up cutting off contact. completely a little bit ago okay why did. he dump you you um we were fighting a.

lot it was kind of mutual like it was. Mutual you assumed that she got. dumb just being toxic okay uh. so are you are you dating what what are. you doing I don't think I want to date. anyone right now no I want to like I. don't know no what do you want to. do um be single for now but what okay so. but are you talking toy guys are you. hooking up with guys what What's um.

there's one guy that I'm talking to Okay. and when you say talking what do you. mean just like hanging out talking on. text Snapchat FaceTime hanging out yeah. okay does that I mean hooking up. or no maybe okay fair enough okay so yes. that's what you're saying about. situationship yeah yeah situation. situationship fun yeah yeah by the way. you do have to talk into the microphone. so they can hear you so those are what. was the question yes uh so single yeah.

what what does that mean to you are you. in a situationship is there one guy that. you're kind of talking to I mean not. really like I feel like talking and like. dating is a little different I think. like um what is talking I'm like open to. talking to guys like getting to know. guys and stuff but I'm not dating them. until like we actually go out and like. you know go on dates so just like. hooking up no oh like actual Talking. literally talking oh that sounds. yep yeah you have to get to know people.

yeah before getting into relationship. before any of that okay well yeah we'll. come back to that topic um so nobody in. recent. history nothing no so you're forever. alone maybe okay maybe it's that's a. whatever exclusive she is forever alone. what about you um yeah single um since. my obviously very long relationship okay. I was trying to think about the time. like I think it was now it's now been.

two years I think two years because the. year just started and has there been. anything in between a little. situationship here there like not really. honestly I think that's because I'm I'm. not like picky but I'm very like. specific like I don't like to like waste. my time you know what I mean I mean. considering like how long that I've been. in a relationship like I don't do things. you know what do you mean waste my time. what do you mean you don't do things. it's like I guess I don't like entertain. things it's like oh like if I don't. actually like really like you like I'm.

not going to you know like talk to you. yeah you you said you're picky not like. picky I'm just very I know what I want. if that makes any sense what is it that. you want yeah what do you want oh jeez. um I'm. not think I'm not someone who like puts. people in a bubble or you know how like. guys will say oh like what what's your. type or like what kind of guy do you. like I I I never give them an answer.

because I like to take people as they. are you know what I mean like when you. meet someone it's like you get to know. their personality like who they. are like as a person like you're not. trying to put them in a box like oh. you're tall or like oh you do this. you're do that so you're just like kind. of looking for this intangible. quality6 donated $100 thank you man go. Army watch out Brian has the secret. fetish for combat boots.

what okay yo Hal Spartan thank you man. appreciate it um I don't think I've ever. dated a girl who was who is in or was in. the military. so but uh watch out apparently okay so. we were interrogating you on your uh. what was it your. type I don't have a type you don't have. a. type. personality personality yeah no I'm okay. what's what are the personality traits.

you like well then again that goes back. to like me not being like super putting. people in a box I think like getting to. know someone's personality like knowing. that they're genuine I guess funny guys. oh man bro does well it just like is. there anything you could list off like. yeah everyone has prejudices like come. on loyalty that's cat that's that's cat. loyalty you know like do you want a. smart guy or a himbo do you. want uh I had a guy who's like into.

hiking or like I don't know like what's. no I'm I'm honestly like not that. specific like that okay we can let's go. around the table on this we'll start on. height so how T are you I'm 5 foot three. do you have a height preference when it. comes to dating men anything above 5 fo8. I'd say anything about okay got it yeah. so bare minimum 58 the people I've dated.

have been really like abnormally tall my. last boyfriend was 6'4 last boyfriend. 6'4 yeah but you said the people you've. dated have been abnormally tall so. besides the 6'4 guy how how tall are we. talking maybe some of 62 and 61 62 61 64. okay yeah got it. but hypothetically 5'8 and above okay. gotcha but all the boyfriends have been. fairly abnormally tall yeah okay what. about you um I'm 5'1 and honestly as.

long as they're taller than me and yeah. 53 yeah no problem okay no problem short. Kings short Kings her DMS are open um. what of the guys you have dated though. how tall have they been like five eight. 59 okay yeah it's about that's average. height so You' kind of expect that yeah. what about you I usually say honestly. taller than me I'm 5'2 um okay so 5'3. cool I'd say like the guys that I've.

usually liked they've been like at least. 5'9 okay 510 all right wait oh the the. guys you've dated though how tall have. they been I think he was. 510 510 okay Nicollet the only guy that. I've dated was. 5'9 so I don't think that's like that. tall you've only dated one guy yeah for. seven years oh all.

right okay what about you uh I'm 5'5 and. my boyfriend's 5'11 so I don't really. have a hyp preference but I would. say 58 would probably be my cut off so. 5'8 or. taller so I'm 5'7 and honestly if. they're like my height or taller like I. think wrestlers are like the same size. for like a reason I just don't want to. be I don't want to be like taller and. feel like we look like you know like the.

dragon from Shrek and. Donkey I don't want that. Vibe but yeah if they're my if they're. 5' seven or taller um for sure okay. wrestlers is that your type huh. wrestlers no I'm just saying like. wrestlers are like usually like a weight. match and. oh okay so it goes the same for height. yeah like a height match yeah okay I'll. have you know um Sarah that I.

actually I did junior varsity in high. school so okay um the Sparks are flying. what about you Mary what's up I am 5'1. and my boyfriend is five six or seven. okay don't really have a cut off never. did good times what about you I'm 5'9. I've dated shorter guys but mostly. average around my height are taller okay.

I have a little bit of a take um I think. that some tall guys uh especially over 6. foot have a sort of entitled attitude. cuz they think that they don't have to. like try or make an effort they just. think they can like Coast on being tall. do you guys feel the. same yeah I've never had that 5'9 so I. never really seen that at all I don't. know I've heard that. about men with big dicks I've heard. that I heard if you're sleeping around I.

haven't heard the the height one though. that one's new that one's new I always. thought that okay all right so uh Eric. can you pull up let's see do let me do a. couple super chats here all right um. just a reminder guys uh all the super. chat and donation triggers are in the. description we have Reed TTS um if you. do it through streamlabs the link for. that is in the description YouTube. doesn't take their 30% cut so yeah go.

over there and uh check out streamlabs. okay we're gonna go around the table on. this ask the ladies to rate their looks. on a scale of 1 to 10 Nicollet we're. going to start with you go ahead why me. because one one more time 10 okay let's. go this way um I'd say. like seven on a good day okay um I would. give myself an eight maybe like seven or.

eight I would say like a seven but if. I'm like drunk I'll be like. 10 I'd say like a six right I'm going to. go with a safe seven a six and a half. okay all right that is the ratings for. tonight Nicollet you're the most. beautiful girl here um I think we're all. beautiful. true hold on KiKi wants to say something. like no wow okay I think honestly no.

offense Nica Kiki's the only 10 here. yeah Kiki is a bad [ __ ] she is a bad. [ __ ] okay. so oh my God. okay what's so I want to um go back to. this. so have any of you ever had a ho. phase Nicollet let's start with. you I'm just picking on you tonight I. guess um actually you you know what. let's start over here I thought about.

it and then I just couldn't do it y'all. just couldn't do it I was like [ __ ] that. not the reputation it wasn't worth it I. just seen too many girls go through it. I'm like yeah I'll wait I'll wait I'll. just wait I just if anything I became. more celibate more celibate. okay okay um I've never had a ho phase I. never thought about it never considered. it um I'm saving sex for.

marriage good for. you huh really you don't I that's cool. just you don't hear that very often yeah. especially here in. California yeah I but you're not from. California I'm not from California so. okay um waiting till marriage cool uh so. never there I assume there's no way to. have a HOAs if you waiting till marriage. is it like a wait hold on just to. clarify though you're waiting until. marriage correct but is it like a born.

again thing no okay so no never never. never I am a virgin got it yeah Sarah um. no I didn't have a hze I definitely. wanted to at the beginning of college. but didn't. succeed you didn't succeed what does. that mean no I was weird I was very much. like I don't know. like well I I knew that that. but I don't I was really shy and yeah I.

was like I lost my virginity really late. um and all of my friends were like why. aren't you curious like you should lose. your virginity and I was like I'm trying. what do you consider late um I was 19 oh. that's not late at all I guess like. relatively by like my friend group. standard and like all the people around. me I felt like it was where where did. you go to school I went to. Princeton H yeah so yeah there there. were some late bloomers at Princeton I.

could see that so I wasn't completely. alone that's a private school you right. um or is it it's is it public it's. private right it's private yeah it's ivy. league but private are all the Ivy. Leagues private any in any case doesn't. really matter except for Penn State is. Penn State in I I believe it it has been. it was ranked at one point okay but so. no no ho fiz no ho phase no ho phase. although you were nearly peer pressured. and you failed apparently failed but. then like once I did you know lose my.

virginity I was like okay like don't. need to do that again no I'm kidding I I. I just I don't know I've never I've. always like taken my time trying to get. to know people was it with a boyfriend. or just like a hookup oh it was with a. hookup like yeah I kind of knew of him. but he didn't know me and then um it. like I don't know I was like I was so. happy it's like a stalker you were. hiding in the bushes and [ __ ] no no it. wasn't like a stalker situation I just. like um I thought he was like really.

cute and yeah like he happened to come. up to me at a party and I was like. elated um although yeah it yeah but then. um I saw him again like a couple weeks. later and yeah he he pretended not to. know me so wait so you you were aware of. him was he an athlete or something yeah. like so I um I was a runner but like not. a good one. um and I was just like a nerd and I like.

would literally watch running like the. sport like I would watch the New York. City marathon I was just yeah that's. part of the reason why I. [Laughter]. was sorry um you watched running I. watched running sounds riveting Good. Times yeah can you take this off. um so okay you he was a runner too what. was what was the deal.

yeah is he a sprinter no distance long. distance Long yeah long distance skinny. gangly okay I could see a sprinter but a. distance Runner okay. so you saw him in the party he or he. came up to you at the party yeah but you. had a major crush on the dude mhm and. then he approached you and then you. hooked up that night yeah we did okay so. you lost your virginity one night stand. mhm so he he didn't he didn't know that.

you were losing your virginity did you. tell him um I think I did what a legend. okay what he. say he was just like okay you didn't. care okay okay and then uh and it was. just a one time there wasn't like a. secondary hookup or no did you want um. another hookup I mean I was just so. inexperienced and like anxious and um. yeah just yeah I don't know I feel like. I really like late.

bloomer if if you could go go back would. you want your first time to go down. differently or no regrets um I I'm fine. with it like I didn't get um into a. relationship. for another like year and a few months. and I was fine like kind of having like. a little bit of experience under my belt. so you you felt like you felt nothing. thing from from that at all I mean I was.

it was like a introduction into kind of. like you know I had no idea like that. people would like hook up with other. people and then just like never talk to. them again so it was like an intro into. that and I feel like kind a bad thing. though right yeah something you don't. want to be introduced to it's not ideal. but I feel like I needed to learn one. way or another learn one Lear learn that. like um the sex well being ignored yeah. like that guy approach like hookups like.

differently than how I would or how like. yeah I don't know okay so you said it. was at the party mhm was there alcohol. involved or yeah were you. tanked oh yeah for sure oh good times. okay so but you okay so you said that. you attempted to have a HOAs so. what like you just struck out like I. mean no I I could never go up to people.

or anything like that I was just like. totally open to it because all of my. friends were doing it and I was like oh. that seems cool but then um yeah like I. was just that friend that like um guys. would be like talking to my friends and. I'd be like standing there and I was. like but it's it's life were you an. sority at Princeton no there wasn't a. big culture but we did have like coed. sororities kind of they were called.

eating clubs it's like so cringey to. even say that but I was in one of those. for a. while an. eating they're called eating clubs but. they're like co-ed like frat sororities. like Social Scene see that's what it. sounds like but really they were just. like Social Clubs sure okay got it okay. uh ever had a HOAs I'm currently in my. ho. phas wait hold on but you're engaged but. you're engag so is it an open for only. fans and stuff open so for pay oh can.

you scoot your microphone that way just. scoot it over that way and then when. speaking I want you to do like you can. can you pull the chair into the table a. little bit so you get a little closer. there you go um so you're in your. hoase but you're engaged so is it an. open relationship so yes and no I am. monogamous but I do things for um pay I. do it for money that doesn't mean you're. monogamous though you when you say you. do things for pay what do you mean you. know like only fans you know my adult.

films and you know stripping escorting. yeah or stripping just stripping no no. no but you you say you do things for pay. so are you talking prostitution no okay. that's no I do like adult film and stuff. but like I do dancing at the clubs and. stuff and I'm like get custom videos on. only fans or something okay when you say. you do adult film are you talking BG boy. girl yeah both uh girl girl and boy girl. and are you doing the with your partner. or with just other male Talent honestly.

just whoever they book me with but I. wanted to do it with my boyfriend but. he's kind of shy he's not really into it. so and so you did you say your. relationship is it monogamous mhm but. you're sleeping with you're the other. male talent I know crazy right well I. mean it's not unheard of but um so how. does he feel about that he's okay we. both get to travel and make money so and. he knows that I always come back to him. after you know. he has no qualms about it no and.

honestly I was like I asked him for. permission like I used to work in. grocery stores like five years ago when. like when I first met him and I was like. Hey like we were really struggling at. one point and I was like hey is it cool. if I dance at this club if you don't. want me to I won't but he's been very. supportive the whole time and I'm like. if he wanted me to quit to this day I'd. be like okay you know. so um wait so you met him and then you. were not doing. um like only fans or any no when met met.

him I was like normal in a grocery store. yeah like retail and stuff okay so it's. not like he knew going into the. relationship like okay she does neither. one of us. knew but you had not done any only fans. or any uh adult content prior to the. relationship NOP okay so you guys had. been dating for 5 years you're engaged. um and then you was it something he. brought up or did you bring up I. actually brought it up because we were. both struggling and stuff and uh I just.

wanted to try something else you know. cuz I was sick of you know I was like. being broke yeah exactly and I just. wanted a change of pace I wanted some. more money and I wanted to be able to. pay my bills and not struggle you know. what what was your first foray into. adult content was it straight to only. fans straight to just traditional uh. adult industry so my first thing into. the sex work industry was stripping. stripping okay okay and then after.

stripping it was only fans and then it. was adult film got it hey Carson can you. open up the door it's a little stuffy. um okay. so you did you approach him and say Hey. I want to start. doing scenes with men you you told him. that mm cuz OB you said it started with. stripping right. so I assume there's perhaps more money. to be made doing BG content boy girl.

content. so he didn't have any potential issues. or concerns about it just like no I I. asked him and at first I was like. nervous but I had someone actually reach. out to me on Instagram and they're like. hey are you interested in doing adult. film and I was like um I guess at first. I was like no but then all the Strip. Clubs closed during uh Co and actually I. started adult film during Co because. like shoot I needed some money but my.

boyfriend I was like are you cool if I. do this if you don't want me to do it I. won't do it but you know it's like so. he's been very supportive so can you. continue scooting the microphone a. little bit that way I just don't want. yourh face to be blocked you can keep. scooting keep scooting um. so no no issues with it no not at all. did you say you did have you done. escorting at all mm so it's all within. the context of film yeah like only fans. dancing at the clubs and uh adult film.

yeah okay you make more money than him. right yeah maybe that's why he's okay. with it I think so too but I it's it's. our money you know and like uh he he. still works you know um he sells guitars. and stuff and uh amps he's very into. music you know okay so you like are kind. of a sugar mommy yes and no but we both. bring in money he makes like I would say. he makes like not as much as I make but.

he still makes quite a bit cuz he does. mainly like gigs and stuff with music. and selling gear and stuff so how many. scenes boy girl scenes with new people. would you say you do a month uh. currently I haven't worked in like a few. months but um let's say the. peak uh I think the most I ever did in a. month was like maybe six scenes or seven. six okay how long have you guys been how. long have you been doing this while you. guys have been together um I started.

dancing in 2019 so after dancing so um. 2019 a few years how long do you think. he'll stay around if you're doing we're. together forever I'm not even worried. about it are you sure I've never been so. sure about somebody to be honest like I. always thought I was like really weird. and never would find anybody and end up. with a bunch of cats but no literally. like I found him and we both have like a. lot in common like I have wavy messy. hair we both like rock and roll um yeah.

I'm just very happy I found my person so. why did you choose sex as a way to make. money instead of going through something. else I have to understand this um I'm. lazy it's easy easy money and everyone's. doing it now she's honest she's honest. um I me at least you're honest you're. saying it's easy I just don't think that. it is as easy as you're saying not like. easy mentally sometimes for a lot of. people but like I would say it's yeah. it's quick you know you go there you go.

to the club and you dance and you go. home with hundreds or thousands or. whatever the night may bring in and it's. fun you know I get to you know I get to. drink my um vodka or whatever at the. club and I'll be like look baby look how. much I made tonight he's like I'm so. proud of you let's cuz like we travel a. lot so like oh let's go to cornado. island or something now and let's go. spend it do you not feel like a piece of. yourself like do you not feel like a. piece of yourself like is like gone away. or every single time you sleep with. another person or do something else like.

I used to I used to think like that but. then I. realized nothing I mean it's just I. don't know I don't think it's that big. of a deal like you know only because. he's cool with it and it's everyone's. doing it now and us I feel like would. you um would you be okay with uh if he. started doing porn and like you'd be. fine with him sleeping with other women. it's only fair you know I suppose it is. would you be would you be okay with him. sleeping with other women outside.

of work like it was yeah oh yeah oh. okay well I I mean I'll say this I'll. let you go just after this um a lot of I. I mean you found a guy who's going to. tolerate that but a lot of men are going. to have a major issue with their. girlfriend [ __ ] other dudes on. camera yeah totally understandable I. mean each relationship has its own. boundaries and whatever so you know what. is it that you and your fiance have that.

is just yours. then um each other and our sex is. different it's more emotional it's not. like it doesn't feel like a job whereas. when I'm on film I I do enjoy what I do. dank Nick donated. $100 for the redheads doing movies does. your boyfriend kiss you on the mouth. when you come home from one of those. boy/girl. movies yes but I brush my teeth of. course beforehand because hygiene and. you always get tested all the time to. make sure you're clean and all that so.

yeah I mean isn't there there although. you get tested I mean there is. certainly is he not aware that there is. an increased STD risk oh no he's aware. we're both aware CU I I've heard that I. mean sure like they test for you know. certain things but and perhaps you can. weigh in on this but is it I don't know. if it's like full panel yeah they do. they do HPV herpes all of that yeah they. do the whole thing. they do HPV but they don't do.

herpes isn't it the case like most girls. who do porn like they they eventually. not eventually because it's not a a. guarantee but they'll get either HPV or. herpes like it's for sure going to. happen I'm not sure about that. statistic but there I should say for. sure but there's something called the. past past it's like the past past p a SS. they kind of. regulate the testing standards for the. porn industry um and personally I go to.

my doctor to get a full panel as well if. I'm going to perform cuz they at your. doctor they can check for like. everything and do like a real full. panel um but Talent testing in like um. places like that test for the. industry um they each have their. different full panels but um I don't. think herpes is on any of them yeah well. I mean I assume it's pretty common like. a lot of people have herpes and they. don't even know in the industry or in.

not even just in real. life well I mean there's uh there's two. kinds there's what is it hsv1 and hsv2. and they manifest a little differently. but okay so you're dating a guy you're. engaged to a guy he's okay with. you uh hoing around making a bank yeah. he's porn uh have you ever thought that. he's using you for money no because we. were both together when we both had no.

money yeah but then this this presented. itself as a solution Started From The. Bottom I thought we're together and like. I have access to all the bank accounts. like if he if he was spending something. and I didn't know I would know like I. have another question I'm not worried. really you said that you used to feel oh. yeah like you were losing a part of. yourself or something some discomfort. other people it sounds like you kind of.

like repressed that maybe a little bit. but every job has its ups and downs and. you know there's people working five. days a week eight hours a day and. they're you know selling their soul in. different ways so got it oh so did you. want to go yeah um so when you said that. um you started at first started having. that feeling you don't think maybe. something came across his mind where. maybe he changed and like oh maybe it. might have it does affect me but I'm. just going to repress it and keep it. down and not tell her like you ever.

thought that maybe he went through the. same feelings too he's just not we're. we're very open um I always say if he. needs to talk I'm totally open you know. I feel like the universe will do what. it's supposed to do so like people will. talk if they want to talk yo uh guys in. the chat um is there a a frame rate. issue I don't know I'm the asteroid came. in very jittery so I'm just trying to. assess if there's a weird weird frame. rate issue going on uh how's the frame. rate look guys how's the FPS let me know.

one in the chat if it looks good two in. the chat if the FPS is scuffed um by the. way there's. 500 excuse me. 5,500 of you watching live right now yo. the chat is on fire thank you guys so. much for tuning in um okay. so uh really quick I oh H phase Nicollet. have you ever had a h phase. little one a little one mhm so like what.

three dudes a week or. what um five dudes in one year five. dudes in one year yeah I mean that's. kind of tame for La that's like really. tame I. mean okay um what about you ever had a. ho face no because and I bring this up. because we had a girl on uh UCSB student. 18 or 19 two shows ago and maybe two. three shows ago and she said she had one. main hoe she had a main hoe and then.

four side hoes she was she was dating. Five Guys not the restaurant chain like. five did they know about each other she. said no but so she said one main guy. four side guys five total and she said. she's in a hes so kind of in that realm. so but no. h. honestly no I got depressed and like. didn't want to talk to any guys and I'm.

finally like now starting to talk again. you got depressed yeah I was really sad. it was like the first person I loved so. oh you got bummed out over the. relationship my breakup yeah okay not. what you did to Timmy okay what about. you no I prefer dating you prefer dating. yeah as opposed to like up with guys got. it got it got it um kind of related to. that we'll go around the table really. quick what's the most amount of guys. that you've hooked up with in a 72-hour.

Period start over here one one zero one. in what in a 72-hour. period. two two because it was a threesome oh. thank you for clarifying I don't do. hookups so I can't okay so one one one. oh wow okay we got a tame panel tonight. okay um nicholet can you please. put the fleshlights back on the table. momentarily because I have a question.

related to. it yes okay so ladies this is a male uh. male sex. toy would it be let's say you're at your. boyfriend's house you've been dating him. for three months and you discover. somehow I don't know maybe he left it. out you discover that he has one of. nicolet's.

fleshlights do you think of do you look. at him differently because he has a. pocket [ __ ]. h no because girls have vibrators right. yeah so I agree with that nette what if. you go to a dude's house you've been. dating him for three months and he has. one of your pocket he got he has one of. your fleshlights you're like what the. [ __ ] well if it's one of mine that's. kind of weird. I I gu be like oh thanks I get. commission like he had it before he met.

you I be like um he'd be like my. Haley what my my what my Haley Bieber oh. God that's the name of like my fan it's. like a thing right now wait I'm confused. explain you want to know like the drama. he. Bieber Justin Bieber had the pocket. Bieber no. and then they got married yeah yeah so. it' be like that oh with dating my fan.

oh but what if it was of somebody else's. vagina I mean I'm pretty like open like. sexually and stuff so I mean I guess. your a mold of your friend's vagina oh. that'd be pretty weird it was like my. friend okay yeah wait hold up what if. what if he had one of yours by the way. just can you differentiate the. difference between the two um I would. have to open it well just tell us just. tell us oh um one is the booty hole yeah.

can I say that yeah um one's my [ __ ]. and one's my like oh back. door um oh. Haram okay. so you are with a guy and you see one of. this one. yours and there's like a shrine around. it is that a deal breaker for sure for. sure yeah deal breaker okay when are you. are what about you deal breaker if the. dude has a pocket [ __ ] not at all.

because I have dildos so I mean Sarah. yeah I guess like I it's like you can be. honest you can be honest I don't know. they're just so like graphic like I feel. like most dildos aren't as like. realistic to how a dick looks like the. good ones are like I just don't see that. many like veiny dildos out there whereas. like pocket [ __ ] are so. you're.

missing so so you would feel a little. it's just would you lose a little. attraction a little bit you're like a. little bit you got me why do you need. this [ __ ] yeah okay um that's an instant. breakup really yeah I'm actually shocked. that you guys are like all seemingly. kind of okay with this um I think that's. really weird and I think like some of. the people in the chat are saying like. you guys are lying you would judge him. and I kind of agree I think it's normal.

to like masturbate and stuff okay but. you would come across your flashlight. and consider say it with your chest I'm. just saying personally I think just. repeat it with your chest I think it's. normal to masturbate wow that was. enthusiastic what does that have to do. with a mold of nicholet well he just. said in general like having one not I'm. not saying a mold you know but I'm just. saying I think that's a lot different do. you not have. of like your friend that's weird yeah no. I think it would be like I don't know if.

I like need a night off like it's it's. there Nicollet do you want to gift one. of them to Mary E I don't think she. deserves it she doesn't deserve it no. okay you can take it these are expensive. $3.99. 399 yeah. what that that's not how much they cost. really it is and it's even weirder. knowing that a guy would spend that much. money on it that makes it even worse you. want them to pay $10 for my [ __ ] I'm. more expensive than that if is normal.

much what's your only fans how much is. your only fans it's 17. $17 yeah is there whatever discount code. this time yeah so if you want my um only. fans it's onlyfans.com niolet niic your. [ __ ]. melt yeah it's really. great okay what about you is it a deal. breaker if a dude you know I come from. an older generation where where you know. the bedroom is for freaky [ __ ] so no.

it's not a deal breaker matter of fact I. even bought one for my boyfriend but it. was not a Fleshlight it was actual like. a real bottom but that was that was like. like one of those like mold got an ass. and [ __ ] yes but you know like I said. back in the day it was a lot different. you kept that stuff in the in your. bedroom you know that's private stuff. you don't. like how these days people are oh op. super chated.

100 hey Brian and the panel ladies. please can you shed light on why you. would respect your male boss more over. your male partner regi you don't bite. back to your boss but you unload on your. BF husband even though they provide for. you whereas your boss. doesn't uh yeah we can go around may I. don't know if any of these girls even. have a boss but it's like a corporate. relationship is different from an a. romantic one in a lot of ways there's no.

HR in your domestic. partnership but you could you could make. the argument that you know so on. so. previously 60 70 80 years ago the man. would be the provider the woman would. stay at home and I think it's wonderful. that we've opened up the labor pool for. women to become do cancer research and. you know throw these more labor at the. most complicated issues that when it.

comes to healthcare and stuff I think. that's great um however it is. interesting. that I think women have. traded being have traded being. submissive to a. husband for sorry I'm losing my train of. thought women have traded being. submissive to a husband for being. submissive to an. employer so instead of your husband. being the bread winner and you taking. care of the internal. household you now have to go out and.

then basically be submissive to your. employer and I would say that your. employer is probably going to ask much. more of you than with a. husband I I that's the case the part of. the chat that doesn't make sense is like. you're not supposed to unload uh all of. your anger on your boyfriend or husband. that's that means that you're not a good.

partner right so yeah well I think like. venting is okay if you had a bad day but. if you're like taking it out on them. like the punching bag then yeah not like. physically but like also like mentally. but I think it's okay to vent you. know okay uh let's uh get through some. uh let me see here what we. have let me do these ones here okay I am. flying the Asian girl to Romania for a.

conjugal visit pack your bags I think we. have two Asian women here so I'm not. sure it's real you guys are you guys are. going to have to uh fight it out to see. which one I maybe he can do too so. question for you two uh if Andrew Tate. one of his uh people secretaries while. he's in jail hits you up he's like yo. he's trying to set up a conjugal visit. do you do you go for Andrew Tate no I'm. okay okay what about you he actually. blocked me on Instagram before his.

account was taken. down it's real I like have a I have. proof but what uh why well okay I was. having a really rough day at work. couldn't take it on on my boss clearly. and so I was just bored and I I was like. oh I wonder if Andrew Tate like I want. to see his Instagram so I open it up I. leave one comment on one photo I just. said you look like a ball sack because. like know it's not necessarily like a. bad thing but he took it that way.

because I was blocked soon after did he. respond to you no oh just a block that's. the that's the best move yeah someone's. talking [ __ ] just insta block but okay. so he loves men so much so I was like he. loves men like he likes his own kind and. like why not like all parts like it. didn't have to be an insult but he took. it that way I'm not sure why the TTS. didn't come through on this but yo Bruce. Wayne thank you for the uh $99 I'll just. read it nobody is paying paying 400 for. that busted Fleshlight haha get them for. 99 bucks for a ski ski skyb mod thank.

you thank you Nicollet is American. cheese tops what what does that. mean confirm or deny American cheese. tops what is that um I don't know okay. so you slid into Andrew Tate's DMS you. can be honest you were trying to like. hit on him oh I commented on a photo I. did not slide in his oh you you didn't. even slide in the DM you called him what. did you call him I just said he looked. like a ball sack but why that's so I was. just I was bored I know like I I.

honestly like don't leave Internet Hate. ever but um I've been I've been more so. like annoyed by just all the Andrew Tate. clips that it was like at the height of. his like rain over if that's your way of. flirting like no no it was not flirting. it was just like a moment of weakness on. my part but I thought it was really. funny that he blocked. me okay I would Haram okay so how I. don't know how we got to Andrew Tate no.

he's pushing 30 oh right okay so um who. here's show of hands who here is on a. dating. app dating app dating app wait you're on. the dating app yes because I I just go. on there to make friends and just like. talk to people and see who will follow. me on Instagram and get my no one who is. matching with you on a dating app wants. to be friends they want to date they. also have like a a friend section. which Bumble BFF which apps are you on. I'm on Bumble BFF hinge not any just.

bumble just Bumble and you're looking. for friends cuz they have a bumble BFF. I'm not on like the dating side of it. okay are you looking for female friends. or male friends both both friends or. friends you know uh okay um so you're on. the dating app which dating apps are you. on I'm on Match and tender guys closer. to the microphone closer to the mic I. got kicked off of hinge so I'm on only. on Tinder and match why did you get. kicked off a snowflake who didn't like.

me with my controversial take on. something so what was it I said we need. to stop you know electing anti-semitic. and law you know into Congress so. someone reported me on that who were you. referring. to what's that girl up in Minnesota. Marie no not um Ilia Omar she's yeah I. don't like her okay um okay dating app. I'm on hinge I was actually banned on.

Tinder for saying that I don't do uppers. I only do downers when someone asked me. on the coffee. date wait you only do is it was that. like a joke it was a joke and they took. it seriously and they banned me so I'm. not on Tinder but I so you only do. downers meaning alcohol instead of. caffeine that seems like very tame. reason to get banned no that's like all. I can think of yeah but um I am on hinge. well while we're talking about your drug. use what drugs do you use oh now I'm.

totally like straight edge girly I only. I'm C sober I only smoke weed I don't. even drink anymore what you said now you. are what did you do previously um like. you know I definitely um was really. curious like I don't know uh I heroin no. no heroin no meth okay but yeah. psychedelics for. sure peyote. is that a psychedelic no just like acid. shrooms I was just really interested in.

aasa I actually no never did okay so. you're on hinge you got banned on Tinder. um I wish we we had done a dating app. review we would have taken screenshots. you're not on a dating did you meet your. boyfriend on the dating app or in person. no I met him in person but I was on a. dating app for Catholics Christian. Mingle no it's Catholic match but I. deleted it okay uh any dating apps. nicholet yeah but I just like swipe for. fun I don't actually talk to them do you.

have your Instagram in the bio no what. about you do you have your Instagram and. your bio mhm yeah okay so you're on the. dating apps to promote your only phans. okay go ahead not going to lie there it. is the truth reveals itself any dating. apps no no but I used to you used to. have dating apps what about you yeah. same I don't anymore but I used to used. to okay okay um which dating apps did. you used to have Tinder and hinge I had. Tinder did you ever have a dating app I.

think I had gotten it cuz my friend like. told me to get it but I never like used. it ever did either of you meet up with a. guy yeah actually like talked to this. guy for a month and like what do you. mean you talked to him like he came over. and my mom met him and everything he. came over your mom met him yeah like the. first time you met first yeah my mom met. him the first time we met she's very. much she wants to like meet wait on how. old were you when wait 17 you were on. the dating app at 17 isn't that to holy.

crap so you lied about your age I think. you have to be 18 that's a yikes no she. lied about her age I actually did that. that's a yikes and I thought it was like. you did that too I I was 16 and I would. tell everyone and at the time like all. these guys would be like that's fine and. the one guy who was like sorry I'm not. cool with that and unmatched me I was. like what a jerk but now that I'm older. I'm like that was the only guy with like. morals did you meet up with any dudes no.

I. didn't bro. okay stay safe gentlemen um okay so you. were 17 how old was he uh. 19 is that is it that's Haram is it. haram okay so he came over to your house. on the first to meet your mom yeah and. we played Xbox you played Xbox yep. damn bro that's to okay what about you. um I've never ended up meeting up with.

them no because every time they'll be. like oh like this is a fake account or. they'll be like oh is this actually Brey. and then I'm like okay I don't want to. like is this actually Brey yeah I don't. want to hang out with people that are. like like that know me because of Tik. Tok I feel they using me then is Brey. your full name name Breen yeah but I've. been going by Brey since I was in. kindergarten Brey yeah it's like Becky I. know people call me breakfast breakfast. yeah okay like my close friends yeah all.

right are we talking like oatmeal or. like cereal what are we talking about. here you know like short for breakfast. Brey no I know but what what oh what. kind of breakfast do what kind of. breakfast waffles and French Tob never. mind okay. um okay. so dating apps. um you've been on the dating app for a. while actually that's how we we met mhm. well that's how we got connected because. much like how Nicollette and sorry.

remind me your name. key much like how nickolet and Keeley. use dating apps to procure men and simps. to follow them on Instagram and only. fans I don't have my Instagram linked to. my oh okay sure sure whatever I I'm. doing the reverse finesse I'm on dating. apps to get women on the show so um. that's so we we've been trying to get. Sarah it's been it's a couple times. we've attempted to get you on but you're.

you're in San Diego right okay yeah so. uh I do the reverse finesse so how has. things been going on hinge for you oh. it's been it hasn't been the best um my. friends tell me that I need to change my. prompts and that guys might not be. taking me seriously because of my. prompts but I honestly think that my. prompts kind of give insight into like. what I'm actually like in real life so I. don't feel like I should change them. what do you uh have you committed your. prompts to memory um okay so I know one.

of them is I know I'll delete hinge when. and then I have my husband get. suspicious it's a joke and then I have. another one that's. like thank you thank you I guarantee. some people actually think that that's. serious the the military guys do. yeah thank you thank you now the. military guys do and then so they'll. they'll be mad they'll be like you. shouldn't do that and then I'll kind of. like match with them and say like oh.

it's okay he's like on deployment and. then they get really mad but it's all. it's all just a. joke so what are the other two prompts. there was one that was like um I'll. introduce you to my family if you don't. succumb to my nyos sister seduction. tactics um. huh that's a joke too that's a joke too. oh your sister's not Nyo is very like. outspoken she's a sex therapist and. she's very comfortable with herself and.

she's flirty where is she uh she's in DC. oh okay I was going to say maybe she can. be on the show but she's a sex therapist. she is so she's. unemployed no she's she does her who. goes to a sex what like what oh well. it's like relationships too so it's like. people infidelity like just everything. under that realm but a lot of people who. have like sexual dysfunction and um. trauma. okay so and she's a nymo what's her body.

count do you know um I don't know. actually you don't know yeah I know. she's been seeing a guy recently but um. is it up there you think could. be feel like sex therapist okay. um okay what's the other prompt um oh I. think that was just something that one. was more tame it was just about travel. story my Airbnb host was on house arrest. I mean it's a great story but I won't. get into it okay um cool so let's see.

here let's do let me do these uh. streamlabs chats let's see if this works. okay yo Maddie Potter thank you for the. 50 are we thinking her boyfriend is a s. or a pimp but I can understand the. struggle but why be in a relationship. and share hard- earned sex work money. this is directed to you mhm uh well. because it works for us and we get to. travel and we enjoy it obviously I'm not. going to do sex Works forever but I'm. just doing it until we have enough money. saved up and then we're going to get.

like a cabin out in the woods somewhere. in Tennessee or. something all right yo we have uh RP. Mentor Tokyo here donated 50 whether. cognizant of it or not the pursuit of. friends of the opposite sex likely comes. down to gauging backup mates as Dr David. bus brings up in his M switching. hypothesis of course plausible. deniability can play a role here hey RP. Mentor Tokyo thank you uh for that much. appreciated um okay so those are done.

and then we have uh let's see we have. did we do this one yo Aaron Chambers. thank you for the 50 man love you Brian. give me and Jessica shout out I'm. retired military I went after an older. woman but everything you say is Gospel. hey Aaron thank you so much for the. Super Chat man appreciate it clef the. misfit thank you for the 50 hey Mary. love timcast and pop culture crisis uh. it's dope you're here oh uh but you got. to chill on these girls a bit there's. not much gold in the cavern you got to. know when to stop. mining oh okay well thanks for.

watching. um. I don't really get what you're saying. though she does not get what you're. saying cleft the misfit all right we. have Alvin Sam here yo Alvin thank you. so much man Ladies marriageable Man or. Instagram pick only one to keep we'll go. around the table on this. so maybe they might be a bit young for. marriage. but let we we'll just do it marriageable.

man or your Instagram I would say. marriageable man so you would delete. your Instagram yeah I think having a man. like a marriageable man is so much more. valuable than having an Instagram. account where you just post pictures to. it okay I agree with her actually oh. okay I agree as well even though like. cuz you guys that's your bread and. butter your social media that's what you. do for work a sucker that like to get a. good relationship like I want to be in. love and like you know have a good. relationship with somebody okay I want.

to share my life with somebody I don't. want to be alone. forever so you would be willing to. despite the fact that what you do for. work is social media you would be. willing to take it down Tik Tok as well. yeah if it was forever wow I'm kind of. impressed by that answer okay um and you. too right yeah I mean obviously it's. more of a hobby for me it's not like I. I'm still in school I getting my degree. and. okay nickolet if I was dating a guy or.

married to a guy and he said you know. pick me like you have to delete your. Instagram or we can't be together that's. pretty controlling and weird and I'd be. like no what about your only fans would. you delete that at a marriageable man's. request no I just wouldn't shoot with. other men wait what. like if I were you would delete it all. together under any circumstance no I.

would just do solo. content but what if he was like I don't. want you to do any content on only fans. then that's controlling and weird and I. wouldn't want to date him. really no modesty at all especially if. he's like okay. well let's say he's the one bringing in. the money and he is just requesting you. you know hey you know can at least be a. little bit more modest can you if he. wants to like provide for me then like.

sure that's fine be like okay then you. would delete it yeah what about you. honestly I would get rid of my phone you. know I'd rather have my boyfriend I mean. I'd rather have him than my phone into. the mic I'd be totally fine with getting. rid of my phone and social media for. well but you I mean you are engaged. already yeah if he ever asked me he. never asked me he sure yeah what about. you yeah I would definitely choose the. man can you tilt your microphone down. ever so slight what and Mary what about. you I have both right now but I would.

delete Instagram if it came to it what. about you I would take a man all right. yo repent and Obey Jesus thank you for. the 50 uh we can only do one of these um. are your biological parents married is. your father unquestionably the leader in. his relationship does your father. approve of your lifestyle if your father. has a neck Skinner than Bill G skinnier. than Bill Gates still show some respect. please Titus to okay um we'll just do. the first one are your biological.

parents married um my parents are. divorced I haven't seen my dad since I. was. 13 my parents are also divorced and I. haven't seen my dad in years um my. parents are. separated they're not married my parents. are separated and my mom passed away a. few years ago and I never met her my. parents are still married my parents are. divorced but very much in the picture I. was adopted my parents died together. then my surrogate family came involved.

and they're still. married damn that's. heavy okay um repent thank you there for. the uh 50 all right we have Panda. trucker hey thank you for the 50 man. ladies you must pick one guy number one. 55. practices wait hold on marital Arts. hello I think he means martial arts for. 20 year I don't know what the [ __ ]. marital Arts is is that domestic. violence in the context of marriage um. for 20 years and legality owns you guys.

got to spell check these and legally I. like your hi is jacket though um uh. legality own guns guy number two 63 soft. emotional feminine and doesn't like to. fight there are things I would change. all right here's are your two options. one of them the five five five guys is. uh is a wife beater jeez you're making. the personality traits though so like. guy number one does personality guy. number two does have a personality. listed I like emotional guys guys who.

are open you like emotional guys well. like open to talking you know about. things and not just holding it in yeah. you sure you sure about that one okay no. no well yeah because I like it means. that they like care about you I think. they're more I think no some guys hold. it in right but I'd rather talk about it. I'm like a person who likes to talk. about don't worry about it don't about. it keep going okay I like to talk about. things so um yeah I just would rather. want an emotional guy someone who would. talk about their feelings yeah person.

agreed so you want a guy who can be. vulnerable yeah guys aren't built though. that way well some I think some are only. you don't think they should show. emotions what do you mean I I don't. think men should be vulnerable with with. their girl no why not. why because an L it's an L an L it's an. L humans have emotions and they think. it's okay to talk about it if guys just. bottle it up that's how they get angry. and then they're not happy and I feel. like you're not robots men can cry you.

know I don't well I mean there there's a. few reasons I mean chiefly if you see. you're going to lose respect for your. boyfriend if he's vulnerable in front of. you I wouldn't say so I still respect my. boyfriend even if he like cries in front. of me wait that doesn't even make any. sense though how could you like lose. respect for somebody if they show. emotions well I'll tell you why women. will claim they want a guy who's in. touch with his emotions or who can be.

vulnerable in front of them but let me. ask you all a question what let's say. when a guy's approaching you let's say. he's approaching you in person would you. prefer that he steps to you with. confidence his eye contact is on. point and he's you know confident or. would you prefer him kind of be like. really shy his eye contacts weak he's. not being weird but he's like a little. socially anxious contact is weak just. and not yeah the first one but what does. that have to do with like showing. emotions well I want to go around the.

table really quick on this which of the. two would you prefer obviously a. confident guy come up to me probably. okay um I've had both happen to me I. mean I think shy guys it's always. interesting when they try to like shoot. their shot um what do you mean it's. interesting well because or not that. it's like funny but I was like it's it's. cute to see like you know there are some. guys that get like really nervous or. they're more on the shy side but I don't. think that's like a bad thing. necessarily obviously I think you feel. more enticed and like intrigued when.

it's like a more confident guy comes up. to you but then again there's a. difference between being confident and. like being cocky you know okay sure yeah. nickolette what are the two. options confident he steps to you. approaches you in a confident manner. good eye contact no. stumbling versus a guy who's kind of. bashful steps to you a bit shy like eye. contact weak he's not being weird or. creepy but he's like shy uncomfortable.

socially anxious um confident but not. cocky okay what about you I would say. both I think it just matters if you're a. good person I feel like if you're very. confident and have nothing in common but. he's like not nice I feel like it. doesn't matter if shy or conf sure Sarah. what about you um I would say confident. I do think it can be endearing if. someone's like a little bit shy um and. then that kind of pushes me to be the. more confident one which isn't always a. good scenario but it's like something. that I've struggled with so it's kind of. like good practice to step into that.

role so you want to step into a more. masculine role like I don't want to um. the times that I have found myself doing. that I don't think it's been all bad I. would prefer not to you'd prefer it not. to okay Mary what about you confident. I'm not going to entertain a guy's. advances sure out of pity okay I'll say. with being prior military the civilian. guy just doesn't work for for me like I. can't do the weakness I have to have a. man in leadership and still strength. that's just how I'm bred and it just.

speaks more okay so it's being in the. military you want like a very masculine. confident guy okay so that's a guy. stepping to you being a little nervous a. little shy maybe his eye contact isn't. great that's quite literally him being. vulnerable however women are repulsed by. said vulnerability therefore women don't. actually want want men to be vulnerable. Brian I have a different perspective on. this I think that what women kind of.

want is to be the only person uh the. only woman in a man's life that he has a. willingness to show vulnerability to. after trust has been gained I agree not. not immediately CU if it's immediately. then that's. manipulative like if he's crying to make. you feel bad for him well I yes I. suppose it would be a woman's preference. that. her men is only vulnerable with her with. her where instead of being vulnerable to.

the entire world. however that's kind of picking and. choosing when a man is vulnerable and. when he isn't so the point I'm trying to. say is is that women are hardwired to. find vulnerability in men they view it. as weakness and it's a turnoff if a man. it like it would be a major turnoff for. most women I think for emotionally. healthy women it is not a turn off if. you have gained trust beforehand I think. you if you ask 99% of women if they.

prefer confident men or men who are a. bit more shy and socially anxious almost. all women are going to say they prefer. conf first impression yes right but that. the difference is is that a woman could. you as a man we would actually prefer a. woman step to us a little bit shy. instead of being like super bold and. confident so men if a girl steps to us. and she's a bit Bash and like a little. sh we would actually prefer that over a. girl who steps really confident because.

then well we're going to think certain. things but so that's just that's the. difference between men and women there. there's a difference between First. Impressions and then where you are into. a long-term relationship what you show. of yourself to someone you've been with. for a long time well the other thing is. even in a long-term relationship if you. were to cry in front of your. girlfriend even if you've been dating. for a while and she might not. immediately might be there to support. you but it she is going to lose. attraction for you if you cry in front. of your girlfriend I mean if it's.

Overkill if you're like emotionally. imbalanced and you cry too often but if. there is a valid. reason then even if there's a valid. reason women detest weakness in. men that statement is true I think the. context doesn't fit always um and you. also aren't a woman so you don't know if. what that's right I'm not a woman. however repulses us sure but I mean I've. had my own experiences I've spoken with.

a lot of men and a lot of them report. that when they've been in scenarios. where they are either showing some sort. of. vulnerability uh it it there's a. palpable shift in the relationship after. some event when the when the guy has. demonstrated a weakness or a vulner. ability I'll give you guys an example so. this. was a year and a half ago almost two.

wait a year and a half ago so I was. dating this girl i' been dating her for. six months uh I got. jumped I got jumped so I got all [ __ ]. up so I I you know this is my girl I've. been talking to her for six months I. call her up it's like late at the night. she comes over I'm not and I didn't cry. however I was all bloodied up and you. know kind of [ __ ] up right and I was. in pain but I wasn't like. crying or anything but I was like a [ __ ]. I was limping and [ __ ] and there was. such a pal palpable shift in the.

relationship from that point prior to. that we never argued after she witnessed. me in this weak State we started. fighting it was like such a noticeable. shift she started becoming a bit more. less Cooperative less agreeable we. started fighting and a lot of men have. similar experiences when you display a. weakness the woman loses attraction for. you and honestly the writing is on the.

wall so I mean my recommendation to men. is if you have an issue talk to your. male friends don't talk to your don't go. to don't don't go to your girl I feel. like in your case she probably just. didn't like you that much in the. beginning and then she she pretty she. was put into that position to take care. of you for the first time and she. probably realized like oh I don't. actually like this guy that that much to. take care of him I mean I I would. disagree with that but that's perhaps.

that could be an explanation but I I I. disagree with your. assessment I think uh maybe her reaction. was because she thought you weren't. competent at protecting yourself and. therefore how could you be competent at. protecting her even on a. subconscious uh evolutionary level that. makes sense that's what I'm saying it's. evolutionary yes it is I totally agree. with you but I think that like sometimes. uh if a woman is like uh if she's like.

not emotionally. healthy then she's not able to respond. to a man having. emotions like she can only let her. emotions take the stage and and be paid. attention to intended to sounds like. most relationships I also think a lot of. girls Overlook the quiet guy um I. remember just being in the military a. lot of the quiet guys or a lot of the. stoic ones they're very manly you just. didn't know they they never showed their. emotions but I can hey if something were.

to go down I'm going to go to that man. instead of the little [ __ ] crying I'm. not going to go to him what what is he. going to protect me for no so I'm like I. think there's just a difference between. you know women who've never been in a. situation where they might need to fend. have someone fend for them we live in. very very like um babysitted type. Society where everything's given to us. you guys don't know what it's like to. actually need a man so therefore you say. the things that you say which is like. it's a whole another thing go to war.

you're not going to want a man you're. not going to want a man who cries you. want to want a man who knows how to. think on his feet you're going to want. to know want a man who knows how to find. that money get that money to make sure. you survive why the hell would I want to. go to some weak guy who's just going to. complain and [ __ ] and make my life. harder Brian I think that um I I like. thought through this a little bit more I. think men's emotional exclusivity with a. woman is uh an analog to a a woman's. sexual. exclusivity with a.

man do you do you get what I'm I'm I'm. getting at sort of sort of he values. complete loyalty and monogamy from her. and there's an emotional loyalty and. monogamy that a woman expects or desires. from a man does anyone she wants to be. the only woman that gets to see him in a. vulner State sure Carson um the audio. got switched Eric can you help him.

figure out how to you have to like find. that little audio that's in the right. corner my audio is muted over. here you're going to hit the Windows. button you're gonna have to remember I. think I showed you before the stream. you're going to have to hit the. uh. yep switch it no yeah SW switch it the. yep put it on speakers the bottom one. yeah okay sorry the thing closed that. out okay cool um does anyone on this.

side of the table have anything in. response I obviously want a guy who's. going to be able like to protect me and. stuff but at the same time if like. something's going on and like let's say. one of their family members dies and. they cry I'm not going to like be turned. off by that you know like you'd probably. be turned off by really I don't think so. I don't think so the guy. cried no I don't think that's like a. turn off I think most men are are overly. emotional overly vulnerable these days I. think it's cute when a guy cries it.

shows that you're really connected to. them you think it's cute when the guy. cries yeah it's kind of cute like. they're showing their vulnerable side to. you like so you take pleasure in in okay. so like I don't take pleasure in it I. would say like oh you know he's opening. up to me he really likes me you'll have. to fix it again guys you know like. obviously there's a time and a place and. yeah. a man can still protect you like if. something goes down even if he cries. because there's a time and a place for. emotions and you know you know.

protecting you with his fist or whatever. if something someone tries to break in. or something you can't predict when he's. going to be stoic and you know calm and. handle his situation so you don't know. that what if you on M Martin super CH yo. Martin thank you man ladies you are. viewing it through a filter what. vulnerability looks like through rren is. a cathartic cry over a cute puppy what. emotional vulnerability looks like. through the filter of testosterone is.

unfed violence viol prisoners School. shooters. murderers stoicism is a must for men yes. 100% 100% um like the accent that makes. and also there was uh We've reacted to. this video a couple times on the podcast. but there's this video of this MMA. fighter woman who's on Joe Rogan Maria. Nakamoto or something and she was dating. a MMA fighter and she said that she saw. her boyfriend get knocked the [ __ ] out. within the context like not in a street.

fight but uh in an MMA fight and she. said I dumped him afterwards because I. was so turned off by him getting knocked. out by another man whereas I don't I. don't suspect the reverse if would be. the case because women look to men at. least from an evolutionary perspective. and also still today for protection you. want your partner to be capable to some. degree of protection you whereas men we. don't look to women to protect us really. so if a guy is vulnerable or weak you.

almost uh biologically there's going to. be like this. innate uh you'll be repulsed by repul. she dumped him just because of that she. she said it on the podcast she said yeah. I dumped him afterward deer issues I. think that like in a way like crying you. know if you never see your partner cry. that's them just hiding a part of. themselves from I think that um in a way. just like opening up if it's you know. just once in a while like that's just.

being real I. think being real yeah keeping it real I. mean the just the whole like being. vulnerable thing just Falls flat on its. face when you think about okay women. like confident guys as a guy if you want. to approach a girl you have to be. confident your eye contact is has to be. on good uh excuse me eye contact has to. be on point you can't be stuttering as I. am right now so uh you need to um really. step properly otherwise the girls going.

be like ah this guy's weird just like. not interested so whereas as a girl you. can be shy whether it's on a dating app. or in person you can be shy and a guy is. not going to not be attracted to you if. you're shy in fact I would actually make. the argument that men are more attracted. to women who are a bit more on the. Reserve side are not loud are not. boisterous or are not obnoxiously loud. uh Men actually probably prefer kind of. the more quiet calm mellow girls as. opposed to the like the loud.

[ __ ] obnoxious chicks okay so. um yeah so uh I really. feel tell us how I well I I just want to. point out that it's a line like most men. these days are overly emotional it's. just a fact the testosterone is. plummeting it's like failed Society it's. really bad and uh yeah like women kind. of deny that they feel repulsed by that.

like intense uh emotionality. vulnerability from men before it's even. appropriate based on the. relationship um and like of course they. want to know that a guy is capable of. defending himself and her word okay um. oh wait we already did this one let's. see we have uh yo Justin thank you for. the 50 Brian watch your show at least. three times a week not including YouTube.

shorts awesome you were able to get. Michael on the show the other day side. note love the jacket much love keep up. the great work hey Justin thank you so. much for the uh Super Chat man really. appreciate thank you for the uh kind. words man your your patronage is uh. really appreciated then we have another. one from you here hey Justin thank you. because I misspelled your name Brian. here's another 50 hey thank you man. actually you're going to have to do. another one because there's an X in. there the x is silent though you don't. pronounce it it's like brixon thank you. man appreciate it uh I believe this one. came through as a TTS thank you man this.

one came through Bruce Wayne thank you. man uh yo wizard ape thank you for the. 50 man there's a reason why Pearl is a. 10 next to these girls someone like her. carries herself so differently than. these loose confused girls who would. more than likely ruin a grown man's life. okay guys confirm or deny would you ruin. a grown man's life I hope not Brey. looking at you no no how would I ruin. their life by like what cheating on them. by slashing their tires and bleaching.

all their clothes that's psychotic no. you can be honest tell us just tell us. you slash the last guy no oh my God ad. Brey okay no slashing the time not what. about like. um okay uh what about you Rachel I don't. understand like ruin his whole life yeah. that's what I'm. saying in what ways you know I saw the. other girl in here say that like she was. dating this guy just as like a. psychological experiment that's crazy. that's crazy when I watched that I was. like that girl has super low self-esteem.

because she just is desperate to have an. impact on somebody's life and not be. regarded with. indifference shout out Hensley shout out. Hensley oh man like that looked really. terrible for that it's kind of sad like. if you feel that unimportant that you. want to have like a negative impact on. someone's life just to be memorable yeah. you know what's funny is like like no I. don't think any other girl at the table. said anything and to be fair I actually. didn't say anything either cuz I kind of.

thought she was joking but then like I. watched it back I was like I was like yo. this is [ __ ] [ __ ] up this is some. heavy [ __ ] so uh but this is kind of. funny like how she said she probably. didn't even break that guy's heart. that's the reality she she yeah she. flatters herself to think so but you. know def mediocre as a person watch out. Hensley might. stalk you okay good thing you live in. West Virginia just kidding just kidding. um okay so Rachel look you can be honest.

you would ruin a dude's life just say it. I would do it are you saying you ruin a. guy's life not on purpose on accident on. accident if I'm ruining a whole like. guy's life like by breaking up with him. or what no just like you know on purpose. like purpose I would say like I wouldn't. purposely try to ruin a guy's life just. you know like longlasting post-traumatic. stress you know no I'm lost deep wounds.

psychological. damage is he going to cry about. it I think that would be too vulnerable. what's the most [ __ ] up thing you've. ever said to a. guy oh there's a lot no like I can't I'm. trying to think okay what about you no. what was the okay. th this is the original Super. Chat you're he's he's talking [ __ ] to.

you guys if you guys want to say. anything to wizard ape well I'm not. loose that's for. sure well it depends if he like he's. calling you guys loose are you going to. stand for this like if the are you going. to I don't care what people think of me. honestly you can like me or hate me or. you know Everyone likes different things. different people so I think it's all. subjective you know we're all worried. you know yo Michael mro thank you for. the 50 shout out to whatever podcast. question for the ladies do you regret. who you lost your virginity to yes or no.

why let's start with you Brey um I don't. really think it's that deep but yeah I. guess because I wasn't dating the person. I lost my virginity to tilt the. microphone down down down down I wasn't. dating the person I lost my virginity. too you weren't dat actually I yeah I. would say I regret it was it a one night. stand. yeah yeah it was did you meet like the. so the guy you lost her virginity to was. it kind of similar to her where was like.

well actually hers is a I knew him for a. while you you knew him it wasn't like. just you met him that night and no no. okay what was the were you at a party or. no I was hanging out with friends hang. out with friends okay and yeah I like. didn't really want to do it but then I. was like yikes good times you you didn't. no I like gave consent but like at the. same time I was you I was 16 did as. immature you regretted regreted after. the fact okay uh what about you yes and. no because I wish I waited a little bit.

longer but I feel like I wanted to. experience it it's normal but it was. with a guy I was dating so okay yeah no. I still have a lot of love for him like. he's very special to me so sure oh sorry. okay net um no I don't regret it okay. what about you I don't regret it either. he was nice to me um I was like 17 when. I lost me virginity and um it was really. sweet you know I don't regret it it was. amazing and um we all actually showered.

together afterwards and he gave me a. massage so 10 out of 10. experience okay uh you already went what. about you oh you have I haven't but I'm. sure I won't regret it because about. it'll be after I'm. married okay we have uh hoad thank you. for the Australian 50 man appreciate it. of girls the that lasts forever what. happens when your son or daughter goes. to school and everyone is laughing and. circulating your pics and videos around. fast money slow problems men do care.

about your past honestly I think it. doesn't really matter you know there's. just I mean everyone's out there doing. something and what you know everyone. watches porn so why that's not true. either a lot of people do and I feel. like it doesn't really matter you know. like growing around a lot of. generalities there's plenty of people in. really healthy really good relationships. with children their mothers who yeah and. do adult film and yeah it doesn't matter. I think for everyone it's different we.

all have like different boundaries and. things we're okay with you know but but. your kids it is what it is if they find. it they find it I'm not going to like. I'm obviously going to try to make sure. they don't but if if they find it. whatever you know so if everyone jumps. off they find it by their peers send. it's really different do you they they. would find this by other kids sending it. to them then I feel a lot about the. parents of the kids who are doing that. like why are you bullying a child and.

also kids are mean yeah bullying well. then the parents should do a better job. and teach their kids to stay in [ __ ]. line no I me yeah literally bullying is. like a natural socialization tactic that. is never going to be. eradicated but also like you're not your. parents and I feel like I'd rather get. bullied for something my parents did. than for something I did and I feel like. in the future we do have kids who are. old enough to find out about it only. fans is pretty mainstream now so there's.

going to be a lot of other parents who. or a lot of other kids who have parents. um that have done only fans as well I. think you're massively. overestimating. the I mean it's pretty popular a lot of. people signed up for only fans during. your future children are unlikely to go. to school with other people uh with. other. kids whose adults did porn it's. extremely unlikely and it's way more. likely that they would get you basing.

that on though did you not get bullied. in high school none of you guys got. bullied in high school so you think that. behavior is somehow going to change with. the the new generation that comes up. behind you no I don't think it's going. to change but why you think your kids. are not going to get made fun of I think. it says a lot more about that child. who's. bullying it doesn't matter what. consolation is that to your child who's. experiencing bullying. then you guys talk about this amongst. yourselves I'll be right back it'll. still happen regardless no you can try.

to Shield your child from all the. craziness that's out there there's going. to be indiv my child will be laughing at. them in our nicest house driving home in. their nice ass car with their nice. clothes okay and then you'll live with. the consequences of you know possi I. think that just says a lot about our. society as a whole that you can't just. people are so mean and messed up and I. think it's always been like that I think. it does says a lot about society when. women just goes to sex as their first. only choice as oh my God I need to have.

a way to survive so let me just sell my. body in my pictures and hope make a. living off of that you guys will see. anything wrong with that nothing at all. all girls are going to get sexualized. whether they like it or not we're we're. just choosing to monetize it so do you. care about the repercussions that like. there have been many sexual comments. I've seen about you my but they don't. know me I don't they can say whatever. they want that's just the reality of. societ and the reality is people are.

probably dragging off to your Instagrams. right now I don't good luck cuz all my. [ __ ] is mostly commentary on politics I. don't show that and I'm trying that's it. doesn't matter okay so you think these. kids are going to matter about your kids. when they go to school and they see your. pictures all plastered you think those. kids are going to care about your. feelings Honestly though like my parents. dressed me in velour tracksuits and I. think it's what they did was worse than. if they had an only fans but it's not. your it's not your par picking on you. it's Society picking on you nicholet I.

think that you're making a huge mistake. in saying I'm going to be sexualized. against my will anyway so I might as. well do it myself and monetize it just. you can't deny that that's not uh that. that is like spiritually and emotionally. corrosive I don't know I'm pretty happy. with my life so okay I guess money. doesn't equal happiness I know it's. cheesy to say it but like kid if you. have kids they might drive home in a.

nice car and have a nice house is it. really worth but that's not going to. console them I might not even have kids. in the future I'm living my life for. myself right now I don't even have these. imaginary children that we're talking. about so I'm just going to live my life. how I want so will you care well the I. guess the whole thing is will you care. what people say then about you if you. decide to keep going on with this. content do you think that you are in a. right to say that you can't speak to me. like this because hey this is your own. free will you did this.

yourself I'm not saying they can't do it. they can do people can do whatever they. want I don't really give a [ __ ] what. people do I'm going to do what I do and. I don't like really give a [ __ ] what. other people you're consenting to being. sexualized your future children if you. have any do not consent to this material. being public and available for other. children to use as a bullying BL leging. against them well honestly like anything. you do can be used against you your. children people are going to regard you. don't think that one is worse than the.

other exactly you don't think that you. know being on a podcast and talking. about dating culture is like a little. less embarrassing for a kid than their. mother sucking dick on camera really I. guess but there are degrees to this. objective there is degrees and I feel. like people should just be taught to not. bully and I mean obviously you can't. control what other people are doing you. can just control how you react to it if. I have a kid one day and um they're. getting bullied I'll just either I can. take it to a private school I can do.

home school or I can just go and just. tell them to ignore it or like go up to. the kid and be like don't bully my kid. and haters AR at least you're. knowledgeable on that at least you're. willing to accept that consequence I. just think it's crazy to not even. contemplate accepting that consequence. as something that you're literally. putting out for the whole entire Society. to see it's never going to go away you. know me being a programmer I know this. it's never going to go away it's out. there I'm not ashamed me neither I'm.

okay with it I'm actually really proud. me too I think this Society could do. with little more shame especially around. issues of sex are you saying that we. should bring oh hold on M Martin super. ch100 appreciate it let's not stop. boning on the internet let's irradiate. bullying from planet iriate amazing idea. ladies how is NASA building rocket ships. with all of you on this podcast tonight.

your future regret will be fisa's gain. yeah if women were in charge of the. world then War wouldn't happen right. okay not sure about that one um never. heard of Mary Scotland huh building. rocket ships are any of you thinking. about going into um rocket engineering. as a career I'm good if they affirmative. action mean there confirmed rocket. rocket scientist oh no I'm not that I. think Rachel don't get down on yourself. I think you'd make a fantastic rocket.

scientist I wouldn't want to be one you. wouldn't want to be one no thank you. what if you got like a full ride. sponsorship to um Costa Mesa City. College full ride no full ride no Costa. Mesa City College no they're like number. 13 no in the Southern California area no. in rocket science I'm pretty sure they. have a program at City College for. rocket science no no it's okay what. about bre Brey probably not rocket. science no it have to be something that. I'm like passionate about like you can't.

succeed in something you're not pass. brain surgery maybe I could see you. being a brain surgeon I wanted to be a. nurse and athetist that's what I went to. school for guys don't take nurses you. know what I think is really really. annoying like I feel like you should do. whatever you want to do like whatever. job you want and I feel like parents who. have kids they're like oh you have to be. a doctor or a lawyer what happens if. you're they're a doctor and they hate. their job they're not good at it and. then the Pati dies on the table so I. feel like you should be passionate and. enjoy what you do I think that's called. medical malpractice well you not like.

okay so that's like over the top but. like if you're not passionate about it. you're not going to be very good at it. so you think you need to be passionate. about something in order for it to be. your gainful employment well I mean you. can have jobs that you don't like like. you can let's say for example like I was. working at the grocery store many years. ago and I didn't like it but I still. like worked hard and you know but. obviously it was draining and I wasn't. happy. like sex work yeah I do I enjoy it like. you like [ __ ] other men I mean I like.

sex but I enjoy it more with my. boyfriend obviously it's acting acting. is the same thing now obviously there's. sex scenes and acting even and you know. it's not mattress actress well like. there's not always like like full-on sex. but like even in movies there's like. kissing or there's talking so it's like. you. know wait so are we talking like. Daniel D Lewis are you comparing like. Daniel de Lewis acting. to obviously it's different to porn.

obvious obviously it's different but. yeah do you think I suppose there's a. craft to porn you know a lot of people. enjoy it you know and I feel like we all. most a lot of people watch it there's. there's like awards for porn right yeah. definitely did you win the clette no but. I was there in January you were there it. was fun wait did you did you get any. awards no I went to the award show but I. was just watching supporting I was at a. booth at the convention did some collabs.

if you could make like the same amount. of money and just be an actress like. would you rather do that or do you think. you'd stick with what I'm a horrible. actress yeah. no don't say that right don't say that. okay. so what is your most controversial. dating take or opinion Brey come back to. me I need to think about. our dog what you got our dog I know you. got something for me no I'm trying to. think our dog our dog actually come back. to me I'll have okay I got you I got you.

Lisle what you got for me um this is a. hard question wait I guess one is what. are you what is you guys' take on being. friends with the opposite gender I know. that's like a big thing when you're in a. relationship wait what being friends. like having friends of the opposite you. can have friends of the opposite sex I. don't think I have any female. friends come to think of it um I I think. it's bad luck to be honest I I don't. think I would be comfortable dating a.

girl who had a bunch of male friends. especially guys that she friendzoned who. previously showed a sexual interest in. her that's I would that's a lot of I. guess that's understandable yeah like if. I had um a friend who had a crush on me. I could see why my boyfriend wouldn't. want me to Fe friends with person like. not because I would do anything but like. you're going to have to hide that soon. Carson I'm pretty sure that's going to. come through as a as a TTS here pretty. soon continue. though um shoot I forgot what I was.

saying friends relationships oh yeah so. I think it's okay to have friends of the. opposite sex I think it's all about. boundaries trust and uh but I feel like. I'm not like cool with like friends like. if you have an ex or like someone who. you had a crush on previously because. like it's not like 100% something's. going to happen but it definitely is. awkward and I wouldn't like I would drop. a friend if my boyfriend wanted me to. like oh he had a crush on. you I don't have to his friend super.

chated. $500 Mr North Dakota oil field here. there are plenty of good men that work. but you you need to get out of liberal. states that's so. true California Stan um yo Mar Coons. thank you for the uh. big is the FPS [ __ ] on this [ __ ] is. going on on my computer oh my God. scuffed it's [ __ ] can go for it and. Mark if you're looking for a sugar.

baby. yeah. Haram Mark don't do it do not do it Mark. um yo Mark thank you for the big $100. Super Chat man really appreciate that. you're [ __ ] Legend. um speaking of oil fields hold on here. uh would any of you. date an oil man hell yeah they make. money an oil man an oil man yeah I don't.

see the. problem what huh sorry I said I don't. see the problem sorry I we need you to. pronunciate Rachel our dog pronunciate. pronunciate that is not a word. pronunciate enunciate did I hold on. we're going to fact cheate. pronunciate you know what you just got. back oh hold on let me [ __ ] fix that. make of Rachel's mumbling did I. get damn so if hold on if I if I'm.

correct that. pronunciate is actually a word I think. it's like enunciate because then there's. pronounce it's yeah if pronunciate is. actually a word. Mary I'm going to need you to do. something for me what is. it chill um all right you're going to. have to uh. do the uh Abraham Lincoln's Gettysburg. Address I'm sure you've committed it to. memory I no be honest come on I haven't.

you seem like you did theater I no I did. not I wouldn't be around that many do. you know at least like the first. paragraph no you don't know the first. paragraph. no you'd have to provide me a script. okay pronunciate is pronunciate a word. According to. wiary second person plural present. active imperative of pronounce pronounce.

pronuncio what the [ __ ] is that oh but. apparently it okay in any case wait what. forget that Mark Coons is an oil man so. would you date an oil. man what me just any of you God uh oh. you're trying to distract from from the. fact that pronunciate isn't a. word um yeah I guess. hypothetically guys who work on oil rigs.

are pretty. manly I drink your you know have you. have any of you seen There Will Be. Blood I drink it up the critically. acclaimed film starring Daniel D Lewis. you're aging yourself no 2017 that was. like P was it maybe 20 like eight or. seven Great film Daniel LS hello okay. all right Jesus Christ all right. um what let me what was the suit were we.

on the Super Chat that got interrupted I. forgot um oh most controversial dating. take so you were saying remind me what. it was um being friends with the. opposite oh yeah being friends yeah. that's I think you can be me. too I think there's a certain level of. closeness um that is not possible. between a friendship of the opposite sex. okay like. wait oh continue there well there are. ways that women and men simply can't. relate to each other um as closely and.

therefore there's a certain yeah limit. to how close you can be as friends just. because of that okay okay do you guys. have male friends yeah yes yes I would. say more male friends that I'm closer. with than female friends okay um I have. a lot of gay friends or do you have a. male any male friends have one one I. have male. friends you guys over here no I don't. have male friends okay what about you I. have a few wow you're like a mile away.

from that microphone there I have a few. okay. um so you guys have male friends strict. just friends yeah um are they do you. know if they're in relationships or are. they single some of them are okay um I. want you to text one of your male. friends who's currently single I want. you to text him right now and see if. he's down to hook up. can you do can you guys all do that I. know that there would be some that would. well let's try just text one I wouldn't. even feel comt if there was some that. would how do you know that they're not.

just waiting around thinking like what. if that doesn't mean they're not my. friend I just won't let it happen well I. think if it's not like they're also. doing that like they're not like. flirting with me when we're hanging out. that would make me un super. $999 how narcissistic does one have to. be to believe the world has to change to. justify their behavior and how it. affects their loved ones yo Clint Torres. thank you for the TTS man appreciate it.

um oh I've seen him in my chat oh what's. up Clint okay um. so how. narcissistic are you H are you. narcissist n Nicollet I think I'm. confident I wouldn't say narcissistic. word I think you have to be diagnosed. for that what are you diagnosed with. nothing what medications do you take. right now nothing just weed just weed. birth control yes okay um let's text the.

male friends okay uh as a group let's. figure out the they don't you think they. know that you're on a stream right now. no okay actually are they in. La most of them are in Miami and. Minnesota okay we'll pretend that you're. there just be like so who's the guy that. you're going to text where where is he. um I'm just going to text my friend Bri. cuz he called me yesterday what a Chad. what a great name okay is it with an i. or a y though what b r i a n [ __ ]. Legend okay um where is he um he's at.

Miami of Ohio he goes to college there. Ohio he's in Ohio Miami of Ohio that's. the school wow that's a mistake right I. have to like clarify I went to. University of Miami I've heard of it. yeah I've heard of it um so he's in Ohio. so you're going to tell them hey what's. up I'm in. Ohio it's [ __ ] midnight on a Sunday. [ __ ] okay are there any male friends you. have in La I mean you can try to text. them and say just text them just text a. few be like hey what's up oh he would.

say say yeah just be like hey it's. breakfasty baby Carson just get. reactions um okay so wait I'm gonna do a. different guy okay I have one in mind. and Rachel while we're doing that you. got to text a dude well I wouldn't feel. comfortable texting any of my guy. like but you afterwards you say this is. a podcast weird and honestly most of my. guy friends are like gay guys they're.

gay yeah like literally gay or just like. literally literally gay like yeah okay. what other way hey that's even that's no. that's weird that's even better right. not only are you tempting them out of. the Friendship you're tempting them out. of their sexuality okayed he said no way. huh I just said Brian I just landed in. Ohio oh wait well say what you want to. say why are you here she didn't ask a. question well what do you want what do. you want me to say just be like uh are. you originally from Ohio no from.

Minnesota just be like um I'm in Ohio. for a collab with Roman Atwood um cuz. he's in what is he in Columbus no just. say that you came to just see him bro. that's. [ __ ] say you're here for a collab with a. [ __ ] I think he I don't know be like. anyway I can crash with you. no no no no be like hey what are are you. down to what would be believable um say. want to hook up question mark no uh he.

knows I would you want to grab lunch no. that's not that's so like. 30-year-old do this be a bit vague say. what are you what are you doing right. now winky. face that's good no maybe like. AEG wait I'm just going to do eggplant. Emoji oh my God maybe maybe water drops. too which one should I do. um here Lauren can you do it too maybe.

do the one with the squiggly line for a. mou I do it okay he's I feel like I'm. going to make him so uncomfortable. Lauren text your male. friend who live well wherever he lives. and see if he wants to hook up did you. send it yeah. okay um is he t let us know if he's. starts typing okay who are you going to. text Lauren like Chester. I have a lot of friends don't know to. just do three text three yes I want you.

to ruin your relationships tonight on my. podcast. Lauren. um here wait what do I anybody else want. to do this while we're oh God he said. I'm about to go to bed I have an exam in. the. morning be like well you could be a bit. more direct you could be like listen he. is single right. I think so the guy has to be single. otherwise this wasn't well his. ex-girlfriend didn't like me because he. was like liking my pictures but I was.

like I've known him since kindergarten. so okay be like hey can I come. over [ __ ] can I come over to just say. cuddle just say are you down to cuddle. are you down to cuddle I he knows I. wouldn't say that I'm not I'm sorry I. would all right are you down. to you wouldn't say that what would you. say are you someone in the chat said. I've got something you can exam oh my. God it's hilarious Sarah can you do this. said what are you doing you friends.

right he's in Savannah Georgia yeah just. be like yo what's up I'm in I'm in ATL. and I have one male friend does he have. a girlfriend. no hit them up no well no I'm not there. be like yo I'm an. ATL the only male friend that I have I'm. relatively close to is gay all right but. but I also have this theory that like. when women have gay male friends they. try to encourage them to dump their. boyfriend even though they're not trying.

to get with them they want the like gay. men want their female friends to be. single word a lot of the time word I'll. have to did you text I did but I don't. think they would respond try a few more. he's still typing oh he's typing I said. I came to see you damn I miss you oh. what the [ __ ] is that ruined SC he said. I miss you too how long long are you. staying and then he loved the. message okay he harded this can I come. over like yeah can I come over tonight.

question mark winky face do you want me. to say tonight or tomorrow tonight. tonight or right. now don't hide behind the microphone. you're hiding behind the microphone. there you go okay I said can I come over. tonight though I can come right now o. okay what you got for us Lauren I I. texted three people and they didn't. respond my friends are terrible. you texted well it takes time what did. you text them I just said hey oh my well. I'm waiting cuz I need to know they're. going to respond yeah but there needs to. be a sense of urgency so D you're going.

to double text I know or call them no we. can't do that but um my bad we can't. well oh recording a phone call wir. tapping felony that whole thing um. Lauren here's what I want you to do I. want you to text them all you're going. to double text them and you're going to. say listen I've had a crush on you for. years oh Lord just kidding don't say. that I want you to say I want you to. say I'm myin I've been meing your.

Aesthetics do you wish to engage in a. courtship process don't say that okay. just be like yo what are you doing. tonight I want to hang out just say. there's something that you need to tell. him say I I really need to tell you. something important no that's terrible. don't say that sorry Mary um. say say. I'm trying to see you what are you doing. right. now are you DTF is that that's so 2008.

that's not bad right DTF question mark. no one says just DTF question mark no. one says no one says that is this like. Jersey Shore yeah that's exactly what I. was. thinking um okay how about how about. just hey Netflix and is that still a. thing no people don't say that they. don't say that anymore just say do you. want a cuddle. cudd wait but that could be like. platonic taken platonically can it you. platonically cuddle. with Chambers super chated.

$99.99 hey Brian you're awesome give me. a shout out to me and Jessica all I want. you're a great man who's. Jessica. maybe who's Jessica shout out to me and. Jessica uh shout oh. shout out to Aaron Chambers and Jessica. thank you sir you're a great man. appreciate it Aaron Chambers thank you. man.

um Sarah text Savannah. Georgia see I would feel bad doing that. because we actually um hooked up no we. like met on hinge. originally oh that's even a bigger yikes. yeah so did you you met on hinge did you. friends own him yeah it was just like it. was a really hard time that I was going. through and I actually was like I just. went fully celibate like we'd gone on a. couple of dates and really like vibed as.

like human beings and then um but I just. like needed to take time. what wait so hold. on explain that like um I was on hinge. like open to dating and then something. happened and I was no longer open to. dating. and we had already gone out a couple. times and we were like we had a great. time but it was a very like friendly. atmosphere like we would joke around and.

so he all of his friends are actually. girls so he's just kind of like a girls. guy oh so when I told him that I was. does he meet them all on hinge uh no but. when I told him that I was like celibate. and that I was like no longer on the. dating scene um then he wanted to like. still be friends I completely was open. to not never like talking to him again. because I didn't I've never friendzoned. someone and I don't want to um but he. wanted to stay friends but I would still.

feel bad to text him right now and be. like wait so you were in the middle of. dating him you were on a dating app and. then you Midway through dating him. became celibate yeah you said something. happen are we talking like. sa something yeah bad that's yikes okay. so so he was really understanding okay. um so. so you became friends with him. mhm okay and yeah so we we're like. honestly good friends like when I was.

driving across the country I stopped by. he was living in Boulder at the time and. he um like I stayed with him cuz he. offered and he like blew up an air. mattress with his like own breath for me. to like not sleep on the same bed as him. and I was like that's really. nice is he still interested in you I. don't think so you don't think so why. don't we find out right now get your. phone and shoot him a little text he. definitely not even a just try just try. just send the text just Lauren what's.

the status what's the status on you they. never responded what's the status I. think he knew I was [ __ ] with him. what did he say they all didn't resp the. he said where in Ohio are you he just. keeps going in circles huh he said where. in Ohio are you wait I need to look up. the college where it's at just I'm in. your neck of the woods close. enough I'll just say 15 minutes from. your school did you say I what was the. previous message you sent can I come. over tonight though I can come right now. I'm only in Ohio for like 12 hours and.

he said where he said where in Ohio are. you okay he's not out right turning you. down did you text anybody Lauren they. have not texted me back what did you say. I feel bad don't feel bad it was still. the hey I didn't write anything oh you. got to write more you got to double text. like what be like what are you doing. tonight uh. [ __ ] you you can't be too direct but you. also can't be too very oh yeah it's an. Oxford someone commented. that uh just. say hey do you want to hook up winky.

face it's a bit much but [ __ ] it after. the hay already yeah okay say you're in. Savannah come on that's. not wait did did this one come through. did we do this one yeah we did okay. uh any responses yet or. no unfortunately I'm trying to cultivate. think this is a dead end yeah I don't.

think they're to resp bro I would never. say. that all right let me get two super. chats here and then we're gonna yo. Frankie K thank you for the 50 yall want. traditional masculine men most. traditional masculine men want feminine. women with Traditional Values do you. think you fit that description why or. why not okay so uh are you a feminine. woman with Traditional Values yes or no. yes sorry I wasn't me okay skipping read. this are you a traditional or are you a.

feminine women woman with Traditional. Values yeah yes I'd say it's slightly. more yes but that's cuz my family is. more traditional in a sense um so I kind. of grew up that way. nicholette um I think I'm feminine and. um little closer to the mic. I have some like modern values I. think oh same I'm a bit of both but I'd.

say more. traditional and. feminine I would say my values are. pretty traditional I wouldn't say I'm. like the most feminine woman but I try. so you're kind of you'd say you're more. masculine um not entirely you mean like. in the bedroom you like to Peg your. boyfriend no have you ever pegged a dude. no. okay um sorry. Carson I I would say I'm I have very. Traditional Values like extremely and.

ostensibly I try to live up to them but. also like by virtue of being born in. this Century I don't know if it's even. possible um cuz we're all raised with. such modern values that they're like. ingrained in us but yeah by the way guys. we have six ,000 people watching about. 6,000 people watching right now the chat. is on fire guys if we can get the likes. to. 3,000.

um Rachel will text one of her male. friends and ask if they want to H up um. what about you oh no I am not. traditional in um in the sense of what. that word used to mean I'm modern just. because of the times that we live. in all right yo we have RPA h27 thank. you for the 50 Mary seems the most. intelligent and asks challenging and. smart questions keep pushing send help. for the ticktockers also army girl is.

based uh marriage for the L where o. certified 10 go navy.com okay thank you. man hey I was a Tik talker I'm not. absolved here okay I just want to say. you can't attack them because also look. at the age difference here attack I mean. the ticktockers I think they're still. much younger in experienc. and like overall like worldwide. experience of meeting people and kind of. cultivating relation old are you I'm 21. okay I'm not that much older than them.

but I'm okay I'm 22 um I'm of the same. generation I feel like we have like a. lot of similar experiences because of. that um but our generation is kind of. starved for um a voice of. accountability uh I think that a lot of. women in our generation and the. Millennials are told that like men are. the problem they should you know throw. vitri all at men and problems in modern.

dating are all their. fault and we're not looking at like ways. that we could improve this. situation and if I wanted to get. specific I mean like women need to be. more exclusive about who they have sex. with in fact like uh they shouldn't be. having sex sex before marriage in my. opinion that if and if we're going to. keep going with the most controversial. dating take that is mine I think I think. that would be a turnoff for a man though.

I don't think they would stay with me if. I said I wanted to wait until marriage. it depends on the man I think that if. he's just in it for sex then obviously. it's a turn off it depends on what he's. looking for if a man is looking for a. serious relationship and he's. marriage-minded. then what's a year 2 years maybe of. waiting compared to a lifetime yeah I. agree for the most part but also I think. like like being physical with somebody.

is also like for me a big part in a. relationship as well so I feel like it. is a big part I just think it's one. that's only for marriage okay Rachel can. I have you scoot your microphone to your. right. yeah all right so we have uh Mark likes. Brey thank you for the 50 man hi Brey. and Rachel Brey I had a super good. pickup line but then I thought gosh. she's so pretty and I.

forgot uh any chance I could turn that L. into a w and oh [ __ ] hold on damn said. go on an e any chance I could turn that. L into a w and could get you to go on an. e coffee date with me if I promise to. not forget your birthday hello well hi. Mark um answer sure when. she is down thank you Mark for that. appreciate it um did you get a response. no I think he knows I've been friends. with them since kindergarten Lauren any.

luck on your ends wow they're so fake. they didn't any of them all right I'm. just going to say wow F I know literally. wow okay dying and they respond I'll. read this while it's up nobody important. thank you for the 50 Brian your gold. sending my resume hey thank you man I. suppose I'll check my email after the uh. show um okay so your most controversial. dating take is just remind me what is it. again I don't think that any women. should be having premarital sex if.

they're trying to find a serious. long-term monogamous. relationship do you marriage I mean but. do you think having premarital sex. precludes you from having I I don't. suspect that's your position but do you. think it precludes women from being able. to get a long-term relationship or. marriage. it well it depends on um the level of. discernment they have I mean if you're. in a long-term monogamous relationship.

where you're having premarital sex then. you know that's certainly possible but I. think your relationship can only succeed. in spite of that um it delays commitment. from men what is I mean essentially I'm. I'm not saying that sex is the only. thing that women can offer but that is a. huge thing uh that you're just giving up. before there's been any sign of. commitment from a man mhm uh it I mean. essentially like not having premarital. sex incentivizes a man to commit to you.

in a huge way it shouldn't be the only. incentive certainly sure are you. religious are you Christian or I'm. Catholic yeah Catholic okay I mean that. certainly makes sense within a in a. religious context but I also think it. makes sense in a secular one sure I. agree with you um however I think. the dating landscape as it is currently. uh you know I think Mo definitely most. people are not waiting until marriage. yeah so they aren't y I mean what what.

is the term uh the the genie is out of. the bottle I mean not for individuals I. mean individuals can make whatever. choices they want and you know if you've. had premarital sex that doesn't uh. prevent you from making the choice to. wait with a certain person as well but. it is proven that like with the number. of sexual partners that a woman has. before marriage it exponentially. increases the likelihood of.

divorce no you're right the more even. with just one partner and two like low. body counts yeah well the Yeah the more. premarital sexual partners you have the. greater likelihood of reporting. relationship dissatisfaction the higher. likelihood of infidelity higher. likelihood of divorce so I'm not like a. statistician or whatever I just I done. studies on it they've definitely done. studies on that but you know I think the. thing is is that women control access to. sex so women dictate whether there is a.

hookup culture or not yeah so while men. to some degree and really it's the top. tier of men the top 10 top 20% of men to. some degree obviously play into it men. obvious or men will obviously welcome. easy access to sex however at the end of. the day women are the ones who decide. when sex happens. yeah so if we want to see us straying. away from a hookup. culture women are going to have to lead. the charge on that I think men perhaps.

have some if you're if you want to be. really tradcon you can say men have some. role in terms of being leaders in that. realm but the difference is is men have. different sexual strategies so and this. is on a biological evolutionary level so. men's sexual strategy is to basically. spread the seed we can. impregnate 30 women in a month whereas. as a woman you can only get pregnant in. that last nine months right so women's. sexual strategy is get the best man that.

you can get whereas men it's sleep with. as many women as you can get in terms of. a sexual strategy now in terms of H. having children obviously men are going. to want to have you know want to be. there to raise the child but that's a. different conversation um so uh but the. way the dating landscape is is that men. are not really incentivized to commit. because women will have sex with a dude. on the first second third.

date yeah and I don't necessarily think. that's well I don't think that's. necessarily wrong but that would explain. where we find ourselves with hook hookup. culture and I don't think men or women. are particularly satisfied with the. status quo no they're not um I don't. think they're willing to admit maybe the. reasons why they're not satisfied with. the status quo of dating right now. because it requires them to look at. their own behavior does anyone on this. side of the table would like to say.

anything Jesus Christ no all right I. just sorry I just um think like if you. are like in a relationship you're not. married yet or but if you think that. you're going to be with that person like. forever I don't see like what's think. that about a lot of harm what's the harm. in like having sex before marriage you. can think that you're going to be with a. lot of different people forever and you.

can't just go off of emotions like they. can be very deceiving and you know even. loving someone can't always last. forever uh super ched. $999.99 thank you man a woman decides. when sex happens but a man decides who. he marries a man Peaks later in life. financially while a woman peaks in her. early 20s so woman need to be aware of. what they do early in their life and.

really think about marriage earlier on. yeah yo hm thank you for the uh big $100. Super Chat really appreciate it man um. okay so let me ask a question related to. this um how long do you guys wait until. you have sex with someone do you have a. three date rule just kind of feeling it. out could be the first night there's no. rule for me but like definitely not like. soon like you know like. months yeah I agree with that I'd say.

like when the time feels right but. definitely not within the first like few. times we're hanging out okay what about. you well personally I have like it's. like my own sort of role that I guess. like the next person that I do have sex. with will probably like be my boyfriend. like I'd be in a relationship with them. just because for me like sex is. obviously like very personal like it's. an intimate thing to do with some oh. it's an intimate thing to do with. someone so you know that's just my own. preference though like to each their own.

but like for me if I was to have sex. with someone it would have to be the. next person that I'm in a relationship. with okay next person you're so you. would want to because of what you. currently want would you want to. wait um honestly like in my opinion it's. not like a big thing for for me like. it's it's not like when I meet someone. that's not like the first thing that I'm. thinking like I think that emotional. intimacy is something that you build. with someone and so therefore like when. I'm in a relationship like that would be.

something for me and my partner to. discuss figure out like going through. the relationship so you mean discuss. having sex yeah or like you know just. what like like it's I guess boundaries. like what comfortable with like moving. forward I mean like cuz there's a. difference when you first start dating. someone versus like you've been dating. for months or years and obviously it's. like it's. boundaries okay um so you two said kind. of wait a while or yeah well until it.

like feels right obviously but like not. soon like not soon I think there are. hazards in serial monogamy as well. though like if you're in a bunch of uh. exclusive monogamous relationships. whether they're short or longterm and. you have sex with each of those people. because you're in a relationship I don't. think that standard really works um. because it still is like inhibiting your. ability to pair bond in the future so. whether you're only having sex with.

people that you're official with or. you're hooking up with strangers it's. equally inhibiting your ability to pair. bond with a you know forever lifetime. partner in fact maybe the serial. monogamy is worse because your emotions. are far more involved with each breakup. okay so you said the while I've only. dated two people honestly and like so. I'm only. 18 okay you've only dated two people and.

you've only hooked up with two. people yeah what what do you mean by. hookup like oh no I've had sex with two. people okay but hook up what about you. uh. six six hookups yeah well what do you. consider hookups SE yeah six one one. just one one okay what is the question. yeah so the original question was is how. long do you think you should wait until. having sex I think it just depends on. the Vibes like three date rule like no I.

don't have a rule I'll [ __ ] on the first. date okay you'll [ __ ] on the first dat. for sure what are you trying to do let's. go. okay I would say like a three date rule. but really. vibes okay so I've been like waiting a. really long time to the point where no. one else is willing to wait that long um. so yeah wait so okay um can you expand. on that you've been waiting a really.

long time what does that mean yeah like. I just really like thoroughly want to. get to know someone but. um yeah I think they are kind of. thinking that maybe you know eventually. like five dates in or something it's. going to happen but I'm like really. waiting until I feel a really strong. connection with someone and and I know. that they feel that connection with me. emotionally um and that even though I've. felt that and thought that they were. feeling the same thing eventually when I. keep saying like oh but I just want to.

wait a little bit more um then they'll. all just um wait. so you said it's been a while since the. last time you've it's been a while how. long are we talking here over a year. okay I mean I was thinking longer than. that but over a year but yeah before. that it was like over a year so there. was wait before so there was a year and. then there was a guy and then yeah like. I really don't mind it because I I do.

just value yeah I don't okay so how you. said the guys thinking oh it's going to. be five dates but it's going to be. longer than that yeah like I don't have. like a time frame on it it's just when I. feel comfortable when you feel. comfortable okay and remind me you said. said that you lost your. virginity it was like a one night stand. yeah okay that I mean that confuses me a. little bit because on one hand you.

you're now at you said you're. 24 yeah but like now that I've. experienced both one night stands and a. relationship I definitely prefer a. relationship sure I'll come back to that. Chambers super chated. $99.99 I apologize Brian Jessica is the. 10 out of 10 at 34 years old that these. only fans Superstars pretend to be my. bad Jessica is out of their leaks and. she doesn't have lip injections where's.

Jessica I'm still confused. um I am Jessica is the 10 out of 10 at. 30 who's wait maybe there's no one 34. here wait Jessica Jessica 34 who's. Jessica though trying to get with oh his. girlfriend. who doesn't have lip injections Nicollet. why are you calling me out these are. expensive so yes how expensive are they. they're 700 each has has anyone else.

here ever had lip injections no I have. you have yeah I only got half a syringe. though so it's like syr I feel like my. lips look are we still talking about. boat TOS what are you heroin. no of the lip filler okay um yo Aaron. thank you man I appreciate it okay. so you were talking about how [ __ ] it. was a we were on a really good point I I. remember kind of the general sense of it.

so do you recall where you left off um. well I was talking about how I like. haven't gotten laid in a while because. I'm like waiting for an emotional. connection oh one question so you said. it's been a year and then there was a. guy and then before that it was a year. or two so how long were you dating that. guy most recently um it was like. uh probably like a month and a half so. it wasn't like the longest period of. time but I just really trusted him and I. felt like a strong.

connection okay so you felt a strong. connection uh and how long did you wait. to have sex with him how many like how. many dates uh maybe like six six dates. or seven okay a month and a half I mean. so you guys had sex and then he dumped. you cuz I mean six or seven dates that. can take a month and a half yeah it was. like not immediately after but I do. think he was kind of um yeah like he he. was waiting for it yeah yikes okay yeah.

guys do that um so how many times did. you guys H hook up uh like twice twice. and did you end it or did he end it um. well he started pulling away and I when. someone starts pulling away I don't want. someone to have to tell me twice that. they're not interested so it's not like. I was going to chase. he started pulling away how so like just. you know you can tell when someone's. less interested the messages get less. frequent there's less enthusiasm so you. were matching the energy.

yeah I mean so what happened it just was. it a ghost it wasn't a ghost it was just. was there at any point of like he said. or you said I no longer want to see you. anymore it we never had an explicit. conversation which you know that's not. the best thing either but I'm also kind. of a proponent like I don't think that. like I I I don't always need to be like. broken up with to like get the hint that.

someone's no longer interested in. me you know are you texting the guy yeah. cuz you didn't respond so I'm saying oh. you're clearing it up okay. so continue yeah I just um I don't you. said you don't need feel the need to. have a breakup. wer officially dating like I was bummed. of course um hurt but how do you know he. didn't just get busy or something I. guess you know that's a possibility it's.

just kind of unlikely what if he. detected that he thought you were. pulling away I so I don't think that's. true in this scenario I do think that is. something that's possible with like. dating I think that um you know. sometimes even after like a first date. when neither of you send that initial. like I had a good time message like. you're both kind of left wondering like. oh like how did they feel but you're. both kind of not willing to be. vulnerable and say something but yeah so.

the last message between one of you was. something just like yeah it was just. like something mundane like and then you. never talked again yeah and you waited. six dates and you hooked up. twice I mean don't you. think the I mean it seemed like you're. just kind. of you said you didn't want to Chase but. I mean. like why like at Le to me it's like why. not just at least seek hey do you want. to hang out again like yeah that.

probably left you on red or the better. thing to do. but because I from the guys perspective. a lot of guys will feel and look some. guys will wait it could it sort of. excuse me it could have certainly been. the case that. he he just wanted to he was like okay. fine I'll wait whatever he hit it twice. and he was like okay whatever moving on. was that was that kind of the impression. you got up front or did he seem like.

actually serious like he seemed serious. but looking back on it I definitely. think that um I could have been a little. bit more. what you could have been more what well. I think um I was just feeling a little. insecure about how long it had been. since i' like hooked up with someone. because I saw this um meme that was it. was coming up on New Year's and it was. like a Spotify wrapped Meme and it was. like you've had sex with zero people.

this year you [ __ ] loser and so I was. kind of what so okay you were insecure. because you thought the sex was bad no. no I was insecure before we had sex. because I it been a while maybe nerves. okay. so cuz. I think when it comes to dating a lot of. guys feel that we have to do a lot of. The Upfront work when it comes to. building a relationship and I mean I you.

know I don't know the details of what. happened with this guy but often times a. lot falls on us in terms of initiative. early on we probably did he take the. initiative asking you out on. dates how did you guys match um on on. dating app or in person it was on hinge. on hinge okay did he match match you or. did you match him I think he matched me. did he send the first message um I think. he said something and then I messaged. back like hey okay did he did you ask.

for the date or did he ask for the date. uh he did he did did he ask for your. number or did you ask for his number um. probably him probably him okay did he. set up the. date probably okay when on the date did. he pay for the date mhm did he pay for. all the other subsequent dates um like. first two or three first two or three. okay um did he lead the interaction on. after that point so example like at some. point he probably said do you want to. come back to my place I don't know if it. was on the first date second date third.

date but did he lead from there yeah. okay so on your second date did he plan. that one uh Second Date second second. hangout yeah did he plan the third one. it might have been more Mutual super. chatted. $99.99 this just means you need to build. your personality your looks will only. get you so far post peanut is a real. thing also I miss Chase bring my boy. back um okay so third date you said it.

it was a bit Mutual um by the way hm. thank you man yeah uh chase me and Chase. are talking we're going to get them on. pretty soon so stay tuned for that okay. so third date um when who went for the. first kiss was it him or you him he went. for the first kiss what about moving. things forward sexually was it him or. you him him okay I assume you maybe. rejected him the first few times correct. how many times did you turn him down um. like what date did he kiss you on first. date second date third date maybe third.

third date did you at any point did you. turn turn him down for the kiss um no. okay so first kiss fine but uh the first. move he made to try to move things. forward sexually you turned that down. right yeah second move turn down yeah I. think yeah so. what what happens in those situations is. and I think women don't realize this we. as men we really pretty much I know you. guys hang out with clicks there's this. term in video games called carrying so.

when you carry someone in a video game. um when you carry someone in a video. game you basically they suck at the. video game you have to do all the work. and you bring them to the win that's how. men feel most men feel when it comes to. courtship with women we have to do. everything so women have the privilege. of not really acknowledging or knowing. all the work that goes into actually. going from matching with you on the. dating app or meeting you all the way to. sex and then moving forward from that.

there's dozens if not hundreds of. potential points of rejection so it. could be you know if you go if you ask. her out too soon some girls might say oh. let's talk a bit longer okay cool let's. talk more let's talk more getting the. number we have to there's a lot of. logistical steps going all the way from. first meeting you to sleeping with you. that we as men take care of that women. don't really do or think about so him. pulling back is just him being like well. I've been carrying you this.

is how about you put in a little. initiative after a period of time if you. aren't starting to put in mutual effort. and meeting. him then guys are going to be like. either she's just not interested or I'm. [ __ ] tired of carrying this Rel. reltionship. so at least in my experience a lot of. times when these guys hook up with you. and. then they don't they don't want to see.

you again maybe it's because they're. dogs and they just wanted to hit it or. it's just like wow that was a lot of. work she's not putting in any Mutual. effort like if all you're offering to a. guy is sex that's all that they're going. to. want yeah no I definitely I think for. like first two dates I definitely kind. of take the back burner because I kind. of want to see that someone's invested a. little bit because if they're not going. to be then I assume that they're doing.

what they did for me for hundreds of. women and then um it's also like I could. find someone who would plan the first. and second date easily sure um I'd say. third date is when I try to start kind. of chipping in a little bit more like. planning it paying for my share um. yeah yeah but just to perhaps at least. attempt to explain what was going on. there is like I said guys have this. feeling of wow I'm doing all the work.

and then like if the girl doesn't really. start like putting an effort then so you. said he started pulling back that's just. probably him being. like when is she going to contribute to. the to us building building a. relationship teamwork yeah so what does. that look like then I'll get to that so. men are typically expected in terms of. courting women men are typically. expected to ask you out pay for the date.

set up the date plan the date and then. you know go for the first kiss move. things forward handle everything so if. if that's what men are expected to do in. the early stages of building a. relationship what are women expected to. do Brey go ahead. uh show them affection turn tilt the. show them affection and I don't know I. feel like when you date someone you're. also like a friend like they're.

attracted to you but they're also as a. as a friend I don't. know I think you should be responsive. and if you actually like a guy you. should respond and put in the effort as. well I don't think the guys should just. be the only ones just to put in every. all the effort okay this reminds me of a. say there's a saying right now social. media and my friend literally said this. to me like yesterday or this morning or. something but it's um like when it only. works out better when a guy is actually.

more obsessed than the girl and like. that's but okay but that like that's. what made me like you talking about like. doing all the work putting in all the. effort like that makes me think it. relates that situation of like a guy. liking a girl more and putting in that. effort to see whether or not she's going. to I guess accept you know except the. date like. accept moving forward with the. relationship and that's what I was just. thinking as a guy you need not be. obsessed with a girl to acknowledge that.

if you want to get anywhere with women. you're going to have to carry you're. going to have to take on the burden of. initiative because women don't. really approach guys they don't hit on. guys the way that men approach women. because as women you can kind of just. sit there either on Instagram dating. apps or in person men will come to you. women don't really be hidden on guys. like that yes Brian I think pursuing a.

woman who is feminine feminine and. pleasant and kind and smart isn't a. burden it should actually be something. that a man enjoys. doing and that's a good thing that men. carry as as you're saying it's a good. thing that they're responsible for. showing uh their interest very strongly. and. pursuing well I mean this almost comes. back to our discussion about. vulnerability because you just expect. men to just handle everything and we're.

just supposed to be satisfied with your. lack of enthusiasm and your lack of. effort in building a relation I lack of. enthusi enthusiasm in response I mean. like if a woman is uh you know. interested back obviously she should. show that. but that doesn't mean she should start. like opening doors for him or something. ridiculous that's not what I'm saying. that's not what I'm saying but men there. there is this certain fatigue of dating.

where we feel like we always have to be. the one initi initiating setting up the. date making the first move like I mean I. can ask you all have. you of all the First Dates voice craft. of all the First Dates you've ever been. on have you ever asked a guy out or. sorry let let me rephrase that of all. the first dates that you've ever been. on more often than not was it the guy. who made the move or was it you the guy.

gu I feel like that's a guy's job I have. guy you want go. out I guess probably the guy but I mean. I don't really go on like dates like I. think hanging out with a GU that's. hanging out dates let's use those. synonymously okay um I feel like it's. been like half and half. yeah okay the guy the guy yeah the guy. um I was never asked out on a date. before my current about with your. boyfriend yeah he all super ched $100.

thank you man I appreciate it would. about you uh the guy okay. so word that's how it should be. yeah I feel like you're being. contradictory because you say like guys. don't like masculine women who you know. go up to guys ask them out I think it's. emasculating to be the the pursuer of a. man I agree you're supposed to let him. take that role no lead Ro that's a fair. point but I think there is to some.

degree a fatigue that men experience. when it comes to always having to be the. one that makes the first move and always. initiates like and it it that will be. relieved Martin super ched $100 that's. all if that's all you bring in this I'm. a different animal here's my proposition. private jet fly you and your hottest. girlfriend to me you'll have to sign an. NDA with auto T that kicks in after our.

business is complete fly You Back by the. way the screen nails they're for free. they were for a movie premiere uh Auto T. trro that stands for temporary. restraining order is that like Jeffrey. Epstein the [ __ ] yo first off Mar qu. that's uh his name is marquavius Martin. he owns uh like a 100 Quiznos so he's. like really successful the person that. just chatted Mar marqu can you pull it.

up Carson is it actually him yeah his. name is marquavius Martin he's like a. entrepreneur like Quiznos gangster so. cool yeah so uh you have to sign a. non-disclosure agreement with an. automatic temporary restraining order um. so he's going to get a trro on you. because. because he's the [ __ ] he's the top. G okay well depend reactions Carson. reactions um huh I said where are we. going uh does he have a private you can. hide at.

Carson who knows okay do you take him up. on his offer yes I do okay I would love. that uh marquavius her DMS are open okay. so where were we we. were oh yeah I said that you would. relieve that fatigue in Ben. okay but like if here's the thing right. if sex is all you're bringing to the. relationship that's not going to be. enough to keep a guy who said that's all. that we're bringing I think that would.

actually cause him to stop pursuing you. as. strongly you're just waving sex in front. of him like a dog treat or something I. feel like Mary is the outliar like. you're I think you're the only virgin at. the table so yeah most people you're AG. I'm a virgin aren't virgins just kidding. just kidding so I feel like you're like. a small. percentage. yes word okay so Sarah I want to bring.

it back to just your thing really quick. here. so you said you're. waiting yeah you want to wait how long. do you want to wait um for your next guy. there's no like time it's just when I. feel comfortable sure okay so. however how do you. reconcile you said you've had one night. stands yeah how many one night stands. have you had uh three and three one. night stands well actually it wasn't one. night stands just like except for you.

know the first one um it was like just. casual like friends with that yeah could. let's say one night stands kind of means. like you hooked up once and that was it. there can certainly be situations where. you hook up immediately but then you. continue hooking up it could be casual. it could be friends with benefit so. let's say how many casual. quick encounters have you had um with. new guys three oh three total okay um. wait multiply by three and that's the.

real number so nine no okay so the thing. with that yeah I don't know like I find. obsession with body count to be. interesting for like some reasons that. we've talked about before because it's. like how about you instead of multi Ming. the number by three you like divide it. by the number of. like opportunities you've had and like. advances like women have infinite. opportunities T yeah that's that's the.

thing then like instead of focusing on. body count I feel like we should focus. on like body. ratio you mean how many dudes you've. turned down I mean if you've had sex. with like a thousand men and you could. have had sex with like 10,000 it doesn't. really matter your body count is still. like astronomically High and men should. take note of that and avoid you. facts but okay you you said you've had. like three casual Partners or whatever. um but you're.

waiting so like how do you reconcile. that um I just figure you know I was in. college I was still you know just young. and uh now I just know what I want more. okay and did you have no you have only. had had one partner right um have any of. anyone else here had like a one night. stand one night stand no okay. net what what are you talking about no I. I'll hit them up after what do you mean.

you they always come back they always. come back okay. um word word. um wait sorry hold on I'm looking for. something okay I can't find it whatever. um so you mentioned body count. um so you do you we we'll talk about. body count really quick um do you have. like a uh an issue with the body count. thing like for example do you have an. issue and we'll go around the table on. this um and we'll we'll start with you.

then we'll go around do you have an. issue with men because it's kind. of I think it's well known men prefer. women with a low body count do you do. you think that's problematic do you have. an issue with that um I don't I think. Everyone's entitled to their own. opinions um sure I understand from like. you know a health standpoint like if. you're having safe sex like that's. important too but also just from like a. safety standpoint not wanting your. partner to have slept with like 500.

people before you sure um yeah I think. everyone's just entitled to their. opinion in that realm okay what about. you I think it's closer to M I think it. really just depends on the person. but I think body count isn't really I. think body body count really isn't that. important like if youve slept with one. person or 20 people I think it doesn't. really matter and the reason I say that. is because it's like well people can. sleep around or they cannot but I feel.

like if sex isn't everything then why. does it matter how many people you've. slept with well we've already addressed. this wait wait let's just let's let all. the girls go then you can go go ahead. Nicollet I think it doesn't matter what. your body count is I think it's pretty. like immature what's your body. count um I'm not sure. give us a range 100 plus no I've had SE. Five Guys in the last year the. restaurant chain H what. what isn't that you have like a food.

thing or something like a a food. fetish Jerry. oh all right um okay you said you've had. sex with Five Guys in the past year yeah. like I don't like my body count isn't. that high but even if it were like I. don't think that has anything to do with. selfworth not I mean no but it's a. criteria with which a man may want to. disqualify you if you have a high body. count or you're promiscuous then we were. never meant to be and I'll just go find.

somebody else fair enough but a lot of. men are you are well a lot of men are. going to have an issue with it most men. are like she's hot she's successful she. does well with her life like men don't. really care if you're successful I'm 36. and I'm telling you they don't care if. you're successful they sound like the. wrong type of man then okay here we'll. come back to that go ahead um your. thoughts on body count would it be do. you think it's wrong or like insecure. for a guy to care about a woman's body.

count like I could see why they care but. then again I do think it's not like a. huge deal just because I think. especially like generational wise like. there are a lot of people out there that. are like having sex hooking up with. people then again it depends on the. person. um I mean like for me it would just be. something I'd have to like process I. think as someone who M Martin super ch00.

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appreciate it do you have a response to. him why would I need wait what is it. called a TR why I want to know the. reason why I would need that so you. don't slash his tires and why would I do. that you can't know until you go to his. house I'll think about it. I okay um you were saying um body count. is it insecure or do you think it's lame. or whatever if a dude cares about a. girl's body.

count I don't think it's lame. considering like I have a lot of guy. friends and I see where they come from. when they say that but then again in my. opinion I don't think that someone. should be I guess like controlling or. dominating enough to justify like oh. like if having a high body count mean. like makes you less of value of a woman. sure does that makes any. sense oh oh Dragon Stalin 1,1 super.

chated. $100 body count matters because if you. have 10 or more male sexual partners. your probability of divorce is almost. 90% after 10 years and men lose almost. every time from. divorce nice word it's true. CDC did a study on that [ __ ] what I. wanted our dog what's up what's up um I. was going to say I kind of do care cuz. personally I wouldn't want to be with a. guy who has been with like 30 plus girls.

you know and then expect me to have zero. you know I think it should be oh so. you're talking about the double standard. yeah okay I think remove the double. standard from it do you have an issue if. a guy generally speaking maybe he. doesn't have a high body count himself. or well he does but but if he cares. about mine huh but if he cares about. mine he cares about yours or just girls. in general like doesn't want the data. girl with a high body count I respect. that okay sure yeah yeah if a man.

doesn't want a woman that has a high. body count I respect that okay all. right good times good times wait did you. did everyone reveal their body. count wait here here's a different. question should body count matter show. of hands should body count matter. yes or no yes or no so yes raise your. hand if body count should matter okay we. have two ISS here body count should. matter oh oh Super Chat.

$100 every 30 years old thinks their 18. years old self was dumb but 18 years. olds still think they have it figured. out irony ladies do you think posting. provocative piics is going to affect who. you attract Brey. what you got to say Brey maybe I don't. know I haven't had an issue with it I. think it's different when you're posting. pictures like I post pictures in. swimsuits um I think it's different when.

you're Haram getting with people rather. than posting photos in bikinis I don't. see anything wrong with posting pictures. in bikinis but that's just my. opinion oh my God the chat is on fire. .99 like I said said before you girls. choose who you have sex with but men. choose who they marry body count factors. into the decision men make when choosing. a wife like money factors in when a wife. agrees to get married you want a high.

valued man then be. valuable yeah I think it's like telling. that the people at the table who say a. body count doesn't matter are the ones. with the highest body. counts what's your body count um into. the mic like. 22 okay. Kiki a circle what's your body. count hello okay [ __ ] quiet. [ __ ] just you huh hers is just. you I her Chastity is intact she's a.

virgin okay Lauren what about oh you. said one did you oh two two six I do not. reveal I I don't reveal that zero Sarah. seven seven okay well whatever it is. multiply by three and that's number 0. time three is zero baby okay yes so. um did you want to come in on something. I feel like you had something you wanted. to add to this um well one of the super.

chats said it already but yeah um I. don't really take the attitude of Body. Count not mattering seriously because. it's statistically proven that it. inhibits your ability to pair bond with. someone longterm and therefore like not. get divorced if you have uh a high body. count or even uh any body count uh. whatsoever before getting married it. exponentially increases with each person. that you have sex with before marriage.

so it does matter in very practical. terms okay I have a question for those. who'd say that body count don't doesn't. matter have you ever met a girl who have. a very high body count and you've never. called her a [ __ ] you never called or. [ __ ] you never called her any other name. you're just like go girl get it get all. that slurp slurp have I ever met girl. like say that to their friends yeah Walt. mosha super chated.

$100 the answer to the carrying SL. fatigue question depends on her. receptiveness interest and enthusiasm to. his kissing touching manhandling. overtures well no I don't like to call. girls [ __ ] and. like I I'm like all for women like I'm. not like you don't have to say it don't. you think it but sometimes you never. thought about that you don't have to say. it out of your your mouth but you've. never thought that way about a woman who. just Loosely loose use her body like.

that no I feel like I would be more. likely to call someone that if they're. like a home recer but if you're just it. doesn't matter but you said home recer. right if you're single and the other. person you're hooking up with single if. you're being responsible and getting. tested in between partners and and just. minding your business I don't think it. really matters your body your choice I. know I don't care about the situation. I'm like have you ever said that about a. girl it doesn't matter if she was a home. wrecker or not have you ever thought. that about a girl who gone through and.

rack up that many bodies doing this have. you thought that about a girl doing. what racking up a whole bunch of bodies. whether that be through home wrecking or. not honest I don't pay attention to what. other who like others don't care I. didn't know I I asked you specifically. have you thought or said anything about. about these girls probably okay so why. why wouldn't you think a man would I. don't really care what they think. honestly okay well okay if a man doesn't. want to if you feel that way about these. girls why would a man want that same.

reputation of having that girl with them. too I just answered that question to. like make you happy I don't really like. think of girls like that like I don't be. like oh that's [ __ ] so you said that to. make me happy well cuz you wouldn't take. my answer for an aners I'm like God let. me I know because it's not true. you okay you like I mean I. don't You' never met a nasty you've. never met a nasty girl doing all your. stuff never yeah of course but I'm more. likely to call her a [ __ ] to be honest.

okay so I'm not going to lie I was when. I was back in high school I did grow up. in a very you know conservative. traditional household so um I was going. to say what was it going to say I. totally forgot what was the question. again I L I think you're going to say. that you want to is. yeah that's right I have judged people. and thought about it and like oh yes. she's a hoe but now like with the job I. do I feel like that's I feel like that's. judgmental and as I've gotten older I've. just realized that you shouldn't judge.

people okay but we're this is from your. mind but from a man's mind a Man how he. looks into the world how he steps out to. the world it it is usually with respect. and wanting leadership why would you. listen to someone who has a a woman who. doesn't care or hold her own. self-respect it just makes sense from a. a guy's perspective and everyone thinks. college is wild military show me a lot. of that wildness [ __ ] too if I thought. this way about those girls oh my God why.

would anyone want a TA 50 girl for a. wife like this is a girl who literally. would go around collecting you know gear. from the military as like a a freaking. souvenir why would that is like why. would any guy want to marry her I feel. like if you're going around thinking. these girls are like what like um [ __ ]. and [ __ ] I think you need to love. yourself more and just like focus on. yourself better what they're doing if. these girls are going around collecting. souvenirs as like a notch on their belt. why would any man want to you know carry.

that on as as far as like the show oh my. God I got the baddest [ __ ] she done. suck this many do you think that's. something to be proud of I mean cucks do. exist men love [ __ ] like you're kind of. like it's going in one and you're out. the other cuz like I don't have problem. they love but they going to marry them l. has lud Chris has told us this so many. times all right they love the hoes but. they won't marry them they will not did. you say lud Chris everyone deserves not. they will not give you they they say it.

specifically love the hoes we love you. guys but they won't marry you they won't. give you that pick and fence and the. ones that do come on you you only with. them for the money not everyone deserves. love and everyone makes mistakes and I. feel like well if you everyone deserves. love Mo most people you know most if. you're not like a horrible person not. going around like like killing people or. like Kim. J I don't know the North Korean. dictator well I'm in the industry and.

I've been in the industry for a few. years now and a lot of the successful. porn stars a lot of the successful porn. stars are married they have kids and. like it doesn't you can be successful at. one porn or having a marriage and you. can't have both yes you can I know. people who you can't have both. successful how are you going to say. you're a virgin Mary over here like I. know you don't think there's a. reputation you don't know what it's like. to be married and have children no but I.

know what it's like to be in the. industry like and not have a problem and. do you think a lot of people listen to. those people from that industry as far. as like where to get marriage advice. from absolutely shouldn't no family. advice from how to raise kids well. they're not watching us for that. reason okay if you think think that's. the normal you know let's get our it's. not normal but it's like we're not. finding like we're not having a hard. time it's not okay this is not shame. this is not really to shame it's more. like accepting accountability and your. role and the outcomes of what you.

possibly get because you did certain. things I don't know why that is so hard. to well maybe some guys like wouldn't. want to date a woman who is in the. military you know you could say that. about yeah I I know that there's a lot. of guys I don't date because they. haven't been into the military because. they like [ __ ] but I'm like when it. comes to a woman and a man what a man. values when he walks outside the door. has nothing to do with oh my God you. know I don't know what the [ __ ] women. think about when they when they step. outside the the house but I know when it.

comes to a man it has to do with respect. and people look up to them and if they. can you know if they are someone they. can take direction from and learn from. no one's going to look at a man who. doesn't have a wife that he cannot. control a wife who just [ __ ] sleeps. around it just doesn't happen unless you. are in an industry where that happens. and that's considered normal but that is. not the normal you can't bring your. industry into the outside world and. think that everyone's going to live like. that and be okay with that it's it's. it's just asine to think that way it.

really is I think what really pisses. people off uh is that you're expecting. Society to change and become more. enlightened to accept your lifestyle and. modern values but no one has to to adapt. to your Lifestyles no I'm not trying to. change change anyone if I'm going to. date someone I'm not going to change. myself or change them they're going to. accept me and I'm going to accept them. and that's going to be it and it's like. I don't get why that's so hard to. understand not who you date but like. when we brought up you know if you had.

kids who got bullied because imaginary. porn on the Internet like you're. expecting Society to change its views on. sex work when like well I mean I don't. think bullying is right that doesn't. really take account. trying to change society to like not bul. it's not bullying though it's just. accepting that you have you're going to. live with certain consequences whether. whether or not you like how other people. perceive you there that's just going to.

be it I have to be perceived the way. that I am and I I just have to live with. that I think you're making a lot said if. I say hi to him he'll donate $100 hi. Cojack I remember you from my. lives a legally binding contract by the. way you're making a lot of and shouldn't. statements about Society but you don't. want Society to make should and. shouldn't statements about your actions. that's hypocritical I wouldn't have made. it this long in the industry if I cared. what people think so like I just you.

just said you think that Society. shouldn't you're right in your industry. you're right frown upon sex work to the. point where if you had kids they'd be. bullied because of your history you do. think that Society should change do you. want kids by the. way um um I don't know know if I met. someone like really amazing sure and if. they wanted them but the whole like kids. bullying thing like kids are going to. get bullied inevitably like you could. say like kids are going to get bullied. because of your genetics like that doing.

porn the same thing no but like like. like if we're thinking about like. protecting our kids from getting bullied. like oh if I have like a weird nose and. I have a kid then it might have a weird. nose like that's not a choice though. doing porn is a choice the the. difference there is I mean kids are. [ __ ] brutal especially like. 13-year-old boys they're going to be. like this is the thing these. anti-bullying campaigns need to stop oh. you have you've done nothing but damage. to society so it's okay to make people. feel like [ __ ] about themselves and.

Bully them and say oh you're ugly oh. you're this think I'm literally right. I'm literally right but what if it's not. their fault like what if someone has. like really this is how kids learn to. socialize this is how Society is always. formed I feel like Mary was bullied as a. child but we can't. literally everyone was bullied and has. been a bully yeah some more than others. are you it was Mary bullied you think I. don't know I'm getting like a she gives. me like The Vibes of like I was bullied.

as a child so now I want to bully people. like bullied people I was also bullied. it's a thing that a lot of kids do. you're never you don't need to act. holier than now kids are always going to. normalized has been around forever you. can't get rid of it it helps like and if. you care so much about need to be. bullied so they don't end up being FES. when they grow up what the fu wait yo. Rachel confirm or deny oh God were you. like a vicious bully I was bullied come.

that okay was Brey the bully no Brey the. bully that was your nickname I was a. little bit feisty when I was younger it. was Lauren wasn't it major bully. I so the thing the difference is though. to Mary's point when it comes to. bullying you did say yes Bullying. happens regardless however if you've. engaged in sex work I was saying. 13-year-old kids they're [ __ ] team. boys are [ __ ] brutal and they don't I. feel like when you're a young kid you. don't quite have developed the sense of.

empathy that you will develop as you. become an adult um not to say it's. impossible however they're going to be. like yo I saw your mom [ __ ] on the. internet I saw her suing a higher risk. for more bullying because of that so you. just got to be okay with the. consequences with it yeah the kids. didn't consent to the consequences of. your actions but they're her kids right. so but like so dot do dot I think you. guys are judging them very strongly on. the basis they're making their Bas of.

their choices the things that you their. choices not yours and I understand your. beliefs and how you feel but you know. honestly sitting here listening to you. guys kind of degrade them they. understand what industry they understand. their what they're doing but honestly I. don't think they see it that way and. that's totally fine and that's how the. rest of the world will see it cares what. the rest of the world okay then you. can't get mad if they bully your kid you. can't get mad I'm not mad I didn't say. anything about bu my I'll bully them. back I'll be like don't bully my kid at. least she's willing to accept she. understands but like to sit here and.

think that no one's going to bully your. kids think that you're not going to reap. any repercussions from your action going. to be tons okay then you just got to. accept it if they call you a harlot they. call you a harlot you can't do anything. about it exactly I don't think anyone. ever said anything about not accepting. that I what about your kid but when it. comes to your kid you're going to say. when it comes to your kid you're going. to say oh don't bully my kid don't bully. my kid don't bully my kid you can't sit. here and sit here and say that you can't. bully my kid based off of your actions.

your actions are literally on the. internet for the whole world to see. you're you're setting your kid up for. failure everyone's going to want to have. sleepover at our house that's no they. don't want to get groomed what the spicy. wait so Mary is your position. that you want to bring back [ __ ] shaming. is that your position oh yeah it never. went. away it never went away your response to. Mary being a proponent of [ __ ] shaming.

Brey I don't support that I don't think. you should be mean to anyone I think you. should mind man man [ __ ] that because. y'all don't y'all don't understand when. you get to my age and you see how people. happen such a [ __ ] in such a [ __ ]. you're going to wonder why you can't. find anybody 1,1 super chated $100 yes. it's their choices actions SL decisions. but you don't want to suffer the. consequences which is. delusional yo dragon's Talent thank you. man um I feel like you sound very jaded.

no it's the truth you guys are literally. [ __ ] up all the other women that come. behind you you don't think this is true. you don't think this is true back in the. day when there was bet girls black girls. who just shaking their ass you know how. you know how like embarrassing it is for. guys to come up to you and ask if you. can shake your ass like this because of. all these [ __ ] stereotypes they still. do that when I'm at my age you don't. think it's real you guys are literally. set you're making stereotypes for all. women and no one's putting you in your.

place like women back in the day used to. and that's why we shouldn't judge based. on because everyone's their own person. so we can't back in the day we weren't. having this problem we you saw people. get married it's obviously more common. now because of social media and only. fans and all of this but people were. like hoes in the 1800s you know what's. more common too women not getting. married women becoming more single. mothers too that's common as well well I. mean I don't think any of us are single. mothers here oh my god really stop.

thinking about you and just in general. in general okay well I'm talking about. right here right now in general in. general when it just comes to women and. their future prospects all right I'm. telling you this from just personal. experience from what other black girls. have done they've made it so that. anytime I go go do you even date black. girl do you even date white guys do you. date Ang who the [ __ ] thinks like that. when I look at a guy I'm like you know I. like you I think you're attracted the. last thing I want some guy to think is. that hey oh I wonder if this black girl.

does it like this or this girl does it. like that or she going to take me for. all my money that's what you guys don't. understand that's literally racist of. them to do that though it doesn't matter. if it's racist or not that is just. what's happening out there don't you. guys do you guys have any guy friends do. about it still be. keep what how you the whole thing about. you know be a lady in the street and a. freak of the bed y'all ever heard of. that yeah then why don't you guys act. that way cuz we don't want to we just. want to be sleds so now so when you call.

out for being a sled out in public do. you care about the the consequences that. come with that do you even want to. change that what I'm going be driving. away in my Mercedes like bye okay so. what about your daughters your future. daughters if you have any do you want. them being looked at how you guys are. looking at yourselves right now. obviously I don't condone it but like I. definitely say like whatever you're. comfortable with and I say like look if. your kid's bullying my kid because of. what I did online I feel like that's. screw maybe you should set an example so. that she wouldn't get bullied even if I. said an example it's people are still. going to get bullied so you think that. spreading your legs is something to be.

proud of y'all really think that as a. women why should our value be like our. kids like I don't plan on having kids I. don't think all women our value as women. is innately our ability to create and. sustain life as you're not harming any. live your life as long as you're not Hur. anyone. thank you appreciate it I'll get away. from Jessica the girl next to Brian's. left the attractive black woman is. speaking truth but hey Brian give a. shout out to Aaron and Jessica yo Aaron. Chambers thank you man uh yo big shout.

out to Aaron and Jessica or if we use. your celebrity couple name ASA thank you. man appreciate it um we're going to move. on from this we are going to play the. game where do you draw the line oh the. microphone what the [ __ ] that microphone. here push the microphone back that way. mine pull it pull it towards you yeah oh. no that that way closer there we go all. right we're going to play the game where. do you draw the line so there's two. different cards we.

have dip your toes which is the light. blue and then we have take the plunge. which is the dark blue so uh I'm going. to pass these out we're just going to do. the first three here we're going to do. boom and then that one's for Mary and. then if you guys can each take one pass. these along and uh the way we're going. to frame it. is well I'll go first and you you guys. have a. sense oh did am I okay good okay.

so how would you feel about dating. someone if they live with their. parents deal breaker red flag I'm 18 so. I don't have a comment what is it yeah. how how would you feel about dating. someone if they lived with their. parents um it depends and I know you. guys are young so maybe let's say like. when you're 25 oh okay um you know. honestly I'd rather them have their own. place yeah I agree sure wait what was.

the Bro the third time hello um but like. but that's expensive something in. general I mean I feel like it's not a. deal breaker though difference if you're. going to talk you got to talk into the. mic I don't think it's a deal breaker if. they live with their parents but. eventually they should get their place. eventually but because it's so expensive. right now I feel like it's it's okay I'd. be okay with it yeah I think even at my. age like once you even graduate college. a lot of people do end up living back. with their parents just because of um. like how much living on your own costs I. think eventually like when you're in a.

relationship obviously it's ideal to. move out of your parents house so it's. not a deal breaker nette would you dat. the guy. who lives with his parents um possibly. if I really liked him and maybe if it. was like some certain circumstance like. maybe he had to support his parents so. they like lived with him or maybe it was. temporary while he was I don't know. saving up for a house or something he. definitely has to have like a.

job yeah I would I would be okay with it. but they have to have like Direction and. um but yeah not everyone's dealt like. the same situations in life and I would. be. understanding I would not date a guy who. lives with his parents okay unless. you're saving up for a house or your. parents are you know retired and they. need someone looking after um them no. that's a red. flag yeah I I would date someone that. lives with their parents for I think for.

most men it's doesn't really matter I've. heard a saying it goes something along. it's a quote goes something along the. lines of women would rather sleep with a. guy who lives with his wife than a guy. who lives with his is. parents Nicollet confirm or deny you're. saying that girls would rather sleep. with a guy who lived with their wife. women would rather women would rather. sleep with a guy who lives with his wife.

than sleep with a guy who lives with his. parents I feel like that's probably true. I don't feel that way I've been cheated. on and like I'm really against it so. like sure but I do agree a lot of other. girls it's different like they will just. sleep with someone who they know is. married or in a relationship word okay. what's yours Let's uh your card so Frid. as how would you feel about dating. someone if how would you feel about. dating someone if they played video. games. often. Brey I think that's fine clicks hello.

yeah exactly well he makes a living off. of it so Chad I play video games so is. is clicks is he dating someone is he in. a relationship I don't know can't speak. on that you did the eay with him though. no that was Aiden Ross a no no I yeah I. know Aiden I got mixed up yeah. okay so yes I don't care yeah um. personally I have never been a fan of. video games but I honestly like don't.

care I it's fine okay. sure if they were on all day every day I. I wouldn't want that. mhm yeah same I don't want to be with. somebody who just I mean as long as you. have time for them and if you want a. game like a few hours here in there. that's fine but it can't be like all day. every day. yeah yeah as long as you don't use any. of the lingo with me we're good like I. don't want any of the Wu or any of that. you don't want any of the anime not.

gaming the guy watches anime that's a. big red flag I would not I would not. that's a red flag yeah no well if it's. not if they watch it if it's they become. it like if they're like always do though. you know H. time yeah um video games not a problem. anime big. problem video game is not a problem okay. so you said it'd be an issue if like. they use the lingo and [ __ ] if yeah they. just take it too. far okay so I want to paint a picture.

here for you guys first. off let's say like this is back in the. day he was a top of the ladder in. Command and Conquer generals so like 1 V. one 2v2 3v3 like [ __ ] smoked. people and he was like he played GLA. like he'd rush you know like put a bunch. of Rocket men in the technical and just. like Rush the base and [ __ ] he's hot you. you'd go for Himel yeah yeah don't worry. about it um so you'd go for him Rachel. yeah.

okay cool Lauren next question you you. date that guy here what here how about. this I've literally I'm like wait what. did you just say okay yeah. I check this out he's in a top North. American hardcore rating guild in World. of Warcraft classic 460s a rogue main. Warrior primary Al like Warlock and the. Mage and [ __ ] 99th percentile parser. like [ __ ] Chad pumper DPS parser. right all pink parses he's in a hardcore.

raiding Guild so they full consume full. world Buffs they raid like and they do. split raids so they've got like three or. four raids going right um they clear. molten core and bwl in like 30 minutes. each they get all the world boss Lord. kazic in the blast of lands azer ghost. in ashara they get all the world Boss. Loot right [ __ ] Gamers like and they. have summoning alts too like they're. real Chads summoning alts in the places.

so like as soon as the world bosses. spawn yo Lauren as soon as the world. bosses spawn right yet they're on it I'm. like disting yo Emerald dragons the the. nightmare dragons Lord kazic azer ghost. down in I'm saying like within 5 minutes. of Spawn like they're that quick on it. like the Discord notifications boom. they're on it 40 people online 3:00 a.m. they're going to get the kill 5 minutes. [ __ ] [ __ ] casual 10 hours a day.

that's what I'm talking about and right. he's the main tank for the guild sounds. a good chat he's got Thunder Fury. blessed blade of the WindSeeker did I. [ __ ] that one up he's got Thunder Fury. right that's a legendary there's not a. lot of legendaries. right yeah wait what was the question. are we gaming right. now gaming that was impressive though. play going you kept going and like half. the guild like they stack Warriors. because like that's the best meta like. Rogues and warriors like if you want to.

speedrun molten core and all this [ __ ]. like you're going to stack. Warriors stack Warriors a couple Rogues. but really just stack Warriors so he's. first in line for gressle but the rest. of the Warriors right like they have uh. most of them like ranked. so they're like going for rank 14 like. no lifers so dude they are going for. it rank 14 like does this guy have any. free time to do anything well if if you. want to do the honor grind that's like a.

14 that's like a 12 14 hour day. commitment to get to rank 14 that takes. like 2 to three months but they have. like they have all the you know the PVP. weapons and [ __ ] just envisioning the. South Park episode when they're just. eating and just getting fat and just. like thing like high Warlords is this. like just as like a hobby like does make. money dating a guy that no he's just. like a casual 10 hours a day you know oh. oh um really quick question on this do. you guys like in terms of the best loot.

system for World of Warcraft like what. do you guys prefer loot Council dkp um. epgp Suicide Kings come on Rachel you. know Rachel stop the C I don't play that. game soft Reserve do any like soft. Reserve that one's good but like. sometimes like rock League gamer I don't. know she's a gamer would you no I play. rocket. League like the problem with like the. problem with loot Council like loot. council is kind of like a corrupt loot. system right Brey right yeah like loot. Council the thing is like it works if.

the loot counil isn't corrupt stop don't. worry I'm reading. Shel that was me I don't worry about. that but like okay okay hide it yeah. it's just like bro I it's just like he. kind of got one of the Rogues in the. guild got got screwed because like he. wanted preditions blade from rag but. like it went to another Rogue that. really didn't deserve it so like he got. preditions blade which is like the best. dagger until like until phase five.

you're describing yourself right. now what happens when his mom canels His. World of Warcraft membership they gave. they gave preditions blade to a rogue. that didn't deserve it and it's the best. dagger that you can get until phase five. five until uh AQ like. cathon you know yeah anyways okay um. moving on so okay uh on too. long he loves gaming I wish I knew stop.

[Music]. it okay uh what's yours Mary says. they're always. late uh. so I'm always late though so that's a. yikes although you were on time for the. show. niolet what was the question what I. forgot they're they're always. late this one is a dip your toe I mean. what if you're a man why are you late. were you like doing your makeup or.

something what are you guay Jesus Christ. okay I'd say like always late no but. like I'll give you a leeway for a few. times like you know traffic things. happen you know but if it's like every. single time it's traffic he's lying I'm. automatically offended if a guy's late I. am going to. just know that I will be. late no exactly I'm always late so if. they're late then they're like really. late you know what I mean all right what. about you guys being late Happ AIT I.

guess I really don't think it's that. deep it's not like I'm not going to date. them if they're constantly late it's. annoying but it's not like a complet yo. Rachel do you surf bro no do you shred. the Nar no are you more of a. snowboarder I like you get powder yeah. fresh powder oh that sounds bad but you. also do cocaine app I do not do any. drugs thank you admit it okay um okay. yeah major issue if a chick is late. actually Carson in another tab if you.

can pull up a window um if you could. pull up an image in the Dropbox folder. there's a photo let me know if can you. pull up a folder do you know how to do. that uh it's in the Dropbox folder do. you have it open. yeah so I'm always late terrible. actually whatever. basically would you guys let me I did. this once so a girl. was 15 20 minutes late to the date.

however like she didn't let me know so I. just dipped at the 15minute mark my leg. fell asle I would honestly yeah I would. forget about it Carson forget about it I. would want them to tell me if they're. going to be late and I wanted to be. sitting there and not knowing where they. are but I didn't hear from her cuz like. I don't know I'm very punctual so I. showed up on time I think it was 15 20. minutes and like I have my time's pretty. valuable that's valid I mean so I just. left and then she shows up at like I. don't know we're meeting at 700 she gets. there at 7:30 she's like where are you.

I'm like her that's on her I. dipped was the date by the way was the. date yeah what was it oh just like. meeting at a a lounge for a drink oh. okay yeah so I just left yeah and she. was all but hurt about it oh you should. she should have texted you she should. yeah she should let me know also like. that's such a terrible first impression. to make like being late and that long. bro it's like one of those girls that. goes on multiple dates in one day that's. a yikes that's a yikes she was like.

coming back from her her last date. that's terrible well I I would say this. uh my experience. is 90% of the time the chick's at least. 5 10 minutes late. like I can almost I almost go in. expecting a girl to be late on a date. damn that's how. frequent I me what she should do is get. there early and then scope it out and. make sure you are who you say you are. from from far away so you're not a.

serial killer that's a that's a good. idea that's a good idea um or FaceTiming. sometimes FaceTiming before you meet in. person is always good I always. do talking about have you been cish. Brian uh no but I I like to do a call. one just to get takes a little pressure. off the first date you get acquainted a. little bit and you can feel it out it. gives them an opportunity to feel it out. and me an opportunity to feel feel it. out I've definitely had phone calls with. a girl and where we would have otherwise. perhaps met and I'm like I don't think. it's worth our time you know so I'm not.

mean about it I'm just like hey yeah I. won't pursue actually scheduling a. Meetup but it's just I've definitely. avoided a couple scenarios so go ahead. what's your card Sarah as dog uh they. ask you to split the bill on a first. date. that's fine what a Chad for sure no um I. think that's fine let's start over here. go ahead what was the question they. asked put the cup down put the cup down. uh sorry I fidget a lot uh I think the.

guy should pay for the bill is that the. question yeah yeah okay for sure I think. it's fair if you split it I mean okay. fair valid valid like I've had this. discussion with friends and sometimes. it's like who asked the person to go on. the date but then again also I'm someone. like who never asks well that's true but. um I'm someone who doesn't mind like. splitting just because for me that's not. a big deal I'm someone that actually I. don't like when people pay for me and. that's just like even growing up I think.

like my parents taught me to be very. independent so I honestly even when like. guys are trying to be nice I I'm like I. really am just going to pay for my own. like sometimes I'll let them or even I. will be one to pay for things because. for me it is honestly like not that deep. in a sense sure. Nicollette um I would laugh in his face. and then I would split the bill with him. and then I would never talk to him again. cuz I don't ask people on dates so like.

that means like they asked me to go out. you know so you would laugh in his face. you would pay the whole thing and never. talk to no I would not pay the whole. thing I would pay my half oh you'd pay. your half okay yeah and I'd be like. itemize it the [ __ ]. but that would be a deal breaker if yeah. that's so like tacky so embarrassing for. them tacky it's tacky wow yeah to like. invite a girl out on a date and they be. like all right like we're going to split. the bill I mean there are such such.

opposite answers here like what is a guy. supposed to. do well let's keep going around the. table give everyone a chance to answer. go ahead honestly okay so it's not like. a deal breaker but I say 99% of the time. I would want the guy to pay for the date. because that shows he's interested um he. doesn't have to be like financially. stable but I would say like okay like if. it's your first date with me and the. vibe is good oh you know like if it was. a one-time thing we could split the bill. but I would want I would prefer a guy. like pay so you you said that you want.

the guy to pay that way you know he's. interested okay yes but also like a guy. will spoil a girl when he's really into. her it doesn't always have to be money. it could be flowers it could be. compliments whatever but I feel like. it's better when the guy pays for the. date I mean couldn't you make the. argument. that it actually would show in terms of. if you compared men and women if a woman. paid for the date that would actually.

show a much greater enthusiasm well true. but I stoping with that I would also. feel weird like like if I paid for the. day I don't want to feel like I'm too. independent like I want a guy to be in. control and like pay for the date oh. okay Sarah what about you I mean I would. prefer if someone paid um yeah I would. kind. of depending on like how much money he. has like it would just show some level. of like.

investment like he can't take it's also. like someone can't take like tons of. people out to dinner so like that would. show that maybe they're not dating like. tons of well if someone has enough money. they could but um yeah basically it. would be a plus um but not a deal. breaker it would be a plus but not a. deal breaker okay would it be like. negative points though if he wanted to. split no as long as it's like a place.

that we both agreed on like equally it's. not like him making the entire plan and. then choosing what I order to and then. expecting me to pay for it that would. make me mad but if it's like we come to. the decision together where we're going. and I get to like choose what I want. then I'm with it okay okay Mary. um I think that if a guy is. interested uh in a sincere way and is. looking for something serious he will. pay and uh most guys aren't looking for.

something serious these days um so they. don't I don't think a guy paying on a. date is a is a very good metric for if. he's serious or not true cuz money is. not everything but it just tends to be. shiver us and gentlemen like oh hold the. door open did you just say shivalry yeah. I did whatever you call it you know so. what is so chivalry like being a. gentleman yeah traditional gender roles.

yeah yeah exactly it's like LARPing as a. provider you're supposed to want to do. that if you're a. man not in today's day and age I I think. it's I mean no I'm not saying like all. of these chicks that you go out with. from a dating app are worth you know the. trouble but if you're going out with. someone that you might that you think. might be then you need to show the. initiative in that way shouldn't the. girl pay in those circumstances in what. circumstance because here's the thing. like men a lot of men have had the. experience or have heard about for.

example foodie calls where a girl goes. on a date Rachel's laughing because. she's done that [ __ ] whoa pause no I. haven't admit it I always either split. or if they offer to pay I'll be like no. let me pay but if they really want to. pay sure there's this there's this term. called foodie call where it's kind of. derived from booty call where women will. go on dates to get a free meal um. additionally women will go on a date for. for experience or just because they're.

bored I guess I'll go on a date with him. not doing anything else sure why not. whereas men if they're going on a date. with you they have a like we know ahead. of time like we're interested whereas. women when they go on a date they're. like let me feel it out I need to decide. blah blah blah so there's foodie calls. and then there's also just wanting a. free experience maybe some guys are. being [ __ ] extra and taking you to. the zoo and [ __ ] taking you to. play mini golf taking you to a concert.

spending 50 100 200 bucks on the first. date um so there's there's that. component to it whereas if a guy goes on. the date with you it's pretty clearcut. he's interested in you he's not going on. the DAT just to get some extraneous. benefit like a free meal or like to go. to a concert with you like he wants to. at the very least sleep with you at the. very least which and having sex with. someone is a is a um equal value.

exchange you're both participating in. that whereas a guy paying for you on a. date that's a one directional value. exchange he's paying. money you're not paying money he's. he's what you're doing is like you're. giving him your time and also your. company so if you're a nice sweet. feminine Pleasant woman you are. providing him the company of of a sweet.

they're giving their time too good point. I think from the GetGo as long as you're. honest with the person be like you. should be honest like hey if you're just. coming for a free meal then say that if. you're going to actually be interested. and be on a date make sure you tell them. ahead of time I feel likeo Carson go to. Google Search for um woman who went on 6. days a week to save on her grocery. bill she should she should at least tell. him I she's doing that she's probably. fat. so not really well in any case look.

datable men men are kind of waking up to. the fact that women are going on like. also it's. just and I know some of you are young so. maybe you haven't gone on a lot of like. proper First Dates where it's like a. dinner date or like for a drink or. something why would you do that thank. you Carson so that. is not six six dates a week to save on. food I didn't buy groceries for two. years scroll down Carson scroll down is. this all the time.

those get to the Tik. tokra hold on so uh when they say women. are bad with money but you used to go on. six dates a week to avoid paying for. groceries between 2016 2018 I didn't buy. groceries once probably saved about 150. did you can close it that's fine Carson. um you can just close that out close out. the tab close out the tab scuffed oh you. scuffed it okay it's all good um so men. are waking up to this reality where not.

all women but some women are going on. dates without an actual genuine interest. in the guy so guys don't want to feel. like suckers so me personally I don't. think dude should be paying also the. other reason guys should not be paying. on first dates is the current the. current dating. landscape gone are the days of people. just dating one person at a time people. are seeing multiple people both men and. women but uh I think it's actually much. more common for women to be dating. multiple multiple men at the same time. that's that's a game women play a lot.

some men play that game but most men. can't I think that was before modern. dating as well though like women having. suitors being selective but that's also. when they were less sexually accessible. well yeah now you here's the we and more. attra to bring it back there there was a. girl two shows ago who like I said she's. sleeping with Five Guys she had one main. guy four four uh side dudes and she said. and then I was like having one night. stands on top of it yeah so like that's.

not dating that's just being a [ __ ]. pretty much I would not want to go on a. date with a girl that is sleeping with. another dude I don't I don't even want. to pursue a girl who's sleeping with. another guy if you're sleeping with. another guy I don't care if it's just. casual I don't want to pursue you I. don't want to date you I don't want to. pay for your dinner I don't want to kiss. you I don't want to have sex with you I. don't want anything to do with you. however the dating landscape is both men. and women but I think more so women they. are sleeping with multiple people.

they're dating multiple people like if I. let's get this straight do you mean. dating is synonymous with like sleeping. with the people that you're dating not. necessar have to be that not necessarily. Buton going on dates with people for the. first time I don't even like that [ __ ]. either I think it's important to stay. loyal in the talking stage to be honest. and I feel like you should only date one. person at once and the reason why I say. that it's like because how are you going. to know who you like more but then you. eventually will know but I still feel. like it'll be confusing and it'll be.

just like I don't know Annoying I feel. like how can you divide all of your. attention to one person and you really. get to know them if you're seeing. multiple people you know it'll be. confusing at least for me I get confused. well and also the other thing. is the that I would say almost all women. are capable of going on like three or. four dates a week if you were so. inclined what disagree I wouldn't no but. capable so able to do it. Rachel I wouldn't you wouldn't however.

well if you were so inclined. Rachel you could sleep with a new guy. every single night of the week but I. wouldn't but you acknowledge that you. could right if I wanted to yeah yeah but. I don't want to sure and and I mean to. your credit you're you're an attractive. girl but. thanks so I don't I don't know if you're. I'm not sure if your looks do you have a. brother yeah older younger older does he.

slay is he he's got game is he good with. the ladies slay is he good with the. ladies is he the ladies man he's. probably watching this is he a Chad yo. what's his name his name is Jonathan yo. Jonathan you're a [ __ ] Legend. oh my God so is he like is he a Chad. he's not a chadad he's very respectful. and like he's got a girlfriend or he has. a girlfriend okay rip in the chat for. Chad I mean Jonathan okay um so I guess.

the point I'm trying to make is. unremarkable average women I'm not. saying that you are but I remember once. I went on a date with this girl. unremarkable un like average looking you. know and she told me she had been not we. had mat on hinge she had been on hinge. for 3 days she had already had two dates. before I had a date with her she re. revealed all this to me on the date and. then she said it was like a Wednesday or. some [ __ ] we hung out um then she said I. have two dates planned for this weekend.

I'm like [ __ ] that's five dates in. a week I. immediately sounds like she wasn't. interested in the relationship with you. I would have why would you openly be. like I'm seeing multiple people because. I asked her and oh okay got you I mean. to her she was honest is important but I. wouldn't see one more than one person I. would leave you would leave I would. leave the date if if a dude was like y. I'm seeing another girl on. Tuesday for that but here's the. difference so an average guy can't do.

that whereas an average girl could [ __ ]. like a new dude every single night of. the week if she wanted to yes [ __ ] up. well she would only do that if she were. mentally the system Rachel huh she would. only do that if she were mentally ill. ill so it doesn't really matter she. would only do that if she was mentally. ill to hook up with a new guy every day. yeah you got to be like actually crazy. to do that right but I'm not saying they. might they would do it but they have the. option and so basically but but you have.

average women who have basically the. sexual options of a male. celebrity so that creates a. asynchronicity wait in in congruity I'm. trying to Inc asy big word Jesus Christ. asymmetry I dropped out of college um no. in any case so women have far more. sexual options than men. do yeah like it's it's absurd but that's.

not what they value they want to be. committed well I mean not. [ __ ] yes men and women's sexual. strategies are a bit different. butc women have like a de facto. abundance. mentality so an abundance mental like. women women have abundance. mentality women okay women sleep with. who they want men sleep with who they. can as far as their dating options you. mean yes CU I feel like all the rest of. the time they're operating on like. scarcity mindset because they're.

constantly seeking security all the time. like that's what women want right. security resources safety. provision no but I'm speaking just in. terms of sutors and options women have. even average women have an abundance of. options whereas not for committed. relationship no even for committed. relationships I wouldn't say so I agree. I agree because you're supposed to only. have like one soulmate if everyone was. meant to be with everyone then nobody.

would be married right erroneous. erroneous I think what he's pretty much. trying to say is that most women would. have like a line of suitors in their. inboxes right versus guys if they go to. their inboxes they're not going to have. like this whole slew of women there um. there's just more opportunities for. women well uh just to keep things moving. along let's get to the next what was. yours again I think we already touched. on oh yeah we we touched on that uh oh. one last thing on that um actually I.

already said it go ahead uh mine says. they're not a you you got to speak into. the mic sorry mine says they're not a. feminist so where the question is is a. what's the question again like is that a. deal breaker if they're not yeah let's. go around the table on this do you. identify as a feminist no no no based. hello oh wow I don't think. so no it depends on the definition I.

feel like there's a lot of different. definitions of feminism out there what's. your. definition um I guess like gender. equality in some way okay sure um oh. juman super. $100 apprciate this is why I said what I. said earlier men always for on the first. date set the expectation that this is. what you want and why physical. compatibility is a critical component of. the relationship if she says no don't.

waste your money or time on these. 304s. gross that's who do you know that guy oh. no I thought you said that's 305 that's. like the area code right is that yeah. it's the area code 30 definitely yeah. definitely definitely area cod right. Nicollet yeah she's from the. 30o. right I'm. like what was the question don't worry. about it okay so his Super Chat was uh.

yeah don't wait I think that's stupid. this is the society that men. want well here's the thing instant. access to women for $12 yeah but here's. the thing like I think where the men. where men have an issue if women let. Chad hit it and then you're going to. make the guy the guy who you maybe want. a relationship with you're going to make. him wait that's where men have an issue. if your standard throughout your whole.

life was I value long-term relationships. you know I I I've always waited but if. you've like your body counts 20 30 40. and then you want to. make this next guy waight who is perhaps. the most deserving of of a long-term. relationship you're going to make him. waight but that's just ridiculous people. want different things at different time. so I feel like it's people have like a. you know like oh you want to just. looking for something casual right now. because you went through a breakup and. then later on you can change your mind. and you can decide that you want to be.

committed yeah I mean you're free to. move however however you want that. chicks with like 40 plus body count are. asking anyone to wait no but maybe. sometimes if they decide they want to. change and do that people change. religions all the time too so I feel. like. are you know I've I've had multiple. scenarios where I've been like I dated a. girl. whatever and she says when I was younger. I had. hes this is my body count I've had one. night stands Etc and then I come along.

and they're. like they want to wait three four five. dayses when they tell me bro I've done. this I've done that I've I've had one. night stands and I'm just like. cuz cuz when if if it hasn't been your. previous standard in your previous. relationships people can change their. mind no they can and they're free to. it's not like I it's not like I'm owed. anything however I'm also free to feel.

that or to think that you are playing a. game now because it wasn't your standard. in the past so you are now leveraging. sex to get commitment from me whereas in. the past you didn't do that so it's like. a double standard almost well you can't. really leverage sex when you have a high. body count anymore cuz your value is. diminished I don't think your selfworth. is based on how many people you've slept. with how many people you sleep with is. based on your selfworth though not. really I think also that though goes in.

with the experience cuz example of. people that have like slept with other. people it was super casual I think the. important thing to note though is that. when a girl does take that like insight. into wanting to wait that's because. there's like meaning there like it's. intentional on purpose that they. actually see something with you and. considering like I guess in the past. experience they have done that that. means like it obviously didn't work out. you know what I mean so I think what's.

important here to take away is that that. girl is adding value to you although the. men don't see it that way like from a. girl's mindset like in the situation. they want to tread carefully rather than. having that casual like okay we slept. together but like they're gone. you said you're not a feminist. correct I have my best friend as a. feminist and I think um like being a. feminist like that title is um one of my. best friends um like it obviously.

depends on what your definition I don't. care about your best friend I'm just. asking you oh it depends on what your. definition of a feminist is but I think. like there's a difference between. generally speaking though you don't. identify as a feminist correct I. wouldn't say it like strongly like oh. I'm like a a feminist but of course I. you know stand for the importance of. fale Rights and equality and everything. like that wait so but but the first. question I asked you was do you identify. as a feminist and you said no correct no. yeah okay so you're not a feminist wait.

what is a feminist can we just what is a. feminist to all of us a feminist is a. man hating yeah exactly okay green hair. in my opinion though I think there's a. difference between being a feminist and. being like a man hater and like hating. the patriarchy and like putting men down. versus uplifting women okay there's. there's a big line and I think a lot of. people get that mixed in like to uplift. women they think they continuously have. to keep pushing men down although like. the patriarchy out that is real thing we.

live in a very you know thrown around so. much but I think it's the importance. what's the patriarchy yeah what's the. patriarchy it's like living in a world. that is run by men and a lot of it is. everything is male dominant so what is. dominated and oh Jesus Christ oh my God. we don't go there yeah we when you say. that it's run by men it's like hasn't. that kind of worked out well for for. Humanity so far yeah yeah well I mean I. disagree that there's a patriarchy yeah.

def I mean even if there is it's like is. that really like a problem I don't know. can you name a society in which. um women have built it from the ground. up you know the skyscrapers the roads so. like biologically speaking women tend to. be more nurturing and men tend to be. more dominant if that makes sense so I. feel like it works out with the way it. is you know it's okay that it's mainly. male dominated dominated but I think. there is like a outliers of course but.

yeah so when you think of like modern. day feminists those who call themselves. feminists today um like how you gave. your definition of feminis feminist do. you think those women prescribe to that. or do they you know go around with like. hating man you know do you think what do. you think the majority of women who say. that they are feminists today which. definition do you think they go with I. think there's a lot of hate towards men. especially yeah based Rachel yo can we. get some wachel in the chat yo W Rachel.

in the chat let's see it spam that. shitel in the chat a lot of hate. surrounding that it's true because even. with movies everyone's like I want to. see more women dominated movies and I'm. like well I mean that's fine but a lot. of the movies that have come out that. are just mainly on men no no what I'm. saying is like this is like the new wave. of feminism which is like ending up to. be toxic yeah and I feel like a lot of. like new W feminists are like trying to. kind of like mimic men's behaviors and. actions and like a way to like take. power back in a way like and I don't.

think that's the answer either like it's. kind of not the show itself but just. like the call her daddy like phenomenon. like you feel powerless um and then so I. feel like a a lot of people are kind of. trying to act like a man what is the. call her daddy phenomenon like it's like. it's like you know like how men are like. players like you know that's like like. someone you have to act like a player. and a man many like men as possible um.

like play them you know like you have to. be the one to like be like it's like. cheat on your boyfriend before he cheats. on you I saw a comment where it said we. can uplift women without hating on men. which I think is very true why do women. need to be uplifted so bad no I'm just. saying you can uplift people I don't get. it I mean I also I think we're like. scapegoating this new wave feminism but. I would say all waves of feminism in. every era have been toxic yeah yeah look.

at all those wael in the chat W. Rachel that's crazy oh yeah yeah I mean. I don't so this kind of all stemmed from. your thing like what is feminism um so I. mean I think you often here well. feminism is about gender equality. however feminism isn't really about. gender equality in its most generous. sense feminism is. about if I can be the most generous I. think it's m feminism is much worse than.

as I'm about to describe feminism is a. woman's advocacy movement there's. nothing wrong with women's advocacy. however to claim it's a gender equality. movement. is erroneous. erroneous because feminists don't. advocate for men that's true it's like a. very man-hating thing well that's what. I'm about to say so at its best it's. women's advocacy in actuality it's a.

man-hating ideology that spreads. misinformation. and I suppose yes it does also happen to. try to secure rights and privileges for. women. um but overall feminism is a it's a. man-hating ideology and I can prove that. because the core tenant of feminism is. the patriarchy Theory which is just that. a theory and theories can be wrong so.

patriarchy. Theory excuse me guys I'm just don't go. to Portland it's crazy there don't go to. Portland um patri patriarchy Theory. essentially posits that men are the. oppressor class and women are the. oppressed which is an absolutely. egregious example of the Apex fallacy um. and so feminism and patriarchy Theory. teaches that men are the oppressors. women are the oppressed so how is the. oppressed AKA women supposed to feel.

about the oppressor class AKA men the. oppressor class is not excuse me the. oppressed class is not supposed to feel. anything positive towards those who are. oppressing them so it's a this tragic. rewriting of history that the. relationship between men and women is. one of oppressor and oppressed it's it's. just factually untrue because it's not. men as a class versus women as a class. it's people in power as a class and then.

everyone else did it h does it happen to. be the case that the majority of people. that have that have had power in history. were men yes but it's not necessarily. because they are men and not and the. vast swaths of women and men who were. oppressed it they weren't oppressed. because they were men men or women they. were just oppressed because they were. they didn't have power it's those with. power and those without it so previously.

you had tyrants dictators and you know. Kings monarchs Queens Etc they held. power so um basically feminism has just. taught generations of women to have. contempt to aain and hatred for men. and men aren't being quiet anymore about. it so um yeah anyway there's dissonance. in that right because it also teaches. women to. be uh second rate men in every way and.

that's why it Champions abortion and. detests women's uh innate ability to. create and nurture life which is like. really what gives them inherent value. value word word oh one thing on the we. were talking about wait wait so you. think that if a woman doesn't have kids. that she's not valuable or like is a. good person I think your potentiality to. be a mother makes you valuable as a. woman I mean I yeah I guess valuable.

because like you know the world like if. no one had kids we would all die off I. guess so I guess that makes sense but I. feel like all here because somebody. that's true somebody [ __ ] somebody so. that's how we're all here you know um. let's just keep it moving uh your card. thank you um they're a home body a what. uh home body what does that mean like. they they like to stay at home they. don't like to go I don't mind I like to. stay at home sometimes too you know oh. [ __ ] I'm a home body what's up oh my God.

how you doing Rachel you're pushing 30. what wait what just kidding he's not. just pushing 30 I was kidding I'm older. than that wait so. [Music]. oh my go Rachel will you marry me no. thank you okay cool. oh I didn't want you. anyways just kidding okay um what was. the [ __ ] question homebody yeah. they're a home body wait hold on let me.

[ __ ]. [Music]. Sarah oh my gosh Sarah Sarah. Gertrude Cooper. will you marry me. no that's crazy. wow all right um uh ouch uh two nose in. one yo. Brey oh no you yelled at me to stop.

fidgeting with my cup I didn't yell it. wasn't a yell it can you stop it was it. was like a uh was. aggressive. agal it was like a it was stop it was a. fatherly it was. fatherly teacher I had your it was. patriarchal even it was yeah I was. oppressing you oppressed you oh what the. [ __ ] did I just close out [ __ ] okay. um here oh well we'll wait till she's. back Rachel what's yours okay um they.

watch porn reg regularly oh I can't talk. here we go uh um deal Breer yes or no. that's a hard one honestly I don't. really think I care as long as they're. not cheating on me like yeah with a. girl I agree it's like right like it's. kind of difficult I wouldn't want to. think about it but like I don't consider. it. cheating yeah I don't know if it was if.

I like found out and they were watching. porn like a lot I think that's gross so. I'm like wait it says regularly though. this is controversial but I feel like so. like closer to the mic this is little. might be controversial but like what I. do like I'm in this industry so I feel. like I wouldn't love for my boyfriend to. be watching it all the time so like. that's so hypocritical it is that's. that's why I'm saying it's controversial. like obviously I wouldn't want him to. like watch it all the time but like you. literally make the material that that's.

exactly and that's why I'm saying this. is an unpopular take this is. controversial you know so this is how I. feel though but like I love dble. standards yes but it's true you know. it's not just controversial it's like. ethical how so like I'm just making the. content because I'm making the money and. I'll stop at any time and if he wants me. to but like I still feel like I don't. have to love if he watches it like I. don't have to love it you know so let's. keep it moving used to watch more before.

I got into itd read your card Lauren. they frequently go to the clubs without. you. no guys literally say they go to clubs. to talk to and not be with their friends. but girls actually do go I think girls. go to clubs to like be with their. friends yeah erious erroneous if I. erroneous. erroneous didn't didn't mean to play. that if I had a boyfriend though I would.

only go to the club with him I feel like. unless it would have to go both ways. yeah if you had a boyfriend yeah cool oh. my God. cool you okay that was a cough I'm that. I'm good. okay you good yeah I'm chilling so what. what if there was like boys night out. would you like ask him like hey what you. doing like what you. doing like blowing up his phone and.

stuff like that you never had a. boyfriend who just had you know boys. night out where they legit go and do we. didn't go to clubs we went like to each. other's houses and played poker like you. know what I'd like to interrupt Rachel's. very enthusiastic answer to this Con to. this uh question uh Carson can you pull. up the twitch tab we got to shout out. the twitch homies guys go to twitch.tv. whatever the link is in the description. go follow us if you have an Amazon Prime. sub yo Gabriel thank you for the prime.

you can if you have Amazon Prime you can. L it link it to your Twitch you can sub. to a twitch streamer for free every. single month uh quick free easy way to. support the show go follow us um yeah go. open up a right now Gabriel thank you. for the prime uh what were we talking. about can I add one more boys night out. oh yeah can I add one more thing about. the other topic yeah go for it okay so. like I wouldn't love if my man watched. you know porn but I wouldn't be like it. wouldn't be a deal breaker I just.

wouldn't like not very often but I would. prefer if he watched it with me than. without me CU that would be kind of. awkward the vast majority of guys with. like 5G wireless internet watch porn a. lot well it doesn't mean that it's a. good thing or. that I if they're watching it a healthy. amount and they still have like energy. for you then I wouldn't say there's a. healthy amount of porn to. watch but there's definitely like. unhealth amounts I think yeah I think.

all amounts are. unhealthy. why I just don't think it's normal to. like watch videos of people having sex I. think it's weird animal no no one else. in human history has done this it's very. strange you're defending it because. you're part of it that's all it is true. true so I say lady straight freaking the. bit keep that stuff in the. house someone said clubbing is emotional.

cheating yeah major deal I know I'm from. West Virginia we don't have clubs I. major really The Nightlife scene is not. popping in West Virginia West Virginia. yo no yeah if a girl like goes out. parties goes to clubs. bars that's a deal. breaker major deal breaker if she's. partying because if you're going with. her I don't well I don't really drink. and I don't go to Bar bars clubs or.

parties not really my thing but what if. she used to club and then she stops. still a red flag Club chicks are so. people aren't allowed to change their. mind and like whatever well I suppose. like you could have have previously done. been addicted to heroin and stopped. however I'm still going to disqualify. you as a partner because of your. previous addiction to heroin okay so I. mean you can change but you can take the. club out of. the you can take the girl out of the.

club you can't take the club out of the. girl that's what she meant to say that. way um e your applesauce yeah Lauren do. you uh do you go clubbing no I've. actually never been to the club so I. don't know what that's like but you're. 21 right when did you turn 21 uh January. so like I've never had a fake like I I. don't even drank like I've never I used. to be that way too I don't drink I don't. smoke I don't the opp end you you don't. drink don't drink you don't go to the. club don't go to Club don't smoke no.

drugs don't Vape nothing I am I'm mom I. used to never club and now I Club so. weird I used to be like literally the. opposite so weird but I only. [Music]. do. Lauren will. you will you marry. me.

sure actually wait what's your middle. name huh what's your favorite color. what's your favorite color middle name. yeah I don't even know anything about. you I can't say yes we've been talking. for so long yeah but I don't like know. anything about you wanted our first date. to be live streamed to thousands of. people and and for you to be accompanied. by your two close friends. and for two only fans girls to also be. there um here well first on put put on. the ring just cuz we're engaged now I. it's gonna fit my fingers it's pretty. big can Sarah clutch it up Sarah clutch.

it up that's pretty though how many. carrots is it I think it was about seven. bucks on Amazon oh darn seven I'm. romantic like that Lauren you'll get the. best treatment see McDonald's in and out. what you want oh thank you what you want. too big well don't worry about we'll. we'll get a resized we'll get a resized. don't even trip all right so you have. some questions to ask me what what you. want to know uh what's your favorite. color what's up what's your favorite.

color. no probably either black or orange. why black because PornHub that's the. color of my heart is that what you're. talking about no okay and then orange. have you seen Dragon Ball Z um I don't. think I have like all the Goku Goku's. costume it's like I know of it it was. orange so I don't know okay yeah what. else you got for me um what's your. middle name the [ __ ] are they it's like.

wait is Alice your real last name yes. that's my legal last name the. [ __ ] I don't know about that I don't. know if I believe that [ __ ] doxing me. over here what the [ __ ] sorry what what. else you got for me Lauren wait how old. are you again. 33 really yeah are you. sure I'm pretty sure unless my parents. lies me we have to go you're oh oh what. she she wasn't done oh well she's going.

to the bathroom but I said you're. literally oh okay what any other. questions um I'll I'll think of some. more okay sounds good okay uh they won't. let you hang with friends of the. opposite sex deal Breer I think we kind. of hit on that with the whole friend. conversation is that everybody on that. one I think okay so the game is where do. you draw the line cool icebreaker game. to uh get to know some new people link. for that is in the description if you. guys want to check it out okay.

so um I'm going to get through these. super chats here and then we're g to. wrap up before I do that does anyone. have anything they want to uh touch on. any burning relationship question Rachel. if you want to admit that you have a. crush on clicks you can do it now that. that's crazy that's crazy bro we're just. friends honestly just be honest we're. honestly just. friends where you from Rachel.

Virginia that's like crazy yeah just. okay geographical proximity not to each. other Rachel's rolling your eyes Okay um. Rachel is not amused by my charm they're. calling you corny in the chat they're. clowning on you well that's not wrong oh. okay Brian eating ASMR I'll be here all. night oh what you will okay um what okay. we got super chats here do do we do this.

one you all want wait someone has to my. voice is getting horse can somebody read. who Who's Got a Good N get off. your you hooligan you you Troublemaker. sorry how dare you. Nicollet I'm going to take I'm going to. steal your flashlights from you he wants. them so. bad oh [ __ ] okay I [ __ ] that up um.

who's got a good dictation me me I don't. know you speak too far from the mic. Sarah what about this time I feel like. we did this one yeah we already did this. did we I do of them are the same. no I think I think um people really want. to hear Rachel um why we we want you to. read these with the lack of enthusiasm. you've shown the entire show sorry I'm. like monotone it's okay me too I'm mon.

theone too it's all good what about the. London accent gu robotic London accent. voicey I'm hungry wa1 you guys are like. you guys do social media yeah but like. when did you blow up like a year or two. ago or what three years ago so you're. like 15 16 yeah did you get any. sponsorships brand deals anything like. that. yeah how much you making girl none of. your. business are you making more than six. figures a year um yes what about you.

Brey yeah are you it's a hobby so I. don't so you're kind of like part time I. don't intentionally do it to make money. like I just do it obviously more for. like fun and obviously like I've met a. lot of people people you want some. applesauce by the way I'm okay you're. good okay let me know if you kind of. want. some please I'm starving I'm. sorry they're not feeding us I can't I. can't do that to my girl help I offered. we had pizza before the show wait I'm.

just joking guys in a in a year have any. of you made Seven figures no no mid six. figures or what can you give a range no. like I would say barely six figures. depends on the year too but like I mean. you said you blew up at like 15 16 I. mean that's. pretty I mean most people your age say. now I making the six right but before I. was making the five a year I mean still. like that's really good so like. congratulations thank think and I I.

think they've done studies on this like. most young people if you ask them what. they want to do they want to be creators. they want to be do uh social media so I. mean and it's really hard to become. successful so I mean I want to. congratulate you guys on your success. and um I mean it's super impressive I. mean most people would be to be making. uh you know six figures at 18 is is. really quite um quite something so. congratulations um thank you where were.

what were we talking about um you wanted. me to read something oh yeah read the. chat come on Rachel. God Brian's pickup line you want some. applesauce question mark uh read this. one okay. a strong man is needed in a good. relationship to be there to pick up all. the pieces when [ __ ] hits oh sheet hits. the fan that being said communication is. key and being honest and able to talk. about things as a. must yo David thank you.

man you got this Rachel I believe in. you we should be able to Define being. vulnerable versus being weak great talk. keep it going. those are different things yo Abby thank. you for the 50 appreciate it Mark. quavius Martin that came through as a. TTS. marcons yo marcons the [ __ ] Chad. thank you man uh right we have um rushi. 123 Lauren you get this one oh I can't.

even sorry I can't like see oh sorry um. Brey humans have a sinful nature and. something like bullying will never go. away the best thing you can do is try. and create a positive and safe. environment for your own kids other. parents will fail raising their kids. don't fail raising yours. exactly y based all right we have Clint. this came through as a TTS thank you man. Aon that came through as a TTS thank you. man um that I think I read this one yeah.

Lord Blitz that's a questionable name I. think um Mary you read this one okay. since you're blonde as a man myself I. prefer my woman not to have any male. friends because why would you need any. male friends if you have me not only. that but I know what they want and what. they're waiting. for based yo Lord Blitz thank you man. confirm and deny Lord Blitz are. you uh Al alaman alaman [ __ ] I'm trying.

to say it in French okay uh Aon Martinez. thank you man uh Sarah go ahead. Traditional Values cue for the ladies. who should be the leader in the. relationship related if your man told. you he would like you to give up male. friends would you do it good work on the. rising views Brian Aon thank you man. appreciate it. um do you guys have a I would give up my. maale friends if my boyfriend asked me. to I think that's what you actually.

should. do I wouldn't Breen Ridge oh. um uh I. wouldn't especially if I was friends. before like met them yeah I don't think. I would I've had the same friend group. of like guys and girls for so long I. wouldn't give that up like maybe it's. like a really close childhood friend or. if he's like gay cuz like then there's. not a chance of him trying to you know. yeah I don't know some dudes be.

pretending to be gay to get an in and. then it's happen Okay I say it's okay to. have friends of the opposite gender just. be very careful because sometimes bad. intentions bers are there's a line. uh yo breakfast burrito read this one. Brey sells herself just as much as the. only fans girls do looking at her and. proves that she knows what she's selling. and why why does she get a pass a pass. for. what a pass I suppose they mean like. sexualizing. yourself she.

supposes for sexualizing myself I think. that's what they. mean Mr cap I didn't know I was given. one what like where's my P. what yeah thank you man all right this. one came through this one came through. thank you dude thank you all you guys. who submitt ttss tonight this is uh. really appreciate all the support wow. holy moly all right wow all right we. have uh Joey Bones Jones thank you for. the 50 man appreciate it yo Russell Russ.

thank you for becoming a member man that. one came through all right we have uh. Joey Bones Jones with the 50 better to. live in the desert than with a. quarrelsome and nagging wife Proverbs. proverbs 21:19. yeah I've heard this one also said. something like better to live on your. roof than to live in a house better to. live on the corner of your roof than to. live in a house with a. quarrelsome. wife your thoughts Nicollet I don't know.

why I'm targeting you but I just thought. it would be appropriate to bring you. into this conversation what's. quarrelsome are you the failure of the. American educational system right we. have uh rushi here one I'm just kidding. I love you niolet platonically this is. already. read humans oh we did yeah yeah okay uh. yo DV K Bravo. um oh we answer this somebody what oh.

you want us to read it um Nicollet. please read this one this one's all for. you I cannot see like at all here squint. your eyes I mean like there's the mics. are in the way but just um. I own an air conditioning conditioning. company I change 3 to five AC systems a. week replace duct work test for mold and. bacteria daily and spend 5 to 10 hours. at a time in addicts also I bring home 4. to 6K a week y'all want a gamer or a guy.

that works 15 hours a day a guy that. works 15 hours a day so I can like do my. own thing and when you say Do Your Own. Thing do you. mean have sex with men on camera for. money oh sh. no I just mean like personal. space okay is the gamer their job or. gaming uh well if a gamer is less hours. I mean obviously people have to work but. 15 hour work with rather be home I want.

to spend time with the person so gamer. is okay if you're less than 15 hours. like the more time to spend with the. person you're with the better if you. meant it as a. job then probably the gamer so they can. be home yo forget the prompt can we all. get a w in the chat for DV Ken Bravo's. [ __ ] Chad Beard yo chat chat uh beard. W in the chat for Ken Bravo and is W. beard um and let's see uh however.

despite your fantastic beard Ken. Bravo three to five AC systems a week 3. to five AC systems a week those are. rookie numbers you need. step your [ __ ] up Ken step it up as an. expert in HVAC I would just kid okay. thank you for actually doing a job that. contributes to society okay uh yo Lord. thank you for the membership Lord of. odium thank you for the 50 this lad I.

you hold on I got something for you. bud well done here's another one. okay the way he spelled perception is. crazy this. lad I think it's is this Spanish this. latty. you lady your left is the most beautiful. lady I have ever seen based on her. comments and visual. perception.

percep percep perception that sounds. like a. liquor do you guys want to like what do. you guys want to maybe go in business. start a like a a liquor called percep. okay oh wait you don't you don't even. drink though I thought you don't even. drink not really maybe like all a cat. occasionally have a glass of wine or a. beer maybe like two or three times a. year but I don't I don't party I don't. drink never really did wasn't my thing. um okay yo trainer Soul thank you for.

the membership and then that's the last. one for that and then we have. U oh can you hide that Carson uh yo sh. sho boy donated 50 thank you man if. bullying will bring Common Sense back to. people I will encourage bullying yes. word oh Mary has thoughts on that okay. we have uh what's my count donated 50. thank you man well I mean there's a. respectful way like you don't have to. bully somebody but you can be respectful. about it like be like oh I don't like. this or I disagree with that versus like. [ __ ] on them you know as much as we.

hate it it's not going to go away that's. true that's true but we can also. encourage it to you know go away at. least so you know some people will stop. and change but you word okay um so. what's my count donated 50 let me pull. this back how high is my body count. exactly for all we know Mary could have. slept with hundreds of men we'll never. know Mary uh confirm or deny well I. didn't I don't know that's my. word am I supposed to like have evidence.

stop the. C okay uh let's see we. have I love the chick with the tattoos. she's so knowledgeable in the lot to. offer I just wish the young girls here. would actually take time and listen CR. critically think uh where's AES #. marriage for the L go. Navy What is marriage for the L C man. what he's a seaman he's in the Navy.

doesn't like you're you're in the Army. right. mhm or no I think it's the Marines that. talk [ __ ] on everyone don't they don't. all the branches of the military talk. [ __ ] on each other yes we do especially. the Air Force and Coast Guard I I mean. my handle is insane for Stargate because. I love Stargate and that's all um Air. Force but we still make fun of. them all right and then we have that's. Dan's tastic thank for the 50 don't wait. to take up too much time uh just wanted.

to say Mary the realest homie out here. pop culture crisis for Life Mary do you. have do you want to say anything to uh. Dan zah yeah well shout out thank you. for listening to pop culture. crisis cool okay um final thought here. before I wrap does anyone have a final. thought speak now or forever hold your. peace subscribe uh subscribe sorry to my. only fans okay my final message is don't. subscribe to her only fans oh [ __ ] Bro.

people are going to do what they want. though uh Nicollet your. response Nicollet um she already gave. her final. thought okay just don't come on guys. steep up my thoughts are concluded name. I'm hungry I'm hungry net. Nicole wait what was it they didn't hear. it Nicollet Nicole no it's Nicole. Nicollet guys and mine is real key Rose. stop it get some.

help okay um anyone else are we doing. shout outs or what one random thing. random thing um has anyone ever been to. Waffle House I love Waffle House anyway. Never Been Love craving that never I. will say this ladies it's not I swear. ain't no hate it's more like when you. get to my age I don't want you guys to. be where I'm at thinking that all you'll. have all these guys and holding yourself.

off for the one cuz it's not going to. get any better and if you think that 30y. olds are going to be in your box try. more like 45 going up and then hope. oping that oh my God maybe they'll give. me five or 10 years before they die okay. like I promise you it's going to end and. when you do hit the wall H you're going. to be. shocked by the way we do have one video. to react.

[Music]. to I want to dedicate this episode to. the late great Patrice O'Neal we're. going to react to a video of his um. Carson can you pull up the. Patrice. clip who is that guy Patrice. O'Neal the. goat um so Carson just get it ready to. pause because I'm going to pause it. Midway through this video pay very close. attention to this because this is going.

to perhaps be and I want to say this. with a certain gravit TOS this may very. well be the most profound question you. are ever asked in your life I really. want you to dig deep on this question. guys so be ready okay get into your I. know you're ready for this Rachel okay. yeah yeah she's good okay wow that okay. cool um Patrice O'Neil he aside from. being a comedian stand-up comedian he's.

a. philosopher and a poet go ahead and play. the clip Carson let me ask you a. question here's a question this serious. question hide the mouse Carson okay. ladies if you didn't have a vagina. like say it was a terrible train. accident right doctor Carson go to the. video tab we have to remove your P sorry. you got Go the video tab Carson the. video tab video tab it's in the scenes. no you're right away no video tab in. OBS.

it's e.

while I do that um can you guys.

um. uh Rachel can you do like a little dance. or some [ __ ]. dance I don't know any danc oh it all. just came back pizza oh fire this. man fire him how he doesn't have a boss. stream is. muted this better be worth the waight.

but I like pis o Neil. so I have to be proba the only thing. that's open is. fast I'm hungry guys do you want to go. like yeah yeah out probably. not but not. open let me ask you a question here's a. question Ser. question I'm so confused right.

now let me ask you a question here's a. question here serious question don't. okay ladies if you didn't have a. vagina like say it was a terrible train. accident right and the doctor was like. we have to remove your [ __ ] right. away well you're going to. die how would you keep your man past you.

get a TW Monon guilty I can't leave the. [ __ ] right away cuz you just lost a. [ __ ] in the train. accident s you know where this going. can't just walk right out on her. how would you keep your man past that if. you didn't have a vagina pause. it okay Brey I I don't know into the mic. CL the mic I don't know how do you pull. pull the mic closer to you wait how do. you what keep.

your how do you keep your. man well can I say to me it says in. sickness and through health so it. wouldn't matter but here's the thing. right here here here are the facts. here's the scenario terrible train. accident yeah and and lately in this. country there's been some train. derailments so it's plausible that some. chick was on the. train and the [ __ ] got damaged had to. get it surgically removed it could. happen right what happened in Ohio you.

get you're from Ohio right or no. Minnesota sorry whatever same same thing. pretty much. um there's been train derailment so it's. plausible that [ __ ] you were on the. train to go see that dude who goes to. the University of Miami in Ohio Mii. University that's a terrible name for in. Ohio so bad you lost your [ __ ] yeah. what do you do I don't know pray for a. back no but what what do you do quite. literally like what do you do to keep. your man one surgery get another surgery.

get a get a second. [ __ ] how so you get another you get. another surgery lives flashlights yeah. but but he's asking like what are the. actions you would take to keep your man. the obvious answer is hold hold on hold. on hold on I would tell him I'm going to. get another one I don't know if that. wasn't an option there's wait I I'm just. going to go around like this so. Rachel huh honestly there's not much I.

can do if he wants to leave he can leave. it's whatever but but would you okay so. just just to kind. of you you no longer can have. intercourse with him thus perhaps he. still has needs so you know but but so. you know what would you do you can break. up with me oh manak sickness through. Health yeah well if he wants me he'll. stay with me but if I can't do anything. for him then he can leave you know if.

he's. Lauren I know what I'm. saying. um well I don't know when I would ever. in this situation but um I mean. personally for me it's like someone's. with you like. besides the sexual aspects um although. that is like that's like an important. part of a relationship I guess but also. like that's not like the biggest part in.

my opinion at least like then again like. but so but try to answer the question. though what would you do to keep your. men so we can acknowledge I that's a. conversation for you and your partner. too though you know what I mean like I. think like I guess depending on like. what the options are I I suppose I. should have started with yeah I suppose. I should have started with Nicollet. Nicollet what would you do to keep your. man um I would just be really nice to. him I don't know closer to the mic I. would just be nice to him I don't.

know you can still perform that's a good. answer so thanks obviously sex isn't. everything but CL mic sex is not. everything but if I were ever in that. situation where I lost it and didn't. have the organ anymore I'd be like well. there's other holes in in the mouth you. know you okay other holes sure mouth uh. Sarah what about you yeah I would just. get a flashlight get a you would get a. flashlight hold it hold it like right. there and close his eyes you can get.

nicolet's flashlight to use I sure could. Nicollet can you cut her a deal on one. the fleshlights get her a code in case. she's on the train and. the [ __ ] has to be removed I guess um. so you'd get a Fleshlight what anything. else what would you do to keep your. man yeah okay get a Fleshlight and put. it between your thighs okay Mary what. about you it depends on what he asks. though it depends on what he asks you.

know so become a really phenomenal cook. okay sure what would you do if if I lost. my [ __ ] that's a good question no your. dick was gone. if I lost my dick in a train accident. yeah I'm actually just wondering you. said that like really aggressively well. well I just question yeah I actually. just want to know what you think. too well I I'll answer that you go ahead. on this one what what would you do to. keep your men bro I would learn how to. cook grow some food be nice clean the.

house learn some other undignified. things but yo if he's bringing in the. money and I'm I want I don't want my. place to be taken I got to learn learn. some new things so that's it it's just. how it goes so you're flipping it on me. would I I'm not flipping I lost Myck. yeah what would you. do toys. hands. okay access my are we talking children.

here I I would access my frozen supply. of sperm you've frozen your sperm listen. I'm I'm very UNC comfortable on trains. delate myself you underestimate my. discomfort on trains okay I'm concerned. about this all right Carson play the. rest of the. clip there's more I know. oh.

wow nothing you can talk you can. talk suck his dick okay mouth. [ __ ] okay. great do you see what I'm saying now. I've been getting [ __ ] beam the whole. show right but I give women an. opportunity to say I'm going to make. myself worth more but you just. classified yourself as a series of hoes. but but I you know.

I'm I'm supposed to treat you special. but you just a bunch of holes to. [Applause]. yourself no one said learn how to play. Xbox learn how to play pool tell better. stories get another [ __ ] that got a. [ __ ] to come on. in well look. whatever okay reaction anybody I think. that's true if that's all you're. offering then yeah it kind of gets a.

like gives like this perception that. well maybe I can find someone else who. already has one so why would I need to. stay around. okay anyone find thoughts okay. so yo just want to say thank you there's. you know it's obviously getting late so. people are kind of like tuning out now. but there's still like 5,000 people. watching guys if you can if you can get. the likes to I don't know it might not. be refreshing here if you can get the.

likes to 3,000 maybe it's already there. uh drop a like on your way out guys. really appreciate all the support um. super overwhelmed with like how many of. you have been uh tuning in recently in. any case um thank you guys so much for. tuning in tonight you could have been. anywhere in the. world what was that was that a. fart um yeah so thanks for tuning in. tonight you could have been anywhere in. the world but you're here with me I. appreciate that CU I get some ISO in the. chat um lizo ISO H to the iso okay.

that's some okay Millennial talk um yo. thank you to everyone who super chats. and supports the show thank you to the. panel thank you guys so much for coming. pretty much everyone here came from out. of town so really appreciate you guys. coming um what exception of you um. everyone came from like LA or well you. came from West Virginia you came from. Arizona Arizona okay yeah so thank you. guys so much for coming making the the. uh trip thank you to all our chat mods. thank you to Chaz um Chaz I'm gonna get.

back to you I just been super. busy uh. so let's see any women who are. short Andor who have. should I say it should I say my thing. whatever uh my DMs are open. okay BD let just say we will be live. again to Sunday we'll be live again. Tuesday at 7 pm Pacific be sure to tune. in I've got a very good panel for. Tuesday some special guests so stay. tuned anyways guys thanks again for.

tuning in we will see you next time guys. hope you have a good night uh Rachel do. you want to end it on a little Tik Tok. dance it's okay okay cool all right.