The Exercise Expert: This Popular Lifestyle Is Killing 1 Person Every 33 Seconds! Michael Easter

2,000 heart disease deaths a year in. Europe were due. to the noise that people live in Jesus. the world we live in now that is not how. humans are designed to live Michael. Easter bestselling author journalist. professor of Psychiatry he's on a. mission to save us from the comfort. crisis Crisis crisis is it really a. crisis as a species we evolve to do the. easiest most comfortable thing but we. eventually end up paying a price for it. people are burned out stressed out more. mental health problems and we're looking. for the next pleasure and the industry.

really leans into this addiction for. example slot machines once they got rid. of handles and just put a spin button. people went from playing 400 games in an. hour to an average of 900 if you break. that down by minute that's more than we. blink and then we engineered movement. out of our lives with our new job. sitting in these chairs 8 hours a day. now 2% of people take the stairs when. there is also an escalator available and. now we have heart disease the number one. killer of humans globally this drive. that we have to do the most comfortable. thing is a problem as people experience. fewer and fewer Vier problems we don't.

become more satisfied we simply start. searching for the next problem really. yes we become unhappier usage of the. word love Haled between 1965 and 2015. and negative words like hate increased. we need to realize that it's your. ancient brain working against you it's. not your fault but it is your problem I. want to take back control how do we. break out of this I call this concept. being a twcenter and if you apply this I. guarantee you will end up healthier and. learn what you're capable of the first. step is.

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gesture by making sure that everything. we do here gets better and better and. better and better that is a promise I'm. willing to make you do we have a. [Music]. deal Michael there's a quite obvious. through line throughout your work so I. wanted to ask you if you had to sort of. encapsulate and summarize the mission. that you're on with the work that you do. the books that you write how would you. arize that mission I think that in the.

context of today and the world we live. in now you often have to embrace. short-term discomfort to get a long-term. benefit so I think the world is set up. in a way now where things are. easy things are more effortless and. while that is good overall that's a. result of progress I think by not having. moments that press back against us and. this could be everything from taking the. stairs to um being willing to have hard.

conversations in your life all those. sorts of things we lose something about. being a human and lose um the things. that keep us healthy and and happy I I. would argue I argue in the comfort. crisis that the things that most impact. your day-to-day life today how you live. everything from Cars uh climate control. to the food system to on and on and on. they're all relatively new in the grand. scheme of time and space they're all new. within the last 100 years I mean here's. a great example.

uh digital media the average person. today takes in 12 to 13 hours of digital. media a day the radio was invented maybe. 100 years ago that is an insane shift in. how people spend their time and. attention every day and the Brain hasn't. got up no no so we you know a lot of my. work it looks at um looks takes an. anthropological lens really it looks at. how humans were shaped over time and how. we have these adaptations that used to.

make sense in these environments where. um what we needed to survive was scarce. uh where the world was hard and. uncomfortable and life took effort and. those things kept us alive right uh but. when you put us in a world where we've. engineered the world to be kind of a lot. easier in a lot of ways where we have an. abundance of all these things that we're. sort of built to Crave everything from. food to stuff to information to even. status and influence we now have an. abundance of all those things and these. sort of ancient drives we have this.

ancient Hardware it can backfire in. these new environments so that's called. an evolutionary mismatch what is the the. modern symptoms of that evolutionary. mismatch chronic diseases so for example. you know people didn't really get heart. disease until we started engineering uh. movement out of our lives with our new. jobs and um started eating more because. we had a massive supply of food thanks. to advances in agriculture um I think. there's mental health issues too people.

are you know burned out um stressed out. our Collective lack of Fitness I think. too has led to a lot of health issues so. for example um in the past our ancestors. probably were about 14 times more. physically active than us 14 times it's. a crazy. number so when they do uh when. scientists do studies on Hunter gathers. today which are a way to get get to the. ideas of how humans used to live in the. past um groups will generally walk more.

than 20,000 steps a day and that's just. an average day now today the average. American and I would assume probably the. average brid as well we're probably um. about in the same place walk anywhere. from you know 4,000 to 5,000 steps a day. that is just so little in the grand. scheme of time and space we had to be. active to to live and survive and um. this drive that we have to do the next. easiest most comfortable thing it often. backfires today I imagine in preparation.

for your books you spend significant. amount of time studying hunter gatherer. communities and native tribes and things. like that I'm so fascinated by that so. fascinated because I think most of the. answers we're in search of in our modern. lives exist behind us instead of in. front of us if that makes sense what. have you learned about the differences. in how they lived versus how we live now. you talk there about movement and. activity is there any other sort of. really Central differences that. pertinent to health outcomes yeah I mean.

well food is one of them right so as. part of this new book scarcity. brain when you uh when you look at the. diseases that kill humans modern humans. it's heart disease now the crazy thing. about heart disease is that people also. don't worry about it so when you look at. what people worry is going to kill them. it's uh cancer it's Terror attacks it's. you know the crazy Neighbor Next Door. with the gun it's all these whatever. things and heart disease is way down the.

list but what actually kills people is. heart disease full stop like that is the. number one killer of humans globally. especially if you live in a developed. country so I have that in the back of my. mind and I come across this paper this. study and it found a tribe in Bolivia. with the healthiest Hearts ever recorded. by. science the reason they don't seem to. get uh heart disease as well as a lot of. other chronic diseases that we get and. that kill us for example they don't seem. to get Alzheimer's um tracks what they. eat and what they eat at some point in.

the day which is fascinating is that it. is going to give the middle finger to. every single fat diet you've heard of. over the last 40 years so it's not. necessarily low fat it's not low carb. it's not vegan it's not paleo it's not. ex all these different diets you've. heard of right but the one commonality. that all their food has is that it has. just one ingredient so they're eating. things like foods like rice they're. eating potatoes they're eating red meat.

from um Amazonian deer they're eating a. lot of fish they're eating nuts they're. eating fruits they're eating they even. eat sugar right like how many diets do. we have where they're like if you eat a. gram of sugar your kidneys are going to. explode and you're going to die on the. spot right of them and so for me the. takeaway was that um when you look at. what the average person in a developed. uh country eats it's a lot of very Ultra. processed foods so ultr processed foods. are basically that's a euphemism for. junk food it's what scientists use to.

describe junk food you know and it's. stuff packed with all sorts of uh. ingredients and triggers that lead us to. overeat more or less so when you take a. food through a ton of processing right. like a Dorito you guys have those in the. UK yeah we have Doritos oh thank. God you concentrate the calories so one. the food. tastes way better than anything you'd. find in the jungle like when I was. living with these people I'm not going. to lie the food was not that delicious.

it really wasn't so you you make the. food taste a lot better and you also. concentrate the calories the food. becomes a lot easier to eat you can eat. more faster so there's these interesting. experiments at the NIH where they will. lock people in a lab and they will give. them a. unprocessed diet and then for the next. period of time they will give them an. ultr processed diet a sort of junk food. diet now everything about these diets is. matched like the calories the the carbs.

the protein the fat and they say you. know eat as much as you want till you're. full full and when people eat the foods. that have you know fewer ingredients the. unprocessed Foods they end up eating 500. fewer calories a day and they end up. losing weight so that's just one example. of how things have changed so in. scarcity brain in particular you know. I'm looking at. how everything we needed to survive in. the past was scarce and hard to find and. so it made sense to when you got the. opportunity to overdo those things.

whether it be food whether it be GA. gathering possessions right tools. whether it be trying to gain status over. other people trying to gain influence. whether it was information and now we. have an abundance of all of those things. right we've got grocery stores packed. with thousands and thousands of foods on. all sorts of Corners uh information. think about the internet the average. person in one day today sees more. information than a person uh 700 years. ago would have seen them their entire. life Jesus entire life think of status.

and influence right it used to be that. we would be in these uh tribes of people. that would have maybe 150 people Max and. it was very clear what your sort of rank. was right because we got a leader we got. some whatever but now you can blast out. stuff about yourself to millions of. people one time you talk in your work. about I think that was in the first book. The Comfort crisis about how kind of. sort of adjacent to that being in large. groups is has adverse consequences for.

our health and happiness this number 150. people MH in an office space really made. me consider a couple of decisions I've. made what is the what is the basis for. that and what is the the key takeaway so. the number is called dunbar's number and. it's by this researcher uh Robin Dunbar. I hope I got his first name right the. theory is that groups of people um as we. evolved we probably didn't get over 150. people now because of this today when we.

have groups of more than 150 people. things get complicated right because. once a group of people gets over 150 you. got to remember a lot more. interconnected relationships you got to. remember a lot more names you got to. remember a lot more faces you got to. remember all these things and oh by the. way now that we have this big group of. people we need to establish laws we need. to establish all these different things. so it gets rather complex and the. takeaway is that this seems to be a lot. of work and stress for for most people.

and so living in environments where you. are sort of jam-packed in with fewer. people seems to make most people happier. most of the time so you can sort of. gauge happiness levels where people who. live in the most densely packed cities. tend to be on average uh most unhappy. compared to people who live out in rural. areas of course I'm not saying that. everyone that lives in a densely packed. city is unhappy of course I'm not I'm. just saying on average you compare those. two groups you're going to find that. people who live in uh countrysides and.

they're less packed in with groups are. going to be. happier does noise matter noise of the. environment yeah was part of the Comfort. crisis The overarching Narrative of that. book is I spent uh. 33 days in the Arctic and um the thing. that I really didn't expect to happen so. in that book I tell the story of my time. in the Arctic and as I experience these. different forms of discomfort that. humans would have experienced in the. past I sort of peel off and explain the. science behind them and other travels I.

did about them so in the Arctic it was. unbelievably silent there's no one. around for hundreds of miles I mean one. day we're you know you're standing there. and um I hear. this and I'm. going the hell was that turns out it was. my wristatch it is so silent up there. that you're just standing and you just. pick up the of the second hand which.

normally you would have to hold up right. um and so I got curious about. that and what was funny is that humans. have increased the loudness of the world. about fourfold so 100% yep fourfold. since um before we you know became this. species that overtook uh the planet is. the estimate and people tend to get. stressed out when when they're in lots.

of noise all the time so if you think. about noise in the past um if you heard. a loud noise it was probably. danger it's a storm rolling in it's an. animal that thinks you would be a. delicious dinner and is letting out a. roar right so we tend to become stressed. when um we hear loud noises now in the. past those were likely infrequent and. today we kind of live in this lowgrade. loudness that seems to um be associated.

with. stress and even disease which is. interesting yeah there's a uh there was. this interesting wo study where they. estimated that 2,000 heart attack deaths. a year or heart disease deaths a year in. Europe were due to how loud the the. noise that people live in and that's. simply because um loudness increases. stress and stress is a key factor for. heart. disease it makes me think about the way. we've kind of designed our professional. and personal environments you know like. open plan offices and I mean all my.

offices around the world have always. been open plan in your first but Comfort. crisis I think it's chapter 13 where you. start to talk about how that is both bad. for people's anxiety depression and. productivity yeah well and it's funny. because um what I found fascinating. about the studies on that is most people. don't realize that being in a lot of. noise impacts their productivity um but. when you look at what they actually. produce people tend to produce more. better work when they're in more silent. environments. there was one study where one group.

worked in a quiet office and one worked. in an open plan office the open plan. office was 50% louder the workers in the. open plan office so they didn't feel any. more stress but stress monitors found. that they were in fact more stressed and. less productive yeah chapter 13 of your. book I'm sorry that I just I was like my. team are going to hear this we've just. had we've just approved the designs for. for our new HQ in the middle of London. well let's uh you know call off the. build yeah Jesus take a look at the. blueprints after this and that's what. staggering anti- anxiety medication use.

Rises a relative 28% for every 10 deel. increase in sound in neighborhood in. neighborhood experiences and people who. live nearer to loud roads are 24% more. likely to be depressed yeah it's uh it's. definitely surprising right because we. do live in a lot of noise and another. thing that was interesting while I was. reporting that section on um noise and. sound and how that's changed is that. most people today say that they feel at. first uncomfortable in silence totally. me yeah I think everyone's like that I.

can't even sleep without something. playing right so this is a this was a. study in Australia and it was rather. informal but. um yeah people uh would you know take. some time to just be in complete silence. and they all wrote you know At first I. felt really uncomfortable through that. but um on the other side of that they. started to feel better and I think that. that's kind of um a framework for a lot. of things in life it's uncomfortable at. first but when you go through that you. come out of on the other side of it and.

you feel like you've improved and you. probably have improved being alone and. being lonely you s as being two very. different things loneliness seems to. be awful for our healths and we're. getting increasingly more lonely decade. by decade but being alone is what's the. distinction between the two how do you. define the difference yeah so lonely to. me is I want to be with others but I. don't have anyone to be with right I. just don't have that resource in other. people being alone is different it's. choosing to take time to be with.

yourself and see what you can learn from. that and I think too that there's real. there is some interesting research um on. people who just prefer to be alone they. just like Solitude and turns out that. they're just as happy as super social. people there's a little bit of. individual variation now of course these. people will have you know some people in. their life that they can count on I. think that that is absolutely important. but I do think we've shifted in the last. say 15 20 years where the message is.

really you need a bunch of friends to be. happy you absolutely need to be as. social as possible and while I'm not. saying that don't be social that is not. my message at all I am saying that it's. also worth um taking time to be alone. sometimes and seeing what you can learn. from that because I think it does help. you better appreciate those social. moments like for me I never appreciate. my friends more when I've gone off on. some reporting trip into a strange Place.

completely alone for a month or whatever. it might be and then come back and I'm. like oh man I really appreciate being. around these people and I don't take. that time for. granted being lonely increases your. chance of dying in the next seven years. by 26% being lonely can shorten your. life by 15 years staggering stats when. you think about the trajectory of travel. that Society is on with machines and. artificial intelligence and all of these. things um it's hard to find it's. understandable how it might be hard for. someone to find mind hope that the stats.

are going to turn around and go the. other way as it relates to loneliness. are you concerned at all that the. invention of AI and the speed in which. we're seeing it proliferate is going to. lead to you know some people say sex. robots. and and all of these kinds of things I. mean I read an article the other day. where um a woman is a virtual boyfriend. to hundreds of men and they're paying. because they're using generative AI to. have like seemingly intimate. conversations with her. and the fact that there's demand for.

that is a signal of not great things. yeah I think we need I think we. need I mean so then you ask like okay. well why are why are these people doing. that um I think part of it is because. having to go out and interact with. another human is that you don't know is. a little bit awkward and challenging at. first and so to me I mean a big message. of my work is that you have to do. challenging things in order to grow as a. human cuz I guarantee that your. relationship with an actual person is. going to be more rewarding in the Long.

Haul than the you know the AI bot or. whatever whatever they call them but it. is hard to go out in public and I think. that we live in a world where you can. you can go okay I'm going to avoid the. hard thing because I can get this thing. that's easier even though it's not going. to be as good for me in the Long. Haul why you I always think when people. commit themselves to writing books. because books are painful processes I. mean it's nice when it's out but it's. not necessarily enjoyable when you're.

having to condense your thoughts and put. it pen to paper but there is correlation. and there is a through line between. these two subject matters so it makes me. beg the question why did you of all the. things you could have taken an interest. in or become curious about why did. Michael have a Natural Curiosity towards. this subject matter yeah that's a great. question um I think a lot of it for me. is how I grew up um I grew up with a an. only child of a single parent who had to.

travel a lot when I was in my 20s I also. got sober that was not an easy thing. right I was choosing this short-term. relief of alcohol at the expense of. long-term growth and meaning what was. the cost of that oh I mean you're just. an internal mess you know so my I was I. wasn't an interesting case but I I. wasn't the case that most people would. think of in the sense that my life was. totally fine on paper I had a job a. magazine everyone knew you know I had a.

house I had a car that sort of thing but. uh internally I was just a total mess. and it's kind of like the walls were. cing in and I tried to quit drinking a. lot of times and finally it just. occurred to me um like this isn't going. to be easy and if you don't do this. you're probably going to die early by. the way and um I realized I had to just. rip off the Band-Aid and do the hard. thing and once I went through that. process my life improved Mo across the. board when you said that internally you.

were a. mess how do I gain color on what that. means in reality so that people that are. listening who might be internally a mess. will have a bridge to be able to relate. to what you're saying there oh well so. addiction is really um consistently. choosing a short-term reward at the. expense of long-term growth I knew that. my drinking was causing um problems in. my life across the board I mean like you. know I had less money it was eating into. my bank account it was kind of it was.

messing with some of my. relationships um I would never feel good. the 3 days after I would go out on a. bendor right I would just be like a a. mess and um yet I couldn't stop I mean. that's the key right as you go I know. this is screwing me up I know it and. then I tell myself you know what maybe. it'll be different this time like I'm. just G to have one or two drinks this. time and then you have one or two and. you go well if one or two is this good. what would like 10 more be like right. and something shifts in your head um so.

it's choosing that short-term um relief. at the expense of long-term growth and. that is a tough cycle I mean I write. about it in scarcity brain about um. addiction and how we think about it. because I think that another thing. that's interesting about today is that. um you know when people hear the word. Addiction they automatically think drugs. they automatically think alcohol but. really if addiction is choosing the. short-term reward at the expense of. long-term growth it really falls on this. big spect. there's plenty of things we all do every.

day that that fall into that but it's. just how bad is it hurting you to what. extent um and even the you know the dsm5. which is sort of like the Bible of. psychiatrists the one that they. use it basically puts Addiction on a. spectrum it's like a here's like 11. questions about addiction and if you say. yes to you know four of them then you. got a mild case if you say yes to six of. them you got a medium case and if you. say yes to seven or more you got a. extreme case and like when you read that.

you could plug in a bunch of different. behaviors that people do all the time. and go oh I guess I am kind of like. mildly addicted to insert whatever app. you spend way too much time on and um I. think that getting out of that is. ultimately hard and ultimately I I also. see addiction as kind of a symptom of. some underlying thing so for me I think. the reason that I drank is because I had. an office job that I found a little bit. boring um it was rather sanitary. rule-based and as I mentioned before I'm.

a person who I do well on Extreme. experiences right and when I would drink. alcohol would allow me to be sort of. wild and free in this world that's. become increasingly sanitary. increasingly rule-based whatever but. that's like not a good way to find that. there's a lot more productive ways to. find that and I can find that now by. applying it to a job that allows me to. go into extreme and interesting places. right and so I think that you know the. message for the average person is that. um once you figure out why you have an.

issue in the first place and if you can. figure out okay well how do I apply it. to something that enhances my life that. can that can be a good life. hack I want to zoom in on a particular. moment there which we can all relate to. it's the moment you described where you. have an internal conversation about. having those first two drinks now we can. all relate to that in our own ways I. have internal conversations with myself. once in a while about having the carrot. cake and in my head. like it logically I know that this is. not a good long-term decision right it.

could be you know binging on a website. or whatever when you know you've got. other important responsibilities and. priorities in your life that moment. where you have that internal. conversation with yourself it appears to. be the opportunity you have of making a. better longterm decision how on Earth. everyone listening to this will want to. make better long-term decisions how do. we win that battle which is seemingly. with. ourselves it yeah it is in a way with. our cells but it's also I think in a way.

with this sort of ancient Hardware that. we have so in the I'll I'll answer this. this way and it might provide some. insight and um we can kind of go from. there so in this book um scarcity. brain there's this underlying question I. have that is you know everyone knows. that everything's fine in. moderation and yet we all suck at. moderation in some way or another in our. life right we all have a thing that. we're not great at moderating let's say. so I live in Las Vegas and I have this. underlying question and Las Vegas is a.

fascinating town and um so I want to. know why slot machines work why are they. so good at grabbing. attention now long story short as this. leads me to uh this place on the edge of. town in Las Vegas and it's a brand new. fully working cuttingedge casino but. it's used entirely for research on human. behavior so it's a collaboration with. the gambling industry and a bunch of. different Tech companies so you go into. this place and I went in there and it is.

just a it's a real Casino there's hotel. rooms there's like restaurants there's a. coffee bar there's all these different. things that the casino would have like. the slot machines like the poker tables. like the sports book like insert. whatever and while I'm there I end up. talking to a researcher who um designs. slot machines and slot machines work on. what I call the scarcity Loop it is a. three-part Behavior Loop and its three. parts are one opportunity two. unpredictable rewards and three quick.

repeatability so one. opportunity you have an opportunity to. get something of value that's going to. enhance your life in the case of a slot. machine it's money right two. unpredictable rewards you know you'll. get that thing of value at some point. but you don't know when and you don't. know how valuable it's going to be so. with slot machines it's like you play. you could lose your money you could win. a couple dollars you could win hundreds. of thousands of dollars it's crazy and. then three quick repeatability you can. immediately repeat the Behavior now the.

important part is that and why I'm. talking about this is because that. three-part Behavior Loop it is uh the. most powerful Behavior loop at getting. people to repeat behaviors and get. sucked in it's like the serial killer of. moderation okay and it's now in all. sorts of other Tech and institutions so. for example it's what makes social media. work it's what makes dating apps so. compelling it's being put in um. financial apps like Robin Hood um it's.

being leveraged by different um gig work. companies right it explains the rise of. sports betting it's embedded in a lot of. these behaviors that we can't seem to. moderate so when I look at the things. that people aren't good at moderating. whether it's you know I check email way. too much or I check my stocks way too. much and this drives me nuts um it. usually fall it's usually behavior that. falls into those into that scarcity Loop. and so the book unpacks you know what it.

is uh where it came from why we get. hooked on it in the first place and I. can explain that please and then where. it um pops up in Modern Life you want to. know where it came from yeah yeah yeah. okay so I had the same question so I. talked to the slot guy and now I'm like. okay I get that gambling and slot. machines are so. compelling I get that this thing is in a. lot of different places but why why in. the first place he just looks at me goes. I don't know like he just makes money. off it he doesn't care. so I end up calling a guy who's a.

psychologist at the University of. Kentucky and this guy is an old school. behavioral psychologist like he got his. PhD in 1968 he's been doing research uh. ever since and he explained that it. likely evolv to help us find food in the. past so if you think of humans in the. past you basically had to find food. every day or else you're going to die. but you don't know where the food is and. you don't know how much you're going to. find so you go to point a no food point.

B no food Point C ding ding ding jackpot. you find this massive elk that you end. up killing and it feeds you for weeks. right so that is the exact same. architecture as a slot machine you play. the game you don't get anything you play. the game you don't get anything you play. the game oh it's right there amazing and. you couldn't predict any of that right. and you've got to repeat that behavior. every day for life so we seem to be in. inherently attracted to behaviors that. fall into that Loop because if we.

weren't in the past um we wouldn't have. had as much incentive to continue. searching for food and in turn survive. so we still have that sort of ancient. hardware and are we the only ones or is. the rest of the animal kingdom wide in. such a way because one would assume they. would be yeah they are so the the guy. that I spoke to at the University of. Kentucky he does research on. pigeons and pigeons will play a gambling. game that gets them less overall res. resources compared to a predictable game.

that gets them more food so we can. basically turn pigeons into these sort. of degenerate gamblers and you see it in. rats you see it in um other primates. yeah so when the rewards unpredictable. for a pigeon they engage in the behavior. more Yep which would again matches up. with your theory that whenever there's. unpredictable Awards associated with an. action we are more engaged because it. falls into that prehistoric Cloud wall. exactly think about um starting a car. okay you start your car um it turns on. every time that's not that exciting.

right like it's not going to capture. your attention let's say you turn it on. and it doesn't turn over so you try it. again it doesn't turn over you try it. again it doesn't turn over what are you. going to do you're just going to be like. okay well my car's not starting I'm. going to fix it now what happens if you. go to start your car and it doesn't turn. over but it kind of Putters it goes like. it's going to turn on and then it stops. then you do it again and then it doesn't. do that and so you're like okay well. what's going on so you do it again it. starts to sound like it's going to come. on it's like don't D D D D but then it. doesn't you're going to sit there. messing with that so long as that car is.

giving you signs of life right there's. this unpredictability embedded into it. and that'll capture attention of yeah. any animal pretty much and I mean that's. what when I was thinking about I think. it's called like near Miss Theory or. something that you you talk about in. your book that's kind of what that is. when you see you're on like a slot. machine and you see like the Cherry go. nearly you nearly got it you didn't. quite get it but is that called near is. it near Miss Theory or something yeah. near miss so near misses are a term from. the casino industry and in slot machines.

let's say you have five reels and you. know you need these bars to line up. these gold bars or whatever they we'll. use cherries that's a better example you. got four cherries line up and if this. fifth Cherry hits you're going to win a. bunch of money now what will usually. happen in slot machines is that fifth. wheel they will be programmed to have. that thing roll longer and longer and. longer so they extend that out cuz you. are sucked in you're like if this thing. lands I'm about to win a bunch of. money and then it.

lands but it's not the. Cherry what tends up what ends up. happening is that this leads people to. repeat the behavior quicker actually and. because uh near misses are. mathematically more likely to happen. than actual wins it compels people to. repeat the behavior do they use n misses. as a way to engage us with technology or. anything else in our lives is there like. any other examples within our modern. lives where I know brands or technology. companies are using that as a way to. engage us yeah well you could think if.

you. um I mean say you get an update on your. phone let's say you go into Instagram. and you get an update and it's a comment. I mean you could. argue well a comment it could be good it. could be bad is this a comment from like. someone that I think is super cool. that's saying oh that's an amazing photo. you look wonderful on that photo or is. it some troll online going man you look. like a complete idiot in that right so. there's always unpredictability and. embeded in social media it wouldn't work. if you knew what was coming I guess. that's what why so many people just keep.

tweeting and posting because it's kind. of like every post comes with a bunch of. likes and you're going you know you. might go viral yeah totally yeah think. of the think of the experience of using. um we'll take uh Twitter um now called X. apparently um so you let's say you have. come up with a a little tweet that you. think is hilarious it's of the moment. right so you put it up and then you wait. right the reals are spinning. and you open the up app back up and. you're like did people like it did they.

retweet it and you don't know what what. could have happened it could be so. clever that like oh my God so many. people have retweeted this and this. feels amazing if this happens but it. could have fallen flat and then you're. like now I actually look like an idiot. because I put out a joke and no one. thinks it's funny it's like telling a. joke in front of a room and people just. stare at you right so there's this range. of unpredictable outcomes that could. happen same with scrolling though in a. way I mean you just scroll and scroll. and scroll and you're kind of searching. for that video that's going to provide.

you with a hit of something right could. be oh here's some sort of crazy fight. that happened outside of a bar after a. Philadelphia Eagles game because the. fights are always in Philadelphia in the. US um or it could be this video this. amazing heartwarming dog video and that. makes me smile or it could be some. hilarious video that you're just. laughing your butt off until you're kind. of sucked into that waiting for the next. win right you're scrolling scrolling. scrolling and then that's the one that. got me how do we break out of this cuz I.

you know I want to take back control. yeah well we all. do um well first I will say that um when. people fall into this loop I like to say. that you're not a bad person because. this is very much part of the human. brain you know people will be hard on. themselves because their screen time is. so high and like why do I keep doing. this thing so you're not a bad person. it's your ancient brain working against. you it's not your fault but it is your.

problem you still have to figure out how. am I going to get out get out of this uh. the first step to me is just being aware. of it in the first place so once you. become uh aware of behavior and observe. a behavior it tends to change that's. called the Hawthorne effect and then the. second part is that you can remove or. change any of the three parts of that. Loop that I of the scarcity Loop that I. mentioned so you can remove or change. the opportunity you can REM remove or. change the unpredictable Rewards or you.

can remove or change the quick. repeatability you can slow things down. in scarcity brain in chapter four you. talk about something I was also very. very compelled about which is you make. the case that we have an ingrained sense. of not being enough my first book the. last chapter is about this idea of like. not being enough I've always. hypothesized whether humans are built. with a I don't know a message in our. genetic code that tells us where we are. designed and we will struggle forward to. get more like is that hard wide into us. well I think that when you when you look.

at how humans behave it seems to be. right and I think it does go back to. Evolution because if you had more of. these things that we need to survive. whether it's food to stuff to. information to um status you would have. a survival advantage and that's still um. built into us I think it still is. advantageous today to a point um now I'm. going to turn the question back on you. so it's like you probably you have that. drive right and that's taken you to a. certain place and now um you have.

certain Financial assets and you've sort. of shifted though too your career so now. I'm turning it back on you how do you. feel like that's manifested itself in. your life I it's interesting because in. chapter 7 you talk about this idea of. status and I once upon a time three four. years ago would have told you that I'm. no longer playing status games because. three or four years ago I would have had. flashy things like I had like a Rolex. and like a sports car and designer stuff.

now I have none of that the outfit you. see me in now is pretty much the outfit. everyone sees me in always and so I. assumed that I like liberated myself. from the game of status however I read. another book and it was it made the case. that are the status games we all play. just change and in fact it's an anti-. signal now for someone in my position to. have those things so I'm just playing a. different status game maybe the status. game I'm playing is how big can my. podcast be or how good can I be on like. TV or whatever it is MH it's just a. different game so that's kind of where I. think I am now I think I've just changed.

the game no I think you're right I think. we all changed the game and we like to. we like to think that we're either not. playing the game or that the game hasn't. changed um everyone's like that so. what's it what's really interesting. about status which I I loved learning. when I was uh reporting about it in the. book is that. um psychological researchers they didn't. really research status all that much. until the 90s and this is because. they didn't want to admit that status is. important to humans because by.

researching it you are saying this is. probably important to me so the worst. thing you can do for your status is tell. people that you care about your status. absolutely yet everyone cares about it. and everyone asks oh no I don't care I. don't care what others think about me. it's like yeah you do like let's I'll be. honest everyone cares to some extent. what others think about them in some way. and I think by talking about it and also. understanding why in the first place is. important now the reason why to me is. that the more status and influence that. you would have had in the past uh would.

have given you a survival advantage in. the sense that you probably would have. to you probably wouldn't have to do the. crappy like menial labor that burns. energy you probably would have had more. mates you probably would have gotten. more food you probably would have gotten. all these things and still today when. you look at um how status affects Health. people of lower status tend to have. worse Health outcomes Than People of. higher status and so you might think. well this is just because the the higher. status people have more money and they. can go to better hospitals and get. better healthare but the thing is is.

that it holds in countries that have. Universal healthare so everyone's. healthare access is pretty much. equal could it not relate to the type of. work they're doing because as you kind. of said earlier I think of if you're. lower status one might assume the type. of work you're doing is constrained MH. low autonomy maybe more isolated. potentially monotonous or less. fulfilling and that might have. physiological. implications um it's interesting people.

that are higher status live. longer that's not a nice narrative is it. yeah no and that's the thing it's like. it's not super comfortable to talk about. right um and it definitely affects us. and here's a here's a sort of fun crazy. study that I came across while reporting. scarcity brain is that uh flights that. have a first class cabin they have a. four-fold higher rate of rage compare. compared to flights that don't have a. first class cabin and if the passengers.

in second class coach have to walk. through the first class cabin the rate. increases to a ninefold increase in. incidents of air rage what is air rage. people going absolutely nuts on flights. it's like when there's a there's a big. incident with you know the the flight. attendant or someone just losing their. mind and they have to ground plane or. whatever it might be and why do you. think that is well the researchers think. it's because of that massive status.

queue of having to walk through first. class and by the way you're not first. class because you're in coach we talked. about um food in your how you covered it. in your first book but in your second. book scarcity brain you talk about food. again specifically you talk quite a lot. about snacking oh yeah snacking what's. the problem with snacking everybody. snacks so this isn't in the. 1970s the food industry decided you know. we need to come up with this new. category. of eating and it's eating between meals. snacking now if people are eating three.

Square meals um they may not be super. full so they kind of need just these. little meals they can have and they need. to be easy to eat they need to be quick. to eat so they come up with um snack. foods and what's really interesting is. that uh you know I told you about the. scarcity Loop there is a executive in. the food industry who's was talking. about what makes a snack food successful. like how do you sell snack food and he. said it has to have three V's it's got. to have value it's got to have variety.

and it's got to have velocity that's. just another way of talking about that. Loop so right it's a good value variety. it's got to have a lot of different. interesting intense flavors and there's. got to be a lot of different options so. when you think about chips or crisps as. you guys you guys call them crisps right. there's a bunch of different flavors. there's like barbecue there's sour cream. there's salsa there's like all these. different flavors and then um velocity. it has to be quick to eat so when you. Ultra process a food as I mentioned. before people tend to eat it faster and.

so the industry really leans into this. they create snacking as this totally new. category and this is um in the 70s is. when you really start to see obesity. climb and it's because we just end up. eating more across the day meantime our. activity levels are are dropping there's. a kind of a through line there with. gambling when you talked about velocity. the the speed in which you get the. outcome mhm being short the faster we. can do a Behavior the more likely we are. to repeat the behavior especially if. it's unpredictable so one of the big.

advances in Casino technology for. example with slot machines was removing. the handles because you know if you've. um if the machine has a handle you have. to once they got rid of handles and just. put a spin button you can keep your hand. on the button and. just and it basically doubled the rate. of gambling so people went from playing. I think 400 to 500 games in an hour up. to an average of 900 so that's more if.

you break that down by minute um it's. more than we. blink interesting yeah with a crazy. range of outcomes too why can't it so if. snacking is a sort relatively new. invention in modern society and it's. it's correlated to the rise in. obesity can we not just measure the. amount of calories that we have like can. we not just do the you know the whole. calories in calories out approach to. staying fit and healthy oh I I think you. absolutely could but I just the question.

is are people going to actually do that. I mean I think there's a certain sub you. know there's a portion of the population. that will do that and you know I do. believe that if you were to measure. everything perfectly you have um you. know you could probably lose weight. eating McDonald's and there's people who. have shown this at the same time if you. are eating only McDonald's I can tell. you something you are going to be. starving throughout the day because. foods that are Ultra processed tend to. less filling per calorie than foods that. have just a single ingredient so I want.

you to picture um you and I have a bag. of potato chips and then we have a plate. of boiled. potatoes what do you think we could have. more calories. of aren't they the same thing they both. made of. potato the the fried potatoes right. right really the chips so if you like. how you could probably eat an entire bag. of chips if you really set your mind to. it oh yeah but you could e an equivalent. amount of calories and boiled potatoes I. mean it would you would get full like a.

quarter of the way through so for. example you know like a boil an ounce of. boiled potatoes might have 50 to 100. calories an ounce of chips might have. 200 whatever it is and by the way it's. also not as filling because there's not. as much water content um so when you. process a food you concentrate the. calories and people tend to eat more of. the food I don't eat them anymore but. they to be one of my favorite foods and. in your first book I think you you came. for them which is quasons but I I don't.

have those anymore because they make you. feel like and my gut hates them but. you use a crossant as an example of a. food that makes us less full MH yeah so. there's this really interesting study. out of Australia where they um had. people eat a certain amount of different. types of foods and then they had them go. eat at a buffet a certain amount of time. later and measured how much they ate. after and asked them how how full they. were after eating the test food.

so they found that the most filling food. per calorie was plain boiled potatoes um. I think after that was just plain white. fish that was a relatively lowfat fish. and then after that I think it was. oatmeal just plain oatmeal and the least. filling Foods were tended to be things. like croissants cookies foods like that. foods that have been um you know we're. we're mixing. flour fat all these sorts of things and.

baking it and it's like this nice crispy. thing so it's really a it's a. measurement of how processed a food is. basically a small croissant and white. potato both have about 170 calories but. you'd have to eat seven cants before you. feel the same amount of fullness as one. potato H how much of weight gain is. about the feeling of fullness because. it's not really a concept that I really. thought much about this idea of fullness. I thought. the key thing was calories or not eating. junk food but.

fullness well I think that you will. be. Fuller or you will be as full eating. fewer uh and end up eating fewer. calories if the food is not as processed. so the foods just they take up more room. in your stomach they're not packing in. as much calories per. bite let's say for you to be full you. have to eat 10 ounces of. food and we have one food then that has. 50 calories per ounce and one food that. has 100 calories per ounce right so if.

you were to eat the 10 oun of this food. you're going to eat 500 calories but if. you eat 10 ounces of this food you're. going to eat a thousand and I think that. you extrapolate that across the day and. you start to see oh okay I can see why. choosing foods that help me be more full. on fewer calories could be good if my. goal was to lose weight or not gain. weight compared to F foods that are more. calorie dense what's your position on. fasting I think that it can be a good. weight control tool for some people I. think um it can.

constrain like look if you're a person. who's eating around the clock and you go. okay well I'm just going to eat from. noon to whatever 6:00 p.m. or 700 p.m. you've just cut out a lot of meals um I. also think that if you were to go well. since I'm only eating from noon to 6:00. p.m. um I better eat a ton every single. meal I don't know if you would lose. weight I think there could be definitely. some um health benefits. possibly um but I also think that if. you're doing these extended fast that.

could maybe not be great for for muscle. mass so I think it kind of goes back to. like these things are complicated right. and I think it kind of goes back to uh. what is your goal uh how are you trying. to use this tool like what are you doing. this for and then is the way that you're. doing it does it align properly with. your goal but I do I mean I've met. plenty of people who have lost weight. fasting simply because they ate crap for. breakfast and they would stop at. Starbucks on the way um to work and get. some sugary drink and like just by.

cutting that out because now they don't. eat till noon like they ended up losing. weight you talk about hungry. days programming two hungry days per. week yes hung day that's one that um has. worked for some people where you could. eat relatively normally say 5 days a. week and then people will eat say 500. calories on their two hungry days so. basically you're just constraining your. calories basically just pulling the. lever of time right um if you can at the. end of the day it. um I think really calories is probably.

the best predictor of weight gain or. loss and so the question is okay if you. need to reduce the calories how are we. going to do that and there's a lot of. different ways to do it I think that. fasting is pretty damn simple right it. seems a lot simpler than some of the. other methods out there I was on a a. treadmill many years ago in Boston and I. always tell the story cuz I'd got into. this routine of running like 5 10 kmers. a day every day on the treadmill pretty. much every on the treadmill and I and. when I got to that 510 km Mark I would. typically feel like fatigued and then.

there was this one day where I landed in. Boston got on this treadmill that the. distance dial wasn't working so I. couldn't see how far I was running so I. thought well I'll stop when I feel the. usual feeling and I start running and I. start running and I start running and I. start running and I only get off the. treadmill because I'm going to be late. for this appointment that I have and. when I hit the stop treadmill button the. distance pops up and I've run two times. further than I usually run on a. treadmill and I didn't feel the same I. felt fine felt fine and I couldn't.

understand that until and I've said this. on stage quite quite often as evidence. that there's clearly something going on. in our psychology that is signaling to. our body that we are at our limits and. that's clearly somewhat of an illusion. and then I read in your first book The. Comfort crisis this idea of where you. talk about mental fatigue does that kind. of marry up to what I'm what I'm saying. oh 100% muscular fatigue sorry our. psychology effects are how we perform. basically and there's a lot of. fascinating studies um similar to yours. where they will uh take people and um.

you know they'll give them some sort of. cue like we're gonna run as run as far. as you can um most people are getting. about an hour so they'll give them this. Quee and then they will change the uh. time basically they'll change the clock. so the people maybe have run 40 minutes. in real in reality but they think. they've done you know an hour and 5. minutes which is 5 minutes longer than. some of the better times and they'll be. like okay I'm totally wiped out they'll. do opposite where they slow down time so.

these people will have run an hour and. say 30 minutes I'm making up the times. but they think they've run that hour and. five minutes just a little bit better. than the next guy and then they'll then. they'll be like okay I'm totally. fatigued and there's plenty of research. that goes back years that basically says. our psychological perceptions is a key. determinant of um how tired we feel. during exercise cuz at the heart of this. Comfort crisis is our psychological. relationship with discomfort discomfort. to me feels like a story I tell myself.

oh it's totally a story yeah what story. are you going to tell yourself right so. here's another great. example your. legs they're they're spasming they're. tired if you're running up a hill it. sucks you want to quit if you're having. sex this is great right like context. really matters about how we feel and so. I think also realizing you know there's. some really fascinating studies. that show we don't recruit all of our um. capacity more or less because uh it's a.

defense mechanism right you want to keep. some capacity on board so your brain is. trying to slow you down and shut you. down before you've reached your limit. framing how you want to view how a. workout is going is important right and. I think it can allow you to squeeze a. little more performance out of it now. let's say your brain only allows you to. recruit 50% of your muscle I don't think. you can go I've only gotten 50% and. you're going to get like up to 100 like. doesn't work like that but I do think. running it through like context and.

thought and realizing like this actually. isn't as bad and by the way I've chosen. to do this and it's kind of awesome that. I can choose to do this can allow you to. perform a little better I wonder I wish. there was like a magic pill we could. take which allowed us to change the. frame and the story We Tell ourselves. about the discomfort we experience you. know because there's clearly a big group. of people that are able to you know. Ultra Runners and Ultra athletes and all. this stuff but you but this can also be. I mean this isn't just exercise we're. talking about right it's like what story. am I going to tell myself in any given.

situation so I get I'll give you a good. example is that um so I spend 33 days in. the Arctic right now to get up to where. the drop off point is you have to take a. bunch of different flights my first. flight is from Las Vegas to uh. Seattle and I hate flying right the. plane is always too hot the seed is. cramped the movies suck on the plane if. you want to go to the bathroom it's just. cramped little closet babies crying it's. just it's. terrible then I go spend a month in the.

Arctic where I'm hungry the entire time. if I want water I have to hike down to. the stream and Hike it back up I'm. freezing cold the entire time I'm. sitting in the dirt the entire time if I. want to go to the bathroom I have to. hike out onto the tundra and I got to. bring a rifle because there's grizzly. bears so when I leave that world and I. get back on that flight to Las Vegas. what do you think the flight was like h. amazing this is the most amazing thing. that's ever happened to me right so the.

chair I hadn't sat in a chair for more. than a month it's like oh my God this. chair is so incredibly comfortable I'd. been freezing the entire time so that. warm plane I was like oh this plane is. so comfortable so nice and warm I'd been. bored out of my mind up there the whole. time because I don't have any screens or. anything so those movies in the seat. back oh my God this is the most. stimulating thing I've ever watched this. is. incredible um snack food I used to think. the airplane snack food sucked I'm like. oh my God these pretzels amazing and. then when I go to the bathroom right.

it's you hit this little red Tab and you. get hot running water that hits your. hands at 35,000 ft and you're moving 600. mes hour through tube of Steel it's like. when that hot water hit my hands it was. incredible so context matters because. once I went and did that that totally. reframed how I think about these. situations that I used to about in. the past and now I can appreciate them. so the reality is is.

that the world that we live in today is. amazing in so many ways like full stop. incredible the fact that we have hot. running water on demand the fact that we. have all these different forms of. entertainment the fact that we don't. have to hunt and gather for our food. like we're not forced to do these things. um but we often miss how amazing that is. because we're like the fish thrown in. the water that don't in the water and um. I do think that doing things that push.

back against that having experiences. that you throw yourself into they can be. big and small that throw you out of your. comfort zone and give you perspective I. do think that that is important um in. order to live well and get perspective. and have gratitude I mean I still have. times today. where I'll be washing my hands the. water's nice and hot and I'll think back. to that and be like Oh remember when. like hot running water hit your hands. and you got emotional how amazing it is. I mean it's good to have these reminders. that life is pretty amazing right now. we've come pretty far it made me think.

that discomfort is an antidote for. happiness in that regard because you. know and also then my it popped into my. brain what I what I used to learn about. the stoic people and how they do that. sort of what hnis adaptation and they. would um remove the pleasantries from. their lives so that they could. appreciate them more yeah we adapt to. what we have so it's like today's. pleasure is tomorrow is just any given. thing and we're looking for the next. pleasure and um there's some interesting. studies about this as well one of my.

favorites from the comfort crisis is. this study that found that as people. experience fewer and fewer problems we. don't um become more satisfied we simply. start searching for the next problem. really yes it's called it's a theory it. was discovered by Harvard researchers in. the psychology department and it's the. technical term they call it as. prevalence induced concept change and. you can just think about it as problem. creep Now problem creep creep right so. you know what used to be a problem. yesterday or we're always going to look.

for problems it's basically what I'm. trying to say um and they discovered. this where in this study where they. would have people look at a bunch of. different faces and determine you know. is this face threatening or. non-threatening they'd go one face after. another and by the 200th face though. this the scientists started feeding the. participant or the yeah the study. participants fewer and fewer threatening. faces the other study they did two of. these they had them look at research. papers and determine whether the.

research papers were ethical or. unethical same deal about Midway through. they start feeding them fewer and fewer. unethical research. proposals now if these two things are. black or white the groups would have. said threatening fewer times as time. went on they would have found fewer and. fewer unethical research proposals. because they've been given less right. because they've been given less but that. didn't happen what they did is they said. said threatening the exact same amount. of times they took faces that were kind. of on the border that they would have. passed up and not said were threatening.

before they started deeming those. threatening same with the research. proposals they started getting more. nitpicky now the scientist who I uh. spoke with his name is David lavari yep. getting his name right I remembered it. um he explained that probably in the. past it gave you a survival advantage to. always be looking for the next problem. right cuz if you're a type of person. who's vigilant going okay we might run. out of food that is problematic we got. to fix it um this is a problem let's fix.

that if you're Vigilant like that that. would that would help you survive right. but applied to today's world where. you've seen the world get better and. better over. time it often causes us to miss how. amazing it is and pile up first world. problems right so uh there's also. amazing research where researchers will. ask the average American do you think. the world world is improving and only 6%. of people think the world is improving.

it's because we look for the next. problem but if you think about that from. like let's take the last 500 years like. of course the world is better you live. longer you're more likely to be literate. you're less likely to be starving you're. less likely to use a child yeah exactly. on and on and on but we often don't um. realize that in the moment and that. affects us are we getting you know you. talked about the abundance we have in. the world but are we getting. happier do you know any stats around. around our Collective happiness or how.

we report on. that yeah I think a lot of the research. on happiness suggests that we are less. happy than we were um more mental health. problems as well we all know those stats. around Depression more mental health. problems yep and there's probably a. variety of reasons for that but I do. think that one one thing that's. interesting. um we seem to live in a world where uh. a lot of people have enough of what they. need to survive and if they don't it's. probably a governmental problem it's.

probably a distribution problem um and. this I'm mainly talking about developed. countries here but as we've got more and. more and more we haven't necessarily. become more happy so for example I think. their year was from 1970 to about. 2000 the real income of Americans grew. by 50% so this is um this factors in you. know price adjustments. inflation so people got 50% richer on. average yet happiness didn't change in.

fact it might have actually decreased a. little bit so this suggests that once. our needs are met to a certain point. like it's not necessarily going to make. us happier yet we keep thinking that you. know happiness is going to be in the. next purchase that it's in the next meal. out that it's in the next uh viral tweet. or whatever it might be did they. discover an antidote for this sort of. incessant search for problems because. I'd like to be content. yeah well that that's the that's the. search right that's the that's the. ultimate human search I think that a lot.

of uh religions they're set up to. counter. that right don't don't uh don't steal. because you're taking away from someone. else and Society falls apart don't be. gluttonous because that's going to give. you problems don't you know they're all. telling us don't overdo all these. worldly things that we tend to overdo. and instead the f is to you know take. the focus off. yourself and put it on something that.

will help you um kind of do the next. right thing now those get interpreted in. ways that can be controversial of course. but I do think that the overall. architecture is the same and that is the. that is the ultimate question for all. people right my whole team here have got. more and more into running we speak. about running all the time and obviously. you know Daniel liberman who's been on. the show before I think he wrote well he. wrote a book on running didn't he it's. his last book the one we had a. conversation with on the show what's. your perspective on exercise running and. what did you learn when you studied um.

nomadic tribes about the importance of. exercise yeah well I mean I do think. that um it's probably the best thing. that you can do for your health is. exercising and I think that um you know. a lot of people will say exercise is. medicine I think more that inactivity is. poison so we evolved to have a certain. amount of activity in our daily life. like we need that in order to be get a. certain to healthy and happy and we. often don't get that today the way we. design Our Lives um something I write.

about in the comfort crisis. is uh the human body is good at two. things humans have all to be good at two. things one of them is running long. distances relatively slowly which I'm. sure Daniel liberman talked about. because he's the dude who discovered. that he's great but the other thing that. we are good at is carrying things for. distance so you you ask okay well why. are we good at this long distance. running in the Heat and it's because we. would chase down animals who are not. good at cooling themselves um for miles.

and miles and miles until they. overheated and then we would kill them. and we would have our. meal but then what happens after you. kill an animal away from. Camp call an anci. Uber you got to carry back yeah and. we're the only uh we're the only animal. that can carry things for distance. well and that absolutely shaped us just. as much as running did so we've got.

these hands that can grip things. strongly we're built in such a way that. um we can carry stuff for distance and I. argue in the comfort crisis a lot of. people still run like jogging is popular. but carrying things as a. workout is something that a lot of. people don't do and so I advocate for uh. rucking which is loading up a backpack. with weight and walking and when you. compare uh rucking to running rocking.

tends to um be less injurious so people. the injury rate is much lower it also. preserves more. muscle than running does so when you run. you're burning fat but you're also. burning muscle when you rock because you. have weight on your body it's signaling. your body like don't burn quite quite as. much muscle and studies bear that out. um so you're kind of getting cardio and. weight training in one and I think it's. a good thing that people should be doing. I'm not saying don't ever run but I am.

saying we've engineered this really. important form of human physical. activity which is carrying things for. long distances out of our lives and by. adding it back in I think we do get a. lot of different benefits how does the. modern body look different to the body. of our ancestors in that regard or these. um nomadic tribe tribes do they have. sort of cuz I imagine if they're if. they're carrying things in a world where. we can put it in the boot of a car or. find some other means using Wheels to.

roll it they must be physiologically um. adapted in certain ways I think that. well I think that in my experience and. you would have to talk to Dan as well to. see if he um agrees with this but I do. think that most Hunter gathers are much. smaller than the average Westerner is. they're just much smaller because they. don't have as much food they're also far. more active and so they're not giant. people when you look at when you look at.

people in the west today were giant. people in the grand scheme of time and. space who burns more calories uh well if. you did it per pound of body weight they. do like by far but when you they might. wait so you have to do it by how big the. person is right if you have two people. that are burning 3,000. calories great but if one person weigh. weighs 250 lb and the other weighs 120. lb well the person who's 120 lb is. burning far more for their body weight.

and that's an important distinction that. needs to be made when we talk about do. hunter gatherers burn as many calories. as Westerner because there's some people. who are like well they burn the same. it's like yeah they're 100b on average. we're on average 200 lb like that's a. big difference the arms of the average. Prehistoric Women for example were 16%. stronger than those of today's women's. Olympic rowers yeah Jesus yeah they're. they're very fit people I mean they can. go there's this one um Anthropologist I. talked to who spent some time with. hunter gatherers in Tanzania and she.

talked about how even the older people. in the tribe we're talking about you. know 70 80 year old women they can just. hike all day they can hurdle over rocks. like it's like they're monsters and I'm. like you know she's a 30-year-old woman. she's like I'm kind of trailing behind. these these women that are like two. almost three times my. age and that's because they've stayed. active in kept muscle mass right yeah. they stayed active and so when you think. about daily life.

um a lot of it is effortful so they're. not just Co they're not just covering. ground they're covering ground that is. rough right it's all. Outdoors um that's going to require more. energy than a than a sidewalk they're. carrying stuff they're squatting they're. digging they're some of them will climb. trees even when they're resting they. might rest in the squat position where. we are going to rest in a lazy boy and. just melt into it right so there's this. all this I mean besides just the stuff.

that we would look at and say like yeah. that's active I mean even just resting. is more active than we're they're always. undergoing some low level of physical. activity and now we've engineered so. much of that out of our lives and that's. undoubtedly changed us but we don't even. know it's like we're born into it right. because as a species we evolved to do. the next easiest most comfortable thing. so we have applied that with technology. ology to our. environments and it's good overall but.

it's changed us it's changed our fitness. it's changed our physicality and once we. did that and realized oh we've taken out. all this physical activity out of our. lives and now we're getting sick for it. we go well I guess let's just like build. these buildings where um you just go and. you know maybe you run on a belt and. maybe you pick up some uh weights that. are perfectly balanced and you do that. you know how about three sets of 10. that's what we'll call it right so when. we we basically invented exercise right.

and it's not the same as we used to. necessarily do in the past I'm not. saying that there's anything wrong with. that but I just saying that the way that. we are Physically Active today even that. has changed greatly like no one in the. past would have tried to get Giant and. lift a bunch of Weights that it doesn't. make sense to have all this extra muscle. you didn't have enough food to grow it. you didn't want to be carrying that. around on your persons I mean think of. mountain climbers they don't like bulk. up for a climb right they don't get huge. and jacked it's like no you need to be. strong for your weight you need to be as. strong as possible for your weight but. you don't want to have any excess weight.

and today you have people who are like I. just want to be like 250 pounds of pure. muscle it's going to be awesome people. always people have been saying to me. that calisthenics is one of the more. important exercises probably for that. very reason that lifting your body. weight is probably the central being. able to move your body is the most. important thing not having massive guns. yeah and I think it is a strange thing. like there is some research that says. that muscle mass um is good for. longevity and protective um a lot of. those studies are often conducted um. looking at people who are sarcopenic and.

there's a difference between people who. have a dangerously low level of muscle. mass and those who just have a ton just. to have it I think probably The Sweet. Spot is just be in a as much as BMI is a. controversial measurement I think. probably be in a BMI that is normal and. try and be strong for your weight and do. a bunch of cardiovascular exercise I. mean just look at like what did humans. do for all of time that's probably a. pretty good road map to try and mimic. and you tend to find that those people. aren't that giant Daniel liberman said.

something to me which is clearly so. obvious but really did shock me he said. when he spoke to these sort of hunter. gatherer tribe. communities they almost laughed at him. when he asked them what they do for. exercise because the concept of exercise. is not something they think about. because they're exercising all day so I. think he remarked that one of those. communities turned around him and was. like why would you run for. fun totally yeah they he was go what do. you do for exercise and they probably. said what the hell's exercise literally.

like oh he said like something like. training what do you do to train and. they were like training like we it's. part of our life is exercise well that's. how it was for all of us forever like no. one moved just to move because our. lifestyles in the past were we had to. just move for work and you wouldn't want. to do any extra because you were moving. all day for labor I mean this was Farm. labor really taxing most people worked. in agriculture um until the Industrial. Revolution um exercise is something that. we invented once we engineered movement. out of our Lives you took about a second.

ago about exercise as a psychological. act I.E once upon a time when we were. out in nature exercising we would be. psychologically stimulated because there. might be a bear or I don't know a lineon. coming at us so we we're we're moving. our bodies but our mind is so attuned to. everything happening around us now as. you said we're on in these gyms with. these rubber belts and we're watching. like I don't know we're like looking at. the screen or watching Netflix or just. yeah whatever real housewise on the on. the treadmill does that having exercise.

be a psychological act where it's. psychologically stimulating through the. when you're doing it does that matter. yeah why I just wrote a deep dive about. this on my newsletter um which I call 2%. we can I can explain why I call it 2%. but when you think about the context of. exercise um that we used to do in the. past there are so many more things. happening than just. the physical work of moving your body. across the land so as you're moving take.

take something like trail. running you're having to figure out okay. well where am I going to place each foot. because the trail might be Rocky you. might even not even be on a trail so. you're having to figure out what what is. my foot placement you're also having to. factor in okay how am I going to Pace. myself knowing I have this distance to. go knowing that it is this hot outside. knowing that I have this much water with. me you're also having to factor in. things in the periphery like are there. wild animals out there and if you are. running because you are say hunting in. the past you're having to track the.

animal that is an exceedingly. psychologically taxing act you're. looking at you're going okay well we got. a broken Branch there oh looks like. there's a blood spatter from that you. know Arrow we put in it it is if running. on a treadmill is like. addition running outside in the context. that we would have run outside is like. multivar calculus and there's a. researcher at USC named David rein and. he's thought about this a lot and he. basically thinks that you know when you.

compare running indoors staring at a. screen your brain just kind of shuts off. you don't really have to do much. cognitive work as you do this exercise. yes it is good for your cardiovascular. health he will say but when you exercise. Outdoors especially if it's in sort of. Wilder nature like on a trail think. running on a trail you're having to do a. lot of cognitive work as you do that and. that might be better for brain health as. well in the long run for people not to. mention outdoor exercise exercise is.

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up one day and I basically couldn't walk. because something in my foot had like. swollen up and then I Googled it and. they said it's plop fitis and the. hypothesis so I I was then given these. ins cels to kind of try and correct it. the hypothesis that I then later. discovered was that because my feet are. so weak because I walk around every day. in these like one-in cushion shoes that. we all do and there's this whole. industry about like heel size and how. that makes running and exercise and. comfort better and it's how it's better. for you or better for your knees when I.

suddenly started exerting a lot of. effort onto my feet because I was. training for a big football match my. feet just gave away and that made me. start to believe that maybe I'm not. supposed to have these massive like 1. inch 1 cm whatever heels soles that we. all have on our shoes imagine if from. the second a child was born we put a. glove on both of their hands that was 1. cmet de side imagine how like weak and. pathetic their hands would be that's. essentially what we're doing to our feet.

and so now I don't wear shoes that have. a like a like a soul I have barefoot. shoes yeah we're supposed to have a. certain amount of inputs strengthwise. and I think that we don't get those in a. lot of ways I mean it's not just it's. not just the shoes right it's also okay. well why does everyone's back hurt. because 80% of people people will. experience back payment some point in. their life and you go okay well you know. we all sit 8 hours a day and we're not.

sitting like in the squatting position. like we used to we're sitting in these. chairs that are comfortable that take. the um physical work we used to have to. do just to keep our torso up off our. back and so then when we go to say Lift. something our back muscles are. exceedingly weak and something happens. and we get a problem right and you can. extend that to many different problems. like average pains that people have it's. usually because our environments are set. up to take the physical stress off our. bodies but we eventually end up paying a.

price for that when we try and do. something out of that very small comfort. zone that we've built ourselves so in. the case of you it's you know you had. weakened your feet over time and then. you add uh load onto them and they're. not ready for that and that manifests. itself as pain for another person it. could be they sit at a desk all day and. they just decid you know I'm going to go. back into the gymm and they do one. deadlift and their back just goes what. are you doing and sends a bunch of pain.

there and it's a lot of different things. shoulder shoulder pain a lot a lot of. different pains are just manifestations. of our modern environment and to avoid. those you said 80% of people will. experience back pain at some time yeah. it's the most common pain that people. will experience and it's also it has a. huge economic toll it's yeah it's pretty. crazy as soon as you said that my back. started to feel painful I don't yeah so. a very a very simple a very simple fix. is spending more time sitting on the. floor. having your back um having to prop it up. like I am now I'm not using the back. rest you know if I do this your back has. to do more work and even just that low.

level of work across time can help. prevent some problems you said sitting. on the floor yep sitting on the floor. that helps with Mobility um when you're. sitting on the floor you don't have this. giant back rest that you can just melt. into your um your body has to do work to. keep yourself upright right and you're. probably going to get uncomfortable at. some point so you're going to shift. around you're going to put your hips. into different positions you're going to. put your legs in different positions um. it seems to help with mobility and with. pain over time what are that's really. useful because that's a small thing that.

I can do to to reduce my chances of. being part of the 80% that will. experience back pain sitting on the. floor more often I can do that what are. the other small day-to-day decisions. that we could all make to give ourselves. a little bit of healthy discomfort in. our lives yeah so I I call this concept. being a two-center and um it comes from. a study that found that 2% of people. take the stairs when there is also an. escalator available.

2% now 100% of those people knew that. taking the stairs would give them a. long-term benefit on their health right. but only 2% taken and that's because. we're a species who's wired to do the. next comfortable thing even when it. doesn't make sense in our comfortable. environment so when I talk about being a. 2center I'm talking about taking the. acttion ual and the metaphorical stairs. when you can what are the small things. that you can do in daily life in order. to add more activity more discomfort.

into your life in a way that is totally. manageable that adds up to a giant. return over time a giant return over. time taking the stairs a giant return. over time if you take the stairs every. single time I guarantee that you will. have better health than if you were to. take that escalator and if you apply. that across the board I mean something. as simple as okay I have a work phone. call I can sit in my office and take it. in this sort of you know dim office or I. can go take it while walking and I've.

snuck in a mile and a half of walking oh. and by the way you know maybe next time. I'm going to throw on a 10 PB rock or a. 20 lb Ruck and I'm going to be rcking. while I take that phone call um I'm. going to park in the parking lot that is. like Siberia away from the grocery store. right and it sounds like people's like. people will say shrug their shoulders. yeah everyone knows that it's like okay. well why the hell doesn't anyone do it. because they don't believe it matters. because they don't believe it matters. and the problem is is that we look at. that act as just one individual act and.

go okay well that might only burn five. more calories okay well what if you did. that 10 times a day and extrapolated it. over a lifetime I guarantee you will end. up healthier and better off than if you. consistently were doing the easier thing. so where can I find those little 2% wins. flow them into my life because once you. start doing it you realize like oh not. only is this very easy to do but I. actually feel better when I do this. stuff right you could carry your. groceries like a lot of back pain would. go away if people started carrying their.

groceries more often I can guarantee. that but we don't do that and um so a. lot of my work and thinking is how do we. find those little winds across the day. and pile them up I'm not saying that. people should stop going to the gym and. doing their normal routine but I am. saying if you're looking at 24 hours in. a day and you are doing the next easiest. most comfortable most lazy thing for 23. and 1/2 hours and you think that your 30. minutes in the gym is going to recoup.

that you're missing you're missing the. big picture that is not how humans are. designed to live I was thinking as you. were talking about how it compounds for. or against you as well so in the example. you gave about the taking the stairs. versus the escalator might burn five. calories and then you times that by 10. you do it time you know then that's 50. calories you're burning a day I was. thinking is there a pounding element to. this my brain decided there was because. if you take the stairs and you burn. calories and build up a little bit of.

muscle you then have more muscle to do. more activities like that and I think I. think it was Daniel liberman that told. me about this concept of syence which is. almost this downward spiral of M muscle. Decay where you like lose muscle so you. you do less activity so you lose muscle. so you do less activity and that's the. spiral downward for a lot of people that. causes aging and death what we think of. aging and ultimately death um and that's. what I thought of in those small things. I thought like it is going to compound. for me if I do it more I'll be able to. do it more so I'll probably do it more.

you know exactly no and you're. absolutely right and you know the. concept isn't even just physical it's. it's psychological it's being willing to. have the hard conversation you need to. have with um your spouse being you know. if you're working on a hard project our. tendency is when the hard project gets. hard what do we do we we check our cell. phone we go I'm going to get up and get. caught. being willing to go through put in that. extra little work to kind of push. through that thing that's just going to. be a little bit harder I think. ultimately leads to the biggest.

transformation and breakthroughs I used. to think you could change your beliefs. you know and then I really got quite. obsessed with figuring out if you could. choose a different belief and I. concluded that you couldn't because. there's no belief in my life that I. genuinely believe that I now if my. family was held at gunpoint could. genuinely change I could lie but I. couldn't actually change the belief so I. thought what a beliefs and concluded. that they are essentially a stack of. evidence that we've accepted as. subjectively true and that is governing. Our Lives it's telling us who we are and.

how we show up especially in situations. of discomfort it's the I remember I had. Chris Eubank Jr on the podcast and he's. like a world championship boxer and he. said to me if I'm home alone and I get. to mile 9 on the treadmill and I told. myself I was going to do 10 I will limp. um and I get cramp in my leg I have to. limp The Last Mile even if no one's. watching because quote I can't let the. demons in. what he's what he's saying there is I. can't let a new self story emerge that. I'm the type of person that quits when.

it's hard because in round 12 of a. championship boxing fight that story. will emerge when I'm on the stool and I. want to quit this idea and it kind of. goes back to you're saying about the. stairs that all of these small things. are compounding psychologically to tell. us a story about who we are and our. relationship with discomfort and that. like you know the greatest way to. influence our self story is to start. keeping uncomfortable commitments with. ourselves and that will compound for us. over time yeah and then once you take. the stairs you you be like okay maybe I.

could do that run that three mile run oh. now I'm doing five I think that you know. you're right about the stories we tell. ourselves and where they come from but. you can change the experiences that you. have right so your experiences will. change that set of beliefs it's like the. story I told about me spending the month. in the Arctic I didn't think I could. ever do that and I hadn't ever had any. reason to be that deeply appreciative of.

the world today I had to go have this. experience that changed my perception. evidence right I could tell myself all. day yeah hot running water's great but. did I ever feel that emotionally like a. legit emotional connection and this like. oh my God like you peel the veil back no. I had to go do um I had to have an. experience outside of your comfort zone. outside of my comfort zone right an. experience that um was tough and. challenging and that is ultimately the. hero's journey that you see in you know.

the work of Joseph Campbell analyzes all. these myths throughout time finds that. all cultures basically have the exact. same structure behind their myths and. that's that the hero gets called to. Adventure but by the way it's going to. be hard it's going to be challenging and. the person doesn't want to go right. there's always this phase where they go. I don't want to deal with this but if. they choose to accept that they're. always going to enter this Middle Ground. that's really trying that's really. challenging they're going to struggle. down there but in the struggle is where. you learn what you're capable of the.

reality is is that humans are capable of. way more than we think but we don't get. thrust into positions to realize this. anymore and that is the teacher you have. to throw yourself into the abyss and you. get down there and you swim through the. fog and you figure out your and. then you come out the other side and go. oh I got more on board than I real. realized and that changes you. permanently changes what you're capable. of. forever and then if you're lucky you'll. get another Callo adventure and have. more problems in your life and get.

another opportunity to iterate again and. you just keep peeling off layers peeling. off layers that's the human story of. improvement to me but most of us are. waiting for evidence to go on the. adventure we we don't realize that the. evidence will come from the adventure. right well I think that that's one way. that things have changed um in the past. humans used to have to do hard things. the time this could be from these big. hunts we used to have to go on it could. be that a storm rolls in and you're like. we need to get we need to get over this.

mountain range in the next 24 hours or. else we're going to die and by the way. this mountain range is huge I don't know. if we can do it so we get Thrust out of. our comfort zone all the time and we. have these moments where we realize what. we're capable of because we go in there. we go I'm pretty sure we're going to die. Crossing this mountain range but we. don't die go oh wow I had way more on. board than I realized well that's. something and and that changes you it. shapes you it makes you realize what. you're capable of and life no longer. thrusts these things onto us anymore. right you can just kind of live in the.

comfort zone now and it's nice it's. comfortable it's safe but you don't get. to go out on those edges and learn what. you're capable of and that ultimately I. think limits you over time so you're. telling everyone to quit their. jobs like you I'm telling everyone to. take uh two weeks off and go do. something totally kickass that will. change you forever because we can all do. that our relationship with uncertainty. though is at the very heart of this I. think because when people are thinking. about venturing off on that Adventure. leaving their job going and do something.

new uncertainty seems to be this. headwind that holds Us in place and I. remember studying um the work that Uber. Labs had done so that's Uber the app the. food and um uh taxi app yeah they do. everything in their lab they'd figured. out that one of the worst parts of C any. customer experience was the feeling of. uncertainty so once upon a time you. called a taxi then you'd stand on the. side of the road and just be in total. uncertainty um so they factored in. factored that into the app by showing. you where the driver is and also we can.

all. intuitively agree but also can recount. times where a plane was delayed and it. said delayed and the the feeling of the. uncertainty versus just saying delayed. two hours which I'd much rather prefer. at the heart of going on the adventures. of Our Lives Time Life times and. throwing ourselves into discomfort is. our our need for certainty. that holds like when I speak to people. on the streets or they DM me that is the. conundrum that they face is I don't know. what the future holds if I go off on.

that Adventure so I'd rather just stay. in certain misery than than have to. endure the uncertainty that that Journey. might you know bring my way yeah I we. don't like uncertainty but there's uh as. I was reporting the scarcity brain I I. ended up reading a lot of strange old. texts. text and I read this uh the writings of. this monk who lived in silence in a cave.

in the 1800s in France um he wrote uh he. published his journals he didn't use his. name because he didn't want any Fame he. didn't want anyone to know and there's. this quote in the book that goes you. risk so much hesitating to fling. yourself into the abyss that is the damn. truth especially in the context of today. what's the worst that could happen. you're not going to die even if you lose. everything you own we've got a lot of.

safety nets today and do you think. you're a relatively intelligent person. have you figured it out in the past well. you can probably figure it out again and. if you're not willing to embrace that. uncertainty that is actually a feature. not a bug because that uncertainty gives. you. opportunities if you're certain what. you're going to get well that's not any. damn exciting right I mean you it's not. exciting that's what you talk about in. the scarcity brain yeah unpredictability. is exciting it's captivating and so yeah. the outcome could be bad but it could.

also be really really good way better. than you thought but and by not taking. that gamble you're kind of sitting on. the sidelines oh so chapter nine of. scarcity brain you talk about something. that I joked about for many years as a. marketeer I went around telling CMOS. around the world and CEOs that if you. want your people your team members to do. the very best work of their lives and. the most specifically the most. Innovative and creative work of their. lives withhold budgets and I say this. because my first company was called.

wallpark. and it was only when we ran out of. money that's that we did our best work. because we had no choice so we I I don't. know I had like 6,000 as a marketing. budget or something and then I remember. being sat there with with my two buddies. who were building the business with me. Ash and Dom and we ran out of money and. from that came an idea that would help. me to build a company that was worth. several hundreds of millions of dollars. it was. in having less resources that we were.

forced to do the most creative best work. of our lives and it drove us to First. principles and that's what I read when. you were talking about this study at the. University of Illinois um and John John. Hopkins that's kind of what I I thought. ah it's true yeah people. people become more creative we try to. innovate when resources are scarce when. we have a bunch of resources what we do. is we kind of do whatever everyone else.

is doing and so I think that um when you. look at humans we're sort of designed to. add our default is to add more to do. more to whatever and we often look for. the sort of easy way out when you remove. resources so we're not able to do that. in the same way that kind of everyone. else is I think we get forced into. Innovation and creativity so are we lazy. are abundant humans. lazy. um I don't love the L word don't worry I.

said it you didn't say it then I'll go. then I will agree with. you I think that look I think that we. are designed to kind of do the easy. thing I think that having to come up. with a crazy idea it takes work and. maybe we don't do that if we have the. resources to just throw money at the. problem and this kind of explains why. companies as they get bigger although. they have more intellectual Capital they. have more brains in their offices they. seem to become less Innovative also it. speaks to the whole loss aversion thing. but they they tend to probably default.

to Convention and obvious I think you. want to be light you want to be fast you. want to be able to you have it sounds. counterintuitive but it's almost like. you have more options when you're. smaller right when you have less because. you could like the world is open we got. to figure this out and there's all these. things that no one else is saying. because we're just forced to make a. decision given this small budget that we. have and that study at the University of. Illinois and John Hopkins um you talk. about these Six studies where. participants who faced scarce resources.

performed better yeah in what way they. came up with ideas that were more. Innovative they used less. resources interesting yeah so when they. had less resources they actually used. less resources yeah and their ideas were. better. yep interesting it also kind of explains. why being an underdog and holding on to. that mentality regardless of your. success is probably a good thing it's. like a psychological state of we're not. there yet I say this to my teams all the. time about our biggest risk now is like.

thinking you've made it yeah because you. can let off the gas when you've made it. and you can just be complacent you have. more resources you can do the obvious. stuff you can do what got you here less. incentive to innovate and try new things. why would we we're doing well yeah so. for I mean for you guys it might be okay. we know this stuff has worked in the. past. at a certain point we have to realize. that it's not always going to work so. how are we devoting um time to figuring. out these things that people are.

overlooking that might benefit from. fewer resources right maybe it's like. exercises where one day every month. you're going if we had X budget what. would we do now it's kind of different. because in the back of their minds. people are going yeah but we got plenty. of money MH um but I think trying to. figure out okay what would we do if we. have this budget could be a good. exercise to kind of keep lean and be. able to try stuff the saddest line in. your book was the line that we are. experiencing a rising tide of global.

sadness chapter TW. 11 how do you how do you quantify that. rise in global sadness that's just based. on some research that's out there um the. United States is definitely has become. unhappier over the years and I think. you're seeing this in a lot of other. developed Nations too and yeah it is it. those a little bit sad usage of the word. love hared between n 1965 and. 2015 in in songs yeah so in yeah there.

are some researchers that analyzed a. bunch of lyrics in songs that had come. out from the 60s to what was the year n. 1965 to 2015 yep and they found that the. word love nice positive words um haved. and negative words like hate increased. Jesus yeah and Global unhappiness hit a. record high this is the stat I was. looking for Global unhappiness hit a. record high in. 2021 um according to a source so.

interesting what is the what is the. antidote then bringing it right back. down to you know the individual level MH. the two become a 2% person right right. but when I have this ancient Hardware. that's given me this scarcity brain what. can I do how can I take back control of. my life and live my life more aligned. with with my long-term goals and dreams. we live in a world where you know. there's a million things we're told we. need to do to be happy it's like you got. to do this you got to do that and. there's all this research about it but I.

think that really when you look at what. makes people happy it's when they. accomplish things that weren't always. easy now that could be from like I. mentioned before like you spend this. time alone and get to know yourself. better like that's not that's not always. easy but you come out on the other side. of that better I think it's being. willing to do things that are ultim. going to be uncomfortable they're going. to be hard and being okay with that in. fact embracing that journey is the human. story to me and I think that as the.

world has gotten um easier more. comfortable safer in a lot of ways and. we have this default to just kind of sit. there in that zone I don't think that's. necessarily become good for us and that. could be you can apply that to all. different things I mean it's that. literal and metaphorical taking of the. stairs could be okay if I feel like I'm. lonely well I can sit here and be lonely. or I can join I don't know a softball.

team or a cricket. team um and yeah it's going to be. awkward when I meet these new people do. I think it's going to be easy no but. that could enhance my life and you can. apply that to everything I think it's. being willing like that that monk wrote. to throw yourself into the abyss and. have a human experience because life is. not supposed to be easy all the time and. in fact if it is people tend to go a. little bit nuts and get unhappy and so.

pushing against that I think is a good. thing overall for people you must now. look at the world having studied all of. these things and especially living in. Vegas and seeing those gas stations and. that have the roulette machines in. them do you think that corporations and. uh these businesses are like a little. bit evil a little bit morally bankrupt. well this gets into this larger question. um so what we have to realize is that a. lot of these behaviors are fun and. rewarding in the short term so take I.

don't know Tik Tok feeding you the exact. algorithm that's going to capture your. attention that is fun and rewarding okay. and so if you were to say well you need. to stop doing that then the response. from Tik Tok would be okay so you're. telling us to basically give people. boring content that they don't want as. much do we want to live in that world. I don't think so should slot machines be. less fun should it be less fun to watch. YouTube should Netflix design itself to. be boring what my message really is is.

that I'm not saying don't ever do these. things but I think we need to realize. that we often times fall into these. behaviors for reasons we're not entirely. aware of so if you're the if you want to. spend 15 hours a day on Tik Tok hell. yeah go for it but I want you to make. that decision consciously and I think. today. they a lot of Corporations know the. decision is not being made consciously. that's the reality but at the same time. I don't know if the antidote is going to.

be leave us any better because then we. start regulating everything and I don't. think we want that so really what I want. to do is Empower people to realize you. have the capacity to make choice I want. you to be more aware of why you're doing. what you're doing because ultimately. that is where Freedom lies like if we. start punishing corporations it's like. you're treating the public like children. and I was going to say the one ethical. Casino would just go bankrupt right and. it wouldn't exist but I think about that. throughout Society the one social. platform that didn't play to our.

scarcity brain would not exist it. wouldn't have users so it just would it. would become extinct so and then also if. you think about it on like a. geographical um on a global scale if we. just banned it in the United States or. the UK a lot of the Innovation and. opportunity just moves off to China or. to some other place where they. capitalize on the scarcity brain yeah so. it's all about being being conscious. intentional and that starts with exactly. what you've done in your book really. which is starts with. awareness and that's why your book is so. brilliant both of the books are. fantastic the Comfort crisis is superb.

and as I said to you before we started. recording I had so many people come on. the podcast and quote things from the. book but then also this term the Comfort. crisis I've had over and over and over. again and that comes back to you you. said something to me before we started. recording that the sales of this book. have increased since um publication it's. not typical yeah they've increased over. time we're selling more every week now. two and a half three years later than we. were yeah because right when it came out.

people can relate to the symptoms I. guess yeah I think it's just a word of. mouth thing I think that people read it. and they relate to it and if they pick. up some of the you know suggestions from. the book I think it changes them for the. better you know I've had a lot of people. that have really changed their life from. the book and I told you before we. started recording that when I do this. podcast I make notes beforehand and I. don't think I've ever made more notes. than I did reading these two books. because it's all subject matter that I'm. absolutely obsessed with so the scarcity.

brain which is the newer book says fix. your craving mindset and rewire your. habits to thrive with enough um superb. superb I'll link both of them in the. description below so if anybody wants to. get the books and understand why I was. so passionate about having this. conversation today but why I love these. books so much you'll find them in the. description below we have a closing. tradition on this podcast where the last. guest leaves a question for the next. guest not knowing who they're going to. be leaving it. for and the question that's been.

left for you is what makes you. happiest uh what makes me happiest. is probably when I am in my office and. it is 5: in the morning and my dog is. there sleeping and I am writing and it. is absolute hell and then bam the line. comes in and I go that is how it all. fits together the puzzle piece is. suddenly merge and I'm just like totally.

present aware and the words come and. also knowing that once I get through. with that writing I'm going to be able. to hang out with my wife who is my. favorite person she's the one for me and. it's that it's very simple thank you so. much Michael really appreciate the. conversation and I feel smarter having. spoke to you I will quote you for many. many conversations I know going forward. because as I said this is the subject's. matter that I'm obsessed with at the. moment so thank you for um thank you for.

giving this message to the world I think. it's a message that can save us in a lot. of ways that we need to be saved that. that's the TD of what I think about this. and all the indicators say that if there. was ever a time where we needed to. understand how our brain is working and. being taken advantage of so we can take. back control but also the importance of. discomfort it is is now CU things are. only going to get easier yeah and more. comfortable thank you I appreciate you. having me on man it was really fun enjoy. the conversation I appreciate you uh. talking about the books yeah getting.

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