Why Seeing Epstein and My Uncle Donald Haunts Me | The Daily Beast Podcast

What worries me is that Donald is a nihilist. My grandfather actually believed in legacy. He wanted Donald to preserve his legacy. Donald doesn't believe in that. He does not believe that anything, whether he thinks. he is going to be going down because of the Epstein issue or. because if he starts to think that his health is failing, he will not go alone. He will take as many people down with him. I'm Joanna Coles, this is the Daily Beast.

podcast you wrote, and we listened. And we have another person that you have been clamoring. to hear from Mary Trump and how she describes. her life as a member of the Trump family is is really quite extraordinary. And how she talks about her grandfather. and noticing his symptoms of Alzheimer's and then recognizing those. very same symptoms in our president is really quite chilling.

She now has her own media company, Mary Trump Media, where she has a podcast like we do on YouTube. But I found her an absolutely fascinating and very thoughtful. interviewee as she is able to analyze. through her own training as a clinical psychologist, the dynamics of the family and what it's like growing up. Trump. So let's get into it. Mary Trump is in the House.

Mary Trump it's been a very long week. Well, it seems that they all are now. What is it like to wake up in the morning. and just see your uncle? Everywhere? Everywhere. A man that you've been in and out of endless lawsuits, as is the Trump way? Apparently, yes. But how how do you. Well, you've set up your own media business to deal with it. But but what's it like inside your head?

It's actually something I've gotten used to. Don't get me wrong. There's there's a a level at which I still take it very personally. I know I should probably. let that go, but it's hard because he is my uncle after all. And I feel like my not I feel like my family is doing. untold damage to my country and the planet, so that is hard to take. But it doesn't, have its teeth in me the way it used to. After the 2016 election, every time I heard his name and I can distinguish,

I could tell when he was being referred to, obviously, at least twice a day, I would have this feeling of horror. wash over me that this horrible thing had happened. I don't get that anymore. I'm. Because this is this is our reality. And it has been for over a decade now. It is more. a shift in. focus for me to the people who keep enabling him. Those are the people we need to figure out and start dealing with.

So in your book, who could ever love you a Family Memoir, you talk about your 16th birthday, and you have it at a ballroom at a Hyatt hotel, and your father has written a check out to Donald Trump because it's his hotel. And he turns up at the party and is parading around the party. as if it's his party. And I wanted to know, from your vantage point as a teenager, what he was like as a man to be around. and what you observed of him when he was with women.

Because you get used to people you grow up with. Right. It's not as if I ever thought there was something weird about him. People have asked me, oh, wow, what was it like growing up in this family? It's like it was normal. It was my. It was my normal. There was no other frame of reference. So I believed the myth. that my grandfather started, that Donald was successful. But I never bought into the idea that he was smart.

because he was so demonstrably not. And that not not that I experienced it this way that night, but certainly later, and certainly in the context of the last ten years. and the way his base treats him and how thirsty is about attention. That was the first inkling that as long as Donald has an audience. that's giving him attention, he doesn't really care about. who is in the audience because what he was doing was trying.

Like going out of his way to impress a bunch of teenagers. who couldn't have cared less about the fact that he was there. This has been the week of the release of the Epstein emails. And, you know, the endless, endless. demand for the release of the Epstein files. Did you ever meet Jeffrey Epstein? I never met him, thankfully, but I found out recently that he was at Donald. second wedding, his wedding to Marla maples, and I was there too.

So I have had the great misfortune of being in the same room. with Jeffrey Epstein, which is alarming enough, but thankfully, no, I never I never met him. I wouldn't have been considered worthy of meeting him. Meaning what weird way of putting it? I mean, you are too old. Oh, she's now, Although that's a horrifying thought. I probably would have been at that point. No, that, I wasn't somebody that Donald never would have gone out of his way. to introduce to his close friends and inner circle.

Okay, so what was your impression of? I mean, was he attractive to women? Did women cleave to him? Did he, did. he behave in appropriately at all with women? Donald. Yeah. I never saw anything inappropriate. He was sexist, for sure. Or like, everybody in my family, including the women, were were misogynists. He and my Uncle Robert treated my grandmother, but.

in a very infantilizing, disrespectful way. And it was very obvious, that they didn't respect. women and didn't think women should have any power. And, a common dinner table conversation would be talking. about all of the ugly fat women or talking about the beautiful women. and how, they were classed by by the men in my family. My dad wasn't like that at all. But also, he wasn't really included in a lot of the conversations.

And just to remind people, your father was Donald Trump's. older brother and he died when he was 42, of course, is related to alcoholism. And you were 16. Yes. And I mean, that was a very big complicating factor, I certainly in my dad's life, but it might as well. He was the oldest son in the Trump family. He was the namesake. He was Fred Jr. He was supposed to take over the Empire from my grandfather. And obviously that didn't work out. So that set my dad's life on a pretty awful trajectory,

especially after he started drinking and was never able. to rehabilitate himself in his father's mind. And then, simply by virtue of the fact that I was Freddie's daughter. and and a girl, nobody in the family. had any interest, in me or anything I wanted to do or had to say. But you've now turned it into a career. The irony. Yeah.

That that is a sort of sobering way to look at it, but it also happens to be. true. What is unfortunate, though, is that Donald Trump. is the most or arguably the most powerful person on the planet. and has shown himself to be willing. to be destructive and cruel. as possible to get power and wealth for himself.

So it would feel utterly irresponsible. for me to step aside and say nothing. Watching all of this unfold and trying to play. some small role has felt, felt like a way to stay grounded in a fight. that's much bigger than he is. Stepping away and washing my hands of it would.

And for me, I wouldn't be able to live with myself. In your first book that came out in 2020, you called him. the most dangerous man in the world. It's very clear that people are scared of him. Do you recognize why people are scared of him? Were you scared of him when you were growing up? Were people around him in the family scared of him? I honestly find it unfathomable. that anybody would ever be scared of Donald.

He's the weakest, most pathetic person I've ever known. And, there is nothing about him that's threatening. So I think it's important to step back and and put that, designation in context. He was and remains the world's most dangerous man. because of power. that was given to him by other people. So Donald. is the result of a myth my grandfather started a long time ago.

My my dad was not going to cut it as my grandfather's heir, so he turned to Donald and made use of him. When did Donald become your grandfather's favorite son. and talk to us about how he sort of molded Donald, or how the intensity of their relationship grew? Yeah, I think it's it's more accurate to to. say he became useful. And.

it happened. probably simultaneously to his discovering that my father was not the right person, my father, my grandfather wanted a killer to be the one to take over. And my dad was despite being very smart, you cannot be a stupid person. And put yourself through flight school and start flying. 707 at the age of 25. He was sensitive, though. He was kind. He was generous. These are not qualities valued by the Trump family at all.

At the same time as, Donald as a teenager, my grandfather is saying he's belligerent, he's disrespectful, he's never wrong. He's the best. He's this, the that. And that resonated with my grandfather. And then from there, he realized that Donald had something. my grandfather did not have in the way he needed to. He had media savvy. He had an ability to self-promote that far exceeded my grandfather's.

So that became very valuable because my grandfather, as successful. as he was in Queens in Brooklyn, never was able to make the move into Manhattan. He needed somebody with Donald's personality. and essentially lack of self-awareness and willing to take credit for things. that he didn't do to put himself out there as shamelessly as Donald. It. And your father didn't cut it because he wanted to be a pilot. He didn't want to go into real estate.

Actually, my father had every intention of going into real estate. He worked for my grandfather every summer. after he graduated from college, he was a business major. He went to work for. my grandfather, assumed he was going to be my grandfather's right hand man. But for reasons that we don't fully know, my grandfather just didn't like my dad. and was not willing to give him any power. He treated him poorly. He humiliated him in front of the other employees. and finally my my dad just couldn't take it anymore.

And that's when he decided. And this must have taken. such enormous courage, it's hard for me to imagine that he was able to do it. He quit, and then he, applied for jobs at TWA. He got accepted into their class in 1964, but because of the pressure. he was getting at home and because of the contempt. my grandfather had for that kind of achievement, I mean, being a pilot for TWA. at the dawn of the jet age was kind of a big deal in 1964,

that's when my dad started drinking. And he his career as a pilot for TWA lasted eight months. because of his drinking. Yes. So let's just go back to Donald Trump again. And and so he became, the de facto oldest son. He inherited his father's business, the real estate business. One of the things I find just puzzling is why is everybody so scared of him? Yeah, again, I think it depends on the context.

Right. As I was saying earlier, Donald, from the beginning has been of use. to smarter, more powerful people, beginning with my grandfather. And for people not paying a lot of attention, that sort of created an aura. I he he Donald that is acted as if my grandfather's wealth. was actually his wealth, that he was a self-made man. And my grandfather actually helped him construct.

that, story that was fabricated out of whole cloth. And then the New York media ran with it, and the banks. threw money at him, and then Mark Burnett rehabilitated him. And then, of course, the Republican Party did so he went from. being somebody who was essentially a tool for other people, whether it was my grandfather, to get the kind of recognition for. his business and the kind of wealth he wanted, or New York media.

selling papers, or NBC having a hit show, or the Republican Party. having somebody with the kind of charisma that appealed to their base, to becoming somebody who actually does have real power in the world. and has shown himself perfectly willing to use. it in ways both illegitimate and terrifying. So he's sort of. always been an example of fake it til you make it. Yeah. And then, amazingly, he has made it. How is he planning to get through this next sort of period.

where everybody is screaming about Epstein right now? Well, there have been so many opportunities. over the last few years, and this honestly has been one of the most demoralizing things to have witnessed. where the Republican Party or the American people could have taken. an off ramp away from Donald and for various reasons, chose not to. This is another opportunity for that. Again, though, the problem is that far too many people.

see Donald as the only viable way for the Republican Party to stay in power. or as individuals to maintain their power. Republican politicians were afraid of getting primaried. Paramount, for example, is afraid of not having their merger go through. So we see, all of these individuals and entities, many of whom do have legitimate power and wealth of their own,

capitulating because they want more power and wealth. So I think in some ways, just quickly getting back. to the question of fear for a lot of these people, it's. not about fear as much as it's about their bottom line. Like, I think we can make a very good argument. that if all large media corporations had stuck together, if all the way through law. firms and universities had stuck together and refused to capitulate, we would be in a very different situation right now. Certainly that's the case with the Republican Party.

So the question is, do rank and file Republicans have the power to force. people who have proven themselves to be loyalists at whatever cost? Pam Bondi, Todd Blatch, Kash Patel, to do something that they must know on. some level could be utterly destructive to the future of Donald Trump. The Trump regime and so-called Trumpism. Okay, so let's talk about his health.

I'm sure you're very, cognizant of the health issues. and your family, your grandfather and your grandmother had dementia. When you look at Donald Trump as a trained. psychologist, what do you see? Just to be clear, I am a clinical psychologist, not a neuropsychologist. But I know enough about, how to assess certain kinds of, neurological disorders.

And of course, as you said, my grandfather had Alzheimer's for a very, very long time. So I, I'm more comfortable. speaking about the untreated, long standing psychiatric disorders. Donald's head. But there are times I look at him and I see my grandfather. I see that same look of confusion. I see that he does not. always seem to be orient oriented to time and place. His short. term memory seems to be deteriorating.

And obviously this is somebody who has never had. a great deal of impulse control, but that too is deteriorating as well. So there are many, many red flags and many questions. that are not being answered by the administration. So tell us a little bit about when you first noticed. that your grandfather was beginning to slip and, how that manifested itself. It was it took a very long time. And at the beginning, of course, there the signs were not clear.

You know, he could be a very petty person. So it wasn't clear if he was being petty or if there was something else going on. But, I was in this was in 1991, I think I was at, Columbia, getting a degree, a master's in English lit. How old would your grandfather be when you went to Columbia. and you started noticing signs? Because 86. And I knew that off the top of my head, because he was born in 1905.

And, you know, there had been signs before that certainly. But he, I had I had to sign a check. And because this is the way my family worked at the time, my lawyer, who was my grandfather's lawyer, called me to come to tell me. that my grandfather was very upset because my signature wasn't legible. and that if I didn't change my signature, he was going to disown me and I.

That seemed excessive, right? I mean, my grandfather didn't like me. He never did like me. And he didn't like your mother, right? Because he blamed your mother for your father's. Did my mother? And which is in first of all, alcoholism runs in my family. And secondly, my, my, my grandfather precipitated my father's alcoholism. But that's a separate issue. He blamed your mom. He blamed my mother for many things. He considered her a gold digger, which,

if you ever saw where I grew up, you would realize is laughable. Okay, but to come back to your grandfather's health. So he your. You get a call from your grandfather's lawyer, who's also your lawyer, saying that he's going to disown you because your signature on this check. is a mess. Basically. Yeah, it's illegible, it's illegible. And that does seem an overreaction. Is that the beginning of when you realize that he's starting to unravel? Yeah. And, it after that because again, it did it had been happening.

My grandmother would mention something every once in a while. in the previous 5 or 10 years before that. But after that things happened pretty quickly. And, it was in the early 90s. when he started forgetting who people were and when, when we were in larger settings, that I would see that deer in the headlights. look of where am I and why am I here, that I sometimes see in Donald's eyes?

And finally, probably in 1993, 94, we used to spend Easter at Mar-A-Lago. because, Mike, it was harder for my grandfather to be out in public. So we used to go to their country club and we couldn't really do that anymore. So we went down to Mar-A-Lago and, that's. when my grandfather stopped knowing who I was. And I was standing with him. And he was right. Once he forgot who I was, he was very nice to me.

It was sort of a relief, honestly. So, he and my and Mary Ann and I were, were outside, and he turns to her and he says, he points to me, he turns to her and says, isn't she such a nice lady? And meeting me and Mary and you know, laughter, smiles or what have you? And then he turned to her and he said, and who were you? And her heart broke. it was the very first time he had known, and she was his oldest child.

So that's when we knew that this was just going to, And how did your Uncle Donald Trump deal with his own father. being, not not all their having Alzheimer's? He was despicable. He treated my grandfather like he was an annoyance. He wanted nothing to do with him. My my grandfather got quite childlike.

at one point, and, also very concerned about money. He was always worried that he was poor or somebody was stealing from him, which is an anxiety that comes with Alzheimer's. Right? Yeah. My grandmother, received the brunt of all of that. because they never got him into her facility, and they could have gotten him into a very nice one. So my grandmother was left alone in the house most of the time, which put her her under massive strain.

But, you know, when when we were all together, my grandfather would gravitate to Robert, my uncle Robert and Donald. He never forgot Donald. And Donald would leave the room. He would ignore him. He had no use for him whatsoever. He had no patience with him. And at the time, I thought that it was it was just hideous,

that he was so contemptuous, but then later was like, not not only is. that how he's treating his father, that's how he is treating the man who made him, who treated him better than he treated everybody else in my family combined. So that said a lot to me. about Donald that I would not have known before. So when you say you look at Donald Trump and you see your grandfather, can you just repeat some of the things that you see in him? Sure. This increasing obsession with wealth,

which has always been there, obviously, because the only currency in my family was money, there was no love, there was no affection, there was no respect. It was the family was a zero sum game. And your entire worth, literal and metaphorical, was calculated by how much money you had in the bank. So that's why, the Trumps are a very a generous people. Because if you give somebody else something, they're worth more.

and you're worth less. But over time, it went from being, something that was necessary to. his worth, to being something. that became sort of a desperate need with that. Was my grandfather like the just the terrifying. thought that he was poor and then what would he be? And of course, there was no reason for him to think that.

with Donald we see similar things. Like he why does he need to accumulate so much wealth? And I know he's not alone in this. This is a disease that is is pretty common. But his his grasping nature, his desperate need to surround himself. with these excessively wealthy people. and put them in a position where they feel like. they just need to hand over millions, tens of millions of dollars to him.

It's it's pathological. Not that it ever wasn't, but it's increasingly pathological. So so that's one thing, just this, this fear. that it's never going to be enough, which is partially what my first book was about. And then of course, there is the. increasing awareness, that he is not at all who he's been pretending to be. His entire life. And I think it's important to remember that, especially.

since my grandfather decided that Donald was going to be the guy. he has spent the vast amount of his psychic energy. pretending he's something he's not, and he is not conscious of this at all. But as he deteriorates psychologically, emotionally and cognitively, it's getting much, much harder for him to keep that reality from himself, from his conscious awareness and it is terrifying.

And how does that play out? How do you observe that playing out in him? I see it in his, uncertainty. Like he's he's always been quite good at blustering, like he'll say something that's clearly wrong. And instead of doing what any normal person would do, making a joke, it's like, oh, you know, I misspoke or I meant this. He just plows through as if that's, of course, what he meant to say. And the rest of us are just living in his world.

He seems deeply uncertain. He seems to be reckoning. with the possibility that he may not be immortal after all. And that, to me, suggests. that his defense mechanisms. around, preventing himself and everybody else. from knowing the reality about him are weakening. And again, I see this look in his eyes sometimes,

like he can't believe he said this. He can't believe he admitted this thing. He doesn't know who he's talking to. He doesn't know where he is. And it's kind of all of a piece. So we're seeing all of this deterioration happening kind of at the same time. He's talked recently about whether or not he'll get into heaven. So he's clearly got some sort of foreboding about death. Why wouldn't he have? He's 79.

Was the family religious at all? What was Donald's reaction when his father died? Well, my family was not really. I mean, they made the motions, but not religious in any real sense. I mean, maybe my Aunt Maryanne, she converted to Catholicism when she got. married the first time around and considered herself a devout Catholic. But other than that, no, they were just kneejerk Protestants. Donald,

interestingly, does not believe in a higher power. He is the higher power is higher power. And his comments about is you going to get into heaven? Probably not those I have found the most, diagnostic in a sense, because it shows me that his defenses are weakening. He is becoming increasingly less able to protect himself. from the fact that he may indeed be, mortal.

And what worries me is that Donald is a nihilist. My grandfather actually believed in legacy. He wanted Donald to preserve his legacy. Of course, as soon as he had a chance to, he destroyed it. Donald doesn't believe in that. He does not believe that anything or anybody could exist beyond him. Which is what makes me nervous, because whether. he thinks he's going to be going down because of the Epstein issue, or because if he starts to think that his health is failing, he will not go alone.

He will take as many people down with him. That was the case in 2020 and we seen what happened since then. So that worries me. Nihilists are very dangerous people. If they feel like they're losing control. And as a father, he's a nihilist. He doesn't want his kids to take on his legacy. He doesn't believe in such a thing, and he certainly wouldn't. believe they're capable of it because he's also a narcissist.

We can see physical signs of his deterioration. We've written a lot about his cankles. We've written about the bruising on his hands. Are those things you remember at all from your grandfather? Yeah. Cankles. I don't remember because my grandfather, I never saw until the very, very end. I never saw my grandfather in anything but a three piece suit. So it wasn't until he was in his late 80s. and very, seriously, sick with Alzheimer's.

He just. He'd come home from work because he still went to work. Every day you go upstairs and you come downstairs wearing his dress. shirt, his tie, his boxers and his shoes and his socks. So I couldn't see any evidence of cankles, but. Right. But there definitely there was a lot of bruising on his hands. and he had some other minor health issues. My grandfather is probably the healthiest person I've ever known. Until he was well into his late 70s. So, Donald is not a healthy person, and he never has been.

So it doesn't surprise me. that he would have physical symptoms that my grandfather didn't have. Right. But he. But your grandfather did have the bruising on the hands. But he wasn't. He was 86. Before you noticed that he had symptoms of Alzheimer's? Yeah, I think he was younger than that. But that's when it first became unmistakable. Like there. Okay, we've noticed he's forgetting things.

He's losing his temper. Because my grandfather was somebody who. Who was in total control of his world. His world for his family and his business. Nobody supported him. Nobody said no to him. There was no reason for him ever to be angry. And he would have these terrible bursts of temper. And, I think my grandmother, had the most exposure to this. So it was when he was 86 that I had my own experience of realizing,

okay, this is not just he's getting old, he's getting older, but there's something, something going on that suggests that there's. a deeper problem than some short term memory loss and some just general aging. Yeah, yeah. And how did Donald Trump treat your grandmother? He treated her consistently, throughout his life, dismissively. And, he had no respect for her, didn't listen to her.

He didn't ask for her advice, ever. And, I think I used the word earlier very infantilizing. As if she was somebody who needed to be taken care of. Not that he was wrong. I mean, she was very much, dependent person, but, there was no love lost between them. And what do you think he's like as a husband? And you must have known Ivana. Yeah. Sadly.

Sadly, you knew her? Yes. Oh, yeah. Sorry. Yeah. She was not a not a pleasant person. But kind of a good partner for him, actually, in a way, I don't think, Marla or Melania are, but. what do you mean? Well, one, I think one, she was age. appropriate, so there was, and he was just. at the beginning of things, and she was a very tough, strong person.

Her unpleasantness and cruelty aside, you know, I think she was somebody who, at the beginning. did, was able to hang with him, at least for a while. So probably. that might have been in terms of his marriages, I think that might have been the most even match he had. But whether it's a romantic partner or business. partner or child or whatever it is,

every single relationship Donald has ever had is transactional. So his he is the same way with his wives as he is with anybody else on point. And what was your point of view. on Marla maples, his second wife, and then his third wife? Our first lady, Melania. Sorry, I love hearing that phrase. First lady in relation to her always pulls me up short. I really like Marla.

We didn't spend tons of time together, but I saw her. whenever we were down to Mar-A-Lago, and she was very pleasant. And I felt very bad for her. because my family treated her so contemptuously. It was just. It was inexcusable the way they treated her. I think we were around the same age. So, I was in my late 20s when they got married. Maybe. So I never had a bad experience with her. I just felt that she was completely out of her depth and,

just married into a bad situation that she wasn't prepared to handle. I only met Melania once, and it was before they were married. And during the entire just. It was me, Donald and Melania. I, unfortunately, had arrived to a Father's Day. celebration at their apartment in Trump Tower too early. So it was just the three of us, and it was a little awkward. And during that entire time, it couldn't have been more than ten minutes.

And, Donald was just telling her a story about how he had hired me. to write his second book, and that I had been in a really bad place. And he kind of rescued me, and she said nothing the whole time until he told her. that things were so bad for me at the time that I was using drugs. And she said, really? And I said, no, I've never done. And it's true, I've never done drugs in my life. So. But he needed to make it seem that I was as bad off as I could be,

so that his offering to hire me to write a second book was a bigger deal. And the only word she said was really because I think once I said, no, actually I didn't do drugs, I think she lost interest again. Interesting. And when you worked. with him on that book, what was that experience like? It was really frustrating. There were parts of it I enjoyed. I had a desk in the back room at his office in Trump Tower.

So I got to know a bunch of fun. people, interesting people who were very helpful. And, I got to travel a little bit. I went out to Las Vegas with one of his vice presidents. because he was working on a project out there. and went down to Mar-A-Lago, was spent some time in Atlantic City. talking to the presidents of his, casinos. But. I don't remember how long I was there. It was a few months.

He never, ever sat down. and gave me. a conversation. He never I he wanted me to write this book. without ever speaking to him about the book. So I check in with him every morning, and he'd be sitting behind his very large desk, going through newspaper clippings, because there was a full time assistant whose job it was to cut out any article. in any publication around the world that mentioned him or was about him.

And that's how he started his day. And if he thought it was a particularly complimentary one or. an insulting one, or not complimentary enough, he would write notes with his, blue felt tip pen to the person who wrote the article. and show it to me and asked me what I thought. Like that was really our only interaction. So it's very difficult to write somebody's autobiography, right? If they don't talk to you about the book.

Did the book end up getting written? Not by Mitt, right? Right. Was that what was the book? What did the book turn out to be? I think it was called the. surviving at the top was the original name. and then because it came out right around the time he started declaring bankruptcy, they changed the name on the paperback to, the Art of Survival The Art of survival. So you started on it, but then you, that just wasn't enough material.

And I think the publisher, he hired me. Donald hired me on a whim, and the publisher was not happy about it because I'd never written a book. But, you know, I consider myself a writer, and I think it would have been fine, but they did. They wanted somebody else. So, after a few months of his not. speaking with me, the publisher decided to use that as an excuse. So instead of firing me himself, Donald had this publisher fire me, which it's like par for the course. So.

all families have their ups. and downs, and I understand yours more extreme. And there's been endless lawsuits back and forth. Nevertheless, it's the part of you that looks at him as he ferries back. between Mar-A-Lago and the white House. That you think I could have been a part of that? Oh, gosh. Now now I see that. I think that the biggest difference between my family. and most other families is there were no UPS at all.

It's only downside, there was no upside to being part of that family. These were cruel, selfish people who, don't understand love. You don't have compassion or empathy. And I consider myself extremely lucky. that I am not part of that family at all. Wow. That's an extraordinary thing to say about your family. Are you still in touch with your brother at all? No.

Right. So is there anyone you in touch with? From your from your blood family? No, and I prefer it that way. It's healthier. It's saner. And again, I, I look at people. like Donald and others in my family, and. it is. amazing, but true that, as far as I can tell,

and I've tried they have no redeeming characteristics. And I think they they have my grandfather or my grandmother. to thank for that, but especially my grandfather. The final question, so the Epstein files have been everywhere this week. More and more emails revealing all sorts of connections. with Jeffrey Epstein. Jeffrey Epstein obviously was a famous pedophile. Do you think it's possible your uncle had sex with girls underage?

Obviously. I have no no insider knowledge of any of that. What I will say is that we have. we know many of the things Donald is capable of. We know many of the horrific things he's done as a human being. and as president of the United States of America. So what I say about him. that we need to keep in mind there is no such thing as worst. He will always get worse. Mary Trump I mean, you paint an absolutely appalling portrait of your family.

And you're not in touch with any of them now, and yet they are the most powerful family in the world. What, what a strange. What a strange experience for you. It has been a wild ride, that's for sure. But again, I think, staying in the fight and sharing what I know. and understanding things from my particular perspective.

have helped me stay grounded. And that actually has been one of the things that's helped me survive. the family. Just stay grounded and always, whenever possible, keeping sight of what really matters in this life of ours. And it is not money, and it is not greed, and it is not cruelty. It is staying connected to people as an empathetic, compassionate human. I think in these very dark times, that sort of the least we could do.

sometimes family spawned political dynasties. We know that the health secretary. came from a famous democratic family. He's now become a Republican. I'm obviously talking about RFK Jr. Is there any chance that you would run for politics? Oh, no no no no. And I actually, even if I were to which I'm not going to, I don't know that we could say that that would be part of a dynasty, because it's I am. I have nothing to do with a.

I don't even feel like I'm related to them anymore, in a way. So, but don't worry, there's no danger of that ever happening. I always felt like I'm more useful fighting on the outside of this. Like, well, you would have the name recognition, which is supposed to be half the battle. So I hear, but I also don't think that that's going. to stand me in good stead in the not too distant future. Mary Trump, thank you so much for joining us, and I can highly recommend your book, this. It's a you can see it's full of post-its, actually, and this sweet picture of a.

who could ever love you, but it's, it's a fascinating family memoir. Thank you. It's so curious to have a guest. that's had such proximity to the Trump family. And to be so clear eyed about it. and to have separated herself entirely from the family. And yet, of course, there is the irony that Donald Trump never stops talking and Mary Trump,

a trained psychologist, has now making her living and her impact. by talking about a man who can't stop talking anyway, if you have been, thank you for joining us. I would love to get your comments because I know so. many of you are fans of Mary have loved her books. Leave us a comment. Join the database community. Please subscribe to the podcast. And don't forget, despite what Mary says about Melania.

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