Reddit's Biggest Jerks w/ Pokimane | Reading Reddit Stories

- Hi, welcome to "Smosh Reads Reddit Stories.". I'm Shayne, and today's theme is standard Am I The Asshole. But we have a very special guest today. We are joined by Pokimane. - Whoo! The one and only legend. - Oh my god, not everyone behind the set clapping. - [Courtney] Yeah. - Thank you guys. - That does not happen, I will say. - And also Courtney's here. - Whoo! - All right, all right. No, no, please, please. (Shayne laughs). This is such an honor, seriously. - No, when I tell you I've been looking forward to this.

for like a week or two, ever since we planned it. I reached out because I was like, I love this format. I get to dive into the drama and none of it is mine. - Yes! That is exactly it. - That's the most fun, you know? - It's pretty fun. - Yeah, it's like a reality TV show. Who's right, who's wrong? Let's find out. - And we're like, it's just the confessionals, us just getting into it. - Yes, ma'am. - All right, well, should we begin? - Let's do it.

- Okay, here we go. First one comes from Am I The Asshole. "Am I the asshole for calling out my cousin. "when she tried to blame her body odor on me?". (Pokimane laughs). "I, 18-year-old female, am from Ontario, Canada, "and my cousin, 19-year-old female, is from Florida. "I'm currently staying with her family in Florida. "We were out at midday at an outdoor restaurant. "and my cousin's boyfriend, 20-year-old guy, was meeting us. "My cousin had a sweaty body odor. "because she had an active day.

"The boyfriend kissed my cousin, and she introduced us. "At the table, he made a face. "When I was looking away, "my cousin tried to whisper to her boyfriend, "but I heard her. "'The smell is from OP. "'Please don't say anything.'. "I said, 'The smell is not from me.'. "The boyfriend got his nose close. "to my cousin's upper body and smelled her. "He kissed her on top of her head and told her, "it's humanizing when such a beautiful woman gets smelly.". - Okay. - "She laughed awkwardly. "On the ride back home, "she told me that I unnecessarily embarrassed her.

"She said I broke girl code.". - Oh. - "Am I the asshole?". - You know girl code. - The smell is Shayne. It's not me. - It could never be you. (Pokimane laughs). - No, it's me. - Girl code. You must be stinky for me. (Shayne laughs). - You have to be stinky for me. - Wow. - I didn't know that was part of the girl code. - I will say it's not part of the girl code, but I do love my girl friends so much, I would do it for them. - That is so real. - I'd be like, "Yeah, I'm so sorry.

"It was me. "I was just running all day. "I run so much.". I never, I hate cardio. But I would take that for like a guy they like, I would. But you don't need to, and you don't need to be expected to, you know? - Right. That's like real friend behavior. I love that. Besty behavior even. I think, but I feel like he couldn't hold that up. for very long, you know? - Yeah, they're gonna find out, if someone gets close. I also feel like wingman etiquette, if we're going that, is like, you can't expect your wingman. to take the fall for you.

- Right. - They have to do it for you. - Yes. - And be like, "Okay, sick. You're doing that. "Thank you.". - Exactly that. They should take the lead in that moment. - [Shayne] Right. - Almost like improv. - Yes. - Yes. Yes and. - You just threw them into the improv and they didn't know. They didn't know. - Right. Right. - Do you guys get bothered by the smell of BO? Does that smell bother you guys? - Can I say something crazy? - Let's do it. Let's do it. - There is such a thing as like good BO. - I agree. - Right? - So hardcore. - I don't know if it's the pheromones or what. But there's like good BO and then there's... Okay, maybe like convention, crazy convention BO.

- Yes. Or it's like... Yeah. Yes. No, yeah, it's a wine. You know, this one's interesting. - The aromatic. Ooh. Sometimes like... (Shayne laughs). This person smells like a good person. Like, their stink is good. - Oh my god. Finally, I'm not alone in this in this room. - Maybe it's a girl thing. Do you feel this way? - I've said this in multiple rooms. and people have been like, "You're weird.". - I've been. I've been saying it. - I don't have a great sense of smell,

so I'm never bothered by anyone's smell. I'm never really noticing how anyone smells. And then occasionally I am hit by a wall, and it's shocking when it happens. I'll be at the gym and I'll be walking by. and, like I said, unfazed. And I'll be walking and some dude will walk past me. and I'll be like, "Oh my god.". (everyone laughs). I'll be like, "You are working out hard, dude.". - Okay, but that doesn't count. You're like muted most of the time. - [Shayne] Yeah. - Guys, let us know in the comments. Do you think there's such a thing as good BO? I also feel like,

you know, whenever like I kind of like a guy, I feel like their stink smells good to me. - And that's natural. Isn't that like a science thing? - [Pokimane] I swear. - I feel like that's gotta be. I feel like queue Hank Green being like, "Yes, so there's a thing and yeah.". - Please. - I understand on a like a first date, you're really nervous. 'cause you're like, "Oh, I don't want them to think I smell all the time.". But then once you get to know 'em, it's like, hey, you get the gist that I'm not stinky most of the time. - You know what? Now that I think about it more, I feel like that's a better time for girl code. Like, it's a guy she just met, she really likes,

that she wants to impress. I'd be like, "Oh my god, yeah, it's me.". But if this actually happened to me, I'd be like, girl, why are you throwing me under the bus unnecessarily? - [Shayne] Exactly. - He knows you. Like, have you not stunk ever before? - Yeah. Truly. I have pushed the limit on stink once. I pulled up to the gym and I realized, like I just had my sports bra and I didn't have a shirt. and I was like, I don't wanna do this today. So I grabbed a shirt and at the time I had a dog, and this shirt was the, it was the shirt they laid on a lot.

And so I get working out, I start working up a sweat, and then the dog smell mixed with the sweat. And I have never made myself like gag before. (Shayne laughs). I was really bad. That LA Fitness will never see me again. - You were the wall at the gym that I talked about. - The word I thought of when you started telling the story, I was like concoction. That odor was a concoction of things. - Yeah. Hair of the dog. - Ew! - Mixed in with-. - [Shayne] Odor of the body. - A sprinkle of three sets of squats or something. - Literally.

- Twinge of Billie Eilish's perfume. - Yep. I try, I try. - The verdict was not the asshole. Comments. "Not the asshole. "She broke the girl code. "by bringing it up when no one else did. "And she made it even worse by pinning it on you. "She embarrassed herself.". Someone said, "How rude of you to climb out. "from under the bus she threw you under.". Sarcastic. - Okay. - I kind of like that. - Someone said, "Not the asshole. "Your cousin is so unserious. "for bringing it up and blaming you. "when her boyfriend probably knew it was her.

"in the first place but didn't say anything. "because he has manners. "He also tried to deflect and make it less awkward.". - Yeah. - His response was very sweet. - Green flag. - So cute. I really like that. - This is the first time the OP. is meeting her cousin's boyfriend. - Okay, now my brain is going somewhere crazy. where I'm like, did she intentionally stink to intentionally tell him. that it was her? Do you know what I'm saying? - Like, this whole thing was a simulation. - It was a setup. - She's worried her cousin, she's like, "Oh no, he's gonna like my cousin.". - I don't know. - My cousin stinks.

- Like, first time meeting. and you wanna make your cousin seem stinky? So odd. - Diabolical. All right, our next story. "Am I the asshole for putting mistakes. "in my shared Google Doc notes?". - Hmm. - Huh? - "I, a 21-year-old man, "am currently taking organic chemistry.". - Oh. I feel bad for him. - Yeah, I've heard it's rough. - Have you taken this? - Yes. Many regrets. I studied chemical engineering and just, why did I do that? (everyone laughs).

Sorry, go on. - I have a brother who's super smart. His wife was in medical school, and she had to take organic chemistry, and she was like, "This is a nightmare.". And he was like, "Oh, I took it as an elective. Yeah.". And he's like, "Oh, I didn't really study. "I just kind of aced it.". He's just one of those guys. - Elective is crazy. - He's just one of those dudes who just kind of-. - You are choosing torture. - Yeah. Anyways, freaking nerd. - Okay. - He's probably watching this. Loser. - We say with a jealous tone. (everyone laughs). - My stupid stinky brother.

"I, a 21-year-old man, "am currently taking organic chemistry. "Needless to say, the class is incredibly tough. "Luckily though, I have been studying since day one, "so I am doing all right in the class. "I'm taking the class with a group of friends, "so to help them out, I shared the personal notes. "that I take in class with them via a Google doc. "and I encouraged them to invite anyone they know. "Recently one of my friends invited a friend of theirs, "let's call her Jess, 20-year-old woman, "who I've never really interacted with,

"but I have a massive crush on. "I think she and I would make a great couple, "but she's not really into sensitive smart guys. "because on her Instagram I see all her stories show her out. "with really jock like men. "Our third exam is in a couple of days, "and as I was going through the Google doc, "I realized that she was using my doc the most. "You can see who looks at or edits the doc on Google Docs, "and most of my other friends would pop up sometimes, "but I would see her icon pop up a lot. "I also know for a fact. "that she isn't doing well in the class,

"so I got a really good idea. "I would put subtle mistakes in the doc. "so that she wouldn't do well in the exam. "and then I could offer to tutor her.". - Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh. - So I got a great idea, I decided to be evil. (everyone laughs). "That way I can interact with her and talk to her. "so that she'll realize that I have a great personality, "and we can hopefully go out together. "I told my friend about this plan, "and they called me an incel asshole.". - Okay.

- "Personally, I think they're overreacting. "because Jess isn't going to do well either way, "even if I don't add mistakes.". - You don't need to do that! - Don't worry. She's stupid. "So my plan will actually benefit her grades. "while also allowing me to interact with her. "and talk to her. "I think it's a win-win for everyone, "but I was wondering. "if my friend may have been onto something. "So am I the asshole?". - Please tell me this is creative writing. Please tell me-. - I hope so. I hope that was so many stories. - That is crazy.

She's already doing bad. You're trying to make her do worse? - Yeah. Oh man. - That was not the way I thought it was going. I was buckled up. Like, I was snuggled in, ready for whatever was about to happen. - I initially was, but a little orange or pink flag came up. when he was like, "She's usually with the jock guys, "but I'm sensitive and smart.". - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - I'm so sensitive, I want her to fail her class. Lack of empathy, hello? - He literally goes, "I want to on purpose make her mess up, so that she can see. "that I'm a great guy." - A good guy.

- In one sentence. - That's not how you do it, mate. - No, it's not. Try again. - We were on your side, dude. Like, I feel like he had a perfect avenue. because she's using his Google doc. All he has to do now, you have the in to go and talk to her and be like, "Hey, like I've been seeing you've been using my Google doc. "You know, I probably can help you out. "There's probably a lot more that I could cover. "that I don't throw into that Google doc.". Damn. - He already had a perfect in, and I feel like there's like cute little ways you can flirt. in a Google doc. Like, you add a little comment or a note.

- Yes! - Yeah, dude. - Little comment, "Do you wanna go on a date?". - I think that's adorable as hell. I love that. - It's also like if it doesn't work with her, dude, this is your college career. Look at this avenue that's opening up for you. You're the guy who has the Google doc. That's huge, man. - He got that doc. - Yeah. (laughs). That guy's got a huge doc. I hear about it all the time. - I did think it was so nice he was like, "Share it with everyone.". But also this whole story, listen, even if your plan pans out perfectly,

you are setting yourself up for long-term failure. Imagine someday she finds out. - Exactly. - Her trust towards you would just be fully broken. It's not worth it. - No, no. - It's not worth it. - I love that he had real friends that were like, "Hey, dude, that's incel asshole behavior.". - What are you doing, dude? - And the fact that he doubled down, it's like, bro, come on. No, no. - It's a great point that like, if it works out, that's almost worse. - Yes. - Because now your entire relationship. is built upon a lie and a mean act.

You don't want that. You don't want that secret forever. - Oh my gosh, yeah, you're like building a secret identity. of like you're the doc Riddler. Like, you're riddling the doc. - It's your wedding day. He goes, "I need to tell you something before our vows.". (everyone laughs). - Hey, I saw you edit my vows. (everyone laughs). You edited some mistakes to my vows. What was up with that? And he's like, "I have to tell you something.". I also think, like this is different, but it also fits into the like theme of like. when people have a crush on someone, when they then like say mean things to that person.

It's like you leave that in childhood. because that comes from insecurity. - Max fourth grade. Past fourth grade you can't be doing that. - That's not fifth grade shit right there. - Hell no. - No, 'cause in fifth grade I'm excited about middle school. and I'm trying to be mature. I'm trying to be cool. - Yeah. Or at least like pretend to be mature. - Yeah. Right. - Very least. - Yeah, it's like, wait, do you actually like her? Like, if you want to hurt her in this way? - I feel like ultimately. that's just the way people protect themselves. from potential rejection. - Absolutely.

- It's rooted in some form of insecurity. Yada yada. - And there you go. And that's years of therapy right there. - Exactly. - The verdict, you're the asshole. (Pokimane laughs). - Sorry to break it to you, but your friends already did. - [Shayne] Friends are right. - Good friends though. You should listen to them. - [Courtney] Yeah. Yeah. - True. Comments. "If your notes have enough mistakes. "they sabotage her grades, "then why would she come to you for tutoring? "This is so gross and creepy though. "Playing weird games to manipulate people into dating you. "is disgusting and you are way better off asking someone out. "for coffee or to study outright.".

Someone else said, "The way you talk about her is so demeaning and patronizing. "You're the asshole absolutely.". Lastly, someone said, "You're the asshole. "Just talk to her. "You have a talking point in the notes. "Mention you noticed that she was using it, not how much. "And ask if they're helping. "and if there's anything you can clarify.". - Oh yes. - "Do not sabotage her or anyone else.". - Communication. Oh my god. - "Do not be manipulative. "Be upfront and just fricking talk.". - Literally, yeah. I'm like picturing myself in this fantasy of like, I'm in this difficult class. and this doc has been like my godsend.

And then you start seeing notes of like, "If there's anything I can do for you.". I'm like, wow, he's like Paperclip on Microsoft Word. It's like- - Oh my god. - Kind of hot. - Paperclip was kind of hot though. Just so supportive, so helpful, always there for you when you needed him. That's what we want in a guy. - Yeah. He was set up to win and he failed. We'll see what happens though because we have an update. (Courtney gasps). - Stop. - Okay. - Okay. No, you wouldn't expect an update from this. - Yeah.

I'm like, okay, what do we have? - 'Cause I don't think he made his move quite yet. I think he was talking about it. All right, here's our update. "I gotta say for this one, "the comments really hurt me at first.". He's a sensitive guy. - Sometimes. - "A lot of people were really angry with me, "but I didn't really listen until Saturday evening. "My friend that originally disagreed with me. "blocked me and cut me off. "This kind of made me realize. "just how awful everything I said was, "because at first I expected him to be a bit annoyed. "and I thought he was just being dramatic.

"But when he blocked me, "I think I started to realize just how big I screwed up. "This was my childhood friend. "And to hear him insult me hurt. "So I came to this forum, "but I never expected him to block me. "I ended up taking a step back. "and looking over everything I said. "over the past couple of days, and I know I'm wrong. "I left the doc unchanged. "And any changes I made, I made sure to reverse it. "before any time had passed. "These comments and my friend have made me realize. "that Jess isn't some object for me to drool over, "but a real person, "and my plan was incredibly condescending.

"I made assumptions about her, "and I rationalized it in my head by saying. "that it was for her benefit in the end, "even though it was about my hubris and ego. "Plus the plan was logistically dumb.". Plus it wasn't gonna work anyways. (everyone laughs). - Didn't have to say that. - "We had our test, "and I ended up talking to Jess for the first time. "I asked her how it went, "and she said she thinks it actually went okay. "And she said my notes definitely helped. "I then let her know that I saw her on the doc a lot. "and that if she needs any help, I'm available to tutor her.

"or just help her out on any problems. "She thanked me, but said that she had been getting help. "for this test by studying with my lab partner. "Apparently they both are friends as well. "I said, that's cool. "And I just said to reach out to me. "if there's anything you need, and she said, okay. "I think that went well. "And you guys are right. "I need to change the way I see the world. "and I need to mature a bit before initiating anything. "Thank you for the comments. "They stung, but I think I get it now.". - Oh my god. - Wow. - Wow. A pivot. - A switch up. A switch up. You know, to be fair- - Reform? - Yeah. - This guy's 21.

You know, he's in college. He's in a place where he's learning. And he learned a lesson here. - There's room for growth. I like it. I like it. - I'm glad, you know, it took, I'm sorry I'm gonna use these words, but it's like it took an incel going to Reddit. to have things turn around. (everyone laughs). How rare. - That's true. It is rare. - Yeah. I feel like the only times I've seen people, I've seen people switch up a lot on these types of stories, but I have more confidence when it's like 20, 21.

- Yes. - When it's a dude who's in his 30s, I'm like, oh no. (Courtney laughs). I don't know if he's gonna switch around. I don't know if we can turn this car around now. I would go one further and say like, that's cool, man. You're allowed to ask her out. Like, you're allowed to also be like, "Yeah, would do you want get coffee?". Like, he left it at just like, "I could tutor you sometime.". She's like, "Oh, I don't need that.". It's like, yeah, fair. Fair response. Okay. You can shoot yourself. You're allowed. - I agree. - You're allowed. - I think sometimes people forget.

- [Shayne] Truly. - What happened to just, "Let's grab a coffee"? - Yeah. - Yeah. - How about we celebrate the getting the test done? - Oh wait, that's a good setup. When you do get your grades and she passes, then you say, "Let's celebrate. "Let me treat you to a coffee.". Period. Also, I hope him and his friend maybe make up. - Yeah. - That's tough. - Yeah 'cause I joked about him going to Reddit. to turn things around, but it truly was like, oh, I'm losing my friend, someone I care about, that like made him really stop and look at this.

But like, yeah. - I think that with every Reddit story where I'm like, okay, your friends, your family, all these people told you something. and you went to an anonymous forum online to get approval, and then you were still upset. when the response didn't meet what you wanted. But I'm happy for this guy. Turned it around. - I agree. And I'm happy for the girl. Didn't have to go through some weird manipulation. - Yeah, hopefully they did well on the test. - Yeah. I'm rooting for you.

- [Shayne] Organic chemistry. - Women in STEM. - Women in STEM, and hey, he would've had really inorganic chemistry if he had-. - Bam! - Badum tss! - Nice. - Okay! - I didn't go to college. (laughs). - You didn't need it. (everyone laughs). - We should put all of the cast of Smosh. through organic chemistry and see what happens. (crew laughs). - I thought we were done with punishments on Smosh, Shayne! (everyone laughs). - The way you'd have no employees left by like week two. (everyone laughs).

So bad. - I heard it's awful. Okay. Our next story. "Am I the asshole for not letting my friends use my backyard. "for their wedding. "because they do not want me to bring a plus one?". - Hmm. - Hmm. Okay. - We can have your wedding at our place. My wife's not allowed to come? All right. "Here's the situation. "Last summer I bought my grandparents' house. "This house was the hangout spot for my friends and I. "throughout our childhood.

"This includes my friend Dave. "The house has a sizable amount of land, "which includes a lake and a gazebo. "I was supposed to buy the house. "with my now ex-girlfriend Leslie. "But going through the process of getting approved to buy, "I found out that she has massive amounts of credit card. "and personal debt that she hid from me. "throughout our four years together. "I decided to break up as a result. "That was about six months ago. "I met Leslie because Dave's long-term girlfriend Kim. "is Leslie's cousin. "Dave and Kim are engaged and set to get married in April. "When I was buying the house,

"they asked if they could have the ceremony at the gazebo, "which I agreed to do. "In December, I started dating again. "Leslie has not taken this well at all. "She thinks we are going to get back together. "and has tried multiple times to make that happen. "I have told her in no uncertain terms that isn't happening. "Dave and Kim have asked me to not bring a plus one. "to the wedding for Leslie's sake. "I have told them that this request is ridiculous. "This wedding is happening at my house using my land, "and I'm not allowed to bring a date because of a crazy ex? "If that is the case, "then they need to find a new venue for the wedding.

"They are pissed about this given the short timeframe. "of when the wedding is supposed to happen. "So we are at an impasse. "Am I the asshole?". - Hmm. - Hmm. I'm trying to understand. - So he bought his grandparents' house. - [Courtney] Right. - Which, yeah, he inherited his-. - Amazing. - He inherited his grandparents' house. with his ex-girlfriend. But in the process of buying it, found out that his ex was lying to him about tons of debt. - Debt, yeah. - And money issues, so they broke up. And even if they didn't break up for that reason, they broke up.

But now his friends, but because his friends-. - His ex is how he met the people that are getting married. - Oh. - And she's gonna be at the wedding. - Oh. - Okay, what I'm wondering is, yeah, yeah. So they're asking him not to bring a date. 'cause they think the ex who's gonna be at the wedding. is gonna go berserk about it. But he's like, "It's my place.". Wait, right? - He met his ex because his ex is friends with-. - Oh, I see. - Dave is his childhood friend. - Oh, I see. - And Dave's girlfriend Kim...

Leslie was her cousin. This is a lot of layers. It's kinda like organic chemistry. - So Kim's cousins (laughs). - So he knew the man. and then the girl is friends with Leslie. or like cousins with Leslie. Leslie's gonna be at the wedding either way. - Leslie's gonna be at the wedding. - And they care about Leslie's feelings. - Because that's family for them. And so they're asking him to not bring his girlfriend. to his own house because the venue's gonna be there. I think that's one of those situations where it's like, well, we're having the wedding at your place.

I can't... That's just a... That's the awkward aspect. I feel like every wedding has an awkward aspect. - Yeah. - I don't think he's being an asshole. I think it's understandable. for them to kindly make that request. if they wanna avoid drama at their own wedding. I don't know Leslie. But for them to really go that far outta the way, I'm like, is she a little kooky? - Yeah. - Is she gonna throw a fit at the wedding? I wouldn't want that at weddings. So I get it as a kind request.

They shouldn't be assholes about it though. And they kind of don't have any room to be mad. if they're getting married on his land sort of. - [Courtney] Right. Right. - Yeah. It's awkward. Like, I think they can all admit, oh, this is gonna be awkward. But it is your house. Like, we are having our wedding for free at your place. We're not paying you. If they were renting out his backyard-. - I was also wondering if that was gonna be the case. If they're paying or not. - There's a little more of like, we technically are renting this from you, so legally we have this.

But it doesn't sound like that. It sounds like he's kind of doing them a favor. And then, yeah, they could sit down and be like, "Hey, so here's the awkward situation. "Your ex that you just broke up with six months ago. "is gonna be here.". - And we know she's really going through it. Would you mind? Like, I know, it is entirely your right to bring a plus one. or someone that you're seeing, but we just, we think it might turn into an issue. and we'd rather not. - Yeah. - I hope that's how they approached it. That maybe doesn't sound to be the case. - Yeah, it doesn't sound like it,

but it's always the tough thing with these stories. where we don't get that conversation. - Yeah, it's not necessarily how they sounded. It's how OP heard it. - Right. So all we have is kind of the like lawyer aspect. of like on paper what's right and what's wrong. And that's like, well, all right. - And with weddings, it's tough. Like, especially I feel like right now, I get so much stuff on TikTok. about like discourse of weddings. and who deserves space where, like in terms of boundaries. And like, yeah, it's like if it's your wedding... I don't know.

It's like you guys need like, you guys need to write something down. You guys need to like make a written agreement. of what this is 'cause like that it's tricky. It's uh-oh, it's friends and business, uh-oh. - Right. - It's very, very complicated. - Right. The verdict was not the asshole, which I think is completely fair. Comments. "Plus one? "It's your house. "You can invite whoever the (beep) you want. "Plus 38 that shit.". Plus 38 that shit. - Oh, they're saying you can invite 38 people? - Oh, plus 38 that shit. You could add 38 people to it. - Okay. - Yes, like, okay, I get what we're saying, it's your house,

but also these are your friends. Like, it's a respect thing too. Someone else said, "Leslie returned her RSVP with a plus one, "but you're not allowed to bring anyone? "Yeah, (beep) that. "David is not your friend, and I support your boundaries. "and I think you need to consider your friendship. "with David over.". - Aw. - I also wanna note this is a wedding, implying adults. Like, you know, we could be a little mature. - Yeah. - If I was any of the people in here, in my opinion, right or wrong,

not hearing any of the conversations, he has a right to bring someone. If the bride and groom would really prefer that he didn't, it would be really nice of him to respect those wishes. Though he doesn't have to. - [Shayne] Sure. - It's like those legalities. But again, with friends it's more feelings, what you wanna do, et cetera. - No, that's so real. - It's really tricky. Every story we read about weddings, something happens with every wedding. I don't know what it is, man.

- I will say like, I think it's, maybe you're right in that like, oh, potentially this ex does pop off. and get upset about their ex being around or whatever. I think I'm just the type that I'm like, I hate when we anticipate a problem. that might not even happen. Like, why are we even worrying about it? - To be fair, if it's her cousin, I am assuming she knows how the breakup has gone for her. So I'm also thinking about it like, maybe Kim has seen Leslie cry every day. - Oh yeah. - And she's like, if she sees him with another girl,

she's crying for sure at my wedding. If my cousin's crying at my wedding, I'm crying at my wedding. Now I'm worrying about my cousin. instead of just enjoying my day. - They don't want this to be the storyline of the wedding. They want them to be story the wedding. - I think if that's the case, like you can communicate that and if-. - Right. - OP is a friend who cares, he'll be like, "I get it. "I'd rather that not be the narrative for the night too. "I won't bring anyone even though I'm allowed to.". - Yeah, it ultimately just doesn't sound. like they're communicating effectively. - Yeah, I agree. - If I'm Leslie and this is at the house that I was buying.

with my ex-boyfriend, that I then got dumped. because that process of buying that house. resulted in revealing a bunch of stuff. that I'd been lying about-. - Yeah. - It's pretty awkward. - [Courtney] That's open wounds. - It's also tough, like I feel like we're skating over that. 'cause like I've brought up before, like to me that's a version of cheating. where it's like that was lying, that was keeping a huge thing away from your partner. - Your debt, yeah. - Yeah, like, and I don't know what amount of it.

They're saying it's pretty substantial, but-. - I mean, for him to break up a four year relationship, I'm sure it was substantial. - Yeah. I mean, it's just... There's so many details. that I think would affect how I view this. - Yeah. - [Shayne] And we don't have any of it. - And I think Leslie, like if she didn't want this guy there, I feel like it is more important if you're a blood relative. Like, if it's a blood relative versus a friend. I don't know. I guess it really depends on your life experience. - I understand why they're inviting Leslie. - Oh yeah. Yeah.

But like being like, well if Leslie doesn't wanna see him, like would she wanna go? I would as the bride be like, no, I definitely want my cousin there. - I agree. It would be really hard to miss out. on like my cousin's wedding. - Yeah. - I would back flip to the moon for my cousin's wedding. (everyone laughs). Tricky situation. Low-key like wedding situations and conflicts. are sometimes really interesting. 'cause it's such a unique circumstance. that really doesn't work any other day of your whole life. - Truly.

- I have never heard about a wedding. going like perfectly 100% fine. There's always something. There's always some aspect. - I've never heard of a wedding. - I don't know what a wedding is. - What do they do at those? - What is a wedding? - What is wedding? (everyone laughs). - Update. - Okay. Oh, it's update city. Okay, we brought updates for Pokimane. (everyone laughs). - Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, Reddit, for bringing me updates. (everyone laughs). - "So I met with Dave this morning. "We talked for almost two hours about everything. "I laid it out that I thought he was.

"at best a shitty friend. "I went through our long history of various things. "over the years that has me questioning our friendship. "That was the bulk of our conversation. "We then turned to the breakup with Leslie. "and the shit show of the last six months. "Throughout the last six months, despite Leslie's craziness, "I have bent over backwards. "to try and accommodate her feelings. "She has shown up to my house in the middle of the night. "I did not get a restraining order. "When I go out, I do not go to places I know. "that she and her family like to go to. "She has implied to her family and mutual friends.

"at various times that I cheated. "and/or that I took advantage of her financially.". - Ooh. - "Neither of which is true at all. "I have held my tongue so as to not embarrass her. "about these things in front of her friends and family. "Dave knows all that, and yet is demanding once again. "that I put Leslie's feelings before my own. "I said, 'You and everyone need to stop coddling her. "'like she's a (beep) child.'. "Dave concedes that Leslie has been crazy. "and ridiculous since the breakup. "But he says, 'She feels she did not get closure. "'after the relationship. "'She wants to have an evening. "'where she can talk to you to get that closure.'".

No, (beep) that. - Oh my god. - "He also told me that Leslie has been very vigilant. "about paying off her debt. "and paid off almost $10,000 of credit card debt. "She wants to talk to me about her progress. "to see if that might cause me to change my mind.". - Ooh. - "It will not. "I asked him, 'So do you expect me to go to the wedding. "'and talk to her? "'Because I have her blocked everywhere. "'And date or not, "'I do not plan to say a single mumbling word to her.'. "He said, 'I fully expect she would lose it.

"'if y'all do not talk at the wedding.'. "I told him that if that's the case, "then for the good of my property, I can't have Leslie come. "If she is so unstable. "that I need to be coerced into a conversation with her, "she is too unsafe to be a guest in any capacity in my home. "So I've told him, based on what he has told me, "Leslie cannot come to my house or on my land. "I am willing to still have the wedding at my place, "but I cannot trust Leslie won't do something. "given what you are telling me. "Dave lost it at this point. "He said, '(beep) you and your shit. "'I don't need it.'.

"So I said, 'Then the wedding is off.'. "He left.". - Oh. - He said like he was the bride. - I'm breaking up with you! Throws a ring suddenly. - All right, well, that changes everything for me. - Yeah, I had a feeling. I was like, there must have been a lot more mess. if it's like that. - Wait, that commenter was right about like, ooh, they're trying to get you two back together. - It's certainly like, it's not a bad guess. I just always am like a little hesitant when they jumped to, well, here's what's going on. I'm like, well a couple things going on. - But it still wound up to be right. - It was true.

They were right. Yeah, like their whole intentions, they're clearly not respecting him. - I agree. They're being very disrespectful. It's also just sad to think, oh, these people are friends. They've known each other so long, and it's escalating to this degree before a wedding. To be honest, I would like to avoid drama. Like, if I was in his shoes, I would recognize that my conversation with David, right? My conversation with him signals to me.

that he doesn't really trust my opinion. as much as I'd like him to in regards to what happened, or he's not respecting and validating my feelings. or trusting what I want. I don't wanna get back with them. Why are you pushing for that? I feel like that's very inappropriate as a friend. - Why are you even allowing space for that? - Yeah. It's so odd. To be honest, I would still let them do the wedding. Maybe I wouldn't go. I would go, not bring a date, whatever. I would just let that move on and like pass, and then I'd probably just distance myself fully.

and continue my life as I please. - To like avoid the hassle and everything. I get that. - It must be really hard to stay. in a friend circle like that. where like everybody is coddling your ex's feelings. who did you very dirty. - Yeah. Dangerous. - It just seems like a bad situation. - Yeah. - [Shayne] It's a rough thing. - Or like an unhealthy situation for him to be in. - I feel like it's very common for people. to meet their partners via like friends, right? And that's a great thing. It can be tricky once- - Gets complicated. - If a breakup happens and it's like,

well, what happens to the friend group now? Because people have different vibes. But ultimately this comes down to Dave knows. that Leslie showed up to his house. in the middle of the night. Dave knows- - Some of these things. are way beyond crossing a line. - She's not respecting his boundaries. She's not respecting his no's. And then Dave literally tells him like, well, I know she wants to use this wedding. as a vehicle to talk to you, which is showing Leslie's not even respecting their wedding. She's not there for their wedding. She's there for him.

- Like, to me as a friend, I wanna have the same like morals and ethics as the people. and values that I surround myself with. I would be looking at David like, don't you think that's weird? - Yeah, like you're cool with this? - Shouldn't we agree that, yeah. She stalked me essentially. Hello? - Like, he could've gotten a restraining order. and he didn't. - 'Cause there's the aspect of like, yeah, it's your wedding, it's your day, which means you also have the grounds. to tell Leslie like, you are absolutely not talking to him. - Yeah. - On our wedding.

Like, it's our wedding, and our demand of you is you're allowed to go, if you don't talk to him, don't bother him. - If you're asking one person not to bring a date, you could ask the other person, don't interface, don't talk to this person. - [Shayne] Absolutely. - Yeah, I feel like at the end of the day-. - I think that's fair. That's probably the most fair. - More than fair. That's like the closest to everybody happy if possible. Like, if you can't bear to be in the same building. and you have to talk to them, please. My love! - Get a grip. - I feel like, 'cause like I have been at events. where there were people in my life.

that didn't get along the best, but for the sake of this event, they all chose to get along well. And it was actually really amazing. And that was respecting the event and the context, and like that means a lot. And like it's like you're saying, this person Leslie is making the wedding about her, and it seems like the groom in this conversation. is just cool with that. The bride cares about their cousin. And like it's just, oof. - It's complicated. - Yeah. It's very murky and like, yeah. I totally see where you're saying about, it's just like give them the night they want.

But I'm like-. - Afterwards, deuces. - Yeah, I just picture like if I was OP, I'm just like in my robe drinking coffee, but like watching them down below at the gazebo. - I also feel like that's so shortsighted. because okay, let's say they do talk, what if it goes badly? - Something's gonna happen. - It's gonna be like a food fight. - There's gonna be a food fight. It's actually gonna be sick. (everyone laughs). I also am just always blown away. when like I hear about friends. trying to get their friend back with their ex.

And I'm just like, if the friend has been like, "No, I'm not going back to that ex,". but the friends are like, "Well, we're gonna try to manufacture and make it happen.". It's like you're not respecting your friend at all. - Yeah. Talking about manufacturing making it happen, like the previous story. Leslie did all these horrible things to OP, like horrible things. They're all aware of. And Leslie's like, "But I've done the work.". It's like, well what kind of work? You're doing financial saving. That's really cool. That's really awesome. But you also like harassed this man. - You lied to him.

You hid this for years. - Yeah, man. - So he's within his right to not wanna be with you. - Absolutely. - And your friends should absolutely respect that. That's why if I'm OP, I accept that these circumstances came about. when I was with someone. I let them fully, you know, finish and end. and I close that chapter, and I likely move on with maybe some new friends. that respect my wishes. - Weddings are always that like moment, you know? Or not always. - It really tests everything. - It can be a test.

- All right, our next story. - Dang. No update? - [Shayne] No more updates. - An update to an update. would've been crazy. - Oh, wait, yeah. - "Am I the asshole for leaving my boyfriend's apartment. "after he spent the entire night gaming with his friends, "wouldn't let me in his room, "and made me feel like a guest instead of his girlfriend? "I'm a 25-year-old woman. "He's a 26-year-old man. "And we've been dating for just under a year. "Things were mostly good until last weekend, "and now I'm wondering if this is a sign. "of something bigger. "Here's what happened. "He invited me over Saturday night.

"because he was having his friends online. "for a gaming night. "I'm not super into gaming, "but I figured it could still be fun. "I pictured us hanging out, maybe I'd watch for a bit, "grab us some snacks, and then when they were done, "we'd cuddle up and spend time together. "Instead, the second I got there, "he pretty much disappeared into his room. "with his headset on. "I tried to hover for a minute like, 'Hey, can I watch?'. "He said, 'There's no space in here. "'I'll be a while.'". - Oh. - "Then he shut the door. "I decided to sit on the couch in his living room by myself. "listening to him yell and laugh through his headset.

"with his friends.". - What? - "I felt really awkward. "It wasn't like I could jump in or join them. "They weren't playing Mario Kart or something fun to watch. "It was a raid or whatever that lasts hours long.". (everyone laughs). - What do you think the game is? - Probably "WoW.". - Okay. - If it was a raid, it's probably "WoW.". - Oh my god. - "I didn't wanna just scroll my phone all night either. "But that's basically what I did. "I even debated just going home. "But I thought maybe he'd be done soon. "Except soon never came. "I checked the time around 11:30 PM, "then midnight, then 1:00 AM, "and he still hadn't come out once to check on me.

"Not even a, 'Hey, you good?'. "He had ordered food earlier for himself and his friends.". - What? - No, that's crazy work. He's pushing it. - "But didn't even ask if I wanted anything. "That part stung because I literally sat there hungry. "while they ate in his room.". - What? Not with the food! - "At 2:00 AM I finally knocked. "and asked if he was almost done. "He didn't even take his headset off. "Just looked at me annoyed and said, "'We're in the middle of a raid. "'Go to sleep if you're tired.'. "I don't know why, but that just broke me. "It wasn't about the gaming,

"it's the fact that he made me feel like some random guest, "not his girlfriend. "Why did he even invite me over? "I packed up my stuffed, grabbed my bag, and left quietly. "I didn't slam the door or make a scene. "I felt too humiliated to stay. "I thought maybe he'd notice I left and call, but nope. "The next morning he texted me like nothing was wrong, "asking where I went. "When I told him I left because I felt ignored, "he flipped it around and said I was being dramatic. "and immature. "According to him, "I could have just waited it out like a chill girlfriend.". - Wait around? - What, you mean like an inanimate object?

- You mean like an NPC? - Like a chill girlfriend, or a lamp. (everyone laughs). "I'll admit, maybe I could have spoken up sooner. "instead of stewing on the couch for hours. "I didn't want to nag, "so I just kept telling myself he'd be done soon. "At the same time, why should I have to beg for attention. "in my own boyfriend's apartment? "It's one thing if he wants a night with his friends. "I get that, but why even ask me to come over? "This isn't the first time he's blown me off for gaming, "but it's never been this bad. "Usually it's like 30 minutes here and there, "and then we do something together.

"I tried to bring that up and he just said I'm too needy. "and that he's not going to change how he relaxes. "I don't wanna blow up something good over one bad night. "Am I the asshole for leaving his place. "in the middle of the night instead of just waiting it out? "Or was I right to set a boundary. "and refuse to sit there being treated like I'm invisible?". - You are definitely not the asshole. - No. Dude, he said-. - Let's start there. - He said I just need to relax. (grunting). On me, on me. - I'm confused. So he had friends over. - It sounds strange.

Yeah, 'cause she's like, "He got food for him and his friends.". - Yeah. But she said he had them online. None of it adds up. - Also he said like, "There's no room in here.". Was that because they were also there? - Or was his room just so dirty? - Wait, did he order food for himself. or for him and his friends? - She said him and his friends. So maybe he did have-. - Okay, so they were there. - Is this AI? - I don't think it is. - Maybe it's just written strangely. - No, I don't think this is AI. I think this is real. I'm gonna operate off the assumption. that his friends are in the room.

- Okay. - And they're playing video games together. Which I will say like, it just doesn't add up. I feel like this could have been avoided. by him just telling his girlfriend like, "Oh, I'm having like my friends over tonight. "Like, we can't hang out tonight. "I'm doing a game night with some of my old buds.". - Yeah, or if he invites her, she'll have to actually be a part of it. - Yeah. - Not just like in the corner in another room. - Yeah. - What do you mean? - What in the world? - I would feel awful like in any sort of social setting, like inviting someone who can't participate. in what we're doing. - It's more common than we probably realize.

Like, I've seen a lot of stuff of people who like, just their partner is just gaming. while they're just like there. And it seems like a sad time. Doesn't seem fun. - Okay, listen... (everyone laughs). - You turned into Robert De Niro right there. - Okay. I will speak as someone who... (Courtney laughs). I've had many a men be upset, many men be upset about how much I game. - Oh my god. Okay, okay. This is important perspective.

I love this. - Okay. - But listen, for starters, there's a time and place. And secondly, there have been instances for example, where maybe I'm just so focused on gaming, I lose track of time, I don't answer someone within an appropriate time period, I go MIA in the middle of a conversation. But when they tell me, "Hey, that made me feel this type of way,". I say, "Oh my god, I'm so sorry. "I was locked in. "My bad.". And it's not that hard to say. Also, you put yourself in someone else's shoes,

that wouldn't be too great. And there are some instances where it's not a big deal. And some instances where it is. At the end of the day, I think most people can agree. if they were in her shoes in that situation, they would not feel great. Honestly, she put up with so much. Me, I would've been pissed at just ordering food. and not for me. I would've been done then! - Yeah, the food would've been it for me too. - There's so much inconsideration. - Never gonna see me again. - There's so much in consideration within this. Like, she was down for him to play games all night. and for her to hang out and watch.

He set this up horribly. - And even when she tells him, "Hey, I didn't feel too great, I didn't feel welcomed. What have you. Just no validating her feelings. No trying to make her feel better. To me that's the bigger issue. I can imagine someone really getting lost in a game night. Not great, but it happens sometimes. It's more so, hey, can we come back as a couple, get on the same page. - [Courtney] Yeah. - And feel like you care about my feelings. so next time you'll be considerate of me when I'm there.

I feel like it shouldn't have gone so south. - Absolutely. - I think it's odd that the next day he reached out. as if nothing was wrong, nothing happened. - Yeah. - When she, like the way the night, the way the last thing-. - Even the way she left. - Yeah, the last thing they said to each other. was she was like, "Hey, like, what's going on? "I'm getting tired.". And he said, "Go to bed then.". - Go home. - No, I don't think, the gaming is not the problem in this story. It's his responses to everything-. - His attitude. - That is the problem. - Just his lack of consideration too.

- For sure. 'Cause like I will watch people play video games all day. Like, I watch him play lots of video games. I've watched you in the "Among Us" era. I watched so much of that shit. Like, I love that. - It can actually be fun to like sit behind someone. while they're gaming, but like, they should be letting you. and they should just treat you like you're actually there, not invisible. - I also think it's a very normal thing with couples. where like a person has their hobby. or something that's like, oh, I'm gonna do this thing tonight. and that's gonna be, I'm gonna be doing this thing. And it's like cool. Like, do that thing while I do whatever.

But if you order food, order food for everyone in the house. What are you doing? - Yeah, that's like-. - I really think this story-. - It's about the food actually. - This story takes a completely different turn. if it's like, "Oh and he ordered food and he asked me what I wanted.". It's like truly very different story. - Did he check on you at all? - Wild behavior. - 'Cause right before you said the food, I was like, did he even get up to piss? Like, what's happening? - Probably not. - And then when I hear he got up to order food and do all, like, that means he got up, got food from a delivery person,

acknowledged the delivery person. more than he acknowledged his partner. - That's crazy. - What's up, Greg? Nice, man. Sick, dude. Keep doing your thing. - Keep doing pizza. - Keep doing pizza. (laughs). - You do that pizza so good, Greg. He looks at her on the couch. Humph. Keeps walking. - Oh my god. Please. No. - Like I said, I'm confused. He invited her over. Like, why invite her over? - For an occasion, right? The occasion was it's game night. - Yeah. That's what it made it sound like. I don't know, man.

It's odd. The verdict, not the asshole. - I think it did end up being. that they were all gaming online. But I think he only ordered food for himself. - Yeah. - I think that's what ended up happening. - Maybe he like ate with his friends. Like, they all were eating. - You know what actually makes sense, if they're playing a game like "World of Warcraft,". they'd be like, "Oh, we're taking a break really quick.". - Oh yes, yes. Eating at the same time. - So we're all ordering food. 'cause we can't like-. - Yes, yes, yes. - Can't raid while we eat. - Yeah, and say "World of Warcraft" grace. Say grace.

- It is a thing when you play "World of Warcraft,". you do have to pray before every raid. - Or cast a spell. - At least my guild would do that. I don't know if that's normal. Comments. "Not the asshole. "He wants an on-demand girlfriend to take care of him. "while he gives nothing. "You deserve better.". Someone said, "Not the asshole. "If he wanted a boys own the gaming night, "he should have been honest. "instead of inviting you over just to ignore you. "You're his partner, not background furniture. "You did the right thing leaving, "and you're right to question. "if this is the kind of relationship you want long term.". Someone said, "This isn't even how you treat a guest.

"His guests got food to eat. "I wouldn't be surprised. "if this isn't some dumb TikTok dare. "How long will my girlfriend sit in the living room. "whilst I game with my buddies and get takeaway.". - Honestly, like my brain went there. because Reddit is so messed up sometimes, and like it's just, I was like, maybe he's putting... Like, guys be doing tests on their girlfriends sometimes. - Ew. - It's so weird. - Ew. I hate that. - I know. Reddit's messed up. I've heard too many stories on this dang couch. Poki, I've heard so many darn things. - You know too much, honey.

You know too much. - Help me. - [Shayne] We're messed up over here. - Your poor brain. - Last comment said, "Not the asshole. "By chill girlfriend, he means a girlfriend. "that doesn't make any demands of him or nag, as you said. "A chill girlfriend sits there hungry, silent, and alone, "waiting patiently for him. "because he might have a moment for her. "It doesn't get better, by the way. "He's old enough to know what his plans. "for an evening/night are, "and if he wants to game into the wee hours. "with his friends, he should be adult enough to say, "'I've made plans with my friends to game,

"'so how about we get together another night?'. "And do that. "Having you waiting in the other room. "feels like he was having you on standby. "in case he had a girlfriend fulfilling need.". - That's so weird. I will say like everything was sort of salvageable. until they had a conversation and he still didn't care. That I can't understand. - Right. - I cannot. - I agree. The response. I feel like there's never been a time. where I've heard a boyfriend say. that their girlfriend's being overdramatic and it's-. - And it goes well. - [Shayne] And it goes well.

- I guess I'm too dramatic for you! And then I dramatically leave. (everyone laughs). - And that's how you do it, and that's how it's done. - All right, there is no update. because this was posted yesterday as of us reading this. - Next time. - So this happened last night. - That's so sad. - People are playing "World of Warcraft" right now. (everyone laughs). Which still shocks me. - What are we doing about it? - [Shayne] Still shocks me. - What're we gonna do. about it now? - I stopped playing that game when I was 15. That was 30 years ago.

(crew laughs). - It's going strong. - All right, our next story. "Am I the asshole for being upset. "with my $150 engagement ring?". - Ah. - "My fiance is quite well off, "and while I don't make as much as him, "I certainly would not be struggling on my own. "He rotates between a few very expensive watches. "that he wears to work. "And while we have a good grasp on financial literacy, "we aren't shy about spending. "for the important parts of life. "We openly share finances,

"so I know he isn't secretly in debt or any such nonsense. "The ring is nice and understated, "but more of a nice stacker. "than an engagement ring to show off. "The stone, which I'm doubtful is a diamond, is quite small. "It is not an heirloom. "When friends or family get engaged, "there is always the excitement in sharing the news, "and inevitably someone will ask to see the ring. "and then everyone coos over it and it's a good time. "When I showed mine, the mood got awkward, "and they feigned excitement just long enough. "until it was okay to change the topic. "This is not a knock on them, they're just terrible liars.".

(everyone laughs). - That's good. - "I would like to make clear. "that I am not expecting a three month salary ring. "or an over the top wedding. "However, this is a piece I'll be wearing daily for decades. "and is largely considered a symbol of his love. "I know not all feel this way, but we do, "or at least I thought we did. "But I really don't think I'm out of line for thinking of it. "as a long-term investment piece. "given the amount of wear it will see. "and the sentimentality behind it. "Surely it is worth more than a gaming console.".

That's not as much as a game console. Gaming console is twice as much as that, man. They ask, "Am I the asshole here?". - Interesting. - No. Oh, I'm so curious. Did they talk about it? - That's literally what I was-. - Hello? Communication. - What was the ring convo? - Yeah. - There's gotta be a ring convo always. - 'Cause, you know, if you have a ring convo. and, you know, she's like, "I want a Ring Pop.". And he is like, "Okay, Ring Pop.". And then you both are happy about the Ring Pop, okay. - Yeah. - But if you have a conversation and you set an expectation.

and he either doesn't meet it or doesn't want to. or he's like, "Well, I feel like you should not even care.". - Right. Interesting. Yeah. It sounded like the wording at the end there, she was like, "I thought we had the same opinions on this.". - Right. - Maybe she thought they had the same opinions. on spending in general, but maybe he had some sort of different perspective. when it comes to the ring. I'm not sure. - [Bailey] At the beginning, she says he rotates expensive watches.

- He has expensive watches. - Uh-oh, not the watch costing more than the, I'm just kidding. It's inevitable. - The watches definitely cost more. if she's saying he has expensive watches. It certainly adds a layer to it of like, okay, he spends money like that on himself. You know, it's like, would you want to spend that. on your partner? - But I thought they said they like will splurge. on experiences or vacations or whatever. - Right. - [Shayne] Yeah. - What happened here? - It's more-. - And like is this a pattern? Like, does he usually maybe not really buy lavish things.

when it comes to her birthdays and things like that? I guess if I was in her shoes, that's what I'd be more mindful of. - Yeah. - Like, is he more reserved when it comes to spending on me? Is that maybe an issue we'll have when we're married. or when we want kids or when there are more important, you know, that's where my line of thinking is. - Yeah. - We read a story where, very similar, where the fiance got her a ring, OP a ring. and it was off of Temu.

And it was like-. - Yeah, it was like $40 maybe, max. - It was like $40 maybe. And we all just kind of agreed. like that ring's not gonna last very long at all. - No. Apparently it was, supposedly it was a big moissanite gemstone. but like whatever karat gold was on there, like I think someone had looked into it, like that gold would've, a gust of wind. It would've been gone. - All the specks come off. - Yeah. And then your finger's green and... - They share finances, so they know that their financial situation,

I don't think it's, and she's saying it's not about an expensive ring, but it is about like you are gonna wear this ring every day. - For me it's also, sorry to interrupt. - No, you're fine. - Like, if I was dating someone. who maybe struggled a little bit financially. and they got me $150 ring, I'd be like, "Well if you don't make that much, "that is like, that's so much.". I'd be so grateful. - Right. - But she knows he has the money. to spend more on such an important gift that he's giving her. that's gonna signify their love and their union.

That's the part that I'm weird about. Like, she can see how much he makes so... - Right. - I don't understand where he's coming at it from. - It's the thought that counts, right? 'Cause if it was an heirloom that he didn't spend money on, but he's like, "Oh, this is my grandmother's ring,". or something, that would mean-. - Right, but then what's the thought? - There's just the amount of importance that he puts on it, but it kind of makes it sound like this was a bit. of a throwaway for him. - Right. - And why would that be the case? - Right, and she said it didn't look. like it was a diamond at all. - She doesn't think it's a real diamond, but it's small and just-.

- She's called it a stacker, which is whoa. - That's a phrase. But I know plenty of people who are married, and I feel like everybody has a very different story. of what they wanted out of a ring. And I know plenty of people whose rings are very inexpensive. 'cause they talked and they agreed I don't want that. - This is why you go ring shopping. - Yeah. - I want this. - You can be on the same page. - But there's still like an agreement. between them of like the significance. And that's what's important. But it sounds like they are on very different pages, which is scary when you're engaged.

Verdict, not the asshole. Comments. "Some are calling you shallow, "but you've made it clear that you're not asking. "for anything super expensive, "just something a step above costume jewelry. "Especially given your comments. "that he also has a few nice watches he wears, et cetera. "I don't think you're shallow or an asshole. "for wanting something nicer. "At the same time, I don't think he's the asshole. "for getting you what he got. "What's clear is that you guys had zero communication. "about the cost or style of the ring before it was bought, "even though you are open enough about your finances. "to share them. "This speaks more to problems inherent in your relationship.

"than the ring itself. "You need to talk to him about your concerns, "and if that's important to you, "contribute to the cost of a nicer ring.". OP responded to that saying, "We had briefly talked about overall style, "and he has access to my jewelry box. "to know the stuff I typically wear. "As the price of the ring wasn't very important to me, "the budget for it was never really discussed, "which I see as a mistake now, "but I didn't realize that this could be a problem. "We'll be talking about this for sure, "but I know this can be a touchy subject.

"and wanted an objective eye on it first.". Someone else said, "Not the asshole. "I think you need to communicate ASAP. "and find out the reasoning behind the ring. "It's not always about the actual money. "but about the message it sends. "To you, he's saying that he might. "not think you're worth spending more money on, "or it could be completely different in his mind, "but you won't know until you talk to him. "Engagement rings are a significant statement in our society. "as much as people want to think otherwise. "Plus this is a good way to figure out. "if you share similar values around money, et cetera.". - That one. That's a good comment.

- Yeah, that is very good. - OP responded to that saying, "I suspect it was his way of seeing. "if I was marrying him or his money.". - That's what I was thinking too. But also why are you testing someone via an engagement ring? - Another test. - Shouldn't you be sure that I care about you... - Yeah. - [Shayne] Yeah. - I don't like tests in relationships. - [Courtney] I know. - "But it just comes off as insecure. "and is quite hurtful for him to bring that. "into what should be an entirely happy moment. "We will be communicating more on this, "but sometimes it helps to see what strangers think. "before going into a tricky conversation.

"so I can better see both sides. "and not act so emotional when it's all going down.". Lastly, someone said, "Info. "How do you know it cost $150? "Did you know he was going to propose? "My wife knew I was going to propose. "because we talked about marriage. "My wife loved her engagement ring. "because we talked about what she wanted. "I had her look at hundreds of rings online. "and tell me what she liked/didn't like about each one. "so I could find a ring she liked within my budget. "After five years, "she still talks about how beautiful her ring is.". OP responded saying, "We share our finances.

"and I saw the charge on the bank statement. "I didn't know what it was at the time. "Nothing is ever abbreviated normally, "but looking back it was definitely the ring. "I knew he was going to propose. "and I tried not to hound him with the ring ideas, "but he should have had a decent idea. "of the general style I like.". I still think like, you know, you can never communicate too much. I think it should be laid out. - [Pokimane] Yes. - Like, unless you're someone. who loves a surprise more than anything, like you should really talk about it.

- And rings can be very different. Like, the styles and everything. Like, the way me and Shayne did it. was like I found like 10 links and like sent them to him. and I was like, if he picked any of those it's cool 'cause he picked it. - And then there's still kind of a surprise. - Yes. Yeah. - But you know it's something you'll like. - Yes. Very that. Yeah. - [Shayne] Exactly. - Also, I was a little mm about the fact. that she was seeking other people's objective opinions. in a situation that to me is super subjective. All that matters when it comes to an engagement ring. is what you and your partner decide on.

Whether you want it to be, again, a Ring Pop or $10,000, whatever is really up to what you guys decide. and communicate on. - It's kind of true. I do feel like everything with an engagement is, it's a test in a way, but it's more of just communication. of how well you know each other. and how much you respect each other. and how important each other are to one another. And for her, this was not fitting that, so it requires a conversation. - Yeah, it sounds, so she is suspicious that he's seeing.

if she's marrying him for his money or not. - If that's the case... - Is she gonna get upset? I mean, I feel like you don't have to throw a fit, I'm leaving you. But, you know, just kindly talk to him, be like, "Hey, I noticed, and of course like I don't, you know, "I don't need a ring to be a million dollars, "but I'm curious why you chose this one,". and just let him do the talking. and see from there where it goes. - Yeah. - That and like even before that being like, "So what inspired this ring?".

- Yeah. - So like, tell me the story of this ring. - Ha ha, this ring is so great, so like what... What was going on with it? (Courtney laughs). What's the deal? Well, we're gonna find out because we have an update. - Stop! - Okay! Okay! - Because you were reading her replies in the comments. and I was like, oh, there's no update. I'm gonna be so dissatisfied. - Let's go. - This is a good episode, guys. Thank you. (everyone laughs). - Amazing. - All right. "He came home and we were settling down around dinner.

"I started the conversation with, "'Honey, I'd like to talk about the ring.'. "And before I could finish, he just blew up.". - Oh. - "Started yelling, '(beep) finally!'. "And how I'd ruined everything by waiting so long. "To be brief, he bought a shitty ring. "from a jeweler who got bad reviews. "so that when I got upset over it, "he could dump me under the guise that I was a gold digger.". - Huh? - "He has apparently been having an affair.". - Huh? - "Turns out COVID had shortened his work hours,

"not extended. "With a younger model that he's earned. "But knew that breaking things off. "when everyone loved me so much would hurt his optics, "so he had to make it my fault. "He knew that leaving this pariah ship. "would gain him sympathy. "And there was a lot of rhetoric. "that clearly wasn't his own words, "but something he was parroting from what I highly suspect. "is from a much too influential work friend. "that I've had disagreements with in the past. "Changes I had attributed to work stress. "are glaringly obvious to me now. "as symptoms of something more malicious under the surface.

"And I feel really ashamed I didn't see things. "more clearly earlier or wasn't somehow able to-". - You should have no shame. - "Head things off before they got this far. "I won't be sticking around to dig any deeper, "but I know my now ex-fiance would not have done. "and said the things he did without being pushed. "from bad influences behind the scenes. "This doesn't mean I forgive him. "I think he's incredibly weak and feeble-minded. "for letting this happen to us. "But I also doubt I'll be contacting many. "of our mutual friends as the dust settles.

"I left in the middle of his tirade. "around the 15 minute mark, and I'm staying at my mother's. "I haven't cried yet and I think I'm still waiting. "for it all to suddenly make sense, "but I know logically it might not ever. "Thank you to everyone who responded to my post. "and offered your thoughts. "I don't think anyone could have predicted. "what was going to happen from the information I gave.". - The way she dodged a bullet though. - Yeah. - That is crazy. When you first said, "Oh, I was waiting for you to bring it up,".

the first thing that came to my mind. was that was a prank ring. Here's the real one. - I thought so too. - Then that was not at all what happened. Oh my god. - No. It was a prank affair. - Yeah. - That's crazy. Also, is it not even crazier. that he like unveiled everything? On one hand, great closure for her. I'm happy in that regard. But on the other hand, psychotic. - 100%. It was like a villain monologue. - It's like, why did you wait so long to bring it up? I was gonna break up with you. because I was gonna pretend that you were a gold digger.

What? (laughs). - [Shayne] It's weird. - What in the world? - I mean, it's very blatant, it's very odd in that way. But I have heard like when people have affairs, it leads to this weird thing. where the person who's cheating builds resentment. for their partner that they're cheating on. I don't remember the exact logistics of it, but-. - Well, 'cause yeah, if you continue to get away with it, like you are sitting with those feelings, right, and like... - It's, yeah. Like-. - They're projecting that. - It just messes you up, right? It just messes you up. And so he got to a point where he was just like, oh my god.

Like, he views her as a burden, sadly. - Oh my god. I think it's one of those things where like... I've sometimes seen instances or been in instances. where people get upset at you. for like wanting to be nice kind of, or like being chill with it. I think that's where it was coming from when he's like, "You took so long to bring it up.". And every day there's like this crazy voice. in the back of his mind where he's like, "Oh, look at her being all nice.". (Courtney laughs). No, literally.

I've had people tell me kooky things like that. I'm like, therapy, please. Like, I think that person is genuinely just trying. to like not be problematic, go about their day. And like, oh, they think they're so good, being nice. - 100%. - It's so tragic with those types of situations. Like, she sounds like she really loved him. She cared about him, and here he is. - She didn't even wanna bring it up. until she like got other people's opinions and was like, "Am I being crazy?". - Yeah. It's interesting. He sounds explosive, so maybe she...

You know, she's checking like, hey, should I poke the bear? - Oh, I see. I see. That makes sense then. - Yeah, but sounds like she, it sounds done, obviously. - That took a turn I could've never-. - Yeah. Bullet dodged, but also she kind of was in the thick of it, like an affair happened and she's just like, "Okay, I'm out.". - [Shayne] Right. - Like, thank goodness, yeah, the timing of it all. - I'm at least glad she knows like, one, totally not her fault. Two, she has nothing to be ashamed of. And three, in a way it's better it ended here and now.

than actually getting married. But also like so evil of him. to drag her through the excitement of getting engaged, to then get her a bad ring, to then end things while having an affair. That's insane. - Yeah. But he wanted the story. He wanted to be the victim. - 'Cause my family loves you, but I don't. - Yeah. - To go that far for it, holy. - Yeah. - People do it up. - What is it with these rich people with the villain arc?

(Pokimane laughs). He's so rich and he like, it reminds me of "The Guardians of the Galaxy 2" movie. where like the monologue takes that really dark turn. and you're like, whoa, whoa, whoa. - The like weird zoom out, zoom in thing. Yeah. - Scary. They think they're the main character. - Yeah. - Need to make myself look best. - Hey Shayne from a future "Reddit Stories" here. Before we wrap up, I have a fun update for y'all. Some of you may know this, but "Smosh Reads Reddit Stories" has been nominated. for a 2025 Signal Listeners Choice Awards. for best comedy podcast,

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Our final story. "Am I the asshole for wearing a tight dress. "despite my friend asking me not to?". - I saw a TikTok about this, I think. - Ooh! - Yeah. - Okay. "I, 20-year-old woman, "and my friends, both 22-year-old women, "are currently on vacation. "For the sake of the story, I will call them L and K. "L, K, and I all decided that while we are on vacation, "we would go clubbing as much as possible. "All my friends know that I have a feminine sense of style.

"My entire wardrobe consists of pink miniskirts, dresses, "heels, and lots of jewelry. "Not once has this ever seemingly been a problem. "with my friends, "at least if there was nothing was mentioned directly to me. "When you go clubbing, "most people tend to wear tight outfits, "so my suitcase was packed. "with several outfits meant for clubbing. "Last night, after spending our day by the pool, "I started Googling clubs near us and broached the topic. "of starting our first night partying. "All seemed excited, so we all headed up to our room. "to start getting ready. "I was just about done with my makeup and hair. "when I grabbed the dress I was planning on wearing.

"and suddenly the mood felt extremely sour. "For sake of full clarity, "it's a very short pink leather dress. "K spoke up and mentioned. "that I should probably pick another outfit. "I asked her why and she said, "'Since we are all going together, "'none of us should try to outdo each other.'. "I explained that I'm not trying to outdo anyone. "and just like my dress. "L sided with her, "saying that I was clearly trying to one up them. "and was acting like a pick me.". - Oh. Right. Right. (everyone laughs).

- "I told them I'm wearing the dress no matter what. "and I was sure they would look just as, if not more, "beautiful than me in their outfits. "They barely talked to me for the remainder of getting ready. "and split up from me the moment the Uber dropped us off. "It's Tuesday and they are still being cold/short with me. "I kind of want to go home, "but I'm curious if I'm being an overdramatic asshole. "Am I the asshole?". - Naur. - Naur. What the heck? - Get less insecure friends.

Or get more secure friends. - Yes, yes, yes. Less insecure, more secure. That is so strange. So like what is the, like, do you guys have a game plan of like, okay, so we're all gonna just dress mid, right? Let's dress really mid. - Guys, max 7.5 outta 10. Anything, come on. - Nothing over a three inch heel. or lower than a one inch heel. - Also you're going to the club, you know? It's not like you guys all decided to maybe go. to something more chill. and someone is just like dressed to the nines. But even then, to be honest,

as a girl, like I love when my girls dress down. I'll be looking, I'll be in sweatpants. I'll be like, "Yes, mama!". Why not? Right? I'm sad to hear that. - Yeah, it's a bummer. - That's a tough thing. That's a tough thing. - To the club? - I know. - Yeah, the club is specifically the place where I'm like, yeah, people go for it. - Outdo each other? I'm like, who we trying to impress? Oh, you guys are dressing for men? - And why are we comparing? - What, are we trying to outdo each other for men.

at the club? Please. They're not even allowed in there anymore, I bet. (everyone laughs). - I bet they're not even there anymore. - They're not even there. At first I was like, oh-. - Honey, those are not your friends. - Yeah, I was like, maybe they're like gently trying. to let her know that like maybe her like coochie is out. and like not in like a fun way. - If your friend's coochie is out, then you say like, "Your coochie's out.". - Oh my god, coochie out. - Yeah. (everyone laughs). - She's like, "I know. "That's the plan.". - Yeah. - But yeah, no, I feel like just said that.

even before she put the outfit on. - Right. - They're like, "Maybe not that one.". But why? - Like, what the heck? - That doesn't help. Comments. "Not the asshole. "It's normal to want to look good when you go out clubbing, "and dressing up and doing your makeup has nothing to do. "with trying to one up other people. "If your friends have a problem. "with you wearing flattering outfits to the club with them, "they have their own insecurities to sort out.". Someone said, "Not the asshole, but it's pretty obvious. "that this is an ongoing issue with them. "and whatever else there may be going on. "They sure did pick a shitty time to lay it all out.

"You wanna fix it, "then you all need a good heart to heart talk.". Lastly, someone said, "Not the asshole. Yikes. "Your friends left you alone somewhere. "where you are a visitor. "because they didn't like your dress? "You can wear what you want. "True friends lift each other up. "They don't abandon you because of their own insecurities.". - They're like in a town that they're not familiar with, right. - Not only was that mean. or like stemming from a place of insecurity, it was flat out unsafe, to just leave your friend. That's crazy. - It's very sad. I hear stories of people having friends.

that compare each other a lot. And I'm like, man, that is so hard to like survive. Like, a friendship cannot survive comparison like that. You gotta grow out of that. - I agree. Unfortunately, I find it's relatively common. And I think one of the reasons why, I'm sure they've experienced maybe instances. where they all go to the club. and maybe if one of the girls is dressed nicer. or looks much prettier, maybe all the guys give her more attention. But then that makes the girls, you know,

like it stems some sort of jealousy towards 'em. But it has nothing to do with that. - [Courtney] Right. - And you also shouldn't treat your friends. based off of how guys treat you guys. It's just like misogyny, the internalized misogyny's coming in full circle. - We've been trained to compare ourselves. because we've been getting compared. - Exactly. But as soon as you do that, you're just letting that comparison. get in between the friendship, which is just not worth it. - Right. - Yeah. They're 20 and 22. It's one of those things,

like I recall that happening a lot. Like, you gotta grow out of it. or else you're just gonna end up kind of with no friends. 'cause things are gonna happen throughout your life. where your friends are gonna have good things happen. to them. They're gonna have things. where they're doing better than you. - They're just gonna be a little pinker. - Or like whatever, and it's just like, oh, that's-. - It's their moment to shine, and that's okay. - But you wanna. lift up your friends. You want everything to go right for your friends. I remember this happened a lot with, especially when I was like a teenager and early 20s. of like we were all actor kids. So there was the aspect. of like you'd have your friend group,

but then one of your friends would be like, "I'm now a lead on a TV show.". And it's like, oh, that's really hard to not compare. 'cause we're all trying to make it in this acting industry, and now you're a successful actor. and I'm still a working actor. But then it's like, wait, but you're your own person on your own journey, and I've got my own thing. But it's hard. It's a hard thing to get over. But I wish these friends would be like, "Wait, why are we doing this? "Why are we saying this? "This is stupid.". - Like, there's not like this limited amount of space. that can be taken up by each person. Like, you guys can all be as authentically you.

and take up as much space as you want as yourself. There's plenty of square footage in the club. for everybody to wear a tight leather dress. - Yeah, I feel like if someone's struggling. with that kind of mentality, they're thinking that just like life is a zero sum game. If they win, I have to lose. - Right. - But that's not true. Maybe at the club someone's gonna find your friend cute. and someone's gonna find you cute. - [Shayne] Absolutely. - Like, everyone has their own taste. But it is so hard with friendships. There is maybe a chance, if she brings it up and the friends recognize.

that what they did wasn't right. or was coming from a place of insecurity, maybe the friendship is salvageable, but they should not be treating you that way. - Mm-mm. - We're gonna see, because we have an update. (Courtney gasps). - Period. - Finale update. Let's go. - "I am seriously considering going home. "I got up this morning. "and when I went to get dressed after my shower, "I found that several of my clothes had been vandalized.". (Courtney gasps). "Two of my tops had been torn. "A skirt of mine is completely butchered. "A couple of my dresses look like they went.

"through a wood chipper. "And a pair of my heels has toothpaste squirted. "into the base. "Both of them are denying they did it.". - Wait, there's only three of them? Wait, hold on. I don't know why I pictured like six girls. - They're like, "There was a burglar." - There's only two friends. They're like, "Who did this?". - Oh my god. - She's holding toothpaste. "Honestly, I'm just beyond crushed that they did this. "to my clothing and don't even have the nerve to admit it. "It genuinely makes me want cry.". - Aw. - Update number two. - Whoa!

- "Well, it's been some time since my original post, "so I thought it would be a good time to update. "after I gave myself time to process. "I wanna start with the statement. "that I'm no longer friends with either L or K.". Probably smart. - [Pokimane] Understandable. - "After reading the comments under my original post, "I realized how crappy what they did was. "and that it put me in danger. "The night after they vandalized my stuff, "we went out to breakfast and I let them know. "that since I am the only person whose name is checked in. "on the hotel and my boyfriend paid for it, "they both had five hours to pack. "and find another place to stay. "or they could talk it out with me.

"and pay for the clothes/shoes that they damaged. "This was not met kindly, "and both of them started cursing me out. "and telling me I was a selfish conniving snake-ass bitch.". (Courtney gasps and grunts). (Shayne laughs and grunts). (Courtney grunting). "I told them that it was their choice to destroy my clothes. "and all I wanted to do was talk it out with them. "and figure out why this had happened in the first place. "I didn't get a straight answer. "other than I'm a selfish pick me. "who doesn't deserve anything I have. "So I took it as them giving me my answer.

"Luckily they were not difficult. "beside some passive aggressive comments. "I enjoyed the rest of my vacation as best I could, "given that I was alone. "Luckily, a lot of the local women were extremely kind. "and chatted with me wherever I was, "so it didn't feel as bad. "I've been home for a little less than a week. "and have received several nasty text messages. "from both L and K, plus some mutual friends. "I've spent most of this week trying to come to terms. "with the fact that I am losing several friendships. "over this. "Thanks for all the help though. "The comments really gave me solid advice. "and the guts to actually stick up for myself. "in this situation.

"Also, I forgot to mention this, "but to the one person under my original post. "who said they would try to sleep with my boyfriend, "they did.". - Huh? Wait, wait, wait. Okay. Side quest. Side quest. - I forgot to mention this, but... To the one person. There was once again a Redditor who was like, "I know what's going on here.". - And they were right. - And they were right. "To the one person under my original post. "who said they would try to sleep with my boyfriend, "they did.". - So the two, L and K? - L and K tried to sleep with her boyfriend. "The day after we got home,

"my boyfriend showed me a text K sent him, "basically it was a lengthy text message. "about how I'm only with him because he has money. "and they should meet up for coffee. "so she could show him he deserves better.". - Ooh-ee. What a mess. Ooh. - Diabolical. Wow. - The epitome of diabolical. - Yes. - I can't even believe it, but it must be really hard for her. to go through losing so many friendships at once.

Like, that must be so hurtful, but oh my god, are you better off. - Oh yeah. - You're gonna be so much better off. Honey, those girls were not your friends. - [Shayne] No. - No. They called you a pick me, said the pick mes. - They left you like physically unsafe. They hurt your feelings. They compare themselves to you. - Destroyed your property. - They're calling you a pick me. I don't love that term, but if anyone's being the pick me respectfully, they were even telling your boyfriend to pick them. - Yes. Like, why did they do that? - They're probably coming from a place where they are scared.

that they won't get picked, but if they can't be cognizant of that-. - Of course. - And can't, you know, move beyond that, you're really better off without them in your life. - Yeah. No, this is very much a 20-year-old arc, right. Like, we all-. - Okay, but they're pushing it. - Yeah. - They're pushing the-. - This is giving like girls camp behavior. - Oh, totally. - Like, summer camp like bullying. - But like mean, mean, mean girl. - Yes. - Mean girls. - Yeah. - No, it's like, it's a scary thing,

and like we're all insecure about many things, but you see people who are listening to their insecurities, and they're letting their insecurities lead them. to their decisions and that's scary. It leads people to do like dangerous things. or just horrible things and that's what happened. - Yeah, being insecure or feeling jealous, even when it comes to friendships. or like your actor friend who made it or whatever, I think that all those things are so human and natural, and everyone's going to experience them. But it's about whether or not you're acting.

on those feelings and hurting other people. as a consequence of it. And also not even like owning up to it. They're just like tripling down. - Yeah, no, they-. - Insane. - They doubled down then they were like, "That wasn't me.". And then they tripled down and cursed her out. like at breakfast. - And then quadrupled down, they're texting the boyfriend. - Yeah. - Crazy. Crazy. - Holy smokes, what a combo. - Yeah. - Truly. - [Courtney] God dang. - That's it. That's all our stories. - That was insane. But so fun.

- [Shayne] Yeah. - It's nice because I, again, I don't want any drama in my life, so this like gives me the fix. - I love this. You must come back whenever you want. - Happily! - You bring such wonderful perspective. I love it. - [Shayne] This was a lot fun. - I mean, you guys are experts. I'm just here to chime in. - Oh, I'm not an expert in anything. I'm just some guy. - He's just expert at reading. He's gotta have his 10,000 hours now. - Literate as heck. - I'm working on my 10,000 hours in reading. I am working on that. I'm making my way there. But thank you so much for being here.

This was a blast. - Thank you, Poki. Thank you. - This was so fun. - So cool. - I'd love to come back anytime you guys want. - Oh, please, please do. Is there anything you're doing or that you wanna shout out? - I do a podcast with my lovely friend. We have a super mini version of this. We call it SOLA like slice of life and advice, where we also answer people's like advice or life dilemmas. The podcast is "Sweet n Sour" with my friend LilyPichu. And yeah, that's all. Thank you guys so much. Thank you, Smosh. Thank you to you guys. You're amazing.

And really if you ever need a guest, hit my line. - [Shayne] Okay. - 100%. - You got it. Well, thank you all for watching. We'll see you next Saturday. Goodbye! - Bye!