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- Hello and welcome to Reddit Stories. I'm Shane. And today's theme, plot twist. That's right. You're not gonna see what's gonna happen next. You're gonna have no idea. You're gonna be blindsided. over and over again in this episode. And I'm joined by two people. who have no idea what's about to happen next. Angela and Trevor. - What? Wait, what's going on? - What if I just like, nevermind. (crew laughing). I don't know. - Just nevermind. - I was thinking about a joke of like, oh, actually we're heading over. where we're gonna do Bored AF, plot twist.

- That'd be an awesome plot twist. - That'd be- - Not in a bad way. Like I don't wanna be here. Like in a way that, where it's like that that caught me off guard. - Yeah. Yeah. - It would've, if you had committed to it, it would've been like, whoa. - It's like how they say, when you make plans, God laughs. - (laughing) That's so true. - I don't think I've heard anyone say that. until just now. - I have. - All right. - Plot twist. - Well, (crew laughing). I do think it's really funny. I don't think people realize with this show, like we just got done playing UNO.

a second ago. (all laughing). Like we go from doing the most batshit stupid stuff. - Yeah. - And then we sit down. on this couch. - Well, you go to. your star wagon. - Yeah. (all laughing). We go to our wagons. - And then you go. - I get my Fiji water. Okay. - Just kidding, we usually sit on the same couch. and we're silent for five minutes, then come back in here. - And then we come over here. and then we have to completely shift the gears. to a different type of mindset. - Yeah, I sat on a couch and watched Tim fix a computer. - That's sick - For like-.

- That's really cool. - I was just sitting there. Yeah, and he was just fixing the computer. and I was like, "Wow, this guy's the best.". - I trust him with my life. - Yeah. - Yeah. Let's get into our first story. This comes from am I the asshole? And this was posted recently. Am I the asshole for telling my neighbor. I dated her husband? - Hmm. - Wait, say it again. - Am I the asshole for telling my neighbor. I dated her husband? - Copy. - Letting someone know, like, hey, your husband, we dated at one point. - Yeah. - I, a 33-year-old woman,

became friendly with my neighbor, a 37-year-old woman. Let's call her Emily. After I helped her move a few boxes into our building while. her husband, a 35-year-old man was in the hospital. I didn't meet Emily's husband. until a few weeks later when she invited me over. to dinner as thanks. When I first arrived, Emily's husband had run out. to pick up some wine, but when he came back I was shocked to see Matt, a guy I had gone on three dates with a year ago. before he suddenly ghosted me. He had a terrible poker face. and tried to pretend like he didn't recognize me.

I don't play those games. I asked how long they had been married. and Emily said three years. She recognized there was tension. and asked if we knew each other. He said no. I said yes and told Emily that I had gone on dates. with him a year ago. She became very upset and asked me to leave, which I did. The next day, Emily reached out. and said that she didn't appreciate. that I lied about when I dated her husband. He told her we had dated four years ago.

before they were married. I didn't even live in this city four years ago. And even if we had dated four years ago, they had been engaged at that point. Either way, he would've been cheating. I sent her screenshots of our texts from the year before. and from Bumble of his profile, which was still active. She never responded, but when I saw her in the lobby yesterday, she wouldn't even look me in the eye. I don't know if they're still together. and Emily hasn't responded to my texts. So am I the asshole for telling her the truth?

Wow. What a situation to find yourself in. - I'm gonna be thinking about that one for a bit, because, wow. - Yeah. The audacity. - Yeah. - Verdict's not the asshole. I don't think she's the asshole at all, obviously. - No, I think this is tough. (all laughing). - You're trying so hard.

- What? I think it's tough. No, I think this is really tough. - What do you think is tough? - Trevor, what do you think? - It's hard. - I think we'll be thinking about this for a bit. Like this- - Yeah. I think this is a really, this is not an open and shut case here, you know? - Yeah. That's crazy, yeah. - We don't know. what's going on. - I'd say yeah. - It's tough to say. Yeah. (all laughing). We gotta cut it. We gotta cut it. - Okay, we gotta drop it. (both laughing). We did a little prank on you. (all laughing). - The first second that came outta your mouth,

I laughed. - I (censored) knew it. - I was like, really? - It was really cool to sit in it for a second. and be like, what if we gave you nothing? - Yeah, and I'm just like, okay, so cool discussion show. we have here, guys. - A little peak behind the curtain. Spencer and Trevor thought of this. prank before we went up. - Were you guys. talking about this shit before? - Yeah. (all laughing). - Spencer and Trevor were like, "What if you guys go up there. and don't give him anything?". - We just joked and we're just like, man, that's crazy. - Wow dude, wow. - Okay, but honestly, jokes aside,

plot twist for ya right there. - Okay. Pretty good. Pretty good. You got me. - Yeah. - You got me. - Because like what if you had a story. and no one had anything to say? Anyway. But we do. So what sucks about this is that she's taking it out. The wife is taking it out on OP. - Sure. - Mm-hmm. - And it's like classic- - We've seen this before. in stories. - Where the other person. in this scenario is the asshole. It seems like he cheated, but she's like, "Well, (censored) you for telling me.". Right? - Yeah. And I mean, I also think it's,

I don't know if it's quite there or if it's. 'cause she's saying, "You lied. I can't believe you lied about when you guys dated, 'cause my husband's now saying. you dated four years ago.". The husband had already said, "No, I don't know this person.". And then said, "No, we dated four years ago.". So she knows. - Yeah. - But like, I think we all know we've been in situations similar. where you're just like, I do not wanna allow my brain. to process what's actually happening. - Yeah, that's a lot easier. - Oh, you then. have to face that and that's awful.

- But don't take it out on the person. who went out on a limb. - Don't, don't. - Yeah. - No, but now, she's doing a horrible thing. and it's like, hey. - Denial and projection. Yeah. Yeah. - Exactly. The classics. - The classic. deny and project. - The classic deny, project. - Yeah. - Yeah. Denial of the side of projection. - I'm gonna be thinking about that one. - I really am gonna be thinking about it. (crew laughing). - But no, she's not the asshole. In fact, I mean like this is a bold person. for not being afraid to just be open and upfront about it. - Yeah, honestly, sometimes hiding. behind someone else's lie is easier. I think I've fallen for that sometimes where, two friends,

I see someone kind of not telling the full truth. and you're like, it's gonna be messy. if I step in there and I actually go, "I am the soldier here. and I will tell you this person is lying.". But it is the right thing. I don't know. It's the right thing to, I don't know. It depends. It depends on each scenario. Right? But this person was doing the right thing. by telling the truth. - Of course. - And kind of looking out for this. other person. - Well you're aware of like, Hey, he's cheating on you. - Yeah. - That's horrible. And very blatantly, like has an active Bumble account, has all this stuff going on. - Active at a time of- - Active as a posting.

- Yeah. - Oh, then, this is (censored) up that OP is getting in trouble. - Yeah. - Yeah. Exactly. - No, it is. - 'cause I would say that, you know, she doesn't know these people, right? They're strangers. They could be in an open relationship, but if that's the case, if she brings this up, it should not be horrible for them to hear. Right? - Yeah. - Like, maybe I'm wrong, but like, so either way bringing it up is fine. and justified. - 100%. - When it's like, hey, this guy's cheating on you. He's pretending he doesn't know who I am. - Yeah, and it's not like she has an agenda.

to like get with him or something. - No. - No. - Like she's just being like, hey, I am reporting. - We went on three dates. He ghosted me. She has no interest in him. - Yeah. - Yeah. - The wife is mad that OP is breaking her reality. It seems. - Yeah. I do respect OP, too. 'cause like yeah, you don't really, it's not like she's friends with these people. It's like she helped them move in some boxes. and they're just neighbors. - I forgot that. - Like, it would've been very easy for her to just like, not my problem, not my issue. Like, leave it alone. - I would say I could see a lot. of people in this situation being like, "Oh shit, these are my neighbors. Like I am just gonna pretend as well.".

And that's what the husband probably was thinking. was gonna happen. - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. - But hey, good on her. for not letting him get away with it. - Yeah. - Yeah. - Comments. You told her the info she did need to hear. Now just let the pieces fall where they will. Do not engage further. Not the asshole. You are being honest, but it's best to leave her alone now. Someone else said you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink. She has all the info she needs to make a decision. That's all you can do. OP commented saying, "Update. Emily just stopped by.

We had a quick chat, but she let me know. that she's kicked Matt out. and she thanked me for telling the truth. She also found out that I was not the only person he dated. while they were married. Giving her space now, but wanted to share an update since it happened. so quickly after posting.". Okay. - Good. - And shocker, plot twist. He was dating other people too. Can you believe that? - Wow. - Can you believe that dude? - Dude. - I can't believe that. - I'm gonna be thinking about that one.

- Yeah, that one's gonna sit with me for a bit. - Let's think about that for a while. Anyways. (crew laughing). Update. - Okay. - For real. - Do I get to, is this where you. get to guess? - All right. What do we think the plot twist is? - And then if you- - So we know there's a-. - If you guess it, you get a Yahtzee. - You guess it, you get a Yahtzee. and we get to scare everyone in the office. Okay. We know there's a plot twist coming. So what we think is happening is probably not happening. - Plot, the obvious plot twist is like,

you know. - I think obvious plot twist, they get into a relationship with each other. - Whoa. - Yeah. - Whoa. - That's like me. That's what I want. - Pretty cool, pretty cool. - I want that to be the happy ending. - Plot twist, they move. Because that woman, the neighbor wants. to not think about that and she's like, "Let's get out.". - Mm. - Okay. Happy ending plot twist to me is that they. start dating. Bad ending plot twist to me is that OP.

gets in a relationship with the guy. after they break up. - Yo! Okay, because my gears are turning, I wouldn't normally make these types of assumptions, right, but this is Plot Twist, so I'm thinking. like what's the craziest possible. plot twist. - You're trying to get. a Yahtzee, yeah. - I'm trying to get. a Yahtzee here. What if, this is absolutely, this is fictional bonkers town. If OP moved here on purpose. to split them up. - Yes. - Dude. - This was all the plan all along.

- And OP's in debt. - Dude. Dude. - Yes. And also that. - Dude. - And stole something from a museum. - Yeah man, I'm gonna be thinking about that. I'm gonna be thinking about that. - Okay let's see. - Give me a one way ticket. to fictional Bonkers Town. - Okay. - Jesus Christ. (all laughing). I love Trevor. - Okay, here we go. A happy final update. Over the last few days, I've been hanging out with Emily, along with her sister and two BFFs. who flew in to support her. Tuesday night she texted me, "Space is overrated. Wine?".

And that was that. Matt confessed to everything and more. and it was all a lot worse than anyone thought, but this isn't about him anymore. We've all had some really good, sometimes difficult conversations, but it's all been very cathartic and surprisingly positive. I found myself in the company. of some pretty amazing women, which is- - Did they kiss? - Which is why this situation has turned out the way it has. I moved to the city two years ago without knowing anyone. and it certainly wasn't an easy thing to tell someone. that I'd hoped would be a friend. To be honest, it kind of felt like word vomit in the moment.

And when I first posted this, I admittedly wanted validation. because there was a large. and loudly nagging part of me. that thought I'd done the wrong thing. - A hundred percent. - So I'm very grateful. to have come through what began. as a really awful situation with four awesome new friends. and far more laughs than tears. Emily, her sister and I now are planning biweekly brunch. dates and we also discovered that we have some other friends. and interests in common. This post got far more attention than I ever anticipated, so I did end up telling Emily about it.

Her sister joked that we should start a podcast together. and we both shouted, "No!". So this is both the end and a new beginning of this story. Thank you all for the support. and kind words for both me and Emily. We're going to be just fine. Signing off. Okay, so the plot twist is that they became friends. - Yeah. - Alright. Which is the best case scenario. - Truly. - Yeah. - I'm very glad I'm wrong. - Me too, me too. I'm glad we are too. - Yeah. - Yeah. We were all assuming a lot of really wild things. - Yeah. - I'm not counting out. my first theory, though.

This could still- - There's room for it to grow. - They can fall in love. - Absolutely. - They can fall in love. I'm holding out hope. - That would be-. The brunch girlies? - Yeah. - Yes. - That would be awesome. - Biweekly brunch sounds like an easy commitment. - Biweekly brunch is, that is the ultimate best scenario that could have happened. - Yeah. - Like if someone threw out. biweekly brunch, I'd be like, you're thinking too positively. - Yeah. - That's too optimistic. - A weekly brunch, you mean? - Biweekly. - Yeah. - Biweekly. - They have biweekly brunch, which I think is better than weekly brunch.

- It's every- - Weekly brunch. is too much of a commitment. - That's what I was gonna say. - Biweekly is better. - I think that's the best, honestly, I'm walking away from this story thinking. a biweekly commitment in friends. is the way to (censored) go. - Yeah. - Because a weekly commitment, even like D and D every week. Who are you kidding? I don't know. - Yeah. - Biweekly anything. It's just like, that's where I'm at. - We really need to start. promoting biweekly stuff. That's the jam. - Yeah, truly, yeah. - You know? If anybody takes anything from this podcast, it's that. - It's just like if, think about your problem right now.

while you're driving in the car. listening to this Reddit story. - And you know what? - And what if you. made it biweekly (crew laughing). instead of every week. - Yeah. And you know what? That's gonna stick with me. - Yeah. - That's gonna stick with me. - And I'm so glad they said no to a podcast. That means they're good people. - Yeah. Mm-hmm. I hate podcasts. - People who start podcasts. are- (crew laughing). - I hate 'em. - Podcasts are bad people. who host 'em, even worse. - Yeah, it's true. You've been saying that. - I've been saying that in my mirror. (all laughing). - In my mirror.

- So that was a happy plot twist. We're just getting our toes a little dipped in, but don't worry, it's gonna get worse. - Yay. (all laughing). - Like it always does here. - It always does here. Today's Reddit Stories is brought to you by Zocdoc. Have you ever woken up with a weird symptom, like a tight pain in your neck. and then immediately gone to Google. or TikTok to see what's wrong. and you get like a bunch of different answers back? Look, we've all gone down that rabbit hole, but it's time to get the help. and care you really need with Zocdoc.

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- I was 14 years old when this was happening. - That's too much for me to handle. - Okay. - Does that make you. 25 right now? - Yeah. 25. - That's (censored) crazy. - Yeah. My fault. Really sucked the air out of the room with that one. (all laughing). That's the quietest it's ever been in here. - Honestly, we were all just doing math. - We were all thinking really hard. Okay. This is a 22-year-old woman. Me with my boyfriend, who's 24, of three years. He found out that his ex is engaged.

and literally won't stop crying. Oh. Oh boy. - Oh God. - Yeah. That's not a good look. - I, 22-year-old woman, met my boyfriend, who's 24, 3 years ago, through some mutual friends. He was pretty guarded and I was the one that pursued him. We were long distance. I was living in Oregon, he was living in Washington. until I moved in with him last year. My boyfriend has only had one other relationship. and a hookup before me. He stopped talking to the hookup a long time ago.

because she was crazy. But he kept in touch with his ex until she cut contact. with him around two years ago. They dated when he was 15 and it lasted for around two years. and then she dumped him because he had no self-respect. A apparently she's the reason why my boyfriend. is so guarded now. I'll admit that I was really jealous of her. and was glad when she cut contact with him. because she's beautiful. and my boyfriend talked about her as if she had. all of life's answers. This past January, I woke up in the middle of the night. and I heard my boyfriend crying quietly.

I could tell that he was looking at his phone. and I wasn't sure whether or not to say anything. since I wasn't sure if he just wanted. a private moment or not. After a while, he got up to go to the bathroom. So I took a peek at his phone. He was on Facebook looking at his ex's profile. She had gotten engaged. and there were pictures of the ring and everything. It's been two months now. and my boyfriend has been breaking down out of nowhere. I keep asking him to talk to me about it, but he won't. I told him to talk to a therapist and he got really insulted. and said that he doesn't believe in therapy.

- Sick, dude. (crew laughing). - I'm unsure of what to do. since this happens at least twice a week. I love him, but he's always seemed a bit distant to me. And obviously this woman is the reason why. Should I contact her and ask her if she has any insight? I'm starting to think that she must have said something. to upset him like this. because he didn't seem that bothered when his ex. was dating other people. - Oh. - Oh man. - That is like turbo loser behavior. (all laughing). - Turbo loser. - I'm sorry, dude.

- Turbo. No I'm just kidding. - That's crazy. So he's 25. - He's 25. - They broke up when he was 17. - He's 24. I think she wrote two different ages. - Okay. - No, he's 24. So seven years ago, they broke up. - Dude. - And she got engaged. and he's crying multiple times a week. - For two months. - For two months. And when she says you should talk to a therapist, he says, "I don't believe in therapy.". Now you can pick one of those reasons to break up, but-.

(all laughing). - It's either she's a-. - Like, I guess I don't know. My head's going a million places. as I'm piecing this together. and I'm like, you know, your emotions you can't control, but like there's a lot you can, but also if you're feeling that much emotion over this. and you're clocking that your partner's. feeling that much emotion over it. It's like, hey, this is very serious. - Yeah, I mean it goes back to like, you can't. like regulate someone's emotional response to something.

and be like, you need to calm down or something. Especially if it's- - Sure. - But it also is like there is a little bit of like, is this a trigger? Is this bigger than what this is? Like this is bigger. Like is the ghost in the room with us now? - Yeah. - You know what I mean? Like, this is tapping into something. that's a bigger problem under the hood. - And there's other hints she's thrown out here like yeah, she's beautiful and he's always talked about her. as if she had all of life's answers. - All the answers. Yeah. - Like, hey man, this is a lot of red flags here. - Yeah. - Yeah. - I think they've been together around three years.

He cut off contact with his ex around two years ago. She cut off contact with him, saying he had no self-respect. - He was in regular contact with his ex. for a year while they were dating. - Yeah. - Yeah. - This is a whole lot. Comments. No, don't contact her. Her job is finished. If her ex still has problems with their relationship, that's his issue. Now you missy, do not play miss fix it here. You can't fix the fact.

that your boyfriend is actually still. in love with another woman. You can be the most perfect woman on earth. - Yeah. - But while he still. has her as his dream woman, you don't have a shit show. Honestly, and as hard as this may be, I'd talk to him about it again, and then if there is no resolution, I'd consider moving on. You deserve someone who thinks you. are the best woman on earth. Not some distant ex from his high school years. OP left a long response saying, "Thank you for your reply. I was insecure about my boyfriend's relationship. with his ex from the start. They didn't talk that often, but they'd catch up once every few months.

through Skype or something. She lives on the east coast. and when Hurricane Sandy hit, he called her, texted her. and messaged her on Skype, despite her having cut off contact with him prior to that. I didn't even know that he still had her phone number. Is this relationship hopeless? I knew that he still had a bit of a thing for her, but I didn't know the extent of it until now. If he can't move on after all this time, I don't understand why he got into a relationship with me.". - Yeah, no, this seems like a pretty clear cut case. of him having a relationship during his formative years.

that ending him wanting it back and not being over it. and then being with someone else. because he needs to feel validated. But not having let go of-. - Yep. This doesn't also necessarily mean he is. still in love with her. It could just be that like he did not process losing her. Especially like, honestly, I'm glad we went back. and did the math on the age thing. because there is something about your first, like when you're 17. or something, like your first love and it's sticking.

Like, I don't know. I've had people I've dated like get engaged, but I did see the guy, my first ever boyfriend get engaged. and I remember just being like, why did that bring me back. to when I was like young? Because it brings you back to that age. and then you're like, no, I'm in my thirties, I'm an adult, I don't know this person anymore. - Yeah. - But it brings you like back. to like early college or something. Or high school. - Yeah. - When you like romanticize that stuff. - That's why it's not like I'm not knocking the guy. for the emotions he's feeling. - No, you're not. - But it's like, but he's also refusing to talk to her.

And that's the bigger problem. - We're knocking like the dissociation of it. The denial, the like not being honest. with himself and his partner. - Because if he's not communicating to her, she has to then deal with the mystery. of where it's coming from. Because it might be coming from somewhere like that. where it's like- - Yeah. - It's like, oh no, it's more of a personal identity thing. Or it's like not reckoning with my past as opposed to. I'm not over my ex. Now all signs right now are pointing to.

he's not over his ex. To me, at least. - Yeah, no it is. It is. I was just saying that like. the fact that it's coming out at random times. - Yeah. It's interesting. - This could be so many things. and what sucks is he's not at the wheel here. He's like, he's not really like dealing with it. - Yeah. - Right. Also OP did mention that she pursued him. He did not pursue her. She pursued him. So maybe he wasn't, I mean he clearly wasn't ready. Other comments. Not to knock high school relationships,

but this guy was 15 and they only dated for two years. It's been what, six years since they broke up? I think your boyfriend just doesn't have. that much experience to realize that. that relationship wasn't as profound. or meaningful as he believes it to be. Apparently he's been putting her on this pedestal. this entire time, which is not healthy. Maybe he should see someone about this. because it can definitely put a hold on his life. I went through this same thing. It took me a stupid amount of time. to really get over my high school girlfriend. and looking back now, I can't figure out why I had created. this perfect love story in my head.

when it was nothing of the sort. That's really interesting. See, I didn't have to deal with that. 'cause I didn't date anyone until I was in my twenties. So you know what? (all laughing). Why don't you try being a huge (censored) loser. as a teenager? - Yeah. That's the solution. - Try to be obsessed with. Shakespeare and going to church. (all laughing). It worked for me. - Hey, why don't you play Final Fantasy? Okay? - Yeah dude, I had so many girlfriends. so I don't really relate to you guys. - And that's okay. - Sounds really hard. - Yeah, it was- - Sounds hard.

to be young and busy. - Really hard to reckon with. - Yeah. - Okay. I'm dying to know what happened. - So this comment said like, I haven't talked to someone, he's said he does not believe in therapy. Last comment. I would end it. I realize that you've been dating for three years, but this kind of reaction is off the scale. It's pathetic and it's completely disrespectful to you. I can't see how you can move past it. Had she died, then of course one could understand this, but if he's this broken hearted over some girl he dated. in his (censored) teens, they broke up seven years ago for (censored) sake, then you should not be in a relationship with him.

I guess it's six years ago, but he was talking to his ex. until two years ago when she cut off contact. So he clearly like maintained a relationship of some sort. and was not allowing that space to happen. - Yeah. This is full of landmines here. - Yeah. - Update. - Yeah. - What do we think the plot twist is? - Ooh. - Because we got a plot twist. So right now it's just like, oh, he's not over his ex. That's the obvious answer.

Was he dating his ex off and on? Like, what was that? But she's now married, so I don't-. - What's the worst thing that could happen? - That's what, my brain is like, okay, if this is a plot, if we're talking like crazy plot twist, what's the craziest thing that could happen? - I am worried that he's obsessed with his ex. and she's gonna find a bunch of evidence that he is like. not over her emotionally, but he's also like maybe just really like putting in a lot. of work, keeping tabs on her. and like trying to contact her,

like she's already, like I didn't know if he still had her number. Like he tried to contact her a bunch. after she'd already cut him off. Which is a huge red flag. - Or maybe he's, yeah, maybe he stalks her. - That's, I mean truly already, she's like, I'm cutting you outta my life, and he's still trying to contact her. It's already- - And you're on Facebook. in the middle of the night. First off. Oh 2014 Facebook. Because I was like, first of all. Come on. - Yeah. (all laughing). - But like, this is someone who cut you out of your life. and he is literally searching her up and everything.

It's, I don't know, I don't know where this is going. - Yeah. My crazy prediction for the craziest plot twist. She's engaged, he finds out she's engaged. He goes to the wedding to try and break it up. That's the crazy plot twist I want. - Okay. - Or plot twist. They are in love. - She ends up with- - And he was crying. because it's real love. - Dude. - And it sucks. and he was an asshole along the way, but he's in love with that girl.

and that girl is in love with him. - Dude. - That would suck. - Crazy. - That would really suck. - Dude, that would sit with me for a while. - Yeah. (both laughing). - Okay. The update. - Yeah. Let's hear it. - First sentence. It's over, I think. - Okay, good. - I called my dad. and asked him to help me move back home. These last two days have been really emotional. My boyfriend was gone all day yesterday. He was gone when I woke up. That's fine. I assumed he went to work early, but he still wasn't home when I went to bed.

I texted him once when I woke up. to say good morning and twice at night. One asking if he was coming home for dinner. and another asking if he was all right. I also tried calling his cell, but he didn't pick up. I thought that I deserved some answers. So I decided to snoop. Something that I've done once before. when I was feeling insecure about his relationship. with his ex. Well, on his laptop, hidden in a bunch. of sub folders was an MS document with his ex's name. - MS Document? - Microsoft Document. - Loser. I'm kidding. - Nerd.

- Cut that. We're gonna cut that. Cut that. Okay, Microsoft. (crew laughing). - I read it and I'm assuming. that he just saved the last conversation. that he had with her right before she cut contact with him. It started out normally, but then he asked how her relationship. with her now fiance boyfriend was going. She said that it was good and that she was happy. and then it got weird. because he said something like, "Really? Are you sure?". She said yes, and said that was a weird question. and he said, "I don't know. I don't believe that you're that happy.".

I don't remember everything exactly. because my head was spinning, but he basically told her. that her fiance, then boyfriend, will never treat her as well as he did, and that they've known each other X number of years. and managed to stay friends. after their breakup, that they've helped each other grow. as people, and that she should really. give him another chance. He said that he's waited for her all these years. and that he loves her and always believed. they'd wind up together. This was all while he was with me. She called him an asshole and told him that he had a lot. of balls to say that. to her when she told him a long time ago.

that they're only ever going to be friends. and that he's an even bigger asshole for doing this. while they were both in relationships. She told him to go to hell. and to break up with me for my sake. because I deserve better. That's not even the worst part. - No! - My boyfriend woke me up this morning by calling my cell. and telling me to come to the kitchen. He said that he made breakfast, so I went. to the kitchen getting ready for a fight. He and I never fight, but I am so god damned hurt, and he made what honestly looked like an amazing breakfast. with a ring box in the middle of the table.

- Get your pancake out. - Dude. No. - Get your pancakes out. He told me to open it. I did. He said something like, these last three years. with me has been an adventure and he hopes-. - (laughing) What an adventure. - He hopes to keep making new adventures with me. I guess around this time I snapped out. of whatever haze I'd been in and I exploded. I demanded to know where he was all day yesterday, why he wouldn't contact me, why he's been crying over his ex.

for the last three months. Everything. He got mad at me for being mad. He told me that I should be happy because he was proposing. and wasn't that what I wanted? I asked him why, when it's so obvious. that he'd rather be with his ex. He told me that she's obviously moved on so it's time. for him to move on too. That's how everyone wants to be proposed to. - Yeah. (crew laughing). Look dude, I swear yesterday I finally got over my ex. - Let's get married, dude. - And I think it's time. we get married. - I've never been so angry in my life.

I've been so incredibly patient with this man. and done my best to be understanding of his situation. I've literally given him all that I had, but I'm not going to get married to him. just to be his consolation prize. It's so ironic because had he proposed four plus months. earlier, I would've been ecstatic. Now it just broke our relationship. So yeah, I called my dad crying. and he is on his way to help me move. back in with him and my mom. That's it. I'm a wreck. But I think it's just because everything wrong. and twisted in this relationship is hitting me. and it took so long for me to understand. and my ex is just sitting on the couch with his laptop.

Thank you guys so much for helping me see. how unfair this whole relationship was. I read every one of your comments even if I didn't get. a chance to respond to them all. - Oh my god. - Ugh. Oh. - That blows. - Yeah. Honestly though, thank god it did end with her getting out. of that relationship. - Oh yeah. - Like that is so, so tough. - There's like a wire that's connected to a different wire. for this guy or something.

because it's like, oh no, I got caught. Go double down and buy a ring. Like it's like- - Yeah. And while I agree that I think therapy doesn't work. No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding. (all laughing). No, this guy, like he needs like, he needs biweekly, semi-weekly. He needs the twice a week therapy. - Yeah. - This is wild. To like just double down and just, and go the other way.

And I bet he was so like affected. by seeing her truly move on. Also, it bugs me when like in these stories, you hear someone finally understand a woman's moved on. when there's a ring on her finger. That doesn't mean she doesn't belong to you anymore. You know what I mean? Like- - Buddy, she was clearly moved on when she. (censored) cut you out of your her life. - Yeah. - Like, oh, now she's really off the table. Oh my god. - Yeah. - Because her dowry is now spent. (all laughing) (censored).

It's like, something made him go, "Oh, now she's really not available to me, so let me lock down this one here.". - He has no respect for women. because I mean, he's talking to this ex being like, "No, I'm right for you.". And she's being like, "No, I'm telling you, flat out, this.". And he is going, "No, not it.". - Okay, here's my question. - But then he's also. disrespecting his current partner. so damn much. - Yes. - And I mean this is like often the most infuriating part. of like cheating is the cheating itself,

but it's the insult to your intelligence. And it's like he comes back with a ring. and he is just like, yeah, and it's gonna be all right. And he truly believed that was gonna work. - That she would, yeah. - Yeah. - Okay. Here's my question. You're the girl who's engaged, booked and blessed. Okay? - Yeah. - And you're seeing him text you this stuff. or DM you this stuff or Facebook message you this stuff. and you see he's clearly like social media, like connected to this. He's still dating somebody. Do you slide into her DMs and tell her?

- I think I do. Especially after reading all of these. I do think if you have the opportunity to tell someone. that they're being cheated on, you should take that opportunity. - I think I do. - It's hard. And look, there's so many stories. where like it blows back at you. - Like the- - Like the previous one. we just read. - Yeah. - But like, it's hard to just, especially having, I've been cheated on it and it's like, it sucks. It's just like- - Yeah. - But like if you know, if you have definitive proof. - Yeah. - It's just like, dude,

like give it to 'em. because they might get mad at you. They might deny it, but like they're internally, they're gonna know now. - Yeah. - And you could save them. a lot of years. She was gonna get married to him. - Yeah. - Oh. - It's like, man, like I'll get you outta this hole. before you dig it further. - Yeah. - A hundred percent. - I think the ex was probably honestly a little like. worried about this guy. Like she cut him out of her life. because I think she was probably starting to get like, Hey, you are not letting this go. I do not feel safe talking to you. - It's a little para-social almost.

where he is like- - Yeah. - Acted like. these seven years they've been together or something. And she's like, "No, I'm engaged to someone else. and this shouldn't rock you to your core. 'cause we haven't been together in seven years.". - Yeah, and he's like, the way he said, he was like, I believe, like, I truly believe. that we would end up together. It's like, if that was your belief, then why are you in another relationship? Like what is the purpose? Like if you really had that belief in your heart, are you just doing it for fun? Like it's obvious that he has. a lot of issues. - I can't imagine.

I know this happens to so many people. I can't imagine the mindset that he knows deep down. that he's not over his ex before and still. and he is gonna propose and get married to this person. I'm like, you wanna do that? Like, I don't understand that mindset. I don't understand the mindset of proposing. to someone when you're not like, this is for sure. what I want out of life. - Yeah. - He is so clearly communicating to OP.

that he's settling with her. Like, I mean, it's blatant. These are the moves of an un-therapized person, right? - Yeah. - Like it is, there is no emotional intelligence. to any decision he's making. - Yeah. This is me jumping, but I almost think if he did go back, if that girl, his old love or whatever, did like give him space, I almost think he's. idealizing her so much. - Absolutely. - That he won't even, he doesn't even, like women are just like kind of placeholders a little bit. and there's like a bigger issue. - Yeah. - Oh yeah. - And that it wouldn't even, like,

he'd be let down and he'd be like, oh my God, you're not everything I built you up to be. - Oh, absolutely. - Yeah. I feel like he just disappeared for a day to go like, I don't know, walk around a park. and like consider his options. and be like, God, it really doesn't seem like she's engaged. Like maybe I should go get a ring and lock this down. before she realizes he's like, I feel like there had. to have been some like self-reflection. Like I've been crying over her. I need to propose right now. 'cause she'll say yes. and then like, yeah, I'll have this locked down. Like settling for it. - He so clearly.

had no respect for his girlfriend, like at all. And she realized that and that's-. - That sucks. - That's so infuriating. But like I'm so glad she has self-respect. for herself and- - Yeah. - Our producers threw out an interesting of like, what if he's trying to get engaged to make his ex jealous, to be like, "Oh, I'm over you.". - Oh God. - Check it out. - That could be so true. - Check it out. That actually makes a lot of sense. - Yeah. - I mean, we don't know, but it makes a lot of sense. - Oh that's crazy. - Oh, I actually think.

that might be it. That's sad. - Yeah. - Unfortunately it might be. - Yeah. - It's probably the first time. he ever made her breakfast. - It probably is. - Probably had to Google how to make an egg. (crew laughing). - Okay. Our next story comes from, am I overreacting? - Oof. - Yeah. Am I overreacting? I went on a date and saw "My Wife" calling. on his car Bluetooth. Ooh. - Oh, oh...

- Okay... I, a 28-year-old woman, went on a date with a guy who's 30. We met up, ate breakfast, and hit the road. because it's a long drive. Everything was going well. We were listening to music and just vibing. And then he got a phone call. He was driving, so his phone was connected to Bluetooth. and I could see who was calling. The caller ID said "My Wife," and my stomach dropped. We had been dating, talking for seven months. and nothing he did gave any signs of him being married. He didn't pick up and let it go to voicemail.

My mood instantly shifts and he asks what's wrong. I told him I saw who called. and that he needed to call them back immediately. He was going on about how it was his brother and I called BS. because I saw clear as day that it said "My Wife.". He goes on his phone and shows me his recent calls. and it says "Big Bro" at the time the call came through. The thing is that when the call came through initially. and he let it go to voicemail, I was staring at it in disbelief and then I looked away. because I couldn't believe what I was seeing.

It's possible that he changed the contact. name really quickly. I told him again to call the number and he doesn't show me, but he does call someone. and I can hear a male voice on the line. He hangs up and insists he doesn't have a wife. and he doesn't know how that happened, et cetera. We get to our destination and I try to put it past me, but I can't let it go. If he had refused to show me his phone at all, I would've Uber-ed home. We end up leaving earlier than planned. and he keeps trying to explain himself, but I can't forget the image of "My Wife" calling. I told him I needed some space to think about what happened.

Am I overreacting or is this a messed up prank? Oh man. Whoa. - This is so... - Oh man, I would be messed up. I would be so messed up if I saw that. and it's just like, "No, take a look.". And I saw- - Brother. - That'd be crazy. - I'd be like, I'm losing my mind. - Yeah. - Now, my brain immediately goes to, he switched the contact name really quickly.

- [Both] Yeah. - I mean- - I think the simple solution. is to like if the big brother is at the top of the call, click that and call it back. - Can I see the texts with your bro? - And he didn't. He said, I think they explained, he calls. but she didn't see- - Yeah, yeah. - He didn't- - Oh yeah, 'cause I think if I'm in that position. and he's proving himself to me, then I'm gonna be. as lawyered up as I want and be like, show it all to me. - Yeah. - Let's end this right now. - Yeah. - Like don't just show me. one thing, let's go through it all. - Let's set the phone down. - Let's go through pics. Let's just do it and then we'll be done.

- Yeah, they've been dating for seven months. - And it is, 'cause like if he doesn't have anything to hide, if it truly is like a joke, or whatever, like if it is some weird bug. in like the car Bluetooth, it's very simple. to just be like, oh I call it and it's his brother. - Yeah. - But he didn't do that. So then it's like, yeah, why didn't you? - He is truly like trying. to completely like alter reality here. Comments. Why and how would it be a prank?

Have you been to his house, out with his friends? Some people do put sarcastic nicknames. for certain people in their contacts, but switching up the contact name would've most likely taken. some effort that you would've noticed if you were. still sitting next to him. You were right to take some time. to yourself, trust your gut. Someone else said, I will add to this. As a married man, I have never saved my wife's. contact as "My Wife.". - Yeah. - My married friends. don't either. It's either her name or a pet name. - Or wife. - Or wife. Yeah. - [Both] My wife.

- My wife. It feels like a Borat thing. - Yeah. - I'm not saying. it's not possible, just very odd. Lastly, someone said, could it be. that he had a missed call from big bro. just before he picked you up. and he erased that call from the log? - Oh... - Oh, he erased... - Yes, no, I thought that too. - He erased my wife. - Like he didn't. change the contact. The call goes to voicemail. He opens recent calls, deletes that call. - Yeah. - And then brother's. right there. - I didn't think about that. That's probably easier to do really quickly. - And then calls his brother and goes, "Here's my brother.".

- Yeah, I mean I got a few suspicious contacts in my phone. that are just my friends. - Sure. - Like, one of my buds, it's just my buddy Nick, you know? - Yeah. - Yeah. Everyone in my phone is first name, their name, second name how I know them. So you're Shane Smosh. You're Trevor Smosh. - Dude. That's awesome. - Dude. Dude. You're Angela Smosh. - I am? - I do that, I do that. 'cause there's just a lot of people here. and I'm like, I need to clarify. that this is the person who is-. - Yeah, if I'm cheating on- - It doesn't help. that we have a lot of people. with the same names even here. - No, for sure. Like if I'm cheating on someone,

I'm gonna go real wife, secret girlfriend. - Right? - Like I'm gonna say-. Like I'm gonna be specific. - Exactly. - Like my wife devil eyes, or like my wife 2. - [Both] My wife 3. (crew laughing). - No it's not great when I'm driving with the plug, he sees "Better plug" on my thing. I'm like, "Hey look, don't worry about it, man.". Just kidding. I don't do drugs. Anyways. (laughing) - Wife's boyfriend. - Wife's boyfriend. (all laughing).

Imagine she saw that, wife's boyfriend. My wife's boyfriend. She's like, "Hold on." Several layers. - Is the deal still on? (all laughing). - No, that's my wife's boyfriend, who's my plug. - Yeah. - Don't worry about it. Okay. Update. - Oh God. - So the simple, the most simple plot twist is that. he manipulated his phone. - Manipulated it, yeah. - Is gaslighting her.

There could be other possibilities. Maybe they did go into a new reality. Maybe when they were driving, when he got the call from my wife, they were in another dimension. and they traveled in their long distance traveling, they drove through some sort of wormhole. and they went to a new dimension where. that's just his big brother and he is not cheating on her. - Yes. Or she was overreacting so much. - [Shane] Yeah. - That it altered her judgment. - Okay. - I think maybe just every-. - And the word 'wife' looked like 'brother.'. - Maybe this is her fault, and everything in the world is her fault.

- Yeah. Hold on. - And that seems like. what a lot of commenters will say, but I'm here for the truth. - Stay with me here. Stay with me. This guy has a friend. At one point he was driving. with this friend and his friend connected his phone. to Bluetooth to play music. They happened to pass each other driving opposite ways. at the exact time that his friend got a call from his wife. who he has in his phone as my wife. And it auto connected to his car's Bluetooth. and that showed up. and the call was actually not even in the car.

- Okay, I have another one. - Okay. Let's go. Let's ride. (crew laughing). - Him and his buddies, his bros. Actually, no, this doesn't even make-. Him and his buddies, his bros. They're out in an arcade. and they're asking for a certain amount of coins. so they could play a game and the man goes, "Are these for your wife?". He goes, "No, it's my brother.". They go, "It's so funny, man, you being my wife, I'm gonna put me in your phone as my wife.". - I like that. - That's good.

I like the arcade setting. - Yes. - Yeah, alright. That was a little Easter egg for you guys. - And that's gonna stick with me. - Because I know you love games. - Yeah. - Okay, so let's see it. - Alright, here we go. - Let's hear it. - After my post, I listened to my gut and took a step back. I told my ex, question mark, that I couldn't look at him the same after that trip. and needed space, he kept reaching out with long messages, declaring his love, but never actually explained. how the 'my wife' mix up happened. I took Reddit's advice and did some digging. He's not on social media, but I found him on True People search.

Turns out he really isn't married, which I already suspected. I've dated enough to know when someone's. hiding something big, and this didn't feel like that. So I called and asked for the truth. He put big bro on the phone who tried to claim the car. had somehow saved his contacts. and that's why I saw "My Wife" calling. Total bullshit. When I called it out, big bro left the call. and I got into another argument with my ex. I told him I was done and thought that was it. Wrong. He kept sending long messages, asking to see me.

and would keep calling, which I ignored, until he finally said he'd tell me the truth. At that point, that's all I wanted because I knew what I saw. and felt like I was being gaslit. So I called. Y'all. It was a test. There's no wife, no girlfriend, no significant other. He admitted to making it up. because I had already been pulling away before all this. and he wanted to see if I really cared. He was crying, saying he didn't mean for it to go this far. Honestly, at this point I felt relieved.

I had started to doubt myself. and I was right to trust my instincts, but that didn't change anything. I ended things again. and of course he went right back. to the long-winded messages. So I blocked him. It's over. I'm done. Moral of the story, always trust your gut. To answer some questions. No, I've never been to his house. because I only do that if I see something going somewhere. Make of that what you will. This isn't the first time he's tested me, so I already had doubts. Yes, I've met big bro before, but we weren't close. Turns out he was in on it the whole time. No, this isn't fake.

Oh, so... - So that's not it yet. - I don't know what the test was. - The test! - The test was to just. see if she cared. - So he felt her pulling away. So he made up a fictional wife (crew laughing). to see if he could get her pulled in? I don't understand! - Look, I don't, people can date however they want. They can go about relationships however they want. They're unofficial after seven months,

but he's been testing her. - Yeah. - In these seven months too. I'd be like, "Dude, you have the patience of a saint.". I would be, I'd be out. Seven months. No, because she's literally writing ex, like with a question mark. She's like, we weren't actually boyfriend girlfriend. - Yeah. - I cannot think. of one instance, and maybe it's 'cause I'm thinking. really quickly and we're at the end of the shoot day, when testing your partner is good. - It's never worked out. - When you're like, "Let me set you up, and then rate you based off of the results.".

- If you don't have trust to just have a conversation. and trust that they're telling you the truth, then I don't know where you go from there. Like testing. It's just never gonna work. It establishes you don't have trust for that person. And as we've learned from so many Reddit stories, people who test their partners, they're never satisfied. - Yes. - They always have. to then test them again. - But also that's such a weird power dynamic. That's like manipulation, that's like- - Oh totally. - There's nothing healthy about being like,

"Let me test you." - I don't know. I feel like the fake wife who's actually my brother playing. was pretty airtight. I'm surprised it didn't work out. Really surprised it didn't work out. - Yeah, you know, I was gonna say, you know what? I'm glad you said that. I agree. - I don't know. - Okay, so big bro. I'm gonna change your name to wife in my phone. and then you're gonna call. and then we got her! Lock the door. That was cringe. - That was awesome. - The guy I'm dating, Charlie from. "It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia.". (all laughing).

- That is such a weird way to ask if everything's okay. - It's so clearly just like a matter. of him being like, "Hey, we've been dating for seven months. and I know we haven't really like, decided like, this is serious and I'm just curious like where it's going. Like I'd love to know like, your thoughts.". - Yeah. - Like how simple, like is that not just- - No, you can't do that, man. - The easiest thing to do? - You can't do that, man. - I just- - You gotta test 'em. - It's so insane. That's the test. The test is just asking them, "Hey, are you like, into this?". - Yeah. - Like I wanna be closer.

to you, so I'm gonna actually put more shit in between us. Like what are you talking about? - Wow. - I got a Scott laugh. - Alright, we're gonna move on to our last story, which I know is gonna sound shocking. That's our last story. But this one is a doozy. This is gonna be a ride. - He said it's a doozy. - Copy. - Okay. This comes from relationship advice. I, a 27-year-old woman, made a stupid joke. to my husband who's 30, and he stormed off.

How do I fix this? Hey, Reddit. I'm an Instagram snooper. So this is my first time here. I honestly never expected to post here. because my husband, who's 30, and I, have a great relationship. Of course, I can't say we haven't had our occasional bumps, but it's honestly a dream come true all the way through. Our wedding was April, 2021, and we both cried like babies that day. And since then, the sailing has been smoother than soap. It's 2022 as of posting this, so it's November of 2022. So they've been married for about a year and a half now.

- Okay. - This afternoon, he and I came home after a little lunch outing. with our newly engaged friends, Kai and Marie. It went great, but was like just another outing. Nothing special, though we got some bomb pasta back home, which I'm currently shoveling into my gob. since it's too chilly for ice cream. We live in a super tiny apartment, and so he showered first while I got the leftovers. into the fridge and stuff. I went in after him, finished my shower. and put some lotion on my palm. I accidentally squeezed too much and dabbed some of it away. After I rubbed it on my face,

I still had some of the leftover on my finger, and I did exactly what any perfectly sane person would do. On my thumb, I whipped up a little smiley face. and some spiky hair to create Lotion Man. I came out of the bathroom giggling about it. and said something along the lines of, "Hey, look, it's Lotion Man!". He didn't really react. He just looked at my hand and blinked at me. I honestly was just goofing around. and started making a silly voice. and saying some random shit. sprinkled with some inside jokes. I was blabbing for about a minute.

before he just up and left. I was of course, completely oblivious as he grabbed. some of his shit and I just was smiling. and asking where he was going in a kind of playful way. He has a huge truck. and we'd just returned from a trip, so he has enough stuff to last him weeks. So it didn't really dawn on me that he was leaving, leaving, until he drove away. Honestly, I feel like Boo Boo the Fool. for making such a stupid joke and then letting him leave. just like that. You guys know Boo Boo the Fool? - Yeah. - I think it's that meme.

of the jester in the chair. - Oh. Boo Boo the Fool is the jester in the chair. Did not know that. Thank you for having that knowledge. - My face when Boo Boo The Fool is a jester in a chair. (all laughing). - Plot twist, Boo Boo The Fool is the jester in the chair. Okay, so she shows him Lotion Man. Goes, "Look, it's Lotion Man.". And he leaves, and like fully leaves. - Dude, here's the thing is I've done some bits so bad. that Raven has walked outta the room, so I get it. - Maybe she just bombed that bad.

I texted him a few times. and he's just said that he's thinking about things. and that he's at his brother Tyler's place. I've been texting him nonstop, but he hasn't been responding. or even reading any of it. He also sleeps really early, so I doubt I can get in contact. with him anytime soon. His brother isn't responsive either, so I'm just leaving my phone on the nightstand. and holding my breath. I don't think it's really dawned on me yet. I stared blankly at the door for like 10 minutes. before I got off my ass and actually tried contacting him. I've been with this man for years. and I'm always cracking cheesy jokes. I feel stupid and like shit for making Lotion Man,

and continuing after no response, instead of just shutting up and accepting that I'm unfunny. At the same time, I'm just confused. He's never been at this point, even in our rougher patches. The worst we've done is just take breaks from sex. or just talk to one another a little less. I wasn't planning on getting into my sex life, but honestly, I'm just rambling at this point. I'm all for giving him space, but I can't say I'm not hurt. he's just leaving. And the process of divorce is just so, ugh. I don't even wanna think about this anymore. Was making Lotion Man as big of a mistake as I think it was?

Any advice on getting him back home? Thanks, Reddit. Also, any cute sub-Reddit suggestions would be appreciated. since it's my first time on Reddit. and I wanna distract myself. - Dude. Lotion Man. - Guys, this is Lotion Man. - Dude, that's Lotion Man. That's awesome. - That's Lotion, yeah. Comments here. There's something big missing to this story. because ain't no way it's over the soap thing. Someone said, "I guess I'm missing something important. What was it about the Lotion Man. that he got mad enough to leave?". Someone said, "That's a pretty extreme reaction.

and it sounds like you didn't do anything wrong. You should perhaps stop texting, see what he says tomorrow. You need to find out why this caused this reaction. and he should be the one apologizing to you.". What do we think? - I feel so bad. - For Lotion Man. - Yeah. - For her and Lotion- - Yeah. - Okay, so I'm thinking that he was feeling. like things weren't working out, but for that to be what snapped it,

like that sucks so bad. - Yeah, that's devastating. - For someone to have, I don't know. I don't think I would do a Lotion Man like joke, but I do think anything, nothing's off the table. (all laughing). So for someone to use a moment of failure like Lotion Man, and use that to be like, "I'm leaving you," is the worst thing to hear. - Yeah. I've made jokes far worse than Lotion Man. Just like bad, not like bad, but like they're just not good.

- Yeah. - And God, yeah, that would be devastating if I just told a really bad. throwaway joke and it was like, "Well, that's it. You're done." - Like what? Yeah. And it's loaded for us. because like sometimes I feel like our ability. to make jokes kind of is your employment. and like what if you did a TNTL bit. and then you just saw like somebody in the back go-. And it was so bad. Like, I do Queen of Mold, and then I see someone come back here and they go,

and then you walk in the back. and they're like, "It's not gonna work.". - That would be, I would never-. - That's what this feels like to me. - I would never tell a joke again. I would never- - She's probably so, so rocked to her core. - I think what we're not considering. is what if Lotion Man killed his father. when he was a child? (all laughing). What if Lotion Man is like, you know, he's like, Hey, you know my history with- - You're (censored) right. What if Lotion Man, that image specifically looks a lot like her ex.

who she's not over. - Ah, her ex, Lotion Man. (all laughing). - Her ex, Lotion. - What if- - And he's like, yeah. - No, no. If you had something, you should go, mine wasn't good. - No, go, no, go. - Okay. - This is a safe space. No one will leave you if what you're about to say. is bad. - It's a safe space. No, I was gonna say, what if Lotion Man, she left out that she used Lotion Man to tell him. that she'd been cheating on him. And it was like, she just let that part outta the story. She's like, "Oh yeah, I actually, well, I used lotion man as a little puppet to be like, 'Hey,'". - Well, she's like, "I didn't say that.

Lotion man said that." - Lotion Man said it. Yeah. (all laughing). I have no clue what the plot twist could be. - I hope, I really hope it's not. that he wasn't being honest for a long time. and was hiding the fact that he wasn't into this. and then used that moment. and really just slapped her in the face. when she was giggling. You know what I mean? Like, I really hope this has a cool. plot twist and not a heartbreaking one. - Yeah. - I hope so too. Let's find out, 'cause we have an update.

Hey, Reddit, again. I posted here earlier about how my husband left. after I told him a dumb joke. You can find it here. I followed the advice I got and kept my distance. You all had me really pondering about how much. of my relationship was the butterflies and kittens. I thought it was. I still firmly believe. that everything was absolutely perfect before it happened, but oh, well, I have my opinions. So you guys were right about some things. and wrong about some things. For those of you saying that the lotion thing had nothing. to do with it, you were kind of wrong. But for the people who said something happened. during the lunch outing, you were right on the money.

My husband came back the other day, he apologized. and said he was ready to talk to me. I obliged, I tried my best not to be all over him, but quite frankly, I missed this man so damn much. He's my husband, after all. I think I figured out what it is. - What is it? Don't look. - I think I figured it out, I think I figured out what it is. I think Lotion Man was so endearing and so cute. that he had cheated on her. and he was just like, "I can't do this.". Like, "This is such a sweet. and precious moment." - That has to be it. - No, oh! - Wait,

this is the smartest you've ever looked to me. (all laughing). No, no. That's brilliant. That's a brilliant analyzation. That isn't about bad, that isn't a diss. That's me going, "That's brilliant.". - I'm also sitting here wondering if I've read this story. before and I don't remember it. - No, you'd remember Lotion Man. - Dude, that made me throw up. - I would remember Lotion Man. We've had so many, dude, we've had so many types. of people on Reddit Stories. - Like she brings up Lotion- - Lotion Man is one. of the catalog of people. - She goes, like, "Look at Lotion Man.".

And he's like, "I've been stealing money from you. for years." - Yeah. - You know what I mean? Like something dark. - Yes. - And Lotion Man was. like the most like innocent thing. I think you're so right. - Dude. - No, 'cause that's what I think. of what would break someone. Like if you cheat on like the person you love. and then a moment of just pure sweetness, that would be the moment that you're just like, I can't believe I've done this, like-. - Yeah. - I've been cheating on you. for 15 years. - Oh, I'm gonna throw up. - So that's my prediction.

My husband came back the other day. He apologized and said he was ready to talk to me. I obliged. I tried my best not to be all over him, but quite frankly, I missed this man so damn much. He's my husband, after all. He told me the following. I mentioned previously that we went out. with our two newlywed friends, Kai and Marie. Kai is a 30-year-old man. Marie is a 29-year-old woman. - Does Kai look like Lotion Man? - We did have some quality time with all four of us, but often one or more people were missing from the table. considering it was a fusion buffet and the food was amazing. Apparently at some point, my husband and Marie grabbed some food together,

or maybe before we left, since I know I was talking to just Kai for a while. before they appeared and we got into the car. Whatever it was, they were alone together. Marie, the fiance, told my husband that when Kai proposed, she realized she was in love with him, my husband. But she accepted Kai's proposal. and tried to put her feelings to rest. by organizing a lunch out. Though apparently she was charmed or some bullshit. because she asked him to run away with her. or something, I don't know.

But she wanted him to leave me and be with her. Now Marie is honestly gorgeous, which I hate to say. because I'm so pissed off with her. She's the typical blonde, blue-eyed, skinny pageant girl. who looks kind of like Emma Watson. I'm not. My husband gently turned her down. and wished her all the best. But he says he had her on his mind for a while. We were all college friends, so we know one another very well. And when I showed him Lotion Man, it all essentially exploded inside him. I had a hair towel and some shitty old clothes on. and I was giggling over a stupid thing.

and apparently my immaturity ticked him off. He suddenly got cold feet about our relationship. and left for his brother's place. He eventually came back and said he loved me all over again. I was frozen in shock and asked some questions. before asking him to sleep on the couch, at least for that night. He did, and it didn't really help me sleep. I can't believe that he was considering throwing away. all of our relationship for a crush. The more I think about it, the less I can look him in the eye. We went to Thanksgiving lunch together with some. of his family and some close friends,

and we spent last night together. So I think he thinks he's in the clear. I can't lie and say I'm not considering. just forgiving and forgetting, though. He comes home from work about six hours from now. and I don't know what to do next. I have off today, I'm a teacher, and so I'm considering either one, contacting Kai. and telling him about what his fiance is up to. My husband begged me not to, as Marie was apparently making a spontaneous mistake. Two, contacting Marie and chewing her out. for trying to (censored) up my relationship, or having a civil conversation.

Less tempting, but it's whatever. Three, contacting Tyler, his brother. and asking if he left the house at some point. Tyler's house is very close to Marie's place. and I'm very worried about that, though I doubt I'll get anything out of him. Four, all of the above. Any advice or well wishes. because I'm not in a great place right now, would be appreciated. - Dude, that's soul crushing. - That is awful. - As someone who genuine, like hearing the story like Lotion Man. is some that I would do. Like I can't, I can't- - Which way would you do that?

- Like make a little lotion guy. - Oh yeah. Exactly, that's what I'm saying. I feel, yes. I thought you were saying the other guy. - No, like I do so much dumb stuff like that. - Me too. - Like I can't, I really do. I can't over exaggerate the amount of terrible, dumb, stupid jokes that I make at home with Raven. And if I made a dumb joke like that, that I thought was like, ah, that's so funny. Like silly, stupid. And that was how she responded. I would never, that's like, I would never joke again. Like that would genuinely crush my soul.

- Yeah. - What a bad, bad time for him. to hurt her feelings. - It's just like, dude, you got up. and left out of nowhere with no explanation. and you left for a while. Right? And you come back and this is your explanation? Like this is your wife. - Yeah. - This is someone, you're breaking all the trust here. - I mean, it's like, we talk about it all the time. where it's like no matter what, people have to take care. of themselves in a relationship. You do have to like go with you.

You can't be with someone if you're not happy, right? But the way you go about telling your partner, or not telling them, or the way you communicate. is what makes you a good person or a bad person. You know what I mean? Or I mean, that's what makes like you, falling out of love with someone, that doesn't make you like immediately the asshole. The way you did this. Like if you had the like care. and like just forefront of thought. to be like, "Let me think about this. How can I communicate this?

How can I be responsible for my wife in this time?". When this is like really messy. - Yeah. 'cause this is, it's the classic thing of like. that I say all the time of like. the love aspect is one thing. It's the respect thing. - Yes. - He's disrespecting her. - That's what I meant to say. Thank you, yes. - So much, he's disrespecting her nonstop here, because yeah, your feelings, love. That can be a rollercoaster for people. - Yeah. - But respect is a choice. And he made a lot of choices here. that were very disrespectful to her.

We now go back to what we were talking about earlier, of she knows that Marie confessed her love for her husband. and here's Kai over here that she's talking to. It's like- - Mid-buffet is weird. to me, too. - Yeah. - Mid-buffet is crazy. (crew laughing). - Confessing your love at a buffet? - But like mid, but like when you get up, like I was just at a buffet for an Easter brunch. with my family, and it's always like someone's like. guarding the boat a little. and you're like, "You go out. Yeah, well I'll stay here. I'll stay at the table.". And then someone comes back and then you kinda. all eat at different shifts, and people go back for seconds.

To be like, "Let's go to the salad bar.". - Yeah. - "I'm obsessed with you, I'm in love with you," and then go back? - Like mid-picking up a lobster roll, putting it on your plate and like, "Hey, by the way." - And then just like go back, and like- - I've been in love with you. all these years. Grab some jello. - Yeah. (crew laughing). - Did you want some of this, by the way? I'm in love with you. (Shane laughing). - Let's keep this conversation maybe a minute tops, and let's head back. Like what? - It's (censored). - Yeah, no, and it is, it's so disrespectful. Like that is not the way that you handle, like just leaving. and not saying a word is so awful. Like if you are having those thoughts, like take a second.

to process and be like, "Hey, I wanna sit down with you. and tell you like the thing. that happened at brunch. - Right. - Or like, if you're not even ready to talk about. that specific part, just never leaving your partner. high and dry without any explanation, and quite literally abandoning your person. - Yeah. - Yeah, and it's like. you abandoned her is already a lot. - Yeah. - You come back. and go, "The reason I abandoned you. is 'cause this person confessed their love for me. And I was thinking about it.". It's like, okay, we're done. - Yeah. - It's like when you fight or flight,

that instinct to leave her when there's some issues. is not- - Yeah, it's like, oh, so that's where you were leaning? You were leaning towards that. - Yeah. - Now I'm supposed to feel confident in us forever. - Yeah, and I totally understand like if there's a moment. where you like have a lot of emotions, like I totally get needing to be alone. - No, I get that too. - You need to like. take a second. - You need to tell-. - Yeah. - You tell them that. before you disappear. - 100%. It's like, just send 'em a text. Like literally, even if he walked out. and sent a text and was like, "Hey, I have some things going on mentally right now. I just need to sit for a second. and we can talk." - Sure.

- Like, don't stress too much. Like, I just need to sit. That's great, that's fine. - Fair. - But yeah, to just walk out, get in your truck, drive, no explanation, and yeah, then just come back and be like, "God, yeah, well I was thinking about. someone else that said that they loved me". is the worst thing that you can do to a person. after they show you Lotion Man. - Update number two. - Whoa. - Regardless of what happens. in this next plot twist, the friend group is dead. - Yeah. It's over. - We're not going. to fusion buffets anymore. - No, no. - We're doing one-on-ones. I don't know with who.

- We're doing one-on-ones. (crew laughing). - We're doing biweekly one-on-ones. - Yes. Oh God, I'm scared. - I don't know what can happen from here on out. A lot of you had some really interesting theories. LOL. And surprisingly most of them were somewhat right. The majority ruled that I should do all three. Confront Kai, Marie, husband and Tyler, not necessarily in that order. And so I had to get smart with it since a lot. of you guys told me that any of them could twist the story. had they known there was an outside influence. Before I begin, yes, the full story is wacky.

and honestly doesn't make that much sense. I'm honestly just piecing it together via context clues. and I do have some questions left unanswered. When my husband came home, we had a conversation. He essentially said the same story as before. and he told me he was open. to my marriage counseling suggestion. I gave him a big hug and did the laundry. Usually we split the laundry. Plus I had been giving him a light cold shoulder. So I indirectly forgave him, in his eyes at least. We haven't really set boundaries with our phones. Like we know each other's passwords and everything, but he would definitely get suspicious if I was just.

scrolling around on it. So instead I agreed to meet up with Kai first. A lot of you guys were concerned that he would tell Marie. and everything would implode, but Kai is a big gym nut. and I've been wanting to go recently. So I said it as casually as possible using it as an excuse. He agreed. The next morning I met with Kai. I sat down with him and told him all I know. Yes, I cried like a baby. Originally, Kai was rigid and tried to kindly poke holes. in what I was saying with a few gotcha questions. before he too broke down.

Marie didn't tell him a word. That was a big red flag on its own. I then went to Marie with Kai, a few Redditers told me to be. as discreet as possible. And so as a suggestion said, I just blurted to her. that I know everything. She played dumb at first and then eventually broke. You all were right. Marie trying to settle her crush was a bullshit story. My husband was the one who approached her. - Absolutely. (Trevor grunts). Absolutely! Absolutely!

Absolutely. - There it is. - She told me that he asked her. before she sealed it with Kai if she wanted to have a night. with him and another woman. Here's the kicker. Marie said yes. - And she's a alive, dude. No, I'm kidding. (all laughing). - Oh no. So he-. - He casually pitched a threesome while on a buffet date, double date, and he was at the lamb chop section. of the buffet and he said,

(censored) me and two other women that are not here. with us at the buffet. - But wait, I hate to say it, but that's not all. Apparently Marie has been cheating on Kai for a while. with men and women. And my husband has also been cheating frequently. They covered for each other and occasionally met up. - Oh, the friend group is destroyed. - Jesus! (all laughing). - Guys, I don't know if. this friend group's gonna make it. - Dude. (all laughing). - Yeah, the band is breaking up. - At the last moment, she declined. because she wanted to be loyal to Kai.

now that they were engaged, as if she wasn't cheating. for the majority of the relationship. And my husband got all pissed off for a while. before saying he's just locked up in his apartment now. Cue me showing him Lotion Man. He snaps and gets out of there. Kai and Marie are both arguing in tears and red at the face. I told them sorry that I butted into their relationship. and that I'll handle my husband myself. She's like, see you later. - Dude. - I can't get over this man.

Like having all these like crazy threesomes. And then his wife does Lotion Man. - She's like, Hey, threesome. You, me, Lotion Man. - No, he sees that and he's like, my God. - I found Tyler before the sun set. He told me yes, his brother stopped by, but only around 11:00 PM. He left at around 8:00. So those three hours went (censore) all. Tyler told me that he was angry. and didn't tell him anything. I then tell him some context. Just the Lotion Man. And he says that maybe he was driving around for a while.

It doesn't sound like my husband to drive his relief, but I'm willing to look into it since the future was already. looking pretty (censored) bleak. I went home. I "Googled" something on my husband's phone. Instead, I was just checking if any. of them had contacted him. Nothing, thankfully. I would've gone into more depth, but that would have to wait. Instead, I tried to keep him busy. for the duration of the day. Remember how I said he goes to sleep really early? Well that worked in my favor. Took his phone that night while he was snoring his ass off. Ran into a million dead ends. I knew I was missing something, but I just couldn't find it.

Finally, I opened his hidden photos, Kaboom, his story explodes to pieces. What did I find? Nudes, nudes, more nudes. Even more nudes. All of one girl, not me. Shocker. But not Marie, either. I don't recognize her. Let's call her Allison. She's absolutely gorgeous. Red hair, hourglass figure, you name it. I'm obviously broken. I traced her back to a contact. I feel sick. There it is. An affair. He's been contacting her since February. Days before, I surprised him with the Valentine's thing.

that I had been using up my paychecks for. and thinking I was the luckiest woman alive. It (censored) sucks. I can't even read more, but I tough through it. Then I found it. November 3rd, two days after the last nude. She's pissed off. She found out he was married all along. She was in love with him. I would feel bad for her, but she didn't even bother trying to contact me out of love. Hubby has a genius idea. He told Allison that he'll bring his wife over to a hotel. to show that his wife doesn't care about the affair.

Sound familiar? So I assume when Marie canceled, there was nothing he could do. He became whiny and begged her to come. He told Allison that there was an inconvenience. and they'd meet up another day. Then the Lotion Man, he got pissed off at me and left. I don't know what he did after that, but whatever it was, he wasn't with either of them. Then he went to Tyler's place, slept it off. and came back afterward. I'll spare you the details, but I couldn't even pretend to like him anymore. after I found that out.

I brought Kai and Marie over the next morning. He started (censored) blubbering and tried to deny it all. before eventually admitting he was into redheads. Marie is actually strawberry blonde. Allison is very ginger. and it was the one desire of his I couldn't fulfill. Even I could see past his-. - I'm gonna have to, you're gonna have to stop soon. (all laughing). - He is like, fine, you got me. I'm into red heads. - He's like, "I'm sorry! (all laughing). It's just the last thing on my bucket list.". - Even I couldn't see past his bullshit saying.

that he loved only me. and that being with Allison/Marie only made him. love me more. I just said, (censored) it, and packed my stuff. He got more desperate. But even I, the girl who was honestly infatuated with him. knew it was over. He technically owns the apartment, so I had to leave. Now I'm staying with Kai. I feel for him too. His wife was his world. We were hugging and crying for a while. Ranting about God knows what, just trying to get ourselves together, to be honest. He tried to lighten the mood. by making lunch, and it was really nice. He's a wonderful cook. - By making lotion. - By making Lotion Man.

I showed him the other two posts. and he got a kick out of some of your comments, ha-ha. As far as I know, my soon to be ex-husband. is with Marie for now. I don't care about either of them. and honestly it's kind of therapeutic. just having some kind of closure. and not walking on eggshells like I have been. for the past few days. Kai and I are going to the gym tomorrow. to do some relaxing yoga. and hopefully figure out what to do next. We've both taken off from work. I'm sorting out my finances. and hopefully I should get the ball rolling. to finally legally split from my husband. and be able to call him my ex. I'm still so, so frazzled.

I have at least half a dozen pictures of him. and me on my desk. and our wedding picture is my lock screen on pretty much. all of my devices. I know my students will notice his sudden disappearance from. my life and I'll have to tell them. that the guy I've been raving about. for the past forever is divorcing me. I'll have to tell all my family. and friends, Kai is my rock in this whole thing. and we'll eventually have to part ways, which hurts me. because he's honestly my number one support. system in all of this. Living arrangements, actual divorce costs, law stuff, yuck, therapy, sigh. I still have to go through it all. I can't believe I thought this relationship was perfect.

It's really therapeutic to just write this all down. I'll be coming back for more advice someday. Though just now, I've seen all, yes, all of your sweet words. and I'll continue lurking around for a long time. But this should be my final update for now. Thank you again, Reddit, from me and Kai. Update number three, condensed for time 'cause we're running outta time here. OP got a divorce and is now in a happy relationship. - Yay. - That is the final update. So she did, she was able to. get outta that. - Thank God. - Thank God.

- You know what's still. one of the most interesting things to me. about cheating is how cheaters. oddly build up resentment for their partners. - Yeah. - Right? It's such a weird-. - Because that's their obstacle. in front of their other- - It's such a weird like, thing. - Yeah. - Like, I've read some about it, but I still don't understand it. Like where that resentment comes from. It's interesting. So that's clearly what happened. He just like was mad at her. for Lotion Man. - No, I mean, when you're that deep in a psychosis.

that's telling yourself that what you're doing isn't wrong. This person is annoying because they're in the way. Like I think you have to be kind of. so deep in not logic to be upset. with that person. - To sit there. and tell these people, "Well, I'm into redheads.". - Yeah. - And think that you're gonna. get through this fine. - Yeah. - Wow. - That's the craziest. response ever, of like the admission of guilt for him to just be like,

"I'm into redheads.". - She's like, "Oh." - It's beyond parody. - No, so many levels of this is so disrespectful. - That is like- - He planned a whole thing of, I'm gonna get Marie to come to pretend to be my wife. - It's like literally like Mrs. Doubtfire. Like (censored) boy edition, or something, (crew laughing). where he's like, "I'm gonna do both. I'm gonna run between the restaurants and like yeah, and get all the redhead (censored) I want.".

(censored) Loser. (crew laughing). - Jesus. - Sorry. - It's so sad too 'cause- - Plot twists. - Oh, I feel so bad for her, but I'm happy she like, it sounds like she took care of herself. I'm happy she didn't have to do it alone. She had Kai. - Yeah, and you know, how does Lotion Man? - Where does he sit? - Is he good? Where does he sit in this? - Honestly, where's Lotion Woman? - I was gonna say. - I'm a little suspicious. of Lotion Man. - Yeah. - I'll be honest. - Like, show us your phone, Lotion Man. - Yeah. Hey.

- If there's nothing to hide, let's just show your phone. Open your phone. - Show us your phone. - Just open your phone. If there's nothing to hide, I just wanna talk to him. - Show us your phone, Lotion Man. Dumbest joke ever said. (crew laughing). - Next to Lotion Man. - Next to Lotion Man. Thank you both for being here. This was wild. I'm sorry. (flamboyant music). - No, I'm sorry. I feel as if I screamed a little bit. - No. Angela, what? - No, no. That was-. - Yeah, you scream?

- And we're sorry about that prank. - It's okay. It really hurt. - Yeah, really good prank. that we executed perfectly. - Spencer's gonna be. not disappointed at all. - Yeah. - Yeah, not whatsoever. - Literally coming in here, like, "well, it's gonna be so funny.". - I actually like it for the Reddit listener. that like for one episode at the top of the episode, you just hear people go, "Yeah, wow. I couldn't imagine." (all laughing). And they're like, this is a weird episode. - Oh man. Whatever Reddit stories. (all laughing).

Okay, thank you both for being here. Thank you for watching, and let us know what other themes. and sub-Reddits you'd like to see on the show. And we will see you next Saturday. Bye! (light jazzy music concludes).