Top 10 Rules To Win In 2025, Develop A Winner Mindset & Change Your Life | FO297 Raj Shamani

if you're working harder on your job. than yourself then you won't go far in. your life so if you're daily just. getting up and be. like and you're not getting time to. improve your skills you're not getting. time to grow your mindset you're losing. in life you'll get the job again you'll. make money again but your time is. limited and in this time whoever will. have the maximum knowledge or have done. the maximum experiments or have built. the maximum connections for their. personal growth will win is as simple as.

that so daily write one thing what are. you going to do which will help you grow. [Music]. personally today's video is a very. special video we all thought that we. have so much potential to do something. in life but we were not able to do it. but that's all 2024 and that's about. history next year is about becoming the. best version of ourselves challenging. everybody and you utilizing and living.

to the maximum potential that we have so. for that I live by 10 rules in my life. which I was sharing with my team members. that these are the rules that help me. become irreplaceable in my work and I. think that's the most important thing we. all should be striving for this year we. all should become irreplaceable in our. work these are the lessons that I've. learned from my mentors from my teachers. from the books from my experiences and. the guests who have been on my podcast. so.

mediocrity average. life that's all past this year is about. instant Clarity focus and living to the. maximum potential that we have enjoy. these 10 rules because in 10. rules to push forward and go for bigger. things in life so take out your pen and. paper and her question and her rule. write down the things that I talk about. because I made my team do the same thing. and I actually do it myself which has.

really helped me in my life enjoy the. video and let me know in the end. gu rule these are 10 rules of how I can. become irreplacable in the world a lot. of these rules are learned by the really. really top like. 0.001% people in the world okay number. one rule which really helps me.

become. Irreplaceable is I believe that it will. never. stop and what do I mean by. that so all of us or few of us have this. thingy whatever I'm doing currently I'm. only doing till the time I have some. money or something and then I'll do. something of my own or I'll do something. truly magical.

like all of this one day will stop and. then I'll have a great life right how. many of you have this thought whatever. I'm doing today I'll do it till the time. I'm not financially free and then set. life anyone thinks like that okay how. many of you have ever thought that.

okay and how many of you have thought. that today I am doing certain things I'm. only doing it till the time I achieve. some level. of stability in my life how many of you. think like. that so the mindset for it is trust me. it will never. stop whatever you're doing whatever. you're struggling with whatever thinking.

that one day it'll stop when I have more. money when I have more stability when I. have better job when I have better. startup whatever that thing is it will. never ever ever. stop we become and attract and do things. who we truly. are so if you feel that today that. whatever you're doing you'll stop doing. it one day trust me there'll be. something other something. else so I treat this as the infinite. game that this is never never ending.

because here's what happens people who. think that it's going to stop they don't. function well on the bad. day they let their moods affect them. when they're low they're like. it when they're not feeling like they're. like Let It Be who. cares versus when you think that this is. what my life is going to be probably I'm. going to be doing till the. deathbed you think in a very different. way so if you think.

that I am going to delay living my life. to the fullest. and. these are just excuses that. you're giving to. yourself write down. today what are the things that you truly. want to do and you like to do and start. doing only that everything else just. eliminate it immediate.

mediately because if you're going to. keep postponing you're just giving an. excuse most of the. times we feel that we give excuses of. family we give excuses of time we give. excuses of money but if you truly want. to do something significant really. important people in in. history have never. waited never waited to do everything.

that they want to. do they've never waited for the time. they've never waited for family to get. okay they've never waited for money to. come they have not. waited if they truly want to do it they. do it so here's what I want you to do. write one. thing just one thing that you feel you. want to do in your life once you maybe. retire once you maybe have enough money. enough freedom.

whatever that one thing is it can be I. just want to play guitar it can be I. want to learn more it can be I want to. read more I want to have more fun I want. to get obsessed with the growth I want. to learn building a business whatever. that one thing is which you're not doing. today and you would want to do write. that down start doing. that it may be hard it may be difficult. but it's completely okay because if you. don't do that the most you're going to. lose in life.

whatever is the thing that gives me the. maximum purpose I do. that because if I don't do that I feel. empty I feel lonely I feel lack of. selfworth I feel. frustrated I keep questioning myself but. when I do that one task I really enjoy. now for a lot of people you might not.

even have something that gives you true. purpose right so the other way around is. whatever you're doing and you enjoy the. most today start loving that. fully and think that this is never never. ending because when you operate from. that mindset you beat everyone else who. operates from that mindset people who. play finite games and limited games are. always the losers in the long run versus. people who play Infinite games.

I'm very confident about the game I'm. playing I'm going to. win because here's the. thing I love helping people change their. perspectives so that they can think and. dream bigger and they can achieve bigger. that's what I want to do for rest of my. life I love doing that okay now anyone. else who's doing this as a job will lose. because I have more passion let's anyone. who has a passion has more skills will. will lose on a bad day because even on a.

bad day I would want to do this anyone. who works on a bad day gets on and on. again and again 24/7 will feel burned. out one day I. won't so I will Outlast. them what is that one thing for you that. you will Outlast everybody else for so. that's the first mindset that's the rule. which helps me number two this rule for. me was the hardest to overcome.

which I believe makes anyone and. everyone who applies this in their life. makes them irreplaceable in the world. and makes them truly. Unstoppable the rule is don't get. hurt and what I mean by that in every. situation wherever we want to feel. amazing and we want to feel nice and we. don't feel that we get hurt we're like. oh. opportunity we like.

and that's what actually makes you weak. and the weaker you are the more you get. hurt the more you'll suppress your. emotions the more you suppress your. emotions you won't let your original. ideas come out and if you don't let your. original ideas come out you won't have a. stand and if you don't have a stand. you'll be replaceable in an organization. so you want to become Irreplaceable stop.

getting. hurt so here's what I want you to write. what is that one thing which hurts me. the most in my. life now that you know what hurts you. the. most I want to become Shameless on this. thing from today decide that I will get.

hurt by maybe 20 other things but for. next one year I won't get hurt by. this in no matter which. situation if that situation is in office. I won't get hurt it's in my private. relation personal relationship I won't. get hurt if my parents do that I won't. get hurt if strangers do that I won't. get hurt I won't get hurt because of. this one thing write that down rule. number three. which.

is a very strong rule listen to it. carefully and do this exercise with me. because it's a lot of exercises right. everyone watching this everyone. listening to me right now do this don't. get hurt by the sentence I'm going to. say live as if your mother and father. were. dead here's what I mean by. that every human. being should love their parents.

yet be free from the expectations and. the criticism which parents give. them and knowingly or unknowingly you. try to live up to them and that's why. you're not. free that's why you can't operate from. the free. mindset let me make it more deeper for. you so that you get the better. perspective what are the top three. expectations which your parents have. from you write that down.

maybe they want you to live with them. till the retirement maybe they want you. to. build lot of financial capital for them. and the family maybe they want you to. marry someone who they want you to marry. now there's a next question what are the. top three. criticisms that since childhood your. parents knowingly or. unknowingly have been reminding you.

May what are these. criticisms here's one question I wanted. to answer to finish this off if you were. truly Fearless if you were truly. Limitless there was nothing stopping you. there were nobody judging you.

what would be that one thing that you. haven't done till now and you would do. it can be as simple as I would color my. hair this way I would walk up in front. of my parents this. way I will leave my career and do. something that I really really admire. and. enjoy if you don't have it it's. brilliant if you have it then do that. one thing without telling anyone and see. how it feels now that doesn't mean that. oh.

drug like don't something positive let's. keep it that way rule number four what's. your slight. Edge what's your slight Edge and. whatever it is don't fake it in the. world be real to it now what do I mean. by that like are you earning at the. maximum potential that you have as a. human being are you earning that today. yes or. no are you ear.

earning what top 1% of the people earn. in your field let's say if your field is. content strategist do you earn top 1% of. a Content. strategist now write that down what do. you think is stopping you to reach that. top 1% or reach that maximum potential. which you have as a human. being which is why you're not able to. earn that much okay here's what I want. to do okay there are several ways to.

look at this let's pick up video editing. because maximum people are there are you. in the top 1% of video editors in your. company if that's the answer then first. pick is done then we go upper are you. earning top. 1% of what top 1% editors earn in the. podcasting field you know yes or no if. you're earning that then are you the one. who is top 1% in the we field of social. media let's say if that is sorted then.

you do are you in the top 1% in the. country for video editing for every. field and if that is also sorted then. you do are you the top 1% in the. world so whichever Circle you are. in 1 2 3 4 5 6 okay you only think about. the next Circle wherever you are today. what's your next Circle and for that. what is stopping you write that down. right three things that you think is.

your limitation which is stopping you to. really reach your Edge now whatever your. three limitations are that's your. Edge now the good thing is that you. know and the most important person and. the most valuable person is the one who. knows what are my limitations and what.

is my. capacity and what do I need to achieve. to go from where I am at what's my Edge. and how do I push that edge to get out. of the circle because here's what. happens most of the people don't know. what their capacity. is but out of them most of the people. who know what their capacity is they. either pretend to know more and live in. a delusion.

they try to pretend and other people. cash this and many people they. don't even know what they're capable of. so they live under the radar and they're. like who cares if you don't know your. Edge start writing. down it can be work it can be. relationships it can be anything why are. you valued are you valued because you do. your task well no.

you are valued because you do something. which other people can't or you're just. a piece of. convenient you'll be replaced by. somebody. else it's just people see. that are you that. person you that person who can't be. changed these are the questions you need. to answer yourself and if you are on the. spec.

that trust me if you become an. entrepreneur or do a job or do. freelancing or run an agency no matter. what you do you'll be replaced you'll be. always unhappy you'll always live with. this. insecurity even if you run your own. business because somebody else will come. and take your clients. off if you in a job you'll be replaced. quickly because somebody will come. either cut on price or do something. better than you you'll be.

replaced so think about what's your Edge. and how you can push it to make it. better rule number five write down. morning to night what do you. do and what I mean by. that. brush like don't do that just write like. I wake up I read I run I go to work. whatever the big bucket is it can. be now Mark things which is actually.

making you. better and is taking you closer to the. 1% dream or the goal that you have how. many of you have more than five things. in your day which is helping you get. more focused and more inspired and. living a dream. life how many if you have at least three. things brilliant nobody that means the. rule number five is you don't have. blinders on you know who really win the.

people who are really really focused and. inspired for a very long time and you're. not because you don't have blinders on. how do you build blinders around you by. creating an environment so this is you. are you surrounded by the. books that you grow and get inspired are. you surrounded. by podcast that you do are you. surrounded by people that help you grow. are you surrounded by traveling to. places that you are you surrounded by. the kind of content you consume every.

day are you having the right. conversations with the people which help. you. grow are you traveling to the places. which help you grow are you reading the. books that help you grow are you. watching the content that help you grow. are you doing any of it it means you. don't have blinders on if you don't have. that you won't get daily inspiration you. won't get actually focused you won't be. able to push out of your Zone and become. truly. replaceable you you come to work you do.

your work and then you go back. home you know how many people do this %. people are you better than 99%. no so start with having at least one. activity which is helping you put a. Blinder on and it's truly surrounding. you towards the goals that you have rule. number six stop pleasing. people stop making decision s because.

you want to please. people whether it's your girlfriend. boyfriend boss Mom Dad friends client. whoever never make decision just to. please someone here's what I mean by. that okay if somebody gives you a good. suggestion you take it and you feel that. whether you like it or no if you like it. then based on that New Perspective you.

take a decision that's okay but if. you're taking a decision just because I. don't agree with it. but you're betraying. yourself so you're making yourself. weak and when you make yourself weak. nobody in the world trusts you because. here's what you're signaling to the. world hey you know what I'm going to go. with your decision because I don't trust. my decision. and if you don't trust your decision how.

do you expect other people to trust. you so if you are just to please. somebody maybe to land a client maybe to. land that promotion maybe to get just. ahead in organization maybe just to get. that girl or a guy if you're doing. pleasing and not taking your own. decisions and you're just swaying away. getting distracted by it and you train. your brain to keep telling that it's. always good to not take the difficult. decisions and if your brain is not.

trained to take difficult decisions. you'll never have a stance and if you. don't have a stance somebody else who. has a stance will be more powerful will. be more assertive and will replace you. in your. job because they're known for taking. decisions what they believe in so I've. done that a lot to please other people. because I feel. it's and then later I felt suffocated. because here's what happened I decide. that I'm going to go with it just to.

please this one person and take that. decision and then when the decision is. wrong I feel bad about myself that. I I thought so I should have done. it now I feel even. worse I would have taken my decision I. would have gone wrong and if I would. have gotten wrong I would have learned. from it to grow from it so that I could. never make that mistake. but I'm. dead so make sure that from today you. you don't do.

anything. which is just to please other people so. number. seven your purpose should come before. your world relationship here's what I. mean by it how many. times you have sacrificed on your work. or the purpose or the thing that gives. you Joy the. most. because you say hey I wanted to spend. more time with my family I because I.

want to spend more time with my people. with my wife with my husband with my. girlfriend with my. boyfriend here's what. happens you sacrifice on that you give. an excuse to spend time with them when. you are with them then you're thinking. constantly about work so you're not. present there you're not present here in. both the places you just are giving. nothing if at any point you feel that. make time spend. personal.

life you actually tone down the ambition. that comes out of your. mouth which is completely okay most of. the people here's what they do they have. big Ambitions they talk about changing. the world and building the big. purpose and then they give an excuse for. the lack of discipline that they have. and they put that excuse like hey I. didn't do it because of my family I.

didn't do it because of my girlfriend. duties or boyfriend duties I didn't do. it because of my exyz duty you're doing. Injustice to yourself you're doing. Injustice to your potential you're doing. Injustice to your purpose and you're. doing Injustice to your relationships. because they are not bearing the fruits. of your maximum. potential if you would have actually. truly lived your purpose do you think. your parents would have a better life. yeah yes do you think your partner will.

have a better life yes do you think. personally mentally emotionally. financially you will feel more secure. and nice. yes but you don't do it because your. lack of discipline gives you some sort. of excuse and that excuse most of the. time is given on a relationship.

stop giving these excuses that I. sacrific this because of my relationship. have you ever done that in your own head. I don't go out with my friends. because I go out with my friends and be. like have you ever done that any of it. we all have we all have at some point.

stop doing that from today because once. you start living from that point of view. you truly enjoy and once you truly enjoy. you get in the good Zone okay so that's. seven this everybody should do if you. don't want to follow any rule number. eight is for everybody become friends. with people who call out on your. mediocrity so if you don't have those. friends find a colleague. if you don't have that find a family.

member or a. cousin if you don't trust them find out. a stranger in next one week give. yourself a task and find somebody and. here's what you're going to do you're. going to sit with them once a. week for 10 minutes 20 minutes 30. minutes and tell them this is what my. goals are and this is why I'm not able. to achieve it and talk about all the. excuses and the problems that you have. because of why you're not able to. achieve it and let them call it out. and you do the same with.

them so let's say if two people are here. you become friends and every week you. tell let what do you think why I was not. able to do it and let that person call. it out and every time you sound mediocre. you sound average you sound that it's. just your own madeup excuse let your. friends call it out. and you need to enjoy that process you.

don't need to get hurt by it a lot of. people when they have friends they give. them feedback they get hurt. yes right like you you maybe not say. this but in your head you think. like bro. like enjoy when somebody calls you out. for your mediocrity so from today build. have that one person give yourself this. task. it can be either in the organization it.

can be outside in the world it can be. your boyfriend girlfriend families. whoever I. would I would really appreciate or maybe. encourage that you have somebody in your. life who's apart from your husband wife. girlfriend. boyfriend if you have a friend that it's. much better if it you have a colleague. then it's much better because usually. the couples who are not very mature your. who have not gone through their own.

learnings when you start telling them. this is your limitation they'll start. calling out that limitation in middle of. a fight and it won't be a pretty scene. if you're a mature couple you think that. You' have reached that point in your. life go do it but if you're someone. who's just in relationship 1 2 3 years. in please don't find out a friend or a. colleague who is different than just. your partner okay so have a friend or. maybe set of friends who call you out on. your medum. this number nine are you too caught up.

with your daily. operations if you are then. don't and here has a quote that I really. really like okay how many of you have. heard of Jim Ron so he said something. very interesting if you're working. harder on your job than yourself then. you won't go far in your life so if. you're daily just getting up and be. like and you're not getting time to. improve your skills you're not getting. time to grow your mindset you're not. getting time to actually work on the.

things that you lack you're losing in. life you'll get the job again you'll. make money again but your time is. limited and in this time whoever will. have the maximum knowledge or have done. the maximum experiments or have built. the maximum connections for their. personal growth will. win is as simple as that so daily write. one thing what are are you going to do. which will help you grow personally and.

number 10 with the most important rule. of all the Allin behavior when you go. all in it just you don't have a plan B. you don't have you don't think about. anything if you're doing something do it. with your heart and passion or else if. you feel. like do something else doing something. with an all-in behavior for one month is. way better than doing something for one. year without having this.

attitude it's true for podcast it's true. for life it's true for relationship it's. true for health it's true for. everything so if you want to truly truly. truly become the top one person in the. world you command that status that you. choose where you want to be you choose. what job you want to do you choose what.

business you want to be in you choose. the kind of work you want to do you can. only do that when you are going with. Allin Behavior this has a lot of risk. involved in it but it has the maximum. reward as. well top 1% people are. delusional they only think about rewards. they only think that if I go all in you. work. out so whatever you're doing if you're. not liking that change it today but if. you're doing it and if you.

said I want to be the richest person on. planet. Earth and I like it do it with such a. passion that you will show at the time. when you're making when you'll be making. millions of. dollars because if you don't do that. today. the way you do anything is the way you. do.

everything. half. Rel because always you're just. going trying to be half. pregnant and there's nothing like half. pregnant so go all in and that's the. most important rule in life no matter. what you do so these are my 10 rules for.

becoming irreplaceable in 2025 you need. to actually jot down these rules and. start following as much as you can in. your life because the more you do the. faster you do the better you become. thank you let's go. [Music].