Open Thoughts with Pour Minds

[Music]. Hello world. This is uh me, Marco, Marco. Summers, and I get to sit down with two. beautiful women with a podcast called. Before Minded, and we're going to get to. know their thoughts. If you're familiar. with them, hey, if not, you going to. learn today. And. um make sure you check out the comedy. tour dates that are coming in. Um, also the Monet merch. Uh, also the.

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later. Sorry. We have been on set all. day. I know. Literally, I've been up. since. You got to sit right here. Right. here. Yep. I'm right here sitting right. between y'all. Okay. How are. you? Good to see you. It's been good to see you, too. Yeah. Years later. How are you? Fine. We're. live right now, you know. So anything. that you say anything that you say will. be held informed against you in a court. law order. that things will be.

all right. We hold on. We real intimate. We here. You sit right here. Why. everybody want to go on that side? I was. just putting my person. Oh, okay. We. already going in right into it. Oh, this. is live. Oh, I did. Uh hello, bro. Uh. we're sitting here with the one and only. Lex P Andre Nicole. We really like you. wasn't playing. What did that mean? They. recording already? It's going. Oh, for. real? I know that's right. That's like. That could be your camera. That could be.

your camera. Or that one. Okay. Yeah. Uh, how do y'all feel today? I feel. great. You look amazing. So, look. So, look, look. The thing is, all right. In. Okay, look. All right. Listen. Right. now, in the women community, what do. kind of look like? When somebody say. kind of, you starting to look kind of. like example like DC Young FL kind of. When they say that, what does that mean? What kind of mean kind of what? That's. what women say when they comment under. your pictures. They be like, "Oh, kind. of." Like on Twitter, they're like, "Oh, Tony Marco is kind of Oh, that means.

like I see something." They talking. about looking like they saying like, "Oh, I see something." Oh, that mean you. getting fine. Yeah. But what do kind of like kind of like it. means like in the beginning you weren't. there at all. But it's like hear me out. But cuz I'm not going to lie to you. You. are kind. When I first met you it was like nah. But your hair your soul glowing your. skin doing my hair is flourishing. Looks.

very nice. You kind of Okay. So what can. God say that about girls? Yeah for sure. Anybody can be kind of. M. So right now. if a dude walked up to you and like yeah. you kind of I'm calling him a liar. I'm. there. I been been. So you dude is like. like yeah you kind of like but I want. your number. Will he still get the. number after calling you kind of? No cuz. that's not how you approach me. That's. not going to make Wow. So I just got. kind of all the [ __ ] up and then when. it's on we didn't kind of you are I see.

Yeah. It's like all right kind of like. kind of is like hashtag kind of on. Twitter. Let's make that a topic. It's. showing your growth though. Have you not. been like taking care of yourself? Yeah, but what about you? Do you feel like who. you like seven years ago? Exactly. I'm. not You got me there cuz seven years ago. it was like nah. Nah, bro. It wasn't. even kind of. It wasn't even kind of. So, you was getting turned down every. time. Oh, I don't get turned down cuz I. don't hit on people like that. I'm a. woman. You know what I'm saying? But I.

definitely was like, you know, people. wasn't seeing it for me. I was lost hope. but you know and you kind of well seven. years ago what was you me. oh I was mine. as [ __ ] period being seven years ago. seven years ago 7 years ago was 2018 oh. that was the beginning of poor minds. that was 2018 the documentation moment. did you feel like you had where you was. like I need like I'm I'm not that person. no more like when do you high school.

middle school when was you like over oh. Um, middle school. Middle school. Yeah. Mhm. I feel like I was fine in high. school. School. You know what it was? Well, you should be cuz you got like. energy where you can make But when I was. little, I was definitely punching [ __ ]. in their chest. No, it ain't about the. like like the energy. It's just like you. can make somebody feel comfortable. Like. Well, I was a I was a home girl, but I. liked I was outside riding.

four-wheelers. I used to I grew up in a. very small town like the suburban. Yeah. Hunting, fishing. You ain't from the. hood? No, not at all. Like nowhere near. Where you from? I'm hood adjacent. What does that mean? You know, like I. lived in the hood for a little bit, but. then not my whole life. So I feel like. But I still have family that lived. there. So I used to go there frequently. So you turn your back on them? No, I. would never turn my back on my people. Where you from? I'm from Remember Kansas. City.

No, you didn't tell me. Yeah, we are we. from a uh like where it's like ghettoy. and like just ghetto. Ghettoy. Yeah. But. what's the definition of ghetto? Would. y'all say like let's throw that in. there. Is it like how you treat yourself. or how it look their environment or. things that they do in there? What is. the ghetto? Like people use that word a. lot. Like you say, it's a mindset. Yeah. But what would you say that's ghetto? Well, to me it's the environment for. sure. It's certain things you going to. see in the hood that you just not going. to see in suburban areas. Like you not.

going to see a crackhead on the corner. in the suburbs. You might. Okay. They. just taking value. Okay. Hey, them. soccer moms be crapped out. They on PC. So you're wrong. Like I said, I think. it's a mindset because you can have. somebody who grew up in the suburbs but. they just ghetto. They act ghetto. They. be it's in their mo. So let's say this. Look, let's take like same Chris Brown. as he is right now. Let's put him in. McDonald's, right? And he's working at. McDonald's. Okay. Do y'all feel like he. would get the same treatment from a girl.

when he's trying to talk to even like. same appearance, tattoos, all that. And. Chris Brown is that? Yeah, he cute. But. what do you think? You know, that's cap. now. He going to pull something cuz. there's somebody for everybody. But he. would not get the attention that he does. if he's Chris Brown at McDonald's versus. Chris Brown the Superstar. Yeah, I think. different. Maybe not the same because. not as many people would know who he is. But I feel like he was still pulling. because he would still be Yeah, I know. We know like poor women, but I'm saying. do y'all feel like it was still cuz.

again he's Chris Brown. Like he ain't. changed. He ain't he got tattoos. I'll. give you an example. What the Chris. Brown on stage women like tattoos? Chris. Brown on stage dancing and performing. We like Yes, you're killing it. If Chris. Brown was dancing like that on the. corner, we going to be like, "Who is. this crackhead?" Mhm. Dancing like that. Yeah, calm down. That's what it's. giving. So, I'm saying the moves. You. say what? He got the moves. I mean, he. does, but if you saw somebody on the. side of the road dancing like Chris. Brown, I'd be like, you talented. Yeah.

I put some money in his head. But you. Exactly. Cuz who said he was homeless? Who said he needed your money? He could. have just been having his AirPods in. So, like being like who y'all and y'all. have like a following in the platform, is it hard to date? Do y'all feel like. men come after y'all just to be like put. y'all like like oh one like to claim. y'all like I [ __ ] with her. Do y'all. feel like that happens to women? Um I've. had it happen before but honestly I I. know this sounds so cliche like I work a. lot. Cliche mean like typical like.

typical is. so another big word. You didn't give us. a definition. You It is a typical is not. a big word. It's six letters. I couldn't. spell it. Okay. You You might want to cut that. I'm not I'm so busy. Like I'm really not. focused on dating right now. No. Oh god. I'm not I'm really not. I'm saying. though, but do y'all feel like Okay, so. it's some women that like on the come. up. They come out to people. Y'all don't. feel like just experience it. Y'all got.

friends that didn't like how do y'all. feel like women provide like stop that? How do you stop that from happening? How. do you peep a dude that's just trying to. talk to you because of what you got. going on? I feel like, you know, as a. woman, we have our things that, you. know, like we have our gut intuition. So, I feel like, you know, when a dude. is trying to talk to you and he has like. ill intent or he has ulterior motives. versus somebody who is really being. genuine and they're really interested in. you. I personally prefer to date. somebody who don't even know nothing. about me or what I do. I actually got.

somebody here that don't know nothing. about you. I think you're a date. Why. you always got somebody I can hear him? No. Huh? I can hear him. Yeah. Come on. over here, brother. Do I need to move? Yeah. No, you ain't got to move. I'mma. move. You got to All right. Here you go. Oh. Oh, hey. What's up? What's up? Hi. How are you? This is Pudgy and Pudgy is single and. Pudgy can let her know about you and.

like you know things that I like your. name. How did you get that name? Oh, you. know how I got that name? Well, I got it from my grandmother. Pudgy. I was a Pudgy baby. Okay. So, yeah, they call me Pudgy. She didn't. change either. Thank you. What's your. name? My name is Drea. Drea. She She off. limits. See this? Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Drea, what's up? What's up, boo? What's. up? How you? I'm good. Make you nervous,

but like Lucy, you I'm not nervous. I'm. not nervous. You seem like you a little. nervous. Not me. No. You trying to keep. it together. I am a little bit. A little. bit. How old are you now? Huh? How old. are you? I'm old enough. Boo. Oh. How. old are you? For real. I'm 28. Okay. You. a little young. It's okay. How old are. you? I'm 33. You act like you. You giggling and [ __ ] What's the uh. important things that you when it come. to dating? What do you want a woman to.

have? Um, well, with me, I'm going just. keep it 100. A female got to be uh. confident in herself. She has to work. out. Like I don't play that [ __ ] She. got to work out. Like that's one thing. She got to be fit and I don't have time. for a lazy woman. I don't have time for. a woman. Do you work out? You want some. water? Huh? Do you work out with her? When I get a chance to because I'm busy. doing stuff like a lot like I do a lot. of [ __ ] like so like with my business. and my music and my acting, my stand up.

It's so much that I have to take care. of. So when I do get time to go to the. gym, I stop by it. How often is stopping. by? Huh? How often do you stop? I stop. by the gym every day. Really? You just. But you just stop by and look in. No, it's right next to the Starbucks I go. to. Cool. So I stop by it. Like I go to. the Starbucks next day. You just walk. through there? Yeah, I walk past it. Okay, got So basically my female have to. be in shape because I feel like when it. comes to working out it's a mind thing.

and not let me ask you a question. Do. you feel like if you was out and you. seen them both out and you wanted to. talk to her, do she look like a friend. that will hate and clock? Yes. I'm a. hater. I didn't even hate her. Oh, you. know what? Most definitely. What do you. feel like she do? Like what do you feel. like she would just be like, "Come on, girl." She the one that's like, "Come. on, girl." Like basically, don't don't talk to him. Yeah, because. I'm I'm candy. So with me it's. different. Maybe not for every male, but. with me when it comes to two females is.

one always hating on the other. Whichever one I like, the other one. going to hate cuz it's me. They want big. push. Yeah. So what would you say if you. got questions for him? Not the little. What is the serious question? Like if. picking him for your friend, what would. be questions that you would ask him? Three top questions that that are. important or deal breaker. Okay. First. of all, do you have kids? No. No, man. I. don't have any kids as No. No. Know. about No, I don't have any kids out. here. Okay. When was your last serious. relationship?

Uh, probably two years ago. Two years. ago. Okay, that's not bad. Yeah. When. was the last time you ate an apple? The. last time I ate, when you say apple, like fruit, vegetables, green juice all. the time. I eat healthy. So, you're a. liar. The lie dete. There's fruit back there. Did you eat. something? Yes, I did. Pudgy. Okay. This. is why I'm I'm This is We're not.

starting this relationship, right? Cuz. you trying to holl at my friend. You. already called me a hater and now you're. lying to me. See what you doing? What? I. told you. What you doing? That's how. they get. What? What they doing? That's. how they get. What? She see that her. friend is feeling me now. She She's. pointing out negatives, telling me I. don't eat fruit. What the [ __ ] you think. I ate before the pizza got here? That was his snack. I need something to. hold me over. Okay. I said that was our. snack. Is that what I'm saying? I Okay, you're right. Let me not judge. And I. feel like I was judging you. So, I.

apologize. Why do you feel like it's. important for her to pick you? Cuz I. know like. I like me already. You feel what I'm. saying? Do I? I I know it's hard to. tell. You don't trust me cuz of how I. look. So, it's basically like I like. him, but it's so many women that like. him and he probably tell these words to. everybody and I don't. It was something. about you from when I first seen you. walk in here. I'm like, ain't that. stuff? Ain't this And then I just felt. instantly in love. You feel what I'm.

saying? Nothing against you. You okay? Oh, no. No. I ain't tripping. I'm kind. of You You sound like you full of game. That's why I don't trust you. Oh, no. Oh, you full of something. I like that. I'm full of joy. Yeah. Peace and. happiness. That's what I'm here. You. seem like you real full of joy. I'm here. to share my love with you. Okay. And. what's the ideal date? Oh, my ideal date for me, I don't really. got to do too much. As long as we. eating, we dating. I knew you was going.

to say that. I knew you was sure. I'm. not even going to sit here and laugh. I. like to eat. We believe you. Pud. What's. the most expensive thing that you spent. on a girl? The most expensive? What? Like on a gift? Like a trip? Oh. man, that's. tough. It's just so the most expensive. Mhm. That mean you didn't spend that much? No, I spent so much. I'm trying to think. like period. [ __ ] some cars, some.

Birkin bags. You okay? And it's okay to. call her on the phone and we can just. Huh? Can you call her on the phone right. now? I could, but we you never do that. in front of ladies and gonna call a ex. lady. That's just dist. Yeah, we don't. We don't at all. I would like to confirm. actually. We would like to hear what she. has to say. Okay, I guess. Let me scoot. over so you can get it. I What's her. name? You have yourself as your swing. table. Yes. That's self love.

It's a lot going on. What you mean? No, I do too. We have that in common. What's her. name? I had to make sure it didn't say. mom. What's her name? Her name is. beautiful. You're turning it down. I was trying to. turn it up. Uh I think she's at work if. she can't answer right now. But with. her, she'll probably say her. car. I bought her Rolls-Royce collad. And how much those go for? Uh the one. she was, it was like 450, but I knew.

somebody at Rolls-Royce, so I paid like. 400 flat. 400,000 for a Rolls-Royce. Mhm. And what you say you did for a. living? I'm an actor. What movie? What. movie you been in? I've been in the. Pudgy movies on Amazon Prime. For the. people out there, go to Amazon Prime and. look up the Pudgy Movies. One of the. best things that you're going to see. And I'm in so much of a film. I went. Blood on the Streets. Uh there's so many. films that I mean. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So, you have a promising acting career. Yes. Very promising. Oh, congratulations. How. about Yeah. I don't go on auditions.

They call me fori. Oh, you that good. Yeah. Do you mind like giving us a. monologue? Okay, let's do it. I like. that. I got you. Uh, she's at the store. and you know she having a rough day and. you at the store and you're having a. rough day and it's her son birthday. My. son, it's your son birthday. We playing. We playing. So, it's not allowed for snowfall. I don't. know that. Okay. I don't know.

I need to get a good look. Pull over. Pull over. Somebody say something or. you Okay. You want to talk to him? Am I. wrong? You lose every time you [ __ ] with that. [ __ ] and I'm the one to pay for it.

But in the com he thinking he don't want. this and [ __ ] cuz he is. Now you gonna. get off his corners. You gonna let his. peoples be? Or by all means you going to. have to find yourself a new plug. You. don't mean that [ __ ] The [ __ ] I don't. Hey. Okay. Can you do good? What about. Precious? Precious. Why? Why not? Or. there's no males in that film. There's not a male in Precious film. But. you know what? That's how we'll know if. you're really a good actor. That. precious is fat. No, I never say nothing.

about weight. What if they wanted you to. play a woman? Oh. Oh, that's against my. religion. I would never play a woman. I'm not a woman. I can't play a woman. They should go and get a woman to play a. woman. We don't play that. We from New. York. Okay. Yeah, I understand that. You. got a little aggressive little just like. to be known for the producers out there. and the directors out there. Marvin Har. Pudgy Plame is Marvin. Yeah. And then if. you can give them motivation, advice.

like the two women right here, what is. it that you can just, you know, stay. charismatic, always be. yourself, cuz little girls like y'all. don't be is don't is not able to get on. the stage that's elevated and perform in. front of anybody. Little girl, you know, for real. Who is No, I'm saying little black girls. that come from where y'all come from. Don't get I guess if you can compare it. to his weight. Yeah. You know what I'm. saying? Yeah, we stand on anything. that's elevated. You got to be.

delusional about what you do. Okay, that. was a bar. Yeah, I'm not bad at that, baby. You a little delusional yourself. You got to be that confident. I filthy. See, I'm about to get up out of here. Okay. All right. Let me just put your number up there. I'mma get your number. Oh, yeah. No, I got my phone, too. That's weird. Why is that weird?

I'mma call you. Okay, just call. Why you ain't let me call? Because I. said I'mma call you when I'm ready. Okay. Got to give it a little I got your. back. I'm going make sure cuz you're. actually a nice guy. You are. Very nice. If you had to rate me on a scale of 9. through 10, what would y'all pick? Nine. through 10. If those are my only. options,

nine. That's weird. This you go for the. lowest option. What about you? Uh 9 through 10. Nine through 10. Yeah. Uh I would I'm going to have to go with. like a a 9.1 because you're charismatic. Okay. Thank you. I'll take it. Yeah. Yeah. I'll take it. Yeah. A win is a. win. A win is a win. You seem like you. have a lot of black boy joy. Yes, a lot. Yes, I do. A lot of joy. You're full of. joy. Mhm. Full of joy. Okay.

Big fudge. You have the cutest little. ears. Why point that out? Oh, cuz they're I. was giving you a compliment. That's a. nice feature. Mhm. Thank you. You can. get it, Fudgy. Okay. Um, you got. I'm ass crack. All right. Oh my. goodness. Pudgy. Oh god.

Oh my god. That was a lot of crack, huh? That was a lot of crack. Yeah. I mean, so confident is everything, right? That's what is important. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That was I know this scene. hot. It's warm. I know that [ __ ] warm. [ __ ].

[Music]. [Laughter]. He's sitting there real cold. I'm sorry. He. like, "I'm sorry. I. cannot be tripping over here." No, it's. really It was a You know, so I made it. You look sitting a little lower. No, you. know it ain't low cuz he got a dent in. that [ __ ]. He's still watching. He's still He's.

still right there. Okay, buddy. Yeah, my. bad. You know, it's good. Do y'all feel. like therapy is important in a. relationship? Yes. And like have y'all. tried it or went through therapy? What. is like you learn? cuz that's something. I want to learn like about if I have. been to it and I just want to go to this. guy for like just trying something new. I've been in therapy for like 2 years. now. Yeah, I go to therapy all the time. I feel like it teaches me what my issues. are. It teaches me how to communicate. and now I can hold myself accountable.

cuz I feel like a lot of times, especially as a woman, we don't like to. say, you know what, I was wrong. Mhm. And I think a lot of times with men, y'all don't like to identify the issues. that y'all have, you know, y'all like to. bottle keep things in. So, y'all. definitely definitely need some. And. what's your advice when it comes I think. therapy is very important. I started. going to therapy after my dad passed. away. So, I've been going for like the. past four years and I feel like it's. helped me tremendously. Like, it helps. you heal from childhood trauma that you.

didn't realize that you had. It helps. you heal from previous relationships. that you were in and how it might affect. you in your new relationship. And I. think that she's right. Like I don't. know what it is, but a lot of black men. just don't want to go to therapy. It's. almost like y'all think that it's going. to make you. [Music]. Shout out to Kelly, y'all. She's here. You thick. You still. Hey, ladies. Hey, y'all. So cute. Thank.

you. So my thing is when in therapy, do y'all. feel like you only need it for a. relationship or you should go by. yourself? Like when it comes to it, I. think that you should go by yourself. first cuz you need to heal on your own. before you get in a relationship and try. to go to therapy with your partner. Mhm. And how long have you been single? Me? Mhm. Oh [ __ ] How long have you been. And then what about you? Probably about. like two months. Two months. Okay. So,

the fact that y'all both got broken up. with, okay, Kelly, lets me know that. therapy is not working. I know, girls. You girls are so beautiful, by the way. But you're trauma field. Oh, wow. Um, Pudgiey's crying, ladies. And that good. He need to burn some calories. I know he. need to burn some calories. But we were. sitting here looking. What makes you. angry? He got so angry as soon as he. walked in the room and you heard him. breathe. I know you said you were. dealing with anger. What What's going. on? What made you angry about that? You. know, it just took me by surprise. Okay.

I didn't know we were sending my girl on. a blind date. I got to know what's going. on. I got to protect her. I didn't know. you. This is my investment now. Yeah. But like she she's pretty strong. I. could tell that she work out. Arms fit. I do. I do. Yeah. So when you get angry, what usually happens cuz he was. breathing heavy. Do you guys practice. breathing exercises? Like you want to do. them like Can we do it together? Yeah. Let's do and breathe like this. You going to spit? No. No. No. That's. like shooting all the anger out. Okay. like a chopper.

y'all. And how long have you been doing. therapy lessons? I've been doing this. about 4 and a half weeks. Oh, four and a. half, but I've been a good friend, you. know, a friend of a friend. Yeah. So, this is you guys are my first. So, Kelly, so I'm crying. What? So, Kelly, so when it comes to relationship, do you. feel like and we just asking you, do you. feel like uh who bring in more problems? Usually, men or women? These women are. just all all women. Well, us don't look.

like that. I've been married for a long. time. Bring it in. I mean, so like So, what do you feel like that? Why do you. feel like that? Oh, well, a lot of times. we're not willing to compromise or just. see the glass as being half full or. skinny or, you know, things like that. Maybe he was just happy. That was a. happy And that probably is your husband. and you you passed him up. I know. She. likes people who snore when they're. awake. No, no, no. He wasn't snoring. was actually inspiring like like no I. can do anything I want to do. Oh.

breathing I feel like my husband is out. there. I'm not sure that Fudgy was my. husband. Okay. So is that a judgmental. thing? Like uh do you feel like you pick. your husband or do your husband pick. you? Um I feel like it's orchestrated by. God already. What's that word mean? Praise. Orchestrated. What's the feeling in your body when you. see a man that may be the one? What what. do you feel in your body? I need to. know. How does your body feel? I feel. like you just have that initial.

chemistry, that initial reaction. Y'all, how does it look? It's a lot. You just. like you slant. You You be your. shoulders up or back, but you got to. keep it together. So, you can't give. them too much like you really be feeling. oo inside. So, you the one that's. married. Why don't you help us out? Please. You tell us. I've been married. so long. I don't know do much. I just I. just wear a big t-shirt and come on in. and say you know you know what you want. You know what you want and you know. what's under this t-shirt. So is it hard. like in like marriage? Have you ever. wanted to give up? Oh yeah. I gave up.

yesterday. That's why I'm here today. Oh. yeah. Gave up yesterday. Here today. trying to work on them to work on me. You know look at you. I see myself. If. my eyes unable to see you as my sisters. cuz my own vision is blurred. These. glasses ain't really mine. These. readers. That's great advice though. That is some good advice. Sometimes you. want to give up but you got to keep. going. You got to keep going. Yeah. So, but I've been so faithful to the. process. Okay. And you girls too, you. you'll make it. Um, supervised. experience is what you need. I just. Yeah, that was my last paper. Break that.

down. Supervised experience. What is. that? It's when um somebody who love you. experience it and supervise you as you. experience it. I'm willing to do that. I. know y'all already have current um. counselors, but the what I'm going to. give you. Okay. How much do you charge? Oh no, babe. We got to talk about that. other people watching. What I'm going to. charge you all four minds can handle it. Now we can pay the. all right now. All right. Breathe again. Oh, it's getting the anger.

She's a tutor. I like her and a booter. You kick. about So in the relationship, did it. just like y both decided we not going to. work out? asking too many questions. What make you think we got done? No, I. just say I said did y'all decide that. y'all both said y'all not going to like. it was a mutual agreement. Oh, yeah. It. was mutual. Okay. All right. For you, what were you? I mean, yes. It's I don't. I'm not going to lie to you. I still be.

talking to him. I don't know what the. hell going on. Good for you. You know. what I'm saying? I don't know what's. going on. Use them. I don't know. Use it. until it get, you know, till it roll. over. We going to see. So, it's it's. still it's still open. It's open. Yeah, it's the open ticket. All right. All right, Kelly, if you can tell them. your program and where to find you at. and how much. You can find me on Cash. App. And what is that? Huh? What is it? If you can let them know. Just Cash App. Um, all things Kelly Kel's 22. Period.

Yeah, Cash App. Just the dollar sign. first. Just so the money can go in my. account. K E L L Y. K E L E Z 222. That's four twos. So, I like to have. numbers being deposited in four. So, like one 0 0 I like that. Okay, that's. more All right. Well, thank you, Kelly, for coming in here. Yeah. Okay. Well, you know, we're fine with I know that's. right. Cash up. Thank you. You need. these to sit, you know. I think I'm. good. She good. She good. Excuse me. I. can hear everybody coming in this.

[ __ ] God damn type [ __ ] Mhm. So, uh uh right now, do y'all feel like. cheating is at all time, huh? In uh or. do y'all feel like just not people not. getting in relationships all time? Um, cheating been at an all-time high, but I. definitely think it has been a rise in. people not getting in relationships. I. feel like these days our generation, everybody thinks that they just have so. many options, so people prefer to stay. single so that they can explore their. options. Mhm. And what you think? No, I.

uh 100% agree. I don't feel like. cheating has gone up. I feel like people. are finding out more through social. media. Like people used to cheat all the. time, but you couldn't just log on to. your phone and see and look at. somebody's story and see like you had to. go to a pay phone and call the club and. see if this car got swiped at the club. You know what I'm saying? You had to go. through a lot of things. But now it's. just easy. So I just feel like like Dre. said, people just feel like they have. more options cuz now men and women, you.

can talk to a [ __ ] in Maine. You ain't. even left Texas. What you talking to a. [ __ ] in Maine for? Back in the 70s, you. didn't even know [ __ ] existed in. Maine. Yeah. You know. Okay. That's. good. That's really good. Yeah. Okay. I. know. Okay. We be on to something when. we be on. So, is it hard to date y'all. cuz y'all so advanced? Yeah. Yeah. That's probably why we single again back. on the Yeah. So, like advance hurt y'all. and help y'all. Yeah. Yeah. I'll be up.

on gang. You think we advance? I mean, yeah. what? Yeah. So, what about going. through phones? How y'all go through. phones or what? If it's a opportunity. and it is in your face, let's say he. left it open. It's sitting there. It's. right in your face and he go to the. bathroom and it's open. Absolutely. No, I went through a phone one time and I. got as skinny as you. All right. Yep. I'm in there. I'll be in. the gym. Yeah, I know. You look good. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. You were.

lying. All right. All right. Okay. Okay. All right. So, what what you what you. what happened to you? Same. I was. probably like 21 the last time I went. through a phone and I was What's the. good and bad going through phone? What. do y'all like for the women out there or. men that's listening? What is the good. and bad about? You find out the truth, but I'm also a person kind of like. ignorance is bliss. I don't need to know. everything. And I feel like if I at the. point to where I feel like I need to go. through your phone, I need to leave. anyway. So, if I if I don't trust you. that much, I shouldn't be there. You.

cannot have a relationship without. trust. And that's with a friendship, family members, anybody. I don't want. anybody around me that I can't trust. I agree. I agree with everything. So, what about uh okay, you dating somebody. and they are following multiple women on. Instagram. Is that like a red flag or. you know it depends cuz are you. following those big booty [ __ ] pages. like you know where all they doing is. posting ass twerking. I have a problem. with that because why is that all you.

follow? Why is that all you follow? I've. been there. If you follow like one or. two, that's fine. I'm going let you do. you. There's nothing wrong with liking a. little picture here and there. But if. that's all you follow, and then if they. don't follow you back, like, yeah, you doing a lot. Mhm. Cuz. you following 2,000 big booty pages and. none of them follow you back is insane. So what is worse? Like a man begging to. see like y'all in a relationship, right? Let's just say worse. I want y'all to. say the worst. I want y'all to list it.

What is worse? Y'all dude begging to see. a girl like why you cheat like damn you. was begging or a girl begging to see him. again like oh my god I need to see you. like get rid of her. Which one would be. worse to see? Your man him begging her. cuz you know how if you my man, why you. begging anybody? And then imagine if the. girl respond back, "Ew." Mhm. No, that. they talking like. if your man is begging to somebody DM. but she's like No, I'm saying. like I'm saying no. No, I'm saying they. was already talking. He just want to see. her again. Like this is already through.

the phone conversation. Like that's. worse. Yeah. He already talking to her. while he dated me. Yeah. Oh, his ass is. grass. Yeah, he's blocked cuz why are. you trying to talk to somebody while you. dating? Do the past matter when it come. to dudes? Like when it comes to that. like your past like moving forward like. if girls are coming out like we used to. talk we used to talk. Yeah. That. matters. Yeah. Because certain girls. it's like if I know you was associated. with her I don't even want to date you. cuz why are we dating the same type of. men? What if he's changing?

I mean he probably trying to but he not. going to change with me. Oh. Mhm. He can. go change. Um, I think it depends on the. time frame though cuz if it's like. somebody when he in his early 20s and. he's like in his early 40s now, like. that wouldn't matter to me. But if it's. somebody that's like poo cheese and you. dated her like a year ago, yeah, that's. like a So, do that comes like if y'all. look at the past that they dating, is. that insecure with y'all? Like, oh, y'all looking at women? What do you call. that? Like, no, it's not insecure. because let me tell you how people work.

and this is not gender specific. A lot. of. times men and women will just want to. date a certain person because of who. their ex is or or things like that. So. things can get really weird or like you. know have you ever had a girl where. y'all aren't friends but y'all aren't. enemies but y'all just tend to always be. dating the same guy like it's happened. two or three times. That's happened to. me before. So yeah, it just be like So. what do you feel about that? Why do you. feel like that happened? like um.

personally the people that I have dated. and we've always kind of dated similar. people I think we have a similar. aesthetic like we look similar so that's. why so do you feel like dude so again if. it's like if it's just off looks that. mean he's going to keep going for that. he's never going to be satisfied right. absolutely if you're only dating because. of looks you're never going to be. satisfied so many other things that are. more important than the way personally. so is Pudgy going to get a chance um no. because Pudgy is also a liar oh he sat. on his couch and he lied I mean That's.

why that's why you only know a lie like. once you like physically know somebody, right? No, I know you lying when you sit. there and you lying. I can tell he was. lying. Mhm. I was looking him in his. eyes. I feel like you would look people. in their eyes and tell when they're. lying. Yeah, I agree with that. I can. see it. Yeah. So y'all feel like lying. is at a alltime high. Yeah. What about. people being so true? All right. So. listen, can I paint this scenario like. you me to do, right? I get your number. and you interested in me and we talking. and you say, "Hey, what you just got. through doing?" I say I just got through. like you know [ __ ] with this one girl.

took on a date and we you know what I'm. saying like being that do you text back. after that like I just think okay how. long have me and you been we just met. and you like what you doing next day and. it's the morning I think that some. things you don't have to tell me like if. we just No but that's not lying if we. just met we don't know where things are. going obviously your options are so what. if it end up leading back to the girl. that he was talking about was somebody. that you know and then it's just like oh. damn like he told me about you. Like you. know what I'm saying? But then again,

what if he say nothing and she said, "Girl, I was just with him." You're. going to say he's a liar. No, I'm not. You know, I Let me tell you why though. Cuz I had a situation with um the last. guy I dated. Like we had went out on a. few dates and then I was like, I don't. know if I want to talk to you anymore. And I stopped talking to him. And then I. ended up like calling him a week later. Mhm. And months I And then we ended up. getting in a relationship. And like. months later, he told me, you know, that. night you called me, I wasn't going to. answer because I was on a date with. somebody. That don't make me mad. He. didn't lie. No, that makes sense. So,

what about you? So, somebody get your. number and you interested in them. And. then you say, "What you doing? How was. your night?" He was like, "Oh, I was out. with this chick. Like, it was a cool. night. She was cool, but I want to get. to know you." What is your response to. that? Oh, I'm cool with that because I. feel like if we just met and you're. interested in me, you can date other. people. Like, that's what you're. supposed to do. That's what dating is. You're exploring your options. You. trying to see which person you like the. most. Now, if we decide we're going to. be exclusive, but how many options do. you have as a man when you meet. somebody? Cuz like you, if you're a.

case, you got to focus on you and get to. know you. How many more options do you. give a dude? Like, how many more options. can he have? If you're the important. piece, if you trying to get to know me, it's like watching two TV shows at one. You going to miss something. So, how. many options can a dude have when he get. your number? I feel like he can have. multiple options cuz I'm not worried. about that cuz like once I step into the. picture and we get to know each other, if you like me, the other the other. people going to be eliminated anyways. But again, it's like it's it slows the. progress down of getting to know you. Does he? But that's on him though. If he. likes me enough, he's going to stop.

talking to all of those women. But. again, you said enough. Sometimes why. don't people come in and have their. standards like if we going to talk and I. find you interest like let's see what it. can be. That don't mean we go together. But I feel like you can't set that. standard when you first meet somebody. because you don't know how much y'all. are gonna like each other. Like I'm not. gonna tell you to cut off somebody that. you probably cut off. But I'm just. saying it's standards about you though. When do you not play about yourself? Like once we figure out that we like. each other. But then by that time you. like me and I've been doing this so long. it's hard for me to cut them off. Well.

then I'mma cut you off because you when. we get to a certain point oh you only. going to talk to me or you not going to. talk to me at all as time goes on. If. I'm liking you and you're liking me, like she said, everybody else is just. gonna fade away. It just happens. That's. how it's gonna happen. Then we're gonna. have a conversation. Hey, are we. exclusive? Are we still dating other. people? Like, what are we doing? So, you. really get down to the nitty-gritty. You. ask questions like that. Hell yeah. Okay. Got to get to the nitty-gritty. So, like how men spend money like on.

itself. Do y'all pay attention to that? How he spend money on himself? Yeah. Like when y'all dating somebody, do. y'all is that a thing to focus on? Yeah, I I think I'm more so focused on. like not how much he spends, but does he. take care of himself? Like I like men. who go get facials, go get their nails. done, go get their toes done, like take. care of themselves. So I pay attention. So dude shopping, he's just like, "Okay, I'mma go to like Yeah, I say let's go to. Target and say, "Oh, they got that at. Dollar General." Like,

um, I ain't mad at him wanting to save a. little coin. They be having some of the. same stuff at Target and Dollar General. Why wouldn't he save a few dollars? If. you can put it together. Yeah. Cuz if. you But I'm saying keep doing that. though. I'm just saying now we at. Walmart. No, I'm saying in general like. items like Yeah. Like anything that's. like, "Hey, that's there." Like. shopping. Let's say you want to go get. towels for the house. Okay. He's like, "Oh, we can get that at Dollar General.". Like, "Oh, grocery stores, we can go to. Dollar." Like a man that just spend. money differently. Do y'all judge him. off that? I think it depends on what it. is. Like we can't grocery shop at Dollar.

General because that's not stuff that I. necessarily want to put in my body. We. can't get fruits and vegetables from. Dollar General. You know what I'm. saying? So, there's certain things like. if you want to go get a pack of white. teas from Dollar General, I'm not going. to be like, "Oh my god." You know? So, like shopping. Y'all say, "Oh, let's go. to Fifth." And then he say, "Let's go to. Febber 21.". I don't care. I mean, if he can put it. together, my thing is somebody that's. always downgrading something. If y'all. see that in the dude like I can find. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. This is. from But that's from who? But Huh. This.

is Gucci. But I didn't know that. You. said it was Zara. See, you be lying, too. No. Yeah. I wear like it's Gucci. Yeah. Then what it said lit Zara. Okay. Zella. I love it. But it looks nice. Look. No. But question. I really want to. So a. dude that's always downgrading something. like all the time. Do would that be. annoying? Like Yeah. Always. Cuz why you. always got to find an alternative? Like. sometimes let's just go to Target. Yeah. Sometimes let's just go to Phil. Let's.

not go to Feb 21. But sometimes that's. okay, right? You can buy a little one. I'm never mad at somebody that wants to. save money. It ain't about saving. If. it's just somebody that's just always. trying to find a different outlook to. everything like and he got money like he. not just like he don't call himself. cheap. He just always trying to find. another way and be like, "Yeah, I feel. like this is right. This is right type. of nigga." You got to be open-minded, you know? Do y'all date outside your. race? I never have. Well, I tried to one. time and it was terrible decision. Zero.

out of 10. Do not recommend. Why? He. smoked cigarettes. He smoked cigarettes. and then he left me stranded. Well, I. wasn't stranded cuz I had money to get. home, but he left me. This is Batman. Cuz he was mad I wouldn't give him. nothing. Batman talking about stranded. I wasn't Batman. Who was it? What kind. of like race? White. He was Caucasian. And what about you? You know, I haven't. dated a white man in a long time. I went. to all white school. So, how did you say. that? A white. Okay. Man. Okay. you.

know, um, uh, my first boyfriend like in. high school, my high school sweetheart. was white, but this is a colored only. So, all right, this all right, before we. go, I want to get your topic on this. So, this is a thing. This is a thing. like on Twitter, they say like when our. race like date outside the race and they. date a white man, women always praise. them. But when uh, black men date a. white woman, they be like, "Oh my god.". They be like, "Men be like, why they. don't get the same treatment when they. step outside their race? What should I. be?" First of all, they do cuz they ate.

Serena Williams up. They still mess with. her about her white husband. But I just. think it doesn't matter. Mhm. Who cares? Like, let people do what they want. It. has nothing to do with me. So, I don't. get into that whole I think it's silly. Yeah. I try not to get into it either. And I think black women definitely get. backlash as well when they step outside. of their race and they try to date. people of other races because they have. this joke where they be saying, you. know, you always know when a black woman. date white men because you can tell by. her wig. and go look at my old weeds.

You'll see. Oh, it's proof. I heard it. was a dude was like, a black dude said. he was like, "I don't get mad." I said, "Don't get your credit right, honey.". So, get your credit right. But I'm very. Dr. Umar, though. Yeah. Black queens. forever. Snow bunnies never. And I don't. know if I believe you can be pro black. and be with somebody that's not black. Yeah. Uh-oh. Yeah. Oh, we felt that. Yeah. I don't know if I believe that. But you know, people who date the. others, they try to promote that. I. don't believe it though. So love I feel.

like love don't have a color to it. though, you know. Oh, no, it don't have. a color. That's No, I'm just saying you. can love anybody that you want. That's. how I feel. You have a. girlfriend, I guess. Okay. What race is. your last How many baby mas you got? I. got three. Stop. Damn. No, that's not. all black. I got one that's white and. black, Mexican, and black. Okay. So you. like to spread your love. I know that. right. Them seeds is outside. Okay. Okay. I'm not mad at that. So, but it's. not, you know what I'm saying? It ain't.

Are you Are you going to have more kids? I'm I'm adopt I'm adopt. Okay. Okay. I. want to adopt I want to adopt like. different races. I'm adopted. Why aren't. you with any of your baby mamas? Oh, that's a good question. Uh y'all, thank. y'all for tuning in to the episode. Man, this is one and only. And to let them. know where y they can find y'all, you. know, podcast at. Okay. So you can find. our podcast, Poor Mind, on all streaming. platforms. It's P O U R M I N DS. And. you can follow us on Instagram, Twitter,

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cosmetic line, Muse Beauty Collection, and we going to put it all in the uh. description, too. Yes. Get your lip. glosses, lip liners, matte liquid. Are. we going to take a shot? Oh, we. definitely can. Oh, you stopped. drinking. I didn't stop, but I'm doing. 75 hard. What's that? Jail? No. Well, how could I be here if I was in. jail? No, I'm saying I don't know what's. going like if it's about to start. tomorrow. No, 75 hearts sound crazy. Hard. Yeah, it does. It does. Oh, yeah. Oh, you and. Pudgy should do it together next time.

Okay, maybe. We'll see. Yeah, Pudgy. Pudgy. Pudgy could do. I think he could. use 75 hard. That would do him very. hard. What's hard though? You have to. work out twice a day or one hour and 30. minute workout. You have to eat clean. you can't drink alcohol. So, I think it. will be beneficial for uh Can we give um. if y'all both can give a motivation. speaks out to the world? Uh starting off. with you. This is for Pudgy. Uh no, just. just people that's watching. Oh, okay.

For everybody that's. watching, don't be afraid to chase your. dreams. I think a lot of people look at. us like No, I was just saying chase your. dream like No, I was saying a lot of. people look at us and I looked over when. I said look at us. But you supposed to. be looking at the people. Be quiet now. I'll shut the [ __ ] up. Oh, okay. This. your camera right here. Oh, before I was. rudely. interrupted. Um, everybody likes to look. at everyone on this couch like we don't.

work hard. But let me tell you, the key. is consistency. Go look at Funny Marco. page. He upload every day. It's. something that he got on his page. All. you got to do is be consistent. You can. be right where Funny Marco at. Ain't that right? Thank you. I know that. right. What you got for you? Oh, I would. just say be yourself. Like be who you. are. I think these days so many people. look at people that are successful like. us and then they try to emulate what.

other people are doing instead of just. being, you know, a authentic version of. you putting out authentic content. So. whatever it is that you want to do, I. would just say stay true to yourself. Mhm. Oh, that's good. Yeah. Uh, my. motivation. Okay, I wasn't ready for. this one. Um, all right. We going to. look at the camera like I'm y'all. looking at me. You got to look at the. camera. Like y'all look at your cameras. Okay. All right. All right, guys. As you. can see, it came a long way from, you. know, uh, she used to weigh a lot and.

she changed. She look at the camera. She. changed and okay, we know. But she. changed and she worked hard on and she. actually physically got what she wanted. It wasn't about how much you weigh. again. It's just about starting to. understand what you want for yourself. And what you want for yourself is very. important. And that's it. Whatever you. want for yourself, you put in, you going. to get the results. As you can see, and. like I said, results are key. And nobody. can tell you your results but you. And.

as you can see right here, she get. broken up with. She's not in a. relationship. And just because somebody. break up with you, do not mean that you. do not have to sit and pout and do 75. hard or anything. And once you get. broken up, women tend to like lock in. I'm going to do better now. No. Always. do better in a relationship. Even when. somebody leaves you in the dirt, it. doesn't matter. You know, love yourself. And no matter what, I'm sitting next to. two beautiful women that everybody would. love to sit next sit next to. Uh yeah, a.

little nervous. But at the end of the. day, loving yourself is very very. important. Weight is important if you. want it to be important. Getting dump. important is very important. And me, you. know, I just just on cruise control, you. know. Shout out to Kelly Kels. She need. help, you know. As you can see, some. people come in and pretend. Pudgie's. perfect. I feel like nothing was wrong. with them. [Music].

And make sure you follow the beautiful. ladies cuz they very important. They got. a lot of motion. And also they've been. friends for how long? 10 years. That's a. long time. So hold on to people that you. love. It's very important that you can. work. They're pulling this together. And. don't let nobody tear you down. You hear. that? Cuz it's very important because. that's what they try to do. So if you. build something, don't let nobody knock. it down cuz they've been working hard. and they work work all the time and they. got different personalities. So, never. let the real put y'all in competition. because that's what they'll try to do.

So, um, how long have you known your. most recent? Okay. Hey, you know, I was just asking. Oh, you talking about me? Yeah, your. most recent. Oh, yeah. Um, I mean, I'm trying to. [Music].