Lala Anthony Shows Marco How to Get Women in the Club | Open Thoughts S2 Premiere

So, let me ask you a question. >> We go on a date. >> and you I drop you off and you walk into. your house, right? I should always make. sure you get in the house, right? >> Absolutely. >> I should come in, too, right? >> Because listen, this is a proven fact. >> What? >> No. >> serial killer will ever kill you on the. porch. >> They'll kill you in the house. >> Exactly. Why can't I come in? >> Wait. [Music].

Did I say something? >> Yeah, I was about to. >> What are you waiting for? >> I might do it right now. >> Okay. I like. >> Do you slay? Have you slayed before? >> Yes. >> Oh. Uh, open thoughts with Lala and. Marco. >> Can you do one of my camera now? Yep. But it's it's like camera A take one. >> All right. And then this is camera A. >> That might be camera B.

>> Camera B take one. >> Take one. >> Open thoughts. >> But don't don't do it on your face. >> Don't do it on your face. >> Your face was like right there. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> And then you do the middle one. That camera's so far away. >> Camera three. >> Camera three. [Music]. >> Oh, brother. Huh? Why' you throw it like. that? >> I just put it down. Hard day. >> Why? What's with you today? >> I'm feeling great. How you feeling?

>> You are? >> Yeah. >> Okay. That's. >> Hello, bro. >> That's not the end. >> We here with Lala and we met How long. was that when we met it like 3 years. ago? >> Was it that long ago? Yeah, maybe. >> It's been a long time. >> Mhm. It's been a long time. >> And you was excited to meet me. >> I'm still excited to be around you. >> Yeah. >> Are you happy? Yeah, I'm happy that I. get to sit down and talk to you again. >> Why did you bring me back again? >> I was showing you the jacket. You like. it? >> I do like it. You wore a tuxedo for me,

Marco. >> Yeah. And then you wore a jersey. >> You didn't tell me to get dressed. >> I just thought you knew what time it. was. >> It's actually a suit. Um, >> let me see that. >> It's called rich man suits. Rich man. looks. >> What? Is it a little tight? >> No, I'm just asking. It was. >> What do you mean? Do it look tight? No, but it looked like he was having a hard. time taking it off. >> Cuz it's real cloth. >> All right, let me let me see. >> What do you mean? >> Why are you taking it off? >> Oh, cuz I just player [ __ ].

>> What? To beat it beat without. >> Just take your jacket off. >> Can I see it? >> Yeah. >> Wow. >> And I also got um Oh, yeah. Cologne that. you told me to. Where's it at? >> This is called Rich Men Looks. >> Yeah. And then you told me to get. >> You got it. You still have it? Let me. see. Let me see. >> Hold on. Give me let That's too much. >> No, it ain't, >> Marco. That's too much. That's what I. Stop. That's too much. Give me That's. too much. This is strong stuff. You don't want to. be that person. You know those guys that. come up to girls and they just No, this.

is good. And they just overdo it with. the cologne. You don't want to be that. person. >> I think you should put your jacket back. on. >> No, it's good. >> Stop. >> No, you got to really. >> It's too much. >> So, it'll turn you off. >> Yes. When guys put on too much cologne, that's. >> that's a real life thing. >> Yes. >> Oh, I thought that was. >> That's not necessarily a turnoff, but. it's kind of like, "All right, chill. You don't need all that.". >> All right. >> Why? What are you doing now? >> [ __ ] I You ain't You got a jersey on. I'm not about to wear this [ __ ].

>> You about to take your shirt off? >> I just had to just breathe. Show my diamonds a little bit. >> Let me see. >> They. >> That's new. >> Yeah. >> When I first met you, you didn't have. that type of stuff. >> Yeah, I know. >> You was wearing clothes with the tags on. them. >> Yep. [ __ ] bosed up now. >> You have. I'm proud of you. >> I'm doing good things. I did a lot of. investments. >> You are? >> Yep. >> Like. >> went to the strip club. >> That's not an investment. >> Well, they love me in there. >> I'm sure they do. And that's great. >> So, it's just like you invest in love.

>> I love that you support. You should. >> Mhm. >> Everybody's out here trying to make a. living. >> Yeah. And Oh, yeah. Let's look at that. camera real quick. Just stare at it for. a little bit. Oh, can you take your. glasses off? >> Which camera? >> Just that one right there. >> This one? Yeah. Just do like a sexy. pose. >> Yeah. >> Is that good? >> Yeah. Just look good and just pose. Just switch it up a little bit. >> Like what? >> Just do just different stuff. >> What camera though? >> I mean. >> Oh, I was on the wrong one.

>> Yeah. Just look and just do like a look. like smile. Okay. And then do like a look like if. you seen like somebody sexy in the. store, you won't get the attention. Hey. >> Okay. What's going on? >> Nothing. What you doing in here? >> We doing this again? >> Oh, >> we doing this again. >> Hello, world. As I'm sitting here talking to LA, you. probably wondering if we got a real.

relationship. And I'm trying to wonder the same thing. I don't know if she flirt with me or. not. Then I look and I'm like, uh, probably not. She probably don't like. me. But just keep watching and you let. me know if she, you know, [ __ ] with. me. Trying to see if she'll take me. through there. Comment below. I'm. reading your comments. >> Oh, I seen on on the costume. It was. good. You was teaching me how to act. >> How to date. >> Yeah. How to Oh, how to act. You're. right. I both.

>> How to act and how to date. >> So, do you feel like you can be a good. acting coach? >> I think I know what works. >> Mhm. >> Can you act? Um, >> you're moving fast. You don't want me to. put you to the test. Okay. >> No, we definitely can. I was watching. Flavor of Love and I seen you in reunion. that. >> because you long ago that was. >> you've been in so many projects. >> Why were you watching Flavor Love? >> Was it New York Love or Flavor Love? Or. was it which one? Flavor Love? >> It was Flavor Love. >> Yeah. >> Wait, Flavor Love and I Love New York.

>> And I was watching You Got Served. You. was in that? >> Yes, I was. >> That's some good movies. >> That was some good movies. And is this. dope that you still irrelevant and you. >> irrelevant? >> Yeah. >> Relevant. >> That's the same thing, right? >> No, it's not. >> No, it's not. >> I said relevant. >> No, you said irrelevant. >> I said mean that you're still going. >> No, that means you're still relevant, >> right? So, what did I say? >> I relevant means nobody cares. >> Oh, sound like the same. >> No, it's not. It's.

>> tongue twister. >> No, it doesn't. >> No, but you're still going. And was you. in Soul Plane too? >> Yes. >> Them are like that's good. You know how. many people that's not like still around. >> from then? >> Yes. >> That's just probably cuz I started. >> even bigger like than B2K and even when. you was in a movie, you know, and Flavor. Plate. >> That's amazing. >> Is pretty good. I just saw him do the. Chris Brown challenge and it was fire. >> Do you know how to do that? >> Do you know how to do it? Do you know. how to dance? >> No, I don't really dance. >> So, what happens when you go to a club.

or something? Uh, go to a club, get like. eight shots. >> So, what if you were at a club with a. girl and you looking at me like, "Don't. do this.". >> No, I'm ready. >> And she's sitting down. >> and you want her to get up to dance with. you. What would you do? >> I'm the girl. >> Good morning, America, or good night, whatever you doing. I don't like eating. in the morning. I don't know why it's. been many years I haven't eat in the. morning, but I want to give you a secret. that helps me in the morning. And we got. Hero. The thing about Hero, it has many.

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drink. Okay, we'll just do acting. >> Yeah. You want to drink a shot? >> No, I want you to act this out. I want. to see how you would do this. Sierra. came on here and gave you dating tips. and how So use them. All right. I'm the. girl. I'm at the I'm at sitting down. >> and you want me to get up to dance with. you? All right. Thank you. So, I'm just. having fun with my friends. >> Uh, you got Don't y'all have like a um. music or song that we can use like the. one of those sounds?

>> I'm scared. >> No, we got to play like a little music. >> No, you're fine. It's on. Right. >> Connecting to next iPhone. >> Okay. Come on. >> I need to like do everything. >> We going to have music. A bottle of. liquor or something? >> You got to really do this thing all the. way through. [Music]. Hold on. >> What? >> This ain't going to get copyrighted, is. it? That was the one you got.

>> That's because Jesus. >> the Algra didn't. >> Let me see. Hold on. Let. >> That's too much. >> No, it ain't, >> Marco. That's too much. That's what I. Stop. >> It's like covered up right now. >> It's okay. So, I'm at the club, >> right? >> I'm having a drink,

>> right? And I want to get your attention. It's really loud. Okay. So, first off, I'mma start off with. >> No, don't tell me what you're going to. do. Just do it. >> All right. So, how you doing? No, you. didn't even approach me yet. I'm just. sitting here. I'm talking to beautiful. woman. I'm talking to Hey, >> ladies, ladies, ladies. You especially. you. You looking good today. >> Thank you. >> That's really good. It's really loud in. here. Uh, what brings you into the club. today? >> Just partying.

>> Oh, you're partying. Look like you. sitting down. Why you not dancing? >> But all that ass. >> That's not what you would say. >> I wouldn't say that. I mean, I probably. in the club I say. >> first of all, you wouldn't even know I'm. sitting down. No, you can see it. >> Marco, >> no. You spreading. >> Marco. Marco. >> What? >> That's not what you would say to. somebody. >> But does that make you happy? Like to. know that you think sitting down? >> No, that's not the right approach. Come. through softer,

not so direct. >> Okay. >> Okay. >> All right. How you doing? >> Hey, how are you? >> Matter of fact, I'mma have a waiter. bring us some flyers. Uh, can y'all get. the waiter? >> Flyers? >> Yeah, flyer. The waiter to bring us some. flyers. Flowers about what? >> Oh, your assistant, Black, if she can. bring us some flowers. I'mma bring you. some flowers. >> Flowers or flowers? >> Flowers. >> Flowers? >> Yeah. >> You have flowers? >> Yeah. >> But remember, the objective of the scene. >> Mhm. >> is to get me to. >> We're in it. Okay. How you doing? Look. at my Yep. Here we go. How you doing?

>> Hey, how are you? >> Hey, we bring So, I'm bringing you this. in the club. Yep. Here the flyers. >> Uh, hear me say I give them to her. >> Okay. Thank you. >> Thank you. so much. >> That's really nice of you. >> Yep. So, >> what is. You wouldn't give me this in a club. >> They'd be selling them in the club. So, we acting like, you know, when they had. it like. >> Thank you. That's. >> nice wings like hot wings and stuff. That's for me. >> That's This is That's really nice of. you. >> Yeah. So, yeah. You're looking good in. here. And you know, I'm in here with my.

boys and if it's a lot of beautiful. women in here, I came up to you and if. you ain't [ __ ] with me, I'm going to. [ __ ] with them. So, I really just want. you to really choose me cuz you're the. first one I came after. >> I don't know if that works. >> It is. I'm being real. >> Is that what you would say to somebody? >> I'm letting you know I came to you. first. >> So, what I'm supposed to just be like, >> I mean, the thing is being a comedian, they laugh. So, they Oh my god. They. think everything's a game, but I be dead.

ass. So, >> Oh, so you could get away with more. >> Yeah. Yeah. So, like you like, oh my. god, you so crazy. >> Oh my god, you're so crazy. >> Yeah. Oh my god, you're. >> like, "Yeah, I am crazy. >> You're scaring me.". >> All right, I need to tone it down. Turn. it down. >> We're laughing. This is. >> I'm learning a lot from Kevin Gates. >> What does that mean? >> I mean, that's where how he act like. Kevin Gates. I'm learning. >> What is his. >> He got a book. >> What is his approach? >> Oneonone. He's just saying be direct. Let them know that there's many more. options out there. >> That's not That's doesn't make a woman.

feel good. >> It don't. >> No. You don't want to feel like, >> "Oh, I'm coming to you, but I got all. these options." What's what's already. known doesn't have to be spoken. >> All right, let me get the flyers back. Thank you. >> Okay. >> I don't know. Honestly, I never talked. to a girl in the club. >> So, you can't get me out of my chair to. dance. Basically, we did all of this. just for you to say, "You be in a club. and see a girl you like, and you can't. get her out the chair to dance?". >> I never got a girl number in a club.

before. Like, in a in a club club. I. haven't ever ever in life. >> So, what do you do? >> No, I'm just saying I just try to get. find their Instagram. >> and then DM them. >> Yeah. And be like, I saw you at the. club. >> But it's kind of like for me it would be. lame if you saw me at the club. Why. wouldn't you just talk to me there? >> Because it'd be so loud in the club, you. know? >> No, it's a way to do it. >> I know, but you have to. >> you could get close enough to somebody. to have a conversation. >> And in the club, I feel like with all. the music on, I get so drained, you. know? >> No. >> No. Oh, I don't like loud music, so I'm.

not really. >> But I'm saying it's the wrong. impression. If you see a girl at the. club, she knows you saw her at the club. and then you wait till you leave to DM. her because it's like if you just saw me. wait, you don't have the confidence. I've always talked to you about. confidence. You don't have the. confidence to come up to me in a club. You wait till we leave and then my DM. >> Yeah. >> I don't I don't know. Maybe. >> it's not good. It's not good. >> No, but maybe some girls do like that. I. don't know. >> Yeah, cuz again, you just never know who. they in the club with. You can be in. there with. >> Okay. your man or anything. So, but then.

if you didn't think of that, but. >> you can see, oh, she is single. She's. with her friends. >> But generally, I would think you're. right. You're actually right about that. But generally, I would think that you. would be able to see like. >> who's around the person. >> But when it's in a section, you don't. know who's with who. >> Okay. >> So then when I see when you're in a. section. >> and then it's like, okay. >> But when you're in a section with your. girl, people don't know that's your. girl. Sometimes, you know, people don't. they try to like have a little space. like they don't like let it be known. >> Yeah. So, you never know. And then I.

come up and talk to you. >> and then a [ __ ] punch you in your face. >> Yeah. And you know what I'mma do. >> What's that? >> I'm calling security. >> Hello, bro. I want to bring you a. message brought to you by Prize Pix and. also me cuz I'm the one talking. It's. football season and guess what? Prospix. is the best place to win money while. watching football. The app is easy to. use. All you got to do is pick more or. less on your favorite players going on. stats and they also show you their last. recent games. It's easy for new users.

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>> You number one, standing up in the club. is kind of like you got to stand on your. heels. You got to be mindful, right? >> So would you like come over here? >> Yeah, if I could. >> But show me. >> So I got to ask every dude. I'm like, who [ __ ] with her? Who [ __ ] with. her? >> Okay. But after you realize she's there. with just her friends, I want to see. what you do next. >> Right. >> Show me. >> So then we sit there and it's like, "All. right, you can dance now." I'm saying. like you just dancing on your phone. >> So I'm just right now I'm just vibing. All right, cool.

>> Okay. >> Let's get into it. Uh I saw you across. the room. >> Hey. >> Yeah. My name is Marco. What's your. name? >> Hey, Marco. My name is Alani. How you. doing, Alani? >> Alani, >> that's nice. Nice to meet you. >> Nice to meet you, too, but you can let. my hand go now. Okay, that's a little. You got to know when to Oh, >> okay. >> Yeah. All right. Uh, started off a. little weird, but let's get back to the. really. >> Um, I'm in here and I'm chilling with. the guys.

>> and I seen that y'all turned up. You. want You want some hookah? >> I don't really like hookah. There's. nothing wrong with them. I'm just saying. I don't personally like. >> Yeah, I don't like girls that smoke. hookah. I was going to walk if you did. that. So, overall, just getting to know. you, that's really dope. Um, I'm. actually in here from my uh cousin just. had a funeral. His mom passed. >> I'm sorry to hear that. >> So, we all in here just trying to get it. off our mind. >> I'm sorry to hear that. >> You want a shot? >> Uh, yeah. Let's take a shot. >> You could have the rest of mine. >> Okay.

>> I don't think that you don't got to do. that. >> Oh my god. >> You don't got to do that. >> Oh my god. You know what's crazy? >> Regular. >> I'm so drunk I can't drive home. Do you. drive? >> I do drive, but. >> you want to drive me home tonight? No, I'm not going to drive. >> God. Now you got me drunk. >> and I can't drive home and you're not. being mindful. >> What do you mean? I just. >> You should be able to drive me home. then. >> I don't not going to drive a stranger. home. >> I'm drunk though. I'm a drunk stranger. >> All right. So, where are your friends so. I can make sure that one of them drive. you home? >> No, they don't like driving and [ __ ] I. told you he sad cuz his mama just died.

>> So, how you getting home? >> Well, do you mind? Could you get me a. Uber? >> Fine. Okay, >> I can get you an Uber, but I'm just. telling you that approach. I'm not. >> I like you to ride with me in an Uber. >> No. And I'm just telling you, I will get. you an Uber because I'm a nice person. and I have a kind heart, but I would. never talk to you again after that. >> You're displaying reckless and. irresponsible. >> You just gave me a shot. >> One shot should not be getting you. drunk. And nobody said you had to take. So that mean I'm a lightweight make that. crazy face and do all that. That's not.

it. >> Okay. So, I get home. Do you make sure I. get home. >> after I call you to Uber? >> Yeah. >> I'll track the ride. I'll track the ride. >> So, why not call to make sure I get. home? >> I think that would be sending the wrong. signal. As long as I see that I tracked. the ride and you were good, I'm good. >> So, let me ask you a question. >> We go on a date and you I drop you off. and you walk into your house, right? I. should always make sure you get in the. house, right? >> Absolutely. >> I should come in too, right? >> Because listen, this is a proven fact.

>> What? >> No. >> serial killer will ever kill you on the. porch. They'll kill you in the house. >> Exactly. Why can't I come in? >> Wait. >> Oh, I see what you're saying. Meaning. that you need to check the house at the. porch because generally a serial killer. would be inside the house inside your. bed. So, we go home and we go lay down. Make sure he not in the bed. >> Marco, you got to get it together. >> That is together. >> No, I'm telling you, you got to get it. together. >> When you watch scary movies, nobody ever.

killed nobody on the porch. That's a. proven fact. >> But you It's a vibe. You don't just like. vibe. Just vibe. It's a vibe. >> If you get in the person's house, if you. get into their bedroom, it's a vibe. You. can't just like. >> for I go to sleep though. I'm like I. really go Yeah, I go to sleep. I usually. make girls wait till like 3 months, 6. months. I'm not easy. >> So, we got a call in number, right? And. then they called in in. >> You're still doing it all wrong. So,

this doctor, I'm from Atlanta, Georgia, and I just have something to ask. Okay, so my mom want me to go to the military, but I don't want to really go to the. military, and she's not my biological. mom, and she kind of kicked me out like. a week ago. I'm just trying to get some. advice on that from some adults or. whatever cuz honestly, I feel like she. tripping and she's not answering my. call. She don't unfollow me on Tik Tok. The Tik Tok that I posted about her got. 14.7K views and I don't think she really. messing it. I don't know what to do,

bro. get me back. >> What do you do? >> This person sounds older, meaning. they're not a child. I don't think that. at that age anyone should be telling you. what to do. I think you should do what. you feel and what you want to do. >> But she says she did a TikTok and got 14. views. Do a story. >> Yeah. Do another story time and just. make some money off that. Let them know. Just make up some stuff about her mom. and get views. >> Okay. Next. >> All right. >> Hey, Funny Marco. This is uh SJ from. Buffalo. Uh I don't need no help with.

anything. I just wanted to say that uh. you fumble LA, you scared of Carmelo. I actually found that funny. Why you cut. him off? You don't want to hear that? >> What? >> What is it, Marco? >> I don't know where he was going with. that. Like. >> he don't even want her no more. But your. dumb ass scared of her. So I just wanted. to tell you how stupid you are for that.

And uh I I love your comedy. Keep it up. >> He gave me He [ __ ] on me and then let. me know he love what I do. >> That was like a reverse compliment. >> Yeah. >> Mhm. It was. >> Do you feel like. you are somebody to fumble? >> What does that mean? >> Like do you feel like like you are like. when you get in a guy presence like. don't [ __ ] this up? >> I think everybody should feel like that. I think every woman should have that. type of confidence when it comes to. themselves. It's not easy. Sometimes you.

got to pretend or fake it, but I think. that every woman should have that kind. of confidence. >> Mhm. And man, too, right? >> And man, too. Yeah. But I mean, confidence is different than arrogance. >> Break it down. >> Confidence is a aura that you exude. that's like, I know my worth. I know. what I will put up with, what I won't. put up with. I know what I bring to the. table. Arrogance is like, I don't give a [ __ ] I could have any. [ __ ] I want. I don't give a [ __ ] about. you. That's arrogance. >> Yeah, >> there's a difference.

>> That's me. That's not a good way to. think. >> So, what do you feel like you can have. anybody? >> No, not anybody. Well, if I got if I got. to spend a year with them, yeah, >> a year. >> Yeah. What do you feel about like people. with afro and that do comedy? Do you. like find them attractive? >> I like to laugh. >> Yeah. Would you marry somebody that make. you laugh? >> I think that's definitely like on my. list of things. >> Yeah. >> Who doesn't want to laugh, >> right? >> So like that's like somebody that can.

make you smile. >> Yeah. >> I just. made you laugh. >> That would be on my list of things. >> Yeah. And what else would I have to do? >> But the thing with comedians is you. never know when it's a joke or when. they're being serious. And sometimes. they don't know when to turn it off. >> Yeah, I'm not a comedian entertainer. >> Oh yeah. >> Well, I wasn't. Okay. >> Am I your type? >> Marco, what are you doing here?

>> Asking the question. >> Marco. Marco. >> Yeah. >> You've come a long way. >> Yeah. >> And I'm very proud of you. >> My mom said I've still grown into my. looks. >> No, I think you grew into them. >> Yeah. >> We just had to do it. There was not. there was never anything wrong. You were. just self-conscious about your skin and. you got that. >> He was like he was like a he nothing. like a street [ __ ] but I ain't that. >> I didn't say that. >> Oh yeah. >> I just said we need to fix your skin. >> Yeah. >> And we did that.

>> Yeah. >> Look at you. >> So we can do like a love don't cost a. thing where I can be Nick Cannon and you. be. >> Christina Mill. >> Yeah. >> I'm open to it. >> Yeah. >> A movie you mean? >> No. Real life. You can't do that right because you. dance. They dance in the movie. >> Yeah, I know they dance in the movie. I. mean, I'll learn how to dance. >> I wanted to see you dance. I just wanted. to see like when you're at the club, are. you one of those that just stand on the. wall doing nothing or do you like get. into it? I'm not talking about like.

break out in a full dance routine, but. like what is your vibe? Sometimes you. come across a little stiff. >> I don't cuz I would rather break dance. >> in a club. >> Yes. >> Do you know how to do that? >> I'll try, but it's just too many people. in there. But like on the floor like. spinning. >> Yeah, that's unique. >> Like I feel like if I'm break dancing a. girl like that's my type. Like I want a. girl like that. You know what I'm. saying? Something different. So me and. you out and we at a date and I just like. oh everybody back up and I start break. dancing. That's going to turn you off. >> It's not a turn off, but it's just like.

why are you doing this right now? Why. are you in this club on the floor doing. spins? cuz it's like unique. >> I guess it would make me laugh if that's. what you want to know. >> And then you be like, "Remember that one. time you broke dance?" I feel like. relationships don't create moments. So. you can be like, "Remember that one time. where I cheated on you and we got back. together?" Like when you create moments. like that, it makes [ __ ] last forever. >> You might be on to something. >> Yeah. >> My marriage failed. What do I know? You. might know more than me.

>> But it didn't fail because you learned. So you won. You never fail at anything that you. >> Marco gem right there. You're right. >> Oh, okay. We got this right now. Oh, we. got baby pictures, right? Celebrity baby. pictures. We want to know if you know. who this is. >> Yes, I think I do know who that is. >> Who? >> Taraji B. Henson. Am I right? >> Yep. >> Isn't that crazy? >> Who's this? >> But I have to hold it and look at it. You just. >> I don't know who this is.

I don't know who this is. You don't know. who that is. >> Who is it? >> Who it look like? >> Super cute. Who's it look like to you? Super cute baby. But I don't. >> Ju. >> with two earrings. >> Yes. >> And a shirt with flowers on it. I don't. think so. Look at it. Click it. >> Yeah. >> What? >> No, it's not Ju. >> Who is it? >> Wow. >> What? >> I know who this is. I forgot when they. showed me this.

>> Well, click it. >> I don't know. I I still think it's Ju. No, it's it's a girl. Who is this? >> It's a white baby. >> Who is this? Who is this? >> Adam Sandler. >> Is Adam Sandler? >> Yeah. >> I love Adam Sandler. Is this really Adam. Sandler? >> Yeah. It'll pop up in episode. >> I don't know who. >> That's John Legend. You can't see it. Has some ears on him. >> Wait, is that John Legend? >> Oh, wow.

>> I'm done. You know what? I'm What do you. >> But he still got ears. >> So cute. This is so You just see some. You could just tell instantly. >> Yeah. Chris Brown. >> You could just tell instantly. >> Why you start smiling when you see Chris. Brown? >> I love Chris Brown. >> Who doesn't love Chris Brown? >> I guess. >> what I don't I'm not good with. >> Yes. Another white baby. >> I No, I don't mean it like that, but I. just tell. >> Okay, that's it. So, that was baby time. Okay,

>> that's dope. >> How many kids you got now, Marco? >> I got three kids. >> You plan on having any more? >> I want to adopt. >> How many? >> I want to adopt two kids. >> So, you want to have five kids total? >> That equal five? Yeah, right. Yeah. >> I think you're a great dad, by the way. >> Hey, you want more kids? >> At this current moment in my life, I. don't see myself having any more kids. >> What about adopting kids? >> That is something I feel like. >> Yeah, me too. you got something in. common?

>> I'll be open to it. >> Yeah. Um, how is it with your son off to. college? Do you miss him? Like, how is. it? >> I've been very, very sad. >> Mhm. But sad and happy. >> Of course, I'm h of course I'm happy. that Okay, let me not sound crazy. I'm. happy that he's in college and he's. doing his thing, but I miss him so much. >> How was you able to work so hard and. still be able to be in his life? Cuz you. had work. probably cuz I only had one. child. Like it was easier for me to.

manage having one child and being a part. of everything in his life. >> Did he used to be on set? What? There's. a time where he was on set with you like. as a kid like. >> when I did the reality show. >> He was in it like back in the day. probably before you were paying. attention to anything I was doing. I. >> always paid attention. >> Okay. >> And with that being said, what is your. advice to mothers out there that work. hard and still want to have time with. their kids? My advice is that, you know, obviously. working hard is a beautiful thing.

You're setting a great example to your. children or your child about hard work. and dedication, but also remember that. there are some moments that you will. never be able to get back. So, don't. prioritize work over having these. moments with your child. >> Mhm. Is there some things that you. didn't get to do and now that he's older. that you want to do now? >> Right. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Um, that was a good question. >> Yeah. >> Yes. But I think I'm still in the phase. of.

>> figuring out what life is like with him. being in college now. And I haven't got. to the like, oh, you need to be doing. this. You need to be doing that. I. haven't got to that part yet. >> But so if you do have a baby, would you. be shocked like, oh wow, >> if he has a baby right now? >> Yeah. Like would you be like, oh god. Like you want to just wait till marriage. or do you just make what do what makes. you happy? I think that I don't think now would be. the right time. >> to have a baby. >> I think that he really needs to focus on. his school and his basketball career.

>> and then there's time for all of that. I. don't think now would be the right time. >> Yeah. It's like sometimes when you're in. love, you don't think like you don't. really understand. >> like as growing up, you just don't know. your career. >> How old were you when you had your first. kid? Uh what I think I was what like. 106 months. >> What's that? >> I was like 20. one. >> when you had Milan. >> Yeah. Million. >> Million. When you had Million.

>> Yeah. And I named her after Christina. Million cuz she was my crush. >> Is that a real story? >> Yeah. >> You've never told me that. >> I didn't. I haven't told nobody till. now. >> Is that a real story? >> Yes. >> So you were 21 when you had Million? >> Mhm. So, I graduated. >> And you named her after Christina. Million. Yeah. >> Have you ever met Christina Millian? >> No. >> She's really a nice person. >> Yeah. She She married too, right? >> Yeah. >> She is. >> Yeah. >> To someone she met I think like overseas. or something. >> Yeah. But I was I just got out of high. school. Cuz I was in high school. Uh I.

was in high school. >> You was You were 21 years old in high. school. >> Yeah. I was No, no, no, no. Not high. school. You're right. I need to slow it. down cuz how many grades are in high. school? >> High school is 9 through 12, >> right? How many grades is that? >> 9 10 11 12 is four. >> Four years. I was in there for five. years. >> cuz I did ninth grade two times. >> We were talking about that in the car. Some people. >> Yeah, I was in there. >> You do an extra year and it's okay. >> Yeah. But it was okay. I just I didn't. have nowhere to go. So I I didn't mind. staying in school.

>> Okay. >> Yeah. So I chilled a lot in school. >> Okay. >> It's not that And when I was in like I. said, >> So when you were in high school, were. you like the cool kid? Uh, I sit at lunch by myself. >> That makes me sad. >> I don't know if that's because how I was. eating. >> What do you mean? >> I just eat real messy and [ __ ] They're. like, "Don't sit by him." So, it was. that. And I used to steal a lot. >> Why would you do that? >> Because I re. >> Wait, you eat really messy? Do you still. do that? >> Yeah, I do. >> What does that mean?

>> I just I don't I just eat. >> like food coming out. >> Yeah, I just eat. I don't eat proper. >> When did you get your teeth done? >> Oh, these are real. do like that. No. like no like. >> I don't know. >> No like they look good. >> Yeah. >> I'm just letting you know I noticed. >> Yeah. That they these are natural. >> No, they're not. They're not. But guess. what? >> What? >> They look natural. >> When did you go do that? I can't get my. teeth. >> You're not consulting me on that.

>> No, these I'm I'm not. >> You're just doing stuff now. >> No, I'm like I have normal teeth. Not the teeth I saw before. >> I was going to ask you uh if if you. could call the most famous person in. your phone. I got to meet him cuz I. really like to meet him. And you know. who that is, right? 50 Cent. Um. >> you want to be 50? >> Yeah. >> You did tell me that from before. >> You think he'll pick up if you call him? >> Oh, that's kind of like that's like. groupish, right? I should wait.

>> because if I call him what? You want to. ask him to be on your show? >> No, I just want to say hey. >> I don't think that's a good intro. Yeah, it's not seen. >> People don't like to be caught off guard. like that. >> I met him. >> I would have to like. >> tee it up for you first. >> I met him though. >> at the All-Star game in Indiana. We. shook hands and he's like, "The [ __ ]. with you.". >> That's good. >> Yeah, >> that's a good start. >> Then I DM'd him. >> And what happened? >> It's sitting there. >> He didn't respond. >> It's cuz he busy as [ __ ].

>> It's okay. >> Oh, you working on your new show. How's. that going? >> It's going good. That's why I'm out. here. I'm filming. >> Yes. Can you speak on it? It's called. group chat. >> It's about a group chat. >> Like most females have multiple group. chats. So the show is based on a group. of women and like what they're talking. about and what happens in their group. chat. >> And it's going to be on who? >> Do you explain your character? >> Yes. So my character's name is Vanessa. >> She's a sports agent and she's trying to. figure out life, dating, love, all of.

that type of stuff. So like what what. are you excited to play? Like what. unique? What's the problem with her? Because it sound nice. What's the. problem? The downside. >> The problem with her is that super. successful, appears to have it all. together, but her personal life is. she's lonely. Her personal life is not. probably where she would want it to be. >> Do you feel like that's how you are in. real life?

some days. >> Yeah, cuz it sound like you work hard. and then you just want to just, you. know, do more and find love. >> Yeah. >> When did When did I ever say that? >> I'm just trying to manifest it. >> What kind of love, Marco? >> I don't know. I mean, everybody want to. be happy. >> Yes. Everybody wants to be happy. Are. you happy? >> I mean, >> but you The thing is that everybody. wants to be happy, but we have to learn. to make ourselves happy first.

>> That makes sense. I mean, I hear that a. lot and I'm trying to like believe that. you got to know how to make yourself. happy first and then you'll be great for. somebody else. But if you're not happy. with yourself, you bring that energy. into. >> people and relationships. >> So like me, I feel like I'm happy with. yourself. >> It's I'm just I'm just like a half cup. for you. >> I know you are, but sometimes your. energy is just like. >> Yeah. It's just a day. Yeah. I just had. a day and just be happy. >> Yeah. But the thing is, no, look where. you started and look where you're at. now. You have so much to be grateful. for. You have so much to be happy about.

You told me you're getting paid millions. for this. Like that's a big deal. Yes, you did. That's a big deal. God. >> So you should be happy. >> So. >> like don't be that type of I have to. give you advice. >> Don't be that type of person to where. like nothing excites you. Like nothing. that happens in your life, none of your. success, none of your moments is just. like, oh, it's just another day. No, it's not. You know how many people from. where you're from and never made it out. and not doing anything with themselves? It's a big deal. >> Okay, now I can talk. That's me giving. you your flowers.

>> Okay, let me give you yours. >> Okay. >> Should I respond and then give you your. flowers or I should respond first? I'm. going to respond. >> Respond first because I because honestly. I'm serious and I've told you that. before. But you're not listening. >> I just heard that's. >> No, because you still have the same. attitude and aura about things. I saw it. today when I came in here. >> Look around. Look at all these people. They're here for you. >> Okay. Can we go into it? >> I'm sorry. >> Okay. >> I was going on a rant. I apologize. >> All right. So, in life, right? Mhm. >> growing up and when you are.

just used to being when you have a Okay. Trauma is a real thing, right? >> Of course. >> So, when you're growing up. >> and you are growing up and when you are. like the child that everybody just like. you're just a child like whatever he be. he going to be, >> right? Nobody You're saying people not. putting the pressure on you. >> It's not. Yeah. I didn't have I didn't. get pressured to do homework. I didn't. get pressured to graduate. >> Neither did I. >> Right. So, >> neither did I. Again, when I do stuff, it's just you just do it because you. want to do it.

>> Yeah. >> So, who am I to be like, "Oh, I deserve. a pat on my back.". >> No, but no. Wrong. >> I feel the same way. I was never. pressured to like My mom wasn't like, "Oh, you have to go to college. You have. to be a doctor. You like no." It was. just like my mom used to just honestly. say just be a good person. Like that was. her thing. But as I started coming up in. life and in my career, I still was able. to recognize moments where I'm like, "Wow, I really did this." It's like I. came from nothing. >> and I really did this. >> I don't ever want to lose that.

>> Exactly. And I feel the same way. And. just share with other people. I share a. lot with people. That's just. >> But what I'm saying is the aura and. attitude around it sometimes for you. It's like you just said, it's just. another day. >> And you give that off sometimes. I'm. just telling you as somebody that cares. about you. >> Yeah. And it's okay to just feel like. it's another day. But I just don't go. around and just be like, "Oh yeah, I'm. like this some like, yeah, I came from. nothing. Look where I'm at." Because you. still got to work.

>> You still got to work. But it's okay. like on a day like today to like take it. all in and be like, "Wow, I'm in LA. I'm. on my own set. I'm making millions.". Like, >> but I didn't do it for that though. I. never thought I would get to this point. So how am I supposed to do that? Right. So, how am I supposed to say that's the. goal when my goal was to always reach. out to people that are going through. things and just make them laugh? >> Do you feel Do you feel like you're. doing that? >> Yes, I've been people that feel good. >> Do you feel like you're grateful for.

that? >> Yeah, >> that's the part I'm. >> But it's not it's not saying cuz it was. never about the money, >> but it's never been about the money for. me either. I'm saying even if the. gratitude is within yourself, I'm just. saying don't forget that part. >> That's all I'm saying. like having that. moment where I'm like, "Wow, I'm so. grateful for this because this is. putting me in a position to make people. happy and make people laugh.". >> And my way of being grateful for. something, you just get back and do. good. >> And do you feel like you're doing that? >> Yeah. >> Okay. >> A lot. And sometimes the thing about.

passing out so many yeses, you get you. can look bad sometimes. So, I don't know. how to I'm saying when you want to give. back so much and you just want to do. this, sometimes you can't get back to. everybody and then you become a bad guy. >> So, then what do you do? It comes with the territory, >> right? But you got to learn how to. balance that. >> I agree. Do you feel that way? >> Yeah, but I just got to know how to deal. with it. >> Okay. >> So, it's just like it's hard to like. when you do a comedy show and then you. have meet and greets. I want to take. pictures with everybody. But guess what? We got another show coming in. So, if I. say no to this person, it's like, damn,

I just hurt somebody feelings. >> So, what do you do? >> Try to take the picture. >> There you go. >> But when you do that to a lot of people, sometimes it can. >> I mean, it's never going to be perfect. People always going to have something to. say. That's just comes with the. territory. which is what it is. Just do. your best. >> Right. So, how do you feel when like. just speaking to other people that go. through moments waking up with people. trying to bash them as a person and they. trying to. >> happens to all of us every day, >> right? So, what do you tell them people? >> I tell them that you have to get to a.

point where you're secure in yourself. and it really doesn't matter what. anybody else says. As long as you know. who you are, what you've done, how you. treat people, that's what's important. But like trying to convince everybody. else. You're trying to convince people. that don't even know you. You don't even. know where they live. You don't know. anything about them. Trying to convince. them that you're this type of person. They're going to see you how they want. to see you. And that's okay. >> That's why I'm glad I don't know how to. read cuz I don't read comments. >> I don't read comments either, by the. way. Yeah. >> Because I'm not going to purposely put. myself in a position to [ __ ] my day up. >> Yeah.

>> I'm not going to do that. >> And then again, it's like a voice. Like. you're actually reading it to yourself. >> What does that mean? >> Like if you're reading something, you're. saying it to yourself. Oh, I see what. you're saying. Like you're putting. you're like you're putting that energy. on yourself. >> Mhm. >> But you just say you don't know how to. read. >> I know how to read a little bit. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Here's the deal. >> Mhm. >> There is a lot of comedians, a lot of. people in the world who feel like they. can do what you do or are trying to do. what you do. >> But the most amazing and perfect thing.

is that there's only one you. >> Right. >> Why are you looking at me like that? >> No, cuz I'm listening. >> I know. But it was like a different type. of look. >> cuz I was paying attention. I don't like. looking people in the eyes, but I was. like, "Let me look in your eyes.". >> Why? >> Cuz it's just it's weird. >> Look me in my eyes. >> Okay. >> All right, guys. Thank you for tuning in. into Open Thoughts with Lala and Marco. Um, if you can leave the world with a. positive message, um, what would it be?

>> So, what camera? So, if I could leave. the world with a positive message, it. would be based on what we're saying now. Like, love yourself, have confidence, and try not to worry about what people. say and how people feel about you. People that don't even know you, people. that have no relevance. >> Relevance. Remember the word? >> Yeah. Relevance. >> Yeah. Remember, in your life, like. >> just be true to yourself and keep. pushing forward and working hard. It. will all pay off in the end.

>> Yeah. And I just got uh you gota. appreciate the bad to appreciate the. good. >> There you go. >> Yeah. So it's gonna be bad days. So just. appreciate that. So when you have good. days, >> your skin is looking real good. >> You helped me out and you took me to. your dermatologist and I went there and. she gave me all my treatments and then. she hit me with a fat ass bill. and I said I don't got that type of. money. >> But it worked. >> It did. >> It worked. Some things you got to be. okay with paying with paying for. I was. at the time.

>> Okay. But don't stop your treatments. >> No, I'm not. >> Cuz just as quick as it got good, it. could get bad again. >> Exactly. Appreciate the good cuz it can. go bad. >> Appreciate the good cuz it could go bad. >> Yep. Now that I got to read the energy, she's not [ __ ] with me. Uh, that guy. ain't got a chance. But LA, if you. watching this, uh, you won't meet nobody. like me ever again. Uh, I might not. have, you know, much money, but I got big heart.

Yeah, that's why broke dudes say. Uh, but LA, thank you for coming. I love. you. I give this interview a 10. [Music].