My First Period…

should we tell our first period stories. yeah I know I feel like that needs to be. said I was in school we were having our. Avid mentors or whatever I asked to go. to the restroom I was like I just want. to go to the restroom to go I was like. peeing and then I looked out on the. toilet there's like little blood droplet. and I was like what the heck what the. heck is going on so I went up to my. teacher and I said um can I have my. phone we called my mom and she's like. yeah is everything all right I was like. I started my period for the first time. [Music]. ever I don't know if you guys noticed. but there's something a little different. about this episode.

I'm Cas har is sitting in Cash's spot. yeah so that's exciting no but actually. actually guys we decided to boot the. boys for an episode and maybe like have. like an enjoyable episode for once. that's not chaotic and loud and makes us. all want to cry so we're going behind. the boys's back and filming an all girls. podcast right now yay and we even made. an all girls logo I hope you like it I. made it.

yeah we decided that we can't start a. girls podcast right now but we could at. least do an all girls episode and I. figured it'd be kind of like a fun. little girl talk episode so we went. ahead and posted on Instagram and had. you guys ask us questions so let me get. my phone out see let's get to the. questions let's get to the questions all. right guys first should we like pass the. phone around yeah let's pass the phone. around I say that's nice excited we just.

pick a random question yeah and then. maybe maybe like once we do it we put. like a little heart bite it so we know. we asked it okay some of these might be. like repeated yeah cuz there's a lot on. this list guys also I'm in a SAA right. now so if you see me profusely sweating. that's why is it turned on yeah oh okay. yeah she's going to be sweaty on the. girls pod oh God oh God no guys is this. already is so enjoyable like not having. cash and MAV on is just so much better. like yell like I don't know time yeah I. don't know if youall can tell but their.

voices like are so loud and just. carry that's literally how they talk I. Lally lost my voice too so know yeah. it's not going to be a very talkative. episode I guess what actually it is. going to be talkative how did you lose. your voice uh Cheer. Camp how was cheer C it was so much fun. I loved it and like I didn't have a lot. of fans there so it was enjoyable so. yeah oh I don't think that sounds bad. well I mean I I loved everybody that I. met and and we that's so much fun and it.

was I didn't get noticed a lot there so. so it was enjoyable no I agree sometimes. like when you go to a I go to a place. where there's a lot of people who like. notice you it can be like a little. overwhelming when you're just trying to. like do whatever you like went to do but. I understand where you're coming from. yeah yeah okay so let's get on to the. questions okay well we'll start off easy. with the first one these were all. questions that you guys asked so we're. going to be your big sisters right now. and tell you all the things that your. mothers didn't tell you so well I guess.

this isn't really even like a question. but someone asked how long does it take. us to do our makeup I guess I'll go. first um it probably takes me like 30. minutes if I'm just trying to like. quickly get my makeup done but like I. can stretch it out to like a 2our. process if I want yeah I would say my. makeup process takes me like 25 minutes. and then like today it waits just faster. than Kate no just yeah I guess I had to. be faster than Kate no but um no. actually my my makeup process like I can.

take it to be 3 hours or I can take it. to be like 10 minutes like I'm not even. kidding like I can do it really fast and. um cuz it's like just like 10 steps like. Falls F like actually no it's a l it's. either herper will go full face or just. nothing today is like medium medium so. that it wasn't either it was so yeah it. was it was about 30 minutes I will say. one time Harper and I did a video where. we like swapped makeup routines and I. felt like her makeup routine was so much. more complex than mine I felt like I was. like behind in life yeah that's how I.

feel too and I with her like yeah she. has so many like products she knows what. she's doing though her make Sephora girl. she is how about you mine probably takes. about 10 or 15 minutes no it doesn't yes. it does I don't wear that much I can. tell you have like really light makeup. yes yeah what the heck I just I don't. like wearing a full face all the time. yeah sure whatever no sorry what is that. supposed to mean she loves wearing full. faces well I think when do I wear full. faces I don't wear like Foundation or. like that yeah BB cream BB cream yeah.

that's that's like. thin guys BB cream that's a foundation. so OG though like do y' all remember. being like well I know you were just. like 13 like like a little over a year. ago but do you remember being like 13. watching like YouTube videos and they. always had BB cream like it was like the. standard every makeup routine had the. Covergirl BB cream exactly still use a. BB cream if I'm just like going to the. lake or like when we went I should get. one I never got one before I have like. stuff IL to it but not that brand uhhuh.

uh your Flawless filter uh yeah I have. Flawless filter like the kosas one but. oh yeah the cois that I gave her the. Flawless fter that I gave her. you're I know I'm very nice B my own. money she's so generous if you guys want. to come over to my house I will be very. generous and give you a y'all don't know. y'all don't know ask for yeah y'all. don't know what my hands are doing under. here no we don't what are they doing. what are they doing I don't know if we. want to know y'all don't want to know. what my hands are doing they're making a. spell.

what I'll put a spell on. you okay so how long does it take you to. do your makeup KY oh well we literally. just talked about this um so if I was. actually like getting things done I was. only focused on that it would probably. take me like 20 30 minutes yeah but. because I'm a little ADHD brained and I. like to sing a little bit and I'll do a. little dance here and there then I'll go. talk to Maverick for a little bit and. I'll come back and do that and then. maybe I'll go get a snack yeah takes. about an hour it can you can make it.

take forever I'm saying but like I also. have two completely different makeup. routines cuz like I have my makeup. routine for like when we're making. videos and I actually want to look good. and then I have my makeup routine for. like on a day we're not making videos. and I just need to like pull myself. together a little bit yeah and like. that's when I literally just put on like. the Lomi glotion from L'Oreal and like. make myself look all glowy I would say. in public I um sometimes look so ratchet. like you w you will never see me looking. that bad and like it's so bad like in.

Target sometimes or Walmart and I get. noticed and stuff so right you don't. have to get ready all the time it. doesn't matter no you don't honestly I. feel like getting ready is such like a. thing for you like if you don't enjoy. like I enjoy doing my makeup but like on. the days I don't feel like doing my. makeup I just don't like I do my makeup. when I want to exactly and you keep. going with that. dream thank you it's so inspirational. Harper but I I do feel like there's so. much I think that's why there's so many. like young girls like in Sephora now.

like buy like $50 foundations and stuff. is because social media like pushes. makeup so hard for young people you just. do not need that no it's so unnecessary. and like if you're a 10-year-old Sephora. girl I'm sorry but like you're wasting. your money yeah like har like Harper is. no Harper actually just like enjoys like. doing her makeup and playing with makeup. and I also make a living off of doing. makeup that is true actually I mean I. wouldn't say I make a living off doing. makeup I mean I mean I do the podcast.

too yeah and I mean I have fun doing it. but I feel like so many girls just like. will literally use their allowance money. just to like go be trendy because that's. what social media tells you to do and. it's like so unnecessary not how it. should be no and I'm like such a firm. believer that you literally like don't. need expensive makeup at all like I mean. if you can afford it I guess go for it. but like I feel like expensive makeup. and cheap makeup are so similar like you. can hardly tell the difference. completely agree and like if you're. going to invest your money. yes if you're gonna invest your money I.

always say you should invest money in. your hair care because like oh yeah. cheap hair care will like destroy your. hair girl when I tell you I used to be. of Z of skincare and Hair Care yeah I. remember one time we asked harer we were. like what did you do for fun during. quarantine and she was like grow out my. hair response one time she she got this. mason jar and filled it with. like eggs rice milk all this nasty stuff. and she made me and like put it in the.

freezer for a long time or something and. then made me pour it over your hair and. it so it smelled so disgusting like I. was like G throw up it wasad it was so. gross it didn't do anything it did it. kind of help my hair that's how you know. your sister loves you though that she'll. pour rotten eggs on your head it was H. eggs it was rice and oranges no no there. was eggs in it was eggs in I remember. the smell okay there I have porn um raw. eggs on my head cuz those like. strengthen your hair um fules or. whatever cuz they're protein and protein.

helps your hair gain sounds legit to me. yeah it is it is where did you see this. everywhere I used be obsessed and I've. type I have like type a hair or. something like that oh my gosh you know. your hair types yeah I do hair types. that's legit apparently is your hair. like naturally wavy uh it's like. underneath it gets curly and then on the. top it's wavy yeah I feel like my hair. lowkey got R in like Middle School when. I was oh she's gone she give me a call I. can feel the floor vibrate har just like. dis.

appeared you good anyways uh yeah I'm. fine go fine she's like melt who calling. you oh uh nobody oh your hair's a little. messed up now do you want me to help you. wait we need to have a another pod about. girl talk about boys oh just like. straight up like everything that's wrong. with them oh I do hey hey hey the mic. the mic oh is this the wrong hole she. starts putting her hand at the armhole. instead of this the wrong hole you look.

great or do you good you look good yeah. yeah you're good now okay Harper you go. ahead and you can pick the next question. all right and I'll put a around okay um. all right there's a lot so I guess you. got to read kind of okay so uh okay I am. I should have just told her to go down. in order cuz she's going to take forever. let me think here what is uh hey. everyone if you've been feeling like. your deodorant just isn't isn't cutting. it this summer I've got something that.

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that's code LOL POD at l u m d o d o r a. nt.com i mean all right uh uh okay okay. okay what is the right age to start. dating I haven't had a boyfriend so I. mean I like talked to guys but like I. let me put a pink card next to this I. have hot take on this one really let's. hear it I think you shouldn't start. dating until after you're out of high. school what that's my personal opinion.

sorry what did you just say I think I. think junior year is a good age to get. in a serious relationship okay I. definitely I'm such a hypocrite saying. this because I definitely like had. boyfriends before but I feel like once. you're old enough to drive you can start. dating like if you can't if you can't. drive yourself or if you're a guy and. you can't drive and pick up your. date be so for real like you're a little. too young to be dating if you can't your. mom's dropping you off the movie theater. for a date yeah I'm like the fattest.

hypocrite because I did that yeah I did. that too like but it was so stupid and. it's so pointless and honestly I feel. like the only thing it does when you're. that young is like hurt you cuz like. then you like start liking a guy and. it's like your first crush your first. boyfriend and you like think you're. going to marry him and don't can relate. to that what do you mean just. kidding uh no I can't uh like I mean. I've like I I've had like a crush and. stuff and I've like talked to a guy for. two years then he kind of broke my heart.

yeah that's what happens that's what. happens when you start and I'm not I'm. not saying that doesn't happen when. you're like the second you turn 16 you. can get a serious relationship like. obviously you'll date when you're 16 and. you'll break up and you'll be like. heartbroken but it's like it's just a. little bit different when you can at. least drive yourself to the date yes. like because in reality there's like. such a small percent of people that will. be married to the person they're dating. when they're 13 like I mean I I. understand and it's fun and like Society.

it literally Society pushes all of this. like when I was younger I used to want a. boyfriend so bad cuz I watched like. Nickelodeon and Victorious and they were. all dating and it just looks so fun to. have a boyfriend yeah like Jaden Beck I. wanted that for my I think my hot take. is kind of along the same lines cuz I. went to college After High School and so. I moved actually my first year of. college I moved six hours away from home. so any guy that I'd ever met in high. school was just in the past yeah I just. never saw them again um. but yeah a lot of heartbreak comes with.

that when you move away even if you're. in a relationship that's been going like. two or three years as a senior and you. move six hours away it's just not. feasible that's that's that I get that. too I I mean I wasn't I didn't date like. any I mean I dated cash in high school. but like he didn't even go to my school. it was like we were already long. distance the second we started dating. but like I didn't experience being. together every single day and then. having to go long distance but like I. could not imagine like being in high. school seeing this guy every for 2 years. like getting to spend all this time.

together and then all of a sudden you. guys have to go 5 hours apart and you're. long distance and it's like you don't. know that like it just seems hard yeah. so I feel like at least 16 is my bare. minimum but I kind of agree with. the of heartbreak if you're just going. to move away after high school hard it's. different for different people. I situation I was about to make the most. cringiest statement ever but I decided. not say no I was just like playing back.

in my head like a girl like saying this. like a little girl being like guys. Sabrina's so real heartbreak is one. thing my ego's another. oh what all right yeah that did not need. to Heart Break is one thing. [Music]. my all right Reese you want to pick out. the next question I just I could see a. little girl saying that I'm like oh my. gosh that gives me like don't say that. if you're if you're a young girl like. don't say that line ever I'm just. protecting you.

all right have you picked one out um you. took a minute you put a heart next to. the one yeah I did I know I should have. just made us go like in order but I feel. like there's some we kind of want to. save for later so yeah so make sure to. save for later guys I know it's a girls. podcast it's boring it's not boring a. great time people have been begging for. this like I feel likeing I know it's not. like like imagine if one of the guys was. here right now it's I feel like the guys. make it funny they make it funny but at. the same time like really hectic they. they don't have any sort of like sense.

of like. reality I think almost like the best way. to put it like like if you ask them like. a genuine question they cannot give you. a serious answer they can't be serious. about it like if you ask like what do. you like what's your favorite thing. about your girl they'll say something. stupid because they they don't like. being put on the spot like that and. having to be serious in the moment so. they automatically just give you a. stupid answer they're automatically like. uh I like how my girl looks like a pig. and stuff and I'm like what the heck. what is wrong with they pretend they. don't have hearts in front of each other. they do it's so bad and I like are like.

literally vouched for each other like. they're so different in front of other. people and then the second it's like. behind closed doors they're. like oh wow not even that I guess but. it's like like MAV for me like MAV will. come out and be like making fun of me. like getting on my nerves like him and. cash will be arguing and he knows I'm. upset and cash knows I'm upset and then. I go to my room and cash is like I'm. sorry he was doing that I'm so sorry and. I'm I'm sure kiny will go to the room.

and be like M you shouldn't be bothering. Kate like that and he's like I know I. shouldn't but they would never talk like. that in each other that's so funny okay. I have a question what's everyone's. favorite lip gloss um oh gosh I I have. my answer I always have my summer. Fridays I actually love summer Fridays I. just and there's also the new um cupcake. one which I really cupcake yeah it's the. like birthday cake something wait were. you talking about like the exclusive one. I was so mad couldn't get it I got it I.

love it you did yes and it's like. sparkly it's at home yes sparkly I wish. I could have gotten that one where do. youall get this I need seph Sephora I. love it I've been using like literally. two years no it lasts the bottles the. tubes last like so long I kind of like I. always actually had one like in my hand. at all times for the longest time and. then I just lost them but like I want to. say my favorite like actual lip gloss is. the Claren lip oil yeah I knew you going. to say that it has the like huge. applicator it's so juicy at the flavor. is so good it's kind of expensive yeah.

but it is like it's worth it like my. favorite lip gloss ever it's a lip oil. that's why I like it I love lip oils lip. oils are so good you know I bet like. what a good like dupe is for the. Clarence one though is the Nyx one oh. yeah they have like the really plush. like like I hate when people like when. brands are like oh we have a new lip oil. dropping and it's literally just lip. gloss I know like elf did that they're. like our lip our lip glow oil I'm like. babe that's a lip gloss not is pretty. good though um elf is really good I just. really good dupes everything I was just.

so sad when their lip oil came out and. it was just a lip gloss I was like. that's not what I expected yeah I was. like it's a good lip gloss but it's. definitely not an oil exactly I don't. know what my favorite is like I really I. love the Charlotte Tilbury lip liner but. I don't really like to wear glosses cuz. when I swing my hair back and forth they. get stuck in it and back constantly. lives like she's in a movie no hey guys. oh God my hair when that wind blows in. my hair justly like get stuck in it just. like gets in my lip gloss and like. everybody will see it no but what's it.

called I do like chapsticks um so I like. some Frick my nose I like um I like. summer Fridays summer Fridays is a good. lip Bal yeah I like Lan I actually have. my L right here they lip like what even. is this lip glowy balm you're going to. be so jealous I got a PR from L I know I. saw that oh yeah on my hul story she has. me added on Snapchat. anyways yeah I feel like you know what.

scene is like embedded in my head though. from like childhood that I always wanted. to recreate when I got older and when I. got older I was like e that's kind of. cringey but like you remember the Mean. Girl scene where like Regina just gets. off stage and she's in her little Santa. Claus thing and her boyfriend comes over. to give her a kiss and she's like lip. gloss oh yeah like I literally was like. wow like that is such a power move on. Regina's part like I need to recate that. so funny you should do that to cash cash. with his big. lips you should make a Tik Tok like. no I like I do do that sometimes like if.

I just put lip stuff on or like just s. my makeup I don't want to be out just. messes your makeup up there was a time. when cash was like before we got married. cuz we didn't kiss so he would like kiss. me on my like cheek or like my forehead. or something his lips were like always. white for my makeup it was hilarious. like it was so bad and I look at his. lips and I'm like why do they look so. crusty and it was literally like my. makeup MAV Mavericks does that too he. kisses me on the cheek and it looks like. so your face yeah it's like so gross.

looking they look on. cany no I I've looked on CY before and I. don't want to talk about it um anyway. Happ wa what you say I I've looked on CY. before what that means it's a robot I. don't no it's like whenever your lips. are the same color as your foundation. yeah kind that's so like 2000's makeup. wait people used to do that they like. they literally put like they would put. like concealer on their lips instead of. lip gloss it was bad they literally. called them like butthole lips yeah ew. like when you talk about it it's.

literally but hole lips oh my gosh can. oh not by me why get. away can we help you that is that Taylor. Swift yes don't be talking to my mic. like that whoa I don't know if you got. the memo this is like an all girls. podcast this is a girls podcast he's. touching me with his open. shoulder or she I'm sorry but who oh no. that's what. pronouns was just talking about how that.

happens to her is your is your hair. stuck in your lip gloss yeah it happens. sometimes but you know did you get the. memo like this is an all girls yeah. don't don't don't let me interrupt you. guys go ahead continue okay all right. should we do our next question here I I. need to open oh yeah why don't we let. our new guest pick the next next. question I. agree yeah and she uh can answer what's. your name ma'am uh I'm I'm cat. cat wow nice to meet you cat.

okay what am I supposed to um you should. ask this one right here like pick a. question and we're just putting then you. answer it yeah that question yeah yeah. cat can you. meow. yeah you can do it cat you got it if. you're embarrassed it's okay we're all. girls here yeah like it's it's it's an. open topic I'm sure all the people. watching right now are girls too CU it's. a girls episode. yeah and the only girls here. does it have to be that one Y come on.

cat don't be shy cat me Al um the. question the question. says do tampons hurt oh finish it off. what age did you start using. them okay somebody yeah answer for us. answer the question for us okay oh his. shirt is open that's a. little I think cat stole one of my. dresses cat was a little promiscuous.

Loki cat's dress was cute Loki cat's. dress was not cat's. dress uh so cat I oh cat is walking down. the stairs naked well now that cat's. gone I'm glad that's over yeah yes KY. you can go ahead and pick the next. question okay let's see. oh oh some of these are like heartfelt I. know everyone asks like such like sweet. questions okay I like this one what age.

to wear makeup oh that kind of goes with. like the first question we talking about. I agree I forgot what the first question. was actually okay my opinion is I think. going into Middle School you can wear. like a little makeup if you want like. concealer lip gloss when did you guys. start wearing makeup probably middle. school but I like but then going like as. I've gotten older I've kind of like. added more to my makeup routine I. started more in ninth grade like I like. started like going like crazy on makeup. in nth grade or not crazy but like you.

wore makeup before though cuz you were. the get ready with me girl before nth. grade but like I wouldn't have like I. wouldn't really have like that much. makeup on you know like I cuz I looked. at my makeup routine from last year and. now it's so weird like cuz I like weird. just a little bit concealer on and then. um I put like what's it called Halo glow. on and then I called a day and stuff and. yeah I will say I don't think you should. wear fake like lashes until like. sophomore bro you're wearing fake lashes. well these aren't fake but no I'm saying. I don't think you should like are you.

wearing fake lashes right now no I'm not. no those are that's definitely beautiful. lashes they're so good. Rees no these these are my real lashes. have you got them filled like no well I. don't believe you okay they aren't fake. I don't those don't look fake Harper you. got them filled no I didn't okay this. doesn't need to be a. fight I don't believe you you're wearing. falsies yeah you're we fake and I'm. proud of my. falsies okay even though they get crusty. sometimes I don't care and like I can.

look a little ghetto sometimes with them. but like I think they're fine like when. did you start wearing makeup kidy I. started wearing like mascara in junior. high but also for whatever reason I'm a. little bit older than these guys we. don't need to talk about that but also. it was a big Trend to wear eyeliner when. I was in J that like yes so I was I was. the raccoon for sure Jun and it was a. big deal to straighten your hair ha so I. had like Pap straight yes I had paper.

straight hair and the winged eyeliner it. was also a thing to curl your hair and. just straighten your bangs oh that you. should never come back I don't know why. people did that but yeah I started. wearing like eyeliner and mascara in. junior high and then my freshman year is. when I started wearing like foundation. and stuff oh okay okay I like started. cuz so I always like played with makeup. as a kid cuz my grandma sold makeup so. whenever I went to her house it was like. a little treat we got she had our own. like makeup bags it was so sweet so like.

by the time I was like in sixth grade I. remember so specifically my first bottle. of mascara she took me to Target for my. birthday to buy whatever I want and. that's what I wanted was mascara so. that's when I started wearing it it was. like right before sixth grade but I mean. it is weird how like you you do just. start adding stuff and like by the time. I was in eth grade I was wearing like. Foundation that didn't match my skin at. all like that's just how Happ but like. it just kind of changes over time like. your makeup like I feel like your makeup. is constantly changing cuz you just like. find new products you like or like new. trends happen uhhuh for sure like for a.

while I was super orange like I I would. always look really orange and I still am. like let's just be honest here and. you're not super orange I know I used to. be though with my like spray tans and. all that cuz for cheer so in the middle. of the Year this year I'm going to be. looking orange but it's fine. everything's fine it'll be all wait I. have a question how come like every. cheerleader gets a spray tan too dark. though like why don't you all just get. more natural looking ones the lights. like um make you look so pale that you. need to get a dramatic spray tan I guess.

yeah and like when they do blush and. stuff it's more blush than you use yeah. I like I've noticed like with dancers. specifically like when they're going up. on stage they'll have like super heavy. makeup and I knew it was to show but. like I didn't realize you guys look. flashy on stage if you don't we look. like really I I I don't even know what. I'm saying like but I feel like that's. how like people get really bad spray tan. addictions is like I know they just go. dark and then that's what they're used. to like I I had that I did I never like. spray tan but I self taned I definitely. got a little too dark sometimes yeah I.

selft too but um it's kind of dangerous. it is no it's dangerous to start like. self tanning because then you just be. have like a sense of like unawareness to. it you know wait I think a light just. turned off did it a light no I don't. think so actually I don't know I thought. she's like seeing things right now. making stuff up for fun what's the next. question I want to know I don't know. let's see it LO just throw it I got it. good catch sofball player skills coming. out yeah like athletic and. stuff yeah call me.

athletic does bra shopping get less. embarrassing yes bro I don't even go BR. shopping speak for myself yes it does. yeah I feel like it just depends on like. each girl is different one with like. your self awareness and like how. embarrassed you get of things like that. but also it just like depends on your. mom too like how open you are with stuff. like that yes or like if you don't have. a mom like I could see how it could be. like hard stuff like that could be like. hard to deal with. and honestly my advice for that is if.

like you're in a situation where like. you just don't have like a woman. directly to you that can help you with. things like that I would say like go to. your best friend's mom or something cuz. like there like when like there's. someone like for adults if there's like. a girl that doesn't have like a motherly. figure I feel like other moms around are. going to want to help that girl like as. much as possible so like I feel like. it's just like a known fact like an. unspoken rule that like you help the. little girl that like will need help. with stuff like that so I remember I. used to want a br so bad but now I like.

hate them. I it is like an unfortunate thing to. have to yes experience I feel like. everyone like when you're like young and. like you just like get excited for that. cuz you want to grow up and then it's. like the second you're old enough you're. like no no now I want to grow down like. no also oh sorry you go you uh Kate. you're going to freak out um I took off. my nail and my nail is very. [Music]. long mine fell off yesterday oh my. the same length as mine twin twin have.

you. been so what were you saying I don't. remember no I don't know we were talking. about how like everyone wants a bra. until you actually need. one that's the thing is like you a lot. of people I feel like at least that I. went to school with it was the opposite. it was that they didn't want a bra but. they needed one really so I would say. like starting sixth grade even if you. like don't feel like you have anything. just go ahead and start get in the habit.

and I feel like I I will say there are. sometimes it's like yeah there are. people that like need one that just like. aren't aware yeah yeah and I didn't. start wearing a bra until like 8th grade. yeah you still don't wear a bra. sometimes yes yeah yeah like last night. I was like um Harper do you have a bra. on and she's like no I'm like you might. you might need to put one on are you. like going out or you just at home at. home she was at home but we were. filming filming it's not that big of a. deal like everybody everybody and also. I'm not very developed so it's like fine.

well it just depends dep yeah it really. is just like depends on the outfit yeah. I remember like I actually like never. wear regular bras anymore I've gotten in. like such a bad habit of it a SPS bras. like I wear like like bralettes like the. thick strapped ones unless like I have. to like like I have a shirt I can't wear. that with then I just go with like the. like sticky boob things that's what I. always do like I always wear those but I. came out yesterday and we were about to. start filming and I like had forgot to. put them on and my friend look me and. she was like Kate and I was like oh no.

nobody would have told me I don't think. had I. like oh my gosh wait she told me the. same thing yesterday yes Kate had the. same problem she helping some girls out. she was like wearing a white shirt and. you could like completely see like the. cuz she's wearing like a colored Sports. brawl and Kate was like Kinsey I don't. know if you know this Kate's like one of. our other friends we just share the same. name girl she is that's so nice no all. right what's let me pick out the. question yeah it's my turn okay. okay I'm G to pick out a juicy one yeah.

okay um we're about we're about a good. halfway through so we start getting some. some good ones. in uh oh that's weird. um well if it's weird then we should. probably answer it because some people. aren't going to want to ask it to other. people no it's so weird okay well point. it out and I'll ask it if you want me to. I I'll just it's. like sound like cat over there actually. hold.

on no. meow did you hear her say when cat was. here she kept saying can you meow for us. can you meow for us she said it like. four times she was like cat meow for us. oh wait this one is actually like h i I. love this question because like I I. worry about it right now so it is how do. you feel about gaining weight let me put. a heart by that uh there we go um okay. so so here I'm a fire and sheer so I. really like to look at this scale a lot.

and I love to obsess over it and it's. like gotten to like a point where I'm. like always like like in my mom's room. looking at it and stuff but I mean it's. not like that big of a deal I just try. to stay under a certain weight so if one. day I'm over 102 or something like that. I'm like oh God I I need to stay 100 I. need to stay at 100 cuz I only like to. be 100 you also understand. likeall you're also still growing she. just flipped a nail. no like that I feel like that was.

something that was so hard for me to. like comprehend was like you like go. through high school and you like go. through puberty and stuff and like after. you get out of high school it's almost. like a second puberty hits and like I. always heard about it and I didn't. understand it but like I feel like mine. like cuz like I I Feel Like Mine hit. like right after high school and I was. like so confused I was like why like am. I gaining weight like why am I not 120. lbs like I was when I was 15 and I like. could not understand it like I didn't.

change my diet I didn't stop exercising. like crazy or anything like I just did. not understand it and then I finally. realized like I looked at myself one day. and I was like I just got boobs yeah. exactly that's what happened was like I. literally just like developed it's like. I was a teenager and then I just. developed even more and it's like that's. where all the weight came from and like. I actually cash had looked at me after. we got married one day and he was like. when did you start looking like this was. like he literally said that he was like. you did not look like this when we. started dating and I was like I don't.

know like we literally been together for. 2 years and it just like came out of. nowhere yeah no and like especially with. the growth hormones when I was on them I. was like that I I like grew in like one. one year and I would like each month I. would grow like two inches so it was. like super like Fast gaining weight like. I started from like 80 lbs to like going. up to 100 I was like oh my gosh this is. like but that's like normal you know. right I just don't think people or like. it's hard for girls to understand that. you're you're growing all throughout. middle school and high school and you're. going to. no matter what it's AAL thing no way.

that is real on the outside is that is. not real it is real Harper yeah I had. extensions on and they grew and never. had extensions on cuz I wasn't putting. fake on yeah are you no those are. definitely they real you see the one on. the end it's but it's curled so. perfectly no it's curled perfectly. that's why it looks fake but I can tell. it's real Harper that okay just side. view it looks very real they real okay. well be able to see the segments they. were see my segments yeah they're all.

clumpy I understand have sisters on the. podcast I know sisters are like I I. honestly like we all have sisters but. like I feel so sad for like people that. don't cuz I'm like you didn't grow up. you didn't like you didn't get humbled. the way you should have I got humbled so. bad it's more like you humbling me all. the time girl. okay don't get away from your mic but. yeah oh okay yeah you know you're like. soan how do you feel about it Kenzie.

remind me the question I'm it was the. gaining weight thing oh the gaining. weight question I think also you have to. understand like God created women to. have children and so like when you look. at a guy they're going to be flat as a. board a girl should not and does not. typically look like that because you're. protecting your organs like your organs. that are going to maybe possibly create. a child one day so it is completely. normal and I mean you can say all day. day long not to feel bad about it but. people are going to yeah you're going to.

but it's also everyone else is going. through the same and it's also I know. it's so hard when like you're in middle. school and high school and like your. body is like constantly changing because. one like girls change way faster than. guys do like literally you'll go all. through middle school and a guy like. still will not have hit puberty and like. most girls are already like well into. puberty by then so it's like you're like. maturing and growing so much faster than. the guys around you so you're gaining. weight quicker you're taller than them. and that's all these middle school kids.

are like little boys are like genuinely. insecure about it that's why they make. fun of you they don't like that you're a. girl and that you're taller than them. they don't like that you're a girl and. you're more mature than them like it. literally intimidates them and that's. why they make fun of you and that's also. why they'll be so like awkward and like. weird about like periods and stuff is. cuz they're not like they're not. changing yet and they're not mature in. that way so they just don't understand. it and they're going to deflect and make. fun of girls for it and they grow out of. it eventually they do grow out of that. fa is in middle school but very it is. just like hard being a middle school.

girl and like you just feel so much. bigger than everyone around you like cuz. like I was like so I was so much taller. than everyone around me too so it was. like I just felt like I needed to walk. around like Hunchback to be like shorter. cuz I was taller than every guy oh I. want to say there was maybe like one or. two guys that were taller than me in. Middle School like I was I felt so small. I was too got really tall really fast. she was like she was like a almost okay. no I don't die no I wasn't no it's just.

like all the girls in Middle School are. like bigger than the guys and it makes. you feel so insecure cuz you're like. this this isn't how it should be I know. but like but it is that is at that age. eventually they will outgrow you exactly. I think guys start to like Sprout or. whatever you want to call it like. freshman or like you high school I have. yall seen like a I guess you have well. like have and like you're still in high. school but have you seen like a freshman. guy recently yes they're humongous no oh.

what I was going to say they're. humongous they're tiny some are. humongous some okay there's very few who. are like randomly humongous and some are. tiny and look like they're in they're in. that phase of like they might have shot. up between eighth grade and freshman. year or they next summer yeah and like. it literally by the time sophomore year. comes I would say like 90% of the guys. will have like gotten mature in that. aspect it's insane like are huge yeah. like you're probably going to go back in. a CP weeks and see like like wa that was. always my favorite thing like going back.

after summer and seeing everybody like. what happened oh yeah exactly cuz the LW. can change in three months so yeah. what's the next question sorry no you're. good re you can see it oh my face opened. it see wait did your face not open it no. my face did I was like going to type it. in so she would know it but.

well uh this is awkward uh I forgot. she's like looking for a good one no I. know I feel like the like the longer we. get into the episode The juicier we need. to get cuz we like got to get all theer. we got to get all the good ones in. exactly guys it's actually getting kind. of hot well you are on like Guna babe I. know about should should we tell our. first period stories yeah I don't know I. feel like that needs to be said I feel. like that's like a given for a girl talk. like I don't know if y'all were like. this but like. when I was younger I always used to like. watch girl talk videos and like try to.

prep myself yes yes I loved watching. them it was it was so like fun to watch. but was like who I don't know it's so. like weird now that we can do that yeah. and it's like we're all like grown up. and I mean I'm. not yeah she's sitting on a couple. pillows in there to make sure she's tall. enough through the sauna I've had good. posture this whole episode so at least. be proud of that I am I'm very proud of. that than for those of you who like. don't know Harper typically sits like. this so like I really bad I said very. hunched but um yeah you start off with.

your first period story okay I I feel. like I I got mine like later than all of. my other friends or at least everyone. lied about it because I feel like so. many people I lied about I did to. because I why because everyone around me. was like getting it and then I had a. couple of friends that like literally. would make fun of you for not having it. yeah and it was like they made my thing. was all my friends weren't getting it. and I got it and and I was like. embarrassed by oh so like you lied the. opposite way oh I lied I was like going.

around saying I got it and I like. definitely did not because everyone had. it or said they did I wonder how many of. those girls were lying now but like I. remember in seventh grade I was like the. last of my friends supposedly that had. not gotten it and like I remember I. would like literally keep a mental note. in my head of like what week I was. seventh grade in seventh grade because. everyone was like getting it and so. anyways I didn't actually get mine until. like the week before eighth grade and I. was like back to school shopping with my.

mom for clothes and like I just came. home and so I started like I didn't have. like some like horror story or anything. you weren't at school or anything no I. was I mean I was out shopping but like. when I got home it was like oh and I. like honestly wasn't sure and I remember. I had like taken some of my mom's pads. and like hid them in my room for in case. I did and like yeah I was like well I. don't know if I did or not so then I. just like used a pad and then like later. I was like oh yeah I definitely did I. was like scared to tell my mom so the. first day like I didn't tell her and. then the next day I told her yeah.

actually yeah I didn't even actually. tell her I just went to the grocery. store with her and I went and like when. we were shopping I just grabbed a Bo. like a box of pads and like threw it in. the car and she was like looked at me. she's like did you start and I was like. yeah and she was like okay I grabbed. like the worst ones too they were like. the huge like overnight diaper ones that. like no no 13-year-old girl needs. like so bad don't answer on she would. have got me like the little like always. teen. on Harper don't don't answer a call on.

the Pod who's. it it's on speaker oh my gosh does she. know it's on speaker yes I would love. that Harper she's like making plans for. tomorrow mid episode okay I'll call you. after the podcast okay bye. bye are you done yeah can your first you. feel comfortable talking about um I feel. very comfortable no um I literally it. happened like a ago so I'm pretty new. that's not true not like a month ago.

like three months ago beginning of. Summer yeah so uh it was very like scary. I was in school I was like oh my gosh. I'm so scared I don't think I know this. story what sorry continue so I was in. school we were having our Avid mentors. or whatever and I I asked to go to the. restroom and I was like I just want to. go to the restroom to go like just yeah. I didn't have to go so I was like wanted. to walk around and like literally all my. friends have had this like had had their. periods and stuff and I'm like oh my. gosh cuz you got yours pretty late yeah. and my mom did too my mom got hers um.

into nth grade so we were like kind of. the same um but what's it called I. literally got it and or I I like I was. like peeing cuz I didn't know what else. to do so I I was like peeing in the. restroom as when does when you go to the. bathroom and then and then I I like. wiped and I was like what the heck and. um and and then I looked down on the. toilet there's like little blood. droplets okay we don't need no it's fine. it's fine no there's like blood droplets. like I was like what the heck what the. heck is going on so I called my mom or I. went to my um teacher and I don't know.

why but I was crying a i it is it's like. terrifying I was I was crying it's like. an adrenaline rush the first time I was. like what the heck and so I went up to. my teacher and I said um can I have my. phone um you call my mom and she's like. yeah is everything all right she's like. I was like I started my period for the. first time ever and then and then she. was like she oh yeah go get your phone. cuz like my teacher was very like strict. about phones and stuff so I had to tell. her like the truth and then yeah. it was that that's my first story but I. also have another story about me using a.

tampon for the first time it was so. scary a tell it okay uh at the lake. house my lake house um I was so scared I. was like oh my gosh no way cuz I got my. period And I was like oh my gosh guys I. got my period I was so scared and I was. like no way and I so Harper no we can. cut. that just bleep that one out yeah we'll. cut that no but like it was so scary and. my friends were like yeah just do like. this I was and okay and it hurt real bad. it does it's not supposed to hurt but.

it's like when you are trying it for the. first time you just like don't really. know how to so it's like so scary it's a. little uncomfortable if you put it in. right you shouldn't even feel it yeah. you shouldn't feel it but it will I mean. obviously it'll be uncomfortable like. the first time yeah but it shouldn't. necessarily hurt that's good yeah well. well uh next time I try one if I'm on. the lake then um I know it is kind of. hard when like yeah you first get it and. like you start going swimming and stuff. stuff cuz like you're supposed like you. can't wear a pad when you're swimming.

and stuff kind of gross I have a. question yeah so since you were at. school did you have stuff with you or. like were you prepared for no I wasn't. prepared at all like I was like did mom. pick you up no Mom didn't pick me up she. was in Dallas and I asked my friends I. said hi do you'all have like a pad. they're like oh I only have tampons you. can use a tampon I was like oh what and. um so I just ended up using toilet paper. and then I got home the whole day yeah. but it was it was not third period so my. third no like your third period class so.

um so yeah that that go towards the end. of the day yeah well yeah what about you. my first time I was at a sleepover with. my two friends remember oh my gosh it's. like this this the video they show. us you know what what I'm talking about. the girl like is out of sleepover and. she like gets she like oh and like the. mom comes in yeah yeah yeah and I mean. it wasn't that very traumatic it was. just like a little bit and my friends. just gave me a pad yeah I know I feel. like and I was in it was seventh grade I. remember it I know I feel like there's. so many like horror stories but like I.

don't have any like super scary ones MH. but yeah yeah one time I was wearing. light blue shorts at school and I bled. through really bad what did you do I had. to go home yeah and one time I pink. sweatpants that was bad too and I just. oh one time in Costa Rica she bled. through her bathing suit and it went. down her leg no I B we were on like a. boat Excursion it so and my my period's. really really heavy like on like the. heavy days and like I still put in like.

a super plus stamp on or whatever and it. it bled through so bad and I was wearing. this like white bathing suit with blue. flowers on it and it bled all through. there it was all over the sea it was. terrible oh my God it like it was really. so bad I know when you like sometimes. you get it and you're like not expecting. it and it's just like well my uncle and. my uncle was there too and it was it was. just so awkward for everybody they're. like what I feel like even like grown. men don't know like what do in the. moment it is just like awkward for cuz. like when you're like the girl.

especially like a young girl in the. situation it's like H yeah and I didn't. know what to do I was like uh who what's. going on but yeah and then you H so you. can't get your period right how much. time do we have we have a minute we're. good okay we'll keep going uh no yeah so. whenever I turned 16 I think that's like. sophomore almost junior year no I think. it was sophomore year of high school um. I still hadn't had it and I was kind of. worried and I was like all of my friends. have had their period. they do say like if you're 16 and you. haven't started yet is when you should.

go yeah yeah and I was um playing like. four different sports I was outside all. the time so my mom wasn't worried at all. she was like oh like it's just a normal. thing like typically athletes will. either not start till later in life or. if they do it's like so little like they. don't even notice it but I was like no I. need to go to the doctor I just I feel. like I need to so we went to the doctor. and I just sat down and like had a. little consultation with the doctor we. talked through like what what I did have. happened what I didn't have happened and.

um what I was experiencing and then she. gave me some medicine kind of like birth. control but it was more so to like start. my hormones kind of I guess like hor is. it it's probably something similar to. like what I have to take now too to like. get like I don't have like like my body. isn't producing like the hormone right. now so like I have to like take it each. month to like get the hormone that. starts your cycle yeah so I learned so. much about hormones I don't remember any. of it but there's all kinds of different. hormones apparently because I was. obviously becoming a woman in every.

other way except for that and so there. was a specific type of pill and hormone. that she had to give me to like start. the reproductive system yeah and so I. took those for about a month and went. back and she was like didn't seem to. work so we took ultrasounds and stuff. and realized that I was born without a. uterus so obviously if you don't have a. uterus you there's no way to have a. period so no yeah I out I guess on that. one yeah it's bittersweet I guess you.

could say there's pros and cons I know I. feel like I don't know I feel like for. every girl like growing up you just like. it's like such a big moment that you're. like expecting and then you get it and. it's like well this isn't as fun as you. thought it would. be but I mean I could also see how like. it was just like a confusing and weird. it was confusing and weird and I was. kind of in the boat that you were of I. wanted to have it cuz I was like that. makes me normal that'll make me more. like everybody else. and whenever I found out oh like you. can't have it it was kind of like a I.

don't have to deal with that but then it. was also like a oh well I'm not the same. as everybody maybe I'm weird or like. this and this is this is wrong with me. and I'm G to have to deal with that in. the future but yeah overall like. blessing in disguise for. sure now I know that like I want to. adopt children one day and I might not. have known that if I would have had my. period and been able to have children. like everybody else exactly yeah yeah. well. well I'm happy that you've like made. peace with it yeah for real like.

actually like and also like either. either way like even if you don't have. your own kid like you can always adopt. and stuff it was just like I don't know. like there there's so many different. ways to that and then also like a. without a uterus your stomach is. definitely flat too so so yeah that's. what I've always wanted I always wanted. like no uterus to S can be flat that's. like another thing I was unprepared for. was like your uterus literally does. stick out it's terrible and like no one. tells you about that and then you're.

just like why do I just have like a. little bit of fat on like the bottom. part of my stomach that won't go away. and then one day you just learn it's not. fat it's literally just like an organ. sticking out yeah and like I mean it's. so I feel like for me it's so obvious. like when I stand up I'm like oh that's. there she is yeah there she is there she. is but it's also like I feel like. welcome back for yeah I know it's well. sometimes I wake up and I'm like bloated. enough that like it covers it yeah then. some days I'm like not bloated at all. and it's just like well that's that yeah.

but oh Harper's phone is ringing again. do we have time for one more question or. I feel like we got we got a good we got. a good amount of time left so oh yeah I. forgot yeah I'm toss this is it your. turn yes it is okay. I'll okay there we go I feel like there. are there are so many questions on this. list guys that you guys asked that like. we are not going to be able to get. through no we we do a part two I know we. have to do this again we'll come back to.

it if you guys like it if y'all are like. H we want cash a m back like. understandable yeah but respectfully. what's wrong with you yeah. like if you want cash a Maverick back. you're probably a guy watching this. right now I wonder if guys do watch our. podcast there are boys that watch it we. get noticed by kids that like boys yeah. yeah all right oh shoot I lost my place. where did it go. so did you like lose the note yeah no. I'm here oh okay where did it go any.

what are you gonna say Harper what's it. called like I feel like when when. there's awkward silence the guys fill. that in but that's the only thing. they're good for that's literally what. they do is like the second they hear any. answer of Silence they're. like that's what they do and they make a. joke that's not funny I know they'll. like try to fill the silence cuz like. they don't know how to just sit in peace. yeah sometimes it's nice to just sit. like. like it's so nice sometimes like did you. find it yeah wait so this one some has a. heart next to it but I don't remember. answering it what was it so tell me if. I'm just crazy and completely blinked.

out on that how to deal with cramps what. to drink and avoid at that time oh oh. yeah we didn't say that no we didn't say. that one but there was a heart by it I. guess um now who put the heart B on. honestly like I feel like there's there. are things you can do to like help with. your cramps like obviously Advil and. like a specific medicine for it it's. called mol it's like it helps with all. sort of like what are they called period. symptoms like the cramps the bloating. the back aches because for some reason. it didn't happen to me when I was like.

younger like as I've gotten older I've. gotten like severe like backaches and. cramps I've always had cramps and like. they've gotten like significantly worse. the last like two years but like the. backaches are like crazy but my doll is. like perfect for that and then heating. pads are like your best friend I love. them I know my sister loves her heating. pad they're so nice like I would highly. recommend investing in a heating pad if. like you're in pain yeah I I've never. gotten period cramps I don't get cramps. either I like like occasionally and if I. do I just take like.

iprof I like some like sometimes I get. my period And it's like fine but there. are some where it's like if I haven't. gotten cramps the last couple of periods. it'll hit me like a truck like I felt so. bad because like we actually when cash. and I finally realized that like we. needed to go to a doctor for my PCOS. before we knew what was happening um we. went in that day and I went in and we. did like the first meeting and she was. like okay we're going to do like an. internal ultrasound which is like. literally like inside of you and so I.

was like and it hurt for you right uh. well yeah because she was like okay I'm. going to have you go to the bathroom and. like empty your bladder and so I went. and it was like when I went in there I. was like of course I started my period. like right now like right before I'm. supposed to do this ultra sound cuz like. I was sitting in the waiting room and. I'm like like my cramps have gotten so. bad that I start getting like laded and. like sweaty and clammy and like so bad. and like nauseous and I'm like literally. about to like pass out on cash and he's. he was like are you okay and I was like. no like not really then he passes out. from the blood I know they.

always he did like almost pass out when. I was getting my blood drawn out of my. arm but different story so does Midel. help with like nausea or is it just for. it it does but it also just depends on. like how severe it is like I will take. advel and mol when it's like super bad. but so I like get my I like started my. period And I had to go back and tell the. like doctor cuz like I didn't know if. that was like okay cuz the last time. that it happened this is like the second. ultrasound I was getting and the second. time I started my period like right. before. and like just my luck and I told the. last doctor and she was like oh no like.

we'll have you come in like on a week. you're not on your period And I was like. okay but this doctor was like no that's. actually perfect this is like the best. time a month to do it and I was like. okay what and so because you're just. like more sensitive down there like. during your period like everything like. hurts so much worse it was so bad and. then like the whole way home I was. literally like sobbing like these were. like the worst cramps I think I've ever. experienced didn't we film a podcast. after no we were supposed to but we. canceled it cuz I was so sick like I. literally just like laid in bed and like. rotted all day long it was so bad I. couldn't imagine when I went to the. doctor she asked to do an internal.

ultrasound and I was like heck no lady I. will not be doing that well it's not. like not even that that like hurts but. like when you're like when your uterus. knows that like there's something in. there that's not supposed to be in there. it's going to like contract and like. that's what causes cramps is the. contractions when you get cramps on your. period it's because the like lining of. your uterus is sh like shedding and it's. trying to like get that out so it like. literally cramps together I know so. gross I know it's rough you got it rough. if you're a woman I'm not going to lie. it's like not fun and then it's like I.

didn't know this until I like got. diagnosed with PCOS but like like a. man's hormone cycle is like a 24-hour. one like their hormones reset every. single day oh like in the morning they. wake up they're like the most energized. as soon they want to get like work done. they want to go to the gym but at the. end of the day they're ready for bed. they're tired a woman's hormone cycle is. like typically 28 days long so it's like. there's going to be like the week year. period where you're like super down and. stuff and then like 2 weeks later you're. like you're high you're perfect you're.

love in life like everything's great for. you like it's literally like so. confusing there's so much to it and like. most like women don't even understand it. but like especially men like they just. don't understand like this week you're. going to be extra sensitive yeah this. week you're going to be very happy like. it there's a whole lot that goes into it. that so many people just don't. understand so like when you're young and. you're starting all of this like you. just have to give yourself Grace with it. like yeah that's why people like make so. many jokes about like hormonal teenagers. cuz you freaking. are like literally like you're so like. mood swingy and just like annoyed and.

like it's so bad yeah but like that's. literally just like part of being a. teenager yeah exactly you just have to. like understand that and give yourself. Grace yeah during that time mhm well. that's no I'm kidding this has been so. fun though we got to do it again we need. to do it again please guys I'm actually. love coming on I know it's been fun. we'll we'll if you guys like this if you. guys want to see more episodes without. the boys on because I personally enjoyed. this quite much I have too it's been.

really fun but if you guys want to see. this again let us know thank you guys so. much for watching our little girl talk. episode I hope you guys have a great. rest of your day bye by bye.