Harper Called Benny On The Podcast!

Harper called somebody and then Harper. started like getting angry and I think. you owe that person an apology. >> Hello. >> Hey, I just want to apologize for what I. said earlier. I know it wasn't right of. me and I am sick of this whole situation. and I'm sorry for everything that I have. done and that I did do. >> Yeah, I'm really sorry too. I hate this. whole situation and I hate that it was. my fault and I don't want to be on bad. terms with you at all. Like besides what. I actually did, but I just don't want. any extra drama between me and you.

[Music]. >> Welcome back to the episode. Maverick, welcome back to another episode, as I. should say. But you probably are not. going to want to be here because. >> Yes, you will. >> Cuz Maverick will not stop talking like. that. >> It's my favorite show. He's my favorite. character. >> He's been talking like that for the past. hour and he won't show up. >> Like the Lego man, the the wizard. There's a character on this TV show. called Love on the Spectrum and Mav just. has some weird obsession with the way. he's my favorite. >> a character. Kenzie is not a character.

It's a real human. >> Is mocking a person with a disability? >> I'm celebrating him. >> No, Mav thinks he's the funniest person. ever. Like genuinely, not because of. special needs or anything, but genuinely. he thinks he's so funny. >> I'd love to meet him one day. Maybe we. could be knights together. But. unfortunately, this does go on for like. an hour. >> Do you realize that no one thinks it's. funny? >> Yeah. Like everyone's like actually like. more annoyed because you haven't seen. the show. >> I know. I I watched it. I watched the.

same thing you watched. >> You would know that. >> He's just stressing me out the way he. keeps talking. >> No, >> I just don't know. >> That's a different one. >> That's a different guy. >> I know. But I I do that guy's impression. really good. >> No, not as good as me doing something a. night would do. >> No, we'll be lay it literally doesn't. wear off for hours. will be laying in. bed and he'll just get in this mood and. then 30 minutes goes by and he like. rolls over. I'm half asleep. He's like, "Kenzie, Kenzie, please can you get me. some water?" And I'm like, >> "Shut up.".

>> If I had to go to bed with that every. night, I mean, I would literally just. end it all. >> I'd be so mad. >> I'd be like, "Where's the night sword?". >> What? No. >> No. It's that annoying. Genuinely. sword. Like if we weren't filming a. podcast, I would I would leave the house. for at least two hours right now. >> You know what I feel? >> It's like entertaining your little. cousin. >> See, no. >> Like you guys know that one little. annoying cousin at the family function. that you're like, "Okay, little Timmy,

we get it.". >> You like laugh at him for one second, then he keeps doing it and you're like, "Okay, don't Okay, it's not funny. >> Just ignore him to make him go away.". >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> That's math. Anyways, >> have you guys ever seen Top Gun? >> Okay, anyways, let's hop into the. episode and everyone just ignore M if he. keeps talking. >> Today was an eventful day. >> What happened? >> Need for SP, >> you know. >> You know exactly what happened. >> I know what happened. Harper came over. >> Look at that. You ignore him and he goes. back to normal. >> I thought we were I thought we were. skipping over that.

>> I'm sorry. I broke character. >> I I won't say the person, but I was. >> What do you mean you won't say the. person? Like there's a lot of people. that it could be. Well, I got very mad. at a person on a phone and I was just. going off. >> It was me. >> Well, I think we we can say like today. like what the day is cuz this episode's. not coming out for. >> Today's a Monday. September, >> not like the actual day, you idiots. Okay, listen. All All that happened was. Harper got Harper called somebody. >> And they've never seen this side of me, by the way.

>> And then Harper started like I have. >> getting angry and I think you owe that. person an apology. [Music]. What? She said you can't be speaking to. me. >> Well, oh. Oh, yes. >> Are you kid? You think I should? >> Uh, well, yeah. This would be a nice. place to apologize for basically just. your your choice of words. >> All right. Here I go. >> Uhoh. >> No. No. What? >> No, no, no, no, no, no, no, >> no. I'm not I'm not calling anybody. I'm. texting the person. >> No, you don't got to. I mean, you can, I. guess.

>> I want to apologize for my choice of. words. Maverick is not telling me to do. this. >> Wait, wait, wait. Before you say that, Hold on. Time out. Time out. Time out. Say, >> wait. I want to apologize for. >> We were not supposed to talk about this. this episode. Nobody knows who it is. Everybody knows. who it is. >> What do you think your secret is? >> All right, change routes. >> No, hold on. I got to do it cuz I said. so. I'm just saying like like it was a. bit harsh. I have a good idea. I have a. good idea. That not saying he didn't.

>> How about to put this whole thing to. rest? >> Okay. >> Harper calls him on the podcast. >> And No, wait. You have it. Oh my. Hey, wait. I want to hear him out. >> Yes. >> And then when she calls him, >> do not talk like that. >> No, but then Harper calls him and they. can just she can say, "Hey, I'm on the. podcast. I just wanted to get it out on. the air to let everyone know like. everything's okay. No one's got to hate. on each other or anything like that type. vibe." And then it can just all be put. to rest. >> I think that should be real first before.

she does it on the podcast. >> Wait, what do you mean? >> Oh, it is real. I'm going to say I'm. going to say, "Hey, I'm on the podcast. right now. I want to apologize for what. I said earlier. I know it was rude. >> Yes. AP. This is what we need in the. world. >> I want everybody to know on the podcast. that we're done. We don't want to talk. about it anymore. And I hope that you're. doing well and I hope that you can move. on in life. And yeah, >> I personally think that's a great idea. >> I mean, it's a nice thing to say. >> I don't I don't know. That's I don't. know. >> What do you mean?

Well, she just said, "I think I should. have called and I should apologize for. anything that I said that I shouldn't. have said." No, that's that is great. >> Yeah, that's great. But you have. publicly is like No, I agree with you. No, it has to be publicly because. because the whole thing is the whole. thing was made public. So now it's like. everyone no one will hate on Benny. No. one will hate on Harper. It's all over. >> Everyone can see it and it's put to. rest. >> Done. That's great. Except we know that. tomorrow things could change. >> No. No. You can't be doing that. You.

can't change. >> You can't be fighting again tomorrow. even no contact until today cuz I. >> until today. Well, I think you guys. should just put it out and then it's. like there's no more he said, she said. I'm going to do this. I'm going to do. that. There's nothing. There's no more. explanation videos. There's no more. nothing. And it's just it's. >> And then after this, should I call all. my ex- talking stages and be like, "Hey, I just wanted to say good night and like. see what they all say.". >> That's the episode now. Harper calls her. ex. >> I mean, that's funny. >> Okay. All right. Do you want me to I.

>> You do what you want. You should really. No, don't you tap that button. Relax. All right. No, no, no, no, no. >> Before you tap that, we should actually. think about a, is this a good idea to. really do on the pod? Should you let him. know you're on the podcast before? Two, to. >> She 100% has to say, "Hey, I'm on the. podcast.". >> Yeah, you got to say, "Hey, I'm on the. podcast. I don't know.". >> It seems so ingenuine then. >> No, it's like, >> yeah, I don't think you say you're on. the podcast. No, >> stop calling. I just hung up on it. Listen, don't you call first so. unhinged. I genuinely don't think you.

say you're on the podcast. I think you. guys do the phone call like normal of. his privacy. >> No, we don't have to post it. >> She can apologize and then say, "Hey, I. was on the podcast when I called you. I. can cut that part out if you want or I. can leave it in. It's up to you." But. that way it's genuine from his side, too. >> That's true. I know Matt Mav is saying. he's like if you say he's on the podcast. then he's then he feels like he has to. say. >> just stuff because like it's like hey. we're live on the air. It's like.

>> would you like to put this to bed? >> No. Like you want to reply no to that. I. I see what you're saying. But only do it. if you're actually going to be sincere. and you're like you actually want to put. it to rest and I'm actually sorry cuz. don't call him and say sorry. Sure I am. sorry about what I did say. All right. Three. >> But no no relax. Okay. Relax. What are. you doing? Who is you chatting? Get off. Snapchat. >> My friend. My friend. >> Okay. Okay. I think you should really. think about what you're going to say cuz. you can't get there on there. >> It's got to come from the heart math. It. can't be scripted out. >> Guys, everyone knows.

>> Do we need to go back to the journal. episode? >> Do you all think this is a good idea? >> I think it's a good idea, but I don't. know how the. >> No. No. Wait. >> Guys, I can't wait to massage my. >> calm your little fingers down. Just stop. pressing buttons. >> Here's the thing. If it goes badly, we. we won't put it out. >> Hey. You can't have this. >> But if it goes goodly, if that's a word, >> if it goes goodly, then then. everything's put to rest. No one has to. say anything else. >> Everyone's fine. We can all move on with. our lives. >> I want to hear what your wife has to.

say. >> No, you never ask someone's wife about. something. Everyone knows that. >> someone's wife over here. Uh, I can get. behind it, but I could only get behind. it if we're going to pivot this episode. to be that, you Well, yeah, we can title. this episode. Whatever. But, um, >> let me call him, please. >> M, give, give her a phone. Stop. Can't. call him yet. >> Why? I think we should all think about. this for a few minutes. >> No, listen. This is my choice. I'm going. to say this. I'm going to say. >> I'm not going to lie. Now that I think. about it, this does contradict.

everything we were just talking about. downstairs 20 minutes ago about, you. know, >> just like we could cut everything right. here. We could start over. No cutting, no nothing. Listen, this on the. internet. All I'm saying is if Harper. calls him and she says, "Hey, I'm sorry. for any anything that I've said just. privately to you, whatever, whatever, like the phone call that happened, whatever, all that." And then hopefully. he apologizes, too. And then it can all. be done. There's no more drama. There's. no more internet videos. There's no more. nothing. And we can all move on. I hear.

you. I do. I do also think that we. should probably just restart the episode. and not show and not talk about any of. this. So, it's just like it's over. So, it's over. We're five minutes in. What. are you talking about? Just give her the. phone. Give her the phone. >> Okay, I'm gonna give you this. But I. really think. >> fall is here, which means the back to. school rush, early mornings, after. school activities, football games, and. last minute grocery runs. And with all. the extra trips for gas, coffee, snacks, the costs really add up. That's where.

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>> I think you should think about what is. your purpose of this phone call. And I. also think you should think about do I. want this to be on the internet. >> Well, yeah, you got to think about that. >> Well, of course I want to be it to be on. the internet. I want nobody to hate on. him or me anymore. I just want it all to. be over. I want to apologize and make. sure everybody knows that we are on good. terms and we are done with this whole. situation because I am sick of it. I'm. sick of everybody hating on him and. hating on me. I just want everything to. be done with. So now everybody will know. when I call him. >> That's what I'm saying. And then after. that call, if it hopefully goes goodly, then then there's no more anything.

>> Wait. 3. not yet. Not yet. Not yet. >> Wait, wait, >> hey, I'm just I just want to apologize. for what I said earlier. I know it. wasn't right of me and I am sick of this. whole situation and I'm sorry for. everything that I have done and that I. did do and yeah. >> Yeah, I'm really sorry too. I hate this. whole situation and I hate that it was. my fault and. I don't know. I don't want to be on bad.

terms with you at all. like besides, you know, what I actually did, but I. just don't want any extra drama between. me and you or anything like that. I just. want to leave things as they are and. kind of just, you know. >> Yeah. No, I understand that. And I I'm. kind of done with everything and I'm. sorry that I did call you and go off on. you because it wasn't right and it. wasn't like it wasn't normal. It wasn't. a normal thing to do. I shouldn't have.

done that in the first place. And I just. think if we stop posting about all this. and everybody knows that we are on good. terms that it's just like fine. And cuz. I don't want people to hate on you. I. don't want people to hate on me anymore. I'm just sick of everything. And I'm. sick of all this. And I just personally. want us to be on good terms because it. doesn't matter with our followers. It. just matters between us right now and. like how we feel and how our mental. health is and how everything is because. like that's truly the whole reason like. why this like all came out, you know? >> Right. For sure. Yeah, I think that.

if we just both stop feeding into it on. social media and, you know, kind of just. like I don't know how to explain it. >> No, I know you said it all. Well, >> thank you. Um, >> yeah. Okay. Well, I'll text you tonight, but thank you for apologizing and I'm. sorry about everything and yeah. >> Okay. Thank you very much, too.

>> All right. Bye. >> Bye. >> See, how are you not going to tell him. you were on the podcast? >> I think I think she bitched and she was. like, "How do I tell him without this. being. >> No. No. I would like to say something. first. I think it went very well. I. think it's put to rest now. Mature. people." Yes. Very mature conversations. happening over here. >> That was But the man the man didn't know. he was on the. >> best part. That's like the No, >> you're going to have to call him back. and tell him. Obviously Harper has to. ask him now.

>> Wait, I'm going to tell him right now. Hey, I just said that on the podcast. We. can clip it. Oh god, I don't want it to. be clipped. All right, there we go. >> Or you know, you know what's crazy is. is everyone at home is going to be Are. you going to talk to your phone? What do. you. I know what needs to happen. Listen, listen. There's the disruption. You can. either a you call him back and you say, "Hey, um, also that conversation was on. the podcast and I just I didn't want to. tell you it was on the podcast in the. beginning cuz I didn't want you to feel. like you had to apologize or you had to. do anything." Um, but.

>> I wouldn't say that. I would say I. didn't want it to be ingenuine. >> Yeah. Yeah. I didn't want it to be like. just say, "Hey, I was on the podcast. talking with them and they um every and. we all agreed like I should apologize to. you. You should apologize to me. We. should put this to bed.". >> And I didn't want it to be an ingenuine. conversation. So, um, >> we can cut it from the back. I felt I. felt like it was a pretty good. conversation and that can put everything. to rest and then we can both move on. >> But tell him I can mute what he said, cut it, whatever. >> I'm going to say I'm going to say, "Hey, I I'm not going to lie. That.

conversation was on the podcast, but I. don't I didn't I didn't want to tell you. right away cuz I didn't want it to be an. ingenuine conversation. So, that's why I. didn't tell you. But, we can totally cut. it if you want it. I think it was a good. conversation. So, I don't know why you. would want to cut it. But, if you want. to, we can we can mute you. We can do. whatever. Or we can just cut this whole. segment out. >> Yes. All right. Three, two, one. Oh, >> three, two. >> But I wouldn't be like, I'm not gonna. lie. Like, I did do that. Like, don't. cuz it it wasn't like you did something. dirty. You just need to be like, "Hey, um, we we had that uh I called you when.

I called you a while ago." Be like, "Hey, when I called you a while ago, it. was on the podcast. >> a while ago. It was 2 seconds ago.". >> Okay. Be like, "Hey, when I Hey, that. call was on the podcast, but um I just. didn't want it to feel ingenuine. So, um. I just wanted to have an actual. conversation with you. But now I feel. like it went pretty well. And like if it. wasn't going to go well, we were going. to cut it. But I feel like it went well. So calling him, not texting him. >> You're calling him? >> Oh, I hung up. >> Why don't you just voice text him? >> Oh my goodness. >> Why don't you just text him that? >> A call's fine. Call fine, I guess. >> It's just weird to.

>> It's weird to like be like, "Oh, by the. way, >> okay, I'm texting him." This is real. life, guys. Real life. >> Jeez. Hey, so that conversation that we. just had was on the podcast, but I. didn't tell you cuz I didn't want you to. feel forced to say anything. I think the. conversation was a good genuine. conversation, but if you want, we can. cut it out or. mute yourself. >> No, no, I think I think you should call. >> Why? >> Wait, I thought that was really good. >> I thought it was good. >> Wait, is this a voice memo or is this. text? >> Text. >> I thought it was maybe voice memo hit.

>> No, no, that's good. That's good. Hey, I. said, "Hey, so the conversation that we. just had was on the podcast, but I. didn't want but I didn't tell you. because I didn't want you to feel forced. to say anything. I think the. conversation was a good genuine. conversation, but if you want, we can. cut it out or mute yourself. or just cut the whole segment out. I want this to be put to rest." And I. think. >> that conversation did it. >> That conversation did it.

But you also I I think you should follow. it. Yeah. Yeah, that's good. I think you. should follow it up with. >> He read it. I think Wait, wait, quickly. Hurry before I respond. I think you. should explain to him like I was. completely genuine and I truly am sorry. for him. >> I was completely genuine be and I'm. truly sorry about everything and I'm. sorry that I did say some bad things to. you that I shouldn't have. >> Yeah. And then maybe also also be like. you can say the other people cash out. Kate or whatever. Um they think um that. would be like that was a good combo to.

like put it all to rest so we don't got. to talk about it anymore. >> I'm was talking with Cash, Kate, Mav, and Kenzie. >> Yo, Los Angeles guys is coming up next. on our world tour. If you guys have been. to any of our shows so far, you're going. to want to still come to the Los Angeles. show because we are going to have. special guests at this show and it is. going to be a crazy show. So, if you can. come to Los Angeles on October 5th, go. get your tickets right now at the. lolodcast.net. It is going to be a crazy show. And then.

after that, we are going to Chicago, Houston, Oklahoma City, Dallas, Melbourne, Sydney, London, Dublin, and. Manchester. So, if you guys live in any. of these cities, we are on tour right. now. So, go to the yellowpodcast.net and. go get your tickets before it's too. late. >> I just put Mav's name is Madison. >> What? >> They do be doing that sometimes. It is a little girly. >> Everyone just start calling him Madison.

>> My name is Maverick. >> Bro, he said he said it's okay, Harper. You can leave it as it is. I already. knew. Oh, this seems less genuine. Now I. want to cut it. How did he know? Obviously, you just say. that. It's like, oh yeah, I figured like. it's like. >> I was talking to Cash and Kenzie and Mav. >> and be like and they felt like this was. a good idea to put it to rest and. consider and be like considering the. conversation went so well. >> considering the conversation. >> I'm truly sorry about everything too. I. love you harps and even if we're not. together, I hate fighting with you. I. said I I was talking with Cash K and Mav.

and Kinsey and they feel like it was a. good way to put it to rest. Yeah, it's. over. >> Oh my gosh, >> it's over. >> But I'm still very very very And you're. not going to text. >> What? >> I said, "And you're not going to text. him tonight, right?". >> Freak Mo. >> because I heard that little piece on the. phone. That was. >> You said I'll text you later. >> What? >> She said, "I'll text you tonight." Wait, just now when she called him? >> Yeah. They're going to like go get. marshmallows or something. >> Marshmallows? Why was that the first. thing that came? >> I don't think marshmallows, but.

>> you don't know. Well, I just think. that's a good conversation. I think that. was a good combo. I think that was good. for everyone to see and I think it's a. good thing for you. And you should date. a different type of person next time. >> Okay. Well, let's. >> like like a like a like a twin. >> Twins. >> Hopefully, I'm not going to date a. cheater next time, but he's a human. >> You can get a lot of content out of a. twin. You could be like, >> "What the. >> I accidentally kissed a twin.". >> You don't date someone based on how much. content you can make from them. >> Well, well,

>> well, you sure didn't get much content. from me, that's for sure. So, you did a. horrible job. >> When I was deleting. >> Yeah. You're not very interesting. >> Yeah. Exactly. >> No. When I was deleting all me and. Benny's videos, we only had seven up. together. >> Seven? >> Mhm. >> No way. >> Yeah. Or let me count really fast. Um. >> Oh, like on your account? >> Yeah. On my account? >> Yeah. That's actually not a whole lot. >> On his account, there was like 30, but. on my account there was. >> We had two podcasts. >> Wow. I mean, talk about a plot twist. That was not planned. >> No, that was not literally before.

Listen, I want y'all to know if we were. to plan an episode like, "Hey, on this. episode, Harper should call Benny and. apologize." I would have said, "Hey, let's do it in the last 10 minutes." Not. not doing the first five. No, we. >> I don't know if y'all saw it. I was. trying to talk about let's not call him. >> We were like, "Hey, we're in an awkward. situation right now. Like, do we say. anything like what's what's going on. from here on?" Like, as far as like the. podcast and stuff. >> cuz y'all should have seen the way I. talked. >> And we were like, "Yeah, let's just not. because. >> actually he talked before I came here, he talked to me very bad on the phone,

too." Well, you also talked to him, but. either way, listen, it doesn't matter. Harper and Benny had a little combo. today, whatever. It was like, "All. right, what do we do from here out on. the pod?" And then we were like, "You. know what? We just shouldn't mention. anything about this about Benny and. Harper anymore and let it be over." And. then this naturally came up and it's. like, "Okay, great. Now it's now it's. it's good.". >> Yeah. All right. >> Yeah. >> How do you feel? >> Because the day we're recording this, Benny dropped a video last time. We're. like, "Oh, we should do a video like. reacting to B.". >> That's also a crucial information. This. episode is coming out in 2 weeks because. we had we're having to shoot up right.

now. >> So, if you guys have seen this 2 weeks. later and you're like, "Well, this. doesn't make sense." It's because Yeah. We're currently in this right now. >> Yeah. So, we're like in the past. >> video reacting. >> Or maybe not. We might We honestly We. might expedite these videos now and try. to get them out. I don't know. >> This one might come out like Saturday. >> I do want to look at his video again. though and like his like. >> No, don't dwell on it. >> Don't look at his account. Don't dwell. on it. >> No, his apology video and react to it. >> No, don't dwell on it. Don't dwell But. you feel good now? Like. >> do you feel like a sense of peace? Like, wow, thank goodness it's over.

>> No, >> not the relationship itself, but like. thank goodness all the like. >> sadness and hurt and. >> I'm still is over. >> Well, yeah, you're still hurt, but now. you're not arguing. >> I still want to argue with him though. >> But I do feel better about how he was. like, I'm sorry, too. I really hoped he. started crying because that would make. me feel a lot better. No, >> cuz like. >> I just want to know that he that he felt. something. >> She wants to know that he. >> I want to know that he felt something. because I've been feeling a lot for him. >> I see.

>> Yeah. >> You know what? Kate does that, too. Kate's always like, "Cash, why are you. showing any emotion?". >> And in his video, I just feel like he. wasn't crying. I feel like he had a. spray bottle to the side. >> Sometime you got to be do what you got. to do. You know what I'm saying? >> No, I'm saying I don't Man, that is a. plot twist and a half. You should call. your other exes. Should I? No, I was. kidding. >> No, I know. >> Wait, don't you only have one other one? I talking stages. >> No, I I should not have said that. >> What if I do? What if I'm like, "Hey, >> that was a joke.". >> No. What if I'm like, "Hey, do you want.

to hang out in this weekend?". >> No. No. No. As a joke. As a joke. >> No, that's even worse. >> I am 100% down. >> No, that's even worse. So funny. >> That would make the person feel so bad. if you're like, "Hey, let's hang out. this weekend.". >> It also does remind me of this situation. one time. I think we've told the story. before, but when me. >> You know what you could do? >> Okay. Okay. Is this evil? >> Sure. Just interrupt me. Yeah. >> Sorry. Is this evil? >> I had a story. >> To call your friends's boyfriends and. ask them if they want to hang up. >> Oh, that would be crazy. Wait, have you. seen videos where you don't think that's. right?

>> It's like lowkey like going to be funny. But if one of them actually does say, "Yeah, I'd love to like hang out, get. lunch, then it's a whole thing." That. wouldn't be fun. >> of a situation. >> It's not fun then. >> Wait, have you or. >> Go ahead. Have you seen those videos. where the guy calls the girl's dad and. it's like nine o'clock at night and he's. like hey good night. >> and dad's just like. >> good night so you haven't seen those. videos. It's like it's funny cuz like. the guys never talk to the father-in-law.

like that. They don't call and they're. like hey I just wanted to say good. night. So it' be like if you randomly. called my dad right now and you're like. hey Scott I just wanted to say good. night. >> He'd think you're intoxicated. Wait. >> probably. >> I I should wait but but it's not night. time yet. No, >> it's getting close. >> No, but what would you just say? >> I think I should I I should call my ex. >> call like her friend's boyfriends. >> No. Or or I just call my exes. >> I think that would be hilarious. >> And be like, hey, >> until they say yes. >> I miss you a lot. >> And she ruins a relationship.

>> Well, that's not that would be on them. for saying yes. Yeah, but just to be. clearing. yes. You're calling them to make it. awkward and they're like, "Are you. okay?". >> Yeah. It's more like the awkwardness. I. don't know. Like I got I got here. Oh my. gosh. We should call people. Listen, we. should do this one. Like I saw me and. Kate from calling social media. influencers. That'd be funny. >> Wait, hold on. I got so many calls. We. can do so many. We can do the one where. I call Scott and tell him good night and. then. >> What time is it? >> And then. >> it's 6:40. >> And then listen, then we can do one.

This is a funny one. Maverick calls. Kinsey's dad and or Kin, sorry, Kinsey. calls her own dad and she has headphones. on and she has to talk to him with. headphones blaring. Yes. >> And she doesn't know what he's saying. back. And Mav has to tell Kinsey what to. respond with. Like. >> we did that with my dad. It was so. funny. >> That would be funny. >> Hey, because they think you're insane. They think you're like drunk or. something. It's like, "What's. happening?" Kiny's like, "Hey, Dad.". She's He's like, "Hey, what you doing?". She's like, >> "Oh, who knows?" And it's like, >> "We should do what?" And it's like, "What are you talking about?". >> That would be a funny one. When was the.

last time you talked to Reese? >> So long ago. >> Let's do it. I'm going to call Scott. first. >> Harper and Reese. >> You're calling my dad. >> We have so many calls to get to. We got. to hurry. You know, I don't know if I've. ever done this on a podcast, but I have. to go to the bathroom. >> What the? We better hold it. >> I don't think I've ever had to get. >> Wait, hold on. We're calling Scott. Here. we go. Ready? >> I also have to find somewhere. >> Why is Turn the volume up?

>> Hello. >> Hey, what you doing? Hey, you know, kind of hanging out, watching YouTube. >> Hey, I just wanted to I just wanted to call. before I because I'm probably going to. head to bed and I'm not going to have. time to call you again. So, I just. wanted to call and say say good night. >> Okay. Well, thanks, Cash. >> Yeah, >> I'll call you tomorrow night and say. good night, too. Okay. >> Yeah. All right. Good night.

>> See you later. >> He thought that was funny. Oh my gosh. >> I think I made his night. >> I think I think he's going to smile. while going to bed. >> Watch him call me tomorrow and say good. night. >> That's so becomes a thing. It's like me. and him have instead of Snapchat. streaks, we just call each other every. night and say good night. Just anyone to. call and say good night. >> Okay, wait. We need to put headphones on. Harper and then her call Reese and you. tell her what to say. >> Yeah. Yeah. Wait, do we have headphones?

>> Uh, yeah. I have some downstairs. >> Can you go grab some real quick? >> Could you grab a charger, too? Hold my. slime. Never mind. >> Oh, wait. Let me hold it. Let me hold. it. Let me hold it. >> Yo, guys. Also, uh I know we haven't. talked about our slime in a bit. I I. don't know if we have actually, but uh. well, currently I'm holding our fall. collection right now, but we're going to. have a whole lot of new collections. coming out. I don't know when this video. we're recording is coming out. But if. you guys haven't, go to What is it? Is. it LOLslimes? >> The LOLslimes.com. >> No, I don't think it's the I think it's. >> it's just lols.com. >> Yeah, lolslimes.com. You guys can go check out our slimes. We.

do a new drop/restock every two weeks. >> Yep. >> So, >> it's pretty good. Also, we are currently. on tour. We have a couple US states. left. We got like Texas, uh, Dallas, Houston, Oklahoma City, um, and I think. Chicago, and maybe LA left, depending on. when this goes out. And then we're going. to Australia. We have, uh, Sydney and. Melbourne, Australia. Wait, Sydney and. Melbourne. Is that it? Yeah, Sydney and. Melbourne. And then we're going to. London, Manchester, and Ireland. So, if.

you guys want to see us on tour, you can. go to the lolodcast.net and you can go. >> I got a question before we move on to. phone calls. >> Well, I got one more about slime. >> Oh, this is so nice. >> We are dropping a hand sanitizer slime. that you can set in your bathroom and. instead of washing your hands, you can. actually just use this. That is not what. we want. >> That would go that'd be quick. >> I was just thinking about that in the. bathroom. >> I was like, imagine the hand sanitizer. >> Yes, I do. But can I can I can I just. say one thing in the sink? Before we do. the phone calls, I just want to do a. challenge with everybody.

>> I'm serious. >> Okay, Kate's got a challenge before. before the phone call. >> Do you guys know how people have like. slime hands or like they don't have. slime hands? >> Lose. >> Let's Let's see who has the best slime. feet. >> Oh, no. That is not where I thought this. was going. >> No. Hey, maybe you shouldn't put this on. the internet. >> Just try it. Okay. >> Okay. Really? I think maybe you should. save this for later. >> Okay. Uh no, no, no, no, no, no, no. Don't do that. Yeah, don't do that. Don't do that. Okay. So, yeah, we're. good. Uh, moving on. I I will be trying. this after. >> Okay. Wait, do we have like actual.

headphones? Like the. >> mute like the. >> like the blue ones. >> K. I have I have. >> Yeah. Where's Kinsey's headphones? She's. always walking around the house on. >> Do those have noise cancelling though? >> No, we'll use these. This is fine. Okay. Put these in hard. >> I I. didn't bring my other ones because they. didn't have noise cancelling. >> Here's some headphones. >> No. No. >> Oh, no. Don't rip those out. >> I got headphones over here. >> Episode's just gone again. Okay, Kate, turn on your music. >> Harper, what would you like to listen. to? Ariana Grande. Okay, I got you.

>> No, no, you need to turn on like a heavy. metal rock song so she cannot hear. >> Turn on Metallica. >> Yeah, turn on a heavy metal song. >> Uh, deaf notes or deaf tones. >> You listen to heavy metal. >> Death what? >> Okay. Now, wait. Get ready to call. >> Did you say death notes? >> What? >> What did you say? >> Deaf tones. >> Death tones. >> Yeah, the artist. >> Okay. Get ready to call Ree. >> Okay. >> Oh, this is going to be so good. >> Is this change? >> Yeah. She's. >> And remember the goal is you're you're. trying to carry on a normal conversation. with Reese without her getting. suspicious. >> Harper, can you hear us?

>> Okay, she's gone. >> Do we have to tell her what Reese is. saying or anything? >> No. >> What? Wait, is the side audio turned. off? >> Wait, take it out. >> Yeah, I can hear. I. >> So, remember the goal is you're going to. call Reese and you're trying to not make. it suspicious. You're trying to do a. whole conversation without Reese knowing. >> we don't do anything. >> No, I I I I'll tell Harper like say yes, say no, say this. Now it's on. transparency, I'm pretty sure. Right. >> Uh, now it is. >> Okay. Now, keep that off. Wait, you need. to turn off the When I Noise.

cancellation. >> Yeah, do noise cancellation. >> Oh, no, no, no. There's like a speaking. thing that Hold on. She's right. I need. to turn it off. >> All right, I'm about to speak. >> Wait, no. Personalized volume. conversation. Yeah, that's what we need. >> Can y'all do this? If she answers this, >> you'll see when it answers, it'll start. countdown. >> I know, but what if Okay. Yeah. All. right. Three, two, one. Calling. Who's. talking to? Can you hear it? >> All of us. >> Hello.

>> Hello. >> Hey, what's up? >> How about you? >> Sorry, I can't hear you. I'm in the car. right now. What did you say? >> Why'd you follow me? >> I'm just in the car. >> What? >> I'm going to go eat. Are you hungry? Are. you still in um Are you still home? >> No. I'm so confused. What What are you. saying right now? >> I like basketball.

>> Am I on the podcast? >> I'm going to play basketball. >> No. >> Am I on the podcast? I'm so. >> No. No. >> Stop. Okay. >> I was just crying. I'm like flustered. >> Bye. >> Wait. Wait. Wait. Stop. Stop. Stop. Why. are you filming me? >> I'm really sad. I don't know what to do. I'm still really sad about the Benny. situation and I just I don't know what. to think. >> I need somebody right now.

>> I need you to reuck. >> I don't know what to say. >> I'm so confused right now. >> Me and you need to go play basketball. >> I'm eating dinner with my friends. I'm. hanging out. I'm. >> confused. >> I'm confused. She hung up. >> What? What she saying? >> It's so funny cuz Harper has no idea. what just happened. >> But she she after a while she was like,

"Am I on the podcast?" And that's when. we said, "All right, I'm going to call. my granny and do this.". >> Oh my gosh. Ready? Play Change. She's. just going to continue to talk. >> All right, Kate, play Sabrina Carpenter. >> No, no. Play Change. Change. I could not. hear anything. >> Okay. >> All right, Granny. I'm coming for you. Oh, this is. >> I'm coming for you. Nice song. Nice song. >> It's my favorite song. I actually love. it. >> All right, I'm calling her. Everybody, you got to carry this one for her. For. him. >> Is it playing? >> Well, hello.

>> Hey, Granny. What's up? >> Okay. Have to ask a question first. >> Are uh are are y'all are y'all videoing. right now? I'm not on. >> No, no, I'm okay. I don't want to be. there. >> Okay. Well, I always have to ask because. because I never know when y'all are. gonna. >> I'm on mute. Tell me something. >> Oh, yeah. I'm sleepy, too. I I figured I. figured you'd be sleepy.

>> Me? >> Uh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. That you think? >> I'm I'm just eating with Kate, so we're. just at a restaurant right now, so it's. a little loud. I can't hear you really. well, but I just wanted to call. Well, honey, I'm glad you did. >> You know, today today six years old. Six. years today. >> I'm eating a popsicle. >> at pot choking. Are you choking, Granny?

>> No, I'm not choking, honey. >> Is Granny Are you choking? >> Y'all are crazy. >> Y'all are crazy. >> Stop being ridiculous, Granny. Stop. being ridiculous. >> Yeah, I know. I know you're trying to. >> asleep. You can't talk to her right now. >> I don't know what you're trying to pull. on me, but but I'm I'm not gonna fall. for it. >> Yes, >> it's raining in Dallas.

>> It's where I'm at right now. Dallas. >> It's not It's not raining in Dallas cuz. I just talked to Uncle Garrett. >> It's not raining in Dallas. It's It's. 90ome degrees there in Dallas. >> It ain't raining. >> What is he doing? >> So, what else? >> Where is. >> Huh? >> Yeah, >> dude. What are you drinking?

>> I'm drinking. >> Oh, yeah. I'm a little drunk. >> Yeah, you're not even making sense, >> Granny. >> Am I? And I can hear all the I can I can. hear all the giggles going on. Somebody. they're laughing at. >> Matt played a drinking game. >> with. >> Oh, yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> No, he made me play a drinking game. where we did circles. >> Where you did circles? Well, well, yeah.

I s I saw the video of you in that red. dress. Man, you was a hottie. I'm just a little. sus. >> He was a hottie. Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Thank you. >> Thank you, man. >> I said great performance. >> I'm surprised they didn't ask you. >> I don't know. I just performed. >> I'm surprised though that they didn't. ask you if you'd like to take a job on. the boat. >> And I I I do drive, but not when I.

drink. [Laughter]. So you drive and drink. >> I don't know why I'm saying that. I've. never drank in my life. >> I know. I know. Well, but think about. it. After you get old. >> Oh, look at the time. I got to go. >> Yeah. You don't have. >> Look at the time, Granny. Look at the. time. >> You don't have to drink to not to not. >> Y'all are horrible. Y'all literally She. talks so much. >> the whole time. >> You don't get to talk.

over her. She talked the whole time. >> What was she possibly saying? >> Everything. >> She was just saying everything. Okay, now let me call up my exes and be like, "Hey, uh, I just wanted to say good. night. I haven't talked to you in a. while and I just wanted to say good. night." So, >> yeah, I don't mind being the person on. the phone. I have no clue what happened. >> But don't make me put AirPods in. >> No, you can. You should just call him. without AirPods and do it. >> Should I? >> Okay. Okay, I'll call the first one. >> Wait, what? >> Wait. Wait. Wait. >> What are you doing? M. Her phone. Mav.

Mav. I can't stop her. >> She does what she wants. I don't know. what you're doing, but you should do it. >> Okay. >> I'm just gonna say good night. I'm be. like, "Hey, I just wanted to say good. night. I'm going to bed, man. >> Who is that? Who is it you're calling? >> Can we bleep it?". >> No. Like, who just Who is it? Is it your. ex? >> Yeah. >> Oh, okay. >> It's a guy she used to talk to. >> I can do an ex talking stage. I can do. multiple. >> Okay. Bet. >> No. No. Not in that way. All right. First one. >> Oh, this is not a good idea. >> This is going to be good. >> Forward to voicemail. Oh,

>> I don't want nothing to do with you. >> Let me try this. >> Wait, are you blocked? >> No, let me call him on Snap. >> He's like with a girl right now. He's. like, I don't talk to Harper. Oh my. gosh. Imagine he's with his girlfriend. right now. He's like, I don't know why. she's calling me. >> Wait, what is she going to say? She's. just going to be like, >> I hate that sound. >> Dude, me too. >> Makes me think of crazy girls. >> It is. That's psycho. If you get a call. like that, you know it's a psycho in the. >> It's like they didn't pick up their. phone. Now they're Snapchat calling me. Wait,

he's not going to answer. >> Literally heartburn. >> Let's see. >> Um, >> this has been a funny episode. >> Uh, I got an idea. All right. How many people do you have? >> She's like, calling our dad. What? >> She Why is answering? >> She should call your dad. >> Yes. Okay. Call my dad. >> Okay, hold on. Last one. I don't know. what she car.

>> call my dad and say you want to rent a. >> Hey, he's fine. He's fine. He's fine. >> No, tell him. >> Hello. >> The car wash your machine. >> Hey, um I just wanted to say good night. >> He hung up. Okay. >> What was that noise? Did y'all hear that. noise? It was like the door like. >> imagine he is with like his new. girlfriend or whatever and he's like I. don't know why Harper's calling me. This. must be bad. I just want to call and say.

good night. He's like I don't know why. she's saying that. >> Oh yeah no this you're going to call my. dad's going to be funny. Actually I. don't know if I was funny. So my dad for. you guys that don't know my dad owns a. car wash and he loves his car wash and. so people are always calling him like. hey the car wash isn't working. Hey, the. car wash like took my money. Um, can you. give me a refund? Just random things, right? Cuz he's like the owner of it. So, Harper, you need to call him and you.

need to act like you are very angry at. his car wash. >> You do not lie. This is the worst car. wash in town. >> Oh, no. No. Harper can't act. She's. going to be laughing. No, I won't. >> You got to do a voice. Almost like I. don't know what a knight would do. >> Can you do the night voice? >> I don't think they're going to know her. voice. >> What she needs to do is she almost needs. to know her voice. like just play such a. dumb teenage girl like. >> well I went through. >> and. >> so I went to the.

and I wouldn't drive the whole time and. I rear ended a car. >> Wait, hold on. Time out. Is it actually. called that? >> Yeah. >> What? All right, hold on. Just bleep. Why do you got to bleep that? >> Because the car wash. >> No, bleep it. Then they're going to look. up his phone number and all that. >> Oh, okay. So, make sure you bleep the. name of the car wash. Anyways, um so. yeah. Yeah. No, you need to call and be. like, "Hey, I'm down at the car wash. here." And you need to act just like a. dumb like. >> or should I be like a mom like I am at. the car wash. Um. >> I kind. almost too like Ariana Grande just a.

little bit. >> Dude, we need a teenage girl voice that. doesn't sound like you. >> Hi. Um I'm at the car wash and. >> That's good. That's good. That's good. That's good. That's good. That's good. >> You have to carry that whole. conversation. >> You are not happy. You don't got to be. like over the top angry at first. >> I'm at the car wash. I am. >> You can call him stupid though if you. want. >> Yeah. No. No. Be like. >> I think your car wash is so stupid. >> No. No. You call him stupid. You No, you. say he's You're like if he's. disagreeing. >> Your car wash is stupid. You're actually. the stupid one.

>> You say stupid establishment by a stupid. person. >> Y'all don't know my dad. He's not going. to like that. >> Okay. Wait. Wait. But but first you got. to start off that you went through the. car wash and it and it took your money. and it didn't wash your car. But you got. to act like normal and it did not wash. my car. And then if he's like, "Okay, let me look at it on the cameras and be. like, "Do you not what? >> Do you not work there?". >> Yeah. You just got to act like. >> All right. Ready? >> Act like the person put his number in.

your phone there. >> But what if he knows my number? >> He doesn't. >> No, he doesn't. >> Wait, it might say like flash. It might. say like Dallas, Texas or something. >> It doesn't matter. He gets calls from. everywhere. It could be someone just. >> Wait, don't don't flash the number. >> What if it says Harper's mom's name? >> You're literally setting it on. I can. see that. >> All right, >> you got it. >> Yeah. Hold on. >> Oh, this is going to be so good. >> You're going to have to mute what he. says. >> Um, >> he's going to be like, "Listen, lady.". >> All right. Ready? It took my It took my.

change. >> It took my money and also it didn't air. dry my car. >> Babe came up here for this. >> I'm saying So, first I'm going to say. I'm going to say, "Hi, is this the owner. of the car wash that you own?". >> Wait. >> No, you have to actually say the name. >> No, that's funny. >> Just say, "Hey, I'm at If you say, "I'm. at the car wash," he'll know. >> Yeah. Yeah. Wait. >> Which one? He has two. >> Just say the blue one. >> Yeah. Say blue. >> Um, the blue one. I don't know the name, but.

>> I'm at the car wash right now, and it. took my change. And I think it's very. very stupid that you would put me. through some sort of thing where that. you you have an stupid establishment. You're stupid. >> Yeah, but but at first you got to act. like it's a normal combo. Don't get mad. at him. >> And then when if he's like, "Well, I'll. give you a refund." Be like, "Well, I. just think I deserve more than I mean a. refund just full year of car washes. because of how stupid this was.". >> Yeah. But but you can't be like too. much. You got to like slowly get him. >> Don't worry, I got it. And if he starts. explaining things to you, be like, "Are. you trying to mansplain to me?" Okay.

Okay. Are you stupid? >> Just don't flash his number. >> Three. >> Don't interrupt me. >> Two. One. >> And then put it up next to the mic. >> Oh gosh, I'm sweating. >> Hello. >> Hi. Um, I was here at the car wash. earlier today. Um, is this the owner of. the car wash? >> Yes. >> Um, yeah. So, I was going through the. car wash. I put in my change and it. didn't let me go through and I am. honestly very upset with the whole.

situation. >> Oh, really? >> Yeah. I just don't understand why it. wouldn't let me go through. I think it's. a very stupid idea of having somebody. give and change and it wouldn't let me. go through. I think it's a stupid. establishment that you built. >> Maybe it's cuz you're a woman. >> Are you kidding me? Are you trying to. mansplain to me? That's the most stupid. stupidest thing I've ever heard. >> That may be it. >> What do you mean? You own a stupid.

company. You're a stupid man. >> I'm sorry you feel that way. >> I think I need to be refunded. >> Okay. >> So, if I don't get refunded now, I'm. getting the cops involved. >> Oh, okay. Go ahead and call the police. >> Oh, I will. They're already contacted. >> All righty. I just don't understand why. you wouldn't refund me. >> I think I'm being pranked.

>> It's not a prank. You called me a woman. I'm actually trans. Harper, you can't say that. Oh my. he. [Laughter].

>> Oh my god. >> What do we do with that? >> We didn't have to cut that. >> No, we don't. That's hilarious. Wait, no. In the beginning, I think he picked. up on it so early when he said the woman. thing. I was like, he knows, doesn't he? I couldn't tell. >> Oh my god. >> Oh my That was so funny. I don't know if. he knew in the beginning or not, but. either. >> I don't think he knew like early early. on. >> Oh my god. >> Oh man, >> that was. >> dude. That was so bad. >> I think it's cuz you're a woman.

>> I'm actually trans. >> The fact that he might actually say that. to somebody though. >> Oh, that was hilarious. >> I don't know, guys. >> No, that that was funny. He he he he. knew he knew that it was a prank call, obviously. Um, but man, uh, I wish I. feel like he knew. But I we what we need. to do someday is we need to get somebody. like like somebody completely like. Harper. I think he assumed it was Harper. and he was on the pod. >> I think he could tell. >> Yeah. And cuz it was probably a Texas. number, too. He was like, "Oh, but.

someday we need to get somebody that is. just a complete rando that dad does not. know and they don't have to disguise. their voice and just call him on the pod. and he actually might lose it then cuz I. he he might actually get frustrated cuz. normally when people call him and. they're like and they're like rude to. him." He's like, "I don't understand why. you're being rude and then they like go. at it." They start arguing on the phone. and it's so funny. >> Yeah. Why wouldn't he argue? I should. have acted like a guy. I should have. been like, "Hi, um I'm 16. I just got my. car. Is that a guy?

>> Your car wash hit my car. >> Your car wash hit my car. >> All right. Wait. I think we should call. Kinsey's dad and Matt should say. something outlandish. >> I'm scared. He might be actually. worried. >> Yeah. I don't know. >> We can try. >> Matt, everyone need to call now. You. have to do one. >> No. I think it's time to end the. episode. >> No. Now Matt needs to do one. >> No. I think we do that next episode. >> No, no, no, no, no. Trust me, Matt needs. to do. >> No, we will do it next episode. Why are. you scared? >> Why are you scared? >> I'm not. I said we'll do it next. episode. >> Next episode's in 5 minutes for us. >> Just do it. Just do it. Um, I mean we can, but I kind of want to.

do it next episode. >> No, you got it. >> You're scared. Something's scaring you. >> Okay, we can, but we are running out of. time. It's 7:00. >> No, you got it. >> Okay. Um, >> wait, am I calling him? >> No, I think I'm just calling you and. telling him good night. Yes. >> Or you can do that. >> He knows that you'd be on the pod saying. that. He's not going to. >> I don't think he'll find it funny. He'll. just be like, "All right, >> good night.". Oh, be like be like be like, "Hey, I. just want to let you know I just got a.

Diet Coke from the gas station." Um, >> and it really made me think of you. >> It made me think of you. Number one. Number two. >> No, you got to say it like a funny way. I just got this Diet Coke from the gas. station and it had your name on it and. it was crazy. >> It made me think of you. It said your. name. It made me think of you. >> I think I should talk to him actually. >> I think that would be better. >> What are you going to say? >> I don't know. I'm going to have. headphones in. Whatever you tell me to. say. >> Oh, the headphone thing. >> Yeah. I think M. >> I think we should do that next episode. >> No, I think you should call him and tell. him about you got a crazy diet coke.

>> Dude, I got this crazy diet coke. It had. no sodium in it and it said your name on. it. Dude, that was Yeah. Say say had no. sodium. I just don't think it's going to. think it's funny. >> What do you mean? I thought you robot. >> No, no, no. He's not a robot. He's just. going to be like, okay, >> that's even funnier if you're like, it. was great. All right, I'll talk to you. later, man. >> All right, call. Just see how it goes. >> Why is so nervous about Are you scared. to talk to Kinsey's dad? No, I just. don't think it's going to go how you. think it's going to go. >> Kenji thinks it'll be funnier if she. puts headphones on. >> It will 10,000% be more funny.

>> We get one call. >> Call him, >> Mark. >> I' I'd say Cory's Diet Coke. We've. already done the headphone thing twice. >> He knows we're on the pod. >> Wait, put it put it next to it. >> No, you got to act like it's like. actually. >> Hey, M. >> Hey. How's it going? >> Doing good, bud. How you doing? >> I'm doing good, man. I'm doing great. I. I just went into the gas station and. they had a Diet Coke with your name on. it. >> Really?

>> Yeah. >> Yeah. It said Mark on. >> Gumbud or something. >> No, no, no. It said Mark. It said Mark. >> But that's crazy, isn't it? >> Yeah, >> that's crazy. Okay. Well, I also just. wanted to call and say good night. >> What are y'all doing tonight? >> We're going to bed. No, you are doing, huh? >> Yep. Good night. >> All right. Later. >> All right. Later.

>> That was not funny at all. >> I'm not going to lie. Your dad's kind of. nonchalant, dude. He's like, "Okay, you're a freak.". >> That's exactly what he's thinking right. now. He's like, "That kid's weird.". >> He said, "Oh, did it? Your dad sounds like Mater." He sounds. exactly like Mater. I was like, "What is. that voice?" I know that voice. That's. what it is. Okay. Later. Later. >> Should we call Jaci? >> No. We should call Kaye. That would be.

hilarious. >> Kayie will know right away. >> No, she won't. >> Yeah, Kayleie's like, >> she might smart about that stuff. >> All right, I think that is the end of. the episode. All right, we'll see you. guys next time. Pepper is not loling. this week. >> I called her to try to make her LOL and. she didn't. >> I called her. I was like, "Hey, you. going to be on the pot?" And she started. crying and I was like, >> "Oh, no. I think personally. >> we need to get in to everything that has. been going on with Harper and just let. everybody know the answers. >> She's not here. We can't do that. >> But that's why we should do it behind.

her back. >> I see. >> So, let's just go ahead and tell. everybody what happened. >> Guys, today is the day our new slimes. are coming out at 5:00 p.m. Central. Standard Time, and it is our fall. collection. I am so excited for this one. because I personally love fall, but I. know some of you guys don't. So, we have. sunshine and smiles in case you don't. care for fall. But either way, we have. so many cool slimes dropping for you. guys today. So, make sure to go to lol. Slimes.com at 5:00 p.m. Central Standard.

Time to get your slimes. [Music]. What's up, everybody? Welcome back to. another episode. Uh, today is unlike any. episode that we've ever done before. because uh, as you may notice, Harper is. not here. >> My chair is empty. Did you say wmpw? >> No, I don't mean wmp w. >> No, I am sad. This is the first episode. we've ever done with Harper's mic just. >> I mean I want you guys to really think. we are I don't know the exact number but.

yeah we're around 220 episodes into this. podcast. >> We are over two years in and we have. never shot an episode. >> without Harper. >> Never missed an upload date. We've. uploaded every Wednesday, every. Saturday. Never missed. >> Harper's always been there. >> until today. >> Until today. >> Why are you smiling about it? Like it's. >> I laugh in situations that are sad. I. can't help it. Me and Cash are at. funerals. We're laughing. >> What the No, that doesn't help. >> He does. He He pokes the body sometimes. I've seen. >> I did touch the body once when I was a.

little. That's a Okay. Anyways, we're. not talking. We're not talking about. that. >> Um I don't know. I feel like today is. going to be a little off. >> Well, she's she's with us in spirit. >> No, she's not. >> Okay. Explain. She's not dead. Harper is. alive and. >> well, we don't know. >> Unwell. She's alive. >> She could be dead. We haven't spoken. unwell, but she is alive. >> We haven't spoke to her in the last. couple hours. She could. >> Harper in the mailbox. >> Harper's in the mailbox. Okay, >> that would be crazy. >> That would If Harper's in the mailbox, that'd be a red flag.

>> Get it? Red flag. Y'all see the red. flag? There's a red flag on the mail. Red flag on the mailbox. >> Yeah, we see that. >> You know what that's for? >> No, she's not in there. Yes, I know what. the red flag for. >> It's for when you have mail, Kenzie. >> It's for when you have mail. What? >> You've got mail. >> What do you mean? It's when you have. mail, the mailman lifts it up. >> No, >> no, it's you lift it up when you need to. send mail. >> When you have outgoing mail, >> stupid. mailbox before. >> Well, I'll be honest. I The vibe is off. See? Yeah. It feels weird, but I I never.

thought. >> it looks like she's dead. Remember the. other day we talked about on a on one of. the episodes we were like, imagine if. one of us died and there was just an. empty seat on the pod. That's what it. feels like. a little sooner. >> It feels like Harper's dead. It doesn't. feel right. >> Okay. Actually, let me let me defend. ourselves real quick. The only reason. >> actually explain why she's not here. >> Yeah. The only reason we're like. slightly making jokes about it is. because this is the LOL podcast and we. have to laugh our way through the pain. >> We must laugh. >> And Harper's pain as well. Um, but.

Harper, >> we laugh when others cannot. >> We are not going to put Harper's. business on the podcast, especially with. not Harper here. But if you are on. social media, you may have gathered. Harper's had a pretty rough week. And. she just wanted to take a little bit of. a break from being on the podcast, being. on camera, having to come here, sit on. the couch, pretend like she's in the. best mood ever, laugh for two hours. while we film. She just did not. She's. not feeling it this week. So, she's. taking a break. >> Y'all make me still do podcast.

>> Rough week is not that rough. >> Harper is not loling this week. >> No, she's not loling at all. Um, I. called her to try to make her lol and. she didn't. So, I was like, "Okay, well, you're not loling very much." So, if you. can't be on the podcast, >> I called her and I was like, >> what Mav did? >> I called her. I was like, "Hey, you. going to be on the pod.". >> And she just started crying and I was. like, >> "Oh, no.". >> No, Mav wasn't like, "Oh, no." He goes, "Don't cry.". >> Yeah. >> That's what he said. I didn't know what. to say. >> Twice. She starts crying. He's like, "Oh, uh, don't cry." I'm like, "How's.

that going to make her feel any better?". That's the way I responded. >> Please do not cry. >> I'm sorry. I'll be at your house in an. hour. And he was like, we actually. already have. >> I'm a dude. What am I supposed to say? Let me come over there and give you a. hug. >> Hold on now. Let. >> We have already cancelled two shoots. this week. And um we can't really. keeping shoots because we do still have. to put videos out for you guys. So, we. were like, you know what, Harper? Take. the time you need this week to just like. >> be sad, >> recover, >> not you know, you don't have to lol on.

camera for the sake of the audience. And. we told her, we were like, "Your whole. life doesn't have to be put on the. internet. Like, if you're not feeling. it, stay home." And she's like, "Okay, I. think that's I think that's a good. idea." So, she's going to be gone for at. least the next two episodes because. we're filming two episodes right now. So, but she'll be back and hopefully. loling. >> Yeah. Is it What are you doing? >> I got something. >> What is Maverick? >> Nothing. >> Wait, before you say that, I have. something to say about Cash yelling. >> Okay. >> What? >> I went to my Okay. Yeah. You just You. just hold Okay. >> You just stand right there. Can you hold.

that thought because she had another. one? >> No, it's not a thought he's holding. He's actually physically holding. something. >> Move. >> If you would like to sit down, you can. And then I'll tell my story. >> What's behind your back? >> Is it a frog? >> Is it Harper's ashes? >> She's not dead. >> She's not dead. >> Did you cremate her? >> She's in the mail. >> Harper is at home. >> Do you guys want to be cremated? I'm. sorry. That's another conversation. >> Everyone look that way. >> Hold on. We're talking about Kinsey's. yelling issue. >> Okay. Okay, then I'll go. You can't hear. Kenzie, go ahead and talk about your.

yelling issue. >> Okay. I went, it's not really that big. of a deal, but now that you've made it a. big deal, I went to my parents house. this past weekend. >> Get your LOL Slimes today at the. lolslimes.net. >> That's not even the right domain. That. is not the website. >> What's the website? >> Don't go there. The lols.com. >> It's lols.com. >> Oh, lols.com. Our fall drop comes out. today. Anyways, sorry, Kenzie. >> Jeez. Anyways, I'm at my parents house. and we go out to eat and I'm talking to. my mom and sister about something and. they're like, "Kenzie, you're yelling at.

us." And I was like, "What? No, I'm. not." And they were like, "No, like. seriously, everyone in the restaurant. can hear you." And I started thinking. about it. I was like, "Oh my gosh, I've. been around Cash so much. I don't know. how to talk normal anymore.". >> Hey, I talked. >> The only way to be heard is to yell. >> No, that's not true, Kenzie. That's not. true. >> You've interrupted me three times in the. last 30 seconds. No, I've interrupted. everyone else to let you speak like a. gentleman. I was like, "Hold on, Matt. Hold that thing you're holding.". >> Yeah, but you just like you like to tell.

me that. Like earlier Kate was in trying. to change the subject and I wasn't done. talking and I was saying something and. you shut me up. I didn't shut anyone up. I try I try to keep on. >> I'm very respectful to the women here. I. was going. >> Yes, I'm very respectful towards women. >> I'm a women respectful. >> You're working on it. That's for sure. >> I'm like an activist for women respect. >> I was looking through some of the. comments like. >> # women deserve respect. Now you just. keep interrupting. I tried to say something. >> Sorry. I'm just so passionate about. respecting women that it's hard to not. anymore. >> I've been going through some of the. comments of the last like four or five. videos and so. >> Wait, hold on. Kate's doing an ASMR.

thing that it's really distracting my. ears from listening to. >> Can you hear this? >> It sounds really good. >> You can't hear it. So, >> wait. Hold it up to the Just Let's get a. little This slime is dropping today at. 5:00 p.m. Central Standard Time. It's. crunchy autumn walk. >> Yeah. If you guys are getting one of the. slimes from the fall. >> one. >> Oh, nice. If you guys are getting one of. the fall collection slimes, I do. recommend that one. Anyway, sorry, Kenzie. Back to the combo. >> Uh oh. I looked at the comments for the. last like four to five videos and so.

many comments were about how Cash is. growing as a human being, not just. physically, but. >> Whoa. I'm glad they noticed. I've been. hitting the gym. No, you have. No, I'm. not. >> You have not. Yes, but I've been like. playing volleyball. >> He's been hitting the volleyball court. >> and playing basketball, which will. probably make my muscles bigger. >> No, but seriously, >> girls play volleyball. Is that a girl. sport? We'll get into that. >> I'm really heavy on women respect, and I. think women deserve the same respect in. sports. >> So, you try to play their sport? >> Yes.

>> I'm really good in there. >> Sorry. What were you saying? >> Yay. Anyway, so many people have. complimented you on like taking a step. back and listening to people. So, congratulations on growth. >> Yes. >> Yeah. Good job. >> I have growth. I feel like this episode. we're talking about cash and that's not. what we're here to do. >> Yeah, we're supposed to mourn. >> I was going to say we're supposed to. talk behind her back while she's not. here or that. Yeah. So either I mean we. can stop with the ASMR. I feel like they. got to just be here. >> No, it's not. Alex said they can't even. hear me. >> But there's like quiet ones you could. play with. >> But I like this one.

>> here. Play with the quiet slime. >> Um yeah. So we should horrible moment of. silence. Yeah. Kenzie, I have a speech. impediment. Don't make fun of me for it. You said you want I'd like a moment of. silence. Can everyone just bow their. heads in in in silence, please? >> Okay. Uh, everyone, we have to close our. eyes. Is this a moment of silence? Like. that I take off my hat? Nothing. I would. just like everyone to close their eyes. and bow their heads for a moment of. silence. >> You think it should? >> I will notify you when the silence is. over. >> Should I take off my hat for the moment. of silence? >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Okay. But I haven't done my hair today, so it's really goofy. >> Harper doesn't care. Okay. Okay.

Everyone better close your eyes. >> Why are we doing this? >> Okay. I can hear that. And it it sounds. like you're like. >> Sorry, I broke the moment. Oh, Mo is. still going. It's still going. Keep your. eyes clear. >> Okay, I'll go back. >> It does. >> I don't think it's a moment of silence. with Kate playing with the slime. Kate, can. >> I forgot it was a moment of silence. >> Kate, it's a moment of silence. You're. not supposed to do ASMR. >> I can't help it. >> Can we look yet? What is that noise? >> It's a moment of silence. That's what. noise it is.

>> Okay, >> we're so bad. >> The moment of silence is over. >> Can we Can we do it? >> We are now. We are now. No, you're not. supposed to light that camera. >> No, stop talking to them. >> Fire. >> That's my decorative. >> Ain't no way. >> I do not respect women anymore. There's. no way you described a woman's memorial. >> Yes, this is for her. This podcast is. sponsored by Squarespace. When you've. got an idea you want to bring to life, whether it's a side hustle, a small. business, or even just a place to share. your work, you need a platform that can.

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to launch, use offer code lol pod to. save 10% off your first purchase of a. website or domain. >> She's not dead, but my candle is. >> her memorial service. >> This is a decorative candle. >> That candle represented her life. >> It's ruined now. >> I can't believe you disrespect Harper. like that. >> That would represented her life. >> That was my candle that I bought. >> You keep burning Harper. >> I can't believe you did that. Hey, someone did that to one of mine, too. No. Give me that bag. >> I have decorative candles down. Give me. that bag.

>> Don't break that. That lighter cost me. $20. >> Please give me my. >> right here. Cash. It's right here. >> Oh, there you go. >> Here. >> This a blowtorrch. >> Okay. >> You're with the. >> Don't Don't you touch Harper's memorial. again. Messed up. >> Be careful with my um Cash, you're going. to light Harper on fire. >> Oh gosh. Cash. >> No. Cash, you're you now of an angel.

>> Harper, blow it out. That's so. disrespectful. >> What's the next words? In the arms of an. angel. >> Why did you light Harper on fire? >> Yes, it's cremation, Kate. >> No, >> she's not dead. >> She's not dead. >> No, >> just cremate her in peace. Why do you. guys not let her rest in peace? >> She's not dead. >> We can call her right now. She will. answer the phone. >> She's emotionally dead. >> No, she. >> emotionally unavailable. >> Emotally. Wait, call her right now. Harper wants. >> I feel that might make the smoke alarms. go off. >> Yeah, it's going to.

>> I think I unplugged it though. >> Why would you do that? >> I'm trying to get it to. >> Yeah, it's hot. >> Hey, would you guys when you die, do you. want to be cremated or buried? >> Cremated. Don't spend money on a cast. >> Really? >> Yeah. >> B it. >> It's expensive. >> Okay, good. >> What about you, Matt? Would you want to. be cremated or buried? Man, I kind of. want to like cremated maybe like a. statue. >> Me somewhere, you know, in a park. >> Yeah, but that doesn't really make sense. of what to do with your body. Okay. Well, you.

>> Oh, you mean like the mummy where like. like in the in the Rome like the popes. like the popes get the popes. >> They get their bodies like forever just. touched up by paint or something and. they say that to me. Yeah, I don't want. to do that. >> But also cremation's creepy to me cuz. every time I think of a cremation I. think of Crispy Cream the doughnut. store. You knock me off in the lake and. shoot like the flaming arrow at me. >> Oh gosh. >> Oh, >> you just burned yourself, didn't you? >> What in the really stupid thing? >> That's a blowtorrch that Yeah, you using. >> No, the thing you gave me. >> What? >> The lighter.

>> The gold. >> That's my lighter and I'd like to have. it back. Please. It was expensive. >> What do you mean? >> I mean, yours or. >> This thing is evil. >> It's a lighter. >> It's You turn it on when you press it. >> This is a taser. No, it is a lighter. lighter. I promise you I have been tased. way too many times to know what tasing. feels like. That did not burn me. That. tased me. >> Do you see that? >> Looks like a burn mark to me. It is a. burn mark. He's got little holes in his. face. >> Dude, can you please stop making this.

episode about you? It is about. remembering Harper. Okay, >> she'll be back in like two episodes. >> You and see if you make it about. yourself. I don't know if she'll be back. in two episodes. That feels That's a. dangerous toy. Do y'all know when y Oh, y'all didn't grow up with a fireplace. That's so sad. >> Why did I think she was about to say a. father? I was like, I had a dad. >> You know when you. >> Yes, she did. >> Just more sad things to think about. >> No, D would be very offended if you. heard you say that. >> No, we were talking about a fireplace. >> When you when you have a real wood. burning fireplace and you.

>> Whoa. No need to flex on us, Kinsey. >> A real wood burning. >> I had a real wood burning fireplace. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Anyways, and you closed the little. latch because your dad didn't look at. the latch and then all the smoke comes. out in the house. >> Seriously, stop playing with that slime. What are What are y'all talking about? You're making loud noises. >> That's what it smells like in here. >> That's what it smells like again about. you not remembering Harper. >> Okay, we can move on to. >> Harper. Literally, Kra's making noises. with slime. Kinsey's talking about her. selfish fireplace that no one else had. And we're supposed to be memorialing.

>> Yes, let's memorial together. >> Okay. All right. How my you are leading. the memorial. >> Okay. We were so close to Memorial Day, too. >> One of my No, no, we're not. It's far. away. Um, but. >> No, but it just happened. It's like next. year, but that's okay. >> It comes every year. >> Yes, it is. >> Memorial Day is in May. >> Well, when is May? What month are we in? >> In May is next year. >> April, May. Wait, >> it's like four months. >> January, January, February, March, April, May, June, July, August, October.

>> Nope. >> September. >> September, which is what we're in. >> Yes. So, it was frick. Wait, which one? Which. which one was it? It was like three. months ago. That's not far. It was four, but you know, it's almost October, too. >> Either way, listen, we should have. waited for Memorial Day. I'd like to. share one of my favorite memories of of. Sweet Harper. >> Yes. >> Um, can we roll the clip? >> What's the clip? >> Well, okay. I'll tell you what the clip. is since you can't see it, but.

>> Wait, no, no. We We'll play it. >> Wait, I thought we already played it. Yeah, it's a pretty quick clip. It's It's when Harper says she has a. trick. >> No, that was my favorite memory I had. >> Wait, the party might not be the same. thing as me. >> Okay, >> mine is the one where she gets up. She's. in like the sweatuit and she. >> and she pops her legs. >> Yeah, she does the handstand and just. popped and you hear her like joints pop. >> Yeah, that was. >> You know what I'm talking about. Oh, but. not the party trick one. The party trick. was good, too.

>> The party trick one was I have two. Um. the party trick one where Harper's like. she's a little bitty itty bitty Harper. She's like you want to see my party. trick? Well specifically she went. >> yeah I want to see your party trick and. Cra's like yeah. And so she hurt herself. and our wall. >> Well one of my favorite memories of. Harper is when we made a diss track. >> Yo. >> oh. >> Oh another one of my favorite memories. is when we were like Harper we need to. get a good clip of you pretending to. faint and she was like I got you.

>> I remember that. And I was like, "Ain't. no one going to believe that?". >> And then it went viral. >> And then everyone believed that. >> It went viral. >> I was like, "Wow, I guess you did pretty. good.". >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Rest in peace. >> My favorite memory of Harper is when she. blamed me for slapping Kate when she. really slapped Kate. And no one in this. room ever brought it up again. So. therefore, everyone thought that I. slapped Kate. But just so you know, on. that. Harper's Memorial Day service, you're. using her memorial as a way for you to. get justice. Wow. is after you die.

>> Yeah, but this is basically the same. thing as death right now. >> No, Harper will be back in like two or. three episodes. You're fine. >> A-OK. Okay. >> Is she missing an episode? Cuz she ain't. here. >> Okay. Well, she is sad. >> What if she never feels good again? >> Okay. >> What if she never gets that fire back in. her? >> What if she never feels the LOL spirit? >> She's going. >> She will lol again. >> What if she just retires? >> No, she won't be doing. >> Well, she might retire from y'all, but. she's not retired from me and Kate. >> Yeah, >> she could. Wow. Yeah, we'll have the C. with.

what? We just had this conversation. >> Oh, yeah. Crying out loud. That we're. trademarking that. Did you know? >> Oh, yeah. Crying out loud. Like laugh. out loud. >> No, but it's like crying out loud. >> Cringing out loud. Yelling out loud. What's Kenzie's? >> Well, I meant like cuz lolinate cringing. to him. >> Oh yeah. >> Wow. That's kind of disrespectful. >> What part of this is cringey? >> I think I'm respectful. >> I feel like we need an organ. >> An organ? Does anybody know how to make. an organ noise with their mouth? >> Oh, I thought you were saying organ like.

a body part. Like we just need to bring. >> some definitions of organ. >> Before we move on from our favorite. memories, I think we would not be doing. justice to Harper. >> Poor Harper. >> Oh, one of my favorite memories is when. she threw up on you. >> Oh, that was funny. >> That was good. That was good. >> What? What did we need to do, Matt? >> We need to think about what was Harper's. favorite memories. And I think we all. know um. is when Cash was throwing up the Tootsie. Rolls. >> Oh my gosh. >> It was stuck in her mouth too. She was. like. >> she was laughing so hard and then Cash.

was like vomiting and. >> she'll never laugh like that again. One. of my favorite memories of Harper. >> hopefully. >> not on film was our very first ever live. show in Dallas. >> and I me and Kate are in one room and. Harper decided to go in a different room. by herself to get dressed because I had. a couch and it was dark and she was not. feeling very well and I walk in there to. get her and she had walked out to go to. the bathroom and I see all her makeup on. the desk and everything but then there's. just this big glob of brownness and I.

was like. >> uh we're going to need more the kitchen. on that, Kenzie. >> No, >> it was shaped like a It was literally. like a what? >> Like a turd. >> Yeah. And but it was sitting on top of. the counter. >> So if it was, she would have had to. stand up on the desk to be able to do. that. But it was not that. After further. investigation, I realized for some weird. reason all by herself without any video. cameras around, she decided to chew up a. bunch of bunch of Tootsie Rolls and just. shove them together in the shape of. poop.

>> It's probably in the memory of her. favorite episode. >> Probably. Yo, Los Angeles, guys, is coming up next. on our world tour. If you guys have been. to any of our shows so far, you're going. to want to still come to the Los Angeles. show because we are going to have. special guests at this show and it is. going to be a crazy show. So, if you can. come to Los Angeles on October 5th, go. get your tickets right now at the. lolodcast.net. It is going to be a crazy show. And then. after that we are going to Chicago,

Houston, Oklahoma City, Dallas, Melbourne, Sydney, London, Dublin, and. Manchester. So if you guys live in any. of these cities, we're on tour right. now. So go to the lolodcast.net and go. get your tickets before it's too late. >> Dude, I want to memorialize me, man. >> What am I? >> I want everyone to sit around here and. blaze me. >> Another off camera moment that is just. so funny cuz it's so Harper. First of. all, every time we've gotten on a flight. on tour, >> wait, I have a video we should pop up.

and we I we we could talk about. >> speed demon on flight. >> We could talk about Harper on tour for. this whole episode and y'all would die. >> That time she tried to book a private. jet. >> because she didn't want to wait on a. layover. >> No, y'all don't understand. She has been. the funniest person to travel with this. whole. >> She called a private jet company while. we're in the middle of an airport. She's. like, "Hello, can you get me to Dallas?". ASAP. I don't care what it costs. We're like, Harper, you ain't even got that much. money. What are you talking about? And. she was like, "And can you pick me up.

from the airport? I'm at terminal B.". And they were like, they said, "Yes, actually.". >> Yeah. What was surprising is this guy. was like, "We don't do flights like. that. We don't we don't do that." And. she kept arguing with them. And he was. like, "Okay, I'm on my way.". >> And it was the middle of the night. It. was dead middle of the night, 1:00 a.m. And Harper was going to go with this. dude, leave the airport to go get on a. private jet. >> Yeah. I don't know if it was the correct. number cuz it's kind of fishy. >> No, but that same day, this whole day. was so funny. The same day, every time. we get on a flight, whether Harper. actually has a window seat or not, she's.

sitting in the window seat and I have. seen multiple times now. >> Whoa. >> I have seen multiple times now. >> Hold on. >> Oh, big things are happening over there. Very big things. >> You should bend that back. >> Well, you bent it out of shape. You. should have had the lid on the lid. >> It's all right. >> It's a rectangle now. It's all right. Continue. >> Um, multiple times she has taken Alex's. window seat and made him sit in the. middle. >> Yeah. >> And Alex is a tall dude.

>> Alex is like 6'. >> He's big. And Harper is this tiny girl. that just like curls up in a ball. against the window. She goes she goes. unconscious for the whole flight. >> I'm not kidding. Her feet don't touch. the ground. Her whole her whole body's. in the seat. >> Yeah. But we were dying. I was dying. this one specific day. the same day she. tried to call a private jet because she. starts texting me cuz this was the day. we had a horrible travel day where we. were like not taking off. She starts. texting me. She's like, "I'm freaking. out." And I'm like, "Why?" And she's. like, "Maverick smells like hot. Cheetos." And I was like, "Okay." And.

she's like, "I'm going to throw up." And. then somebody sitting next to her in the. group chat, I think it was like you or. Pape sends a picture. Harper's got the. vomit bag to her face and she's just. like. >> e. >> just like holding it there and I was. like, "Are you okay?" Okay. And she was. like, "Maverick smells so bad. I'm going. to have to move." And. >> I'm not sitting near her, by the way. I'm like two rows away. Here's a good. here's a good moment on. >> Continue with my favorite part of the. story. >> And then she like never throws up. She. just sits there and she's like, "I'm. going to throw up." But what were you. going to say? >> Oh, I was just going to say that.

Maverick has never ate a hot Cheeto in. her life. And walking onto the plane, she's carrying a bag of hot Cheetos. She. was eating hot Cheetos. And she's trying. to She smelled like hot Cheetos. Trying. to blame it on me. trying to blame her. smelling on me two rows away. >> Wow. >> And then and then that that same day cuz. it was a horrible travel day. We had. been at the airport for like over 12. hours when we have to deboard our plane. for the third time and walk to a. different terminal in the airport. Harper's just walking like this. She's. like, "Open.

the. >> That's kind of accurate.". >> It's actually kind of accurate. She's. like running into walls, >> hitting everything. >> Where were we? Well, remember when we. >> People like get out of her way, too. They're just like, >> "Yeah, it's like a homeless addict just. coming at you, man.". >> Were we in Philadelphia? >> One time. That's why I was like, "I hate. >> Wait, y'all remember when we showed up. to like one of the last shows and in the. airport, Harper had her pants on. backwards in the airport and her mom was. like, "It's been a rough day." I'm like, "What?". >> No. No. >> That the day didn't even start when you.

put your pants on though. >> We were in this last uh show. We were in. Cincy. >> and it was me and Kate and Harper and. her mom had left the the hotel the last. >> and we're walking out and we get on the. sidewalk. Okay. It's like super busy. streets and the ground like the concrete. is dirty cuz there's people and stuff, you know? >> It's like not getting cleaned. >> Yeah. And Harper has one shoe on this. foot with a short sock and a long sock.

on this leg with no shoe. And she was. walking like this and her hair was like. pretend your hair is in a ponytail and. then you just yanked it really hard and. then dropped it. That's how her hair. was. I have a picture. I can pop it up. >> You know, Kenzie, there's terms for. that. Called chopped. >> Chopped. >> It's called chopped. Chopped. >> Chopped. Oh, you said chuck. >> Yeah, I was just giving you know, you. know, young people. >> I know what chopped means. You need a. definition. >> I don't think that's even really what. chopped means. >> What? Yeah, chopped means like your. hair's chopped.

>> It's more like a bad haircut. more than. just your hair, I think. >> Well, yeah, your face can look. >> You could also just be chopped as a. human. You could be. >> Anyways, it was just so funny cuz we. were like, "Harp, where's your shoe?". And she was like, "I don't know." And we. were like, "Is that the only shoes you. brought?" And she was like, "Yep." And. we were like, "What are you going to do. on stage?" She was like, "I don't know.". >> She was not worried about it. >> So carefree. >> Rest in peace. >> No, she's alive. >> Y'all don't know that. We haven't talked. to her in at least a good two hours. Anything could have happened.

>> Stop saying that. That's sad. >> I'm just saying. >> I do feel bad for her. The little girl. is going through a lot right now. >> Yeah. >> For like I literally just called her and. I was like, "Hey, you coming on the. podcast?" I was like, "Oh, I'm so. sorry.". >> Do you remember your first breakup, Kate? >> Um, I would I Yes, my first breakup. But. I would say the pain that Harper is. probably feeling. >> is more comparable to the way I felt. about Cash. >> and like even though we never actually. broke up, but like the amount of times. we like called it off and stuff, >> you just hurt her.

Yeah. All the time. I. >> uh I don't like my name being in that. situation. >> Yeah. But no, I think it's. I think it's I. >> I think it's a number of things. honestly. Like in reality, the last few. months this specifically just like how. much we've been working and traveling. has been like very demanding on all of. us. >> I know what would cheer her up. I know. what would. Next time Harper comes on and there's no. memorial to be had, >> when Harper's here,

>> we have Bobby Riz sitting right next to. her. That'll make her happy. Hilarious. Bobby Riz can raise her up. That's what. we need. >> That'll cheer you up. >> Bobby Riz, if you want to come on the. pod to cheer up Harper. >> and re her up, she can be your new What. does he call him? >> Huzz Well, Huz. >> What? >> H. Is that Is that appropriate? >> Yeah. >> H. You don't think HU is appropriate? >> What does HU mean? That Kate is so. >> Oh my gosh. >> Oh my gosh. Kate, >> why do you think Bobby.

>> I I swear you just don't hang out with. people in real life. >> Anyways, don't use technology that people under. rocks use. >> Bobby Riz could come on and he could sit. next to Harper and Harper could be his. huz and it would be Wait, no. Harper. could be his I don't know. >> Harper could be his huz. Harper would be. his huz. >> Yeah. And I don't know. I feel like that. would just be a great episode back. >> Why would you want to be anyone's Huzz? >> Wait. is tell me what huz actually. means. >> I feel like y'all are using it wrong. >> No, >> exactly. If it's husband, why would.

Harper be his husband? >> No, it's not. >> Uh, >> okay. I guess I actually don't know what. it means cuz yeah, husband would make. sense if he was walking around to girls. and he was like, "You want to be my. husband?". >> I don't I knew the term and y'all. didn't. >> You're wrong for what does that mean. then? >> But I will say this uh if if I can. change topics. Is that okay? Someone. else has a huz. What? Someone else has a. new huz. You don't even know what that. word means. And I would stop saying it.

But but but we know something of what it. kind of implies. >> What? >> Well, it implies like a lover of sorts. Implies like Yeah. You like that person, you know? >> Yeah, it does. That's what I That's what. it means. But that's just stupid. >> Wait, what does it mean? You looked it. up. >> Yeah. H U Z. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. You know how it's spelled. What. does it mean? >> But it just makes no sense. >> Wait, what makes no sense? >> So, what does it mean? >> Like how people used to say bae, they. don't say that anymore.

>> They say h. >> Yeah, but bae makes sense because it's. for before anyone else. Huz is random. >> I didn't know what ba was. I thought. >> No, bae means before anyone else. >> No, bae was short for baby. >> No, bae was before. anyone else. You're my bae. You are. before anyone else. No, >> never heard of that in my life. >> Well, y'all know. >> Also, me and C didn't we weren't great. at spelling. So, >> yeah. >> Yeah. >> How do you think you spell ba? >> B A. >> before anyone else.

>> You guys think just cuz you added an ads. means truth. >> Okay. See, they think we're bad at. spelling, but I'm pretty sure B A. [Applause]. mean. >> B A does not spell before anyone else. >> It does. No, before it spells bay. >> Anyone? >> And we didn't say it's spelled before. anyone else. >> You take the first letter before and the. second letter. >> Do you know that acronyms have dots in. between them? >> Hey y.

like a word. >> Guys, >> too much nitty-gritty going on. >> We're missing the point of the episode. The point of the episode is that I. really miss. >> the point of the episode is I have an. idea. >> Okay. Well, I have a great topic about. huz and bays. >> I have an idea. This topic might Okay, continue then. If it's about huz and. bays, I won't change the topic. >> No, I do huzes and bays. I got a great. topic. >> Okay, >> but let's go. >> But my topic is probably going to really. derail us. >> onto a whole new adventure. Trust me, my. topic. My topic might get cut. It's so. crazy topic. Really?

>> No. >> I'm Tell me more. >> Um, so here's what I was wondering the. other day. Women live longer than men. >> Uhhuh. But I I looked it up. >> Also, I find that highly sexist. >> Yeah, me too. They live longer than us. >> More women. >> I'm a I respect women, but I want to. live too. Guys, so women live longer. than men by about like I don't know 10. years or so. >> Y'all, that's selfish. You taking 10. years of our life to add up years. We. could split it right in the middle. Five. years. >> Here's what I was thinking. >> I like being a man, >> right? >> I enjoy it. >> Maybe when I'm like 70 and I.

[Laughter]. conversation, >> husbands and bays. >> I think I can get an extra 10 years. That's all I'm saying. >> Okay, Cash, what's your point? My. husband and bays combo is uh there is a. new person that has a huzz or a bae and. it's Alex. >> Alex talk about your h. >> I think we should bring Alex on and he. should talk about his huzz. bae. Whatever term he would like to use.

>> Come on. >> What would you like to What would you. like a body? You might as well get this. right out of here. >> Don't disrespect Harper. She put her in. between us. >> Yeah, I'll take her. Wait, I'll take. her. I'll be gentle. >> No, you already you already hurt. be. trusted with Harper's life. We can't let. her get hurt by ashes. >> Let me just No, we are not letting her. get touched. >> Too much chaos. >> Give me the memorial. >> Okay, how about this? >> What's happening back here? >> Everyone put down Harper. Put her down. >> Give me the memorial. >> She She's okay there. She's okay. >> I want the memorial. >> No, she's fine.

>> Can I just have the memorial, please? >> Okay. Give him Give him the hus. >> Give me the memorial. >> No. >> Give him the little husband. >> You have to say Okay, I'll give it to. you. If if you say Harper is better at. me in all aspects of life. >> See what type of degradation is that? >> That's messed up. >> That had nothing to do with your sex. >> Oh my god. Don't. >> Oh, he broke her. >> Okay. Don't put her in the.

>> Just like that, she's forgotten. >> Horrible. No, her flame lives on. >> No. It's horrible. >> The flame. >> Can I see my. >> That's disrespectful. Can we see? This. was a joke. But the flame just can't be. reit. >> It can. Give me the lighter. >> Yeah. >> Can I Don't tase yourself. >> Can we see your Harper? >> I'm putting Harper right here. >> Can Can we see her? Harper would want to. be with us. >> Whoa. Okay. Put Harper over there. >> Yeah. I think Harper wants to be with. me.

>> We got questions for you, Alex. >> Um, >> what advice would you give Harper in in. her situation? Harper, >> I don't I don't want to know the answer. >> No, >> I No, not yet. It's Harper's business. Um, >> let's get into Let's start. Let's talk. about everything that's happened. Don't. touch anything. Please don't touch. anything. >> I think I'm making sure. >> It's on. It's on. I already looked. I. already looked. >> Okay. I Wait, before we get into.

anything, >> what are you playing with over there? >> Oh, lolslime.com. I don't know why. slime. That's Alex's favorite. I don't. even know how to see the mics are on. I. don't know why we even went over there. >> That's the only nonf false. >> We need to talk about. >> I'll be honest. This episode we've been. kind of beating around the bush. We need. >> I don't like that term. >> Me neither. >> It's kind of weird. I What do you mean. you're beating around the bush? >> I can tell you about it later. Okay, listen. So, I think personally. >> Mhm. We need to get in to everything.

that has been going on with Harper and. just put it let everybody know the. answers. >> It's not here. We can't do that. >> But that's why we should do it behind. her back. I think we should talk about. all of it. >> I see. >> You know that this is a public podcast. that she can watch thousands and thous. would watch her own memorial. >> No. >> Harper. I don't think she will honestly. >> Yeah. No, she won't. So, let's just go. ahead and tell everybody what happened. >> I'm sorry. I'm really just clip farming. at this point. >> Okay. I want to hear about Alex's huz.

>> Yeah. Let's actually get into the combo. here. Alex has a new huz, a new bay, some may say. >> Wait, what would you like to call this. person? >> You. think she'd be offended to find out that. you were referring to her as your husb. seems more degrading than bae. I don't. know why. It's just that you h. >> There's a lot of people is cringey. Ba. is cringy. >> A lot of people have been online waiting. for this day. >> My little boo thing. No. Boo. Dang. That's. >> I mean it's Halloween time. >> Say uh what are other names? My my.

little darling. >> What type of so redneck? >> I know. I'm giving you options here. >> You could say my baby girl. >> Um. >> he probably does say that. >> Uh girl, >> Alex. Alex, we got one. >> really tough question for you, huh? >> Wait, I want to know what he calls her. Oh, you don't call her anything else? Just her name. >> Good for you. Don't say any of the other. names. They're really weird. >> Remember, >> you have the right to. >> remain silent.

>> Remain silent or use your second. amendment. >> That No, don't shoot. Don't show it. >> Okay. U first amendment right to remain. silent. >> No. >> No. >> What's the first freedom of speech? Which Wait, that's kind of. contradicting. Wait, I guess you had the. freedom to remain silent. >> Yeah. Well, you can you can plead the. fifth on this one if you'd like. >> It's the fifth amendment. >> Yes. >> Is it really? >> Yes. >> Oh. called complete the fifth. >> Yeah, the fifth in. >> so you can plead the fifth if you'd. like. How long you been here? >> Wait, hold on. Before we ask the.

question, I got such a funny thing. Y'all going to lose it. >> Oh, >> Harper's playing with LOL. >> This podcast is going everywhere every. no. Hold on. Y'all are y'all are going. to lose this. I promise you. Rest in. peace, Harper. >> What do you What do you. >> This podcast. >> ten a campfire one. That one's. >> tenments. No, 10 amendments. >> Amendments. >> Wait, what? What we just. >> the constitution? >> There's more than. >> a bill of rights. What are you trying to. find here?

>> What is that called? If I looked up. what's. >> the Constitution? >> Third Amendment. >> I have them right here. >> No, no, no, no. What do y'all think the. Constitution is? >> Hold on here. >> Wait. Do y'all know the difference. between the Bill of Rights and the. Constitution? Is anyone here? >> This is so funny. Listen, it's might not. be as funny now. It might be like one of. those things. It might have been one of. those things you had to see the video. for. >> I can't. Oh, no. >> But I I saw this video hand. And that's.

not the move. >> Hands has to be used for a slime. >> What are you saying? >> I'm sorry. What was that? >> Wait, listen. No, listen, listen. the. first uh I saw this video was like POV. you were alive 200 years ago or whatever. and you were writing the the. constitution and it was like first. amendment freedom of speech and it was. like anyone else. >> that's not the constitution. what the amendments. rights. >> the bill of rights and it was like bo.

you were alive 200 something years ago. and you were writing the bill of rights. and it was like the first guy uh freedom. of speech they're like that's a good one. that's a good one and then it was like. uh right to bear arms they're like I. like that I like that And then they were. like, "Nobody can live in my house.". What? Put that down. No soldiers in my. house. What is that? The third one. >> No one's allowed to live with me. >> I honestly don't know all of them. >> That's the third one. No sir, no soldier. shall in time in time of peace be. quartered in any house without the.

owner's consent. >> And they're like, somebody was really. geeking out about that. They're like, that should be number three. No soldiers. living with me. >> All right. Do you think this is really. funny? >> I I don't think. >> I thought it was in Tik Tok. >> Okay. >> I don't I don't think you understand. what that really means. What. >> I know what the constitution is. >> No one asked that. Okay. >> Good. >> I want to talk about HUD. >> Oh yeah. >> First off, if you're going to flex like. that, what is the Constitution? >> We the people in order to form a more.

perfect union, establish justice, justice, ensure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense. >> Yeah. No, you don't got to prove. yourself. Actually, >> I don't think it No, please continue. reading the Declaration of Independence, not the Constitution. >> Wait, Kate, did you get those letters in. the mail when you were younger from. >> How many things did they write? >> A lot. >> Declaration, Independence, amendments. >> At least three of them. >> Wow. What was your significant question? >> What happened in 1770? No, I'm kidding.

>> You had a giant one for Al. Oh, have you. kissed your husb? >> Uh, yeah. >> Oo, we're getting we're getting spicy. >> Spicy. Somebody say like a bag of spicy. >> Okay, I have a follow-up question. >> Okay, >> follow up. >> How was it? >> One out of 10. >> A 10. >> You gave her a 10. >> Good answer. He's on the public.

>> Would she give you a 10? is the real. >> she's call her up. I don't know. You'll. never know. >> Call her up. Let's ask her. >> No. >> Uhhuh. >> She's at work. >> Okay. We need to We need to um despise a. plan to get her phone number. >> We need to get the hurls. Find it out. >> Is uh is she older than you? >> Wait, just call her place of work. You. have the phone number. >> You do have that? >> Yeah. It was crazy enough. I I found. where she worked. >> Yeah. No, he tried to stalk her. >> Yeah. Matt tried to find Alex was hiding. her from us. Y'all want I have a crazy.

story about this crazy story. >> Alex is a man of few words. >> Alex was like, "Hey, uh, I I'll tell. y'all her name." And he told us her. name. And then Mav calls and Alex weeks. go by. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Not weeks go by. It was like 3 days and. he's already geeking out trying to call. every place in the vicinity. >> And Alex was like, "Okay, she's a. waitress and I'll tell you her name. That's all I'm telling you. She's a. waitress and here's her name. We'll call. her Megan.". Megan. >> Yes. Anyways, Mav's like, "Okay, she's a.

waitress and her name is Megan. I will. find her." So, Maverick calls every. restaurant in around our area. Hello. Does Megan work there? And they're like, "Uh, no, no, no, no, no." And then one. of them was like, "Megin works here.". And he was like, "hm, that could be her. I don't think so." And then one he picks. up and was like, "Does Megan work. there?" And they're like, "We're not. allowed to give out that information.". And M was like, "Gotcha. >> Bingo. Gotcha." And he actually was. right. But anyway, last week me and him.

went out to dinner after church and me. and Matt were at dinner and we heard a. name Magina. That was our waitress. >> That was our waitress and I was like. Matt was like I think I called about her. once. >> I was like that's that's creepy. >> That's crazy. >> Yeah, she she definitely got there cuz I. was telling him I was like I'm just her. cuz you know I'm just I just need to. know like when she gets worse so I can. pick her up. No. What's crazy is Alex had started. dating his huz or saying his huz or.

whatever he was doing with his huz. >> Can we call her something else? It. sounds like you're saying husband. >> Well, he was he was he was seeing the. girl for months before he told any of us. until one day we all took a family trip. to the mall and we were at the mall and. we were closing the mall down. You know, we had been there a while and he's like, "Hey, I got to get out of here." We were. like, "Alex, where the heck are you. going?" Like, "What? Shut up. You don't. have to be nowhere." and he's like, "I. got a movie I got to make." And we were. like, "A movie?". >> Yeah. >> Keep in mind, we had invited him to a. movie the week before and he said no. He.

wouldn't go to the movies with us. >> I already saw the movie. >> Yeah. Well, then we didn't know you. already saw the movie cuz we didn't know. you went to the movies because he was. lying. >> I wasn't lying. He was never asked what. I was doing. >> Yeah. Uh. >> Yeah. Well, then. >> he's still fishy. Then we finally asked. and we found out Alex had been seeing. this girl and we had not known of her. And then he was being all secretive. because he knew M would stalk her. >> and he did. >> I was right to be suspicious. >> He didn't think I'd stalk her. >> I did. And that you caught her. You.

caught every restaurant. That was after. weeks. >> That was not weeks. >> Yes, it was. >> No, because Alex didn't tell us. anything. After we found out he had been. seeing her, he didn't tell us anything. for like another few weeks. And then. after the few weeks, we kept bugging him. and we were like, "Alex, tell us. something." And that's when he told us. her name and that she was a racist. >> And he said, "I will tell you if you're. right. You can guess as many restaurants. as you want.". >> Yeah. Yeah. I didn't tell you. >> And guess what? He lied. >> I did. >> So get off the podcast. You liar. What? Yeah. No more red head. We got rid of.

two red heads in one day. >> Oh yeah, I'm Harper. >> She is Harper. Do you see the red hair? >> Harper. >> Wait, I have to know the full story. What. >> did you do that or did she do that? >> She did that. >> Okay. She just randomly was like, "Hey, let's color your hair.". >> No, I wanted to, but she did. >> So, you randomly said. >> backtracking. >> No, she did it, but I wanted to. >> You randomly said, "Hey, you want to. color my hair?". >> You like consented to it. You mean you. were like. >> It was like a mutual conversation. >> Like, I asked. >> What made you do that? >> I don't know. Honestly, everyone was.

going Why are you talking about it like. it's a bad decision? >> No, I'm just It's way out of the box for. Alex. Alex was in like some sort of. midlife crisis cuz we had all been. >> everyone was gone. No one was in my. house. My house, y'all's house for like. a week and a half. I was stressing out. There was nothing to do. >> Like if Cash came back with red hair, it'd be like, "Well, that's. interesting." But I expect Cash to do. that. >> No. If Kate left the house for like two. weeks, Cash would do something crazy. >> No. >> Yeah. All of the guys kind of lose it. whenever people aren't around. But like. like when when when uh frick, don't clip.

me for stuttering. Anyways, uh this last weekend when. Kinsey went out of town for like two. nights and Matt was here by himself, like he was like, "We got to go do. something. We got to go do something.". >> A. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Alex, what's your favorite memory. with Harper? >> Probably every single time she took your. window seat on the plane, >> he had the middle. >> Crazy. I literally walked into the seat. and she was just there. I was like, >> she was already asleep. I say. >> there was one time. >> she kind of looks like she'll bite you,

huh? I need to see if I can find the video on. my phone, but I have a video where I. thought you were sitting behind me and I. took a clip of me and Mav and I went. like this and I was like, "Oh, where. where's Alex's head?" And I kept going. and I was at the middle of the seat and. you still weren't there. I was like, "Well, this is really odd." And I. finally get like this and Harper's. literally in a ball on the I'm like, "How does one's body do that to you. airplane seat?". >> Well, outside of that, what is your. favorite memory of Harper? >> You give me a second. >> Okay. One, two. Ain't no one laugh that.

hard at that. >> I think this might be bad to bring up, but I feel like my f like looking back. was funny is when everyone flamed Cash. for asking her what she sees. I. >> thought that was a little. >> That's what That's your moment. You. picked. >> It's kind of. >> the mental health episode. that's not a. >> horrible human being. To give context to. that story, Harper was like, "I see. things." Like, "I have mental health. issues. I see things." I was like,

"Well, what do you see?". >> Not her specific and more Kate's. reaction to you saying that. >> Yeah. Kate was like, "You cannot ask. people what they see." I was like, "Why. not? I want to know.". >> I feel like Harper said something out of. pocket to you one time that I remember. And we were all like, Harper, what did. she say? Yes. >> Oh, yeah. I can't We can't say that. I. don't think. Ah, wait. Tell what she. said. We'll believe it if we can't. >> No. I think she asked if I was gay. I think she did. She was like, "Are you. gay?". >> Oh, we don't got to believe that. No, that's really fun.

>> And now you got the hug. >> Did she ask you that on the podcast? >> No, I don't think I don't actually. remember. >> No, that was definitely Harper just like. casually being like, "So, are you gay?". Like, >> she's like, "You never had a. girlfriend?" I don't know. She's. curious. >> She's so crazy. Oh, I miss her. You'll. be back soon. >> Oh, there we go. >> Okay. >> Think we're all family right here. This is just this is the family podcast. tonight. >> That is crazy thing. We are all related. >> We are family. >> If Well, never mind. I won't say that.

>> No, don't. >> What? >> Nothing. >> Oh, yeah. Don't say that. >> What were you about? >> I know what he was about to say. Don't. >> Was he about to say the thing? >> Yes. >> He He's obsessed with that thing. >> Yeah, he is. He's so weird. >> What thing? >> The thing. >> Oh, >> you're obsessed with the thing. >> Hey, you have to share with the kids. What's the thing? >> Wait. Okay. Okay. Wait. I think it's. time to end the thing. >> Yeah. >> All right. Goodbye. Bye. >> Kate is going to call Harper on the. episode. Hopefully this goes well. >> Hey. >> Hi. How are you? >> Good. How are you? >> Good. >> What are you doing? >> I'm watching the sunset right now. Well,

it's dark now, but like I'm just sitting. down. >> A That's sad. >> I bet her and Benny used to watch the. sunset. >> Matt, why would you say that? >> Still thinking about everything. I just. want some time alone because, you know, like everything has been kind of hard. and different now. [Music]. >> Well, today is another weird day because. Harper is still not here with us. Well, not really, >> but um. >> she's still here in spirit. >> Yeah, her flame is still going, >> but not for a lot longer. It's slowly. burning out.

>> Don't know how much longer she passed. us. >> That candle cost me $10. >> That's insane. Don't ever buy one again. >> You can't afford $10 for Harper's. Memorial. Okay, anyways. >> Well, I had other candles you couldn't. get. >> Harper is still not here with us today. Um she's still taking a little bit more. time off. >> um due to the world economy and. circumstances. It's in economic form. right now. Uh. >> yeah. >> Yeah. So she is still taking some time. off. Yeah. We might get into it a little. bit later. Um. >> when she's. >> I don't know. But as of right now, uh.

she is still taking some time off. Um. >> we should call her later. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. We can check up on her. >> We'll check up on her. But uh yeah, she's still taking time off for herself. to find herself, >> you know, to explore. >> um the world. >> Yeah. >> So, she will not be here again today. >> Last I spoke with her, um. >> she was in N. She's in Vietnam. Yeah. >> She's still going to make it. >> Uh well, anyways guys, welcome back to. another episode. So, today is going to. be a little off again. Might be a little. weird. >> Yep. >> Might not be as much loling,

>> but it'll be a day, that's for sure. Yeah. >> Uh, without Harper here, it does just. feel a little empty in this room. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> She was a light everywhere she walked. >> Man, I do hate it. Like, I wish we. didn't have to do episodes without her. It's way more fun when she's here. >> I know. Second episode ever. We've done. 220 something episodes. This is the. second episode ever. >> I hope she comes back soon. >> Yeah. >> Um, I've never not been on an episode. >> I haven't either. >> Actually, no. Me and you have. They They. did like two girl episodes and they.

kicked us off. Wow. I'm the only one. that's been on every single episode. ever. >> That's crazy. >> Is that a flex? >> Kate is Kate is the only one that has. never. >> I'm pretty sure there's been episodes. with Kyle. that you weren't there for. >> No, but she was there at some point, I. think. >> And then she got kicked off. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> Anyways. >> Yeah. But we still have one up on them. cuz you know LOL Bros. We did a lot of. episodes on there. So it's like LOL Bros. like isn't even a thing. It's called LOL. something else. And it's like quit. so.

unsuccessful with. >> We did start another channel though. called LOL Studios. You guys should go. check that out. We'll uh The link is in. the description. Um. >> there's actually a video with Harper on. there right now. >> Yeah, there's Well, that aged well. >> Yeah, it didn't really age too well. >> No, it did not. Did not. >> Maybe it did. Maybe, you know, >> I don't know. Let me know. Yeah. LOL. Studios, we have some videos on there. going up. Uh yeah, it's going to be a. fun channel. You can go subscribe to it. I think it's about to actually I think. it hit 100k maybe. I don't know. Um, but.

you guys should go subscribe. I will say. this. I will say this. Uh, in that. episode, it's Harper and Benny doing. like their talking and stuff. And we we. didn't talk a lot last time about the. situation that's been going on. And I do. think we need to talk about it a little. bit today. I do feel genuinely bad for. both of them. I think they're both Well, okay. Here's the thing. Here's the. thing. Everyone. >> I do feel bad for both of them. >> I do think they're both very sad. >> This is not your story to tell. >> Yeah. Everyone, >> let's leave it as that. >> Everyone memorialized. And that is it.

Okay. >> I think it is always important to. remember, shut your mouth, Maverick. Team Harper forever. >> I'm not on any team. No way. >> But if I was on a team, it'd be Team. Harper. Of course. Calm down. Listen. >> Are we the drama? No. No. >> Maverick is the drama. >> Kate said Team Harper. She was like, "I'm going to make a Team Harper. t-shirt." She said that the other day, actually. >> Maverick says unserious things during. serious moments and make people think. that he has like no heart at all. And he. does. He's just as unserious. >> No heart. No, no. All All I'm saying is.

is I don't want to say too much about. anything because a. >> we don't all know that much. >> That's fine. You don't have to. I will. So, I'll say it all. >> It's none of your business. >> Yeah. None of us have really actually. know that much knowledge about it at. all. I know all of it actually. >> No, we don't. And I don't want to have. to cut anything because we say something. that's wrong or something. >> So, I think for time being. >> No, I'm going to say it all right now. Okay. But I I do I do feel bad for both. I think they're both I think mistakes. are made. I don't know the details of.

everything, but I will say I am uh. wishing them both the best. >> Mhm. >> Wishing well. Some. >> wishing well. >> Wishing in a well. >> Um. >> well well some might say well. anybody else in Wait, did anybody else. growing up in the wishing wells always. try to take the money? >> Yeah. Yeah. I was always scared. >> Did you guys do that? >> No, we didn't have wishing wells where I. came from. >> in Texas. They literally have one like a. mile from here. I literally No way. Where? Over by the movieountain. A. fountain. >> That's a fountain. That's not a well. >> That's a wish. Like when people throw. coins in it.

>> Oh, you mean a fountain? When you throw. coins in a fountain. You know what a. wish? >> It's like make a wish. >> You know what a well is? A well is like. 70 ft deep in the ground. You're not. stealing any money. >> I did. You know those little McDonald's. things where you you put coins in to. donate to the people for food. >> at McDonald's? >> Yeah. >> I used to try to stick my hands in there. when I was like five. >> Wow. >> Robbing the needy. >> That was not good. >> I know. Wait, is it you know the one? Is. it the same one like the ones at Walmart. and stuff? Like when they would spin. around? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I was so jealous of all the money.

in there all the time. I'll tell you St. Jude Hospital. I'm going to get. >> Oh my gosh, that reminds me of a story. No, it's not that long of a story, but. we used to go to uh what is that place. called? CeCe's every Friday. >> Oh, I beg my mom for the money for that. arcade. >> Yeah, they had an arcade in every CC's. But in our CC's in Livingston, it was. the best arcade. It probably wasn't, but. in my mind, it was the best arcade. But. at the time when I was like eight, my. little brother was two and he could walk. and talk and so it was the perfect time. to shove him in those little claw.

machines cuz he could fit and he would. just crawl up there and get us the toys. and come back out. And one time he got. stuck. >> Oh, so you were stealing. >> Yes. >> But actually it was stealing from us. because every time we put coins in. there, it wouldn't give us a toy. So. really really getting what we deserve. Stuck in the game. >> No, we were just getting what we. deserved. But he got stuck and my mom is. really sad. She started crying. So. >> she thought she was going to lose him. forever. >> Yeah. So we had the claw machine.

>> Imagine your 2-year-old gets stuck in a. >> He's going to be all right. It's not. like the claw's going to attack him and. kill him. >> I try though. I try to get a crazy. horror store movie. >> Stuck in the claw. >> Oh god. >> And it's just cuz you're stuck in a claw. machine. >> Imagine it's a giant claw machine. A. giant one. And everyone's in there and. the claw randomly just takes people and. it's like. >> No, he wasn't in the claw machine. section where the toys were. He was in. the drop section and his body was just. stuck. >> Oh my gosh. This has got to be in Squid.

Games. Squid Game seasons 3. This game. needs to happen. A giant claw machine. They play the kids music. >> Kids music. >> You ever seen Squid Games? Yeah, but do. they go? >> Yeah, they always play like kids songs. Not that song. Wait, are you saying put. all like 200 people in the claw machine? >> Yeah, it's like a ginormous. It's like a. giant claw machine thing and it's like. they're all running around and then it's. like and then it takes them over to the. drop thing. It's like. >> Wow. That's If you like Squid Games,

>> I have a question real quick. Can I see? No, I hope they do. That would be an. epic game in Squid Game. >> Can I see your water bottle? Squid. Games. I love Squid Games. >> No, I'm not going to do anything bad. I. promise. I just have a game. >> Just let him see your water bottle real. quick. >> Have some trust these days. Let him see. it. No, >> give me just give me water. >> What are you going to do? >> Nothing bad. Give me the water bottle. Thank you. I'm going to destroy it. You. know. >> he's like. >> real quick, Cash. >> Okay, >> I saw this on TikTok. >> This is a trick. >> Maybe I should do it to Keny. >> Well,

>> actually, I'll do it to all three of. you, but if you catch on, please do not. ruin it for whoever doesn't. >> Magic's not fun. Then, >> real quick, is this water bottle? Okay, ready? All right, here we go. >> Don't put your fingers on my mouth. >> Open or closed? Open. >> Open. >> Open. >> Wrong. Okay. Open or closed? >> Closed. >> Closed. >> Open. >> It is closed. Good job, you two. Good.

job. >> Okay. >> Open or closed? >> Open. >> Open. >> Open. >> Yes, it is open. Open or closed? >> What are we doing here? >> Open or closed? >> Open. >> I got it. >> Open. >> No. Closed. >> Open. >> How do we know if Kate actually got it? Or she's just saying she's got it. >> Open or closed. >> You got it. There's nothing to get.

>> Open or closed? >> Closed. >> Open. >> Yes, it is open. It is closed. You are. so You are so wrong. It is open. Cash. Open or closed? Open. Yes. Open or close? Closed? No. Why? I don't know. Here we go. Ready? No. I'm serious. >> Wait, I still Why are you only asking. cash? I don't know. >> Okay. Open or closed? >> Closed. >> Open or closed? Open. >> Open.

>> You're right. You're right. You're. right. You're right. You're right. You're right. Open or closed? >> Open. >> I'm done. >> Open or closed? >> I'm done with the game. >> Open or closed? >> Closed. >> Open. Wrong. What? I get it. >> Okay. Open or closed? >> Yeah, she's never going to get it. >> Open. No, wrong. Closed. It's closed. Open or closed? Closed. Wrong. It's. open. >> Open. >> Please. This is hurting my head. >> Open or closed. >> There's no way there's anything to this. >> Open or closed. >> Do you get this, Alex? >> I don't know what's happening. >> Yeah. What is happening right now?

>> Open. Got it. >> You guys, >> trust me, everyone watching gets it. Open or closed? >> Open. No, closed. Okay. Open or closed? Closed. No, open. >> cash. Please. >> Open or closed? >> No, you don't get it. >> Please. >> What is it? Okay, fine. Fine. I. surrender. I raise. >> Yo, Los Angeles, guys, is coming up next. on our world tour. If you guys have been. to any of our shows so far, you're going. to want to still come to the Los Angeles.

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late. >> I raised my flag. Unfortunately, I. really don't I really want you to try to. figure it out. >> Surrender with the white. >> Yeah, I have a red flag. >> It'll go on the entire episode. >> You think it'll go on for 45 minutes? Let's see. >> Yeah, he's not. >> Okay. No. What? I don't understand. >> Well, we can't tell you. >> Well, how do you know if they're right? Oh, I know they're right cuz they. started getting it right. >> Well, show me one more time. >> You can He can tell when we know. >> Open or closed? >> Let's just say it that way. >> Open. Closed. You're wrong. Open or.

closed. Closed. Open. Open or closed? >> Open. >> Closed. >> Open or closed? >> Open. >> Closed. >> What? >> Can I have my water back? I need a drink. at this point. >> Okay. Show me what he's doing. Show Show. him what you think it was. >> I don't I can't show you. >> Just do you get it? >> Yeah. You don't get it. Obviously, you. don't get it. What do you mean? Show You. don't know. Oh my gosh. You don't know. if you know what he was doing. >> No, I know they do know. >> And you know how we can tell?

>> How? Wait, we can do it again four times. and me and Kate will. >> Yeah, do it. Do it. Give it. Give them. the bottle back. Give them the bottle. back. >> Cash, you're not gonna get it right. I. think we need to move on. >> No. Give them the bottle back real. quick. >> They'll get it right every time. >> Yeah. Well, how do I know? How do I know. you're not just telling them they're. right? Because I know that they'll get. it right. >> Okay. Open. >> Open or closed? >> Open. >> Closed. >> Kenzie's right. >> Wait. K. No. I want them to both answer. >> Okay. Okay. Do it again. >> Open or closed? >> Closed. Closed. >> Correct. I want you to say your answer. at the same time. 3 2 1 go.

>> Open or closed? >> Open. >> Open. >> Yes, that's good. >> Okay. Okay. Do it again. Ready? 3 2 1. go. Open or closed? >> Open. >> Open. >> Is that right? >> Yes, that's right. >> Okay. Now, do one more time, but I want. you all say more on timing. >> Okay. Wait, let's let's look at each. other and say 3, two, one before we say. it. Okay. >> Okay. Open and closed. >> Three, two, >> No, you No, you just looked at her. >> You looked at her. You were like, "Say. closed." I didn't. Y'all keep looking at. the bottle. >> Okay. Okay. We'll go like this. >> All right. Ready? Open or closed? Three,

two, one. Open. >> Oh, no. >> Does Kate not get it? >> Does Kate not get it? >> Okay, Kate gets it. Yeah, that's what I. thought. Do it again. >> Okay. Okay. Wait. Tell me. Hold on. Tell. me not. The point of the game is for you. to just see how long you can make this. go. >> Okay. He doesn't get it. >> There's an actual trick. You don't get. it. You're so stupid. >> No, she's not stupid. >> Man, I've wasted the last 5 minutes of. my life being like Mav is so like we're. just entertaining the annoying little. cousin right now. Like Did Alex actually. get it?

>> There's nothing to get. Alex is locked, I believe. >> Okay, we got to move on cuz M's not. telling us. Everyone in the comments. knows, so don't worry. >> No, they don't. >> Yes, they don't. No one in this. >> I did think it was odd that Kate. realized so soon. >> I thought Kate definitely knew this. >> Okay, well, now unfortunately, I'm going. to have to make a TikTok with you after. doing this. >> H I hate things like this. >> Well, that was an interesting. conversation, M. >> Yeah, that was a waste of time. >> Waste of my precious breath. >> I hope. That was so. >> Wait, should we tell them? >> It was so No, no, no. You got to tell us.

now. >> No, no, no, no. I'll tell the audience. I won't tell you. Okay, fine. We'll plug. our ears. >> It has to do with my mouth is open or. closed. >> Did y'all hear that? No. >> Did you hear that, Alex? >> I just I don't care. >> What was it? >> Oh, don't worry about so bored. I like. that was like way Wow. >> So funny. Okay. Well, >> what? >> That just I was sitting here. Huh? There's no way you actually didn't know. No, I don't. >> The amount of times Kate got it right. without actually knowing is crazy.

>> Yeah. Yeah. What a lucky human being. I. mean, that's like. >> You should go play like. >> Blackjack or something. Blackjack. >> I I do have something else I'd like to. know. >> No. No. Please. No. >> I want to do reverse charades. >> Okay. What? >> Reverse charades. >> What is reverse charades? >> Reverse the charades. So, one person is. up there and they're doing the act and. trying to guess while we actually know. the word and kind of guide them if go. first. >> Why do I got to guess? >> Wait, that's not even possible. They're. just going to go up there and do random.

stuff for hours and hours and hours. >> No, they won't. Get up there. Watch. >> No, that's a thing to make me look like. a stupid dancing monkey. >> No, no, no, no, no. You're good. Get up. there. >> How do I know you're going to tell me. when I'm right? >> I will tell you when you're right. I'll. tell the audience the word. >> No, >> I want you to do something else. >> What do you mean? whisper in your. microphone. >> That's what I'm going to do. I'm going. to tell them the word. >> Yes. Okay. >> Do that. >> Dolphin. >> Dolphin. >> Could you hear that? Okay. Now, I want. you to tell Kate and Kinsey the word.

>> What? >> Well, don't look at me. Fine. >> Turn around. Just mouth it. >> Okay. >> Do you all have it? >> Yeah. >> Yes. >> Okay. [Laughter]. >> Okay. Um, no. That's not good. Why is. that the first? >> No. >> What was that? >> No. [Music]. >> Uh, no.

No. No. >> Not even close. >> What is that? >> What is that? >> What are you trying to be? I'm a traitor. >> No, that's not it. >> Try more activities. Activities like. Michael Phelps. >> Don't. That's cheating. >> No. >> Do you even know what this is?

>> Yes, I know you. >> Do you know who Michael Phelps is? >> Do you know that? >> Yes. >> Little teacup short. >> No. No. Come on. >> No. Uh, you could. You could. >> Is it Gdom style? >> No, but you could. You. >> did. Remember? >> Yeah, you you Yeah, >> you did. >> It's possible. >> This is close. >> It's possible. >> Did I ride something.

>> crazy? >> Keep keep doing stuff. Keep doing stuff. >> What is What have I wrote before? >> Um, I've wrote a lot of things now. Wait, hold on. What have I wrote? Stop laughing. >> Okay, keep going. >> Be silent. >> Start Start doing Start doing animals. >> Animals. >> You're ruining the game. >> You have to help a little. >> No. >> What was that? A dinosa. >> What did you ride? A bear. >> Well, animals are all the same form. I.

like. >> They all just look like this. >> Uh, nope. Not this one. >> Really? >> Yeah. Really? >> Uh, no. >> No. Uh, no. Uh, try putting your hands together. >> Okay. >> Okay. Uh, no.

>> No. Oh. Oh. Oh. Wait. There's something. >> There's something there. >> Really? >> There's something there. >> No. >> Wait. There's something here. Close. I don't think you're going to get it. from that. >> Think about it. You You rode this one. >> A dolphin. >> I wrote a dolphin. >> You have to You have to do the charade.

>> I do the dolphin charade. >> I mean, or. >> what? A seal. >> I don't know. A dolphin. >> No. No. That's good. That's good. That's. good. Okay. Is there anything? >> Um, I argue my downward dog was kind of. dolphiny. >> Okay, >> no. >> Oh, it's my turn. >> Okay. >> Oh, >> please don't do any of the things that. he just did. >> This is kind of a fun game. All right. Ready? We got to speedrun this. Okay. Ready? I got one. Ready? >> I'm going to say it. Wait, wait, wait.

We got to know what it is. So, say in. the microphone. >> Okay, I'll say it. I'll say it. >> Wait. Plug yours. Plug yours. >> Okay. >> Wait. I have a good one. Okay. All. right. Say it. Okay. >> Pooping. >> Wait. Say it a little louder. She's. >> pooping. >> Pooping. >> Pooping. >> Oh, well, she could hear that. Sure. >> All right. K, come here. Hey, we're good. All right. All right. Go. >> Okay. Um,

>> no. Not even close. >> All right. Um, >> no. No. >> You got to speedrun it, Kate. Yeah. Start doing stuff. >> No, no, no. What was that? No. What? What are you doing? No. No. >> No. >> No. >> No. >> I want to know what these things are. >> Oh my good. No. No. No.

Oh. Perfect form. No. That's too much. Yeah. >> No. Perfect form. Flawless. Almost. No. Not perfect. Close. Closer. >> I mean, not really. >> Closer. Yeah. Yeah. Closer. >> You're closer. Closer. >> Yes. >> Oh, yeah. Close. >> No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. You. wouldn't want to do that. No. >> Would not reck. >> 10 out of 10. Bad idea. >> Oh, yeah. You're close there. >> Did that once in 2012. No.

>> You're like 90% of the way. Harper would. love this game. It's too bad she's gone. >> A Harper. >> We'll have to play it again. I keep. destroying things. >> No, >> no, >> no. Well, some people. >> No, no, no. >> Oh, yeah. >> Yeah. Uh, actually, necessary. >> No, no, no. Go back. Go back. >> That is perfect form. >> For who? >> Scientifically. >> Wait, wait, wait. >> Yes.

>> Wait, wait. >> Yes. No. That is the perfect form. Asian. squat. That's how you're supposed to. That's how you're supposed to poop. >> Her legs were right next to her. She'd. poop on herself. >> No, you your your body is made to poop. like this. >> Why did you guys act like. >> what? I don't think so. >> Yeah, it is just like this. >> I don't think we're supposed to poop. like that. >> Yeah. Have you ever seen the potty. squatty? >> What? >> Squatty potty. Wait, >> why did y'all act like I It's a little. bench and you can put your your feet up. like this.

>> Yeah, that's how your body if you're. ever constipated. You That's how you. need to poop. >> Wait, that's Wait, wait. Why did y'all. act like I hit that when I went like. >> Well, it was just better than that was. just better than break dancing. >> All right, Kinsey. >> No, I have one. I got one for You don't. think? I mean, that's a lot. Okay. Yeah, we'll play one more. Yeah. Okay. Okay. Um, plug your ears. >> Should we do cheerleader or wrestling? >> Manslaughter. Manslaughter. >> Yeah. >> No, no, no. >> Manslaughter. >> Murder. >> Wrestling. >> No. Yes. Manslaughter. >> Murder. Okay. Murder. Murder.

>> All right. We got it. >> Okay. Is it embarrassing? >> No. >> I thought she was about to say what it. is. >> Yeah. All right. Go participate. >> Oh, really? >> Yeah. Start doing things. >> Okay. >> No. >> Face the camera. >> No. No. >> You could. No. After the fact. >> What are you doing? >> No. No. No. >> No. Don't. >> Don't ever do that. >> Uh, it's part of it. Could be.

>> No. No. No. You're wrong. No. Not. really. >> There's a lot of things involved in. this, but no. >> Oh. Oh, that gruesome. No, >> no, no, no. >> What did you say about it? It's. >> g no. I just said that. >> Oh, yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. >> I think so. You're kind of. >> Yeah. You're closer. >> Is it? Wait. >> No. No. >> No. No. No. >> No.

>> Yes. Yes. Yes. You're getting closer. >> Okay. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yes. You're close. You're close. >> Maverick. >> No. No. No. No. >> No. No. Oh, yeah. Closer. I like that. one better. >> Um, it's something to do with fighting. >> Could be. >> How specific did y'all get? >> Uh, it's one word. >> Fighting.

>> Keep keep moving. Hi. >> Uh, no. But close, but keep moving. >> Talk loud so they can hear you. >> Keep moving. I need to see more action. >> You got to do charades. >> Oh. >> Oh, yes. >> Oh, that's part of it. >> Yes. >> Oh, fire. Fire. >> Okay. She's still lit. >> I got it. I got it. >> What? >> No. Really close. >> But no. >> Uno. Reverse. >> You're like, Yeah. You're like, >> reverse. >> Okay. Don't give away too much. >> You're No. Dude, I sound like my mom waking up in.

the middle of the night. >> No, like the oxymoron of what you just. did. What is that. >> The oxymoron of death. >> Homie just made an animal. >> No. >> Memorial for a non death. >> No, you got to act it out. >> Keep going. Keep moving. >> It's not alive. >> You were No. >> Oh, I got it. >> Keep do act. What is it? >> It's giving birth. No. Okay. >> That's an oxymoron for death though, I. guess. No. Uh, come on. Keep keep moving.

things. >> I'll try cakes. >> What? No. No. No. You were closer. earlier with the punching. >> Oh. Um, >> what? >> Smoking a cigarette. >> Secondhand smoke. Why would it be that? >> Cigarettes. You have about 30 seconds. before you're you're canceled. >> Yeah, you got to hurry. Oh, okay. Yeah, that's better. No. Oh, no. No. >> No. >> Yes. Oh, yeah. It's closer.

>> I don't get it. >> It's close. >> Uh-huh. >> 10. >> Okay. She's not going to get it. Nine. >> Is it hard? >> Eight. >> Yeah. It It was. >> seven. Oh. Oh, yes. Yes. Kind of. Yeah. >> No, they're fooling you. >> Five. >> Okay. Tell me what it is. >> It was manslaughter. >> or murder. >> Murder. I was beating people up. And how. is that an oxymoron of dead? Because. it's the opposite of the dead person. It's the person doing the killing. >> That means someone dead. >> What? >> She said yes. >> Oh, she's upset she didn't win the game.

>> You think that was it? >> Manslaughter is more like I want to see. like stabbing and cut. >> Yeah, manslaughter is like. >> Is manslaughter accidental? That's why I. said murder is better one. >> Oh, manslaughter just sounds worse than. murder. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, but manslaughter is like harder to. accident. How does she accidentally. catch? I moved over here so Kinsey got. on my mic when she was standing up cuz. she was quiet. But okay, dang. >> I didn't really like that game. I like. regular charades more. >> You know what happened last night at. dinner that we just brushed over? >> Oh, what happened.

>> last night? Me, Cash, Mav, and Kinsey. all went out to the Cheesecake Factory. >> This is about what I said. >> What? >> Oh, never mind. Is this about what I. said? >> Actually, it is. >> M did say Mav looks at the waiter. I. knew the man that was serving us. >> He did. This was highly suspicious. >> The man that is like our age. Unfortunately, Harper would love to hear. this, but she's not here. >> Yeah, we'll tell her later. >> Here it is. >> We'll tell her again. Yeah, she'll hear. the story. Don't worry. >> I don't want to hear it again. >> But Mav looks at the waiter after he. gives us water and walks away and he. goes, "That's a very attractive man.". >> He did just like that. Man should have.

been like in Superman. I mean, >> no, he was like so casual about it. Like. >> Matt almost had more heart in it though. It was kind of just weird. >> What was attractive? >> There was no heart. No. >> You ruled a little when he said it. That's an. >> attractive. It was equivalent to like a. like a group of girls being like, "Oh my. gosh, that guy is so cute.". >> No, I did not say, "Oh my gosh, that guy. is so cute." I didn't say that. I said, "Dall see that? That is an attractive. man." That's exactly how I said it. Okay. And I don't want anyone twisting. it to make it anything more than that. >> I've never to be fair. I've never. thought that phrase in my life.

>> You literally. >> except. >> with Chris Hemsworth. No. And and Benny. You said that about Benny. >> Well, well, no, hold on. No, wait. Who. plays Thor? >> Chris Hemsworth. >> Chrisworth. Yes. >> Chris Hemsworth. You like that man? Yes. Okay. >> Okay. Well, >> you shouldn't say that. >> Pop up a picture of him. >> Chris Hemsworth was my childhood crush. >> It was everyone. >> It was mine. We could have married those. brothers. We could have Oh, man. Missed. opportunity came opportunity. >> Yeah. What? What? >> What do you mean? I was going to marry. those brothers.

>> Yeah, dude. Uh Jennifer Anderson, man, we missed opportunity there. >> Uh, y'all did. >> we? >> Scarlett Johansson. Uh, you know, we. missed opportunities with those women. I'm naming old women. Oh, >> well, we we heard his feelings with that. one. He showed. >> Oh, no. I just know if I say that, it's. a problem. I'm going to get mad. But. other You know what's odd, though? >> That's what's crazy. She said she liked. Chris Hemsworth and you said you like. Liam Hemsworth. But, >> well, hold on. Let me ask you guys. something. If me or Matt, if one of us was Liam,

one of us was Chris, who'd be who? >> Oh, >> well, you'd have to be a Liam and he'd. have to be Chris because he's older. >> Well, no, just looks wise. >> What? >> I mean, they're both highly attractive. I was just You see me? >> He's trying to figure out. >> I don't know. You guys are kind of. giving me Miley Cyrus and Liam over. there. >> Oh my gosh. >> Alex, who's Liam? Who's Chris? >> I don't forget. >> Unbiasedly. >> Well, >> Liam is the one. >> Yes, thank you. >> But that was what I. >> Which I thought was weird since you said.

you like Chris and you said you like. Liam. >> Wait, why would you think you're Chris? >> I don't know. That just seems fitting. >> Yeah, >> Mav looks more like Liam. >> Wait, cuz I'm not blonde. >> Yeah. >> What? Wait, Liam's Gail from Hunger. Games, right? >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Matt's just more like Gail. >> I don't like this conversation. It's. making me very self-conscious. That's. okay. >> Other things like Ivy Peeta, unfortunately. I don't like Peeta. >> A He was my childhood crush. I had. posters of him in my bedroom. You're. doing. >> I always thought Pea was hideous. Shut. up.

>> I mean, that was the first love of my. life, actually. >> Hey, I had earlier when we started this. episode, we said we were going to call. Harper. Can you call Harper? >> We We need to do that. Let's call her. and see. >> Bully her. No, >> not bully. I just genuinely want like I. know she didn't get to come like to the. podcast today, but I do feel bad that. she's only with us in spirit. So, I'd. like to have her with us in in audio as. well. >> Tonight, we egg her house. >> No, no, >> no, no, no. We just. >> that audio, I'll tell you guys after. >> someone. Should I call her? I'll call. her. >> Wait, do you think that's the best idea.

>> to call her? >> Cuz what if she's sad? >> No, I'll call her. >> Well, I think I think she she is sad. that she's not here. So, I think she. would like to feel like she was included. in today's episode. ignore your calls on. purpose. >> No, she doesn't. >> Yeah, Mav calls Harper and she doesn't. pick up Harper. >> Last time you called her, she cried. because she heard your voice. So, let's. use Kate instead. I'll call her. >> Wait, you're actually going to call her? >> You guys are I mean, I wanted to call I. was going to call her after this. anyways. >> Okay. Uh Kate is going to call Harper on. the episode. Hopefully, this goes well. >> If she's crying, we'll cut it. But I. don't think she's going to be crying.

>> What if she says to keep it in? >> I'm just going to tell her. >> Oh, okay. She's doing it. All right. Just jump straight. Wait, put on the. microphone. Oh, >> hey. >> Hi. How are you? >> Good. How are you? >> Good. >> What are you doing? >> Um, I'm watching the sunset right now. Well, it's dark now, but like I'm just. sitting down. >> A That's sad. >> We're filming a podcast episode right. now and we just wanted to like call you.

and see how you're doing. >> Benny used to watch it since, you know, still thinking about. everything, you know, like. >> I don't know. It's hard, but like I'm. just I'm sorry that I'm not there. I. just need like a break for a few days. But I'm excited to be back though to. talk to y'all and stuff like that. >> Yeah. No. Well, don't feel sorry. You. don't need to feel bad at all. But we. just wanted to see how you were doing. >> I'm okay. I just I miss y'all a lot. And. I don't know. I'm excited to start. filming and go back on the podcast, too. I just want some time alone because, you.

know, like everything has been kind of. hard and I don't know. It's just. different now. But like I'm excited to. go back and like you know I'm excited to. see everybody happy with me on the. podcast again. >> So yeah. >> Yeah. Well if you want to come over. before then too like we're when we're. not filming or something just to hang. out you can come by whenever. >> Thank you. I love you guys so much. >> I got you a gift. >> Uh what is it? >> I got you a gift. >> I don't know if you did actually.

>> What is it? >> Uh well I I can't I'll give it to you. when you come. Okay. >> Yeah. But next time you're here, just so. you know, I have a gift for you. >> Okay. >> I I'd like to speak to Oh, >> Mav M would like to speak to you. >> All right. Yes, Mav. >> Um, I want you to know that it's not the. same without you. >> A But I know. >> But it But it's really close. >> Shut your mouth. >> He said, "But it's really close.". >> It's really close. >> What? >> What? Did Did you see the memorial we.

had for you? I I I made you a memorial. during a moment of silence on the last. episode. >> Maverick made it. Um it accidentally got. lit on fire. >> No, Cash lit you on fire. >> We were trying to cremate you. It was a. whole thing. Okay. Um but just out of. curiosity, if you died, would you like. to be cremated or buried? >> Cash, >> we're trying to figure out what to do. with the body. >> Okay. Well, that's good to know. Next. time we won't cremate you. >> Okay. >> Well, we love you. >> Yeah, we love you and we miss you. But. we'll see you soon. >> I know. I love y'all, too. Okay. Well,

I'll see you soon. Thank you for. checking in on me. >> Yeah. >> Bye. >> Okay. We love you. Goodbye. >> Bye. >> Oh, I feel so bad for her. >> The girl's going through a heartbreak. Why are you speaking those names over. there? >> What? I'm I'm saying jokes. No. The is. so dark. It's like dark times. >> Whatever you're saying over there. Oh, no. I was just making jokes. I I felt. like it was heavy in here. >> Insensitive. >> Insensitive. >> Respect women. That is that like the mantra you tell. yourself constantly remind yourself.

>> if y'all watch. >> he wakes up. He looks in the mirror. He's like be sensitive. [Laughter]. >> I can do it today. >> You should tell them how you respected. Kate yesterday. >> Uh. >> in the kitchen. >> Okay, I'll say cuz you know what? Wait, we can't just glaze over the whole. Harper conversation. >> No, this is about the Harper. conversation. >> Yeah, this this involves Harper. Cash. bought Harper a gift, but really he. didn't. >> Yeah, since Harper's going through a. hard time,

>> it was my idea. >> No, it was my idea. >> My idea. >> It was Kate and Kinsey's idea. >> Wait, everyone's idea. >> Okay, I have proof that it's my idea. >> I I'll even lean this. If it wasn't my. idea, which it is. If it wasn't, it. would lean more towards Mav ideas than. y'all idea. >> What do you mean? Because now I've. texted Kenzie said you want to I said. send a gift to Harper's house yesterday. at 4:00. >> What? That did not go through. >> It's right there at 4:00 yesterday. Well, yesterday at probably around 2:00.

when we realized that Harper wasn't. going to be there. I was like, well, either way, actually, actually, actually, the day I found out about. everything, I was like, okay, I'm going. to go get her a gift to make her feel. better for next time I see her. the day. I found. >> Anyways, long story short, >> your text message did not go through. The loading bar is actually still at the. top. >> What? >> Do you see how it doesn't say delivered? >> Well, it says I sent it at four o'clock. yesterday. >> You did. So, you had the idea. I told. you. Yeah. Wait, did you hear that? I. had the idea. Harper, I was thinking of. you first. >> Your idea translated to us and me and.

Kate actually. >> No one's anyways. >> House of lies. >> Back to respecting women and Harper. Um, Kate had this gift basket made for. Harper that we're going to give to her. when she comes back on. >> We are going to give to. >> Yes, we are all married here and we are. all one. >> All four of us have one and you're your. own gift. >> All of us are married here and we are. all we are all two. Anyways, back to the. gift. The gift thing. Uh, the gift was. made and it has Twix inside of it and I.

walked by it and I was like, "Hey Kate, could I have one of the Twixed?" And she. was like, "No, you can't have a Twix. Alpha Harper. All 29,000 of them. Alpha. Harper. All Harper Twix." I was like, "Well, I could have one little baby. Twix. There's like a whole giant bag of. them. Can I just have one Twix?" Kate. was like, "No, no Twix for you. No. Twix." And I was like, "I'm just going. to open it up a little bit and get a. Twix." And that apparently is. disrespecting women. >> because not women. It's disrespectful in. general to open someone else's gift.

>> and take the candy. >> and take it out and eat it and then put. it back. No, I think that's expected. >> No, that's not. >> from me. >> If if you give a gift to Harper and it. has some eaten twix in there, it is. expected since we are one that Cash. might have touched some of them. But. even if that wasn't the case, I said, "You know what, Kate? Let me eat some of. these twix tonight and we can buy her. new Twix tomorrow to replace them before. you give her the gift." And I don't see. what was wrong with that. >> Mhm. I was actually just telling Matt. the other day how you and him don't know.

personal boundaries when it comes to. >> you mean common sense. I said very no. during this argument I said I don't know. what to do in situations like this. I. don't know what to do. I don't know what. to do. I'm freaking out. I have common. sense but other people don't. I don't. know. I don't know what to do and I. didn't know what to do. I genuinely was. panicked because Kate's like you cannot. eat the Twix and replace them by. tomorrow. I said but logically and. common sensely we could do that. We 100%. could do that, but I can't. For what. reason? And she's like, cuz I bought.

those pics. I'm like, right, but we. could buy them again before we give them. to her. >> Or just not say that one out of the 50's. been eaten. >> Yeah. Or not. Or just not even pass. But. even if so, I was like, we can buy new. Twix before we give it to her. Okay. Was. like, absolutely not. We cannot do that. No, >> there's no way we can buy the new. >> You're putting words in my mouth. I stay. quiet this whole I stay quiet this whole. time. >> That's not the word I just put in there. >> That is not very respectful to women. >> Sorry. I take it back. I shall not slap. women. Okay, I take it back. Hey, >> no, the issue was was that it was a bag. of Twix and when you open the bag and.

then you put the bag in someone's gift. basket, it's weird. It's like, oh, wow. You couldn't even go get the person an. unopened bag of Twix. >> I just I'm I'm upset. Yeah, I'm upset. >> Wait, hold on before. Keep that thought. Keep that thought. Yeah. What What was. that, Kate? Repeat that sentence. Oh, y'all are going to all love this. Oh, everyone repeat that sentence. >> What did I just say? >> Oh, you already forgot. You said you. it's disrespectful to open the bag of. Twix and put the open bag back in the. back.

>> because to the person it would be like. you couldn't have at least went and got. me my own bag of Twix. >> Do you stand by that statement? >> I mean, yes. I think if I would have. given Harper a used bag of selfish, you don't want to eat these words, too. I really want to do it. Save yourself. >> Everyone is selfish except for himself. >> Kenzie, save yourself. >> Which in fact, this Okay, fine. Keny's. going to burn. You're all going to burn. just like Harper did. What? Do you see. how half of her face is missing? >> Yeah, but we stopped the creation.

Listen, y'all want to know what Kate. did? What did Kate do? >> Did she eat one? >> No. >> Oh, >> but that would be sinful. >> I do. Wait, tell me what I did before. >> I'm conscious now. No, they said I saw a. Starbucks gift card in Kate's closet. I. said, "You have a Starbucks gift card. just sitting here?" And she goes, "Yeah, so and so gifted it to me, but I'm just. keeping it so I can regift it to someone. else.". >> No, I did not say that. I did not say. that. >> That is instant. You. >> Sometimes that's okay. >> What?

>> What? >> It was a regifting a gift is way more. insulting than someone taking. >> I found the gift card just in my. belongings and I was like, "Oh, >> you know, >> I don't I don't know that. I don't know. why I still have this." But I was. >> You said I'm saving it to regift to. someone else. >> Yes. Because I when I found it, I could. have just reloaded it into my Starbucks. account, but then I was like, "Oh, I'll. just. >> Everyone knows regifting a gift is like. the least gift giving thing you can do.". >> Well, it's not just a gift card. I was. going to send a whole gift, a whole big. gift, a whole gift. >> So, I can't eat one Twix out of a gift.

basket, but you can regift a gift. I. don't want to hear about this anymore, but I do have something that I think we. will all be shocked by. >> Tell us. >> Basically or emotionally? >> Both. >> Oh, okay. Okay. On the topic of gifts, how many I how. many wise men came to Jesus? >> How no how many times this has happened. to me? I cannot count. I cannot recount. how many times this happened to me and. I'm very sorry about it. You cannot. count or you cannot count. >> Oh, that you did not get me a gift.

>> when zip. Okay. >> On your anniversary. >> For her anniversary, I got her a gift. >> Yeah. Last year, Maverick did not get. Kenzie a Christmas gift. Up. I said it. Moving on. Yeah. Well, we agreed not to. do gifts. Okay. Moving on. Listen. How many times in your life has somebody. said, "Oh, I got a gift for you." But. you've never seen a gift and they never. give it to you. >> You mean like what's going to happen. when Harper walks in and Cash doesn't. have a gift for her? >> I did not eat the entire thing and can't. eat it with my twigs. >> No, I'm saying multiple times in my.

life, people have been like, "Oh, I got. a gift for you." I' They've even like. sent me pictures of the gift, but. >> And you're saying you don't receive it? >> Wait. Okay. No, that happened to me once. and this is so embarrassing. >> Multiple times it's happened. What? >> Really? >> I want to know. Did you guys just open. it and decide to keep it for yourself? Decided to give it to. >> I don't feel like this has ever happened. to me. >> No, this is this this actually happened. to me one time. >> Everyone loves me so much. You have to. give it to me. >> Which was like I don't know. Was I tell. me if I was in the wrong for this. actually. Okay. My I had a boyfriend in.

seventh grade and he goes to like Six. Flags or the state fair or something and. he wins a stuffed animal. >> I don't remember going there. It's. weird. >> No, it wasn't you. Um, anyway, he sends. me a picture of it and he was like, "I. got this for you." And I was like, "Oh, that's so sweet." Like, I'm so excited. and then I go to school and I thought he. was going to give it to me. >> and he never gave it to me. And I was. like, >> you were in the sixth grade. How old is. that? >> I was in seventh grade, so I would have. been 12. >> Maybe he got scared and he it became his. nightly thing that he had to have the. stuffed animal to keep him scared of the. dark. That happens to guys, too.

>> No, that's not what I was That's not. what's happening. Anyways, I like didn't. want to bring it up cuz then I'd be. like, "Where's my. >> That was weird." By the way, everything. that you just said that was. >> No, every every guy sometimes has a. stuffed animal like. >> No, you're like 20 years old. Please. stop. >> I'm No, not now. I'm saying when you're. 12. >> Uhhuh. >> Oh, yeah. >> You had one, too. M was an eagle. Did. you know that, Kenzie? >> Eagle. >> I did not cuddle it. It was a webcam. >> Yes, he did. Was there? >> Yeah. Even Alex said it, >> but it wasn't like cuddled. >> Maverick had an eagle on his bed that. kept him safe from the dark. Look, I had. Pikachu on my bed till last year. I. still didn't cuddle him.

>> Okay, that's even worse. Why would you. say that? And mine was way cooler. I had. a Black Panther Maverick had an eagle. My My thing would have freaked yours up. >> Can I finish my thing and tell yours. fly? Sorry. Didn't think so. >> Tell me if I'm crazy. Okay. So, I was. like I I thought I was going to get the. stuffed animal and then he just like. never gave it to me and I couldn't ask. cuz then it's just weird asking like, "Hey, where's that stuffed animal you. said you got for me?" And then he. finally gave it to me like literally. like months later on Valentine's Day or. my birthday or something. But I I was. like, "Oh, so you did have it, but you.

just like never gave it to me until. now.". >> He was saving it. >> Yeah. But I was like, "That's fine to. save it." But I thought it was kind of. strange that he texted and was like, "Hey, I got this for you." And then just. never gave it to me. >> Maybe he didn't want to look weird. bringing it to school. >> Well, he still looked weird because he. brought it to school to give it to me. >> Oh, I don't know. Odd guy. >> Yeah. >> Did you ever have a stuffed animal, Kinsey? Um. >> Um I got some expensive gifts in junior. high from people who weren't my. boyfriend. I felt really bad about it. >> And I did regift those.

>> Dude, how lucky it is to be a woman. Laneies Laney used to get our sister. used to get crazy expensive gift from. boys, too. I never got a gift from a. woman. >> I got I got crazy expensive gifts from. you. >> Well, I've been sitting over here and. y'all been talking and not letting me. talk. I did. I did. I did remember. something. Um, for Christmas like two. years ago, probably. I got you a gift, Kate. >> Oh, yeah. You told me about that. >> Yeah. I never gave it to you. >> Yeah. You never gave it to me. And then. Kinsey was cleaning the room and you.

said, "Oh, that was for Kate." And then. Kinsey took it. >> Yeah. Yeah. Matt did. I remember that. year. He was like, "I got Kate a gift.". You know, to tell her, "Thank you for. like always keeping the house clean.". And. >> Wow. What happened to that attitude? I. should get a gift this year, too. >> You probably You probably did something. to not deserve it. That's what you. probably Yeah. And then you never gave. her the gift. >> Yeah. >> Still waiting for it. >> You know, I I did the buying part, which. is the most important part. >> Also, I'd like to say eating the Twix. Back to that real quick. Uh my sister. one time for Valentine's Day a boy gave. her a box of chocolates heart shape and.

uh half of the heart half of the heart. was eaten. Okay. >> Oh. >> and just to I'm just saying that to. prove that sometimes you get hungry and. you eat people's gifts and you can still. give it to them. Yeah. He actually gave. her half eaten box. >> And guess what he has made fun of years. and years and years later because it was. ridiculous. >> He made core memories. If that box of. chocolate was full, we would not have. memories of that box anymore. >> No. But my Twix memory could carry on. for Harper for years. But you want to. take that away from her? >> Yeah. Okay. Well, >> I'm just saying sometimes sometimes.

funny things create memories. It's not. about the gift. >> It's about the times. >> or Well, I don't know about the. >> It's not about the gift. It's about like. >> Huh. Well, >> yeah. >> I don't know. >> I understand. >> What did Wait, what did Mav get you for. your anniversary? >> A necklace. >> A Kendra Scott. It was really cute. It's. gold and it has little pearls on it. >> Let's play a game. who got their wife. the more expensive. >> I was talking. Thank you. >> Respect women. >> Yeah. >> Yes. >> And he said, "It's cuz you wear gold. jewelry all the time and sometimes. pearls." And I was like,

>> "A. >> that's sweet. You notice that?". >> Yes. It's sweet. Not about the money. catches. >> Uh, let's play a game. Who has gotten. their wife the most expensive gift? M, you start. What's the most expens. expensive gift you have got? Kenzie. >> Um, probably when I married her. What? I feel like that was expensive. >> Does anyone know what homeboy is saying. right now? No. >> I gave her like half my bank account. That was a lot.

>> Guys, this is true. >> Yeah. >> Oh, yeah. That's commitment. >> Yeah. >> To be fair, Cass, it's not fair to. compare there. They just had one year of. marriage. We've had like three. We got. to go back to our first year of marriage. and think what you bought me that year. >> I bought her a boat. >> A boat. Well, jet skis. Two of them. >> Oh, >> you bought her that as an anniversary. gift. >> Yep. I don't think so. >> So, you bought yourself a gift. >> No, it was not for me. >> Why was. >> I did not want the boats. >> Why was there two then? >> I did not want the boat.

>> It couldn't have both been for you. >> No, those are for me. >> Oh, yeah. We know. We know. >> Yeah. But the jet skiis were for me. >> Yeah, we know. >> Yeah. I actually don't know the most. expensive gift I bought you. Do you know. >> the dog? >> Probably. Honey. Yeah, >> that dog was freaking expensive, man. a. dog. I care about a six-year-old used. dog should not be that used. Maybe if. it's a puppy, but if it is 6 years old, that's called a rehoming fee. And it. should not be $2,000. Okay. Flat out. >> Honey is worth more than $2,000 now.

>> Yeah. No, >> that is a crazy amount of money to spend. on a dog. >> And Matt called me. He said it was like. half off or something. I was like, "Oh, buy it. If it's half older, that means. it's half off.". >> I was like, "It's discounted. Ain't got. all his teeth. It's a good deal.". And I was like, "Listen, this dog's. calm. It's 6, seven years old. It don't. got many teeth left. It's a pretty good. price. It's like half off." I was like, "Bet. You know what? Buy it. I'll give. it to you. Sell it to him like a car.". I'm like, "It's got a lot of miles on. it. I don't I don't think it's going to. last." I was like, "Okay, buy it and. I'll give it to Gabe for Christmas." Cuz.

he was the one at the animal shelter, not me. And then and then I'd buy it. I. give it to her for Christmas. He goes, "That'll be $2,000." I was like, "What? >> For that thing?" Well, we also bought. her like little bows and a couple other. little things. >> Then I then I had to give you my. rehoming fee which was $400. >> And for some reason she came with very. specific dog food which was a scam. They. just wanted us to spend money on the dog. food. But. >> I've been feeding her Pyina and she's. fine. >> Pyina. What? >> That's the brand. >> She eats what Stella eats cuz sometimes.

she accidentally eats Stella's food. Yeah. >> Well, not accidentally. She doesn't. know. >> She does it knowingly. >> Why do I feel like Harper's eating dog. food? >> Probably. dog food type of person. >> She has. >> I watch eat dog food. >> My mom told me she ate dog food one. time. >> What does it taste like? >> It tastes like dog food. >> You got like lots of seasoning or is it. just like. >> I would actually say it tastes exactly. what you'd think it would taste like. >> Really? >> It smells tastes like it smells. >> tastes like dog food. Okay. What did you. think I was going to say? It tastes like. >> a great amazing chicken alfredo.

>> Does it taste like black burnt pebb pe. pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe. pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe. pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe pe. pebbles or whatever like everyone says. it does. Uh, I've never had a black. burnt pebble. >> Hey, so I see the bottle one more time. >> Well, Matt, just one more time. >> Fine. >> Okay, >> just this once. >> Now that you've thought about it, open. or closed? Closed? Open. Okay. Yeah. >> Okay. What is the most expensive gift. you've ever bought, Mav? >> Um, I've only ever gotten two gifts and.

both of those gifts were the same price. >> Exactly the same price. >> Where'd you get them? Um, I got him his. new slushie machine that he loves. >> Very fat of you. By the way, Maverick. has a whole slushie machine. >> That thing has been running like. 7-Eleven style. I mean, full on like. urine 7-Eleven slushy machine. >> It has been running since he got it. Like, it's always cooking. >> I think this week I've had like 94. ounces of like of of panic coladas. >> I'm hoping for your sake that this is. just like a phase and it's like. >> Yeah. If not, >> like it's like you're going crazy cuz.

you just got. >> We're going to be having mass memorial. real soon. I'm go ahead and buy a. candle. Okay. >> You should start the printer up. Um, no. Uh, I will say I used to get acid reflux. like in in my uh like throat or. whatever. Like, uh, I don't know. >> Are you trying to say the slushies. healed your acid reflux? >> Please don't tell me that's where you're. going with this. I used to get it like. once a week, maybe. Maybe once a month. sometimes. >> The slushy machine. >> I get it middle of the day now. I get it.

all. Okay. I get I get it all the time. It's all day. I'm popping tongues like. they're candy. I have to get the I have. to get the pin colada and grab thumbs. >> That is not good. You know what that. means? Like acid's coming up your. throat. >> So much acid. It's just all there. >> Dude, he might have the worst internal. health out of everyone we know. >> That's not true. And no one else here. can do a backflip. How does that affect. your acid reflex? >> I think I'm in good shape. I think I'm. fine. >> Internal health. Wait, what's the most.

expensive gift you've gotten me? >> Cuz now that think about it. >> Um. >> I don't know if you've ever gotten me a. gift. >> Yeah, I have. >> I got you that No, I got you that uh. basketball thing that was like $600 that. you made me return cuz you were like. >> He literally told me he was like, "Oh my. gosh, every nice gift I've gotten him, he made me return.". >> A jersey. >> A jersey. No, no. Cash was gone. >> Do I make her return? Josh was gone in. Mexico and he had seen this hockey. jersey at the mall that he really liked. It was like $200. I was like, "Okay, I'm.

going to go get it for him just to like. surprise him." And I was like 17. I used. like my own big girl money that I had. from my job and I was like, "I'm going. to go get it." So, I went and I spent. $200 on this hockey jersey. I got it for. him. And when he came back from Mexico, he was like, "This is so great. Like, this is so sweet. I love it." And then. he was like, "I just it's $200. Like, that's just so expensive. Like, >> just give me the cash.". >> He was. He was like, "We do not need to spend. that much money on like a jersey." So, he was like, "You can go ahead and. return it." Like, the thought was really.

nice, but I just feel guilty wearing. >> I did. I made her go back to the mall. and return it because I couldn't just I. couldn't wear a $200 shirt. I was like, "Listen, I could have like so many. shirts for this.". >> Yeah. >> And I just don't want to spend money. like that lavishly. And but then the. second gift you got, >> no, no, no. Then it gets Don't worry, it. keeps coming. >> Okay. So then um for Christmas, probably. like two years ago, there's this one. specific shoe that he has that he really. likes like this pair and he's always. told me and his mom. >> Oh my gosh, I did it three times. >> Yeah. He's like.

>> he's like you if if if you ever buy this. sho I'll be honest. I wouldn't buy him. >> He was like if you ever see this shoe. online or in the stores or anything like. please buy it for me. Uh whether it's a. gift or you buy it and I'll pay you back. like whatever. >> It was my favorite pair of shoes I've. ever owned and they discontinued them. >> Yeah, they discontinued them. So it was. like kind of hard to find. So anyways, this Christmas um I had boughten him. these shoes and what there was some sort. of mixup like me and his mom had both. ordered them at the same time or. something. So we both ordered them and. then um Cash had come out. He was in the.

shower. Me and Terra were talking about. it. I was like, "Yeah, I just bought the. shoes." And she was like, "Oh, so did I. Like that's okay. Like I'll return them. and I'll get him something else." And he. comes out and just randomly he just. starts I He didn't even hear us in the. shower. He just comes out and he starts. talking to me and his mom and he's like, "Yeah, I just I mean I never like I I. never want you guys to buy me like a. $200 pair of shoes or anything like. that's so ridiculous. That's that's way. too much money. Like nobody needs to. spend that much money on a pair of shoes. for me.".

>> And then she started crying. >> Yeah. >> Remember that? She starts crying. I was. like, "Did you buy me the shoes?". >> No, no, no, I didn't. I kept a straight. face while he was saying it. And then he. walks away and your mom looks at me and. then I start crying and she was like, "I'm so sorry, honey." And then I had to. tell you, I was like, I I bought them. and you were like, "Oh, man.". >> I said, "Just give me the cash.". >> So then I didn't have a Christmas gift. that year because I had to return the. shoes cuz he didn't want them. So I was. like, "Okay, I got to get him something. else.". >> So then I get him this $600 thing for.

basketball. It's like a rebound. >> You know, after I rambled about how $200. is way too much, he's like, "Bet $600.". >> Well, he had been saying he wanted this. rebound thing. And he even told me, he. was like, "I don't mind if you spend. that much money on me, but something. that like I'll actually use all the. time, but just on a pair of shoes is not. what I want." So I was like, "Okay." So. this thing that he had told me so many. times he wanted, I got it for him. It. was $600. And then I give it to him on. Christmas and he's like, "Oh man, it's. $600." And I was like, "Yes." And he was. like,

>> I was like, "Got to return." But also. noticed that we also don't we were not. allowed to have basketball hoops in our. neighborhood. So I was like, "What am I. going to do? like take this to the park. and set it up every time. It's like a. giant thing you got to set up. >> Wait, man. You've done this four times. then, actually, cuz you returned or at. least you haven't opened the gift she. got you this year. >> Yeah, I was about to say that, too. >> Uh, well, the gift she got me this year. was her fault. LA for this last. Christmas. Kate got me a workout set. with no weights, so. >> I can't exactly I mean, I could I could. just bench air. >> Wait, how much is that?

>> I probably spent uh Next question. Oh, no. >> No, it wasn't that expensive. It's like. a It's like not that expensive. >> No, I bought I bought the floor mats. I. bought the the bench. I bought the. mirrors. >> Yeah. >> I got him all the things because he kept. saying all the time he was like, "We. need to get an we need to build a gym in. our garage so we can just have the at. home gym. Like, we need to do it." He. kept saying, "We need to do it. We need. to do it." And I was like, "Okay, I'm. going to buy this stuff.". >> Anyways, I return a lot of gifts. We get. it. Yeah. Yeah. >> So, that's why he doesn't anymore. >> Can we call Harbor again? I'm bored.

>> No, I I do. Uh before we end this. episode, I do want to say I do feel bad. for Harper, even though we were making. jokes and stuff earlier. I just really. really bad for Harper and for uh Benny. and just everything that whole. situation. Um um. >> and I I hope they both remember they're. children of God and Romans 8:28 says. that God can work all things for good. for those uh who love him. So I think. >> no matter what, they'll both be okay at. the end of this. Um, and if you're going.

through something similar, like even if. you're breaking up with someone, there's. always some good that can come from the. situation. >> Mhm. >> But yeah, >> you act like Harper died. >> Yeah. No, >> I didn't act like she died. >> Team Harper. >> What the. >> No, nobody go hate on any. >> side of either of them hate. That's for. sure. >> Here's the thing about. >> Henny. Is that really their name? Henny. Was that. >> Hennessy whiskey?

>> Any like the drug? Okay. Um, anyways, >> why are you acting like you don't feel. bad for her? >> No. What? >> I'm kidding. I'm clip farming. I'm. sorry. >> Here's the thing. Here's the thing with. Harper and Benny. Listen, to be honest, none of us have actually talked to. Harper in person about this yet. So, we. don't even know most of the details. >> Yeah, we don't even know most of the. details. So, anything we have said on. this podcast, which we haven't said much. really, but uh we do not know the. details, and I will admit that that we.

do not. So, when Harper eventually does. come back on to the show, um and she is. loling again, then uh maybe she'll open. up about it. I don't know. Maybe she'll. want to just move on or maybe they'll be. fixed. I don't know what's happening. between them. Uh but no one go sacrifice. either one of them right now cuz uh we. don't really know the whole story. And. neither do you guys. I know you guys. think you know the whole story, but I. don't think so. Or if you do, then I'm. really slow because I don't I don't I. don't know the story yet. Well, and. regardless, people make mistakes and.

things happen and hopefully people learn. from mistakes. It's not like. >> like Nav not getting me a Christmas. gift. >> I don't need to be flamed for that. anymore. Okay, we're good. >> Like like cash what? >> Uh. >> what were you going to say? >> Like cash eating other people's candy. when they do not ask for them to. >> I think that's a good takeaway from this. episode is don't flame people. Um, give. them grace. >> No, we literally Jesus gives you grace. No, that was that was last episode. >> Yeah, that was last episode. We flamed. our heart. >> We turned over a new leaf. >> Yeah, >> I don't like that phrase.

>> Turned over a new leaf. >> You know what else has leaves and beat a. bush? >> You know what else has leaves? Our new. slime crunchy autumn walk that is. probably sold out by now, but you guys. can get it on the restock in a few. weeks. >> Yeah, guys, if you haven't, you guys. should actually go check out our LOL. Slimes. What's it called? The website? >> Lolslimes.com. >> lolslimes.com. Okay. It's actually. something we're super proud of and we're. dropping slimes every two weeks, I. believe. So, we're having new slimes. come out every two weeks or new slime. comes out every four weeks and then we. do one restock every uh two weeks. But,

um you guys should go check that out. And also, you guys should check out LOL. Studios. That is our new channel. We. have a channel with Harper on there. I. don't was that this episode that we said. that we said that last episode? >> Yeah. Yeah, we have a Wait, what did I. say? We have a video. >> There's an LOL Studios channel uh where. we uploaded a video with Harper on. there. You should check it out. And. we're uploading other videos on there. that are way different than anything. we've ever done. They're like social. experiments. Super fun. Check it out. >> Yep. >> Yeah. All right. We will see you guys. next time. Peace out. Harper is. officially back in the house.

>> Last week when you haven't been at our. house, what were you doing? >> I was in bed for 3 days straight. I. couldn't eat or if I ate, I would throw. up. Everything. And then I just kept. finding out more and more things about. him and like what he did behind the. scenes and stuff. So that's that made me. even worse. >> That's horrible. I mean, at least I'm. not with the cheater anymore. Oh man. >> Whoa. Okay. [Music]. >> All right, everybody. Harper is. officially back in the house. >> And she looks beautiful. >> A man.

>> Yeah, she got slime in her hair and. everything. >> A. >> Yeah, I see it right there. >> Well, uh, Harper, as you guys know, has. been taking a break, um, due to rec. recent circumstances. Uh, >> that sounds really awkward. Cash. >> What? >> She went on a vacation. >> Well, >> I would not call it a vacation. >> Yeah. I don't know if I'd call it that. >> Was it like because like you you know. you were kind of off for a few days. You. didn't you didn't have to film or. nothing. Like was it like a breath of. fresh air? >> No.

>> I would rather be talking to y'all than. going through what I was going through. >> Oh. >> Yeah. I don't know if I would call a. breakup a breath of fresh air. >> I don't think anyone would call it that. either. >> Well, that's what you just called it. A. >> brush of fresh breath. Okay, close. enough. >> No need to make fun of speech. impediments. >> What did What did you do with your uh. breath of fresh air? >> Um I was in bed all day. Uh so you got. no fresh air. >> No. >> Give us a breakdown of. >> Well, you know Okay. Well, hold on. First of all, you don't got to get. actually into it all. Um.

>> yeah, I'll do that in another episode. It's a whole episode cuz I could do days. on days on days just talking about. everything that happened. >> Well, no, I'm just saying. Well, we'll. do another episode on what happened. What happened right immediately after. where you're like, "Okay, um, >> this just happened.". >> What? >> Okay. No. What were you doing when you. weren't here? >> Yeah. Like this these the last week when. you haven't been at our house, what were. you doing? >> Sorry, my hair. Um, you're good. Had. slime in it. Um, stupid.

>> So, I um I was in bed for three days. straight. I lost pounds. Like 10 lbs. You lost 10 lbs. I I put that on my. life. I go was cuz. >> where did it go? >> Uh I didn't eat for 3 days. So. >> I hope you find it. >> No. Okay. Um anyways, um what's it. called? Uh I. >> awkward. >> She said she lost it. >> Yeah, I did. And I hope it doesn't come. back cuz I'm very happy now with my. weight. But um I Yeah, I was in bed for.

three days straight. I couldn't eat or. if I ate I would throw up everything. And. >> you're like making yourself sick. >> Yeah. And I was on top of that I was. sick. I had a low-grade fever. Um and. then I just kept finding out more and. more things about him and like what he. did behind the scenes and stuff. So that. made me even worse. Um. >> that's horrible. You're just sitting. there like sad and then it's like. >> I would add his friends and they would. tell me. >> No. >> They would tell me things. >> Let's discuss that. >> Yeah, we'll discuss that later. But um.

yeah, and then I had to like be drugged. out of bed. could not physically walk or. I could walk but if I wanted to get out. of bed I I couldn't like I. >> just didn't have the motivation. >> My friends. >> forgot how. >> Yeah, my my friends they uh drugged me. out of bed and I went to dinner with. them. >> A um so that was fun. I'm glad they got. you out of the house. >> What food did y'all eat? >> Oh, we went to Texas Roadhouse but I Oh, that is a good spot to go. >> I like salad now. >> I couldn't finish food. Oh yeah, >> I love salad at Texas. I ate so much. salad. It's weird.

>> I just tried. Any other friends do any. good things? >> Oh, yeah. Sish, she got me a gift. basket, which I was like so happy for. That was the sweetest thing I think I've. ever seen. Like, I was like, "Wow.". >> What was the gift basket? >> It was uh a squishallow. I got it just. today. >> Um because she um lives in LA, so she. had to ship it. But I got a Squishallow. I got an Alani. I got s uh Skittles. And. I got um it was one more thing. It was. big, bro. What was it? I forgot. But it.

was something else. It was. >> she like sent her like a money screen. >> She got she like she got she gave me a. note and stuff and then yeah my friends. brought me out to dinner. So I guess. that too. >> That sounds really cool. Anything else? >> I mean I guess I treated myself to like. online shopping and stuff. So. >> what'd you get? >> Uh I kind of just looked. Oh, so you. didn't treat yourself? >> No. >> Okay. Well online browsing. I'm sure you. got lots of other gifts. Uh, no.

>> I'm kidding. I'm kidding. I know. Yeah, that's what I thought. K and Kenzie got. me a basket, too. >> No. No. That was my idea. What? That was. my idea. >> That was my idea. Neither of y'all. >> It was literally neither of y'all's. First of all, >> that's not true. >> Y'all act like Kinsey and I are not the. ones who initiate every single gift ever. given in our lives. >> Wait, let's just Wait, look at that. Wait, ma'am. Okay. I said, "You want to. send Harper a gift to her house?". >> That was a day after we gave it to her. that went through.

>> And not true. Not true. >> Also, if the two of you are were so a. part of this gift, what was in the gift? >> Alani Twix's books a notebook was. outdated. >> You know me too well. >> Yeah. Listen, we we know all of the. gift. Did you hear that? Y'all thought. you had. >> the other thing. What was the other. thing in there? >> Uh, there was also gum. >> Okay. What else? >> I don't know. Maybe I'm forgetting one. thing, but we got like 8 90% of it. >> No, you're forgetting multiple things. >> What? >> Yeah, you are. >> Oh, yeah. What is it?

>> It's cuz you didn't get the gift. You'd. know if you got it. >> All right. What is it, Harper? >> Pens and a notebook. >> Okay. Yeah, I forgot. >> Oh, a journal. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, the journal. We forgot the. journal. >> Probably cuz y'all scrumming through it. to get the candy. >> Yeah, little fat ass. >> I'm the one who told her to journal. >> What the. >> Yeah. >> No, you did not. >> Yeah, I did. >> You told Kate to go get the journal. >> Uh, no. I told Harper to journal. >> What? >> Yeah. >> Is this true? >> Yeah. >> Wait, hold on. Wait. Hold on. >> When did you say that? >> Everybody, time out. Why is my brother. that I thought was manly telling a.

teenage girl to journal? >> Wait, that's not manly or girly? That's. a normal do. >> Whoa. >> Anytime you go to therapy, anytime, like. just about every single time, they'll. advise you to get a journal. >> Wait, how many times you been to. therapy? >> I'm telling you what I see on the. movies. >> Wait, >> Kate, have you been to therapy? >> No, I have not. >> Harper, have you been to therapy? And do. they tell you to journal? >> No. >> Okay, never mind. I don't know what I'm. talking about. >> Unless I go to different therapy. >> Why do you journal?

Not now. Really? >> I I have. Al, do you journal? >> I've never even seen a journal of like. what it even looks like. >> I mean, I have like pages and pages and. I have like like I finished a whole book. and had to do another one. >> I used to journal. >> What? What do you journal my notes app. really. >> all sorts of stuff you write down just. things you're thinking. >> okay okay his journals are all based on.

like theology so he has like a journal. for. >> no I have those two which are also. completed and full. >> so what does this journal talk about. everything talks about just my life. >> no it does not. >> math do you have a diary. >> no it's a journal that's the same thing. >> oh my gosh math has a diary. >> same thingal I like that word better cuz. they're going to bore me now. That's. embarrassing. >> No, pause. Is it a prayer journal? >> No. It's like, hey, this is what's going. on in my life right now. Here's how I.

feel today about it. Blah blah blah blah. blah. Yeah, I'm serious. No, you do not. >> I need to see this. I've never seen it. >> Oh, no. No, no. I can read it. You do. not have that. I do not have. >> Go get it. No, I don't even Honestly, the one that has like the good stuff, I. don't even think I have anymore. >> Oh, of course. I know where it is. No, the one that has the good stuff. >> How old were you when you're writing in. this? >> 20, 21, 22. >> No, they're like. >> it's recent and literally the last like. two years. They're probably 22. >> It's not like you're writing to a diary. for no. It's like you're like processing.

your thoughts. >> Like processing, documenting uh just. like, hey, here's what I struggle with. today. Blah blah blah blah blah, >> whatever. >> So, it's a like a faith journal. What. was that, by the way? >> I know. I heard that loud noise, too. Yeah, you're digging yourself a hole. I'm trying to decide. >> Wait, >> something fell off the balcony the. floor. >> You know what? We can move past the fact. that Mav has a journal, but why write. about things? See, that's that go on in. your life. You will forget them.

>> That's true. It would be so cute if like. my grandpa had journal I could read. I'd. read it. >> I thought the whole point of a journal. is you never want anyone to read your. journal. >> Well, probably not. But. >> wait, okay, but why did you tell Harper. to journal? Oh, because it's a great way. to get your feelings and everything out. like on paper and it's then you can like. kind of like just be like, "Okay, it's. almost like you're venting onto a. paper.". >> Well, I didn't journal. Thank you. Anyway, >> Matt's giving me FOMO about the journal. that I should start journaling. Then I'm.

going to have to bully myself for. journaling. >> Yeah. No, you should. You You'll really. like Don't you put that thought in my. head. >> It's fun. >> Well, why didn't you journal? >> Have you ever had or. >> especially a discipline more than. >> Okay, I guess you too. Have you ever had. like a hard discussion that you knew you. were going to have to have like a. breakup or something and so you wrote. down your bullet points and you like. looked at them and you're like, "All. right, I'm going to say these three. things.". >> Yeah. >> No. >> Okay, good. What? Kate, why? >> And my notes up there for helpful, >> dude. >> Yeah. I guess I just haven't had to have. a conversation where I felt like I. needed to like.

>> That's what I did with um No, not not. plot. It's. >> when you get flust like if I were to go. have an argument with Mav. If I knew. that Mav and I. >> She's going to journal it beforehand. She's like, "Attention Maverick.". >> For example, for example, >> pro number one. Con number one. >> No. If Mav and I weren't married and for. whatever reason we were breaking up, Mav. is really, really good at talking, but I. get really flustered. And so, I could. easily allow him to talk for 20 minutes. and I not get a single word out. And.

then, now we're broken up. And now I. regret not saying a single word. But if. I had written three points down that I. for sure wanted to tell him, not like. mean things, just like points, whatever. You're. >> just terrible at communication. >> I understand. I just would not. >> Yes, I understand. I just would choose. not to have a conversation. >> Yo, Los Angeles, guys, is coming up next. on our world tour. If you guys have been. to any of our shows so far, you're going. to want to still come to the Los Angeles. show because we are going to have. special guests at this show and it is.

going to be a crazy show. So, if you can. come to Los Angeles on October 5th, go. get your tickets right now at the. lolodcast.net. It is going to be a crazy show. And then. after that, we are going to Chicago, Houston, Oklahoma City, Dallas, Melbourne, Sydney, London, Dublin, and. Manchester. So, if you guys live in any. of these cities, we're on tour right. now. So, go to the lolodcast.net and go. get your tickets before it's too late. >> Oh, you just won't have it. >> I just won't do it. avoid conflict at.

all. Another thing is another thing is. what's it called? That's what I did with. I would put in my notes everything I. didn't like about you know the person. that I broke up with and uh there was. multiple different things and so I wrote. it in before. before everything happened and that's. what I was going to bring up to him so I. could he could fix it and then I found. out other things. Oh my gosh. So not. just that I could never bring it up to. him. >> I think it's good even if you're not. using those things to share with that. person. And I think it's good for you in.

like 2 weeks from now to go back and. look at and say, "Okay, I don't need to. go crazy and like go back to this person. because of these things.". >> Another weird thing. >> Okay. >> Oh, what? >> No, no, you continue. >> Yeah. Another weird thing is um what's. it called? Like they like if you don't. bring it up to them, they just never. change it. >> Yeah. So that's why I really wanted. >> So the reason you do this. >> what? No, he's intrigued. He's. intrigued. Oh, yeah. I was listening. hard. And the thing is that I realized. is I finally figured out the reason. y'all journal or diary or whatever y'all.

are calling it these days. I. >> was going to say to get an advantage. >> Yes. It is because I have had this. feeling. >> inside my. >> someone all everyone else has had it too. is you have that feeling once you leave. an argument or discussion you're like. dang if I would have said that it would. have got them real good. They would have. been like, >> "No, no, it's not.". >> If I would have said that, I would have. won and they there would have been. nothing they could have done. And then. you're like, I need to go start the. argument again so I can bring that up. >> That's what you do. And then you get out. of the show, you dry yourself off.

>> Yeah. You You prep the argument. >> I can't. >> It's genius. >> No, >> I cannot keep thinking about things like. that. I'm like, >> "No, you don't think of the other. person's side of the At least not in my. circumstances. I don't think about like. if me and Matt were going to argue, I'm. not like, "Okay, what is Matt gonna. say?" All right, I know he's probably. going to say this, so let's say this. instead. >> I do. >> Plus, it's also just like you keep track. of things when you journal. Like when I. was journaling, I felt like I was way. more on it. I just don't feel like. anybody ever goes back and actually read. their own journal. >> No, but when you write it out, you you.

remember it more. >> Oh, I did. Whenever I was moving out of. my house in Temple to move here, I found. some in my journals from when I was like. 16 and I was reading through them and it. made me cry cuz I was like, "Oh my gosh, I was so miserable and now I'm getting. married to Mav.". >> Wow. >> Yeah. So cute. >> Journal so you can cry. >> She was up up. >> Good tears. Happy tears. >> Yeah. >> Don't you want to cry one day? I was. going to say that's kind of sad. >> Yeah. Well, >> I Yeah, I do not want to cry anymore. Do.

y'all ever have those points where that. you've cried so much that it's just like. it hurts your head? >> Yes. >> Yeah. It's Yeah. Never again. >> And then and then everyone would be like. laughing at you because you've cried so. much and they're like, "It's so funny. that you just you just cry all the. time." And you're like, "I don't know if. it's actually really funny that my pain. is causing me to just cry all the time.". But then everyone thinks it's hilarious. So you just. >> especially like a stage where you go. through it's like you cry so much. >> Yeah. And that becomes like literally. like a comedic relief for people around. you. >> I know.

>> So, what do you think of guys that. journal Cash. >> me? >> Yeah. [Music]. >> Everyone knows what I think, >> which is. >> he thinks they're geniuses apparently. because they're plotters. >> Well, yeah. There's evil journals. apparently, and then there's emotional. journals. >> I would personally not participate in an. emotional journal, and I actually think. it'd be a colossal waste of my time. So, you would never write a journal just. about like what happened that day? >> That seems like an extreme waste of my.

time. I'm wasting my current day to. write about what happened in my current. day. >> Okay. Well, what about uh I don't know, maybe all the apostles that wrote down. all of their uh life events in their. journal. >> That is completely different. First of. all, then that's a huge invasion of. privacy for us to read their journal and. put it on make this many copies of it. Um and. yeah, maybe they wouldn't like that. Anyone ever think about that? Cuz. anytime I try to pick up anyone's. journal, they're like, "No, I'll shoot. you.". >> Whose journals do you pick up? >> I don't know. When I find them here and.

there, >> people with guns just walking around. with journals. >> Yeah. Well, uh, >> you should you should have journal. before I called you. Remember? >> Yeah. Journal about Farmer Cries. >> Yeah. Like I He called me. He's like, "Yo, what's up? Uh, you ready to come to. the podcast?". >> Did he say it? Like, wait, hold on. I I. was there for the combo. Matt was like, "I need to call Harper." cuz Harper had. like just broken up and he was like, "Are we still like shooting today like. the episode or like I don't know." I was.

like, "I don't know. Just call Harper. and like see if she still wants to shoot. an episode today or what?" And Matt like. calls her and he literally just goes, "Uh, hey Harper." And she's like, "Hey, hey." And Matt was like, "So, like, uh, you know, like the podcast, are you. still like" And she's like, "How do you. think we got that far?" It was just like. it was like I think it was like, "How. you doing?". >> I I remember exactly. So this is what happened. He said, "Hey. yo, what's up?" And I was like, "Hi.". He's like, "Are you up to film the bod. today?" I was like, "Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah." He's like, "How are you?" And I. was like, "I'm good. I'm fine." And.

>> you don't ever want to be asked those. words. >> No, I was I was indeed not okay. I've. never cried that much in the past 3 days. than I ever have. And he was literally. in my life for 2 months. So, I do not. know how I cried. Like, it was just. really not that big of a deal. >> Yeah. And then Matt was looking at me. He was like, "What do I say? What do I. say?" I was like, "Hang up the phone. Hang up the phone. I don't know what to. say.". >> Yeah. He was He was like He was like, "Well, you don't you don't have to come. for the next days, maybe even years.". He did not know what to say. >> Yeah. That's when I go on airplane mode. every day.

>> And Brooke was in the car with me. She. was like, we were laughing about it. after because it. >> Yeah, because they manipulated you. No, because. >> you cried and then laughed about how. someone's going to go crazy in his. journal tonight. >> Yeah. Watch out. >> No, listen. So, you you called and then. I was like I was like, I'm fine. And. then I was I cried. She hung up and she. was like, "Got him.". >> I know. I cried for a good like 15. minutes and then B was like, "Why didn't. he know what to say?". >> So funny. Um, >> dude, I'm a terrible person. When. someone's crying, >> you are a terrible Oh. >> Oh, what?

>> Dude, if someone's crying, unless it's. Kate. With Kate, I know exactly what to. say. But like, >> what do you say? >> Do you? >> I think he does. >> Yes, I do, actually. >> Like the other day, she was crying about. her steak. How'd you know that? >> Because you were obviously. >> How did you know that? We had Oh, this. is this is unboxing a whole can of. beans, man. I'm telling you. >> Listen, she cries over food, over. everything. She's like, it's. >> No, you don't even understand. This is a. crazy combo. I'm so excited we're having. it right now. I'm going to journal about.

this. Listen, if you did journal about. it, you know, you don't even know the. whole story. Listen, >> so Mav said to we wanted to go play. basketball or something and I was like, do you want to play? And he's like, I. can't. He's like, Kenzie's crying. tonight. And he was like, >> "Exactly. Don't feel good.". >> What the heck? >> Yeah. I don't know. I told him it's. crazy to share that information. I said, "That's your I don't know, but I. probably shouldn't go to basketball.". >> You want to know what I. >> Wait, I'm I'm telling the story, K. I'm. going to get to it. Don't rat me out. I'm admitting it. >> Actually, I'm not admitting nothing.

because it's completely fine to say. >> First off, don't be ashamed of your. tears. >> Yes. Be proud. Loud and proud. And look. at her. She's still over there like. debating how she's going to get back at. me. She's going to have her whole. journal sheet ready for you. >> I was crying about nothing. And. >> that's what that's what I said. He said, "Why?". >> Two tears. I wasn't like, "Oh, yeah.". No. Two tears. And I was like, "Okay, that's fine." I go to put my basketball. shorts on and come back way more. So Mav. comes downstairs. He's like, "I can't. play basketball tonight. Kenzie's. crying." And he he's like, and you know,

she doesn't really cry that much, so. like I kind of got to stay in. And he. was like he he was like, you know, not. like your girl your girl cry a lot. I. was like I was like, "Wait, I wasn't. there. I heard I heard them in the. living room just talking. >> No, but Kate was in the bedroom and the. door was wide open so she heard it all. He's like not like your girl. He's like. your girl. >> He was like, you know, yours is crying. over everything. >> I was like, yeah, yeah, mine cries a. lot. I kind of just got to be like, you. know, pat on the back, toughen up type. of thing. Um, and I I know, you know, when it's bad and when like. >> what did you do when he walked in? >> Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. And then. Mav goes, yeah, yours cries about like,

oh, I burned my eggs. Oh no, my life is. over. And I was like, >> it's so frustating. >> I was like, exactly. I was like, "That. just happened about three hours ago. Kate cooked steak and she didn't cook it. right and she came in the bedroom and. she's like, "All I wanted to do was to. be a good wife and cook steak.". >> My wholeity. is about my steak because we work like. we'll work late a lot and then. everyone's in the house. So, we don't. just have like a normal dinner where. like I make me and Cash dinner and then.

we eat dinner together and go to bed. And I was like, you know what? I want to. do that tonight. I don't care if we have. 15 people in our house. So, I was trying. to cook steak and everybody in their. mother needed me for the 10 minutes I. was cooking my steak. They were like, "Kate, over here. Kate, come do this. Kate." I was like, "Shut up. Shut up. I'm just trying to be a wife and cook. steak." And then I They were all like, "Okay, well, can you come do this?" And. so, I was like working and cooking and. it was just not going. >> Okay. Okay. We didn't need Okay. Anyways, I said, "Yeah, you know,

I was like, "Mine does, you know, cry. about like, you know, steak and eggs.". And so, yeah, and I I understood that. And where were we going with this. conversation? >> Yeah, exactly. >> You're about to tell the full story. I. think that was it. >> Oh, yeah. Then I walk into the room and. Kate was like, I heard after, you know, we had a conversation about how much. Kate cries and how it's terrible. Um, or. not how how it's terrible. I didn't I. just meant, you know, how much. >> Kate I was not uh really like saying. much. That was mostly him. >> No. And then I walk in the room and she. was like, "Why would you say that about.

me?" I was like, "What?" And she goes, "You said I cried a lot." I was like, I. was like, "Well, I was like, to be fair, you crying right. now about me saying that you cry a lot.". And she's like, "I know, but you don't. got to you don't got to say it out. loud.". I was like, "What?". >> Okay. >> Yeah. Anyways, >> funny story. >> Yeah. So, Harper, uh, how much have you. cried recently? >> I'm so serious. I think a whole river.

>> Me a river. >> I'm I'm serious. I don't At least as. much as that bucket fills up right. there. >> Nah, that would be crazy. >> I promise you. I promise you. I. seriously don't think I've ever cried. this much. Like Blake, where like what did I look like most of. the days? >> Look like I don't think you going to. want to hear what that responses. >> What did I look like most of the days. when I was like dead inside? He said like a hippopotamus. That's.

disrespectful. >> Like a dead old lady. Why would she? >> Her eyes were puffy and nothing was. going on behind her eyes. Nothing. Like. I was at dinner with Blake. I couldn't. finish my. >> my food cuz I would just throw it all up. after. >> Did you take it to go? >> No. I would literally just throw it up. after cuz I felt so sick. And so I like. behind my eyes like I was just eating. dinner. I couldn't think about anything. I didn't want to think about anything. cuz if I thought about anything it would. just circle back to Benny and so I was. like dude it sucks but.

>> I mean at least I'm not with a cheater. anymore. Um. >> well do you feel better now? >> Well yeah I feel a lot better now. Yeah. Um. >> well well. >> well. >> I'm an expert at communication. >> Um. >> I don't know if you are. >> I am. Would you like to communicate with. me? >> Yeah. Can I be like an awkward girl and. you. >> I have came to the Sure. I've came to. the conclusion recently that I was like. I think I'm one of the best. communicators that I possibly know out. of everyone and not necessarily. >> that's just a crazy thing to say. >> No, listen.

Did I just steal the spotlight from. Harper? >> Yes. >> I'm sorry. Continue. >> I didn't say anything. >> No. See, I'm an expert communicator and. I picked up on that. >> You didn't pick up on it cuz obviously. you didn't steal the spotlight from me. I wasn't talking. >> So, keep talking. Carry on. >> There's no spotlight here. Okay. Well, a. spotlight back on me then. Um, I have. realized that my communication skills. are pretty on par and amazing. On par. meaning they're like equal to. >> on guard. >> Like I said, it's not about vocabulary.

size. It's about how you carry on a. conversation with someone. >> How do you carry on a conversation if. your vocabulary is small? >> It doesn't matter about your vocabulary. It matters about how you make the other. person feel. >> So, you just stare at them, make them. feel something. >> No, I hit them. >> You hit them. No, I'm kidding. No, but. just in general, my conversation skills. go crazy. I I I always have something to. respond with. >> I never I never I'm never speechless. >> Really? Well, what about when Harper. started crying? You were looking at me. like I Well, that's not communication.

That's just. >> Wow. >> Wow. Oh, well, that was actually. >> Oh, that was cool. >> Carry on. >> Oh, yeah. I just thought I was a good. communicator. >> Yeah. Okay. Well, let's prove it. How. about I'm the awkward girl. Actually, I. think I'm better at communicating than. you are. >> Oh, really? >> Yes. And I can prove it to you. I'll be. an awkward girl in a conversation and. you act like you talk to me awkwardly. and then we'll see how it goes. And then. you try the same to me and we'll see. who's better and ready. >> What's happening? Harper's going to be.

an awkward person and you're going to. try to talk to her. >> and I'm going to show how her how good I. am at communicating. I'll go first. though. I'll be awkward. >> Okay. So, you're going to be as awkward. as you can. >> No, I'm going to be as awkward as I can. first. Okay. >> And Harper's going to show me how good. of a communicator she is. >> All right. Ready? Three. >> All right. Do one. Hi. What's your name? >> Um, >> I want to restart. >> Dang, you got really far there. >> I'm sorry. Can we actually I didn't. know. Okay. >> You're not supposed to be the awkward. one. >> All right. Ready? Three. >> Okay. I think you already failed, but. okay. We'll go again. >> Three, two, one. Hi. What's your name?

>> Uh. >> Um. Well, I like your shirt a lot. Do. you do hockey? >> So, um. >> I mean I like. >> I I uh No. >> Oh, okay. Well, >> it's not mine. >> Oh, it's not. Is it one of like your. friends or something? >> Uh, well, um, so. >> this is painful. >> That's okay. No, I mean. >> you um. >> Oh my. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. Uh, I like it a lot. And also, what's it called? Do you play for the.

like do you Oh, it's your friend. Sorry, I forgot. What's it called? Um, do you. have a lot of friends at home or like. just one? >> Not really. >> Oh, you don't? No, that's okay. I can be. your friend. >> Okay. I can't take it. I can't I can't. take it. >> Okay. Next. No, I'm the awkward girl. >> Okay, ready? Go. >> Go. >> Oh. Uh. Oh. Hey, what's your name? >> Maroon. >> Maroon. Oh, her name is Maroon. Uh, nice. to meet you, Maroon. My name is Cash. How you doing?

Why are y'all laughing? >> I don't think she said Maroon. You just. I didn't say maroon. >> See, look. I got the awkward person. laughing it up. That is an expert. communicator. All you did was ask her. name. >> Retry retry. >> Okay. Uh, what's up, Marina? How you. doing? >> No, you have you have to ask my name. >> Oh, Har wants to change her name. Okay. All right. All right. Uh, hi. How you. doing? Or what's up? What's your name? >> What are you laughing at? >> I'm just imagining some little girl.

walking up to Cash and being like, "Hi, my name is Sarah." And he's just like, >> "What's up, Sahara Desert?". >> He's like, "Sahara." where he's like. just something random like oh yeah cool. dairy is a cool name yeah. >> okay yeah. >> three two one. >> hey what's up uh what's your name. >> you don't share that kind of information. that's cool I respect it privacy you. never know who's going to steal your. identity these days you know one time I. heard that somebody could steal your. identity and move to Mexico and you.

would never know because apparently. three people in this world has already. stole your identity so I completely. respect that. this girl is really awkward right Why. are you experiencing? >> Why are you talking to a camera? >> You can't talk to a camera. You don't. have a camera. >> Are you out in public just like talking. to cameras? Like security camera? Are. you seeing? >> That would be so funny. >> This is an awkward girl. >> I'm going to start doing that. He's. talking to the Walmart security camera. selfch checkout. The lady's like, "Do. you need help?" He's like, "She's asking. if I need help.". >> She's being awkward.

>> I'm actually going to start doing that. Anytime I see any camera and realize the. security camera, I'm like, "So, here's. what we're experiencing right now.". awkwardness. >> or just like involve like the people. that are talking to you and like just. talk to the random ball and be like, "Is. there a camera somewhere?" Be like, "So. you see right here? This is where. >> just like when someone's asking like. >> you did that, dude. >> So do you want ketchup on that burger?". I look at the camera. So this person is. wondering if I want ketchup on the. burger and this is how I'm going to. respond. Yes, I would like ketchup on my. burger. That is how you communicate.

>> Why is it kind of like a Dax? >> He's like talking to a tree. Yeah. I. don't. >> Wait, now. >> Hey, it's Jeff with the medical team. >> You you you can't you can't you can't. >> I knew Kate would laugh at that. >> You can't talk like inside joke. What? >> You can't talk like a like you're. looking at a camera. You. >> Okay, I'll just talk natural, too. I can. do that, too. Hey, what's up? How you. doing? >> Um, the guy behind you is kind of being. weird. I made you look Don't you like. jokes? Do you not like my jokes? Oh, okay. Yeah. Most of the time people. laugh at my jokes. Yeah. So I if I was.

you, I'd probably start laughing at him. unless you want me to start cracking him. a lot. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, that's what I'm saying, too. 100%. respect that. >> This is almost as brutal as when Harper. was doing it. I'm not going to lie. >> No, honestly, you guys do talk to people. pretty well. >> Thanks. >> Well, Harper does. Harper does. >> What? >> Yeah. >> I feel like I killed it. No, anytime. we're in a hangout session or like VIP. or whatever um at the shows, Harper's. always I'm looking at she's always in.

like deep conversation with people. >> Yeah. And Maverick always just starts. >> you see what Maverick does. >> I can't help it. These girls come to me. and they're like, "Can you throw me in. the air?". >> Nobody says that. >> Nobody says that. >> Actually, actually, I am Maverick's. witness for this one. The last show we. went to, absolutely insane. I don't know. what these girls were doing, but. >> probably five or six girls went up to. Maverick and were like, "Can you lift me. in the air?" And I watched my. >> hangout. >> Yeah. And And then after that, they'd. come to my line and they'd be like, "Can.

you lift me in the air?" And I'm like. I'm like. >> Yeah. The last time they're like, "Can. you stomp me on stage?" And I was like, "Yeah.". >> Well, I'd be like, "Uh, no, actually I. can't." And they're like, "Okay, well, can I pick you up?" And I was like, "Sure." So, I took like 20 pictures with. girls or they're just picking me up in. the air from. >> No, but I'm talking about even Maverick. when we're like doing a meet and greet. >> Oh my gosh. Can I show you what he does? >> Yeah, please. >> Kate tried to show this on a podcast we. filmed before. >> and it ruined the entire episode.

>> But don't you worry, I will not mess it. up this time. >> All right, let's see it. >> Okay, when we're in the meet and greet. line, we have our order that we stand in. and he goes, >> "Just let her just let her go. I'll just. let her go. >> Just let her No, you got it. You got it. >> Why are you saying this? >> No, we're not saying nothing. We're. talk. We're not even talking. >> While they're arguing, to be fair, Maverick is very kind and all the people. love him. So, continue. >> Yeah, he's the last person that you see. in the meet and greet lines. So, like. he's like saying goodbye to you as you. walk away. Except he's not just saying. goodbye. This is what he does.

>> Harper, this is this is what the girls. >> I do this if they're like under six. years old. By the way, >> I've seen some older girls have this. happen, but it's okay. >> Older? Yeah. sometimes pushing 60. >> Oh, wait. Are we gonna show the clip. where Kate ruined the set? >> Yeah, we showed that. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Yeah. If we didn't show the clip, but. All right. Go ahead. >> Okay. So, Harper, you're you're you're. going through the meet and greet line. >> This is what the girl wants to do. They. want to like walk past straight away. like leave after we say bye, but he. clearly stops them. >> Okay. Go. Bye. Thank you so much. Can I.

have a hug? Thank you. >> Why are you just ignoring them? >> Oh, hey. Hey. Thank you so much for. coming. I'm so glad that you came. This. wouldn't be possible without. >> You're gonna do it again. >> You're gonna tear apart the set. >> What? >> Put her down. >> Her toes are like inches away from every. single mic. >> They get down there like and he spins. them. He's like. >> I don't I don't spin him like this. >> No, I do not.

>> Once you like you know you know you know. like I love you so much, Maria. But he. like it like goes on for an awkward. amount of time and so I look away. Oh my. god. >> Yeah. And then sometimes they're walking. away from me and he's like, "Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, you got to give me a hug. Where's my hug at?". >> The definition of a where's my hug at. guy? >> No, I do talk to them when they're. walking away. I'll be like, >> "No, you don't talk to me." He's like, "Let me pray over you really fast.". Well, like 10 girls are waiting in line.

>> They're like seven years old. They're. like, "What's a prayer?" I'm like, >> "Oh my gosh, it's so funny.". >> Making the experience memorable. >> So cute. >> You know, Harper, when you were gone, >> memorable, >> you know, when you weren't uh on the. episodes, um, also, >> I do feel like they feel special, though. Anyways, keep going. >> Oh, sorry. >> I got you. >> They probably feel special. >> You know, when you weren't on the. episodes, we held a memorial service for. you. Um, I. >> did. >> Why does he sound like he smoked a pack. of cigarettes?

>> It's probably all the smoke from. Harper's head. We created you. >> Oh yeah. Yeah, we cremated you. >> Yeah. See the little picture over there? Um, so half of it was burnt. That was. your memorial. Maverick little candle. Accidents happened. Your head went up in. flames. Luckily, we put it out. >> Was an accident. >> Well, you know, not all the details are. out yet. We don't know. It's still under. investigation. It's cold. >> Um, but that's why half your head was. burned. But I hope you know we did hold. a memorial and it was my idea. Um, but.

yeah. >> Well, I appreciate the memorial you. guys. >> Also, did you know that you were you and. Kate were the only ones left that has. never missed an episode. Me and Maverick. stepped out of the episodes when you. guys had like girl like girl episode. girl only episodes. Me and Maverick. weren't in like those two and Kenzie. weren't in the uh early ones. So, you. and you and Kate were the only ones ever. out of 220 something episodes. >> You are the youngest person ever. What. >> have you not Okay,

>> he's out of touch with society. 67. >> He just learned that. >> He still doesn't know. >> I I don't really get it. >> 67. >> But anyways, we're not going to talk. about 67. You You and Kate are the only. ones. And now it's just Kate cuz you. missed an episode. Finally, out of 220. something, you never missed one. >> My first episode I'll miss is going to. be cuz we're we're almost like 2 and a. half years. >> I know. I really can't think of a like. >> when Kate has a kid one day. Can we have. a podcast episode in the hospital bed,

dude? And I had to I I had to miss I had. to miss over some stupid encounter that. happened in my life. >> What? >> Wait, what? >> I had to miss an episode over some. stupid encounter that happened. >> Stupid encounter. Yeah, stupid. >> Unfortunately, we weren't filmed up. enough for us to just. >> have stupid encounters. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, dude. I can't believe that. happened. >> Yeah. So, you broke your streak. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Kate's got the only streak now. I. got the longest streak. Wow, you guys. I'm glad you're back though. >> Yeah, it feels better to be back. >> Yeah, >> I have the longest streak for the most.

missed episodes, though. That's pretty. impressive. >> That is true. This is true. >> You missed quite a few. >> Why' y'all look at each other like that? Me? No. Mash and Mav, >> we didn't. >> Um, >> nothing was meant by that. When you were. gone, Harper, >> we passed We we we did some fun things. >> Yeah, I heard, bro. >> Yeah, we played reverse charades. >> Oh, we did. We also played open closed.

>> I still open you not bringing that up. again. >> Okay, >> don't do it, Harvard. Don't give him. attention. >> I want to play open closed. >> No, don't get Oh, no. You fell for it. >> Open. >> Closed. >> No, closed. >> What? >> Open or closed? >> Closed. >> M. I honestly would be concerned if. anyone were to actually know what you're. open or closed. >> Open. open. Yeah, it was good. >> He like came up with this game in his. head. He. >> came up with this stupid game. >> I did not. It's a huge Tik Tok trend. >> Just so you know, the only one who knows.

or understands is his wife. So, >> and Alex. >> I That's weird. Alex, >> what? Why is that weird? >> I don't weird. It's not a Tik Tok trend. >> This is a huge Tik Tok trend. I've seen. it everywhere. Like, if you type in like. Tik Tok games to play, this will come. up. >> Well, I'm the only one that's on Tik Tok. like religiously. So, I don't understand. how I don't know what openloed is. >> You're on there religiously. in some. stupid game. He just sits there and. opens up that container and unopen. >> He decides when it's open. >> He decides when it's open and when it's. closed. Not you. No. >> No. There is. >> You have no idea what's happening. How's. >> that? How's that weird?

>> It's just one of those things. It's like. It's like It's cool for you cuz you. know, but no one else cares because no. one else knows. So, like, why should. anyone care? >> That's why it's fun for me. >> So, can you explain it? >> Yeah. Open or closed? >> Oh my gosh. >> Open. >> Closed. >> Uh, open or closed? >> Open. >> Open. >> Okay. Hold on. I'm just going to nail it. on the head here. I'm going to let you. do it one more time and I'm going to. watch you go. >> Open or closed? >> Open.

>> Are you doing something? >> Open. >> Man, I hate games like this. >> Wait, no. I got it. Okay, hold on. >> Open or close? Closed? >> Wait, I got it. K, look at me. Opened. >> Open. >> Okay, I don't know. >> Open or close? >> Can you tell us how to work? >> Just tell us how it works. >> Open or closed? >> Closed. Obviously, it's closed. It has a cap on. it. >> Open. And now, what is it? >> Closed. >> Closed. >> It's closed. Yeah. >> Do it again. Play it. Play it again.

>> Open or closed. >> Open. >> Open or closed. >> Closed. >> She's got it. She's got it. >> No, she doesn't. >> She just got lucky a couple times. >> No, she did it. She got lucky. Do it. Do. Do it two more times. >> Oh my gosh. She cracked it before you. did. >> Go. >> Open or closed? >> Open. Yeah, I think she got it. >> Wait, let's see. Let's see. Do it two. more times. >> Open or closed? >> Open. >> Open or closed? >> Open. >> Yeah, she's on. I mean, she's No, I did. I did open like four times in a row to. try. >> Are we stupid?

>> Yeah, you're stupid. >> Did we take too much Tylenol? Cuz I. don't understand what's happening right. now. >> What? >> I think that there are bigger things in. the world you should worry about and. your brain space and that is just one of. those. Ready? Open or close? >> There's no way you caught on from what. he did. I watched him do that all day. yesterday. All right. Ready? Open or. closed? All right. Closed. Open. >> Open. >> Open or closed? >> Closed. >> Closed. Good. Sounds good. >> Open or closed?

>> I'm watching so intently and she's not. doing anything besides putting the. stinking cap on. >> Open or closed? >> Closed. >> Should we tell the audience what's. happening? Um, >> open or closed? >> I think I did last time, but I'll say it. again. >> I don't think you did, man. >> Who the heck knows? >> Just so you guys know, as someone who's. not playing and someone who doesn't. know, this is really, really not fun to. watch. >> I'm looking it up on TikTok. Where's my.

>> Oh my god. >> I saw something where they said they. said something about their mouth, but. that didn't make sense. >> So, what? >> How to play open or closed. How to open your clo. >> how to open your clothes. >> How to No, that's This is I need to. delete my search history on how to play. open or it's like how to open or. >> not how how to open your closed. together. Jesus is going down bad. How.

to play open or closed. Not together. >> Okay, there was another game we played. that was actually funny when Harper was. gone. >> I can't believe you're having to look it. up. Oh, teacher reverse your. >> helping because no one's explaining it. They're all just playing the game. >> Yeah, no one tells you how to play. You. really have to figure it out. >> Interesting. Well, that's great. Moving. on. The other game we played while. Harper was gone. >> I got FOMO. >> Yeah, it was called uh reverse charades. >> Mhm. >> And we had a lot of fun and I feel like.

we're not doing you justice if we don't. play around with you. >> Yeah, because it really felt like a game. that you'd be good at. >> Yeah. So, Cash, would you like to go. first? He's too busy trying to learn how to. play. >> I got it. >> You didn't get it. You looked it up. I. got it. >> Then let's play. Let's play. >> Okay, let's play. >> Let's play. >> Ready. All right. Open or closed? >> Open. >> Closed. That one was closed. >> All right. Ready? Open and closed. >> Closed. Open.

>> No. >> Yes. >> No. Yes. >> No, it wasn't. >> Yes, it was. >> Do it again. >> All right. Open or closed. Closed. Open. No, it's not. I just saw that on. TikTok. It was if your mouth is open or. closed. >> That's what I saw, too. >> Yeah. It's if you go open or closed. >> Did you go look it up, Kate? >> Or if you go opened. >> No, I just looked it up right now. >> Yeah. Or if you go open or closed. >> That's what it is. I know it. >> No, it's not. >> Oh, I can just strangle you. >> You're not catching on. >> I can just strangle you so hard you not.

have to worry about anything or cry no. more. >> What? >> You're not catching on easily. But I. mean, I guess we got to play. All right. What game? What are we playing? >> We're playing reverse charades. And. you're going first. >> Reverse charades. >> And you're going first. >> I'm too good at that game. >> Yeah, that's. >> everyone knows I always win. >> That's why you have to go first. >> Okay, fine. >> Cuz first, come on. Harper wants to see. it. >> Okay, fine. Y'all got to come up with a. word. >> Okay, M. What's. >> Harper? If you guys saw last episode, we. played reverse charades, but Harper uh. was, you know, not there. So, we're.

gonna show Harper how to play. I got. one. >> I have one. >> I got a good one. Play your ears, Cash. Okay. >> And do. >> and say la. >> I was just sing my song. >> There's a new queen bee. There's a new. queen bee. You want queen. >> drunk. >> Okay. >> No. That's funny. >> Okay. You got it. Okay. Cash. >> Yeah. >> We got the word. >> All righty. Do you guys actually Is it. something reasonable? >> Yes. >> Is it a decent activity? >> Well, it depends on who you ask.

>> Okay. Ready? Let's begin. Do you know. how the game's played? Yes. >> Yes. You try to do things and then we. tell you if you're close or not. >> Okay. Yes. Good luck. >> Yes. Go. >> Okay. Here we go. >> Okay. >> Best of luck. >> No. >> No. >> No. >> That was just me standing. >> Oh my gosh. >> I have bad knees. >> I thought you were like growing or. something. >> Yeah. Ready? Ready? >> Yes. Basically. No. No.

>> It was just Could be. >> Could be. Could. be. >> Could be. >> Could be. >> Could definitely be. >> Could definitely. >> Yes. >> Yes. Yes. >> No. >> Probably not. >> Definitely not. No. That would not work. out. >> No. I think I don't think so.

>> Yeah. >> Could attempt Could attempt. >> could attempt to dance. Oh. Um, >> no. >> Definitely yes. >> Whoa. >> Definitely. Definitely yes. >> Try. Y'all can't just keep saying yes to. everything. When you are in when you're doing it, you definitely do all the. >> No. >> You can't say yes to everything. >> Fine. Okay. Okay. We'll start saying no. >> You got all y'all are like, "Oh, >> what if it was a word like human?".

>> Then we could. They even think it. >> So there is words we can. >> How about this? >> No. >> No. >> I mean I've seen it though. >> Y'all said yes to this. >> Oh yes. Yes. Definitely. >> Uh I would say. >> no. >> no. >> Why is he that though? Like right now. >> why is everything Cash does so funny but.

he's not even trying to. No. clothes. >> What? >> What are you doing? >> Is this close? >> No. >> That's the scoot that babies and dogs. do. >> No. >> What baby have you seen do that? >> Every baby scoots. Um, >> do you have any guesses so far? >> No. >> Aren't you supposed to tell me? >> You're supposed to also you can guess. things as you're doing it.

>> Yeah. Guess faster. >> No, no, >> no. There's something more specific I. think we want. >> Oh, that's closer. Nope. >> No. [Laughter]. [Laughter].

>> It's only funny when. >> you all laugh. But is that right? >> No. >> No. >> What are you doing? >> Actually, I have a funny story about. that. >> No. >> Okay. No. >> Well, when this is over, I have a funny. story. Uh. oh. >> Keep the hand there, though. >> Act like you're eating something but not. eating it. >> No. I mean, you could, but just do one. for the sake of this. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Maybe close the hand a little. >> Why is his ring finger? >> Not that much. No. Back it up. Back it.

up. Back up. Back up. No. No. No. I. meant like reverse what you did. >> Oh my gosh. Cash, this is painful. >> No. Oh, okay. Now, slowly do that. >> Right. >> there. Nope. Back up. Back up. Back up. >> Oh, right there. That's pretty close. No. No. >> No. No. What? What do you have? >> Okay. Put it to your face.

>> No. No. >> If you're not eating. >> No. You know what it is. >> No. You know what to do. >> Come on. No. >> No. >> Flatten your fingers out. Ew. Gosh. >> Yeah. Yeah. Straighten your fingers. No. No. No. No. Close them. >> Make a C with your hand.

>> Yeah. Make a C there. There. That's. better. That's No. No. >> That's more of an. >> Oh my gosh. He's not getting it. This. >> He's so close though. Yes. Yes. Yes. >> It's just drinking. >> Well, drinking this. >> Yes. >> And you knew it the whole time. I know. it. >> Really? >> Yes. >> That was crazy. Y'all really should have. said yes to all those other things I. did. >> Should have said yes. >> Shouldn't have. That really threw me off. in the game.

>> Okay, >> somebody else got to play now. Harper, while you were gone, we really thought. you'd like this game. So, that was an. example. But it's your turn. >> Yeah. Ow. Your toes don't pop. >> These these do. >> Oh my gosh. >> And these do, too. >> All right. Uh, plug your ears. We're. going to say a thing now. We're going to. say something. [Music]. >> A a growing sunflower. What the. >> No, that's hard. >> Um. Um. >> How about How about. >> stealing a banana? >> I got it. I got it. A monkey taking a. bath. >> No, no, no, no. That's too basic. Too.

basic. We need uh Come on, everybody. >> A helicopter. Uh, >> yes. >> Yes. Yes. Yes. Helicopter. Helicopter. Helicopter. >> Okay. Harper. >> All right. Ready? >> Yeah. You're good. Did you hear us? >> No. >> All right. Let's see it. >> You did. She did. >> Did you hear us? >> I heard you secretly. >> Wait. What was. >> What? >> What was it? >> Peeling a banana. >> Oh, no. No. No. No. It's not that. >> Yes. You said. >> No, no, we No. That was the first one we. said, but then we switched. >> Yeah. Then we switched it. So, yeah. So, you're good. You're good. All right. Let's see it. Come on. Good. I wanted to.

see this one. You ain't doing nothing. >> All right. Ready? Uh, >> what are you doing? >> No, no, no. >> Nope. >> Opposite of digging. >> Going the wrong way. >> What? >> No. You're not really doing much. >> Yeah, you got to start moving. >> Nope. No. >> Are you sweeping? >> No. >> I need more action. Yeah, this is kind. of nonchalant of you. >> You got to be like crazy with it. >> Come on. You can do it. Be your. >> Should we do a duo one? Cuz you're not.

doing much. >> Okay, give us each award. We're going to. close our think of the same word for. it's got to be a duo thing. Something we. can duo together. >> Okay. >> It's like a duet. Ready? All right. Here. we go. >> Two people. >> Wait. What? Ready? >> Here we go. I got it. >> A bridge. No. Skydiving. >> That's too easy. >> They have to be together. >> Yeah. I I feel like that's too easy. >> You think it's too easy? >> Oh, a rainbow. >> They can be a rainbow. >> That's too easy, too. >> You think. >> that one Kate was good? Did you hear?

>> I don't think that's really a duo thing. >> Yes, that is. What do you mean? when you. did that. >> You guys should talk quieter. I can hear. everything. >> Okay. Um uh what about. >> what's happening? >> What What is he doing? >> Let's just see how long he'll do it. >> What is What is he doing? >> You don't like skydiving right now? >> What about um like something like Cat in. the Hat? Like one's one thing and the. other's the other. Like Cat in the Hat. >> Peanut butter jelly. >> Oh, maybe. >> No.

>> Oh, we got it. What? >> A hot dog. >> A hot dog. >> I don't think they can be a hot dog. >> Yeah. A bun and a wiener. >> I don't think they can do that. Okay. I. can't take this. I can't take this. >> Wait. Please. Let's just do skydiving. >> Okay. Okay. How about we do um JFK. assassination? >> We can't do that. Okay. Um. >> Into the Republic. >> You guys have it? >> No. One more. One more. One more. I got. it. I got it. I got it. I actually have. it. I have it. I have it. I have it. I.

have it. Plug your ears ears. Plug your. ears. >> If I have to sing the national anthem, >> you don't know. >> Apple bottoms one more time. >> I'm going to flip out. >> Okay. Here we go. >> Okay. Ready? Ready. >> Apple bottoms. >> It's Gerald eating a human. >> Gerald eating a human. >> Okay. >> Like a dinosaur eating someone. >> Okay. Ready? Okay. We're ready. >> We're ready. We're ready. >> Okay. >> We got it. >> Okay. Is it actually decent? I think so. Okay. Let's go. Ready? >> Good luck, guys. Okay, you guys got it.

>> Oh. Uh, no. >> It's close. >> But you're on the right track. >> Kind of. Um, >> grab my foot. Grab my foot. >> What? >> You think she can hold you up? >> Oh, good job, Barbara. >> No. No. This is What is this? >> Nothing. >> Yeah. >> No, that wasn't. >> You You guys You got to uh I I'll give. you this. that you're two different. things that make a scene.

>> Uh, kind of. >> No, no, no. >> The first thing you did was closest. >> I mean, you're you're you're No, no. No. one's dying in this scene. >> What? >> We were going to do JFK assassination, but we couldn't. Yeah. So, >> uh, >> was that it? >> No. No. >> No murder. >> Matt, what do you mean? I What? I think. that was close what they were doing. >> I mean, kind of, but not like murder. like that. >> Shoot me. Shoot me. >> No, no, no. No shooting. That's what I'm.

saying. No guns. That's what I'm saying. No guns. No guns. >> Stab me. Stab. >> No. No stabbing. No stabbing. No. stabbing. >> No. No. >> Uh, it's charades. You don't talk. >> You guys got it. >> Come on. >> No. You got to get more creative. You're. thinking. >> No, no, no. Don't kill him. >> No guns. >> No guns. No guns. Um, >> okay. You got to get more creative. You're thinking about yourself inside.

your body. >> Get outside your body. >> Outside the body. >> I have superpowers. >> Superpowers? No. No superhumans. Okay. >> Does she have guns again? >> No. >> Okay. No. >> You're not you, Cash. >> No. No. >> No. Cash. You are not Cash Baker, but. you are the closest thing to it. >> A monkey. >> No. No. You're not me. No, not me. No. >> Harper, you can be Harper. Yeah.

>> Yeah. >> Um, >> she can be Harper, but you you. definitely have to be something else. >> You have to be your like alternate. personality. >> Oh, >> rude. >> No. Oh. Oh, I kind of like where you're. going with the arms going with that. >> With the arms. >> Yes. Yes. The arms are good. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> No. Add a little bit more to it. >> A little less. A little less. Not so. shaky. >> More up and down. and somebody gets. hurt, right? >> No, no, no. Not that. Just Just elbows. in. Elbows in. >> No, listen. You're gay and we get. >> No, no, no, no, no, no.

That's not. >> No. That is not it, Cash. >> Okay. No. Listen. Keep your elbows in. >> No. >> Elbows in. Not you. You're Harper. Yeah. Now your arms. Just like that. That's. how your arms stay. Now, bend over a. little bit. Lean over. >> Harper. You were on the right track with. what you said. >> Yeah. There you go. You're good. Yes. Yes. Yes. >> Yes. He's a monkey. He's a. >> coat. I tiger. >> Uh, no. Not a tiger. Here we go. Oh. Oh. Oh.

>> Yes. >> A vampire. >> A T-Rex. >> Yes. A human. >> A human. >> I get killed by Gerald. >> Harper gets killed by Gerald. >> We got it right. Oh my gosh. >> JK assassination would happen. >> I'm surprised we guessed that. >> We're pretty good. Crazy. Yeah, we are. >> I mean, I think so. >> Yeah. >> I don't think anyone else would do any. better. Anybody challenged me? I don't. think we could. >> I I think we're okay to not challenge. each other to that.

>> Really? >> I think so. >> I think we actually uh can maybe do it. next episode. >> Yes. >> I will see you guys next time. Uh well, are we going to ever next episode? Are. we going to talk about things? >> Oh, for sure. >> Wait, we're going to talk about the. breakup? >> Wait, do you want to talk about things, Harper? I mean, I used to not want to. because I was like I would just cry. about it every time, but for sure I'm. ready this time. Okay. Okay. All right. Well, tune in next episode for the tea. Wow. >> Hey guys, Benny cheated on me. We get to. the party. I hang out for a little bit. These two girls are like, "Hey, Harper,

could I get a photo?" And I was like, "Of course." And then they're like, "Did. you hear what Benson did?" And I was. like, "No." They're like, "He cheated on. you and all this.". >> Oh, this is making me sad just hearing. this. >> My heart dropped immediately. I started. balling at the party. Yeah. At the party. I was. >> Yeah. I would feel sick. >> Yeah. So then I go up to him. I ask him. about it. I promise you didn't cheat on. you. I would never do that to you. And. then we go home and um. [Music]. >> I'm just happy that after all all of the. I guess you could say slander, I don't.

know, uh uh things me and you both said. about YH Forel that they never got us. We never got. >> For those of you that do not know, YH. Forel was a gang at Harper's local. middle school. What? >> No, you said it was a gang. Yeah, I. thought it was and then they threatened. to, you know, do things and I. >> as gangs do. It was at Harper's local. middle school and. >> Wait, >> I I've heard like bits and pieces from. podcast before I started. >> Yes. >> But I've never actually heard the story. I thought it was a real gang.

>> No, they're just dangerous 12-year-olds. >> No, no, they're seriously dangerous. It. was a group of friends at our high. school that she thought were in a gang. >> Well, they said they were in a gang. No, their gang was Yh Forel, which meant. young lums for life. >> Youngs for life. And Harper, me and M. are like, "You know what? >> We don't care about white bro." She's. like, she's like, "Y'all can't say. that." She's like, "They'll come after. you." I'm like, "I'm an adult man. I. don't I'll be all right if some. 13-year-olds come after me. You. >> I'll just call their parents.". >> She was really You have to tell me what. kind of crazy thing. >> It started in eighth grade. They were.

called the Mambas at first, like which. >> they had a rebrand. >> Mambas, which was a I figured out it was. like the candy brand, the Mambas, like. the chewy things off brand. And so I was. like, "Oh, that's funny." And then the. like more the more normal guys, not. normal, I don't know, the more like. normal guys went out of the group cuz. they were just like in the. >> normal gang members left. >> No. Yeah. And so then it became a real. gang where they did, you know, things. like that aren't good for. >> Did they hurt people? Yes. They would.

jump and stuff, but they're better now. Return to God. So. >> the whole the entire gang. >> Yeah. Whole gang found out. >> Great. But they never got mav. They. never got. >> never got me. Never got they turned away. from that life of gang history. >> of gang violence. >> I don't know about turn away from it. fully, but definitely. >> they still dabble. >> Are they all still friends? >> No. >> Oh, that's why they broke up. >> The gang broke up literally. Do they. snap their friendship bracelets and. everything? >> Probably. >> Wow, man. >> Well, yeah.

>> Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I'm glad, you know, >> speaking of Speaking of snapping. friendship bracelets, >> we got a whole big thing of friendship. bracelets over here. >> that you guys have given us on tour. We're keeping every bracelet we get on. tour and it's going in our. >> draw. My favorite one. Hold on. >> What the. >> Hold on. I have it right here. >> You have a favorite bracelet? >> I do. >> You know, and I appreciate them all. But. this one right here, >> she even knew where it was in the box. >> Yeah, cuz I was just showing Mav the. other day. >> Yeah. I don't. >> It has a little K on it for Kinsey and. it says LOL and it's pink and green.

pearls which I love pearls. >> And look, there's a little Stella on it. It's actually a Dalmatian, which. Stella's not a Dalmatian, but it looks. kind of like that. >> The thought of it is just cute. >> Yeah. Anyway, >> that's so sweet. >> Yeah. Back to snapping friendship. bracelet. >> Somebody crocheted this for cash. It was. so. >> I sold the turtle. They crocheted in my. car. >> I love that. >> We dumped these bags in here. >> Yeah. But we have a big old thing of. friendship bracelets since Matt was on. the topic. >> Please make us more because we once we.

get our studio one day if we ever get. professional, you know what's happening. over there. >> She would scare me with a crochet. dinosaur. >> Weird noises. >> Well, once we get professional one day, if we ever do, and we get a warehouse, me and Kate and Harper, I'm telling. Harper that you're going to do this with. us. So, I'm excited that you're excited. We are going to make a big art project. on the wall with all of our bracelets. Are you gonna like melt them down or. something? >> No, we're not going to melt down. >> We want to have a like a wall of like. fan art, too, >> but that's. >> for yonder.

>> Yeah. Yeah. But what were you saying. about friendship bracelets? >> Oh, I was saying sometimes when you have. a friendship bracelet and gosh, hold on. >> You know, sometimes just like when you. win a gang, things don't work out. So, you you got to snap that friendship. bracelet off. You can't just take it. off. >> What are you talking about? >> That's my wedding ring. >> And uh. I was just wondering if anybody snapped. any friendship bracelets recently. Okay, that's crazy. That's an odd way to. phrase that question. >> Why are you smiling while you start the. conversation? >> Cuz it was funny. >> Are you happy about Harper's breakup? >> No, I just know that Harper came here.

today saying she's ready. >> She's ready. >> What? >> Talk like this. >> She's ready to snap her friendship. >> She said she wanted to talk about it, so. I was just saying like snap. >> No, you said are you ready to talk about. it? I said yes, I'm very ready. So, >> okay. So, she is ready. >> Okay. Okay. Well, do y'all do y'all. >> I don't Here's the thing. Here's the. thing. I don't want you to say anything. >> No, I'm not. I'm going to be respectful. of his boundaries and my boundaries. >> No, no, I know you are. I'm just saying.

like I don't want you to say anything. cuz you feel like you have to say. anything. It's also private stuff. Like. you don't have to put it on the. internet. >> I'm not putting everything on the. internet, but I'm putting the main. points cuz there's a lot that goes. behind the scenes. >> Yeah, cuz I'm confused cuz I haven't. seen you say anything about the breakup. yet. >> What do you mean? >> You haven't seen all the tears? >> No, but I haven't really seen her post. anything. What about #free? Wait, she. did have a a live. I wasn't on it, but I. saw some Okay, I have it and I was like. hustling on accident. I accidentally. >> Oh, I didn't see that. >> I did. I did see that. >> Yeah.

>> But no, I was wondering like. >> somebody put my address in the chat and. I was not paying attention. I was like, "Oh." And I said a bad word. But. >> well, anyways, I was just wondering how. do cuz it seems like a lot of everyone. online already knows what happened, but. I'm just confused because I feel like I. barely know what happened, but somehow. everyone online knows what happened. >> When I found out, I got very mad. So, I. started searching up cheating repost. Repost in every single one. >> Oh, was she had to let the fans know. subtly like she couldn't just like post. like, "Hey guys, Benny cheated on me.". Okay, so um I'll tell y'all everything.

I'm going to kind of keep it subtle. Um. >> subtle after she just said, "Benny. cheated on me.". >> I mean, it's true. I'm not going to lie. to them. >> Be nonchalant, if you will. >> So, I me and Benny Dave for two months. Um it was our two months anniversary. when I went up there. Uh, it was. September 19th when I went up there. That was We started dating June 19th. >> Okay. >> Wow. They started dating Junth. >> Yeah. >> Y'all y'all had two months strong. >> Yeah. And I never had that long a. relationship. >> No, you were.

>> I heard that's longer than the game. >> June. You started dating in July. >> July. Okay. July 19th. Sorry. >> You were not dating on Junth then? >> No. So, July 19th and we stayed till. July, August, and September. So, so. yeah. So, a week before I went up there, he uh made a bad decision. Um and he, you know, he did. do other things with another girl. And. um I w I went out there the next week. and I was really excited. It was his. homecoming. And um we were really.

excited. And one thing he didn't want me. to do was go to a party cuz he didn't. want people to start rumors, which is. obvious. and he didn't also want people. to barricade me and be like Harper's. summer harper summer all this cuz that's. like how people are to him. Um. especially at like football games and. stuff like that. So he was like. protecting me in that aspect. Um but I. just we thought it was kind of weird. that he didn't want me to go to parties. and stuff which is like I don't know. it's fine. So um we get to the party, I. hang out for a little bit. Um and I uh I.

see what's it called? I see these two. girls are like, "Hey, could I get a. photo?" And I was like, "Of course." Um, and then they're like, "Did you hear. what Benson did?" And I was like, "No.". They're like, "He cheated on you and all. this." And I was like, "I didn't believe. it." So, I talked to him about it. We. talked about it for a little bit. Um, and then we went home for the night and. then. >> Oh, this makes me sad just hearing this. >> Uh, there's a lot that went on after. like after I confronted him about it. There's. >> Wait, so like they told you and you're. sitting and so after they tell you, you.

just go up to him and you just ask? >> No. What? They told me, my heart dropped. immediately. I started balling and At. the party. >> Yeah, at the party. I was. >> Yeah, I would feel sick. >> Yeah. Um, Brick, why am I crying? >> Okay, this is why I didn't want to talk. >> No, no, no. Trust. It's fine. So then. >> I don't like hearing this. >> It's fine. No, >> you don't have to talk about it. >> No, I want to. Trust. >> So then I go up to him. I ask him about. it. I promise you didn't cheat on you. I. would never do that to you. And then we.

go home and um. >> Okay. No, there's there's no reason we. need to like this. No, because I want to. tell the story. Just trust, trust, trust. I'll get over it. Um, and then, okay, so then the next morning I get a. video from one of his friends and um. then it's like right before I leave. So, we have a 10-hour drive home because our. flight got delayed. And so, our flight. got delayed and we had a 10-hour drive. home. I got a video from one of his. friends, him and his friend explaining. the situation, how he did cheat on me. So, I told him, I said, "Hey, like we're. done. I'm I don't want to be together.".

>> Wait, he didn't tell you in person? >> No. No. He kept saying, "On God, I. didn't cheat on you. On God, I didn't do. this." And I found out that he did. So, I sent him the video. Or I didn't send. him the video. >> His friend ratted on him. >> No, his friend. Him and his friend made. a video together. >> No, it was they were on FaceTime. together and this girl was videoing the. FaceTime being like, "Hey, so what. happened that night at the game?". >> And so, >> oh my gosh. >> Mhm. >> This is news. Wait, I didn't hear this. part of the story the other day. So I um. so yeah I they videoed the FaceTime call. and then they sent it to me and then I.

was like we're done. I can't be with a. cheater. I don't want to be with a. cheater. I don't want to be cheated on. all this. And he was like I can explain. I was in the right state of mind. And to. his defense like I I don't think he was. either. I think that he was not in the. right state of mind that night and he. wasn't you know like I don't I don't. think he had me in the back of his mind. that night. And so he um this girl went. up to his friend and said, "Hey, can I. get your snap?" And then they hung out. later that night thinking that she was. going to hang out with his friend, but. actually she went in the back seat and.

then whatever happened happened. Um and. and then I found out um that I got the. story from the girl that I got cheated. on with. She's a never I'm not going to. say that. But um she Yeah, I got the. story and. >> Wait, she told you? Yeah, she she tech. she actually DM'd my she had DM'd Brooke. on TikTok saying, "Hey, I feel really. bad about Harper. I would really want to. just call and talk about the story." So. then she called us and talked about the. story. And everything seemed true. And.

except for the things Benny told me, he. was like, "Hey, like like he he tried to. defend himself in the most way possible, but he did kind of tell the truth. So. I'm going to say that. But um I do. respect his boundaries and stuff like. that because he was a good boyfriend. while we lasted and stuff and we would. get in disagreements and stuff like that. and we would always like, you know, obviously we're human. We're going to. have disagreements and stuff, but like. the number one thing to do when you're. dating somebody is to not cheat. Yo, Los. Angeles, guys, is coming up next on our. world tour. If you guys have been to any.

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now. So, go to the other podcast.net and. go get your tickets before it's too. late. >> And so, when I found out he cheated on. me after he told me he would never do. that, it was just like, dang. So, yeah, that's the story, >> man. That was heavy. >> Yeah. >> I mean, I could cry right now. >> I'm not kidding. >> I'm like trying not to. That is so sad. >> Yeah. >> I'm so sorry. Oh, no. It's okay. You can come sit on. the Great Divide anytime.

>> That's what you all said last time and I. cried, too. >> Well, you have to come. You can come sit. with us and cry over here. >> No, I promise I'm fine. I just like I. haven't cried about it in like two days, but like I'm fine now. >> So, yeah, that's that's basically what. happened. >> I stop. Don't cry. >> I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I promise I'm. fine. >> No, >> wait. Why is your makeup so waterproof. today? >> No, trust. Trust. I'm fine. Don't worry. No, thanks. >> He's giving you his crochet. >> No, but I promise you I'm fine. I got. over him immediately, obviously.

No. Um, >> I love you. >> I love you, too. >> I'm sorry. >> It's okay. But. >> you can come sit over here anytime. >> Okay. No, but yeah, that that was a. story. Um, yeah, I was just not expecting it to. happen because like I would never think. about doing anything like that to him. >> So then when I found out that that did. happen, I was like, "Wow, that sucks.". cuz like I thought he really did like me. and then I like heard other stories of. him like calling me ugly and just using. me for call. But I do not think that's. true at all. I think that we really did.

like each other. He was just like made a. simple mistake and obviously it's not. simple but he did make a mistake and. he's a teenage boy. Everybody's going to. make mistakes and everybody's going to. mess up in life. Um but you have to. learn from it and stuff and I probably. wasn't the right one for him but in that. period of time like it was it was good. So yeah. >> Oh man. M what? >> It's just so sad. Like I I'm literally. like I feel like I could cry right now. >> Yeah, >> you're lying. >> No, I I could cry. Like I I I could have.

tears rolling down my face if I let. myself. I know that we're being. recorded, so I'm trying not to. But that. is one of the saddest like breakup. stories I think I've ever heard. >> It's so like I don't know. It says a lot. about your character though, the fact. that you're like talking about it but. still like not necessarily like. defending him but not slandering him. because me personally I would be. slandering Cash a lot if that was like. something that happened. So. >> yeah, she would. >> Yeah, I would say a lot of things even.

like you know if it was 5 years ago. Wait, I have said a lot about a lot of. things about all the girls you kissed. when we were talking. >> We weren't dating. >> Yeah, I know. Just to put that out there. I would. never cheat. >> Yeah. >> And I did never cheat. Okay. But the. second me and Kate became boyfriend and. girlfriend. That never We were in the. early talking stages of when we were. like 13. >> Yeah. >> Do I have family here? >> A little bit. >> But a little bit slam in the Harry and. nobody. >> But no. >> Yeah. No. I mean, we were only together. for two months, so it wasn't like a.

whole year thing. But like still like I. like. >> No, but it's still because you did love. him. And like what I keep telling myself. is like he saw something in that girl. that night that he didn't see in me. So. that's why I don't think that's the. case. >> Yeah. >> I think that he was not in his right. mind because if he was in his right. mind, >> he he would never have done that. I mean. >> because you were a great girl, Harper, and Okay, maybe he would have done that. >> Well, no. I was just going to say I. think I don't know him fully. >> I just think he made a mistake, right? Like I I don't think he wants all of us.

on here talking about like his mistake. Like we've all we've all made mistakes. in life. We've all done things we. shouldn't have done. Yeah. >> And so like I don't want to get on here. and have all of us just like talk about. like oh this big bad mistake he made. when I'm. >> um I hope uh I haven't talked to him. obviously but I'm sure he feels. horrible. >> He feels terrible. I know he does. >> about it and and he is a young guy so. he's hopefully going to learn. I mean. not to make excuses for it. Yeah. >> I'm not trying to make excuses for it. Um, but. >> no, I mean I hope he learns and never.

does anything ever like that again to. anyone else cuz. >> yeah, I mean Benny, if you see this, do. not treat the next girl like that. I. know you're better than that and yeah, I. know he won't because this probably like. I don't know this like this is probably. a big life lesson for him. But like I. mean it's a big life lesson for me too. Like don't trust everybody. Don't trust. everybody with your everything that you. tell them. Another reason I went up. there was because I was going through a. lot that week or two weeks before I went. and my mom said, "You can't go up to see. Benny unless you fix your OCD and you. fix your mental health." So, I would.

never have gone on therapy or medicine. if I didn't have him in my life. So, he's another aspect of why I'm doing. therapy right now and stuff because I. would not have done that without like. him because like I was not I was I was. not like willing to do anything. And. then once my mom threat me by saying not. threat at me but like saying like, "Hey, you're not going up to see him if you. can't fix yourself and actually talk to. us for at least 5 seconds." So that's. why I now am like downstairs for 30. minutes each night. I did that for him. Like you know, I like tried really hard. and then when I go up there to find out.

he cheated on me, it was just like like. what? So yeah, >> I know that's difficult and it it feels. like and maybe he was the reason you. started doing those things and. >> but also I do it for myself too. >> Yes. I was going to say like he might. have been like a starting point of hey. this is like my motivation to start. helping myself but that shouldn't be. your only reason. >> Exactly. So Exactly. Yeah. No, I don't. know. But and then yeah, mad like I. could not like I've gone a lot better. about like the whole situation and like.

not having to cry every time I talked to. somebody. Um because like I couldn't I. didn't go to school for two days. I like. couldn't get out of bed. So it was like. a really hard situation for me. But like. it's just like every time I think about. the story and think about how like it. went down like that that's just when I'm. like oh like that sucks because like. >> he was a really good guy to me. So yeah, it's also really difficult when you like. situations like that happen when you're. in the public eye the way you are. because it's like. >> everybody knows what happens and.

everyone's going to be asking you about. it. Like you like didn't want to go to. school because you knew you would have. been bombarded with questions about it. Like everyone would have been asking you. or even if it's not even just like. >> oh my gosh can't believe that happened. They would have been like Harper are you. okay? And it's like even like in that. moment like you you don't want to be. asked are you okay by people that like. don't actually care you know. >> Exactly. No, not at all. But. >> I don't know. Just the effect it'll have. on you. >> Yeah. >> Crazy. >> Yeah. I don't know. And then like also I. wrote the song, you know, my song with. Benny, like me and him dating and then. like now it's like actually like applies.

to my life. So that I thought that was. funny. But um but yeah, have y'all ever. gone through a breakup? Like have y'all. ever cheated on? >> I mean, what are you looking at me for? She goes, "Has have you ever really. cheated on?". >> Well, like like. >> obviously Yeah. I talked about it on the. podcast. You know the feeling like. >> when you find you know the feeling. >> Yeah I do. >> When you find out and like your heart. just drops and you're like. >> No, no, no. I know exactly what you're. talking about. >> Like you're like you're like. >> it feels like the world is falling apart. and like it's just not real.

>> No. >> Like it's it feels so surreal when. somebody that in your head would never. do anything to hurt you that cares about. you so much that like you've opened up. to and you're vulnerable with just turns. around and does something. um behind. your back. >> That's evil behind your back. U that it. just it crushes you. And so I know that. feeling of like when you get the news. and when when you hear something like. that, it just feels almost almost like a.

death because it's like um like there's. people that say like when they're. cheated on, they're like, I just wish. the person would have died instead. because it's like it'd been easier to. deal with someone dying than. >> feeling betrayed too knowing they're out. there just like just lying to you the. whole time that everything about them. was fake or something. I'm not saying. everything about Benny was fake. I think. who's um you know did a lot of good. things while you guys were dating and. stuff of course. Um. but there's that there's that part when. you find out news like that that is just.

devastating. >> and it just it just crushes everything. because it's not even just like in that. moment it's like oh well now this has. happened and I can move on. >> It's the next morning when you wake up. and you're like oh in the morning I. usually text this person or call this. person and it's like oh okay well I. won't do that. I'll just go to school or. I'll just go to work. And then you get. done and you're like, okay, well, I'm. done with work and this is the part of. the day where I normally call this. person on my way home and it's like, oh, I can't.

>> Okay, well, I can call another friend or. something. But eventually, you don't. want to bug all your friends all the. time, you know? So, it's like trying to. fill that time, that void is like a. constant reminder of like what happened. and it just it's just so tough. >> It is. Yeah. Yeah. Cuz like me and Benny. like we would call. So I have a break. during school and so so in the mornings. we would call and then I went to school. for 2 hours call after that called the. whole time after school called the whole. time. Then after that called the whole. night till like 2:00 a.m. and then we. would go to bed and then would do wake.

up and do the next the same thing again. And that happened for a whole two. months. So it was like the same thing. over and over again every single day for. two months. >> So it was like sucked. But like I don't. know. It's like obviously I have to move. on with my life and like I try to not be. affected by him. I try to be like oh. well I have other guys and stuff like. that. But like really he was like at the. time like the only person I saw myself. with and like that I could be with and. stuff. So it's like hard to see you have. to move on him move on for sure too. Like you don't want to see them move on. after they apologize and say I would.

never do that. I'll wait for you. Cuz. obviously they are going to move on at. some point and like they're like you're. not they're not going to wait for you. forever. And that's what Betty says. He's like, "I'll wait for you forever.". No, you won't. Like, you're going to. find somebody else. You're going to find. somebody else that treats you better and. like you're going to move on with your. life. >> I would say he shouldn't wait for you. forever because like if you just sit. around waiting for the person that you. want to be with to come back, like. you're never going to actually find the. person for you. Like if Maverick would. have just sulked and waited for the girl. to change, he never would have met his. wife. >> Exactly. Like.

>> Exactly. >> You have to like move on from it. And. it's like same thing with you. Like you. can't just like have this hope in the. back of your mind that like oh maybe one. day we'll work out again. Like maybe if. he fixes this or if he can change. himself in this aspect like we'll we'll. be able to work it out and we can get. together again. It's like. >> you don't need to just wait around. Like. just live your life normally and like. when you meet another guy you can pursue. it with him or in 10 years or whatever. if you guys like find your way back to. each other fine. But like you can't just. like sit there constantly hoping that.

something's going to work out. >> Exactly. And like also the long distance. like he lived 10 hours away from me so. like. >> we saw each other every like two weeks. >> Yeah. >> So that was easy but it's just like it. was just like I don't know. It was just. like weird cuz like you don't know what. he's doing up there. Obviously he was. doing some stuff up there that I didn't. know about. And so like when I found out. what he was really doing it was just. like. >> like I don't know. It was just so scary. And also another thing is I love his. friends. Danny and Jace like the ones. that went to New York with me. I'm going. to miss them so much. They're like my.

best friends too. And yeah, I love them. so much. >> Oh, that's so sad. >> Yeah, cuz like Danny was crying too and. it was like dude because he's like. obviously he likes Benny and like he. loves Benny and like me and Danny have. only met twice and Jace but like they. seem like like brothers to me genuinely. like I love them so much. I tell them. everything about my day. me and Jay. still FaceTime and stuff like not in a. weird way or anything but we just catch. up and stuff like that because we're so. close and so like not like having to be. on FaceTime because like usually it. would be me, Brooke, Jason, um Benny on.

FaceTime. Now just like it just being. being me and Jason is so different but. like I also like talking to him and. stuff because he's like he's like a. brother to me too. So it's like fun. But. yeah. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> I hate that. It's like you're losing. more than just one person. >> Yeah, for sure. You know, it's like. you're losing the family, the friends. You're just feels like you're. >> exiled from a whole community of people. that you. >> cared about. >> for a reason that you didn't. And also.

just like I went up there one time to. his house one time and like I met so. many friends, so many new people and. like knowing that I'll never be able to. see them again or yeah, probably never. going to be able to see them again is so. hard because like. >> I want to see them so bad and I loved. like hanging out with all them but like. knowing that I'm never going to see them. again is so hard because like. >> Well, you never know like what the. future holds. >> Yeah. >> Well, I wouldn't go back. No, I know. Kate Kate is saying like if she met a. friend up there, she can still be that.

person's friend and see them in the. future. >> Like she could be friends with people. she met, she could be friends with. >> Would it be weird to travel up just to. see Jay's? Like I feel like that would. be weird, but. >> I mean, yeah, it's it's like. >> it'd be weird for now. >> I wouldn't say you should do that right. now for sure. >> Yeah, but no, you never know what the. future holds. People dating is almost. kind of like a job interview. It's like, you know, there's uh you can not be. qualified for the job of husband, right? or wife right now, but in 10 years, you. know, or five years or whatever. People.

do change. People um people change, you. know, everybody makes mistakes, too, like I said. So, >> um. >> I still wouldn't go back. >> Yeah, >> it is one of those I I I I hate that. you're going through this because it is. one of probably. >> the hardest things, especially in this. time of life, that you'll probably go. through. >> and that is it's just so sad. I hate. breakups. I hate cheating. I hate it. all. It's horrible. And the the fact. that um you were so caught off guard by.

this. It wasn't like one of the things. where it's like. >> like oh I kind of knew about it like. >> Yeah. Like it wasn't something that was. being alluded to throughout your. relationship. It wasn't like like you. could prepare yourself for this coming. just so out of the blue. >> I had no idea. Well, also just like this. situation compared to like your last. experience with like a relationship. Like you were literally a child in your. last like you were like. >> when you're when you're 10 to 13, relationships don't even count. >> Yeah. It's like once you once you get to. the age where you are like you're old.

enough to go out, you're to drive to. dates together, you're flying to see him. across the country. Like it's like. you're mature enough to to be allowed to. fly across the country to see this. person. Like that's different than the. relationship you had in the eighth grade. when you like it's going to hit you. This two months is going to hit you like. like the fact that you were with him for. 2 months and this happened probably hurt. you way harder than whatever happened to. you when you were with the other guy for. four years, but it was like you were. still literally a kid. >> Exactly. Like. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. There's um.

after after I dated several girls and uh. got hurt by all of them, um I took this. one thing to heart that was I would say. the most instrumental. um piece of advice in dating. And I feel like you're going through it. right now because of this same mistake. It's like you can blame Benny. You can. blame um all of this other people and. stuff. And obviously you can't control.

his actions. You know, I'm not saying. it's your fault at all. Um but. >> during dating, >> I think it's Proverbs 4:28 says to guard. your heart above all else. Mhm. >> And so, especially in dating, I mean, above all else, it's not saying like, "Oh, guard your heart above uh this, but. put put uh dating before it or this or. that or the other or your wife or your. husband." It's saying above all else, guard your heart.

>> Yeah. >> And that's what you let into it, whether. it's uh your music tastes, uh your uh. movies you're watching, your uh. influences in life, and uh dating. And I. think that's one of the things that's. like when you guard your heart so. tightly that it's like, hey, I'm not. gonna date with this like uh emotion. behind it of like, oh, I just want to. feel something. I want to feel again. I. want to I want to experience a spark in. a in a fire and like um be close with.

somebody intimately. And you just want. to uh pursue a uh relationship with that. person that will lead to marriage. Uh, but it's more of like a I I hate to say. the word interview because dating is. more than an interview. >> It's more of like a. >> I don't know. Y'all's first date sounded. like an interview. >> Well, first date can be an interview. First date can be. >> No, no. That No, that's valid. Y'all. should not have just. >> First date can be an interview, but No, no, no. I'm talking about them. I don't. think it would have been beneficial for. Matt and Kinsey to go on dates for three. months and three months in they have the.

hard top like conversations, you know. >> I gave you that book and did you want to. finish real quick? >> Oh, yeah. No, that's good. the book that. I put in your basket. I know you. probably hate reading. >> No, I'm going to read it. >> I did not love reading either and it. took me about two years to open that. book. >> Kenzie said somebody had gifted it to. her. >> Uh my mom gifted me a different book. that took me three years to read and I. finally read that. >> But the book that I gave you, Outdated. by JP Jonathan Mccluda, y'all should all. go buy it and read it. It's really good. Um, it just says in the book how to date.

well and that is one of the main things. is to guard your heart. And in that that. means not just going on dates with. whoever and just being a boyfriend and. girlfriend just cuz you feel like oh. like yeah you can buy me candy for. Valentine's Day this year or whatever it. might be that you're looking forward to. in a relationship. You have to date. intentionally. And again like Mav said. obviously it's not your fault that Benny. cheated on you. But I think Mav's point. in saying guard your heart is that when. you guard your heart so so well and you.

learn how to do that as you grow up. When you guard it so well, it's less. likely to happen that somebody would. cheat on you cuz you're not even looking. in their direction. You would never even. look in the direction of somebody who. would even possibly think that way. because you are so focused and targeted. on a type of person who is putting you. above all else. >> Exactly. Exactly. >> Other than God,

>> I mean, there was lots of girls I dated. that I know if or when bad things would. happen in my life. I know Cash was. looking at me like, "Well, you're kind. of getting what you're asking for." He's. like, "That's the you're dating that. person." The people I was dating at. different times. It's like, "Oh, well, yeah, you're dating that person." And. so, you can't really like you should. expect that to happen. Can you not see. their behavior? Like, he'd look at me. and be like, "Yeah, obviously that. person's going to treat you like that. That's how she treats other people. You. don't think she's going to treat you any. different just because she says she. loves you?" Um, it's like if that's how.

she's treating other people, she's going. to treat you the same way eventually. Um, and so I I think um, when it comes. to dating, it's seeing how they treat. other people and their reputation. And. when you guard your heart in a way that. is not just for you to like walk around. and judge people, but guard your heart. for a hey, is this person that I'm. potentially thinking about dating. somebody that is Christc centered that.

when they think about how they're going. to handle a situation, they think, "How. can I handle this as a Christian? How. can I what is the best way to handle. this? And how is this going to affect. others?" and just somebody that really. puts their best foot forward, >> you know what I mean? And and is trying. to be Christlike in everything they do. >> That's the person you want to date. The. person that's trying to be a good. husband before they are. The person. that's trying to not somebody that's. trying to be a good boyfriend, but. somebody that's trying to be a good. husband and preparing themsel uh to.

>> later in life. >> Yeah. To be able to teach their kids the. Bible one day, maybe to to um how to uh. respect women, how to how to handle. certain situations. Um, just all sorts. women. >> Yeah, >> we know Cash is big. >> I got that one down. >> You missed the episode where he was. talking about respect, >> how much he respects women. >> I'm like a women activist. >> Wait, one of the thumbnails should be. you in the face and be like, I hate. tampons and be like how I respect women. >> or no, I hate periods. I've seen those.

videos. Those are funny. >> So funny. I think another thing that's. also like really important that I feel. like a lot I would say like the majority. of the people which. >> I am not the person to come to for. dating advice because I got extremely. extremely blessed at the age of. >> 15 to have started dating my future. husband and we get married 2 days after. I turn 18. Like I know I'm living in. fairy tale land. >> I think you got blessed at 18, not 15. >> No, because we started dating when I was. 15. >> Yeah, I know.

>> I'm kidding. No. Um, but I know that. this is like literally like a fictional. story I'm living in. Like that is the. average person does not have that. experience. So it's like what do you. even know about dating? But from my. perspective of watching everyone else. around me date, the one mistake that. every single person I I want to say. actually probably every person I know. has made is when you are with a person. and the group of people around you is. telling you listen like that's not the. one. That is not the person you need to.

be with. and they just choose not to. listen to that. They're like, "Yeah, I. understand where you're coming from, but. I'm still just going to do it because. like I like this person right now.". Like, that just puts you in for just. this long emotional like rundown. freaking relationship where you're just. like, you could have gotten out of it. way sooner if you just listen to the. people around you. If you're surrounded. by a good group of people who have like. good morals and values and they're. telling you that, like, you should take. that information to heart. And I feel. like a lot of people don't do that. And. I think that just you're not going to.

start dating again. I don't think. anytime soon. >> But next time you do, like you should. really ask the people around you like. their opinion on that person. >> Exactly. >> Because. >> you just let me talk to him and then. I'll tell you. >> Yeah. >> And another thing is I would not put on. social media like how fast I did with me. and Benny cuz like I don't know what his. like intentions were, but I don't think. he was using me or anything but like he. gained followers so easily. >> Well, and it's just a lot of explaining. I talked to Kate for years before we. ever went on social media. >> Yeah. And even after we started dating,

I was like, I don't want to. >> And it's like anytime we'd hang out, let's make a TikTok. Let's make. >> There's nothing wrong with that. If. you're dating a social media influencer. person, I don't think there's anything. wrong with that. >> No. But I don't. >> There is something wrong with cheating. >> They think. >> I don't know. I I think Yeah. I think if. somebody just says they love Jesus, that's not enough. Like you got to like. see how they walk. And then Yeah. I. think if the people around you who. aren't in the relationship are all like. seeing red flags and you're just kind of. like being like no. >> no.

>> Yeah. >> Like one of my every once in a while. somebody will ask me like um what do you. think? Do you think this person is like. should I keep dating this person? >> And usually I know I'm like the fifth or. sixth person they've asked and I'm like. oh well you already know. You already. know the answer. Yeah. And they're like. >> no no like genuinely like what do you. think? And I'm like you already know. Yeah, >> you're looking to me to hopefully have. someone validate. >> your feelings. >> Yeah, >> but that's not But you already know. Everyone's already told you. You're. looking for me to say, "Oh, yeah. I.

think it's a good person." So, you can. have one person that will to vouch. >> And if you have a person in your life. that is validating a relationship like. that, cut them off. >> I'd just question I'd look at the rest. of their life and question their life. decisions. And if they make other good. life decisions, then maybe it's okay. But if they're one of those people that. you're like, "Yeah, I would never listen. to that person." And now you're. listening to them, it's probably not. good. >> Um, we kind of breezed over it earlier, but like you mentioned how it's like.

difficult with all the time, >> filling the time, filling the gaps. I. think that is one of the. I hate to say best things after a. breakup because it's horrible. >> Yeah. But it is a way of self-reflecting. of going, "Man, all this time I've been saying like, I. don't have time to read the Bible or I. don't have time to do this." It's like, "Well, now you got now you got time.". And filling that time with uh reading or. I know Cash hates it, but journaling um. or different things really does um.

prepare you um as you look back at the. things that happened and you're like, "Oh, well, maybe there were some red. flags. maybe there was this um sign or. maybe there wasn't. But, you know, you. you journal, you get all that out and. you read scripture and you meditate on. scripture, you worship, and it's just. that was one of the most beneficial. things for me was like focusing on like. anytime I feel like texting or calling. this person, just being like, I'm going.

to open up God's word or I'm in a. worship right now and just really try to. get those thoughts of that person out of. my head because there's they're they're. there for a long time after you break. up. You know, it's like, man, you're. going to think about it for a while. >> Oh, yeah. >> And it's it's like you'll be fine one. day and then you'll look at something. and it reminds you of that person and. you're like, well, yeah, that's the. restaurant we used to always eat at. Um, and it's like, well, you just drove past. it and now you're thinking about them. and you can get caught up in this like. back to the questions of was I enough?

Was this per did he was I not pretty. enough? Was I not skinny enough? >> That's what I like every time cuz the. girl that he cheated on me with. >> No, they're just cheaters. >> No, the girl that he cheated on me with. was perfect. Like perfect. I want you to. know this, Harper. There will always be. strong words for cheaters. >> There will always be someone prettier. than you. >> Yeah. >> skinnier than you. No, I'm That's just. like he said your job. I'm saying there. will always be. >> The grass is always greener.

>> He's like, "It's not that hard.". >> No, I'm I'm just saying that there will. always be somebody prettier than you, skinnier than you. And if you're ever. feeling like you're in that situation. where you're not pretty enough or this. that and the other, especially if you're. dating, that can be a scary place and it. might be good to leave because. >> that kind of person that's dating you. because you're pretty because you're. skinny. >> will find someone will find someone. prettier eventually or doesn't matter. >> You know what they say. >> skinnier? Well, they say this is this is.

a saying that people say. They say. cheaters. You know what they'd say they. do? Cheat. So. >> once a cheater, always a cheater. >> You know, there's all those things. >> And he he told me in his past. relationships that he did make mistakes. like that, too. And that's what I knew. I was like, >> see, um. >> I thought thought he. >> Yeah, I've been quiet for most of the. episode cuz I uh I don't like uh. cheaters. Um and I have strong I have. strong words for them and I probably. shouldn't um have these emotions towards. them. Um but.

I just I shouldn't say nothing. >> Say it. No, I just. >> No, he should keep his mouth shut now. >> If you cheat on a If you Well, I guess. in general, but if you cheat on a girl, it's just like. >> you. saying or the other way. >> I I feel like either way around. It's. just like. >> if you're cheating on a girl, if you're. cheating on a dude, it is horrible. >> It's terrible. You It's like the worst. thing to do to somebody in a. relationship. >> Not to discredit you, Cash, but I don't. think necessarily once a cheater, always.

a cheater. Because I think there's. >> No, I'm just saying currently. they are trash. >> Yes, currently they are trash. Yes, correct. But I think there is room for. grace and redemption in that. But I also. think don't be ignorant enough to fall. for someone who's in a pattern in their. life. If they've cheated last week, they're going to cheat this week. But if. they've had two years to like not date. at all and they've really thought about. it and they put the work in, then maybe. a cheater is not a cheater anymore. >> Exactly. But I.

>> I'm always here for second chances, but. like. >> No, >> but I think. >> don't be. >> That's the famous last words. >> No, I think there are second chances. But I think the second chance comes. after a lot of growth in a person. And. growth in a person like that cannot. happen in an hour. It can't happen in a. week. For some people, it doesn't happen. in even a year. So I think you have to. that's where your community comes in. You ask your people. You talk to their. people. Especially whenever I met Cash. and Kate, Kate did have some crazy.

things to say about Mav, but overall she. said how great of a human being he was. and how great of a husband he would be. >> So therefore, I knew the people in his. life. >> Yeah. Well, yeah, it's different. I also. I was not just like dog and Mav. I. needed her to know like there are things. about like I would hate for you to get. in a relationship with Mav and then you. find these things out later. It's better. for you to know now. And it's like not. anything crazy but like weird quirks and. stuff. The reason I like the reason I. dislike cheaters so much is every I've.

known quite a few in my lifetime and. anytime I I've never been cheated on or. cheated or anything like that. Like Kate. said, me and her have been pretty l. lucky to have such a good relationship. like since we spawned. But. >> um every time I've seen a cheater or. known of cheater or and believe me, I. known a lot of them. Some of them run in. blood. Some of them run in friendships. Some of them I just witness. But I've. never seen one like actually stop. cheating. Not once in my life. Not. saying it's not possible. People change. all the time. They can. But that's why I.

don't like them. I I have seen it. I. have seen it. So people do. >> cheat and then never cheat again. >> Who? Just I I've seen I can't actually. say this person's name because they are. popular. So I can't say this. Really? >> Yeah. >> Now Now you're causing drama, Cash. So, I I can't see anyone on the podcast. >> Well, that's something we're going to. have to talk about afterwards cuz I'm. very intrigued now. But no, it's not. This wasn't like full-on cheating. This. was texting someone they shouldn't have. been texting. Yeah. >> Kind of thing, right? >> And that's not cheating.

>> Well, yeah. Just texting still like. cheating. >> That's a thing, too, is. >> I could just take cheaters and just. >> part of guarding your heart like Mav was. talking about is I'm not going to go. text another guy while I'm married to. Mav cuz that opens a door. a guy that. you found like attractive, right? >> Yes. Or even. >> Yeah. If she's texting Alex about when's. the podcast going up, like. >> Yeah, that's fine. But even if I'm just. texting Alex like all day every day, like I'm not. >> If she wasn't even Even Alex, even. though he's like our cousin, if she if. she was just texting him just for fun.

outside of like work or like family. things, like if she was just texting. Alex, hey, what's up? You want to hang. out today? Be extremely weird. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> Yeah. I don't know. I was just not. expecting it cuz like my past. relationship went on for four years and. like Yeah. It was on and off. So, like. we would have breaks, he would get with. other girls and all this, but like this. was like the first relationship where I. was like actually like, "Oh, like he's. he would never do that to me. I would. know that he would never do that to me.". I was so positive cuz I would never do. that to him. I would never even think. about it. Cuz I remember. >> You would never cheat. >> I would never cheat. No. I joke for.

people that don't know. >> I absolutely never even thought about. it. I had multiple chances where there. was very very fine guys that were like, "Yo, Harbor, add me on Snap. Add me on. Snap." I was like, "I have a boyfriend. I'm not going to do that to him.". >> Yeah. >> And Yeah. Yeah, >> it's just having like well. >> um. >> it's just the good mind. >> No, it's just basic respect. >> There was two things that I kind of. brought up most of this episode. It's. one the dealing with the questions. after. I think that aftermath of. cheating is so so difficult and so.

tough. And then also is the dealing with. the aftermath um of time and who you are. and um kind of just like what you do in. your life. Uh because your life kind of. changes after a breakup. >> Um it changed when you started dating. and it changes when you break up. Um, and so how have you been dealing with. those like life changes of the time and. the um like questions and think thoughts.

that kind of rolled through your head of. the aftermath after you broke up? >> I'd say like like the thoughts and. questions. How do I. >> Yeah, like deep am I like am I enough? Did I do something? Should I have done. should I have been a better girlfriend? Was I not good enough? Whatever. for the. next like three days. I don't really. have these thoughts much anymore. But I. mean like of course everybody has these. thoughts, but like like when um when. like he when I found out he cheated on. me, I remember going to the room and um.

I remember asking Jason, "Did he did he. cheat on me? Did he cheat on me? Please. tell me the truth. Please tell me." Like. with like tears running down my face. like no he didn't. And then like and. then like people would be like but she. is bad though or freak I almost said her. name. Um, uh, just clip that just in. case. I don't want her to be slandered. either. >> Just bleep it. >> But, um, like they they're like, "But. she is kind of bad." Like all this like. not Danny Jay didn't say that, but like. other people did say that. And so that's. why I was like, "Well, am I not good.

enough? Am I not skinny enough? I'm not. like. >> No, that is just the epitome of like a. 16-year-old boy just like trying to. troll you and like like for some reason. a lot which is not just boys, a lot of. people like especially teenagers have. like a really really bad concept of like. when it's okay to like make jokes and. stuff and it's like when somebody is in. like a really emotional and vulnerable. state like you don't make those jokes. You don't say things like that. Yeah. and they don't get that and so they just. see he likes to act like he's a bad. husband but he would never sit there and.

be like the girl is pretty cute Harper. like I don't know like just I told her. you know what I think about cheaters I. think that. >> I think we should just be quiet. >> most of the time I would say they're. sorry for how they feel now and what. they have ruined not for what they did. most of the time that's a valid point. >> yeah I'd say that's valid. >> most of the time they're mad and upset. now for what they have ruined not for. what they did and they would still do it. again. >> I know we talked about this off camera a. little bit, but like.

>> that question. >> is a tough question to answer after. you've. >> been cheated on, especially it hurts. Like you feel it. And I know all of us. telling you like no, it has nothing to. do with how pretty you are isn't going. to change the fact that you still feel. that sometimes. >> Yeah. Um, but and I know we talked about. this a little bit, but the. truth of the answer to that question. isn't is she pretty or are you prettier. It's that you're all beautiful and. you're all made in the image of God. And.

that it is has nothing to do with are. her lips bigger than your lips and does. she have better eyebrows than you? >> Yeah, cuz I all day. We all know that. >> Okay. So, there's. >> has nothing to do with that. It does. have to do with if you are smart because. >> you saying you're going off track. >> No, it's not. It's actually dead on the. track. It's not even slightly derailed. >> Okay. >> If you are, if you're smart, >> you know when you're dating someone, okay, this person ain't it. And you also.

know when you're dating someone, okay, this person is it. Just like. >> you do. No, you don't. You just She. asked us a bunch of questions way before. this happened and was like, is this us? Is this weird? Is this sus? Is this. weird? And I was like, >> yeah. >> But if you're guarding your heart, well, then you can answer those questions and. you can step back and say, hey, I think. we should take some time. >> That's what I'm saying. Be smart. guarding your heart. Whatever phrase you. want to use. >> When you let yourself fall and you. become uh attached to that person. emotionally and you, for lack of better.

words, wear like love goggles, you look. past those flaws. >> That's what I'm saying. Being smart. If. you can uh look at it, >> which is a gift. I think God gave us. that as a gift. Like when you and Kate. have issues, now that you've opened up. your heart to Kate, now if you guys have. issues, you can look past those flaws, >> right? But that's what I'm saying. >> Which is great. You got to be smart. though for dating. >> Yeah. When you're dating, if you think. something's sus, if you can look at if. surely you know one couple, married. couple in your life that is a good. example. Hopefully, they've been married.

for like 30 years or something. If not, even if you know at least a good couple, maybe like me and Kate, um you could be. like, "Okay, would it be weird?" Say, uh. just say Harper, say her boyfriend is. going out to um his a girl's house and. sleeping over there. And if Harper's. like, "Uh, is this weird? >> That never happened.". >> Well, I'm not saying it did or didn't. I'm just saying if that happened, right? And then all you got to ask yourself is. if Cash went and slept over at a girl's. house, would that be weird? Do you think.

that'd be weird between me and Kate? >> Someone would be getting No. If I went. to step over at Harper's sister's house, Reese, everyone would be like, "What the. freak is happening?" So, all you got to. do is be like, "Okay, well, if this. couple did that, wouldn't it be weird?". Yeah. Most of the time it's like, "Yeah, that would be extremely weird." So, then. it's it's weird. >> there. Uh, actually, no, she's not anymore, actually. That's so weird. >> All of Cash's would be in the front. yard. >> That's what I'm saying. Like, so if if. it's weird for a couple that you.

actually know is a good couple, then. it's weird. >> Yeah. Being smart for the most part. Yeah, I'd say so. I like if a dating guy. is doing something that a married guy. wouldn't do, then it's probably like, oh, >> yeah, >> the guy probably shouldn't do that when. he's dating. Like, >> there's married couples that do this. weird stuff, too. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. But. >> yeah, I think that's the answer to that. question anyways is. >> it has nothing to do with the value that. another guy puts on you because he does. not determine your value and your worth.

Like not any of the dudes you're dating. are going to determine your worth and. how valuable you are and how pretty you. are. They don't determine that. >> And no, guys and girls cannot be just. friends. >> Yeah, but what do me friends again? >> Huh? >> Would me and Benny become friends again? No, I would just say you're not just. friends. >> There's a difference. I think there's a. difference. >> I think you can text Benny, "Congratulations if you know he wins $20. million and you can try to slide back. into his life." No, I'm kidding. >> I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

>> For a second. I was like, "Hold on.". >> I was like, "No, that's being smart.". >> No, no, but like you you can obviously. like, you know, if he graduates, you can. reach out and say congratulations, right? >> Still No, I'm saying but like you don't. have to. >> That's being dumb. I probably wouldn't, but I'm just saying like you don't have. to. I would put up a wall personally. >> I think there's a difference between. being friendly and being friends. >> There's a trend called what is it? It's. called. >> Cash does not like Vinnie. >> No, I'm just saying I don't like uh lots. of people. No, what is the trend called.

when you um like block them on. everything? >> No contact trend. I think I think no. contact. >> Be careful what you going to say here. cuz I was down on the hill. That's a. great trend. >> That's what I'm saying. I think no. contact trend is actually a good trend. There's not a lot of There's not a lot. of dating trends that I think are good, but that is one of them. I think if if. you are at the point where you. >> the easiest way for somebody to move on, >> I think Yeah. Well, move on and get your. head clear to where if you do want to. come back later, you guys can come back, but you need that no contact humor to be.

able to clear your head. >> almost. >> And listen, I don't this like if. Vinnie's watching this, I don't like. hate Vinnie, okay? I'm not saying that. But I am saying you think he's cute. And. >> that's what you said. >> I did. Um, no. I'm saying, "Hey, am I am. I mad at him?" Yeah, I am. It seems like. I'm the only one in this room that am. is. >> Oh, no. >> But I'm not. >> If Benny texted me and actually wanted. to talk to me just like guy to guy about. relationship stuff or how to become a.

better man, I would talk to him about. it. But if he texted me, >> But you also wouldn't tell Harper that. you talked to him. >> No. And even if he text me, I probably. still wouldn't tell him to get back with. Harper. Um, if he wanted to talk to me. on like a one-on-one thing like that, I. would of course talk to him and try to. help him. But even now, if he messages. me about anything, I'll still be nice to. Benny. But, um, >> what he did was freaked out. >> from your aspect. Yeah. I would tell you. to never get back with him ever again. >> Yeah. It's different cuz you have. feelings involved. Yeah. Like I have no. >> um animosity towards Benny. I I I feel.

like. >> I just have a little bit just a little. If he would text me and be like, "Man, I'm sorry." Then I'd be like, "Okay.". No, I feel horrible for how he treated. you. Like that makes me feel sad. >> You didn't deserve that. >> Um, >> but like I said, everyone makes mistakes. and I'm not going to hold that against. Benny as I know he is just as valuable. and he is has the same amount of worth. as you. >> Exactly. >> Uh, even though he made a mistake. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Um, so that was the one question you.

answered, but you didn't answer the. time. >> What time? >> Like how are you spending your time. since you guys have separated? where. used to you would FaceTime each other. and do all that. How are you feeling. that time so you're not sad just sitting. there moping like, "Oh man, we used to. FaceTime right now.". >> I should call him. >> Well, you know what's funny? So, instead. of calling him, I So, I have this little. thing that Madd Max gave me in my car. It's been in there. No, no, I'm serious. It's a It's a It's a prayer angel and I. have in my car. So, anytime I feel like. stressed out, I hold the angel and I.

pray and I talk to God in the car and. then when I'm done, I just set it back. in my thing. It's this little silver. coin looking thing with an angel on it. And I seriously feel myself talking to. God every time I pray and it might I. don't know it. I really do. But anyways, that's awesome kind of where I spend my. time. And I also get like I have the. prayer app and I get reminders every. time I need to pray and stuff like that. >> And sometimes it's in like the hardest. points of my day, too. So, it's like. perfect. So, >> it just randomly pops up. >> It does. Yeah. It's like a random like. little notification. Take time to pray. today or something like that. So,

>> yeah. I built you a cactus. >> Thanks. >> Okay. >> That might be worse than cheating. >> Destroyed it. >> Yeah. >> Did that answer your question, M? I. mean, yeah, for the most part. Yeah. I. just I mean, me and her have already. talked about it a little bit, but yeah, I just wanted to. >> um. >> cleared up. >> Yeah. And let you talk to other people. and let them know kind of how they can. walk through that. >> Um, which you did good. >> Nice. >> Good job. >> Thanks. >> I know this is tough to talk about. >> Yeah. No, I don't know why I cried. I.

just I cry. I was sad. Yeah, I would. cry. >> I I was I'm not kidding when I was hold. saying I'm holding back tears. >> You were not. >> I seriously was. >> I was literally like trying not to cry. >> Go into it again. Go into it again. CP. >> No, I'm going to start crying. >> It sounds horrible. And like I I care. for you so much and I don't want anyone. to ever make you feel like that and feel. like you're not worth it. >> And like I know some like not everyone. here has experienced that feeling of. like. >> devastation. >> Yeah. Um, but I think everyone here can.

imagine it if you have someone you care. about do something like that to you. And. it is. >> No, that's the thing. I can't imagine. it. >> That's what I'm saying. It's almost. unimaginable. It It's It's horrible. It's a. >> I would never imagine it. >> It's a pain beyond like anything you can. imagine. It's. >> Well, you don't even have to like the. three of us have not been cheated on, but we don't even have to have. experienced that to see how sad you are. And it makes us feel sad for you because. we care so much about you. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. It's like like at the few days.

>> my stomach still feels sick from it. I'm. not even lying. Like I feel sick from. >> the few days and I feel like I feel like. >> I just feel angry. >> M is definitely like he's experienced. something similar before. So it's like. he literally knows like what you're. going through. It's like. >> I mean obviously us three have never. experienced that. But it's like even. just like the the day or two after you. guys broke up, it's like seeing you just. like cry like posting TikToks and stuff. like that is heartbreaking to see when. it's somebody that you like. >> care about so much and it's like Kinsey. and I were just like what can we do to. like help and make it like make you stop.

feeling like this and it's like I know. there's nothing Kinsey and I can do to. make you feel better, but it's just like. it's heartbreaking to see somebody that. you love so much like that upset. >> Yeah. No, for sure. For sure. Cuz I was. like dying on the inside. I was like not. okay cuz like I it was like the most. devastated I've been cuz when me and. Benny started dating. >> I before that I was going through a hard. time too and I did not want to get out. of bed or do anything. And then when we. started dating that's when I actually. wanted to get out of bed do things have. like conversations travel and all this.

and then that was like my spark like a. huge spark that I had in my life and. then it feels like it just was all. thrown away in like this span of. freaking two seconds. >> Yeah. But it's also like. >> I do think that it's it's good that like. you said before like before you guys. were dating it was like you were really. struggling and it was something that. like we all kind of saw too. And then I. mean I I did see you like start to like. kind of like get your spark back and. stuff when you were together. >> Um and like you said like you when your. mom was like you can't go see Benny if.

you don't start to help yourself with. your OCD and stuff. And it's like. >> just having that little bit of. encouragement like Kinsey said it's like. you started to do it for Benny so that. you could go see him. him. Exactly. >> But it's like you don't have to just. stop now because you're not with him. It's like you do it to take care of. yourself and you do it for yourself. because it's like. >> even though you got up every day and you. were able to like talk to Benny on the. phone, in reality you are living your. life here in Texas like Yeah. without. him. It's like just removing that one. aspect of your life of like calling him.

all the time. >> Exactly. >> It's like you don't have to just lose. your spark again because you guys broke. up. like there's just there's so much. for you to live for and there's so many. people around you that just like care so. much about you. >> and it's it's. >> I'm very glad that Benny was in your. life for the short period of time that. he was because I do feel like he really. helped you but it's. >> I just I really hope that you just. continue to like want to better yourself. even without him. >> Without him for sure and like do it for. yourself this time. >> Yeah. Thank y'all so much because like. because also y'all are like a big thing.

in my life too and like getting advice. from y'all is a huge thing because like. I y'all are like adults in my life and I. don't want to get advice from my mom cuz. it's my mom obviously and my dad. >> nobody want that. >> Yeah. Getting advice from. >> love you. >> people in my life people in my life. I'll say once you're like. >> 20 maybe 20 plus then then you can talk. to your parents about it. But I'll just. be real. Parents, if you're listening to. this, don't give your kid no advice if. they teenager. They ain't actually. They. going to do the opposite. >> Yeah. Yeah. No, but yeah, just having.

like an older figure in my life to tell. me like the things is just 10 times. better than anything. So, >> and that's one thing. I mean, Kinsey and. I always try to just like speak truth to. you to help you understand. And. >> I if you ever want truth truth, all you. got to do is ask me. I'll be I'll be. real with you. If you date a new If you. even start dating a new guy, if you ask. me, I'll tell you. But I've been told. not to tell people unless they want to. know. >> So, it's a good idea. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. I should have said you all along.

cuz you probably knew the whole time. >> I did. I said, uh, I said, you know, I. don't think that's going to last. >> Yeah, >> I I did. >> I mean, you asked us some questions that. we were like, well, >> no. >> No, just just by the questions you asked. and just the way things were, I actually. I looked at our friend Chase. I said I. gave it a month. You made it, too. Um, but if you ask me, I I will tell. I. genuinely will tell you. I promise you. >> Yeah. >> He won't say it as kindly as like me or. Kinsey will. >> Yeah, but he did. You need to bring.

>> And couch is right about 99% of the. time. >> I know. >> I am. I've never been wrong. I I've. actually. I actually even prophesied that. Uh that. >> Do not say prophesied. >> Well, okay, whatever. I was a genie in. the bottle. However you want to use me. Listen, I. >> I'll rub you the right way. Stop. >> I told Mav I I grabbed my phone and I. said, "Maverick's talking about a girl.". I had. >> It's right after Kinsey and Mav's first. date. >> He said, "No, before their first date.". It's before their first date. They. haven't even went on their first date. M.

I said I picked up my phone. I said, "Matt's talking about a girl." Uh, mark. my words. They will be married by the. end of this year or early next year. They haven't even went on their first. date. I don't know the first thing about. this girl, but they will be married. >> Why did you say that? >> Because I could tell by the way he. talked about it was a psychopath. He had. >> I could tell by the Oh, I think we. played pickle ball one time, but I still. didn't even I didn't even like exchange. words with you on pickle ball. >> I knew I We also knew that Maverick took. a break from like dating for a while and. Cash and I had talked about even before. I think he like we had met you or.

anything. We said the next girl he. dates, there is a very very very high. chance that it will be his wife because. he is dating correctly now. >> Yeah. And I just just saw Mav and the. way he talked about it and just. everything and I was like, "Uh, yeah, they'll get married." I picked up my. phone and I was I I got it right. I They. even got married around the same time I. said they get married. So, if you like. your prophecy fulfilled, all you got to. do is come to me. But unfortunately, you. have to have a candidate. Without a. candidate, I can't do much. But if you have a candidate, I'll tell.

you. >> Okay. >> Yeah. Just letting you know. >> Crazy. >> So, I know it's really I know you're. laughing about it. you're like blown. over, but it genuinely will save you a. lot of time, heartbreak, cries, tears, money, everything. >> Well, I think one of the important. things is um is that you grow from this. and he grows from this. >> and uh that you both look to the future. of uh maybe the future isn't you guys. together, but it's a future where you. guys are better. >> And it might be. >> It could be. You never know. Uh but I. know. >> it we probably will get back together.

>> Are you guys already dating? No, no, I was she was rage baiting cash. >> Um, but I think it's Romans 8:28 says. that uh, >> thou shalt not get back together with. Benny. >> It says that God uh, uses uh, all things. for the good of those who love him. So, >> um, >> things like this u, God can use for. good. And I think he already is in the. way that it sounds like you're you're. uh, probably praying more.

>> rage baiting. Gash. >> Well, you're praying more. What would. have been your response if I went to you. and I was like uh when you first started. dating Benny like the week I was there. no flex when Benny asked Harper to be uh. his girlfriend. What would have been. your response if I went up to you and I. was like this won't last for the last. two months. >> I should have thought you were. >> I just stared at her when when he asked. her. I just looked at him and I was like. >> this ain't going to last. >> I was just staring at them from across. the. >> I want you to mark my words. When Kate. told me that y'all were boyfriend and. girlfriend, I said I give it a month or. two it'll be over. It'll end tragically. and it's going to be bad. >> Oh, don't say that. Yeah, that's.

horrible. I just. >> But it's true. It happened very badly. >> and it lasted about a month or two. But. I'm telling you what what would see like. would you have preferred me to say that. or like No, >> I wouldn't have you wouldn't have. listened though. >> But I did like the period of my time in. my life where I was blind. Not not good. not good enough to see him the bad. things about him. >> No, it wasn't even at the time. It. wasn't even bad things about Benny. It. wasn't even like Benny. It was just the. way you were dating and the way he was.

dating. Just the way it all came. together and just the the aspects you. guys were looking for in each other. Like you guys hadn't had hard. conversations about like what you each. each other believe in and of like this. would even make sense and like logically. y'all were just like, "Hey, you're cute. Let's date.". >> And that is bad. Well, they enjoyed each. other's company. It wasn't just you're. cute. They didn't. I know. But you know. what I'm saying? >> Have fun with somebody. But at the end. of the day, if you are dating somebody. and it doesn't matter how much fun you. guys have together, if you guys don't. agree on like the core beliefs of your. life and like what you want your.

relationship to like be built on and. those values just don't align, like it's. not going to work out. >> Exactly. >> But yeah, I mean I I know that I know. that it's difficult for both of you and. I feel like whether you want right now. you're feeling like, oh, I want to get. back together with him or I don't or. whatever. Heck no. >> Yeah. Well, whether he's feeling like. that, too. seaside right now doing things with. other girls. Um, >> you don't know that. >> But well, whether he wants to or not or. whatever, I think that you both as.

individuals have a lot to to work on. before you start getting into more. relationships. >> Um, >> or just getting back with each other. >> You keep saying that. >> Yeah. >> I'll give you the privacy if it happens. Don't you worry. >> I'll be honest. If you made me cry and. you did not actually and you actually. get back together and you don't learn. >> to get her. >> I didn't cry. >> Oh, no. I had tears in my eyes. >> Oh, >> I looked over at you and you were like. you were like you were trying to think. of a Bible verse to tell me so I would.

stop crying. >> I I had tears in my eyes. >> Yeah. I didn't see them. >> Well, I was I wasn't like Harper, look. >> He was like, "Look at me. I'm crying. now.". >> Um. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Well, >> I mean it is a sad story, but I mean. it's a good life lesson. >> Oh, maybe we could close out with a. song. >> A song? >> Yeah. >> I know. >> A sad song. >> Okay. >> Sad song. >> We'll see you guys next week. >> Goodbye. >> Bye. >> I know. >> Okay. Cut it.

>> A sad song. Clean it up.