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Happy Valentine's Day. We are going to. take [music] live calls. I don't know. how unhinged these are going to be. >> I found out that he was actually. cheating on me that night. So, I stole. her man. >> Legendary. I think my love language is. physical touch. If I really like you. If. not, don't touch me. There was one time. [music] I was serenated and I was like, why are you doing this? This person. sounds crazy amazing. What? >> Hi, this is Chloe. >> I really appreciate you talking to me. >> Ooh, what do you want to talk about? [music] I spent our one-year anniversary.

in jail. I was engaged for about 5. years. >> That he's asking you for money. That's. crazy. >> And then I found out like while we were. dating, [music] he got a girl pregnant. We believe in the vengeance of Princess. Diana. >> That was weird. >> I hope everyone has such an amazing. Valentine's Day. [music] Just spend it. in love. >> I don't know what's happening. The. [laughter]. >> That person got the giggles.

>> [music]. >> Happy Valentine's Day. So, I am so. excited about today's podcast because we. are going to take live calls later in. the episode and I get to talk with you. guys and maybe give you guys some advice. or just hear some really crazy fun. stories. So, I'm super excited about. this episode. To me, Valentine's Day. isn't a big deal. I mean, I love.

Valentine's Day more because of my kids. I think prior to that, I didn't really. have much of a feeling about it. If you. could celebrate it, cool. But with my. kids, I put a lot of weight. Like, I. love it. I think it's a happy, loving, sweet holiday. And I love anything. that's sort of makes you live in this. bubble like hearts and happiness and. pink and red sweet. I must have been 16. or 17. And I got broken up with on. Valentine's Day. This person actually.

just moved to another state and like. stopped calling me, which was so crazy. and horrible. And so that was a tough. pill to swallow. But other than that, I. feel like I've had good Valentine's days. from as far as I can remember. That. would just be the only one that sort of. sucked. But I've never put a lot of. emphasis on Valentine's Day. What is the. key to my heart on Valentine's Day? Honestly, I think the key to my heart. any day is flowers. I love flowers. My.

mom gets me this box of chocolates from. Seas. It's just I don't know what. they're called, but they're milk. chocolate on the inside is caramel and. they're little circles and she gets me a. whole container of them. And oh my gosh, they can last me like 6 months cuz I. savor them. But I leave them by my bed. and they're so good. I will tell her not. to get them for me because I eat them. all, but then when I don't get them, I. get sad. So, that's that's always fun. So, one tradition I actually found out. about online and I love starting.

February 1st up until February 14th, you. write compliments or things that you. admire about your kids. So, like, I love. the way you laugh. I love how selfless. you are. I love your beautiful curls. I. love how smart you are. whatever it is, you write a different compliment on a. heart and then you tape the heart to. their bedroom door. So when they wake up. in the morning, they can read or you can. read to them the way that you see your. children. And I love that. So I do that.

My kids get so excited to open the door. and see what heart comes next. So that's. a tradition that I love. I think my love. language is more physical touch. If I really like you, if not, don't. touch me. Yeah, I'm not good with gifts. Like I get very uncomfortable receiving. But I would say physical touch or words. of affirmation. How do I give? >> Yeah. >> Oh, I do it all. I love I love physical.

touch. I love words of affirmation. I. love giving things. Like I love if I. know you like something like I like to. make that meal. Like I think I'm a very. thoughtful person. I like for people to. feel that they're special or taken care. of or that I remembered something they. said in a conversation. So, I'm very. thoughtful and intentional with how I. treat people, I think. Who gives you the. best love advice? Just haven't been.

there in a minute. But I've all. siblings, they all are. different. Like everyone's good in a different. situation. My moms are crazy but fun but crazy. When is it appropriate to say I love. you? I don't know that answer. You just. have to feel it out cuz time doesn't. really matter in my head. It just. depends. I need the context and the. circumstances of everything. There was.

one time I was serenated and it was I. think just like a random day cuz I. wasn't expecting it and this was years. ago. Tatum wasn't born. Yeah, it was. just true. And I lived at my old house. I'm like remembering I was in the. backyard and Tristan was like, "Come. outside." And Givon came. Givian wasn't. who he was now. And he is just like. singing and I remember like I hated. Tristan and I was like, "What? Why are.

you doing this?" And Givon is pouring. his heart out and I'm literally like. Tristan's trying to sit next to me and. I'm like slapping him and poor Givon is. still singing. It was mortifying, but I was like, "God, this guy is such a. great singer. I love this guy." And I. remember going inside to get true cuz I. was like, I just need a like a like a. third person to like get Tristan. I was. so annoyed with Tristan. And it was so. funny. And till this day, if I see. Givon, he'll be like, remember if I. could sing live for you two while you.

guys were fighting and not break like. Givon was so professional. He was so. great. He didn't break his song at all. He's amazing. I love him. But how. awkward for him. Poor guy. I love you, Givon. I'm so excited. We are now going to go. to the live callers. And I don't know. how unhinged these are going to be, but. hopefully we can get some conversations.

going. Hello. >> Hello. >> Hi. Who's this? >> My name's Anara. >> Anara? >> Yes, ma'am. >> Hi. This is Chloe. How are you? >> I'm good. >> Oo. What do you want to talk about? >> I wanted to tell you about I was engaged. for about 5 years. >> Oh my gosh. And the gentleman broke up.

with me. and I was like, "What the heck?". [laughter]. >> Come to find out he cheated on me. >> Is asking me for money. >> What? >> Uh, yeah. >> What a loser. >> I know. And I really wanted to talk to. you about him because I already feel. better. A, you're so cute. Well, first. of all, anyone that wouldn't marry you.

after five years, that's a big red flag. And so, he did you a favor. >> I agree. Thank you. >> And then the fact that he cheated on. you, bigger loser, bigger red flag. And. then he's asking you for money. That's. crazy. You sound too great to be with. this guy. >> Thank you. >> You sound too great. And you deserve all. the love in the world. and you're going. to make this Valentine's Day about you. and your girls or whoever you love and. you're going to forget about this guy. cuz who needs him?

>> Thank you. You're totally right. And and. Chloe, I hope your Valentine's Day is. filled with so much love with your. family this year. >> A thank you. You're so sweet. Hello. >> Hi. >> Hi. This is Chloe. Happy Valentine's. Day. >> Oh, happy Valentine's Day. >> Thank you. Who's this? My name's. Natasha. >> Hi, Natasha. How are you? >> I'm good. How are you? >> Good. What's going on? What do you want to. talk about today? >> Um, I just wanted to tell you kind of.

about like a little failed romance that. I had. >> Um, I dated this guy for like three. years. I was like totally obsessed with. him. I like was planning our future and. everything. Um he was like practicing to. be a tattoo artist and asked if he could. tattoo me and I was like totally down. for it. I let him tattoo me and then I. found out like while we were dating he. got a girl pregnant. >> so I yeah I had to call it off. I was.

like I can't be with you anymore but. like now I still have this tattoo and I. like think about it all the time. >> What's the tattoo of? >> It's just like a rose. >> but you still feel like it represents. him. Yeah. >> Do you ever consider maybe covering it. up or adding to it or even just removing. it? >> I thought about lasering it off because. I just like I don't want to have the. reminder anymore. >> I get that and I think that's smart. I. think when you're ready to do that,

laser it off. I mean, I've lasered some. tattoos and let me tell you, they. definitely hurt. But you It's good. Just. the technology. You don't have any. remnants of it. It's amazing. >> Yeah. I'm just scared of like the pain. of like getting it removed. >> I know it is painful. There are some. places that will give you a little I. think it's lidocaine shot. >> Okay. Okay. >> That actually is very helpful, I will. say. Yeah. Well, I'm sorry you went.

through that and I'm sorry. such men are just such losers sometimes. It's crazy. >> I know. They're awful. [laughter]. >> They really are. It's crazy. But with. all that being said, I hope you still. have an amazing Valentine's Day because. Valentine's Day is not just about the. partner in your life. It's also about. your family and how like you can still. love on yourself. And if you have kids, but just like siblings or parents or. best friends, you have to make the best. of it and just give love to anyone.

that's been good to you in your life, not just a man. >> Thank you. I appreciate that. I do want. to say that with the live phone calls. coming through, I also had people call. in and leave voicemails who couldn't get. through and so I'm going back and forth. from voicemails to live phone calls and. I'm loving them. So, this was back in. freshman year of high school and it was. my first time bringing a boy home for.

the first time and it was just so I was. so nervous. I was freaking out. So, we. were sitting on our back porch and the. door to my back porch, you could see the. stairs inside the house. So, out of. nowhere, we're sitting on the back porch. and we hear like this loud thump and. we're like, "What just happened?" So, we. looked inside and my little sister had. just got in the shower and she fell down. the stairs and she jumps up. She's like, "I'm [clears throat] good." And she's. literally naked in front of my new.

boyfriend. I was like, "Are you kidding. me?" So, yeah. Needless to say, it was. very embarrassing. I was completely shocked. I didn't know. what to say, but we did go on a few more. dates after the fact. But that's my. funny fail story. A. >> thank. >> that's so cute because. Lauren, I know that's such a big deal to. you and I'm not trying to invalidate. that. But for me, maybe cuz I'm older,

I'm like this girl that your sister was. probably mortified. Like for you to be. mortified is so sweet, I think, cuz it. shows how much you like just liked the. guy and love your sister. But your. sister, I would think, is like so mortified by. that situation. Probably way more than. you. Poor you, Lauren. And poor your. sister. Oh my gosh. >> Okay. So, hey, Chloe. Um, my name is. Dylan. And first off, I'm going to start.

off and be like, I love you. You're my. favorite. So, just want to get that out. the way. All right. So my question for. you, all right, is my most hated red. flag is being with somebody, but then. they try and keep it a secret. Like you, it's almost like the friends know and. everything like that, but then when. during certain times you want to kind of. brush upon or like be like, "Oh, no, we. not together or you know, at least. seeing each other, but they know damn. well we still going out to dinner. They. know damn well we still taking trips.

They know everything." But then you. don't want to clean somebody in front of. somebody. So my question to you I feel. like is like is that not only a red flag. or am I tripping? That's the first. question. And number two is like has. that ever happened to you where like. somebody doesn't want to claim you in. front of certain friends because and. then it makes you almost kind of feel. like like there's like is there an issue. with me? Like the hell's wrong with me? The. you know that's my question. All right.

boo much love to you. Bye. Okay, Dylan, I love you and thank you. for your message. So, number one, yes, that is a major red flag when people. don't want to claim you. I'm not saying. you have to make me or anyone else. public on social. I feel like for some. people, they they need that validation. to feel like you're a real couple. I. don't believe in that. Some. relationships, I just don't want to. publicize it. That's fine. Doesn't mean.

it's a secret. It means that we're. private. being a secret is what you're. saying. Like telling your certain close. friend groups you don't really talk like. that. That's that's going to give you. such an insecurity and that's a big red. flag. There's a reason they want to keep. it a secret. And what is that reason and. it's weird either way. I don't get down. like that. You shouldn't get down like. that, Dylan. And for me, have I had that. happen to me before? Yes. And the second. I feel that it happens, I don't like.

that. I might ask and be like, "So, what. is this?" I might bring it to that guy's. attention and say, "I'm noticing that. you're being secretive in this. department. Why?" And but I'm also not. someone that wants to beg. So, I sort of. will remove myself from the situation. and just know it's a red flag and I'm. not starting off on a red flag. Corny. Lately, I've been really focused on. supporting my body in a deeper way. Not. just quick fixes, but things that help. me feel strong, energized, and balanced. from the inside out. That's what led me.

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even describe it. >> You can imagine. >> what's going on lovewise. Well, I have a. first date story to tell you that did. not go well. >> Oh my gosh. Tell me. >> Okay, so it was a couple of years ago or. maybe it was Yeah, it was like a year or. two ago. I went on a first date with a. guy from a dating app and we had already. been talking and we actually had. facetimed and everything before the date. and then uh we decided to go on a coffee. date and then do kind of a walk around.

the park after because it was the. summer. So. >> cute. Uh yeah, and you know, innocent. And so we I show up at this coffee shop. I'm the first one there and he walks in. and he does not look the same as his. photos or even from when we facetimed. >> What? >> Yeah. So we go to order coffee and then. he uh gives a name to the barista for. the coffee drink order and it was like a.

Star Wars name. I think he said. Chewbacca or something. >> Shut up. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. Nope. >> He did proceed to ask me for feedback. about the date, which was extra weird. >> I've never heard that before, but okay. I think that means that he's gotten. turned down a lot and he's like finally. like, okay, what is it? Cuz it has to be. me. >> It Yeah, it is him. >> Hi, Chloe. Okay, I have a crazy first. date story that I thought I would share.

So, there was this guy I was texting and. he lived in Hungary, super random, and. we got along over text. And one day he. was like, "I love the city you're in. I. want to come visit you." And I was like, I mean, okay, if you're going to pay and. come all the way over here across the. world, sure, why not? >> Yeah. >> Clearly, nothing could go wrong. >> So, he legit comes. This is like a month. later, and he's here. Do we go out to. dinner? And my gut is just like, uh, no,

no, not feeling it. This is not good. So. that night, I'm like, I don't want to. waste his time. I need to talk to him. and tell him this is just not going to. work and I'm not feeling it. So I have. to talk and he goes, can I go first? And. he asks me to be his girlfriend after. one date. Okay. So I'm like, I'm so. sorry. I wanted to tell you no. So then he goes, "Are you ready for. this?" He says, "But I love you.". >> Oh my god.

>> What? You what? No, I'm shook. You just. met me. You don't love me. You don't. know me. >> A. >> um poor guy. >> So then I'm just staring at him and then. he says, "Are you ready for this? I love. you with a sister.". >> You what? >> What? >> As a sister. >> I love you as a sister. So, I left and never talked to this. Hungarian man again. >> Oh my gosh. >> And that's my crazy sistake story. I. love you. >> A Well, this girl didn't leave me her.

name, but I love her and I love your. crazy Hungarian story. I have so many. questions that I don't even know where. to begin. Hello. >> Hello. >> Are you the Hungarian story? >> I am. Wait, what's your name? Because. you didn't you didn't leave it on the. voicemail. I'm dying about your story. >> Oh my gosh. I'm Shayla. >> Shayla. Shayla, your story. I have so. many questions for you. First of all,

are you okay? >> I am okay, thankfully. >> Good. How did you meet this guy all the. way in Hungary? >> It was so random. He he was so I live in. Nashville and he came to visit in. Nashville and ran into him at this like. public setting and that's how I got like. Instagram and then we texted just a few. times and then he came back to do the. dinner and then everything else you. probably heard in the voicemail.

>> Oh my gosh, it is crazy. And then after. you were like, "No, this is nuts. I just. met you. Of course, we're not in love. and I won't be your girlfriend." and he. just backed off. >> Well, I just I decided to go like gave. him a hug and I booked it out of there. [laughter]. >> That is crazy. He sounds like a great. guy. Just I don't know. I was thinking. like 90day fiance. That's all I kept. thinking about. >> Yes. No. Exactly. 90day fiance vibes.

First sight, honestly. >> Yes. Exactly. What are your plans for this Valentine's. Day? I mean, I'm single. I'm probably. going to hang out with the girls. >> That's the best. So, I was listening to. Shayla. She didn't leave her name in her. voicemail. I was listening to her. voicemail and then they called and said, "You have the same girl calling in right. now to talk to you on the hotline." I. was like, "How crazy.".

>> Hi, Chloe. My experience I would like to. tell you about is the worst excuse I've. had for being late on a date. So, this. experience has happened to me. semi-reently, actually. Um, I was out. We were going, me and my boyfriend were. going to a little coffee shop. Well, not. my boyfriend. Um, this happened like. maybe a week ago or two. >> Oh my god. >> And I obviously didn't know what to say. for my real excuse of having explosive. diarrhea cuz we've only been dating for.

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>> Hi, Haley. >> How are you? >> Good. How are you? >> I'm doing wonderful. I actually took a. day off of work today and I seen this. post and I have the most perfect story. for Bales. >> Oh my god, I need to hear it. >> Okay, so I. had my first relationship and I was 16. years old when I started dating him and. I turned 17. It was our oneyear. anniversary coming up in February.

and I really wanted to get him a. present. I am a broke 17 newly. 17year-old and at the time I lived in. Illinois and in the state of Illinois. you were legally an adult at 17. So I. went to the mall with one of my best. friends and me and her shared the same. birthday and we were shoplifting him a. present. So, I shoplifted this detent. It had one of his favorite bands. We. were at Hot Topic and I got arrested.

>> Oh my god. >> Spent our oneyear anniversary in jail. and keeps cheating on me on our one-year. anniversary. I can't get a hold of. anybody. Luckily, my big sister bailed. me out. Best big sister in the world. I. was such a troublemaker. Whenever I got out of jail at 17, um, I. found out that he was actually cheating. on me that night. So then I went and. dated I found out who that girl. boyfriend was at the time and I stole.

her man back. >> Oh my god. Legendary. This is. How did you know he was cheating on you. if you were in jail, though? Well, this was the time of like MySpace. and his best friend was dating my best. friend since we were like 10 years old, my best friend Britney. And so him and. his best friend were dating me and my. best friend. And she was actually there. that night. They were all hanging out.

And this girl, Amber, that was her name, of course. Amber. >> Amber. >> Yeah. Britney was wasted and she was. just letting them hang out the whole. night and make out. And when I got out. of jail, she told me. And so, of course, I did not even break up with them. I. just cheated on him back and then I told. him to face that I did. >> Oh my god. Well, it actually besides you. going to jail, it you realized who your.

ride or dies are, which is your older. sister. You realize the ones that will. tell you the tea and tell you what. really happened and then the ones that. weren't meant to stay around. You. actually learned a lot that Valentine's. Day. >> Truly, I did. I really did. And I will. never stop ever again in my life, which. I think me and you um have at least one. jail experience in common. So, >> yes, we do. >> It happens. And.

>> it happens. Hey Chloe, this is Ava Gatus. I'm sorry. I'm laughing. I'm surrounded by my. family right now. So be. >> I don't know what's happening. >> Hang [laughter] up. >> That person got the giggles. >> Hi Chloe. It is I, Nico Zen. >> It is I. >> And I feel it may be a West Coast.

passive way of saying yes. We believe in. the vengeance of Princess Diana and we. are putting the Rat of Bandini team in. place. So, thank you for respecting my. business savvy, but I will not be. sharing that story until I receive pay. for it. And I have full total. authoritarian dictatorial control over. how it develops and wishing you all. great things to happen and continue to. happen and blessings for you and your. family this and every once happy army.

and little Christmas. That's right. >> Oh, thank you. Okay. Well, that was fun. >> Hi, my name's Jackie. I live in Idaho. Oh, man. Um, dating problems. I had a. guy that thought taking me to Buffalo. Wild Wings. would be a romantic date. Um, red flags that I've ignored.

Definitely people talking about. like hurting animals. >> Valentine's Day gone wrong. Got broken. up on Valentine's Day in high school. That was fun. >> We got to call this person. >> I have friends that. they did like a partner swap but on. accident. So, >> this can't be real. >> They met and started hanging out with.

each other, husband and wife. But then. my friend's husband started sleeping. with his boss's wife. And then my friend. started sleeping with her husband's boss. and he ended up getting fired. And. it's so crazy that this happens to. people. And something that I've never. told anyone is that I have had sex. during the day on my driveway in the.

middle of the day with cars driving by. >> Like on your. >> It's not my proudest moment. >> On your driveway like the floor. I've. actually never heard of that. What's her. name? Jackie. Jackie. I've never heard that one. Having sex on. like the concrete. Huh? Hi Joey, how are you? Um, I just. want to give an advice and it's to think.

uh before you do anything crazy. Um, I'm. really heartbroken at this moment and. you know I I regret every day that I I. lost the love of her life. So please uh. before you you make a big decision, please stay calm. >> Do not do not make decisions being angry.

because I regret it all all the days of. my life. You know. >> what a sweetheart. I feel so bad for. this woman. She is saying that she broke. up with the love of her life, but she. didn't realize it then. And she thinks. about him every day. And she's just so. heartbroken. And she just saying when people make. decisions to leave someone, like don't. act out of emotion, act if like it's. really something you want to do. I feel. so bad for her. Poor thing. Let's do Kim.

from Houston, Texas. >> Um, [clears throat] my name is Kim and. I'm from Houston, Texas. And I want to. talk about this time I had like a first. date sale. So, um, the girl and I first. date, uh, everything was all good. Like, we were good. We were ordering food. We. were chilling, but she was like in like. a rush. Like, I was wondering, I was. like, damn. Like, you know, we had. appetizers, but she scarfed it down. We. had our regular meal. She scarfed it. down. Then, she asked for dessert and. scarfed it down, too. And we're like. literally only like 20, 30 minutes to.

the day. >> I was like, "What's the rush? Like, what's going on?" And she was like, "Yeah, my boyfriend clocks in in about. 10 minutes. I was like, "Here, your boyfriend? What?" And it was awkward. Like, of. course, I didn't pay because at that. point, I was just like, "What were you trying to do?" Like, get. a meal, you know? I just didn't know. But yeah, it was crazy. That was my. first day. >> Oh my gosh. I don't know if you said.

your name was Cam or Kim. I think it's. Cam. But when I was hearing your message. and you said that she was scarfing down. food, I was going to say she either. double booked and had another date after. you, I was not going to assume that her. boyfriend worked there. I thought maybe. that's like a place that they ate at, but I could tell that she either had. another date after you or had a. boyfriend. Shady. Shady. And I think you. handled it perfectly well. >> Hi, Chloe. I absolutely love you and. your podcast. You are everything. I have.

a crazy first date, I guess, kind of. fail that turned to a romance. On my. first date with my current fiance, we. were going out in Central Park and it. was 2020, so it was co. And we drank two. bottles of wine and it was going well. And all of a sudden, he turned to me and. was like, "I really need to go to the. bathroom." And I was like, "Oh my. goodness, thank God. I really need to go.

to the bathroom, too. So, he is like, "Okay, I'm gonna go find one and then. I'll come back." So, he goes. >> and like 15 minutes goes by, 20 minutes. goes by. I'm like, "Oh my gosh, like is. he standing me up?" And at this point, I'm like, "I have to clean so badly.". So, fast forward, I ended up running into a. McDonald's. The bathroom was out of. order. ended up peeing in my pants on.

the first date. >> Ended up going into a parking garage and. paid the guy to let me use their. bathroom, walked back to the date. without any underpants on because I was. wearing a dress and told him that I had. dinner in 10 minutes and had to leave. and we are getting married in April. So. crazy. >> What? >> First date fail that turned successful. Love you. >> Oh my gosh. Okay. You did not leave your name. No.

But what what a sad sweet. story. I don't even know. Like, first of. all, thank God you were wearing a dress. Could you imagine if you had like pee. stains all over your pants? That would. be mortifying. Two, I feel so bad you. peed your pants. Like, you must have. really had to pee. That's so. embarrassing. So sad. Where was he for 20 minutes at the. beginning when he was looking for the. bathroom? Where did he go? Oh my gosh,

what a story. But I love that you guys. are engaged. You guys are going to be. married. What like a funny story that. you get to tell your kids one day. I. mean, it's cute. It's endearing. It's very relatable. I feel so bad, but. I love that you're just laughing it off. and so cute about it. Jessica Max. >> Hi, my name is Jessica Max. I was. calling to share a giant red flag I. missed when I was in my 20s. Uh I was. just freshly dating someone. I think we.

had gone on maybe four dates. And. after the fourth date, he stopped by my. apartment and showed me that he got a. tattoo of my face on his back, which was. insane. Uh because like I said, I barely. knew the guy. And um yeah, needless to. say, it didn't go well after that. >> Oh my gosh, Jessica. Poor Jessica. That. is a big red flag. I think if someone on. your third or fourth date is going out.

to get your face tattooed on them, it's. a little scary and it is a big red flag. I wouldn't like that very much. Jessica, you sound amazing and I love that you. realize that's a red flag. Now, you have. to go through these things to realize. that they're not. they're not good. You really do. Thank. you guys so much for calling in, for. leaving your voicemails, for writing in. all of the above. I had so much fun. I.

could literally do this for hours and. hours. I hope everyone has such an. amazing Valentine's Day. Spend it with. your family, your significant other, your children, your siblings, whatever. [music]. Just spend it in love and be happy and. know that you don't need a partner to. celebrate Valentine's Day. Have a great. Valentine's Day and remember that. Wednesdays are for Wonderland. [music].