Did I Get the Villain Edit | Khloé in Wonder Land

Did I get the villain edit? Am I getting the villain edit? Was that. a villain move? Am I the villain? You are the villain. This is. Am I getting the villain edit for. accidentally sending a screenshot of my. friend's text? He demanded I go get him. a sesame bagel. I asked the server if we. could do separate checks and she looked. at me like I ruined the vibe. Who are. your guys' friends? This is insane. Two. weeks ago I took one of her $20 bills. Last weekend I took another 20 and then. three nights ago I grabbed a 50. No,

you're stealing. What are you talking. about? Stop asking people what your body. count is. You're never going to like the. number. My boyfriend now says he's fine. with me having friends again. You need to break up with your. boyfriend. Dirty shoes in the house. For. what? Outside clothes in the bed. But. why? People who say we'll just pick a. restaurant when we get there. People say that? When they get where? You guys, I'm concerned about these. people.

This episode of Khloe in Wonderland, I. really wanted to play a game. Do you. know the game that is am I the. where people submit stories and we're. sort of asking for opinions, am I the or. not? I wanted to make it a little. different, so I'm doing a Khloe in. Wonderland version. Did I get the. villain edit? I'm going to decipher if. you are the villain or not. And I also. want you guys to leave comments on my.

YouTube, leave comments to see like tell. me what you think. Am I wrong for what. my answer is? What do you guys feel. about these stories? I really don't love. the excuse when people see an edit of. themselves on TV and they say, "Oh, I. was edited that way.". I do believe in the power of editing. I. do think editing can make you look bad. or good, but it can't change your. personality. I've seen footage of myself. that I. maybe haven't been proud of, but instead.

of me blaming editing, I've been like, "Okay, let me self-reflect. I don't love. that version of me. I don't love how I. spoke to someone. I don't like how I. responded. I have crazy facial. expressions. I don't like some of those. because they're rude sometimes." I do. want to let you guys know I have not. seen any of these cards. This will be as. I'm reading them will be the first time. I'm hearing it. So, I'm going to answer. in real time, and I want you guys to. chime in on the comments cuz I love.

reading the comments. So, just know I. will be reading them. Okay, let's get. into this. Am I the villain for. accidentally sending a screenshot of my. friend's text back into the group chat. it was about? I was venting to my sister. about how my friend always flakes last. minute and sent the screenshot to prove. my point. Except, I sent it right back. into the group chat with that friend. I tried to play it off like, "Oh my god, wrong chat." but the damage was done. Now it's awkward and she's being cold.

What did I do? Okay, well, you're not a. villain. This is relatable. This happens. to everyone. at least once in your life. Where you. either send a screenshot is a little. brutal because there's no way to get out. of that one. But I've definitely talked about someone. and sent it to that person, but I can. easily get out of that because there's. no screenshot. >> But you're able to delete text messages. now with like any iPhone. >> Oof. The unsending.

I think is great. I do. I think you have a time frame, though. I think it's like 10 minutes or. something. I don't know the exact time. But I do think you have a time frame for. when you could use that feature, but I. think an unsend is great. But just. you're going to have to answer, "What. did you send?" cuz whenever someone does. an unsend to me, I always I'm like, "Ooh, burn. Unsend.". Just to let them know that I know. The editing part. me up. So, if you send a message and. you're like,

"I hate you." Whatever you want to say. Then you're like, "That was aggressive. Let me change this to like, I'm mad at. you.". You can read what it originally said, which. takes away the point of the editing. feature. I don't like that feature. And. I have some friends that still don't. know that I can see what they originally. said, which just makes it great cuz I. can see what they said about me. I do. use the editing, but it's normally to. correct. if I spelled something wrong, this or. that. I wish the editing feature didn't.

show you what someone edited, cuz then. you could be a little shadier. And. pulling back from a friend who is always. emotionally dumping, but never asks how. I'm doing. I cannot stand when people do. this. Oh my gosh. Every call turns into. a 45-minute crisis session, and I leave. feeling so drained. I started taking. longer to respond, and now she's saying. I'm acting different. I feel bad, but. also I feel so much lighter. Does this. make me a bad friend? No, I don't think.

this at all. Number one, the older you. get, the more you realize you want. relationships that are just easy. You. don't want a relationship that's. high-maintenance. This seems like a very. high-maintenance relationship. Now, that. doesn't mean that we're not there for. our friends. Of course, if someone is. emotionally dumping on you, they may. need that release, and they may need. that friendship and that outlet. If it's. constant, then that person needs a therapist. Then.

that person is just taking advantage, and they sort of like to be in that. victim mentality, which I can't stand. We all have bad days. We all have bad. experiences and go through bad things. Totally fair. I want my girlfriends. around me. I want to be there for my. girlfriends, but when it's a constant. emotional trauma dumping, that gets old. And also, if they're not asking how. you're doing back, it sounds like a. one-way friendship, and it sounds like.

that person isn't being a good friend to. you. You need to hear me out. I'm in. college and my roommate keeps using my. stuff and not replacing it. Toilet. paper, perfume, skin care, bananas. I. didn't want to make it a whole. confrontation, so I left a note that. said, "If you finish something, please. replace it." with a heart. Now she's. acting weird. How would you handle this? I am just not this sensitive of a. person. Like, common courtesy. If I use. something and I used it all,

like one of my biggest pet peeves, someone uses all the toilet paper and. you see a fresh roll right there. Are. you kidding me that you're not going to. replace it? The laziness. It's and it's. rude. I do not like it. This is. triggering me a little bit, clearly, but. I think Listen, if you don't say. something, someone's never going to know. your boundaries or know what ticks you. off. You have to say something. I think. you leaving a note with a little heart. kept it cute. I think you're being. really nice, and the least someone can.

do is replace it. I think that's fair. Am I crazy? Cuz like that's fair. So, I, 25-year-old female, have been dating. this guy, 28-year-old male, for about 2. months, but we've known each other for. about six. We haven't been intimate yet. because we both said we want to take. things slow. Last night we were on the. phone just casually talking when he. randomly asked me what my body count. was. Mine is nine, which I know isn't. perfect, but also doesn't feel that high.

to me. Then he told me his is like 56. Like, 56. I love this person. So. thorough. I was honestly speechless and. immediately felt kind of shocked and a. little grossed out. He noticed my. reaction and said he's 28 and that I. should have expected it, but that number. just really threw me off. Now I can't. stop thinking about it and I feel weird. about the whole thing. I know I. shouldn't judge someone for their past, but it's honestly making me second-guess. things. Okay, number one, and this goes out to.

everyone who's watching. Stop asking people what your body count. is. You're never going to like the. number. If someone said one, you. wouldn't like the number. You'd be like, "Okay, that's weird. Why so low?" If. someone says 100, of course you're not. going to like that number. Who the cares? What does this mean? What does this matter to you? Who cares? We have to let go of that. My opinion. Number two, there are double standards. in life. Like we just got to. understand that. Men,

their number. should be higher than women's. Like I. don't know. I just think all men have a. lot of sex. And I actually respect that he was so. honest. I would never have expected. First of all, who the is counting. to 56, by the way? Does he have like a. journal? So that's a little weird that. he knows exactly. 56 is a weird number to remember. This. stuff. wouldn't bother me just but I also don't.

ask those questions because I don't. really want to know. What I want to know. is if I'm at a dinner party and you. slept with someone here. Like I just. want to know who's in my space. I want to know that information, but I. don't need to know who you've slept with. your entire life. But don't ask. questions if you don't want to know the. answer. Respect the honesty. Let's talk. about friends in their 30s. All of my. friends have kids. I'm the only one who. doesn't. I had a birthday dinner and. told my friends they were not allowed to.

talk about their kids for one night. I. just wanted to vibe with everyone like. how things used to be. I have a super. stressful job. This was my one night to. let loose, wear a cute outfit, and have. a cocktail, and not be reminded about. the different life path that I'm on. Does that make me selfish? No, I don't. think that makes you selfish. I don't. Number one, I get that. perspective. Like at first when I was. reading it, I'm like, "Oh my gosh, you're you're like giving people. guidelines at your dinner about not. talking about their kids." But then I. understand maybe it makes you feel bad.

because it says you have a really. stressful job, you're in your 30s, you. want to let loose, and I can tell by your message that. you're feeling maybe down on yourself. for not having kids. yet. I totally think you're going to. have kids and if you want them. And I think we're all on different life. paths, but I get it. I have a few. friends that don't have any kids, and I. try to be aware of what I say around. them. I mean, things happen and I talk. about my children a lot, but I I get.

that and the sensitivity to it. And I. think you're okay to say that, and if. anyone gets annoyed with you, I love the. vulnerability. in you saying that you just don't want. to focus on the different life paths. that you guys are on right now. And I. think that's a really powerful thing to. say. I, a 20-year-old female, have been with. my boyfriend, a 22-year-old male, for. about a year and a half. We live in the. same city, and I'm basically at his. apartment every night. So, I really.

thought we were solid. Last night we. were driving, and suddenly a message. popped up on the screen from a girl's. name I didn't recognize. And it said, "Are you coming over later? I miss you.". I froze. I didn't even yell. I just. asked who it was. He immediately. unplugged his phone, and then he said I. misread it and that it was actually his. sister texting about dinner. He refused. to show me the phone and that I was. invading his privacy by looking at his. screen while he was driving. Ah, this is giving me so much PTSD. When.

they. gaslight you and make like uh so off. Okay. Going back to the story. Then he started. saying I was being delusional and that. my anxiety was ruining a good. relationship. Of course it was, sir. I. asked him to pull over at the gas. station and got out and called an Uber. because the whole thing was making me. feel like I was really going crazy. Now. he's blowing up my phone and saying I'm. immature for jumping out of the car and. that I'm too unstable to be in this. relationship if I'm going to freak out. over a random notification. He's.

cheating, right? Yes. He's cheating. We can go down this. rabbit hole and continue talking about. it, but the moral is. he's cheating. Get out now. It's a big. red flag. Listen, if it was his sister, he would have showed you the phone. You know what you saw. You didn't. misread it. I've been there. We all want to like. gloss over something because we don't. want to start new again and we have this. fantasy of like I'm going to get. married. This is the dress. This is my. husband. And then to.

know you're not it's sad and it's scary. Take it from me, he's cheating on you. Move on so you can have that fantasy. with someone else and hopefully make. that a reality. And of course he's. saying you're immature and you're. unstable because he's trying to make. himself feel better and he's trying to. make it that he's not the villain. Guess. what? He is the villain. You're not. Don't let him manipulate and gaslight. you. My roommate is a server at a. high-end restaurant in Malibu. She often.

comes home with cash tips. She's also. super forgetful and aloof. So sometimes. she comes home and just leaves her cash. laying around in random spots. I don't think she's actually paying. attention to how much she's bringing. home. Two weeks ago I took one of her. $20 bills and I didn't think she ever. would notice. So last weekend what? So. last weekend I took another 20. And then. three nights ago I grabbed a 50. Last. night we went out and I paid for our. tab, $78, and she seemed so grateful.

But, she doesn't know she technically. paid for our drinks herself. Am I the. villain if I did a nice thing, but. actually didn't do it? What the are you. talking about? It still made her feel. good, and she won't know the difference. No, you're stealing. What are you. talking about? That is still her money. Like, if she is You're saying she's. super forgetful and aloof? No, that's. called trust. She feels safe around you, and she trusts you. So, she's leaving. her money out, and you're just like.

taking a 20 and a 50, and then paying. for drinks, but you're justifying it. saying that she did, but you're not. telling her? No. This is so wrong. You are the. villain. This is. What's your name and address? Like, this is crazy. You're the villain. Your. roommate is so nice, so trusting, and. she's going to lose all trust in you. now. Oof. No, no. Naughty girl.

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May 31st, 2026. I'm 28 years old and I'm 8 weeks. pregnant with my first child after 3. years of infertility and multiple. miscarriages. Well, congratulations. We haven't told anyone yet because we're. being cautious. 2 weeks ago my best. friend got married. At the reception. people kept offering me drinks all. night. I kept politely declining, but. they wouldn't let it go and started. joking that I was no fun and being. overly sensitive for not drinking.

Eventually I snapped and said something. like, "Maybe there's a reason I'm not. drinking." Now a few people think I made. things awkward and stole the attention. from the wedding. Okay, everyone. What I can't stand from. people is like the shaming that we do. when people don't want to drink. Like. not drinking is also cool. Drinking is. also fun. Whatever you want to do. But. like let people be them. When people. shame others for not drinking cuz I used. to be a big drinker. Now I don't. anymore, but I'm still so.

fun. I don't need alcohol to be fun. I. think everyone just needs to let people. be them. And if they want to drink, cool. If you don't, you don't. Also. saying, "Maybe there's a reason I'm not. drinking." That's like girl, there's so. many other ways. You hold a glass of. champagne. You don't even really have to. drink it. You can a drunk person is. drunk. So you can trick them really. easily. You just keep holding the same. glass. You fill something up with water, pretend it's a vodka on the rocks, whatever you have to do. I don't think.

you stole the attention from anyone. deliberately. I obviously think you're. probably hormonal and sensitive and felt. picked on. So it wasn't an intentional. thing, but there are many ways around. that. Many ways to trick people. It happens all the time. I'm a. 26-year-old female and I was at a brunch. with my friends. One of them ordered a. ton of food. Like multiple cocktails, appetizers, dessert, everything. When. the bill came, she said we should just. split it evenly because it's easier. The. rest of us only had one drink and a.

meal. I asked the server if we could do. separate checks and she looked at me. like I ruined the vibe. Now my friend is. saying I made things awkward, but sorry. it was not even. Did I get the villain. edit? Isn't it funny that people always. make you feel bad when it doesn't. benefit them? Like No, this is so rude and entitled of. your friend. You can definitely have. separate checks. It sounds very unfair the way she was. doing it and maybe she was so freely. ordering everything cuz she thought half. you guys were going to cover the costs.

of. her buffet. Like that's not cool. You're. not in the wrong. You did the right thing. I think totally. separate checks and that's just rude of. your friend. I have a friend who's always late, like. minimum 30 minutes late every time we. meet. For my birthday dinner, I told her. the reservation was 6:30 even though it. was actually 7:00. She showed up at 7:15. and realized what I did. Now she says I. manipulated her and treated her like a. child. Who are your guys' friends? This.

is insane. Number one, I do this all the time. I always I know. my late friends. I always lie to them. and then I tell them a different time. No one cares. Like you just. they know. When they catch on to you is. when it's annoying cuz then they know. I'm. like giving them a buffer and then they. still come late. You should be annoyed. that she was then. 45 minutes late. She thought dinner was. at 6:30. She came at 7:15. That's rude.

and it shows that she doesn't have. respect for your time. Timing matters. Respect my time. Show up on time or don't come at all. Someone being 45 minutes late to a. dinner, especially a birthday dinner, is. up. So no, you're not wrong. She's a. crazy person to say she you manipulated. her and that you treat her like a child. You are a child. If you're showing up to a birthday. dinner 45 minutes late, you have no.

respect that it's my birthday. It's not. about you. Grow up and get it together and be on. time. It's someone's birthday. I like to bring home hard-to-get or. expensive bottles of booze as souvenirs. when I travel. Stuff you literally. cannot purchase where we live. A simple. example is rum that is only available. for purchase from the distillery in. Jamaica. I can only get more if I go to. Jamaica and get it. My wife's brother. and sister-in-law were over last weekend. and they were having a few drinks. Rum.

and Cokes mostly. I had a bottle of rum. out so people could make their own. My. brother-in-law decided it wasn't good. enough and he wanted the rum from my. liquor cabinet. He asked me for the key. and I said no. And I said if he wanted. to try any I would pour him an ounce to. sip and enjoy but it wasn't for mixed. drinks. He got all pissy and called me a. snob. I offered to sell him the bottle. for what it would cost me to replace it. if he really wanted it. My wife says I. should have just let him have some. So. yeah, I think you're being a little. cheap. Because if you're buying these.

things, yes, they're yours and well, there's two sides. So one, I think it is. sort of rude that your brother-in-law. didn't think that rum was good enough. Then like bring your own if that's the. case. But it's also your brother-in-law. It shows how close you guys are. It. shows that he can talk to you like that. My sibling would talk to me like that. And then you also buy this alcohol so. you can enjoy it. You buy it to be used. and not just to sit there. Do I get that. you would have to go to Jamaica to get.

more? Yes, but maybe that's something. you put on your bucket list to do one. day. I don't know. Cuz why else are you. having it? I think your. wife is right. She's trying to say like. just let him have some. rum. You have it there. So I do think. that's ridiculous, but I also think it. wasn't like the best that your. brother-in-law thought the other rum. wasn't good enough. But then I also look. at that like, well, you guys are close. You're sort of the villain in that one. I'm a 28-year-old female. I went on a.

first date with the guy that spent the. entire dinner explaining cryptocurrency. to me, even though I repeatedly said I. didn't understand it. At the end, he. said I should split the bill because he. gave me valuable financial knowledge. Ugh. I paid my half, but told him that logic. was insane. Chloe, what do you think? Run. What a crazy person. Number one, who gets crypto? Nobody.

Like, are we okay? And number two, maybe because you said you didn't. understand it, he kept going. You should have just said, I don't want. to talk about this. Like, we're on a. date. This is crazy. And a first date? Please. Sounds like there was no. no chemistry, no sparks. Run. I'm a 35-year-old male. Went on. vacation with friends, and one guy kept. waking up early to claim the best pool. chairs with towels, but he wouldn't.

actually come back for like 3 hours. One. morning, I moved his towel and sat. there. He said I violated pool chair. etiquette. I actually don't regret it, but was that a villain move? Okay, if. it's a random person, you can't just do that. You can't wake. up early, claim chairs, let them sit. there for 5 hours, and then use them at. that's no. That's actually him violating. pool chair etiquette. You have to be. like, I feel like you can claim a chair,

and you probably have like a 30-minute. window. to claim it and go there. What do you. guys think? 30 minutes? >> Yeah. >> I think that's fair. You can't claim a. chair and then use it at 2:00 in the. afternoon and I claimed it at 6:00 a.m. That. No. And I'm happy you don't regret it. You. shouldn't. My son had a sleepover with. three friends. The next morning I didn't. want to cook for six people, so I picked. up a big bagel catering box with 13. bagels and spreads. When the kids were.

waking up, my daughter came downstairs. first and grabbed a sesame bagel. When. the boys came down, one of my son's. friends immediately asked why there. weren't any sesame bagels left. I. explained there was only one and my. daughter grabbed it first. He kept. insisting it wasn't fair and that since. he was a guest, he should get it. At. this point, my daughter was already. eating it. I told him there were plenty. of other bagels and just to pick one. He. refused and demanded I go get him a. sesame bagel. Okay, whose kid is this? They have no manners. After going back.

and forth for a while, I told him to. stop acting like a like a brat and. either eat a bagel or go to school. without breakfast. Later, his mom called saying I shouldn't. have called her son a brat or let him go. to school hungry. For the record, there. were still four bagels left after. breakfast. I don't do sleepovers on. school nights, okay? That's number one. Number two, who the is this kid? The mom should be mortified that her kid.

thinks they're entitled to the one. sesame bagel. No. And you didn't let him. go to school hungry, you gave him. options. That was his choice. If my kids. don't want to eat, I'm not making this. isn't a. restaurant. I'm not making meal after. meal. You either eat the food that's. there, if not, be hungry. You have the. option and I know you like that food. You're just trying to be particular. right now. This kid would eat something. more than a sesame bagel. He was just. being a jerk or a brat. I don't know if.

I would have called him a brat just cuz. I don't talk like that, but I would have. said. like these are your options. You either. will go to school hungry or you can eat. any of this stuff and I think it is. crazy that he thinks he can talk to you. like that. That's crazy. I'm a. 29-year-old female who got married less. than 3 months ago after being with my. husband for almost 7 years. One thing. I've always been clear about is that I. need my space, and that decisions about.

people staying in our home should be. made together. Recently, I found out. that his sister, her husband, their child, and my in-laws booked. tickets to come stay with us for 5 to 6. weeks. I only found out after everything was. already booked. We live in a very hot. climate, which means seven people total. in the house during peak summer. My. husband will be at work most of the day, so I would be the one home with. everyone. There are also lifestyle.

differences. My in-laws are strict. vegetarians and won't allow eggs or. non-veg in the house, which is a big. adjustment since that's a staple in my. diet. I would happily host them for a. week or two, but five to six weeks. without being asked first feels. overwhelming. What? This is mental. Like, I don't want to say the D-word, but like, are we okay? I would. Ooh. Oh my god. Okay. That is.

up of your husband. Like, I don't care. how much you love his sister, her. husband, their kid, your in-laws, wh-. anyone. Five or six weeks is. abuse. Anyone that wants to do that is. actually mentally unstable. Like, go. home. Why are you here? That's crazy. And then, your in-laws can have all the. dietary restrictions they want. To go. into someone else's home and say eggs. aren't allowed on this property, go rent.

an Airbnb. Go get a hotel. Stay at. someone else's house that abides by your. rules. You can't go into someone else's. home and tell them what they can and. can't have in the fridge. That is like. Where Where are we? Are you questioning. if you're the villain? I'm concerned about you. This is And how nice are you? I would happily host them for a week or. two.

You would? That's so nice. But this is crazy. Crazy. Okay, you guys, I'm concerned. about these people. Spring always feels like a little. reminder to check in with yourself and. ask, "What actually feels like me right. now? Not what's trending, just what. feels good for you in this season of. your life.". And honestly, I think self-expression. shows up in the smallest places. How you.

start your morning, how you take a. break, how you treat yourself in the. middle of a busy day. And for me, that little moment of self-expression is. my Starbucks order. It's such a simple. thing, but I love that I can walk in and. make my drink feel like mine every. single time. If you know me, you know I. am obsessed with an extra hot and venti. chai latte, whole milk, seven pumps.

chai, seven pumps classic, no water. It's cozy, it's bold, it's exactly what. I want. But honestly, what I love about. Starbucks right now is that they. refreshed their chai. So, you can. actually customize the sweetness level. And you guys know I love options. I am. loyal to my go-to order, like truly. loyal, but now I can switch things up. depending on my mood. Some days I'm. sticking with my classic. Other days I'm. like, "Okay, I want to be a little.

spicy, a little less sweet, maybe add a. seasonal twist." I love that my drink. can basically match my energy of that. day. And that's what I love about. Starbucks, that there's no right way to. order your chai. Especially now that you. can customize the sweetness of your. chai, change the milk, add the cold. foam. You get to build your drink around. your mood, your routine, your vibe of. that day. Some days I want comfort, and some days.

I want to switch it up. And some days I just want that something. that feels familiar. That's the kind of. energy I'm trying to bring into spring. Choosing myself in little ways, even in. something as small as customizing my. coffee order. It's not about perfection. It's about. letting your everyday routines reflect. who you are right now. Customize your. chai your way at Starbucks. Order now on. the app.

Me and my boyfriend, I'm 34, he's 35, have been together for 8 years. Still no. ring, but that's a whole other. conversation. We have two kids together, a 5-year-old and a 2-year-old. We both. work and I recently started working from. home because of our toddler. My. boyfriend is very religious and grew up. Christian. I grew up atheist and I'm. still not religious. When we first got. together, we knew we had different. beliefs, but it wasn't a huge issue. Once we had kids, he wanted them to go. to church regularly. I agreed that he.

could take them and introduce them to. his faith. I don't stop him and I don't. speak negatively about it. Here's the. issue. Sundays are the only time I get. alone. Since I work from home and take. care of our 2-year-old most of the week, I'm constantly on. When he takes both. kids to church on Sunday mornings, it's. the only time I get to meal prep for the. week, pack my oldest school lunch and do. laundry in peace. And sometimes take a. nap. It's literally the only quiet, uninterrupted time I have. My boyfriend.

says that by not going, I'm not. supporting his beliefs and that we. should be going as a family. I feel like. I am supporting him by not interfering. and letting him raise the kids with his. faith. I just don't personally believe. in it and I also desperately need that. time to reset so I don't burn out. So, listen, I'm not here to convince you. to. go towards any faith. I actually think. how you're handling this is really fair. I think if you're solid and being an.

atheist, then. that's on you and I really respect that. you're not putting that on your kids and. I think it's beautiful that you're. letting your boyfriend take the kids and. I think you I agree with you. I think. you are supporting him. by allowing that to happen and I also. think that you like I I don't go to. church all the time. I go every now and. again, but I have church at home. Like I. do it on my own. Not saying that you.

want everyone at your house cuz I get. you need your Sunday. I love a Sunday. I. get it, girl. But I do agree. I think we. all need to reset. We all need those. days. And I think it's a beautiful thing that. you let your kids go and I think that. is perfect and one day, maybe when your. kids are older cuz they're still so. young, I'm assuming they're going to ask. you to go one day. I think you're doing. a good job. So, don't stop. I'm 18 years. old and I've been with my boyfriend. who's 19 for a little over 2 years. When.

we started dating, he was uncomfortable. with me having male friends. So, I. slowly cut them off. But he also didn't. like my female friends and called them. hoes. So, over time I ended up drifting. away from pretty much all of my friends. I haven't really hung out with anyone in. about a year and lately I've been. feeling like I'm missing out on their. lives, especially one friend I've known. since daycare who used to be one of my. closest friends. My boyfriend now says. he's fine with me having friends again. Okay.

But after everything he's said in the. past, I'm not sure I believe it. I just. really miss my friends and the life that. I had with them. So, you are 18. You're 18 and he's 19. I know you don't want to hear this, but. you guys are young. And. you need to break up with your. boyfriend. I mean, that's just he's. controlling and. he doesn't trust you. Because anyone. First of all, my best friend could be a. prostitute. Doesn't mean I'm a. prostitute. It just means that's my best.

friend and we vibe together. I think. we've all done this in different ways. When you're younger, you do sort of. alienate or cut off some of your friends. because you want to immerse yourself in. that new relationship. And then the. older you get, you realize. how much you need relationships outside. of the partnership that you have in. life. They're healthy. You need to have. your own life. You also want the. mystery. Like, it's okay for. your boyfriend not to know everything.

you did today. And then at the end of. the day, you get to talk at dinner. Like, what did you do today? And you get. to explain your day. Those moments are. great, but if you're doing everything. with your boyfriend, that's going to probably run its course. Like, you. you need to have something that's for. yourself. And you need to have friend. groups so you can vent, gossip, laugh, cry, all of those things. So, I it's it is really concerning. and sounds a little possessive and.

possibly controlling. Even saying my. boyfriend now says he's fine with me. having friends again. What? I'm not asking you for permission. Like, that's crazy. Did I get the. villain edit? My mom is 60 years old and. she recently left my stepdad who's 54. after discovering he'd been cheating on. her while traveling for work. During. that time, my sister, who's 30, was. supporting her. And one of my sister's. friends, 35-year-old male from overseas, started messaging my mom. What started.

as comforting messages turned into. flirting ones. And now my mom says she's in love with. him and texts him constantly. Oh my. gosh. My sister is uncomfortable because. this man used to be her friend, and she. believes he has a history of. manipulating women. She also thinks he. may be using my mom as a way to move. back to our country where his daughter. lives. Oh, this just sounds crazy. When. we try to raise concerns, my mom says. they're both adults and can do what they. want. My sister is upset about the. situation and feels hurt, especially.

since our mom now wants to travel across. the world for him. But previously. refused to attend my sister's wedding in. the same country because it was too. expensive. Now this is causing constant. arguments in our family. I see why. So. your mom is 60, this man is 35, so half. her age. She didn't go to your sister's wedding. because of Okay, that's also. Mom, what's wrong with you? That's. crazy. I get when you're going through a.

divorce, you want to feel young and hot. So I get if she was hooking up with the. younger guy. Her. going against her daughters and her. now doing all these things that she. wouldn't do when one of her children. were getting married, that's insulting. And that would cut. Yes, they are adults, they can do. whatever they want, but this affects you. guys. She can be sleeping with some. random 30-year-old. I don't think she. needs to be sleeping with this. particular one, but also she's your mom.

How are you going to stop this from. happening? I don't have a clue. I don't. think you're the villain. I think this. is crazy, and I think your mom is maybe. having a little bit of a midlife crisis, and her life is unraveling a little bit. because of her divorce, because this is. not rational behavior for a mother to do. to her children. And like how insulting. She She previously refused to attend my. sister's wedding in the same country. because it was too expensive, but now. she's going to go for some. Mhm.

No, thank you, Mom. So, this is a. quick-fire game that I'm going to play, and. I'm going to read different points, and. I'm going to tell you if I think they. would turn me into the villain or not. Friend who shows up 30 minutes late to. everything. Yeah, that pisses me off, but I will say it. I will be like, "Okay, you're 30 minutes late." These. people that aren't using their words, it's crazy. Use your words, cuz you got. to teach people how to treat you. Dirty. shoes in the house.

Nasty. Gross. And but I also Like I know if I'm. having a party at my house, I'm not one. of those freaks making people take their. shoes off. Like I get it. Let me buck up and get some. self-control. I know they're going to. wear their shoes. If every day, like if. you're just coming in my house, take. your shoes off. That's gross. Or wear. the booties that I've provided by the. front door. Outside clothes in the bed.

For what? You sleep there. That is sick. Sick. Gross. That's a I can go on a tangent. about that for hours. Guests who leave. every cabinet and drawer open in the. kitchen. But why? I don't understand why. people do that. And you can see it, so it's not like. "Oh, I didn't realize I did that." Yes, you did. It's horrible. Someone using. your bathroom and leaving makeup and. products all over the counter. All of. this is giving me like a lot of anxiety.

Because yeah, that's rude, but I With. that, I normally, and I think because I. have kids, like I'll just clean up. behind you. I don't get as. mad as I probably used to. but it it's rude. I would just never go. to someone's house and do that. People. who throw things into the fridge. wherever they fit, that does not happen. Nope. Like you see my fridge, it's perfectly. done. I know you know. to put it back in like the little slot.

you took it from. There's just no way. someone would play that game with me. And all the labels have to be forward. and like you just you know better. I. think. you would be. ashamed of yourself if you did something. like that to me. People who say, "We'll. just pick a restaurant when we get. there.". People say that? When they get where? >> In your pantry, is anyone allowed to. grab anything from the cookie jar? >> No, everyone can grab and so for my. pantry like Sunday Saint came over with.

like seven friends. They just and I love. that they just come over. They ride. their bikes, they come over and I know. they're over for the pantry. So I will. coach myself internally and be like, "It's fine." Like I already know they're. going to go in there. They're not crazy. messy, they're just you know, 10-year-old boys. Like I get it. So. they're not as clean as I am, but. they're touching all the food and like. looking at things and I let kids be. kids. I know it's going to be a mess. I. do my breathing techniques that I need.

to do to get through and then when they. leave, I'll go and fluff the pantry cuz. I'm psychotic. But I let kids be kids. If you're an adult, I'm like, "What the. is wrong with you?" You see the. presentation. Keep it up. But for a kid, I'm very I'm very zen about it. outwardly, not inwardly. Ah, people. chewing with their mouth open, no. It's. My kids know not to do that. It's That's. crazy. Someone not saying thank you.

Huge pet peeve of mine. Tatum is three, says thank you and please all the time. or I don't do what he wants. Like that's. how you teach someone. Like I'm sorry, what did you say? What's the magic word? I think feel like we all know that. stuff. So people that don't say please. and thank you, mm. Someone who's rude to wait staff. I find. this so horrible when you're rude, condescending, like. Oh, when people like I just can't. I. hate when people mistreat anyone that's.

helping you. Like it it's crazy. Don't like that. And that's not a turn. on and it doesn't make you look cool. It. makes you look like a big ass loser. Someone cutting in line. It bothers me, but if someone cuts in line, I'm. literally like, I see you, do you, you're. why? But I don't get that upset about. that. I'm more just I make sure that. they see me and I give them eye contact, but I'm like, there's. I'm assuming some reason why you had to. do that, but I think that's crazy and.

we're adults. Someone on their phone. during a conversation. I hate when. someone isn't present. I also really. don't like when you're in a car with. someone and they're on this phone call. loud, yapping and you're in this tight. space. If you tell someone, "Oh my. gosh." Like if I'm going to Palm. Springs, let's say. And I'm like, "I. have this car ride, but I need to take. this phone call." Like if you prep. someone, if someone knows, I get it. If. you're just talking to casually talk and. I'm now all of a sudden you're driver, I.

think that's so rude. No. Someone. hovering too close in line. If you're a close talker, if you're a. close stander, if you're a close any of. that, that's weird. Personal space. I need personal space. Oh, this one gets me. People who leave. dishes in the sink instead of the. dishwasher. This happens all the time. The. dishwasher is right there. Just put it. there. I don't want dishes in the sink. That's horrible.

Gross. When someone borrows something. and never returns it. Super annoying, but cuz my. my mom sometimes does that. Or used to. do it, but now we take pictures and. like, "What did you borrow?" cuz she we. live on the same property, basically. And she'll just come to my closet. and and I we're the best sharers. My. mom's an incredible sharer. I'm a great. sharer. But I have to literally be like, "Let me take picture of this so I know. to get it back later." Someone who. leaves the microwave with the time still.

on it. So that personally bothers me. I try to. be better with that. Like if when. there's 1 second left and you didn't. clear it I'm like, "Just. clear it." But it doesn't like kill me. I try to be better with that. >> Uh when people talk during movies. >> I don't like when people talk during. movies. But I am. like a movie commenter. I'll be like, "Who is this girl?" Like I get so into. it if I'm into it. What I cannot stand.

is cuz I go to a basketball game to. watch basketball. I'm not there. to sit in the seats and talk with you. And it's so loud. If any of you've ever. been to a basketball game, the arena is. so loud. You can't really talk anyway. So someone has to be so close to you to. talk. I cannot stand when I'm at a. basketball game and I'm with someone and. they're just chit-chatting. No. Let's. watch the game. And one. Like I want to. know what's happening.

So I'm not into people that talk during. sports games. I had so much fun. This is. my first time playing this game and I. hope you guys like it. I want to see all. of your comments. I'm going to be. reading them on YouTube. This was so. much fun and I hope I get to do an. episode like this again. You guys know. what Wednesdays are for and they are for. Wonderlands. See you next Wednesday.