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how many times have you heard somebody. say you know what I'm going to sleep on. it and then they wake up in the morning. with Clarity they don't know where. they've been or what's happened but they. all of a sudden have Clarity we are. recharging much more than our physical. bodies when we sleep that's our. Clairvoyant Vision coming but Clare. audience is when you would hear a. thought that would come to you that's. not yours it could be the voice of a. loved one who is crossed it could be. guidance you might hear from what I'd. refer to as a spirit guide other people. would call a guardian angel telling you. yes or no or to do something and then. they'll ignore it or dismiss it cuz it's.

so weird or it doesn't fit this. materialistic Paradigm this is clear. knowing it's when you all of a sudden. have this just download of absolute. knowing or information and there's no. way you could logically explain how you. know it hey everyone I've got some huge. news to share with you in the last 90. days. 79.4% of our audience came from viewers. and listeners that are not subscribed to. this channel there's research that shows. that if you want to create a habit make. it easy to ACC by hitting the Subscribe.

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happier healthier and more healed and. today's guest is someone that I've been. wanting to have in this seat for a long. long time I've been a big fan of her. books her work we have a lot of mutual. friends in common who couldn't stop. talking about how incredible she is and. finally I get to sit down with her I'm. talking about Laura Lynn Jackson the. author of these two incredible books the. Light Between Us and signs the secret. language of the universe if you haven't. read these books I highly recommend you. grab a copy right now I'm so excited to.

talk to Laura ly Jackson Laura welcome. to on purpose thank you so much I'm so. excited to be here in the space with you. honestly I mean it when I say that I. love it when a friend says to me Jay I. really think you need to have this. person on your show and I know them and. we're friends and everyone speaks just. so highly of you your work of course. being exposed to your books was a gift. to me so thank you for doing the work. that you do and thank you for making. time today making space and energy to be.

here with me too I'm so honored to be. here and I love that I find that you. know light seeks light and there are. circles of friends that come together. and I think expand our own connections. right it's so beautiful those chords of. connection that happen absolutely well. Laura I think today is going to be both. educational and enlightening for all of. us and so I want to make sure that we. really explain things to people if. they're new to the ideas and then I also. want to kind of get lost with you. because I have so many things that I. want to ask and kind of co-create.

together and so my first question is. that you're both a psychic and a medium. could you explain for our listeners and. viewers what that means and what the. similarities or differences are so that. anyone who's learning for the first time. is brought up to speed absolutely I. think it's so important to understand. what that is um being psychic and. reading psychically really means that I. am tuning into and reading what would be. called an aura or an energy field that. each one of us has you know scientist. call it a biofield um people in my.

industry call it an aura and really. within that energy field is all sorts of. information um information about a. person's past present future I will see. chords of connection between people here. to people they love who are part of. their lives I'll see sometimes something. I call Soul cycles for the person I'm. reading for when I'm reading psychically. which looks like a timeline a historical. timeline with lines drawn down um but. the lines that are drawn down are. important moments on that person's life.

Journey decisions they've made um people. they've met um decisions um that have. found them that they had to have the. courage to say yes to and open the door. to and so forth um I might also see um a. soul cycle where they were locked into a. certain time period of learning let's. say from you know age 19 to 23 I'll see. a soul cycle there and it can be very. interesting too when it has to do with. somebody's past Soul Cycles because a.

lot of times in lives I think we lose. perspective and might feel stuck like I. was stuck there I was stuck in that. thing and I couldn't make a shift or a. change but meanwhile that was a period. that they were meant to be locked into a. certain Soul cycle or lesson of learning. maybe it was for them maybe they were. the Catalyst for somebody else to learn. so it can be really interesting in that. sense I'll see uh Soul cycles that are. coming from them for them as well I'll. see people in colors uh which is a whole. language of energy and meaning to me I. can see um the maybe gifts they came.

here with some of the Soul challenges. they were meant to face and what comes. next uh so all of that I categorize. under reading psychically um being a. medium is very different when I read. mediumistic what I'm really doing is I'm. connecting with the Consciousness or the. energy of someone who's no longer in a. physical body and for me that experience. is very different when I read. psychically I like to say I'm retrieving. information I'll I'll reach out or I'll. look and when I read mediumistic I just.

sit back and I receive information it's. very much for me like meeting all new. people and personalities come through. and information comes through um it's a. very interesting experience for me too. because when I read psychically I I get. this inner screen that that kind of. shows up in my third eye inner mind kind. of looks like a widescreen TV or uh like. a movie theater screen and all my. psychic information always comes on the. left hand side and all my mediumship.

always comes on the right so it's very. easy for me to tell when I'm Switching. gears when I'm getting information. psychically versus mediumistic um when I. read mediumistic what will happen for me. is I'll see a point of light come in on. my screen and depending on where it. comes in on my screen I have can have a. good sense of whom I'm speaking with um. the upper right hand side is reserved. for anybody who I'm reading who I would. refer to as a sitter for the sitter's. mother's side of the family anybody. who's crossed there the bottom right is. reserved for anybody on the sitter's. father's side of the family and then in. the middle is for everyone else peers.

friends extended family pets anybody. else can come in in the middle so for me. there are two very different ways of. receiving information energetically one. is retrieving it or looking and one is. receiving it from Consciousness outside. of physical body beautifully explained. thank you so much that's that's so. useful and when I was listening to you I. was thinking is that something that. you're doing for example when you're. reading. psychically is that something that doing. at all times and it's happening all.

around you or is that something that you. consciously specifically have to sit. down and perform a set and practice to. do that for example do people come in. front of you like I am now going like we. do around dentists we like don't look at. my teeth because they feel you know you. feel being judged do are you reading all. the time or is this a specific practice. that has to take place that's such a. great question um psychically in terms. of psychically reading I always have my. volume switch on probably around a a gr. or so I can never shut that off so I'm.

always receiving information in a way. that we might not be used to right we're. living in this materialistic Paradigm of. of world and we're taught we have five. senses but I'm always reading energy and. it's very helpful for me it helps me. navigate my world and my life uh I would. never purposely psychically peek at. anybody's energy to me that's very. disrespectful you know there like. everybody's energy is sacred and I would. it'd be like peeking at somebody's. underwear to see what color they're. wearing I would never do that with. without permission agreed upon um could.

I do it I suppose I could and maybe in. my you know teens and early 20s I maybe. didn't honor it the right way and I. would kind of look and see what I could. find out about somebody by reading. psychically but it's not something I'd. ever do now um you know I think we all. have psychic abilities and for some it's. more pronounced than others but I think. people use them more than they know to. navigate their worlds uh and it's a. beautiful thing it's a gift we all have. it's there for the taking but I do think. need to be respectful of it so no I.

would never purposely psychically read. for somebody unless it was agreed upon. to me that's a sacred thing mediumistic. though that's a very different story um. I keep my mediumship abilities closed. like a bank vault when unless I am. actively sitting down to read someone. and the reason for that really is. because I could read psychically. constantly and I'll never get drained if. I were a cell phone after 24 hours of. always being on psychically may be at an. 89% then I go to sleep right mediumistic.

if I read for an hour two hours I go. from being 100% to a 2% and it's an. energy thing I can feel it and if I. overdo it or I try to push my limits by. reading mediumistic a lot I'll get. physically ill so I've learned to keep. that door shut but the psychic stuff. always stays on it does wow yeah well. I'm I'm glad now I can relax but no it's. it's good to know that and I think there. are a couple of things that I want to. dive into a moment you mentioned two.

really fascinating things and everyone. who's listening I will get to them you. said that we all have psychic abilities. so we will talk about that I'm. fascinated about that you also talked. about how you can read energy and you. think it's useful to be able to do that. we'll get back to that I want to start. with you just mentioned your teens and. your 20s you've been doing this a long. time when did you discover these. abilities what is that process of. discovery like from I have a sense to oh. this is a skill and what does that. Journey look like through when did you.

discover it and then how do you turn a. discovery into a distinct ability which. is what it is today I love that you're. making the distinction between. discovering something and then really. honoring it and working to create it. into a skill that can help others right. so I think I you know I was psychic. since being a child I would see people. in colors I would very quickly. understand if somebody had this kind of. blue aura to them that day I could get. along with them it would be great if.

they had red frazzle energy I'd avoid. them I would feel what other people were. feeling you know that's just that's. called being an empath but it never. occurred to me that other people didn't. experience that too I thought that's how. the life that life worked that way. that's how the world worked but about. age of 11 um I realized there was. something what I label as wrong with me. or very different about me and I. wasn't happy about it um you know when I. was 11 years old I remember it was a Hot. August day I was swimming in my swimming. pool and my mother called out to tell me.

she was going to go visit my. grandparents they lived about an hour. away and we'd see them you know every. other weekend and I was seized by this. absolute moment of it felt like panic. and knowing at the same time that I. needed to go be there with my. grandfather that day I'm soaking wet in. the swimming pool and I'm like Mom you. have to wait for me and she's like Laura. are you kidding me it's like school. starts in a week this is your last like. dog days of a summer you're in the. swimming pool really and I was like I. need to come with you my brother and. sister were in the pool too they didn't.

get that psychic download so they stayed. and swam quickly changed went to my. grandparents house and I had the most. magnificent day with my grandfather was. just the two of us we were laughing and. joking and he was such a a beautiful. force of love in my childhood you know. such an important person in my soul and. when it was time to leave I remember. hugging him and saying goodbye and that. I loved him and that was the last time I. ever saw him alive 3 days later he was. diagnosed with Advanced leukemia was. sent straight to the hospital and he had. he died within two weeks and in those.

days unless you were 16 years old you. couldn't go visit someone in the. hospital so none of us got to go see him. and I remember being really haunted by. that knowing because what I quickly. realized is is what I had felt in that. in the pool that day that download of. absolute knowing was that I knew I. needed to go be with him and that I knew. on some very deep spiritual level that. this was my last time seeing him and. that he was going to cross and so I. remember you know pretty quickly. confessing to my mother and saying to. her mom you know I think there's. something really wrong with me I think.

that I am you know maybe cursed or like. dark or broken or haunted because you. know people are not supposed to know. when people they love so much are going. to die right and she said to me oh Laura. you know and I don't know what I did. this lifetime to get the mother I did. because she's just extraordinary she. said to me Laura no part of you is. broken or dark or haunted you just have. an extra ability is all and then she. confessed that this ability had run in. our family for Generations.

um My grandmother used to have dreams. that somebody would die and wake up and. find out they had died at that exact. time of her dream uh when my aunt was. younger right around age 11 the phone. rang at my grandparents house and my. aunt blurted out oh it's Germany calling. to say that my uncle's died and she. didn't even know she had a distant uncle. there sure enough it was relatives in. Germany calling to say that my. grandmother's brother had crossed and. you know at the time she was told like. we're never speaking about this again it.

was something that was kind of hidden. but I think in that moment my mom gave. me permission by telling me no part of. me was dark or broken or cursed and that. I was meant to embrace this so then I. was like great I have this ability I'm. part of this club that it wasn't sure I. was happy to be part of but I was part. of but what was I meant to do with it. you know and I definitely did not treat. it as respectfully as I should growing. up you know I it was a very handy tool. in bars to hit on guys and read like who. I'd be a good energy match with and I.

remember you know one of my boyfriends I. walked up to and I was like so your name. starts with a J your dad's on the other. side you have a seven-year-old brother. but I told him all this stuff about him. he's like are you a stalker and I'm like. no I'm just psychic you know it's just. normal how did that go right uh well we. dated for like two years until I was. like that relationship had run its. course you know it was a beautiful. growing thing but meant to move on as as. often times relationships are um but it. took me a while to recognize that oh was. an ability I could use to help people.

and I remember um one of my sari sisters. in college uh was really stressed and. really upset about graduation to the. point where she couldn't think about. anything else because she had been. dating this boyfriend and she didn't. know what the future held and so you. know all my my friends knew I had these. abilities so she came over to my house. one day and I sat down and I did what. would be called a reading for her you. know I said you know what you're going. to end up marrying your husband you're. going to have three kids this is and I. could just feel her energy changing and. that did all come true she did did get. married had three kids all of that um.

but I could feel like her sense of Peace. inside calming and I realized this is. something I really am meant to honor and. share with others it's not for me it's. not for me to know certain things and. that sort of it's really to share with. the world um and it took me a while to. really honor it in the right ways and. then my journey led me to uh want to. help people in grief I spent 20 years a. high school English teacher and I did. this in secret and I tested for an.

organization called for the forever. Family Foundation uh in 2005 where I was. um I had to go get I had to go to a. hotel room and there were people set up. at different stations I had to just give. them readings and they couldn't say a. word they just had to score me but if. you pass you could help people in graef. and I really wanted to help parents who. had lost children um volunteer right and. so I passed uh their test and that's. when I think I really started honoring. this in the right and most respectful. way and I would just volunteer a lot and. go on Grief Retreats and I'd help.

connect people here on Earth with their. loved ones who had crossed and also. teach them that they didn't need me in. order to do that and that's when I think. it really became much more of a skill uh. and then I wanted to work with. Scientists as well because I think this. field is so um disrespected I get it you. know it's certainly woo woo and I think. it's really interesting because a lot of. the top universities have had these s. laabs these Labs that explore psychic. ability AB ilities Princeton had one.

Harvard's developing one UVA still has. one but a lot of times the academics. don't want to go near this right so I. think it's very important that I work. with scientists and that I volunteer to. be tested to find out how this ability. works for me and how we can all access. this um so my journey definitely led me. to that and I think the more you. practice anything the better you get you. know if I were to pick up a violin and. then practice every single day and. utilize that skill and ability every. single day I'd get pretty good at it and.

so for me I'm never separated from the. other side and what I do and so I do. think in time I came to understand that. it was a gift that I was meant to share. with others that I'm really here I think. as a teacher more than anything to teach. people how to access this part of. themselves and connect with it because. you can transform your life it become so. much more beautiful and meaningful and. all of those things so that's the the. long story of how I got to where I am. today well no thank you so much for. sharing that and you mentioned science. there and I wanted to touch you actually. had scientists put EG uh scanners on.

your brain right like they actually. looked into what did they find was. different that was fascinating to me um. so what they found is that number one my. brain does not look normal from the. start um they did recording of just. what's called like a baseline brain wave. level right before I start to read. psychically or mediumistic and it was. 97.5 consistent with how the brain wave. activity of someone who had suffered.

traumatic brain injury brain a of. activity would be but my brain is intact. and it's not damaged so there's. something a little anomalous about my. brain to begin with when I go into. psychic mode and mediumship mode my. brain looks different in both ways how I. said that um when I read psychically I. see things on the leftand screen and. when I read medium mystically it's on. the the right well what they found in my. brain is that um you know our optic. Fields Chris cross and so when I would.

be reading psychically my brain wave. activity would show that I was seeing. something from the left hand side when I. was reading psychically and when I was. reading mediumistic it would do the. opposite it would show this optic nerve. would light up showing that I was seeing. something that wasn't there that one. thing the other thing was that my brain. wave patterns looked very similar to. interestingly monks when they meditate. um you know I kind of blew out their. charts too in terms of measuring my. brain waves are usually between I want. to say um let's say 0 to 60 and mine.

were at 120 160 at points um you know my. brain races it does some interesting. thing but the most important thing they. found is that when I go into psychic and. mediumship mode my brain wave of. activity in my frontal lobe which really. stretches from about here to here. silences it looks like I'm comos the. brain w activity just goes down and. different parts of my brain start. lighting up um the most distinct things. seems to be like the back right hand.

side and that area of the brain um it's. where part of like um different lobes. intersect has been noticed and noted to. have a lot of brain wave activity and. people who have had um brain damage that. kind of shifts their sense of self out. of themsel to being connected to all. things and causes them to become very. empathetic so my brain w patterned that. as well where I just get into this super. connected empathetic State when I read.

which I can verify when what I love. about reading is you know dayto day I'm. driving in traffic and somebody cuts me. off I'm going to get annoyed like I'm. going to have a hard time having. unconditional love for that person but. the minute I read for somebody if I have. a session with somebody I feel. unconditional love for that person for. the rest of my life there is some. magical cord of energy and connection. and beauty and light and love that. happens when I go into someone's energy. like that that can't be undone and it is.

such a gift for me every time just to. feel unconditional love for people it's. just amazing and so that seems to be. what my brain shows I'm doing as well. going into this really deep meditative. state of empathy and connection and love. that's that's so beautiful to hear that. and it's almost like that idea of when. you study or understand someone's. history when you gain context on their. experience when you learn why they are. the way they are and I guess through. through your experience you're learning.

that in the most intimate way it gives. you such a different perspective to look. at them through and I'm glad you. mentioned there the signs were on monks. brains I remember interviewing Matthew. Rickard who's dubbed the world's. happiest man because when they scanned. his brain they found the most presence. of Happiness learning and being in the. moment and those were the three signs. they looked at for sparking Joy or or. happiness but you mentioned there. earlier that you've you see yourself as.

a teacher to help people get better at. this and to get almost get better at. sensing energy and you've obviously. always been able to do that and it's. really interesting when you describe it. in the way you do because I feel I'm. good at sensing energy not not in a. psychic ability way but in a personal. navigation of the world way and that is. such a strength and so useful for. friendships for work and it's really. interesting because sometimes I'll sense. it but still go against it too and I.

think I think a lot of us who are. unpracticed uh would say that we do that. as well but let's start with the psychic. abilities you think we all have that we. use but we're not aware of what would. you say they are you know I find it so. funny that you just said well I'm. reading energy but it's not psychic it. absolutely is psychic you know I think. the word psychic is such like this word. nobody wants to touch these oh no I. meant more as in I'm not skilled and. trained no no but you are but I'm also. think the words psychic for many people. is such like a o like I don't want to go.

near that the history of the world word. right is so rought in like fraud and. like you picture just like a neon sign. and that sort of thing but I think we. are all psychic and and by that I mean. we're all energy readers and I think it. is a skill that some people are better. at than they realize like expert level. like J honestly Jay I think you're an. expert level energy reader I really do. and I don't necessarily think you think. of yourself that way but I think you're. just using it in the most fluid and.

beautiful way to guide you to the people. you're meant to connect to maybe things. you're supposed to say no to and avoid. whatever that may be you know I love. that you brought up the studies um on uh. re Matthew rard Matthew rard I remember. reading that chapter in your book and. saying oh my gosh this is so similar. because one of the ways they measure. happiness right is by looking at gamma. rays increasing and so that was. something really interesting when I do. readings too my games go off the charts.

um here's the thing we all have that. ability you know what the scientists. have have told me is that there seems to. be some sort of switch in my brain that. I just know where it is and it's also. very easy for me to turn on and off but. we all have that switch I think we're. all born very psychic and very connected. to the place we came from to one another. and before we have formal language we're. just reading energy we're reading The. Energy of all things and and that's how. we navigate our world then what happens.

well usually between around Age 5 to 7. we start formal schooling and we get. very locked into the frontal lobe of our. brain because here's what the frontal. lob's in charge of analytical thinking. critical thinking MTH skills language. skills all the day-to-day stuff we need. and when we come to school we learn and. we just get stuck and tracked in that. part of our brain so it's really just. reintroducing ourselves to that pathway. back into our knowings our deep.

connection with what I call the other. side with energy with understanding how. to access it and the most important. thing is is learning to honor it one. thing you said is like I'll get these. you know knowings or I'll read the. energy but sometimes I go against it. that's so true for all of us you know. there are so many different ways we. might get information psychically I. always talk about our psychic toolbox. that we're born with and we'll never. relieve us we just have to learn to re.

access I call it the four claes there's. Clairvoyance which means clear seeing. and that's like you know when you sleep. at night and you dream and your physical. eyes are closed but you are vividly. seeing that's our Clairvoyant eye right. that what other cultures have called the. third eye having your third eye open. it's the same thing that I see when I'm. reading and I'm watching my screen but. everybody has access to it and every. single person uses it every night. interestingly enough too the only time. that our frontal lobe goes offline is. when we sleep so every night we have. this incredible opportunity to connect.

spiritually how many times have you. heard somebody say you know what I'm. going to sleep on it and then they wake. up in the morning with Clarity they. don't know where they've been or what's. happened but they all of a sudden have. Clarity we are recharging much more than. our physical bodies when we sleep but. Clairvoyance is definitely one of the. abilities and I've I've heard a lot that. people who practice yoga when they will. be doing yoga poses will all of a sudden. get Flash images in what they call their. Mind's Eye that's our Clairvoyant Vision. coming um Clare audience is another one. it means clear hearing and it's when you. hear a thought that's not yours you know.

we all have subtexts going on in our. minds every day our own personal. narratives the stories we're telling. ourselves about our own lives and that's. a whole another discussion about how to. shift that into the positive and how. important our thought energy is but CLA. audience is when you would hear a. thought that would come to you that's. not yours it could be the voice of a. loved ones who's who is crossed it could. be guidance you might hear from what I'd. refer to as a spirit guide other people. would call a guardian angel telling you. yes or no or to do something it's very. rare but some people you know will have.

those moments of clar audience and then. they'll ignore it or dismiss it because. it's so weird or it doesn't fit this. materialistic Paradigm there is CLA. cognizance which most people have and. can identify this this is CLA knowing. it's when you all of a sudden have this. just download of absolute knowing or. information and there's no way you could. logically explain how you know it maybe. you're driving and you're like I'm not. going to take the short way home I'm. going to take the long way home today. and you do it you honor it you get home. to find out that there was some acess. acent that closed down the road you. wouldn't have known about um you know.

clar cognizant knowings can happen when. you meet people like I know I meant to. to know that person or be on their path. or maybe I'm not um it can be about. switching careers it can be about moving. a lot of times when we get clar. cognizant knowings they're. counterintuitive so we'll argue and. we'll like wrestle with it with what you. know meditation teachers call that. frontal loobe which is the monkey mind. that Chatters and Chatters right um and. so we'll wrestle with it and try and. reject that but it's so important to I. think honor our clear cognizant knowings. and then the one that everybody has but.

some people's volume switches are like a. one or a zero and other people's are at. a 10 is clar sentience and clar. sentience means clear feeling it's all. about reading energy it takes place. right in our solar plexus area we. actually can feel energy there which is. a lot of reasons when people say oh I. have such a strong gut feeling on that. is because they're being cognizant of. that feeling they're having in their. stomach and their solar plexus area of. reading energy so you know that can be. such an incredible tool when we meet.

people for the first time we don't just. meet them in the 3D we meet their energy. and we're going to get an instant read. on it and people who are very open clar. sentient and have purposely open to that. right they will feel one of three things. they will either feel um neutral like. okay this person's okay we're just kind. of passing each other in the Stream of. of energy and life or they might feel. what I call an allergic reaction of the. person Which is less about judgment and. more about not my cup of tea not on my. highest path I need to avoid or and this.

is interesting when it happens you might. feel this magnet pull to the person that. you just can't explain how you know it. like I need to know you I need to be. your friend we have a shared Journey get. whatever it might be um and you know. that might prompt you to do some things. that might be a little awkward by. today's you know day and age like when. I've met people that I've known have. been put here to be let's say one of my. closest friends I have literally gone up. to them in very awkward ways one I was. 13 I went up to this girl Gwen and I was.

like hi I'm Laura and we're meant to be. friends this lifetime and she's still. one of my closest friends decades later. right I did it with another friend. Stephanie like I'll just have these. knowings but it's not just unique to me. we all have them I think it's so. important to trust our clar sentient. polls you know the other gift of being. clar sentient is you can feel the energy. of places so when you travel you feel. the patina that's there and when you see. art or experience art you're diving into. that in this beautiful way so those are.

the abilities that's the psychic toolbx. that's available to all of us we just. have to be reminded of the pathway to. get back to that because we couldn't be. separated from that if we tried that's. so beautiful thank you so much and. that's so clear as well I love the way. you've laid out a psychic talk it that. and it resonates I was listening to you. and thinking I've often said when people. have said to me like why do you think. you've been able to do certain things. that are considered risky or difficult. at different times and I've always said. because I started listening to my inner.

voice when I was 14 and when I was 14 it. was really loud and I remember as you're. talking about school I remember school. was developing and my parents were. guiding me into subject matters I think. the first thing I ever heard my inner. voice really clearly say was don't study. the stuff your parents want you to study. like you don't need to work on those. things there's something else for you. and I'm sure there was a voice for that. day as well but that's when I remember. it being really confident and strong and.

loud and that's when I decided I would. do Art and Design and philosophy and. things like that that I was passionate. about as opposed to science and math and. things that my parents wanted me to do. and it was such a big decision at the. time looking back it feels like such a. small decision but actually it was huge. because the real decision- making that. was happening was not what subject to. study but whether to listen to the Inner. Voice or the outer voices and that was. the real decision I was making and I. feel that ever since that age that inner.

voice has just got louder and louder and. louder W so today it's really hard to. ignore it because it's so strong and so. when I joined the monastery it was the. inner voice when I left the monastery it. was the inner voice when I tried to. pursue this path that I'm on right now. as the inner voice and even until this. day I just have to find it's what you. said though I have to still keep. reconnecting back to it because it's so. easy for it to get made weaker just as. easy it is to strengthen and it's it's.

just like that muscle I'm either tuned. in or I'm tuned out and there are plenty. of weeks that can go by where I feel. disconnected and then you have to. reconnect so while you were talking. there was so many parts of it that I was. like oh yeah I've done that. subconsciously or I've done that. sometimes consciously and even when you. were saying a sense of knowing it's. really interesting to me there are. people in my life today in the same way. that I have gone up to and said exactly. what you just said where I said we're. going to be friends and and I've been.

friends with them for years and years. and years and they find it funny as well. now and they've started doing it with. other people that they feel connected to. because they saw that I wasn't scared or. shy of the rejection or the awkwardness. or the weirdness that may develop what. do you think has you gave a great. example there of school and that frontal. lobe which I think is such a great. explanation of the activity of the. frontal lobe and the focus there. what else do you think has kind of. disconnected us from that inner voice or.

weakened us and that connection that we. have to these psychic abilities you know. I I want to comment a little bit about. some of the things you said that I find. so fascinating the first is you said. that you've had this inner voice as like. the dominant way that you have been. guided in your life and that is. certainly a very spiritual inner voice. right that that's what I'm talking about. when I'm talking about Clare audience. which I have to tell you too is the. rarest of all of them I meet very few.

people who are actually cognizant of it. and have owned it so I find that. fascinating um I'd love to hear in a. little bit too like what you think that. inner voice is right I also find it. fascinating that you said that really. became very pronounced around what age. 14 for you I have found too that between. ages let's say 11 and 14 usually that. time period our psychic abilities they. kind of reopen and turn on I think it. has to do with like biochemical hormones. how we access our brain how things are. working right where all of a sudden we.

get a second chance to reopen to them. and I have found if you honor them then. and stay open to them it stays for life. it's really really wonderful so that's. fascinating the other thing to me too is. I have found that when I have been in. the energy of someone I call um someone. who's here on what I call a global Soul. Mission there are certain. characteristics I'll see about that. person I'll certainly see their colors. in a certain way and I haven't purposely. looked at yours because I've haven't had. permission to but what I will tell you.

is that I do know that you came here on. a so a global Soul Mission which means. you know many people are born into. certain families in certain areas and. they're meant to learn every lesson. their soul is meant to learn in that. little microcosm existence almost like a. little snow globe right because we're. really just here to love and be loved. Earth is a school for our souls and um. most people will stay within a certain. area certain family certain they'll have. a certain reach but every now and then. somebody comes here on a global Soul. Mission and so that was never your your.

your blueprint You Were Meant to um. reach and influence strangers a world. away that you will never be really even. be able to understand your pos positive. influence one of the characteristics is. that they have that knowing or it's been. announced to them at a younger age and I. feel like what you're describing. happened for you at age 14 was really. just a characteristic of some here on a. global Soul Mission I love that you've.

listened the other thing I wanted to ask. you about that is when you've gotten. that um you've gotten that like hearing. that inner voice right has it come in a. neutral sense of just like an absolute. knowing so when you were told like. you're not going to study that this is a. different path that you're meant to be. on was it um like a yay or a oh no or. was it just an absolute calm knowing. that was given to you I'd say it felt. calm but firm right and then you can. react after right like it wasn't fearful.

and it wasn't forceful it was peaceful. but firm in that knew the direction it. was absolutely there wasn't it's almost. like there is no other choice like how. can there be like that that that kind of. knowingness for those decisions that I. pointed out which were like the bigger. decisions in life kind of like I I. especially see it pronounced in what you. were saying where you know you were. saying you go up to people and you. sometimes will share like these are the. big events in their life the big moments. to me when I look at the biggest events. in my life they were all Against the.

Grain lots of people disagreed with me. but I just knew inside of me that they. were the right decision and that's how. firm but peaceful it was it I didn't. need to convince others I didn't need. others to be on my side I didn't feel. like everyone had to understand me I was. like I get it it's there that kind of. feeling if that makes sense it makes. perfect sense you know you're speaking. my language it's it's so nice to be. around somebody who has had the same. experiences of what I'd call knowings um. that I have and I think we all get I.

think it's so important when we have. those moments of knowing whatever they. may be to honor it and I think that's. something that everybody can do in in. his or her life right they can focus on. that they can honor it and they can act. on that I think our inner. World influences the outer World in. every way right and so it's our. relationship with oursel the The. Narrative we have in our own mind of. what we're tell telling ourselves about. our Journeys and our importance here in.

terms of helping others and um being. kind and loving and forgiving and all of. that that matters but it's also the. information we're receiving you know I. believe that we all have a team of light. this is I wasn't raised with any certain. beliefs I was raised Lutheran and I you. know my first concept of God was an old. white man with a white beard and a white. robe who was all about love but I very. quickly began to I think evolve beyond. that just because of the experiences I. was having and the readings I was doing. and the information I was getting and so.

I very quickly began to understand that. oh I absolutely believe in God and a. higher power and it is this source of. just love and light and connection. between all things that is inherent in. us we are part of we couldn't be. separated and can guide us in the most. extraordinary ways into our highest way. of being here right but then I also. began to understand that we each had a. team of light and and God was one part. part of that team of light and the the. other part was what I call Spirit guides.

you know which throughout time and. history different religions have called. Guardian Angels this this realm of. angelic being Consciousness call it. whatever you want that guides us and. mentors us you know and from what I've. come to understand most of us between. have between one and three it's nobody. we knew this lifetime it's just Advanced. Angelic beings that guide us and a lot. of times they will use our four claes to. communicate with us and guide us what's. interesting to me is that your team. clearly uses clear audience which is.

amazing um our teams of light will reach. us in different ways too sometimes in. the dream state we'll have precognitive. dreams that guide us or you know things. of that nature but we all have that. there whether we you know have have a. sense of having Spirit guides or not. they're still helping us you know some. people get very caught up on like what. their guides look at what like what are. their names I don't think we we need to. focus on that it's really the least. complicated relationship we ever have. they're just here to help us if we. ignore them they just circle back and. help us again and then the third part of. our team of light is anybody we loved.

who has crossed to The Other Side Pets. included ancestors included they're part. of our soul group too and they help. guide us and and do that as well and. lead us on our highest paths um and. here's the thing everybody has a team of. light you know they're there for the. taking to access and help you and if you. if you've never really dived into your. spiritual self it's never too late it's. just about opening but I've completely. strayed from the question. no it's actually no no no but that's. really useful because it it helps me ask.

a better question actually if no no. genuinely if if let's say and this is. what I hear from a lot of people and. that's why I think I'm hoping that this. conversation is really going to help. them when I talk about that personal. experience I had it's it's more rare. because most people feel they learn to. switch off their inner voice at 14 yes. so more people that I speak to and I'm. sure people who are listening and. watching to us today would say Jay I was. taught to turn that off like when I Rose.

my voice or when I was assertive or when. I was firm or when I felt like I was. told to shy away from that or I was told. to fit in or you know step in line or. whatever it may be that someone received. from their family parents friends. whatever it may have been so I found a. lot of people have done the opposite. where they've actually weakened or. disconnected from that voice and now if. they're here sitting listening to us. right now they're thinking I want to get. back to that like I want to be be able. to know I don't want to have to and. that's what I like about your work so.

much is because you're telling people. you don't need to have a psychic to tell. you or you don't need something external. to tell you you can actually tune in. yourself so I guess my better question. is how do people who disconnected early. on reconnect now because it's almost. like you had a best friend who you. stopped talking to and now you got to. pick up the phone back to them and. you're uncomfortable to have that. conversation because you haven't talked. to them in 30 years and you don't know. how it's going to go right and you're. like is this going to work and here's. the thing it will absolutely work you.

know I'm really the anti- bus model in. the sense that as a psychic media I'm. like nobody needs me nobody needs to. come to me let me show you how you can. do this yourself and how you can reais. this part of yourself that is sacred and. so important and so connected and. incredible and light filled and will. lead you on a path of love and help you. find your highest path here you know how. do we do that it's so easy it starts. with one simple step which is intention.

so you get quiet within yourself and you. say to your team of light you don't even. have to really know who they are yet. just have to have that sense of being. part of something greater than yourself. and you say okay I'm all in please help. open me up you know I like to add more. to that and I like to say use me as a. vehicle of love and healing in this. world however I can best be used you. know um guide me me teach me show me and.

I think that energy intention of wanting. to reconnect with your own abilities. with the other side to be guided by. something greater than yourself to honor. that and hold it sacred for yourself. that intention is everything because it. gives the other side permission to now. work with you and reopen you know I've. had people come to I love doing. workshops and I truly my favorite part. of teaching workshops is watching people. see the light of their own being and. recognize that they have all these.

abilities that they swore they didn't. you know so people will come to let's. say a one-day workshop and I'll do these. certain activities targeted at getting. them to use their Clairvoyant Vision so. draw something without ever seeing it or. hold an object that somebody else owns. and tell me the Impressions you get off. of it and they all say we can't do this. and they feel really foolish and then. they go and they knock it out of the. ballpark and what has then changed. within just a few hours. is their relationship with themselves. because they can no longer deny that.

part of themselves and they no longer. can think like oh well I need to go to a. psychic medium to get my answers or to. gain access to this realm or to find out. my purpose or my path or my truth no you. don't you need to just honor that part. of yourself and be reintroduced to it. you know and I think there are certain. ways we can be that help facilitate that. meditation absolutely why well when we. meditate we're going into that part of. oursel we're Recon connecting with that. that greater part that we're part of.

right it's getting us quiet it's. silencing our own physical kind of. materialistic energy um surrounding. yourself with people whose energy you. love and who lights you up energy is is. kind of like a a lake right at the top. it's like the sun is shining it's. sparkling it's clear and beautiful you. go down darker deeper colder there's all. sorts of slimy things down there you. don't want to be near it well stay with. people whose energy is at the top of. that Lake there has been researched on. too that shows that when you are open to.

the fact that you're connected to. something greater than yourself and that. these psychic abilities are very real. and you can access them they happen more. frequently and that when you are around. people who share those beliefs it. unfolds in tremendous ways and this has. been studied so just having that belief. and being open to it is going to haveen. have it happen to you more and more and. more I think then we start to recognize. these synchronicity is that begin to. appear far more frequently these.

meaningful coincidences that aren't. coincidences at all you know everything. that is happening to you is always. happening for you you are always being. guided into meeting people maybe facing. a soul challenge that is going to help. you grow um maybe saying something to a. stranger or smiling at them and changing. their whole day in a way that you. couldn't understand so it's really just. about I think overcoming two things fear. and then trust right we have to overcome.

the fear of I don't really have this. ability I can't do this I need to depend. on somebody else to show me how and this. isn't going to happen for me so many. times I will have people say to me you. know I read signs and I decided I wanted. to ask for a sign but I was so scared. that I was going to ask and not get it. that it took me two weeks to finally do. it and then I got it because they were. so afraid that they were going to be. foolish in the sense of believing this. could be true trying and being let down. you will not be let down trust in your. ability so overcome the fear and then.

trust in it a lot of times people will. have these really amazing moments of. connection psychic con connection. connection to something greater. receiving a sign having a synchronicity. thinking about somebody and then they. call whatever it might be and they'll be. really fearful to share that experience. because they're almost fearful to. embrace it they're also fearful about. being laughed at I can't tell you how. many times especially when my first book. came out people would come to my events. or come to my signings what they really. want to talk to me about is they'd want.

to share an experience that they had. that was so magical and sacred and such. an incredible connection right with. somebody they love on the other side or. being guided in a certain way and they. came to share it with me because they. knew I was a safe place that I wouldn't. laugh and I would always say to them. this is beautiful have you told other. people about this and they're like no I. haven't because I didn't want to get. laughed at but here's what would happen. people would start to share their. stories and instead of being laughed at. the person they said they shared it with.

would say oh my gosh that's incredible I. had had a moment like that in my life. too let me tell you about it and would. unfold this beautiful beautiful history. of like this magical moment of. connection the person had and that. energy is contagious that light energy. that positivity that knowing that we are. connected to something so much greater. than we can even fathom that we are so. much more loved and guided and protected. than we can. imagine changes your life it makes.

things miraculous and when you have a. mindset of being open to that of saying. I have these abilities and I'm so. excited to explore them and embrace them. send me the people the books the. situations the lectures the shows the. experiences I've meant that are going to. help Foster that in in me you're also. connecting and giving permission to your. team of light on the other side to help. do that for you I think it's just. beautiful and magical when we do that so. nobody needs me nobody needs anything. prescriptive all a person needs is the.

intention that I want to open to this. and I'm willing to explore this you know. my guides have always told me be open. that's my Mantra like be open to what is. brought to me be open to the experiences. to the people to wherever I'm guided and. then also trust the energy you're. picking up on right trust that that's. all anybody ever needs to do everybody. has a purpose everybody came here. programmed with such unique and special.

gifts that that they were meant to find. honor and then share with the world. right and then share with others and. help other people do that you that's. true power to me it's when we we find. what we came here gifted with we honor. it and share it and we help others rise. I think this materialistic World often. sends us the wrong message that power is. you know this false power actually see. which is power over others right oh have. people Envy you or be able to control. people or be able to do this and that's.

not what power is power is helping. others find their light and shine it and. share it and Rise together yeah I think. you brought about two really beautiful. points in fear and Trust which is what. either blocks us or opens us to these. ideas and I think that what would be. really interesting to explore with you. is how do people know the difference. between and and maybe maybe what you're. answering is somewhat. maybe you don't need to know but I guess. the difference between infatuation and.

then a deeper frequency connection so. like we've all had moments where we're. like this is my person this is the. person I'm going to spend the rest of my. life with and we feel like we know and. either that person doesn't want to be. with you and then you're like well no. how can they not they're my person I. know or there's the other side of it. where they do want to be with you but. then you get bored or that feeling goes. away after a couple of years or maybe. even less or more whatever happened so I.

find it's really interesting do we need. to know the difference between. infatuation and a frequency connection. or is the experience of the infatuation. part of the journey we're meant to go on. anyway I love this because we're getting. into the topic of love right which is. really what we're here for we're all. here to give love and receive love and. any any opportunity we have to give that. or receive that that's it it's that. simple that's the meaning of life right. but now we get into like Roman love and. what does that mean and we can even go. into the concept of soulmates and what.

are they but let's stick right now with. infatuation that sort of love right it's. almost as if a button's been activated. in us that's like this person pay. attention this is really important and. we can feel this magnet pull to that. person what does that mean it can be. confusing well here's the thing there is. so much going on behind the scenes on. this spiritual energy grid that is. unseen right right so you your soul and. that person's soul may have a soul.

contract uh you might be part of the. same group they may be a soulmate you. may have agreed to be here for a set. amount of time like you spiritually. contracted to be together for x amount. of time and then you'll need to resign. the contract but at any moment both of. you have free will now here's the thing. we are always at all times a three-part. equation We Are Spiritual light energy I. mean that is literally what we are when. when scientists look at this too and. they break down your body on like they. break down the body systems to the cells. to like the you know protons and they.

split things apart what we are are just. streams of light that behave cohesively. to come together to form cells to form. body systems so we are made of light. right so we are physical light beings. stuck in these physical bodies kind of. feels like a sausage full stuff never. feels fully comfortable right so that's. the two parts and then the third part. and this is the most important part our. Free Will how we steer the ship of our. spiritual light soul and our physical. body the choices we make the decisions. we make that's where it gets tricky with.

infatuation and love and all those. things right because every single person. has free will sometimes people will meet. one person's soul will kind of have this. inner conversation with that person like. whoa that person if I want to be with. that person I'm going to have to do the. really hard work this lifetime now I'm. going to have to really face my fears. I'm going to have to work hard and grow. my soul I'm going to have to learn about. self-sacrifice I'm going to have to. learn about like it really means to love. somebody and to give to somebody without.

you know having conditions am I ready. for that one person's soul might be like. I see it but I'm not ready for that. right now and they'll leave and so the. other person's like but but we're. supposed to be together you're my. soulmate I feel such a connection. they're not wrong but they can't control. the other person's Free Will right I. think also infatuation can be a an inner. guidance system that leads us to. qualities we like and celebrate about. others in our lives so let's say we're.

infatuated with somebody but then that. relationship doesn't end up working they. they're not into us right we say what. was that about well number one we. probably read and connect with their. energy but number two what we can learn. and take away from that then is what. qualities did that person have that Lit. me up maybe I need to put you know a. statement out to my team of light in the. universe like a manifest this is what I. want in my next partner maybe that was. meant to show me that and then of course. there's infatuation that leads to a much.

deeper love right with these beautiful. relationships that grow and grow and. grow and are multifaceted which I think. is the most spectacular Journey we're. all on here you know and I think that. even within our own beings we can get. infatuated with certain aspects of our. own personalities or diving down a. rabbit hole but we're so multifaceted as. well I think in order to truly love. someone else the relationship we need to. work on is the one with oursel and we. need to have selflove and be truthful.

with ourself so that we can then bring. that energy to others um and so. infatuation is is it's almost like the. hook the cord that maybe pulls us to. someone but what comes next as the most. important part is that person's soul. ready are we both ready to take this on. and explore the multifaceted way that. love is you know this sparkling kind of. diamond that love is or do we just want. to leave it in this kind of. you know cuz infatuation is not the. highest vibration of love right so do we.

want to leave it there and just have a. fun time and then go our part certain. ways and maybe like three or four years. from now we'll find Partners where we're. ready to do the hard work it's really an. ongoing conversation of energy at all. times between people what are the. different vibrations if as you just said. there infatuation is not the highest. vibration of love if there were. frequencies and vibrations of love and. connection that we. can more formulaically understand so. that we can decipher I always think. about I always say how to me trust has.

four levels like I think we start with. people at zero we should start with. people generally I start and this is to. not block intuition but to protect. sometimes from infatuation how when I. meet. someone intuitively if I feel like I can. trust him that's great but I still want. to start with a zero level of trust. because I want trust to grow over time. as opposed to just expect that this. person knows me and I know them yes and.

then I find that there's transactional. trust where I know if I do something for. you you'll do something back and that's. actually not a bad thing I think we see. that as unsexy or uncool but it's like. it's really good to know that when you. do something someone does something back. and when they do something you do. something back and then higher than that. is reciprocal trust where I do things. for you and you do things for me but. we're not counting we're not looking and. then there's unconditional trust which. of course of course is the rarest form. when we look at frequencies or as you. says vibrations of love and I love that.

you said infatuations a lower form I I'm. also intrigued by what happens at the. opposite because I think a lot of people. today are on the dating apps they're. going out on dates they're connecting. online but they're like Jay I feel no. connection like I'm feeling no energy. now and I think that's becoming more and. more common where people are coming back. from dates or even meeting people and. they're like Jay I just don't feel like. anyone has the energy I'm looking for. where is that coming from is that. people struggling to express their.

energy or is that because you haven't. found the right person yet there's so. much I want to dive into oh my go I'm. going to start with the the last thing. about let's say somebody is on a dating. app or they're going on dates and. they're not feeling connection well I. will tell you this I have done readings. before where I've had to say to people. and let's say it's um a girl in her. early early to mid-20s who just really. wants to find her soulmate and get. married I remember saying to somebody. first um you're going to meet this. person in about three and a half years.

uh I gave the name I didn't get they. gave it to. me and this is your path and she was so. upset she's what do you mean three and a. half years I'm just going to waste my. time for three and a half years what and. I'm like this is how it is well it. turned out this all came true this. person had been married to somebody else. at the time because he had a soul. contract with that person's soul they. were working it out they finished their. soul contract had groan as much as they. could were meant to be released from. that marriage went on met this person. and she was meant to be with him. sometimes if something's not working out.

for you it's because the universe is. working for you because your soul and. someone else's Soul might have a meeting. point that's coming up in x amount of. time and you're going to need to be. patient but here's the most important. thing in that time in what I call the. waiting room of like wanting that so. badly waiting for that relationship if. you get to the airport early and your. plane's delayed are you going to sit in. the waiting room and stare blankly at. the wall and just going into this place. of low vibration where you're angry. feeling like the universe is forgetting.

you you know become bitter you just. twiddle your thumbs and you look off and. you just stomp around or are you going. to be like what can I how can I utilize. this time how can I be creative or what. can I read or who can I meet whom am I. meant to meet right now and utilize that. time in a positive way you're going to. shift your whole energy so a lot of. times if we're stuck and we're not. meeting somebody right now it's cuz. you're not supposed to meet someone. right now one of two things is usually. happen. you're first meant to do your inner work. to elevate your own you can call it a.

vibration if you want to get clear and. shiny in your own energy so that that. level of Lake energy I'm saying you're. going to meet all the people on this. vibration not the fish swimming around. on that vibration because if you have. not cleared your energy and gotten. Clarity and like really stepped into. your own light energy you're not going. to match with somebody of the same. energy and you can look at just like. sound and vibration studies of this if. you play a vibration and something else. is tuned to a different vibration it's. not going to resonate if you play the. right vibration it resonates it's drawn.

together people's energy is like that as. well we have to trust in that process so. again I think we're going back to trust. because either the narrative we're. telling ourselves is I'm forgotten by. the universe there's no match for me I'm. never going to have love on some way I. must be unlovable I hate my circum. whatever that is if we're telling us. that ourselves that narrative we're. making that our reality but if we're. telling us a very different narrative. you no I trust the universe and I trust. that there is a Divine path set out for.

me and my job is to be open and be able. to recognize it when it gets here and to. be patient but to not be bored to fill. myself up with being vibrantly engaged. in life so that when this comes to me. I'll recognize it and I'll match it it's. telling ourselves a very different story. not one that we're forgotten and we. don't matter but one that we matter in. extraordinary ways and that we are being. guided into our highest path and that. there is a relationship waiting for us. and I think that changes everything.

right I think shifting our own. vibrations too uh will help bring. relationships of a higher love level to. ourselves the best thing we can do here. is dwell in the currency of gratitude. forgiveness. kindness and doing things for others and. that can be in a very small way or a big. way if you don't feel like you've got a. lot of energy in your tank and the most. you can do for others today is smile at. a stranger in the store go do it cuz.

it's going to matter every action we do. matters every thought we have matters it. either puts Darkness into the world or. it brings light in right and so it's. about giving back to others when we get. in that frequency of gratitude love. forgiveness kindness to others we are. going to match with people of that. frequency too so you know what if you're. in a kind of negative energy space you. don't want to meet somebody right there. cuz guess what going to meet somebody. else in a negative energy space be. patient work on opening yourself trust.

and be guided here's the thing nobody's. in this life alone we don't come into. this world alone and we don't exit alone. right we're greeted we come into this. world surrounded by other people and. when we leave we're greeted by a team of. light on the other side A lot of times. our pets will bound up to us Etc so even. when we're here we're not alone we're. always connected to the other side and. you can ask for help from your team of. light say I'm really excited to meet. this person or have this love enter my. life please show me and guide me and.

then surrender it because doing that is. also allowing yourself to understand. that you're part of something so much. greater than yourself and that you don't. have to micromanage at all let's say. you're in a relationship right now and. it's feeling stale or it's feeling stuck. well that's a really good sign that you. need to grow and your partner needs to. grow and it's time to like dust off the. cobwebs and become a better version of. yourself and you don't need to wait for. your partner to be the Catalyst for that. you can jump start it for yourself you. can go start doing things that interest.

you shift from a negative energy space. into a positive because the people we're. connected to it will pull them up as. well it's and it will help you. understand what you're responsible for. versus what they're responsible for so I. do think that there are many different. facets to all of our love relationships. right and I definitely think that the. highest is unconditional love you know. it's it's I think Fe feeling this sense. of. wanting peace and joy and for a person.

to be surrounded by love independent of. your role in any of that I think feeling. unconditional love for somebody is the. gift in and of itself you don't even. necessarily need to be unconditionally. loved back when we get to that state. within ourselves we have created this. Nirvana this Heaven within ourselves of. being in that energy of feeling that for. another person it's everything yeah yeah. I think it's so interesting you've. mentioned peace so many times and I feel. peace is so underrated we think of.

pleasure we think of joy we think of. happiness and we don't really think. about peace even though it's such. a beautiful place to live and a. beautiful way to live I think if. everyone was if we sat there for a. second and we thought about it and we. thought wait do I want to be peaceful or. do I want to be you know something else. I think peace would probably win if we. really sat and thought about it if we. thought about the best times in our life. it's when we felt peaceful and still and.

that's almost the energy that's needed. to connect to that I think the. infatuation I think the the initial. attraction that almost comes as a un. peaceful energy it's kind of impulsive. such a good point right it's kind of. fast impul it gets your attention but. it's not peaceful and we then start. likening that feeling to being in love. or to feeling connected and we don't. when we're peaceful with someone it. almost feels awkward or it feels boring.

and it's just because we're not trained. to understand the value of Peace but in. all the work that you do and all the. work that I'm thinking about it's like I. know that when I'm at my most still and. my most peaceful that's when I'm most. connected when I feel most aligned and. and centered obviously not when you're. running around I'm just thinking out. loud about that idea of how how people. can. notice the power of things we've not. been Tred to notice right we've been. trained by movies and music to be.

trained to see speed and impulse and. immediacy as attractive and cool and. beautiful and Powerful but then if you. think about when someone pauses before. they speak like there's there's so much. presence in that and it's peaceful when. when you see someone reflecting or. thinking it's peaceful when you find. yourself feeling sure about something. it's not impulsive it's peaceful but. we've just not been trained to. appreciate peace in that way or.

Stillness in that way and therefore when. it comes about it starts to feel boring. or complacent or lazy. or just kind of a bit awkward I think is. probably the best word that people. experience it I love what you're saying. you know it resonates so deeply with me. one of the things that I've learned so. much about through all the readings and. from always being connected with the. other side is about how to live in the. here and now and I think that there. peace is underrated it absolutely is and. we're we're not taught to pay attention.

to it right I think our society and our. world like be aggressive go on and do. this woooo be noticed like Blaze trails. and I think there's great energy around. that too right creators and being. creative and changing change agents of. the world and doing all that is. phenomenal but all of us are. multifaceted within ourselves and if we. don't create space to honor the peace. within ourselves our own beings we're. not going to know how to identify and. honor it in our relationships with. others right and as I've you know grown.

and as I've because every time I read. I'm I'm a student and I'm learning too. I've learned the importance of peace and. that peace comes in a very calm way like. a lot of times people say to me how can. I tell the difference between psychic. information and anxiety you know and I. say yeah that's a great question I'm. like well anxiety is like the opposite. of peace right and if you have anxious. thoughts of fearful things. happening that is anxiety like that's. just that's fear that's fear generated. from the monkey mind because if you get.

information that's going to help you. avoid a situation or inform you about a. situation coming up it's not going to. come through in a frightening way it's. going to come through in a very neutral. almost like peaceful knowing right so. it's like learning to um release anxiety. and go into that state of peacefulness. and I think a really great question. everyone can ask him or herself is what. brings me peace. because the answers might surprise you. and I think a lot of times people have. trouble getting quiet within themselves.

which is why I'm a big advocate of. journaling or writing because I think. when we write we start talking to our. inner self and things start coming out. of us that we never thought we would. even think or say and it reflects back. to us what's really going on so just. sitting down and doing a really quick. activity like sit down and for maybe one. minute write what brings you peace and. you can go into it going I have no idea. what brings me peace but watch what you. end up writing you know and I think a. lot of time yeah a lot of times it's. going to be about what we do for others.

or how we create Sacred Space or on our. own light you know one of the things I. love that you were saying about your. trust starts at zero I think that's so. important it's not mean it's actually. honoring your own light like we are all. light beings and so many of us don't. respect and honor that part of ourselves. we like Give It Away we just disrespect. it we need to know that we have inherent. value that we are loving beings worthy. of love that's just that's our. Birthright of our souls coming here but.

honoring that part of ourselves where we. also wait and find people who are also. light Seekers people of the light people. who are respectful I think is really. really important you know I I just. wanted to revisit that because I was so. moved by what you said about that I. think it's so important and the. different levels of trust right kind of. matches the different levels of love if. you will right and I think trust and. love go hand in hand and I think the. greatest kind of love has a piece in it.

so these are things we might not usually. think of when we think of love right we. think of love and how the media will. portray it it'll be like dozens of red. roses romance this that but you know. what sometimes love is an elderly couple. walking hand in hand on the beach not. talking or somebody being at somebody's. bedside helping them go home cross to. the other side because they love them. you know it's for others when they can't. do for us and love is so much more. powerful than just romantic love and I.

think when we get into our relationships. that maybe start with infatuation and. are very romantically based I think the. really powerful beautiful thing that can. grow there is this this unconditional. love or love that goes in all directions. but that has peace inherently in it and. yes I agree I think when you're in a. relationship that there's a certain. level of Peace you're like wait a minute. am I missing something like where is all. like the pizaz and shouldn't I be.

feeling drama and these intense emotions. and maybe if you're feeling peace in a. relationship you've just hit one of the. highest levels possible and instead of. celebrating that you're going wait. what's wrong here I think we need a date. night you know what no maybe you just. need to sit quietly and not say anything. to each other or just project gratitude. towards that person that you're in each. other's lives you know it's really it's. really beautiful I also think it's a. great thing to write people love notes. and I don't even mean this in a romantic. way I mean when we think back over our.

lives of people who have lit us up or. had an important moment on our path or. maybe just made us happy that week take. a moment and literally write to that. person and say now we can text right we. have cell phones there's no excuses but. you can do an old school handwritten. letter too I just want to let you know. how much that meant to me when you said. this to me or when I was in fourth grade. and you told me this about myself I. never told you how important that was. but it was maybe it's a family member we. want to say thank you so much for making.

me feel seen seven years ago when I told. you this whatever it might be I think. the more that we celebrate those loving. relationships in our lives we honor them. it it makes our whole vibration rise. right and it creates this climate of. like kindness and love and gratitude I. think gratitude's so important and I. think feeling gratitude for the people. we are privileged enough to love this. lifetime is is so important yeah how. important are tangible signs like. there's obviously people talk about.

patterns in seeing hummingbirds numbers. like physical signs like how important. is it for people to find those discover. those notice those and a follow-up. question to that is actually I'll save. it I'll save it because we both we both. yeah let's let's start there let's talk. about science and how how important SS. are science are important because they. can transform your life like in. extraordinary ways I always say to. people. you don't have to believe what I'm. saying about what I've learned about us. being loved and guided and watched over.

why don't you just open up and try and. experience it yourself and make it. tangible I mean we are stuck here right. now I mean stuck but I don't right we. our souls chose to be here in this. materialistic world right now being here. is a gift but we are in the. materialistic world and there's all. sorts of energy around us that's unseen. that's there that we pick up on that we. don't have tangible proof of so why not. marry the two why not ask the other side.

or teams of Lights the universe to send. us tangible signs so that we can see. proof and glimpses of that connection. and it will happen there there's a. language around us at all times that has. been guiding us showing us teaching us. but the great thing is we can open to it. and expand on it at all times whenever. I've learned a foreign language I've. always gotten thrilled every time I. learned a new word word because now I. could communicate more readily right so. when we create a language of signs with. our team of light with the universe and. we ask to be guided by that and we ask. to be shown evidence that we are watched.

over that everything happens you know. for us on our path and so forth or that. maybe a loved one is around us still. present that love continues after bodily. death we ask for a sign of that it can. change our lives in extraordinary ways. and I say you know there are default. signs that our team of light has been. sending us or the universe been sending. us since forever and then there is also. a language we can open up to so the. default signs are are pretty interesting. a lot of times um the other side will. like to manipulate electrical devices so.

back in the day flickering lights. they'll still still do that or a lot of. times now that we have you know iPhones. they love changing when we're texting. someone changing words there they will. love putting things in our social media. feeds like articles all sorts of things. information um they'll still you know. turn the TV off now and then to let you. know they're around they like to put. coins in our path pennies dimes nickels. why I think it's very easy when we are. in a form state of energy to kind of. manipulate small metallic objects but.

then they like to also guide creatures. into our path and I found something here. it's always creatures that navigate the. world using electromagnetic fields again. these unseen energy field all around us. so Birds butterflies deer dragonflies. ladybugs bat fox they will put them in. our path to kind of get our attention. and be like hello there's something more. going on here we're with you Etc but we. can ask for anything we want a lot of. times the universe to will send us signs. in numbers like I am not a math person I.

taught high school English for 20 years. I'm all about literature and energy and. connection but I have great respect for. Math and it has been taught to me from. the other side that the whole way this. kind of materialistic Paradigm works is. through sacred geometry math matters. they're they're a language of itself and. so a lot of times the universe will send. us mathematical signs for some people it. might be the number 1111 or 44 4 or 222. some people have very specific numbers. that have followed them their whole. lives some people have numbers that just.

feel good to them they can't explain it. it feels good so the universe speaks to. us through numbers too but we can open. that dialogue again intention is the. most important thing saying listen I'm. open and I'm ready for this language of. signs please send them to me guide me. but we don't want to just say send me. the signs because yes the other side. will establish signs with us you know. our guides God energy loved ones who. have crossed will sometimes send us. signs of things that they were known for. but we can open it and expand it and ask. for specific things so we can say hey I.

like the number you know 22 two from now. on when I'm on path and I'm on my. highest path and I'm doing the right. thing uh we can ask for songs is a as a. great way to connect you know send me. this song um and sometimes our loved. ones on the other side will send songs. that they were known for too they'll. like play with it back and forth we can. ask for creatures we don't have to just. ask for creatures that navigate the. world with electromagnetic fields we we. can say send me and pick something. really different like I used to ask my. guides for monarch butterflies and I was. like that's too easy I'm going to start.

asking for arars armadillos and an. eaters CU then my monkey mind will have. to pay attention when I get that I. because of course we want to dismiss. when we get signs we're like send me. another sign so that I know that was a. sign and then we get it and then we're. like send me one more sign and I promise. this time I'll believe that it's a sign. right so our monkey mind's always. wrestling with it so when we ask for. kind of outlandish things we have to pay. attention when we start getting them so. when I get art arars armadillos anator. in the most extraordinary ways usually. when I'm just thinking to the other side. a question or is this in my highest path. to do or it could be when I'm having a.

challenging day or celebrating something. I'll get my sign right um we can ask. them for anything we want but I always. say change it a little don't just ask. for like an elephant ask for a purple. elephant um we can ask for um phrases. too can be a great thing you know ask. for a phrase and and just be open to the. language be open to recognizing when the. other side is talking back to us I think. it can transform Our Lives it can help. us find our highest paths it can help us. know unequivocally that we are not alone.

and that we are part of this great. fabric of existence and that our paths. are intertwined with other people's. Journeys and paths and ways that we. can't fathom you know nobody gets to. understand the impact of their spiritual. self while they're here when we cross. and we do you know this Life review we. in an instant we're able to see not only. the choices we made but feel and see how. it impact other people's paths. it's mesmerizing but we don't get to. know it when we're here we just have to. kind of trust that we're doing it how do.

we trust we're on our highest path well. using a currency of forgiveness kindness. gratitude love those things and and I. love I love the way you're speaking. about how it's so different for everyone. and you're so right like we all second. guess signs because we don't we've been. so conditioned to not believe in the you. know subconscious so so there's a part. of us that skeptical and cynical even. when like you said you get a sign you're. like show me another one show me another. one show me another one and and you.

rightly pointed out that's that monkey. brain how do you know when let's say. it's a sign you haven't asked for how do. people know when it's a warning versus a. positive or how do they know when it's. like hey I'm telling you to slow down. versus oh this is on the right path is. that a language that you have to create. and build or is that something that. you're learning to listen to more. closely well I think it's learning to. listen to more closely but at the same. time you are building it every time you. do that right it's um it's honoring it.

in the proper way so if something gets. our attention as a sign and we're like. wait what does that mean I think the. impetus would be like oh let me call a. psychic medium and ask what that sign. means and that's not what you need to do. you actually just need to get quiet. within yourself and you ask your team of. light can you explain to me what that. meant can you show me something else to. guide me with that or can you let me. feel what that means and we will have a. sense of oh this is helping you avoid. this or this is leading you to something. the answ is within ourselves all the. time so all of us have the answers.

within ourselves our problem is we can't. quiet ourselves in order to access that. part we don't create space for that. we're always looking to get the answers. elsewhere when it's all right there so. if this is what I always say to people. if you got something that you think was. a sign it was a sign you don't need to. get validated by a psychic medium to. know it was a sign if you have that. moment where your your thoughts your. energy is like is is that a sign it is. it means you've just got they've gotten. your attention and you've recognized it.

you know can you imagine like the hoops. and the things that they jump through to. get us these amazing signs in the exact. moments and then we get them and we're. like huh I think that was a sign but you. know what I'm going to reject it yeah. you know what we do like so when we. honor it and the greatest thing you can. do when you get a sign is to tell. somebody about it because then they know. and you you honor it and you're also. sharing that energy with others and. you're helping open up other people to. their signs right it's it's this great. chain of light and connection so I think. that the answers are always within us as.

to what the sign means and if you got. something that you think is a sign it is. a sign but what I will tell you is the. way the other side works is they do not. dwell in fear and they do not use fear. if I ever am doing a reading for. somebody or somebody gets a certain sign. it's not to scare them that something. bad is going to happen or this or that. it's to guide them or prepare them or. let them know listen I'm right here with. you you're not alone when you go through. this or we're here with you right. sometimes we'll get signs just so that.

we know we're being loved and supported. through whatever it is we're going. through it's not that the other side has. this magic wand that can be like okay. we're going to help you avoid this thing. that your soul signed up to you to go. through so that you would grow and learn. and understand right they're not going. to wave that magic W and stop that from. happening but they are going to be right. by our side the whole time being like. you got this we love you we're with you. you're so precious you are so important. right and having that knowing within. ourselves is the most important thing so. it's like getting our spiritual self on.

reconnecting in that way and trusting. that we have the answers ourselves and. if we just get quiet we can hear it yeah. I'm so glad you you went into the. clarity of that because I think for so. many people they think that that fear or. that anxiety is a sign and to know that. that's not how the universe communicates. in that frequency I think is a really. clear line for able to draw because I. think often we think we're sensing. things but most of them are based on. worry anxiety or stress or pressure and.

that's a very real thing and I think the. stimulus that is out there in our world. it perpetuates that it's like the. snowball effect of anxiety the other. thing is too just being an energy reader. in the world which we all are we pick up. on other people's anxiety and energy and. it snowballs for us yeah listen I'm a. psychic medium and I get really bad. anxiety sometimes especially with my. three kids right I'll be like but but. but what if this happen what if this. happens and I have learned to understand. that fear is a liar that anxiety is a. liar and so when I get these moments of.

chattery anxiety I take a step back. energetically I ground myself within my. own life it's like grounding myself in. my own being right and I say this to. myself actually everything is working. out for me and I just leave it because. it it re it silences the anxiety. immediately because it reminds me that I. am guided I am loved I am protected and. that I'm never alone and I think it's so. important for us not to feed into our. anxiety Cycles right and some behaviors.

can help unplug from that too right. maybe turn off the news maybe go like. even if you're not an artist I'm going. to label that that way like a. professional artist go engage in art. because art is being connected with God. right God is this force of creation and. love those two things and so whenever we. do art we are being Godlike we are. tapping into that Godlike energy I think. the mistake we make here is thinking um. oh we need to be an expert artistically. in this to do it no it's the act of.

creating and doing art that rebalances. us and connects us to something so much. greater than ourselves so if you're. feeling anxious go do something artistic. whether that means listening to a song. you like and just really listening to it. or if it means going and doodling. whatever comes out of out of you even if. it's like chicken scratch and you. wouldn't show it to anybody you've now. done it it's going to reenter and. rebalance your energy and try and. release that anxiety yeah and I'm so. glad you said that as well because I was. about to say that and I want everyone to.

remember. this you don't have to sit still to. experience Stillness yes you can. experience Stillness while running. whilst driving whilst painting whilst. journaling Stillness doesn't mean not. moving right and I think we have that. Bel to make that distinction my. conversations with myself my. conversations with the universe mostly. happen while I'm driving on my own like. that's just a place I feel very.

comfortable to have conversations or to. have discussions or to have reflection. and think about things and and talk it. out it's just works for me and I know a. lot of people who do it while swimming. or while running or you know whatever it. may be and so I want people to also. understand that when we're saying. sitting still Yes meditation is a. beautiful tool and technique and yes I. do recommend if you can sit with your. thoughts for 20 minutes a day it's a. beautiful to do but I think there are. other ways of finding Stillness that. include movement yeah so this concept I.

love what you're saying of being still. within yourself to me it's also about. like connecting right connecting with. your spiritual self and it's so. interesting to me the list you just gave. because it's so uh characteristic right. driving is one of the main ways that we. disengage from the frontal lobe because. our body is doing wrote things and so we. are distracted and we can get the. psychic downloads we can get that. connection what you're calling Stillness. is that state of connection right that's. it's so magical another way taking. showers people get it swimming running.

and exercising gets you into that state. of connection too A lot of times. athletes writers musicians artists. people will describe it using the same. exact word they say I don't know I was. just in the flow so being in the flow is. also like being connected in that state. of Stillness and then in the outside. world it doesn't mean you're sitting. still it means you're in a state of. spiritual connection right it is there. for us at all times you could be at a.

Lou a loud chattery party and you can be. still within it's just going into. yourself knowing and feeling that and it. is something you can feel you know some. people are like I think like to work. with different um exercises to be able. to feel that and some of them will use. like chakra points or Meridian points to. really feel that energy coming in and. those are all wonderful tools of. exploration people can do but you can. even do it when you're out girl grocery. shopping you know getting into that. state of Stillness getting into that. moment within yourself where you're.

connecting to some people like to call. it your higher self some people I call. it my team of light you know God and. univer whatever you want to call it the. word doesn't matter being in that state. of being does and you are always in your. highest flow when you're doing that and. you're always going to be guided on your. highest path when you get calm and you. trust that as a medium you obviously. interact with people on the other side. and I wanted to know what how is that. transformed your view of grief and loss.

yeah it's transformed it completely and. it is such a gift and a blessing you so. often I meet people after they've. crossed you know I'll be oh yeah I know. that person oh well actually met him. through you after he crossed or whatever. that might be um it's magical because. here's the thing I think in this. materialistic World which by the way. this materialistic Paradigm has been. blown to Smither for over a hundred. years scientifically nobody's talking. about it right so we're still pretending. what you see is what you get and that's. it right um meanwhile none of us are. solid beings like we're not solid the.

chairs are not solid we're fast. vibrating atoms that are appearing solid. right get to the quantum level it gets. really fascinating that's a whole rabbit. hole we can have a whole another. conversation about um but here's what I. have learned through all the readings. I've done these physical bodies you can. think of it like you know when you get. in your car and you drive somewhere and. then you've gotten where you need to be. and you get out of the car and you're. still going but the car is there you. don't even think about the car probably. that's our soul and our physical body um. we come back here with soul groups right. and we come back here we find people in.

our soul groups a lot of times we have. spiritual contracts to work together but. here's the thing death is not a dead end. it's a doorway and it's a doorway back. to our true home and to something. greater than we. can understand with these little brains. we have which to me are really like. dunce caps that keep us from remembering. where our true home is why we're really. here all of those things right and so. love is the most powerful thing there is. and that is the court of connection. always and every time I'm waiting for. somebody and connecting with somebody on.

the other side and they sitter here oh. my gosh the the feeling I get a feeling. that love go through me it's like being. allowed to go to lunch with those people. who love each other so much and being. able to feel it as well it's such a a. magnificent gift but what's become very. very apparent to me is that love cannot. be broken when we have love for somebody. that is always this cord of light. connect C that is there and here's the. thing relationships don't end upon. bodily death I've actually seen them get.

stronger after somebody's transitioned. let's say there was um somebody here on. Earth and their loved one on the other. side maybe it was like a a challenging. relationship in some ways well the. person crosses goes to the other side. does their life review and now. understands things in totally new ways a. lot of times we'll apologize take. responsibility for things they couldn't. hear things that there was no way I. could know right really specific things. where the sitter is like this is. absolutely my dad coming through and wow. this is real and wow I actually don't. ever need lore to talk to him this love.

and. forgiveness this relationship is ongoing. and what's more is I can ask him to send. me signs as tangible proof that this is. real he's still present and it changes. how people live in the here and now. because they realize and it changes I. think their grief Journey listen there's. no Shifting the physical loss do we love. hugging each other are we physical. beings right now yes and we want that. physical touch and ability to you know. hear someone's voice but when somebody.

transitions to their side they're still. very present in loving us they just. don't have voice boxes or arms to hug us. they're going to find ways to do that by. sending us signs and so opening up to. that language with our loved ones on the. other side and saying show me that. you're still present guide me asking for. sign and receiving it like 2 minutes. later it becomes an undeniable Truth for. you or asking for it and then getting it. on a very special day like your. birthday you just begin to understand. that death is not real it's real in a.

bodily sense but there is something so. much greater that comes after and here's. the part where I love to tell people to. start looking into um and Reading. literature on studies of people who have. had near-death experiences what they've. seen um children who have past life. recall uh death's bed visions of people. talking about their loved ones and their. relatives in the room with them right. before they cross who had died years. before all of it validates the other. information I remember reading this um.

study of somebody who uh had was in an. going through an operation had Cardiac. Arrest saw all the surgeons heard what. they were saying zoomed up and out and. as they were leaving their they had like. Clairvoyant Vision their Vision they saw. a red sneaker like wedged in like the. top of the roof of the hospital and then. they um they were in Cardiac Arrest I. think they restarted their heart jump. back in their body and when they woke up. from this operation the next day they're. like oh yeah I had this experience and. there was this red shoe there so they.

sent the custodial staff off and sure. enough you couldn't see this with the. human eye anywhere and this is way back. before drones existed there was the red. shoe exactly where they said how can we. explain that how can we explain any of. these things our existence is so much. more mysterious and miraculous and. guided than we can fathom we are so. watched over we are so loved we are so. inher L important to the people we meet. and the people we're connected to and. that is what the other side has taught.

me that is what people who have crossed. have taught me they have talked to me. too about what they're most proud of in. the things that they have done here in. the world and a lot of times it's like. what they did for other that others that. is still reverberating one of the things. I love is that people who have crossed. will talk about things that their loved. ones are doing in their name and they. hear and now anytime somebody raises. money in someone's name let's say they. run a marathon guess what your loved. ones right there with you and they're. going to find signs and ways to show you. if we go you know let's say we have. somebody on the other side who crossed.

and it's their birthday and we go to the. ice cream store and we're like here's. you know 20 bucks whoever the next. people buy it tell them it's on like. this person's name like that person's. still allowed to be connected to this. beautiful chain of light and goodness. here on Earth so I think it's really. beautiful to embrace this understanding. that our relationships don't end with. bodily death we do need to communicate. in a new way but but you don't need. somebody else to access that for you you. don't need to go to a psychic medium to. talk to you know your grandma on the. other side you just have to get quiet.

within yourself link up set your. intention ask your team of light for. help and start creating a a language of. signs back and forth because you're. going to get them and you're going to. see you know I always say when I do. sessions with people you know and I love. it and it's very sacred to me and I'm. not you know dismissing the power of. that and how beautiful it is but I'm I'm. always saying like you don't need me. it's like if you know you and your loved. one wanted to go out to lunch and I'm. like hi I'm going to come along but you. can't talk to each other you have to. pass the messages back and forth through. me you don't need that you don't need me.

ever right so we can learn how to do. this on our own and I think if if people. are unsure but they're willing to test. it and start creating language of. science I think they're going to be. blown away by what happens and it's a. very interpersonal thing where you try. to explain the sign you got to somebody. else and it's like I can't even explain. how amazing this was and what happened. but yeah I there were a couple of things. that stood out to me while you were. talking I read this book Years Ago by. Ian Stevenson called old souls yes and. so if anyone hasn't read that I highly.

recommend it if you're interested in OU. of body experiences near-death. experiences or past life memories uh he. I think he across his time and his. research he talks about at least two to. three thousand cases of all three of. those and that book is is such a great. resource and you know such a great thing. to look at if you're fascinated by that. and there's so many examples like you. gave it the red shoe in there there's so. many great books on this too that's why. I say too like ask the other side to. lead you to the right books because. that's how you can learn so much I think.

he worked at a university of Virginia's. uh Consciousness lab which is still. ongoing there's still so much research. coming out of there it's really. phenomenal and and that was the one. thing and the other thing that came out. was I love this idea of how when someone. passes on your relationship can actually. strengthen with them rather than weaken. with them and and I love that just as an. idea and as a concept let alone the fact. that it can actually work in the way. you're saying it and I think our.

relationship with the death like I think. what you're saying is that our. relationship with death changes when we. recognize that it's not the end and that. it's a doorway and it's almost like. that's one of the things again talking. about things that have been hidden in. the world I think death is one of those. topics that's hidden it's a subject. matter that's hidden it's almost taboo. shouldn't be ironic right because it's. the one absolute for all of us you think. we'd be exploring this more and the. other thing is we all have people we.

love animals we love who have crossed we. all are going to have to deal with grief. in some way why are we not talking about. this why are we not exploring this. concept right almost everything we've. talked about today is so it can like. everything in the world this can be so. beautiful and wonderful and it can also. become an addiction and a crutch and a. kind of if done in an unhealthy way mhm. so if someone's obviously doing this. from a place of trust instead of a place.

of fear we know that's a healthy. relationship with your signs with your. team of light Etc but for someone else. often what I find there may become a. over dependency out of fear or an. addiction to trying to figure all this. out all the time out of insecurity or. fear not out of trust and I think with. anything in the world we see that you. know anything in the world if done. through through trust can be beautiful. and anything in the world even if it's. really good for you even meditation done. through fear is not going to have the.

same result so how do you encourage. people to constantly tune into the. healthy version of what this can look. like and maybe not get caught up in like. the constant worrying and the checking. that often leads to their curiosity in. the first place yeah you know it's very. interesting right because I can see how. you could go down like a lower. vibrational path with this and and the. way that I could see that happening is. thinking you need others to validate. your experiences or to get the answers.

from rather than having the sense of. calmness and knowing that the answers. are within you and that you are. hardwired to the other side yourself and. can receive guidance in that way right. so I'd be worry of trying to search for. things through other people rather than. through the vehicle of your own heart. and being you know one thing I just. wanted to comment on too where you said. uh relationships can strengthen when. people are on the other side what people. on the other side tell me is like what.

they love is being able to be present. always and be in more than one place. more than one time with people they love. you know that they're not limited to um. you know their own body physical bodies. in the way that it was um but getting. back to the fear path with all of this. uh there's dark energy and there's light. energy and I think we can all feel the. difference and I think you know I work. in the light um when you work in the. light too I think that you don't concern. yourself with um I guess I'd say like.

ego in a sense um and I mean that for. everybody who is opening and embracing. this too because the ego will play on. your fear the ego will say I'm such a. fool for trying to believe in this or. testing this or what if I tell somebody. this and they're going to make fun of me. or I don't have the power of myself to. do this I need to go get answers from. somebody or whatever that might be um. you know I think letting go of that and. just taking some deep breaths in because. I think breathing will always connect us. with our soul you know it's it's what.

the other side has told me. um makes our soul click into our body is. when we're born and we take the first. breath right and when our soul leaves is. when our breath. stops um sometimes a little bit before. that's actually you know sometimes they. talk to me about that a lot of times if. we have a traumatic death we actually. leave early earlier um but I think that. when we breathe we can dispel the fear. so if we're starting to feel like hyper. FOC focusing on something you know it's.

funny like when before when you talked. about infatuation I think that can. happen with lots of things not just love. right so getting infatuated with this. like I need all the answers now to my. life I need to know this like I think. it's very important to take a deep. breath in and be calm and know that the. answers will be given to you in Divine. timing there have been times too where. I've read for people or even on my own. path where I've gotten certain. information and I'm very aware that I'm. not meant to know more until a certain. time and that might be because I mean to.

experience a lesson for myself or. whatever it is but surrendering to that. I think is important that's peace though. that's yeah that's and that's what I. mean that's such a beautiful. relationship with this art form to. have because it's what it's what I often. feel like we're so addicted to the. answers or wanting to get the answers. that we don't know if we put in a. sincere request right right it's almost. like you're at a restaurant and you're. like where's my order where's my order. and then you realize you forgot to place.

the order and you didn't you didn't. order it in this sense there isn't it's. not an order in this sense it's a. request or a a seeking but I feel like. if our energy and effort goes into a. sincere genuine effort to ask to request. to seek with authenticity and peace then. we can have a chance to listen and hear. but if the request is coming in as a.

demand or as a order or as a you know as. a kind of you know aggressive. expression then chances are it is harder. for us to listen to and receive what may. come from the universe or whatever we. may call it does that resonate. absolutely it's a very different. vibration right about like demanding is. trusting and I think that in order to. get into our own light energy into the. flow of that light there is a certain. surrender that has to take place and.

that's very uncomfortable for most of us. because we like to micromanage things we. also think we're go-getter so we need to. go get it or we're not going to get it. what I've learned is like there is. divine timing and everything and the. greatest lessons I've learned because. I'm always in a state of connection and. you'd think I'd have a really great. Advantage like oh do I get to know my. whole life path and everything that's. going to happen no I get to know moments. or glimpses and then I'll be given more. and then I'll be blinded at times. completely and I'll be told by my guides. like you're blinded on purpose this is a. pop quiz for you here you go I've always.

respected that but I think it would be. very easy to get into the mindset of. crossing my arms stomping my feet and. being like this is not fair why don't I. have access to this information there is. so much going on for every single. person's life journey and by that I mean. Soul Journey that we can't understand I. think if we trust in it we don't have to. be happy about it sometimes let's say. we're things aren't going the way we. want we need to to trust that we're. being guided that it's going to unfold. for us you know that here's what I like.

to tell people whenever I read for them. or whenever I meet them and this is the. truth you are right exactly where the. universe wants you for this exact moment. in time you are not off path and that. might mean that they're in this exact. moment of having this incredible opening. for Change and growth or that they've. worked really hard and this is their. Rising moment or they're about to meet. somebody that's going to transform their. life or they're about to do some really. hard inner work or they're about to have. an epiphany or they're about to connect. their own self to their spiritual self.

and their life is going to transform but. nothing about any person's life is an. accident and anybody who listens to this. you are exactly where the universe. wanted you to be at this exact moment. right now it's what comes next how are. you going to open your energy what are. you going to learn to recognize because. here's the thing when you start seeing. signs when you start seeing in this. connection between all things and when. you start using a currency of gratitude. and love and forgiveness and kindness. your world transforms and when you start.

seeing these things you can never unsee. it and you have to surrender to the fact. that oh there is a path and sometimes. your journey is part of someone else's. Journey that you've agreed to do and it. might be a little bit uncomfortable leg. of the journey but you're missing the. perspective of understanding the. beautiful cords of light you're creating. or how you're helping that person's soul. that maybe your soul and that person's. soul had a contract that you were going. to come here and do that for them or be. a catalyst for them to do something you. know it's uh when you start viewing your. life in that way it becomes.

extraordinary you know that everybody. you meet is you're either a lesson for. them they're a lesson for you or they're. a moment on your path that's getting you. in the right place in the right time for. the next thing to come nothing is. accidental Laura thank you so much for. your time and energy today I'm so. grateful we got to do this and I learned. so much honestly and I know that. everyone who's listening and watching. I'm hoping that they're going to be. fine-tuning and becoming more aligned. with themselves as well and again of. course I want to remind everyone that.

you can read uh both of Laura's books. signs the secret languages of the. universe and then the Light Between Us. stories from Heaven lessons for the. living uh both of those books we'll put. the links in our caption to both of them. Laura we end every onp purpose episode. with a final five these questions have. to be answered in one word to one. sentence maximum and Laurel in and these. are your final five so the first. question is what is the best advice. you've ever heard or received I think.

that it's be true to yourself and the. second question is what is the worst. advice you've ever heard or received. that's a tough one. um be competitive why do you think. that's bad advice well you know I think. the worst child game good game we ever. play as musical chair is this sense that. oh there's a dir you have to get this. when some somebody else can't you have. to get this over somebody you know I I. think that being competitive with others. is never the answer and I think being.

competitive with yourself is fine like. driving yourself to be better and better. and better but I think the mindset of. there's not enough be competitive steal. it from the next person do this have. power over this is way more than a. one-word answer right but I that sort of. advice that I think sets us off the. wrong way so don't have your kids play. musical chairs you know that's a great. that I actually really like that that. parallel I've always said that it's. really interesting how we live in a. world where there's a finite number of.

seats in the theater or seats in the. stadium or seats in musical chairs and. but happiness is infinite Like There's. No Limit but we're so trained in this. limited mindset of thinking of oh my. gosh there's only that many VIP seats. there's only that many seats there's. only that many standing there's there's. only this many and that idea there's. only is where I think that competitive. point I love that that's beautiful all. right question number three uh what's. the best thing to do first thing in the.

morning and last thing at night to stay. aligned with our this is such an easy. answer for me it's just Express. gratitude both morning and night both. morning and night you know it's it's the. last thing I do at night it's the first. thing I do in the morning and it shifts. your energy completely I agree fully. agree uh question number four when you. feel like you're completely not in the. right place at the right time what do. you say to yourself I say things are.

always working out for me and by that I. mean we might have a very myopic view of. how things seem to us in that moment but. there is usually a much greater reason. and that we are being guided and loved. by forces that we can't maybe see and we. have to trust in that and I think it. shifts you out of like an angry bitter. forgotten mindset into understanding. that you are connected to all things and. that you're here for a reason beautiful.

and Fifth and final question if you. could create a law that everyone in the. world had to follow what would it be. would be be kind it's beautiful thank. you so much Laura it's been so wonderful. talking to you today and I hope everyone. who's been listening or watching make. sure you share your best parts of the. episode if you cut them up for Instagram. or Tik Tok I love seeing all the clips. you put out there I would love to make. sure that you tag me and Laura with the. clips with the moments that really stood. out to you Parts you're going to.

practice maybe your own stories of signs. and moments in your life where you've. had these experiences if you need a safe. space please do share them with us I'd. love to be there and thank you so much. for your trust and love for on purpose. uh I appreciate you so much thank you. Laura thank you so much it's been such. an honor being in the light of you thank. you hey everyone if you love that. conversation go and check out my episode. with the world's leading therapist lorri. gotle where she answers the biggest. questions that people ask in therapy.

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