Overcoming Shyness

it's time to conquer your. shyness you say it let's talk about. [Music]. that good mythical morning we asked you. to ask us questions in various places on. the internet and then we began to try to. figure out if we could come up with. advice to give you that you may or may. not apply and if you apply this advice. and something goes terribly wrong we are. not responsible disclaimer fine print.

fine print coming out of your. mouth Samantha Kilmer on Facebook asks. how do I get out of my shy little bubble. I can't even order pizza over the phone. I need major help well first of all you. could use an app to order pizza at most. places now no human interaction. whatsoever but she wants help with her. shyness I'm just you can live with it if. you have to I think we should help her. and other people with their shine.

okay let's do that so let's let's not. perpetuate it what's it called when you. exacerbate no when you help somebody. help yourself keep their problems. intact enable enable let's not enable. shinus um let's disable. it you've made the first step you've. asked for help here okay you know here. here's the thing we're all a little. self-conscious Samantha but the key is. when you get into a situation you've got. to make up your mind like it seems like. you've done to to overcome the shyness.

shyness is not who you are it's just. something that you might do and act on. at certain points in your T and in your. life in your time in your timeline of. shyness don't lab yourself a shy person. just say I act shyly sometimes and then. make a decision to change make a. decision to make eye contact with people. oh you're coming up with this eye. contact yeah that's my first thing make. eye contact most people are. self-conscious and most people are. thinking about themselves I think when.

someone's shy they're thinking about. themselves so you need to start to. direct those thoughts outward you need. to just realize that every single person. is not thinking about you when you. interact with them they're thinking. about themselves like you're saying and. once you realize that everyone even the. cool kids are always thinking about. themselves and trying to be cool it it. kind of breaks it breaks it down and. they're not just thinking about you and. how uncool you are or how what you're. going to say something wrong or your. voice is going to crack when you start. talking I think it's good to not just. focus on by Focus outward I mean focus.

on what people are saying or what's. going on or ask questions about other. people okay this is good we're actually. giving good advice yeah and I'm going to. give some even better advice because. legitimately there are documented cases. of people overcoming. shyness through lucid. dreaming I'm not kidding there was this. woman Jason's like laughing at you there. was this woman who had an incredible. social anxiety disorder could not be. around people could not do any public. speaking so she mastered the art of. lucid dreaming and she would create an.

environment in a lucid dream where there. was a bunch of people that she had to do. a public speaking engagement for or just. interact somebody she was intimidated by. She and she overcame her shyness through. lucid dreaming so that's always an. option it's a little more difficult and. if you don't know how to lucid dream you. can just uh close your eyes and pretend. a lucid dream but just visualize. yourself making searing eye contact with. people Grant Andrews asked I'm short I. wish to appear taller. help.

now I can relate to this now I'm first. of all I'm not short people people meet. us on the street and they say I can. relate to this but first of all I am not. short they say the first thing they say. when they see both of us on the street. because we hang out on the streets yeah. on the streets all the time they don't. say anything to you they turn to me and. they say wow you're taller than I. thought you were they don't say wow R. you're a giant well they do say that do. you have a do you have a condition they. say wow link you don't have a condition. of shortness right so but I can relate. to people thinking I'm short and I don't.

even like that the point is is it's all. about perspective if you're short and. you don't and you're not comfortable. with it you got to get short friends. shorter than you because then when. you're seen in a group you're going to. be the tall one now or or you can force. perspective get closer to people yeah. you could like if I get way up here see. how much bigger I look than rhat I'm. bigger than rat yep that's hard to do. that's hard to maintain you just got to. get people's faces all the time but you. can defriend and if you're shy you can. overcome shy and shortness at the same.

time by getting right in people's faces. with sering eye contact make eye contact. but seriously if you have people like me. who are super tall in your life just. defriend us if you're if you feel bad. about this because the I with the I. create a lot of shortness just by being. myself you know what I mean you know you. shouldn't be my friend is basically the. thing but I mean it's too late for us. we're friends friends that's another. t-shirt that you could I create. shortness wherever I go uh people ask. about the klling on meet up Kelsey F. yeah she said red needs to Vlog going to.

the Klingon meeting or at least in the. very least talk about it on a subsequent. GMM 96 thumbs up to that question now we. don't want to give too much away yeah. but I'll say that we're we're hanging on. to this one but an update will come I. did go to thee when when the time is. right I went to the meeting so did link. and we'll talk about it and show you. video footage from I think you're. already given too much away that's when. I preface it with I don't want to give. too much away all that stuff you said I. I didn't want to I didn't even want to. tell them that it's I'm teasing it's it. called a cling on.

tease never never tease a Kling on. they'll headbutt you with that that's. another t-shirt you know what we need. just a person we need a person whenever. we say something like te a cling on. they're already printing the. T-shirt they need to be over there it. needs to be a. press and I want to hear that. sound the steamer there was an. experience with. Klingons uh in a public location and and. um you will receive a report okay you.

will receive a report good. t-shirt okay I wanted to highlight a. recent photo we got um or actually that. we posted on redlink Instagram one of. the when we started the corporate R link. Instagram meaning corporate between the. two of us combined oh yeah on one. account also it is also a business we. posted this photo we now have Instagram. at rlink and then Haley barbuta made.

this she cut out the whole middle part I. just thought we were being funny your. head up top my my head at the bottom but. she turned us into one person that looks. pretty freakish one ugly person what is. it I don't know who's contributing more. to the ugly in this picture but it's not. it's not really working for either one. just not quite not quite enough nose it. all right so it gave us an idea that I'm. calling shipfaced we want you to ship. face us and all right so first of all.

you know what shipping means right. that's on the internet sending something. out to be received from somebody no on. the internet when you ship when you ship. two people you put them in a. relationship together okay now like um. I'm married like Hannah and Grace they. do a lot of stuff together but they're. just friends but then people ship them. together in photos I think is how it. works and then they there's like a. tumbler tag going on you know sh shipped. you kids know all about that you relate. relationship people together now we've.

got our relationships unlock so we're. and that's you like that terminology. it's like kind of like rap terminology. my relationship is onl is unlocked but. our idea is that you can ship face us we. want to get ship based we're going to. post two pictures on our tumbler of just. my face and then Rhett's face and then. you can create a combination of the two. aspects of our faces into one face and. let me tell you this is going to be. entertaining because there was a guy uh.

Peppe Saucy face. on on the community the red link. Community who took just a picture of us. and photoshopped my hair on you're. looking at it right now right yeah my. hair on to you and I'm looking at it. right now too and your hair on to me and. created this Opposite Day picture and. unbelievably it is amazing how poorly My. Hair Works on you and your hair works on. me I mean I I decided we both made the. right choice I look like Wayan Jennings. as well I look like an early whing.

Jennings I really think I do and I don't. know who you look like you look like a. military instructor like a drill sergant. with a gizmo shirt on it's amazing how. bad my haircut looks when you put it on. your head so uh when you ship faces. together it creates one person I guess. you would call that let no that's. already a word rink rink r h i n k rink. so when you create these we want you to. hashtag it. shipfaced and rink and rink hash you can.

you can ship face anybody you want. details in the description but we're. going to put this on our tumbler and. then we're the ones that we really like. we're going to repost on our Tumblr have. fun with it we're going to reblog it you. know what time it is kacho farm from. Sacramento California it's time to spin. the whe of. mythicality don't forget to get your. pink mythical shoe a portion of the. proceeds go to fight breast cancer this. is just one of them they come in pairs. people well here's the other one right. here booy look at that let's end it link.

loses his mind and thinks Rhett's name. is Johnny hey man look at this look at. this shoe I don't think I can fit in. that it's kind of I like these shoes. Johnny they're really good uh they look. really good on you what's uh what's. going on here pink shoes look good on. you. Johnny you want to put them on you want. a piece of candy I'm not Johnny I got. some hard candy in my pocket.

well now I'm the Granddad and what else. would I give my little grandson but my. wor is original after all he's someone. very special too you. know.