What Hill Are You Willing to Die On | Ask, Tell, Confess

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>> I can't [laughter] whistle. I can't. whistle. Hello buddies. How are you guys. doing? >> I'm doing good. How about you? >> I'm drinking just, you know, great. >> I haven't seen you in a while. >> I know. >> So long. Holiday season, guys. >> Yeah. >> See you guys in weeks. >> What are you guys doing for Christmas? Anything spectacular? Go [clears throat]. home. >> No, you're going home for yours. >> You just like to go home. >> Going right up the road. >> Hi, M. What are you doing? >> I'm going home to see my mama and. family. >> A I love that.

>> Yeah. >> Oh, I'm actually going to Branson. >> Oh, Missouri. >> Yeah. >> Misery. >> Yeah. >> Why? >> Uh my dad, my stepmom are taking all of. us kids on a trip instead of just doing. it at their house. >> A. >> Oh, I love that. That's fun. I've. literally told my mom that all the time, but this is my mom's holiday, guys. >> She goes all out, so it has to be spent. in her home. >> She prepares. She's been preparing for. this. >> I don't We've done like a summer trip. where we went to like.

>> like a beach or whatever, but we've. never done like Christmas and we have. like we all have matching pajamas and I. think it's the cutest thing ever. I've. never done that before. Such a family. >> Yeah, I like. >> such a family. I love that. We're laying. low and then we're taking off to Vegas, baby. >> Yeah. >> Can't wait. Vegas for New Year's. >> I hate the holidays. I not that like I. love Christmas, don't get me wrong. I. love Christmas time. I love Christmas. music, but I feel like the world just. slows down so much and it's like, let's. get back to the freaking grind. This is.

my favorite. I love to slow down. >> Yeah, it's the slowdown before the huge. pickup at the beginning of the year. >> But I don't like it for too long, right? >> I get what you mean. Like I can't be. slow for too long because then I'm like. I'm not doing anything. >> I feel like this um Thanksgiving and. Christmas just haven't felt like. Thanksgiving and Christmas. >> No, it didn't. >> Right now it doesn't feel like Christmas. time to me. >> Each year it gets more and more like. that. >> Yeah. >> It's like less. >> Mine starts to gear up when it gets a. little closer cuz I've got kids. So I. have like the magic of it in the home.

>> The older you get the. >> But once you have a family, it's going. to change dramatically. Or if you had a. significant other. >> to do holiday stuff with Haley. >> Yeah. See, you know how it is. You guys. can go do holiday stuff. They just. opened the skating rink in Murphy'sboro. Do you guys want to go ice skating? >> Yeah, I do. But um I will fall, I think. I haven't done it in a couple years. >> I fell last. >> I [ __ ] Ice skating falls are the worst. >> You're expecting me to roll around on a.

razor blade? >> Yeah. >> Bye. >> I put you on one of the kids things and. push you. >> Yeah, I'll do that. I've heard people. have gotten their fingers severed off. because somebody went over there with. with an ice skating uh blade. >> You can get a finger and saw it off. [clears throat]. >> Yeah. Didn't know that, did you? >> All right. Well, today the topic on Ask. Tell Confess is going to be. what is the pettiest, silliest, most. meaningless hill you are willing to die.

on? H. >> Who would like to go first? I'll go. >> Go. This one says, [clears throat] "You lose. loose change. Your team did not lose. You did not lose your wallet. You don't. have lose change." Someone said, "This. is my Waterlue.". >> I get it. Yeah, that drives me crazy, too. So, I get it. Uh, >> I'm that person. I'll misspell it in a.

heartbeat. >> Yeah. Oh, you are. >> Yes, you guys. Oh gosh. Oh, >> I didn't know we had one of those. >> What are you guys saying? >> Got it. >> All right. >> That No, that pisses me off, too. Loose. and lose are two different things. >> Yeah. No, I don't have the. comprehension. I literally can't. >> Well, she's dyslexic, too. So, and that. could Okay, you get a pass. >> Yeah. No, I literally can't understand. differences in them. You could explain. it all day long. I'm not going to. comprehend it.

Yeah. >> Do you know the theirs ones? >> Just one has one O and the other the one. that has two O's means like a loose. vagina. >> A loose tooth. Okay. >> Loose vagina. [laughter]. >> You'll never forget it. >> What the [ __ ]. >> She'll never. >> This is wild. >> You'll never forget it though. Now you. will never forget it. When you look at. the word that has two O's, you're going. to be like loose vagina. >> Two lips, two O's. Think about it like. that. >> I'm going to try, guys, but can't. promise. >> Yeah. I may had a hill that he was. willing to die on that we actually.

disagree on. Yep. Very much so. >> What I may tell people. >> the hill I will die on is if you're um. on an airplane and you recline your seat. >> in economy. >> In economy you cannot do that in my. opinion because those two in. you're not comfortable and you've made. me uncomfortable sitting behind you. >> Well, you know you could recline your. seat too. >> Yeah. But then the personal [laughter]. >> and get those and get those two inches. back. >> But then the. You know about that then everyone just. stares. [laughter] I mean it's a domino.

effect. Let's be comfortable. Especially. if we're stuck on a plane for three to. four hours. You. >> when we went to Europe I reclined. Okay. >> That's different. That's a different. recline. I'm talking like if you're. traveling within the United States. I've. I've done the reclining and it's not. comfortable. So to me if you do it. you're making me more uncomfortable than. your comfort. Like you're not as. comfortable as you could be if it was a. better recliner. >> No. sitting up. I cannot I hate sitting. up like this the whole time. I have to. lean back a little bit cuz I don't know.

like my anxiety from sitting up. straight. I can't do it. But you're. always welcome to recline your seat back. too. >> This is crazy cuz [laughter] I'm on my. I'm on Himeme side of the fence here. >> Really? >> I I am only because I'm a forward. person. So like I like to go forward. like I put the trade down. >> I look over this [ __ ]. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. Yeah. Like. >> see I'm not like that either. You got to. go forward with it. Well, I've had like. five back surgeries, so any kind of. pressure backwards is like it really. kills me. So, I have to go forward. >> But if somebody puts their seat back,

that gives you an easier access to. laying forward, right? >> No, it does not. >> Oh, >> it it makes the ride way more like it. goes from it being here to now you're. here. So now, okay, we could have just. been here, but now your your 1 in. movement has made. back a little bit more and then came. forward when it. >> I'm not doing what you're doing to the. person behind me. >> Who gives a [laughter] I don't know you. >> I don't I don't think I paid good money. to fly. I don't want to be comfortable.

That doesn't bother me as much as. >> why do you have your window open on a 7. a.m. flight everyone else just to close. [ __ ] shut it. a. >> I love to I'm one of those people who. loves to have my window open but not. when the sun ising shining directly. >> and not when I'm the only one I feel. like everyone's staring at me. My thing. is my pet peeve on an airplane and hill. I will die on is do not put your feet up. >> on the armrest in between you.

>> that. >> there I willing chew somebody's toe off. dude do not do that. >> and they raw dog it too. >> oh just bare bunion. >> I see yeah [laughter] I agree with that. >> you just said bare bunion. >> I can't do it dude. >> no taking shoes off. >> in a plane bare no socks and just. putting them place. Nope. >> No, >> I can't handle it. There's so many. things on a plane that I. >> taking forever in the bathroom. Like.

when there's a line for the bathroom, like what are you doing in there? >> No. >> Like I know it doesn't take that long to. >> If you know you have sleep apnnea, you. should not be allowed to sleep on a. plane. >> No. >> Yeah. >> Or the people when the plane is. completely dark and they have their. light on. >> I'm like, bro, what are we doing? >> Yeah. Just be part of the group. Turn it. off. >> Yeah. Like turn it off. >> Read the [ __ ] room. Read the plane. [laughter]. >> Yeah. >> That'lling use your phone light. You. know what I'm saying? Like don't make it. a quickie. What do you need? >> That's the same That's the same thing.

with like um like when you're getting on. the plane and the person's just standing. in the middle of the aisle like putting. something up, getting things out. It's. like move and then get it. >> Scoot in. >> Like people don't have like situational. awareness. >> Situational awareness is so important. Someone wrote in on that one too. the. hill to die on is situ situation. awareness in a grocery store. I know you. guys don't grocery store, but yeah, like. >> I love to grocery store shop. It is I I. go to Walmart on a weekly basis. I love. to go to Kroger. I will sometimes. Instacart, but I enjoy grocery shopping.

so much. And. [laughter]. >> both of you guys. >> can't handle it. >> The fluorescent lighting pisses me off. >> Hurts my eyes. I get anxiety at the. checkout. >> What is the point of grocery shopping? And let's really talk about this, okay? You get in your car, you drive to a. store, you get out of your car, you grab. a cart, you go down every aisle and pile. in that cart. When you're done, you get. to the checkout and have to take. everything out of that cart just to put.

it in bags to put it back in the cart. And then you have to take the cart out. to your car, load that car up, put the. cart away, drive all the way home, and. then you have to unload the groceries. from that car, take them inside your. house, and unload them again. >> Open my door, and it's right there. >> Yeah, >> I've never actually thought about it. >> Oh, I have. I don't like it. >> No, it the the. lights, the noise, >> the smells. And normally you have to.

selfch checkout cuz no one works at a. cash register anymore. And then it's. yelling at me that I need to remove. something from the bagging area. >> Yeah. >> It's not even there. And then I have. anxiety and then everyone's. >> I feel like I'm holding up the entire. line and everyone's just like waiting on. me to check out and I just start. panicking. >> Go ahead, Mie. Tell us what you love. about that. >> Yeah, all of it. It was great. >> Okay. [laughter]. I enjoy it. >> I get it. >> Yeah, I do. I'm also not a stagnant. grocery shopper in which like I know.

exactly what I want. I don't keep the. same things in my house. It's like it's. a mood. So, it's like that week I might. be into something different. I got to go. browse. What if there's something new? I. won't know cuzart app. >> No in see everything more. >> No, not everything's on the app. And. someone accidentally left my receipt in. there the other day. You guys know how much of a price. difference it is? don't care. >> You care when it's like $100 more. >> What's $100 more?

>> Like a It was a grocery bill. It was. $100 more. >> because of the prices. So, if you go on. the Kroger app, like say Kroger. >> Mhm. >> They don't take the markdowns. They. charge more. So, that Instacart will. literally charge you this set amount. >> Don't care. >> But it's all on sale [laughter] at. Kroger. So, you can go there and they. have coupons that you get to. >> Now you're taking it over, >> guys. I'm a Midwest mom. coupon Sally. >> All right. All right. >> You cut them on the app and then you.

just put your little number in and they. all come out and buy one get one. >> I get those magnesium gummies. Buy one. get one. There. They're like $8. [laughter]. >> I'm with you, Mimi, on that one. >> You're going to have a lot of white. house on that one. >> Mimi, you're going to have a lot of. housewives who agree with you. I don't. care. Me and Haley agree. That's all. that matters. >> You guys are the You [laughter] guys are. the same person when it comes to this. Me and Haime Haime walks to Trader. Joe's. >> Haime also goes for walks at midnight in. the middle of strange cities. Okay.

>> You I cannot go into Trader Joe's ever. again. >> I went one time and so many people. It's. so much anxiety. >> It's worse than a regular grocery store. >> Why is every Trader Joe's so small? Tiny. But from the outside, they're not. >> right. And then everything's stock full. And to be honest, some of the stuff. looks dirty in there. >> I will be honest, they have like the. highest recall rates. >> Wow. >> Because everything's so fresh. >> So it's like there's the difference of.

like going to Kroger where you have like. a lot of GMO and then like Trader Joe's. is like you don't have as much. genetically modified at Trader Joe's. So. then you get a lot of like the rawness. of the foods and then you get so many. more recalls due to it. Like. >> Trader Joe does have some cool like that. chili crispy that crispy chili. >> Yes. >> Oh, they're He got me onto their. sourdough. >> Fire. >> Is it good? >> So good. So good. >> Sour dough. >> All right. Sour tomorrow. >> Maybe I'll go back to Trader. >> Joe. You can't Instacart from Trader.

Joe's. That's. >> No, we need to start working on that. >> Remember I vlogged it. >> and I was like, I'm never doing that. again. That was horrific. >> Yeah. No, you're right though. Like I've. never been so close to people grocery. shopping before like that. talking about. situational awareness. They don't. They'll bring your cart right to your. ankles and I'm like, "My guy, I'm just. trying to shop here." No, but Kroger, >> if I wanted a shadow, I'd go outside, >> you know? [laughter]. Oh, god. That's funny as. >> All right. Who's next? Me.

>> Go for it. >> You. Who? You. Thought you'd never ask. One of the hills that this person said. that they would die on. This is one that. I'll die on. And I agree with this. person because this ising getting so. bad, dude. Uh, this person said, "Live. streaming your kids punishments.". >> I screenshotted that, too. But it's not. just live streaming your kids. punishments. I get overstimulated. That's like, >> but you can't help it. Sometimes it's. literally forced onto your feed. >> That's why I'm saying like they've. normalized it now. Like it's crazy that.

that norm like the Laura Lee and Nurali. and Laura that whole thing. >> also that get that. >> that's they're a scam artist. They're. scam artists that made millions of. dollars off of. >> we can talk about it, but they it's. Nurali and Laura, right? >> Yeah. >> Nurali and Laura are a couple. And this. couple they what they do is when money. gets low, they come online and they. pretend to fight and they pretend to. break up. This last time, Nurali was.

posting videos of Laura sitting outside. shoving. Wasn't she toaster? Like she. was like so much stuff too. >> and it's disgusting. And so what they. would do is they would put swipe ups and. they ended up making like what $1.7. million in a month off of all of this. And they were posting it on Instagram. and Instagram wasn't shutting them down. Like they're scam artists but people are. so desperate for some sort of like trash.

TV that this is what their trash is. their trash TV. >> And it's literally like it's disgusting. real. It's not healthy for the kids in. the situation. >> The difference is we were raised on. trash TV that was made up. >> Yeah. >> TV like that we watched was so. >> the majority of it was made up. There. was some that was. >> there was of course, but like a lot of. it is so staged and dramatized that this. these people acting these things out, it's actual.

>> It's happening. >> in their lives and they don't realize TV. is TV for a reason. >> Yeah. This isn't normal. >> No, it's so bad. And I I just to go back. to what this person said. Sorry that we. went off on that rant, but it's like. when is enough enough? When are these. streaming sites going to be like people. are literally dying. >> trying to live stream crazy there? There. was a a creator who was streaming while. they were driving and flipped a vehicle.

and it it's like then then that's when. they kick him off, you know, and it's. like they should have mods that are. already seeing what's going on and there. should be heavy heavy penalties for. crazy live stream. If not, we're going. to have kids out here doing with cars. Like it's just like, dude, this stuff is. scary. Mhm. >> Like if this is what our world is. turning to, >> we have no hope, man. >> No. It scares the like raising children. in this generation right now scares me.

>> so much. My kids don't really do. internet, you know? They I I literally. cannot expose them to what we are. looking at right now as internet. And I. know so many parents out there. >> who let kids of my daughter's age on. social media. And I'm like, [clears throat]. >> that's an issue. And. >> it's because they don't want to. entertain their kid. >> A thousand%. >> It is exactly that. It's a babysitter. >> Yeah, >> it's a free babysitter. Oh, here. Sit. Scroll. Doom scroll. >> You're going to be quiet and you're not. going to bug me. I couldn't imagine. The.

funniest thing though, Jason and I. realize like sometimes we get very. overstimulated because Jason and I were. raised as bedroom kids. >> And we are raising living room kids. Holy crap, there's a difference in the. two. And I'm so thankful for it, but. like I know you look kind of confused. over there. A bedroom. I was a bedroom. kid, too. >> A bedroom kid is like you were raised to. like go to your room and entertain. yourself. >> Yeah, >> right. >> Well, I didn't have a room for a minute, but yeah. >> Stop. [laughter]. >> What happened? >> I didn't have a room. I haven't have. like my own room for a while. Like.

uh eighth grade, maybe. Seventh grade. >> A. >> hi mate. Hi. >> Yeah, I slept on like. the last one. I remember I slept on the. couch for a couple years in the living. room. Jason just told me he w he slept. on a couch for years because he didn't. have a window in his room. >> Well, yeah. Well, it's cuz my mom left. my dad and it was one of those. situations where it just took one time. where she saw something. She's like, "My. kids aren't going to be in this with me. and my sister bounced out of there.". >> Good for her quick like that. I respect. her to this day for that cuz I'm just.

like imagine that excuse of well we're. staying together for the kids or. whatever. But like Yeah. >> Good for mom. >> But yeah, but the difference Please. explain. >> Well, yeah. No, [laughter] it's like I. it's like the kids who are like forced. to their rooms. So, it's like their. entertainment comes from the rooms and. it's like a big separation in families. My kids I almost have to sometimes force. them into their rooms and being like, "Don't you want to go like play in a. room or something?" They're like, "Nope, perfectly content here with you." And. I'm like, "I'm a good mom. I swear. just.

sometimes you get over stimulated. because it's like they've got the TV. going and then like Cash is running. around and Jason's doing something and. like the phones are going and like but. then I have to like sit back and be like. I'm raising living room kids that my. kids feel so comfortable being with us. versus wanting to go hide in their rooms. and isolate themselves. >> My I was a bedroom kid. >> You were a bedroom kid. A lot of our. generation and before and below were. >> Oh, that's because I like to [ __ ].

move my room around and redecorate. >> Oh, I did that. >> Did you do that? Also, >> that's why I paint every one of my. houses and customize my houses because I. cannot I cannot sit in white walls. because I was grounded so much. The only. thing I was allowed to do was paint and. redecorate. >> I move my room. They'd get so mad at me. cuz I would move that by myself. >> Yeah, same. like giant dressers and. everything and they'd be like, "You. better not be scooting that across the. carpet and [ __ ] it up." I'm like, "I'm not." So, I do it so slowly so they. wouldn't [laughter] hear me.

>> Yeah, >> that's so funny, dude. >> I know. All right, who's next? >> This was actually kind of like into what. we were just talking about. Cutting. toxic family off is not a trend. It's. protecting your peace. Yeah, >> that is so important because I was. always raised blood is blood and you got. to like keep family members in your life. because they're blood and it wasn't. until I got older that I realized that. blood meant nothing. >> Yeah, absolutely. I don't think anybody. is who's cutting their family out is. considering it a trend. >> Oh, it on social media.

>> it is. >> Oh, absolutely. I have seen that a. million times. >> That's so sad. >> Yes. And it's like that's not a trend. That's literally for. >> I've been cutting toxic family off for. [ __ ] years. [laughter]. >> 40 years. >> Deuces. >> Like that's it's never been a trend for. me. It's just protecting your peace. I. literally just blocked another family. member last night. >> Just because I'm just tired of it, you. know? I think if somebody doesn't make. you feel safe, seen, or comfortable, >> cut that [ __ ] off. It doesn't matter.

who they are. >> There was that generation like before us. that was like blood is blood. Like you. got to like keep families together. >> You have to be like that or Yeah. No, I. get it. Trust me. >> Exactly. Like go give that uncle a hug. or whatever like that. And it's like. that's how I feel like there was that. generation. And it was like once those. grandparents started to die off, you saw. so many families disperse and never. speak again. >> Yeah. >> It's so crazy how that like monumental. person in a family can hold a unit. together and when that person passes,

>> you realize how much you don't have in. common. >> It It's truly shocking. You can like. zoom out and be like, "Oh, I don't. actually like you as a person.". >> Oh, yeah. >> Truly. >> Yeah. >> And. >> I don't like anybody in my family. I. literally was born into the wrong. family. >> You think so? >> 100%. Who do I talk to in my family? Not. one person. And if I do talk to a family. member, if I do talk to a family member, it's not blood. >> It's an outside family member. Like my. cousin Mary Beth, love her to death. And. like um Yep. That's about it. [laughter].

>> There we go. Shout out. Yeah. Yeah. That. you and I are very similar in that we. were talking about how like your family. >> my family's so close. >> She she comes from such a beautiful. family. >> and like I it's very thankful for that. too. >> 100 freaking%. You've got like that. typical like. >> mine's all mom like me. >> Mom loved you. >> I finally got to meet mom. >> You know she actually. >> That's enough about you. Let's talk. about me. [laughter].

>> How did mom like me? >> No, she uh she actually came to me. She. said it meant a lot that you hugged her. at the end. Like you were leaving and. you were like, I want to give mom a hug. She said that meant a lot to her. >> A well, she made the most beautiful. human so I have to love her, you know. Okay. Anyways, let's not be gay. [laughter]. >> Let's not be gay. >> Yeah. >> I love you guys. >> But no, your your family is so sweet. Your dad love him. Shake and bake is hot. by the way. And he's got a hot wife.

Yeah. Yeah. Patty. Patty's hot. >> Patty's hiding. Yeah. No, they're great. >> You have a really beautiful family. Your. grandparents. Are you kidding me? Make. me cry. >> Oh, dude. Grandpa's so cool. >> The one that's cornfields. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Your granny loves. [laughter]. >> I love them so much. She comments on. everything. She's on TikTok. >> My nanny is my number one number one. supporter. She's always been poor. Nanny. has some crazy.

>> Yeah, [laughter]. nanny has heard it all. >> She's like, I just don't play them in. front of your grandpa anymore. I said, not shout out nanny for having her back, though. >> 100%. >> Always. And she'll be in comments. I'll. see her in comments like going at people. if they She's like, I just hate that. they say such mean things to you guys. I'm like, it's okay. We get it. [laughter] all the time. But I'll see. her in comments like going back at. people and I was like, go nanny. [laughter]. I love it. She's on She's subscribed to. like all of like all of our Facebooks,

all of our YouTube. She's subscribed to. like everything. >> Supportive. >> She buys your merch. Like I She doesn't. need to buy it. We'll just send her. boxes of it. >> All right, guys. If you guys loved this. episode, let us know and we'll do a part. two possibly. But love you guys. See you. guys next week. Bye.