I'm Pregnant - Is My Ex the Father? | Ask, Tell, Confess

Ask [music] tell. [music] confess. to confess. to confess. [music]. >> Hello friends. and low places where the whiskey drs and. the beer chases [singing] my blues away.

>> and I'll be okay. >> Well, I'm not big. [laughter] so crazy. >> Hello guys. How are you? I flared mine. off. Ch. You got one of the shoe buddy. [laughter]. Hey, you were mad at me earlier. Yeah. Look at him. Look at him. >> You got one in the shoot, honey. You got. one. >> He said you were fluffing on me. I'm. fluffing on you.

>> All right. Who's ready to kick it off? Okay, I got one. Um, this is from Ari. It's a confession and an ask. Me and my. soontobe husband. We went separated. before committing at the end of last. year. I may or may not have seen an ex. in that time, but I'm now pregnant. I've. only let my man come close to the. possibility. The timing is so scary, but. I'm positive it's my now fiance is just. a scary thought. How do you tell your. future husband when you weren't. together, you were with someone else.

around conception? >> That's rough. >> That's. not something I would ever want to sit. him down. Yeah. I feel like you're First. off, you need to do that now. Let's not. wait till any closer. That's rough. You're going to have to. give me a comment. I don't have anything. nice to say, so I'm not going to say. anything at all. >> And I'm not judging. >> I just feel like. when it comes to babies and like being.

pregnant, you don't ever lead somebody. on because that is. >> one, it's life-changing to be able to. have a baby. >> Yes. >> And two, to make somebody believe that a. child is not theirs, I think is probably. one of the scummiest things you could do. to somebody. Yes. So, if she's really. asking for help, it's a she, right? >> Yes. >> Okay. So, if she's really asking for. help, then you need to come clean and be. honest. >> Now, like, do not wait another second. >> I mean, it's still going to break his. heart. Whoever the daddy isn't, it's.

still going to break his heart. >> But I would I would sit him down now and. talk to him and then definitely get a. paternity test. >> for sure. >> And you never know. It could be his. But. at least the truth is out. And. >> you don't want that to happen later on. >> You're going to have that guilt with you. forever. I just wish women like what if. men did that to women? >> Like, you know, like in a just a fake. world, what if men could have children. and were leading women on to believe. that babies were theirs? Like, that's. justed up. And I'm listen, I'm girl.

power all the way, but that is just a. [ __ ] up situation. >> With all this new like DNA testing and. stuff, the amount of families I've. personally witnessed be ripped apart. because of it. And it's like, >> yeah, >> I mean, >> you don't want that baby being born into. chaos, too. You're just literally. passing around generational trauma to. your child when you could break it. before they're even born. >> Well, also like health problems like. later on down the line, he could think, you know, like. >> I'm fine and healthy if this guy's. healthy, but it's not really his dad. So. like, you know. Yep. Exactly. That's so.

sad. >> Like the parents that wait until kids. get DNA tests on like my aunt ancestry. and they find out that the parents are. going to happen to a friend of mine. She. found out that her two older sisters are. her mom and dad's and apparently the mom. cheated later on. So she's the baby of. the family. Yeah. Not even she's not I. wasn't her dad and she didn't find out. till we were in our late 20s. >> So wrong. My dad didn't think I was his. He made me do ancestry.com. He's the one. who made me get on it. >> Bill Carter came to Nashville and made.

me get on and made me do a DNA testing. with him. >> I did not know this. >> Yes. >> I did not know this either. >> Yeah. Yeah. Oh my god, I didn't tell you. guys. >> But that's when he found out like all. his history, too, right? Okay. >> So, he made me and I think he made my. little sister do it too. I'm not. positive, but he for sure made me do it. >> Yeah. >> How can you deny that? You are literally. your father. Like, >> oh, I know. >> You and your mom, like when I was. finally able to like, you know, spend. time with you and your mom together and. then you and your dad together,

>> it's crazy to me how DNA actually works. things like you don't spend a lot of. time like you're not super close with. your parents at the time and like they. are you know coming into your life and. you're like you haven't been in your. mom's life. >> and you do things that are so similar. >> just like her. Yeah. >> It's crazy. >> No DNA is insane. >> Oh. >> yeah. You It's like looking in a mirror. Sometimes Olivia says stuff and I'm like. it's so infuriating. >> You guys are literally. >> Oh, you and Liv are twins. >> Yes. A thousand%. She is mean.

>> She's so funny. Yeah. >> Oh, the thing. >> she's lowkey me, too. >> Yeah. >> Swear [laughter] these two get together. and she's like, "Tell it to the judge, sister.". >> I love her so much. She's She's like. making that um age turn right now. We're. going from 8 to 9. And that's such a. monumental time. eight to nine is like. she's no longer a child and she's like. becoming not a teenager by any means but. [clears throat]. >> tween and we are talking about boys and.

you know all those kind of things and it. makes me. >> oh just wait. >> no I I get the prequel of my child's. life. >> through you. >> when they hit 13 they become the demonic. devils. >> and they don't come back. >> no. >> they don't come back. >> ever they're never cute and little ever. again. >> No, it's I I think the saddest thing. I've ever realized with Rais and Bailey. was she was the I mean Bailey's always. been a little sassy trooper, you know,

like that's just been her personality. from the get, but she was so sweet and. just so loving. And then 13 comes around. and you're like, who the are you? >> Hormones. >> She's getting better now that she's 17. I feel like 13 to 17 is the most brutal. years. And then she's going to go away. to college. So I'm just like, you know. what? Go. We'll be there. We're going to. the frat parties. Can't wait. You know, like, >> hey, Haley, too. [laughter]. >> Let's go. Oh, we're going. I already. told Jay. I'm like, I'm going to be.

Stifller's [clears throat] mom. >> Okay. Don't play. I'm going to be. >> Bring the White Claws. >> I I'm ready. We're going. [laughter]. >> I'm bringing the White Claws. >> I got them. Let's go. I'm so ready. >> Lord, that's so funny. >> All right. Are you ready? Okay, this one. says, "I once worked at a Taco Bell and. I always get to my shift a little. earlier to do my hair and whatnot, and I. thought I was alone. Turns out that. there was a woman in there as well. I. startled by the tapping of a credit card. on the back of the toilet seat. Turns. out she was doing the bathroom because.

my boss at the time found residue of all. places you choose to do on a dirtly. toilet seat.". >> That's the most blown up bathroom in. fast food. >> Just saying. You choose the Taco Bell. toilet to do. >> in the morning. >> Get at. Well, what if she did night. shift? >> I don't know how people do and function. That's the crazy thing. I've I've off. plenty of bathroom stalls, so I can't be. a hater with that. >> I've even crushed up I've even crushed.

up who knows I've even crushed up tabs. and of them off of the back of toilets. in like clubs. Okay, so I know I know. Trust me. Why do you think I'm such a. germaphobe now? The I saw a video of me. the other day rubbing some Vegas. performers like like you know how they. have performers on like downtown. I'm. like rubbing this guy's stomach and then. I kiss his cheek and I was like I was. like how did I do that? Like who are. [laughter] you? Like I would never know.

>> God doesn't even shake people's hands. >> My problem is is how do people do and. then want to function? I can't do it. Just without alcohol makes me want to. sit in a corner and rock back and forth. and [ __ ] my pants. >> It doesn't feel good. Have you ever. done? >> No. >> Hey, Mimi, have you? >> Yes. No. Maybe. So, >> no. No. Yeah, I've done it and it's. terrible. I don't like it. Gross. I.

can't do it. And I don't know how people. do it. Unless I'm completely. then I can take a. >> Well, because I was going to feel like. that. That's a different feeling. Yeah. Like. >> a bumper roof ski. >> Yeah. [laughter]. >> I just settled in. >> It's crazy. Just happened. >> Yeah. [laughter]. >> But I'm serious. Like anybody who's. sober doing like, bro, just take a diet. pill. You might feel better. I don't. know. The drain. It burns your nose. It. makes your teeth numb. Like, no thank.

you. I'm good. >> Sound like a fun time. >> And then people got to use that. bathroom, too. God, that's. >> a little kid. Get over on me. >> I will not touch anything in a public. bathroom. I will hover over the toilet. I won't do it at all. What is happening. over there? >> Mom brain. She goes, "Imagine a little. kid just walking on." I was like, >> "Yeah, >> yeah, >> that's what you have to think about.". >> Well, I will say you guys, I used to be. a big like last stall user because the. stalls were bigger and I was bigger, you.

know? Okay, I'm much smaller now. Different. >> has less germs. >> Well, yes, I did learn that on Tyra. Banks one time. Yeah. Did you guys see. that tower? Yeah. So, but I saw an EMT. one time like make a Tik Tok that says. I've found more in a handicap stall of. anything because that's where they go to. do because it has the child thing. >> Nope. >> I never changed my child on one of those. ever. >> I would never in a million years put my. child on one of those things. They said. that's where they find the most amount. of the most amount of ODed people. Well,

that and like you remember when it was. talking about the like the giant things. of toilet paper and they would clean off. >> they would clean off their needles in. it. >> Yeah. So that's disgusting. I'm never. going to use a public restroom. >> No. >> Ever again? >> No. No one talks about losing weight in. the things you can do. I can sit in like. booths really good at restaurants now. I. can use stalls in bathrooms comfortably. It's crazy the amount of things you get. to do like when you make a big body. transformation.

>> Yeah. That's how I'm I'm discovering. with my husband. He's loving it. He's. little skinny roll. >> Every time I see him the other day when. he came running out, I was like, >> he makes me look huge. >> Um, Jewel Baby has a question for Bunny. How was your BBL recovery experience? Any pain or discomfort? I'm also a. skinny girl like you. I'm not skinny. baby. I'm 163 lbs right now. So, I was. wondering where they got the fat to make. your booty big. Lol. I got my boobs done. 2 years ago, which wasn't too bad. Contemplating a BBL. I was wondering.

your experience because I'm scared and. it will be painful. Well, [laughter]. >> said, "Hold on.". >> When I got my boobs done, I went out to. dinner right afterwards. Like, that's. how minimal of a surgery it was. What I. got, so I didn't get a full-on BBL. I. got fat transfer to the top of my So, I. didn't get like the full BBL. I've. always had a big, but it started to like. kind of flatten out on top. So, they. took it from my my lower back actually.

and my stomach area and um. it was the worst thing I've ever gone. through in my life. It took probably. about 6 months to heal, 6 months to a. year to heal. And I almost passed out. because I had so much fluid leaking out. of me. I woke up out of that surgery. with the highest blood pressure I've. ever had. My heart rate was in like the. 200s. I remember looking at my doctor. and asking him if I was going to die. because it was so bad. U my dad came to. visit me a couple weeks after I had the.

surgery and I tried to go eat dinner. with him and I just had fluid just. pouring out of me to the the point where. I thought I was going to faint. >> Um it's really uncomfortable. It's not. uh it's actually a really scary surgery. to have. You can actually die from. having a BBL. And my high school weight was 140. pounds. I've always been like a thicker. girl. And I appreciate you saying I'm. skinny. Everybody's body holds weight. differently. Um, but I've always been.

like a thicker girl. And since having my. BBL, it is so hard to keep weight off. I. literally have to lift weights four to. five times a week. I I eat so strict and. so clean. Granted, yes, I'll have cheat. meals here and there, but the majority. of the time I eat really, really. healthy, and I'm still 160 lbs. >> Granted, a lot of it's muscle now. because of how much I work out, but my. normal range is about 155 to 160.

>> And it's so hard. Like, your body. completely changes. It changes the whole. chemistry of your body. Whereas before I. was kind of like lanky and like barely. had any hips on me, now I have. childbearing hips. Like I literally am. so against BBLs and I don't think. anybody should get them. >> Well, and that fat is already going. away. Like the girls who got the BBLs. are now getting the lipo to remove the. fat that they put in those places. It's. that is a literal fat.

>> surgery. >> Yeah, it is. And I know everybody's. like, "Well, you got it done." And I'm. like, "Absolutely." And that's why I can. sit here and tell you, do not get a BBL. It is not worth it. one, it makes your. Thankfully my doctor, Doc Vegas, um, shout out Dr. Corsani in Vegas did such. a phenomenal job on my body. Like when I. tell you he did so good, but a lot of. girls are very unfortunate and it. disproportions their body, it doesn't. look good. A lot of the time the girlses.

don't match their legs. >> They look like ants. >> Yeah. They're shaped like wisdom teeth. Like it's really bad. >> Yeah, that's what they call it. They say. that they're shaped like teeth. >> I've never heard that. >> Yeah. And I'm not saying that to clown. them, but that's what they say. >> Yeah. I've never heard that. Kick. I. heard the ant because Well, I I only say. ant because that was like a trend at one. point. Like people were literally asking. for their bodies to look like that. >> No, it's so bad. And I I've seen another. thing on TikTok where people are talking. about BBL smells. My has never smelled.

ever. I don't know. I I don't know if. it's because the girls are getting their. asses too big and they just can't keep. up with it or like if it's just smells. because it is so big, but I've never had. that problem. So, >> that's the only thing I can agree on. with like getting a BBL is like if as. long as you don't get too crazy, you. don't have that problem. >> But yeah, definitely I don't think it's. worth it. I think it's a fat. I think. natural bodies are so beautiful. That's. why I had my implants removed. And I. don't know, it's I we as women, we.

always want what we don't have. And I. get that. I understand that. But I. promise you, and I preach this all the. time. >> No, what you want in your 20s is not. what you are going to want when you're. 45. I promise you that. >> So, just if you're going to get it done, research the doctor very well. Look at. what his patients look like 6 months to. a year after they get it done. Yeah. >> Um, I was going to say also see if you. can do it in another way. Like if you're. wanting a bigger butt, you can work out.

and get a bigger butt. Like you see so. many girls are like this is what I. started with versus this is what I have. now. And that's more controlled, >> you know, like you were able to add. muscle in places or lose in places. Like. there are other options. >> and absolutely at under no circumstances. get shots in your. >> do not do the you can get they have this. thing where you can get shots in your. ass now instead instead of doing a BBL. or fat transfer. >> and these girls are getting like lumpy. and like it's just so bad because filler.

filler literally migrates. You don't. know where that's going. There's blood. vessels back there. Like you just you. guys just have to be really really. careful. And um yeah, so just know that. if you do get a BBL, you will have an. extra 20 pounds on you no matter what. >> It doesn't matter. And there's so many. like I am so fortunate because I've only. had to have one fat transfer done and um. one uh high def baser lipo and I did. this in 2015. So I mean 10 years ago I. did this.

>> and I've been able to maintain it. Most. women have to do multiple surgeries. because they do not have the the um. >> you know, they don't they don't work. out. They don't eat right. They think. because they're skinny right now and. like the fat got taken out that they can. get another one. And the more lipo you. get done to your stomach, the more it. jacks it up. Like listen, I'm against. plastic surgery. Even though I have had. everything done, that is why I'm against. >> You're against I was going to say you're. against it because you have a personal. experience with it. That's a completely.

different outlook than most people just. never having it done and feeling some. type of way about it. >> Yeah, absolutely. So, I it's probably. not what you wanted to hear, but if you. are going to get any body work done, go. to Doc Vegas in Las Vegas. Dr. Corsandi, he's hot and he's just the sweetest soul. ever. You will love him. Good human, man. Like, just love him to death. So, >> yeah. Okay. >> All right, guys. Bye.