Brittany Renner Shut Club Shay Shay Down, Talking Body Count & Deion Sanders | CLUB SHAY SHAY

I've had sex with 35 guys. okay. oh Lord. impressive isn't it the word so if I'm. judged everybody. if I'm judged for having great taste we. are in the bar so help yourself. we got this for the next hour. all my life and grinding all my life.

sacrifice hustle baby Christ. [Music]. grinding all my life. [Music]. hello welcome to another edition of Club. shayshay I am your host I'm also the. proprietor Club Shay Shay and the young. ladies are stopping by for a.

conversation and a drink today is a. former college soccer star she's. unapologetically a social media. influencer reality TV star personality. popular fitness model model actress. mother author businesswoman entrepreneur. Brittany Nicole Renner oh my gosh. I'm I'm kind of nervous why are you. nervous you've done so many of these.

interviews I. got going on Club Shay I'm a fan thank. you so yeah I'm just really nervous I. know you're gonna ask me some great. questions I'm gonna ask you some. unbelievable questions but before we get. started I'd like to have a toast this is. my very own cognac I'm gonna send you. home with a bottle oh I have a bottle. sent to you send to you because you. can't take a. uh what would you like to toast to true. love always to true love uh.

congratulations on all your success. moving forward hopefully everything that. you've prayed for you wish for come true. in the very very near future to all the. best Brittany. oh that's good. you that type of woman but I was.

thinking we know we like periodically we. you know told you don't have a little. Swig I didn't know you'd go take it all. the way to the Dome like yeah I'm. straight to the point. okay. welcome to Club Shay thank you. I mean this was a large undertaking uh. to actually get you here because uh when. I reached out originally I didn't think. you was going to be open or receptive to. an opportunity to play in appearing on. Club why not well I mean I've seen. I've seen I don't really listen because.

I try not to listen if it's someone that. I would like to have on my show I try. not to listen to what they say because I. don't want them to try to sway me in the. questions that I'm gonna ask or the. direction that we're going to take the. interview in so but I've seen you on a. lot of different podcasts and none of. them are quite similar to what kind of. what I do yeah and I would say that I'm. really different depending on the. platform and the people okay the energy. the version of people getting me it just. roll the dice you never know I'm like a. box of chocolates you never know okay.

Brittany Nicole rinner. born in Mississippi born in Ohio born in. Ohio moved to Mississippi at a very. young age Ocean Springs Mississippi. Ocean Springs so where is that close to. Jackson but Haley it's about three hours. from Jackson about an hour from New. Orleans right on the gulf oh okay so. you're close you're on the border okay. so what what was I mean your your. siblings brothers sisters yeah I have. two brothers and one sister and when you. fall where at in the in this mix. yeah oh okay so what was what was.

Brittany renner's childhood like. we're just standing straight to it. another shot or no okay we're just going. right in yeah. because I want to see. how. were you like this to there I want to. know the transformation that you went. through the metamorphosis that you went. through in order to become what we see. sitting here today. well I was raised with my grandparents. from about nine years old up okay there.

was a lot of family history that was. very uh peculiar I guess I can say for. lack of better words so I was raised. with my grandparents I'm biracial half. black woman white daddy black silhouette. yeah yeah so I was raised by myself in. Mississippi that happened that happened. in Ohio okay go ahead yeah so um so I. originally lived in Ohio we moved. I live with my grandparents my. grandparents white on my mom's side grew. up very whitewashed very sheltered. um soccer was my life from fourth grade.

up and I would say that. um I was just always been very sensitive. to things I've always wondered like why. am I wired this way why do I look at the. world the way that I do I wish I could. turn off the feeling aspects I've always. been a very deep feeler a deep thinker. even as a young person so I would just. say like sheltered whitewashed very. strict dinner at 5 30. you can have a. snack at uh eight o'clock bed nine very.

strict when you say use reared by your. grandparents what transpired that you. know you weren't with your mom and dad. so my dad he was an alcoholic he's been. sober for 12 years now so shout out to. him right. um so he was going through that part of. you know during that time my mom there. were things I didn't know like growing. up when I was going through that but my. mom basically my grandma was like you're. not stable I'm gonna just go ahead and.

raise them so she just kind of took us. from my mom yes so she just it's a. southern thing yeah. well and she. and she's so that's what she did um so. it wasn't really fair to my mom but it. was probably what was I mean it wasn't. the best for us that's what happened so. you know they gave us that stability and. that structure that we really needed as. kids okay so what the relationship was. there any resentment that your. grandmother took you from I mean I don't. want to sound harsh but she's dead. it was that resentment growing up that. you're with your grandmother and your.

mom is over here and you're not with her. with any resentment on either side your. mom let this happen or your grandma made. this happen well I didn't have this. awareness as a child when I was about 26. years old I kind of got the whole story. as to how everything transpired and why. things were the way that they were and. some of our family secrets as well but. no I think there was always that long. gank to you know that I called it the. burden of unconditional love right where. I yearned from my mom just like I. yearned from my dad when my dad was in. jail I used to write in letters so there.

was always that longing for my actual. parents and it was hard connecting with. my grandparents at times because they. were so old school they could didn't. really understand a lot of things and. they had such a tight leash on us you. know is that why you rebelled is because. it was such a tight leash. [Music]. just normal stuff but yeah I just wanted. to I was very curious I'm a very curious.

person so yeah I just wanted a little. bit of room to breathe and we weren't. really given that did you understand. that you were different because you were. biracial because I'm I'm assuming. there's not a whole lot of biracial kids. in Mississippi. no there's definitely at the school I. went to Ocean Springs there were not. even a lot of just black people in. general at our school it was like a. little huddle of us and so who did you. click up with. I mean I played soccer right so yeah I.

mean that no I will say that you know I. linked with the tokens you know all the. tokens we linked up together on soccer. team and stuff but uh mainly white girls. is who I played with you know but yeah. my best friends are black so right so. yeah so what would Brit in Middle School. in high school what was Brittany Renner. like. were you were you like that it girl like. I ain't got time for you where you like. okay I'm cool yeah I'm popular but I'm. cool I'm down to earth did you pick on. people what was what what would you what.

were you like. I'll never forget her and how she made. me feel I went to the guidance counselor. about her multiple times so I had a. bully so that's why I hate bullies now. and I bully bullies because I cannot. stand people who pick on others because. I went through that I felt very. overlooked. I don't really feel like that I was that. beautiful when I was in Middle School. I've always had like struggled with my. skin with acne uh hyperpigmentation so I. felt very looked over and it wasn't. really until I got to high school where.

I kind of got like a little right shape. right right it's like attention for the. wrong reason so you grew into this body. yes but it's still even in high school. still wasn't like a super focal point it. wasn't probably until more College you. know but I felt very invisible so I. think that's why for me I've never. I've actually developed personality and. social skills because I haven't been. beautiful my entire life so that's why. you know I consider myself the people's. darling because I know how to talk to.

people I can talk to anyone right and. that's what I did Growing Up So when did. boys become prevalent or when did you. become interested in boards was this a. high school a high school thing or was. it when you got to college. I guess in what way like dating or just. yes dating or were you like. I got it guys are really interested in. me guys will buy me candy flowers take. me out on dates take me to you know guys. yeah. um I don't feel like I ever had my pick. of the litter though not in high school.

again I still there were other girls and. again. I feel like two being like one of more. of the minorities is like you're just. looked over a lot and again I don't feel. like I grew into my looks until a little. bit more so College you know so more of. a late bloomer but I mean I remember. practicing making out with the mirror. when I was in Middle School you know I. think I had my first kiss at I don't. know maybe. seventh or eighth grade right yeah you. know so he's like I like this yeah.

[Music]. I don't know but but yeah so I don't. know I feel like guys even in high. school still it still wasn't that much. of a thing I think I mean I had maybe. one or two boyfriends. um but that was kind of it anything. serious or anything like okay you. wearing his jacket you wearing oh I wish. I could have done that like where the. the Letterman yeah yeah you know you. wore his jacket Ward's class ring no.

that wasn't a thing no the guy that I my. first boyfriend he went to a different. school oh okay so God knows even what he. was doing that he's only a year older. than me but. um that was actually in high school the. first and last time I ever cheated on. anyone was when I was 16 years old the. guy that my first boyfriend he went away. on a camping trip I was feeling. emotionally neglected and so I invited. him he was going for a day he's gone for. a couple days on a camping trip with his. family okay and I was feeling neglected.

you know I wasn't texting wasn't I don't. think it was super big back then but. um. so I invited a guy over and I kissed. someone else three days later so Margie. comes back from the trip he has this. spray painted shirt for me that had a. soccer ball on my name he made me this. bracelet that said b-runner and I was. like oh my God I'm so like I felt so. guilty sick to my stomach so three days. later I told him the truth you told him. how to do your grave everything ain't.

meant to be told why not if it can be. destroyed by the tree that should be. destroyed by the truth no that is not a. way to live. a lie is okay if it will spare someone. great harm or embarrassment. you're a cheater huh. how did you deduce that because I'm. trying to spare his feelings because. Liars never prosper. you didn't lie. you told him the truth but if had you. not told him a lie is not told unless. it's spoken you can lie by omission.

oh that's leaving the church in the trip. that's still alive did he ask you. he had no idea there you go whoop there. it is. not. no you tell the truth if it can be. destroyed by the truth it should be. destroyed by the truth like if my truth. take something away from me I wasn't. meant to have it to begin with well you. know he's emotionally scarred for life. probably. so you want that on your resume yeah. yeah I'd rather wear the truth yes I. want people to see me for what I am.

whatever that looks like I want. everything it's okay don't erase. anything off my resume it is okay to. also be seen for what you're not. okay I feel like you stress before you. no no no no you you could have just you. didn't have to tell him he went back he. deserved to know the truth I would want. to know the truth if you kiss somebody. else you better tell me he don't. win got you or he don't spend his. hard-earned money got you a funny. t-shirt oh my God bought you a little. bracelet make it yep but I had to tell.

the truth and you broke his heart. because telling the truth is an act of. love so when you really care about. something you tell them the truth when. you care about yourself you tell the. truth and I ain't afraid of anybody you. loved him so much that you cheated but. anyway we go we gonna move on we gonna. move on. 16. 16. obviously you're good at soccer you. get great you graded that's the greatest. soccer please you get a scholarship to. Jackson State the Jackson State. University okay what was that experience. like okay you go to college obviously.

now you're around you know you were. clicked up with the. and so now you at a place it's all used. there's a culture shock I found out. about Lil Boosie how to mow his swag. people hanging out on the Plaza and I. really. saw the camaraderie amongst black people. that I was just like there ain't nothing. like this right you know I'm talking. about we looking out for each other in. classes and stuff so there was nothing. like Jackson State right you know but I.

like I played soccer so I was busy a lot. didn't get to go to the homecoming and. do a lot of different events because of. the season but it was a culture shock. did you know about hbcus prior to you. going to one no. and honestly like. my grades really weren't the best why I. I. hate school but I love to learn. well that's awesome. well that's what I I am a oxy I am.

a juicy contradiction right like I love. Halloween but I don't like scary movies. okay. so you go to Jackson State it's a. culture shop all of a sudden now you. have to click up with the other half the. half that you weren't really necessarily. not because you didn't want to because. you just probably I wasn't exposed to it. right yeah you felt more comfortable and. so now how did the girls treat Brittany. because you're different I mean you're. you know you got paper bag skin you. Brown. foreign.

just a baby one but wow I've never had. anyone ask me that question. [Music]. I honestly felt I felt accepted you felt. accepted I did yeah and what I will tell. you because I know this is like a it's a. it's a popular topic it's a it's a. really interesting question when we were. out on that field. playing against those because there were.

a lot of hbcus that had predominantly. white players right when those players. were on the field calling us inward. right it wasn't half of me was enraged. or oh that that don't apply to me you. know I'm only half right we're all. fighting right so that's why for me it's. like whatever color my skin is baby. let's go let's start up let's go because. you're not gonna talk to us like that. right so half or not. how was it soccer aside you're not on.

the soccer field you walk into class. you're in the student center or you're. in the yard I mean what so what would. how did the women how would the women at. Jackson State treat Brittany I felt very. much accepted I feel like black people. are the most accepting people on this. planet. and if they don't accept you because. something's off with you. that's what I learned hey I'm both so I. can say that right okay uh I've seen. both sides right and I feel like they're. the most understanding the most. compassionate the most accepting the.

most open. I read that you led Jackson State to the. first ever swag Soccer Championship in. 2010 you won tournament MVP and freshman. of the year and freshman of the year. did you ever think about pursuing soccer. professionally. man. a guy. oh man and guess what he was white. hold up hold up time about time let me.

get a 20 second time. you go to an HBCU at high school you was. clicked up with white you go to an HBCU. where they're like 99.9 are black and. you and you date the quarterback who's. what how the hell did that happen. it was like. oh no more pink meat for me but.

lower that birthday. so you just show what we got to show. after this one. right it was fake because. um. it was literally like kind of like in. passing right we saw one another and I. was just like oh my gosh she's the most. beautiful thing I've ever seen and that. was kind of ain't no brothers beat him. to the punch. there was a basketball player who had. green eyes he was cute but.

he wasn't she was one of the. other J sets you know what I'm saying. right so you were you and you and the. the basketball player you and the. quarterback y'all date how long. I do have to disclose. add zero respect for myself back then. so we dated for about I think so how did. you find out he happened.

hold on hold up hold up so he tells you. that's right in the beginning he gave me. the option again telling the truth is an. act of love. and you was like okay I was like at the. time. so obviously you didn't feel about. yourself then the way you feel about. yourself absolutely yeah because I would. never accept red cones but then I was. just anything I can get right like. crumbs off them whatever you know that's. how it was yeah was that because. the yearning for affection from your dad.

or something were you missing something. that you was willing to accept that over. nothing. I would say I mean. you know looking back of course you know. I would say that's where it started and. I have a great relationship with my. father now I have very healthy male. relationships in my life and because I. have that now I do view men as a whole. very differently I move uh even with. dating very differently because I have. these healthy bonds with men you know.

these platonic relationships with men. these fam these family bonds with men. yeah so yeah I think then. I was just searching for that and I. thought the answer was outside of me I. thought it was going to be solved with a. man so that's how I got myself in a bit. of a pickle but that's why I left. Jackson State I was in love. so when I quit so you left when he left. or yeah because he. but yeah you didn't kill his name so but.

I'm assuming most people know who he is. Yeah well yeah and who gets. him but yeah it'd be 50 50 with me I'm. like I don't wanna him yeah um but. yeah. I had I played two seasons at Jackson. State and I left after that. because he left he was going to go into. the draft and I was like well I love you. and I don't want to be without you so. I'm leaving school so you gave up your. potentially your career in order to be. with him while he pursued his career. yeah.

so how after he left after he left. school you dropped out of Jackson State. how long were you together with him. after that. what I left in. Linda. 2011 we broke up. uh the summer of 2014 that's when I. moved to L.A so y'all together for a. minute yeah he's the reason I got into. fitness got my body together he taught. me everything I know about Fitness I can. go into the gym and I know how to. navigate and do what I need to do to to. get it done so he taught me a lot about.

business fitness and we made a lot of. money together right you know so that's. why he was still a very important piece. in that puzzle. yeah. did you once you guys did you think it. was too late for you to pursue potential. soccer again after you had left and been. away from it well there was a new coach. that came in and he was like Hey I I. really want you to come back on the team. maybe you could just come back you could. register red shirt and then play you. know the last year. um I told him I wasn't interested in.

that. so I had the opportunity to at least. finish out right but I didn't want to I. was. using love. thing isn't it and I haven't changed you. love hard. that's why I have to be careful so let. me ask you this. to your childhood how difficult your. grandmother is very strict how difficult. was it to try to unlearn some of the. things that she tried to instill because. I still carry a lot of the things that. my grandmother my grandparents instilled. in me being from the south and they were.

very strict I still carry some of that. because I look at it as a form of. discipline and at the time. I like yourself like man why is it like. this why do you have why we can't do the. X Y and Z but as I've gotten older I. realized what they were trying to do. they were trying to put up guard rails. and safeguards to was venting me from. doing things or prevent things from. happening in my life that I didn't see. at the time okay so you're asking me. what what's it I have to unlearn or how. hard was it how hard was it I mean I.

think it's just any person any type of. programming it's going to take if it. took years to learn it may take years to. unlearn so there are just things again. even as a biracial person I remember I. read a book that it was is it I think. it's called is it me is it you or is it. my skin color or something but it. explained a lot of the history between. white and black women so I think there's. just certain things that you just have. to educate yourself on and that just. takes some research well I I just been. reading this quote and I've seen it like. 50 000 times they say you only become.

learn who you are once you've unlearned. once you've unlearned what you've been. told that's the part so. being biracial. did were there any stereotypes were. there any like blacks or this or whites. or that knowing that half of use this. and half of use that so you have to be a. certain way around this class this race. of people in a certain way around that. race of people and although like you I.

mean fear right I mean I don't know if. you could you could you could get away. with saying the n-word or you black mope. oh well you know things of that nature. so how hard was it for you to like. because you have to like okay I'm over. here with you guys okay no I'm back over. here with you guys. I mean there is a lot of stereotypes. that are true. okay like. you know. hold up my audience my audience has. never seen you before you still didn't.

give me that quote I will give it to you. so I see what you're trying to do no. look let's let's have it yeah let's have. it let's have them what are we talking. too oh yeah. um you can't well damn you every time. every time every time are you really. looking for love I'm not looking for. love I'm prepared for love. [Music]. okay well.

that time Zippy I don't when I think of. Mississippi I'm from rural South Georgia. I'm gonna say not too much no we know. you're a country boy I am I am like a. corn cob without house. I don't see any any similarities between. rural South Georgia Mississippi and L.A. so how hard was it for you like La. Mississippi ain't nothing in common.

nothing dirty. disrespectful I mean it was another. again another culture shock right. especially when you're in the South too. everybody speaks to one another yes yes. that was like the biggest thing I was. like why is everyone so rude or. everyone's you know everyone's going. nowhere fast with these cars and honking. and beeping I think getting on the. freeway was one of the scariest things. when I moved to LA I was just like you. know. um but yeah it was it was really hard. because I didn't realize how much it was. like a doggy dog like people looking out. for themselves that was very new to me.

yeah yeah especially after years being. on travel teams the college team having. that type of Sisterhood and camaraderie. to where like every person is for. themselves that was weird that was. really weird and it's still weird to. this day and I'm 31. So when you say like because I agree it. was always yes sir no sir yes ma'am no. ma'am you hold the door for someone. you're like hey how you doing today and. now people look at you like. and so now I'm kind of like desensitized. to that hey get the door yourself.

you know when after you met after for so. long people looking at you like you. crazy now obviously people speak to me. because they recognize oh hey because I. think sometimes a lot of people will. recognize who I am but for the most part. if people don't recognize who you are. they're just not saying hello no just to. a total stranger no no no no they're. definitely not definitely just don't. exist or entitled that you held the door. did you know you was always going to. move to LA or did you always want to. leave Mississippi.

I didn't always know that I just. followed my heart. going to Michigan that's where I lived. for a little bit I lived in Wyoming. Michigan. and I actually had a cover shoot for. this magazine we won't say I had a cover. shoot then and I came out here went to. like a house party just really did it up. when I came out here and my first. boyfriend and I we broke up there was. just a lot of insecurities a lot of you. know what I'm saying but no I don't know. what you're saying because you didn't. say anything.

okay this is. I know what you're saying I would know. what you were saying if you had said. something but since you didn't say. anything. um I feel like in that in my first. relationship I thought that the only. thing a guy could do is you know that. was unhealthy or you know one of the. only problems that you could have in a. relationship is getting cheated on so I. was very open to opening up the. relationship if you will I know and they. did that to you no that was before.

too much love in hip-hop we were. watching Joe Budden and Caitlyn Garcia. at the time. and I was just like maybe he'll only. have to worry about other girls. I'm talking about naive. poor thing but um that didn't go that. wasn't going on when I was a kid. I bought 30 years too early. I missed the gold age I'm about to go. over there I missed that area.

what I'm saying is is that I ended up. breaking up with that guy right and I. didn't go back to get any of my stuff in. Michigan I moved to LA right literally. like two other Instagram girls I won't. say their name but uh two other. Instagram girls who live with this. photographer in a studio in downtown L.A. right we had like bunk beds I would I. don't know what I would have thought. like Mississippi like you'd have went. like kind of like South and a little. North or Atlanta yeah no no. whoa whoa how you not like the a.

what's going on it's busy as hell that's. right yeah but it's really nice. [Laughter]. so what were your plans when you came to. La what did you want to be what was I. mean you had dropped out of school so. obviously so when you were at Jackson. State what were you studying to be what. would you what was gonna be your major I. don't even know pre-dental it could have. been something stupid I don't know. [Music]. classic play soccer so you made some. eligibility so basically I just want to.

stay on the side. yeah so when you get to La so what did. you okay because you say your your ex he. he taught you Fitness he taught you how. I had a big following okay. so that's what you're gonna be. I didn't have. a I just came out here like I am. beautiful. I'm young I got all these followers. there's two other girls then bump get. bunk beds that were all here I don't. know what we're chasing but we're here. right. brand deals like that's how I was.

getting money was brand deals right so. it's like you can I mean I was 22 when I. moved here so I was moving around. spending money being able to do what I. wanted to do because I was getting money. from Brand deals that's how I was making. my way when did you realize you was like. that. when I was like that. oh boy ah. I don't even know what was like that aha. moment because I feel. like I had a lot of access.

at a very young age to people that I. never thought would know my name right. so it was kind of like living in. Disneyland I'm like oh my God like I. couldn't get enough so I don't know. probably when I moved out to LA just. being 22 23. and because uh coach Prime you know. coach Prime was a former coach at. Jackson State he had you speaking to his. guys and you said that. I've got more checks in my DM than Nike.

so is that how it started that's when. you knew like damn. the inbox my inbox running over. I mean I think that was definitely a. part of it I think just being able to. literally and figuratively skip the line. and get paid to like stand in front of a. movie poster and post it on your page it. was it was quick money like it I don't. know it was the access it was the money. it was the men I mean again people like.

to judge me and don't you. well yeah I mean. I like what I like my love man that's. yeah. yeah I mean I'm. I'm being paid for my husband. [Music]. a real man. give me Brittany renner's idea of a if. if if someone says okay draw your real. man and then give me the attributes in. which you want him to possess okay let.

me pull up the parchment. so first things first. honest okay. honest. he's adventurous he's affectionate. that's something not a lot of people are. naturally. he is respectful he is curious about the. life around him and he's committed to. himself I would say those are probably. the core values that I'm thinking of. someone who is. um.

that believes in true love. true love that's what you're looking for. storybook wrote I mean if if true love. is it something that you've read or if. it's something that you've experienced. and you know what it's like. I've can't say that I've ever. experienced it necessarily just because. I feel that I would be with that person. but it's always something that's been on. my heart and if it was put on my heart. it was for a reason it's because it. exists just like you're able to manifest. the way that you are because it's put on. there for you to materialize same here I.

think a lot of people think that it's. not going to happen for me because of. the way that I carry myself or different. versions of me that they're stuck on but. it's on my heart for a reason that's why. I've had to experience the flip side of. the coin the darker side of the coin. where I've had a lot of heartbreaking. disappointments because how else would I. appreciate true love when it comes to me. because I've had everything come to me. so easy even with soccer I didn't have. to practice I was good good great I mean. that's just what it was I didn't have to. that's what it was so it's like when you.

don't know the value of anything because. things come to you so naturally because. you're beautiful because your body the. followers the social media the notoriety. you don't value right so that's why. I think for me for you to have an. appreciation of anything. because I could get whatever I want. so going through some of the stuff I. went through the last couple years I've. really got to see what I'm made of. when you're at Jackson State where. you're in a sorority no my grades. weren't good enough. damn Brit I mean so you you were just.

like you were just in college kicking it. I mean I wouldn't even say well I was. shocked up I was playing like like. College in the Palisades people in. Jacksonville there I heard that is. Palisades. plain house. your grandmother would be so. disappointed I mean she was alive when. that happened. and what was she gonna do nothing but. I'm saying that's what I'm saying she's. gonna be disappointed because she gonna. say Brittany I I raised you better than. that or at least I thought I did. honestly no no no no no honesty honesty.

is the key honesty is the best I don't. really my grandma said she never stuck. I'm not even really looking okay. experience life you gonna put granny out. there like that truth is truth. so I'm not really listening to her. so when Dion asked you to come back and. speak to the kids to the to his team the. young man at Jackson State. did you prepare. to like okay I'm gonna touch on this.

this and this or you just went up there. and let it flow from the heart. foreign. well originally I just wanted tickets to. the game I think it was a homecoming. game or something and he's like no I. want you to speak to my team so in my. mind I was just like okay I don't really. know what I don't know what about I. guess he said the game of life right and. I'm curious because I know that you. asked him about it did he ever get into. detail about what we discussed no and. you've never seen the footage right I.

saw some of the footage but like I said. I don't like because I'm like okay one. day I would like potentially for her to. be on my podcast now obviously that. would happen a couple of years ago so. I'm gonna let some time pass by before I. ask for you to come on my uh on my show. so but I didn't want I didn't want to. sway any of the questions I could. potentially ask and hopefully I'm trying. to ask questions because I've kind of. seen in in my research and my producer. CJ I think does a great job of making.

sure that we don't we try not to touch. on a whole lot of things that you've. already spoken about so that's why I. wanted to start back from the beginning. I wanted a Brittany Nicole Renner I want. hey I'm taking it back yeah I mean I. think. what I didn't like about speaking at. Jackson state is because the way that it. was marketed was that I was a cautionary. tale oh that's not what if you were to. play back the whole footage.

what am I warning you guys about. because if I was a gold digger I would. be easily the dumbest one I'd be the. least successful one like I am not in a. position to tell young men about gold. diggers or what women do or because the. friends that I have they're not not in. this business they are call center. nurses work out a freaking um Enterprise. so when I I didn't like that it made it. seem like I'm coming in there and I'm.

telling you guys hey don't get God. that's not what happened okay so what. Jeff give us a brief synopsis okay you. get called and he said guys I'm bringing. someone to in front of you today to. speak to you that's going to give you. some some some some light gonna give you. some gain that's the way he likes to you. like I'm Gonna Give You game and this. person. um although the package is is nicely. bundled in a nice neat presentable. package you need to hear the message.

that she's going to say so you walk up. there and everybody like. exactly. like boy she's like. so now you know what's going on hey I. mean I can just imagine hell if I'm an. 18 19 year old someone like yourself. walks in I'm thinking the same thing. these probably young men thinking so now. I've got to sit. lustful thoughts aside yeah and hear. what you have to say.

I think we did Deanna and I did a great. job kind of spitballing and he would you. know help set up the questions and. different things he wanted me to answer. but. what I shared was my experience and to. not waste women's time because you know. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. oh really. but don't try to correlate I don't I. don't I'm not a woman so you're asking. me it's just the way you know why you. said it what you mean why why I said how. did I say it. okay we're gonna leave it under time no.

no no Brittany no no cause you're like. oh really so you're familiar no. Britney. you're asking me as a man to speak to a. situation that I would know nothing. about considering that I'm not a woman. so I don't know what's going because me. sure things have happened but I have to. move it along I don't get the luxury of. being able to be scornful and to lash.

out or to retaliate if someone says. don't call me again I don't have the. luxury of calling you again because that. is harassment Shannon sharp calling me. harassment I'm gonna be in the paper I'm. going to lose my job so you can. understand that I I I'm speaking to. things that I I don't have the luxury of. being able to do yes but you also. because I've listened to a few of your. videos more recently yeah getting up to. this day where you are very big about. whatever your dating life is in private.

if you don't want it to be public just. like you said if you if you date in. private you can break up in private yes. so. oh let me finish my thought. the reality is is that you know what I'm. talking about that's why you are you. move the way that you move in dating. because you can't just be out here all. willy-nilly and and whatever you're. doing especially publicly because if you. do some publicly you're gonna have to. answer to it publicly right but I'm. saying in general. a lot of men with status I mean who who.

are they supposed to date they're gonna. go after women who typically have less. than them and even women who may have. greater than or equal to still hell ha. no fury like a woman scoring well. Oprah's taken Beyonce's taken you would. date Oprah no uh I'm just saying cancel. you're talking no I'm saying when you. talk about men of high value and and. look we're gonna talk about we gotta. differentiate that so let's just say man.

half a million million own up. the pool of. I think the equivalent is not the same. you know that oh yeah water's what. so that's what I'm saying so when you. say oh man to have they're going to date. women less than. what as well but that's what okay so I'm. going back to a lot of people male or. female right don't have a lot to lose so. when there are these breakups or if. there was somebody who was maybe dating. with ill intentions when that stuff.

happens it can get really messy right. right it can get messy especially when. you don't have that much going for. yourself because you're like oh this. person was my way out so now I'm going. to out them or post screenshots like. there's been so much stuff in the news. that I've been seeing what basketball. players and certain things and you know. what I'm talking about without saying. any names but but that type of stuff. right. when you. I remember. I'm trying to think I don't know if you. said it on a radio show or TV show about.

your dating prowess you was with one man. two men three men four men over the. course of a 24 hour 48-hour span. did you think about the ramifications of. how people men women everybody would. look at you. because. or does that not bother you or you learn. to tune that out. so you're referring to one insular I can. actually recall a pinpoint of perfect.

for you there was a video that I did in. my car where I was talking about how I. had sex with was it three men and a a. day and then I ended up getting a yeast. infection yes I was I came out pretty. unscathed for just a yeast infection. right considering what I could have. gotten it wasn't that you know oh man I. hope people don't hear that I mean. I was on birth control for 10 years. before I had my son I got off of off of. it because there's a conversation with. my child's father okay so I I again the. whole trapping thing can't trap the.

Willing babe and on top of that I never. wanted to have it I looked at kids you. never wanted a baby daddy you wanted to. be a mom you didn't want to be a baby. mama you wanted to be a woman that's why. I waited so long I had my baby when I. was 29 I thought I was doing it right I. thought that was my guy and I never. really liked kids I always thought I. referred to them as crotch goblins to be. honest you know but I got older I wanted. one but did you but did but did you. think did I think about the. ramifications you're telling people that. I had sex with multiple men. I don't care it's the truth if you don't. if you don't see me as a potential.

dating person then great one less heart. to break leave me alone and I'm gonna. continue to listen but you do understand. Brittany that's hard for me look like. you said public versus private now if. you and I having a conversation and. we're you're sitting out here we have a. conversation you said with Shannon I. slept with this many men okay that's one. thing that's between you and I but to. have that conversation and then. everybody Sam John and everybody else. knows it that's a whole different that's. a whole different that's a whole. different ball game Brittany.

that's selfish because all you're. thinking about is you what about him. he's got to be with you. he has got to be with me he has the. privilege to be with me okay because you. know how many women you've slept with. Brent you know how many women you slept. with. um. no how many women you see yes double. digits triple digits. here we go sitting back in this position. double or triple.

the interviewer are you at the interview. I can't ask any questions you can ask. questions when you have your podcast. invite me on and you and I have this. conversation okay now back to our. original normal schedule program you do. understand that a man. pride is woman to not look I don't I. don't have any I don't have any problem. you know. three body four body five bodies ten. bodies that that what you did before me.

as long as you all means you know I'm. pretty I'm pretty lenient because I'm. kind of you know lawyers uh doctors uh. exotic dancers yeah. so. you you love what you know you love what. you love wow but but. is it it's a it's a it's a hard it's a a. high bar to hurdle if she makes things. that she's done. I think you understand what I'm saying.

I believe that the average person is. below average so the average man is most. likely not going. but you're not going to be interested in. no average man you like what you like. but can I stop it and I never I never. argued with you on that what you didn't. let me finish my thoughts go ahead let. me okay and then okay and then we right. okay what I'm saying is is that the. average guy would tell you that I'm not. wife material that's fine because I. don't want to be with the average man. the man that I want is someone who is.

understanding of that and if that's. asking for too much from the male. species then I I must be better off. alone then I don't think I'm asking for. the impossible you literally just said. that exotic dancers lawyers whoever you. love who you love right who you're drawn. to who you're drawn to the average. person is not going to want to make that. make that jump and that's okay because. I'm not talking to them I don't need. anybody average I'm not average there's. nothing about my mentality that's. average I don't care myself as average I. don't look average I'm not mundane and.

forgettable just like. I stand for something I get so much. Flack because there's this little box. and people want me to just like suck. shut up make it only fans let me finish. though they want me to go over here and. just admit that I'm a gold digger that I. trap guys and that I only care about. money but because I go so hard about. true love. but you can understand that you say. because I like sex. you.

yeah I don't care I'm saying you can. understand why people will find that. hard about true love because they're. looking at it true love is not what you. look but what you're saying what you're. selling doesn't seem like what am I. selling what am I selling well I mean. when you go on and you're in your car. and you say well I had sex with three. men that was back in 2018 by the way. go ahead sorry I mean Arrow no man no. woman can outrun their past because all.

it does it makes you tired when it. catches up with you so what you did in. 2018 people still know about him in 2023. so this notion that you said well it. happened five years ago it happened 10. years ago people have what they call the. internet people have what they call. memory. good. don't ever forget it just know when you. tried this yeah it ain't even about that. no Honestly though. I don't want people to forget.

I don't want my I don't I don't believe. you can delete your honest I don't want. I don't I wouldn't trade like I would. not want a clean slate today because you. know why. this whole journey for me has been. learning yes so if I'm judged for the. way that I learned then so be it I don't. need you guys to forget anything I don't. want you to quite frankly keep bringing. it up keep talking about it because. there's so many people that are so. curious about me in private but I don't.

have the balls to try it in public and. that's fine you're not for me I don't. need a guy that's going to keep my. record of wrongs I thought that's what. the Bible said. that's because. they were little I don't I'm just saying. I don't judge I'm not here don't keep no. record or wrong no but I'm saying look. don't fault me for doing the best I. could with the awareness I had so if a. man doesn't understand that because you. just said a few minutes ago yes. a man can. make that jump will he most likely.

probably not right but guess what who's. for me let me. who's for me yes who God creator Source. Universe whatever you want to call it. who God designed for me none of that. matters so I don't care about all these. people yapping about what I'm not gonna. get because if I wasn't gonna get it it. wouldn't be on my heart if I wasn't. gonna get it I would not have been I. would not be experiencing the dark side. of this coin. and that's why. the world will bear witness to true love.

and they will become my footstool. and they will have to see this woman. this is my this is my whole mission. statement okay. I'm gonna tell the truth. and still get everything I want. and they're gonna watch me. I don't have to play by your guys's. rules I do it my way. you do things your way and that and. honestly it varies hour to hour.

I don't know who I was going to be when. I came into this interview. are you okay with the way it's played. out thus far absolutely I'm at peace. with it there's nothing I could have. done differently. oh there's a lot you could have done. differently stop saying that there's. nothing you could have done differently. stop it this is the way I was meant to. do it. I don't question fate I don't question I. accept my fate I accept my destiny so if. that means that it takes me 10 years for. my Mr Wonderful to come then that's fine. I'm patient. nothing you wouldn't change a thing.

about the way it's transpired. for what because if. I regret if I regret. regress the awareness that I gained and. I would not trade this awareness I would. not trade going back to when I was 2018. years old I would not trade a clean. slate for the wisdom that I have I have. a well of wisdom that's why when I speak. people are captivated why I've been. called to so many different platforms. who's the last couple guests you've had. on here.

uh Stephen A D Wade Tabitha Brown. um who else we have CJ. Ochocinco it's not Chris Brown we had. Ricky Smiley okay what's one thing you. think they all have. income they're great at what they do. yeah. yeah where do I fit at you great I'm. just supposed to be some Instagram stuff. but here I am talking to Shannon Sharp. so you you gotta listen to me so you. graded what you do I certainly am.

because there's a lot of beautiful women. there's a lot of beautiful women that. have Better Bodies than me prettier. faces whatever type of features you. think are attractive. but then you have a little petite on me. who just can't shut up. and here I am on Club Shack Club. Beyonce well I don't know like I said. but it reported he said that there are. women out there that do their homework. on guys I mean because now the salaries.

and you know you can just Google. and oh he makes this and he has. endorsement over there and he does this. and that especially with Nils now too. right huh you know about that um. it's public record I was public record. public knowledge because yeah because I. mean these cookies are getting money. why are they driving maybach's I said. nio baby come on now you're not done. could you could you date a normal can. you could you date a guy that's not a. professional athlete or that's not an.

Athletics. I don't even see myself dating. really. why. well because something you said earlier. I don't know what I said earlier I don't. I don't have a recall like you that can. remember everything that happened in. their life because there's a lot of men. who are not willing to make that jump. and when there are things that are. public a public figure has to take into. account what is the risk versus reward.

with dating this girl and having her on. my arm having her at the ESPYs there's a. lot of men that would not sign up for. that and I feel the type of men that. maybe there's a good chance it's like. kind of opposite things it's like either. someone's super young that's new and. doesn't care or someone who's already. established doesn't give a and do. what they want to do and I just either. one it's just it's just kind of like I. really don't see myself with another. athlete I'm not gonna say never you know. never say never because I don't want the. love of my life to be a freaking athlete. and I gotta eat these words but I just.

don't see it I don't see a man having. the courage to not only take a you know. a risk with me because that's what love. is what's the risk well in love it's a. 50 50 risk it's it's every person across. the board but I think that I am very. vocal. um but I also have not met any men that. number one see my value and if they see. it they don't understand it. so that's why I don't really so in other. words when a man can't look outside of. what he sees right here well this is.

gonna fade so what else so what what. what makes me different than the girl. that is the building down the who's. willing to do whatever and she lets you. cheat in private I'm sorry and yeah in. private let you cheat in private and do. whatever like beauty is. fleeting that's why there has to be more. going on right that's why I open my. mouth and I speak and I stand for. something because this is again I'm. always going to be beautiful because I'm. beautiful in here but yeah we all get. older and I I don't want to bank on my. looks why would anybody want to do that.

but I think now if someone it's hard for. me to imagine a scenario and I do hope. you find I think everybody deserves that. if they're wanting of that and it seems. to me as I sit here and talk to you that. you were someone that's very passionate. about finding love and I think the thing. is is that that person knows who you are. they know some of the things that you've. done so that person that wants to be. with Brittany Renner they're gonna know. who what what she's done and be okay.

with that do you think it's hard for. that is it hard for an athlete because. athletes are very prideful and they and. I and I and don't take this the wrong. way but they kind of like that's mine. and to know that that package has been. unwrapped by somebody else. um. multiple occasions it doesn't sit well. with I'm just I'm Gonna Keep It One you. say keep it 100 I'm Gonna Keep one up. with you but then you have to go back to. when there was the Derek Jeter Diamond.

that's what my track record is like but. Derek Jeter gets a segment on ESPN where. they have his dating history in the let. me finish though. because my dating pool. is I mean my experience. impressive expansive I've had sex with. 35 guys. okay.

oh Lord. impressive is it the word so if I'm. judged everybody else if I'm judged for. having great taste we are in the bar so. help yourself. we got this for the next hour. someone like Derek Jeter for example. about his dating Diamond why would you. feel a need that you you can be honest.

to yourself. I know how many men I slept with that. ain't for everybody else but why did you. feel unique why did you feel that needs. to be for public consumption that's what. that's that's I mean the Crux of this. that's what you mind if I said to the. edge of my seat. why did you why would you feel the need. to share that information with the. public some things. are left best unsaid. [Music]. here laughs.

probably the same reason that I wrote a. book because I felt called to share. there are some things that may be moving. forward I would keep to myself but I. mean I just told you I had sex to 35. guys that's an updated number for people. who have been following the number for. years now so uh now I mean obviously. guys. slide in your DM. um trying to holler do you sliding guys. DM not anymore you used to why probably. they're probably two or three guys over.

the over the span of being like 22 to. now right probably about three guys. did they respond of course they did well. there are some that didn't respond but. that was they left you on red there are. some guys left here in red but it was. like right after my breakup with my. child's father and I was kind of being. facetious yeah that wasn't nice you try. to be see you see you why you do that. but anyways why you did no no no anyways. I want to know why why would you do that. well sure. no honestly I didn't I didn't understand.

the magnitude of what. to go through and I'm like oh I'm single. you know he's moved on like why is it. different for both of us you know what. I'm saying like we we have we share a. young child right why is me having a. young child or whatever but that whole. situation being. completely demonized I had no idea what. I was doing when I was trying to like. here and there just like telling guys. they were just fine that was just kind. of it it wasn't like yeah we should you. know. what tell you this but you know like.

like basketball players are off limits. right NBA players any NBA players off. limits. no no no no no you can't do that. you try to get a whole sport the whole. sport the whole NBA you got to go to. Europe. you got to go to Europe gotta go learn. Chinese buddy hell no you know that's. going man I don't you know what that's. gonna do what do you mean cars. a whole sport yes and besides you say.

you know what Anthony said anyway. I mean I trust me I losing ain't losing. any sleep over it. because no you got to stay away from. them because it's going to be because. people assume and this might not even be. the case you might sincerely love him he. might sincerely love you but you know. how it's going to be portrayed oh she. trying to get back at it and he probably. will take it as if you trying to get at. me. what I've had to take accountability.

that I was never meant to fit in and you. have to understand this goes back to the. pattern of when I was at Jackson State. okay I abandoned everything left my. whole life moved across the country you. know back or going back to Michigan. I lived in Woodland Hills had my condo. had my bins. left California moved to Charlotte to be. with him. same pattern 10 years later because. again here I am thinking that a man.

he's gonna fit it's gonna fit it's this. is the missing piece of my puzzle. so despite what people think about the. complete buffoonery that has gone on. between him and I that is never anything. I wanted. I had to stand up for myself after. months of being lied on that I was. faking it all along and all these. different things this is such a popular. topic years later because the live ran. around the world. so did it hurt initially when the guy.

that I thought was my guy. proposes to the next person absolutely. that's happened to me a couple times so. it it it's one of those triggering. things where full transparency you're. like well what's wrong with me. why wasn't I enough. and then we start to internalize why it. didn't work out. I've sat down with his fiance we've had. a four-hour conversation out for brunch. and I think they're a perfect match for.

each other quite frankly. so why would I be. jealous or envious of a life that I. walked away from but the other side of. that coin is understanding that was. never my guy we were meant to have our. incredible son together that I'm he's. literally changed my life in every way I. grew deeper empathy after having a son. for men but that's why I can't get upset. I get upset at how I'm treated how you.

portrayed. you lied on me. that's what bothers me is that you lied. on me you try to make it seem like. something it wasn't that was hurtful. but other than that like I'm happy for. you blessings on your journey I heard. you just say. that. what he said. about you bothered you. the portrayal of you bothers you.

have you thought about when your son is. of age and he can hear some of the. things that you said about some of the. things that you've done in your past do. you do have you thought about how that's. gonna impact him. of course I've thought about it. but as much as I love my son I love. myself I can't saturate myself from my. child I have to still be true to myself. because outside of. being his mother I'm Brittany Renner I. was Brittany Runner before he got here.

and I'm going to be Brittany Runner no. matter what my son could grow up and oh. my mom all these terrible things she's. the worst person ever so. I have to be at peace with the things. that I've done and let my son make his. own choice right his own decisions but. I'm not going to not live my life the. way that again because to question how I. am is to question God and people may not. like the way that like how my expression. is the way I carry myself the things.

that I say and how I say it. but you're still questioning God. what has social media done. to the relationship. but just in general yeah. I mean I think there's just a lot of. different factors you know where they're. like oh things were so different when. our parents were growing up well they. were never aware of what options they. really had they didn't have access to. people all the way across the country. and I think one of the annoying things. access isn't always good though.

well I think the question you have to. ask yourself is if you gave. the average person access. we're seeing it. there you go some people. rise above some people. you know. play into it. so let's just say for the sake of. argument someone. tried to get at you in the DM. later you you find out they've been. saying some crazy you know ah man I. wouldn't talk to that you know what and.

she all about this or here but they've. been at you in the DM you screenshotting. any of those damns and putting them out. there for public consumption or you just. said okay I'm just gonna buy this one I. know what you tried to do I know you. tried to get at me he was trying to get. these scams I said no and now you got. this negative stuff to say about me I. think there was one rapper that tried me. and I definitely screenshot where he. tried to send me a DM because what. you're not going to do is lie what. you're not going to do is going to sit. up here and pretend but there haven't. been any men that I've been involved.

with that have gotten flipped in the. mouth other than my child's father. that's the only person that's tried to. lie on me it never addressed me by name. but no I don't people who have ever been. involved with me we know the truth. and all my buttons work. so it would be in their best interest. to keep my name out of their mouth. because I'm giving them that same. respect I'm not over here sitting up. here blabbing blabbing blabbing about. there are certain things that it ain't. up for discussion. but when we're talking about public.

things that have transpired like with my. child's father has been a Hot Topic. since we've broken up right we have to. discuss it I'm going to tell you the. whole truth can you. when. are you guys to make peace for the sake. of your child. it's not up to me I've done everything. with her before. because excuse me I think that's a great. thing to do because if they're going to.

be together she's going to be in your. son's life and no matter what he might. think of you. the relationship the dynamic of who you. are will never change you'll always be. the mother of his child yeah I and. honestly. for me. I would much rather my son have a stable. woman over there instead of him having a. bunch of girls right now so she has. never been my enemy right it's him but.

what it's gonna take. is for him. to accept. what is. we're still going through the court. system now for child support custody. stuff so it's nasty right it's just. nasty I I have tried everything there's. nothing more I can do. um you don't mind me asking if it's too. personal to say that's none of your. business and I'm quite I told you I'm an. open book. you have the child the child is with you.

we have so we. learn custody right so it's not like you. could just break you live in California. you can just bring the child with you. well I would never do that I grew up. without. PJ's name Paul Jermaine Washington III. right why would I want to take that away. right. but see that's another misconception. people have about me that I'm just super. spiteful and that I would take our son. and that he doesn't see him no. just another lie.

so. when this. the Aesthetics of this. what is Brittany gonna do what does. Brittany want to do because like you. said you're not going to always have. this figure you're not going to have. always have this face you're not going. to always be I don't know you're 31 32. years of age you're not going to always. be this. then what. the easiest. way to maybe. answer that is use my voice.

I've been called to so many different. platforms. yours. Basketball Wives and there is one. commonality which is the usage of my. voice and Sharing The Well of wisdom. that I've acquired so I can only hope. that my future looks like my own show. my own podcast moan something right. because I know that I meant to be heard. how hard is is it easy to make money on. the internet. I would say that companies have.

smartened up a lot so. they're not as naive with the brand. deals I think it's gotten a lot more. competitive because there are people who. will accept free clothes from a clothing. company who have hundreds of thousands. of followers so it. still it hurts the the influencer who. has the millions who are wanting. compensation when there's a hundred. girls they can just get free clothes to. so it's gotten a lot more competitive. more oversaturated. yeah you have to really I don't even. know you have to really be after like. kind of buzzing to have brand deals.

what is uh obviously you you. you're very popular on the internet. what's. one of the things that you purchase that. you wish you had. like I didn't really need that I could. have done without that I could have kept. that fifty thousand hundred thousand two. hundred I could have kept that in my. pocket and just like because I really. didn't need this.

eight thousand dollars on shoes like one. day I just went and got all these shoes. and when I look at that heels of. sneakers because you don't strike me as. a sneaker chick. how is I don't mean I don't mean I don't. mean that yeah no no I I did buy some. sneakers which I was not I was still. figuring myself out but it was some. heels and some sneakers right it's just. a waste of money I would. you want to do the fitness thing like. you want to do leggings or workout.

clothes is that that kind of the. direction you're trying to head in now. well I love athletic. athlete and asymmetrical legging that. was inspired by flojo so I have it's the. one leg and the short on the side the. rebel by Brittany Renner but that still. is something that's very new my business. you know I started it was last October. right so yeah I would I think ideally. definitely designing some athletic word. would be cool. what's been the coolest thing about. motherhood.

and this is what you thought. it would. I don't know in what way then videos and. pictures. and. what's one of the ways it's different. well I would say when I first had my. baby. I think there is this idea that. the baby just comes out like loving you. you are the greatest thing unconditional. love pouring into you and I learned that.

although with breastfeeding there is. that exchange yeah the connection. still pouring in still showing up well. my son comes and hands me a book no. matter what is on no matter what we're. doing I'm stopping and I'm reading the. book because I care about building the. bond so I think people underestimate the. effort that still requires that still. goes into your baby just because they're. your kid doesn't mean that they're just. gonna love you. um I would say my favorite thing though. is watching him just navigate the world. I think he is very curious.

um when he sees a plane in the sky if. you see the butterfly we have bird. feeders I love feeding the birds. so just seeing him interact with the. world around him and what he likes to. talk about is really cool to me yeah. like what he's into I mean he's doing we. got bird feeders you try to be a step. why you try to be like moving to the. suburb but I try to tell you that. that all right so I I love birds and I. birds are that they can go anywhere in. the world so if they visit your backyard. that's very sacred and I love that no.

matter what time in the day in the. morning if it's four o'clock it doesn't. matter if it sounds off Pitch if it's. too early they have a song so that's why. I really love birds and it's an honor to. feed them. I wouldn't know that about me how. difficult. has it been or is it dating as a single. moment. attracted more men without kids as a mom.

and I'm just like oh God is it a deal. breaker if I don't want to have any more. right you know I love my baby you don't. want any more kids. I had a really. tough time I gained 50 pounds and I've. been in the gym for the last week. boobs. stomach like stretch mark it was. a lot the abdominal separation. I would say I'm just now starting to.

feel comfortable in crops like actually. showing my whole stomach or a bikini and. obviously I have no nothing done to my. body I'm natural but. it was very hard on me and I just. even if we were to get married like. why do we why you will deny him. I'm not saying it's going to be. Daryl Williams the third of the Daryl.

Williams Jr but he's going to want his. what if he wants his namesake would you. deny him that. I think that's something I'm navigating. I'm not gonna say if I met my Mr. Wonderful I wouldn't want to give him a. child but what if he wanted more than. one. you know it's really. because I'm 31. yeah I have a baby yeah. I have you put it to you 50. I mean. women nine today's Times they're having.

babies all well to fit it no but. and this may be a belief this may be my. own belief that that's hindering me so. I'm not saying that this couldn't just. be my own belief but. this is my prime time. this is my. you need to make your next move your. best move right. there are no hiccups. that's just kind of how more so I'm. moving with. so you dating with a purpose now ain't.

no more just dating to date I'm dating. to get married you ain't trying to do. that get them get the stamping yes. and I I think a lot of I've seen a lot. of people say well now all of a sudden. you want to do that and it's just okay. well I told you I don't hit my head on. the down the steps a bunch of times. listen and the thing is hey I'm a. logical person ain't working right you. know so and. having a deeper understanding of myself. and really understanding my value and.

craving more than just. okay I just want someone I just want. someone who is this type of status I. just want someone on my arm who look you. know. really craving that substance and. meaning. even more than I always have it's just. like I'm not so much shallow dating. anymore I don't think you're just. shallow dating but it's just hard for me. to as I sit here and look across at you. I just don't see you with a nine to five. guy.

and you know and you know who and you. know. what's attracted to you see the mark. he already knows what's going to happen. to the plane but he can't help it the. attraction is too great he's going to. that flame even though he knows how it's. going to end. you can't help what you're attracted to. Brett. there has to be some accountability. there has to be accountability where. it's like you can like certain things. but.

are we compatible. yes or no because if you're not going to. the only Flex is devotion so just like. you said you made the comment about. athletes yeah I can be as open-minded as. I want to be across the board whether. it's nine to five or dating which man is. going to be devoted to me and there is a. greater percentage that an athlete's. going to be unfaithful to me so that's. why for me I have to take the blinders. off I'm not saying he can't still be you.

know High stepping in his own right but. Brett what you are attracted to you. can't help it. you've been there yeah I'm not saying. just basketball player I'm saying. baseball I'm saying football it might be. soccer it might be something but that's. what you are attracted to and you cannot. help it. you can fight it. you cannot deny it. okay I I hear you loud and clear a lot.

of the regular guys that I've attracted. still have an athletic background. I ain't talking about high school I tell. my child you know what I'm talking about. in college yeah they still have an. athletic background so it's like a. matter I talk about pro pro professional. MLB NFL NBA MLS. [Applause]. we grown up in here.

you know what you're attracted to they. know it I'm gonna I cannot tell a lie. I've had a very magical time with a. trainer in Austin Texas and we had a. great time we held hands got tacos and. it was one of the most. fun moments that they have. well I was flirting with someone on. Twitter publicly and it changed things. why would you do it red why was it is. you're not my man. he was trying to be you ruined it no he.

wasn't my guy anyways. no he was trying to be your guy you. ruined it you say you want true love. but okay hold on you self-sabotaging I. don't do that I was in therapy for six. years no self-sabotage you had a guy. he's holding your hand he's taking you. to get taco you getting a lemon drop you. getting margaritas and then you flirting. publicly is that not self-sabotage it's. not self-sabotage this was what was the.

timeline it was about a year after my. split my child's father I was like you. know what I've never just dated so how I. would do was I'm gonna talk to one guy. at a time aside from that video where I. told you all the different guys them all. just recycle but anyways. um I would talk to one guy at a time. okay and it wasn't effective it didn't. work so I was like okay I'm pouring all. my eggs into one person at a time not. getting my desired outcome that's what. you're supposed to do what. what one basket at a time.

okay. from one perspective but when you are. talking about modern dating. most men are not dating one woman at a. time so where does that ain't got. nothing to do with you. if there's a potential but you said you. believe in true love so what somebody. else is doing you said that guy was. taking you to get tacos so was he dating. more than one he listens talking about. tacos oh was he forget what else they're.

doing I'm talking about him specifically. was he dating more than one yes. okay well I ain't got no well you did. what you did. I mean what am I supposed to do it's. like I'm being faithful to an idea. that's why you're taking. you know you're taking your time so. that's why that's why you was flirting. yeah this was a person that I've always. loved and I cared about and I just was. like I from my understanding I thought I. was dating wrong I'm like why am I just. talking to one guy at a time clearly.

there are women out here who are going. on dates not having sex with all the. guys they're dating right going on. different dates trying different things. out going to dinner going wherever I'm. not doing something right so that's when. I was like you know what let me try. something new and I don't have to have. sex with all the guys I'm speaking with. like I can go on dates and go get tacos. that did. there are certain different rules when. you're in the Limelight you know what I. mean and I know after that I'm like well. damn like I would have felt some type of. way if he would did that to me right so.

that's when I took from that situation. of okay I tried the multiple guy thing. did it work for me. not gonna listen what modern dating is. about in in on tick tocks or podcasts. I'm not listening to that. if I'm talking to a guy it's gonna be. him and that vetting process is very. short-lived most of the time because. they are not the guys I I just what's. your number one turn off.

I'd say inconsistency because lying is. like that's so typical like that's. obviously number one but so you want to. do the call you want a dog you want to. do to call you every day a couple times. a day check in hey Brent how you doing. it doesn't have to be a couple times but. I I would like at least once a day yeah. like I mean send me a morning text and. then like let's recap maybe later in the. day I would prefer to talk on the phone. I'm not I feel like the younger people. love like FaceTime and stuff but I like. just I have my headphones in we can just. talk on the phone or put you on speaker. I'm doing my makeup or something but. yeah.

um it's just kind of like limited to. text messaging that's just my in my. experience right yeah like there's not a. lot of like old soul what is your what. is your. take on. first date sex you good no. Maybe. it depends. who are. you the one who told me for hey we'll. have open and honest conversation. if the energy is there I'm all for it.

look. some of my friends. the to the left here you know. um. they they have been a bit more. successful with holding out but I'm just. like well. you're not gonna respect me anymore. you either respect me or you don't I'm. either someone that you can see yourself. with or not it's not gonna take three. months for you to be like dude I wonder.

if she could be my girl like you already. know when you're speaking with me like. she's a hookup she's a wife. or everything else in my wife everything. else in between so can you cook. please let me. actually does not want. no but I'm very passionate about. fellatio does that matter. I don't look at it as a tour babe. oh hello I just asked me to do Hugo want. to come home and let's just say he's.

nine to five all the instructions huh I. can follow instructions no I honestly I. believe cooking is beneath me. huh. I don't I don't belong in the kitchen. you're making it difficult I'm really. trying to help you here I mean you know. millions of people are going to see this. and I'm really trying they're gonna drag. me I love it. would you let your friend set you up on. a blind date. I would. I did uh I've gone on a blind date. recently how was it uh we went zip.

lining. you adventurous huh. yes but I feel like I have to work a lot. I'm in a very masculine role in my. household so I don't feel like I have a. lot of time to have fun and go out and. do stuff like that but yeah I did go. zipline it was fun he's just he was 23. he was like you tell me everything I. want to hear and not what I need here. and although he was very open about like. the kid stuff and like oh I don't care. about that but you know this is what I. want I'm just like I don't it's very.

hard to imagine a younger man. Having the courage. you're standing. seeing my value so it's just hard to see. that I've been open but do you want the. man to okay Brittany I'm picking you up. I'm picking you up at 7 30 8 o'clock. we're going here you want him to plan. today or are you going to plan or help. plan yeah women don't like questions. don't ask me if I want to go to dinner. tell me you know like hey this is what.

what can they can they ask Brittany. what's your favorite food what do you. like no that's fine but plan it. I have no desire to be a man in a. relationship with a man what happened to. 50. who said that all the way that's what. Dwayne said on the last. 50 50. that's getting friends platonic. 50 50. I mean Dutch. well. there was a guy that I went on a date.

with oh. what happened we um we went out on a. little date we went bowling. and when we got there oh please don't be. mad at me can you bubble I mean yeah I. mean I don't have long nails okay I'm a. very this is very classic ball like this. what you put. three fingers oh well what did you like. to know. I'm just trying to ask a question. we got out.

wait okay. I've been suffering this all the time. this is so good it is I usually don't. like dark maybe I gotta try it maybe I. have to you know maybe maybe I have to. have you in the bathroom. I would have loved that. um so back to Broadway. we get to the date he pays for our. bowling I'm like okay cool. and he gets there and he's like honestly. I shouldn't be here right now. and he kind of alluded to his sister. giving him money the date.

and so I paid for like our drinks and. what yeah. yeah he said that he said that he oh God. uh I can't lie. but yeah so anyways he was like yeah I. can't really I can't really afford it. and this is what happened I was playing. overseas I got robbed all these. different things. and I was like you know what it doesn't. even matter because all I got her is. true love so I paid for our drinks and. you told him to skedaddle.

no. let me tell you why I told him to. skedaddle so we're leaving. and the parking was like 35. he had no. money to valid. so I paid for our parking 35 each. and mind you whatever I was like let me. just give him a little little kiss so we. made out no passion there I already kind. of knew this was a no so we were in the. parking lot maybe like you didn't put. your tongue in his mouth did you. first of all the dude show up broke you.

got to pay for the drink. I still had to give it my all I had to. see no we got he got some nothing okay I. picked I put it put my tongue down his. throat do you have a lipstick I gave him. a napkin. there you go take that with you that's. all he the guy. that's only that's all he brought to the. table. this is a charity okay anyway so. we were in there for about you know. we're talking and whatever he's like no. let's continue the date I'm like no I'm. good so we're going through the parking.

going through the parking meter yeah and. it was like an additional ten dollars. what okay because we were it was like I. don't know I don't I don't know how long. we were there we were making out that. damn line so whatever I pay the ten. dollars. I go through under the parking meter and. I hear. [Music]. what happened. oh he tried to race through the toy when. he slows down on him oh man.

I was like oh my God because I was like. someone's about to hit my car. so we didn't have to pay for the parking. and I was like I'm never calling him. again this is exactly why people are. like you can't date a regular guy you're. right because I tried and Mr bro. I you know. he was cute but yeah when he raced. through that one you can't be cute and. broke though. yeah I was like oh you can offer me some. hard dick and bubble gum babe and I was. just like that ain't gonna work I I. thought.

but yeah that's the first time I've. shared this story probably very. embarrassing. and I just got stood up recently too I'm. like okay well hold on did your friend. about you got stood up by a blind date. or this was something that yeah it was. it was yeah it didn't work what happened. he told me the reason he couldn't go to. the date was because his friend's. grandma died and that is when wanted him.

to come console him if dude's doing that. and you believed it I know you didn't. believe it brick. I blocked him. but yeah so I have really really funny. stories you. what did it with you and these guys you. bet you've been you've been meeting some. some reels. clowns yeah. yeah. do you but do you get guys that try to. impress you that come out like oh they. like big balls or they show up with.

somebody else a rental car a Bentley or. Rose or the homeboy will I mean that's. not really that impressive just because. it's I guess it's just been so. familiarized for me like you know uh. that's not really that new but. um. no I I mean I did have a good date a. couple months ago I mean the whole. shebang dinner and went out and stuff it. was a good time. but he's a dud. what is it. it's just like it is I guess the the.

energy okay this is oh this is actually. a really important distinction we have. to make because there's. high value men yes. but high value does not mean high. quality because. yes because Mufasa high value yeah high. quality scar. high value low quality yeah so that's. where you're gonna need a lot of scars. huh.

I wouldn't even say they had or you know. Hive out you because broke almost broke. the freaking parking meter skating. behind me you know so I mean I've just. been very open-minded why did you just. get up the moment he said that my sister. is basically paying for this part of the. date that would that should have been. your key to exit stage left well. um I because how long so how long did it. take to put this date together was it. like quickly was it like two weeks was.

it like three weeks because he could. have said yeah I met him I met him at a. party and. and I I already kind of felt like. there's a red flag because I like in. person encounters so when you saw me in. person you didn't say anything you. should well no he introduced himself but. he didn't get my number right so there's. like certain things that I'm just kind. of more old-fashioned about so why would. you go the digital route when you have. me right in front of you and you could. have made more a lasting impression that. was like my first already like kind of. weird but um.

how long did it take what what was the. question again yeah how long did it take. you like like I said I'm saying to set. this date up oh no yeah it was just. maybe like a few days I mean it was. pretty quick but I told myself well I. told myself that well Brittany if it's. not about the money yeah but no no no no. no no no no I just wanted to try I I. like to try it right Brittany. having enough money for a common date. I'm not saying the guy got to be worth. 30 meal but a dude got to be able to.

have enough money for a common date now. come on now. I don't think you're I don't think any. woman is asking now I'm not saying we. can go to mastros or we can go to. catcher at some place like that but for. uh to go bowling and the paper parking I. don't think that's a stretch I don't. think that's asking too much no it's not. but that's where because what I what I. don't want people to take away from this. is that I'm blaming men because what I. do is any experience I have.

it's unfavorable I don't like it I go. Inward and figure out what part of me. what part of my belief system aligns. with a broken. skating through the parking meter what. part of me aligns to someone who would. ghost me on a date so I go back Inward. and and do the work to understand so I. no longer have these below average. experiences with men so it's it's still. a reflection of parts of me that needs. to be addressed so yeah I'm. still learning the dating stuff is it's.

very challenging to navigate especially. having such a heavy presence online. right good bad or indifferent it's it's. very difficult because a lot of guys. will look at you as trophy other guys. will look at you as just like a good. time 100 million or a hundred dollars. you know it's. it's hard because I do social media is. my life has been my life and especially. with being on Basketball Wives now I'm. very curious to see who comes out of the. woodwork and what's really genuine I. still have to filter through all these. things that the average person has to.

but now you're adding all these factors. that. the billion dollar question why do you. think it's so hard why why do you think. relationships are so hard for either one. I don't want to say men are more. faithful or I mean more Unfaithful women. are more Unfaithful but why do you think. it's so hard to remain faithful in a. real oh remain faithful yeah I don't. think it's hard I think it's a lifestyle. choice just like. a lot of people are like if he wants to. he will just like you know if you know. you actually went to the gym like you.

said you would on January 1st yeah if. you wanted to you would it's just a. lifestyle choice and I I don't know what. it's like to be a man I would love to be. a man for a day and see these biological. things that are making me want to just. stick my dick in everything I would love. to see if that stands true but I really. think it's aligning with someone who has. the same beliefs as you I don't. understand how people are Unfaithful. because the only thing that can quench. lust is love. so how why people are out moving around. and having casual sex with people is.

really Beyond me especially when you. have someone who gives a damn about you. I would never understand that I told you. first and last time I cheated was when I. was 16 years old I can't relate I think. loyalty is actually the easiest part you. know people find that very hard to. believe because the the number of men. that you said you've slept with yeah and. and and and. I guess just they look at you and who. you are until like man she full of it. but I mean I I have no reason to believe. that you're lying to me but I'm saying.

you could understand that people look at. you I mean you know perception is is. people's truth although it's not reality. a person's perception is their reality. you agree right no why would I agree. that perception is reality no perception. is their reality oh some people's. reality yes yes no I. that's fine I'm not to think that I. would be giving them more people no no. because that's the typical answer. I think the truth is way more wild than. lying and for me to lie to you that.

means I have to fear you I don't fear. anything right. when it comes to death whatever today is. a good day as ever. so why would I lie I don't live my life. like that would you ever date publicly. again of course. I don't know what that what the vetting. process looks like I don't know what. that guy is like I don't know that's why. it's like I consider and certain athlete. I'll never do this I'll never do that no. it's not even that that guy you day is. gonna be an athlete. don't you wish that on me I did I ain't.

wishing because that's what you you. can't use them off he's the flame. he can't help you can't help it you. think I'm the mom you can't help it okay. he's the mark You're the flame it. doesn't matter. but I wouldn't do that yeah you would. yeah. you said I know how it feels to be. desired by men but not valued by one. no longer am I drinking of the way.

eating it away sleeping it away effing. it away I'm sitting in my own ish. when you said I know what it's like to. be desired but not to be valued. they want. this but they don't value that. they don't value. what's outside of the vagina that's what. they don't value they don't care because. they don't see me in a wife category.

it's wife everything else. that's not my responsibility to try to. control how I'm perceived or how people. see me because at the end of the day I. could paint you a pretty picture but. what's the reality who am I behind. closed doors there are plenty of girls. that were getting slutted out when. they're at Kentucky you know sucking all. types of the steps I know that because. I've been told stories but it's like. that's just not public. but that's more considered more of a. wife because it's not public so I don't. know I just feel. you got to find someone's truth that you.

accept. are you gonna are you willing to sign a. prenup that's. absolutely but you won't do. for love. absolutely what sign of freedom but hey. whatever whatever that makes you feel. better. I'm ready for my husband not my cousin. is it did you date Kevin Samuel. yeah which is cool yeah we're cool we.

just did content together I did an. interview but you know. though. I had a great time here we had a really. he was somebody that when I would have. conversations with him it was really. hard to talk to him sometimes even the. last conversation we had it was like a. little Jagged pill. what did you write that book 2018. October 2018. 2018. because at the time it said you slept. with 24 men 11 athletes five. entertainers eight regular guys now you.

up to 35. I keep a listing my phone why is that a. lot that was a whistle no I'm just a. little whistle no. I mean you said athletes don't use. condoms but so 10 got what was that so. nine guys four nine eleven eleven eleven. guys in five years. okay I mean. if there are no you're trying to get. half a Hyundai I mean you what you going. for. how are you gonna ask me if I'm trying. to get half a hundred when I've been. sitting here talking to you for almost.

two goddamn hours. so 36 so 36 and that's it or are you. looking to go back would you be willing. to go back and get one of those 36 and. make it 35. so. with any of those guys that you. previously have slept with. you be willing to would you. husband them.

I've given some Second Chances. [Music]. met my guy. you don't believe you met him I thought. I did. a couple times are you willing to date. outside your race. I can't do pink meat so. this is guard me.

yeah this is gonna sound kind of. up but I just don't see myself. respecting anyone that's not black. why. and a man who's supposed to Lead Me is. black I know that. leading is the easy part the following. is what's hard the man that is meant to. cherish me and love me and be there for. me and that was designed for me it. energetically at this moment again it. could change and everything ever. black. let's talk about okay Basketball Wives.

you're on another another season of that. well this is my first season this is. your first season it's my first time I. don't get to say that often. granny I'm sorry this is not the life I. really chose for myself but hey here we. are granny. [Laughter]. what can we expect. shop. it's the most. oh come on.

that I will never forget. you like it. like. season 12 you dial. laughs. a lot of things have to change for me. but uh I'm gonna keep an open mind a lot. of things have changed but. you do realize that anytime someone see.

you with someone publicly they. automatically jump to the conclusion you. know that right so like me and you then. I'll do an interview like Jack. I'm saying people saw you I just. she was at or if I can assure you if. someone would have if we let's just say. we out of some restaurant. me you you and I what you think even if. we talk after this even even if we just. having a conversation you're somewhere.

I'm with my boys I and they see man you. know it's gonna be a thing so you know. what comes along with Brittany Renner. you know that anybody that you talk to. there's going to be accusation innuendos. conjecture about what's happening. okay. you don't I mean the. I mean you okay with that. I mean people are are entitled to their. opinions if I want to go out for dinner.

I'm gonna go for this I'm just saying. but don't you want to just like. be able to go somewhere and people not. automatically assume hell no. no you can't say ahead I want all these. brand deals I want to be famous I want. to be on TV but don't take a picture of. me when I'm leaving don't a picture of. me if I'm out eating grow up. it's hot up under these lights. okay not everybody can handle it but for. me. I mean I love I love being in front of a.

camera I love I really had a great time. filming for Basketball Wives it just. felt so natural but this is just a part. of me this is what I like to do so I'm. built for it I don't I don't look at. that as whatever they're allowed to. think what they want people are already. going to assume that I mean I don't. really believe in like male female. friendships anyways I'm not I don't have. a man can't be a friend can't have a. girlfriend. I'm just saying I personally do not have.

male friends the only male friend that I. have his name is Jerry and he's a family. friend of ours like his baby mama is my. mom's baby daddy's sister like it's. family you know what I mean so right. that's the only male friend that I have. right that's family I know I don't male. friend our male friends replacement. no I just think that there's always uh. for me my experience there's just always. that lingering undertone yeah and then. that's how everything starts as. friendship so it's like it ain't much to. just do a hop skip and a jump and then.

now you don't fill in the like how. do we get here. yeah I don't I don't have no friends I'm. good. so but the person that's never seen. Brittany Renner thank God. heard Brittany renner's story. person sitting right down here for the. very first time. in one minute explain him as best you. can explain to them male or female. about myself about Britney right now. it's it's a lot shorter than a minute.

give me 30 seconds then I am extremely. unpredictable every minute every second. every hour I wake up sometimes I change. my wig I want to be somebody different. you don't know what you're going to get. with me I'm like a box of chocolates you. don't know what you're gonna get right. what do people don't like chocolate can. I get a bill of stuff can I give. something. like chocolate stop making it so goddamn. personalized. chocolate no I'm just saying I'm talking.

I'm not talking I'm talking to this guy. okay whatever his name is or her they. because you know pronouns um. anyways I'm just very unpredictable. sometimes I don't even know what I'm. gonna do right I follow my heart that is. what I stand by and I believe that I'm. going to tell the truth and get all the. things that my heart desires and the. world is going to have to be a witness. and eat their words. is that is that what it's about because. it because so many people are saying.

she's never going to find someone to. marry her with her track record with her. background you really is that is that I. mean because I I mean honestly as I sit. here and you know we've had a great. conversation but I do believe that as we. sit here you truly want to find love but. true love or to say I had. no because that's just childish for me. it's the real thing or nothing at all. it's not what looks good on paper it's. not because we take pretty pictures.

together it's the real thing. or nothing at all the only Flex is. devotion I don't care what you have me. up in you got always on the side the. only Flex is devotion what do I look. like being on the arm of a man who is. still entertaining when you are. supposed to be my husband well he. already heard you say you've done a. threesome so it ain't a far stretch to. say you cool with it that's fine he's. allowed to think whatever he wants but. where I'm at today and where you were.

then and where I was then I haven't. munched on oh Jesus. foreign. but I really cannot control what people. are going to think and what they think. they're going to do and and how they I. think they're going to treat me I can. only stand in my power and show you what. it is. because I can show you brother tell you.

so yeah I'm not here to to sway all. these people and please understand me. please get me if you don't get it you. ain't meant to move along. thank you. for coming on clubs. and as you said living in your ish. sharing your story continued success. Brittany Nicole absolutely. ladies and gentlemen there you go.

all my life they're grinding all my life. sacrifice hustle pay the price wanna. slice got the rolling dice that's why. all my life I be grinding all my life. all my life been running all my life. [Music]. my life. foreign.