The Impact of OnlyFans on Women

what are your thoughts on only fans. sex work. and do you believe that a woman doing. only fans or porn might have an impact. on her future romantic prospects and if. so how and why I can repeat that that. was a lot so let me know if you need me. to repeat anything um I talk about this. extensively on my show I mean the truth. is that if you are going to engage in. sex work you are going to probably make. a lot of money especially if you're. young you're on a very tight rope as you. get older your value goes down and men.

are going to want women that are younger. and available to them I'm talking about. in terms of just making the person who. will subscribe to your only fans page. you know obviously women it's you're. declining as you age as and the truth is. is that high value men don't want to. date women that are sex workers or even. women that aren't sex workers and lean. into the whole talking about how sexy. and if really are freely available on. the internet for other men to see what. we're talking about is biological. proclivity what men are doing when they.

first say uh it sounds amazing to date a. stripper or a prostitute or a date a sex. worker is there there's this instinct to. have sex it's going to be amazing when. have sex all the time but then when they. realize that actually a form of wanting. to be in a relationship is feeling that. there's a mystery to a woman that. there's something that's yours there's. something that's sacred there's. something that's powerful and beautiful. that just you share and when they. realize that they have to share that. with other men it completely diminishes. the man. um a recent cultural example of that. obviously is what's happening with Nina. Agdal she's not a sex worker by any.

means this is she just kind of said some. sexy things on the internet. um about wanting [ __ ] and look at what. was not expecting that from Kansas City. I just I'm quoting her directly so this. is purely academic. purely academic and look at what. happened you know now Logan has become. the laughing stock of other men as they. piece together everything that she's. ever said that's overtly sexual and. again she's not a sex worker but what. happened is her value just completely. plummeted because you know there this.

thing that men need to feel and I don't. want to say possession in a way that. sounds bad because it's not bad it's. actually really beautiful and and I'm. lucky and fortunate that I get to. experience that in my marriage you know. and it's it's something that women. should strive toward women that make. those exchanges in their youth I think. that's sad and I do feel bad for me in. AG doll is because she said a lot of. those statements when she was really. young she's probably your age. um and she had a camera and she said it.

and it lives forever and now every man. that she dates is going to say Dylan. danis has made her available to everyone. and it's it's I I hope things work out. between her and Logan but if you don't. think that that's going to impact Logan. or that's not actively impacting him as. a man it is. um so with women it's a trade-off first. thing you said was I make money this is. about money. it's about money but when it comes down. to marrying these women men men just. don't want it and that's exactly why I. said that in this industry I'm single.

until. I retire I don't but it will still. matter I don't plan on doing this or. getting married or finding the love of. my life until I retire like truthfully. and after that you see what happens in. the AG doll no no and then after that I. will be honest and truthful with the. person that I will be getting married to. or whatever and it'll be up to him to. accept that right so and I said that. natural proclivity is to not accept that. because it brings them shame.

um men are biologically proud creatures. no I know I'm not I'm just telling you. what is happening and why people are. talking about cultural events and the AG. doll thing and if you look at people. like Emily rajkowski she's obviously hot. um but this is a woman who's now trying. to make divorce Chic and I think that. the understanding is in Hollywood is you. know sleep with her and move on she's. not marriage material. um her husband when he had her cheated. on her because they didn't have that. thing she was I feel like I've slept.

with the girl I've seen her naked so. many times right so there's nothing. special about Sebastian bear marrying. her because we've all seen her naked. there's nothing sacred in that. relationship and I'm just speaking on. telling you you know this is why women. struggle to get married when they've. made themselves available on only fans. because other men don't want to share. they don't want to share their wife they. maybe will share their girlfriend they. might think it's fun to data stripper. for a little bit they might think oh. this means I'm going to have sex 12. times a day. but then when it gets down to just their.

biological Instinct it's it's actually. quite embarrassing for them as a man. because they can look up your girl and. here she is you know so that's what I. think is happening yeah I'm um I'm just. curious about your opinion on this. because I've seen like a couple of. people in like red spill spaces like. tapes or people similar to that talking. about how they should marry a young. woman would you agree or disagree that. that might not be the most like rational. course of action to marry a young woman. what do you mean by that that I hear a. lot of men talk about how a woman.

inherently loses value as she gets older. and that's why that they should seek out. young women. um well I live in the south and a lot of. people get married young and I think. it's really beautiful and wonderful they. preserve this sort of Innocence I have. people that work for me that want to get. married at 22 they drop out of school so. I don't think there's anything wrong. with marrying when you're young I'd have. to see the full context of what they're. talking about because I do think. obviously the longer you wait and. especially in this Society that's. creating the simulation that sexuality.

equates to Freedom when it doesn't. um that what he might be suggesting is. that the longer a woman runs free the. more partners that she's Gathering and. her her worth is being diminished and I. think that there is some ferocity to. that. um but you know if it's set in a way. that sounds a little crass like seek out. younger women because they're not as. used and I can see why people would be. offended by it but there that might be. underpinned by a little bit of logic so. I'd have to see the clip in its entirety. yeah the reason why I'm asking is. because in general I think um men do.

have a biological activity I can't. pronounce that proclivity proclivity. um you know just got like Youth and. Beauty but I also think when it comes to. like settle down. um you want a mother who's going to be. responsible and good towards your. children so I think the idea that like. men seek out beauty is true but I also. think men seek out a level of like. responsibility and maturity that only. comes with age so I was just curious. because of the other stuff I've heard. from people and also it's like. the sex is just sex like.

it's just sex and just when you have a. partner you have an emotional connection. with them. and so like the guy on your last podcast. the he was on here a few days ago he was. saying how like men for men sex is just. sex but like spending time with a woman. and like buying her things and like. going on trips with her is like. different than. having sex with just random people and.

that's why they were like in an open uh. relationship or whatever can I just have. you scoot your mic that way a little bit. yeah perfect I mean I definitely. wouldn't say that like swapping DNA is. like just sex I mean a man leaves a. piece of himself inside of you but man. that's the way they think and like for. women. we get attached to them emotionally. right having sex with them which is more. of a when women have a lot of Partners. it's it is different it's it's it is. worse in a way and people don't want to. admit that but because we are more.

emotional there is an attachment it. isn't just sex for women. um you know I think women are damaged by. those relationships. um women like to think because of the. social simulation that it can just be. sex it's whatever. non-committal the only people that. benefit from that lie are men you know. it it is not great to have sex and have. a man not call you back it doesn't feel. good it doesn't matter if a buzzfeed. article says it does I had a wonderful. weekend and this is why I had sex and. didn't worry about it.

you feel used and especially I would say. if you're not a sex worker and you're. you just a man does that never calls you. back and you don't even have money to. show for it I think it diminishes your. self-worth even more than your Worth to. a man the reason why I say sex is sex is. because. in our line of work we see it as. transactional right especially when. we're working and then at the end of the. day they go home to their wives or. whatever right and it's like emotionally. you're emotionally being there for them.

and taking care of them and doing all. this out of the other so then sex. clearly isn't just sex it's also. emotional. it can be yes it can be yes but I was. saying according to the guy that he had. on the last podcast he said that for men. um sex is just sex and that I kind of. sorry I I disagree with the idea that. sex doesn't harm or casual sex wouldn't. harm a man or does harm women or that. sex is just sex I think a lot of people. tell themselves that but I think it can.

like lead to a lifestyle of just like. pure Hedonism whether you're like a man. or a woman and that can be like. dangerous because then you're losing you. know sight of other things that you. value or other aspects of life so I. don't really think like for I think for. some people that can be true but I think. for the majority of people like there's. a reason why a lot of people are only. into monogamy or why that's been like. the norm for a lot of cultures and I. think most people are a little bit. hardwired to kind of seek out those. Intimate Relationships I'm not saying. it's impossible I'm like I'm just saying. I think that's how most people are where.

casualty sex can't be yeah and I think. it can definitely be harmful for men I. want to be clear I'm saying that it's. different for men and it's different for. women but I don't agree with the. statements exercise is just sex at all. and it's natural to be like attracted to. a lot of different people you know what. I mean so it's like. but that comes with self-control I think. attraction is one thing and acting on. those needs or wants by sleeping within. a multiple people to I just I don't.

understand that. did you want to come in I guess I don't. what do you mean like I don't understand. nobody responds to her but okay just the. in general yeah I mean I don't. necessarily agree with the idea that sex. is just sex when I was younger I. definitely had a lot more you know like. casual sexual relationships not one. night stands or anything by that measure. more like situationship. um and as I got older you know my views. on it kind of changed and you know you. do feel differently when like you were. saying it doesn't feel good to hook up. with somebody and not have them call you. back so I actually was celibate for.

about two years before I met my partner. I'm doing only fans and everything else. your current partner yes okay um I. wasn't sleeping with anybody I like. stuck to it very hard because I just. didn't really like the feeling of. sleeping with somebody and then getting. an emotional attachment to them so I I. think that certain people because. everybody is different I don't think. that it's that black and white. um but I think to some people and to. some women and to some men casual sex. really is just sex whether they're. leaving DNA or not I think that there. are people that do actually feel that.

way because I've met women that are like. that but for me it is not that simple. and I don't think that it's that simple. for most women.