She Said The N-Word And Went Viral | Candace Ep 39

we try to bring you an interview a. discussion something different and you. guys remember the nword girl that's the. moniker that everyone has given her. because it's a white girl that dropped. the n-word can white girls do that these. days I don't know you be the judge but. we are going to invite her in for a. conversation so to jog your memory uh. her name is not in fact nword girl it's. actually Lily gtis and she jumped on the. internet cooking some chicken and she. had a bit of a rant take a listen I'm. sick and tired of all girls getting.

blamed or like guys certain guys. thinking that all girls are gold. diggers I don't know if it's because you. get your information from those Street. interviews in like Miami at 3:00 a.m. outside of a. nightclub you're getting the opinion of. some dumb. [ __ ]. and uh immigrants fresh off the boat. looking for a green card yes they are. probably gold diggers but that's the. exception I'm the rule every everybody I.

know who's married right now they're. married to broke ass. [ __ ]. um and they don't care we don't give a. about your money I couldn't care less. about your money okay my type is broke. mechanics and surf for hippie dudes who. just want to live in a shack and Surf. and have babies all I ask of a man is. that you're competent you're um you're. not a [ __ ] if somebody broke into our. house at 3 3: a.m. you would know how to.

grab a gun and shoot a. mother and shoot a mother I don't know I. think that's actually very funny the end. there what did you guys think do you. agree with her is she totally out of. line for dropping the nword is it. totally fine that she said it because. everyone says it these days in that. context and I guess the biggest question. is does she actually have a point are. most women not like the women that we're. seeing online that's what we have coming. up for you on Candace.

[Applause]. [Music]. all right guys so she definitively has a. potty mouth that's what I'm going to. term it but she's also got some good. points I think and I'd like to hear more. from her she just kind of became an. internet sensation and now she's. speaking a little bit about politics and. I just genuinely wanted to know more. about Lily gtis she's 25 years old Lily. welcome to the Candace show thank you so.

much I'm so happy to be here so I was. just asking you offline but I guess my. first question is how has it been. finding internet Fame when your first. video goes viral what are you what are. you going through tell us uh it's kind. of strange you know you all hear about. the same things that happen to people. the doxing the the haters and all that. but you don't really understand it until. it actually happens to you so I think. it's definitely very interesting I've. gotten to where I kind of like mute it. out now so it doesn't really bother me. but you know it's a lot first as anyone.

who's gone through this as you would. know as anyone else would know who's. gone through this it's it's a lot that's. for sure what has been the most. difficult part of Internet. fame um I would say the conspiracies and. like when people get it so wrong and I'm. sitting here listening I'm like no it's. so wrong you don't even know what you're. talking about it's it never goes goes. away by the way I I read a conspiracy by. myself I've learned to enjoy them and. appreciate them and I'll like send them. around to my family but I read a. conspiracy theory the other day that my. husband was Jewish and and that was news.

to me I was very excited I said oh this. is great you're I guess and then. sometimes I'll respond to them and I'm. like can you just show me the website. where you're getting this information. from because I would I would just love. to read it um so I do want to talk about. your video because it did make a bit of. a splash for first and foremost for two. reasons was because you said the nword. I'm a person that actually believes. don't put it into music if people can't. say it and you obviously were not. directing it at a black person you were. saying it in the context that everyone. says it in their music so I had no. issues with it at all but the more.

important part of your video was I think. the main point that you were delivering. is that the internet is not real life. like women are not all what you see on. only fans and what you see on your. Instagram page so I'd like to know what. motivated the video what made you. suddenly jump up and do a what I'm going. to term a Candace or a Kanye rant um and. what were you yeah what was your mindset. and what did you want people to get from. it so I had been arguing with my. brothers that whole that whole day about. this cuz they were like no girls are. just like whatever cuz they listen to. the these interviews like everyone else.

the street interviews that kind of. definitely they're digging from the. bottom of the barrel it's not like. you're getting your best and your. brightest and uh they were up there. barbecuing and whatever so I was like I. went into the kitchen I started you know. marinating some chicken wings to put on. the grill and I was like I got to make a. video about this because I'm still. pissed so made a video about it um got. flamed for my cooking skills and um yeah. and accidentally let a word so out that. I you know people say in a general since.

but yeah it turned into something it was. not supposed to be but yeah it was. basically just a backyard rent inspired. an angry argument with my brothers well. I would love to hear more about your. family actually because I don't think. many people do know where are you from I. I think I read online I don't know if. it's true that you're also a mother um. how many siblings do you have who. actually is Lily gtis in her own words I. would say I'm just like a just kind of a. normal Southern you know girl went to. college like everybody else was raised I.

went I was homeschooled for part of my. uh high school years and then I finished. off at a private school uh had a big. family Four Brothers had a lot of fun. had horses and stuff so definitely like. a country girl to a certain extent um. I'm from North Carolina originally we've. moved around a whole lot though um and. then I've kind of like landed back here. uh love the beach so I have to be you. know near there and I want to raise my. son like on the beach as well and yeah I. have a I have a two-year-old as well oh. amazing okay so you have a 2-year-old.

you're a mom and I guess that has to. shape a lot of your opinions I know it. definitely changed me it's a sismic. shift in your life when you become a. parent and one of the things that. concerns me is sort of the presentation. of women that we do see online how do. you think that you are going to deal. with that with your. daughter well it's it's just one of. those things you know nobody's perfect. like bottom line and and there's a lot. of people who want to set themselves up. to be perfect and then there's a lot of. people that put the worst foot forward.

like I usually do because I feel like. it's better to not put yourself on a. pedestal so you can't get knocked down. um but yeah there's a lot of like again. online is not real life we all know this. you know they can you can edit things to. make things sound bad or good or. whatever so I think I think there's a. lot of you know people are struggling in. this country just normal everyday. working people are struggling and. they're not the worst people they're not. the only fans girls that's not all the. girls in the world there's a lot of like. I have a bunch of friends who are good.

girls who went through college they. tried to do the best they could you know. they're trying to find good husbands and. they're trying to raise kids so my whole. point was you know just give a little. Grace because we're not all terrible. it's not everything you see on these you. know like I said at 3:00 a.m. outside of. a Night Club you're not exactly getting. the best of the best so yeah there's. there's a lot of good people out there. and I think they just they're not out. there putting themselves online so you. don't know it so it's it's basically. don't be black killed it's not as bad as. it actually is all right guys jumping in. here to let you in on a little Wireless.

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video I have to Che myself because it. can you can become sort of terminally. online and the conversations you're. having it's like wait a second I have. two sisters my sisters are married to. totally regular people I mean these. girls that I'm seeing an only fans. obviously this is not who the regular. person is and I thought that was. actually a really strong point that you. delivered unfortunately you're on the. internet there's going to be absolutely. no Grace afforded to you they're going. to tear apart every piece of your life I. already see people saying she's a single. mom you know what does she know about. conservatism so I wanted to give you a.

platform first and foremost to talk. about that in a way that you shouldn't. feel attacked I think it's completely. absurd this idea that they want people. held up on a pedestal and they want to. believe that their lives are perfect. life is complicated I have transformed. so much even from my positions being a. conservative in the public sphere the. things that I have said have changed and. people have a right to transform so how. I guess how did you become a single mom. were you married in the past or are you. uh married now what is your circumstance. right well it was just one of those. things you know it's a a bad relation.

gone a relationship gone a unfortunately. um we're not together so I am you know. single I was I've never been married but. it's just one of those things you know. people make mistakes and you want you. start out in life like wanting to I want. to wait till marriage and whatever and. then life happens and it's just doesn't. work out you know but I I think the the. like I don't appeal to people who really. have to all their stuff together but I. do appeal to Middle America who you know. they aren't perfect they have made. mistakes and they're trying to do the.

best they can because bottom line I mean. even as a Christian it's like we're not. perfect we're never going to be perfect. that's why God had to come down and dial. across for us you know ultimately so I. think I can work be as a good funnel for. just your normal Middle America to get. into conservatism because I'm an easier. person to relate with just because I'm. not perfect you know and I have had. stuff go wrong and I can even be a voice. for women who you know they do get. pregnant and don't choose abortion like. I had lots of people telling me oh my. gosh just just get in Bor don't tell.

anybody else you know and that's an easy. way out but I think I think I'm I'm. happy that the way things have turned. out the way they are it's not perfect. obviously but I think I can appeal to a. lot more people that way just because. you know it's it's easy to relate to. someone who hasn't had everything go. light so if I can help bring Middle. America to to conservative America I. think that would be you know doing. something good for the country yeah I do. think that there is that conflict you. know you conservatives were we're. pro-life but I started my life.

pro-choice just to be clear and I. changed my mind later on and I knew. girls that were getting abortions and. it's funny because then you see someone. who gets a platform accidentally like. you quite accidentally got a platform. this obviously went viral and then they. conservatives will instantly hold your. feet to the fire and be like this is not. a conservative she has a child out of. wock and it's like wait a second but we. also believe that you should choose life. and we know that life is not perfect and. there is this pressure that they. instantly want you want to believe that. you can be become overnight if you have.

a platform and it's better to just be. authentic about who you are and to give. yourself the grace to transform over the. years and I I find that to be. problematic and I've tried to. communicate that even to my own. audiences because I try to explain to. people I would love if I'll give a. perfect example I think Ali stuck is. like a perfect person like her life she. com from like a two parent household I. listen to her podcast she's got she's. talking about the Bible she's married. she's got a husband that loves her but. the reality is I would have never become. a conservative if the first person I. listen to was Ali sucky and so I've. tried to communicate to people as.

someone who comes from a broken family. my parents divorce that it's easier for. men to listen to Andrew Tate right as a. starting point because he's just going. to be more relatable he's just going to. be more relatable and he might he's. obviously not talking about family and. he's not talking about you know God and. things like that but he is talking about. you know Financial positions whatever it. is you have to be able to to think of it. as almost a staircase you know what I. mean and I just am not sure that. conservatives are understanding that you.

definitely did though highlight that. there is a neocon movement that's what. people are terming it and you had some. Choice words do you want to speak about. that because I think a lot of. conservatives recognize that there is. something that is in our movement that. is operating as though it's conservative. but it actually isn't conservative at. all right right well that's the business. side of it you know and the problem with. Fame and power and money and stuff is it. does corrupt people you know lots of. people come in here well and attention. or whatever and then you get these.

offers you get you get in with a certain. group of people and you you want to stay. in their good graces and that that makes. sense like we are herd animals kind of. we do want to have a team we do want to. be in the good graces of that team but. again that comes with the downside if. there's a lot of corruption you know and. I see with a lot like a lot of. mainstream conservatives usually if. you're not very censored that should set. off some red flags because it's like why. is that the case you know and and not to. rag on any particular one because I hate. to punch right you know CU we need more.

unity in the right wing but at the same. time you have to call out when you do. see that something is wrong like and. people are not necessarily fighting for. America but it's more just like either a. little Hollywood thing going on and it's. for you know the money or the CL or if. they're promoting some sort of messaging. because they've been paid by some you. know who knows a foreign entity or for. whatever reason but there's a just cuz. the normal people don't see that and I. didn't realize that that's how it was. until I kind of got thrown into this.

world I was like wow this is there's a. lot of like you know fake stuff going on. it's not what it seems like on the. outside and when you look in you're like. wow there's you know we need genuine. people we need more independent people. we need less clubs and groups we need. more independent people actually out. there fighting for America because. bottom line we're the the Middle America. is the one getting screwed over by all. this you know lots of people are making. lots of money but they're not really. helping you know it's just good talking. points and they're not really addressing.

the actual issues right and they're also. I think they get to a point where they. have made so much money that they just. don't want to threaten that security and. so even if they see things that are. happening that are wrong they will allow. it to happen and they'll sit by either. idly or they're participating in it. because there's an opportunity for them. to make more money um if if if they get. involved in that thing and so I always. encourage my audience make sure you're. constantly auditing you know even me I'm. like you know I've been around for eight. years i' I've changed over those years. I've become a mother you make sure does. she still believe believe in the things. that we believe and we saw that this.

week I don't know if you had followed. this but Michaela Peterson who I. actually had never followed Dr. Peterson's daughter um but she comes out. with a very wild statement about we need. censorship of the word filth now she has. since slightly walked it back but still. says that well if you say filth about an. entire group of people I I don't and I. still disagree with her but that's a. problem and people were like no no no no. no don't go after like the Peterson. family because they've contributed such. goodness it's like that doesn't go away. like I I'm very happy that there was.

goodness contributed but if now the. talking point is going to be that we. need censorship because there's a topic. that I feel sensitive about we have to. audit that because we need to be. conservatives always not just when our. friends become leftists we just stay. quiet about it you know and I can. understand it because I've even kind of. experienced that a little bit myself. just you know you start to get like some. people that are on your team you're like. oh this is kind of nice and I'm not. alone or whatever and then you kind of. feel yourself being like oh I can't. really and do I really want to touch on.

that topic because that might piss them. off and then you got to check yourself. be like oh man I'm falling into to that. kind of rut and yeah I totally. understand that and like I said earlier. you know well-intentioned people they. can start off great and then it ends up. you know they fall into that rut and you. have to call that out and you can't be. so worried about like trying to you know. capitulate and please them and not piss. anybody off that you don't speak the. truth because you know we're supposed to. be the fire Brands out here because. Middle America is sitting back hoping. we're doing the Fighting For for them. but if there's no fighting going along.

then it's we've already lost who are. some of the voices that you trust in. media if there are any by the way I. would say. um I I don't really. know that I actually trust because I. don't know any people personally I know. um that I've I've listened to like I've. listened to the Gavin McKinnis show I. like him a lot I like you obviously and. um you know I respect people that I see. can put aside the money and they can. lose things and they can get fired and.

they don't care to lose that comfortable. position because that's to me that's how. I I I gauge if somebody's you know legit. or not so yeah it's very very few people. out there but yeah I have definitely met. some that I feel like they've been. consistent and even if they've changed a. little bit they don't care if they. alienate people because they have their. truth or whatever and they're going to. stick to that no matter what yeah I. think that takes a lot of courage and. it's one of the reasons why I love tuer. Carlson you know that he's just been. like don't care goodbye like saying. whatever I think and you know willing to.

have on Alex Jones and Andrew tape. because I think what a lot of times the. media does is they create create this. club and this goes back to what you were. saying these are dweebs like why are we. listening to them but they're basically. like if you want to see at the table of. dweebs then you can't talk to Andrew. Tate you know it's like wait a second I. would way rather speak to someone like. Andrew tapate than talk to you like so I. always have to remind myself of that. actually not really it comes quite. naturally to me because I'm just like. there is nothing about you that I like I. mean I find you to be they they tweet. like weasel you know what I mean let me.

my feelings and I'm just not into it at. all and so I did very much like your. video when you were talking about that. like why are we allowing these losers to. dictate what we think and what we feel. and what we say with their essential. it's propaganda I mean they just gang up. and they're they all text each other I. know this for a fact and they're in a. group chat and they're like let's go. after this person and take this clip out. of context and say she's supporting this. and in the past I think the American. people followed that and I think now. they're kind of going wait a second.

you're liars and worse than that you're. losers I know I said it in a very like. craft way um and but there is a general. Point behind everything I said like the. the loser thing the everybody was coming. for me for that getting late in high. school and it's not I'm not promoting. sleeping around okay but I will say it's. a general principle that there are. certain people that don't get what they. see the top people getting and they do. get a chip on their shoulder and that. chip on their shoulder does carry into. adulthood like you do see that you know.

that the way that you were raised or or. whatever how you were developed when you. were younger it does carry over into. adult life and you do notice patterns. and you do start to see that you're like. wow the weird people in in high school. this isn't to say that they were you. know dumb they're very usually very. smart people and now they are the Bill. Gates now they are the Zuckerberg they. the people telling us what to say and. what to think and that's a problem are. you overwhelmed with back taxes or. struggling with unfiled returns with 20. ,000 new hires the IRS has stepped up.

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kind of competing ideas of what women. should be doing and I was explaining to. someone why I wanted to have you on the. show because I actually always think. about that when I'm meeting people I the. first question I ask myself is who are. they in high school because for some. reason High School leaves an indelible. mark on people and I find that the. people who were complete losers in high. school who find Fame uh later on they. hold on to it in a way that's like it. means everything to them so they will do. anything to be like allowed to be in. cool Club they will like say anything to.

be in the cool club and that's actually. not good right because it doesn't give. you you don't have real confidence and. and I'm not talking about people like. I'm not talking about like smart kids. I'm talking about people that just were. severely bullied I I I tend to see that. in politics that then when they get a. little bit of power they kind of go a. little bit crazy um and they're. constantly dictating to people what they. should or should not be doing and it's. just unhelpful and I think going into. any career or any any space that you're. going to be in particularly the public. one where you're getting a lot of. feedback you have to have fundamental.

confidence in who you are right and not. be able to be easily swayed because. that's what it is it's kind of like the. recreation of high school where it's. like who's going to be your click just. like you said if you want to sit over. here you want to do this this is what we. need you to say we need to say ped this. one line and it's people that really. have confidence that will stand up to it. and say no actually I'm I'm just not. going to do that right and that's why I. think it's so important how like you. raise your kids you know make sure put. them in sports you know does give them. confidence it gives them stamina they.

work hard you know they're in with a. higher better group of people that you. know they care about they care about. improving themselves it's not about oh. poor pitiful me you know it's because. that's where that victim culture has all. come from it's it does start when you're. young you know and you learn and you're. like oh if I can you know complain to. teacher or whatever you know I get some. extra browning points and so that's. where the victim culture starts versus. the people who who didn't play the. victim and they were like if they lost a. race it was on because they didn't train. or whatever so yeah I think I think.

definitely if we can try to get this. next Generation raised right you know. they're raised outside they're not on. the phones they're not being. indoctrinated as much and they are. actually out doing competitive Sports. and and just interacting with themselves. in a good way and maybe being punished. for being a crybaby like like I was. right that's a good thing you have four. brothers so there's no question you you. were just being pummeled the whole time. I. mean I think it does help to grow up. with siblings yeah exactly it's but it. is good this is why I believe you have.

to grow up with siblings because like. when people are pointing us up on the. internet I'm like me and my sister. should just beat the crap out of each. other all the time like you know so I'm. just I've got a bit of a thicker skin I. was constantly calling my sister names I. was telling her she was fat she was. worthless I mean like the things that we. say to each other as siblings and me and. my sisters are a year and a half apart. it it does it is character building you. know you like surviving even amongst. siblings and then surviving in high. school and deciding who you are it helps. and I think part of it is that we do. have this cotle culture in America and.

when cotle culture then becomes the. media it's a huge problem right well and. unfortunately with situations like like. politics and there's so many positions. that attract a certain type of people. that want to have that kind of power. over defenses people you see it with. school teachers a lot of times yeah you. have good school teachers but you have a. lot of people that are attracted to. those positions because it's a kind of a. power box you know they they have a lot. of power over kids that have to listen. to them same with politics so that's why. I think we see so many of those kinds of.

people in those positions right. absolutely so I have to ask Lily where. to next what are the offers you're. getting what's what's happening in your. inbox I know you're probably getting. everything from people saying I want to. marry you to people accusing you of. being a part of some conspiracy that is. the beauty of Internet Fame so what is. actually next for you um I'm not sure. like right now I never this like I said. this wasn't a planned thing like if it. had been a planned thing I would have. like a goal but right now I'm just kind. of just doing the same thing I was I'm.

still just putting out the videos and. talking and if it relate if people. relate to it that's awesome and if not. I'll try to find something else but. right now you know I'm just just trying. to figure out where do I go from here. you know I have um I think I'm going to. be doing a show with the uh CS and.tv so. that's Gavin mck Kinesis Network so. that'll be fun I think that's a great. crowd of people so that's something you. know in the works but yeah we're just. we're just winging it at this point to. be honest Gavin was one of the First. shows that I did he's great he he's such.

a kind person always has been one she'll. have fun there you should definitely. also think about getting involved with. some pro-life Charities you know cuz. like I said these are the stories people. need to hear and it's something that we. should be welcoming and by the way what. is your what is your normal job what is. your normal so to speak job right well I. was a marketing position I just like I. just graduated college and I got the. entry level like marketing position and. then I lost it so very nice right now. yeah right now I'm currently unemployed. okay well you know what the God's got a. plan for you so don't worry about it you. know when things happen sometimes when.

you get fired it's okay it's a good. thing it can be a good thing Lily thank. you so much for joining us and I hope. that in the future I definitely want to. have you down we're still figuring. things out here at the studio but it. would be great to have just like a panel. of women talking about women like female. issues and different perspectives. because I think people do need to hear. um more real world perspectives as you. say and not just believing that the. Internet is real life so thank you so. much for joining us thank you so much I. appreciate it all right guys I hope you. enjoyed that discussion I hope it's.

provided more clarity as to who Lily. gtis is so we can retire the moniker the. n-word girl it's all we have please. please head to Club candice.com support. us that way or go to locals.com become a. one-time donor a monthly donor keep the. show and the conversation free and. unrestricted. [Music].