Trisha Paytas: Internet Trolls, Kidnapping & Nudes (Full Episode)

What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your. founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call. Her Daddy. Trisha Paytas, welcome to Call Her. Daddy. I'm so excited. Um Daddy Gang, we're going to be really honest with you. right now. We were just recording for a. solid 10 minutes. We were cruising down. the freeway. We were thriving. And then. we realized it wasn't recording. And it. was gold. That 10 minutes were gold and. we can't recreate it. You're like, pretend we didn't do any of that. I'm. like, I can't recreate that gold.

Everything was going amazing. So if you. guys feel like we're a little on edge. here and ready like ready to end it all, it's because we are, okay? Um I was. saying to you, Trisha, congratulations. You just announced your second child. Tell me how you're feeling again. I feel very excited. From the beginning, I'm like, do we go through everything we. just said? Yeah, I think where did the. names come from? I always loved Elvis. and Malibu before the movies came out. From 10. I'm a middle child. Older. sister, brother, younger sister. You're. the baby. Who are you closer to with.

brother or sister? You're like, I'm. going to get in trouble and that's when. I cut. we literally went through Okay, no, we. are doing it again. How are you feeling? Talk to me about all the food that you. can eat because you're pregnant. Oh, I just feel Oh, yeah, that's what we. were saying. It's like, see, now I. forgot already. Um yeah, I just feel. like usually I do eat what I want, but I. feel guilty about it. Now I just eat. what I want and don't feel guilty cuz. you know, you're like growing a baby, so. You're growing a baby. You're allowed to. just like shove food into your mouth and. no one can get mad at you or judge you. It's like, [ __ ] off, I'm pregnant. Leave. me alone. And mostly I don't care what. other people think. It's usually what I. think. So it's usually like, oh no, I. don't feel bad. Now I'm like, oh, I'm.

not judging myself. And I can sleep all. that I want. Usually like, I got to be. busy. I got to do but now I just take. naps and I don't even feel any guilt. You're napping and you're eating. And. I'm so happy for you. I love being pregnant. You said you want. more than two. Well, we thought two. I don't know. I. don't know. We don't have two yet. One. is very difficult. In my head I'm. thinking like four, you know, cuz we. were talking about how three is like. hard. So I was like, it's two or four. Okay, I know I already asked you this, but just to set the scene for people, where did you grow up? I would split my time between Illinois. and California. My dad was in California.

and my mom was in Illinois, so I went. back and forth a lot. I quit school a. lot to like be homeschooled and stuff, then I'd go back into school. Like I was. constantly doing that cuz I loved I. loved like the lifestyle here in. California with my dad, but you know, my. mom is what I used to. And like we lived. in a town of like a thousand people back. in Illinois. So it was like two. extremes, yeah. Wait, were you closer with your mom or. your dad? Um, I mean definitely my mom. Yeah, like. my dad I saw like the summers, you know. what I mean? Um, but my dad I think in that though I. thought my dad was so cool cuz he was. like in California and I was like even.

though like obviously he was the worst. of the parents. My mom literally raised. us. I always felt bad saying like my dad. was the best. like that happens so much when you come. from divorced parents. The one that's. like the cooler one is actually just the. one that never had to like instill any. boundaries or like tell you like you're. grounded because you did this or like. just was not the one parenting as much. and then you grow up and you're like, oh. Yeah. Dad, maybe not as fabulous as. mom putting in all the work. work. My mom works four jobs, bus. driver, bartender, all this stuff like. that and I'm like,

I love my dad more. It was like so. weird. But yeah, especially at the. wedding. We had the wedding and like my. dad walks us down the aisle and gives. the speech and my moms don't get. anything at the wedding and they do all. the work. I kind of felt bad. point. Yeah, and my mom still helps us out. She's like watching our daughter right. now, Owen. Call Her Daddy is brought to you by. Airbnb. I have been so into taking. little weekend trips this year and when. I start to get stressed at work and know. I need a vacay, I open up Airbnb. Okay, Matt and I are about to go away for the. weekend and I found the cutest, coziest.

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Um yeah, we lived in like these farm. towns and they were yeah, they were less. than a thousand people. We kind of moved. around a little bit because I don't. know, I just never liked school and um. yeah, it was just small. It was just. small town. It was a farm town. So, everyone and my mom like was from there. So, it was just like farm town. My. grandparents were on a farm and there. there's just not much to it to be. honest. It's really just It was so. boring and I just I hated it. I haven't. been back since. So, I think I left at. 17 and I have not been back since. Oh my god, do you think if you landed in. Illinois, like would you get triggered? Yeah, yeah, for sure. Even just going to.

Chicago, which is like two hours from. where I used to live, I'm like, "Not. Illinois." No. I kind of relate to that. though and I think a lot of people, especially during the holidays, like. I've seen people always say like, "It's. triggering to go back to your hometown.". Because one, I think we like repress so. many memories and two, it's just like it. just reminds us of a version of. ourselves that like if you were cool in. middle school and high school, like. kudos to you, but like I wasn't. like not really either. I wasn't like. bullied really. I mean a little tiny bit. like everybody, but I wasn't cool.

either. So, I was just I was just. neutral just everywhere, you know? of neutral. What did you want to be when. you were growing up? A famous. Famous. I just wanted to be famous. And. this was before like reality TV, so I. was like, I need to be a singer or an. actress. Stop. can't do either of them, but I came out. to do it. Cuz that's how you got famous. back then. So, when you're sitting in. Illinois, are you like were there any. like TV shows or magazines or anything. that you were watching or like people. you were like, I want to be like that. person? Spears, of course. Did you tell people. in your town you wanted to be famous? Yeah, I was mostly I was voted most.

likely to be famous in one of I think. two of my yearbooks I was most likely to. be famous. Yeah, just cuz I like was I. just liked attention. And like I said, I. don't know, I just I feel like I always. stood out. You know, you know, I feel. like you just kind of know if you have. like a little it factor, you know? So, I. knew I had something, but I was like it. wasn't talent. So, I was like, how do I parlay this? Going back to high school, like did you. have a lot of girlfriends? No. No. I was I was I wouldn't say a. pick me, but I definitely was like girls. are drama. I used to be that I used to. be the girl that I did not like girls. because of that reason cuz I was just. intimidated. I just thought, oh, no.

guy's going to look at me if I'm in a. room with girls. I just was not a girls'. girl. Like it took me a while. Um now. I'm only a girls' girl and I can't stand. like men. But it took me a while. I definitely was. insecure and never wanted to be around. girls. You know what I mean? I just I. think I was always a girl hater. Especially like I just never felt good. enough. I never felt skinny enough, pretty enough. I never had boyfriends. until I was like 30. So, yeah. No, I think that's relatable. though of like when especially when. we're younger, like we're constantly. comparing ourselves in rooms because at. that age it's also like what guy likes. what girl, and if you're not getting.

picked, then you feel like a loser and. you feel like, [ __ ] like I wish I. looked like them. And then it's just. this comparing game that you can never. win. So, it's hard to like I had that a. lot where I like my best friend was like. the gorgeous one and I was always like I. love you so much but like [ __ ] me. Yeah, don't be around me. Right. Like can you move a little to the. [ __ ] right cuz you look too good in. parties and I'd be like I'm literally. never going to get chosen if you are. sitting next to me. And it's hard with. girls but it's like now I look back and.

I'm like oh my god it wasn't actually. about us competing with each other. It. was about the men that we were trying to. like appease their standards and had. nothing to do with the girls like liking. each other not at all. based off of if guys like that. Of course with everything with acting. with anything. It's just like you know. it's just what they what they approved. of what they liked and it had nothing to. do with you. So I know. I wish I would. have found my own lane earlier cuz I and. I do love pretty girls. I'm like I. actually like am obsessed with pretty. girls. I just like was just too scared. to be around them. No, it is. intimidating. Like I agree like you and.

and also it's hard to not be envious of. like I wish I had what you have and like. I wish I was you but at the end of the. day once you get to know those people a. lot of times they've got their own [ __ ]. Oh, for sure. perfect either. Oh, no for sure. I was always envious of. you. I was very envious of you. I. remember like when I I think it was like. 2019 2018 you girls were on Impulsive. and I remember being like and I didn't. know anything about podcast. I didn't. know how people got podcast and I. remember just being so jealous. I was. like wow they have a job where they're. just like talking and talking about sex. I was like I could do that. That could. be me and I was like how do they get.

this and you girls were so much younger. I was like so jealous and then obviously. you got your Spotify deal. I was just. like oh my god. You know I was I was. that person who was so jealous. So. Dude, it's so funny Tricia because I. remember just like watching you on. YouTube so often and I would be so. jealous of you because before I started. my career I'm like I wish I had Trisha's. platform. I wish I could like sit on. YouTube and like do what she does. That's crazy cuz I was like alone and. crying all the time. Like I wish I could be that person. Dude, that is so crazy that we're both. like oh I was jealous of you. Oh, for sure. I definitely was. I.

definitely was just like I don't get. Call Her Daddy. I definitely was. So. when I did this I was like all I know is. that clip is going to be resurfacing so. let me just go ahead and say it. It's so. funny because I had one of my really. good friends now, she went on a podcast. at one point and was like, "I don't get. the Call Her Daddy girl stick. It's so. [ __ ] dumb. Why are they acting like. that? They're like acting like little. whores." Like, I I'm the first person. and I think that we can talk about that, too, with your career of like by having. a career on the internet, you just say. so much stuff and half of the time in. the beginning days, I felt like I also.

said stuff that I regret and I remember. in those OG days back in the day with my. old co-host, like we when we started to. get desperate for views, we would like. say stuff about celebrities and I'm so. deeply embarrassed that we said those. things, but I know it wasn't coming from. a place of like actually being like mean. girls. It was I know from my POV, it was. genuinely just like, "How do we stir. [ __ ] up?" And if you can teeter this. line that's so unhealthy and you just. become like, "How do we get more? How do. we get more?". And I'm like, "Why did I say that?" So,

if that clip resurfaces, I wouldn't give. a [ __ ] I literally wouldn't, Trisha, because I First of all, you didn't know. me. You had never met me. just jealous, 100%. Because honestly, as. soon as they called for this, like. literally like my management from Canada. flew in. They're like, "This is I'm. like, yes, this is the biggest thing.". You know what I mean? So, I think but I. really try in the past, especially since. being 30, I really try now to really. just not hate on girls. Even if like. everyone's hating on them, I really try. to find like even with Jada Pinkett, I'm. like I try to find like the good side of. this. I'm like, "You know, she dealt. through a lot. Now she can So, I try to. I try to keep it positive with every.

girl, you know?" I agree. You're right. I think what we can both understand is. like being in the media, a lot of times. when we do the stupidest [ __ ] is when. we're hurting the most. And so, trying. to find like any type of empathy for. anyone when you see someone like acting. out, it's like, "What the hell are they. going through?". There's still people that like I can. like I just can't find the silver lining. and I just go I scroll past. Like now I. don't like to say anything. I'm like, "Let me just If you have nothing nice to. say, don't say it at all." So, I I feel. like I've matured a lot and like I don't. really like hate on girls. But if there. is a girl that annoys you and there is,

like I just annoy some people. Just, you. know, I just keep it Like it just makes. you look bad. Like I just look so bad. like you said I just look so bad talking. like so much crap about people. But I. really can tell you like it came always. from a place of like jealousy always. Like I used to talk about like the. D'Amelios when they were like 18 and 16. and I was just like I was so jealous. that I wasn't me but I was like 30 years. old being like oh my god you're spitting. out a snail how ungrateful. Like you. know they're 18. No but I also think. that comes from a place too of like. people on the internet then probably. like writing to you being like saying. mean things about like I get it now like.

relevancy or like age as a woman and. it's like as a woman if you're past the. age of 21 you're like old as [ __ ] and. you're outdated. And so naturally that's. going to cause resentment of us feeling. like when you see younger girls but. really we shouldn't be mad at younger. girls we should be mad at society and. mainly men being the ones that tell us. like after a certain age you're not. valued anymore and it's like right [ __ ]. off. Right exactly. [ __ ] you. I love it. No it's true it is. true. I want to talk about you going to. LA. So you graduate high school and I.

remember reading like the day after you. moved to LA. Yeah like literally the day. of yeah mhm. What was your plan and what. was your job when you got to LA? Um well I initially moved in with my dad. so that was the first thing. I like. lasted about he wanted me to go to. college so I went to like two weeks of. like community college it did not work. out. Cuz I never had a math class in my. life in high school so I took like a. pre-algebra and I like had no idea what. was going on so I was like I drop out. Um and so yeah I got on a TV show right. away though I got on a show called The. Greg Behrendt Show. It was like filmed. at Culver Studios it was like a.

syndication show it was like a talk. show. And so I did like 10 episodes of. that I was in SAG after so I was getting. like you know $1,700 an episode which. was like so much it was great. And then. I got another show with Stan Lee called. Who Wants to Be a Superhero it was on. Sci-Fi. So I was like crushing it. That. was like 18 and then like 19 hit and. then I kind of like woo I had no money. nothing and then that's when I did the. whole stripping escorting I wouldn't. even say escort I was like a hooker on. the street but I like to say escorting. it sounds like fancier. Trisha slow. down. Yeah. Hold on. Trisha is like I can go I will go how. you can talk you're like I can go. through my entire life story in I'm. literally one minute. And I'm like, Tricia, we need to like get an hour IN.

HERE. AND LIKE Brad 18, and I'm like, we. got to get to 35. Okay, first of all, I'm dying at your math comment because I. was so [ __ ] bad at math. Shout out to. Oscar. He was this kid in my math class. that he would I would sit next to Oscar. and I would pretend I'm writing my whole. math class do do do do do doing nothing. Then when Oscar was done his, he would. hand me his test and I would hand him my. test and he would take my test for me. and he would like even like change like. his writing to be more girly. And then. Oscar would hand me back my test and I. would go hand it in and I'm like Oscar,

I knew he was like going to Harvard or. something and I was just like not meant. for math. And I just knew like there is. there is going to be a phone for a. reason that has a calculator. I don't. need to know like the square root of. things. You manifested or you knew? There was. already cell phones back then. And there. We didn't have cell phones in high. school, so I don't know. We did have. cell phones, but you know. I was like manifested this is going to. happen one day. I was like, wow, you. made the iPhone happen. Honestly, I absolutely will take credit. for that.

I'm dead. Yes, I absolutely made the. iPhone happen for sure 100% and then. No, I was like I just knew I didn't need. math in my [ __ ] life cuz I knew I. wanted to be in in entertainment. Did. you ever cheat in school? No, I've never. had friends, so like my friends were. literally like I said, I was just like. hitting up like celebrities just trying. to be like, hey, but I've never had. friends in school, never had friends. now. I'm just not a friend person. I. don't know. Okay. But I'm really trying now with my. daughter. I really am like being trying. to be as social as possible like we're. going to birthday parties for her cuz I.

just don't want her to grow up like that. with like no I don't really mind, it. doesn't make me sad cuz I don't know any. different. And also I'm just like not a. great friend cuz I'm not someone to like. hang out with all the time. I've just. never been that person, so but I'm. trying now for my daughter like we got. to make her friends, make sure she's. social and yeah. Okay, let's talk about you saying so. casually when you're talking this fast. you're like, okay, and then I went to. start saying and then I was like. too. I love it. We can talk fast. You said you have an. hour, so I was like, let's get it in an. hour. Our podcast is like 3 and 1/2. hours, so I was like, I got get it all. in. No, I was more saying, "Trisha, we. need to at least get to an hour." You're. going to talk about your whole life. story in 30 seconds. You're like.

I know. I know. Okay, so you got finally. after like you were in LA for a second, you were having some success, and then. you just casually were like, "And then I. became a stripper and an escort." But. not really. What happened? Yeah, yeah. So, I just had like no. money. I was just like running out of. money. My mom like was helping me as. much as she could, and then she kind of. ran out of money. I like maxed out her. cards and stuff. So, we all ran out of. money. Um she had a husband at the time, so she was like living with him, and she. was like fine. But my dad was not in the. picture at all. Like he hated that I. moved out, like cut me off completely. So, I had like no help, no money. And. so, I didn't know what to do. I didn't. like I wasn't educated. Like you know, I.

didn't have a college degree. So, I had. no idea. I could I tried to do like the. regular jobs, you know, like making. smoothies and stuff, but that was just. like uh not for me either. And I just, you know, loved the stripper life as. like in movies. Like I loved it. I. thought it was like so glamorous. So, I. was like, "This is going to be for me.". But like my stripper life was not. glamorous. I was like literally at like. Canoga Park, like the anal is like. Godfathers. It was like super sketchy. I. wanted to be at Spearmint Rhino, but. that was like the bougie pretty girls. with the fake boobs already. I was in. like I don't know. That was. If you know Godfathers, it's just like. sketchy. Um so, yeah. I had a stripper. life. And then yeah, then I just, you.

know, I think casually then you just start cuz. like Hans Palvada there is like a bunch. of hookers. Like so, I just casually you. start like going on the street cuz you. just get more money that way. You don't. split it with the club and stuff like. that. But um I was like I was kind of. like out of my mind there. I would never. I don't consider myself like an addict, but I definitely was like using a lot. back then. Okay. Okay. Can I ask what you were. using? Back then, it was just like I did. a lot of coke. I did a lot of like. I didn't do meth until like 2019, but I. did do stuff that I didn't know. Maybe. it was like. you know, the ones where you snort with. like rocks. I don't know if that's meth.

I don't know what it was. But I was like. snorting rocks. Yeah. I literally didn't know what any. of the drugs were. I just know I did a. lot of Just everything was snorting. And. one of them was like really rocks. Like. it was just like hurt my nose all the. time like that. And so, uh I was just. Yeah, I was just doing a lot of that. stuff. I was just like out of my mind. Honestly, whatever people gave me. And. at 18 and 19 you're just kind of like. don't care. You know, I didn't care. I. was like I don't really care where my. life goes. When you said your dad cut you off, like. what happened? Oh, just cuz like I didn't want to do. school, and he's just like I'm not I'm. not going to support you, and yeah. I.

mean You were on your own. Yeah, so I was like okay. Were you. scared at all whenever you were. stripping? Like were there any moments. where you like got into situations where. you're like I am like a little scared? Oh, yeah. I feel like all of it. Like. going home with out guys all the time. Like yeah, it's crazy that like I'm. alive. It all scared me. Um. I guess at the time you just didn't get. scared cuz you don't think about it, right? No, I I get that. I think it's like when. you almost like can get into something. that you just kind of fall into, and. then you can almost just like keep going. down that rabbit hole, and you almost.

don't know when like to stop or when to. like check yourself cuz again, you're. right at that age. Like if you don't. have someone like that's a parent being. like stop it, you kind of can just start. to go wild and like not know like what. is bad, what is good, and I'm finding. myself, and I'm figuring myself out. And. if you didn't have friends, like you. kind of had no one probably to compare. yourself to. Like my friends aren't. doing this. Had you ever done drugs. before you went to LA? No, not. I was super good. I never. drank. Like I just didn't I wasn't. having like sex in high school or. something like that cuz I just never I.

never was that person. I don't know, so. maybe I just thought like LA be wild, you know what I mean? I thought And. again, I think being insecure, I just. was like you thought like having sex. meant like you're so attractive. Like. everybody wants you, you know? And you. get paid for it. Like that's actually. insane like to me. I was like, "Oh my. gosh, like people are going to pay me to. have sex with them? That's wild.". You're right though. I I can see what. you're saying of like going from like. being in a position where you're like, "Oh, like I wanted to be liked by these. men." And then to get this profession. where like they all love you, and. they're all paying attention to you. But.

then I can imagine like the drugs. probably made you get into situations. Like Could Could you share any stories. of just like situations you got into. that you woke up and you're like, "Why. did this happen?". gosh. I mean, honestly, a lot of them. that I like blacked out. I mean, really. just I mean, I've been kidnapped a bunch. of times where it's just like you wake. up in like a truck and the truck's. moving and stuff like that. Yeah. Trisha? Yeah. Pause. Sorry, what? Yeah, I got kidnapped. Well, I guess you I. don't know if it's kidnapping if you're. over 18, but I was 19, so. Trisha. I've been abducted, I guess.

It's kidnapping, no matter if you're 45. Wait, really? Yes. I could be kidnapped at 35? Yes. Oh, okay. Wait. Wait. Yeah, I was yeah. Can you walk me. through it? But it's like it's in the. sense where it's like I don't know where. I'm at. Like I go with somebody and all. of a sudden you wake up, you're like, "Oh, in someone's truck." And stuff like. that. At one point in your life you woke up in. the back of a truck. multiple times, yeah, for sure. Yeah, it's crazy. There's like And you know, back then, again, you don't think in. that way. Like, "Well, I went with this. person willingly." So, yeah, you just. don't think about stuff like that.

When you would wake up in the back of. those trucks, like what did you do? You. kind of just don't do anything. Well, you know, you're like coming off of. drugs, so you kind of just like let. things happen. You're just like, "Oh.". And then they like let you off or. something like that. So, you kind of. just And you know, again, I just I. didn't think of it like anything. I hear. people talk about their stories, and for. me it's just like. I say it casually cuz it's it to me it. almost seems casual. Like it almost. seems like, "Oh, well, that's what I was. doing, I guess." Even if I didn't want. it or like someone like, you know, brought me with them. Like it's kind of. a I don't know. I'm like, "Well, this is.

the life I chose." You know, which is. like such a weird way to think. And of. course, anybody else in this situation. would be like, "Oh my god, that's so. awful." But for me I just thought, "Well, this is what I chose." But I. think also there's a level of like at. some point you kind of have to just like. disconnect from it because a lot of that. like for any woman listening, like that. is I'm sitting here being like, "Sorry, you woke up in the back of a truck?". Like that's so scary. I do think. obviously when you're on drugs, though, everything can become way less. intimidating because you your senses are. like not heightened whatsoever. You're.

just like kind of in a sedated state. So, like you can't really you don't have. the ability to like make maybe the. decisions you would make when you're. sober. Oh, for sure. Um but when you look back at yourself in. those situations, like how do you feel? It's almost like I just don't even know. that life. You know, it's kind of like. my high school life, I don't know that. life, I don't know. Like there's so many. stages I look back on and I'm like, "Oh, I don't even like recognize." Like I. remember it. um but some of it I don't even like. recognize, you know what I mean? Cuz I. was just so such a different person. And. it almost it almost seems like I'm. telling a story, you know what I mean?

Like it's almost doesn't seem like my. life. It's almost like, "This is a story. about this girl." But like it like, you. know, and I. it took me a while. I didn't go to. therapy for like a really long time. And. even in therapy now, I like don't talk. about it cuz it's just like it's not. trauma to me, you know? Stuff that. happened to me as a kid, too. I'm just. like, "Oh, it's not trauma." Even though. like it is, it's just like I don't know. I don't like it's like it's not. something I'm like uncomfortable talking. about. But with like therapy, I like. don't get deep into it cuz I'm like, "It's fine." And they're like, "No, it's. not." But I'm like, "To me, it's fine.". Like, you know, it doesn't I don't think. it affected me, but they're saying it. does. And it probably did cuz I mean, I. am kind of I was messed up for a long.

time, so. Well, yeah. I think a lot of. the time, it's like the body keeps. things in. But like if you've done such. a good job essentially like dissociating. from it, like I get what you're saying. of like you're telling the story, but. you don't personally feel. that affected by it right now cuz you. have survived through it and you're. like, "I don't really like connect to. that person anymore." Which I think is. how a lot of people survive. And I think. there's also like a stigma where people, which I completely understand, when. people would look at you being like, "Well, you have to figure it out and you. have to solve it." I think that there's.

a lot of people that don't want to go. and relive some things. And I think. that's okay. Obviously, if it's like. significantly affecting your life to. this day where like you're having like. whether you're feeling like if you're. having sex, you're getting triggered or. you're having PTSD or flashbacks, like. that's usually when to like open it back. up. But like I think everyone has to. figure it out on their own time. Yeah, I definitely had that. I've. definitely had that where I had to like. talk to someone cuz it was like if. someone like touched me, like I was, you. know, it's like just dealing with all. that stuff. So, I've definitely dealt. with that for sure. But yeah. Yeah, I'm.

curious like going through that with men. and like being in positions where. obviously I'm sure like you've kind of. alluded like there's taken at like. taking advantage moments. Like how did. you kind of like rebuild your. relationship to men? I think I just like. always hated men and I feel like I'm. still kind of there. Especially like. giving birth, I just had like such bad. experiences with men like not. understanding postpartum like just So, I. just and I've just all my life is just. like any type of men I've just like I. don't know. I feel like I wanted their. like validation and they were all awful.

So, I feel like I have still such a. strong hatred. I think if there's. anything to fix it's like maybe my. hatred towards men and like it's like. it's not even just like me being this. feminist men suck, you know, it's just. like I really dislike them and when I. like have to talk to straight like this. year I really made a conscious effort to. do only female podcast. Like I make it. don't want to talk to like men. Like I. don't know what it is and it's like. that's obviously not right either. You. want to like be equal and like you know, not hate men, but. Yeah. No, but I get what you're saying. I think like when you've been like. [ __ ] over or wronged by men or even.

just as simple as like they don't. understand women and there are some men. that when you're actually looking at. them in the eyes you're like, "Oh, you. don't get what I'm talking about. You. don't get what I'm like even trying to. say to you." And that can be so. infuriating and it's not worth our time. sometimes. Like it's not our job to. educate men on why we should be treated. equally to them or why we should like. you have respect. Like if you're talking. So, there are some men that are great. Like your husband seems great, but like. overall I get what you're saying of like. the trauma of having men fail you so.

many times in your life, why would you. like them? Yeah. And then that's how I. feel. And you're right, there are there. are like my husband's like amazing and I. have like a friend that has like an. amazing husband, too. And it's like. there are some good ones, but then you. hear on TikTok so many horror stories of. men that don't want to change diapers or. they don't want to like be plan the. wedding or they like just constantly. like like that to me is like so and I. hear it all the time and I'm like, "Oh, that's so like triggering." I'm just. like, you know what I mean? Just the way. they treat women. It just makes me so. upset. I don't know. It's so [ __ ] up and then to see like. how many women men then want to have. like a say on what women do with their. bodies. Oh, well, that's a whole other That was.

yeah. That's what I'm saying with like. postpartum or hormones when you're. pregnant all this stuff, you know, all. the abortion stuff and stuff. It's just. like it's infuriating that like men have. a say period. And I just feel like men. should not have a say ever about. anything. Like just don't say anything. Like giving birth, giving after like. after I gave birth I had so many guys. online like criticize me for taking. fentanyl for having a C-section because. I was you know, I had an addiction to. like drugs at one point and like oh. well, she said she never took drugs but. she took fentanyl for a C-section. I'm. like they they make you cuz they're. cutting you open. Like I don't get the. choice not to really. So yeah, and so I.

think all of that really made me hate. men even more and straight and gay cuz. you know what I mean? Like they both. kind of don't get sometimes. So I was. like uh. So even I had like a hairdresser I just. like I had all this Now it's like okay, now I'm letting gay men back into my. life more but like the straight men is. still hard for me and I don't even mean. it and it's it's one thing and I think. cuz I'm married now I don't even really. need them as I used to think I needed. them in the past with like dating and. stuff. When you're in the dating world like I'm. sorry but like. I get it. Women are always going to try. to like look cute for the day and look. this way and talk this way. Like there.

are little things we always do because. we still live in a man's world. So it's. like we have to be delicate with how we. unravel it. But once you're in a healthy. safe relationship, it's kind of nice. you're right to be like I now don't need. anything. And and if I'm going to. interact with men, it's going to be on. my terms. Yeah, it's the best. It's the best. feeling. It's just so great and I'm like. I don't care if I'm skinny enough. I. don't care if I'm if there's a prettier. girl in the room to me. Like none of it. matters, you know? So it's just like. it's so freeing. It's so wonderful. Like. you said if you're in a good. relationship. The wrong relationship. will make you feel the opposite. That's almost worse than being in the. dating game. yeah, yeah. That's awful. You like yeah.

And I'm sure like I'm sure so many women. including ourselves sitting here have. been in those type of relationships. where you're like I am. a shell of a human. I was I was better. off when I was dating a bunch of. [ __ ] but going on dates rather than. being with one guy that has your claws. in you. Like so like manipulative and. like emotionally or physically abusive. whatever it is. The worst. Calling you crazy, judging. what you eat, counting how many nuggets. you eat. It's like that to me and I. thought I was like so in love and then. you look back and you're just like, "Oh. my god, this person like hated me." But. I was trying so hard, everything I could. and I'm like and it's happened Yeah,

it's happened. I've only been in like. two relationships, so it's like both. relationships are horrible. a man that would count how many chicken. nuggets you would eat? What the [ __ ] On camera. No. Yeah. It's like still out there. It's. like compilations of all the time Yeah. It's like that to me is the most. traumatic thing of my life. I've been. kidnapped probably over 40 times, but. that was the most traumatizing. thing. Thinking about it, I like. disassociate right now. I'm like, "Oh, no." I like get scared. I don't know. It's like such a weird thing. You're like, "Leave me the [ __ ] alone. Let me eat my nuggets in peace, you.

piece of shit.". It's like so it's actually like. traumatizing. When I think back, I'm. like, "Oh my god." And to this day, I. literally had a cry the other night like. we were eating pasta like something. triggered me from like that relationship. and I was just like and it's so weird. Like I'm so like I never think about it. whatever, but there's like this like I. was eating this pasta and I was like, "Oh my god." I just started like crying. and I was just like, "I feel like a. disgusting person for eating this." And. my husband is like great. He's just. like, "Pasta is like the most like. popular food. It's in every country. Like what like it's totally normal for. you to eat this." Right. It's like it's. like wipe your tears and eat your pasta,

Trisha. Okay, I read a study that like. pasta makes you happier. Yes. I repost that on my Instagram all. the time. I always see it and see it. Yeah. I'm like repost. I'm like, "Absolutely happier. Let's go. Pasta. every night.". I we I eat pasta every day. Usually I. don't care and then like I don't know. There are days. started a spiral for. some reason. Yeah. Call Her Daddy is brought to you by. White Claw. I don't know who needs to. hear this, but you are way too hot to be. spending the summer sitting inside and. just scrolling on your phone, okay? We.

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bottom moment where you're like, I've. got to. it. So many. So many. That was That was. rock bottom moment in like when I was 19. that happened. Like I literally I lived. next to his name was Christopher Dennis. He was the Hollywood Superman. There's a. documentary made about him, and he he. recently passed. He was so sad. But he. he found me just completely like in piss. and [ __ ] all this stuff because my my. apartment didn't even have a doorknob. It was on Yucca and Highland. There was. like no doorknob. I think it's still. there. It's like behind a liquor store. now. And he like found me, and like my. dad and I hadn't talked for like two and.

a half years at this point. And I don't. know how I don't know if he called him. whatever, but my dad like showed up, took me to like Riverside Hospital. I. was in there for like three weeks in. like 2007, 2008. And um, yeah, and then. I I kind of got a little better. Then my. was trying to get me back to go to. college, did that for like 6 months, and. then I moved back out again. My mom came out. So, but that was a rock. bottom, and then 2019 was my rock rock. bottom. 2019 was my the meth I was in. three mental hospitals. I That's when I. was like really hardcore into meth. There was two guys that I dated um who. both have since passed from.

overdoses, and um yeah, I was just I was. just wild. I think I slept with probably. like 200 guys that one year. Three. mental hospitals, like just really. beside myself. The internet, oh my god, everybody was making like hate videos. about me. Like PewDiePie made a hate. video. I was like, "Oh my god, like what. did I even do?" So, it was like my rock. rock bottom. And which ironically was. the skinniest, so. sometimes it's like I want to be skinny, and then I was like, "Ooh, maybe not.". That 2019 was a rough. Trisha. Oh my god, wow.

that was and that was documented that. 2019. That was a rough year for me. Cuz you were on YouTube at that point. Yeah, I was making like a lot of videos. There's a lot of deleted videos with the. people I was with. Um. yeah, just it was really like crazy. Let's talk about your OG YouTube days. because yes, there were some videos put. out that like people considered. controversial, and people like tried to. bring your old YouTube videos back to. this day. Like you got involved in like. I feel like a good bit of drama back. then. Like when you look back at the OG.

YouTube days, how do you feel about. them, and how would you even describe. them? It's like so many eras of YouTube, too. Like the OG ones were just like so. great. It was like before you could make. money on YouTube, it was just like fun. And then you start making money, and. then it's like where do you find your. niche? Like I said, I never felt like I. had like talent, so I was like, "What. can I do? Oh, I can like piss people. off. I can do this." So, I definitely. went like the trolling route because it. was like the most money I ever made. without having to like strip or hook. And I was just like, "This is it, you. know?" So, yeah, I definitely had a lot.

of like problematic videos, and just. stuff that like I didn't necessarily. even think. I think if I I like me, I. could like hold stronger to like, "Oh, I. was just like younger whatever, but it. was just like stuff I'd hear other. people say that were like and I would. just like repeat it. I just wanted to be. shocking and. um, you know, and I like I totally own. up to it and I look back at my videos. and I'm like, well, you know, some of. them are pretty bad, but I try to give. myself grace and forgiveness with that. cuz I used to be really hard on myself. I'm like, I know, I suck, I'm. problematic. And to this day like I. don't get sponsored on my podcast. Like. shout out to our Patreon. Like our. Patreons do it and stuff. So it's you. know, it's great. But um, yeah, I.

definitely. forever have like this like mark on me. on the internet of like kind of like, mm, she's a little controversial or you. know, you just people don't want you. like around. But you know, it's it's. fine. Like again, I. my word of advice to people when I see. people trolling now on the internet is. like just maybe don't because it'll like. follow you forever. People will think of. you as that forever. And rightfully so, like you know, like those clips will. always be out there and people either. see the change and the growth or they. don't and I think either one you just. have to like work with, you know. I do think it's helpful that you're like. explaining your backstory and that's why.

I wanted to talk to you about it today. because it's like, for sure. I bet I'll. get comments being like, why the [ __ ]. are you having Trisha Paytas on? Like, what the [ __ ] I totally understand. that. I also though think it's important. like the fact that you just said like, I. could make more money doing this than. stripping and hooking. It's like, okay, like it's good to know someone's. backstory and I think when again, when. you're saying those type of things, usually the people that are saying those. things, you're not in a great place. Never. Oh my god. Oh, back then I just.

couldn't I didn't care about me, my I. didn't think anything of the future. I. was just like, I need to make money now. I'm just going to piss people off. I. don't care. I don't have friends for a. reason. Never thinking like it would be. a full career or anything, you know. That's what I also think sometimes like. people feel like they're lucky cuz they. can make their fake accounts, but like. God forbid one day all of your fake. account comments and trolling and you. like telling people to go kill. themselves or whatever. Like there are. people on the internet that are so. ruthless, but they don't have the balls. to do it publicly and have their own. name on it. If that God forbid you.

walked into work one day and all of your. comments were placed on your own desk. Like would you be fired or not? And I. think it like if you look inward, all of. those people are not in a good place and. clearly you weren't either and you've. kind of had this like redemption arc. But like when you look back, do you. think you were addicted to the drama. once you started to see the money? Oh, yeah. I mean, for so long, like a. good like 10, 12 years. I was so. addicted. I was just so miserable. So. like any attention was good attention. Money was just money, you know what I.

mean? So it just Yeah, it's It is crazy, but I did reap the karmatic, you know, effects of it all. So it does, like you. said, even the trolls. I think it I. think it's so real. I think karma is so. real and like I've reaped all of that 10. times over, I'm sure, and still do to. this day. We get a sponsor and like. everyone harasses them. Like don't So we. lose At this point, I'm like, don't even. give us sponsorships cuz I just know. they're going to harass So it's fine. Luckily, I have my ways to make money, but Yeah, you just you you reap it for a. long time. So Why do you think though.

second chances are so important? Because. I think people do like change. I think. majority of humans evolve as human. beings, especially when you get older, when you're find happiness, when you. find love. Like you mean, people do. change and I think like that's the whole. point of humanity, right? Is like the. evolution of it all. Like I think our. society shows that. Like, you know, from. like us and like the '60s, you know, with like segregation and stuff. You. know, I think it's like just shown like. obviously people are like change. So I. think that's important. Otherwise, you. never like never can grow and never can. like, you know, Um but yeah, I've had.

second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth. chances. So I'm appreciative of all of. them. Some people don't deserve them. Some people don't want to give them to. you, but I do think it's important to. like try to see people changing. Cuz I. think I really think people. do and can. I agree. I think also it's. really difficult on the internet when. you have a persona that I even feel it. sometimes. Like I feel like sometimes. I've met people and they're like, "Oh my. gosh, like I thought you were going to. be such a [ __ ] You're going to be. this." And I'm like, "Oh, like I mean, I. don't know. you can be honest like what. you thought of before you met me.".

you just hear all the stuff, right? You. hear all the drama and so you're just. like, "Wow, she's a ruthless. She's. this." And you know, not to say I don't. judge cuz obviously I know like I know. how people take things, but you hear. those things or just how I don't know, you think someone's just going to be. arrogant or whatever cuz you have all. this like money and you're skinny and. you're pretty so you're like, well, you. just know, you know, I think you have. that assumptions. Again, at this age I. don't. I'm just like and I was I was. surprised the energy you have is just so. different than like people would think. No, I I appreciate you saying that. because I think that's the point is like. we see people online and most of the.

time we never get to meet these people. in person. So like there's a image. online that people will like assume of. you and it's really [ __ ] hard to. break away from that. And so obviously. like I know my. my the way that I got through it was. like I know the truth and I know what. happened and I know I feel like I can go. to sleep and I'm a good person and I. have good people around me and like and. if I'm good with my life off the. internet I think that I did become a. better version of myself on the internet. because it's like when all you are. looking for is validation from the.

internet which it seems like at one. point that was you didn't have friends, you were really in a dark place like. you're going to just say some crazy. [ __ ] [ __ ] and you don't give a [ __ ]. Yeah. But I do think second chances, you're right, are important cuz like I'm. so proud of the growth that I've had and. I know you feel the same way about. yourself of like of course we've changed. and of course now like when you have. things you care about, everything is put. in perspective. so different. Now it's like, oh, I don't. want to embarrass my husband. I don't. want to embarrass my daughter. You know, you like so it changes everything about. you. That's when I knew like I had to.

change all of it and it just and I I. really do feel it and I'm like if people. can see it or they don't see it, I don't. care cuz I like I feel better. But it. does feel especially right now that. people have like seen it and it's not me. saying I've changed this, you know, it. just took time, you know, I think with. anything. Like just public feeds, anything, you know, people always, you. know, there's always sides that people. pick without knowing the full truth and. it's just like getting through that and. it doesn't really matter at the end of. the day what people think, you know, about it. It's like, some people are. going to think I'm this person, some. people whatever. It's okay. Right? As. long as you know who you are. Let's Yeah. Okay, we're going to play a. little game. the giant cards.

Oh my god, huge. Huge. And there's like. tiny little writing. I'm like, okay. Let's play a game. Yes. I'm going to give you a topic and I. want to hear your opinion on it. Reusing nudes. Oh, uh yeah, I do it all the time. My. office is still that. It's just old. nudes from 2020 and people still new. people come in, I sell them. Oh, slay. Or just like sending you I mean sending. them too. But don't you guys sell now? I. feel like you can tell by the dates now. People say I don't know. Did you send. nudes? Were you someone who sent nudes? Oh, yeah. Really? Oh, love to do it. posted nudes online.

I've never posted nudes online. I just. was such a nude girl. Like I remember I. dated this guy that was obsessed with. nudes to the point where it was like. very unhealthy. And he was like. literally. Like every day you're sending him them. I would be at work, Trisha, and this man. would be like, come on, like, can I get. a pic? And like I was in such a bad. relationship with him that like I knew. that like if I didn't like is is another. girl going to send him a nude? So I. would feel so insecure. So there I was. at work with like my like pencil skirt. on and I'd like mosey my way over TO THE. BATHROOM. OH, you took them fresh. I thought you'd.

have like a library. No, no, no, trust me. I Oh my god, like. I would absolutely edit them. I would. like go back I know, literally I I would. like I would be at work on the clock. getting paid. I would go take it in like. the um handicap bathroom. Sorry. Oh my. god, it's bigger. It's bigger and like I. needed my privacy. God forbid someone. walks in in the stalls and I'm like. getting that ass shot. Well, I'm sure if. there's a handicap or someone can you. give them the stall? Yeah. And so I would get out and I would go. back to my desk and I would like look. around and I would always have a girl.

behind me and whenever she would go to. lunch, I would pull up my nude, I would. go on PicMonkey, and I would start like. rearranging, like make the ass fatter, like. everything. And then I would like send. it off to him and be like, here you go. And he'd be like, so hot, so fire. And. then I would save those though and then. obviously like if I was talking to. another guy that day be like here you. go. god. I loved a good nude. I thought that. I It almost became like an art form at. one point. Right. like you really get those angles. You. learn how to like make it look good. Like I loved a good nude. Like it was.

fun. And then oh my god, like I've. definitely sent like some videos and. like all that stuff. But I never went I. never made money off of it. No. Never? Would it ever get out? No one. ever posted it anywhere? No, because I. think like I know the amount of people. that I've sent it to. Like I know those. specific guys. And if it ever did, like. I think they know I would try to sue. them. So I think they're like too. scared. Especially now. I feel like they would. put you out there cuz you're you. Right, but I'm like yeah, but like try. me. Let's go to court, [ __ ] But. god forbid like I ever feel like I got. to pull out. I'm going to bring out my I. have literally an old nude like catalog.

like album. You know you've got your that MacBook. that you've got it on and you're like. ooh, which one should I use today? plan. Yeah. I should change the album name. from old nudes to retirement plan. I. mean it's kind of like everyone's doing. it now, but I get you. I totally get. you. It's like. Meeting your celebrity idols. Have you. ever Who are your idols? Tell me. everything. I love meeting celebrity idols. Yeah, I. think I think like the bigger the idol, the nicer they are, I feel. I feel like. when you like like a D-list person, they. have like, you know, maybe like Tom.

Sandoval or something. I don't know. I. don't really know him, but I just know. he's all over Tik Tok. Like he probably. won't be nice. But I've met like Quentin. Tarantino, Eminem, The Weeknd just sent. me a DM. And I feel like the bigger they. are, the nicer they are. Wait, I saw you. talking about this on your podcast. What. it was the DM from him? Literally I was on a podcast like 2. weeks ago the Zach Sang Show and I was. like, "Oh, I I pay for music." And I'm. like I just bought like six of The. Weeknd's songs. And he's like, "Thanks. for the support. Me and my team. appreciate you." He like sent me a DM. And I was like, "Wow.". He cares that I spent $6 on his music. No, they do. Because I I think I saw Who did.

I see? I think I saw Snoop Dogg recently. saying like there were a billion streams. and he made 40K from it. No, that's wild. to me. That's why I buy the music off. iTunes and I still do. And they. appreciate it. I mean I was shook. I was. like, "Oh my god, Abel's in my DMs." It. was crazy. Like literally, maybe they. need to start OnlyFans. Like. He's like, "Babe, thanks for the $6.". You're like, "Babe, literally get on. OnlyFans." I was like, let's go. He. would make bank if he was on OnlyFans. Well, I mean, The Idol was basically. like OnlyFans. It was just him like. [ __ ] Lily-Rose Depp, and I loved it. That's how I became a fan this year. I. saw The Idol, and I was like, "Woo!".

That was crazy. I never get horny about anything. And. like literally, that show made me like. crazy. Okay, Taco Bell. Um pass. Is this. a What are we playing? ARE WE DOING PASS. OR SMASH? AM I RATING THIS? TACO BELL, NO. I just I love how also, like you're right. We've kind of changed. the game for every single question. the game originally? Um oh, I want to hear your take opinion. on. Oh, okay. Okay, got it. Bell. Um I'm not a I love fast food, but. I'm just not a Taco Bell fan. What's your favorite fast food place? Um.

McDonald's. McDonald's? Yeah, just cuz there's one close to us. I always get the nuggets. Right now, they have adult Happy Meals. Oh, wait, I. think we're boycotting McDonald's, maybe. I think everyone told me we're. boycotting them. Wait, why? Um Well, I don't know. I. don't get political, but I think. something is happening with them. So, I'll be on a strike until the strike is. over, but Where are you going to get. your nuggets? Oh, man, maybe Chick-fil-A. Oh, but. Chick-fil-A is controversial, too. We. got to [ __ ] them. I know. support the gays. Oh, no. A lot of my. gay friends love Chick-fil-A, so I go. with them. Uh [ __ ] everything's controversial. That's interesting. If you go to.

Chick-fil-A with one of your gay. friends, then it cancels it out. so. They love it, so uh. Chick-fil-Gay. I. I. I love fast food, but they're all. problematic. They are. Okay, so. McDonald's first, then Chick-fil-A. Do. you like Wendy's? I love Wendy's spicy nuggets. I'm just a. nugget person, so I only get nuggets at. all these places. What do you dip it. into? Yeah, oh, nothing. No sauce. Yeah. What? sauce, yeah. I recently heard Jenna. Ortega say she has no sauce, too. I'm.

like, "No sauce girlies get it.". Wait. Never. This is crazy. There's no lie. Try to find a clip of me. eating sauce. You. Actually, there's clips of me trying. sauce, but I don't like it. Yeah. Wait, do you So, you don't like. ranch dressing? No. I don't like any sauce. Like no. barbecue, no ketchup, no mustard. Your whole life? Yeah, I'm just like I. like a plain I'm very My tastes are. plain. I love like butter noodles. I. love chicken tenders, like pizza. Like. that's what I like. Yeah. I have food. for you to try downstairs. Now I'm like. rethinking everything. it? Um I'm having someone make it right now. Oh my god. Boo. Oh my god. You have a.

content house with a chef. I do. I feel like no, I just shoot here. I was like, "Wow." I just begged someone. downstairs. I'm like, "Listen, there's. this one pasta that I want Trisha to. try. Do you think". Wait, what? Yeah, I want you to try it. of pasta is it? You know how like girls are like, "Oh my. god, like I have my like. like my girl dinner." And it's like when. the men are away, the girls will play. And like you make like just dumb [ __ ]. that like men would be like, "I'm not. eating that shit." So, like I grew up on. this like spaghetti sauce that my mom. would make me, but it's like this like. Progresso like I I don't even want to. Like Progresso?

Is that like Wait, what? A Progres- It's like Prego sauce? Cuz I do like I like pasta sauce. I'm. trying to figure out Progresso sauce. I love a jar sauce if that's what you're. talking about. Okay. What's Progresso? It's I have Prego. I can't breathe. It's in a It's in a. jar. And I swear to god, Trisha, I want. you to try it. Like I know you like. plain stuff. Like I'm interested to see. your take on it. pasta sauce. I love it. to film it downstairs. But like it's.

good to know. Where's that going? It's. bonus content. WHERE DID THAT LOOK AT THAT COIN, GIRL. I LOVE IT. I'M NOT SAVING. SAME. SAME. I'M LIKE, "YOU'RE going to save for 10. hours, right?". it. to go. I will. Um okay, so no to Taco Bell. No. Taco Bell. Okay. I'm crying. Okay. Internet trolls, what is your. opinion on that? Oh gosh. Um well, I have a soft spot for. them cuz I was an internet troll for a. minute. Now I can't stand them. I see. people like yelling at the camera being. ridiculous. I'm like, "Oh no. This is. going to haunt you forever.".

You should literally on every time you. see someone doing trolling videos be. like, "Trust me. Stop.". Yeah. There's that girl, that pearl girl. out there now and I'm like, "Girl, let's. pump the brakes. This is going to follow. you forever.". Dude, wait. Oh, I feel like I know who. you're talking about. mean. Anti Yeah, she's like kind of. anti-woman, I think. I don't know. She's. like a woman but like hates women. She's. like, "Oh, if you're if you're divorced, you're less than." Or if you have sex. before marriage, like they don't want. you I don't know. She's kind of weird. like strawberry red hair? She's made videos about me being like. Alex Cooper and I always just stop it.

immediately. I never watch the video cuz. I'm too scared. I don't want to know. hopefully. But I'm like, "Girl, this is. like going to not do well for you." Cuz. you'll like run out of money. Like. you're spending the money. I know. Trust. me. I've. made like $10 million trolling and I. wasted all of it. I didn't buy a house. until Only Fans, so. I was like, "No, girl.". Girl, stop. Stop. I know. But. clip this and be like, "You [ __ ]. [ __ ] shut up." Like, "Oh, literally. out.". No, I know. I used to be scared if.

people talked about me but I'm like, "Oh, no." I just I literally I I have. Again, it comes from a place of I know. what it's like. Like I get it and I'm. just like, "Oh, no.". Do you ever scroll on TikTok and if you. hear someone talking about you, do you. watch the videos? I scroll. I scroll instantly. The last I don't. even want to talk about it. The last. person I saw talk about me, I like. literally cried for days. What? Yeah, she told me I look like I. had electrocuted hair and I like cried. for literally like a week and I'm like, "Why is this affecting me so much?" It. was literally like a month ago and I. couldn't stop crying. Wait, I'm so. sorry. That's so mean. I had a lot of. postpartum hair loss but then when I was. young, people made fun of me for having.

like frizzy hair. It was a whole thing. so I kind of So, it hasn't happened in. so long that someone made fun of my. hair. I'm used to weight, I'm used to. acne and I was like, "Oh my god, this. one like hit. This one hit hard.". when it's the most [ __ ] up is if it's. something from like when you were. younger that was like something you got. the [ __ ] bullied out of you for and or. that you were just insecure about for. yourself. When you're an adult and. someone picks on it, you're like I'm. regressing to being 12 right now and I'm. sobbing. how I felt. It's like that and like. eating like chicken parm. Like both of. those things are like weird things that.

you wouldn't think like people call me. fat, people call me other things and I'm. just like, "Oh, I don't care." But. those, I don't know. That was like. sorry. Yeah, so I But it's because I like. stayed on it for a minute. I saw and I. was just like, "Let me hear what this. person has to say." Cuz I like the. person. Cuz I was like, "Oh, I love this. person. I talk nice about them all the. time." And I was like, "Oh, shit." And. then I was like Cute. So, I And I I like. I don't like to be in like the drama of. it all, but I was just like, "Damn, that. one hurt. That one hurt like hard.". It's just like again, stop being mean to. people on the internet. Like why are. Also, I just feel like it's so we're so. above or we at least some we should be.

commenting on women's appearance. Yeah. Aren't we done with that? It It isn't like in general like hair, weight. I'm just like, "That's it?" Like. that's like there should be Again, I. guess it's like a compliment that that's. what you're going for like if that's the. only thing, but. True. But it's the worst thing to hear. as a woman is like your appearance, you. know. You're You're right, and I feel like. it's expected from a man cuz it's like. you're dumb, but from a woman you're. like. You know, it sucks. It sucks cuz I'm so. like pro-women now, so I'm very And I. know I haven't always been. That's what. I'm saying, the karma kind of comes back. to me. I'm like, "All right, I guess I. deserve it. I guess I've talked enough. about other people's appearances." So,

you know, it does come back around. So, I'm like, "Okay, I'll take it." That's. how I have to look at it. I'm like, "This is just another karmatic point.". thick skin, girl. Yeah, sometimes. But. sometimes I really do like I haven't. cried in a long time. I was like, "Oh my. god, why am I crying?" And like last. night when I cried over the pasta, I'm. like, "This is very odd." Usually I'm. not like that. Well, at least you allow. yourself to cry. I feel like sometimes. people hold it in too much. If you're. going to cry, cry and then keep eating. that pasta. Let's go. Let's go, [ __ ]. Cry. How do you feel about. reincarnation? You believe in it? Um ooh. Ooh, I don't. know. What do you think? Didn't I see something on the internet.

that people were convinced What is the. theory? The my my baby? Yes. Oh, yeah, I did I did have the I. did birth the reincarnation of Queen. Elizabeth last year, I guess. Which, you know what? Honestly, makes me. believe it. Wait, why did people think. that? It was so weird. It was the. weirdest It was the Okay. Literally, someone looked it up. It was. the most time I was searched It was the. most searched I've ever been was in. September 2022, a week before my. daughter was born. Like more searched. than anything that's ever happened in my. life, any controversial thing. What? That was the Google high point, and it. was so weird. It was like a week before. I gave birth. I said I was like 1 cm.

dilated, which is like, you know, normal. and you're going to give birth in like a. week or two. But then the Queen died the. next day, and everyone's like, "Trisha. just gave birth." And the Queen's in And. I was still very much pregnant. I didn't. have my phone with me. It was very It. was so bizarre. Like TMZ was calling my. dad, my mom, like everything. It was the. weirdest Oh my god. It You know why you. were probably so searched is like you. kind of like tapped into like you. infiltrated the royal family. Like I bet. everyone in England was like, "Wait, who. is this [ __ ] I need to. Yes. Is the Queeny coming out of that V? Like. what the [ __ ] is going on?" The day she.

died, I'm like trending. I have a. screenshot. I'm like right underneath. her. Like it's so bizarre. I know. When. I announced my pregnancy, everyone's. like, "Uh-uh, King Charles 9 months. left.". I'm like, "No.". Don't even start it. Wait, that. Yeah. It's funny. Now, at the time I was. actually a little traumatized. I was. like, "Oh my god, what did I do?" Like. that cuz I didn't even start it. Like I. get if I start my own [ __ ] And I was. like, "No." And I was out of drama. I. was so out of drama. I didn't have my. podcast. I was like not talking about. anyone. I was like, "Oh shit." We're. back. Yeah. Not like that bad of drama. to be a part of because you're like, "Oh.

my god, like I just gave birth to like. the new Queen.". Yeah. But that's also going to be such. an interesting thing. Like if her your. daughter Googles herself one day, like. not about Google searches. Yeah, for. sure. You're Queen. And she kind of is. She's very like royal, regal. She waves. to everybody. She's very that, actually. So if I do believe in reincarnation, I. do believe that could be, yeah. I don't. know how Queen Elizabeth was. I heard. maybe she's not a nice person. So maybe. she'll be reincarnated as a good person. I don't know. I know nothing about the. royal family, but Okay, how do you feel. about retail therapy? Oh my god, that's. all I do all day, every day. I spend way too much money.

you spend your most money on? Purses. I. have so many purses. Yeah, I have too. many. I probably have It's I don't know, maybe 500 purses. And I sell a lot, too. So I have like about 500 purses in my. Wait, but you said you never leave your. house. Yeah, I just buy it online. Like 2020, I bought like six Birkins. that were like a million dollars all. together, and now I can't sell them. I. wish I could. I've had so many Birkins. that are ugly and I'm like, "Ugh." I. have like a dead ostrich in my closet. and I'm like, "I don't want this. anymore.". Wait, and you like you barely leave your. house also. So like where do you wear. them?

Dear, you're like, "I love your Prada. bag." I'm like, "Thank you.". This is my only shot to wear it. god. So like whenever you're going to go. do an appearance, you'll wear it, but. other than that just sits in the closet. my closet's beautiful. It's like. sparkles and shine. It makes me really. happy. Like they actually just make me. happy to look at them. I used to like. never wear my purses out. Like I just. love to look at them. What's your favorite one? Uh oh, I have. the Paris Hilton Birkin, like the pink. one with the Swarovski's on it. It's. same uh retailer that got it for Paris. Porter. Shout out Paris Porter. She made. Paris's bag and then she made mine and I. love it. But when you get the after. market crystals, they go down in value. so much. So I wouldn't suggest that. I.

bought a $50,000 rainbow Birkin and no. one even wants I can't even give it away. for like $8,000. So yeah, so don't do. after market. But I love my pink one. I don't like the. rainbow one. Okay, let's talk about sex. Call Her Daddy is brought to you by. Libre by Yves Saint Laurent. Daddy gang, Mother's Day is officially approaching. and there is nothing I love more than. finding something unique and special for. my mom that she will absolutely love. Laurie, shout-out. Moms do so much for.

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confident in the bedroom? Like, what. personally would you say makes you feel. the most confident in your sex life?". Oof. You know what it is? I always say this. to everyone, is like, guys really don't. care. If they're like with you at that. point where they're like undressing you, like, they don't care. Do you know what. I mean? I've. I don't know. Guys just they kind of get. what they get. You know what I mean? They They just are excited to be with. you. And I've never I've never been. insecure in that way, because maybe. because I've like hooked and I've been. with like a hot like 500 guys. Like, I. mean, maybe that made me more confident,

weirdly. But I've just never had any. like complaints. I used to have like. uneven boobs. Uh I mean, like back when I was like a. hugger, I mean, I didn't shower for like. 5 days and they'd be fine with it. So, I. think guys are just kind of nasty and. they'll just take what they get. So, don't feel bad. If you're hygienic, I. think that's a plus. If you put on deodorant that day, girls, They're fine. Yeah, you're good. Just do a little. wash. It's such a good point. Men are. like kind of disgusting. And so, I feel. like sometimes like we're in our own. heads about like, "Oh my god, do I need. to do this this?" No, you don't need to. do [ __ ]. No.

Show up. I Yeah, I've been with and I've been. with all types and I I think like in. like I've been saying like oh, I've been. like on the streets or whatever. But, I've also been with like, you know, some. WWE wrestlers that like prefer a big. girl, you know what I mean? And they. like love it and they can't get enough. of it. You know what I mean? So, I think. there's just like types and some people. love a skinny girl. But, they're not. going to go to bed with you if they want. a skinny girl. Whoever is like in bed. with you like wants you. So, I don't. know. I've never had any complaints. Like I said, I've had like my boobs have. been uneven. I've like I've looked crazy. so many. Guys just don't care and I think as long. as you're not I don't know. I've never.

been self-conscious about that. I don't. know why. No, I think that's great. I. think that's why I know people want to. hear from you on it because I think. you're right of like, we are in our own. heads so much more than men are. Like if. if you're right, if he's in the room. with you and wanting to have sex with. you, there you go. Done. Yeah, he's That's it. They're not. going to be like, "No, thank you." I've. never had anybody like, "Oh, no.". You know what I mean? Ever. Love that. Like exactly. Like you've got a vagina, they're going to enjoy it. So, Guys are very easy that way. So, I. always feel bad when girls get like. self-conscious or something like that. I'm like, they Guys want you. Yeah. Like I've had girls write in being.

like, "Oh my god, like I'm insecure. about my labia or the way it looks." I'm. like, "Don't be.". Oh, right. Don't be. Men don't give a [ __ ]. And people love all types. They love the. outies, the innies, the in-betweenies. They love all of it. Exactly. Like who cares? Um, how old. were you when you had your first orgasm? Oh, oh my god, like 32. I love that you say that though because. I think so many women, even if they. would lie about it, like oh, I bet a lot. of women feel that same way. Like they. we Of course we didn't have orgasms at. such young age. don't know how people do.

Men don't know how to [ __ ] please us. Guys don't care about it. Did you give it yourself or did you get. it from a guy? Oh, the first time the first time was. with a three It was like in a threesome. They had the one of those I call them. hibachis. I don't know hibachi. Are they. Hitachi? What's Hitachi. Yeah. Those are Hitachis. Yes. Yes. That like changed my life for real. That was like I was in like this like. thrupple and they used it on me and I. was like, "Oh my god." That was when I. was like I didn't know if I was peeing. or what. I was like everything was going. everywhere. It was insane. god. was like the first time where I knew. what it was supposed to feel like and. that's why I was like, "Holy shit." Like. I was like explosive. So.

Wait, that's so funny because Bridget. and Holly when they came on Bridget was. the one that talked about it. She was. like with Hef like obviously we weren't. getting off so we would have these Mr. Hitachis and she taught me about it and. now okay so this Mr. Hitachi They're so. good. Yeah, and so that was like the. thing where I was like, "Oh that's what". Even when I did OnlyFans like all my. squirting ones are with that because. it's just like it's just so intense. It's like if you don't know how to do it. or what cuz I'm like, "How does that. even happen?" or you're scared to like. forces you to. I mean with your consent. Wait, right. Forces you to but you're. the one pressing the button. Like you're. consenting. But it's like you don't even. have a choice cuz it's so much pressure.

and you're just like, "Well, this is. going to happen." Yeah. Wait, that's so interesting. So if you have like trouble orgasming or. you don't know how it's supposed to feel. like highly recommend going on like the. big setting of those. And just get it. going. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Wait, when you say you. were in a thrupple was it for just. sexual or were you actually in a. relationship with a couple? It kind of was just sexual but they did. come to my birthday party. I think she's. done like videos about me. I think she. did an interview with about someone. It. was like my first like thrupple relation. They were gorgeous. Oh my god, she was. like hot, you know, fake implants. He. was like gorgeous six pack. anesthesiologist. Like they were really. gorgeous. And um yeah, I think it was.

just like my Tinder year. I think that. was 2019 but it was They were They was. great. I don't know. I think I was just. like so curious about everything. How do. you even get involved in that? Like do. you like did you meet her or him first? Tinder. Oh oh on Tinder? him on Tinder. Yeah. And then he's like, "This is my girl." They show right away. like, "This is my girlfriend." I was. like, "Oh, well this could be exciting.". You know what I mean? And it was it was. actually really really fun. Yeah. How. did So how do those things end? It was. fine. Honestly, I think um what was that. one? What was that one? I know. I'm trying to think. I was. dating a lot of people at the time. I. was like dating so many people, so I.

think I was just like not like looking. to date. I think they wanted to date. date and I was kind of like not looking. for that. Yeah, like three people in a. relationship is tough. don't know how they do that. Yeah, but. they did that all the time with people. and I think they wanted to bring someone. in like to date. Wow. And I don't know if I think for me I was. like, "Oh, how am I going to introduce. like my parents, like my mom, you know, I'm really close with?" And not that. she's like not judgmental, but I don't. know if she would get it. Like, "This is. my boyfriend and girlfriend?" I don't. know. Okay, no, I get that. You're like, "Hi, this is my couple." Yeah, and I'm. the third. It's still bizarre. Yeah, I see it on. TikTok and I think more power to people, but I'm always like, "This is It's still.

bizarre to me." Maybe it'll get more. normalized. So, the Mr. Hitachi, what. are I was going to say, what are your. top three like sex toys in the bedroom. that you would recommend? So, one is Mr. Hitachi, what are another two? the first. Um. Hm, I think that's pretty much it. I've. been liking plugs lately, which I. normally don't love a like an anal. thing, but I just think they look really. pretty and it feels like it just feels. more pressurized. I've been really into. like that lately. Um it's great. I think like try out. plugs and I think it kind of just like I. don't know, it just feels good. If it's.

not anything else, just gives you like a. little more added pressure. I completely agree. I've never had like a gangbang, but I'm. assuming that's what it feels like, right? You like your all your holes. filled? I don't know. Maybe not. Maybe I don't. know what a gangbang is. I love you, Trisha. That's what I would imagine. And not to. say I want all my holes filled, by the. way. I usually prefer just sex like we. do vanilla sex, but I love it. Like it's. like my fave. I don't need to things. fill me up, you know what I mean? So, the plug can just be like there.

It's fun. It's fun for like an added. like bonus, you know what I mean? But uh. yeah, I'm I'm kind of just vanilla, actually. When it comes to like sex, I. kind of just like love to have sex with. just as is. I like Yeah, I like that. Yeah, but yeah. Do you, if you have. advice for someone, like how do you. approach your partner if you want to try. new thing in the bedroom? I don't know, I guess just be honest. Although, you. know, I've had people ask me to do some. weird stuff and I'm like, "That's. weird." So, I don't know. I'm like the. last person to ask about this kind of. thing. Right, like try to read the room. Maybe, yeah. Like know your partner. Like if he asked me to do something. freaky, I might like look at him kind of.

weird. I don't know. Right, like I'm going to break up with. you. Yeah, I've had people like ask me to. like hang upside down. Like weird stuff. I'm just like, "I don't know." I mean, I. guess that's like a thing with like. swings. I'm just not Hang upside down. Right, like how would they [ __ ] you if. you're hanging upside down? There Yeah, it's like the swing and you're like. upside down and I guess they I don't. know. I know I didn't do it cuz I'm like. that looks so dangerous. It was like. high up and. I'm just like I got a headache. Yeah, I don't like it. I don't like. anything that involves like hurting, blood, any of that stuff. Like people. always want to like slice you open and. stuff. I'm like, "No, thank you.". Have you Have you had someone ask you. Yes. to drink. Multiple times. They want to slice you.

open? Yeah. Are you [ __ ] ARMIE HAMMER? YES. NOT HIM. Someone close. Actually, when that came out I was like, "Wait.". And then I was like, "Oh, no. It's. someone who kind of looks like him." No. way. Yeah. I think celebrities can be like. the freakiest, especially like those. kind of celebrities that are like. D-list, you know? They're kind of like. freaky. You know Tom Sandoval's cutting them up. Woah. So, you had people literally be. like they want to What do they do? They. just want to cut you or drink your. blood? Like the Yeah, just drink the blood. And.

also they just like slice you like on. your stomach a little bit cuz they say. it's like has fat there so you can't. die. Like you can't bleed out. I don't. know. I've had a couple people say it, yeah. And what do you say? No. Absolutely not. I can't do that. I don't. know. proceed to have sex with them or do you. just leave immediately? Um leave immediately. No, leave immediately. The one that. wanted me to hang upside down, I guess I. stayed with. He just kind of He kind of. looked like Marilyn Manson a little bit. He kind of had like those vibes. So, I. was into that for a second. I'm like, "Ooh, yeah. This is my This is my. person." But. um yeah, I just said I like couldn't do.

it. Like physically couldn't do it. You're funny. This is hilarious. Um I'm. so funny you can talk about this cuz I. feel like no podcast talk about sex. god. Oh, yeah. You're on Spotify so. you're better. You're not demonetized on. YouTube. I'm like YouTube, they can't. say anything. Oh, no. I'm like let's talk about. everything. Yeah, no. That's great. It's so funny. What do you think of for advice for. someone who wants to lose their anal V. card? Like, give us the advice, Trisha. Oh, I guess they some poppers, you know, loosen it up a little bit cuz that's the. only thing I can think of. Right. But, do you even enjoy it? No. I mean. Like I said, I love the plug recently,

but I don't love I don't love like anal. penetration. Because, you know what it is? I just eat. so much food and you know, you're not. supposed to eat a lot before. Like, you. know, girls that do only fans, you're. supposed to like clean it out. Guys, too. All my gay friends, like, "Yeah, you can't eat before." And you're like, was like, "Yeah, that's the only time we. have sex is like after we eat." So, I. was like, "Well, I don't want to I don't. want to have it in my butt after we. eat.". Right. Like, I want my nuggets and I. want my pasta. Exactly. Oh my god, could. you imagine having anal after lasagna? I don't know if I could imagine that. Just involuntary everything. I said,

I'm I'm I'm a bad like anal. I'm not an. anal queen, that's for sure. But, um you. know, try it. Maybe start with some a. finger or something, you know. pinky. A little pinky. See if you like it. Some. people really love it. I don't know. get it. I think the I think the pinky is. a good way to start. You're right. Right. Um I'm loving your advice. So, the Daddy Gang wrote in some scenarios. that they're going through right now. There's drama in their life. Okay. And you're not a part of drama. right now, Trisha. You're clean. You're. free. You're like, "Ooh, I" But, now we. need to read their drama and help them.

with their drama. Okay. Okay. So, someone wrote in and said, "My. brother's messages linked to my laptop. and I just found out that he and my best. friend have been seeing each other. behind my back. I'm so traumatized from. seeing these texts and pictures. There. are so many messages of them talking. about how I'll how I'll react if I find. out, but it's so hot that they're. sneaking around. Lately, when she comes. over, it seems like she's there for my. brother and the two of them actively. leave me out. How do I confront them.

about the situation and do I bring up. the fact that I saw their nudes?" No. You're the sister. Like, what? Why do. you care? Stop. That's weird. What is she going to say? I saw your nudes, brother. You're hooking up with a girl that's not. me. How dare you? Like, what? That's the weirdest question I've ever. heard. That's right. If it's your brother, I. can be like, "Oh my god. What?" Like, it's so weird. Lannister status over. there. Just like, "My brother's [ __ ].

someone else?". I don't like it. It's weird. I'm dying. I get what you're saying. Like, first of. all, no, girl. You're not telling your. brother like, "I saw that dick pic.". Like, that [ __ ] is big. Like, Oh, yeah. That's on you. That's on you. I would immediately stop looking at. messages. You keep looking at them like. a weirdo. I understand the side of like, your. friends lying to you. Like, you would. like to know like, is she going behind. your back? Maybe just address it with. your friend of like, "Hey, I get you're. hooking up with my brother. Can you just.

be honest so it's not awkward?". they're not like serious yet. Maybe. they're not like dating You know, maybe. they're just hooking up. Maybe they want. to keep it Like, why do you have to tell. everyone your business? Be like, "Oh, yeah, we're actually having sex if. that's okay with you. Not quite dating. We'll let you know when it happens.". Like, it's weird. I don't know. Trisha, this is where friendship gets a little. complicated. I don't have friends, SO I DON'T KNOW. DON'T LISTEN TO ME ON that one. no. I definitely I think you're right. about the brother thing. Like, don't. [ __ ] tell him like, "I saw your. nudes." Like, leave the brother out. I.

think you could go up to your friend and. be like, "Listen, I don't care what you. and my brother are doing, but like, I. don't want to constantly be sitting in. the room and feeling like you guys are. like keeping things from me. So, let's. be open with it. You guys are [ __ ]. fabulous. Let's move on.". Okay. Like, want to know? Okay, I don't. think I want to know. I'm like, just. it's fine. Don't tell me. Like, if you're having sex with my. brother, I don't think I need to know. I. think I'm good. But if it was your best friend? I guess. I don't know that situation. So, yeah. I guess I guess, maybe. No, you're right. don't think I want to know. I don't even. want to know my brother has sex with his. wife. Like, I just don't want to know. any of it. I'm like, I'm good. I.

actually kind of agree with everything. about my brother having sex. I'm like, no, he doesn't. Oh, no. I don't want to know any of. those details. Don't tell me. Yeah, so. girl, just let it go. GO OUT THERE. YEAH, YEAH, YEAH. Just let them do what. they were doing. Like, I don't know. Yeah, and you go date. Yeah. Make yourself busy. That might be, yeah. Find something else to do. Maybe she needs to get laid. I think. that's it. Where it's just like if. you're that concerned about your. brother's sex life and if they're. telling you or not, like I don't know. Move on. what you're saying though. I get what. you're saying too, so. Okay, next one. I have a group of six girlfriends and. we've all been close since high school.

Recently, a new girl has been introduced. to the group. She hasn't done anything. actively wrong and nobody seems to have. an issue with her, but something about. this girl just [ __ ] annoys me. One. day. She's a hater. She said, "I'm going to get you out of the group.". One day I had five glasses of wine too. many and decided I was going to say. something. So, I messaged her from a. fake Instagram account. I said, "Stop leeching onto other. people's friend groups. It's sad Oh my. god.

Ruthless. Yeah. It's It's why I don't. have friends. That's so scary. Oh my god. She said, "It's sad and. pathetic. They obviously don't want you. around and they all feel too bad to tell. you the truth, so I will.". god. That girl sounds crazy and I don't I. don't use that word lightly. No, that's. insane. Yeah. She found out it was me by. the email linked to the account and told. all of our friends. Now, I'm basically. booted from the group. What should I do?

Oh my god. Well, good. At least she was booted. At. least she had some repercussions. Dude, that's insane. That's crazy. This is why I don't want. girlfriends. Like, that's so nuts. I just think First of all, if you're. going to use a fake account, I've. learned, make a new [ __ ] email, [ __ ]. Go to a different Go to the library. Get. a different IP address. Don't let it be traced. Literally, dude, never. Never. If you are stalking people. on your fake, don't ever let them know.

it's you. Second of all, what is so What is this. girl doing that's so triggering that you. felt the need to message her? From a. fake account and they know one likes. you. Do you ever go on your fake. account? Do you have a fake account? have a fake account. It's a lot to like. make a whole new account. It's a lot. No, I don't I don't I don't I've never. had a fake account. I've always just. looked from my account, but I really. just don't look period anymore. I used. to look and like like find out what. everyone's doing and it's honestly life. is so much better when I don't look for. real. Trisha, I used to have one. I. would say like I would say a year and a.

half ago I deactivated mine and I have. felt lighter, I felt happier, I've just. felt like why am I stalking an ex? Why. am I Like what am I doing? Or even if I. like saw something online like why am I. on a fake account? If I don't want. people to know I'm looking at it then. just maybe I shouldn't be looking at it. That's how I feel too. That's how I. feel. Like that feels weirder when you. go on like incognito and stuff like. that. Feels like you're doing something. wrong. think that the moral of the story is. everybody delete your fake accounts. You. don't need to have a fake account. I know how addicting it is cuz I was so. addicted to like Reddit, looking up.

everybody. I have like, "Oh, how many. views is this person getting?" I like. get it, but it's like so time consuming, so energy draining. And like the minute. I did like I stopped in August of this. year actually. And like I honestly like. good things have come like just like. fortune has come, income has come, like. everything has come like for real. I'm. like, "Wow." So I just didn't go back to. it cuz like good energy was coming in. I. was like, "Maybe there's something to. this." So I was like, "Let me just stop. putting like any sort of bad energy out. there.". There has to be something to it because. I also think like you're right. I Oh my. god, I do I think I read The last time I. read Reddit, I think now was like around. two years ago. Wow.

that I stopped. And like I remember I. was so consumed by it because you're. constantly trying to be like, "Okay, these people think this about me." So. then all of a sudden you're like in a. video or an episode trying to like. appease them. And when you stop giving. Also, when I look at it, I'm like. there's like 200 people. I'm like, "Oh, wow. We're really like shaking it up. here." Like why am I listening to 200. people if you have like hundreds of. thousands to millions of views on. something? Obviously, there's people. that like what you're doing. So keep. doing what you're doing and don't give. them like energy. feels so much better. And honestly like. I really feel like there's no I mean.

maybe cuz I just don't see it, but I'm. like oh I feel like the hate got My. Reddits did get taken down. Like they no. one can start a new Reddit on me. It's. like really weird. Really? Yeah, we did this like documentary on. it. We like called Reddit all this stuff. like that. And like there's no more. Reddits. Mine had like 40,000 people. And now there's like no more. And it's. wonderful. So shout out Reddit. I don't. know what they did, but anyone who tries. to make a new one on me they take down. right away. So. amazing. no there's no Trisha Paytas snark. Reddit. So they were like crazy. Like I. was uh during my pregnancy they were. like harassing like my doctors and they. were like my baby's like hospital and. like they were just like they were being. nuts. They were putting my baby's like.

image out there. Like photoshopping. weird things with her. So I think they. had to take it down cuz it was like. actually disgusting. Yeah. So I think. that like we did this whole thing about. it this year cuz I was like okay what's. going to And then now that it's down. it's just like it's great. And I don't. So I don't like I don't see hate. anymore. So I don't know. Dude, I swear to god the only place that. is there's like main hate is on Reddit. And if you get that rid of your life. you're like. I know. I have no hate anymore. It's. wonderful. I was like no one hates me. No one hates me. That's how I feel in my head. And I. still feel that way. Live that way, girl. Let it live that.

way. it's like perpetuated itself. Like I. feel like it manifested itself. Like I. feel like so many people like me now. And I'm like oh okay, maybe cuz I. stopped looking at hate. Now more people. like me. So yeah. Let's do a not friendship. Okay, good idea. Cuz all these. friendship ones I'm like I don't know. How about this? My boyfriend and I have. been go having ongoing conversations. about getting engaged and planning to do. that next year. But lately something has. been really weighing on my conscience. My question is do I tell him that I gave. his best friend the gluck gluck 9000. blow j.

the gluck gluck 9000 [ __ ] on the trip. that the two of us met before obviously. we had feelings for each other. We see. this friend quite often and I'm worried. that my boyfriend will feel. uncomfortable if he knows that I sucked. his friend's dick. Oh my god. Should I come clean or is this something. that you take to the grave? Oh my Wait, did you trademark gluck. gluck? I did. I love that. So like when when say it. you like get money? I love that. That's. so smart. I remember that was such a big. thing. Like I really do. I just remember. like, "Wow, it's crazy.". It's great. It's a great thing. god, so smart you trademarked it. hand twist. Yes, glug glug 9000.

I'm talking about a sex toy? That's. that. Glug glug cuz it sounds like a. machine anyway, so. does. Okay, good to know. feels like you're like anyways. Um I. don't know. That's mm. That's tough. You like you need to tell them. Otherwise it's like fraud or something. I agree. And God forbid like one night. like something happens. Like if you're. married and he finds out you never told. him that it could like literally end a. marriage. So you're like. them. Just tell him. Yeah, it's sticky. It was also you guys. didn't have feelings for each other at. the time. Right. Yeah. Just let it go. lot about how he reacts to it. Like if. he's upset about it then like maybe.

that's not the one for you. And if he's. like, "Okay, it was before we met, whatever." You want a guy Yeah, yeah, yeah. Are you a jealous person? I was. I. used to be so jealous. Oh my god, I was. so jealous. Like at the beginning of our. relationship I was so jealous, all this. stuff. And I had I had his passwords, go. through his DMs every day. Like I was. super jealous, but now not at all. Like. I don't really care. Yeah. you're fine. I think so. But I he's so. good. Like he gives me no reason to be. jealous. Like even if like girls, like. you know, girls that like me want a. picture with him like in public. He just. has to like no cuz he just like doesn't. want that out there. I'm fine with it. I'm like literally whatever, but he's. very that. So he never gives me reason. to be jealous, but.

That's the type of man you need in your. life. For sure cuz I am a jealous. I was I was. always very jealous. And everyone yeah. How about you? I think I used to be. jealous, but because it was coming from. a place of insecurity of like I had. gotten cheated on before. So then I'm. like, "Oh my god, like you must be doing. it too." And so like when you're just. not in like healthy relationships, the. toxicity, you can't help but be kind of. paranoid which turns into jealousy where. you're like, "Oh my god, like I don't. want you out and I don't want you doing. this." And then you're just like the. worst version of yourself. Yeah, it's I think that's like the worst. like jealousy. And we're together 24/7, so I think that helps too. I'm just like. we're never apart. So um yeah, we're.

like codependent in that or I'm. codependent in that way. So I don't. know, but I'm never Of course now I'm. like never jealous. And he's like. definitely not jealous. Like I'll say. like, "Oh my god, the weekend is so. hot." Whatever. And he's like never gets. jealous. He's just like He's like, "Yeah, okay." Yeah, yeah, yeah, literally. I was like I he's the first. one I I texted when I got a DM from him. I'm like, "The Weeknd just DM'd me.". He's like, "Yes, babe." Oh, yeah. He's. like, "What are you GOING TO TEXT BACK?". Like he was so excited. If The Weeknd wanted to have a threesome. with you guys, would you do it? Oh, I would. I don't think my husband. would. That would be like the dream come. true. I think he's GOT TO DO IT AND JUST LIKE.

suck it up. Okay, do it for Trisha. "No, no.". I probably wouldn't cuz I I I love it I. love my husband so much. But cuz. threesomes do get sticky. Like I've. Anyone who wants a threesome anytime. I've had a threesome, I feel like it's. ends in disaster. right? Unless I don't know. I feel like with my. husband of all people like I know I. couldn't with another girl. I'd be so. [ __ ] jealous, but I think with a guy. I don't think he would. I don't know. I. don't know. Even with a guy I'd feel. like kind of weird. I don't know. I don't think I would with Matt either. I'm like it's just too. With another girl? Yeah. Yeah, I don't.

think so. See, especially if they if they have sex. with the girl. Like sometimes they don't. have sex with the other person, but I I. would I'd be livid. I would be literally in the bed like. this. Yeah. How people Pissed. Oh, the. throuple I was in she like loved. watching it and like got off. I was just. like, "This is" And I think that's. amazing. Like I like being the third, but like I don't know. Being the main that's bringing in the. third, you got to be a strong [ __ ]. No, I don't know how people do it. I. think it's a different person. Yeah. It's a different definitely a different. breed, which I'm like more power to you, but I'm just like I completely agree.

It's crazy. Okay, I have two more. questions for you. I like these ones. What is the biggest misconception people. have about you? We're done with the. questions from the guys. Oh, no. Yeah, I. don't want to talk about the drama. I. was like. They're like, "Can you put me in?". Right. Um yeah, what is the biggest. misconception you think people have. about you? I think you know what it is? I think it's just that I've had like bad. intentions. I think people think I was. like a I'm a bad person, which I think. is like the worst part. Because through. it all of it like I've never really had. bad intentions to like hurt anyone ever. And I think that's like the worst part. of it. Cuz I'm like truly at like my. core I've never like hated anybody like.

anything. It's really comes from a place. of either like wanting attention, being. miserable, or being just like completely. ignorant. So I like hate that people. have like this oh, she's a horrible. person. I see it all the time and I get. why people say it, but it's just like, "Oh, that sucks." because it's like I've. never I've truly never been. But, I know. I like made that bed, so like, you know, it is what it is. So, I think that's the. worst. It's like I never like had bad. intentions. No, there was never malice. behind it. I never wanted to like ruin. someone's life. Totally. I also think just even from. this interview, I hope it gives people.

more clarity, too, because I feel like. I have seen so much of you online, but I. think this interview like we really kind. of went from start to finish and it. shows your growth of like where you came. from, like the decisions you made, like. the headspace you were in, and like of. course I'm not saying it was like right, but it's like it you people grow and. people change. And the fact that you're. even able to also like take. accountability. And I also love how. you're like, "But, I also get it." And. like I'm not asking like I think that's. also a really mature way to look at it. Like there are just some people that.

will never look at you or me and like. change their opinion if they hate you. That's okay. But, you clearly know like. you're a good person and you did all of. that in a place of whether it was like. you said, like jealousy or insecurity or. just being in a bad place. Like. Yeah. That happens. And I think it's. obviously we have a social footprint. that some people don't have that, but. everyone's said dumb [ __ ] in their life. that can be hurtful or taken the wrong. way. It doesn't always mean it's coming. yes from like a bad intentioned place. where you're trying to like actually. hurt someone. Yeah, it was never that and I wasn't.

even diagnosed with borderline until I. was 30, 31 or something. So, I was like. I had undiagnosed like mental illness. for like a really long time, too. And. again, like that doesn't like excuse it, but there like explains more cuz I was. like, "Wow, I really can't control. myself." And then I was like, "Oh, this. is like why." And now I can like work on. like now I know how to like control. myself and breathe and all that stuff. Do you feel better now when you're going. into like doing your podcast? Do you. feel. like you now have a better handle on. like what you're going to say and what. you're not going to say as if maybe in. the other days you'd be like, "I'm just. going to spew all this shit." And. whatever. I definitely just like take into.

consideration people's feelings and that. like people will see it and people do. like get hurt by it. You know what I. mean? I know like Charli D'Amelio just. did Jay Shetty's podcast. She's like, "Yeah, people were like really mean to. me and like really affected me and I was. like spiraling and I was like, but you. know, hopefully they change. They have a. baby now." I'm like, "Oh my god, was she. talking about me?" Cuz I was like, "And. it was." Like I was so like I was so. aggressive for no reason. And so like. just you you don't think that people. will see it and stuff. So now I just. really come at a place where I'm just. like I really try to like again find the. silver lining, try to find like the. optimisticness in everything, you know. It's of course fun to like gossip and. stuff, but I always feel like again if. it's something like not nice or someone.

could hear that would make them feel. bad. I'm like it's better just to like, you know, gossip with your husband or. something. going to say, literally just do it not. online. We all every human being gossips. Everyone wants is drama is interesting. to us as humans. Just don't put it on. the internet. Yeah, especially if it's like not nice. If you're like being mean and that's. like I never even privately I never even. like make fun of someone's looks. That. to me is always like weird. I mean. there's so many other things to say. about people out there and I'm like it's. just weird when people like attack their. looks. Well, that's just like the lowest form. of like someone coming at someone who's. like, "You're such" Like that's just. such a weak low blow of like And then.

you obviously have to be like, "Well, what's wrong with that person that. they're going at someone's looks?". No, for sure. If like my husband's are. like making fun of like a girl, I'd be. like, "You're [ __ ] weird." And like I. feel that way too. I'm like it's just a. weird thing. So it's like there's so. many other things to like gossip and. make fun of and just, you know, make. light of or whatever, but. Totally. Yeah, totally. Um for those of. who may not know, Trisha attempted to. win a Guinness World Record for her. speed reading skills. I love how the two. of us like I'm I have to actively try to. talk slower. Like I can talk so fast. I'm like, "Oh my god, Trisha, Trisha, have you heard here?" Like I'm so.

excited. I'm so excited to go try that. Like I can talk so fast. And I'm like. slow I didn't think that about you. Like. I did not think of you as like this like. really fast talker cuz we're so like. vibes and like put together. Okay. I feel like we're actually having girl. talk. Where like some interviews I'm. like more doing the interviewing. I'm. like I don't want to be a part of the. conversation. I want it to be about. that. But I feel like our vibe is just. like. our vibe is just like Oh, I love like. that. Yeah, I hate when it's like all about. me. Like I love to be like, "What about. you?" Because I need to know where. you're coming from. You know what I. mean? going on over there? Are you judging me, [ __ ]. [ __ ] you. No, I feel that. And so but.

then because you talk fast like my best. friend Lauren talks so fast that I feel. the same way with you where I'm like. then I'm just going to match your. energy. And then when I do talk fast, people are like. Like what the [ __ ] So. like people will like it. Like I know I. get on comments on my podcast like I'm. ADHD like thanks to you cuz they just. like want to keep up like keep going at. that pace. That's actually such a good point. Like. people can just be like shut the [ __ ]. up, get to the point. We're getting. there. We're moving fast. Okay, before. you go, okay, can you just speed read. this little message to the Daddy Gang? Okay. You can read through it. It's.

literally a bunch of like nonsense. It's. just like happy New Year and. Oh, okay. I love it. I just thought it. would be fun for you to just read fast. I love it. Oh my gosh, okay. Luckily. there's no like too big of words. Sometimes I get like the the Guinness. World Records is Hamlet's soliloquy. So. it was like to be or not to be that is. the question is noble in mind to It was. like this a whole like really long thing. and it was like the I don't even know. the words they were so hard. All right, here we go. Daddy Gang, thank you so. much for having me. This has been so. much fun. It's 2024. Let's make it the. best year ever. It's the year to stop. giving a [ __ ] about what other people. think and own your own confidence. It's. the year to try new things and better. yourself. Finally have that wild ass. different orgasm. The year of the It's. the year of the like like 9000 only.

trademark. If you are also receiving. some bomb ass head in return, take rest, switch stuff up there. Don't get into. involved with the drama. It's never that. deep. Give people second chances and. apologize when you're wrong. Pop that. [ __ ] shake that ass. Follow me where. no accounts. YouTube, TikTok, Instagram. Don't be stingy. Spread my only fans. If. you're feeling it, tell them on the. podcast. Just just I love you guys. Thank you for taking the time to get to. know me. I hope this isn't the last time. we chat. XOXO Trisha Paytas. XOXO GOSSIP. TRISHA, I DIDN'T KNOW IT WAS LIKE MY. OUTRO. I love that. I would have put. more umph into it. This is so cute. Trisha, that was iconic. Thank you so. much for coming on Call Her Daddy. This. was truly so fun. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Dude.