Stassi Schroeder: A Proud Basic B*tch (Full Episode)

What is up, daddy gang? It is your. founding father, Alex Cooper. We call. her daddy. [laughter]. >> Finally, we did it. We did it. We're. here. >> How's your mic feeling? >> Um, what do you mean? I I can't hear. myself. >> Well, but you like Is it close enough? >> Oh, I mean I It's fine. Listen, normally. I do it with headphones. >> So, you're It's a little mind [ __ ]. >> So, yeah. So, I don't feel like I'm. doing a real podcast.

>> Should we be doing headphones? >> No, I look so much better like this. I. think. >> great. I used to do headphones and I was. like, it's giving like more ogre vibe. cuz it's just like so Well, I'm like. just calling you an ogre cuz [laughter]. you wear headphones in your podcast, but. you know what I'm saying. >> No, it does. But I feel like I can't. Well, I'm not leading this podcast. You. are. I can't lead properly if I can hear. other things. >> Oh, okay. Like, do you have ADHD? >> I You're like, no. I mean, I used to be. addicted to Adderall, but I think I was. just abusing it. [laughter]. >> I don't think I actually like.

>> No doctor prescribed me aderall. I did. it myself. >> I did it. >> That's terrible. I just [laughter]. realized I didn't even introduce you. >> Stacey Schroeder, welcome to Caller. Daddy. >> Thank you. I'm so excited. No, like I. know everyone says that, but I'm. ridiculously excited. And this room is. so chic. I'm just so obsessed with the. color of this. The way it just. >> These used to be orange, and I got them. in here and I was like, "This needs to. immediately change." Like you don't feel. call her daddy vibes from this. What is. that noise? >> A [ __ ] plane. What do you mean? Sorry. Sorry. [laughter] No, because.

there has been something happening with. our air conditioner recently that it. sounds. >> it's like and then it I I don't focus. That's probably I should be wearing. headphones. How did you pick your outfit. today? We were just talking about. >> Okay. Wait, no. I have to tell you this, okay? Because I haven't stressed out. this much about a [ __ ] outfit. I. can't even tell you. It was harder to. pick an outfit for this right now than. it is to like go on tour, go on a red. carpet, fancy outfits, because let me. explain. >> Okay, >> I want to match your vibe. You know, I'm.

not here to like act like I'm going to. some. >> fancy gala. But you could. >> while you're wearing sweatpants and a. t-shirt. But Alex, not everyone looks as. cute as you do in sweatpants as a. t-shirt. when you're pregnant and you. feel like you look like a beast, it's. extra hard. So, like it would have been. easier for me to just like really like. find a nice dress or outfit that's chic. and nice and cool, like maybe like, you. know, a little bit businessy. I don't. know, whatever. But this these are.

literally I think this is like $10 from. H&M. I think this No, I'm not maternity. leggings. >> You walked in and I said, I literally. didn't notice you were pregnant for a. second. Like, I have questions about you. being pregnant, but I forgot. And I'm. not just gassing you up. Like, I'd be. like, you look pregnant. Pregnant women. everywhere need to hear that. >> You know what? If you see a pregnant. woman on the street, just be like, "You. didn't even look pregnant. Like, you. didn't even It took me a while to. realize that's what we want to hear.". >> It's true. And like the outfit is great. cuz you were worried like am I sitting. like can you see my belly? First of all,

like let it rock, but also it because. you're wearing all black, you can't. really see it. >> That's what I'm here for. >> And the chairs are like also who gives a. [ __ ] you're pregnant. That's amazing. >> I know. But I'm not one of those who I. wish I was one of those women like. Rihanna that like you know wears that. has her belly out and like god she looks. so good. There's so many women that look. so great like that. I've never felt that. way. I feel best when I'm in bags. >> Okay. >> You know, well this bag is looking. phenomenal today. >> Thank you. >> So you're pregnant. How are you feeling? >> Honestly, I feel really good because.

this pregnancy isn't during it. It feels. like it's my first pregnancy because my. first one was during COVID. So, I wasn't. allowed to leave my house. >> Got it. >> You know what I mean? So, I'm able to. live my life this time around. I'm able. to work. I'm able to travel. I'm able to. go to restaurants. >> You know, you probably didn't have. anyone being like super sweet to you and. like holding the door. >> No, I never got that experience. I never. got, you know, and that is like a right. of passage as a pregnant woman to be. treated like a [ __ ] queen. >> Wow. And now, now I'm getting it. So,

I'm just like feeding off of that. energy, you know? >> Okay. I do love that for you because I. do I agree with you. Pregnancy and co. obviously probably had pros of like you. don't have to leave the house. You can. just. >> Yeah. So, when you did look like a. beast, it didn't matter. No one was. there. [laughter]. >> But I'm sure your husband still loved. you so much. >> He says he did. >> Oh, [laughter] like we're not divorced. yet. So, how does he handle your. pregnancy? Like, what is he like when. you're pregnant? >> I mean, he really is great. Like, he I I. really did luck out with that. But he. can't like he says that. He's like, "I.

give you compliments all the time. I. tell you how beautiful you are. I want. to have sex with you all the time. I'm. always coming after you." And I'm like, "It doesn't matter. I need to hear those. things from other women. [laughter]. >> I need to hear I look beautiful from. other women. I need the compliments from. other women. He tries so hard to make me. feel good about myself. And of course, I. want my husband to desire me and want me. and think I'm beautiful and all of those. things, but there's just something about. a compliment from another woman that. really is what like feeds my soul.

That's what keeps me going. >> No, I get what you're saying. It's like. there's a difference between like men. objectifying us where like we get it. And like obviously some men also like. love when women are pregnant to you. >> No, B's like that. So B is like I look I. wish I could I mean I'm Yeah, you talk. about sex a lot. >> Yeah. I don't know why. Don't wait. I. don't know how this is brain America. Sorry. Sorry. Brain fog. No. He's like, I want to like I love your pregnant. body. It's so sexy. I love when you. change in front of me. I love all this. And I just feel gross. So, I'm just like. no. I mean, thank God because imagine if.

I like he was somebody who. >> no who didn't like a pregnant body. >> That is actually something I've thought. about. I've heard women say like he. really just like wasn't into the. pregnancy thing. And in my mind, I'm. like, I don't know if I could be with a. partner that doesn't at least [ __ ]. fake it. But I guess you could probably. tell if they fake it. >> You totally would. >> Like Matt, like my partner, I don't even. I'm not pregnant and I pray to God I can. get pregnant. But like if I get. pregnant, all he talks about is like, "Oh my god, like I don't know how I'm. going to control myself." And I'm like,

"What? What?" Like, but see, at least. you have that. So like it doesn't matter. what what side effect like pregnancy. side effects you have. Like he will. still be so into you. But at the same. time, it's a burden because I don't feel. sexual whatsoever. >> at all. That's like I was going to ask. you like how do you handle like I think. women are great online that talk about. their pregnancy, but there's a little. too much glamorization from what I've. heard from some moms of like it's not. all [ __ ] great and sometimes you feel.

like [ __ ] about yourselves and sometimes. it's like not the sexiest that you're. feeling and so like can you talk about. the real [ __ ] of like how are you. feeling with your sex life? >> Oh my god, no. my sex I literally have. zero sex drive, but I will say that I am. a champion and I take one for the team. in my household and I don't let it go. like a week and a half. Like I will if. I've if it's like a week and you know 3. days I'm like I should probably do this. Like I'm being selfish right now. Poor. [laughter] Bo. No, but I think that's so. relatable and I feel like people don't.

like to talk about that of like. sometimes you got to just and it's. different if you're like hooking up with. a random guy and you're like I guess I. have to sleep with him. No, no, no. This. is your husband. into your relationship. Sometimes you're like, I'm aware I have. no sex drive. I still love you and I'm. attracted. >> and I want him to feel good about. himself. And it does bond us. It's like. once we do it, I'm like, "Oh, I'm so. glad I did this. I should do this more.". Isn't [laughter] that the worst with. sex? You're like, if sometimes you're. too in your head or you have no sex. drive that month or whatever it is, you're like, "I literally can't even get. myself there. I know I love him, but. like I'm not there." And then.

afterwards, you're like, "We should do. that more." And they're like, "Fuck you. [ __ ] you. I literally ask you all the. time." Oh, >> sometimes it just takes like going. through the act. >> Yes, 100%. Yes. >> Okay. Do you have like an alter ego when. you're pregnant? >> This is how I think of myself. Um I when. I'm pregnant, I feel like I'm I'm Santa. [laughter]. I'm not joking. I just feel like this. round jolly [laughter]. >> like what your alter ego says. He's. like, "So I'm Santa. >> through and through." Like for real.

Like I look in the mirror and I'm like. everything's round and I'm just jolly. and I'm just you know I'm so excited. about the baby that that like and I'm. sober. So like you don't I don't get. depressed that easily when I'm pregnant. [laughter]. >> Right. Right. You're not like having the. up and down of like getting hammered one. night waking up like regretting your. life. Backing up. You are like the queen. of OOTDs. Thank you. >> Like I I remember literally like back in. the day like everyone would start. hashtagging it but you really like owned. it. that you're like, "This is my.

[ __ ] outfit of the day. I. bought a national holiday." What a waste. of money. Honestly, that's so cringe. >> You actually bought it. >> You have to buy it. You don't just get. to like own holidays for free, Alex. [laughter]. >> Like, how much did it cost? Is this. going to be embarrassing? >> It's so embarrassing. I think it was. like $40,000. No, it it was No, it's so. embarrassing. And you guys, I would not. do it again. Okay. I would never just. throw away that money to have a holiday. But at the time, I was like, "Oh, this. is good branding." I was just in like. business mode. my book was coming out.

I'm like, I think that this is good. branding. So, it's like I'm putting. money into my career. That's how I felt. But no, I mean, >> hold on. What exactly that feels like. when people buy like a [ __ ] star in. the sky? Can't we all just point that. one? Like, what day is it? >> It's It's June 30th. >> Okay. [laughter]. And it's not like on all of our. calendars. Like, Apple didn't upload. Like, so how do we even know you own it? Like, what was the point of buying it? Also, can I tell you something that like. you own it for a year and I didn't know.

that. >> and so the next year came around and. they were like, "All right, you got to. pay for it again or like the dude I. think it was just the same amount of. money." I'm like, "You're out of your. [ __ ] mind. This is a lifetime. commitment that you think I'm going to. spend this every year." So now, technically, I think on the list, if you. were to like search the list, my name. isn't even up there anymore. But. everyone on Instagram, >> it's already been hashtagged and and all. of that. But do you really think you had. to buy it? >> They thought I would. Like honestly,

Alex, I like $4,000. >> I'm so embarrassed. >> I'm so embarrassed. >> No, wait. I think it's it. >> I don't care if people come for me. because like I deserve to be come for. >> I agree. But I think it also gives. though a little bit of credit to like. you really were committed and like you. are to the. >> I also just can't believe it was $40,000. for a year. >> Yeah. No, a year not the best business. decision, but I respect it. You loved. it. >> You know who I respect? The people who. came up with this business. The people.

who were just who are like, you know. what? I'm going to own a national social. media calendar. How does one get the. authority? >> And were you just like little miss like. googling like how do I get my own day? And like I think I asked like my agents. or my publicist and I was like how do I. find my own holiday? And they were like. >> I want one. >> Okay. Well, this does go give you. credibility. >> Why? >> I don't know. I just feel like you. [laughter] that gives you some type of. credibility like in the fashion world. like you're giving like you're you're. dedicated. >> First of all, the fashion world they.

don't say OOTD. >> No, you're right. [laughter] You are. like I just literally ostracized myself. from the fashion. >> You're like never getting invited to. anything. But you like fashion. >> I love it. Yeah. >> Okay. What clothing staple did you used. to wear that you would not be caught. dead in now? Like what's something that. you were like, "Oh, I [ __ ] love this. shit." Now you're like, "Huh?" statement. necklaces. [laughter]. I rode so hard for statement. I remember. that. >> But you know what? >> They will come back again. Not in the. way that I wore them before,

>> but I mean like they weighed me down. Like they were it was like they were. battle like to wear into battle. Like. the plates of armor. Like it was it's. insane. If you look back on like Vander. Pump's interviews, I'm like who how huge. did I think that that. >> your whole chest. >> that it was? That was the outfit. But it. will come back. That's what like I I was. going to ask you like what's a trend. that you're like so not into. But I. don't really care about trends cuz I'm. like it always comes back. It's not an. actual trend. It's like this is fashion.

and it's just what's in what's not. Sure. But like it's going to come back. >> It does. It it always comes back. And. you know now I'm to the point God I love. Jen Z. I really do. I really appreciate. them because they have this like. anything goes mentality about fashion. and clothing that I just really [ __ ]. love because I feel like while they do. follow trends, they don't. At the same. time, it's kind of like just express. yourself and wear what you feel. comfortable in and what you like and. >> and I've found what I what looks I like.

and whether they're dated or not, I kind. of don't care. And Gen Z gave me. permission. So, >> you know what? I agree with that cuz I. feel like back in the day when I was. growing up if you didn't have like the. double popped Abberrombie polo with like. the lace and like the denim skirt and. the leggings and the you're like you're. a loser. You were nobody. You were a. loser. You weren't in the in crowd. And. so like I remember begging my mom like I. know this is so expensive but like this. is literally for my social equity. Like. I'm not going to be respected on dress. down days if I can't wear this.

>> 100%. >> No one actually cares that much anymore. >> No one cares. You can get away with so. much and like what a glorious time to. live in. >> You're right. And everyone loves the. dupe. Like everyone's like down for like. if it's real actually. People are like. that's like nasty. >> Yeah. Like why are you buying national. holidays? Like that's that's giving the. same energy. >> Wait, can I just say this? Okay. So when. you were in Milan, you were there for. Prada, right? I was just talking to my. hair and makeup person about this. I was. like, Alex and Prada is such a good like. mix and vibe and relationship. you are.

such a good Prada girly. So like I hope. that that like. >> keeps going. >> that keeps going and just like builds. into just like something bigger because. that was like I would not have thought. that. >> until I saw your photo. [laughter]. >> Me either. Me either Sashi. >> Well cuz I just see you just being. casual and everything but then I saw you. in your looks and I'm like. >> yes. I really appreciate that because I. will say I was nervous because I too. never envisioned like what fashion house.

would I like jive with the most and when. I found the Prada moment it felt so me. and I actually felt so comfortable and. confident which like I never [ __ ]. going into these type events feel. confident cuz I'm like I'm a poser like. I don't wear this [ __ ] all the time but. now Prada I've started to like buy my. own [ __ ] from Prada and be like I. actually feel like if I'm dressing up. Prada feels right for me. No, it does. It fit. It really fit well. I loved it. >> This is like a really random fact that I. learned on selling sunset and I don't. know if it's true for every woman, so I.

need to ask you this. >> Okay. >> On selling sunset, there was a woman. that's pregnant and it was her first. time being pregnant. And she was asking. advice from other moms. And the other. mom was like, "Oh, by the way, girl, like, yeah, you can't shave your V after. like a certain amount of time.". >> No, I can't see. I'm I go rogue. No, literally. Like this morning, I just I. guess. >> You just guess. I literally feel around. and I'm like, hm. Mhm. >> So you [laughter] Okay, that's good to. know. So like you actually can't see it, but then that woman was like, "So I just. didn't touch it.". >> I don't I think it'd be way too itchy.

for me. And then she was like, "Or have. your man do it.". >> Oh, no. I wouldn't I I don't trust any. No, I don't trust him with a razor. That. just does not sound enjoyable. No, you. can't see at a certain point. You can't. You just have to feel for it. Yeah. I. can't grow it out. It's way too itchy. >> Right. Cuz that's what I was thinking. At least if you're if you can't see your. vagina over the belly, you're at least. going to go rogue, but like you'll just. you're not getting it completely bulb. You're just getting it down to a place. where you're comfortable that you're not. itchy. >> I mean, I try to get it, but I try to do.

as you're just like you can't see [ __ ]. >> I can't see [ __ ] I mean, we've done it. for so long that like it's like muscle. memory. >> No, that's true. I do have a lot of. women that still write in that are like, can you like give us a tutorial on like. how to shave? And I'm like, girls, like. let's [laughter]. let's really easy like this show you can. come here for a lot of things but like I. feel like you can like look it up. somewhere [laughter] and like we don't. need to go that in okay and if like. you're pregnant doing it like someone. with that's not pregnant and you can see. that [ __ ] like just take your time. >> no excuse yeah.

>> okay you have written two New York Times. bestsellers. >> congratulations you little brainiac over. there. >> is it is really exciting when I hear it. when I hear other people say it I'm like. god like you know we all suffer from. imposter syndrome I feel like all of us. we all do cuz it's like well you know I. wouldn't have that if I wasn't on the. show and blah blah blah blah and I. wouldn't have that if this didn't happen. but like you know no that's really. [ __ ] cool. Yeah, >> it's No, it is really cool and I think. it's also amazing that you've done two. now. >> Well, I'm working on my third right now.

Yeah. >> Wait, how long does it take you to write. a book? >> A long time. I I worked on the proposal. six months. Six months I worked and it. wasn't like that for my second book. And. like my first book actually came a lot. quicker to me. Also, this third one, it's it's harder cuz like I'm I'm really. trying to be the way that I write. It's. like I have to be specific about like. with one thesis like and then everything. spiders from that and I'm just like.

struggling. I was struggling a little. bit with what that was. So, it took me a. really long time just to do the. [laughter] proposal. >> Well, I was going to say like I think. there's so many people in Hollywood that. have like that one book and they're like. peace out. I just wanted to say I wrote. a book. Clearly, you like really like. doing this. >> Oh, no. I love it. And that's why I. started like for the first one, I was. like, I want it to be a handbook so that. if I wanted to keep going, the theme. could change. So, it's always still like. a basic [ __ ] handbook to something. It's just depending on what's going on.

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So the whole like basic [ __ ] handbook. clearly first question is can you help. us all decipher what is the difference. or is there a difference between chey. and basic? >> Okay. Well per personally what I think. um I think cheooy is kind of cringe. It's like you know like cringe clothing. or cringe you know things that I don't. know there's a cringe element to. cheoogy. I personally think that. anything that's basic. just like leaning. in so hard to something that you really.

love and doing that unapologetically. It's like if you really love romcoms or. if you really love murder and just like. leaning in and it's like oh god you're. so basic but like but it makes me happy. It brings me joy. It's like leaning into. the things that like really bring you. joy and not giving a [ __ ] if it's like. what's cool. Basic to me kind of is a. timeless situation where like basic also. means that a lot of people though are. doing it and it's just something that. kind of is timeless. >> Yeah. And it's po and there's a reason.

those things are popular like. >> because they feel good or they make you. happy or like I don't know they [ __ ]. spark joy. So like I'm love being basic. >> Santa over here. >> Santa, [laughter]. >> you're like I can say it, you can't say. it, Alex. Okay, we're playing a game. You're gonna tell me if it's basic or. not. >> Okay. And also you can just give me your. thoughts on the topic in itself. Okay. Number one, apppereral spritz. Are you. [ __ ] That's the most basic. >> No, it's my favorite [laughter] drink in.

the whole world. I crave it every day. That's the worst part of pregnancy. The. worst part is that I can't have multiple. approal spritzes all day every day. Dude, okay. >> I make B make them. So, I'm like, I'm. going to have three sips and I literally. swish it around my mouth for as long as. I can. spit it out. >> No, I swallow it. It's like my baby can. handle a few sips of an abberal spritz, but like I literally swish it and hold. it in there and I'm like, "Oh, [gasps]. that felt good. That feels good. That. feels great.". >> I love them so much and I think people.

consider them basic, but I think they're. great. So, that's great. >> Okay. Get ready with me videos. >> Oh my god. So, I didn't know what this. was and I'm a big Tik Tok fan. >> Okay. >> Okay. And all of a sudden, I just kept. seeing gr. M everywhere. And I was like, grown. woman. I literally was like, what the. [ __ ] is everybody writing grown woman? Like, what is this stuff? Because not. all get ready with me videos look the. same. They weren't all makeup. Some of. them are like picking outfits. So like. there was no theme right away. And most.

of the time it's a woman doing it. >> Yes. So like I thought grown woman was. the vibe. And like it took me like a few. months to realize I feel like that it. was get ready with me. And. this is the thing. I tried one I. [laughter] I put one out like 3 weeks. ago and how to do. >> on I feel like the kids loved it. Although I will say everyone was. commenting [laughter] being like, "Wow, 2016 and I'm like, "Oh, wait. I was. trying to do a thing." You know, I was.

really trying to do a get ready with me. and everyone's like, "This is so. nostalgic. You do your makeup like it's. 2016." But I'm like, "That's cuz it. works for me.". >> Right. Who cares? At least you're not. trying to like pretend you're in a. generation you're not. >> Yeah. like, you know, putting the like. foundation like letting it drop on your. face and like I I can't I can't get I. can't [ __ ] with that. Like it kills me. Every get ready with me that I see that. people are just dropping the liquid on. their face. Like it's so it's so not. appealing.

>> Wait, how do you do it? >> I don't do it. Like you telling me you. drop it on? >> No, no, I don't. I don't. I'm just. interested like how do you do it? >> Okay. Well, I take my foundation and I. have a tin and like I pour some out and. then I use. >> in your hand. >> No, on a tin. >> Oh, tin. And then I use a brush or a. sponge and like a normal [ __ ] person. and then. >> do the damn thing. >> Do you think they're on to something. that we don't know though? >> No, >> I don't either. >> I think they're bored and I think that. they're just coming up with new ways to. do makeup when like what works already. is there. So like I don't get it.

>> The fact that you thought that it was. >> grown woman. >> grown woman. >> No, listen Alex, I also got a lot of. comments from people being like I. thought the same thing. So, there are. lots of millennial women out there who. are thinking that it is grown woman. >> I get it. I grown. woman. >> How would anyone just automatically know. get ready with me? >> What What about grown? >> Good point. [laughter]. >> I I like it. I think it's funnier. I. think we should start leaning in and be. like grown woman video [laughter] coming.

right at you. Okay. TomTom. Basic. Not. basic. >> You know what I'm gonna say? But I I. think it's basic, but like I again I. love things that are basic, but like you. can't get any more basic than like the. the representation of Vanderpump Rules. in bar form. True. You go there. >> I don't really because I'm asking for. attention if I go there. Do you know. what I mean? Like I really love it and. I'll go there if it's someone's. birthday, so I'm going for someone. You. know what I mean? But. >> if I go there, everyone's gonna take.

photos and and I'm like, >> "No, >> I'm not. [laughter] You're not. I get. it. I get it." Um, ompic. Oh my god. Wait. So, like, I really want to try it. when I [laughter] give birth. You're like, I want to go on it now, but. I am pregnant, so I'm going to wait. No. The amount of times I've researched this. being like, I mean, I think it's safe. and healthy. Like, I think it's good for. you. It's like taking vitamins. [laughter]. >> Stacey, I How do we put a disclaimer? Like, nothing that was said in this podcast.

medically. Please do not listen to this. But like, come on. you. It's basic. >> Anyone who hears about Ozic has to. [ __ ] be curious. You are a liar if. you tell me that you have not thought. about it, thought about jumping on that. train. I mean, not you don't need it. I. don't mean you, >> but like you should THINK ABOUT THAT. [laughter] NO, I get what you're saying. I think it's this is what I've started. to realize and maybe it's just like with. age. Like I remember one of my things on. here was bone broth and I was thinking. about the all the debate with Gwennneth. when everyone was like you are like.

promoting bad eating that like for. people that's not realistic and whatever. and I'm like why does everyone care? >> No. Like. >> she didn't say to only eat bone broth. for you. She was just being honest. Would you rather lie? >> She's telling her story. She's literally. just she's trying to be transparent. which is what everybody is asking of. people. Please be honest and. transparent. So then you can't get mad. about what you hear when someone is. being transparent or honest. So, have I. googled Ompic and what it would be like? And am I thinking about it? Yes, I am. Because you were just talking about bone.

broth. My first pregnancy, I ate bone. broth for dinner for six [ __ ] months. after I gave birth. And I kind of don't. feel like doing that again. I love that. for you. [laughter] I'm like, I don't. want to. I want a quickie. I want an. ompic I'm an ompic girl, not a bone. broth girl anymore. We love that. I love. the honesty because that's what I I got. annoyed where I was like I think people. are really getting too triggered like. Gwennneth wasn't like everyone should do. this. She was asked what she eats in a. day and instead of being like a. cheeseburger for dinner and a she just.

told you you don't have to do it. >> Yeah, you don't have to do it. I'm like. would you want her to lie to you and. then you're going to wonder like wait. why don't I look like this when I'm. eating a cheeseburger for dinner and. like you you want I want to know that. it's a struggle for Gwennneth. I want to. know it's a struggle. Me too. And I also. love it's like people need to realize I. know the whole word influencer has. really taken over but like look inward. if you're being really heavily. influenced by every single influencer on. the internet. >> Yeah. >> Let's totally just do a little check.

Just a little check in. >> Just be responsible for yourself. >> Be responsible for yourself. >> Okay. So OMIC OMI. [laughter] Okay. So. she's going to go on OMIC. You're going. to tell us how it goes. You'll go on it. Someone else says you have to. >> Exactly. Yeah. >> And then you're going to be feel how you. want to feel and they can feel how they. want to feel while they're on the. elliptical. You're [laughter]. look at me now. >> Do you think do you think you'll be. promoting it that like you're on it or. you won't talk about it? >> Um I would like to to think that I would.

be somebody that promotes it and talks. about it because again I really do I. love when other people are transparent. and honest. So, I want to be that for. other people, but like God, people are. really hard. >> People are really hard. >> on on that on things like that. And it's. like, do I feel like going through. >> all of the hate that I'm going to get if. I'm honest about it? >> Unfortunately, you're on caller daddy. right now saying you're going to do it. [laughter] You know what would be the. worst? If you actually don't go ON AND. YOU'RE LIKE THE GYM AND they're like,

"That [ __ ] is onic." You're like, "No, guys, I'm actually. >> I totally probably just [ __ ]. [laughter] myself.". >> Right? No matter what, they're all. either either like it's not working or. it's working and you could have been. doing it like organically. Okay. [laughter] Well, keep us updated. What. do you think about manifesting? >> I'm so basic. [laughter]. >> You manifest. I manifest the [ __ ] out of. life. I think I've naturally been. manifesting my whole life and just like. not know. When we were growing up, manifesting wasn't a word that we like. really the way that we use it now. >> Totally. >> But I think that I've always just been. that way. And I really I really do.

[ __ ] ride so hard for manifesting. because I feel like what works with. manifesting is like you just envision. that the things that you want are going. to happen and then you slowly start. working towards those things whether you. realize it or not. >> True. >> And like that is manifesting. It's like. quite simple. >> That's true. Okay. Give us an example. What's something like big you manifested. and like boom it happened. >> My whole entire life I wanted um to live. in a Spanish style home in the hills. >> Okay. >> Okay. And I when it got to the point.

where I was looking at at houses, like. it just so seamlessly happened and I. realized that like, wow, I had been like. >> planning for this and working towards. this and I'd always just said it. And. then I was like, I should have. manifested bigger. I should have been. like a $10 million house, [laughter]. Spanish style house in the Hollywood. Hills. Like why didn't I manifest a yard. attached to that house? Like [ __ ]. >> [laughter]. >> I get what you're saying, but like Okay, so you had this vision and now it's come. true. >> Yeah. So, because you then I like I.

saved the money in order like I started. like or I would accept this job and put. that money away to like start. >> being like this is going to happen for. me so I need to prepare for it when it. does. >> So, kind of like back in the days they. would just say like a dream you have. >> Yeah. But now, >> now we have like a better word that's. like a little bit more like proactive. >> BASIC AS [ __ ]. >> Basic [laughter] [ __ ] Okay. Are you. watching reality TV shows? >> Um, well, I just recently started.

watching Verules, [laughter]. >> dude. Were you not watching it? >> No. >> And then you catch up. >> And then once um Scanwell happened, I. was like, >> I got to catch up. >> I I got I didn't catch up, but like I. will I've I've seen like the last three. episodes. So like I've I've been like I. should probably I'm interested. I want. to see that whole drama. I can't imagine. how annoying it was for you because like. how many people wanted to hear your take. on it. >> No, you you have no idea. In fact, like. it's interesting that you say that that. you can see that that you can see that.

that would maybe be annoying like when. it happens like it's like one of those. things I I joke about this that like you. know it's like when there's like a. natural disaster or a world event and. like you never forget where you were. that day and like you could be at work. or at school and then like you stop what. you're doing and like you you get with. your co-workers and you find the nearest. [ __ ] TV and then years later you're. like I'll never forget who I was with. and what we were doing. That's how I. feel about [ __ ] Scandaval. Like. truly, >> I can't imagine like what was your take? >> Well, at first I was just like I I don't.

think that this is real. But then I'm. like this is I start texting the people. that I I know obviously. >> and I was like. >> like I mean just like I think everyone's. the same as everyone's reaction like. holy [ __ ] And then I I was like I feel. >> like I'm thrown right back into. something that I've been away from for. so long. But it's it's like, is it my. place to be a part of it or is it not my. place? >> I don't know. And then I have all of. these people just DMing me. I mean, I've.

never been DM'd more about anything than. I was about like I'm going to or. commenting and and attaching or tagging. me in it being like, I'm going to need. Stacey to weigh in. I'm going to need. Stacey to weigh in. And I'm like, but I. don't know if it's my place anymore. I've been out of this for so long that. like I think it would be kind of [ __ ]. weird if I'm like going on my Instagram. being like this is my take on. >> and like it it was all it was it's been. kind of like a mind [ __ ] which is weird. to say cuz it's not even happening to. me. I kind of agree and I that's what.

when I when I had Ariana on I was like. it was actually so weird because the. amount of people that were like [ __ ]. like we kind of wanted you to have. Raquel on and I was like this is why I. also hate. >> the internet so much because whenever I. have villains on the show everyone's. like canceled when I don't have them on. then they're pissed but when I have them. on they're pissed whatever. But did you. ever like Tom Sandaval? >> No. I mean no and he never liked me. And. that's the thing, you know, I will say. this, not being on this last season, it's like my my talents were wasted. [laughter].

>> because I could have, you know, this was. when I could have really just like given. it to him and been like I've always. knew. >> Right. Right. There's got to be. something that everyone is seeing in. him, but like he I feel like has always. been a slime ball. Well, that's. interesting that you say that just. because I felt like he was always so. beloved and so and I would even I would. say to my producers, I'm like, when is. he going to get the edit that like I I. feel like the rest of us see? Like, why. does he keep like getting away with. being just this dude who just wants to. like give people things and help people.

out, man, and like all of that. I'm. like, that's not what I'm seeing. I'm. seeing somebody who's constantly po like. >> blaming others for things and dredging. things up from the past and like and. just deflecting constantly like if like. the rest of us look bad then he looks. good and and I've always felt that way. and so yeah the fact that I'm not on it. this season it's like [ __ ] you know. >> Yeah. Do you miss reality TV? >> I miss reality TV at at times like I. loved filming. I love like that was it.

was like all my 20s were spent doing. that and. >> you know I love the camaraderie of it. and I loved all my producers and the. team and the cat like it's fun. It's. really fun but. >> you know there's something about like. being out of it for so long and and I. watched that like the success of a show. is like directly tied to how badly the. cast hurts each other. >> and that like feels weird. >> I agree. It's like I think that's.

something that we're struggling with now. is like watching it because there is. social media. I I feel like people are. having a harder time like actually. choosing a villain because it's also. weird of like but then that person's. life is actually ruined on social media. and people are getting cancelceled and. people are getting death threats where. like back in the day you kind of like. the never saw the people and it was like. whoa that was a great show where now. it's like a little bit like oh people. have to be really calculated to [ __ ].

[ __ ] up and like how how far are people. going to ruin each other's lives and is. it honest? Is it real? Like I don't. know. >> Yeah. It just it's weird. It's dark. Like when you really think about it, >> it's [ __ ] dark, >> right? Like I feel like there's a I. think you have a good life now outside. of it. And it's almost better to be. nostalgic for it than be still in it and. like look what's happening right now. >> No, I I think so too because I I think. you know obviously I get asked all the. time like would you go back to reality. TV? Would you go back to Vanderpump. roles? All that stuff. And I'm like I. don't I you know there might come a time.

when I'm like oh this makes sense. this. type of reality TV this makes sense for. me or or whatever and this is a. reflection on what really my life is. like you know it might be a little more. boring than what you're used to seeing. >> right but it's at least a little bit. more authentic where you're not having. to like really create that character. again. >> yeah but like I don't think I'd want to. put my family in a position to be in. something where like again the success. is tied to like how much you can hurt. each other and like I just don't.

>> I don't it's not like a healthy place to. be like it's not good on relationships. You can be in the strongest relationship. and. >> and I mean if you think about it it's. like Vanderpump rules is like who's. betraying who, who's cheating on who, who's being shady. >> and like sometimes they you know they. things are invented that like never even. happened and so to put that stress on a. relationship and then if you have. children on top of that I'm just not. sure that that's like the healthiest. thing for me. >> I do miss it. No, >> I do. >> I get it. Like it's almost like reality. TV to a certain age should be.

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hanging out with them and we kind of. don't talk about it that much. Yeah. >> You know what I mean? Like the show part. of it, but now that like Scanal has. happened, >> we talk about it a lot more, I guess. >> How do you feel about how much hate Tom. is getting online? >> Um, I mean, obviously I've been in a. position where I've received so much. hate before and like that's I I don't. like where we're at like in society. where like that's how we punish people. It's like essent it's like it's it's.

like emotionally beheading people. Yeah. >> You know what I mean? And it's. >> and who's to decide. what the punishment should be? Like who. who makes someone the authority on that? Like what makes this person on their. computer. >> the authority on on what they think is. enough hate for him to receive, right? >> I don't get down with that. Like I. really I don't like it. Like do I like. Tom Sandaval? No. Do I think what like. what he did is disgusting and like [ __ ].

him. But like. >> see now I feel like I'm even adding to. it like the online there's a level of. like if you're being asked about it you. can talk about it and I think everyone. with their friends can talk about it. But I do think there's like a level of. >> we're just as bad of like people that. are going out of their way to comment on. his photos or something and be like go. [ __ ] kill yourself. You're so. disgusting. It's like that it's like. that that that no one like let's let's. just like not do that as like a group of. people. Let's not.

>> you probably didn't say that fully to. like even your dad when he cheated on. your mom and you guys have a divorced. family now. Like there's so many people. that have gone through sadly something. very similar like cheating affairs like. that and it's awful. But like we don't. know these people. So yes, they've put. their lives out there for us. But like. at what point is it like talk [ __ ] to. your friends in your group chat? But to. actually make an effort to like go wait. outside of his house or to go make. comments, it's like let's And at some. Yeah. And at some point like that is how. people become incredibly depressed and.

then suicidal. And it's like how would. we all react if we knew. >> that that's how it ended? >> One of Yes. How what. >> it just it's not right. You were. obviously so different back in the day. as we all are of like in your early 20s. versus where you're sitting now on the. show. You were probably one of my. favorite characters because it was like. I was watching a scene this morning. I. was trying to I was like telling my. friend I was going to sit down with you. I'm like no, you don't understand. Like. no one was more iconic than Stacey. Like. she would go into these like rage.

blackouts basically that looked like it. on screen where you were just like I am. the devil [ __ ] And [laughter]. like just the [ __ ] you said was like so. gold. And I'm like, are you going to. ever let your daughter watch the show? >> I can't hide I can't hide it from her. forever of like, so of course I honestly. just hope she learns from my mistakes. Like I hope she sees it and cringes and. is like you are [ __ ] awful and like I. don't want to talk to you for two weeks. And I'm like fair. And then she just. literally goes, you know, that just.

swings her in the opposite direction and. she just wants to be this like lovely. kind child. But like. >> that's fair, >> you know. Okay. How would you describe. yourself back then verse now to someone. maybe that didn't watch the show? Didn't. know you. >> Oh my god. I [laughter] mean, oh my god. I think. so incredibly selfish. Like I still have. selfish tendencies. Like 100% that's. always going to be a personality trait. Sorry. It is. >> But like I really truly thought the. world revolved around me. I thought that.

everything that I was going through. mattered to everyone. And I just felt. like what I had to say was so important. I was also one of those people that's. like I just tell it like it is. You got. to just deal with it. And and now that. I'm older, like I don't like that about. myself. And I think that's such an. overrated quality because all you're. saying is like you don't care about how. your words affect other people. So like. sometimes like it's good to just think. before you [ __ ] speak, you know? It's. like called being polite and gracious. >> True. Like I just like and there are.

still people that like you know are in. that reality TV TV world that are still. like that that are just like well I tell. like it is. I'm honest. Like if you. can't handle the truth then like I'm not. for you. And I'm like but do you really. want to be that way? I get what you were. saying about like holding yourself back. for maybe speaking about certain things. But again the environment that you were. in like that is what would make you a. better person on reality TV. >> Yeah. No. >> So it's like like it's almost like you. were rewarded when you would say crazy. [ __ ] I was. Now it's like when you're. in private with friends, maybe we don't.

bring that into real life. But I get. what you're saying of watching it back, you're like, "Why did I say that's how I. feel about when I look back at my the. earlier days of my show, I'm like, why. did I say some of that stuff?" But. that's also life. >> Yeah. No, that's true. >> But we just happen to be like recording. our lives. >> Yes. And we were rewarded for it just. like you were rewarded for like things. that would come out of your mouth. It's. like that's that's how we're paid to. >> to be totally to say crazy [ __ ]. >> Yes. What do you miss most about being. in your 20s? being selfish, [laughter]. leaning into it, like and like not.

knowing that it was wrong. >> Right. Right. >> You know, the delusion not Yeah. It's. the delusion. It's like the not knowing. any better and just really living for. myself. But at the same time, >> it's like I am such a happier person not. living for myself. Like. >> as like fun as it all was to be reckless. and selfish, like I am so much more at. peace and such a happier person. Yeah, >> now that I'm not like that, >> I get what you're saying. Like I was. thinking about that as I wrote that.

question today. I was thinking like, okay, I well I am 28, but I almost feel. like I'm already 30. And I am like my. earlier stages of my 20s. I feel like I. thought I was having so much fun in the. toxic relationships and going out and. drinking, getting [ __ ] up and blacking. out and like jokingly waking up and. having all my friends in the room be. like, I just ruined my life. And that's. also like life. But there is some. different level of peace you feel once. you get over that hump where like I. don't wake up with that anxiety of like.

what did I say to that person? Like was. I like mean? Like did I [ __ ] up? Like. did I do something? Like I don't know. It's like calmer. It's like a nice. >> It is. I mean there's like a reason that. like you know elderly people are like my. idea of fun is like staying in in like. watching like Downtown Abbey. It's like. be because our preferences change as we. age. True. And like I agree with that. staying in and watching Downtown Abbey. is like the most fun you can [laughter]. have. Do you often hang out with elderly. folks?

>> Like I should honestly I should find. myself a pack of elderly friends. They. like come [laughter] over one night and. there's like seven people that you just. like went and picked up from the elderly. home. >> I mean, I'm always down for granny. vibes. >> I do love granny vibes, too. Um, what do. you love most about being in your 30s? In my 30s? Oh my gosh. I think that the. I've learned that like the power of of. saying no to things and and not caring. about like well is someone going to be.

mad at me if I'm not going to what they. just asked me to do or if I say no to. like a FaceTime or like I don't respond. to a text message. Like I've prioriti as. much as like I it's funny that I'm. saying this because it sounds like I'm. being selfish, but I've just prioritized. my my happiness and well-being and I I. know how to do that. >> and not worry about like well is so and. so going to be mad at me if I say no. Like I'm allowed to say no. I'm allowed. to say no. >> Yeah, you are. I love that too cuz. there's like I get what you're saying. It sounds selfish, but there's a.

different level of maturity of like a. freedom that you get instead of feeling. like, "Oh my god, but it has to be. calculated. If I don't text them, it's. because I'm like being mean. This is. actually I'm not being mean. I'm not. being mean. >> I'm just there's just things that I. don't want to do. >> Yeah. I'm just kind of busy and I don't. want to do that or like I'd like to stay. home with my daughter tonight. Like I I. just like it's not for me. And honestly, I don't even owe an explanation. No. >> Like knows all I have to say. >> What's the difference between Stacey. hammered in her 20s versus Stacey. hammered in her 30s?

>> Oh [laughter] my god, I miss being. hammered. >> I know. How long? How much longer? >> Um I'm due the beginning of September. [gasps]. That's a wild like three [ __ ] months. >> You got this. E, >> you got this. >> Um, well, I would fully black out in my 20s. Like, I wouldn't remember things and and. and I Yeah, I wouldn't remember what I. texted. I wouldn't remember what I said. It was super emotional. Now, because I. have a a kid, I'm not allowed, right? >> I I can't It's unfortunate, but I can't.

let it get too far. So, like I honestly. I feel like I don't have that much of. like a personality shift when I drink. Does that make me an alcoholic? Maybe. But, you know, [laughter] we. >> I feel like I'm kind of the same as I am. right now. >> That's good. That's good. Okay. I love. that. It's just like you have you're. just having a little bit better time. >> Yeah. Like I'm just having a better. time. That's what it is. I'm just having. a better time in my 30s because like I'm. not getting obliterated, >> right? You're not getting full blackout. That's fair. Um, speaking of being. drunk, you talk a lot about dark. passengering and I think a lot of my.

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by region. See app for details. You talk a lot about dark passengering. and I think a lot of my fans may not. have any idea like what does that mean? Like, can you explain what that means? >> Yeah, 100%. Again, I mainly did this I. did this like all throughout Vanderpump. Rules, but like this became a thing when. I started dating Bo. Okay, so I would go. absolutely psycho on him. Like I mean. breaking phones, texting him 73 times in. a row, yelling, screaming, threatening. things, like violent, okay, when I.

wouldn't get my way. And normally it was. because like I would want to leave a. party early cuz like I granny vibes. like I'd want to go to bed at like 11:00. and he's so social and he would want to. stay out later and I've always had like. a trigger when it came to that because. like honestly I feel validated now. because of Scannaval. It's like shady. things in that group of friends always. happen after hours. So I would start. freaking out like what is why does he. want to be out with my friends and not.

coming home with me? And I would go just. insane on him. I would I would it was. like that's why he would call it the. dark passenger. So like I would. literally see red like anger is like the. only motion that like overtakes me. I. see red. I can't control it. I can't. stop myself. Like that is what the dark. passenger used to be. But again now. looking back um in light of like you. know Scandaval and all that I was right. to dark passenger. I was about to say as. you were describing that, I think it's.

totally understandable if your partner. for like one night occasionally is like, "Oh my gosh, like no, I'm having so much. fun with my friends. Like, I want to. stay out." If your partner every single. [ __ ] time you guys go out is always. lingering and you're going home alone. Biggest red flag. >> You know what? >> Strange. Strange. >> So true. >> Why? Why would you want to stay and not. come home with me? >> Yeah. >> Like what? >> Exactly. I can't imagine wanting to like. I again I get it if like I'm having all. my friends are there and my fiance's.

like I really want to go home exhausted. I'm like [ __ ] but like I'm having so. much fun with my girlfriends. >> Yeah. >> Then I'm going to stay out occasionally. But like I don't think I've ever been. like I desperately want to stay at this. party. I'm not single. I'm not looking. for dick. Like the dick I have is going. home. Like why don't I want to just go. home with them? >> Yeah. No. Thank you for validating me. right now. But don't you think for like. a lot a lot of people listening to this. probably are like, "Huh?" Like I have. this a lot with my partner where like. they stay out so many more nights than.

if I'm going home alone or like they're. going out without me all the time. Like. I guess to each his own, I personally. wouldn't be down cuz I just wouldn't. understand like why would your partner. always want to be out without you? >> No, I completely agree with that and. that was always my argument. [laughter]. Like so thank you. >> What is it? What is it that you want to. be doing? Like what is more fun than. just like going to sleep with me. [laughter] right now? >> No. And I also get the trigger of like. if you have ever been cheated on or. again use. >> and that's what would happen like you. know when Kristen and Jack like season. two or whenever when like they they did. their thing like that that was always.

like after hours after the party after I. had gone home like so nothing good. happens after hours. So like it makes me. it made me feel so weird when B would. want to just stay out. And so that's. that's when we put a name to the dark. passenger. The dark passenger can really. just like it means like anytime you just. literally see red and like anger is the. only thing and and you you can't reason. There's no logic. >> Yep. >> There's I feel like you had a lot of. that for like birthday parties.

>> Let's talk about your birthday. [laughter]. >> because I I want to relate to you here. and I can't and I want to hear your. explanation of like what your birthday. means to you. >> Oh my god, I'm going to disappoint you. so much right now. >> Why? Okay, so the first few years of. Vanderpump Rules, like 100% I was a. birthday beast. Okay, I was so obsessed. with my birthday. I have no idea where. it came from. You know what? I blame the. fact that I'm a summer. >> like baby and so like I never got to. like really have birthday parties like.

where all the people could come. So like. I like made it a much bigger deal as an. adult or [laughter] something. But like. after the first few seasons of. Vanderpump Rules, I stopped caring. I. like got it out of my system. >> That's great. >> Bravo would never let me stop caring. Bravo was like, "No, but like this is. >> this is a bit. >> this is like your this is your thing. Like you are people relate to this. This. is like your you are the birthday. queen." And literally to this day people. when people come up to me like 50% of. the time they're like um either saying.

the quote about the devil or like. pogrigio and the other 50% of the time. it's like thank you for making me feel. good about my birthday. [laughter] Dude, I remember watching it and like to. people that didn't watch those seasons, like the rage that took over you of like. it's my [ __ ] birthday, sit down and. like be present. And I was like, I loved. watching it, but I don't relate to that. And so I was like, I wanted to hear. today. I I think it's great. You're over. it. So for your birthday now, you don't. really care. >> No, I don't really care. Um I think I. was just always just like channeling. main character energy, you know, and.

like when you when you when you're. trying to have main character energy, you need to care about your birthday. Main characters care about their. birthdays. It's a whole month. It's a. whole thing. And I think like that. actually for reality TV worked. I think. on Instagram it's annoying as [ __ ] when. it's like. >> totally is like my birthday month. >> We got to stop. >> 10 days for my birthday. I'm like no one. gives a [ __ ]. >> It's not countdown. LIKE WE COUNT no one. cares. No one care. Okay. We can we. relate on that now. Okay. Um do you. secretly miss a little bit of drama in. your life now you that you don't have. reality TV?

>> Yeah. Sometimes I know I say this to B a. lot actually. I'm like, you know what? We should get in a fight and I should. dark passenger because it would just. like make me feel so passionate. That. would probably make me horny. I get what. you're saying. Like a little a little. bit a little friction. >> No, a little bit. I remember when we. were in Vegas in December actually when. I conceived. No. >> We were walking past um the sign for. Absin. Have you ever been to that show? >> No. >> Oh, it's so good. Is it good? Yeah, it's. really good. >> And I was like, "Oh my god, Bo, remember. the last time we saw Absin? Like I. full-blown dark passenger on you." And I.

was like, "We should do that. That'll. help us make a baby. >> Stop. >> And he thinks I'm insane and he thinks. that's so unwell, but like I just think. that that I I think makeup sex is fun. I. agree. I think men have like a little. bit harder time like playing the role of. like we're fighting but like and they're. like I don't understand. Like if I am. trouble like stop and they get scared. Like I try to do it with my partner all. the time. Like just light little tinges. here and there can be fun. Not all the. time but like a little like I'm like. we've been so good. Let's let's.

[laughter]. be so good. Let's have to come back to. >> I WANT TO MISS YOU. I WANT TO BE like I. want to be scared that I'm gonna lose. you, you know? [laughter]. >> Like even though I know I'm not like let. me just pretend. >> LET ME JUST PRETEND. >> AND LIKE play with it. I feel like guys. can't get there. >> No. >> But I kind of Okay. Did you ever at one. point like bring your trust issues in. your past into your relationship that. like it really affected you guys? But. past the dark passenger of like staying. out late, was there anything else? >> Yeah. Well, we know we started going to.

therapy like really early on on into our. relationship because I had all of those. freakout moments and I just didn't trust. him and he didn't understand where it. was coming from cuz he was he had never. given me a reason. >> for me not to trust him. and we had to. like talk through it. And the more like. we went to therapy, the more then he was. like, "Thank you so much for. articulating this, for communicating. this cuz I understand that must have. been really hard to have like this. happened to you, to have your friend do. this to you, to have, you know, other.

times that I had been cheated on. Like, I get it now." And like then we were. able to work together. But like, yeah, it really affected our relationship. Yeah. I love that you have openly talked. about like couples therapy because I. think there's such a stigma of like. what's wrong with your relationship and. it's like why is. >> you have to be going this early like why. because that's when the relationships. like you it's make or break honestly and. you're coming into the relationship with. all your separate baggage so might as. well get it like worked out right away. >> I agree. Okay. Your relationship you've.

talked kind of about how like you have. very different sex drives with B and. everything. give [laughter] the girlies. tips of like how do you keep things. intimate without at times being actually. physically intimate? Like what are you. guys doing? >> Honestly, Alex, I need the [ __ ]. [laughter] tips. >> I need the tips. I think Listen, I think. that Bo and I are really good at at. quality time. Like we. >> we talk to each other. Like we we we. spend time together. Like we we're. really good at parenting together. Like.

I know that doesn't sound romantic, but. like when you're aligned in in how you. view things like that, like when you get. into a relationship with someone, you. get married to someone or you decide to. have a child with someone, you better. really [ __ ] like that person because. >> when you have a kid, y'all are in it. You're [ __ ] in it 24/7. Like and so there are going to be days. that are kind of boring and you better. really just like being around that. person while doing all of the monotonous. mundane [ __ ].

>> Yeah, that's such a good point. Like I. was thinking about you and like having. watched some of your relationships. very toxic in the past to then like B. seems like the complete opposite of like. stable, normal, romantic, loving, sweet. Like in the beginning did that freak you. out? It didn't freak me out, but I made. an what I did with him is like I made a. a choice like an I was aware of the fact. that I was changing my habits. Like. everyone that I've dated in the past, it. was kind of all the same like exciting.

and like passionate right from the. beginning like just feeling like you. know that feeling which like ends up. being toxic honestly. >> 100%. >> And so B was kind of everything. different you know what I mean? He was. different than anything that I had dated. before. And I went about it, both of us. did, really slowly. And we casually. dated. We dated other people. >> and we just really got to know each. other. >> And I think that that's like what. >> made this relationship so solid is that.

like. >> we trusted each other. There was like. constant communication, constant like. getting to know each other, but it. didn't No, nothing about him scared me. because I knew that I was doing. everything different. >> Yeah. I kind of also had I mean I think. a lot of people do you have those like. toxic relationships but I think at some. point people always write in asking like. when will I be ready to like not how. will I know when to not go for the. toxic. You just kind of know you know. when you're done. >> Yeah. You totally. >> there's a feeling of like I don't want. to deal with it anymore.

>> And I think that there's like something. like really overrated about the like. love at first sight thing. I still have. friends that like you know are single. and will ask me like well what should I. do? I'm like, "Well, you write someone. off if you don't feel that in love, feeling, that excitement right away, but. like. >> that's kind of overrated and like we. don't know people right away." So, so. how real is that feeling? >> Right. It's like there's a difference. between going on a first date and. actually like vibing and being there's. definitely something here, but. >> obviously you have to have attraction.

and you have to vibe. Yes. But the the. feeling of like the butterflies but also. like anxious and like he's not texting. and like waiting and like playing the. games and like being so calculated and. like bl like that shouldn't be happening. cuz that's like unhealthy. >> Yeah. >> Like that's not enjoyable. But I think. when you are doing that for so long, you. can get into this rhythm of then normal. feels boring. And I think it's like. >> I got to a point where I'm like actually. toxic became so boring to me. >> I completely [ __ ] agree. toxic is.

boring. >> Is boring because it's so transparent of. like and then we're gonna fight and then. he's not going to text me and then I'm. gonna not text him and then we're going. to get in a fight and then we're gonna. have this crazy sex and then I'm going. to feel insecure and then like and then. it's just like this and you're never. able to be like I feel really happy. today on this nice Wednesday. Like I. know. >> you don't have that and that just I get. it. I won't say to anyone in their early. 20s or in their teens right now like you. got to go through it. >> Yeah, you do have to go through it and. honestly like it is fun to go through it. once or twice. >> Totally. [laughter]. But it would just be nice like if you.

can if you start to feel like you're. getting fed up with it, you have you. have to also change your ways. Yes. Like. that's just Okay. Um, how did you know B. was the one? >> Because I could completely be myself, honestly. Like I felt like there was I. never had to watch what I said or what I. did or I never felt insecure in that. way. Like I felt like he loved. everything about me and he but not just. loved it, he would like champion. Yeah. It like he was so into just like me.

being a basic [ __ ] That's like so not. a dude thing to to do to be like, "Yeah, you go with like your basic [ __ ] self, you know? Like. >> he was just like really accepting and a. cheerleader." And I think that's what I. realized like I really want that for. myself. >> Totally. Totally. No, that's so cute. Like obviously I only get to watch your. life like slightly through Instagram, but you guys look like so happy. >> Thank you. >> And it's just like really cool to see. like again I literally sitting down with. you the be the best version of like a.

whole person I knew was from season 1, 2, and three. [laughter] And like. watching those seasons, I loved that. part of you, but it's also cool to sit. down with you and like get to know you. as like a mom and a partner and like. just I don't know. It's like you're you. seem great. >> You seem like you like got it together. >> I know. I feel like I got it together. [laughter] Like I think I do. >> I think so. >> Wait, so you're on tour? >> Yeah. >> And Kate went to one of your shows, my. friend, and she was like, "It is so. crazy. Like she sells out everywhere.

You are just like so personable and. outgoing and everyone loves you and like. all of your fans are amazing." And she. was like, "They're like the nicest girls. in a room." Just like loving life, being. so happy to be there. Do you like. touring? >> I love it. That was like the one thing. when CO happened that I was like I if I. can do anything ever again. Wow. I like. please let it be touring. Like I really. love it. I just love the whole process. of it. Not just like creatively putting. it's like challenging. It's like fully. challenging myself to do something. that's so uncomfortable. Like putting. together like a set like where it's like.

I'm not a stand-up comedian but like I. have to be for a second course. I have. to act kind of and then write something. for myself then deliver it and hope that. people find it interesting, right? >> And then put together segments and and. you know just I just love the creative. process of it. And then I also like the. whole traveling aspect of it, you know, like I love going to different places. and seeing smaller towns and meeting. people from different places and. checking into hotels. I don't know. I I. just I really I love touring. >> I I give you so much credit cuz I don't.

think people know how hard it is. It is. [ __ ] ridiculous how hard it is. >> How long is your show? >> Um, an hour and a half to have Axe and. yourself and everyone entertaining. people for an hour and a half live. >> No, it's like when you think about it. like I'll always like when I'm watching. everyone leave the theater like I'm in. my car and I'm like all these people. like spent their money to come here. Like they got babysitters, they took. Ubers, like they they came here. So like. if I didn't deliver like that's I'm.

letting them down. You know what I It's. not like they can just they're at home. flipping on a television show. It's like. they went out of their way like and I. appreciate that so much that they put in. that effort to come see me. So like I. the pressure is is is on. It's there. But. >> you get nervous to go on stage now or. No. >> Um there are when I know people in the. audience. >> and so how many cities do you do? >> I think we did we're doing like 25 I. think. But we're over halfway done. I. think the hardest part now I've realized. this is and when I do this again I'll. plan it differently is I can't be gone.

like six days at a time I miss. >> Hartford too much like so those last two. shows like I I kind of just like end up. not caring cuz I'm feeling down I just. want to go home and like be a mom and so. like I've realized that I think that the. next time around I'll be like okay like. 3 days. >> then we get home like 3 days then a week. >> you get exhausted by being pregnant and. touring at all. >> no okay let me tell you something. This. is going to sound extra alcoholicy, >> okay? It's okay. >> Because like I haven't sounded alcoholic.

enough this whole entire [laughter]. time, >> but I was way more low energy and tired. the first two tours that I did before co. because we would like drink and have. fun, >> you know what I mean? Like we'd have. like bloody marys on the plane and like. drink rosé while we're getting ready and. drink backstage and have appper spritzes. on stage and I just felt tired because. of that. Now I think I have the most. energy out of everyone that I'm. traveling with because I'm sober. >> Wait, no. I actually so get that. Like. you would just keep drink. I would do.

the same thing. >> Yeah. You just keep going. [laughter]. So smart. >> So now I'm sober. So I feel like I feel. sharp. I feel just way more alert and. with it and quicker and yeah. So Brian. really suits me. It's just not fun. >> You're like I know it's for the best for. me, but like the minute I have my child, I'm back on my [ __ ]. >> 100%. I'M GETTING AN [laughter] APPERAL. spritz brought to my [ __ ] room right. after I delivered. >> Oh, no. Bo literally brought me He made. spicy margaritas in the hospital for me. and he's going to do that again. [laughter]. >> The fact that you said you swish around.

an appall spritz and just hold it there. >> Hold it. >> I feel like that's what I'm going to. have to do if I ever get pregnant. >> Yeah. Or like a really good red wine. Like I'll I'll like I'll have a little. bit of red wine every now and then. Like. my doctor literally says it's fine to. like have some few sips. That's right. Everyone calm down. It's fine. Like I'll. leave it in my mouth. Like literally it. feels like for 3 and 1/2 minutes. >> cuz you just the taste. I miss the taste. so much. >> What is like coming up in your life? So. you're writing a book.

>> Mhm. >> You're having a kid. I actually love how. I didn't even have to ask you. You're. writing a book, you're having a kid, and. you're on tour. Yes. >> You're kind of thriving. >> And I have two podcasts. So like. >> Dude, how do you do two podcasts? >> I mean, when the other one's with with. with B. So like it's easy for us to just. like make time to do it. So it feels it. doesn't feel like it's as much too much. Yeah. As much work. Let's have you back. on when your hammer [laughter] is. But. that would be so fun. >> Then we really can't air it. >> It's getting toasty. >> That would be fun to do one next time we. like actually get [ __ ] up and like see.

what comes out of our mouths. >> No. Alex, this was like one of my. favorite podcasts I've ever done. This. was so fun. >> I'm so happy you came cuz I had an idea. we would be vibing. We I also feel like. we never shut the [ __ ] up. Do we have. one breath of silence of where we were. like, [laughter]. >> I haven't even heard the room tone since. we started. But I guess that's a good. podcast, right? Or everyone's going to. be like, you guys are so [ __ ]. annoying. >> Yeah, you guys are annoying. You guys. keep talking over each other. I don't. think we were talking over each other. No, >> we were two professionals. >> Yeah, we like right as you were. finishing I would pick up and it was. like, yeah, I think we had a good time. >> No, this was I'm not joking. This was.

one of my favorite podcasts I've ever. done. Like I really just had a really. great time. I had a great time and I. felt like I really could just relax and. we had like a normal fun conversation. that was just happened to be filmed for. millions of people TO WATCH. >> YES. >> WOO! You were so fun. Thank you for. coming on. This is great. Oh my god. [music]. [music].