Saweetie: Blocked Numbers & Birkin Bags (Full Episode)

What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your. founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call. Her Daddy. Sweetie, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Hey, girl. Finally. Finally. It's like. inappropriate that it took this long for. us. You know what I mean? You came to my. tour and you went so [ __ ] hard. The. Daddy Gang was taking their tops off for. you, screaming for you. Oh, you didn't. see that?

[ __ ] titties. Really? I know that's. my booty titty committee. And I had the best time with you and I. was saying to you earlier like everyone. was like, "So we don't get a [ __ ]. episode?" I'm like, "It's coming. It's. coming. It's coming." How are you today? I'm good. >> You look amazing. >> You look amazing. Can we talk about your. nails? Mhm. I feel like you're like very. known for going hard with your nails. What inspired these nails today? And. when I say these, I'm also talking about. your toenails. Well, I always get bling. on my feet. I've been wearing. um white toenail polish since I don't.

know, my 20s. I need like a a white. polish nail deal. Any other color, my. feet look weird. >> [laughter]. >> I do feel like no one can go wrong with. white toenails, but you have more than. like white on your feet, sweetie. That's. like glitter, crystals. I wouldn't be. surprised if that's a [ __ ]. diamond down there. >> It's chrome. It's chrome and some. diamonds. How long does it take to do. these nails? It can range. Sometimes. it's 2 hours. Sometimes it could be 8 to. 10 hours. If it's like free styling,

like. custom art paint and then jewels, it. takes time. It's like drawing a mural on. your fingers. What the [ __ ] are you. doing for 10 hours? Girl, I try to have. meetings. I try to like. multitask during my nail appointments. just so I can like get things done. I am like the opposite where I'm like if. I'm putting on like a fake nail, if it. takes more than an hour, I'm like, "I. got to go." They're like, "But we. haven't finished your [laughter] last. nail." I'm like, "I don't care. I have I. am like so impatient when it comes to my.

nails." And looking at you today, I'm. like, "And those are not press-ons.". Uh-uh. But what inspired these is I shot two. Christmas music videos and um I needed. to get into the the holiday season. So. these actually have snowflakes on them. and the reindeer. Wait, are you a big. Christmas person? Yes. I'm Filipino. Like Christmas is such a big deal in our. culture. Okay, cuz I always whenever. someone's coming out with Christmas. music, I'm always like, "Hold on. Are. you as obsessed with Christmas as me?". Because I go so [ __ ] hard. Like.

>> I turn to my husband every single year. and I'm like, "It's September." And he's. like, "We are not getting a tree, Alex.". And I'm like, >> [laughter]. >> Okay, real trees or fake trees? I have a. real one in my living room. Mhm. And I. go so [ __ ] hard because like the. minute fall happens, I'm I'm ready for. [ __ ] Christmas. And I want to like. edge towards Christmas. I don't want. just December to be Christmas. Like I. want the whole fall experience to be. leading up to the main event, if that. makes sense. So my entire house I'm.

decorating. But last year I didn't do. the outside of my house. Like do you do. your house? Um I just do inside my. living room. Okay, yes. >> Yeah. You're like making it cozy. Yeah, making it cozy. >> What is your favorite Christmas. tradition? Christmas Eve with my family. >> What do you do? >> Like we open up presents that night, not. on Christmas Day. Ooh. >> But like my favorite childhood memories. would be like my mom's mom cooking um. Filipino food, hella food, doing. karaoke, and then at 12:00 we'd all open. up our presents. I always used to be.

like, "Please let us open our presents. on Christmas Eve." And my mom would be. like, "One." And then I was always like. the freak that was like trying to like. open them and then rewrap them at night. [laughter] I don't know. I was like. I was like So my mom was like, "Well, then you're not getting any of your. presents." But I was like I'm obsessed. And it's just like the best time. Wait, speaking of food, I'm swerving, but I. have heard. >> Mhm. that you like a lot of like. different concoctions of food that maybe. some people would be like, "Wait, that's. gross." Can you talk to me about some of.

the things that you're pairing together. that are like random but good in your. opinion? Okay, so do you like sushi? Of. course. Okay, so like for a tuna roll. Okay. I'll get hot Cheetos and I'll. smash them up and then I'll drizzle them. over the tuna roll. That's [ __ ]. brilliant. >> It's actually really good. >> But are you bringing the Cheetos into. the. >> No, girl. Only if I like do some. Postmates to the house. Yeah. [laughter]. You would all like smuggle magic. Smuggling in some hot Cheetos. You got.

your big purse and you wait for the. waiter to walk [laughter] away. You're. like. sprinkling. Not now, though. Like I'm. not mad about it. Okay, so Cheetos on. top of sushi. I've read, is this true? Spaghetti with ranch. Finally, a rumor. that's true. >> [laughter]. >> Stop. When is the first time you tried. that? >> Honestly, I grew up doing that. Like. that was so second nature to me. So when. I had posted it the first time online, I. thought nothing of it and then I was. trending like an hour later. I'm like,

"Why is this causing such a frenzy?". >> [laughter]. >> You're like, "I've been doing this since. I was born.". >> I was born. I think also when you're a. child, like you do some stuff that like. people. I I don't know. It's like I guess like. however you grow up, right? But like. this is kind of [ __ ] disgusting and I. wouldn't do it now, but like I'm pretty. sure when I was younger I put. This is gross. I'm pretty sure I put. ketchup on my mashed potatoes. Mhm. That's Wait, but it's like a french fry. That's where That's where it comes from. >> Period. Wait, would you want to hear.

something nasty? >> Yeah. So when I was a little girl in the. middle of the night, I used to sneak. into the fridge. and eat butter by itself. And one day I. got caught by my mom like red-handed. like with a whole bunch of butter. Girl, she scared the crap out of me. She. was like, "If you continue to eat that. butter by itself, you're going to turn. into Chucky." I promise you, I never. touched butter again. >> [laughter]. >> Shut the [ __ ] up. No. You're just raw dogging it like biting.

into it, sweetie. [laughter]. I know something's wrong with me. You're. literally like like going in with your. teeth. >> Yes. Would you ever smooth it out so no. one saw it in the morning or were you. just leaving it a little like No, no, no. I was I was going in in the middle of. the night as a little kid. I I mean, listen. Butter is Look at us just fully. talking about food. We're going to talk. about food the whole [ __ ] episode. No. Um okay, your legal name is. Diamonté. >> Yes, girl. Does everyone in your life. call you that or do they call you. Sweetie? >> Um some people call me Diamonté. What do.

your best friends call you? It depends. Tell me. It depends from what era they. met me at. >> Okay. >> So um my childhood best friends, they'll. call me Didi. Didi. Um my middle school. friends will call me Sweetie because it. was my MySpace name. And that's where I had got Sweetie from. Like my MySpace was so popping. I'd be. at like high school parties or I'd be. at, you know, walking to school and. they'd be like, "Are you Sweetie from. MySpace?". Yes. What the [ __ ] were you doing on. MySpace?

>> Girl, I was coding the [ __ ] out of my. page. I was You know, in the middle of. the night sweaty finding all the codes. Girl, I was a nerd. So my MySpace was. like very aesthetically pleasing. >> Stop. You were a coder from day one. >> a coder from day one. Not even knowing. that I was coding, girl. I should have. paid for that. >> [laughter]. >> No, Gen Z has no [ __ ] idea. Like if. you missed the MySpace era, changing the. backgrounds, getting your new song. >> Hiding your song or hiding your song. that nobody knew about, you know? Oh my. god. And so people literally just knew. you because you were [ __ ] cool. I.

mean, I guess. Okay, wait. But before, now take me back. Before you start your. MySpace. >> Mhm. where do you get the name Sweetie? At my grandma. Yeah. How did she give. you that name? >> She would just call me her sweetie. Mhm. Wait, that's so [ __ ] cute. >> Yeah, and then I was signing up for. MySpace. And at the time I didn't really. like like my name how I love my name. now. Um only because people wouldn't. pronounce it right. So I was like, "I. don't want to like put it up and then. people just don't know how to pronounce. my name." So I was like, "I need some. fly shit." But then I don't want it to.

be like basic. So I put the A between. the S and the W and the rest was. history. Who knew then one day that. would be like your global name that the. entire world knows you as and not just. like a MySpace community. What you want. to know what was even crazier is I had. started like um. a business, a hat and a t-shirt. business. And my grandma was like, "I. know you're going to be a big business. woman one day. I know that you're going. to need your name." So she bought. Sweetie. Like she bought me the website Sweetie.

like when I was like I think I think I. was like 18 years old, 17 or 18 years. old. She was like, "I know you're going. to like do something. So let me just get. this for you because as a business. woman, you're going to need to trademark. it." That like gives me chills just. because like it seems like you obviously. had like a pretty great relationship. with your grandmother. >> Yeah, she's everything to me. Is she. still with us? >> Yes. Girl, she's she's 70 going on 21. What does she think of your whole career. now? Uh she has mixed emotions. She. loves it, but when she hears like the.

negative press, it stresses her out. But. she's a preacher, so she goes to like. war for me in prayer. She's like my. prayer warrior. So she's constantly. praying for me. >> What do you think stresses her out the. most and like what could be negative. about you? I think that the fact that. she knows that some of the um. the rumors aren't true. And she's just like, "Why don't you say. anything? Like this isn't who you are.". I'm just like, "It's just only going to. make the story bigger." So I choose not. to address certain things because I I. don't want to add fuel to the fire and. the best way to get rid of something is. to ignore it. So um she's just like,

"Yeah, but you know, I know my baby and. that's not my baby right there." So. yeah, she just be going through it. sometimes. But how did you decide? Like. at what point in your career were you. like, "Do not give a [ __ ] what people. say about me"? Cuz it's easier said than. done. I have two answers for this. >> Okay. So the first half, I would say in. the earlier on in my career, I would say. I would just disassociate myself from. Sweetie. Cuz there's Diamonté and. there's Sweetie. I'm like, "Okay, if. y'all knew Diamonte to know me is to. love me, y'all wouldn't be doing all.

this shitty stuff to me." Um so at first. it was disassociation, but now. I'm just so at peace with just who I am. I'm like God knows my heart. And as long as. God knows my heart, there's no problem. Sweetie, why are you getting emotional? Cuz it took so long to get here. Tell me about that. What do you mean? Like you're talking about like your. journey to get here. Oh my god, you're making me cry. >> [laughter]. >> Girl. >> Should we take a water break? We went. from [ __ ] Cheetos in the.

[ __ ]. >> know WHY THAT JUST MADE ME FEEL THAT. WAY. Cuz I think that when you are. someone that is. you know yourself like and what it took. and everything and then you read like. the [ __ ]. and it's such [ __ ] You're like, wait, this is what I'm getting reduced. to right now? Like I mean, I could be. speaking out of turn. Like I don't know. if that's your experience, but. >> Exactly. >> It's hard to be like, guys Oh. my gosh, I'm getting ready to cry. No, stop. I told myself I wasn't going to do. this today.

>> [laughter]. >> Here we are. 1:00 on a Monday. Mhm. Without getting. too detailed, I'm thinking obviously of. like if someone is listening that's like. becoming a new fan today or like knows. you but it's a little like. what the [ __ ] are you guys talking. about? Can you lightly just explain a. little bit of what we're talking about? Like are we talking romantic? Are we. talking friendship? Are we talking work. beef? Like I think it's everything. because as a public figure, all parts of. my life in those categories are exposed.

>> Yeah. But I think what I get the most. sensitive about is my art. Cuz I'm like, y'all [ __ ] don't know how much. I put into this [ __ ] you know? >> I think it is important though to. recognize like especially with artists, so much goes into it because it's a huge. part of you. >> Absolutely. >> Like you're clearly someone that's not. just being handed a script and being. like, wear this, dress like this, sing. like this. Like this is you. Yeah, I'm. very peculiar. So I have to be very. involved with everything, otherwise I'll. get the final product and I'll be like,

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Her Daddy. Love you guys. When would you ever pop off on someone? Like when are you going to actually like. What does it take? Never. >> I'd never want to go off on somebody. because the thoughts that I think are. outrageous. Sweetie. Yes, now my thoughts and I just. did my like my Vedic. um. astrology chart. >> Okay. >> And in that um in that system, my moon. is a Scorpio, so it just lets you know. like where my mind can go. So I'm like, don't [ __ ] with me.

>> [laughter]. >> For real. So you're always this calm. I. try to be. Cuz I just know I know. myself. >> [laughter]. >> Staring at you right now, you're so like. even-keeled, like calm, like it's nice. It's like relaxing actually to like be. around you. But I'm trying to envision. you like. like what it takes for someone to like. push you over the edge. But you rarely. let it get to that point. >> No, mhm. Cuz then they also win. Yeah, also yeah, let's talk about that too.

It's an energy exchange and it's just. like I'd rather alchemize the energy. Like take it and then use this energy. for something else. Like I don't want to. give that back to you. I feel like that. sometimes in romantic relationships. it can be hard not to go tit for tat and. be like, you did this and I did this. But it feel like you've kind of gotten. to a place where clearly you're like. >> Um interestingly, it's weird because um. sometimes it's like they want a response. out of you. They don't even appreciate. the um the growth. And it like annoys.

them when you're like, okay. [laughter]. No, when you're like, okay and they're. like. Wait, what? What the [ __ ]. >> I literally just called you an XYZ and. your response is Mhm. No, you doing right there. I can only. imagine. >> Yeah. That must drive people insane. I. mean. >> [laughter]. >> It's kind of a superpower. I'm I'm not. as strong as you. I I like I. I feel the same way sometimes with my. words where I'm like, I could kill you. with my words. And I I think I when I.

was younger in high school and in. college, if someone came for me or my. friend, I almost felt like worse when I. would see my friend like someone coming. for them and I knew they wouldn't speak. up for themselves. So then I was the. friend that was like, hold on, let me. get the [ __ ] in here and I'm going to. say something. But then I also realized. like, who is that helping in that. moment? Like I don't know. I feel like. sometimes I felt like being like loud. and taking charge and putting the person. down would like make me feel better. But. like you're just getting riled up and.

they're just happy that you're engaging. at the same level as them. Where really. when you're like what are you doing? >> [laughter]. >> They're literally like and they're. screaming and they're being insane and. you're like, what are you good? >> Mhm. Oh my god, they want to die. They. want to crawl into a hole. They're like, oh my god, wait, wait. So I think it's I. agree the energy level can be. interesting in the way that you interact. with someone can like heavily dictate. also the way that you leave someone. feeling about you. Absolutely and um it. still took me a while to get here. >> Yeah. >> Yeah, it I wasn't always this like.

poised when it came to my reactions. So. trust me. Like if as long as you work on. it, like you'll see yourself evolve. >> Yeah. Yeah. Your career took off after. you released the song Icy Girl. >> Yeah. And it's all about wealth and. luxury, but obviously that's not how. your life looked your whole life. I remember reading you were saying you. would go on Craigslist Yes. and stay How. did that come to be? So [clears throat]. you know, when you get an apartment, you.

have to do first and last. first month's and last month's rent. >> Yes. >> And I was like, I only got money for. first month. >> [laughter]. >> So I was like, okay, how do I how do I. um. find a loophole? And the loophole was. Craigslist because when you're renting. or subletting a room from somebody, you're only just paying for your portion. of the rent and it's their name on the. lease. So um thankfully. I had some cool roommates. Um my two. favorite Oh my gosh, bless this old. lady's heart. Um there was a there was a.

older lady in Studio City and she had a. guest house. Um and I stayed in I stayed. in her guest house and then there was. another woman who I stayed with in. Sherman Oaks. Um her I think her. roommate was had to go back and renew. his visa. So I had subletted his room. and I was just like being blessed with. all these good roommates that were. clean, nice, respectful. I was supposed. to say, you can have some like horror. stories I feel like for roommates. >> Well, honestly, you have to trust your.

gut. Like I'd go see some places and I'd. be I wouldn't like mess with the energy. and I'd be like, I got to go. You like. knew immediately. >> immediately and also a red flag um for. any. um people who do do it, anybody who is. super eager and pressing you to rent a. room, I wouldn't trust that. Yeah. That is good advice. >> Yeah, I don't know why, but when you're. when you're thirsty and eager to like. have a stranger come rent a room, like I. don't trust that personality trait. Yeah, you're like, why are you. desperate? >> Yeah, why are you desperate? Like I I I.

want I want to work for a little bit. >> [laughter]. >> Yeah, I don't know that Something just. be off a little bit. >> That is like beautiful to know though. that you had like a positive experience. with that because it's weird in life. when you like get matched up with people. that you would probably would have never. met and then that like has a lasting. impact on you and at such like a pivotal. time for you where you were like looking. for a home and trying to get to the next. step of your career and to have someone. be so beautiful and like lovely towards. you, that completely changes the dynamic.

as opposed to if you went with one of. the [ __ ] freaks that was like Come. on. Come on. We're partying tonight. Exactly. That's the vibe. >> [laughter]. >> You're like, where would I be if I took. that offer? Um let's talk about your. love life. >> Uh-huh. What's happening? Are we seeing anybody? Are we in a relationship? Are we single? >> I am seeing somebody. Yeah. Talk to me. Um their name starts with a. C. I thought you were going to say their. name. Do you want to know their their. name? Kind of. My career girl.

Sweetie. >> [laughter]. >> No. Not me being like Oh my god, [ __ ] she's. really down today. You're like, Christian blah blah. Damn. Okay, you're dating your career. Yeah. Intentionally. When did you get. off the sauce? >> [laughter]. >> What does that mean? Like when did you. be like, "I'm not I'm I'm getting off of. men for a second. I'm not dating." I.

just feel like I'm at a really special. time in my career and I just have all. these ideas and I want to channel my my. energy in a way where I feel like. I can make. the steps to where I see myself going. And. you know, I'm just really happy right. now. I'm happy where where my life is. heading. So, um I'm dating my career. I love that. answer. I think that like needs to I I. wish that was more of my answer when I.

was younger cuz I I think sometimes we. naturally feel like, "Wait, do I need to. get back out there? Like is it weird. that I'm not dating?" And it's like, "No." I think you need to go through. like long periods of time where you can. decide what your focus is and I think. that's like amazing that you're focusing. on your career. And then also, let me. say this. I feel like some people who. I've dated in the past, we would have. been better off as creative partners. Um there was this Tik Tok. You know, sometimes Tik Tok be having the. information, girl. There's this woman. and I wish I knew her handle cuz I'm so.

grateful for. um this wisdom she had provided. But she. was basically saying that sexual energy. and creative energy comes from the same. place and when you confuse the energy, you can sometimes you know, make I. wouldn't say the wrong decision, but you. can lean in more into the sexual energy, but then that ruins the creative energy. because you've already the energy. That's such a good point. Like anyone. that ends up have even if you're not in. your specific industry. Like people. listening like I get it. There's so many.

people that write in to me about like. work relationships and I get what you're. saying and that's a great [ __ ] Tik. Tok because it's like the way that you. can feel when you. complete a project or you get to the. next level of your career or you guys go. to a [ __ ] presentation and you crush. it. It's like that feeling of like, "Oh, we we have to rip our clothes off." And. it's like, "No, no, no." It's a. different way of finishing. I [ __ ] love you. >> [laughter]. >> Um. what if we were dating?

>> Uh-huh. What is it like to date you? Girl, no. >> [laughter]. >> If all of your exes were in this room. right now, WHAT WOULD. NIGHTMARE. I WONDER WHAT THAT. CONVERSATION would be like. What do you. think they would all say? Is there a a. theme? A theme? Oh my gosh. Girl, you have to ask them. >> [laughter]. >> Would that be happy vibes or like bad. vibes if exes were in this room? I think. happy vibes. >> Really? Yeah, because like I don't. really like no matter what happens, I.

like. Girl, I just be happy. I'm a hap- I'm. naturally just a happy person. So, I'd. be like, "Damn, you did some shady [ __ ]. but I'm like. my energy is so disconnected from you. that I can. I cannot associate myself with what. happened between us and just look at you. as a regular human being. Aw, that's so. nice. I think a lot of people wish they could. feel that way. Like they could not get. so wrapped up in. "You hurt me and you did this to me and. like how dare you?" Like But also,

something we have to unpack too is a lot. of men have unaddressed trauma that they. don't face and they project it on their. partners. So, sometimes I be thinking. about stuff and I'll be like, "What. happened in your childhood?". >> [laughter]. >> No, actually. No, right. So, then it. makes me look at what they did to me cuz. I know that they really love me. >> Yeah. Like I know that. So, I'm just. like, "You got some things to unpack. You should probably handle that because. if you were to handle that, then we. probably would have worked out." It's.

such a mature way to look at things. Like essentially also what you're saying. is like it has nothing to do with you. Mhm. And that's I think hard for people. sometimes to accept. Like if someone is. listening to this and just got cheated. on and you can't help but sometimes. think like, "What did I do wrong? Or. what did I not give them? Or what?" And. it's like most of the time it literally. has nothing to do with you. Which is a. weird thing cuz you almost like want to. be able to pinpoint in yourself what you. could change so it never happens again. But half of the time it's literally on.

the other individual. Like you were. doing [ __ ] great. >> Yeah. You were thriving, sweetie. Right. And I knew that I was a good girlfriend. So, it's like I'm like, "Mhm.". Something wrong with you. >> [laughter]. >> I like that answer. Okay, in one of your. songs you describe your type as someone. who makes eight figures and is eight. inches. What other qualities do you look. for in a partner? Aw, [gasps] somebody. who has high emotional intelligence. >> [sighs]. >> Moment of silence for that.

>> [laughter]. >> We're like, "Come to us.". We're summoning [laughter] you. Girl. I but legit, if they don't have. that. I agree with you, but how do you even. get to the point where you can figure. out like are they a sweet talker or are. they actually like. with it emotionally that they can hang.

with me? >> Honestly, just experience. We have to. experience a unique situation and that. tells anybody how somebody is. Yeah. That's true. Like the honeymoon stage. can be so easy, daddy gang. Like you can. be like, "Uh, love, the sex, the. conversations." And then you hit like. one bump in the road. Someone has a. problem with family or finances or. >> insecurity, jealousy. And all of a. sudden, how do you guys handle that? Right. >> It's a good point. >> Mhm. Okay.

It seems like you have a type. Do you know what I'm Do you know what. I'm. Do you know what I'm going to say? What do you think your type is? Girl, what's my type? >> [laughter]. >> You say. You say You brought it up. You brought it up. >> [laughter]. >> It's your show. Rappers. Okay, let's talk about it. >> Okay. Okay, so for example, if you're at. a high school, right? You tend to date I. mean, high school or. whatever let's just call it whatever the.

proximity is. Yes. You're going to date what you're around. And. I think that's why I found myself. in those situations because these are. the only people that I'm around. However, you know, I'd like to go to a. new environment. Ain't nothing wrong. with that. Do you think you would venture out? Well, me and my career is doing just. fine right now. So, you know. >> [laughter]. >> I like that answer though because I. think a There's nothing wrong with a.

type and I also think it's. >> But I wouldn't even call it my like a. type. I think it's just because of the. proximity of where I'm always at. These. are the people who I'm only engaging and. seeing, you know? >> Yes, I remember like. back in the day, I would talk about how. I had a pattern. Pattern is better than a type. >> [laughter]. >> Look at me being like, "No, it was just. like a little pattern." I had a pattern. of dating athletes. How is that, by the. way? So, dating athletes?

>> Yeah. You know. >> [laughter]. >> It's a. It's a It's a It'll [ __ ] you up, but. it'll make you It's just It depends. actually what sport, too. Okay, what's. the difference? So, let's break it down. for icy gang and daddy gang. >> Yeah, yeah. Okay. So, baseball players. Okay. I find that they are sometimes the. sketchiest. Really? >> Because they're on the road They have. 160 something games a year. So, they're. on the road at all times. >> Okay. And they're playing so many.

[ __ ] games. Whereas opposed to. football, it's like 16 [ __ ] games. And like they're not allowed to have. girls in the hotel room. It's super. strict for football. It's like, "We got. 16 [ __ ] games, [ __ ] Bear. down and focus." Right. Baseball, it's. like. another day, another game. And so, it's. kind of more of like a relaxed. environment. So, there's road beef in. every [ __ ] city. We got Minnesota. road beef. We've got Miami road beef. And they literally like call it road. beef. >> What's road beef? Women. OH, ROAD ROAD.

BEEF. OH, HELL NO. >> [laughter]. >> [ __ ] YOU. SO, where the like And I. remember. >> somewhere groovy. >> [laughter]. >> But just to confirm, I am the wag who. >> [laughter]. >> So, ground beef taco meat. No. So, in college, I remember I was dating. this guy and I would be around his. single like baseball athletes. And the. way that they would talk about it was so. concerning cuz it was just like every. [ __ ] city, there was a different. rotation because I think it's like.

they're just on the move and they're. looking like. It's almost like when you're in a bubble. whether you're like it doesn't even feel. like real life when I was like living. that life with them. Like they're just. every [ __ ] day is this Groundhog Day. They wake up, they go to the field, they. come home, they have a drink at the bar, they meet the girl, they go to sleep, they do it the next day in the same. [ __ ] city. So, I would say baseball. players are like lethal. >> They seem so clean-cut. >> No. Um I never date soccer players cuz. that didn't really do it for me. And. hockey players, great great butts.

Um no teeth, great butts, and they're. kind of. I thought they were better than baseball. players. Still players, but like a. little nicer. I've never been attracted. to athletes. That's probably for the. best. But then again Cuz like I come. from a family full of athletes. So, it. just always feels like like like you're. my cousin. >> [laughter]. >> Like you don't. You know Yeah, so I've never cuz I never. talked to a athlete. Really? >> Never. I think you also wouldn't have.

time for them. It's so on their schedule. and I think you have such a busy. schedule. You got to be very available. for an athlete. Like you got to be up. and ready to pick up and go their life. and you don't have time for that [ __ ]. >> girl, I literally I mean, you know this. I shot until like 4:00 in the morning. last night. And now you're here. And now. I'm here. Are you typically making the. first move or they? Um I have made the. first move before. And is that like you going up to them. and approaching them or are you what's. what are I'm not walking up. 10 toes. down. And what are you saying?

>> [laughter]. >> FLIRT WITH ME, SWEETIE. LET'S reenact it. >> I mean it just depends. Okay, okay. It's. like the the vibe and the setting, but. you're totally down to go up someone. Yeah. I love that. Like if you see. something go for it. Absolutely. What is the boldest way that you've ever. put yourself out there for a guy? >> [snorts]. >> No. Okay, this is high school. Okay. High school, [clears throat] okay. Actually in high school I talked to an. athlete. Yeah, there we go. But after high.

school, no. Done. I remember it was my. senior year and I had a crush on this. boy. And I was like, dang. I only got. one more year to see him on campus. >> [laughter]. >> The clock is running out. >> is running out. You know, he was like um. I was big in volleyball, I was doing my. thing and he was playing football and we. had a. like a athlete room where like the. football players would come review their. tapes and like we played in the same. season, so you know, the volleyball. girls would come in there and it felt.

like one big family. How do I like get him cuz he was shy. Yep. [clears throat] Girl, so it's rush. week. So I go and I was like I have a. plan. >> [laughter]. [gasps]. >> So me and my plan get together and it's. lunch and we're all sitting in the room. and finally I'm like um. I tap him. I'm like um. oh somebody wants to go speak to you. outside. He he was like, who? I was. like, you know, like probably one of the. organizations. It is rush week. And he. was like, okay cuz you know, sometimes.

they'll recruit and if you weren't an. athlete, you couldn't come into the the. room. >> Yeah. It was like taboo, like heavily. frowned upon. So we walk outside and we start walking. and he was like, who was it? And I was. like, me. >> [laughter]. >> What did he say? He started laughing. It's kind of like really really forward. and I love it. He started laughing and. he goes like, why? And I'm just like, cuz I wanted to talk to you. Did you end up going on a date? Um.

>> Hooking up? We like. >> Falling in love? We started to go to each other's games. I mean everybody was already going to. the football games because they were. winning that year and then they were. already coming to the volleyball games. because you know how the football. players got out of practice, they go to. the yeah. Um but we like intentionally. started going to each other's games to. like support each other Aw. and then we. would go to like In-N-Out afterwards cuz. like that was like the high school club. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah. Open open until 1:00.

a.m. in the morning. Um on the weekends. Um But yeah, I would go over to his. house and I guess his family would cook. for me. I would do my homework over. there. So it worked out. Um Oh, well not. worked out, but I mean like oh, what. happened? Did he cheat on you? No, I got. bored. >> [sighs]. >> So I had to break up with him. You got. bored? >> Yeah. And I was like, I think we'd be. better off as friends. Shout out. wherever you are today. We love you. >> But I was honest. You were. Yeah, I'm.

I'm very straightforward. If I feel like. something's not working out, like I'll. tell you I feel like we're not working. out. Okay, what is the craziest thing an. ex has ever done to you? Give us a. [ __ ] story. Come on, sweetie. Come. [laughter] on, this is Call Her Daddy, [ __ ] OH MY GOD. Um. It's actually happened to me twice. I. don't know where men get the their. information but I've had like I've. broken up with people and they found me. What? What does that mean? Wait. Like. they'll show up to my hotel and be like. room service. >> [laughter].

>> Shut the [ __ ] up. >> Yeah. Mhm. It's happened to me twice. Room service. >> Yes. And what the [ __ ] is cherry on top. is they try to make their voices high. pitched. They go, room service. >> [laughter]. >> I. If only there was a [ __ ] camera. outside that room and they're like. Girl, but I know. But but then it's like. they cover the peephole. Do you let them. in? I did. I did. I like, dang, you found me. How did you find me? You're like somehow.

you're spinning it. You're like kind of. romantic. You put in the work. You found. me. Girl. How have you been someone to. historically get back with exes or once. you're done, are you done? Um I feel. like once I'm done, I'm done. Mhm. Except for when they show up to the. hotel. Um. I feel like those were like mini. breakups. >> Okay. Like it was like we were going. through something. I might have blocked. them. Classic. It probably was like a. couple days or a couple weeks. Yeah. And. I'm just like it's like a a soft.

breakup, you know? Not [laughter] a hard breakup. >> yeah. Are you a big blocker? I'm a big. blocker. Send you a paragraph and block. your ass. >> [laughter]. >> And I want to see them bubbles popping. up so I know that you tried to hit send. I'm obsessed. How long cuz I'm assuming. then you unblock. I've unblocked before, but there's some people who are still on. my blacklist. It's been years. Oh. Mhm. And you don't even wonder. >> No, I don't. >> Cuz I think that I remember I had a.

friend that like we would always talk. about this back in the day when I was in. my blocking phase and she would always. say like, I don't know how you block. people. Like I need to see what they're. going to say. Like it's so interesting. to me and I'm like, really? Like I kind. of want it to just fade into the abyss. I. >> [laughter]. >> I love that. GO TO THE ABYSS. I KIND of don't know what you're going. to say and like and then you can kind of. like create what you think they would. say in your head, [laughter]. but I kind of don't want to know. Right. Okay, wow. You're hitting paragraph then. block. You're a genius. >> [laughter]. >> What is your stance on keeping gifts.

from an ex? Um it really just depends. >> Okay. You know, like if it's a custom. one of one, I'm keeping it. Custom one. of one. Yeah. Like. what is a custom one of one that you. have? You know, it's a couple things. >> [laughter]. >> Jewelry? Jewelry, purses. Purses. What's the nicest bag a guy's ever. bought you? I would say a customized Birkin. Mhm. And he sent it to me before I met him.

>> [laughter]. >> What? Mhm. I don't have I'm I'm I'm a very. talkative person. I don't have words. Yeah, it was like some player [ __ ] It. was my birthday. Wow. I was single and. you know, we were like casually talking. and he was like what's your address? Isn't your birthday coming up? And I was. like, yeah. Like, oh, that's nice. He's. going to send me flowers. What's funny is so my birthday passes a.

week my maids have cleaned you know, my. condo and he hits me up and he's like um. so did you like your birthday present? And I'm like, I never got it. And he. goes, um it should have came in this. kind of box. So then I text my maids and. they're like, oh yeah, we put the box in. the the guest room because we didn't. know what it was. So I open up the box. [ __ ] I HIT THAT GROUP CHAT. >> [laughter]. >> YOU'RE LIKE I WAS LIKE I I AM. It was nice. How long after then did you.

meet him in person? Oh, for a while. What? >> Yeah, I was working a lot. Mhm. You got. a whole ass Birkin before meeting a man. You have. the voodoo clan. >> [laughter]. >> He didn't even meet you and he knew. Mhm. But how long did that relationship go? Too long or short? Um I wouldn't even. say it was a relationship. Interesting. And I was just like my. player partner. Like Did he gift you a lot of things?

>> Yeah. Red flag. No. Cuz like he owned it. I know. I think I. think that might have been his love. language, you know? Interesting. Like I. didn't see it as like, oh, he's a trick. or he's this. Like I really appreciated. his gifts. They were very like thought. out. The amount of women watching this. that are like, note to self, find a man. whose love language is customized. Birkins. Um okay. Worst way that you found out that you've. gotten cheated on before. No. She was I've been left the room.

>> [laughter]. >> She just got up. Oh, [ __ ] my heart. bust. I could see waiting. >> [laughter]. >> Oh. Oh. OH. HOLD ON. >> [laughter]. >> IF YOU'RE LISTENING TO THIS NOT. WATCHING, SWEETIE basically just. levitated into the air and flipped off. the chair. >> I took a little sippy sip. Oh my god. Mhm. No, bad. No. Oh my goodness gracious.

>> [snorts]. >> I just spilled my water on me, y'all. I. need a napkin. Aaron King, please pick. up your phone. >> Stop reaction. Holy [ __ ] Jesus. Jesus. Christ. Okay. Okay, so. I remember I was talking to this guy, right? >> Okay. And it was New Year's and I was like, oh. my gosh, like I'm just so happy to see. this person and we go out for New. Year's, the great night and we go back. to the hotel. I'm like, oh my gosh, this.

is the most perfect New Year's ever. Like we're out of town. It's just like. the vibes were vibing. You could feel. the energy in the streets. Like love was. in the air. It's a new year, new me. It's like all these great things. happening and I'm just like. if I felt like I was in a movie. So we get back to the hotel and. I remember I had got a call from a like. a childhood friend and when I had picked. up the phone I put it on speaker cuz I. had nothing to hide and I'm like, oh,

happy New Year's. He was like, happy New. Year's. I love you. Like you've been. killing this [ __ ] Like keep going. Da. da da. So I'm like, you too. Like love. you too. Happy New Year's. I hang up. He's so like drunk that he. misinterprets the call and was like, "You Like, wow, like, okay, like I know. that y'all be doing this, this, and. that." You know, projecting. Like, he. couldn't believe that I had a a platonic. relationship with this person, and this. person's my childhood friend. Like,

nothing is going on. Okay. Um. So, he starts cussing me out. He was. like, "I would never do this to you." He was. like, "Man, you can go through my phone. My code is da da da da da da da da da da. da da da da da da da da da da da da da. da da da da da da da da da da da da da. da da da da da da da da da da da da da. da da da da da da da da da da da da No. >> I put the code in my phone. But, I'm. thinking he's probably just like drunk, you know? Right. >> Nothing like it's not the real code. So, finally. he goes to sleep. So, it's time to investigate.

Investigate. Investigate. Investigate. >> [laughter]. >> So, I'm like, okay. So, I I saved the. code. Girl, no. I said, "Shh, shh, shh.". And it goes, "Chh.". You know, it's the huh. You're like, I'm like, "Wow, that easy?" Girl, this. man has been playing me the whole time. >> No. But, I knew it was like a sickness. cuz it was like all types of women. >> Really? Yeah. Did you go for the.

iMessages first or the pictures? Um I. went. >> [clears throat]. >> I went to the assistant group chat. Wait. >> I went to the assistant messages cuz you. know, the assistant set up everything. for like. the man. Oh my. >> Oh, and then I was typing in keywords. Like. >> Genius. Genius. >> So, it was pulling up all the receipts. And girl, and I remember I had got so. sick, but then so numb that I didn't. care because it wasn't like.

it wasn't like one person. You know, you. know, like it's not you're not obsessing. over one person. It's like, okay, no, you have the sickness. >> Right. Like, this is You can't stop. yourself. >> yourself. What word did you type into. the search bar? >> Girl, anything that's used to flirt. >> like, "P U S S Y." Thousand [ __ ]. Jesus [laughter] Christ. You're like, "No, that's crazy.". >> Mhm. And so, when he wakes up in the. morning Mhm. what are we doing? Mhm.

>> [laughter]. >> Girl. Girl. Girl, girl, girl. Just know a time was had. >> [laughter]. >> I'm like, "Oh, really? You a tough guy.". Stop. So, okay, you back to the. beginning of this this episode when I. was like, "What can get you Mhm. on a. different tilt?". >> Mhm. Did you enter that different tilt. is what you're.

Girl, [laughter] went to a different. dimension. >> [laughter and gasps]. >> Stop. Girl. Girl, crazy is none of my life. My best. friend was staying in the same hotel as. us. I'm just like. I was like, "The audacity." And then. what made me like I always had add humor. to like my pain. So, I'm just kind of. like, "How dare this boy get mad over a. simple conversation, yet here you are. doing A B C D E F G X Y Z, you know?".

No, that's when it's so crazy because. I've had an ex like that where he was. cheating and I. like he would always get so anxious and. say things about me if it was like the. most innocent like we I don't even know. that person. Like, wait, what? Like, here's my phone. Like, I don't know. And. when they're so hard on you for that. [ __ ] eventually you have to be like. "Well, what the [ __ ] are you doing that. your brain is even on that tilt?" Cuz. I'm not even thinking. >> But, it made me realize that when. someone does that to you, it's because.

that's what they would do. Exactly. So, they're like Projecting. >> They're projecting from their. experience. >> Yes. Yeah. Dude, how long did you stay. in that situation and then did you. leave? Did you leave that day? Um I It's okay if you didn't. >> Um no, but um. Um let's just say um. Mhm. Yeah, girl. We were out of town and um yeah, girl. Mhm.

Mhm. Mhm. >> [laughter]. >> I've never had someone answer a question. like that. Mhm. And yet it says so many. words. Mhm. >> Mhm. >> [laughter]. >> Okay, wow. So, it ended eventually. though. Yeah, it ended. Clearly. >> Where do you draw the line of forgiving. someone when you find out they cheated?

Honestly, I was younger. Mhm. So, like I. Um. For me, it was like Oh, this is. definitely a deal breaker, but you know. when like you're in love with somebody, you're just kind of like, okay, well, I. can't just delete you out of my life. like this. >> Yeah. Um but right now, like in my adult. years, like it's definitely a deal. breaker for me. And in that moment, I. think I would like tell that person like. you probably have to figure out why. you're doing this. >> Yeah. You know? >> Mhm. That makes sense.

>> Mhm. When it comes to your music. >> Mhm. what is fair game of like writing. songs about people that have screwed you. over or you've been in love with? Like, where do you draw the line? Um. I think I I keep it ambiguous. Okay. >> Yeah. And I feel like for my album, I am. going into deeper subjects. And I'm. really excited about that. I feel like. I'm in my diamond era. Like, I've Well, I came in as an icy girl, but through.

all this pressure that I placed on. myself and all the pressure that I've. experienced with the industry, I feel. like it's pressurized me into this this. diamond that's ready to shine. I [ __ ] love that for you. Obviously, I know you've been teasing an album for. a while. When can people expect it to. come out? >> Definitely next year. Okay. >> Yeah. Why was it so important for you to. wait to release it? I feel like I. finally know myself. >> Okay. Like, when I felt like I was. constantly in this weird transition.

phase, especially with recording. Like, what am I even talking about? But, with who I am now, I know what my. public messaging is. Love. Mhm. Okay, Christmas songs. We need to talk about. this. I'm in my car. I'm like, ooh, ooh, ooh. And like we said at the beginning. of this episode, I [ __ ] love. Christmas. You love Christmas. Talk to. me about deciding to do these two. Christmas songs. Like, how did you. decide to do this? Well, you know, I. love icy season cuz I'm an icy girl, and. it's just like I got to give something. to the icy gang this winter. So, I. wanted to create like two songs that at.

least spoke to the two different sides. of Christmas. I got big Santa where I'm. like, "Big daddy, what you getting me?". And then my other Christmas song is a. little bit more, you know, softer. It's. like catered to you vibes. Not only. like, "What can you give me?" but "What. can I give you?". Oh my god. Sweetie. Mhm. It's good. Like, everything that you do and put. out, all of your music is such a vibe. And I think like again, I'm happy I got. to talk to you today for a longer period.

of time than just like meeting you on. tour. But like, watching you on stage at. my tour was such a spiritual experience, truly. >> Wow. All of us were like holding hands. and gripping each other being like, "She's [ __ ] insane." Even to the. point where my team had texted me when. you were in sound check being like, "Oh, this is going to be the best yet." Like, you guys don't even know. You're so. talented and you have such a presence on. stage and just like as a person that I. think is so exciting to see what you're. going to obviously continue to do. But.

like, I'm obviously so excited for the. album and Thank you. >> you know, we we want it, sweetie. We we. want it. Um I want to ask just because I. know obviously your fans are going to be. watching this. Like, what is one goal. that you have for yourself coming up in. this new year and like your career that. you want to like share with your fans? >> Um I want to be an action film. Mhm. Like a Tomb Raider or like a like a. Colombiana. >> Oh. >> Something with just action cuz I really. love like doing stunts. And I'm a sporty.

girl. >> Right. >> Um but I love a good heroine. >> That is the last thing I expected and. yet like I can see it. >> Mhm. Wait, are you like going to make. that happen? I would like for it to. happen. God, do you hear me? >> Yeah, yeah, like here we [laughter] go. Anybody watching this in Hollywood? Hello. Wow. >> audition too. I'm not one of those. people where I feel like where I feel. like I can just show up and get the. role. Like, I be sending in audition. tapes. >> Yeah. Mhm. I guess like last question is. like.

what do you think what do you think is. the biggest misunderstanding about you? I'm not sure what the collective thinks. cuz everybody has their own opinion. But, one thing that I do get a lot is. that when people meet me, they say that. they didn't expect this. Like, it's they like that's it's a it's. a common. response that I get. But, it's for the. better cuz they be like, "Wow, like the. compliments are different, but for some. reason there's been a disconnect with. who I am and what my perception to like.

the world is. >> Yeah. >> Mhm. That's interesting cuz I I. I guess like I agree and disagree. Like, when I listen to your music. >> Mhm. it's. so. confident. Like, you put this [ __ ] on, you're like, "I'm going to [ __ ] feel. good when I'm listening to your music.". And I think everyone feels that way, and. it's it's like a experience that you. literally feel in your body where you're. like, "Oh, [ __ ] yes. Like, I'm about to. pop my [ __ ] tonight. Let's [ __ ] go.". And then meeting you.

you are a multi-dimensional person. Like, you're not just the person that's. hyping everyone up. Like, you have this. like sweet sensitive side that I'm like. meeting today and I met in Oakland. And. I think that's something that we don't. get to see as often with artists because. understandably like. we're listening to music. >> Mhm. But when we are so fortunate to get. to also get to know the personality. behind the music. >> Right. I have found through my job and. it's my favorite part of my job when I. meet someone Mhm. and they are a little.

bit different than maybe the main public. persona that's being pushed because I. think it's again just shows people like. we don't know everything. Like you can. listen to a song and think that people. know you. You can go listen to one of my. episodes and be like, oh, she's this one. way, but Mhm. understandably like I'm. going to be different when I'm having a. fun episode versus when I'm talking. about like trauma and [ __ ] You know. what I mean? Like we show up in. different ways for different moments of. our life. Mhm. And I feel like you're. such a.

beautiful person Thank you. >> that I'm so happy that I got to sit with. you because I didn't know as much about. you as now I I'm happy to know. And like. I love you. I think you're like such a. great [ __ ] vibe and I'm so happy that. we've gotten to connect on this level. because I don't I I like sitting with. people and getting to know them more and. you're amazing. No, thank you and today. like I realized why you're number one. Stop. >> Yes, this was such uh. a comfortable, safe, and fun experience.

Girl, you almost had me crying in the. beginning. >> had me crying. >> I was heated. I was [laughter] like, mhm. Hold on, [ __ ] Don't drop a tear. No, I really appreciate you going there. with me though because again like. everything we see online, it can come. off as fake and I think when you get to. do long form [ __ ] like this. you actually get a chance to like start. to finish. Like people now are going to. understand you more. Not that you need. to give that to them, but like you're a. great [ __ ] person, so why not? So.

>> Thank you. Thank you. Oh my god, sweetie, we did it. Thanks for coming on. Call Her Daddy. Thank you.