Paris Hilton: Sex Symbol, Slut Shaming & Sliving (Full Episode)

This is Paris. Paris Hilton. Paris. This. is Paris Hilton. Paris Hilton. Paris. Hilton. Paris Hilton is the it girl. That's hot. She's been in the news. nearly two decades. An elicit tape. starring Paris Hilton hit the internet. this week. Became one of the most. recognized faces on the planet. Come on, let's go to Paris's. I want to raw. More. than 13 million people watched her show, The Simple Life. You ever had a real. job? No. All the things with social. media. First person was Paris Hilton.

You created that person to sort of get. through. She literally gave me a career. My life has been so public. I've been. talked about in such cruel and mean. ways. I've been through hell and back. What doesn't kill you makes you. stronger. Paris Hilton and her husband. got married in November of 2021. The. birth of your son and surprising the. world with her second baby and one of. the highest paid DJs in the world. in. her new self-titled memoir in season two. of her reality show Paris in Love. This.

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What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your. founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call. Her Daddy. [Music]. Paris Hilton, welcome to Call Her Daddy. Thank you. I am so happy we're finally. doing this. It's long overdue. Congratulations. You just had a baby. girl, London. How are you and Carter. feeling? We are just so happy. I just.

feel like my life feels so complete. She. is so beautiful. And it's just so cute. to see Phoenix with his little sister. And I've always wanted a daughter. My. whole life. I've always wanted to have a. little girl named London. So, the fact. that she's here now is just everything. You kept it a secret from the whole. world and your family. I'm curious like. how the hell did you keep it a secret? Was there ever a moment where like the. secret was almost blown? No, I'm very.

good at keeping secrets and I just feel. like my life has been so public. Everything I've done has just always. been so out there and I just really just. didn't want any of that outside chatter. I didn't want people discussing my. children before they were here. It was. just I don't know. I just wanted to have. something for myself for once. So, did. you It was just you and Carter that. knew. Yeah, just Carter and I. No one. knew. Like it was it was a fun like I. don't know like secret to have with each.

other I guess. Okay. Well, congratulations Paris. You're an icon. You were the queen of the 90s. You're. still the queen. You're the original. influencer. Like there's truly we could. do a 9h hour interview. You're like, "Bitch, get the [ __ ] out of my house.". But when I think about my audience, I. think about this like younger generation. who obviously knows you, but I feel like. they know you through like certain. iconic moments they see maybe in. pictures, but they don't know the. backstory to things or they know you. now, obviously. So, I kind of want to.

take a little walk down memory lane. Okay, here we go. Do you ever Google. yourself? Yes. I was googling you this. morning and I'm like every trend I feel. like that was like huge in the early. 2000s. you were starting like everything. you were putting on, people were going, people were buying. So, I'm curious, if. you had to pick three top trends that. were like your your most iconic staples, what would you pick from the 2000s? Definitely my 21st birthday dress. The.

Swarovski cover Julian McDonald dress. that I've seen so many people recreate. it, wear it for their 21st birthdays or. birthdays, and that dress is just, if I. was a dress, I would be that dress. That. for sure. Um, I love. the little like skirts I used to wear. like the mini skirts. Should be the size. of a belt because life's short. Take. risks. And the floor tracksuits. That's. why I came out with my own line. All of. these iconic things that you wore. Do.

you archive your stuff? A lot of it. Yeah. Like you have like Do you have any. of like the Razor flip phones left? Yes. The sunglasses. The sunglasses. the. sidekicks covered with Soroski crystals. Holy [ __ ] Will you ever let London use. some of your archive or is she going to. have to kind of like do her own thing? I. I definitely have been saving pieces for. her like throughout my life. I've always. kept things for one day for my daughter. I don't want to wear some of the outfits. for a little bit. You don't too much.

What is one thing that you definitely. are like I've I've saved this. I want to. give this to my daughter. just like. different pieces that I've got from like. Dolce Gabbana, Versace, just like. beautiful dresses that I know one day. when she goes to prom, she's going to. have like these epic dresses to wear. I. feel so bad for all the girls at that. prom, she's going to be like, "Oh my. god, she has arrived.". I think about your social life back. then. Okay. And like truly when you were. younger, you were the like running the. socialite scene. Obviously, your last.

name holds a lot of weight, but like how. did you get into the scene? How did you. get into these clubs? How did you become. friends with these celebrities? Well, before I moved to New York, I was living. in LA my whole life. And then I moved to. New York when I was 16. And I had lived. such a sheltered life before that. My. parents were so strict. I wasn't allowed. to go out. I wasn't allowed to go on. dates. I couldn't go to school dances. So then I moved to New York. I'm living. in the Walder Histori. All of a sudden, my sister and I are getting invites to. all these club openings, parties,

premieres, these huge events, and we're. getting sent all these designer clothes. And then we met Noah Terberg and then. started going to all of his clubs almost. every single night. And it all just. happened that way. It just kind of just. me going out. Did you ever worry about. like upsetting your family of like I'm. going to go the complete opposite way of. what every maybe other ais is doing of. like acting proper and like being a good. like Catholic girl? My mom was so. strict, but I was just such a rebel. And.

I think because she was so strict, it. made me rebel even more. Yeah. And I. think just being an Aquarius with my. ADHD, I'm just like I have a lot of. energy and I just loved going out. Like. I didn't care if my mom would be like, "Okay, you need to be home at midnight.". I would figure out a way to like sneak. out at night, put on a wig, like run. down 30 flights of stairs at the. Waldorf, sneak into like a cab, go. downtown. I just had like this thing. called club itis where I was obsessed.

with clubbing. Also, I'm thinking about. like you casually just like living in a. hotel. Did that make it harder to sneak. out or easier? harder because my parents. would tell the security, they tell the. concier, the front desk, like everyone. who worked at the hotel was like on the. lookout for me. That's why I came up. with all these disguises. I would take. like a Barbie doll, put it in my bed, have like the hair sticking out like. with the pillows in case my mom checked. on me at night. Like I just came up with. like the sneakiest ways. So if my.

daughter London ever figures out. anyways, like I know every trick in the. book. Yeah, that's so true. I'm. wondering like do you think you're going. to take the same parenting style? Like. do you think you will be hard on her? Are you going to go like easy breezy. like ah have fun at the club sweetie? I'm going to be I always was upset with. my mom cuz she was so strict but now. that I am a mom I can totally understand. like I'm going to be so terrified when. she becomes a teenager and wants to go. on dates and wants to go out like just. cuz I know how it is and just how men.

are and how people are. Yeah. So, I don't want to be so strict where she. rebels, too. So, it's really a hard. thing back then. I feel like wherever. you went, paparazzi followed. And there. is, I would say, arguably one of the. most iconic photos to this day in. history is a photo you just reposted on. your Instagram. It is you, Britney. Spears, and Lindsay Lohan in a car. And. I'm like, I think it lives rent free in.

every millennial's head. It's like it's. been on t-shirts. It's been on coffee. mugs. Like, you name it, you've seen. this photo. What were you guys doing. that night? Like, where were you guys. going? Where were you? Just like fill us. in on a little bit. We were at the. Beverly Hills Hotel and one of the. bungalows. Oh my god. And Britney and I. were there and these guys were just. being so annoying and we were just so. bored. So, we went into the bathroom. And I was like, "All right, we're just. going to like jump out this window and. get out of here." And so we locked the. door, jumped out the window, and then.

started like sneaking out to the car. just to because I hate like saying bye. to people cuz then everyone's like, "Oh, why are you leaving?" And then it's like. a whole half hour of having to say why. you want to leave. And I'm just the type. that hates confrontation. So we basically snuck out the window. We. were walking to the car and then all of. a sudden just got blasted with all this. paparazzi. and then Lindsay came over and then we. were all in the car together and dude I. had no it was just like a normal night.

out like we weren't doing anything and. the media the next day like made it out. to be like this huge deal like vilifying. us like we're bad people. It's like. we're just like young girls like going. out like everyone else does and running. away from boys. We're just like Irish. exiting from the Beverly Hills Hotel. It. just happens to be Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan, and Paris Hilton. Like, no big [ __ ] deal. It's so cool. And. like I can imagine you It must feel so. kind of cool to see like so many people. still are obsessed with these big.

moments. Are you still close with these. people? I was writing with Lindsay like. 2 days ago. I invited her to this party. She's coming to LA in a few months. So, we're going to make plans to see each. other, the babies. And then I was talking with Britney like. 3 days ago as well. And we were planning. a girls night cuz she wants to come. over. And it's amazing. We just play. dress up and hang out. We're just It's. really fun. It's cool to see like you're. all in such different phases of your. life now. You guys have babies. And to.

still be able to just like have fun and. like catch up. I think it makes all of. us in the world like we can sleep at. night knowing the girls are thriving. Let's talk about another iconic person. that is one of also the most famous. people in the world, Miss Kim. Kardashian. I'm looking at Google and. I'm seeing you guys like walking in. again getting paparazzi together and. it's so crazy to see that like you guys. were friends back then. How did you guys. meet? We've known each other since we. were little girls because our moms were.

best friends growing up our entire lives. and we both went to Buckley with each. other and then just became close in like. 200 something when I moved to my house. on Kings Road and a family friend of. ours, Fay Resnik, was my interior. designer. I was moving everything from. my one house to my other house and she's. like, "Kim is amazing. She's so. organized. She's going to come and help. you." And then we just became best. friends. We had so much fun together.

Started traveling all around the world. and she was the like one who was very. organized and I was the one who was very. disorganized. So we made like an amazing. team and we just had the best time. together. It's just cool to see now like. all of you again going in different. directions like Kim what she's built, what you have built. It's just it's cool. that you've like back in the day were. going and like drinking with these girls. and partying and now everyone kind of. has like built their own empires and I. like love that for the girls. I love it. just to see so many of my friends and so. many women building their empires and.

their businesses and just girls are. taking over the world. They are. How did. you navigate dating in your early 20s. when so many eyeballs were on you? Like. did you even enjoy yourself? It was hard. to have any privacy because from the. moment I left my house till I went to. bed at night, there was 50 cars waiting. outside with paparazzi. So, I had no privacy whatsoever. Anytime. I'd be in an event, if I even spoke to a. guy, like all of a sudden the next day I. would say that we were dating. Like.

there's just been so many things in the. media of guys that I didn't even know I. maybe met once and then the media would. just make up all these stories. and just being just having to trust. someone because a lot of these guys. wanted that attention. So it was hard to. figure out like who to actually trust. Yeah. Would you say you were the type of. girl that was like a relationship girl. or like a single girly? Like what were. you up to? I feel like I loved relationships. Like.

me being in love, like that's my. favorite thing, but I also would get. bored so easily. So I think back then I. didn't even know who I was and I didn't. trust anyone. So it was kind of just. like I don't know and so many bad things. would happen to me. people would cheat. on me, humiliate me, and then I would. have not only be humiliated, then. publicly all around the world, people. would be talking about it. So, it was. just really hard to let anyone in. Like,

I had such walls around my heart that I. never truly let anyone in. Yeah. If I. was to ask like your sister or your best. friend like what was it like dating. Paris back then, what do you think they. would say? Like, what were you like in a. relationship? I was I was very loyal. It was fun. We. were going out every single night, too. So, it's hard to really have a serious. relationship when you're every night. going to a club, something's happening.

And then a lot of times I would just be. so over the person. But again, I hate. confrontation, so to break up with them. So, I would just ghost so many people. So, I think that a lot of people would. say that I was definitely like a. heartbreaker and a ghostaster. I love. that you're like, I really didn't want. to end relationships, so it was like, I'm just going to ghost them. And like, what? Would you just like like not. answer them ever again? Never answer. them again. Basically, did you ever make. sure that a guy couldn't get into a. club? Yes. No. Yes. If anyone [ __ ].

with me, I would tell every single club, do not ever let him in. Like, I don't. even care if I'm not even there. Just. like totally blacklist them. Baller. Yeah. Like if you cheat, you basically. can't go outside cuz like you won't be. able to get into even restaurants. You. you started at the clubs in Paris is. like also restaurants in LA, restaurants. in New York. Oh wow. That's like some. power that like I feel like all the. ladies watching are like I wish I had. that power to be able to do that. Do you.

think you had a type during your 20s? Like if you could like if all of them. were in this room, was there a type. happening over there? Paris, I don't know. I look back and like. cringe at some of these people. I'm. like, "What the hell was I thinking? Why? What were they doing?" It's like. beyond like I don't know. I just look. back at some people and they're just. like not good guys. Isn't it the worst. when you're like why did I let them say. forever that they dated me? Yes. I hate. that. It's just humiliating. Or some of.

the male models are just Yeah. Interesting. Not the vibe. Um Okay. Okay, we got to talk about The Simple. Life. During this time in your life, you. get on a reality show and it's The. Simple Life and it's with you and Nicole. Richie and it premieres and like it was. literally the biggest thing. I remember. like it had like 13 million views an. episode on network television on Fox. Like it was unheard of how insane this. show blew up. Do you ever rewatch the.

show? Yes, you do. All the time. Tell me. all your thoughts. tweet. Can you tell. for anyone that's like younger that. hasn't watched it, can you give like the. premise of this reality show? The Simple. Life is basically about two best friends. who go to these little small towns and. took away our money, our credit cards, our cell phones, and we basically live. the simple life. But we have so much fun. together and constantly getting fired. from every single job and just like.

going and just like having these crazy. adventures. It's so across good. So. good. Tell me what you think when you. rewatch it. I just laugh so much. Just. it I think that show is just so. hilarious. Nicole has came over a couple. times and we go into the movie theater. room together at her house or here and. just watch the episodes and just both. just like laugh so hard that we're. crying. Did you enjoy filming it? Yes. How much of the show was actually real?

All of it. All of it. Especially the. first season they didn't let any of the. camera people talk to us. Like if we'd. be like what do we do now? They're like. not like no one was allowed to tell us. any directions. Nothing. Okay. So the. less like glamorous side was I remember. you said I think it was in your book you. said like the producers came to you and. they were like play the dumb blonde like. play it up like and I think what was so. interesting is like that is then like it. is kind of like how America then saw you. is like this like rich dumb blonde girl.

How did you handle the misconception of. you back then when everyone thought you. were actually this dumb? Well with the simple life. Yeah. The. producer said Nicole you be the. troublemaker. Paris, you just be the. dumb blonde and basically play into what. you know people would assume that we. were. And I would just put on that. character. And I think because of what I. had went through when I was a teenager, it was almost like this mask or kind of. like a protective.

shield in a way. And then when I would. go and do interviews on like the late. night shows and everything, people. expected me to continue being the. character cuz it would be weird if all. of a sudden I was just myself. And then. I just kind of got like stuck in that. character almost. And. I don't know, it was difficult sometimes. for for people to have so many. misconceptions and assume that I was. something that I wasn't. Yeah. But I. don't know. I also just was like having.

a good time and laughing all the way to. the bank at the same time. So, it was. fine. That's what I think is so. fascinating is like I remember in middle. school it was like cool if the girl was. dumb. Like it was like hot if the girl's. just like dumb. And I now look back at. that and I'm like what? I can see. obviously what the producers were doing. It was so brilliant. But I think for. your real life, did you ever start to. like resent that character? not resent. it, but sometimes I would just be like,

"These people have no idea." But. something I've always loved to do is. prove people wrong. Yeah. And I know. that I've definitely done that now. And. people can see that I'm not a dumb. blonde. I'm just very good at pretending. to be one. I couldn't agree more. I feel like in. your documentary, I feel like we got to. really see like so many different sides. to you. And actually, I think a lot of. people were like, "Oh my god." like we. had no idea this whole time like how. smart this girl is, how aware she is of. this brand that she's built. And I think.

I remember something people were so. fascinated by was like when you kind of. talked about like the two different like. voices you will use and kind of like. interchangeably like there's the high. pitch and then there's the more like. chill voice. And I'm curious like how do. you decide when to do which voice? It's. something that I've been doing for so. long that I can't even like control it. Like when I get shy, the voice will go. up higher. and then when I'm just like feeling a. little bit more relaxed, it's more. lower. But sometimes I had to tell.

myself like Paris, just talk in your. normal voice. But I just I don't know what it is. It. just I think just from so many years of. doing it, it's just become a part of me. Like you did the high higher one for so. long that I think that's why in the. documentary it you were more in your. like normal tone and I think that's why. so many people were like Yeah, they were. shocked. What does your most like authentic. version of you look like? Me just chilling in like my tracksuit.

with my socks, no makeup, hair pulled. back, puppies all over me, and just being at home with my husband. and my puppies and my babies. I love the. specificity of the socks. Yeah, I love. socks. watch that be like the one thing that. trends from this episode. It's like I. love socks. Socks are hot. Yeah. Um, okay. I do want to talk to you.

about one thing that I think is like was. very like huge sadly in pop culture is. like you have spoken about a lot of. really like traumatic sexual experiences. that you've had in your life and I think. so many women have been able to connect. to you even more because of how open you. decided to be especially in your. documentary. It was like it was. incredible. Yeah. One of the things that. I think was really like so public was.

when you were 19 and you had filmed a. sex tape with your current partner at. the time, your boyfriend, and then a few. years later he decided to leak it. without your permission. And obviously. the concept of like revenge porn is so. huge nowadays of women struggling to. like have any autonomy over their body. essentially. Can you take me back to the. moment when you found out that video had. been leaked? Call Her Daddy is brought. to you by Airbnb.

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someone on my team and they told me that. one of the entertainment shows received. a 30-se secondond clip and I did not. believe it. I was like what? I'm like. that has to be fake. Like there's no way. cuz I didn't even remember making it and. then they sent it to me and just. I just like felt like. my whole world was ending. Like I was in. hysterics crying. I didn't know what to. do. I didn't even want to fly back home.

to LA because I knew as soon as I landed. there would be so many paparazzi and. reporters waiting. And I kept changing. my flight and just staying in Australia. with my sister. I didn't know what to. do. They wanted me to go back to LA. because The Simple Life was about to. come out. I was supposed to go on a. press tour for that. I was like, there's. no way I'm doing that. I canled. everything. And then just going back home, I just. didn't want to leave my house. I was so. depressed. I was so humiliated. I felt.

like I had let down my family, my little. brothers, my sister. Like, it was just I. put so much shame on myself. And now being an adult and looking back, I just realized that shame should not. have been on me. I was a teenage girl, someone who I loved and was with in a. relationship and who I trusted. This was. pre- internet, preocial media. I had no He promised me no one would.

ever see it. And. it was just. one of the most traumatic things I've. ever experienced. And looking back now, today that would all be illegal. Yeah. And people were so vicious and so mean. and just the whole world watching it, laughing about it, every late night host. just talking about it, making jokes and. it's something that will haunt me for. the rest of my life. Just one night with. someone who I loved and trusted. I'm.

curious like in the moment cuz I I. what's so frustrating about sex tapes is. what you're doing is what everyone does. you're having sex, you decide to film. it, but can you take me to like were How. did you feel about it when it was being. filmed? We had been together a while and. he was pressuring me and being like, "Oh, let's do a tape." And I was like, "No, I don't want to." And then he was. like, "Okay, fine. If you won't do it, I'll just call someone else." And kind. of like threatened me in a way like,

"Okay, if you won't do it, then someone. else is going to come here and do it.". And I was just so dumb and so like young. and naive that I gave into it because I. was scared that he would have someone. else come over. But now looking back, if. I someone would say that to me now, I'd. be like, "Fuck you." Like I never want. to [ __ ] look at you again. So it just. makes me I don't know sad for myself. that I. let someone manipulate me like that. And. now for the rest of my life, people are.

going to judge me on that and assume. that I'm like a [ __ ] because of one. night with someone. That's what's really. [ __ ] up. And I feel like I've every. time any woman is like exploited in. media, I feel like it takes so many. years for people to have the. conversation about like the [ __ ] shaming. that you endured. Like can you talk a. little bit about like how you handled. like everyone was like you I remember. you wrote in your book I wrote it down. the world thinks of me as a sex symbol. and I'm here for that because symbol.

literally means icon but when people saw. that sex tape they didn't say icon they. said [ __ ] and they said [ __ ] like when. you look back and now even having like a. daughter on like yourself like how do. you think that should have been handled? I think that they should have looked at. it in a way like this is a teenage girl. Like we shouldn't even be talking about. this. Like this person should be in. jail. And the fact that people were just so.

mean and like thinking it's funny. Like. it was just. it was disgusting just to have to see. just what I don't know just misogynistic. people people just being so. judgmental and I don't know everyone. vilifying me. and then celebrating him like it was. just. and then for people to think that I was. in on it as well. That was the the part.

that pissed me off the most. where. people thought that I was involved in. this cuz that was the last thing that I. would ever want in my life. Like I. always looked up to all these amazing. women and I felt like when he did that. to me, he took all that away from me and. I could have have never been the person. who I wanted to be. Yeah. I feel like. something about being this like Yeah. sex symbol, this like hot woman that. everyone looked at in not even just. America, the world. Like I'm curious. like how you felt about yourself and.

your sexuality behind the scenes while. everyone else was like getting off to. you watching your sex tape, talking. about your body, your looks. Like how. did you feel? It just made me scared about anything. that had to do with sex. Like after that. I was so closed off. I didn't want to. hook up with anyone cuz I was just. nervous. Like I would date people, but I. would only kiss them because I would. just be nervous to do anything else. And.

then the whole world is assuming, oh, she's this sex symbol. But deep down. inside, like I didn't even want to let. anyone do anything to me. Yeah. But. everyone because of that tape assumed. that I was like doing that every night. with people, right? Yeah. That's. something that like I I remember I. struggled at the beginning of my show. was like I remember I went through like. a really weird period with sex because I. felt like I. like was speaking about it so openly. that then when I met guys they thought.

like oh she must be like doing some. crazy [ __ ] in the bedroom. And it's like. sure if if I love you and we're like. having a great intimate bond but like it. there was almost like a pressure I. started to feel like I was putting on. myself. And I'm curious like reclaiming. your own sexuality like how did you. handle connecting with a man? It took me. a while just like people even gave me. the nickname of Miss Blue Baller and. that's what people would call me because. I wouldn't do anything.

but then in the public people assumed. something else and then I kind of just. I don't know played into the character. and like doing the Carl's Jr. commercial. doing all these really sexy shoots. So, kind of like exuding and like showing. this kind of sex symbol vibe, but deep. inside I didn't feel that way at all. Yeah. It's so weird like men will never. understand. It's like you there's a way. to like yes progress in the world. through your looks and through like in.

moments like playing the game, but then. it also doesn't like negate the fact. that like you are a human being and like. you are going home at night feeling so. over sexualized. And it's just like. there's it's a hard like dichotomy of. like wanting to be seen for who you are, but also recognizing we still live in a. man's world, so you're going to play the. [ __ ] game in some moments. And I. think the sex tape thing, I I agree with. you. I think it was like it's the. perfect example of like how wrong the. world is with like why was it all about.

you and how much of a [ __ ] and a [ __ ]. you were that what you had sex with your. boyfriend. It's like why is he not like. a predator at this point for like. putting something out like that? And I. think it I don't know. I just get. frustrated when like the narrative is. still so skewed. Like we still see it to. this day. If something comes out about a. woman, you're not being like, "Well, who. put it out?" Well, the man did. It's all. on the woman. So, I appreciate you. sharing that because I just think it's. like important to like you are now a. mother and like you have built this.

empire and I do think it's important. sometimes to talk about these things cuz. it reminds people like something from. your past that felt like the end of the. world in that moment. Like it does not. define you. I appreciate you talking. about it cuz I know it's it's a lot. Thank god it's a different time. Like I. feel like there's just been there's a. lot of work to do, but I think there's. been a lot of progress and. also like I think it's really amazing. that you're so open about talking about. things because that I don't know when I. listen to your podcast. That's why I was.

scared to do your vlog cuz I'm like, "Oh. my god, I'm so not used to talking about. sex and things. and but you I just it's amazing how you. use your voice and you really inspire. others to just be open about who they. are." Thank you. Okay, we're gonna play. her a little rapid fire. Okay. What is a. recent purchase that you spent too much. money on? Don't lie to me. At Chanel in Paris. during fashion week, but it actually. wasn't my money. My husband is so sweet.

He's like, "I want you to have like a. pretty woman moment." He's I was going. on a sister trip to Paris with my little. sister and for her birthday. So, he's. like, "Here's my credit card. go and. spend whatever you want. And it was our. 46 month anniversary. So, it was just so. sweet that because no guy has ever done. that to me and said like, "Here's my. card. Like, go into Chanel and buy. whatever you want." So, I guess it. wasn't me. But what did you buy? Everything. I bought these shoes, so.

much jewelry, so many purses, sunglasses, just like it was so much. fun. I love you. But you're like, uh, like I. didn't even I love how my question is, "What did you spend?" You're like, "And. it wasn't even my money." Ladies, that. is the way to do it. Take his card. Daddy, have you ever been like the one that was. like having to buy boyfriend [ __ ] Like, were you always the one that was like. the bread winner? A couple people. Those.

models, man. I feel like. it's it's just not attractive. I just I. don't know. Right. Like get your own. credit card. Yeah. It's beyond like. there's been some people and just like. lose all respect for them and then. you're just like their total boss and. you're just like I can't even look at. you anymore. Call Her Daddy is brought. to you by Whiteclaw. I don't know who. needs to hear this, but you're way too. hot to be spending the summer sitting. inside scrolling on your phone. What are.

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Paris, I was literally gonna say, are. you ghosting the people? It's like an. aunt that's like, Paris, can I have. this? Just ghost. No, if it's someone. who's like I feel bad for them and like. they're like a nice person, but then. there's other people who are just greedy. who don't want to work and they're just. like ghost. Yeah, ghost. Okay. What is a. guaranteed way to give you the ick that. greedy [ __ ] That. And when people are. really like sweaty and they come up and.

they want to give you a kiss on the. cheek or they it's like the European way. and they go like twice or in some. countries it's three. So it's like. sweaty. So I was like like you know you. have sweat on your face. Why are you. doing this to me? And that happens a. lot. And like you have what I can say is. like afterwards I'm like I need whoever. like whatever skin care you're up to. over there. You don't need any sweaty. lips but like I like need all your Can. you tell us your skincare routine? Yes. Well, it's my skincare line. Right. Right. And I'm just obsessed with.

anything to do with skincare. My mom. taught me all about it when I was 8. years old. So just using the serums and. the eye creams. And now with all this. tech, I built this living spa. downstairs. I'll show you it after. It's. like this fullon spa that has all this. like equipment you'd see like in like a. medical place with like huge machines. and like hyperbaric chamber, cryotherapy. machine, like hydroacial like these like. lasers and things that like tighten your.

skin. It's I've never done any Botox. I've never done a filler. I'm 100%. natural. Wait, so do you go down there. like every morning when you're like, "Bye, Carter. Grab your coffee and be. like four hours. Let's get into it." I. do it on the weekends, but then like. during the week sometimes if I'm doing. calls or emails or things like that, I. can just like kind of lay in one of. these things and kind of just multitask. I'm such a multitasker. Do you ever do. Zoom calls from like the chamber? Yes.

The chamber is amazing. It looks like a. spaceship. It can fit four people. Do. you think that your friends really truly. love you or are they just coming for the. spa aspects? Because I'm like, Paris, what are you doing this weekend? Wow. Okay, that's amazing. That's like goals. Okay. Um, what is your biggest. insecurity? Just how shy I am. I get. especially like being out I'm get so. socially awkward.

and ever since like the pandemic it's. like gotten worse where I'm just so shy. and I wish that I wasn't that way. Like. why? Cuz you think people would expect. something different when they meet you. I don't know. I just get really just. weird. I don't know. I'm just very shy. when it comes to speaking with people. and meeting new people. And sometimes I. just get so overwhelmed with so many. people coming up. So I wish that I was. more confident in that way where I. wouldn't feel so shy or like my cheeks.

get so red and I hate that. You're doing. great, sweetie. Thanks. You're doing. great today. When was the last time you. cried? Last night. What happened? That. was a good cry. I was on the plane and I. just posted a video on TikTok of my. little baby and just reading the. comments. people are so sweet and just. showing him so much love and just the. things that they're saying to me just. touch me so much and it just makes me. cry. Yeah, I cry like every day reading. people's messages and just reading.

people's messages saying like you. inspire me or thank you for what you've. done using your voice and just girls and. people who have been through the same. thing as me and just hearing just how I. touch people like that just touches me. so much. such a sensitive person. That. just reminded me like I feel like you're. someone that doesn't address drama. Like. you're kind of like don't care, don't. give a [ __ ] And I can I ask you kind of. about like your decision recently. There. were people being like absolutely. disgusting and awful online about your. son and you spoke up about it. Like how.

did you decide to say something? I feel. like my mama bear instincts came out. Like you could say what you want about. me, but this is my little innocent. angel, an infant. And the fact that. there's people that are that sick in the. head that they're going to go and talk. like that about a little baby was just. so wrong and just so hurtful. And. I actually just wrote back a comment on. TikTok to someone and then the press.

took that and then said that I made a. statement. But then after someone asked. me and then I just said how I felt. Yeah. Cuz I just don't think it's right. And I think it's just so cruel that. people would be mean about a little. baby. It's like disturbing how like. casual people think it is to just like. leave comments that are so nasty on. people's pages as if it won't affect. you. And I think sometimes, especially. if you have a lot of followers, people. feel like you don't see it. But here you. are sitting being like, I love my fans.

I read so many of their comments. I am. crying on the plane because they're. being so sweet. So obviously you're. going to see the mean ones. And I agree. I think when especially when it's not. about you, it's like it's your platform, you know, people are going to like come. at you, but when it's about a baby, you're like, "What the [ __ ] is wrong. with you?" Yeah. Like have serious. issues. What is something people would be. surprised to find in your home that they. wouldn't expect? The big alpacco and you. walk in. Wait, what? It's not real. It's.

Kim and Chris and Chloe when Phoenix was. born delivered this like huge alpaca. that is like 7 feet tall. It's the. cutest thing in the world. So I have it. in the front entrance next to my big. like this big giraffe that has like a. chandelier coming out of it. Oh my god. It's really cute. I'll show you. Do you. have like a specific like love for. alpacas or it was just like a random I. love alpacas. Okay. And so they knew. that and so they're like here you go.

Wow. I will say I did your photos around. your house are fabulous but like there's. so many photos of you around this house. that I was like I wanted to like take a. picture of every single I'm like you. look amazing in all of them. Is Carter. like can we throw one up of me? He has one of me and him. There's a one. of them. It's a painting I got for one. of our annivers or month anniversaries. And it's like the picture of our first, not our first kiss, but our first public. kiss at this Christmas party we've been.

dating a month. And we were just like. making out. And then Paris Jackson was. like, "Can I have your phone?" And took. like a bunch of pictures of us that are. so cute. Because it was like our first. like pictures because we were only. dating like a few weeks. So, it's not. like. she'll. always paint. That is so sweet. Wait, did you own this house before Carter you. and your relationship? No, I was living. at my other house. Oh, wow. So, you.

moved in here and you said, "Carter, back up. All the photos are going to be. of me. You just relax." He loves it. He. loves it. So sweet. That is really. sweet. That actually is way better than. the guy being like, "I want mine up. there." there. You're like, "Oh my god, if there was a guy who had pictures like. this like I do everywhere, I would." You. are so beyond. If you had ended up with. the model, yeah, what is the craziest. rumor you've ever heard about yourself? There's lots of those as well. One of.

the craziest. people once said that I was dating. Michael Jackson. Oh, which was just the. most random rumor ever. So, I've known. him my entire life. My mom and him were. best friends growing up since they were. 13. So, he was like part of my family. And then I don't know how it came about, but like one article wrote one day that. we were dating. And that was just such a. random thing cuz he was like my uncle. So, I was like, "What?". That is probably I don't know if I'll.

ever be able to ask someone that. question again on the show and get a. more iconic answer than, "Oh, the fact. that everyone thought I was dating. Michael Jackson." Okay. I think it's so. so adorable that you are married to. Carter, but you guys have known each. other for 15 years and you didn't start. dating until 2019. Yes. Talk to me about. that day. Like, what made you change. your mind? I wasn't even looking to date. anyone. I was single for a year at this. point. I went home to the Hamptons for. Thanksgiving and then my mom said, "Oh,

we're going to go to my friend's house. for lunch. Do you want to come with me?". And I was like, "Okay." And I walk in. and I see like this guy sitting there. and he's got the biggest smile and then. he was just so sweet. He was with his. mom and he was just like just so. attentive with her and feel like you can. tell a lot about a man by the way he. treats his mom cuz you know that he'll. be a great husband and father one day. And he was just so different from. everyone else. like he was just like.

this sweet cute nerd and just so I don't. know I was just like getting all like. nervous and shy and we had lunch. together that day and then we came back. that night for Thanksgiving dinner and I. was just like thinking about him all day. like googling him like looking him up. and then seeing like he was like this. brilliant businessman and like he was. someone I'd known for so long but I feel. like timing is everything and I was not. ready for a nice guy back then. Yeah,

because I didn't even know who I was at. this point. And this was right before my. documentary was about to come out. So, I. was on this whole like journey of. self-discovery and like learning who I. was. And then that night, I was having. dinner and then I was like, "Let's go. outside." We went outside and I just. went for it and just like started making. out with him like against the tennis. court like chain link fence. And. ever since that night, that was like it. We've never spent a night apart after.

that. I It was like, damn. It was hot. It was hot. I love also that you're. saying like he wasn't like you're like. what you normally went for. Like, can. you give girls advice listening of like. they're stuck in their ways. They have. this one type. They think it's their. type. Like why should we sometimes. venture out and go something for. something different? I'm just so happy I went for someone. different because someone who's not in. the scene, not in the industry, he. doesn't care about fame, he doesn't care. about any of that is a total opposite of. anyone that I've ever been with.

Amazing. And I feel like if you're. dating the same type of guy and it's not. working out, maybe it's good to try. something else because you never know. And now I've never been happier. I just. feel like I found my my person, my other. half, my home. I'm feels just so at. peace. before I was just always just. like wanting something else and like. always looking to see like what else was. out there and I never was settled down. and with him it's like I I just I know.

that we were meant to be like I feel. like my grandma and his dad are in. heaven and they like talked and we're. like we need to like hook these two up. like something like I feel like it's. really fate. It's amazing. How long did. it take you for him to like to show him. like the real Paris? We I had never like. really shown myself to anyone. So it it. it was just like he came over the next. night and we had a date at my house and. he's like I want to get to know the real. Paris Hilton and I was just so shy and.

you're like no. I drank like a bottle of. rosé. and then I was able to like be more. comfortable with him and then we just. started getting closer and closer. But it was Yeah, it was like the first. time I had really done that. I don't. know. I was like, amazing. You kind of. like I guess that's kind of Yeah, like. how you would know is like you kind of. just went right into it and knew as. opposed to like you could be talking to. someone for years and you've never shown. them. Like the fact that it was kind of.

like the next night you're like, "All. right, let's start." Like that's. amazing. What qualities does he bring. out in you that you now like about. yourself that you maybe didn't. get to like like exude when you were in. other relationships? Just he makes me feel just so safe. I. think before I was always just on edge. I was always like, "Oh my god, this. person's going to do this. They're going. to cheat on me. They're going to do. that." And I with him I just know that's. not going to happen. And so he just.

makes me feel like calm, like I could be. myself. Like he lifts me up in so many. ways and supports me in everything that. I want to do. And he's also just he's so. organized and like so smart. And then he. just helps me be my best version of. myself. like feel like I've never felt. just like happier, more fulfilled with. my business, with my personal life, with.

just everything. Like we're custom made. for each other. When you were saying. that that you feel so safe, I was like, where did I see this? That didn't you. have like a MacBook for every single. boyfriend you had? Yes. Can you explain this logic? Every single. boyfriend you had in your life, you. would get a different MacBook for that. period of your life. Yes. Explain. This. was because before my boyfriends would. get so controlling and so psychotic.

They'd be like, "I need to look through. your your iCloud photo thing." And like. wanted to look through the albums and. everything. And if there was any picture. of an ex or a guy, they would like start. erasing it, screaming, going crazy, throwing the computer at me, hitting me. Like, it was terrifying. Like I dated so. many [ __ ] and really abusive people. So I just had like trauma. So I was. like, I need to get a new computer every. time because they're going to go into.

it. And I didn't want to erase all my. memories. I think that's [ __ ] up when. people make you erase [ __ ] It's like, okay, we all had a past. It's okay. It's. like memories are good. What is a mom. skill you have that people would be. surprised to know about you that you're. like finding yourself like now in. motherhood? you're like, "Ooh, I kind of. have this down or I'm good at this or I. like this about myself." I'm good at. bedtime lullabies. Just like I can put him to sleep so. easily just by holding him and singing.

Stars Are Blind. Give me a little something right now. Go. ahead. I'm going to close my eyes. I'm. so shy. I can't even do it in front of. you. [Laughter]. What if I don't look at you? Let's sing it together. Okay. Okay. I can envision it. I heard. like a little like even Oh my god.

That was actually good. Yesterday. Honestly, as long as it's putting him to. bed, you're good. Okay, last question. Obviously, your fans are so obsessed. with you. They will follow you to the. end of the earth. What can they expect. next? I know you just referenced the. book, but like tell me everything about. everything. What are you doing? What can. they expect? Well, the book is going to. be turning into a TV series. with A24 and the Fanning Sisters. producing it with me. This is like what. we've all been waiting for is like we.

need to watch this on television and. like you knew that, but you had to wait. for the right moment. This is that is. amazing. Oh my god, I'm going to be. glued to the TV. That is so so exciting. And so you're going to be helping. produce. Yes. So, we're just getting the. writers right now and I'm just so. excited for this project and my new. album. I've been in the studio. executive producing my full album. that she's going to be here tonight. I. love her so much. She's most brilliant.

songwriter of our time. I'm so honored. to be working with her. Megan Trainer. has written me so many epic songs. The. album is so sick. here to save pop. music. She's back. Paris, I can't thank you. enough for coming on. It was like truly. well overdue. Everyone is going to be. obsessed and just thank you for giving. me your time and I'm just so happy that. we got to do this. Honey, thank you. Thank you. Woo. [Music].

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