Anitta: Daddies, Dating & Dancing (Full Episode)

What is up, Daddy Gang? It is your. founding father, Alex Cooper, with Call. Her Daddy. Anitta, welcome to Call Her Daddy. >> Thank you. >> Daddy Gang, we are in the presence of. truly someone that is just doing it all, and I'm honored to be sitting with you. today. Anitta is the most successful. Brazilian artist to ever come out of the. country. Billboard magazine has called.

her more influential than Beyoncé, Rihanna, and Lady Gaga. What the [ __ ]. >> No. >> No big [ __ ] deal, Anitta. >> In Brazil, maybe. >> Uh, I don't know. International, let's. go. >> You also are nominated for a Grammy this. year for Best New Artist. Congratulations. >> Thank you. >> It is like your career is incredible, and watching you grow has just been so. [ __ ] cool, but I know you from when. we met at the Baby to Baby Gala.

>> Yeah. >> I need to hear what your favorite moment. is from that event, because I I know we. met like briefly, but we were sitting. next to each other. I was dying. You. were so funny. You're so charismatic. You have such a personality. What do you. remember from that event? >> I think our table was so fun. We had. like very fun people with us, and we had. fun just talking about things that. people would never talk in a fancy table. of auction, you know, dinner. I don't. think. >> Yes. Anitta and I are like, we meet, and.

2 seconds later, Anitta's like, "So, like, how does your vagina smell?" And I. was like, "Hey, girl, what's up?" We're. like, "Let's talk about our butt holes. and our vaginas as like a corporate. Spotify person is sitting directly to. our left. My favorite was also when. they Not that like everyone knows the. Baby to Baby Gala, but so there's like. angels that work at the event. >> [laughter]. >> AND SO. >> OH MY GOD. >> [laughter]. >> SO, ANITTA is like chilling and like now.

it's like towards the end of the night. Like people have left but like people. are saying so Anita is like, you know. girl like I got an early morning like. I'm going to dip out and I'm like. totally get it. I'll be leaving soon. So, everyone in the crowd is sitting and. they're like hey can all the angels. stand up? To give people context it's. about 11 women in a crowd of 300. And they go everyone all the angels. stand up. Anita just starts standing up. She's like bye everyone I got to go and. it's a dead silent room and she's like. wait and I'm like Anita it's only the.

angels. >> It's worse than that. It's worse than. that. >> Tell us. Tell us. >> mind I thought it was she was telling. she was calling all the women angels. Stand up all the women and I thought all. the women was GOING TO STAND UP. That's. why I stood up. >> like this is a perfect moment for me to. like sneak out the back door only 11. people of like 300 and Anita literally. gets sat down she's like mother [ __ ]. >> That was terrible. >> It was it was a great moment. Let's kind. of go back through like your life a. little bit to get to know you better.

What was life like where you grew up. outside of Rio de Janeiro? What was it. like? >> don't think when when they see me or. they see like my songs and whatever they. don't imagine that I come from like the. communities. It could be called the. ghetto a little bit. It's like the. favelas when you go to Brazil there's. like communities places that like the. houses are really close to each other. It's a really like humble place simple. I come from a place like that. I was.

born and raised in a place like that. My. mom used to do the best she could to. fake the danger and the bad sides of it. for me and my brother. So, we all see everything with like this. beauty and playing in the streets things. like that very like. very like in the hood you know? And and. but she always told us that. a way for us to leave there it's not. that we don't like there, but we all. want to leave cuz we want a better life. So, she always said that the only way to. get out would be studying and we always.

did the best we could like studying and. doing like all we could and um I always. loved music. So, I started doing music, but also like studying everything. I was. my own manager for like 10 years. Me and. my brother were partners. So, it was a. whole job not only from arts, but also. like business. >> When and at what age did you realize. your love for performing and. >> Oh, no. Since since I was a little kid, I was already like singing and when I.

was 3 year years old like 4 or 5, I was. already singing and my family used to. ask me like these these questions like. what are you going to be when you grow. up, whatever and I always used to be be. like I'm going to be famous. I'm going. to be an artist. I'm going to have a. pool in my house. Blah, blah, blah, blah. That was. literally me. >> So, you kind of always knew. >> Always. I would pass through some pass. by some places that I knew it was like. TV places like studios or whatever and I. used to open the window or go to the bus.

window and say like, "You guys are going. to see me. I'm going to work here. Blah, blah, blah." 9 years old. I was always. like this personality kind of crazy. >> I love that so much though because I. think sometimes you have to have that. energy in order to get to where you live. get. >> sure. I was sure. It was not that I said like, "Oh, I want to be." I was sure. I was I. would tell my family where I was going. to live, how my house would be, the TV.

shows I were going to be, the people I. were going to meet. I would be like that. when I was a kid. I could literally like. see and dream about this and like my. family was like, "Okay." cuz it was a. very humble life. So, they would never. prospect that in my life. >> Totally. they would be like, "Okay.". huh." And I was like, "You guys don't. understand. I'm not saying I want to. I'm going to. be there.". >> Right. Like, there's no option. It's. happening. Do you guys want to come. along for the ride or not?

>> Exactly. >> Who were some artists that you admired. growing up? >> Mariah Carey was my first one. >> She was your first. >> diva. I And I had the the opportunity to. tell her that. And it was crazy. And to. be on the phone with her for hours, that. was also crazy. For me, she was the number one forever. >> And um. then Rihanna. And now I I'm sponsored by. Fenty. I did the Fenty show. I do like. photo shoots for Fenty. It's crazy.

>> Even when you're saying that, like, does. it still feel surreal like how much. success you've had? >> I think we should always remember. because um. sometimes, and I think the industry does. this to us, they push us to think that. we need always more. More and more and. more. And I think nowadays with the. internet, it's kind of impossible for. you to reach everything, everyone, every. time. You got to be happy, also. You got. to take time for yourself, also. So, I.

think that uh this speech that I used to. have for my life for many years, like, "You can be more. You can do more. Never. stop. Never give up.". I was like that. And when I was like. that, I couldn't see those things that. happened in my life. I would be like, "Okay, yeah, I met Mariah. Okay, yeah.". I loved it, but I couldn't like look and. be like, "Wow.". Nowadays, for me, it's like, "Yeah, we. can definitely give up. We can.

definitely go rest. Take a nap. Go to sleep. We don't need. all the money in the world, you know? A. person the money doesn't mean happiness. And the many as many number ones you get. in your life, that's not going to make. you happier or not. So, for me it's like. every single thing that happened that. happened in my life, I learned how to. stop and be like, "Wow. Look at what I did. This is so" and then. live that moment again. I got to this. reflection when cuz last year I got.

super sick, right? Super sick. I. couldn't do anything. I couldn't go. upstairs in my house. I couldn't do. anything. Literally, for 3 months I was. like. And um I thought literally that I was. going to die. It was a whole thing. And. then um. I was in the hospital for so long. And. then I was like, "You know what? I was. just working, working, working to reach. everything and thinking I still didn't. have enough. And now I'm here.

And what did I get from life? >> Like. >> Did I enjoy it? Did I have fun? Did I do. nothing? Did I And the thing that I. wanted the most was like to travel, to. have more free time. And but today is. too much. For you to be successful, you. got to be on. Instagram, YouTube, TikTok, Spotify. It's. It's so many things that you got to do. We're just one human being. >> It's too much. >> How can we do all of that? It's a lot. So, I'm not up to waste my life.

searching for for things anymore cuz I'm. almost 30 now. I'm 29. And I do think it. was important and amazing for me to do. that for so many years. But now. I just want to rest. If I get more. success, amazing. If no, amazing. >> It's okay. Your birth name is actually. Larissa. Do you mind sharing why and. when you started going by Anitta? >> So, um my name Larissa is very common in.

Brazil. Anitta is a name that there was just one. character from a series called Anita. And I wanted to be. this girl because she used to say that. she was like an 18-year-old character in. the series. She used to say that she. didn't like to be just one girl. She. liked to wake up and decide which girl. she wanted to be. Today I want to be. crazy. Tomorrow I want to be sexy. And. then I want to be pretty. And then I. want to be princess. And I was like, that's so cool cuz I.

don't want to I don't like to define. myself and be like, okay, I'm this. >> Yep. I'm so many things. >> I like to discover every day a new me, you know? And I think people have the. necessity of defining you and being. like, oh, she is that. And I like to be all. >> What is the difference between Larissa. and Anita? >> god, it's huge. It's huge. I started my. career 12 years ago. Here in America I. am a best new artist.

I'm joking. But I am nominated as best. new artist for the Grammys because it's. a new career. Started from the zero, you. know? I left everything and I came to. start here again. But 12 years ago when I started there, I. created this character cuz me, Larissa, I'm very shy, to be honest. I'm very. insecure. I'm very like I don't like going out. I. don't like socializing. I don't like. doing anything, you know? I'm so the. opposite of who I am when I'm in this.

character. And when I created this. character, Anita, I wanted a. person, a persona that would be. completely against hypocrisy, you know? People that are hypocrites, that say one. thing and do the other, you know? And. that's what I wanted to do. >> How many languages can you sing in? >> Sing, I can sing in five languages. It's. because I sing in Portuguese, Spanish, English, Italian, and French. But French.

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>> So, I'm going to give a very good. example right now of Larissa and Anita, right? >> Okay. >> So, when I go to interview as Anita, you. got to deliver entertainment, right? So, people ask me, how did you learn so many. languages? I say, with boyfriends. Whenever I wanted to. have a know a new language, I would date. a different guy and like different. accents. But in reality, I had, which is. kind of boring, the reality. Leticia, I. hired different teachers from different.

places of the world and I would I used. to leave them in my dress room for. whatever commitments I had. So, I used. to like get 2 hours of glam every day. I. would be studying this during this 2. hours. The teacher would be telling me. and and I would be like studying for. these 2 hours. >> I [ __ ] love your honesty of like let. me be so clear. Anitta is like [ __ ] if. I wanted to learn Italian, I'm going to. date an Italian. >> to [ __ ] an Italian guy. >> [laughter]. >> I'm like actually I was just hiring. people and they were just teaching me.

and do you ever worry that like now. being so honest about like the two. characters that people will be like. wait, why what the [ __ ] Like this isn't. the real you. >> No, because I think it's so important. for me to have this clear and to. understand that I use my character to. break rules, to break to break. boundaries and like. things that limit us women to do. All. women, women that wants to be free in. sex, women to women women that wants to. be free in.

work, whatever. I like this character. It brings it brings to us. self-esteem, confidence and something to. look at even I do when I'm myself. Leticia nowadays. I look at me as a. character and I'd be like okay, I think. I can get that from Anitta and be a. little bit more confident about myself, you know? It's so much easier for people. to. watch a movie. and see that character and be like okay.

and understand the actress is another. thing. >> Yeah. >> But they don't understand that. musicians, singers, they do the same. thing. We do the same thing. There's no. way we're bringing the on self, the. person that we are at home, the person. that we are in family and bring this. person on stage. It's not entertainable. It's not it's not different enough for. people to look and be like, "Oh, this is. special.". >> Who is your favorite person that you've. collaborated with on a song?

>> Uh Snoop Dogg. >> That is. >> For sure. Because I think him and Cardi B. Because they are. so funny and Snoop Dogg is very like. simple, humble, and he's like. everything for him is a vibe. It's all. about if he likes you, if he likes. what's your your energy. If If he see He. has something kind of I don't know. He.

sees someone and he feels the energy and. then he decides if he likes or not. I. feel I think so. That's what I think. from him. Cuz I just feel like I can hug him and. be there like safe forever. I think he's one of the coolest guys. And Cardi B, she just She's funny. Bad good energy, like best energy, like. high level. I love that. >> I was reading the list. I'm like, "Pharrell, Missy Elliott, Snoop Dogg, Rita Ora, Cardi B, Saweetie, Becky G.".

I'm like. >> Becky is one of my best friends. Missy. Elliott was great energy, too. It was so. good. So good. Okay, Anitta. >> You're also known for your dancing, okay? The Anitta challenge went viral on. TikTok, which I remember us watching. these videos and being like, "One, how. is this not getting censored on TikTok? I can't even like [ __ ] curse in my. TikToks." Meanwhile, people are like. doing the challenge and like it it it's. incredible watching it. Can you explain. how twerking in Brazil is different than.

twerking in America? >> Cuz it's not even only twerking. It's. partying in general. I think here in. America, people in the parties, they are. more concerned about who they're with, where they're going, what they're. wearing and you know it's like the table. situation. In Brazil there's no table. situation. You go to the party there's no table. everyone is just one place. Mass together. Just find out you know.

and. we love dancing. We love dancing. Sometimes we don't even understand what. they're singing. We just want to dance. Sometimes it's just the same lyrics over. and over they just. sing a different melody just same words. always and we love it. We just want to. dance. We just want to listen and dance. >> What is it like being known for like the. way that you dance so are you like so. proud of yourself? >> It's crazy because in Brazil it started. this fever of like oh we're going to do.

Anitta moves Anitta moves. >> Okay now we need you to twerk. >> Okay. >> Okay so this is going to be iconic. I. think people will [ __ ] love it. Is. this the wrong surface? >> No. >> Oh my god okay okay. So. >> music? >> With music? >> No it doesn't need to. >> Okay. >> just go like you're going to do a push. up right? >> Okay. >> And then you just do a circle. But. basically you're doing this with your. knees. >> Okay. >> You focus. here.

In your hips. >> What? >> So it's like a push up. >> What? How That must take a lot of upper. body. >> You're doing this. but in this position. >> Anitta. Oh my god. I can only dream. >> No but your your your. >> This other one is hard though when you. do like when you do a circle but you. stop in the middle so you do a square. This one is harder. Like when you do this. >> I FEEL SO CREEPY. I'M LITERALLY LIKE how.

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And do you incorporate these into your. sex? >> No. >> No, it's just a dance. >> When the guy asks me to dance, I go like, "Dance first.". He's never going to [ __ ] dance, so. I'm like, "What the [ __ ] question is. that?". >> Wait, you're like, "I'm not a I'm not. performing." Like, "I'm not a dancer.". >> Exactly. I get silly. >> It's so annoying. >> "Dance first. You You dance, I dance.". >> Are you currently single or in a. relationship? >> I'm single, completely single,

and not looking for anything, and so. happy with myself, and I don't have sex. in months. So many months. I don't even. remember the last time I had sex, to be. honest with you. >> Are you just masturbating? >> No. >> [laughter]. >> Like, I'm celibate. >> Listen, I didn't find anyone special. enough that I would think like, "Okay, this one deserves to come here." And. I didn't find it yet. >> You're You're spending time alone. >> But I was crazy before. I used to like.

[ __ ] even like. one person that would cross me on the. street, I'd be like, "You, come here.". >> Stop. >> I would be like that. >> How did you get that confidence just to. go up to people? >> Because I was living Anitta 24/7 at the. time. >> Do you have a type of guy? >> No. >> Girl? >> Breathing and alive. >> [laughter]. [gasps]. >> I don't know, there's something inside. that comes, and this something, for some. reason, I can feel it, and then I'm. like, "Mhm." So, there's no type. I can. literally show you three different.

ex-boyfriends and you would be like, "What's the sense between these people?". >> I love that, though. What do you think. is like something that you're most. attracted to in a person? >> I think when they are when they are. funny. I love when they are funny. >> Mhm. >> You make me laugh, I'm like, I love it. And. um. >> It's so good. >> When they are confident, a little aggressive, but in a good way. >> Uh-huh. >> I like when they are aggressive in a. good way. Not like abusive relation.

>> Have you found yourself in um any like. abusive relationships? >> Terrible. But I needed just once and. then never again. Like in. 2 month after this one guy I had like. for a a year and something. >> Wow. Uh I can look if I'm starting with. someone. in. 1 month I can feel it's abusive and I'm. like out. >> Can you try to give like if people are. listening they're like [ __ ] like I think.

I may be in one. Like do you have any. like signs or things to look for? >> Yeah, because in the beginning they let. you feel very um comfortable. You know? And then they start to make. you feel insecure about yourself without. saying they don't say you are. less or not, you know? >> Yeah. >> They just make they point it's like they. point things in other people that they. are actually talking about you, but they.

pretend they're not. And then oh honey, I'm almost a. psychologist. I look and I'm like Mhm, okay. And then I start bringing [ __ ]. over for themselves to think. >> So you mean like they'll point something. out in someone in a room? >> Yeah, for sure. >> to you or is like what you don't have? >> Or or or it just say like you see that's. so bad. Oh my god. Kind of like to. guide you how to not be. >> Are you usually the one breaking up with. people or they.

>> I am. I need that to change though. I. think that's why I'm waiting so much. I. want things to be different. >> Got it. >> [laughter]. >> What is like a deal breaker for you in a. relationship? >> When I feel suffocated. >> Mhm. >> I don't like that. >> Mhm. >> Or um. when uh. I think when I feel suffocated is the. number one thing. Like when the guy. doesn't let you breathe and like. jealousy for no reason, you know, like.

>> Too much. >> Come on. Or needy. Like, "I miss you. I. want to talk to you." Like 24/7. Come. on, give me a break. Give me a time to. breathe. >> Right. There's nothing more like. unattractive, which I get it, we're all. insecure, but being in a relationship. with someone that's. so insecure about you in the. relationship, it's like such a turn-off. You're like, "Can you just like. >> Yeah. >> get into therapy, muster the courage. >> when the guy is trying he's selfish. He. tries to say he's doing things for you,

but he's actually doing for him. He. doesn't want to be alone. He is needy. He doesn't want to. stand with himself alone, but he's he. says that, "Oh, no, I'm doing this for. you." Come on, you're not. I want to be. [ __ ] alone. >> Yeah. >> For for a little time. >> Can you give advice to women listening. that are like, "Okay, we, Anita, you. have not been with someone. You're not. hooking up with people. Like, how are. you so comfortable being alone?". >> So, everything started and I I hope.

people don't need that to change lives. when I got sick. That was like when I. was in bed thinking I was going to die, I started look over all the things in my. life. >> Mhm. >> And I started see all the things that I. didn't want to repeat again. It's not. that I don't want to have sex with. people anymore. Please, God, I'm down. I'm open. I'm free tonight. I'm just. saying that I'm rethinking the reason. why I used to do things and how I was. doing things. And I want to do. differently. I don't want to have sex.

with a guy because I want him to fall in. love for me or because I don't want to. lose him. I want to have sex sex cuz I. feel like doing it, cuz I feel like this. guy deserves my. this queen. >> [laughter]. >> going to You know, I don't know. And. before I didn't used to like staying by. myself. >> Mhm. >> I used to just like need friends every. time in my house. Friends. Every time I. needed people. >> Yep. >> And now. I don't need nobody. I can be alone like.

this for days. >> [laughter]. >> Ooh. >> You know, cook my own food and be like. life is beautiful. I'm just here. chilling. And I I feel like. we need to ask ourselves. >> why are we scared of the silence? >> Mhm. >> What is inside of us that we don't want. to listen to? You know, what what we don't like about. ourselves that we don't want to face it. I'm not saying I regret the thousands of. people I [ __ ] I'm just saying right.

now I don't feel like. >> Maybe. >> next month I feel like [ __ ] thousands. of people again. Just now I just feel like I'm. uh. >> Not right now. >> Is it worth it? >> I remember I went through almost This is. I've never said this. I almost went an. entire year in my 20s where I did not. have sex. And I was like totally happy. >> I'm so happy. >> Like it was like just like a reclaiming. moment for myself of like I need to just.

figure my own [ __ ] out and I don't need. any penis getting in the vicinity of me. while I try to figure. >> I kind of want but it needs to be a. great penis. It needs to be a penis plus. a a brain plus a tongue plus so many. things, you know? It needs to be uh. like a mix. Cuz it's a lot of work to. have sex. For me it's a lot of work. I. like to put a show on. >> Oh, you do? Can you give us some tips,

Anita? Like if the girls are like what. do you mean put a show on? Like give us. some tips. Like what's your go-to? >> enjoy myself. I like to feel like I'm. like. dancing and performing. >> [laughter]. >> Is it a deal breaker for you if a guy is. not good at like eating you out? >> I teach. >> I love you. >> I would teach. I would say, "Come on. Let me say something.". Do this. Do that. And. I don't like when they go like this.

Look, they put the tongue very um. hard and they go like. >> [laughter]. >> And it click and and it's like IT GO. LIKE. >> RIGHT. >> OH my god, I don't like that. >> Wait, it's just like a little like. slithering and you're like. >> It's so bad. I would this day these days. Oh, by the way, I didn't have sex with. guys this whole time. With girls I did. have. >> Mhm. >> So, I was teaching this friend of mine. how to. how to eat a [ __ ] these days. And she.

was like, "Oh, it's that easy?" And I. was like, "Yeah.". I came in 3 minutes. She came in too. >> Wait, you were practicing on each other? >> Yeah. >> And you're just friends? >> Yeah. >> There was no like sexual connection? >> I was just teaching her so much. >> like took off your pants like, "Here's. my vagina. Let me teach you.". >> Uh-huh. >> [ __ ] Okay, like we need some tips. If. without taking off your pants and. us doing [laughter] it. Do you have any like like one specific. thing that you can adjust for the men or.

women listening that can maybe just like. help achieve more orgasms? >> say first of all, for girls to. for whatever guys, girls to eat girls. Personally, I think it's kind of. different for each girl. I don't know. The things I like can be different from. the things. >> Yep. >> other girls like. Me personally, when. I'm doing that with the girl, I go nice and slow. I do circles and. then I just do up and down and I do side.

by side, but like. slow and wet. And not like you're eating a. um. pasta. It's just like you are in ice cream that. is. cold and you cannot freeze your tongue. if you go. You're going to freeze your tongue. You're going to feel like. ice cold. And um. yeah, I just go nice and slow and then I. put a finger on it and I don't put the. finger on it like.

you know, I just put it like. nice and slow, small moving movements. and like. just smooth. You know, and and. and then um. uh. like I don't go in a crazy. side by side or like I just go in a. smooth. keep going with the flow. You know, and the girl is kind of going. to get guide you. And then you can just. put the finger in the beginning of the.

entry of the vagina. You don't need to. go all the way down there. And it's not. because the woman squirt that she came. There was this time this guy made me. squirt like 20 times and I was not. coming. I was like, this doesn't mean. something is happening. >> Men that are obsessed with getting a. woman to squirt, let me look at me in. the eyes of this camera. Stop. >> The next day it hurts. >> Oh, it hurts so bad. Come on. I think. sometimes men forget like would you want. us like jackhammering your dick?

>> Yeah. >> No, you like when it's like very wet and. like you don't need it to be like let's. [ __ ] go. Imagine we did that also. dry. You would have rug burn. Same for. us, okay? Same for us. >> There is also like what with guys, what. I do. um. I'm going to try to give an example. I. always use oil when I can when the guy. is not full of like some guys are like, oh, you're using the I love I love using.

lubricant. Love it. And some guys think. it's because they're not doing a good. job. Shut the [ __ ] up. It's just more. pleasing if you use lubricant. >> I put the lubricant. I'm going to teach. you in this bottle. Okay? >> Okay, here we go. >> So, I put the lubricant. And then I go like this, first of all. I go like this. >> Mhm. >> And then, this is one movement. And then. you're going to do something, there's. something you can do that they're not. going to understand what you're doing.

You could tell him to close his eyes. You're going to do this. You're going to. hold here in the bottom. And you're going to do this. With the. hands like this, you go down and. circle. Down and circle, down and. circle, and then you go up and down, up. and and you'll do this, but up and down, up and down, and you'll do this. Don't. Don't Don't. He's going to be like, what is. happening? But you should put um. lubricant on it. But you go like this. Don't do this. It's like go up and down.

Don't Don't let it go. Just up and down. And you do this, open and close, open. and close, cuz then you're going to. switch the pressure on it. And they're. going to be like, what is she doing, though? But you got to put lubricant on. it. >> Right, so you're kind of like massaging. down past their tip and then around. their shaft while you're holding the. base. >> Yeah, like this. >> Oh, that's magical. >> And then they get super confused cuz it. feels like a [ __ ] but it's not. And then you For the [ __ ] I like.

using um. things that you put in your teeth to to. fix it, plastic. >> Yeah, yeah, yeah, the Invisalign. >> Kind of. Yeah, there's a bunch of. brands. >> Yeah. >> If you use the one down, just the one. down. Life-changing. >> Really? >> feels like you don't have teeth. >> I need a. >> It feels like you don't have teeth. Yeah, you can try. >> I just added that to my Amazon cart. while you're speaking. >> ask them. They're going to feel like you.

don't have teeth. >> And just on the bottom. >> Because it's going to touch the Yeah, because it's on the up, too. It's going. to look weird. But if you use only on. the bottom, they're going to feel like. you don't have teeth cuz you can touch. as much as you want with this teeth here. cuz it's not like aggressive. It's like. smooth as a plastic. >> This is an educational podcast today. Okay, we are educating about. >> Bad. They don't like it. Like the brand. of the dentists, they they will try to.

kill me and they're going to say I'm. built [ __ ] cuz I tried to say that. in Brazil. Wow, they all they wanted to. kill me. >> Wait, I feel like they would love it. Your The sales are going to rock it. >> No, no, no. That's not the purpose. This. is health for free for people to take. care of them. >> Right, while you're sucking dick, you're. also aligning your teeth. You're You're. >> But people don't want to know about. that. They don't do [ __ ] They just. were born from. pure sand spirit. Everyone is Everyone. is Everyone is Everyone is Everyone is. Everyone is virgin. >> Today, I am I am claiming that this is a great.

technique and you can be fixing your. teeth while sucking dick. Nothing. better. >> I wouldn't say that. I'm not a dentist. I'm just saying if you want to try, you. try. If no, it's okay. >> Totally. If you already have one, pop it. in. See how it works. >> hate me because I said that in in. Brazil. They hate it. >> Dentists? >> They do because I said you it's good. when you use it, but they hate it. They. they don't like that I said that. >> They're the virgin dentists. They need. to [ __ ] relax.

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responsibly. Hard seltzer with flavors, White Claw Seltzer Works, Chicago, Illinois. Have you ever been cheated on? >> Once, when I was um. 19, 18. >> How did you find out? >> Oh my god, online. >> A fan, a fan told me. >> No. >> I know. Oh, by twice. I was. twice. Once was a fan told me. Second. one, I pretended it was a fan cuz I.

actually dreamed about it. I dream about. about. a lot of things that actually happen. >> Mhm. >> So, there was this one time. I went to sleep. This boy, I lent my car. to him. He didn't have a car. I lent my. car to him. I was already a singer. I. was performing somewhere else. He went to the place. And he I when I. went to sleep, I literally went to like. in my dream, I went to the club he was. I saw him kissing the girl. With He was. wearing blah blah blah blah blah blah da. da da da da. The girl was wearing da da.

da da da. And it was so clear to me. And I know I. have these type type of dreams. So, I didn't tell him I dreamed. I said, "Hi. A fan took a picture and sent me. You were with this girl. You were. wearing blah blah blah, she was wearing. blah blah blah. And then he was desperate saying, "Yeah, I'm sorry.". After months I told him I dreamed it. Have you ever got caught cheating? Um,

no. I'm so smart. >> [laughter]. [gasps]. >> I am so smart. How do you feel about sex. on the first date? I don't care. It's If I feel like I do. You just be yourself and if he likes. you, amazing. If he doesn't, it's. because he's an [ __ ] and he's Not. that he's an [ __ ] he doesn't match. you and you just want him because of. you think you need him for something, but you don't. >> I love that advice. It's like if you're. good with yourself, who gives a [ __ ] If.

they If like. >> care. >> matter. >> There was this one time This one guy I. went on a date after it did not. it ended up not happening anymore. I was. like, "He doesn't want me." Blah blah. blah. And then after 2 weeks when I was. like better with my therapy on day on. point and I was like, "What the [ __ ] I. was doing with that guy? He has He makes. no sense. He kisses terribly. His kiss. I was like, "Where the [ __ ] did this guy.

learn to kiss?" It was like. It was a terrible kiss. The sex [snorts]. would be even worse. Why I was caring so much? It was just. It's just our fear of being rejected. Has nothing to do with the guy. We don't. even care about the [ __ ] guy. >> So true. >> to do with the [ __ ] person. The. person sometimes is shitty and we are. concerned just because we don't want to. feel rejected.

>> I also think a good bit of advice is. pretend in your head imagine if they. were obsessed with you and they wouldn't. stop hitting you up. Then now assess, would you actually like them? Like if. you're coming from a place of like they. don't like me, I want them to like. That's just the chase and we get. addicted.". >> he texted me and I was like, "No, thank. you.". >> Like, "You kiss like a frog.". >> I was like, "No, today I have my mind so. on point. No, thanks. Some people you. just go with them because your your mind. is not on point.". >> Right. >> And then you wake up one day and it's.

like, "Hallelujah. What the fuck?". >> "What I was doing with that person?". >> It's so crazy, too, when you look back. and you're like, "I can't believe I was. [ __ ] obsessed with that guy. He. [ __ ] sucked." Yeah, sometimes you. just need to like step away from it. How. do you feel about sharing nudes? >> I don't do that. >> You don't. >> No. >> Is it just cuz you're nervous cuz like. you're celebrity? >> Before, yes. Nowadays, I just think it's. uh.

New I think it's more sexy when you're. wearing like panties or something that. is almost showing, but it doesn't show. I think it's more sexy. You play some. more with the imagination, to be honest. >> I love that. >> having a hand on it, you know? >> Mhm. >> It's more. Even a picture of a dick, it's not. beautiful. Come on. Getting a picture of a dick, let's be. honest. Let's be honest. >> great. You're like, "Oh, there it is.". >> see that guy naked, like It's not hot.

That's not hot, guys. >> What are you responding if a guy sends. you a dick pic? >> I be like I send emoji or something. I don't know. I'm like, uh. That's not it. >> [laughter]. >> I don't know. I don't feel anything with. that. >> What emoji? >> Um the eyes. You know these two eyes. that look like. >> [laughter]. >> That's it. Kind of doesn't say anything. It's just not to leave the guy in red.

>> of love it though cuz then it could make. him a little insecure of like, "Wait, hello?" And you're like, "That's all you. got? That's all you got?" [laughter]. Do you like sexting? >> Sex [snorts] what? >> Sexting. Like texting sexting. >> No. >> No. >> Me either. >> things for me are just not. Mhm. I like the real thing. Come on. Come here. Let's. >> Yes. >> Not this sex sex. I like the little. horny talk. >> Uh-huh. >> But not the sex like, "I'm going to put.

my dick put in your [ __ ] and bang it 20. times." I don't like that. I [snorts] like the little horny thing. You know? >> What intimidates you in the bedroom? >> What intimidates me? A huge insanely. huge dick trying to put it on my ass. That's very intimidating. When a dick is like huge. >> It's so scary. >> go in your butt hole. >> It's kind of not good. Cuz you're so scared.

This one guy I saw I was like, "Okay, I. think I'm going to try here.". And then his dick was so big so big. And I was like, "Listen, I'm scared.". >> [laughter]. >> And then he said, "Why?". And then I said, "This is something I. don't think I can handle it right now. >> [laughter]. >> At this moment of my life I cannot. handle this I think.".

>> Check back with me in a couple months. >> And then we just talked and cuddled and. that was it. >> Have you ever had a threesome? >> Oh, so many times. >> Do you enjoy them? >> I do. I think it's cool. I like it. I. think it's. more but you you have to be very aligned. with everyone. >> Mhm. >> You know? And yeah, I have threesomes, foursomes, >> [laughter]. >> Sixsomes? >> I had a boyfriend that used to like to. like switch couples and all. >> Do you like like the swapping thing?

>> Yeah. >> Did you like it? >> Yeah, cuz he get he was very like. comfortable and the people he always let. me pick. And. it was just fun. It was very cool and. respectful and fun. >> Did you ever get jealous? >> Oh, no. >> No. >> I'm not a jealous person. I'm jealous if. I don't feel respected. >> Mhm. >> If I don't feel respected, I'm very. I get. not even jealous, I get angry. >> Mhm. I think that's.

people that want to potentially do. threesomes or foursomes or orgies or. whatever, like I think you need to know. yourself before you do that. Of like, if. you're a jealous person. >> Yeah, you can't do that. Yeah. >> Know yourself. Sometimes people I think. do it for their partner. And it's like if you know your. relationship, don't do it just cuz you. think he or she wants to do it. >> Yeah, that's a big issue to be honest. I. don't Yeah, I think you need to be be. very friends with your partner to make. sure he also There was this one time and.

threesomes also with guys, but he. wouldn't be with the guy, just me. >> Mhm. >> And he was super comfortable with that. He picked it and it was cool. I liked it. to be honest. But he let me feel feel. free with that. >> Do you like to use toys in the bedroom? >> I do. The guy got to be confident. though. >> I know. >> But I do. >> Me, too. >> And that's why I I did my line of. perfume like. >> Mhm. >> When I did that, it was more about like.

I was doing concerts and obviously I'm. performing for like 2 hours and Carnival. was like 4 hours performing non-stop, even 7 hours I've done. And um. when you finish. you don't smell good. To let's just have. a real talk. A butt hole smells like butt hole. If you go in the end of the day, you put. your finger in the butt hole and you. smell it. It smells like butt hole. It's a place. there is there. inside, locked in the dark,

warm, hot, doing this. the whole day. This is going to sweat. It's like under. your arms. There's no way you're going. to sweat. You're going to smell. It's there inside of your whole clothes. So, I was like, I don't like I'm. obsessed with smell, right? And I was. like, I don't like smelling like sweat. in my butt hole. And then a friend of mine told me, "Oh, I'm going to do something for you." And. she did this perfume.

And I used it, and it was like. I was smelling great even if I went to. the Sahara desert. And I did a music video there. It was. like 42° C. And it was so hot. I was wearing like a. jumpsuit of plastic. I was sweating like. crazy. And I was still smelling good. I was. like, "You know what? I'm going to make this like. professional.". And then I did it, and you just smell.

amazing. Your [ __ ] and your butt hole. smell great the whole time. And then I. give it to the guys that I'm with, and. they put on their balls and their dick. and their butts, too. They smell great. For me, it's such a like. a turn on. I love it. After I got this. product, something I always done. was like to forget Oh my god, by. accident, my panties. at the place.

>> So, they smell so good. >> And smells insanely good, like. strawberry or whatever, cotton candy. And this guy, obviously, when you leave, guys, pay attention, he will smell. the panties. He will smell the panties. He wants to know. And then he will smell the part that. your butt hole is on it. and it's not. going to smell like butt hole. And it's just heaven. They always come. back. >> Anita, you're giving us everything we.

need today, okay? There's so few people. that you can just like have an open. conversation like this, talk about your. sexuality, your sex life. What do you. want people to know about you as an. artist and an individual if they're. watching today and they're like new. fans? Like, what would you want to say? >> I would say definitely what I said here. Like, I think I'm an artist that fights. against hypocrisy. You know? That's the artist I like to be. About. everything. Not only sex, but I bring up.

subjects, which is like talk about my. plastic surgeries, talk about sex, talk. about poop, talk about things that we. all do. And. for some reason we live we live our. lives pretending we don't. >> Yeah. >> You know? And. I don't understand what's the type of. insecureness or I don't know that make. people live in this fake world that just. pretend. life is this 24/7 glam.

>> Knowing more about you now and knowing. how hands-on you are with your craft, like you are running the show, you're. your own manager, you do everything. I I. really respect you, and I cannot wait to. see what you do next, and I can't wait. for the new album and all the things. You [laughter] deserve all of it. So, thank you so much for coming on. >> Thank you. I loved it. I felt really at. home. I hope people like it, and I loved. meeting you. You have great energy. >> You do, too. Love you.

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