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Both of your parents are here. >> They're worried that he's going to get. pissed off. >> Okay. They're worried about him getting. pissed off so much that they had to be. here. Meaning, what happens when he gets. pissed off? Log into this. >> The you have only. >> Oh, he sure does. I mean, I'm just going. to ask right now as I'm looking through. this. Why are you talking to four. individual women on Snapchat while she's. in the green room getting on boarded for. this video and taking care of the kid? On these screenshots? Yeah, it is. Roblox $51. Roblox $21. Roblox $54. You. were afraid he was talking to minors.

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I'm 26. >> Hey, my name is Michael. I'm 26 and. we're from East Texas. >> And this is Financial Audit. >> So, one of the things I get to say. sometimes at the beginning of Juicy. Financial Audits is I go in blind. I. looked over at the notes and read this. Not going to say that this episode. I. get to say something even more unique. As we often title, this has never. happened before. Uh, this has never. happened before. We had to take thumbnail photos of you. guys before filming.

Now, that might not seem like much to. the audience, but that is very unique and that has. never happened. And the fear from the. producers when I asked, "Guys, what the. going on? Why are these people walking. in front of my office this this quick?". Is we don't know how this is going to. end. We need to make sure we get the. pictures now. We've never had that fear. before. RESPOND. SAY SOMETHING. >> I take it y'all are married. >> We are married. >> We are. Yeah. >> Yeah.

>> What could that possibly mean? I do not. know. I haven't looked over yet. I do. not know what is going on. But that is a. crazy thing that in almost 4 years of. filming this show has never had to. happen before. Let me gather a couple. pieces of information for context and. then we'll dive in. So, Savannah, what. do you do for a living in East Texas? >> So, I work um as breastfeeding support. for a clinic. >> Oh, I want that job.

>> Hold on. >> No. >> Okay. >> It's just for mom and baby. Mom and. baby. That's what I do is I help support. the Yeah. Help support. >> You made it sound so bad. >> No, it's not bad. I love I love what I. do. I love what I do. >> I love my job. >> You hate your job. >> I love my job. >> I love what you do as well. What do you. make? Um, so what I bring home and then. I babysit on the side and so what I. bring home from both of those is about. 1,900 a month because I still work. part-time. >> East Texas definitely one of the cheaper. parts of the state similar to like the.

southern part really you get outside of. that Texas triangle from San Antonio to. Austin to Dallas over to Houston and. back to San Antonio. That's where it's. expensive. Everywhere else. massive wealth divide. So that 1900. actually does stretch a little further. than you'd think, but it is also not. great at the same time. >> Yeah, that's including babysitting on. the side. >> No, I know. That's what you said. >> So, and then the reason I'm still part. time is there cuz we have a 13-month old. daughter. And when I started at that. job, the. >> Oh, y'all have a daughter? >> Yeah, we do. >> So, we had to take a thumbnail photo.

before filming for an episode that we're. afraid of how it's going to end. >> My parents are here. >> And we have a. >> with my 13-month-old. They're holding. her in the green room. >> That's exciting. Okay. And my parents. are in the hotel. Both of your parents. are here. >> Yep. >> It's a little odd. Isn't it? >> My parents are. >> okay. I mean, maybe we're making a. little trip, I guess, vacation. >> Anyways, but what I was getting, >> they're worried. >> that I already eat the baby. [laughter]. >> No, they're worried that he's going to. get pissed off. And I guess like cuz we. are supposed I know that they're.

>> okay. They're worried about him getting. pissed off so much that they had to be. here. Meaning what happens when he gets. pissed off? >> Well, they're I don't know. Like I guess. they're just worried because they want. to make sure like me. >> you are a big boy. >> All right then. Huh? >> No. Go ahead. Go ahead. Go ahead. >> They just I don't know. They wanted to. come cuz they're worried about you. driving us and everything like that. So. they wanted to follow. I don't know. >> the does this mean? >> What does that mean? >> What does that mean? What are you Yeah. What are you trying to say? >> Well, I applied because like.

I basically if we can't get our. together, I don't want to keep being. together. And I think that's why they're worried. about that. >> Yeah, this is this is something we we. have talked about, too. >> Oh, I bet you it's rare that it's the. first time that comes up on this show. typically. And that's not surprising. Finances are one of the leading causes. for divorce in this country. [gasps]. Okay. But they were afraid of him. driving you home afterwards. >> I guess like they afraid he's going to.

get pissy cuz we're I'm supposed to see. my even my friend while we're here. >> Sorry. >> Sorry for what? I don't know. >> So, red flag is a small thing you notice. in someone else's behavior that's. symptomatic of a bigger problem. >> Am I talking too fast? >> No, you talk as much as you want. You're. on a podcast. Listen, I understand like, oh yeah, you know, oh, I'm worried about those two, let's. say Brandon and Lindsay and Colton going. into a meeting cuz one has a grievance. Yeah, I'd be like, oh, I feel a little. like, oh man, I hope it's okay. But I.

wouldn't be I need to send in their. parents because I'm genuinely afraid. that they can't get out of that. conference room. That's a different. level. >> Well, no. >> Like nervous. Yes. That it might go a. bit odd and they might be in a little. titty tatty tiff tap. Whatever. What the. is that even called? I don't know. >> I didn't even know they were coming. until like last minute. She. >> Yeah, he didn't know they were coming. Well, cuz I didn't want you not to come. And anyways, we we spent the night cuz. my daughter stays with us. She's still.

breastfed at night and so I needed. someone to watch her as well. My mom was. watching her right now. >> Well, that's good. But that doesn't seem. like the reason they came. >> That's not the whole reason. >> Also, his parents are here, too. >> What the you guys like baby? They're 26. Well, what are they doing? >> Well, my parents wanted a lot of little. vacation and told we were coming more. normal. My parents just wanted to come. I don't know. >> Yeah. Out of the fear. I guess. >> why do we fear this conversation's going. to go sour?

>> Because he even the whole time I had. told him that I applied for this, he. goes, "No, all of it's just going to be. dogging on me. Y'all are just going to. dog on me.". >> Are you the problem? >> She She always dogs on me. Every single. time every day is every day you're just. getting knifed every day. Maybe if you. did for everything I do. >> Maybe if you did what I asked, you. wouldn't get dogged on. >> What? What is she asking? >> Well, right. >> What is she asking? >> What is she asking? She asked me to do. like some laundry, dishes and stuff like. that, which I do. >> No, he doesn't. He's not having a.

daughter. >> This is not her way. So if it's not her. way, >> I come home. He literally before No, listen. Listen, listen. I came home. Okay. So, I was working and my mom. watches our daughter because anyway, so. the baby wasn't with him. The baby was. with my mom. And I said, "Before we go. on the show, I need you to do the dishes. and the laundry so I won't be stressed. out." I came home, the laundry was still. in the bed, not folding, and the dishes. were still in the sink. He doesn't work. right now. So, I just need support just. a little bit. And then I asked him why. you're not doing it. And then he was. like, "Oh, I forgot you asked me." And I.

texted and called. >> Uh-huh. So, you're saying this happens. every day, though. >> Every day. >> Why does that make me bad if I'm asking. you? Nice. >> Even when I come when I was obviously. I'm not working. I'm an employee right. now. But when I was. >> I didn't know that. That's obvious. I. didn't know that. >> I just I wanted to share the task with. you. >> Oo, buddy. How do we survive at $1,900 a. month as a household? >> We don't. And I've been asking him to. just do anything on the side. And he. >> And you won't do that? >> No, >> I haven't found anything.

>> He on the side. >> We have a lawn mower. There's plenty of. people in our neighborhood. You can mow. someone's yard. >> It's a little racist. >> Not cuz he's Mexican. Just because. >> that. >> No, because I've mowed our yard many. times before and he hasn't. >> She She mowed like probably three. >> You haven't even mowed your own yard. He. wants to pay somebody to mow our yard. Even while we're still. >> unemployed, making 1,900 a month as a. household with a child. You're going to. pay someone? >> He wants. >> Will you do nothing? >> No, not right now. This was before.

>> my yard and he's mowing right now. >> Will you mow it? >> Dishes need cleaning. So, >> I was at work all day. >> Wait, what is he doing all day? >> Gaming, probably. >> Well, you can't confidently say. >> I have no idea what he does all day. >> What do you do all day? >> Uh, lately I've been applying. I've been. filling out a lot of applications. take. the whole day. >> I've been cleaning some of the house cuz. obviously she nags as soon as she gets. home about it. >> cuz you don't have the baby yet. My mom. or his mom has the baby cuz he'll fall. asleep with her and I'm worried about. her like touching the gas or getting.

into something that she'll hurt herself. with. >> That's another thing. She won't even. trust me with my own kid. >> because you fall asleep and you won't. answer my text messages all day long. >> I mean, is that true? >> No. >> Yes. Yes. Yes. Last time he was supposed to meet. my mom, I called him and my mom was. waiting an hour to pick up our child. And I said, "Where are you?" He said, "Oh, sorry. I fell asleep in the chair. while he had our daughter.". >> She was taking a nap. >> Okay. But I need you to answer the text. messages and if you say you're going to.

meet somebody to be there. >> I mean, okay. Okay. How frequently? So, you're saying you're getting daggers. every day from her. How frequently are. we fighting, going at each other's. throats? >> Every day? >> Yeah, it's every day. >> Really? >> Every day. And what is the topic. typically? What's the most reoccurring. topic? >> I just need help and I express what I. want help with in the house while he's. express it. Express it right now. >> Okay. This is how I say it nicely before. it. >> I I want to see what happens in these. conversations. >> I'm going to go to work. My mom has.

today. Can you please do the dishes and. the laundry? Like all of it start to. finish. And he'll say, "Okay, yeah." I. say, "Okay, I'll get home around 5ish.". And then I come home and it's not done. And then he wonders why I'm mad. It's not done her way. >> No, it's not done at all. >> No, it's done. >> No. No, it's not. It's just not done. way. No, it's not done. >> So, if it's not done done her way, she'll. >> It's not done. It was all over the bed. and like they were folded, which I. appreciate. I didn't even get mad at. that. I just. >> They were folded. They were done. >> But you didn't even put up your stuff.

But it was like you had the whole day to. finish. So, when I got home, I just. wanted us to have dinner together as a. family and you help with our daughter. and like not me being like, "Why didn't. you finish?" And the dishes. You said, "Oh, I um I forgot you asked me to do. that.". >> You never asked me. >> I I can I can show you right now. It's. in my text messages. Hold on. >> What? >> Cuz I'm texting him. >> Oh, she texts me like every single. second and then expect me to reply to. her every single second.

>> as soon as I like right next to it. >> I will take a look in that. >> 8:45 on Wednesday. It says, "Hey, >> let me see.". Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. [laughter] You. You see that, right? >> Oh, you. goodness. >> Well, hold on. Well, I said I was. pooping. Sorry. >> That's okay. [laughter] We can believe. that you poop. We know. Okay. Uh Trump. would come at the size of this wall of. texts. [laughter].

This is crazy. >> Wait, look at the dates, though. He. doesn't answer me. And then I got mad. So, I screenshot. I said, "Why aren't. you answering me?" And he's on his. phone. Hold on. He's on his phone all. day. Hey, can I have your phone? And I. don't know who's talking to on Discord. I don't know how it works cuz I don't. know Discord. And who the hell are you. talking to on Discord? >> Who are you talking to on? >> I have a group of friends that we gain. >> Is it girls? Is it guys? You are on that. like it's your girlfriend. >> There's It's guys. It's okay. Hold on. There's guys. You're talking to people. on how Discord works. I think he's doing.

it on purpose. >> You're talking to people on Discord all. day. And I'm being told the game you. play all day is Roblox. >> No, I play multi. She only she only. pointed that out because she does not. want me to play on on Roblox cuz. obviously I have spent I have spent. money on there. >> But I also spend money on. >> 26. >> The what? >> You're 26. >> Yeah, I spend I game. >> Roblox. >> No, no, no. I play other things. Okay. And it's not just Roblox.

>> Okay. Hey, bring I know you're on your. phone. Would you please bring her to? [laughter]. >> That's our daughter. We call her. >> Hello. Different names. Yeah. >> Do you want to stay in Austin two days. or do Austin the Waco? We could do the. Dr. Pepper Museum. [laughter]. >> Would you like some help? Would like. some help. Please go ahead and pay the. house. Please so it's taking care for. April. She continues, "Please do the. clothes a dishes and make sure.

everything with the cat is good so we. can head out early tomorrow." Okay, we. can get all packs up for vacation. To be clear, he has not responded once. Then she screenshotted all of her texts. and sent them. Love that you leave me on. red, but it's always in freaking in a. freaking group chat. It's starting to. really make me salty. You can text me. back to back and you call me too, he. says finally. Well, I see where I asked.

for dishes and I only call about this. morning. Okay, I assume that's the kid. as well. >> Yeah, those are. >> says you text me two words and then next. two and then the next two. Laughing. emoji. She says it's not funny. You just. ignore me. He says I'm not. She says. your turn. I've been at it 20 minutes. I. looked at the time. It was 7:33 when I. started. You should always be done. pooping. I hope [laughter]. >> you should be always done pooping. cuz he poops for like half an hour.

>> You're like speaking in half English. Like it's makes no sense. He says, "Did. you rock her?" Okay. Should have told me. so I would have so I could have put her. to sleep a while ago. There's an accent. on the letter A. I don't understand. And. then he says, "Like yesterday, [snorts]. >> we're a little dumb. Just a little.". >> I mean, yes. I mean, okay. She does send. lots of texts. >> Yeah. And I'm always right next to her. or in the same in a different room when. she texts me that much.

>> So, I just replied to her in person. >> Yeah, you do send a lot. >> Yeah, >> that's her job. I think that I sent him. >> He doesn't answer. >> Why aren't you applying for one? >> I did. >> Did you apply for McDonald's? >> Oh my gosh. Well, here she goes. This. was just Sunday before coming on the. show. Um, it's Friday when we're filming. this. I'm sorry for what I said in the. car and during the argument. I was. really overwhelmed and I let my. frustration come out in a hate or in a. hurtful way. I didn't mean to say I hate. you or bring up custody like that.

>> Yeah, because I told him he said, "Why. do you stay with me? Why do you Why do. you stay with me?" And I said to him in. the car, I said, "Because I know you'd. fight me for custody.". >> That's what you said. >> No, that's what she said. That's what. you said. >> That's what I said. >> We were in the car and I had. >> I got that again. Started from small. little thing. What was the small thing? >> No, I spilled hot soup on me, remember? And then you told me to shut up. >> How do we go from you spilling? She was. in a rush to be somewhere.

>> No, you were. No, you said to me. We. were going to a Easter thing. >> But he would not go to Hold on. Hold on. He would not go if I asked him. His. parents asked us to go and I said, "Let. me listen. Listen." I said, "Let me put. soup in the car cuz I know our child. can't have a hot dog. She's 13 months. old." So, I put soup and I'm stupid. again. And the soup exploded. Like, I. put it in a container. It was too hot. and exploded and it spilled all over my. leg and I screamed. >> and she blamed me. >> No, he hit a pothole and then that's. when it went all over my leg and I.

screamed and he said told me to shut up. and I then I said that. >> oh my gosh I'm just really burned out. and not okay right now. I want us to. talk because I don't want to keep. fighting like this. There has to be a. way we can both communicate. I know. you're overwhelmed with me. Are you. overwhelmed with her? >> I'm 100% overwhelmed. >> I do notice your help. I'm Oh, it is. grateful today. You You did the toilet. and the laundry that you.

you guys make this very difficult to. read. I wish you could just type like. normal. [laughter]. >> I'm really starting to get scared. honestly because you don't have work. And that's fair. That That is fair. And. you keep working. Wait. And you keeping. work even you get it. I feel What the. does that mean? >> I don't know what she I said even though. he gets work, he he can find work, but. keeping it scares me cuz it hasn't been. consistent for a while because I want to. know that he can have a job and keep. that job. The original plan was I was. going to stay home with our daughter for.

18 months. >> Oh, well that makes sense cuz then you. said I just want to feel like protected. but in an emotional way. I want to feel. feminine. >> What does that mean? >> Because I feel like I take care of. everything. So you didn't let me see. like that. If he is just sitting home. playing video games all day and you're. working all day taking care of the kid. when you get home and doing dishes and. dinner, would that mean this is just. this is just for. >> for like two three weeks? >> No, you It's been a month. It's been a. month and then he lost a job when our. baby was 3 months old. And the job I. got, the reason I'm still part-time is I.

took my child I got a job where I could. take her with me to work. She was. working in the clinic with me every day. till um a year old. So, I decided like I. don't like this situation and I was a. little bit like postpartum and I was. like I don't like not having control of. money or knowing what's coming in. So, I. put that baby on my hip and I went to. work. And then the same week I started. he lost his job his other job. >> Uh his entire response to that was it's. all right. >> Yeah, I know. That's what he tells me. all the time. It's good. It's all right. It'll be fine. It won't Yeah, cuz he's.

not the one paying everything, dealing. with everything. And I think he thinks. that family's just going to always bail. us out. You asked him, "What could I do. to make you happier?" He never. responded. >> He doesn't ever. >> And then you texted, "Help." He said, "What?". >> Oh, I needed help with the baby. >> Well, yes. And he said, "What?" And you. said, "She bit and pinched me. Can you. rock her?" He said, "Slap her then.". >> Yeah. I don't slap her. >> That's what you said. >> Punishment for doing that sort of stuff. Yeah. >> How old is she?

>> 13 months. I [laughter] know. I don't. And then. Okay. Okay. Um, Golden, may I have Listen, this seems to be never ending. >> It's not ever ending for me at least. It. feels. >> Oh, sorry. The the those lovely little. things. Yes, >> it's really good. >> Yeah, gamer substit. more concerned with this right now than. plugging that. It is never ending. These.

are the texts on y'all's way to the. studio from East Texas. What is it like. a 4-hour drive or so? >> Yeah, >> it's about I assume this is from her, right? >> Yeah. He doesn't know that I was texting. all this. >> Okay. Well, she was texting Colton all. this on the drive. You must have been. driving. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. He would he saw it pop up like. Hammer Media, but he didn't see it and. he was like, "What are you saying to. them?" And I was just like, "Oh, just. you know this and that.". >> I don't even know.

Oh, okay. This is what she said. Keep it. fun, lol. Really, the fights never stop. with us. I woke up with the baby at 6:00. a.m. Made me her breakfast. Woke him up. at 7:00. He asked for an other house. I. said, "Sure." I assume hour. >> Hour. Yeah, another hour. >> Jeez, girl. You got to [laughter]. proofread. I said, "Sure." Woke him up. at 8 and he didn't get up to 8:40. Shower and shave. He takes forever. to do this. We're in the car and he.

like, "You want donuts?" I said, "No, we. already ate food." Plus, he did not have. a protein shake. Plus, he did have a. protein shake. >> I told him halfway through the. >> through we could stop somewhere cheap. like McDonald's for our daughter to get. >> out play break the drive up for her, you. know. >> Sorry, >> girl. Jesus. [laughter]. I know because I know because I'm with. her all the time. [laughter].

>> See, how do you want me to reply to all. that every time? >> Anyways, I said no. He said, "Well, then. I'm going to be grumpy the whole trip. I. 90% of the time am. >> and don't have the energy to fight him.". >> She's texting this under the way on the. way to the studio this morning. >> No, yesterday morning. >> Oh, on Okay. Cuz you guys stayed. overnight. Yeah. Okay. So yesterday. morning on the on the way to Austin. >> cuz he wanted donuts and I was like hey. I already made food and he was like well. I'm going to be grumpy if I don't get.

what I want basically. >> I just said cuz I know the way she is so. she's going to get grumpy and she was at. the whole ride home she was not home. here she was grumpy she was complaining. about everything complaining about my. driving. >> almost wrecked us. >> and so I already knew if I didn't have. any food. >> we were both going to bump heads and I. didn't want that I wanted this to be. like a okay let's relax we're going to. go do this if I'm not mistaken You. weren't even going to come on the show, were you? >> He wasn't. >> I was. >> When did you decide you were? >> Probably like last minute.

>> Why? I'm glad you are. So hopefully we. can actually deal with this dynamic. because I wouldn't know what to do if it. was just you and we're just talking. about this. Plus, I wouldn't get his. perspective and that wouldn't be fair. You continued. I also said, "Hey, I need. you to watch the baby's name out child. so I can finish packing." He me that I. take forever to pack. Put a few diaper. and a few outfits. I know she needs her. own cup, some toys, medicine just in. case her teeth, sound machine, wipes, rash cream, etc., etc. I packed out bag.

this morning. Colton, how the did you read. [laughter] all this Okay, >> a lot of it was calls, too. So, that's. probably why he called me. He'd be like, I don't. >> Yesterday, I said, "Please get all the. laundry done because it will help me not. be so stressed and the dishes." He. waited until I got home to do them. Well, he did them though, right? I mean, >> but we now have the child and I'm. wanting to also help with each other.

>> Okay. >> I said before he got into it before he. got home. >> My mom watched our daughter yesterday. My mom watched our daughter yesterday. Anyways, make me feel like he really. doesn't care at all. Do you care? >> I do. >> Do you care about me or just. >> do you care about her anymore or is it. just the child? Is it just the. >> I care about both. >> I care about both. >> And you? >> And that that's the only reason that. that I I told her, "Okay, I'll do it.".

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to church with me. I want him to do. stuff with me and he'll just be like. he'd just rather be at home. He wants me. to go to the club. I cannot go to the. club with a 13-month-old. He wants me to. go out. That's not my. >> You watch the kid so she can go out. >> I do. I I give her options. Many times I. tell her, "All right, go have your own. time. Go relax. I'll watch over the. kid." She always tells me, "No.". >> No. He takes them to his mom. >> No. >> Yes. >> Even at home, I tell her, "Okay, let me.

take care of her.". >> No. You say she wants. >> you go do your thing. Go have your, you. know, alone time cuz she always. complains that she never has it. And. when I give her the option or when I. tell her, hey, I I I could take care of. her so you could relax. You. >> But when he takes care of her, she just. screaming because he falls asleep in the. chair. So that's not. >> Do you even want to be with each other? Because the note that I have says, "The. moment you found out you're pregnant, you told him." And his quote was, "Good. Now you can't leave.". >> That's what he told me. I don't know if. it was a joke or not, but that's.

literally what he said. So she she has. no like. >> her. >> humor. >> scale is not inexistent. Okay. >> So every every time I make a joke or. something like that, she would take it. literally. So. >> No, I don't. But I was thinking about. it. >> But like, you know, since your actions. have proven stuff like I. >> Do we even get quality time together. anymore? No. At all? >> No. >> You guys? >> No. >> Well, how long have we been together? >> Like together or married? >> Both. >> Six years together. for 4 years.

marrying. >> Oh, how was it before the kid? >> Good. >> This whole blew up with the kid. >> Yeah. >> So kid 16 months old. >> 13. >> 13. You guys sleep in the same bed? >> No, we didn't even sleep in the same bed. at the hotel. >> lately. No, not even at the hotel. >> No. She We Me and my daughter. >> What happened? >> Nothing. We just don't really sleep in. the same bed. >> Yeah, we we don't. >> For how long? >> It's been uh what over a month now? No, probably probably over a month.

>> Who initiated? >> Well, he just doesn't come in the bed. because that was funny. Sorry. [laughter] Because um Jesus, >> sorry because he'll be gay me. And so me. and my daughter share a bed. Um so since. we share a bed, he'll be like, "Well, y'all are taking up too much of the. bed." We have a king-siz bed, so he's. like, "I'm not going to sleep in the. bed." So he just goes to the couch. I. don't make him go to the couch. He. decided that. >> Why are you prioritizing gaming over. your family here, man?

>> I am not. >> I asked him. No. Yes, you did. I asked. you to choose and you never would. If I. threw the games away today, he would. divorce me. >> Yes. >> No. If she actually did that, [clears throat] we talked about. >> No. And then I gave him and then I said, "Okay, that's not fair cuz it's your. hobby. Listen." I said, "I just need you. to game an hour a day." And I said, "And. then me do something an hour a day.". Well, why why why are we doing this like. weird artificial cat? This doesn't make. sense either. I don't want to go in the. extreme other direction. >> because. >> sometimes there will be more time and.

sometimes you got to man the up and. there won't be time. And also you need. TO GET A JOB. But regardless, like there. will be days where it's okay. Maybe he. needs a little extra space. That's okay. Maybe you need a little extra space too. Doing this artificial cap, it doesn't. really make sense. But the thing is is. that it's usually from the time our. daughter goes to sleep until. 1 2 3 4:00 a.m. That's how long he's. playing every single day. Yes. Yes. >> When's the last time he's been in you?

>> I don't know. >> 3 months, >> three, four months. I don't know. >> Oh, So, everything's kind of going in the. wrong direction. And why is that the. case? It's not just me. I can't be the only. one responsible for the relationship and. the family and everything. I feel. pressure on my shoulders all the time. >> See, this is this is what I had to deal. with. Every time I tell her something, she acts like a victim for she'll she'll. go on I I do this, I do that.

>> I do do that. >> What do you mean? No, no, no. Let him. speak. So, every time I I if I bring. something up, she'll she'll be like. she'll play the victim like, "Oh, I do. all this and you don't help. You don't. do this." But in reality, I give her. things that I could I tell her, "Okay, I'll do this. I'm doing this, but I'm. going to do it on my own time when I can. do it." But if it's not done that time, obviously, she'll get frustrated, grumpy, and then end up in the same.

situation. >> In a way, yeah, he's not 100% wrong, but. in a way, it'd be like, "Let me say. like, can you wash this pan so it's. ready for dinner or whatever?" Like. let's say I cooked eggs that morning or. uh I had something at work the other day. and I left some eggs on the pan and some. strawberries on. He'll leave it the. whole day and I'll have to tell him, "Hey, >> she always leaves a mess." After she. eats, she she leaves a plate on the. table. >> No, not always. No, >> leaves a mess in the kitchen. And then. expects me to clean it up. >> Why is your gaming thing when I'm in a. hurry in the morning? I say, "Hey, can. you get this real fast?" And I'm talking.

about our child's high chair. He thinks. I'm the only parent responsible for. taking care of her 90% of the time. She. won't even change her diaper halfway. >> She just assumes. >> No. No. And I say, "Hey, if your home. would really help me cuz I'm trying to. get her. I just want help. It doesn't. have to be all the time. I just want. >> You seem like roommates." She's just. >> Yeah, we kind of are. >> I mean, you told Colton you basically. are. >> kind of. >> You also told Colton you think he hates. you at this point. >> I do think he hates me. >> Why? >> What is expressed and shown in a way. that you think he hates you? >> Because every time I ask him something.

or look at him, he looks at me with. disgust. >> Disgust. >> Disgust. Do you feel the f same face I have right. now is what I give her all the time? >> What is the dynamic? What do you. typically hear when you express these. things? When you ask to talk about these. things, when you request something, >> what do you face on the other side? >> He'll just be like he'll just he just. blows me off or he'll tell me he'll do. it and he'll just be like, "Oh, it'll be. okay." There's never ever a plan or.

anything. >> No conclusion, no actionable steps. No. >> Well, that's not it's not very helpful. Where do you lead from there? >> Sounds like you just want to shut down. the conversation. >> That's how it is. He doesn't want to. take. >> He doesn't want to take accountability. for anything. >> I will tell you, yeah, sometimes I am. wrong. And yeah, sometimes I do. >> Let him respond to that. >> Yeah, go ahead. >> No, you go ahead. >> Okay. >> Sounds like you just shut down. conversations and try to get back to. Gaming instead of doing anything. actionable. I I shut him down because.

she gets very very. like angry, starts cussing me. >> and all this stuff. >> Is she blowing up on you? >> Yeah. >> Well, that's not going to be a. productive conversation regardless at. that point. >> So, for me to be not like a a bad. partner. I just I I leave it at that. I. let her relax. I do that. That's the way. I cope with stuff, bro. >> So, how does your cope? What are you. contributing? What are you actually. doing to make positive changes via what.

she's requested? >> And not that every request must be uh. met with like equal like validity. on some things. >> I listen to her, but what about next? >> What about steps after that? >> What do I do the actions? >> What What are the actions? >> So like she tells me to like fold the. laundry, do this, clean the house. >> Such microick things. What else? What. about actually like accomplishing. something? You've been fired from four. jobs. You refuse fast food jobs. You.

refuse to take anything that you think. is beneath you. Yet, you're beneath. everything, as far as I know. Getting. fired from four jobs. Why are you. getting fired from everything? >> Both of your parents, both of her. parents have tried to get you jobs, but. you say no every time. >> That is not true. I have said yes. >> Yeah, but you. >> This is the notes from her. So, >> you apply for No, you apply. Okay. >> So, I don't even know these were notes. that she said. >> There are notes that she said. You can. respond to them. So obviously some of. those things are not true cuz I did I. did tell him yeah I I'll do I'll apply.

>> He applied for the Panda Express job but. he applied as a manager. He doesn't have. any manager. >> I applied for both qualities there cuz. she was the one that told me hey. >> apply for manager. It's going to pay. good. I was like. >> I said you could apply for both but said. that's my. >> but I applied for both positions. It was. like a cooker and manager assistant or. something like that. Uh, but I I do do. the stuff. >> Have you applied at McDonald's? >> No. >> I I don't know. He's I've asked him.

because I know he hasn't had time. That's why he just. >> time. What the. >> I'm applying to other places. >> But you just need income in the door. We. can't survive on $1,900 a month. I don't. know how we do. I don't even know how. you're spending money on video games. when we're making $1,900 a month as a. household with a kid. >> I haven't even spent lately for that. >> You mean you don't even spend? She got a. call. She got a call from your mom. demanding that she pays for all of your. Roblox charges. >> because apparently you use your own. mother's money to pay for your little.

Roblox charges. >> No. >> Well, it's a joint. >> That's what she has. Why did Why did. your mom call her then? >> I don't know. She did call me, I guess, to tell them. >> And that's where it started getting like. the biggest blow up we had. I think. >> your mom called her. That means. something. That means something is. actually going on there. I got a note that you spent $1,000 on. video games on your mother's credit card. for Roblox and we have screenshots of. the charges that your own mother sent.

>> No, I I I took the screenshots or Yeah, I. >> It is from your mother. Well, I said I. >> So, you can't tell me that didn't. happen. We got screenshots, receipts. >> I never said didn't happen. I'm saying. that the the account was mine. It's not. my mother's. It's mine. >> It's a joint credit card, but they use. it because he we consolidated their debt. on one side. >> How dare you with a child be spending. money on a credit card for Roblox.

That is money you have to pay back. Are. you expecting your mother to pay back? How are you doing that on a $1,900 a. month income where you refuse to get a. job? You won't even apply for jobs. This. was when I had a job. I think he thought. our tax return was going to pay it off. >> No offense, but I don't have time to. play for apply for McDonald's. Don't you. have literally all day? >> Yeah. >> Give me your phone. Like you have one.

>> Just give me your phone. I'm not going. to go through anything naughty. You have. my word on that. I don't need to see. >> I want to see his Discord because I. don't know how to work it. But we can. look at that later. Yeah. >> You don't know how to work it. >> I don't know how. Okay. I'm old. >> No, you're objectively not. I don't. know. Like, okay. I mean, I swiped down. First thing that. popped up was Discord. >> Yeah, cuz he's on it all the time. I. don't know what he does on there. >> Okay.

So, okay. The last full week, [sighs]. Discord was used 12 hours and 13 minutes. just on this phone. That's not even on. your computer. And I know you're using. it on your computer. computer is like. this little block. >> That's what I'm saying. Tik Tok 5 hours. 51 minutes. You don't have time to apply. for McDonald's. >> Sounds like we had at least actually. almost a borderline a full 24 hours to. apply for McDonald's of screen usage. Uh, okay. Messages 3 hours and 14. minutes a day, but you can't respond to. her.

>> I I am. >> You're not responding to me. >> That's the time. >> Okay. Snapchat an hour and 46. >> I just scroll through things. I don't. even use that. >> What are you doing on Snapchat? >> Nothing. >> I want to know what he's doing on. Discord. >> An hour and 46 minutes of Snapchat's. odd. That is odd. >> for an hour. >> Yes, Snapchat. What? I mean, without you. being able to tell me what you're doing. >> There's uh those real things. Is it. called reals or snap things?

>> Dude, 6 hours 13 minutes a day on on. your phone. And that's without that's. without your computer. Yeah. >> Okay. Who's that's a friend? >> I have not. Never heard of her. >> Uhhuh. [snorts]. >> Okay. All messages from previous of yesterday. have been deleted. >> Why the hell have they been deleted?

>> What messages? >> Who's she is? Uh I think she's from. Siberia. met her through. uh Discord and. >> so he talks to people on Discord. I've. been asking who the hell he's talking to. on Discord. >> I I tell you. >> No, you don't. You just say like you. just say group chat. Group chat group. chat. A group chat. >> So this morning she says, "I miss. talking to you." Frown face. Uh you said. hi. You know where to find me. Smiley. face. I didn't leave this time. I miss. your voice, too.

He says to her, "Nerdy looks good on. you, though. It's [clears throat] cute.". Is this in like recently? >> Oh, uh, it's I believe, if I'm not. mistaken, well, you were in the green. room. >> What time was that? >> Like when we were back there. >> There. >> Were they Was were they in the green. room at 10:11? >> Yeah,

>> it was at 10:11. And my mom even told. me, sorry, but she even mentioned to me, she said, "I picked up and he was on his. phone. Who is he on his phone with? Do. you think," she said to this to me at. breakfast at the hotel, she said, "Do. you think he's talking to somebody. else?". >> He says, "I know." Haha. I guess I just be. entertaining these girls too much. >> What? Discord? >> Why are you playing dumb? I know, you. know. Tell me.

>> what on Discord. >> No, tell me what this is. >> Everybody I talked to. >> No, tell me what this is about. >> Dude, the amount of smiley faces in. here. All the stuff she's saying. I miss. talking to you. Like, what is happening? What is happening? You guys got the best friend marker. Like, dude, this is weird, man.

Who's C that you sent a picture to. yesterday? Today, an hour ago. >> See, that is someone the add yesterday. >> and. >> I I don't even know him well. >> It was like from. >> as well as Discord, >> but. >> well, he said she was like, "Hey, your. real name." And you're like, "Haha." And. she's like, "Is that even your real. name?" For sure. I never knew your real. name. So, you guys know each other?

I mean, I'm just gonna ask right now as. I'm looking through this, why are you. talking to I'm not even done. Four. individual women on Snapchat. while she's in the green room getting on. boarded for this video and taking care. of the kid. Please, this is your This is This is. This is. >> Can you tell me because I'm really. upset. Like, >> this is the time. I I didn't know we. were going to see this. No one knew. He. didn't know. >> I didn't know. I didn't know he I didn't. know he was going to look at your snap. >> Um. >> I wanted to look at your snap. >> This is It's the literal time where if. you have a defense, this is now.

>> It's nothing like serious. It's just. friends that we're chatting. Obviously, >> very flirty. Lots of smiley faces. Haha. >> That's just my person. >> But you can't But you don't answer me. You don't answer. You don't put a smiley. face with me. >> Okay. Who's. >> also another person? M okay that might. be from. >> Listen nothing is saved in the images so. I cannot see that but there are lots of. images being sent back and forth between. these people from these women to him.

>> and from him to the women. >> regular Snapchats. things mainly black screens. >> well she asked a valid question of why. are you awake at 3:00 a.m. Okay this is this is the first one that. doesn't seem flirty. So there is a. difference between flirty you and not. flirt to you. >> Yeah I'm always I'm always the same. person. The other three are No, cuz the. other three are flirty like like Oh, I. love hearing your voice. Do I miss it? Smiley face. Smiley face. This one's. just like very simple. You're just. responding basics to what she says.

That's. >> Oh, that Yeah, I know who is because his. friend and him are best friends and one. of my I know who that is. I know. And. her husband and both of us are all. friends. So, I do. >> Thank. >> No, I know who is. We've all hung out. together. I know who she is. That's the. only one you've brought up that I know. who is. >> There's a lot of women in here, but. again, they are disappeared messages cuz. it is Snapchat. You played that game. Well, but there's.

[music]. >> been a few weeks, but there are. literally as of this morning. >> four to five. >> Yeah, like I said, >> as much. >> it's like an old job. It's like an old. group message from Job. >> Okay. So, that's Yeah, that's a guy.

name. >> Okay. I mean, to be clear, this is. this is who he's messaging this morning. Little Gooner. Come on, guy. >> You know you have a daughter, right? >> This This is your chance to respond. I I. don't know. >> You have the right to remain silent. Anything you say can and will be used. against you in a court of law. >> Is your only There is nothing. >> There is nothing.

>> Well, your wish is my command. >> Why'd you log out of Discord? >> I don't know. >> I've been logged off for like. >> No, he hasn't. He was on play. He was on. it yesterday. Darren McDonald's less. than 24 hours ago. >> I log off all the time. >> No, there's something on Discord. I know. there is. In my gut, I know there is. >> Are you guys in an open relationship? No, absolutely not. >> This would be okay if you were. Are you. guys allowed to open flirt? >> No, absolutely not.

>> Okay, cuz this is okay if those rules. have been established. Regardless of if. you have sent or received nudes from. them, they are objectively flirty. >> We're not absolutely not no in an open. relationship whatsoever. >> Uh you also mentioned to Colton about. weird 18 plus charges and you were. confused. Oh, cuz he said that he was on. Roblox and he said I play something. about 18 plus on Roblox. >> Okay. Liar. I mean I Dude, I have access.

to everything. Discord on this phone. Discord on this phone today. You've been. on for an hour and 37 minutes. >> Yeah. >> You logged out right before filming. >> cuz you knew we were going to go right. into it. >> I log on and off. >> So you'll log in right now for me? >> No. >> No. >> No. >> Cuz there's something on there. I know. there is. There is for a fact something. on there if you won't log on right now. cuz no one's identities will be exposed. Every person that we just mentioned, it's all bleeped and blacked. So, no. one's identities are being exposed.

and yet you're not willing to log into. Discord right now. >> No. >> Why? >> It's better if you tell me now. >> Why? Because that want this to be just. like private thing with me and her. >> What will we what will happen? What will. she find? >> Nothing. Honestly, >> open it. >> Yeah. Okay. Here, let me open it and. I'll show her. >> There's nothing. >> And these weird 18 plus charges.

>> I don't know. That's what I'm asking. him. >> No, those are. >> As he's logging in, make sure he's not. deleting any chats. >> Trying to log in. >> Um, >> he said dis No, not Discord. there. Uh. >> I don't know. >> cuz she was afraid that I was like. chatting with. >> I just wanted to make sure he wasn't. chatting with anyone who's not his. >> You weren't afraid he was talking to. minor. >> Why do you have that fear? >> I said what are you doing on guess it's. Roblox. I said I babysit kids that play. it. What are you doing on there?

>> Well, I agree. But what is making you. have that fear? >> Because why are you on Roblox that low? >> And I explained to her Roblox is. >> there's a limit. When you play, when you. put your ID, you put your time, you put. your name. >> I don't know. Like. >> you you get cut off from all of that. You only talk to people your age. >> I'm sure cuz everyone I babysat like and. I tell parents like I don't like them. playing this when I'm watching them cuz. I don't know what like who they're. playing with. But I've seen a lot of. kids want to play it. >> What's he doing? >> It won't log in. I think he changed the.

password and can't remember. >> No, it says the location is new log. login location is different. Hold on. I think he changed the password and. can't remember it. No. >> Okay. Keep an eye on that phone as he's. getting logged in address. >> on these screenshots. Yeah, it is Roblox. $51. Roblox $21. Roblox $54. This is on. the joint credit card while he's jobless. and his mother is okay. 10854 54. Oh, later. >> Okay, he got in here. >> 108. Okay. May I? Mhm.

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is. >> uh a friend? >> I sent this morning Goon. >> What's Goon? >> She's talking about someone. >> That's crazy. >> I hope they find them 21 cars though. >> I still don't understand. Like she sent. a picture or she's telling him he's a. >> They're talking about other people so. far. >> And if you want to see the server that. I'm always active, I'll show you which. one it was. Most of the other ones I. don't even type in. >> This is so weird. This was yesterday.

He's talking to these other women more. than you. >> Yeah, I figured. >> How does that feel? >> Like. >> And what are you going to do about it? Like what the I I I. >> probably go to my mom's for a bit. I. don't know. Because that's another. reason I switched clinic so I could live. closer to her. >> Oh. I'm also just talking about other people. so far. Listen, the Snapchat one was. very flirty so far. This is not It is.

Oh, very active. Oh my gosh, the amount of people in. here. What are your Discord friends going to. think of you being on this show? >> I don't know. >> Yeah, then don't. >> talk to him. >> I still don't understand what you do on. Roblox. He says, "I listen to music.". >> I do. There is there is music like clubs. that you could go into and like just. listen to EDM or like techno music. >> and then you got this. Why can't you.

talk to guys? >> There is there is guys. That's what I'm. saying. >> All your DMs are with women. >> Those are the ones that started all the. time. >> It's it's. jams is the the server that. that I'm active on. The other ones I. just have just cuz I got invited and. whatever. >> [music].

>> She says, "Snap me." It's like, "What. are we doing here?". Oh, I think I'm a good girl. Do you. think I am? Well, we have to find out. He says, "Uh, wait, wait, wait. Keep that to. yourself." What I said loan wann to be I. want to be spread. She said he said shh. She sent like soaps covered emoji. He he. said make me hush. She said I need to. I.

will. He said do it. I'm still waiting. She [clears throat] said you are. distracting me right now. Omfg. He said. haha from. She said psychology. I need. to lock in but you're distracting me. Holy f I mean. Holy f men. He said oop. That's a good reason. Actually, I'll let. you pay attention so you can be a good. girl. She said, "Studying makes me more. horny. It's annoying." He said, "Uh, lookie emoji. Lookie emoji. I can help. you study shit.".

She said, "Oh, you can." Soap emoji. Eye. emoji. He said, "Perhaps." Look emoji. Soap emoji. Eye emoji. I only help good girls that obey. He. said, >> "What the fuck?". >> She said, "Oh, I think I'm a good girl. Do you think I am?" He said, "We have to. find out.". And that's where we said, we eventually. fast forward and said, "Snap. Snap.".

Like Snapchat. >> Mhm. >> Oh my. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. He says he ain't going to do. nothing. If I make you hush, you. wouldn't be able to talk anymore. Mouth. would be full. She says, "Oh, would it now? You would.". He says, "You wouldn't want to find out.

now. You are a good girl, so hush." So, do you want me to hush? He sent like a. gift that was like, "Come get on my. knee." And she said, "You want me to sit. on your lap?" He said, "Want you to come. sit here and behave?". >> Oh, by the way, this was 2 days ago. Wait, wait, what's the date? >> The third. >> This was 4 days ago. >> What was happening 4 days ago? >> Uh, was that Monday? >> T Monday. >> Oh, >> Tuesday. Tuesday. You're right.

>> I was working and his mom had our child. This was at 3:25 a.m. >> Uh, he was on the game. >> You guys were asleep. >> I was asleep with our. >> So, you thought he was on the game? >> I thought he was on the game. >> She said, "Sit where?" "On your lap. I. don't want to behave though.". >> He said, "Yeah, my lap. You are no brat. You are a good girl. So, behave and. listen to me." And then sent this photo. to her of him sticking his hand into an. anime woman's mouth saying, "Good girl.

Dude, I am sorry. Just what do you have to say? You're in and out, buddy. I like You're. in and out. >> I keep asking him though. Okay, so when. we had a big fight, we had a really, really big fight. I stayed at a hotel. one night with our daughter and he was. upset, which I could get and I it was. cuz of the charges. And he said, "Are. you cheating on me?" I said, "No." I. showed him the whole room. But ever.

since he said that, I'm like, "Why would. you ask me that?" So I've asked him. multiple multiple times. And he said, "No." And I'm saying, "Who are you. texting on Discord?" So he's just been. lying to my face for 2 3 months now, maybe. Because why would you think I. was? First of all, I'm not going to. bring our daughter in front of any other. man. One, if I wanted to do that, but I. don't. Two, I don't want to. Three, I'm. not even thinking about that. >> This girl sent him his Snapchat. Any [sighs and gasps].

response, man? >> No. >> Would you tell the truth if I asked. questions? >> Yeah, >> we're here. >> And you'd believe you'd actually ask. questions. You'd actually answer. >> some of them. Yeah. I don't know what. you're going to ask, but yeah, I'll. answer. >> Do you receive nudes from women? >> No, I don't. And I was getting lots of. images from these women specifically on. Snapchat that I could no longer see. >> Yeah. I know.

>> Do you send nudes to women? Have you. ever done any of that in your six-year. relationship? Have you ever had sex with. another woman? >> No. >> That one I believe I don't think you'd. get there. Log into this. >> The You have only. >> Oh, he sure does. >> I don't know. Let me see. >> He needs your face ID. >> Do I even have this? >> Yes. as you need your face ID. >> It has it autos saved. >> It says wrong password or. >> I don't I don't have fans.

>> So what were these 18 plus charges? >> Actually. I do have only fans. >> and it was when me and her made it like. a like a joke for like Feedinder and. stuff. >> Feedinder. Yeah. But that was a long. time ago. >> That was like three years ago though. >> But no, I don't I don't have a there's. no password or any I don't even know it. There is nothing wrong with being a. gooner, but it has to be a consensual. gooner. Okay, that it is not a bad thing.

to be a gooner, but you have to be a. consensual gooner, man. I don't. understand. And she did not consent to this. Correct. >> Correct. >> Does it not fear you and make you feel. bad that she is ready to literally. leave? She is literally ready to leave. >> I don't think he cares. >> Do you not? >> I think he cares about our daughter. >> You're doing all this to these women. with these women. >> I don't think he cares about me. Like, I.

think he cares about me as a person. I. don't think he cares about me as a wife. anymore. >> Would you would you even admit that if. that was true? And I know he cares about. our daughter, but I think he respects me. as the mother of his daughter, but I. don't think he wants to be. with me. Okay, man. I'll let you have it. back. So, is that what you were afraid. of for finding in Discord? And that I. barely I barely dug deep.

>> Yeah. No, yes and no. Cuz I I gave her I. handed her my phone all the time when. she can't navigate it. >> He knows that. And the one time I did. No, no. The one time you I did get it, there was a picture of someone in. panties, there was. >> And I asked him about it. He's like, "I. don't even know what that was. That's. spam.". >> Wait. Okay. That's what he told me. Obviously, you know, right? >> So, whenever you get a. >> some a friend sends you a, you know, invite to a Discord, >> you join in, >> that's the first thing that pops up.

>> I don't know. >> Panties. Yeah, it was a weird Discord. I. don't even know what. >> it was. Just a butt and panties. It was. a woman's butt, I think. >> Like the whatever logo thing they have. on there. >> And I didn't think anything of it. because he had never he's never given me. a reason to think he would cheat. And. now he has. But. >> well, I would say now he has uh in every. way [clears throat] whatsoever. Also. >> deleting chat logs. >> I don't know. I don't know that.

>> Delete. No, no, no. before sitting down. in this chair deleting chat logs. disappear things on Snapchat with. multiple women within while you were in. the green room he was receiving pictures. literally talking about making a girl. hush and being doineering which I mean I. appreciate the kink nothing wrong with. that again has to be allowed and. discussed with rules and guidelines and. if it's not then it's a nogo. deleting apps all the before coming. on this show.

I've never seen a bigger red flag in my. life. I filmed lots of these, talked to lots. of people, lots of red flags. Biggest. one I've ever seen. >> Yeah. >> All while he literally just sits on his. butt all day and plays video games. You apply to jobs all day? >> That's what he told me. >> On what? >> On Indeed. >> Indeed. And. >> I applied to jobs on Indeed. So you'll. show me your Indeed right now. >> Because I didn't believe him. Okay. Listen, I don't have you don't have. Indeed on your phone. >> Yes, he does. >> Go ahead and log into it. Download it.

>> Is I got on Indeed myself because I was. like I I was wanting to look at the jobs. around us and I applied just fun. >> No. >> No. >> Cuz you're not applying to jobs all day. >> I am. >> What? You would be able to show me. >> I have I had gone phone interviews. a bunch of times. >> What? >> Yeah. >> What was that response? I would be able. to see your applications. You say you're. applying all day every day. >> Yeah. >> Then show them.

>> Show me. >> I'm not I'm not going to show that. >> No. >> No. >> And that's how in any world even. comparable to Discord. I would actually. have relatively I was not going to push. back on the Discord thing too much. because yes, chats whatever that is. private. This is literally just you. applying to jobs. I don't understand why. you would not show that. Discord. I was going to let go. Well, luckily you went along with it. [music].

Bad move on his part. This I don't. understand. What is the logic behind me. not being able to see your job. applications? >> Just don't want to show them. >> because. >> cuz I just don't want to show him. >> Well, I hate to say it, your dad's a. loser. Okay, so let's get out. >> Okay. Anyways, I was applying on Dindee. Not I love my job, but just to see what. is in the area and see how hard it would. be to get a job. I had two interviews. and not things I would want. >> These are just I appreciate that, but.

just like these are just pages of. Waterburger, Wingstop, Door Dash, and. Endless Robux. You spend minimum 500, 200, 300, 400 bucks on Roblox here, which is a fourth of uh well, not not. maybe a fourth of the income that came. in for the household. So, um, and then the continued messages. on the way here. was he keeps saying he's going to the. club tonight. >> He keeps telling me he's going. He said. he's going. >> the club. What's the club?

>> I don't know. >> The strip club. >> Bars. >> The club. The strip club. >> Yeah. No. >> No. >> What's wrong with the strip club? I love. going to the strip club. Titties. Am I. right? >> Titties are great. >> I don't. >> If I got get consent from my girlfriend, >> I don't go to that. She don't go to You. said club. >> Yeah. >> What? What club? Austin's not like a. huge club town. >> Music clubs. Have we not heard those? >> There's like music clubs. EDM clubs. I. don't know. What are they called over. there? >> It's not I mean [clears throat] Brandon,

you're more in that life. That's not a. big thing in Austin. Clubs. Now there's. a ton of bars. >> But like clubs. It's like that's not. like. >> Okay. He was going to go to the titty. bar tonight or tomorrow. I said, "Well, I don't want to because our daughter,". he said, "Well, you parents are coming. They can just watch her. I've never. slept a night away from her and not. ready yet. Plus, she still nurses to. sleep. He keeps telling me she'll be.

fine." I said, "But I won't. I'll be. stressed." A. That's where it ended with the A. Um, she also texted saying, "Make sure you. guys get your Hammer financial score at. calehammer.com.". Um, and that it's free and that you can be. on the show at calehammer.com/apply. and that you can download the dollar. budgeting map, which is not what these.

two obviously needing, even though I. will get into the finances and that is. not the issue. Um, uh, and. yeah, download the dollar wise budgeting. app like tens of thousands of other. monthly active users are doing and. changing their lives. You need a lot. more to do that. I not cheating and. there's nothing wrong with it if you get. permission. I need to be clear on that. >> But you don't have that. Correct. He. does not have the permission. I want to. actually confirm. Okay. Get your free.

trial. See if you like it. If you do, most people take the annual version. because there's a big discount. and you. get my signed 30-day. but uh 30-day budget meal plan. It's a. detailed every meal, every snack, every. drink of every day, so you can meal prep. on a cheaper budget and all that stuff. I usually sign it with a Sharpie. I. don't have one here, so sign in yours. You can remember this for how much you. hate me. Please don't come mass shoot me. after this. Um because here is honestly. the first piece of advice. I am going to. say this. Um, and by the way, in the.

green room alone, he was pulling Mark. aside, asking recommendations for clubs. And uh, your mom pulled Colton aside. separately to privately tell. him that he was trying to ask Mark for. club recommendations. Your mom had to say, "Your parents don't. like him.". >> They did like him. They said ever since. we had a child, they he 360ed on me. They did. They used. >> 360ied. >> Well, like, you know, took 180. His. personality. He was not Makes more. sense. >> Yeah, he was he was a different man.

>> before her and I get it's it it was a. lot. It's a big change and like I just. shifted my life and I'm so happy I had. her but I wasn't expecting. >> the entire plan in life now that he's. not applying for jobs and can't prove. that he is is to become a DJ. >> He said he wanted to be a DJ. >> Walk you through that career journey. from here. >> Did not want to be a DJ. >> You told me you want to be a DJ. >> It's some like a side thing. >> You spent money on this. >> Uh it's a side thing. She brings in. $2,000 a month less than for the entire. house. You've spent money on it. >> Spent money on it.

>> I don't know. You spent money on it? >> We are bringing her mother into the post. show, by the way. And she's going to be. fully honest. But here's the thing. The. dude's talking about moving to another. country to start over. >> Yeah, he has told me that. >> he wants to be a DJ. You say you don't even want to be at. home anymore. You just go go to your. mom's after work to avoid him. You said. it feels like he hates you. Everything. we just learned today, even his own. mother has told you that the only way. for him to learn is for you to leave. So.

before I give any advice on this, unfortunately, for the first time in. financial order history, this has never. happened before. I'm fully advocating to leave him. >> My mom told me we could move in with. her. I want I don't I don't want. >> No, no, no, no. Pause. I I I maybe not. divorce. Maybe things will happen. Maybe. couples therapy. I am advocating though. to move out and take the kid away from. him. I I am sorry. I'm ruining your life.

right now because I mean this 100%. genuinely. She should leave you. And I've never advocated for that in. this before. Um. we ever considered therapy? >> I asked him and he has he had told me no. no no no no no. And then because he said. it's too expensive. And then I said we. could do it through church. He said I. don't want church people to know my. business. And then he said and then I. told him if you care that you'll set it. up and he hasn't set it up. >> I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm I'm so sorry that you are going. through this and you did not ask for. this. >> Sorry. >> It's okay. I'm sorry. You should leave. him. It's bold of me to say that after an. hour and seven minutes of talking to you. guys and I genuinely I know like people. were probably like oh Caleb I have. sympathy for him. I mean I I am. destroying your life. I know this in. this moment and I've exposed you and put.

you on blast and like I feel bad for. that. but I'm not also not sorry because it is. best for her and probably for your own. kid that she is not with you. You don't. apply for jobs every day. You play video. games all day. You spend money you don't. have. You have Your goals of being a DJ. or moving to another country make no. sense and would honestly pull her from. her entire support system. And not only. that, I don't want to be a DJ. This is. something.

>> that's what you're going to focus on. Okay. How about the bigger thing? You're. cheating on her. >> Basically, >> yeah, no defense there. >> I'm not. >> the DJ though. Unacceptable. >> I mean, he told me that. But the the. thing I told him is if we moved to. another country, I wouldn't have any. support. I barely have some now. And so. I can't. >> I I mean, I'm being told that you. applied to be on the show begging for. help and you literally want a budget to. be a single mother. >> Yeah. If it's. >> And I think it's coming to that. Listen, here's the thing, and this is where I. will slightly be on your side, man. Cuz.

one, I'm afraid of you killing me. afterwards. >> He's [laughter] not going to kill you. Well, I know getting out of a chair is. difficult for you, but the thing is. >> we talking, >> huh? But we are not on the same level. Don't even try that. >> That shit's hanging over the chair. Regardless, the thing is, I think she should leave you now. I am. not advocating for a divorce now. I'm. asking for space and separation, and I'm. suggesting.

go to therapy. local resources, church. or not, I do not care about that part. Try to find local resources cuz I know. you can't afford it. Apply for jobs. Get. your together. Disconnect from the. discord. Get some help on maybe some. potential sex therapy as well. Maybe sex. groups cuz you might be a true gooner in. like an uncontrollable way, not a joke. Seek help in those areas. Get yourself. together as a man, as a father, as a. husband. work on yourself for a few.

months. Show some actual genuine. progress while being open with her and. hiding nothing. And then let's try this. again from a fresh start, but also. through counseling and couples therapy. So, I'm not advocating for a complete. separation and destruction of. everything. I want you to be in your. kids' life. I want you to guys be in. each other's lives and find that spark. again. But I am fully advocating for. when you get home, you do not live at. that home, including with your child.

I'm also advocating for you to take that. time to not game. >> He's not going to do that. >> No, no, no. I'm not saying I'm not. saying um you can't have any gaming. I. What I'm specifically saying is that. time is not for gaming, though. That. time is to actually man up and grow up. and deal with your Okay? You are. the problem right now. That is done. That's already happened. Now we move on. We move on. It's okay.

Accept it. Accept the L. The L's. happened, right? Okay. Whatever. Water. under the bridge from here. Tell the. girls you can't anymore. And get help and man up. The marriage. doesn't have to be done, but we do need. space. She needs help. and you are not. giving her that help. And I am so. sorry. I want to give you the biggest. hug in the world right now. Except I.

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commit to that? >> Do you want this marriage or not? >> Do you commit to what I advocated for? >> Yeah. >> That will I don't believe him that. Yes. >> Okay. Pause. Pause. I don't necessarily, but we don't need to say that right now. Let's try to be relatively. relative. Let's instead of shutting down. immediately, >> that's what he does, but. >> I agree. Maybe this is the water under.

the bridge moment. And I know there's a. lot of baggage here, but instead of like. he he committed now it's up to him to. fall through that. So, let's not just. kill it out of the gate. >> Okay, >> you're right. History suggests something. but that doesn't matter right now. You. committed to it, right? Okay. So now it. is one of two things. He does it or you. divorce and he is gone. That is the ultimatum red line we have. to draw. Don't shut him down under the gate. Let. him work on this now. Don't disenourage.

him. Give him encouragement and love and. space. And if he doesn't do it, then. it's done. this is your time. This might. be the last chance and I want to be. there as a man to support you in this. moment now, okay? Because this has. been thrown towards you and rightfully. so. I am not apologizing for that. But. again, accept the yell. Let's move on. and try to become a better person. This. isn't Twitter. This isn't Tik Tok or. Reddit where you're cancelled for the.

rest of your life. That life is. confusing, complicated, weird, and you. made mistakes. If that's actually behind you and you're. willing to improve as a human and a man. and a father and a husband, we can cheer. you on. But you have that choice to. make. And if you don't do it, you're. done. >> Do you accept that? >> Yeah. >> Do you agree with that? >> Sure. >> Are there flaws there? >> No flaws. We'll do it.

>> And how much do you hate me right now? >> I say about 100%. >> Okay. Now, is it my fault? >> No. >> Exactly. You can hate me because it's happening. on the show. I get it. But I didn't do. any of this. You just actually got just. found. You got found out. That's it. That's all that's happened. I didn't do. anything here. That wasn't already. happening. >> Can we agree with on that? >> Yeah. >> Okay. Thank you.

There's an adorable baby on the other. side of that studio. >> Oh, I thought you saw her. No, on the. other side of our office, [laughter]. >> if not for her, at least your kid. This. is your kid? >> Yeah. >> So, these that I'm looking at today, are. these both of you or just you? >> The capital one would be me. >> Okay. So, quicks capital one. >> That's mine. >> Okay. You have a 600. >> Yeah.

>> You okay? >> Yeah. >> Huh? Nothing. It would be reasonable for. you not to be. And also your health too for the sake of. your kid, [clears throat] sex, life, everything. You got to get your health. in check. And to be clear, it is normal. for couples to, you know, have little. bickers or things to build. I mean, that's normal. I mean, you guys have. been together much longer than me and my. girlfriend. We've been together a year. and a few months, and we we'll we'll. have a spat every couple weeks. What is. every couple weeks? every week at worse.

daily. That's where we I think a little space. and a little bit of counseling is good. regardless of everything else that. happened, right? >> Mhm. >> Oh, you didn't send in any documents. Okay. >> Well, some of the this is joint accounts. and stuff, but this the quicksilver is. mine. >> Okay. So, this is the big thing. If you. are going to be on your own, and I'm. glad you have uh the support system of. your parents, credit cards are a no-go. right now. You cannot support the risk. The fact is you're spending money on a. card that you are not fully paying off. that is acrewing interest and that. cannot be a thing. This takes three.

years to pay off. That is too much risk. over the head of of a single mother if. we're pretending you're a single mother. I hope he gets the together over. the next three months and then we can. reconcile and we can. >> woo the rest of life together. I hope. so. >> Worse comes worse. This will destroy you. and your child. IHOP, Apple, Waterburger, Apple, Chick-fil-A, potential. My Sweet Addiction, Apple, Walmart. Well, that might be okay. And.

The Great American Cookies, it's on. You're bringing down your life. and preventing you from any potential. escape. >> Yeah, >> because of. >> It's SP. >> Wait, what was I'm sure there's lots of. cope on there. >> Great American cookie was her birthday. cake, I think. >> I don't give a She is 13 months, 14. months, whatever. It doesn't matter. She. doesn't know what's happening. >> She kind of does. >> She does not know what is happening. She. will have no memory before three. Okay. >> No. No. The years that matter most, one. to three is what matters most to me or.

whatever. >> Imprinting but not memory. She won't. remember a cake. >> Yeah, probably not. >> For actual human behavior, I.e. slapping. her. Yeah, that would actually have an. impact. I'm hoping that was a joke when you said. that. >> It was a joke. >> Okay, we have to clarify cuz interest is. acrewing. This is risk and it's all on. >> Yeah, >> if it wasn't on and it was. necessities, we could have a different. conversation. But you are literally. preventing yourself from that escape. mechanism if anything bad were to. happen.

>> Being told out there your kid really. loves the dogs. >> She does. Yeah. >> That's good. I'm glad she's having a. little bit of joy cuz right now we. ain't. Am I right, guy? [laughter]. You're. okay. Capital One Venture card. Who's. this? It's in my name, but I gave it to. him as a card to use, but he lost it. So, now he doesn't have. >> Can you do anything in your life? >> So, it's. >> I didn't lose it. She lost it. I'm. trying to not sh. >> He had it. He had the card. I didn't. lose it. I. >> Well, not closed, but. >> she loses everything.

>> Okay. Regardless, it has a balance, guys. It has a balance and it does have. spending. Cash advance spending. So, I. don't even KNOW WHAT'S HAPPENING. >> OH, WHOSE ACCOUNT IS IT CONNECTED TO for. payments? >> What? >> Whose account is it connected to for. payments? >> The Which one? this credit card. >> I mean, >> what account pays it? If an auto pay. happens, what account? Me. >> Okay. You didn't have enough money in. your checking account, so it got. returned. So, you got fees. So, you got. >> Yeah. >> This is risk you cannot have in this. position as a potential single mother.

I'm going to ask, and I don't know if. I'll get a truthful answer regardless. Has there ever been any violence in this. relationship? >> No. [clears throat]. >> Okay. If there ever is or ever was, I. want you to reach out to us in private. We will never let them know. >> I'm not suggesting that, but I don't. think a real answer would be given. I'm. not suggesting it though. But if it ever. does happen, reach out to authorities. and we can also help from behind the. scenes. Okay? Not suggesting it's. happened. But since this is so weird and. I don't think we would say it.

regardless, just want to say it. Not. alleging to be clear. Okay? Not. alleging. Same goes the other way except. you just got like 500 lb on her. So I. don't know. you. Okay. Paying for something. What are you. doing? >> Oh, those are pajamas. Yeah, that's me. >> It's what? >> Pajamas. >> Okay. On what service though? >> Uh, >> what is this? Affirm. CLA. >> Affirm. Affirm. >> for Christmas time.

>> Christmas time, winter time, summer. time. >> I love the pajamas. >> I must wish for her sake you were black. Why? >> He would have left on his own. [laughter]. >> We like jokes here, ladies and. gentlemen. >> He's Mexican. >> We know that. [laughter]. >> I have a thing for Mexicans. >> Okay. Did you learn your lesson?

[laughter]. >> Well, I wouldn't only go for white guys, so I thought if I went for a Mexican, I. would have a better outcome. >> [laughter]. >> I know y'all are all the same. >> Well, hold on. Whoa. I'm on your side. [laughter]. What is happening here? Okay. Yo, $130.56. on this with an $187 71 minimum monthly. payment. So, yeah, 12 payments you are. getting. you are getting interest accured up the. butt on this thing. Usually, these are.

like 35 36% interest. >> I thought it's already like at the. beginning it tells you how much interest. at the f at the beginning, right? >> It hits you out of the gate. Well, yeah, it would. It would, but if you weren't. paying for it, you wouldn't get. interest. But you're splitting it across. what? 12 payments. >> Yeah, that is interesting like crazy. Why did you have to affirm this? Go to. Goodwill. >> Cuz I wanted him to be cute. >> No, no, no, no. If we're in survival. mode, we don't do cute. >> Yeah, that's true. >> We don't do cute. >> But he also was working at the time. >> that I bought them. >> Why'd you get fired four times? Um, I.

don't like uh basically. >> he doesn't like being he says to me like. I try really hard in my job because I. love to work hard for who I'm working. for and he's like I'm not going to he's. like I'm not going to kiss anyone's ass. But I. >> What's kiss anyone's ass? You mean. follow instructions from your leaders, from your managers, your bosses? >> No, just like kissing ass. Like. >> like I want to go. >> Okay. You don't get fired for not. kissing ass though specifically. >> I want to. >> And then he's always like, "Why do you. do so much for your job? like some of my. job requires me to bring a little bit.

home and he's just like gh. >> what is the kiss ass? I got ass kicker. kissers here and I got people that don't. kiss ass. I haven't fired the not kiss. assers. I've had kiss assers that have. been fired here. I don't know. I just. it's literally just if people do the. value and so whenever they tell me. something I tell them hey like I talk to. them like I let them know like. >> what give me an example. All right, let's say uh there was an incense uh. they didn't want me to bring a jacket or. some. >> That was the first job. >> and it was like winter so I brought it.

and I told them, "Hey, if you want me to. >> wear something I want, you provide it to. me.". >> Okay. Is that the company policy that. they would provide it to you? >> They said he need that would be a. productive conversation in a work place. >> The logo on the shirt and he never got. the logo on the shirt. I didn't see a. problem with it cuz one it was. >> you came in with a snarky attitude that. is damaging to culture even if you were. probably actually right in the actual. you know overall concept clearly you. know you are not a complete idiot I hope.

and think and maybe allegedly you're not. you know that would lead to potential. termination if not a write up or. something come on going in with a snarky. attitude being a no. >> no it it wasn't even it was is that. instance that. >> Yeah, that's what I'm see. >> Okay. Next job that you got fired from. >> uh vitals like uh not putting the right. vitals for a patient that was going into.

surgery. [laughter]. >> Yes. Fired. >> Yeah. Reasonable. >> That was job three. >> No, that was the last one. >> That was Yeah, that was. >> okay. What about What about the other. one? >> I don't remember that one. The other one. was because he had blood and you had not. you mixed. >> So it's like small mistakes. I don't. know. >> He mixed up. Hold on. The gray tube and. the blue tube. And the gray tube had. something in the blue tube and you. didn't put the right tubing or. something. But multiple times. >> medical. Yeah. Blood. >> Yeah. >> Good. Get fired. Why do they keep. letting you in? What was the other one?

The third. The final one. >> The final one was the chart that he. didn't. >> No, no, no. The other one. We We've. We've talked about three so far. Talking. about the coat, talking about the chart, talking about the tubes. >> Oh, before we were married, the bank. I. think the bank. Why'd you get let go. from the bank? Uh I do remember his. drawer wasn't. >> Oh, out of balance drawer for like one. penny. >> Okay. You have not been fired for any. unreasonable reasons. >> It's just it's been for like one penny. >> vital. Okay. >> The vitals that you know I would like.

that person to be alive. >> It's the same color. It's just different. ways that it it gets drawn. It's the. same color tube. So, like it's really hard to tell which. one it was. Uh, >> but reasonable to be fired for. >> Yeah. >> And the charts. >> That one. That one. He knows. >> Yeah, that one. That's scary. >> And you want to be the one that takes a. vacation. You want to be the one that. moves overseas. Your life's a vacation.

>> Oh, I know you get nagged to death, but. come on. For what it's worth, I am. usually kind of anti the women on the. nagging, but I don't think it's coming. from an unfair place in this. >> Yeah, >> you might be the first guy in human. history getting nagged fairly. >> Did you say so, >> guy? TL T L A. >> Uh, that's a medical bill.

>> Okay. >> And I'm just making payments. Well, I'm. going to cross it off cuz you have like. a payment left and then it's done. So, >> yeah. >> Was it for the birth? >> No, it was for miscarriage. >> Okay. This is for Michael's card, but. honestly, I don't give a. >> Michael's? >> Yeah. >> Uh, he gave information about the card. in the green room. He didn't submit. anything. Okay. That's the family. Is. this you? >> I'm just doing you. I'm not doing him. >> Uh, my grandma teeth husband's lawyer. fee. >> Yeah.

>> Is this your debt? Yeah. >> Okay. Okay. Grandma teeth 120. What? What? >> Oh, cuz I needed to go to the dentist. and I needed to fix something and so she. paying her or how does it work? >> Yeah, I'm paying I just when I have $120. or I'm going to make a payment to her. when I get paid. It doesn't matter. >> My husband's lawyer fee said this was a. gift but I don't feel right about it and. would like to pay her off to who? >> My grandma. >> Oh, this is all that's the grandma. Okay. So, how are you paying that?

>> I haven't started yet cuz I don't know. where to start. >> Okay. [snorts]. And then my mother-in-law $1,000 because. of Roblox and beer that he spent. You. actually owe that or do you just feel. obliged? >> I feel like So, you feel obliged to the. 5,000 and to the. >> I feel like I need 100. Okay. Yeah. Well, no, no, no. You need to prioritize. you and the get. I'm crossing off the. five. I'm crossing off the one. >> Okay. Unless they specifically ask for. it, you're not paying it. Okay. Then. don't pay it.

cuz you have here finance 3,000. something for something I don't know at. a 12.3% interest rate. >> Were you going to pay 6007 in interest? >> I was trying to pay the credit card cuz. >> well you didn't. You just used debt and. then you racked it back up cuz you spend. it on If you do not change. your behavior, never take a tool to get. there. They can be tools, but you're. hurting yourself. Doesn't make sense. No. consolidation, no bankruptcy, none of. that until you fix your behavior and. then you can do it if any. But I. wouldn't even do it now. Okay, listen. And I'll let you use the mine card. Used.

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>> I don't know how to make that in the. budget either. >> Well, you might be able to get some. student loans. >> Maybe. >> I mean, I would do that. That would be. fine. I'd be okay with that. And if you. can live with your parents to help. subsidize, I'd be okay with that as. well. Your monthly payment is. >> I think it's 101. >> Is this monthly or two times a month? >> Monthly. >> Okay. $100.85. Now I are we are we um are we shocked. that we did the thumbnails before.

filming? I am not. Will you even be here. for the post show? Are you going to walk. up and get out before while we're. resetting? >> I'll be here. >> You'll be here. >> Yeah, I'll be here. >> I respect that. Okay. I respect that. Not that my respect means anything to. you, but I respect it. Okay. Uh Texas. Bank, you have Oh, this is a balance. Okay. No, wait. No. Yeah, this is Oh, this is a credit card. It's a loan. >> No, it's a loan. It's just a loan. Okay. Well, same. that you're like, "Okay, I see. >> I'm making payments.".

>> Yeah. 3,900 3,491.70. Listen, the thing is. >> it's for my car. >> Oh my. This is going to be the most. insane potion we've ever done. >> Why? >> Cuz the mother's coming in. >> Yeah. >> And everything we just did. Oh. >> Um, >> $180.66. Yes. >> Okay, that's your minimum monthly. Listen, check an account started with. 39. That's why you got that return AC. Listen, unless you get this under.

control, stop spending on and. get your debt down, it's going to be. impossible to impossible to be. independent. >> Yeah. >> Okay. You're stopping in the gas station, getting some for five bucks. >> That's not That's our joint account. That's not me. >> What are you doing? What are you getting. for $5? >> A drink, probably. I don't know. >> All right, buddy. >> Five bucks. >> No longer, my friend. No longer. Do you. like caffeine or hydration drinks? What. do you prefer? Electric. Okay. Electric. lights. No caffeine. There you go. That. is Gamer Subs. It is absolutely.

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>> Liquor. Olive Garden. Maybe. That's hard to tell. Texas. Bank 180. >> That was the loan. That was to pay the. loan. >> Okay. Well, you can cancel Rocket Money. Premium. You guys get Dollar Premium for. free forever now. Children's Place, Main. Street Cafe, McDonald's, Slims Chicken. Guys, make $1,800 a month. have no. money. This is an insane amount of. money. >> Those are for him. He's saying it. doesn't matter regardless. First of all, split the finances. I'm actually. advising that's rare. If we're if we're.

splitting, split the finances for a bit. I'm not saying divorce. We might get. back. I want us to get back. Okay? I. believe in love. Love is great. Okay? I. want you to be able to stick it in. again. Woo! [cheering]. Sticking it in. No more gooning online. Okay? >> I'm cute, too. Like, I don't I don't. Okay, whatever. $65 in this account. It's nothing. Oh my. gosh. Panda Express IS SUPPOSED TO BE. WORKING THERE. >> UH, that one was probably me. MCDONALD'S.

THE WALMARTS are hard to tell. >> because they're often times probably. good, but then you also stop in and get. at the same time $4.30 or something. That's probably So, it's like. it's difficult. So, it's like. I don't know. But McDonald's, Sonic, Dair Queen, those definitely are. Maybe Millows Pizza, the draw. of $9 was rejected. Chick-fil-A, water. burger, potential. >> What the Walgreens 300 and Walgreens. 280. >> Oh, it's because it's because I was. taken out of the ATM to pay the house.

>> Oh my gosh. You paying cash? >> Well, I'm just give it to his mom. We. rent from his parents. >> Oh my gosh. And yet we still Oh my. potential Potential. Rejected. Withdraw. McDonald's. Potential Candy Crush. paying. for Candy Crush. >> That one was probably me. >> You can't. That's not [laughter] a joke. You can't. There's no survival here if. you do that. Zelling. money out. >> Municipal online payment. Yeah, it's. like a fee for paying I don't know. McDonald's. Etsy. Come on. Chick-fil-A.

Etsy. Come. I don't care what you like. anymore. IT IS YOU AND THE CHILD that. you must survive. There is nothing. Our. retirement is 676. There's nothing. >> Yeah, I know. That's just mine. >> Okay. Pretend you move out and live with. your parents. Would you require rent? >> Would they require rent? No. Thank. utilities. How would groceries work in. this house? >> I would buy me and my child's groceries. >> Would you have to? >> Not necessarily not. >> Okay. Try not to. We need to take care. of your debt first and foremost. Independence. Will you have it? I want.

you guys to get back together. potentially, but not yet. >> But what about all the stuff at the. house for him? Like all the payments? >> Doesn't matter. Get the out. Work with a transition plan. That's. fine. >> No, but like I know he can't pay it. >> I don't care. I do not care. Did you see what was. done? You've been cheated on. >> Yeah, I know. >> I don't care anymore. I don't. >> I'm sorry. That's the reality. Total. income was 2741 that came in. You had a.

higher payroll month, but 3,500 went out. anyway, so it doesn't even matter. Total. debt. Let's get your minimum. >> That's cuz he was working. So, >> oh. before he did the charts wrong. >> Mhm. >> That's insane. Debt minimum payments 35022. That's what. you have to get rid of cuz that is a. risk over your head. Okay. So, you would. not have any rent, anything like that. Your food probably not and I hope not.

Your mom's coming in so we can ask her. So, we can cross these off. TP fund. Anything else for you and your kids and. maybe help back to that house a little. bit? I will put $300. >> I will have to buy her. >> I will put $300. I will put $300. What. is your food bill. >> right now for like just me? >> Uh uh phone bill. >> Oh, no. My mom pays mine and his mom. pays. >> Okay, this is good. It's not great, but. it's good. Medical, healthcare, co-pays. and stuff on a monthly basis. >> Uh 73. for me and my daughter cuz we have. marketplace. Um, and then co-ay, I need. like 25 a month for my.

>> Okay, we'll call it 100 bucks. Subscriptions, let's put 40 bucks. No. pets. >> There's a cat, but it's his. >> Okay, not worrying about it then. Okay, that should be it. There's nothing. else that needs to be taken care of. If. you move in with your home, if with your. mom, I'll put 400 for TP fund. Giving. even more gas to that house for my car. >> Yes. Vroom drive. How much? >> Uh, 200. >> Car insurance, how much? >> Uh, well, it has both of us on there, so. I don't know. So, 289. Do you split it? >> I usually pay it.

>> Try to get your own. I'll put it 289 for. now, though. Hopefully, we can buy again in the. future. But you need to go open a. checking account right now that is. separate. and put in direct deposit there. Chime. is fine. Set up direct deposit. You'll. literally get $350 for free if you do. it. Is that even a joke? Barely even a. plug. It's actually true. You need the. money. Okay. Needed to survive. $1,37922.

I can't give you fun money cuz you're in. survival mode. I'm sorry. >> That's fine. >> You only have an extra $420 left on a. monthly basis. Don't get excited. [snorts]. Okay. This takes you two and a half years to. pay off. You get a better job going back.

to school, become a teacher, maybe a. year and a half. But you still got to do. that semester of school. >> Mhm. But I can. >> regardless, it doesn't matter. >> to do it. >> You Huh? >> So now student teachers get paid. So I'd. get paid a little bit more. >> Listen, you need to pay off this debt as. quick as possible. Live on a barebones. budget. If the parents can take care of. food, that's great. You have to do that. and you need to clean up your so. you have no risk. So if this ends up in. divorce, you can be a single mother. Now. I hope it doesn't. Clearly what happens. from here is you need to get help.

potential on the sex side. You need to. tell your Discord kittens they're gone. You need to un add these people on Snap. You need to be truthful and honest and. transparent going forward completely. You need space at least 3 months. Go to. couples therapy together. In that. meantime, go to your own personal. therapy. Work on your and get a. job. I don't like that response. >> You will? >> Yeah. >> Okay. [laughter].

Obviously, the household financial score. is a zero out of 10. It's [music] not. even close. Get a kale.com. We're going to tell the mother, her. mother, everything in the post show. See. if she can move in and what's going to. happen. This is going to be the craziest. post show in financial honor history. It's pretty much a guarantee at this. point. Hey, man. I am so sorry. I really [music] am. We'll see you. there. Click join now. The mother will. be coming in. >> I'm worried about my mom.

>> He He He cheated. >> with another woman. >> while she was in the green room. He was. talking to four women. >> Oh my gosh. >> In Discord, he was talking to one of the. women about wanting to dominate her. >> I'm I'm shaking. I'm shaking. You know, biblically, you have a reason for. divorce. >> I want to make it work for our daughter, but I do want to separate. I think. >> I don't want to destroy your life, but. right now, you're destroying hers, and. that's not fair. Don't forget the summer. budget RESET IS NOW LIVE. GET A FULL.

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