I Exposed Her Hidden Affair On Financial Audit

You're still texting him today? >> That was earlier. One message. >> earlier this morning. That's what. >> she said yesterday that she loves him. >> He's a friend. Okay. >> You threw the friendship down the drain. when you cheated on me with him. >> She's cheating in the middle of this. episode. >> Uh, that's the name of one of my. sisters. >> What? She's hiding the contact under her. sister's name. >> Yes. >> She's hiding the She's hiding his. contact. >> Is Al in the future of your picture? >> I have options to leave. I have an out. kind of sounded like a breakup. >> actually.

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>> Hi, I'm Al, 22, and this from East. Tennessee. From your age, you come [laughter]. >> 23. And this is financial audit. Oh my the amount of times we have. practiced that now. >> Oh god. [laughter]. >> Listen, my brain just. >> Yeah, she didn't say her age and I was. like, "Oh, shoot. I guess I'm going. down." [laughter]. >> What the HELL IS EVEN THAT? >> You're 22. Look like you're not freshman. in high school. [laughter].

>> Yeah, I'm 22. >> Okay. Um, and you look like you have. Down syndrome. Stella, what do you do. for a living? >> Uh, I actually work at a hotel. I do. breakfast every morning. >> Breakfast? >> Yep. breakfast. I actually do um I wake. up at 4:00 a.m. every morning, be there. by 5:30 in the morning, make sure. everything is ready and prep for all the. kids or not the kids. Well, there are. kids involved. [laughter] Kids, humans, >> a special hotel that he goes to. [laughter].

>> for his prey. [clears throat]. >> No. Um. we just, you know, make the breakfast. Me and my coworker. >> Sure. We love breakfast. Big breakfast. guy myself. Love it. And you love. grilled cheese. >> How much you make? >> I make oh gosh 15 an hour. >> Sure. What does that translate to? I. know you're in a little more rural area. of uh East Tennessee, small town. So. that will stretch further. It's not like. incredible. Okay, >> I'm good. >> Okay. >> I make 22 or No, I make uh 2,000.

every month. 2,000 net? >> Yes. Net. >> Beautiful. Love it. >> That's averaged out 20. >> Yeah. >> It's incredible. It's wonderful. >> Do that. >> What's going on up there, buddy? I'm. seeing a lot of things in that nose. >> Oh gosh. I told you to blow it before. >> What's happening? Look at that. >> Can you Can you do this? And then. >> Yeah. >> Other way. [laughter]. >> Oh god. >> With tissue. >> What is happening? >> Here. Help you out, buddy. You're. sniffling into the Some people do audio.

only, which honestly, if you do, you're. making a mistake. This is a very visual. show. >> Yeah. There you go. I. >> I'm actually a camera elite member. >> Oh, thank you. Best membership on. YouTube. We love it. >> I've always had that problem where I. can't get it to blow right. >> Well, [clears throat] that's cuz you did. >> this instead of blowing. >> He actually said, >> "Don't mashoot me with that face right. now. That was terrifying." [laughter]. >> Oh, he's good again. He laughed. Okay. >> Al, what do you do for a living? >> I work at um.

>> What is it? What What is it? What's your. job? >> It's an amusement park. do a coaster and. a tubing. >> It's not really an amusement park. >> You do the coaster and the tubing. >> Yes. >> Are you being taken there on a bus bus. daily to do coaster and tubing? [laughter]. >> No. >> What do you do with the coaster and. tubing? >> Coaster and tubing. Well, I load the. guest on the. >> You have to load the guest or. >> unload the guest. >> I have different stations every day. So, >> you get to get all up in there.

>> Huh? >> Sorry. You get to get all up in there. when you're strapping them in. >> Oh, no. >> No. He instructs. >> they have to strap themselves in. >> That [clears throat] we are not allowed. to touch our seat belts. It's a. liability issue. >> I mean, to be honest though, >> do they just tell you that? >> No, that's what that's what everyone has. to do. Only thing we can do is pull it. out and around for them so that way they. can hook it in themselves. >> We join our heroes locked in a battle of. wits. >> Please always pull out cuz I would be. terrified to see what you guys would.

create. Oh god. >> Yeah. >> Actually, >> you don't have a kid, do you? >> No. >> Are you guys married? >> No. >> Engaged. >> This three. >> Okay. >> Congratulations. >> Well done. Where'd you get that from? >> Um K jeweler. >> K. >> I almost said J for some reason. >> Begins with K. >> I'M GOING TO KILL MYSELF. >> THERE it is. That's the thing that they. say. That's That is it. Well, what what. are you making in that position? making. the position. Uh 15 an hour.

>> Okay. So, the same. So, you're getting. that 40 hours? >> Yes. 40 hours. >> So, 2,000 a month. >> Yes. >> About 1,800 a month. >> Why Why are you getting more? He's. getting less. >> I think it's because of the overtime. that I get. >> Oh, you're getting overtime. Okay. >> Very good. Listen, guys. I love love. Love is in the air. It's a beautiful. thing. $3,800. How long have we been. engaged? >> Oh, god. >> Since May. >> Is it May? I thought it was April. >> No, it wasn't April. >> Are you sure it wasn't April?

>> No, I'm pretty sure our financial. producer said that you actually make. more than her, but maybe that was an odd. month. >> So, from April, Very good. How long have. we been together? >> Uh, well, we've been together for almost. a year. >> Yes, almost a year. >> Um, and we got together. previously and broke it off back in high. school. >> Yeah. >> Okay. Uh, you broke it off in high. school. Well, I'm not going to freak out. about high school. >> High school is forever ago. It was like. two months that we were together and. then I had to move. So, we broke it off. then.

>> It was like, >> "How'd you guys get back together?". [clears throat]. >> Oh, well, we were supposed to be. buddies. >> That's how it was supposed to start, but I was actually um in South Carolina. at the time. And. so, I was going to I told him, "Hey, make a trip to, you know, South. Carolina. We can hang out. you buy me. dinner, you know, do all that stuff. Buy. me dinner, we cuddle. >> You're like that, >> you know. >> There was never how it was. >> No, I texted you.

>> It was Messenger when I was just like. out of a whim. I was like, "Okay, I'm. going to text him. See what he's up to.". >> Yeah. >> And that's how it started. You. >> got a dog in you. [laughter]. >> But then I was just desperate at that. time, not going to lie. >> And I know you got that dick. I know you. got that 9 iner. Listen. Okay. >> I don't know about that. >> We never talked about that. When we. texted, we started talking and I was like, you.

know, trying to flirt with you every now. and again, trying to like see where we. could go back to where we were. And then. finally, we got back together November. 2nd. >> and then a month later you moved in. >> Yeah. And you wanted to get together. with me on Halloween. >> Yes. On Halloween. >> Oh, no. Is that traumatic or something. or. >> No. No. It's just um. >> Look at you big dog. >> It's my favorite her favorite holiday. >> Flirting on Facebook Messenger. Moving a. girl in that quick right on Halloween.

Her favorite holiday. Look at you. >> Yeah, I moved in. >> And how long ago was that? Was that last. year? >> Yeah. >> Please don't tell. Oh, that's actually. really short. >> Yeah. December 4th was when I moved into. his house with his dad and two sisters. >> That is that where you guys live right. now? >> Yeah, right now. >> That's okay. I mean, you are a little. younger, but I mean. Oh, you did have a pregnancy scare in. February, though. >> Yeah. >> What's a scare? >> Uh, well, >> is it a scare plus? >> No, no, no, no. It was just a scare. I. took a test. Negative. But, uh, I. >> What was the scare? It sounds like you.

weren't pregnant. >> I hadn't had my monthly in like 2 or 3. months. So, and then after I took the. test, >> the extra chromosome. >> Yeah. [laughter]. Well, I had uh previously before this uh. engagement, I had an engagement before. him and I ended up having a miscarriage. with that person and he can stay with. his thing that he's got in Texas. Oh, we. are in Texas. >> What? >> No, not him. Uh my ex fiance. He has a.

uh new fiance who is uh. >> Oh, jeez. Your Yeah. Your engagement. ended last year and then you immediately. got with him. Yeah. >> Okay. >> I had a few relationships, even a buddy. at that time, too. >> So, what happened? Why' the why did the. relationship end? And then you went and. found this. >> Oh, god. That's weird. >> You know, one of my sisters actually. said you look like that. >> Well, I'm sorry. That's [clears throat]. >> because of that. >> Yeah. [laughter and snorts] Um,

actually, >> it's the it's the the the. Get rid of it. >> I did get rid of it one time. Let's try. it again. >> Yeah. Oh, that. >> Why did the engagement end? >> Um, >> he cheated on me. >> Oh, jeez. >> A year before with. >> And you stayed with him? >> Yeah. Because I thought I could save the. marriage cuz his mom was like, "Oh, you. know. >> Oh, with two lesbians." That's an. interesting. >> Yeah. Yeah. [snorts] It was in the. Walmart parking lot in his car. >> Walmart parking lot in his car. He said.

that they are worded him and. >> they him. >> Yeah. They him in the Walmart parking. lot. >> That's what he said. >> Two lesbians took this man, forced him. into the car and him. >> Yep. That's what he said. >> In the Walmart parking lot. >> That's what he told me when I confronted. him. I was like I actually was on the. back porch and. >> I want to get by two lesbians. I don't. know about you. [laughter]. >> I don't know about that one. >> I say that's mine. You got that dog and. Yeah, I know you do. Look at you, you. little freak. >> I don't know about that one. I don't.

know about that. >> What do you mean? >> I don't know. Like you've read the books. that I read though, so you know what I'm. into. >> Yeah, stop it. >> Okay. >> I'm trying to imagine getting by two. lesbians [laughter] right now. Don't. Don't make me. >> That's a bad idea. I wouldn't do that. >> I mean, I I heard that dick that dude's. dick hit the bottom of the table the. moment we started talking about it. >> No. Um, but on that. >> Okay, so we got You broke up with him. for getting. >> No, no, no. I didn't break up with him.

at that time. No, he said that they him, but that's not what actually happened. They sent me the text messages that they. had between the two. >> Why did the engagement end? >> Uh, well, he was being a narcissistic. little prick. >> Narcissist. Okay. >> Yeah. >> How? >> Well, he did say that he was going to. his friend's house and uh we went to his. friend's house when he just bought a. car. And uh a few weeks later he was.

saying, "Oh, we never did that. We never. went to your my friend's house. We never. hung out with his uh with him or. anything like that.". >> Okay. So, he's a gas lady. I'm glad you. got rid of him. I mean, okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. But now I want to focus on. you guys cuz you guys are together and. we have a very interesting stack. including a payday loan on the top of it. by the way. But um but you guys are. together. How's the state of this. relationship? How we doing? >> Um. >> wow, that was an aggressive silence. Let's start with you, Al. >> I think things are going pretty well.

lately. >> Okay, >> that. >> Well, um, >> he's laying down that duck. >> He thinks it's fine. It's not. I've had. issues. I've had issues with him. >> with Al. Sweet little Al. >> I'm okay. He is the. >> Is Al doing? >> It's more of his family on top of that. >> Okay. Yeah. Well, that's his family. Leave his family. >> Why he get mad at me for them? >> No, I get mad at Sweet Al. >> I'm like, what did he say me for?

>> I Your dad. He thinks he knows. everything. None of you guys in the. house have common sense. I'm being. serious. Like, seriously, none of y'all. have common sense. >> Yo, why you whooping him in? Poor Al. >> Because he doesn't have common sense. He. doesn't have common sense. >> No, he's just a sweet little boy. [laughter]. >> I still got common sense. >> No. >> Well, some things I don't think through. Yeah. But most of the time I do think. things through. Most of the time? >> Yeah, most of the time. Mostly at work. when I could get fired. >> Well, it sounds like you might get fired.

from this relationship if it's not going. What's your issue? What's going on? >> Well, um, sorry. >> Oh, well, I mean, she he did say in the. pre-in that he feels like you're always. mad at him. Why? >> I am always mad at him. >> Why been together for like 5 minutes? >> What are you doing? >> Well, I tell him, "Hey, like for. instance, today at the hotel, I was. like, "Hey, can you gather up all our. stuff, you know, and everything? pack. things up because I was doing my makeup. Took me an hour. I don't usually take an. hour to do my makeup. >> This took an hour. >> I tried really hard. Okay.

>> Did you? >> I think it looks amazing. >> Well, whatever. Um. >> Uhhuh. [laughter]. >> But yeah, I told him, "Hey, can you like. gather all the stuff? Pack away the. things that you can pack away like you. know where it goes to and everything cuz. I have a set list of everything where. everything goes. I'm very organized at. times and. >> at times very organized at times. >> Yeah. >> Sequence of words continue. >> But um he does that. He packs all his. stuff and put all of his stuff away and.

my stuff is just still scattered around. the room. >> And I was like okay well common sense. would tell you. >> well okay. >> yeah common sense would tell you to put. it on the bed. I had to tell him myself. hey can you put the stuff that's there. on the bed that's mine that you don't. know where it goes. And so that way I. can pack it up in just a moment. >> Why don't you just pack up your own. >> I was busy doing stuff. I was doing my. makeup. >> Bro was busy, too. >> Packing his stuff up. He already was. ready. >> Theo's already done. >> Yeah, but he's just being sweet, innocent Al just hanging out in the. hotel room. Let him hang out. Look at.

him. >> He's not sweet. Okay, he is, but he's. not. >> Oh, he's not sweet. >> Um, >> what's the other side of Al that I'm not. seeing? Cuz right now, besides diddling. kids, not seeing much wrong with him. That's a [laughter] big thing. >> Hey, I don't do anything to kids. >> It's what he doesn't do. What does he. not do? >> Cuz I know he lays down that dick. >> Well, >> he got that dog in me. I see you. Look. at you. King. >> Nah. Uh, whenever we're having like an. argument or a conversation or something.

like um about something that happened. here recently. >> Al argues. >> No, I'm the one who argues. He doesn't. do anything. He shuts down completely. It's like the opposite from my last. relationship. I shut down. My last one. didn't. He shuts down. I don't. >> He's the one shutting down. Not saying. anything. >> I know. We have lots of downs in this. relationship. I get it. Continue. >> What happens? Tell me. >> Yeah. >> Um, [clears throat]. >> so we were arguing. Well, actually, first he came into the room,

>> the hotel room. We're still on that. >> No, no, no. This was like previously. This was like what, maybe a month ago? >> No, probably. >> He says it's the opposite, by the way. He says that you're always the one who. shuts down when he presses you on. anything. He said that in the pre-in. >> I shut down. >> You shut down when I could find. >> You don't say anything. You're literally. emotionless. >> Well, I'm not emotional. >> Maybe let's give Al a chance to say. something. I'm. >> not emotionless. This defense mechanism. >> Tell us what's going on. This is your. This is your time. >> Defense mechanism. >> Well, I would like for like if we're in.

an argument for your side of the opinion. to come up. >> Why do you have to argue? >> As long as as long as. >> as long as you don't start yelling right. in the argument. >> Does she frequently? Not not frequently, but every once in a while it does. happen. But. >> yeah, >> as long as you don't start yelling right. away, >> I won't shut down. >> It's the yelling that makes me shut. down. >> I don't I don't yell. >> Sometimes you do. >> I might notice loud because I'm normally. a loud person. I don't yell. >> Well, I know that yelling's a trigger.

for him because of his mommy. >> No, it wasn't that. >> No. >> No. >> Then why? Oh, wait. Is it one of your. exes? Oh. >> Oh, sweet Al. What's happening? >> It was just lived with her and. >> by some lesbians. >> No, no, no, no, no, no. It was quite No, it wasn't even close to that. It was. just a mentally abusive. Physically. abusive. >> Physically. [music]. >> Bravo 6.

going dark. >> Well, maybe if he had some common sense, maybe get mad. I'm serious. Like. literally, it's one of the biggest. things about you that bothers me is that. you don't have common sense. >> G Okay. What? Please tell me. Give me. some insight into Al's common sense and. lack thereof. >> Well, he thinks that he knows. everything. So, >> do you? >> No. No. Not all the time. >> Well, you you portray that you do. >> I I'll say something like I think they. closed at this time and then you portray. that as I think I know everything. >> Yes, I do.

>> That's it. >> Well, everyone always has the I think. they closed at this time. Oh, no. That's. wrong. Clarephone has that conversation. >> He thinks that since he thinks that. since I've been out of the state for a. while that I don't like No, like he. thinks he knows more than I do about the. hours and stuff. >> Never said that to you. >> What hours? >> Like the bookstore. >> Who gives a. >> uh I. >> because I like going to the bookstore. >> Okay. And he got the hour wrong. So. correct him. >> Well, it's going to ruin my day.

>> What? It ruins my day if I don't get to. go to the bookstore or to like Walmart. and like there's some. >> Look up the hours. >> I do, but he tells me that. Oh, I think. >> if he got it wrong, who cares? Who. cares? >> It bothers me. >> What? Okay. Well, that's his lack of. common sense. That's what we're going. crazy about. >> And then your dad on top of that also is. like, "Oh, the rental car is going to be. $1,000 to go on the trip to pick up my. sister." And I'm over here talking to my.

boss and she's like, "Oh, no. It' just. be this amount." And then I actually. look it up and it's I think like 150. 160. >> Okay. I didn't ask you anything about. the car rental. >> Okay. But that. >> Oh, why why did that matter to you? My. dad said that. >> Cuz he's part of you. >> He didn't know that. He doesn't rent. cars. He just gave us his educated what. he thought used to do cuz it used to go. by miles. >> I'm confused. Al thought the. relationship was going well. You're. saying not. Why is there a split in. this? He doesn't give me what I want,

what I need. >> What is it? You got to give some. examples. So far, it's just the. bookstore hours. >> Um, well, that it's that also like um. I'm a very, you know, spicy person in. the bedroom. >> Did I read you wrong? Did I read it. wrong? Okay. What? So, he's not giving. you the spice? >> No. None of the Okay. What? >> Well, uh, he's recently read one of the. books that I like. That's a spicy book. >> Yep. Classic. Every woman reads the. books and then. >> No, this one doesn't have that in it.

Well, maybe. >> Of course it does. And then they all get. their hand brushed on the sidewalk and. then they claim on TikTok. I don't know. Crazy. You are wild. Continue. >> Um, and he's read the book and stuff and. I want to do that. But the thing is he's. very. >> The knife scene. >> What? >> The knife scene. >> Go on. He So the MMC stabs the mattress. and instructs the female main character. to. >> the knife. >> Okay. And you want him to make you the.

knife. >> Well, yes, but. >> Well, you're right. I might not do that. with my girl either. [laughter]. >> It's And then there's some other stuff. in the book, too, that I want to try. You know, like blindfolding, mass talk, you know, things like that. And. >> well, that's more simple. Are you Can. you blindfold her? >> I can. If. >> You're too timid. You never let me try. >> You're too timid. You don't do it right. >> You don't let me try. You just assume. that I'm not going to do it right. So, you just take that as your right.

>> You don't do it right. >> You've never let me try. How the Why. would you know? >> Because it it's your energy. Your energy. that you put into it is all wrong. I. don't like it. It just runs off. He's. just a chill dude. >> I've never tried. >> No, >> he's not a chill dude. >> He is a chill dude. Like. >> I don't know. It's just. >> he's just chill out. >> His energy is not what I want. It's. mostly me, I guess. >> It's just not what I want. >> Okay, so you're bored with the the the. sex life. Okay, that happens. What else? What? What else?

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>> Okay. So, you got cheated on your last. relationship, right? >> Yeah. >> Okay. Has there ever been infidelity in. this relationship? >> Yeah. >> It happens all the time. >> Okay. This show that infidelity is. crazy. >> Who' you Who'd you get with? >> That was me. >> She cheated on me. >> What the? [laughter]. >> So, you got cheated on and then now. you're cheating on Al. Sweet Al. Perfect. Al. >> Yeah, >> I knew you could do no wrong. I knew it. >> Yeah. And she still won't block him. >> What? >> He's a friend. Okay.

>> You threw the friendship down the drain. when you cheated on me with him. >> I would say so. >> It. Okay. Well, >> sweet, you could do no wrong. You're a. perfect butterfly. >> What the happened? >> Um, >> and you changed the code on your phone, so now I can't even see if you're still. texting. >> What the. >> Yeah, I did that for a reason. >> He went through my phone. >> Sorry. I got excited. What happened? >> He went through my phone. >> Oh, yeah. Cuz you cheated on him. Cuz. you're a. >> Well, yeah. And I didn't like that. He.

actually took my phone when. >> He didn't like that you cheated on him. >> No, I didn't like the fact that he went. through my phone. I have security issues when I was a kid. No. Like, listen. No, listen. Okay. I. [laughter] have When I was from the age. of about 13 to four. No, not 13. maybe. like eight. From the age of 8 to 13, 14. I was in a house with my stepdad and he. had cameras everywhere in the house. >> Okay. So, I'm going to go cheat on my. fiance.

>> That's not how that stemmed up. But, uh. >> Well, clearly I did. When did you When. did you do this? >> God, I don't even know. >> He caught me about I want to say. >> caught you twice. [laughter]. >> Yeah, I think three times actually. >> Twice. But. >> why are you with her? She cheated on you. three times. >> No, just twice. I don't know where the. third time's coming from. >> I thought you caught me like three. times. >> Maybe the third time's ongoing. Who the. knows? So when when was the first.

caught? >> I want to say about a month after he. proposed to me. >> Yeah, probably. >> after THE. [screaming]. >> He caught me. >> When How long were you doing it? >> Oh gosh. Uh. >> probably since April since that's what. he says in relationship still. >> No. No. So, he's in a relationship with. someone else. >> Yeah. Well, okay. So, he he was in a. relationship with um. >> Well, personally, I don't really give a. about his relationship. When did you.

start? >> Um when I started trying to leave him. >> because I wanted to leave him. >> and stuff. >> When was that? You're not really given. dates. You're given events in your. lives, but not really giving me a. timeline. >> because I don't really know dates like. numbers. >> It doesn't have to be exact. Month. I. want to say maybe March. >> When did you guys get engaged? >> Uh May. I think that's what. >> you wanted to leave him in March. >> Yes. >> Why' you want to leave him? >> He was constantly on the game all the. time. [snorts]. >> He would not talk to [laughter].

Tell him what you were playing. >> I was playing um GTA 5 the role play. yeah. >> Yeah, it was awesome. >> Yeah. And you woke me up in the middle. of the night saying, "Put your hands up. like a police officer." And. >> hey, you wanted to spice it up. >> to the game. He was doing that to the. game. And at that time, I wasn't reading. like any spicy romance books, >> but uh but yeah, he was doing that. He would not go to work. That was a big. issue. Yeah. >> You just weren't going to work out.

>> No, I had my ride issues. >> sometimes. >> Huh. Not getting to work. You mean not. the rides at work? >> Yeah. No, the rides to get to work. >> Okay. I mean, we could Uber, but I get. it. He um it was back in like that. during that time he was calling in a lot. >> who. >> my ride to work and he would always call. in like last minute where I. >> Okay. How often was he leaving work or. not going to work? >> Pretty often. But he got better at it. now. Everything's like I've been going. to work every day now on time.

[clears throat]. >> No, it was probably because the new. point system at work. So, >> well that too. But I did threaten him. >> Okay. So, you started getting with him. before the engagement. What were you doing? >> Discord. I was on Discord uh chatting. with him. That's how I reconnected with. him because he was in a server that I. was in. >> Yeah, he's a previous ex right after my. ex- fiance. >> Wait, so that person Oh, I have a note.

here. That person is the exboyfriend of. your ex's fiance's new girlfriend. >> Yeah. >> What the is happening? What the is. happening? It was a weird. >> in this town. No, this is. >> It's not Austin. It's Houston around. that area. >> Well, I knew it wasn't Austin, but I. didn't know it was Houston. How would. >> I thought it was just where you guys. live? >> No, no, >> no. >> This was when I was in Texas. >> Oh, I'm being told I guess your. text messages that he found were at the. bottom of the stack. Oh, w producers. chat. W producers, let them know what an.

amazing show they have created. Absolutely. Like I said, every single. one of you guys, kaleam.com/apply are. from the audience. Can you confirm that. the show is real? >> Yes. >> You're in it. You're on it. You're just. normal ass people and you like the show. Everyone that comes on to the show. >> It's a crazy thing. So many people think. it's like we're staging something. Are. we staging something? >> No. >> Are you guys paid actors? >> Actually, his dad said that you you guys. were staging it. >> See, [laughter]. that's the whole thing. We couldn't make.

up the that comes on this show. It. blows our mind. Okay. yeah. Okay, so here's the messages. This is what you. stumbled across. >> Don't show them too much. >> Oh, >> no. Don't show them too much. No. [laughter] Oh, god. >> Wait. I thought I thought my sweet saw. these. >> I saw some of them. >> He saw like the previous messages. >> Previous messages. >> Yeah, >> it was also Snapchat. >> Yeah, I did block him on Snapchat. because he came into the room and was. like, "Do you actually love me?" And I. said, "Yes." And then he's like, "Then. block him.".

>> Okay. Okay. Okay. Who's Okay. Are you. goth witch? I am. >> You say nine my love nine kids. >> Oh god. >> What? >> He's going to read it out. >> What is that? [sighs]. >> Talking about how many kids he wants. >> Who wants. >> him? >> This guy. >> Yeah. >> He said nine my love, nine kids. You. said yes. I know it's nine kids. He said. you don't think that's a lot. You say I. was thinking whatever God gives us. Well, yeah. So, you're religious but. cheating on your fiance. Interesting. >> Actually, I'm spiritual. I'm more um.

more pagan. When he says, "God," he means like God. >> He said, "Oh, I got you. I love you so. much." He's saying that to her. >> Yeah, I know. My perfect innocent Al. I'm so sorry. >> And you say I love you, too. You said I. love you, too. You said I love you, too. >> Yeah. And honestly, to be honest, >> huh? >> I don't want to be in that anymore. >> Anymore?

>> Yeah. What does he. >> I've kind of distanced myself away from. him? >> I would hope so. >> But not because of this. Not because of. that. >> What? >> Huh? >> Okay. Pause. Either. >> That'sing [laughter] crazy. I don't know. what the you're saying, but let me get. through this and I will get back to that. cuz what the was that? >> Oh no. >> Wait, is this both of y'all's finances. combined? >> We don't combine our finances. We don't. combine them. >> Who's is this? >> I don't know. Uh, that is both of ours, but we don't combine them all together.

>> I guess you guys aren't married yet. I. think I Well, I might have to do them. separately by the end of this anyway. Okay. You said, "I love him, too.". >> Then you also said, "Also, breeding kink. works out for me. [laughter]. By the way, this was two months ago.". >> Sounds about right. >> That's when you caught. [clears throat]. >> Is that the message you caught? >> He didn't catch me on Discord. He caught. me on Snapchat. >> I caught you on Discord, too.

>> You caught me that at that time on. Discord? >> No, that was that was the thing. >> He did catch me on Discord, but it's not. that time. >> Okay. Uh, he said, "I didn't know you. had a breeding kink.". >> Yeah, I. >> By the way, like every woman has a. breeding kink. This isn't even unique. So, there's not a single woman I've been. with that doesn't have a breeding kink. Everyone's like, "Come in me. I'm not on. birth control." And I'm like, "H, okay. >> You what? >> No, [laughter] I'm kidding. I don't use. Well, >> we don't use protection though either.

So, >> you two? >> No. >> Are you on birth control? >> No. >> Does he come in you? >> No. >> No. >> Think. >> we used the pull out game. Pull out. method. >> I That's a lot of buddy. [laughter]. >> Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. >> It's actually how I had my last. miscarriage. The pull out method didn't work. So, yeah, that was fun. [laughter]. >> Yeah. I don't really have sympathy for. you after this. Okay. And then you said. picked that up after watching a few. videos. Okay. He said, "You're going to.

use that to your advantage, aren't you? Also, I had that kink before you and I. got together the first time.". Okay. And you said, "Yes, absolutely.". He said, "I'm so down.". And you said, "By the way, aren't you. getting your tubes tied?" Just FYI. >> Oh, you're goth witch. Okay. Reverse. some of those. Oh, you. So, she said. she's so down. She said she's so down. with getting nutted in by this man. She.

said that. He said, "By the way, aren't. you getting your two types?" You said, "Oh, really now?" He said, "Any reason. to tie them?". >> No, no, no, no. He said, "You're not. going to.". That That's not. >> No. He said, "By the way, you aren't. going to get your two sides, by the. way." Oh, and you said, "Oh, really?". Now, he said, "Any reason to tie them?". He said, "A life or death situation?" He. he said otherwise. You said oha nope. He said any and objections.

And then you said don't have any other. reason but that one and nope. No. objections here. Love kissy face. How's. this making you feel right now, Al? >> Probably very awful. >> Yeah. And I want you to still block. them. >> Uh yeah, but she said again she's like I. don't know. She's interested in talking. with this guy, but not for you, which is. very confusing, but either way, um, he. said, "Good slut.". And you said, "Only for you, master.".

>> And [clears throat] he said, "I haven't. heard that begging voice in a while.". >> And I'll go. >> Yeah, I would I would send voice. messages. >> And you said, "Cuz he's been home all. the time, so has everyone else?" I'm. sorry. I didn't want to get caught. >> You were terrible at hiding anyway. >> I was terrible at hiding it. You didn't. catch me for like four months. Well, I.

wouldn't say four months. Maybe about three. >> Well, no. You slept started slipping up. a while. I already suspected it for a. while. >> Well, that's because your deal with. this. No, no, no, no. That's because. your sister actually caught me the first. time and then she said something to you. >> It wasn't that time either. No, but she. did catch me though. >> He said bathroom snippy time. You said. the walls are so thin that. >> he can hear everything. Or no, the other.

person. >> Uh, he said then don't moan. You said. how am I supposed to egg mass and. [laughter] mean it if I can't moan? >> And he said video question mark question. mark. And you said oh I didn't think of. that. So glad we got these screenshots. This is disgusting. He said weights. And. you said, "Not going to lie, I'm not the. smartest." No And he said, "You're. fine. I want a video, though.". >> No, no, no. I'm kind of smart. I'm kind. of smart. My GPA is like a four or 3.4.

3.8. It was 3.8. It went down to 3.4. So, I'm kind of smart. >> Yeah. But from the classroom down the. hall, where you hear? >> And you said what? Like tonight? I don't. know about that. TBH. He said, "Yes.". And you said, "If I can't, I'll make it. up to you." He said, "How?" You said, "I. might send a spicy pick tonight. instead." Would that please you tonight, master? While you're with him. Two. months into doing with this guy. while you're with him. You're engaged at. this point.

>> Actually, no, I wasn't engaged with. >> So, it was a couple days right before. >> possibly. I I. >> And he said, "How spicy we talking?" You. said, "As spicy as you want with a. bathroom mirror.". He said, "What do you have?" And did you. order that toy? >> You said I have not ordered the toy. And. you know what? Let me surprise you. I'm. sure you would love it. Why can't you. just focus on him? >> Or are you okay with an open. relationship? >> No. >> Well, no, no, no.

>> Because open's fine. If you guys choose. that. >> Well, no. We were talking about it. We. >> talking about it, but he said no. >> Talking about it, but he said no. >> He's the one who brought it up. >> I brought it up because I was trying to. fix whatever was going on. But. if you're going to block him, then it's. a different story. >> She won't evenh. Okay. He said, "Yes, do surprise me. What toy you get?" Waits. And then you. said, "I don't have toys here in. Tennessee. They're in South Carolina, but I can't find the one that connects.

to the app.". >> The person told you about it, so I'mma. look for it. He said, "Show." You said, "Show me what, love." Love. He said the. toy. You're looking online. So that's where that ended. >> Yep. >> Open your phone. >> That's on Discord. Yeah. Open your. phone. I agree. Let me see what's. happening today. >> Nothing on Discord. >> Nothing on Discord.

>> Then where? >> Uh nothing actually. >> Go to Facebook. >> Facebook? >> Yes. >> Messenger? >> Yes. >> Where are you talking to him now? Cuz. you said you want to stop, but you're. not. Uh, regular messages. >> Show me. Pull it up. >> Okay. >> Pull that up now, >> Okay. >> Do you have a regular messages? >> Well, she has a ring on her ring finger. >> You're still texting him today? >> That That was earlier. >> Oh, okay. >> That was like one message. >> earlier this morning.

>> Yeah. Okay. >> Well, Al, what do you think? That's what. it say. >> Oh, what does it say? Um, uh, she said. yesterday that she loves him. Block him. >> No. Al, it's done. She dude, what? You caught her cheating. twice and she's still doing it. She's. not stop block him. She's not stopping. >> Oh, I'm not I'm not going to just give. up just like that. >> Oh. Ow. >> I want to work this out.

>> Okay. >> If you want to. >> We got to bring in my assistant. We got. to bring in my assistant. Ladies and. gentlemen, please welcome your favorite. co-host of the Caleb Hammer Show and one. of your favorite Hammer Elite. personalities and the best membership on. YouTube, Brandon. >> Oh, no. >> You told me. You lied to me. >> Oh, dude. He's been texting while we've. been literally in here [clears throat]. filming. Well, we're in here filming.

>> Oh, God. >> Dude, talk some sense into the man. than. this man. He just said he just said. start a screen recording. By the way, it's Android. I don't know how to. He. just said block him. Block him. >> Al man to man. This has been going on. for months now. You thought this was. over, right? You thought this has ended. >> You thought Yeah, >> they stopped communicating. >> Well, I knew. >> Oh, did I What did I do? Oh, Al, do you want to marry a woman that cheats.

on you after your engagement and then. tells you that it's done and continues. to do it? This is quite literally one of the most. disgusting things I've ever seen. This. is egregious, >> buddy. >> So, >> buddy, if she's doing it now, she's not. going to stop. And she hasn't stopped. She told you she stopped. today. They're calling each other my. love back and forth on Sunday.

>> Honey, >> what was I doing Sunday? >> How's that work? >> Honey. >> Yeah. Yes. >> You told me you stopped. >> Yes. >> Why haven't you stopped? >> Because I don't I. [snorts] don't know. I don't know. I'm sorry. Why about you. just block him? >> Well, because I told you he's my friend. >> He's not your friend.

He's. apparently your boyfriend. >> Not to me. He's not really my boyfriend. >> I was just saying you love each other. >> Yeah, but. >> and I don't like that. So, if he's not. your boyfriend, then you have no problem. blocking him on everything right now. Why did you delete the text previous to. Saturday to hide them? >> No, no, no, no, no. The he had he got a. different number. He. >> Okay, bring up his previous then. >> Okay, [sighs].

you're not going to like the name. >> It's not about me. It's about Al. Sweet. Al. Perfect. Al. >> Al, we're 40 minutes in. I love you. You're a great guy. You can do so much. better. This is This is insane, buddy. >> What name? >> Uh, that's the name of one of my. sisters. >> What? >> She's hiding the contact under her. sister's name. >> Yes. She's hiding the P. She's hiding. his contact. Al, you think she's texting. her sister, brother? You think she's. texting her sister? That's That's him. >> Yeah, sure. Just go ahead and take a. look.

>> Her actual name under there is either. Buttface or Weirdo. >> Oh, yeah. I would have known this. wasn't. >> So, you knew? You just didn't bring it. up. >> He said he wouldn't have known. >> I would have known if I looked at it. So here, if he's not your boyfriend, you'll let. Caleb block him on every single thing. >> No. >> Yes. >> Ow. Ow. Listen to me.

If she blocks him on one thing, she's. just going to talk to him on another. >> Oh, no. I know what she has him on all. number and Facebook. >> But buddy, that's the thing. He has a. different number already. That like that. that's the issue. He's going to keep. getting different numbers. >> No, he didn't get that number because of. me. Doesn't matter why he had it. It's a. different number. >> And he'll keep finding different ways. You'll keep finding different ways to. let him contact you. >> Do you even CARE ABOUT YOUR FAMILY? CUZ. YOU'RE playing Russian ROULETTE WITH. THEIR FUTURE. YOU'RE SPENDING $5 A DAY.

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relationship. >> How do you not know? >> All relationships. >> Yes. I want to stop. I don't I don't I. want to be by myself. I actually want to. live by myself. That's been the goal. since the beginning of the year, actually. That has legit been my goal. >> He was like, "Hey, your 360 is off, by. the way." So, he has her location. usually. And she was like, "Yeah, I got. mad.". >> Oh, you didn't know about that one. >> I don't know anything. What do you know. about. >> you have a 360 circle with him? >> I do. >> Oh my. And he asked, "What are you mad.

about?" I was like, "Okay, obviously she. she's ready to leave this guy and just. stick to her man out." Um, he she said. just everything at this time. He went. through my phone again as in you. And I. just changed everything on my phone and. told him that I didn't like that. I. still don't trust him. You don't TRUST. HIM. YOU DON'T TRUST HIM. Him. >> because he went through my personal. belongings. >> You guys are saying I love you. I love. you. I love you.

>> You're cheating on me. >> Hey, love. I'm sorry. It's been a. minute. Happy. 4th. >> Do you really care that he threatened? Like, what the are we doing? You're. just talking about how much she's seeing. you guys. You're. >> Yeah, there's a lot of text messages. >> Oh my god. Hey, honey. She's calling him. honey. He's calling you good little. >> Yes.

Oh, dare. I Oh, I do dare. I do dare. Okay, thank goodness. There's nothing in. here. >> Not on that one. It's on Discord. >> Oh, just incredible. When's the last. time you sent him a spicy? >> I don't remember. that. I actually don't remember. I I I. want to I don't know. I think it was. actually the last time on Snapchat. And.

>> when did you block him on Snap? >> He actually. when was that? >> That was a few months ago. >> Yeah. No, it was about a month ago. On. Snapchat. >> That's him. I recognized his name from. anywhere. 43 minutes ago. We talked on. Discord. >> I blocked him on Discord. >> I unblocked him on Discord. >> Got a new number. >> I actually had to figure out how to do. it. >> Got her [clears throat] number again. They're literally talking on here today, too. Oh my gosh. This was.

Dude, this was just recently. Uh he. said, "So I'm going to assume you were. going to train me to do that.". >> Trained him to. >> Oh, you were talking to him that you. have a way you like everything and he. doesn't do it right. >> Mhm. >> Brother, >> I'm honest. >> Dude, you're a crazy. >> No, he straight up. >> Disgusting creature. >> He came to me. >> But the cheating is dishonest. But no, he came to me and No, he came to me and. confronted me about it and I was honest. about to him about it.

>> Not honest. You're still doing it. >> But I told him right then and there, hey, yes, I've been doing this. >> when he confronted me. >> You thought this shot? [snorts]. >> Yeah, those are the images she sends to. him. >> Sorry for the trauma. We're going to. have to wash our. >> I'm sorry. Yeah, you get in there, buddy. I did. I did warn you. >> Those some titty butts. >> Have you gotten those pictures?

>> No. >> Okay, I'm going to send you out. I want. to talk to Alone. if if you want to take them out, Lindsay. >> I'm going to stop the screen recording. >> Me or him? >> You. I want to talk to Al in here. >> I want you to get the away from me. I'm. pissed you right now. >> with my. >> Can I have my. >> dear Al? >> You. >> Okay. NOT AT ALL. GET THE OUT OF my. studio. I'll let you back in for a. second. Al, I'll be honest. This is.

financial audit. And in financial audit, the first half I do the get to know you. I get to figure out what the dynamic is. That way, it helps me with the rest of. the episode. And then I do the the. number audit part. What the am I. auditing in this episode? There is. there's literally a 700% interest payday. loan at the top of this. I do need to. get into this, but where is this headed? Al, you cannot stay with her. She's currently cheating. She's cheating. in the middle of this episode.

She's never going to stop. What is it? Is it Is it the fear of being alone? You're 22. You got time? I. >> I already lost her once. >> in high school. >> Yeah. >> Well, why? Why? Okay, she's not that. cute. What are you losing? What does she add to your life that you. can't see yourself living without?

>> She tells my anxiety. >> She's not real besides that. But. >> no, that's big. As someone that is, you. know, I deal with some anxiety issues. If you feel like she's the reason why. you're not having to deal with it, it's. almost like she's a your drug of choice. And you're afraid of her not being there. for your anxiety. But you will find. someone else. You know that, right? You. know she's using. Why does she want to be with you? She. wants to be with this guy. I'm confused. on that.

>> But she doesn't want to be with him. either. >> Yeah, that's weird. Does she want to be. with anyone? What the is she doing? Um, but I I just I don't I I don't know. I. don't know. You will You will find. someone else. Does does that scare you. that you might not? >> I mean, that's another thing that's. always scared me. So, yeah. >> Yeah, that is scary. I get it. Um, okay. So, what's going through your head as. you've learned everything that we've all. been learning together in this episode?

Obviously, the producers knew and the. fact that she's just willing to say it. is crazy. But, um, what's been going through your head? My. sweet Al, my perfect innocent Al who's. never done any wrong in this world. >> A lot of thoughts. Walk us through them. >> Open and honest, buddy. >> I mean, I have his number. >> You have his number? >> Well, I had his number at one point. >> Why? >> Cuz I decided the second time I would.

just figure way to get a hold of him, tell him to back the hell off. >> And did you? >> I did. >> And he hasn't. >> But But what happened in that. confrontation? You threaten to call the. cops on me, but that didn't really. matter to me at all because the cops. ain't going to do about the phone. call. >> No. And you're Al. They would never do. anything to you. >> We protect Al. [sighs]. [panting]. [gasps]. >> I don't know. >> What was going through your head that. she's still doing this now? Is it just.

the fear of losing her or are you angry? >> I kind of both right now. >> I get the fear of losing someone. That's a legitimate fear. But there is a. reality in the end that she's never. going to stop. And the question you have. to ask yourself is, are you okay with. that? She's never going to stop. She might. stop with this guy, but she's going to. pick someone else up. >> I don't know. I've thought about her. open relationship idea. >> Buddy, you said you don't want that. >> But they're they're okay if you guys are.

down with it, but if one person person's. being forced into it, it doesn't work. >> If there were ground rule, I think I. could handle it. But the ground rules. would be really strict. But she can't. even follow the ground rule of not. cheating today. [clears throat and laughter]. So like you can't trust the open part. Open is built on trust and there's no. trust here. >> What are your ground rules? What would. your ground rules be? >> Pretty much no physical. >> Yeah. I don't think she. >> emotional. It's open, buddy. >> Yeah, that's. >> you. We just saw photos that she you've.

never seen. >> Yeah, >> those are naked photos of her that she's. sending to another man that you've never. received yourself. By the way, you can. do a lot better than those. trust. I mean, you don't want to live up to her. insane weird kink Blindfold. That's fine. Normal. But the the knife. is kind of crazy. >> I've never done that. >> Yeah. Yeah. Like Brandon, you know, we. we like, you know, we're a little freak. freaky. >> Yeah.

>> Insane. >> Yeah, it is. You're never going to do. that. >> Which means she's always going to try to. look for something more cuz she feels. she's entitled to that for whatever. reason. You're engaged to this woman. Do. you have a wedding set? >> Yes. >> When? >> November 2nd, 2027. >> Going to Oh, at least it's next year. What do you want your life to look like. with her? >> I want to go back to the way it was when.

we started. What did that look like? >> No, it was happier. and it wasn't the constant cheating. That's every relationship in the. beginning though, buddy. >> And actually, they're still in the. beginning. >> Yeah. >> I mean, you guys are in the beginning. >> It It doesn't get better when this is. the start. If this is the starting. point, it's never going to get better. >> Yeah. >> This just picks up. She's She's an.

addict. She's an addict. Might have one criticism of you, my. sweet Perfect Al. >> I mean, yeah, they're not showing up to. work isn't very good. She did complain. in the pre-in a lot how you don't. shower. I recommend showering. >> I mean, I do do that. >> Well, frequently. >> I do like maybe every two days. >> Let's try every day. >> Okay. Well, usually I get too tired from. work and I just come home and go go. right to sleep. >> Then do it in the morning. Let's shower. every day.

>> You're outside all day, right? >> Yeah, I am. >> You're outside. It's hot here in. Tennessee. >> Yeah. >> You got to shower every night. >> Yeah. I know. >> You know, the producers did invite this. guy to come here to get his side, but he. said he'd get violent with you, so we. just didn't let him. Why would he get. violent with you? That's crazy. >> I don't know. Wait, that you know that other guy's. homeless, right? I didn't know that he's.

homeless. >> I did not know that either. >> Okay, I need to learn more from her. Um, let's Can we Can we get her back in? I. want to If we gave her a second to cool. off, I want to see what she's thought. about all this now. This is just insane, dude. How do we even do a financial a. luckily we love the spring part, but I. do need to do an audit in the end. >> What do I do? How's your debt? How's. your [laughter] finances? >> Uh, you okay? Not really. >> What about her? >> It can't happen.

>> Good. Good. Death. When you caught her cheating, you blamed. yourself in your should. Okay, she's. back. All right. You had time to cool. off. >> I did. >> He just had the floor for a little bit. I'm going to let you have the floor. You. can tell her You can tell him. I don't know. I because I'm just. trying to figure out where the to go. from here. >> Um. I just I want to be happy. I haven't.

been happy in a long time. And I don't. feel happy in this relationship. I don't. feel happy in that relationship. I want. to be by myself. I haven't had that. chance ever. >> But who you going to go who you go stay. with? I have people in Arkansas, Texas, South Carolina, and some people in. Tennessee. What do you mean? I've told. you this continuously. >> I know about those people, but. >> I know about those people.

>> I even know that I could get a job. hospital. I can get a job in my dream. job at the hospital doing medical. assisting work and actually get 20 an. hour working overnights and get my own. apartment for 500 a month and be by. myself. Finally. >> Wait, what are you saying right now? I'm. saying that. if it comes up that where I need to be. happy by myself, I have options to. leave. I have an out. So, what's going on with us?

>> Yeah. Are you. kind of sounded like a breakup. did? >> Yeah. >> I just didn't want to be the bad guy. Well, you've gied so. >> Yeah. [clears throat]. Wait, no. No. Tell us what's happening. I Wait, >> actually. >> Yeah.

>> Like on the show, you're just. >> I mean, we we can talk about it on the. plane because of course we had to fly. back and stuff and I need time, but I don't think we should be engaged. I think we should just be a normal. couple for the time being until we get. everything back. >> Yeah. First step is blocking him. The. homeless guy. >> Can you do that? >> I don't know.

>> Wait, do you want to be with him? You're. ending the engagement now. >> Listen, I'm not telling you to break up. I think he should break up with you, actually. But the thing is, >> he won't do it. He's too soft. Okay. But. what about you? I'm not telling you to. break up. But what I am doing is I'm. saying. >> do your thing. Whatever it is, don't. draw out. Be with him or don't. Make the. choice. Make the choice. I mean, you. just broke the engagement. What the is. that? That's insane. I've I haven't seen.

that in real life in my life. That's. crazy. Just don't play with this man. Sweet Al. Perfect Al. Yeah, you giggle at that, but you're. you're with him. You're you're stringing. him along. Are you with him or not? >> I don't know. >> that that is some that is some level. behavior. >> I don't know. >> what the is that. >> I just think I need some time to think.

and you need some time to think as well. if this is what you really want. >> But dude, dude's not leaving you. He'll. never leave you, which is a horrible. mistake. He should leave you. Uh, the. fact that you're the one considering. breaking up, I don't understand. Like, this is so confusing. >> I'm not happy. I haven't been. >> Yeah. No So, why are you stringing. him along then? >> To get my affairs in order to make sure. I have. >> So, you're using me for a place to live. >> Oh, so so you just confirmed you're. breaking up with him, but you're just.

waiting. >> Um, no, not necessarily. >> Girl, that's what you just said. Is that. what she just said? >> That's exactly what you just said. >> Is that what she just said? until you. get your affairs in order. >> Yes. Yes. Okay. >> That means until everything lines up how. you see it lining up and then you leave. >> I I guess you could put it that way, but. that's not how I see it. >> But that's how you just said it. >> How do you see it then? >> I want to make sure like he's okay with. me leaving and I'm okay as well. I want. it to be like a mutual breakup type. thing. >> Wait, no. Dude's never going to break up. with you. >> It's not mutual. He loves you endlessly.

You're cheating on him. >> I don't think I can love anyone to be. honest. Then let him go for his sake. >> I don't. >> So have you never loved me? >> No, I didn't say that I never loved you. >> Said you can't love anyone. >> at this point right now. >> What? Why? >> Me, my emotions, my head. >> Oh, we know it's up, but I mean I would. love you to. >> tell us.

>> Just. >> Okay. She's not saying it, but she's. breaking up with you. And I am. incredibly sorry, but this I actually. I will say I think that's kind of a win. You don't see it that way cuz you really. love her. So, it's so hard. It's tragic. in your heart right now. This is so much better for the rest of. your life. This is so much better for. the rest of your life. You'll have some. time, some broken pieces to get yourself. back together and get yourself back up. on your feet and find someone that loves. you, treats you with respect, and you.

will. Just cuz you had a crush on her in. college doesn't mean you should be. putting up with this. >> High school. >> Yeah. Yeah. High school. But you know. what she just said, right? She just said. she wants to leave you, but because you. don't want to leave her, she's afraid of. doing it. But she wants to now. >> I told you you just kept going to. therapy. >> I don't like therapy. It wasn't working. >> No, it was not. >> You didn't see it, but you were starting. to get better.

I don't think I was getting better. I. think I was actually getting worse. >> That's not what therapy does. >> No, actually in therapy sometimes it. does get worse for a few months for it. to get better. But that's just is cuz. you're finally like letting go of all. like the the coping mechanisms. and avoiding actual truths. As long as. you have a real therapist and not like. an enablement therapist, which a lot of. on TikTok have. But. >> it was probably it was probably getting. worse then it was probably getting. better. >> Yeah. And the dreams that I've had about. you.

>> Well, the dreams. First off, the first. dream was obviously because I caught you. cheating and you thought I would. >> Yeah, but you didn't have to claw my. face off. >> It was in a dream. >> What? Well, how the are we punishing. people for dreams? >> I wasn't punish punishing him for it. I'm not punishing him for it. >> What the What? He did not control your. dream. I'm so confused right now. >> No, >> this is so. >> No, I'm not punishing him for that. I. just bring it up because it I. >> It was a dream. >> Yeah, it was a dream. >> Make believe.

>> No, but that means something spiritually. to me. >> Oh my run. for those East Tennessee hills. Run. right up the Appalachian. >> They're more like mountains. >> Yes. Run. Run. >> She won't be able to catch you run up. those mountains. >> I don't know about that. I go to the. gym. He don't. So. >> I do go to the gym with my cousin. I do. go with her. >> Credit one just called her. Oh my. >> Yeah, they've been constantly calling. me. Oh, no.

No. >> That's okay. They've been calling me. too, but. >> Oh my go Okay. No, I I don't see they they typed in. their couples therapy question. No, you. guys you guys cannot be together. How do. you not see that? This is horrible for. What do you think, Al? She just broke up with you without. breaking up with you. She took off the. engagement ring for sure.

>> I can put it back on. I'm sorry. I just. I don't want him to be hurt. That's my. main goal is I don't want him hurt and I. know that I've already hurt him. [laughter]. >> Yeah, that would have been a good start. Good point. Al W. >> You just you told me when we got. together you don't want the same thing. to happen that happened to you when he. cheated on you and then you go and cheat. on me. >> That was physical. This is not. >> It doesn't matter. Physical and. emotional same thing. >> Not what you said when we were having. the agreement for an open relationship.

even though it was thrown out the door. I said, "What would be the standpoint of. what I could and couldn't do? What you. could and couldn't do?". >> And what did you tell me? >> It' be no physical. >> You said it would be purely just. emotional. >> Actually, not even flirting and. >> Yeah, you can't send nudes. >> Well, I didn't know that at that time. Now I know. >> Well, we won't open the relationship. when you did it. >> Okay, that makes sense. But still, >> yeah, you were just cheating. Like, you're being a Listen, this is. the reality. Um, I didn't know this Al, but she told the producers, I did see.

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I just feel like I need to be alone for. quite a while. >> Initial thoughts, Al. >> Initial thoughts. >> Trans man wants to be alone. Go. >> Honestly, it makes no sense. Yeah, true. Well, she has two plans, I. guess. Plan A, preferred plan, apparently, return to Tennessee temporarily, and. save after filming this episode. She.

says Stella would prefer to fly back to. Tennessee, continue working, and. aggressively save money so that she can. move the right way rather than making an. impulsive move. She says that she. specifically. wants to avoid emotionally throwing. herself back into a difficult living. situation before she's financially. ready. I ride you out until she can get. the out. Use you. >> Okay. >> You got to admit though that household. is very not it. It works for you. That's.

the reason that uh your dad's girlfriend. left and that's the reason why one of. your sister's boyfriends that was living. in their lives. >> Yeah. Cope over cheating Plan B, stay with her adoptive family in Texas. So, this is plan B. She's also been. thinking about not returning to. Tennessee at all, as in like literally. going back with you. Uh, her adoptive. mom is still planning to come to Austin. while she's filming. And Stella says. that if she feels like she has to leave, she could go back with her. This is This.

could be today, man. This could be. today. Stella repeatedly says she. doesn't care where she sleeps because. she just wants to get out of her current. situation. That's That's just because. the house in Houston. >> These are your words though. >> That's because the house in Houston has. a lot of people in it and uh my ex is. still currently living there as well. >> Ex fiance. >> who you'd probably happily let the. out of you. >> No. No. I would not. >> Long-term goal though, Arkansas, Texas. isn't necessarily the final destination.

She says her real goal is Arkansas. >> Yes. >> But she recognizes that moving there. requires money. So that's why she would. use you. Okay. I'm sorry. We just need. to be honest, Al. No matter what, no. matter if you stay with her after today, her goals do not involve you ever. So. she either uses you today and for the. next few months or she leaves you. literally driving back with her adopted. family.

That's it. >> Which I'll have to probably just like. get. >> No. No. Answer this question truthfully. not beating around the bush out of the. fear of some emotions. Is Al in the. future of your picture? >> I don't want to answer that question. right now. I do not. >> That's a no. >> But yes, it's not necessarily a no. >> It's just I don't want to answer that. question right now. >> Literally could go either way. To one of.

the initial producers you talked to, she. did say that she still has feelings for. her ex- fiance, but. >> that's not going to go anywhere. >> I can't. >> Yeah, this went nowhere. >> So, what uh what financial audit do I do. on you guys? Cuz. >> I don't know. Wherever you feel fancy. Harvey, I'm sorry. By the way, I'm. calling the homeless man that you're. cheating on him with in the post show.

Okay. >> To be very clear, >> I am calling him and you can confront. him now. >> Get ready. >> I mean, >> time to man up. >> He has some choice words to say to you. as well, Al. >> What? What has Al ever done? >> Probably just things that aren't even. that severe. >> I mean, they could be severe. They could. not be severe. >> Oh, yeah. Well, what could I have. possibly done? Um, >> did I cheat on you? >> No, you did not cheat on me.

>> Even though you told me I could get. revenge and cheat on you. >> Yes, I did say that. >> And I told you that's not how it works. >> What has Al ever done to you other than. when he lost rides to work, showers. every other day, and doesn't. >> every other day? >> That's what he told us. >> Every other day. What do you mean every. other day? I literally have to tell you. every single time, hey, you need a. shower. You smell. Your sisters have told you that as well. >> I take one bite every 2 to 3 days. >> Do you scrub? No, I can still smell you.

>> Buddy, what do we have against. showering? Showering is so relaxing and. nice. >> It was. >> childhood trauma. >> Childhood. Yeah. >> Was showering? >> Yes. >> It's actually. >> go to therapy. Get exposure. >> I mean, it's just like heat contact on. my skin, so I had to turn it down enough. so that way. >> Go to therapy, do exposure. Yeah, maybe. they can help you blow up balloons. without gagging and throwing up. >> That's a big deal. >> Cheat on him. Like what? >> I didn't cheat on him for that. No, I.

had to blow I had to blow up 300. balloons. I had to blow 300 balloons all. by myself. >> I had a tank of helium. >> No, I didn't want to do helium for all. of them. It was balloon arches. I had to. blow it up by. >> No, I had to like. >> No, I had to blow up all 300 balloons by. myself. No one was helping me. I asked. him, "Hey, can you blow up this. balloon?" And he goes, "Blow it up." And. he just like gags and then can't do it. >> Now you have a problem using your mouth. >> I don't do that. I never have. Like I.

don't like that. >> So she wants to ride a knife but can't. give head. >> I don't like doing that. I have. childhood trauma from that. >> Oh my. Sure. >> No, seriously. [music]. that does not equal let's cheat on my. partner. Like that none of that and your. miscarriage, all that stuff that is. really bad and I do have sympathy for. excuses literally any of this. So it's.

almost pointless to bring up. [sighs]. I will pay for your first four therapy. sessions. cuz I love you. Ow. >> Oh, yeah. I don't I don't know. I never. actually. done therapy. >> That's pretty good. In fact, I have a. guy I have a guy that helps me with my. panic disorder. He helps with phobia.

specifically. And you have this thing. with the shower. Let me connect you to. him specifically cuz he's really good. He is the opposite of a enablement. therapist. He literally tells me I'm a. all the time and to shut the. up. >> It's what you need. You need someone. who's going to hold your feet to the hot. water. I also get you a course career. certification so you can make some. money. You don't get one. You. >> I already have a degree is fine. >> Okay. Making $15 an hour. You're. pathetic. >> No. >> Yes. >> No. >> Yes. >> I have a degree in something else that I.

have not. >> You make $15 an hour. >> Yeah. But I'm going to go back to that. You make $15 an hour. That's it. I don't. give a about your degree. I got you. a course career certification. A lot of. people in the audience have turned them. into six figure jobs. You get that. She. doesn't. You get dollar wise forever. She doesn't. So use that. Download. Get. your meal plan. All that good stuff. >> You get everything. You get helium. You. get it all. >> You.

also he didn't just sell the PS5. He. sold it to make you happy. >> No. >> Even though you won't do anything to. make him happy. That's what he told us. >> He doesn't even No, no, no. He doesn't. use the PlayStation. We don't use the. PlayStation. Neither one of us. We use. the Switch or he uses his PC. >> Yeah, but you're the one that wanted to. come to the show. >> I asked him. >> I asked him continuous. >> He's the one that wanted to come on, right? So, he sold his PS5 to get you. >> I asked him continuously if this is what. really what he wants to do. He could. have said no and I would have been fine. with it. We would have been fine. >> But yet, he did it anyway.

>> Well, you didn't. It's not my fault that. he did that. And I don't know why you. said that. >> I I said that I helped pay for the trip. That's all I said. I saw. >> You said in the You said in the green. room you did this to make her happy. You. did say that in the green room. >> I didn't say anything about the PS5 in. the green room. Did I. >> to come here? >> Oh, yeah. The trip. Yeah. >> Come here to make her happy. >> No, not the PS5 part. >> I would have went by myself if you. didn't want to go. >> I would not. I'm glad you didn't cuz. Al's learning a lot of things that he. needed to learn to make his life better.

>> That was the original plan was. >> I got therapy and a lot of stuff for Al. A lot of good stuff for Al, including a. free Hammer Elite for Life on the app. >> Oh, nice. >> It's really good. We got three premium. shows every single day, six days a week, including the post show for this one. where we call the guy that I guess wants. to kill you and you want to kill him. Uh, okay. >> You can keep paying for it. >> Okay.

>> We're also upgrading your ticket to. first class so you don't have to sit. next to this. >> Okay. Okay. Although, we [snorts] might have some. things to talk about on the plane. >> No, no, no. Leave her. No talking. She'll she'lling manipulate you so she. can live off of you. She's concluded. that her future plans do not involve. you. There's no nothing to talk about.

She wants to talk to you. >> I would like I would like for his input. on anything. >> Shut the up. >> But he doesn't give me his input. >> and he shouldn't. He should leave you. You're ass. We'll also do an. episode of Dating Audit with you if. you're down. We'll help you set up your. dating profile to make it absolutely. sexy and great. Okay. It's one of our. Hammer Elite shows. We'll do that for. you. >> Okay. >> Okay.

>> Let me check in though. How we feeling? >> Um, >> how are you feeling? Um, I mean, I'm here. Don't really have any much feelings. right now. I'm just here. I'm chilling.

>> I'm sad. I didn't want to hurt you. [laughter]. >> You cheated on him, you. >> I didn't want to hurt him. Like. >> again. >> Again? >> Yeah. >> Again? >> Again? I think the fourth. Yeah. Sorry, I'm death glaring you. I'm here. I'm not I don't I don't feel. the greatest right now emotionally. >> Good.

>> I just. I want to be happy and I haven't been. happy in forever. >> Let him be happy and let him go. You're using him. He's not in your future and you want to. be with like a trans man. I don't like. what the what is that? What is that? >> Incredible. Switch up. >> Just g give us eventually. I know you. said eventually you don't want to be. with anyone right now. He is somebody by. the way. And okay, what's this trans man. thing? >> Um I've just been somewhat attracted to.

a few of them in the past. >> Okay. But you want. >> No. >> I think trans men have. >> Well, some do, some don't. Well, they. have a a dick, but it's like their. enlarged, >> but I don't know. I'm not I want. something platonic, not really romantic. >> Who wants to be with you for that? >> Wait, not platonic. You still want them. to you? >> Well, fuddies are out there, >> but it's not that's not platonic, is it? >> Not at all. Platonic are just friends.

Any of these conversations have been. platonic. >> Separate person for platonic, separate. person for fuddy. >> Okay. And where does Al fit in? >> I do not know. I don't have a place. right now. Oh. Oh, there you go. Did you. hear that, Al? Al, did you hear that? >> Yeah, I heard it. >> Are you going to leave? I'm I'm going to. ask again now. >> I'm I'm rather not make the decision on. the show. [groaning] Al, man. >> Ow.

>> And tech and you produce them. Lindsay, you produce them. Should Al get the out. >> Yes, sir. You should leave and leave. fast. >> She can't quit cheating on you, buddy. Here's. the furniture thing. It's not a payday. loan, so I I I got you. Okay. Max total cost. I mean, it's still. crazy to be clear, but yeah, you're. right. It is weekly. Thank you for. correcting me on that. If you didn't do.

that, we wouldn't have known that maybe. that we made a really big mistake. So, I. guess you're renewing it every time. >> Yeah. >> It's very weird. But again, your. purchase your purchase was 1,667 and the. total payments in the end is 3,794. Al Jim. >> So we just we really can't do that. So I. don't know what the balance is right. now, but you can early pay. If you can. get a,600 in cash, you can wipe it out. If you can get a personal loan at like. Caleb.com or something, you can wipe it.

out cuz that'll save you a lot of money. And I don't usually advocate for people. on the show to get personal loans. So. it's usually not a thing. It's us for. people out there that are like me that. can manage it. We got personal loans, we. got car insurance, we got debt. forgiveness. But I mean, this is like. insane cuz this is still kind of like a. payday loan. But okay, so it's 42.92. weekly. So times 52 / 12. Basically $186. a month. Her Oh, wait. I have great news.

for me on this. I don't give a. interesting how that worked. Oh, Al, you. got a credit one, >> my friend. >> I recommend closing this. Okay. >> Yeah. But isn't you going to be able to. pay it off before you can close it? I. think. >> I think you can close it before paying. off. >> Oh, >> doesn't mean it goes away. This is. closed. 200. Yeah, you have a late fee. So, yeah, late fee for about three. What. do you want to say? Uh, >> I would like my phone back, please. >> Sure.

Thank you. >> Yeah, you got to text your current. boyfriend. That. >> I'm not texting anyone. >> What do you got to do? >> Put it in my pocket. What do you think. I'm going to do with it? >> Cheat. >> I'm not going to do that. I'm putting it. in my pocket. >> Okay. 240 bucks. $30 a month. Her. Oh, interesting. Don't give a. because you need to learn how to budget. on your own cuz you will be alone. But. that's okay. Temporarily, we're going to. date and audit you. You're going to do. great. Experian. Whose Experian am I.

looking at with 3,000 on a synchrony. care card? >> It's mine. >> I don't care. Who has debt to adoptive. mom? Well, the only person who talks. about adopting a parent is this crazy in. front of me. So, I don't really care. Advantage. Well, you didn't go to. college, did you, friend? That's okay. So, that's going to be her. Uh, Chime. Hey, you're spending a lot of money. Don't her. I don't give a. about your finance. I don't give a. Your chime. I don't give a probably. spending money and Okay. You're I.

care about your cash app. My perfect Al. How we doing? >> I'm doing good. >> Yeah, you are. You're a king. Don't you. forget it. So cash app. So you only got. those two deaths. The rena center and. your credit one, right? >> You can get out of that and we can have. freedom from horrors and from. financial problems. Unfortunately, you did have a fee on. this and you are Yeah, we did a rent the. center. Yep. So, you're paying through. your cash app overdraft payment. That's.

not good, Al. We got a budget. We need a. budget. You got dollar wise for life. now. Make sure you're budgeting. Uh. 5M shop. What's that? >> That's a GTA, isn't it? What does it. say? >> Oh, is that your. >> That's your roleplay, isn't it? >> Ro play. >> Was it recent? >> Yeah. June 2nd. >> What was it for? >> 5mm. What was the prepare like amount? >> The amount paid. >> I know. I know. 36. No, that was your. fee. $12.36.

>> Yes, it was. >> No, it wasn't the game. I don't know. what that is. >> Do you recognize this? It is. >> It It would be under New Haven. >> Okay. Maybe it's a subscription to one. that you used to do and you forgot about. Apple Bill. Cash withdraw. Uh McDonald's GC Microsoft Cash App more. Rent the Center. State Bank books a. million. Books a million. Don't buy her. That getting some Door. Dashing Subway. Probably shouldn't be doing it. Vapor, you vape? >> Yes.

buddy. >> He vapes very heavily. >> Shut the up. >> I'm just telling you. the information I know. >> I don't give a about what you have. to say. Cash App Popey is nice. >> He's looking at me weird. >> Shut the up. >> I'm sorry, but he's just. >> shut the up. Overdraft. Overdraft. Overdraft. Overdraft. This is not good. Books a million. We're not getting. Subway and vaping and Popeyes when we're. overdrafted, my friend. Okay. >> Why don't you pop? >> Shut the up. >> Oh, I remember. >> Shut the up. >> I'm just. >> Shut the up.

>> Shut the up. my head. >> Shh. >> I'm remember [clears throat] quiet downs. her. I don't care. Very good. So, that's. your only checking account, is that? >> Yeah. >> You don't have any savings or. retirement, I assume. That's okay. You're 22. You're young, >> huh? >> I might have the 401k, but I don't think. I have access to that. You know how much you got in there? >> Work. >> You know how much you got in started. >> I know the books are good for her, but. you just got to not spend money for a. little bit. >> You live at home, so your rent's cheap. Your your rent's nothing, right? Do you. owe them anything?

>> He pays. Shut the up. Do. >> 200 a week, >> huh? >> 200 a week. >> to the family to live there. What. about groceries? How's that dealt with. in the house? >> I guess they just use whatever they have. to. >> Okay, so they get the groceries. Okay, well that helps. So 800. You have to pay. that. Shut the up. But I was paying for. the groceries before. That was my rent. there. I was paying for the groceries. I. I spent. >> They'll figure it out. Your family will. help you, right? >> Tell me. What? >> When she leaves, your family will help. you, right?

>> Mommy. Yeah. I'm not going to get kicked. out. >> But they'll help you. They'll like not. charge you for groceries, right? >> Yeah. >> Cuz 800 is already a lot for you cuz you. make 1,800. This is a chunky thing. >> YOUR DAD WAS. >> SHUT UP. YOUR DAD. >> SHUT UP. What's your car insurance? >> Car insurance 230 a month. >> Jeez, dude. Gas. Vroom from drive drive. How much? >> I don't really pay much for gas. >> Does even if you pay insurance? >> Shut up. How much? >> I don't drive. >> Okay. So, nothing. You go to work. >> Well, my my ride picks me up and he.

doesn't. >> Why do you pay car insurance? >> Cuz well, it's the car is in my name, so. I have to pay for it. >> Okay. >> But I'm allowed to use the car. >> I'm allowed to use the car, but I just. can't bring it to work cuz he needs to. go to work. Do you ever use the car? >> No, I don't make any payments on it. >> Get off this. I'm going to cross off the. car insurance. He has to pay. You're. done. Get off of it. >> He's not going to pay. >> Then I don't care. Then let it default. I don't give a Let it default. Let. it default. I don't care. You need the. money to fix your life. And get on. You.

and your family are not one person. You're already giving them $800 a month. for rent, which is actually kind of a. lot. What's your phone bill? >> The straight talk, so it was like 45. >> Okay. I'll get you helium for 15. TP you find anything else you need to. survive, my friend. $100, razors, >> shower gel, >> all that good stuff. 10 in one, whatever. you do, subscriptions, I'll try like 50 bucks. I. want you to be able to play your games. You got any pets? You personally under.

your care and ownership. No, >> we're not allowed to. >> Shut up. >> Medical healthcare. You got co-pays on a. monthly basis. You will with therapy, but I'll cover some sessions first. >> The medical health insurance. >> Yeah. >> Uh, no, it's through my job. >> Yeah. Okay, buddy. You don't need much. to survive. Listen, this is you. We got. you at about 1,000 bucks, which brings. you $800 left, which means you can pay. off all the debt pretty much in a couple. months. You save that up. That's not. that difficult. And then you're free. But you need to get the car insurance.

off your name. I don't care if he. doesn't pay it. You don't even use the. car. So, it's not your problem. Let it. default. Let it get repoed. I don't care. if it your credit for a little bit. You. need a fresh restart and then you. >> I'm sorry. There's just not He's His His. dad is not going to like that at all. There is no other way. >> I don't care. You need to live your. life. Tough conversations need to be had. and you need to leave. You need to get. out of the house. We need to start. pursuing a new career through the. certifications that I give you. Do the. therapy that I give you. Use all the.

tools. Pay off this debt in a few. months. Say that you can pay for the car. insurance, but he needs to lower the. rent by that amount. you know, so either way it just breaks. even. >> Um, and at that point, we need to get. you like a cheap rent and we're going to. do a dating audit with you and you need. to get out and you need to leave her. No. matter what she does to manipulate you, you need to leave her. Okay, guys, we're. actually going to bring in the other man. in the post show via a video call. Your. hammer financial score is zero. It's. clear as day. Maybe a one, maybe a.5.

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