"MY MOM SLEPT WITH MY BF" | Ep #62 | Bangin' Out

Hello. >> Welcome to not the Bangin' Out podcast. today, but um. >> something a lot more serious. >> We're trained professionals. We're not. hosts. >> We have actually trained in this. industry behind the scenes for many, many years. >> 50 plus on my side. >> About 35 on mine. >> And today we're going to be doing what. we're best at. >> Situationships and relationships advice. >> Bang it out. >> Let's put our headphones on and report. for duty.

>> By the way, everybody watching, there. will be a $5 credit card fee taken out. cuz we don't do this for free. >> Yeah, so everyone who watches we're. going to hack your YouTube channel and. get all your credentials, social. security, everything, and Richie's on. that right now and. >> $5 a session and we have a few sessions. in here today, so. >> Oh, plenty. >> Plenty. Oh my god, I'm scared. I'm actually. scared. >> Okay, okay. >> Hey, so um. I just have been having a lot of. problems in terms of. um.

my. Like I just kind of struggle with like. my penis. Guys, um it's like too big and. every time that. >> [laughter]. >> Like I pull it out and like people get. scared and [ __ ] And I'm just trying to. like I need some advice on. um like what to do. >> Yeah. >> Um. like I know Jacob has a super big dick. >> Mhm. >> So like I just kind of wanted his. opinion on this. >> Valid. >> Okay. >> um it's just so big.

>> It is. That's what I thought. >> Yeah, um it would really mean a lot to. you. >> You know what this sounds like to me? An. estranged mentally ill person calling in. to the hotline who may be having. instances of schizophrenia. >> Uh I didn't get that. I kind of got. someone who. is struggling with oversized penis. >> No, I think that might have been a. deranged person. >> Mhm. >> who might have. >> Mhm. I don't think so, but um dude, I. feel you, bro. Um Um.

>> I. >> I know what that's like and. >> I'd recommend going to a mental. hospital. Um insurance covers most of them. >> [laughter]. >> And um. >> Yeah, well, wish you the best of luck. >> the best. Wrong number though. Wrong. number. Wrong number. >> Yeah. >> Hi. So basically, um. me and this boy have like a. situationship. And like I don't know if he's like. trying to play with me or like. I don't know. I really don't know what's. going on and I'm having like really.

mixed feelings and I was trying to tell. him multiple times like oh, like I feel. something that's like going on between. us like you know? Like I just expressed. my feelings towards him and he said that. he likes me, but like he's not ready for. a relationship, but like we like kissed. multiple times. Like it's always like. very different like when we hang out. with each other and like. >> me or play with me? >> I don't understand what's going on. >> He's No, what Well, so if this is a. situationship. >> it's pray with me, yes, Lord.

>> like it was play. >> He's playing with you. >> Amen. >> No, this is the definition of a. situationship. This man does not want. commitment and he will never commit to. you. Like leave it, leave it, leave it. Like if somebody's going to do. relationship [ __ ] but not like actually. like claim you like that, they have. commitment issues. Like no, leave. He's playing with you. >> what if he wants to. Were they saying play or pray? >> Play. Like he thinks he's playing like. with his feelings. >> Oh, see, I got a full different take on. that. I got kind of like a they could be. religious buddies. >> No.

They like. >> in the church and. >> No. >> Oh. >> [snorts]. >> They they they've kissed, they do. relationship things, but he's not like. actually dating. >> God, you know? >> That would be. >> But I guess it's just them two. Well, God's there. God's always there. God is good all the time. >> Oh, yes. >> Amen. >> Yes. >> Yes, Lord. >> No, leave that leave that [ __ ] man. Leave that man. That's such. situationship. >> Yeah, leave. >> I know people that are I've seen people. like online who have been in. situationships for like 10 years. Like I ain't there is a nobody in the in.

this goddamn earth who is worth. >> That's a relationship. >> But that's just like you're [ __ ]. other people but then always going back. to each other and you want to put a. label on it. >> an open relationship. >> That's a situationship and it's it's not. worth your time. Leave it. >> That's a situationship. >> That's good. >> Oh, ha. It's kind of good. All right, next one. >> Leave. Leave. >> Hi. I just got started with my ex after I. [ __ ] my best friend for about a month. or so. and I don't know if that is the right.

course of action. >> Can I hear that one more time? Sorry, I. was like. >> Holy drama. >> Hi. So, I just got started with my ex. after I [ __ ] my best friend for about. a month or so. >> For a month? >> And I don't know if that is the right. course of action. >> Okay. >> I don't know. >> Okay. >> Anyway, a month to not. >> I want to know. why you guys broke up. If he cheated on. you, you did the right thing. Now, if. you guys broke up cordially,

then you might have made a mistake. You. might I don't know if if that was the. >> Yeah, I don't know about this one. So, what? They broke up with the ex, they. were [ __ ] their best friend for a. month and now they're. >> Does the ex know? That's I think an. important thing. >> Definitely not. There's no way the ex. knows. But also, how did this. relationship end? Was like was your ex. his best friend and then you were like, "Oh, [ __ ] you. I'm going to get you. back." Or was it just I need to know how. you broke up. I think it could go two. different ways. Are you being petty or. or did you actually just really [ __ ] up?

Cuz also, when you're now. >> know that. We don't have conclusive. >> together, now he's going to find out. Like. >> But we've studied this for a long time, right? We're professionals. >> We're professionals. >> We don't have conclusive data to be able. to conclude the conclusive conclusion. Concourse. Conclusion. >> I don't know. I feel like you Okay. >> Cuz experimental data shows that they. don't have the conclusive loop, but the. the last missing pieces of the data set. are that they We don't know if they were.

concluding to the fact that they dated. and they knew about. >> up? >> [laughter]. >> Now you shut the [ __ ] up. SHUT THE [ __ ]. UP. YOU KNOW WHAT? I ACTUALLY HAVE GOOD. ADVICE. >> OKAY. >> Never get back with your ex. So, no. You. should not You should break up with your. ex and keep [ __ ] your best friend. Or just go celibate. Do that. >> Like me. >> [laughter]. >> Out of not out of choice. >> But. >> But look at me. I I'm happy. >> Celibacy is a great thing. Or like Okay,

listen. Like genuinely do not get back with your. ex. Bad decision. Like if you broke up. once, it's I just I don't think it's If. you're out of high school, like. just no, you know? Like I feel like. breaking up on and off is like a high. school thing and like excusable when. you're in high school. Once you're out. now, don't go back to your ex, girl. Or. sorry. Yeah, don't go back to your ex. and. keep [ __ ] your best friend then. Or. just be celibate. >> Yep. Next one. Let's get it. >> I think that was good advice. >> Yeah, we're just plowing through or not.

plowing. That [laughter] might not be. the right words. We're just flowing. through these, you know? Let's just keep. them going. Let's keep helping the. people. >> That was good. >> I think we're helping a lot. >> My relationship is that the fact that. the guy I've been with for 2 years broke. up with me. But we still live together. >> Mhm. >> And. do the same [ __ ] that we normally would. do when we were together. >> Mhm. >> Uh. Honestly, don't know what's going on. But. >> I can tell.

>> That is a lot of [ __ ] happening here. Kind of crazy though, cuz. there's one of my friends who likes me. >> Oh. >> He's flirting with me, but I don't take. the chance to flirt with him because I'm. still loyal to the other one. >> Aw. >> The one I didn't wait for 2 years, even. though we still live together and all. that stuff. But. >> Sounds like you got a good heart. Your. heart's in the right place, but also, if. you guys aren't dating anymore and the 2. years is over, I think it's time to move. on and maybe see your other options.

>> But they still live together. And they. still do everything like that. >> No, that man's messy as [ __ ] That man. broke up with you so that he could [ __ ]. other [ __ ] while you're at home. That. You're still living together. You're. doing relationship things, but he just. wants to be broken up. No, it's so they. could [ __ ] somebody. Like that is dirty. >> It's dirty. It's nasty. It's cruel. It's. >> imagine like. >> It's unsanitary. It's dirty. >> Could you imagine breaking up with you. you're You get broken up with and then. you still live together?

>> No, I couldn't imagine that. That sounds awful. >> Uh. >> Good morning. What do you want for. breakfast, Johnny? Oh, um I'll have pancakes with a side of. >> situation you're. dating a guy named Johnny. >> [snorts and laughter]. >> I guess, yeah, in that situation. Well, or I was Yeah, happy pride, y'all. >> Well, yeah, like what Yeah, oh yeah, what do you want for me? Keep going with. that. I like I like that. >> Okay, so I'm I'm a girl making. breakfast. And I'm saying, "What do you. want for breakfast, Johnny?".

That would be awkward. >> I I don't know. This is actually bad. I. say go for the guy that is flirting with. you because it. I. You can't waste time with a man that. broke up with you and you just like no. That man does not respect you. >> Well, so who broke up with who though? >> Could See, these are the details I want. to know. >> Like y'all need to include that because. what if he's the good guy? You can't. always just take the girl's side. >> always I'm always I'm always taking the. girl's. >> And. I think I think our audience even was.

saying that about the Michaela or. whatever. >> Nigeria? What were they going to say? >> They were mad because what if what if. actually the girl's the demon? You know, sometimes that happens. >> True, but like 99.99%. >> true. It's not true. >> I feel like statistically men cheat. more. >> [snorts]. >> I mean, maybe. I don't know. >> I I don't know. Like I don't know. I. just I'm always going to take the. woman's side, like every time. >> Yeah, I do too most of the time, but I. think we if we don't have conclusive. data, we can't just assume that.

>> do have conclusive data. >> Oh. Oh. >> My situation is. that the fact that the guy I've been. with for 2 years broke up with me. >> He broke up with her. >> HE BROKE. I NEED TO WHAT I I NEED TO [laughter] DO. >> YEAH, then it's his fault. >> You need to The man who who's now giving. you attention and you're hesitant on. going out with, stop being loyal to the. the guy that just dumped you. You're. still living with him even though you. two years. Stop being loyal to him cuz. he's not being loyal to you. Nobody's. going to break up with you.

and like. stay loyal. Like. >> Well, they're not dating. >> dating. He's not being loyal to you. He. doesn't respect you. So, you owe him. nothing. >> Even if you got Well, they're not. dating. >> I know. I'm saying you owe him nothing. >> Yeah, exactly. >> But like I think maybe it's harder cuz. they're living together still. >> Yeah, that'd be weird. They dated for 2. years and they live together? >> Business brain. Business brain. What you. need to do is make this man so. uncomfortable in this living situation. that he ends up leaving. Start bringing. guys over to the house and like having.

dinners in front of him. And so then. he gets uncomfortable and leaves. And. now guess what? You guys don't live. together anymore. You're straight. You. can have. a good time like that. >> Yeah, or like start like putting stuff. in his food. >> Like bleach. >> Okay, I wasn't thinking that. I was just. thinking Or like what if what if they. started just eating like worms for. breakfast and like throwing sand at the. person, not brushing their teeth. >> Bloody pads everywhere. Make it just make that a living. situation so uncomfortable.

>> But what if they have like a lease? you know? >> But then the guy just. make him break the lease. >> What if he can't afford to? >> He broke up with that's his fault. He. broke up with her. He was mean. So sorry. if like that's on you, buddy. >> Yeah. >> I'd say. >> Yeah, I would I would explore the other. options. >> And bring them over and make steak. dinners right in front of your ex. And. then like when your ex is like what the. [ __ ] going on, be like, "Oh, there's. leftovers in the fridge and it's worms. and bloody pads.".

>> I like that idea. >> I like that, too. >> Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for over. a year now. We've been having a hard. time lately though. It seems like every. day I'm walking on eggshells and that. he's going to be breaking up with. He has a girl best friend that he is. super close with. I personally find it emotional cheating, um, but he doesn't see it that way and. he honestly thinks that it's weird that. I think that his friendship is weird for.

even if they're not romantically. involved with each other flirting, I. still find how close they are with each. [laughter] other. really uncomfortable. And. there's been so many issues, but he just. doesn't respect my boundaries cuz he. thinks that it shouldn't be a boundary. Please help me, guys. What do I do? >> I actually have strong opinions on this. as I've grown up. So when I was younger, I used to be the same way where I'm. like, "I don't want my boyfriend having.

any girlfriends." And I like I think. when you're younger, that's an easy take. to have, but like the older you get, like I don't care if my partner has. friends that are girls. >> Yeah. >> And like I think it should be vice versa. and trust comes from like within. If you. think that your boyfriend's going to. cheat on you with his girl best friend. >> be with them. >> then don't be with him. It's like he's. going to cheat regardless. Like I'm not. going to be with somebody who I don't. trust having friends that are girls. Now, the issue comes from if that girl. is directly disrespecting you. If If his. girl best friend is directly like. flirting with him in front of you, doing.

things to make you uncomfortable, you. express that that's making you upset, and it continues, that's a different. story. But if they really are just. friends, it's like you. especially if they were friends before. you met. I feel like that's also. >> And then also she stated that like. they're it's not flirty, they don't do. anything together. Honestly, this sounds. like. you got to you got to be cool with it. Because in life, you the worst thing you. could do is actually make him cut off. this person, and then he's going to resent you for.

the fact that you're starting to like. separate his friends, and the relationship's not going to. last. >> It's going to fail, and then it's like. he's truly He truly does just see this. girl as a friend, and then you're making. it It's It's making him. >> See, if he was being like sneaky and. doing [ __ ] like you said like where. there it was crossing a line, but it. sounds like she's even saying they're. not doing that. I think you got to let. him have friends. >> Right. I think it's. >> Cuz yeah. >> It's okay to have boundaries. If you If. you truly want a relationship where you. guys do not have friends of the opposite. sex, you need to find somebody who.

already does not have that and has the. same boundary. You can't meet somebody. that's like, "Oh, well, I have a really. cool friend." And then, "Oh, well, we're. dating now. You have to drop. >> And then start like yeah, making them. isolate. That's actually like pretty. bad, actually. That's like what That's. like kind of I feel like. not good. >> It's not. And I think the older you get, the more you realize that like. friendships like that are more common. cuz it like in high school, >> Mhm. >> I was like, "Oh, my god.". >> Oh, yeah. That's like it's I think that. comes with maturity. >> Yeah.

>> Is having the. the comfort and realizing that if you're. going to choose to date somebody, you have to. you have to understand who they are and. know that they're probably not going to. change. >> Right. >> Like so you have to be willing to accept. them for the way that they are, and you can't start getting mad about. friendships later into the relationship. >> and just getting Stop. >> You can't not trust somebody and then. be with like Okay, what? So, then he. stops being friends with this girl and.

then what? He gets a new job and he has. a girl coworker. Are you going to get. mad about the girl. >> you're going to make him quit his job. So, yeah. >> it spirals and it's like that You don't. You already don't trust him. >> Yeah. >> Comes from within. >> Yeah, I think I Yeah. >> Usually I will take the girl's side on. this, but like I feel like I've had a. lot of like experience in this terrain. when it comes to like like. people having friends of the opposite. gender and it's something that. >> Yeah. We've had that experience with That's. why I was laughing during that message. cuz I was like, "We've had some. experiences with the. >> People that are.

>> past being really weird about. >> being friends and then like. >> Like if I ever get a girlfriend and. she's like weird about us being friends, >> It's like. >> I'm low-key sorry. See you. >> Right. And it's like I would never. And even in my friend group, like I'm. not going to sit here and tell my boyf-. Oh, you can't you can't go to lunch with. one Like that's weird. Like I don't. care. >> Yeah. >> Trust your friends. >> I think I think we we both agree on. this. >> And we have very good. >> Either let him be who he is. or I think that's a sign that you might.

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>> Uh I got a Snapchat of her cheating, and. I'm just kind of lost. I don't know if I. should confront her or just act like. nothing happened. Oh, hell no. >> Confront the [ __ ] out of her. I want you to grab out your phone. I. want you to go to camera roll, put flash. on, and go up to her and be like, show. her the Snapchat on camera, and say, "What are you doing, you bozo? I never want to see you again. I wish. you all the best, but I really don't, but have a great life, cuz you won't be.

in mine." And I know that's it's way. easier said than done, but you got to. have the self-respect to pack the bags. up, get the hell out of there, and go. find someone at like a cooking class or. something, you know? >> 4 years married. >> Oh, [ __ ] I didn't even remember that. part. I thought they were. >> They've been married. >> and you're and she decided to go on a. girls' trip to Miami, and then cheat. Oh, hell no. That actually makes me. really sad. >> Yeah, that's really complicated. Hopefully they don't have kids and [ __ ].

but like, you know what? The more I hear. about this stuff, I'm just like, wow, it. makes me lose faith in uh. in uh in human beings. >> I say get AI meta glasses. Okay? You're going to get AI meta. glasses and you're going to print out. the frame-by-frame video Snapchat of her. cheating. You're going to print it and. put it all over the house. She's going. to walk in from her trip, AI meta glass. her, and be like, "Pack your [ __ ] and. go." You're going to post that AI meta. glass video on Reels, go viral, >> and get a gambling deal.

>> And you're going to get a gambling deal. on Stake. At this point, you are going. to hand out bull balls to people in the. public and make them chug it for $20 and. then record them, and that's your new. job. >> Yes, and you will make consistent. income. You're going to sign with an. agency, and then you're going to be an. influencer. And which is a very. lucrative career. So, uh. >> I will say on a real note, leave. Like, it's not even I feel like it gets. complicated when you're married, and I. feel like when people are married, they. excuse cheating more. It's like, Oh, we.

took that vow. >> Yeah, we're So, I have a ring on my. finger. Yeah, so do all the rappers. They all have diamond rings. You can go. get another [clears throat] one, and. maybe this one will stay loyal cuz the. diamonds will keep blingin'. >> Yep. And a ring does not. mean anything. >> If you like it, then you should've put a. ring on it. But why put a ring on it if. you not going to like it? Ooh. Come on. I don't know what that one. meant. >> Yeah. >> I'm spitting from the spiritual realm. off the dome. I'm speaking from.

subconsciously conscious. >> Okay, divorce that woman. She doesn't. deserve you. Find you a new wife, and. she might. >> be perverted. Pervert you. >> She might pervert you, get on top of you. AND RIDE YOU, AND THEN SHE'LL HAVE YOUR. BABIES, and then guess what? She won't. go to Miami on a girls' trip and suck. some other dude's dick. So, not okay. >> Mhm. >> Yes. Leave that woman. Leave that woman. And whoever you are, you are very rude. for cheating on your husband. Don't do. that. >> Yeah, whoever you are,

>> karma comes around, and you're going to. get cheated on. >> Whoever threw that paper, your mom's a. hoe. You know that meme? >> Yes, I like that meme. >> Yeah, it didn't really. >> Sunion ring. This girl's a sunion ring. >> She is. She's a sunion. >> I can never. I never truly loved someone and then. they're like, "Oh my god, I love you.". And then I'm like, "Um, I love you." And then I'm like, "Oh. my god, but I really don't love them.". My issue is I've only dated like three. people. I have never actually loved. them. >> Oh my god, you're evil.

>> if you love someone? >> You're evil. >> No. >> Poor girl, she's evil. >> That's not. >> She doesn't have emotions. >> That is not evil. It's not evil that she. doesn't love. >> That's kind of sad. >> She's asking how do you know if you love. someone? >> She's saying she never has loved. someone. >> No, she's asking how does it She's not. evil. She's been with people and then. she realizes she doesn't love them and. they love her and she wants to know what. love feels like. First off, you might be gay. First off, if you have been with a bunch. of men and you haven't loved any of.

them, I would recommend maybe it's. pride, switching over the ring, and going on. some dates with some women. Okay, I'm. going to suggest that, but also, if it. has just been shitty men that you're. with, I feel like. Oh. >> Um, can I listen one more time, please? >> Of course. >> I'm getting a tingly sensation. >> Okay, so basically, my relationship. problem is I feel like every time I've. been in a relationship, I can never.

I never truly loved someone and then. they're like, "Oh my god, I love you.". So quick and I'm like, "Um, I love you.". And then I'm like, "Oh my god, but I. really don't love them." My issue is. I've dated like three people. I have. never actually loved them. How do you know if you love someone? Is. that so crazy to ask? I guess. >> a little butterflies in your stomach. when they smile. And you want to go on long walks on the. beach and they make you feel like time. will last forever. >> I feel like. >> And then they'll just leave you. And they'll tell you that.

everything's going to be okay, but it's. not. It's not going to be okay. >> [gasps]. [sighs]. >> And. >> [snorts]. >> and then you know, time just. >> [gasps]. >> time doesn't heal all wounds and you. just have to keep moving forward. Um. yeah, I don't know. Um. I think personally. yeah, they haven't found the right one. They said I love you too soon. Okay, when I first heard it I was like, oh, they're they're. not they're not capable of feeling.

emotions, but they're capable of having. the awareness of knowing they do that. So I think they are capable of loving. someone. I'm kind of on your page where. maybe they. maybe they should try playing for some. different teams if you know what I'm. saying. You know what I'm saying? >> And I feel like when you love someone, it's not like a thing you're going to. constant consciously like think about. It'll just like happen. Like you're not. going to be like, oh, like I wonder when. I'm going to feel it. Like you just. will. And then like there's no not. knowing that feeling.

>> Yeah. >> But you know when you don't love. someone. Like that's. But you you you really know when you do. and I think that there's no way to. describe it besides like you know and I. feel like that's a shitty answer, but. like you'll just know and I feel like. maybe it is just shitty men. Maybe like. take some time away from men, try some. women. Try some women because I hear. this very a lot from girls who are like, oh, I was dating men for so long. I was. never happy. I was I never loved any of. them. Like they were good guys, but I. just never loved them and then they. found out that they were lesbian and. then they were like, I'm in love with.

women and they're the happiest they've. ever been. So. And also I think you mentioned that they. they're the ones to quickly go into the. I love you talk and stuff and then you. kind of go along with it cuz you feel. bad, but you don't actually feel. anything. I think have the awareness of. knowing that. that pattern has happened and the next. time that you are interested in. somebody, a guy, a girl, whoever, just. have that in your mind that you want to. and maybe even tell this next person, you know,

"I really want to take things slow and. build a connection." And really do some. like self-check-ins and be like, "Am I. feeling something?" And it's okay to not. feel anything. Like, you know? >> That's actually really good advice, yeah. >> Um. and I think and you'll find somebody. Like, believe it or not, like, I've even. had people in my life. >> Mhm. >> You know? Um and that they're gone now, but um. but they were there. Okay, next one. >> This one's a little longer. Feel free to.

stop me, but it's juicy. >> Okay. Okay. >> I found out my boyfriend was cheating on. me with my cousin, dude. It was freaking. horrible. I was dating this guy for like. 6 years, right? We met in like the last. year of high school. And we've been. totally fine, right? Like, completely. and totally fine for a long ass time. And. Dude, I come home one night which I hear. like noises and [ __ ] I'm like, "What. the [ __ ] Why the [ __ ] are there these. noises like that? Like, what the fuck?".

So, I go upstairs. I start walking up. these stairs. I'm like freaking out cuz. I'm hearing like these groaning moans. I'm like, "What the fuck?" And then oh. my god, I walk into the room and they're. having like a literal They're doing it. >> and her cousin. >> Oh my god, it was on my bed. It was on. our bed. With And my cousin was a man, mind you. My cousin was a man. I didn't. know that. I didn't know my boyfriend. was into stuff like that. Like, I. genuinely didn't. >> Happy birthday. >> I didn't And the dog was on the. The dog.

was on the bed. The dog was on the bed. The dog was by the unit. Why would a dog. >> Oh, hell no. >> Why would a dog be on the bed? It's so. [ __ ] weird. Why would you do that? I'm sorry for cussing, but like, that's. so freaking weird. That's so freaking. weird. Like, why would you cheat on me? Oh my god, dude. And then it got even. worse cuz apparently, it was not even. just like a family thing. Like it wasn't. just my cousin. Apparently, he was Oh my god. Apparently, he was doing it with my dad, too. And my cousin didn't know about. that. And then it was just like this big. thing and then my dad was like gay. >> [ __ ].

Hi Joe kid. Hi Joe wife. Hi Joe dogs. Hi. Joe family. Woo. Oh my god. Your. boyfriend. loves your family. Oh. And wow. >> Wow. >> Holy [ __ ] The story just kept getting. crazier. [laughter]. >> So your boyfriend. had. had sex with your cousin who's a guy. So. not only is he cheating on you with your. cousin, but he's gay. >> then went to the dad. >> Woo. Your boyfriend's got some game.

Your boyfriend's. >> Yeah. How did that. >> are you pulling the dad and. >> it from their perspective. They might. have figured out like, "Whoa. My dad was. doing that?" Like, "Whoa. I didn't know. that about my dad.". >> Dad. I know. It's like my dad's. >> And then also, like not only is it just. cheating two different times, it's with. She learned a lot about the family, you know? >> I think that boyfriend came into the. life. and. >> if you will. >> It maybe it was hard for your dad and. your cousin to come out and the.

boyfriend came into those lives to to. >> Yeah. There was a higher purpose for. this. >> And it was pride. >> Honestly, I hope you're doing well. I. wonder how long ago this was, but. hopefully you've had some time to, you. know, meet some other lovely people out. there because they do exist. >> Imagine if your parents were the ones. that you got cheated on with. >> [snorts]. >> Like what the [ __ ] Like that's like. actually like a horror story. Like your. mom [ __ ] your boyfriend or your dad. [ __ ] your girlfriend. Like that is some crazy [ __ ].

>> Yeah. I can't even process that cuz it. seems so far from reality. >> Not only the age gap, but like that's. your child. >> Yeah. It's disgusting. >> Would you rather get cheated on with. your parent or a sibling? Both are pretty bad. >> [sighs]. >> This none of the above. >> Oh my god, I'd have to. I'd have. I'd have to. >> I'd say sibling. >> Sibling, cuz at least it's not like okay.

dad, you're a pervert, you know, it's. like. sister, you're just a [ __ ] you know, >> [laughter]. >> you're just a [ __ ] [ __ ] They're both. bad, but one's just like oh oh, you're a. [ __ ] [ __ ] and I hate you for a little. bit. If my if my mother [ __ ] my. boyfriend, you're not only a little bit. perverted, but like you're my parent and. now I'm going to resent you for longer. than I'd resent my sibling, I feel, because like me and my sister were the. same age, you know, they're on the same. age like oh you're dumb and I really. hate you right now and I won't forgive. you for a long time. Parents, that's a. whole different level, I feel.

Both are [ __ ] though. >> I feel like I would never be able to. fully forgive. >> No. >> I feel like I for the rest of my life. anytime I would see that person I would. just think about that. >> And could you imagine like if they like. like let's say your sister like your. like partner or whatever and then like. they like stay together for like years. and then end up getting married and then. like your ex all your like Christmas. gatherings and they have kids and you're. the you're the [ __ ] auntie. You're. the auntie to your ex's and girlfriend's.

kids. Well, yeah, uncle. To your to your. ex's. and sis and they're. >> Bro, I'm good off that. >> That is literally. >> That's some weirdo stuff, bro. >> Oh my god. >> I'm good off that, bro. I would I would. just I would literally be like. Thank you, family, but I'm on to my. third one. I can't do that. >> movie and I'd lock them in a room and. I'd be like the only way to get out is. if you eat each other alive. >> I would probably.

um. Yeah, no, I'm not going to say what I. would do. >> My boyfriend [ __ ]. and he wants me to sleep around and be a. hoe, but. I only have been with him. >> [laughter]. >> Like what? Like is he just going to Is. he just going to tug on himself in the. corner? >> That's a [ __ ] yeah. That's what he's. what a [ __ ] is. >> Do they have a chair? Do they have everything they need? >> Listen, if you're into it, I don't know. I don't know but you have Okay, listen, if you're into it, make him a [ __ ]. chair. Bedazzle it. Do you like to take. [laughter] [ __ ] seriously? Bedazzling my.

boyfriend's [ __ ] chair, okay? Great series. >> We don't judge. We don't judge. >> You're going to get some. some viral moments on there. Now. if you're not into it, you need to. leave. That's weird as [ __ ] bro. >> In all seriousness, that [ __ ] is weird. >> only been with him and he wants you to. hoe around. >> Oh. >> Is he a [ __ ] or is he cheating on you. and wants. to feel better about it? >> There Believe it or not, there are. people out there that probably wouldn't. He I don't like he might not necessarily. be cheating. He might literally just. want to be a [ __ ]. >> Isn't David Dobrik a [ __ ].

>> [laughter]. >> I've heard that. >> I don't know. >> I've heard that that David Dobrik is a. [ __ ] yeah. >> [laughter]. >> I've heard that he's a [ __ ] and like. he would like. I it was weird. >> What? What did you hear? >> That like he would like. like watch people I This is a legend. Like I don't know, but like he would. like watch people [ __ ] Liza. But I don't know. That's a legend. These. are online rumors, by the way. Like I. don't know. Yeah, I feel like I've heard. like Trisha say that or something. Yeah, like these are online rumors. Like I'm.

not like I'm not breaking news with. this. >> That was That was breaking news. >> But that was Whenever I hear like the. word [ __ ] I think of David Dobrik. >> [laughter]. >> And he kind of looks like a [ __ ] Like. have you ever seen that man kiss a girl? >> No. I've also like never I've Not in his. vlogs or anything, no. I've never seen. him in person. >> you ever even heard that man talk about. having sex? >> No. >> Exactly. >> And he's always just kind of like. laughing. >> He's always the He's the cameraman, think about it. He is the cameraman and.

he records people doing things to make. him laugh. That's [ __ ] right there. David Dobrik is. a [ __ ]. >> Yep. >> He's a He's He's like a. like. life [ __ ]. >> He's He's a vlog [ __ ] and also probably. a sex [ __ ]. >> [ __ ]. >> He's a vlog [ __ ]. No, honestly, this is weird, and you. need to leave him cuz he's like. If That's like an extreme kink that if. you're not okay with, you can't just. like compromise with cocking. That's. just very like.

>> Is bro a sunion ring? >> Bro was a sunion. >> I had this guy that I was talking to, right? Everything was going great, right? Life is perfect. We were getting. ready to hang out. All of a sudden, he. cancels. saying that his cousins are in town, and. he can't really hang out. I'm like, "Okay, whatever.". >> Whenever a man This is something I've. learned from my 21 years of experience. in this world. Listen. 50, sorry. >> Whenever a man says anything anything. anything anything anything about, "Oh,

I'm doing this with my cousins. My. cousins are in town." Cousins means. [ __ ] okay? I swear to god, that is. that is bro code. >> Does it always? >> Yes. I swear to god. >> What if What if someone's actually. hanging out with their cousins? >> Then they're not going to sit here and. cancel on you last minute. It's not. going to be If a man is actually seeing. his cousins, it's not going to be a big. deal. Like whatever a man says like, "Oh, sorry. I was at my cousin's last. night." Or, "Oh, yeah, sorry. Me and my. cousin are doing this." And they're. always doing something with their. cousin, bro, it's a [ __ ]. >> It's a [ __ ] It's a [ __ ] Like I've.

had so many experiences where it's like, "Oh, yeah, me and this girl Oh, she's my. cousin, by the way. Like we went No, that was a [ __ ] lie. That was a [ __ ] lie. That's a [ __ ]. that you were [ __ ] Like that's not. your cousin. It's a thing that I swear. to god, it's a thing. So, that's just my. thing. >> And all of a sudden, he switches up. telling me that he doesn't like me. anymore. >> What I said? >> said like he doesn't see a future with. us because I'm too much. >> What I said? >> Oh. >> And then I'm too nice. >> Too nice, huh? >> Like, okay, whatever. And all of a sudden, he starts coming.

back around talking about some, "I'm. bipolar. I'm bipolar, but I still like. you. I don't like you. I don't know what. I like.". And then, he keeps complimenting me. >> Sam. >> And then, I found out that he. is talking to my friend now, and also. me. >> And what? And off of. >> Also her. >> Oh, oh, and also me. >> So, okay. First thing, okay, a lot of thing that. like. men do that I've seen is they will sit.

here and like hear what bipolar is, okay? And like bipolar is an actual. thing that. But they take. >> It's real. >> These like manipulative men take bipolar. and they're like, "I'm going to say I. have that." And be And they use their. mood swing like their shitty behavior, "Well, I'm bipolar." So, him being like, "I like you. I don't know what I want. I. like you though." Actual bipolar does. not like constantly like. >> No. >> flick like that towards like, "I'm going. to cheat on you. Sorry, that was my. bipolar." Like, that's. >> Yeah, but it's also like, yeah. >> He's not bipolar. He's a cheater, liar, manipulator, and he's a [ __ ] and a.

thief. And him. >> And if he is, he needs help. >> And that's not bipolar. Like, he's just. not bipolar. Like, that he's lost. >> I mean, I don't know how to diagnose. that, but I'm just. >> I will right now a You are just a shitty. person if you are sitting there being. like, "I like you. No, I don't like you. I like you. I'm talking to your best. friend, but I still like you." And. you're just switching. That's not. bipolar. That's just like you're a. cheater and like you're weird and you're. excusing it with something to make. yourself feel better. But, um and. victimizing yourself. But, also like. he's saying that you're too nice for him. and that's why he wants to end things. Like, bro, he's [ __ ] his cousin.

probably, honestly. >> That would be incest. Right? >> Yeah. I It's a. >> You think he's [ __ ] his cousin? Oof. Okay. >> That's my opinion. That's my. professional opinion. You forget I'm a. professional here. >> I I'm a professional, too. I'm just. learning here. You've had more years of. experience. >> I know 50 and what was your 35? >> Uh 35, yeah. Yeah, yeah. >> 15 more years in the business. >> Yeah, so. >> So I mean how would you. I want to hear how you would diagnose.

this? >> Um. I would agree with what you said. I. think. um. you know, I I do see the world in a way where in. this scenario, I would say that. yeah, he probably doesn't have bipolar. disorder. >> Yeah, he's I don't know how to. >> I don't know how to. >> that to make you feel bad and to excuse. his shitty behavior. >> And I would say that he. you said he's talking to your friend. now.

Yeah, he's probably a shitty guy. I. would probably keep it moving, put your. best fit on and walk down the street. with a little bit more confidence and. when someone says, "Who are you?" you. say, "I'm a [ __ ] legend. Who are. you?". >> And also drop your friend because why is. she talking to him as well? Odd. >> Yeah. >> Weird. >> Yeah. >> Hi, I'm calling for some advice about. relationship. So I was recently in a. 3-year long relationship and I like.

really liked this boy. Like I really. thought he was going to be the one and. turns out he ended up cheating on me. He. slept with a 304 while I was like living. with him, but I went out. >> What does that mean? >> Three or four girls. 304, it's like ho. upside down. It means a prostitute. I was like living with him, but I went. out to a friend's house at the time and.

I just found out about it a whole year. after we broke up and it still bothers. me and it like affects me in a way. because I feel like every person that I. get with now just like cheats on me and. I don't understand why because like. I'm a great person, bro. I just. I don't understand like got what's. what's the. >> Oh God. well that's awful. I think not everyone that you're with is. going to cheat on you number one. >> [snorts]. >> Number two.

He's a hoe and. >> dirty dirty. >> Yeah that's it's. I don't want to say that what's dirty um. it is but you know. um. I support the I'm not trying to hate on. that industry. I'm just saying that in this scenario. what he did is very dirty from an. emotional point of view. >> Exactly yeah it's no hate on the. industry at all. >> No I'm I'm supportive of that industry I.

think. >> He's very. like [ __ ] up for. >> Well you're in a relationship that's. cheating. Yeah. >> Like what? That's [ __ ]. >> And I could see how you bring that with. you to your next relationships and kind. of. and maybe it could ruin it because you. think they're cheating on you and maybe. it's a good person who's not going to. but then you yeah you project and then. it ruins good things all because of this. >> Right. >> past experience so I think that's.

confusing. Um. and I think you'll find someone out. there I think it's also important to. remember that good people do exist. >> And at least this happened unfortunately. it was 3 years in which is like blows. that's a really long time to spend with. somebody but like thankfully it wasn't 7. 10 like kids on the way like all. >> Oh God yeah it could always be worse. >> It could always be worse so like you're. on your way to better now and I think. you got like the worst of the worst out. of the way. and now it's just up from here. I agree. >> Bonus bonus bonus bonus.

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>> Banging out. >> What up, baby girl? Yeah, so I'm trying to like date my. cousin, but like. >> Oh. >> What? >> What up, baby girl? Yeah, so I'm trying to like date my. cousin, but like. >> Why does this voice sound familiar? >> Yeah, it sounds like someone I know. >> It just sounds like somebody I've heard. >> Wait, can we hear it a couple more. times? >> What up, baby girl? Yeah, so I'm trying to like date my. cousin, but like you know? >> I feel like this is someone I know.

>> Well, here's my advice to you. I know. somebody that was trying to [ __ ] and. date their step sister. >> Oh, yeah. That's your uh uh. >> Yeah, and so I just would say that. wouldn't work out well. So, probably. don't bring that along with your cousin. Probably don't do that. I think that. incest is bad and weird and I think that. you just should not do that, maybe. >> I know this person's trolling. >> Yeah, I know this is so, but. >> So. >> It just that doesn't work out. But, um. >> Yeah.

>> Uh why is that voice so familiar? >> I don't know. >> It's like I know this. >> a feeling when we put this number out. that like my friends were going to call. this and just troll. >> Okay, so I thought I'd do a little story. time for you. with social calling. So, a couple nights ago I went out with my. friends to this bar, like low-key cycle. bar. And sitting there talking with them, they met this one girl. uh. before I got there. She ends up talking. to me, you know, she's like really She's. interested in me, she's only cute [ __ ]. And I end up getting her number,

socials, all that. A little bit after that though, I go out. downtown and I meet up with someone. else. Forward to how that would be, so I. laugh. >> Oh. >> Uh end up going back to someone else. And then went back to the. the bar. For like the people I was with at the. bar. And the girl's still there. So, me and. her end up talking more, both of the the blonde ones. Me and her. end up talking a little more. >> one, like we know who it is.

>> Prettiest blonde, banging. Uh. you know, head ass, like the random girl. that you find at the bar at like 4:00 in. the morning. >> Oh, we. >> Yeah, yeah, dude, definitely. I know. which one. >> This is one of our friends. >> And. we end up talking and I figure out that. she has a kid and does only fans. >> She has a kid. >> And my question is, do you think that. someone But like her personality's. absolutely incredible. She makes me. laugh, like she's an incredible person.

>> do it. >> think that someone like that is worth. giving a shot to? >> Yes, absolutely. >> Like taking a chance on or should I just. wrap it up and just. see what my options are? >> Um. >> Okay, we have to give him a code name. He didn't want us like say So, we'll. call him. Jeff. >> Is [snorts] this a real situation? >> Yeah. >> Okay, look. Um. Look, Jeff. >> [laughter]. >> Um. >> Be that daddy. Be that kid's daddy.

>> I don't know. You kind of are [ __ ]. confusing, Jeff, cuz. >> [laughter]. >> I don't know what the whole story was. for. Um but he was like, "I was at this. bar with this one and then the blonde. one.". >> he was slutting around and then just. went back to the first one. >> like you're the problem, Jeff. >> [laughter]. >> Sounds like you need to do some. self-work, do some shadowboxing, and. really box your demons, dude. Um and. keep your dick in your pants and go get. a STD test. >> [laughter]. >> Jeff, I think that if you you need to. really sit here and think if you are. ready to be a stepfather,

>> then step up. >> And if you really like the girl, do it. >> Step up. >> Isn't there a movie called Step Up? >> I'm sure there is. Step it up. >> Also, Jeff, I feel like you would. support your girl doing OF. I feel like. you would. So, I feel like. >> Oh, he definitely would. >> He definitely would. So, >> Every person that I know that does it, he tries to. >> Yes, you love the Bob house, so let's. not act like this is any different. So, >> Dreams really [snorts] do come true, bro, and just enjoy. >> Fatherhood could change him.

>> Oh, God, he's got to really change his. life. He would be the problem. >> I don't know. This is the. >> He could date anyone. He would He would. He would weigh down the relationship. >> [laughter]. >> Um he needs to stop going out to [ __ ]. the town every night and getting. blackout drunk, and he needs to control. his [ __ ] penis. >> Hey, you know what? But he can do that. He can, you know, and like life is short. and the things happen and, you know, one. day you're partying, having a great. time, and the next day you're a dad. That sometimes happens in life. >> fatherhood in his life.

>> I don't. >> I think it's just wherever you find a. real genuine connection from. If you're. really genuinely connecting with her, go. for it. You don't find a genuine. connection every day. >> Jeff, if this is a genuine connection. and you want to be a father, >> Bro, can you picture Jeff being a father. right now? >> He would. put beer in the baby bottle and be like, "Come on!". >> Okay, don't do that. SEE, I DON'T KNOW. JEFF, so like I'm I'm sure what the I'm. just giving advice, but. >> I think he has a good heart. >> He has a great heart, but I don't think.

he's emotionally ready to be a father. He's not ready to. He's not ready to. He's not ready to. >> Your reckless friends, whoever now, like. give it like 2 years when they like have. a kid, and they're going to be like. >> A dad. >> Yeah, by the time he's 25, okay? But I. think he still has Broadway left in him. >> he still has to learn how to take care. of himself. >> And I think he still needs a few more. nights out. I don't think he's done with. the bars anytime soon. >> Yeah, and I think um. >> I think just cuz you're a dad, you don't. have to be done with you know, you can. also order a babysitter. >> Yeah. >> Calm down. You want to. >> You can double down on the partying. >> No, I mean not double down. Lay back for.

sure. But I'm just saying like it's not. the end of your life, too. Like you can. always just order a babysitter or. something. Like I don't know. Your whole. world's not over. >> I feel like Jeff would try to like hook. up with the babysitter, too. I don't. know. Jeff. >> Jeff baby got some other issues. >> [laughter]. >> Jeff. I don't know, man. I think um. >> I I think that. >> Honestly, go for it and just see how. that works out for him. >> [laughter]. >> No, yeah. Just do it, dude. Is that what he wants to hear? >> Probably. >> do it, bro. Have fun.

>> [laughter]. >> That's going to be a disaster. That is. going to be a disaster. >> getting drunk right now as. >> He's probably drunk right now. Bro, he's. going to he's going to date this person. for a couple years, he's going to leave, and and it's going to be a disaster. >> How do you know that? What if he steps. up in it? What if this is like the. genuine connection? He's like. >> Is this his forever person? Do you know. the person he's talking about? >> I have just heard of this person like 2. days ago. >> [snorts]. >> Do you know them? >> No, I've never met them. >> I don't know. Jeff, do your big one,

Jeff. >> bad. She's bad. >> All right. And she and she has a good personality, he said. >> Yeah. >> They connect. Dude, okay. I wouldn't not do it just. because of the OnlyFans. >> Exactly. Exactly. >> think that's what I'm talking about. I'm. saying. >> Oh, I forgot about the OnlyFans. I'm. thinking about the kid the whole time. Actually, the OnlyFans is another thing. in my. >> Yeah, I think I I wouldn't not do it. because of the only fans. That was like. what he mentioned or the kid or being a. step dad. Um, that's a huge responsibility.

I don't know. I think he's got to really. think through this. >> Think through it. >> I'll have an answer for it. >> I don't know. Jeff, I think the wind. just carries you by your feet and you. hoverboard around. >> Hey look, as someone that doesn't know. Jeff, you only find a genuine connection. once in a blue moon. So, if you find it, go for it. Don't give up on love. You. got this, Jeff. >> Cheers to Jeff. >> Cheers to Jeff. >> Cheers to Jeff. >> Jeff in 5 years is going to be like. super mature and like awesome and.

[laughter] badass. And you guys are. going to see. He's going to be a great. dad. I don't know Jeff, but I bet Jeff. got some big potential coming up. All. right? >> Jacob disagrees, so. >> This is the summer of Jeff. I'm calling. it now. >> All right, next one, dude. >> [laughter]. >> Yo, so I dated. almost dated this guy. and he used me for money and it was so. bad because he ghosted me at the end of. like 6 months of talking.

Come to find out he's with his ex. The. one who he [ __ ] talked and [ __ ] talked. that I followed on Instagram. You should unfollow her. She's a [ __ ]. She does [ __ ] [ __ ] Who's that? And. come to find out he's back with her. When for his birthday I bought him a. tattoo, paid off his car, and did all this other [ __ ] for him. So, [ __ ] that guy. >> When a man continuously [ __ ] talks about. a girl like over and over again,

he's in love. Like I swear to God, that. man's in love. That man's in love. If he. will not shut up about saying bad She's. so ugly. She's so annoying. And just. goes on and on about he likes her. Like. that's so irritating. >> Um, yeah. >> Yeah. >> I think yeah, I've had that happen where. where people will go back to their ex. And and then the whole relationship. they're talking about how bad they were. But, you know, um. to each their own. >> What you talking about there, bud?

>> What? >> Wait, is it her call? >> No, no, I'm saying I've had that happen. to me. >> Yeah. Wait, but wait, was she saying she got. back with her ex? >> No, THE OTHER PERSON DID. >> OH, OKAY, OKAY, OKAY, OKAY. >> I'm saying that I've had that happen. where like in relationships someone will. talk bad about their ex. >> And then get with them. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> it means they're still like a little bit. emotionally attached to them. >> Yeah, and if like. >> Cuz like you if you don't care, you. wouldn't really. talk about it.

>> Yeah, you wouldn't get so. >> be so fresh. >> Yeah, but if I still loved you, I. wouldn't be talking [ __ ]. >> But see, you're a better person than 99%. of people. [laughter] You also are happy. all the time. >> Like most men will like if they have. like a girl co-worker and like they have. a crush on them, they'll cons- Oh, that. girl's so annoying. She's so ugly. She. like they'll just always talk [ __ ] like. so much and it's literally just because. they think they're attractive or are. cheating with them or something. Like. it's literally like a a thing.

But yeah, no, [ __ ] that dude. And their. relationship's going to crash and burn. So, don't worry about that. Karma comes. around. >> Hi. I don't have like. a confession. Um, I'm still in love with my. ex-boyfriend. But he doesn't love me. Yeah. And he cheated on me. last summer. We were in a. situationship. >> Oh. >> And.

that was my summer. All right, thanks. Bye. >> Aw, that's the worst. >> Yeah, I think you just got to move on in. life and just And you know what? You. could still love somebody from a. distance. I think that's what I've. learned is that, you know, you can still. have love for people, but, you know, you said he didn't treat. you good, and he cheated, and and you. still have feelings for him, but he. doesn't have those same feelings for. you. I think you just got to take some. time, maybe not rush into anything, and.

slowly time does heal some things, you. know, or makes it less intense. And then. maybe in the future you guys both grow. Maybe he doesn't grow. Maybe you meet. somebody else, and life will keep. moving. >> Yeah, like um. toxic relationships are like a drug, and. it like literally makes you addicted to. like the highs and the lows, cuz the. highs are so high and the lows are so. low. And I feel like that's what that.

is. And I might be wrong, but it's. giving that communication has never been. 100% cut, and you're not going to be. able to fully move on and see like the. how toxic that situation is until you. completely cut contact and take time. away. So like genuinely like you are not. in love with that man, you are in love. with the idea of him. Cut contact. Go. like on a little solo thing. Like go on. walks. Pick up a new hobby. Like if you. can, like go travel somewhere new and. like spend a week alone. Like shut off.

your phone, and you will like be able to. fall out of love with him. >> learn how to skip rocks on the. reservoir. >> Yeah, like cut contact. If you keep. contact with him, you're never going to. you're going to keep causing pain to. yourself. Like he's an awful man. You're. not in love with him. You're in love with the idea of what it. could be. So, I would say cut contact 100%. >> I agree. >> Hey guys. So, I just have a quick. question. Um my situationship doesn't want to.

commit fully. Um he's still hung up on his ex. >> Mhm. >> So, I don't know what to do. So, I was. hoping that you could help me out with. that. >> He's still caught up on his ex. Okay. You want to be Do you want to be petty? If you want to be petty, you go [ __ ] his. ex. If. you want the situation to work out, you. just don't because he's obsessed with. his ex. So, honestly, just be petty. >> don't you think? >> No. He's saying that his situationship. is. obsessed with his ex.

>> Can we listen one more time? Trying to really understand this. >> Hey guys. So, I just have a quick. question. Um my situationship doesn't want to. commit fully. Um he's still hung up on his ex. >> See. >> So, I don't know what to do. >> Yeah, I don't know. >> situationship is hung up on his ex. No. That You don't. >> But I mean, if someone's up front about. that and like, "Hey, I'm still have. feelings for my ex. Like, I don't want. to commit to a relationship." I think.

that's kind of. in one aspect, like, self-aware. >> Yeah. >> Like, it's telling someone up front, "I. don't want to hurt you. I still am. processing my ex. I don't want to rush. into another relationship. I'm not. ready." That sounds like he's being up. front. And that's the mature thing to do. rather than rush into a relationship and. then hurt that person and not be honest. >> Yeah. >> Personally, I That's how I feel. >> Well, you have the You have the You have. the. >> his ex.".

>> Oh, yeah. You have the better take. You. have the better take. I was being petty. about it. >> Like, it's not his fault. Like, he's. being honest, if he is. He didn't say. that. Like, what if this person also. found that out and it's not being. >> took it. >> Yeah, but it sounds like they don't want. to commit cuz they're still in love with. their ex. And if that's the case, I mean, hey. Good on that person for being. >> that person should just cut off the. situationship and just like. not string somebody around until they.

finally get back with their ex, not the. one they're in love with. >> Yeah, but I think Yeah, I don't know. I stand on what I said. >> I you said you said it good. Okay, you. know what? I I was I gave you the petty. answer, Jacob gave you the realism. answer, so pick your poison. >> I ate I left no crumbs. >> I ate I left no crumbs. Thank you. >> Hi, I hope you can hear me. I have to. whisper. Okay, listen. >> Oh, are you okay? >> Okay, listen. This is serious, all. right? >> Oh. >> I have been in a relationship for the.

last 4 years. We have a baby together. >> Oh. >> of sucks. I don't know why. >> Oh. >> How do I tell him I want to leave him. >> Oh. >> so that way I can be with my best friend. and her fiance. Um because I just don't feel like I'm. built for. being with just a man. I need a woman to. Maybe that's how I tell them. I think I just answered my own question. But you guys let me know. >> Honestly, I kind of [ __ ] with this. Hey, so. >> Happy pride. Happy pride. Happy pride.

>> I think honestly, go for it then. I think you got to just. stand on business. You got one life. I. think if you're upfront about it and you. don't do anything dishonest, I think you. just have to go up to this person and. say, "Hey, look. You could still Maybe you guys will be. on good terms." I mean, it's probably. really going to hurt this person, but. >> Maybe he'll want to join. the. >> Then it's a quadruple. >> Then it's a quad. >> She said that he sucks. I don't even. think he. >> Okay. >> Oh, he sucks. >> Then just be like, "Hey, sorry. >> You suck and I. >> And. has she already talked with the other.

couple about this? >> Okay, that's what I'm wondering. >> I don't know. I feel I'm like feeling. for the guy. >> Yeah, I'm sorry, y'all. >> He's got a kid. >> And then she's about to say, "I'm going. to go move with the couple.". >> fiance is going to be like, "Hey, so I. know we have a baby together, but I'm in. love with your best friend and his. girlfriend and we're going to go be a. trio.". >> That's so [laughter] [ __ ]. >> Like I would be devastated. I'd be like, "What?" And then honestly, my first. priority would be like, okay, am I still.

I'm still getting the kid, right? >> But you know what's so funny? If it was. the guy calling in being like, my wife's. leaving me for her best friend, I'd have. been like, [ __ ] that girl. And it's the. girl calling in and she's ex- Oh, yeah, you have one life, go get it, girl. Like. >> Yeah, but I feel so bad. I feel so bad. for this guy. I'm like. [ __ ] dude. That's like a no. >> I don't know. I I kind of at first, if. the person sucks, I'm like, go have fun. then. >> Yeah, but doesn't she. she's talking about this guy and she's. like he doesn't do anything. He's just. >> it. >> I. It doesn't seem like he did anything. It. just seems like he's boring. She's like,

ah, he sucks. I'm not really that into. him and I I think the other guy's hotter. and this girl's hot, too. But it's like. the guy didn't do anything. She just. doesn't like him. I'm like, I feel bad. for this dude. >> Yeah, and there's a kid. >> bad. He's a dad. They're a family. This. is like, aw. >> Valid. >> You have a point, yeah. >> I kind of Yeah, I agree. I agree. I agree. I was too fast to. >> does suck and he's like a bad husband. and he's lazy and he's just go do the. dishes and like playing on the goddamn. phone. >> know what what We don't know what he. sucks means. >> We don't know.

But if it is the way that I'm inferring, I'm going to say. try out polyamory. I don't know. I I. don't know. I don't know. >> Polyamory, yeah. >> Like when I'm looking at sucks here, too, like this seems like a sexual. thing. Like she wants to explore. sexually, she wants to get into. polyamory and she's like, my boyfriend. sucks. Like maybe he's not good IN BED. LIKE THAT'S KIND of the way that I'M. TAKING IT. THIS GUY'S KIND OF GETTING dissed and. then like he had a kid with her and then. she's like, hey, I don't want another. one. I don't want family with this guy, but I'm going to go [ __ ] your friend and. my friend and have.

Like I feel really bad for this guy, lowkey. I think she's just saying like. he sucks in bed. >> Like she just wants to join another. couple for the sexual. >> She's calling from their bedroom or. house or something and she's like. whispering in bed. Emergency, guys. Like, I'm cheating on my boy. Like Like. this is so weird, no? >> Yeah, I I see. You sold me. >> Richie's Richie the salesman. >> for this guy. >> Richie based. >> My My dick just. uh going through it. >> Richie Batman Richie Batman that was. based. >> That was good that was a good. that. >> I agree.

>> I love you girl but I love you I just I. think this is messy and sticky and. I I wish we got more details like is he. a cheater or is he does he just suck in. bed how long you been thinking about. polyamory. is your best friend down with that even. >> I'm kind of with Richie on this though I. overall. >> How are you going to. I feel like it's also going to be hard. to raise a kid and. really pick up a a polyamorous. I don't know. >> Like how does any of that work you think.

you like you you do have a kid now like. it does sort of change the like I don't. know I don't want to tell anyone not to. go pursue like if you're unhappy in a. relationship leave I think that's no. matter what the case if you're unhappy. leave but also like. it's just more of the like she's already. has the other couple planned out they're. friends of all of them it's like they're. probably going on double dates and Hey. by the way I'm just. >> Then she's secretly like hey I actually. want to join you guys. >> that would [ __ ] like. >> I kind of see it bro I see it I think. >> Oh my god that's awful.

>> Yeah I feel really bad. >> Yeah and the whispering at the beginning. >> I love you though I love you though. >> Yeah I don't know. >> scream your truth be like yeah this guy. sucks I hate him. >> Yeah but she's like it's kind of. deceiving. >> Yeah. >> THAT'S BAD. >> I. >> OH Richie Richie. >> [laughter]. >> drawing conclusions huh. >> his girlfriend. What if he's a bad dad.

>> Right that's what I'm saying what if. he's a bad dad. >> Yeah what does he sucks mean. That's the question we need to answer. >> If he sucks he sucks determines it all. >> But if he sucks as a bad dad I'd be. yelling that [ __ ] I'd be like he sucks. he's a terrible dad to my kid [ __ ] this. guy. I wouldn't be whispering by the. bedside. >> Yeah. And I would also when explaining. this, I would say why he sucks. >> Right. >> Rather than it sounds like she's using. he sucks as like he's boring. I don't. like him. He's kind of boring me.

>> if there's a real reason we'd know. If. there's a real reason we'd know. If. there's a real reason we'd know. >> in bed. >> father. >> I'd be like she would have included it. It would have made her case better. >> seems like she's going to abandon the. kid for another family. We're all like. this ain't good. >> That's really bad. >> Merchie, you're so good at this. You. just switched everything. >> I don't know. We're playing devil's. advocate here. We just got to get all. the sides overall. [laughter]. Call back in and tell us what he's. boring means. >> I'm on your side, girl, I think. >> Oh, okay. >> I know. I'm kind of I don't know. I want. to know what he sucks means. >> No, this is fun. This is I like that we. can have A DEBATE.

>> I WANT TO KNOW WHAT HE SUCKS. >> THIS IS ONE OF THE BEST I'm like I want. to hear more. >> Yeah. >> I'm just like having a talking situation. ship problems. Um so my girl. Well, she's not like fully my girl. But. anyways, I she said she cheated. She. slept with someone after we said that we. were exclusive. Um. and I found out and then I did it back. and then she found out but I didn't say. anything to her. So then. when she found out um.

she blew up on me and I still hadn't. said anything to her about how I knew. that she did it first. So that's why I. did back cuz like come on, tit for tat. like. Hello. Anyways, so I did back and. um. >> I'll just leave. >> Yeah. >> Honestly, like I'm going to start just. giving so honest answers instead of. diving into the this thing happened and. this thing happened. Leave. Sounds. complicated. I think. >> This is just going to be a cheating. circle. It's like you you. >> It's okay. Yeah, she obviously [ __ ] up.

by. >> Yeah. You cheating back isn't doing anything. >> No. >> besides just making it messier. >> And it's not going to work now. Now it's. >> It's not going to She's going to cheat. and you're going to cheat back and it's. just going to be a cheating it's cooked. It was cooked from the beginning from. when she cheated on you and. >> Go sign up for like. pickleball classes or something and go. meet a really nice person. >> A pickleball princess. Yeah, no leaf. Somebody make that their. username. That's a great. >> Pickleball princess.

>> That's a good Roblox username. >> Pickleball princess. >> Pickleball princess. Yeah, no. It's. cooked. >> Yeah, it's cooked. There's no really I. don't even we don't need to dive in. It's cooked. >> I feel like most of the advice here is. also like yeah, break up or. I mean most of it's just break up. >> Yeah. >> I feel like that's. >> I think that's been every time. >> We've never told anybody to fix that. >> [laughter]. >> Sorry. I'm sorry. This is all cooked. Y'all are. a lot of this [ __ ] is cooked. >> Yeah. >> I was defending the guy cuz I was like I. feel like we've just told every couple. to break up. I'm like I kind of got to. fight for the other side here. I'm going.

to start playing devil's advocate more. on these. >> if you're calling into a pod. >> Yeah, you're going to yeah. >> That's true. Yeah, but I thought. >> Yo, I thought some people were going to. call in and be like hey, we kind of like. each other but we haven't and then we. would give advice on like ask them to go. on a date but we're getting all calls. from people at the end of. >> I figured. >> when it's all cooked. Thank you guys for. watching. >> And yeah, basically all of y'all just. need to break up and. >> Yeah, just go be single. Go go write in.

a journal. Go do some therapy. Go tell. your partners to do the same. Go swim. Go work out. Go feel good. It's summer. time. >> Yeah. It's pride. It's summer time. Enjoy life for you. Maybe try switching. teams this month. Maybe you try out the. the same gender. Maybe do that. And also. you your person is out there and don't. settle for less. It's never worth it and. I'm a big spokesperson on all that. So. you do not deserve the bare minimum or. [ __ ] So Yeah. But also you know. >> And it's okay to be single. That's what.

I advocate for. >> That as well and it's also okay to maybe. test out the others the same team as. well. >> Absolutely. Test out all your options and also don't. feel bad for being single. >> Celibacy is beautiful and so is being. single. >> It is. It's. >> how to love yourself. >> Yes. >> And loving yourself is the best thing. >> Yeah, it's very beautiful and it means a. lot and it really helped me to be single. and um. I'm thriving. I feel good all the time. and uh.

I fall deeper and deeper in love with. myself every day. I think. Yeah. >> Cheers to. a hot girl summer or a locked in summer. but no shitty situationship summers. >> Cheers, guys. Have a good summer. >> [laughter]. >> That was good. Happy Pride. >> Happy Pride, guys. >> Bang it out. You can't wear my. sweatshirt. And you can tell your friends we'll be. together till the end. Girl, you can.

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