Molly's Game Uncensored: Mob Threats, FBI Raid & 100M Pots... And Still Won

Hey everybody, the besties are taking. Thanksgiving off. But hey, we didn't. forget about you. We banked a couple of. great content segments while we were in. Vegas. First, here's an interview with. Molly Bloom. You know, she ran the. legendary highstakes game in LA in New. York. I was invited to the LA one. We'll. get into that. And her story was turned. into the feature film and book Molly's. Game. We have a great conversation, tons. of insider stories, who imploded in her. LA game, the best celebrity poker.

players, getting shaken down by the mob, how she got an Aaron Sorcin meeting, and. much, much more. Big thank you to our. friends at Oracle for partnering with us. on this amazing VIP lunch we did in. Vegas at the Venetian. What a great. hotel. Also, make sure you head over to. our YouTube channel. A YouTube exclusive. for the first ever bestie poker freeze. out game. Who's going to win? Chbahhat. Freebert, me, or some of the world's.

greatest poker players, Alan Keading and. Jason Also, Phil Helmouth. He he. wound up there as well somehow. So, happy Thanksgiving. We love you and uh. be safe and we'll see you all next week. for a regular episode. >> Listen, we have a guest. >> We do have a guest. Um, she's an. entrepreneur, bestselling author, one of. Fortune magazine's most powerful women. I didn't know that. >> Oh. >> Um, Molly Bloom ran the world's most. exclusive poker game. You probably know. her from, uh, the movie Molly's Game,

which we'll hear a little bit about. today. But Molly's also, I think, got an. amazing sense of what made her. successful and the journey she's been. through, I think, is a really. interesting one to learn from. So, please join me in welcoming Molly. Thank you. All right. Nice to see you, Molly. Molly, what was the origin of the game? We know some of our friends played in. it. Uh, >> well, hold on a second. Jason, you. claimed on our show, let me just read. the notes. >> The notes?

>> Um, yeah, there are notes here. What did. I say? Apparently, where's the thing. that Jason said? >> We were on the show and Jason said he. played in the game all the time and. >> No, no, no, no. I was invited to the. game. >> No, you did not say that. Lisa, please. pull the tape. >> and when you're ready, just raise your. hand and let me know exactly what Jason. said. And then Molly responded on. Twitter that you did not play in my. game. >> Okay, >> let's be clear. Molly, did you invite me. to the game? >> I don't remember inviting you to the.

game, >> but here's the here's the deal. So, there were two versions of the game. There was the version where I was. working for someone who would send me a. list. >> Got it. And I'm sure that you were. probably on that list when I. >> Jeffrey Epstein's list, >> right? He was young. >> Absolutely. >> Okay. >> But when it was my game, you know, >> I just remember the Four Seasons. Was that your game or Okay. So, it was. the Four Seasons. I remember you invited. me and you said Toby's going to be. there, Leo's going to be there, whatever. And uh they'd love to see you.

And I said. >> they would love to see me lose $50,000. There's no way I'm going to this game. cuz I was playing in a 510 game. But you. were working for somebody at the Viper. Room. The game started. You then took it. over and it very quickly became a big. game. Famously Toby Magguire, friend of. uh ours we play poker with sometimes was. part of this. Um and then you decided uh. to move it to New York. Just let. everybody know like how this all got. started for you and when you took over. the game. >> Okay. So I was uh in college game for.

the US ski team. had a accident and. retired and kind of didn't know who I. was because sports were my identity. Went to LA simply because I wanted to be. warm. I'd been cold since I was 2 years. old. And ended up working for this guy. Uh he had a real estate development. company and he said, "Tomorrow night, I. need to serve drinks at my poker my. poker game.". >> Okay. And so I show up to this poker. game and it, you know, it's A-list.

celebrities like you've mentioned, but. also the head of one of the biggest. investment banks, a politician who was a. household name, uh, somebody from the. tech world, and I get to be a fly on the. wall in this incredibly compelling room, and also, you know, I'm in my I'm 23. years old. This is access to. information, to capital, to power. And. then at the end of the night, uh, they. were tipping me in chips and someone. counted out $4,000 in cash and I was. like, "Okay, I don't know what's up with.

this chip token economy, but I think I. might want in.". >> And over the next eight months, um, I. started to learn the to speak the. language of poker, but really what I was. focused on is how do I forge alliances? because I knew that I would say about 3. months in, I knew I didn't want to just. serve drinks. I knew I wanted to have my. own games. This was an incredible. opportunity. I mean, it really was a. Trojan horse. You could use it to. infiltrate any subset of society. Um,

and I was learning about the world from. some of the people who were active. actively involved in in shaping culture. So, it was a fascinating uh interesting. time and and it was also very lucrative. And so, um, I decided to start my own. games and I had eight months of notes of. what I would do differently. And I think. because I wasn't a poker player, there. was an advantage because I was able to. zoom out and see this isn't just about. poker. This is about community. It's.

about storytelling. It's about um. belonging to something and it's about. escapism and fantasy. And so I really. started to build on those topics and and. those, you know, I wanted everyone to. come into this room and from the second. they walked into this room feel like. they were in Monaco or in a James Bond. movie. And and so when I started the. game 8 months later, you know, I was 24 years old. I didn't. think these people who are rich and. famous and were going to come, let alone.

make it their their home game. And so I. would say that started the about 4 and a. half five year tenure of the LA game. >> And when we started out when I was. serving drinks, it was a $10,000 buyin. I raised it to a 50,000 buyin. >> And um. >> yeah, that's the number I remember. And. I was like, "Wow, those are high. stakes." Cuz at the time, even in LA, people were not playing in those states. And you really elevated the game. Somehow the mob got involved and the.

game moved to New York. Fast forward to. this because this got pretty dark pretty. quick. >> It did. Um, so I lost the game in LA. >> How do you lose the game in LA? >> Well, one of the players who was making 10x. what he was making in the poker game. became very obsessed with this game and. wanted to talk about it all the time. wanted to and then sort of to want to. kind of do things that felt wrong.

>> Okay. >> Okay. >> Like maybe uh target certain weak. players, maybe uh get some of your tip. money, >> like actively cheat the game. >> Yeah. Um. >> angle shoot the game. >> Angle shoot. And and also was. complaining that I made too much money. >> Got it. >> Um and basically gave me this offer. I'll pay you a salary and you can work. from you. You can be the figurehead. Uh-huh. >> Um, and I really wanted to keep the. game. I was making millions of dollars. legally. I was paying my taxes. I was,

you know, like I had mentioned, it was. incredibly exciting and and educational. Um, but I I didn't want to be under I. didn't want to work for him. >> Right. There's a power imbalance because. this person theoretically might have. been famous, >> and the players might follow them if. they boxed you out. >> Yeah. He he said uh turns out they want. to play at a movie star house. Uh, >> they wanted to what? >> Play at a movie star's house. >> Got it. And is it well known who that. person is? >> It's well speculated. >> She never says.

>> who they speculated. JKL. >> Toby Magguire. >> Uhhuh. >> And he the uh concept also was uh there. was this device called a shuffle master. which was in the first iteration. It. makes the game go much faster. And three. people, myself, Toby, and another person. had a shuffle master in Los Angeles. because you could buy them. >> from somebody in Vegas theoretically, but they weren't available. And Chimat. remembers because he got an early one. and I used to bring mine to Chimat's. game. He'd say, "Hey, can you bring the. the shuffle master?" He also angles shot. you and wanted you to rent a shufflem.

>> I'll never forget going to his house. >> No, he Toby. Not me. >> Not you. Not you. >> Um, yeah. I I'll never forget. So, he he. was right. >> Renting out a shuffle master. >> I mean, he had a tough couple years. You. said it was a pretty big downdraft. >> So, shuffle masters cost 17,000 at the. time. >> Yeah. Um, and he was right that we. needed one. Uh, and so he said, "Well, how about we'll use mine? Just come up. to my house and get it, right?" So, go. to his house and get it. And then I. brought it back and he said, "Um, I'm.

going to need $200 for this." I'm like, "You're you're kidding, right?" Like, I'm sitting there looking at his. mansion, you know, 200 a shot. I mean, and about 5 months in, I'm like, "We. need to buy our own shuffle master, >> right?" Yeah. They they can be obtained. So, you get the game taken away from. you. The game moves to New York. >> Sorry. So, Toby Toby takes the game away. and you're like, >> "Somebody takes game away, right?" And. so, you're like, "I'm moving to New York. and restarting the game there.". >> Well, I was really pissed and I, you know, and.

I. >> it was 2008, so yeah, I was like, I'm going to build. the biggest poker game in the world. Can. we can we talk like can you just talk a. little bit about how you did that. >> with respect to salesmanship and. building confidence to grow that game? Like you you moved to a new city, >> you don't know anyone. How do you. convince them. >> and maybe talk a little bit about what. you learned early on about sales and. earning people's trust and how you got. that to happen? >> Yeah. So what I focused on.

much much earlier than uh you know. eventually I realized that if you're if. you're treating the business if you're. treating the poker game like a business. essentially what you want is you want. nine people seated around a table with. equal playing styles equal skill skill. levels and hopefully you get these. heartp pumping results but at the end of. the year the money changes hands and the. house wins. Okay. But before I realized. that, what I had was.

I I was raised by uh parents who were. were very um they they believed in. teaching lessons all the time. And my. dad's was excellence and discipline and. overcoming fear. And my mom's was. integrity, integrity, integrity. And. what can you do for the world? And don't. make people feel like they're. transactions. And so, you know, that's. that's the education that I had. And so. I was a really hard worker and I really. held myself to a high standard. So for. instance, when I started running these.

games, there was a lot of pros that. would offer me free rolls, straight cash. if they could play, but I knew that that. would compromise the integrity of the. game. So what I did is I didn't take. shortcuts. I just was trustworthy and I. invested in people and I um you know I. developed relationships and I was very. intentional about. before I walk in this, you know, not. asking them for favors because everyone. in the world was asking them for favors. and just, you know, instead of what can.

you do for me, what can I do for you? Um, and over time, you know, pe I think. people sense that you're a trustworthy. person and that you are really deeply. invested in in their outcome and and I. think that that was focusing on that. relational capital and focusing on. cultivating that trust and being a part. of someone's life. um doing events, you. know, expanding the time that you spend. together outside of just poker and, you.

know, doing events with the whole with. the whole crew and and so that's what I. focused on and that was so incredibly. valuable. >> And a big part of this culture at the. time was unlike say some other games. where we have a group of friends, it's. uh like a high trust environment, we. settle up yearly, etc. The tradition in. LA, at least in the ones I played in, uh, was you settle up the next day, people would, and that would be your. responsibility, I assume, or one of your.

runners to go collect checks and settle. with people. And then sometimes, you. know, people maybe couldn't settle, and. it can get a little bit awkward. So. maybe you could tell us about that part. of the job that people don't see, which. is, hey, you got to go the next day. Somebody lost 50 grand, 250 grand. What's the big loss that you had to go. collect? What was that like? A couple. things. First of all, what shocked me. was if you looked at the net worth at a. lot of these people that were playing, it would indicate that a loss of a.

couple hundred thousand or even a. million wasn't a big deal, right? But. that's that wasn't the case. I I saw. crazy behavior. Um, and when I realized. kind of like cuz I always would ask. myself the question, what's underneath. this? You know, what is what's causing. this flipping of the table, screaming at. me that you're never going to pay, you. know, whatever. And what I kind of got. to is it's fear. Even though it doesn't.

make logical sense compared to someone's. net worth, losing money or losing in. general kind of triggers this fear. response. You feel out of control. So my. job consistently was having enough top-. down control to be able to be the one. that could then make that person feel. safe because I saw in other games the. game runner's on the hook for the money. This person's saying, "I'm never going. to pay you. Then they're both in fear, then they go get into the sparring. match, games end, things fall apart.". So, it was really useful for me to just.

be able to emotionally regulate myself. and understand. what was going on. >> and just talk them down from a ledge and. get them to pay because if somebody. stiffs the game, the game you could. break the game permanently. >> Well, I've been stiffed and I I wrote. those checks. >> Really? What's the biggest you got. stiffed for? >> 250. >> 250. And the person could afford to pay. it. >> for sure. >> And they stiffed you and then you've got. to come out of pocket for that and make. good. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. That's That's hard. >> Yeah, >> that's a. >> But it teaches you to do a really good.

job on the on the vetting. >> Yes. Um I mean I had bank employees on. my payroll basically because in LA. people drive a Lamborghini, they rent a. house in the valley, right? >> Yeah. >> So Molly, can you just talk about you. talked earlier with us um when we were. playing poker or during lunch about. someone said I think what sort of stuff. are you into? >> Yeah. And you said, "I'm really into. like adrenaline. stuff, like adrenaline sports, right? And you're like competitive skier and so.

on." Um, but this feels like that sort. of high stakes environment that you put. yourself in. Where did that come from? And do you think you selected yourself. into this environment because it feels. like hella skiing? >> I think first of all, um, I come from a. really competitive family. uh one. brother uh went to the Olympics twice, was a world champion in mogul skiing at. world champ at 16. Then he went on to uh. after the terin Olympics get drafted. fifth round of the Philadelphia Eagles.

He was an Abberrombi model. Then he started and sold a tech company. at like literally the highest valuation. like down to the second I think. And now. he's CEO of the X Games. And then my. other brother is Harvard educated. cardiothoracic surgeon at Massgen. So. >> which one do your parents love most? >> Well, they loved them more, but then. Kosner played my dad in the movie, so I. became instantly the favorite kid. >> So they they eventually loved you.

>> Eventually, but it took a I mean it took. a lot. >> It did. Yeah. >> So that was part of it. Um we grew up. skiing and my dad was really insistent. on fear is not going to sideline you. And so from an early age, like some kids. get grounded for talking back or you. know, whatever. We got in trouble for. letting fear get in the way or and and. so something started to happen, I think, in those early years where it was like. this very like exciting experience to.

look at something, be afraid of it, and. then do it. >> Um. >> like run a big game where people go. south for 250k and then you decide, hey, >> but that was the behavior you were. trained on early on. I think it was a. byproduct of social. >> fear in the face and jump into it. >> Yeah. And that's a pretty great feeling, right? It. >> totally and a bit of pride. You wanted. to restart the game. And so you had that. pride. >> Big time pride. >> So take us to the game moving to New. York and the mob getting involved, you.

getting beat up, the getting pinched and. this whole thing going sideways. >> Okay. So um moved to New York to to your. uh question really started interviewing. poker players what's the problem in the. current system because there is really. well established games and whatever and. what I found was that there was a. problem with trust um a lot of times. gamers would play in their own games uh. if they did had a bad night the rake. would be higher d wasn't taking a rake. um and then I realized okay well if I.

can become the bank for these games and. I can settle um and then provide this. experience um in which you could sit. down next to your hero or you know you. could sit next to somebody who's going. to change your life in business and then. there's no pros and it's all action. Um. this is how I'm going to do it. So I. became the bank for these games. The. game in New York was a $250,000 buyin. It was 2008 and I remember the first. game the president like was in the.

background on the on the television like. giving the state of the union on the. economy and there was like $10 million. on the table. Um these were insane games. Uh they were. playing insane uh variations of. >> And you love the thrill. You feel the. thrill. Yeah, >> I did. Yeah. Um. I mean this was the game that like. ultimately someone lost 100 million. So. um so yeah so again um that definitely. made noise. >> even by standards.

>> and yeah so and then I just decided you. know I cuz I told my parents listen cuz. they're like please go back to school. you know please finish your like go to. >> I knew what you were doing. >> Yeah. And I was like okay but I just. have to do this thing real fast. So, I I. decided I was going to go as big as I. possibly can. And then I started smaller. games and it and it got out of control. and some of these guys from Brighton. Beach started playing and I had them. vetted, but their and their stories. checked out. I knew something was off.

It was really off. They were running the. biggest insurance fraud scheme in New. York City history. They had alleged ties. to the Russian mob. My only involvement. with them was they played on my poker. game. The next thing that happened was. um. the Italian mob or impersonators of the. Italian mob uh came to me and said, you. know, we we want a piece of your game. and I turned them down. And then they. didn't just go away. Um, and they sent. someone to my apartment and uh.

this guy broke broke in my apartment and. he put a gun in my mouth and he. >> Jesus. >> and he told me that um I work for them. and that if I told anyone law. enforcement or anybody that they had. found out where my family lives in. Colorado and then he beat the hell out. of me and forced me to like, you know, you. >> took everything out of my safe and there. was money and there was a gold bar in. there for some reason, but also um. things that my grandmother, who I was.

named after, left for me. And you know, it was just terrifying. And I was. completely. terrified, ashamed um for what I was now. implicating my family in. And I couldn't. call anyone. And. >> wow. >> I kept waiting for their call. >> Did you think at that moment to just. stop and just say, you know what, okay, done. >> Yeah. But I didn't know if it was an. option anymore, >> right? because they were looking at me. as a big earner now and they they' said, "This is a warning. It's not it's not up.

to you anymore.". >> Wow. >> So, I didn't know what to do. Like, literally for the first time, >> you could confide in anyone. >> I didn't I didn't tell a single soul. >> You didn't tell You kept that all in. >> Yeah. And I'm in my apartment. I can't. go outside cuz it's very clear I've been. assaulted. And I'm confused as to why I'm not. hearing them cuz about 3 or 4 days go by. and I I don't hear anything from them. And then I get the New York Times and on. the cover it says 125 arrested in the. biggest mob related takedown in New York. City history and I never heard from them.

again. >> Wow. >> Dodging a bullet. My god. >> Oh my god. But yeah, but then. >> Oh my gosh. >> Then the bullet of me came into play and. you know so then I I just started. getting out of control and like I said. like you know integrity was an important. thing to me but over time I was making. these little decisions. there were just. a little left or right of of where where. I stood and and you know greed money. became everything and and so I started. doing things that um my attorneys told.

me not to do. >> Raking the game. >> Yeah. Taking a rake. >> Taking a rake. Now, for people who don't. know, >> if you have a home game and you collect. tips, it's kind of a gray zone, but. generally speaking, people don't have a. problem with it legally. But in the. casino business, the legal gaming. business, they feel that's their. business to take a rake. And they went. through the proper channels to get a. license to do that rake. And you can't. do that at a home game, right? >> And so now you're breaking the law,

>> right? >> To make extra money. >> Sorry, just to be clear, a rake just. means when you put money in the pot, they take a little bit of it out, they. put it on the side, they keep it for. themselves. In the casino, they do an. hourly rake, right? >> Yeah, that's a rake, too. >> That's a rake, too. >> Yeah. Yeah. >> Um different. You were you were you were. taking money out of the pots, keeping. them for yourself. >> So basically what I was doing was I had. become. much more lenient about who I was. letting in the game. Um and so my. exposure was getting bigger. And so in. some of those games where I was betting. on the players and they were bad bets, I.

started to take a rake. This was the. last six months. the feds had put a confidential. informant in the game because they were. listening to the Russians phone. >> Um who tracked that and in and then a. couple months later I got a text message. from one of the dealers and they said. don't come here. The FBI is here looking. for you and finally I knew it was game. over and I just wanted to go home even. though I'd pushed my family really far.

away. like I I just wanted to go home. and so I tried to book a plane ticket. from um JFK to Denver and my credit card. got declined and then my next card got. declined and I looked logged into my. bank account and it read99,999,000. Um the division of asset forfeiture. had taken everything because your. property unlike your personhood doesn't. have the presumption of innocence except. for maybe in Florida. Not. >> I'm not up on the asset. Now you're.

pinched. You get shaken down by the mob. Then you get pinched by the feds. >> So the feds are So my lawyers call and. they say, you know, she can sue us cuz. this is on the civil side, but anything. she says will also be counted as a. confession. They said, do you want her? Are you pursuing any criminal charges? They said, no, I couldn't try to get my money back. I. moved in with my mom. Felt really sorry. for myself. Took me about two years to. put my life back together. Finally got. this little job in LA. moved back into this little studio.

apartment and I thought, "Okay, it's a. fresh start." You know, five days later. in the middle of the night, 17 FBI. agents, machine guns, high beam. flashlights, >> put me in handcuffs and shackles, and. put this piece of paper in front of me. that said, "The United States of America. versus Molly Bloom.". >> Wow. Wow. What a year. >> I was really running hot. >> Yeah. Wow. >> Um, >> couple of bad beats. So, I had a day and. a half to get to New York City to find.

an attorney. And. >> And you're broke. >> And I don't have a penny. >> Yeah. >> Wow. >> So, >> how does it all resolve? How does the. story resolve? >> So, I found someone honorable and great. to represent me. I didn't have money to. fight it. So, I pled out. The. prosecutors wanted a meeting with me. Uh, this was the Southern District. And, um, they really wanted me to become a a. CI. They weren't interested in the. Russians or the Italians. They were. interested in the billionaires and the.

politicians and the celebrities. >> who were for poker specifically. >> Yeah. Let me be really clear. There was. no Epstein in my game. >> Right. >> Right. >> Um so they said if you know if you're. >> they wanted you to be a rat against rich. people, politicians, and famous people. Yes. >> And what did you what did they think you. were going to overhear like murder plots. or like like what like what were you. going to be able to tell them? Business. deals. I could have given them leads. >> you over here. >> for all kinds of stuff.

>> Yeah. Crime. >> for sure. >> Wow. >> Um. >> was this Pit Barara who was running the. Southern District cuz he he's also. famous for getting rid of online poker. He. >> had a He's a pretty by the books. >> guy for sure. >> Yeah. >> Yeah. >> And the Southern District of all. districts is known for being the most. hardcore. >> and politically ambitious and. >> Sure. Right. All right. >> Um, and they said, >> "So, did you did you go to jail?". >> I didn't. So, they said, "If you're. willing to give, you know, if you're.

willing to work with us, we'll give you. all your money back and we'll give you a. deferred prosecution, which will keep. you out of prison." And I had like 48. hours to make this call. And, you know, where I got to it was like, this was my. fault. Um, I uh I had near-perfect. information on the laws. I had all these. opportunities. I had loyal clientele. I. found this loophole and I was the one. that decided to make this choice. And so. to turn around and drag these people who. had families through this.

um based on my own bad decisions like. just didn't feel like something that I. wanted to live with. So, >> I turned down that offer and I waited to. get sentenced and we all thought I was. going to prison. and I got a judge who was very. disappointed in my life choices, but. but basically said, you know, you had a. life before this and I had character. letters from professors and ski coaches. and I had um a lot of people show up for.

me that had made better decisions that I. had in life and so he fined me a lot and. but I didn't go to But, you know, then I. was 35 years old, millions of dollars in. debt, a convicted felon. The tabloids. are telling this really reductive tale. Like, where how do you come back from. that, you know? And so I decided, well, there's a story here and if I can. monetize that, maybe that can address.

the reputational harm, the financial I. mean, I'm millions of dollars in debt. and um and so I wrote a book and uh. waited for my life to change and then I. think 10 people read it and probably. like eight of them were related to me. But it was still my it was still my only. idea and I still kind of believed in it. in my in my gut. So I just made a short. list of the most successful filmmakers. in Hollywood and I was like why not you.

know why not just go for it. Um but they. needed to be brave because there was. also a ton of people as you can imagine. >> Yes. >> Even though I'd fallen on the sword with. legally even though I hadn't implicated. people in the book they don't want. exposure and I get that. Um, so Erin. Sorcin wrote A Few Good Men, Social. Network, Moneyball, and he was my. favorite writer and also the highest. paid screenwriter at the time, which if. you're gambling, which we always are, right? It's good bet. Anyway, getting to. him wasn't easy. I finally got to him.

and I just remember before I walked in, I was like, what am I doing? Millions of dollars in debt. My book. sold 10 copies. Like, I live with my. mom. like. and this is the highest paid. screenwriter in the world, you know. >> So, you got a meeting with him. >> I did. >> And he had you had sent him the book. obviously. >> So, a somebody that I bothered like. relentlessly. >> Right. So, you're just to put the sales. hat on again like the the relentless. like pursuit of the sale. >> Yeah. >> You were like all over this guy even.

though. >> Yeah. >> you weren't make and you just kept. going. >> Yeah. And I and I you know I had met. with other screenwriters and they were. kind of a big deal and I was like, "No, no, no." And my brother's like, "You. can't keep passing. Like you live with. your mom.". >> What did you say when you get in the. room? >> Um, so I told him my story. and I think like my leg my legs were. shaking, but like I had this game face. on, you know? >> Yeah. >> And when I was done, he said, "Well, I'll tell you one thing, kid. I've never. met someone so down in their luck and so. full of themselves. >> Wow. It's good character study." Yeah.

>> Yeah. Um, and then, you know, >> they made an offer. >> Yep. And then the the paid and then you. used that money to pay down this uh fine. you got. >> I did. >> And. >> I just finally finished paying off the. government last summer. >> Wow. >> Wow. Congratulations. And I leave. >> And I guess you know the just to ask you. the hard question which you kind of. answered. I was always wondering like. how does one make the decision to write.

this tell all book and the fallout from. that book? I remember in LA people. talking about the book coming out. The. book's coming out. The book's coming. Everybody was really scared about it. You didn't put people's names in it. You. specifically chose to, you know, make it. >> I put their name in it if they've talked. if they had talked about playing in the. games, >> right? So. >> if they themselves, you know, >> so you took some steps there, but you. did make a decision all these people who. put you in business, etc. to basically. turn on them and to basically tell their. story, but there was no non-disclosure.

You hadn't made any agreements to not. talk about it. >> Well, I didn't turn on them. I actually. supported them at every turn. >> Well, I'm just saying like. >> I could have gotten a lot of money back. and a deferred prosecution. >> Okay. Yes. In that case. Yeah. >> And then the publishers were willing to. pay me six, seven figures for a. celebrity hit piece. I was broke living. with my mom. Again, I turned that down. >> Got it. >> And I chose to work with a screenwriter. that was absolutely clear and willing to. contract it that we aren't ruining any. lives.

>> Great. And the fact that just so you. know is everybody in the who had games, >> all the dealers, everybody involved had. to sign non-disclosures. >> for the next. >> probably smart. >> Probably smart. Yeah. >> Do you still need to face fear in its. face to feel like you're. >> doing what you want to do? >> Yeah. >> Um I don't have this I think addiction. to that anymore. Um, but I don't I don't ever I I will always.

choose courage over comfort. I I pay a. big interior price internally if I. don't. >> But it's not like this thing where I. need that, you know, that that uh. adrenaline hit to make me feel alive. I. like it. I pick my spots now. I have a. three and a half yearear-old daughter so. I knew before I brought a kid into the. world I want I needed to do a lot of. work on myself right.

>> um so that I could be the kind of. >> you learned a lot about yourself. >> I wonder what you could tell us about. the nature of the men who are obsessed. with playing this game and playing it at. these stakes and the camaraderie the. competition and the chaos have you. learned erned about the nature of these. men. >> Well, again, I think. I don't like to. there's a couple different archetypes.

Okay, >> tell us. >> So, there are there are the ones that. are there on a. self-destructive. bullet train. >> So, it's not just high stakes poker, right? Yeah. It's. putting their marriage in bad places in. very egregious and and and ways. There's. drugs. There's, you know, it's it's it's. the hedonic treadmill gone crazy. >> Got it. >> Um, no more control over themselves,

living for that next fix. Um, then there. are just the highly competitive people. who are very comfortable with. volatility. In fact, prefer volatility. and chaos. um but still have some. semblance of control over themsel. um and. you know and then I think there are. people that play because they love the. game. >> because they like the aspects of it that. make it an incredible game. They they.

like the psychology. They like the. >> um making you know seeing the results of. making highle decisions with very. limited information. They like the the. mental. >> and and and and social thrill of it, >> the camaraderie and the competitive. >> Who's the who's the best celebrity poker. player. >> in all the years that you saw in these. games? Who is the best? >> Toby. >> Toby. >> Yeah. >> And who is the second best? >> He wants you to say Chimoth, but we we. were going to carve him out cuz he's not.

>> Look, I played with Toby for 20 years. I. would have said Toby, too. I think he's. he's exceptional. >> He's a grinder. He's tough. >> Yeah, he's tough. He I mean he um he was. the only one in the game that was tight. >> Yeah. >> Um. I guess second would be Ben. >> Yeah. Affleck's a good player. >> Yeah. He he he's definitely smart. Definitely knows what he's doing. It. depends on where he is in his life. >> Yes. >> Yes. >> Politician wise, can you say or no? >> I haven't named any of the politicians. because they haven't been named. >> Yeah. Okay. >> Business people.

>> Once again, >> they haven't named themselves, so we'll. leave them unnamed. And Molly, you were. telling us before that you do some kind. of speaking work around sales. This is. where I'm so interested in this. Like. >> what are the things you tell people when. you do those events? What is the big. takeaway from your experience? >> So a lot of people So there's this small. body of science called effective. presence effective with an A and it. really focuses on more of the subcon. what's going on subconsciously. So, um, if you work backwards from core human.

fears, which I think is always a really. good thing to do after dying, being. alone in public speaking, you know, it's. like. what are people most afraid of? They're. afraid of um not belonging, not uh being. worthy, people stealing money from them, etc. And so when you start to think. about what. what kind of emotional footprint am I. leaving with these people like in you. know like how can I disarm them and also.

cultivate trust at the same time it. takes a level of intentionality and so I. think what a lot of us do is we walk. into a room and we're thinking what are. my what's my resume what are my sound. bites what's my pitch instead of. thinking um. how can I make this person feel like I'm. with them, like this isn't a zero- sum. game. >> And so, there are just a couple things. that you could do. I mean, listening is. a huge one. >> to listen with full presence, to not.

listen while you're constructing your. response, but just ask open-ended. questions. Go down this road with. someone um to, you know, have some. warmth about you and some a, you know, a. like be affirming. Um, but also be. authentic. Um, and and to practice the. hard empathy. Like the easy empathy is. people you relate to, people that have a. similar experience to you. The hard. empathy is sitting down and having.

conversations with people whose views. you don't like, whose personality you. don't particularly like, and trying to. figure out or get to a place where you. can understand them, >> you know? >> Yeah. >> Um, and so. >> making that effort. >> Yeah. making that effort and and you. know it's interesting. humans hate uncertainty um without the. an edited brain and I mean edited by. doing that that work and meditation. whatever whatever your your mind. training tool is um the brain thinks.

that uncertainty is a metabolically. unsustainable state so it equates. uncertainty with fear. >> so how can you start to give people that. sense of certainty Um, and also how can. you become aware of it in yourself? Because if you know that you hate. uncertainty and then what you do is. forge, forge, forage for some subjective. truth and then cling to it, right? >> Um, that's a big handicap, you know, and. so to start to do work on relaxing with.

uncertainty and being more curious than. needing to, you know, try to have this. illusion of control. Um, you know, there's there's a lot of things that. aren't so obvious or instinctual. >> Totally. in in impact in the the art of. impact and and connection. >> It can also force you to let go of. priors, >> right? >> Which allows you to adapt and evolve. And. >> I mean, being able to adapt. >> and being able to court change and even, you know, reframe it as like this is.

exciting or this is interesting. >> What an incredible life you've had, ladies and gentlemen. Let's thank Molly. for joining us. Thank you, Molly. >> Thank you so much. >> And let's thank also Oracle. Thank you. for hosting. Um, and my lord, we're. going to have a great weekend. I'm going all in.